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EP 43: An Abundance Mindset in a Scarcity Culture

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  1. Most everything we do with our money is transactional.

  2. So then it would make sense that when we get to giving, it also

  3. feels transactional. And I think that's the first

  4. major roadblock and hang up in thinking about our money and our

  5. finances as a discipleship issue is to get out of the

  6. transactional mindset and think of it through a transformational

  7. lens. And so if you think about

  8. reframing the question, so how does my money shape my

  9. relationship with God? Is it helping or is it hurting?

  10. Like that really is the question that then every answer can can

  11. flow down. Hi everyone, and welcome back to

  12. the Grace Church Members Podcast.

  13. I'm Whitney Manus, and around here we like to keep things

  14. fair, so we're putting our very own Scott Mozingo in the guest

  15. seat today so that he can practice taking a little bit of

  16. what he's usually dishing out. No, we're kidding.

  17. But when Scott is not podcasting, he is helping our

  18. church think well about generosity.

  19. It is a subject that he's passionate about and more

  20. importantly, that Jesus is passionate about.

  21. And as we're recording, we have Thanksgiving coming up, closely

  22. followed by Black Friday, Cyber Monday, and then we'll be

  23. posting this on Giving Tuesday. And it's kind of interesting.

  24. Even that order of operations says a lot about how we're

  25. thinking about generosity in itself.

  26. We're going to eat a lot and then we're going to shop a lot,

  27. and we'll put a little altruism at the end to make us feel a

  28. little bit better. So it's evident that we do have

  29. some work to do, but Scott has some thoughts to help us reframe

  30. that paradigm. Scott, it's always good to see

  31. you. Thanks for being here.

  32. Yeah, thank you and thank you for that welcome.

  33. You're right, it is the the order is a little interesting,

  34. although not surprising. And this notion of giving

  35. Tuesday, I was very resistant to for a number of years just

  36. because I felt it was super gimmicky.

  37. And just like, OK, if you got anything leftover after all the

  38. stuff that you were convinced that you needed through all of

  39. the Black Friday ads, then just throw a little money in the

  40. plate right to a towards a good cause.

  41. But you know, then I started started thinking, if, if people

  42. are thinking about giving and if the door is cracked, then why

  43. don't we just like stick our foot in the door and see if we

  44. can just push it open a little bit further.

  45. So that's what we're going to try to do today.

  46. Yeah, absolutely. And yeah, I mean, even just the

  47. the name Giving Tuesday like that, there's a little bit of a

  48. difference between, let me just give something like there's all

  49. these charities, there's all these very valuable nonprofits,

  50. and I'll just give something to them.

  51. But that's a little bit different than this idea of

  52. generosity. And I've already said that word

  53. 12 times. So tell us talk a little bit

  54. about that. Just how are we trying to

  55. separate out those two things? Yeah, I would love to, I would

  56. love to rename it Generous Tuesday.

  57. And honestly, as believers, it, it really should be generous

  58. every day. And I think that's the point.

  59. And so, but if we could start by parsing out the difference

  60. between the two, to me, you know, giving is a transaction

  61. and it's, it's because it involves, it involves money, it

  62. involves currency. And most of the time if we're

  63. using cash or right now, you know, credit card, it's just a

  64. simple transaction. I need something, I want

  65. something, food, gas, groceries, clothing, Christmas presents.

  66. All I have to do is present some currency and then I get

  67. something in return, right? So most everything we do with

  68. our money is transactional. So then it would make sense that

  69. when we get to giving it also feels transactional.

  70. And I and I think that's the first major roadblock and hang

  71. up in thinking about our money and our finances as a

  72. discipleship issue is to get out of the transactional mindset and

  73. think of it through a transformational lens.

  74. And so if you think about just reframing the question, so how

  75. does my money shape my relationship with God?

  76. Is it helping or is it hurting? Right.

  77. Like that really is the question that then every answer can can

  78. flow down, you know, answers to how we live, how we save and how

  79. we give. And I would prefer putting it in

  80. the other in reverse order, how we give, how we save and how we

  81. live. But everything comes kind of

  82. flows down, if you will, from that question of how is

  83. basically money and finances shaping my faith, my

  84. relationship with God. Yeah.

  85. And so I think generosity is a great word to just camp out on

  86. and just think about how that plays a role in my spiritual

  87. formation. So not transactional, but

  88. transformational. Right.

  89. And then it's not, it's not just money.

  90. You know, money is a big piece of it and Jesus does talk about

  91. it a lot. So that's part of it.

  92. But that it's time and it's resources.

  93. Like we want to be generous people and that touches more

  94. areas of our life. Then I'm just going to ship out

  95. a chunk of my paycheck each month and then I'm good and I

  96. did my piece. Yeah.

  97. If we thought about generosity as a virtue or as a character

  98. quality versus just a transaction, then it does seep

  99. into every single area of your life.

  100. So a generous person is going to be more generous with their

  101. time, their words, their relationship.

  102. And so one way to think about it is, is generosity is certainly

  103. more than just money, but it can't be less than, right?

  104. It's got to include that just because of the challenging

  105. nature of money. And we can look at just Jesus's

  106. words himself. And we'll do that here in just a

  107. second. But.

  108. But Jesus really, really, really doubled down on on money.

  109. So we've got to pay attention to that.

  110. Yeah. So I think for I was having a

  111. lunch with one of our leaders this week and he brought up this

  112. idea because I always ask people where their ideas of money were

  113. formed. Yeah.

  114. So I asked the leader on Monday. I was teaching the class last

  115. night of young professionals. And so the question, you know,

  116. these are all people who were serious about following Jesus.

  117. Where did you get your ideas about money?

  118. And there is almost always some type of family origin story.

  119. There may be a church story there where it was emphasized

  120. and maybe the parents, you know, said, hey, we got to give back

  121. to the church. And maybe there was a

  122. percentage, 10% that was thrown in for for some like these

  123. students last night, it was when they got into some money

  124. difficulty, whether it was through some difficult

  125. decisions, some things that were thrust upon them or like college

  126. debt. So then they had to get serious

  127. about how to handle their money. But almost to a person of the

  128. folks in the room, they did not say the scriptures was the

  129. primary formative tool in the way they thought about money.

  130. And I just think that's really interesting.

  131. And so part of the the goal and what I have the pleasure of

  132. doing for our church and what we're going to do here is really

  133. to kind of root our thoughts about money in the scriptures,

  134. of which they're they're a lot of, and let that be the primary

  135. driver and then see how well our personal experience and our

  136. cultural experience holds up against the Scriptures.

  137. So I think that any fair minded person would want to do that if

  138. they're really want to follow Jesus and take him seriously and

  139. believe that the Bible is God's word.

  140. So to me, a big part of how we can describe our relationship

  141. with money because money is in some ways money is is is a is a

  142. neutral thing, right. It's just paper.

  143. It's just coins. It's plastic for crying out

  144. loud. Right now.

  145. It's just a few keystrokes on our cell phone, right to move

  146. money around. Yeah, but it's powerful.

  147. The the the power is where we have to take into account the

  148. question I I asked about our relationship with God.

  149. Are we using it for good or are we using it for or is it being

  150. used for I'll against us. Maybe be the way better way to

  151. say it. Sure.

  152. So some of the roots of how we think about money.

  153. I I think for me, it's comforting just to go all the

  154. way back to the origin story, not in our family of origin, but

  155. in Adam and Eve and in the origin of civilization in the

  156. beginning of mankind, because Adam and Eve were presented with

  157. a beautiful living experience. You know, there's a garden and

  158. there's a river and there's raw materials and there's animals

  159. and there's like everything that they need.

  160. And God gave all of that to them for their good pleasure, except

  161. you told them there's one thing you can't do.

  162. You got to stay away from that tree.

  163. You can't eat from it. And then so they, God gave them

  164. abundance, right? But then there's a second,

  165. there's a second voice that enters in who's the opposite of

  166. the voice of God. And he basically contradicts

  167. what God says. And he said, hey, God, he may

  168. have given you all this, but he's actually not good.

  169. He's holding out on you. He doesn't want you to have

  170. everything. You deserve it all.

  171. And he doesn't want you to have it.

  172. And so he's holding out on you. And what what the serpent

  173. introduced, but the enemy of God introduced was a scarcity

  174. mentality. Yeah.

  175. So in a land of abundance, they now are introduced to a scarcity

  176. mentality that they fall for, and they question the goodness

  177. of God. Yeah, and it's the same paradigm

  178. that, I mean, is really repeated throughout Scripture, like

  179. ongoing too. So I'm doing remember your joy

  180. with a group of ladies and you know, we talked about God

  181. provides the manna and the Israelites come out of Egypt and

  182. they're like, you brought us out here to die.

  183. Like there's no food. And that's a real need.

  184. But then God provides the mana and they still get to a point

  185. and they're like, there's no food.

  186. But we also hate this mana that you gave us.

  187. So it's like, OK, there's there's not really scarcity.

  188. We're just perceiving that it is and we're just complaining.

  189. But then you have in Psalm 78, it says God rained down mana for

  190. them to eat. And so there's actually

  191. abundance all the time. And that's what we're, but

  192. that's what we're thinking through is, you know, what we

  193. want and what we perceive the scarcity to be, and sometimes

  194. what the scarcity actually is versus what God is actually

  195. giving us. Yeah.

  196. And what's interesting is that the the physical means, you

  197. know, of which they are judging abundance or scarcity is really

  198. tied back to the provider. Yes.

  199. So, so when we have a scarcity mindset, it's less about what we

  200. have or don't have. It's really a question about

  201. God. And we might not like that, but

  202. but really that's what we're saying is, God, are you good?

  203. And can you really provide for me?

  204. Have you really provided for me? What am I entitled to?

  205. And I think if we're honest with ourselves, those questions, they

  206. just, they roll through our minds and they influence us.

  207. And is God's goodness the same as what I think goodness is?

  208. Because a lot of times I think I can get on board with like,

  209. yeah, God is good. God probably does have my best

  210. in mind, but that's actually just not what I want right now.

  211. Like God has given me manna, but I just don't like it.

  212. I would like a steak please. No, that's right.

  213. And so you take you take this abundance and scarcity mindset

  214. that I think we all struggle with, and then you go to the

  215. scriptures and you read like the words of Jesus.

  216. And I'll steal this from a recent sermon I was listening to

  217. from John Mark Comer, and he was talking about growing up in

  218. church. And I grew up in church with a

  219. reverence for God's word. And so I knew I knew it was

  220. right. Like I knew it was it was

  221. morally good and right. Well, I knew it was morally

  222. right, but I wondered if it was personally good for me, Like

  223. would it lead to happiness? Because it seemed like God was

  224. trying to take something away from me and keep me from

  225. something that might be more, might lead to more happiness.

  226. And so I knew he was right. But was he good?

  227. And we can kind of get into this narrative as believers is like

  228. following Jesus like it will include suffering like that is

  229. true. Jesus told us that himself, but

  230. then we equate that to be like, there's no goodness to be had

  231. and we're just here to suffer until we die and then everything

  232. is going to get great so we can get stuck there.

  233. When I think what you're saying now is like, that's not true,

  234. there's more for us. Well, I mean, I remember when I

  235. heard that quote, it put into words what I was thinking and I

  236. went back to the idea of being a teenager, right?

  237. So growing up in church, a new right from wrong.

  238. And so then you have teenagers doing teenage things, right?

  239. So if they're drinking, if they're partying, if it's

  240. there's immorality involved, then you just think, oh, well,

  241. God's against all the fun, right?

  242. Like God wants me to be over here and, and stay away from

  243. those things. And, and he just doesn't, he

  244. just doesn't want me to have any fun.

  245. And we have a very adolescent immature way of what we're

  246. thinking of how we're thinking about goodness, right?

  247. But like nobody 20 years later, 30 years later says, gosh, I

  248. wish I could go back and do all those stupid things that I was

  249. doing in high school. Those were so good.

  250. Like nobody says that, right? And so I think like when we talk

  251. about the idea of generosity, so Jesus says a lot of lot of crazy

  252. things, right? So I'll say one, and then we'll

  253. go back and look at some of the other things.

  254. But like he says, it's, it's more blessed to give than to

  255. receive. And Paul repeats this in Acts

  256. 20. So, so I'm forced to say, do I

  257. really believe that? Do I really believe that it's

  258. better for me to give than to receive?

  259. So I mean, that sounds right. But like, is that good?

  260. Like, does it lead to like, happiness, like human

  261. flourishing? And so that's really kind of a

  262. test of a test of faith. And what I've found, you know,

  263. we have a very generous church and I have a lot of these

  264. conversations and, and nobody who is generous is looking back

  265. just like the 40 year old looking back at the teenage

  266. years going, gosh, I wish I could go back to being greedy.

  267. I wish I could go back to hoarding my resources.

  268. I I wish I wasn't so generous. Like no one says that there's no

  269. such thing as generosity, regret.

  270. Because if you will take God at his word, it actually proves

  271. that. Yeah, 100 percent, 100%.

  272. It leads to happiness. And then, you know, you can, you

  273. can look, there's all these studies have been done that

  274. people who are generous people, they have just a better quality

  275. of life, like anxiety lower, right, don't struggle as much

  276. with despair. They, they laugh, they laugh

  277. more, they live longer, they have better quality of

  278. relationships. And, and so just just on the

  279. sociological side, you might say, oh, there's something,

  280. there's something to this. And so, yeah, taking Jesus at

  281. his word, taking Paul at his word and really trusting that

  282. God is a God of abundance who has called me to be generous.

  283. And so I just kind of thought we might could look at a couple

  284. passages. Yeah, and one thing I'll say too

  285. is I think the teenage example is a good one 'cause, you know,

  286. you've raised teenagers. I'm trying to disciple some

  287. teenagers and there is something about like they cannot think

  288. further than like 5 minutes from now, you know, and I'll say in

  289. my late 20s, I can't really think further than tomorrow.

  290. So you know, that's. You're you're empathetic with

  291. that. Right, I am, you know, some of

  292. it's a human condition, but I do think as you get older and

  293. wiser, like you just think about time differently.

  294. But there is something to like we have to believe because in

  295. the moment, like there is loss, like it's we have to die to

  296. ourselves. First there's a hurt and then

  297. there's a long term benefit. And sometimes by long term, we

  298. mean like a month from now. And then sometimes it truly is

  299. on down the road. But it's hard for us in the

  300. moment to say, OK, this is going to be really worth it when I'm

  301. 40, you know, because I'm like, right now, I would like to be

  302. worth it this second or tomorrow you.

  303. Know, or at least I want I want a guarantee.

  304. Yes, right. And that's the opposite of

  305. having faith. Right.

  306. But I know if I go to Target and I buy myself Starbucks and I get

  307. some new clothes and whatever else, like I know I'm walking

  308. out of Target happy. Yes, there's a guarantee because

  309. again, it goes back to the power, the power of money.

  310. That's right. And so thinking about Jesus

  311. Sermon on the Mount, Matthew chapter 5 and 6, one of Jesus's

    Matthew 5 chapter mention

  312. longer teachings that we have recorded.

  313. And I want to use that because that is familiar to a number of

  314. this. We, we know the Beatitudes.

  315. And if you just read the beatitudes, I mean, again, Jesus

  316. says some some upside down things when he says, you know,

  317. blessed are those who were poor because they'll realize their

  318. need for him. Blessed are those who mourn

  319. because they'll be comforted. Blessed are those who are

  320. persecuted for doing right for the Kingdom of heaven is there.

  321. So there's all this upside down teaching that that Jesus gives.

  322. And then right after what we call the Beatitudes in verses 13

  323. through 16, he uses this idea of salt and light.

  324. And so we know that salt has this ability to preserve to to

  325. keep something in the healthy state, right.

  326. And then light, let me just read what he says about light.

  327. You're the light of the world, like a city on a hilltop that

  328. cannot be hidden. No one lights a lamp and puts it

  329. under a basket. Yes, we got a little children's

  330. song in our head, you know. No, I'm going to let it shine.

  331. So instead, you put that lamp on a stand where it gives light to

  332. everyone in the house. So in the same way, let your

  333. good deeds shine out for all to see so that everyone would

  334. praise your heavenly Father. So this idea that light it

  335. points it's it's so it illuminates, it points in a

  336. certain direction, it draws others to it.

  337. Moss to a flame. Yeah, it serves as like a

  338. beacon, right? So the idea that if Christians

  339. live according to God's word and according to the power that he's

  340. given us to the Holy Spirit to live according to his word, then

  341. we're we're to preserve and we're to be this type of light,

  342. this kind of beacon of hope. All right, So then he goes on

  343. and he has a number of different subject that he's touching on,

  344. and money comes up a couple different times.

  345. But then in chapter 6, two pretty famous passages around

  346. money. One is the treasure in heart,

  347. where your treasure is the desires of your heart will be.

  348. And then no one can serve 2 masters, for you will hate 1 and

  349. love the other, be devoted 1 and despise the other.

  350. You can't serve both God and money.

  351. So in between these two passages around money, he goes back to

  352. the theme of light. I think it's super interesting.

  353. So he leads with this idea of salt and light.

  354. And then in this longer discourse about money,

  355. possessions, not worrying, God taking care of you, all of that

  356. he drops in these verses. So let me read them to you.

  357. Your eye is a lamp that provides light for your whole body.

  358. When your eye is good, your whole body is filled with light.

  359. But when your eye is bad. Your whole body is filled with

  360. darkness. And then listen to this.

  361. If the light you think you have is actually darkness, how deep

  362. the darkness is. So in other words, if we go

  363. around calling something good that's actually bad, then how

  364. dangerous is it for us? How deep has that lie set in how

  365. deep that darkness really resonates within our soul and

  366. keeps us from from being the person the people God has called

  367. us to be, which is people of light.

  368. Yeah. And so I don't, I don't think

  369. that there's any coincidence that in this conversation around

  370. wealth and the power of wealth and God is provider and not

  371. being able to serve 2 masters and treasure and heart, you have

  372. this idea that if we live with our possessions, according to

  373. God's word, we are going to be a lamp, we are going to be a

  374. light. But if we do not, how deep the

  375. darkness can really be. And that's my biggest concern

  376. about just thinking about money through a transactional lens,

  377. even giving a percentage away, like, OK, I give a percentage

  378. away. So then God's good with me, He's

  379. happy. So then I can do whatever I want

  380. to with everything else I have. Like, that's not a healthy view,

  381. right? And having our views of money

  382. formed by any other source than the Scriptures, particularly

  383. when the power of money is so strong.

  384. Yeah. And the cultural pressures are

  385. so strong, it is really easy to say something is good, but it's

  386. actually bad. Yeah.

  387. So just going back to our kind of silly little example that you

  388. can spend all this money on yourself and other people, OK,

  389. so that's not wrong. But you can kind of indulge,

  390. right, on Black Friday sales and Cyber Monday sales and local

  391. Saturday sales and all this. And then let's not forget about

  392. giving away a little bit and say, oh, that's so good.

  393. Look what I did. I mean, that's why I didn't like

  394. it, right? That's why I think it's

  395. gimmicky, because I'm afraid that what we're doing is we're

  396. saying something is actually good.

  397. That's really darkness. Yeah, and it's a it's a great

  398. picture. You know, as we often talk in

  399. terms of like, OK, when I get to the end of my life and I am

  400. standing before Jesus like that really is probably should be

  401. like my greatest fear is that he was like, hey, you're in

  402. darkness the whole time and you just missed it, You know, and

  403. like the things that the world was holding out to you, whatever

  404. those are, like it's different for all of us.

  405. But you thought that was the light and you thought that you

  406. were in the light and then you didn't have it.

  407. But also, how much more powerful and influential are we as

  408. individuals, but also as a collective, as the church?

  409. And when we think about all of our people connected to our

  410. church that are like going out into the upstate, if all of

  411. those are individual lights, right?

  412. Well, that's really something to aspire to.

  413. You know, that like that captures my heart.

  414. I want to get on board with that.

  415. Yeah. And to your first point, just

  416. about rendering a judgement, I think if our answer to God is

  417. comparing ourselves to other people, like that's an example

  418. of how deep the darkness is. Yeah.

  419. And he's like, hey, you compare your life to Jesus because why?

  420. Because I sent him to redeem you, and then I gave you the

  421. power through the Holy Spirit. I blessed you with every

  422. spiritual blessing. Ephesians one.

  423. By his divine nature, we've been given everything we need to live

  424. a godly life. Second, Peter 1, I am, I am

  425. calling you to transform your life into the image of Jesus.

  426. Romans 829 He's your Big Brother.

  427. He's the first born and we're supposed to look up to him and

  428. emulate him. And he's given us the power to

  429. grow and mature and develop. And the idea that we can do all

  430. of that without God in being involved in our finances, except

  431. for like a small part where we're willing to give away.

  432. And in the average Christian, I mean, gives away like 3% of

  433. their income, right, right. So we're, we're not, we're not

  434. talking about 7%, We're not talking about 10%.

  435. We're not talking about 15%. We're not talking about 20%.

  436. We're not talking percentages at all.

  437. We're talking about an attitude that is geared around generosity

  438. that is part of the spiritual formation plan that God has put

  439. in front of all of us. And so like, like, I like to use

  440. this example. If you say, OK, God is fill in

  441. the blank, a lot of us say, well, OK, God is love.

  442. Yes, God is love. We identify with God as love.

  443. And if we are going to emulate God, then we need to love him

  444. and we need to love others, right?

  445. Basically, Jesus summarized the whole law in those two things.

  446. Love God, heart, soul and mind, love neighbors as yourself.

  447. And if I said, OK, Whitney, God is love.

  448. And so you loving as well as you can with God's help is going to

  449. grow you and mature you to a fuller version of a disciple

  450. follower of Jesus. And you're like, you know what,

  451. I think I'm out on love. Like I just got to work on

  452. myself. I got a career, I got some

  453. things going on. I'm real busy right now.

  454. And so I hear you. I do think that's important, but

  455. I'm just going to call a time out on love and maybe three to

  456. five years from now, just check back with me.

  457. Like that would not be a good spiritual formation strategy,

  458. right? Right.

  459. All right. So then if I say, hey wit, you

  460. realize God is the most generous being that has ever existed.

  461. And you know what he did? He created you in his image to

  462. bear the marks of every bit of him, including generosity, all

  463. the communicable attributes that get passed down to you.

  464. Generosity is one of those. That's what he created you for.

  465. So in order for you to grow, to become more fully like Jesus, to

  466. grow in holiness to godliness, you're going to have to be

  467. generous. And you're like, you know what,

  468. I'm just going to call Tom out on that because I'm not really

  469. at the place in my career where I want to be.

  470. I've got all this student debt. Things are just, I'm not, I'm

  471. just not doing well financially, which means I'm not where I want

  472. to be. And so one day, I mean, I really

  473. do want to be generous because we all do, because that's how

  474. God created us. But yet we can come up with lots

  475. of reasons why. And I would just encourage you,

  476. if you're still listening to me, to think of it in terms of a

  477. character quality or a virtue that God is desperate to grow in

  478. you. And it really does not have to

  479. do with the dollar amount or percentage.

  480. It is a character quality that that God instilled in you that

  481. the fall may have may have marred, but it did not erase.

  482. And I'll give you a great example of that.

  483. OK, We just had one of the hardest natural disasters to

  484. ever hit our area, right? So for a week, things were

  485. really upside down, right? So work wasn't as normal, school

  486. wasn't as normal, church wasn't as normal.

  487. And a lot of people didn't have power, couldn't couldn't travel

  488. around like you would normally do.

  489. So everything kind of comes to a halt.

  490. But not just that, but then people are in need.

  491. People are in need. People are without, people have

  492. trees on their cars, on their houses.

  493. It's just, it's just kind of a mess.

  494. So what did everybody do? They looked for people who were

  495. in need and they were filled with generous acts of love and

  496. kindness and some financial. But generosity flowed so much

  497. during that week. Yeah.

  498. And you know what I saw? I saw people who were genuinely

  499. happy. Yeah.

  500. Despite their circumstances, Right.

  501. You know, despite things not going well for them personally

  502. when they didn't have power. And, you know, their their week

  503. was interrupted and. And maybe they had a tree on

  504. their house. Yeah, but the ability to get out

  505. and to love and serve and show generosity to others, it was

  506. like the best of mankind, right? Yeah, it was, it was, it was

  507. Acts 20. It is more blessed to give than

  508. receive. And I just, I just think back to

  509. that like, God knows what he's talking about.

  510. Yeah, yeah. And to your point about like,

  511. we're really made for this. This is what God has set us up

  512. to be. And so we step into that and

  513. we're going to have a completely different experience of

  514. humanity. I mean, right after the

  515. hurricane, I mean, I spent those days watching some neighborhood

  516. kids so their parents could clean up some trees and all that

  517. good stuff, and then just helping some neighbors chop up

  518. trees and carry them to a burning pit.

  519. And I have, I call these things like barn raising efforts, you

  520. know, like how people used to do that.

  521. And it was this like foundation of community.

  522. You have people coming together and they are offering, people

  523. are bringing food, people are bringing their tools.

  524. And everybody's like spending the day like just building a

  525. barn for somebody else, somebody else in the community.

  526. And the kids are there, kids are running around.

  527. But like, I feel like we've missed some of that and we lose

  528. like this great moment because whenever I get to step into

  529. moments like that, it's so evident to me.

  530. I'm like, this is exactly what I was made to do.

  531. And we all go home and we're like, we kind of wish that it

  532. wasn't over and we could keep doing it.

  533. I couldn't have said it better myself.

  534. And one of the things that was obvious about that time is we

  535. couldn't be distracted. Our phones weren't working, our

  536. Internet wasn't. Working.

  537. And so we were, we were back to how we were created, which which

  538. was our relational creatures who were made to look out for one

  539. another, to serve one another, to care for one another, all

  540. acts of generosity. And so I just, yeah, I mean, as

  541. we get, you know, closer to the end of the year and we reflect

  542. on that time, you know, what would it mean to really tap into

  543. that? Like I said, the beginning and

  544. not be a a giving or a generosity Tuesday, but really a

  545. generosity everyday. But that only comes from this

  546. type of transformation of recognizing that God is an

  547. abundant God. I do not live in scarcity.

  548. No, no matter. I mean, if you are listening to

  549. this podcast right now, then you are one of the wealthiest people

  550. in the world by the world standards, just because you have

  551. a device that allows you to listen to this, right?

  552. And I know you may not feel that way because again, our eyes are

  553. looking around at other people in our orbit, in our

  554. neighborhood, in our county that have way more than we do.

  555. But if we could look around to the rest of the world, we would

  556. just realize how wealthy we are. It's all relative.

  557. Yeah. And so that's another sermon for

  558. another day. But let me just say on this

  559. topic and we'll kind of kind of wrap up here, but when you just

  560. think about motivation for giving, you know, often we talk

  561. about the mission and rightly so.

  562. Like we are able to use our resources collectively, like you

  563. talked about all these little beacons of light collectively

  564. doing more than any of us could do on our own.

  565. Right, like generosity is an individual thing and a

  566. collective thing that's. Exactly.

  567. Right. Yeah.

  568. And so we get to the mission, we further the mission, we help see

  569. Kingdom results both here around the state and around the world.

  570. And that is awesome. That should be motivating for

  571. us. But to me, like we're that's

  572. just scratching the surface. Yeah, like that's just

  573. scratching the surface. So that's like number one reason

  574. to be generous #2 reason to be generous is the, the call in

  575. command of God, like to just to be obedient to Scripture, to

  576. form a, a, a discipline around acknowledging and worshipping

  577. God and responding to him as the great giver, the giver of all

  578. good gifts. I don't have anything that he

  579. hasn't given to me. And so I just acknowledge that

  580. when I'm being generous like that, that's good.

  581. And, and I don't necessarily I, I don't need to wait until I

  582. feel all of that, sure. To make that step.

  583. Yeah. Of, of giving as a way to

  584. acknowledge his goodness in my life.

  585. OK. So I think that's too, I think

  586. discipline is really important. I think mission is number one.

  587. I think discipline is number 2. But this idea of spiritual

  588. formation and transformation, like often, you know, I'll hear

  589. other pastors say this, you know, they'll say, and I mean,

  590. I've said it too, I'm including myself.

  591. They'll say, I don't want something from you, I want

  592. something for you. And which is a great little

  593. statement, but then you say, OK, well, tell me more.

  594. And there's not always a lot of more behind that, right?

  595. And what I would say is no, if you just go read the Scripture,

  596. 2300 verses in the Bible around money, a fourth of all Jesus's

  597. teachings involved money. Like it's pretty clear that this

  598. thing that God has given us, that we think about, we touch

  599. about we touch, we dream about every single day that God put it

  600. in our life to draw us closer to him.

  601. And not just use for mission and not just use as an act of

  602. obedience, giving it back to him, but as transformation.

  603. And, and it goes back to this idea of the generous nature of

  604. God. And so you can go to passages

  605. like Second Corinthians 8:00 and 9:00, which basically touch on

  606. all three of these motivations. And you know, like, just look at

  607. like a verse, like verse 9, you know, the generous grace of our

  608. Lord Jesus Christ, though he was rich, yet for your sake, he

  609. became poor so that his poverty, he can make you rich.

  610. So he's basically motivating the Corinthians church by using

  611. Jesus as an example of generosity.

  612. You know, John 316 for God so loved the world that he gave.

  613. Yeah. So even like God the Father

  614. gives, Jesus gives, the Holy Spirit gives just the Trinity is

  615. is all about grace, generosity, gift.

  616. Yeah. And so when you read a passage

  617. like Second Corinthians 8, there's missional, there's

  618. response to obedience to God through worship, and then there

  619. is this transformative element of what God is doing when we use

  620. the resources that he's given us and and give those away.

  621. And it kind of works two different ways.

  622. One, it helps combat sin, which is where the cancer of 2

  623. masters, because money can lead to greed, envy, coveting,

  624. discontent. And those are real.

  625. Those are real struggles. Yeah.

  626. Those are real sins of the flesh.

  627. Those are those are real things that will compete for our

  628. spiritual power. And the only antidote I know to

  629. that is to be open handed and to be generous.

  630. Yeah. And and that's what that's what

  631. God says. I didn't come up with that.

  632. That's what he tells us. That's right.

  633. So we have like the negative side, the, the challenging side,

  634. which generosity helps us avoid, and then the positive side where

  635. generosity helps us grow and become more like God, more holy,

  636. more generous, more compassionate, more just.

  637. And, and so you just see this big picture idea of God using

  638. this thing, which is in every one of our lives to nurture our

  639. relationship with him and to help us mature and become more

  640. like him. So when someone says what do you

  641. mean? You want something for me, not

  642. from me. That's what I say.

  643. Yeah, and it's exactly to what you started this podcast off

  644. with talking about, like, do I really believe that this is good

  645. for me? Is this God's best for me?

  646. And it's in that same at the beginning of 2nd Corinthians 8,

  647. Paul starts out and he says, now I want you to know, dear

  648. brothers and sisters, what God and his kindness has done

  649. through the churches in Macedonia.

  650. They are being tested by many troubles, and they are very poor

  651. like they're not. They don't have nearly as much

  652. as we do. But they are also filled with

  653. abundant joy, which has overflowed in rich generosity.

  654. For I can attest that they gave not only what they could afford,

  655. but far more. And they did it of their own

  656. free will. And they begged us again and

  657. again for the privilege of sharing in the gift for the

  658. believers in Jerusalem. Like.

  659. I want abundant joy which overflowed in rich generosity

  660. and the privilege of being a part of what God is doing.

  661. God knows what's good because he created us.

  662. And so like, to me, I feel like he's just giving us a road map

  663. to this idea of growth, maturity, joy, happiness, human

  664. flourishing. And then he's given us this

  665. resource all around us. And he's like, Hey, can you put

  666. two and two together and, and act and just, I mean, my, I, I

  667. have hundreds of passages that will help you.

  668. But I mean, this is where I think the spiritual battle of

  669. the age is raging. The war is raging.

  670. And so if, if God knows that and God designed that, guess who

  671. also knows that the enemy knows that that same sucker that

  672. showed up in the garden and said, hey, you know what?

  673. He's, he's really not for you. He's really not for you today.

  674. He's saying everything you have really is for you.

  675. It really is for you. You can trust, you can trust

  676. yourself. You need all these things and

  677. more to truly be happy. And, and so like the more things

  678. change, the more things stay the same.

  679. And so I do feel like there is spiritual transformation at

  680. stake. And so this isn't just funding a

  681. mission. This isn't just a church budget,

  682. a new ministry option idea, a great nonprofit.

  683. It's that that's, that's part of the equation, but it's, it's

  684. actually small part of the equation.

  685. The idea of developing and cultivating a relationship with

  686. God, and God transforming us and the enemy being defeated all at

  687. the same time, like it's pretty cosmic.

  688. It is, yeah. It's way bigger than what we

  689. imagine. Yeah.

  690. And so when we just say, yeah, I mean, I, I gave 7%, ten percent,

  691. 12%. I wrote that check and I put it

  692. over there in the corner. And then I just focused on

  693. everything that I had left and what I wanted to do with it.

  694. Like we're, we're missing, we're missing something because God

  695. wants you to just like the joy that you should have in

  696. generosity that you just described.

  697. God wants you to enjoy. He wants you to enjoy your home.

  698. He wants to enjoy your food. He wants to enjoy your clothing.

  699. He wants to you to enjoy your life because he gave you all

  700. those things He wants When you put money in the bank, when you

  701. put it in responsibly and save for the future, He wants you to

  702. have joy in that, not anxiety. That is not enough.

  703. Yeah. And and So what I feel like is

  704. we have a joy issue around all aspects of money.

  705. Like we don't really enjoy the way we're spending it because

  706. we're discontent, right? And we want.

  707. What other people have We go have a meal at a restaurant and

  708. we worry that we didn't order the right thing or that we

  709. didn't even go to the right restaurant.

  710. Why? Because we have so many choices,

  711. we get paralyzed and we don't enjoy what we have.

  712. That's right, yeah. Right.

  713. We save and we live in a doomsday culture where there's

  714. all this fear around the future because fear sells.

  715. Fear generates revenue for other people.

  716. So that's about money. And so then we're not really

  717. joyful and thankful that we're able to put money away.

  718. Yeah, and it's it's too easy to not make that connection because

  719. as you're listening to this, we just had Thanksgiving.

  720. That's right. And that is a key piece to this.

  721. Like this is this particular episode is not about gratitude,

  722. but it is critical because if we understand how abundant God has

  723. actually been to us, like we don't question God's goodness to

  724. us. If we've been paying attention

  725. the whole time. And if we took Thanksgiving

  726. seriously and really thought about gratitude and saw what the

  727. Lord has provided to us, again, far more above than what we

  728. deserved or asked for. And we recognize the abundance,

  729. we can see the manna and we were like, the manna is enough.

  730. I mean, that's another part of that passage is it's like

  731. everybody took away what was enough, People who took too much

  732. got enough. People who didn't have enough,

  733. they had enough. And so we can just take that for

  734. what it is and not be like, I just wish it was steak, you

  735. know, then that is actually that is going to drive our

  736. generosity. So we just, I mean, we have to

  737. encourage all of us to don't miss that connection between

  738. Thanksgiving and Giving Tuesday, like make that natural.

  739. Progression. There's a straight line between

  740. God as the giver between the gratefulness that we should

  741. receive as the that we should offer as the receiver and then

  742. the open handedness that we should be in willing to offer

  743. generous gifts to other people. It's just it's all it's all

  744. connected. It's all connected.

  745. And so so yeah, I just think that they're they're big things

  746. at stake. I think we should enjoy what God

  747. has given us. I think we should save

  748. appropriately, but we should do it all with this really heart

  749. towards generosity. And if you start there, you

  750. know, if you invert the paradigm and you make giving a priority,

  751. that comes from a generous heart.

  752. And so sometimes you're going to have to give before you

  753. cultivate the generous heart, right?

  754. But I would say take the step and pray, talk to God, talk to

  755. other people and cultivate your mind with scripture and just let

  756. God do the transformation. If what we're telling you is

  757. true, then God is way more invested in this than you think

  758. he is. And he will help you if you will

  759. just ask. And and so the the

  760. transformative power of generosity is really what I just

  761. wanted to encourage and inspire people to today.

  762. Yeah. No, I think that's great.

  763. Thank you, Scott, for just your time and your thoughts around

  764. all of that. And just as we close, I would

  765. say like include community in this.

  766. You know, if you're thinking about things and you have

  767. questions, whether it's discipleship leaders or pastors

  768. at your campus or however we can help you, don't try to do all of

  769. this thinking by yourself because you'll talk yourself out

  770. of it, you know, And so get some accountability in there and

  771. hopefully that will be helpful for you.

  772. But we're praying for all of you as you go into the holiday

  773. season and appreciate you all listening to this.

  774. So thanks. Yeah, Thanks, Witt.