Sermon
EP 68: Why the Church Needs Members with Disabilities
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We know that our adults can be discipled.
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I think there's a misconception that just adults with
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disabilities probably don't have the ability to learn or they
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can't. They can't capture anything and
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and a lot of times, unfortunately, they're probably
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seen as a scripture would say the parts that seem weaker, but
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they're actually indispensable. We would not be full of complete
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estrogens 4 talks about without our adults with disabilities and
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their gifts. Welcome back to the Grace Church
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Podcast. Many of you may be familiar with
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Mosaic as a ministry to families with special needs and
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disabilities, but did you know that we have a large and growing
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population of Mosaic adults? For this episode, we are joined
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by Joe Clary, pastor and Mosaic Director, along with CC Ambrose,
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Mosaic lead at our Travelers Rest Campus.
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They're going to discuss the work of our Mosaic staff and
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volunteers as they are breaking new ground in the area of
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discipling adults with special needs.
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So Joe Clary, CC Ambrose, welcome to the podcast studio.
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Yeah, thanks for letting us be here.
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Good morning. Excited for the topic and just
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just jump right in. And I really would love for you
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guys to set the table and just kind of let us know what are the
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different facets of discipleship that we have with adults with
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special needs. Yeah, thankfully we have a lot
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of really great things going on, really cool things and a lot to
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be very thankful for. First of all, we have our Sunday
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services which are specific for Mosaic adults where we have a
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lot of just adult volunteers coming in and we have our own
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service. So we have worship, we have
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prayer time, we have announcements and then we have
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teaching where we get to teach what was taught on in our main
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worship service on one week. The next week we re teach it and
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just consolidate some points and have it more specific to our
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people. So you're following the same
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sermon series just a week behind?
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Correct. Yeah.
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It's, it helps us be more in the life of the church instead of
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being siloed and just studying something completely different
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because our adults are talking with our volunteers and they're
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all learning the same thing. So it's really cool to kind of
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be able to put that together and have our people just engage
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together with that. So how many?
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Give us a a sense of how many adults and how many campuses are
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currently offering Sunday services.
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Yeah. So we have about 100 adults in
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in worship in the weekends across four different campuses.
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And we probably have about 70 volunteers in those groups as
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well, which is pretty cool. OK.
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So Sunday services, that's kind of a starting point.
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And then tell us about Mosaic Inspire, like what is what is
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that? What does that mean?
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So Mosaic Inspire is a adult discipleship program that meets
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during the week. And our goal is really to engage
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the community and a church to for them to be a disciple, but
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them also to share what God's doing in their life, to be a
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light into the world. And so they do a lot internally,
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they do Bible studies, they learn different lessons, but
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they also are blessing to so many people.
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They do Meals on Wheels, so they're delivering meals to shut
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insurance, developing relationships.
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They've been working on sharing their testimony, what God is
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doing in their life to these people, and really just engaging
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the community in a really unique way.
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We have seen the fruit of that and it has been amazing just to
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sit back and watch. OK.
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And we're going to get a little bit of history here in just a
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second. I just want to get through the
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the scope just so everybody can I think have their minds kind of
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captured with what we're talking about here.
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So then inspire Coffee House, that's something that more
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people may have heard. Of yeah.
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So our current location is at Front Porch Housing and we're
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looking to expand that. We see our people having a great
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impact on the community there as well.
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And so we are discipling our adults with disabilities in the
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workplace environment. Yeah, how many are employed at
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Coffee House? We have 16 baristas. 16
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baristas, yes, that's awesome. So the coffee house, is there
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overlap with Mosaic, Inspire or those completely separate
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things? They are completely separate
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things, but we do have a lot of individuals that are in both of
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those. OK, So they're being disciple in
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both areas, so in employment side and in really the church
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and community side. Yeah, that's cool.
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All right. And then last but not least is
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housing. What does mosaic housing look
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like? Yeah.
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So we currently have two units at Front Porch Housing and we've
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been doing this for almost five years now where we have several
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adults with disabilities living with a couple peers.
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And so they are doing life together.
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So they're helping each other, they are going on trips and they
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go on vacations together. They've really become a family
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unit. And we as church staff and
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volunteers have a support system around it where we are all
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working together kind of helping everyone be discipled in that
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aspect as well. So and all of those things is
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that we are learning more from them then we're actually
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teaching them most of the time. And so, Joe, you've been in the
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space for how many years? Since 2017.
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Since 2017, on staff, you're on staff, you're the Mosaic pastor.
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So you kind of oversee all aspects of the entire Mosaic
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ministry, right? Not just adults.
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We're talking about adults today, correct?
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And then CC, give us a little window into what this looks like
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on the campus level. Yeah.
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So I've been at the campus, we worship at TR, So we've been
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doing it about three years. So we get to do a lot of what
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Joe is mentioning from the Sunday service angle.
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We've got a group of volunteers who take our adults through
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teaching and small group time and they're talking about how to
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apply what we're learning to their daily lives, whether
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that's at Inspire or the Coffee House or just even in their
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homes. Ways that they can serve and
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love their families and things like that.
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So yeah, the campus level, we are really working to disciple
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them and help them live that out throughout the course of the
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week, like like I do. And we're seeing a lot of growth
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on the campus level as well, specifically in Traveler's Rest.
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Why do you think that is? I don't think there's a ton of
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churches in our area that are offering Mosaic programs like we
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have. For example, we have a new
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family that came in about 6 months ago.
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She has two adult boys with autism.
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Other churches actually sent her to us.
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And so they say we don't have really anything for your adult
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sons. And so they, I think, find us
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that way. And I do think that's why we're
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seeing some growth at TR. So right now we have 2 adult
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small groups. So we have an adult men and
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adult women's small group. And just age range, where are we
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talking like 19 and older or is it?
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It really fluctuates a little bit it depending on when they
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get out of high school. Gotcha.
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So as soon as I graduate high school, then we move our adults
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into adult mosaic. OK, that's awesome.
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And sometimes our friends are ready, like they'll turn 18 and
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they're like, I'm an adult now coming to an adult.
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Yeah. And so there's anticipation,
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there's excitement, we know what's coming, all that kind of
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stuff. Yeah.
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So we have 18 starting around 1821 all the way up to 55 as
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some of our older adults. Love it.
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So then how do we kind of like approach discipleship for our
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adults, maybe differently than we would just for anyone else in
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that season of life, But then also how how is it kind of the
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same in a lot of ways? Yeah, I think some things that
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we do that's a little bit different, we will take, I think
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Joe mentioned this earlier, we will take the church's teaching
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and we'll simplify it to 10 or 15 minutes.
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But then we really are asking the same questions of how do we
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apply this in our daily life. And then something that is
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unique, I think in this season is our adults really do have
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something to offer to our church.
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And so part of their discipleship looks like them
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serving. And what can we do to help them
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get involved and to serve our church and then for our people
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to serve alongside them and together to know them?
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So I think that's a, that's a difference between what we're
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doing with kids and students then, you know, adults.
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Yeah. Yeah, I think once they become
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adults, we start and students, we start to see some of their
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gifting. And then really, when they get
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into adults, we see a lot more of their gifts and are able to
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use them to serve throughout the church in multiple different
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ways, sometimes in the background, sometimes out in
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front. But there's so many unique ways
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in which our our people serve, and they provide joy and
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encouragement to our church. Yeah.
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And like we've talked about before, there is this difference
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and, and I mean this is true for all of us in some ways.
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There's distinctions, but then there's similarities.
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And I think often times this group can easily get put into
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the different category, but there's so many ways in which
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they just function like other members.
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And, and that's kind of part of what we've started thinking
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through as well of these individuals are members of our
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church as well. Right.
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Yeah. So our adults go through a
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foundations like course, we walk through the core values of the
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church, we talk about what it looks like to be a member and
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they sign their covenant agreement just like anybody
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else. And so that they're walking
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through it and maybe in a different setting.
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Normally we do it on Sunday mornings and then we'll do
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pastoral interviews with them. But that's kind of the way we
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bring our adults into the membership of the church.
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Yeah, that's cool. So, Joe, how did all this begin
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for Grace Church? Yeah.
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So it started. We started getting students that
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became older and. That happens.
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Right, yes. And so as as our individuals
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grow it, student ministry was not appropriate setting.
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And we just started with a couple people in the North End
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building at Pelham with an unmite guitar singing in the
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corner. And it was it was a pretty sweet
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time. It was it was cool just to see.
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I mean, I think there were four to five when we first started.
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And then we do teaching and we, we talk about things and then
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we'd have some activities to do. But we we know that our adults
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can be discipled. Yeah, tell, tell us a little bit
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more about that misconception. Yeah, I think there's a
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misconception that just adults with disabilities probably don't
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have the ability to learn or they can't, they can't capture
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anything. And, and a lot of times,
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unfortunately, they're probably seen as the scriptures would
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say, the parts that seem weaker, but they're actually
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indispensable. And so I want to put the second
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part in because they are a key to our church body.
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We would not be full and complete as fusions 4 talks
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about without our adults with disabilities and their gifts.
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So it kind of all just originated how we wanted to see
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better discipleship where it's not just sitting in a service
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main worship where our people were not able to grasp all the
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points where we can kind of put it into a better, I don't want
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to say package, but we could teach it better and allow more
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time for understanding. And it is cool to see the fruit
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of all of that. Yeah.
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And so I guess my question is what, what happens if you don't
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have an environment like that where they can have the package
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and it can be tailored and those gifts can be pulled out?
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So I guess some families they would just they're they're
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adults would just be sitting in large church services.
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Yeah, so they would just, I mean, it'd be almost like a
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babysitting thing where they're just sitting there.
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And I think that's one of the things that we have coached a
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lot of people, we've learned ourselves about.
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Just because a kid is sitting there and behaviorally OK does
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not mean they're being discipled.
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And so we want to make sure that because our goal as believers is
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to present the gospel ways in which people can understand.
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And so we have to do that, especially as a church.
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And as church staff, that's what we're constantly looking at.
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How can we get people access to the gospel ways in which they
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can understand? And so if they're just sitting
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there being compliant, people are, Oh yeah, no, they're
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sitting in church, they're great, but they're not learning
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anything. They're not hearing anything.
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They're probably it's, they're listening to Matt Williams and
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he's talking 1,000,000 miles a minute.
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He, they can't understand that. So it is where we can break it
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down in a way and have some repetition in it that helps
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promote discipleship. OK, Yeah.
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Can I add in here, I think to something that's been really
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unique is that the small group time following the teaching that
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we get to do, we can really work through what application looks
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like for our people. So even if they're still living
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at home with their parents, we can talk through what it looks
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like to serve mom and dad and to be a disciple in their own home
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or in their own spaces, which like if they're just sitting in
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a church service, it's not. You're not able to have those
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conversations and to apply like the scripture to their daily
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lives. Yeah.
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Can you think of a couple of stories that just encourage you
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guys on a daily basis where you've seen now you've been
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doing it for years, just just growth of individuals?
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Yeah, I think something that's been really interesting to
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watch, we have a friend who, and he's actually the reason or one
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of the reasons we started at TR. So we started with two adults
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and this family moved to South Carolina for some of the
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benefits of our church, which is really neat.
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But their son has autism. And so watching him get plugged
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in through our Sunday morning ministry and then he is now part
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of Inspire and part of the coffee house.
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But over the course of I guess, three years now, he has just
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grown tremendously and his ability to, I think, share his
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faith. So he can now like stand and
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read his testimony about what God's done in his life, but he
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challenges us as his like, I guess volunteers who get to
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serve alongside him when he prays just his heart for the
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Lord and his trust and dependence on God is really
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helpful in convicting for us too.
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So that's been a joy just to watch him from start to finish
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and for them to I guess as a family, take a step of faith to
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go somewhere that had some resources that he hadn't
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experienced before. Wow, what a.
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Testimony of love and care. And I mean, another cool thing
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about that story is now he wants to get baptized.
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And so he's taking a step of faith.
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And that's, that's kind of hard for a lot of our people.
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I mean, for, for some of us or some of our people, baptism
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could end in death. The fact that if water got down
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into their lungs, they could aspirate.
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And we had one, one girl who was kind of scared, but want to take
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that step of faith, believing and say, Hey, this is something
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that I want to do. And she was terrified at 1st.
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And so we created a vice to where she could be baptized.
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But I'm just the courage of saying she's like, I want to
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stand in front of my church by the, my church, by not just the,
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but my church. She is a part of that church and
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say, I want to identify with Christ in front of these people
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was just a really cool and that was all driven by her.
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And, and, and it was discipleship over all her, all
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her small group leaders inspired discipleship.
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I mean, all the people that have been discipling her over the
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last several years got her to that point where she's like,
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hey, I, I'm scared, but I want to take this step out of
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obedience and that, that is really, really cool.
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And it gets to your previous question, Whitney, about
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similarities and differences. I mean, that's what we want for
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every adult member of our church is to take those steps of
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obedience that take courage, that really take dependence on
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the Holy Spirit. So I love that.
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That's a great story, Joe. Yeah.
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As we have developed a lot of this, like are there other
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churches and organizations that are doing similar things that
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we're collaborating with? Or is this just like some of
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this culturally feels like special needs and things have
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become just more acceptable and more openly acknowledged
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recently? So how have we kind of developed
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a lot of this? Yeah, I mean, I think that there
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are churches that are trying to get in the game and there are,
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there are a couple that are in there.
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I think they're just trying to weigh out what they can do right
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now because you can't do everything.
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You can't just start where we were started in 2004.
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So we're over 22 years old and see how it's grow.
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And so just to let people know, hey, as you start, you just have
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to take steps of faith and and grow it so that there's not too
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many people in the adult world. There are a couple, but one of
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the things that we are trying to do is just unite the churches
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across the upstate and just around.
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And we have a conference in October to do that.
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And the goal of the conference is to equip local churches to
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better disciple their people. And, and this is for nonprofits
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as well, to better disciple their people and to bring a
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community together knowing that we're not in competition, that
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we are disciple the people that God's put before us.
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And so every congregation has individuals with disabilities.
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It's just how how we're treating that or if we're identifying if
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they're there or not. Yeah.
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So then Joe, what are the biggest challenges?
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Is it, you know, is it manpower volunteer wise, or is it even
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bigger than that, like a philosophy of ministry and of
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care? Yeah, I, I think there are
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challenges just for volunteers, I mean across all ministries and
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and most churches. But I think one of the
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philosophies is getting back to what we talked a little bit
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earlier is the fact that our people can be discipled.
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This is not just a sitting in front of the TV and let him
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watch a show or let him watch a Bible movie.
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We have the opportunity to engage them no matter where they
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are. We and we do it.
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And our, I'd be honest with you, our volunteers.
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Do we have some of the best volunteers in the church?
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I will say we do. And I mean it.
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The impact that our people have on the volunteers has brought in
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more volunteers because they're like, oh, I love serving in
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here. Let me tell you about what
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happened this. Week Like when someone's done it
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once, you never have to ask them to do it again.
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They're in. Rarely, rarely there's, there's
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one, there's 1,000,000. But but for the most part, yes.
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And, and our people come back and people are scared because if
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you're over the age of 45, you probably have not been around
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too many individual disabilities because they were in the
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trailers in the back of the school.
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Yeah. Talk a little bit more about
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that. I mean, I think that's an
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important point, yeah. I mean, I think just growing up
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and I'm, I'm close to that, that range in there where kids were
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just in the trailers. If if you had a special needs,
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you were separated from the rest of the school.
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From day day one of your schooling.
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For the most part, yes, and that's changed thankfully.
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But I mean they didn't have a lot of interactions.
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They ate lunch separately. They had different outside they
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had they had the trailers. Everyone was in the main
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building. Most of the, most of the time,
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individuals with disabilities run the trailers back and, and
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people didn't have exposure to them.
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So when they graduated, they only thought of individual
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special needs as like, weren't they a sane asylum?
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Which is it's, it's a, it's poor, we're thinking and it's
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really sad. But to see the progress that
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we've made has been really good. And to see the people that are
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in that age gap really come in really timid, but then be like,
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Oh my gosh, this is amazing. And they jump in.
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And I mean, I could tell you story after story about just
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volunteers coming in. None of them have any special
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needs background and just saying, hey, I'm willing to
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learn. I'm willing to be a part of
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this. And then there are a lot of
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different ways to engage our people, like with supper clubs.
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I know CC kind of talked about that with our adults.
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Just come and serve, bring a meal, come eat.
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We play games, we sing karaoke, we do a lot of different things
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together, but it's a great time just to interact and for you to
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Share your story, you to learn about our people and us to just
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love one another. Be in community together.
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Yeah, how, what are some ways we are supporting the the parents
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or the caregivers of these adults?
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So we do have a caregiver journey, which is a 12 week
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study where we are walking parents through how to think
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about this ability, how to process the things they're going
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through and even look at the scriptures.
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It's very scripturally based to know, hey, what do we need and
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really how to just engage a life.
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And it's cool because our parents are all in it together.
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So they're walking through this. Everyone has a different
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experience, they can all relate to one another and our goal is
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to get them into a community at that aspect to where they jump
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into another form of community where we know that our parents
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need to be discipled. And so we're discipling not only
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just our individuals, but our parents.
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That's the main way main study that we use for that.
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But every campus has some form of biblical community, which we
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want. All of our people, all of our
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members, matter who you are to be a part of some form of
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biblical community and serving and giving your life away.
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That's great. Which by the way, CC at TR y'all
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just did a SIM camp this summer and we also had it at
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Powdersville and Pelham. Can you just share a little bit
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about how that went and specifically how that impacted
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some of our mosaic families? Yeah.
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I'd love to. So we launched a SIM camp at TR
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for the first time this summer and we had 27 kids, which was
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quite a few more than we expected, but we were really
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excited about that. And we had four groups and one
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of our groups is called Siblings Journey.
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And so Siblings Journey is for siblings of individuals with a
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disability, and that was actually one of our largest
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groups. So it was a really fun, sweet
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time with those kids. They got to play and just share
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about life with some fun leaders.
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And we saw really just the ability for them to begin to
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open up, not even just in our groups, but with their parents.
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And so that was a really, really sweet thing.
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And it was neat to see that out in the TR community that it was
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a needed thing and necessary, I think even just by seeing how
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many kids and families signed up and.
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Participated. Yeah, absolutely.
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Can you share a little bit of what like the curriculum looks
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like and just maybe what are some of the goals that you guys
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are trying to accomplish for those kids?
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Yeah, I think the curriculum is really designed to help them
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begin to engage their their story.
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And so in Siblings Journey, they talk about some of the hard
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things about having a sibling with a disability, but also
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their favorite things about their sibling and how, you know,
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they image God and what they're learning from them.
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And so they get to do both of that.
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But the part I think that I love the most is the way our
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curriculum connects with parents.
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And so we have a parent take home sheet that the parents
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receive each day and they can look over that and have
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conversations with their child. And that was really neat at TR
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because there were some days where our kids were quiet.
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I mean, it's the first time we've done it.
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So like the first time that a lot of them had participated and
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they, you know, would be quiet in Group, but then I'd hear from
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a parent the next morning that their child opened up at home
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about about their sibling or about the situation.
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And I thought that was a really big win because before maybe
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they didn't feel the freedom to do that.
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And I think Ascend helps open the door for some of those
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conversations. One of our older guys and
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siblings journey his sibling that has disabilities, His
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parents have to put a lot of time and effort into just caring
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for him, which is is part of their story.
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And so this child felt like, you know, maybe mom and dad don't
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need to know that this is hard for me.
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He didn't want to add that stress and that weight to them.
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But what was really neat was to have the opportunity to
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encourage him to share with mom and dad and for him to be able
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to do that and the door that that opened for them and their
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relationship. The parents want to know, but
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you know, he knows that life is hard and so he didn't want to
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add. But it was really neat for them
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to be able to talk about those things together, and I think
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that was a big win. That's awesome.
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Yeah, yeah. And as we're talking about
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challenges and again, just the the cultural environment that we
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find ourselves in, I mean, I think 1 determining factor
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that's come up recently is there's a show on Netflix called
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Love on the Spectrum that's popular and it's fun and it's
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cute. But how does that mentality or
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approach to adults with special needs, how are we trying to
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engage that and disciple our people through that as well?
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Yeah, I think our culture pushes romanticism in so many ways.
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And we would say that that's, that's not necessarily in for a
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majority of our adults. They they won't get married.
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But we do have some adults that that do get married and, and
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have got married several married couples with disabilities in our
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church. And as long as they're
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fulfilling the, the roles of what the Bible would tell us
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about marriage, I think that we, we'd be great with that.
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We would continue to support that.
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But I think that we can't get this image or this illusion of,
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of marriage and romanticism and, and press that on our people.
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It's not healthy. And I really think that our
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people need community because everybody needs community.
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And that's such a biblical concept.
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I mean, we, we've had a one of our guys that's been with us for
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a while and he want to get married and they're about to get
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engaged. And really we found out that he,
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he was, he didn't really need marriage and couldn't
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necessarily fulfill the roles of a husband and marriage, But he
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doesn't have that desire as much because he's in community.
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He was so isolated. Some of our people are isolated
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where they, they think that that's going to solve the
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isolation. And I think that's where, where
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the problem is. I probably in our culture that
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that marriage is going to solve isolation and it doesn't.
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But we are seeing after that guy got into community and, and work
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and inspire discipleship. I mean, he doesn't really have a
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desire for it and he loves what he's doing and he has way more
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friends with the way it is now than if it he wants to be
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married because they probably would have isolated and it
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wouldn't have been great. So, yeah, I mean, I, I think
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that there's so many different things in society that are
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pushing against what we would believe and and that's probably
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one of the bigger ones in our adults.
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And we that's one of the the bigger struggles we have to
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disciple our people through all the time.
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Yeah, and I know that all of that is is got to be complicated
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and I'm sure that's can be unpopular at times.
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And I won't go down this rapid trail too far.
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That's probably a whole other podcast.
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But I do think that a lot of what you're describing is true
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for just our culture at large, not just for adults with special
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needs, but the ways that we think about romanticism and
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marriage, and that that's the ultimate goal in life when yes,
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God has made us not to be alone, but marriage isn't always the
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solution to that. Yeah.
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And what I hear you guys both talking about is holding
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biblical standards over cultural standards that may use some
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phrases like love and marriage and have some similarities to
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some biblical teaching, but really the core is not what it
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looks like to follow Jesus. And that's what it means to
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disciple. We keep using that word, but
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really that doesn't mean attending church services and
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attending inspired groups. It really means taking ownership
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for your faith and following Jesus.
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And I love how intentional specifically this ministry is.
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We it's part of the reason why we're having this podcast.
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We can learn a lot about the intentionality and the
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relationships from all different aspects of speaking into our
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adults lives that it requires to really follow Jesus.
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So that's great. As I was thinking about when you
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guys have just, I mean you have years of experience, what are
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some personal takeaways, some personal learnings that have
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really marked you as as a disciple that you've learned
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through your years in this ministry?
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Yeah. I mean, I would say, gosh,
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there's so many things that I have learned.
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One of the things probably is through my friend Elijah, who's
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no longer with us. But the man taught me about what
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does it look like to persevere? I mean, he had every reason to
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hate God in some ways and the way that he pushed me to Jesus
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and remind me of Jesus and have a heavenly perspective that has
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impacted my life. And no way I can't even
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describe. I mean, it has changed the way I
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have thought about like heaven, about dying.
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I mean, I go down the trail all the time, but I mean, it is, it
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is so encouraging that he had bed sores and he had people that
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abandoned him and over COVID, he was isolated and we had to talk
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through a window. And even when I would talk with
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him, he's be like, Hey, Joe, I'm I'm ready to see Jesus.
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I'm not, I'm not doing anything crazy, but I'm ready to see
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Jesus and I'm tired of this. And but I'm, I'm going to
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present, present the gospel and, and preach and, and love people
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until he takes me home. But gosh, I'm ready and I'm I'm
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thankful to. I mean, that's just one of many.
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I mean, he represents what Paul was talking about and and what's
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some of the. Best ways.
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And I mean, it's probably worth saying that that is a challenge
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of this ministry because sometimes we lose our friends
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too soon. Death is consistently in our
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community, especially our adult community past, I think it's
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like 4 years, we've had eight different people that have been
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connected to us pass away. Yeah.
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And that's, that's a lot. And, and they're young.
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Our people die younger, unfortunately, so we get a
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closer relationship with death and probably most people get,
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but it has it has shaped us in a really unique way and just the
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fragility of life for all of us that we're not promised
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tomorrow. That's right.
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And the heavenly perspective that I get from them.
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I mean it, it's it's amazing. I mean, it really does.
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It has changed my. Life and just how important that
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is to the discipleship process that having that perspective on
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life, death, eternity, resurrection.
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Yeah, CZ what about you? Yeah, I think just thinking
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about all that Joe just shared, but just the joy that our
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friends bring to the table, I mean, I think they are in some
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ways confined. And you know, maybe it's they're
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continuing to have seizures or they're confined to a
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wheelchair, but they live life in such a way where they are
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grateful for what the Lord has done and they're grateful to one
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day go be with him. And then they just have fun.
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So they've taught me a lot of how to how to laugh more and how
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to have fun. And I think all of that flows
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from, I mean, maybe it's that lack of control for them that
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leads to a freedom that I sometimes have a hard time
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reaching for. And so I'm just really grateful
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that I get to do life with them and laugh and worship God and
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all those things. All right, so let's hang on to
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that for just a second. So in some of the restrictions
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that they have, they actually experience more freedom.
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Yeah, yeah, I think, and I think part of that is they know
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ultimately that God's in control, right?
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So they've had to let go of some things that we grip really
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tightly. And that's a good lesson for all
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of us. Yeah.
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Thank you for that. That's great.
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All right. So as we close, what can we be
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praying for? And also an admonition, What
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would you really want our church to to know and take away from
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this time? Yeah.
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So I would love prayers for our families, specifically the ones
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that are navigating the transition from students to
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adults. The system is just hard to
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navigate. I mean, they're figuring out
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guardianship and I mean just so many different pieces of that.
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And so just wisdom for our parents and, and what the next
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steps look like. And I think some of that too is
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pray for them, maybe even as they, I think they've done some
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grieving over the course of their lifetime.
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And then the other thing I think an admonition for our church,
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and this is something I'd love for our TR campus to do, but
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also our other campuses, is really to think creatively about
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how our adult friends can serve and be part of the local body.
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So what we've seen and what Joe was talking about as far as
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community, they have community with their Mosaic friends, but
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our our church needs them. They need the same benefits that
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we get that the joy and walking alongside them.
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And so I'd love for us to be creative and to think about ways
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that our people can serve and serve alongside our other
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members. Why is the system so hard to
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navigate? It's really hard to navigate the
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transition system from students to adults because everything
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changes. There are a lot of options when
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you're a student, but once you graduate, they go down to a few.
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Most of them are not great, but there are several that are
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great, but they're hard to get into.
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And so there's only a selective amount of slots.
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So a lot of our adults, once they get out of school, they sit
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at home and most of the time they're either watching TV or
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they're on the Internet, which are not good, not not a good
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combination to be alone and be in front of technology all day.
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It's not healthy for anybody's mental health, physical health,
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whatever. And so that's, that's actually
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how we started Mosaic Inspire. We saw that the great need for
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our adults and we know that they have gifts to give and that's
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why that's how we started inspiring.
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See how we seen it grow? Yeah, no, that's great.
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Thank you for that. What about you, Joe?
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What's the five year dream? What can we be praying for?
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Yeah, so we, we've been very thankful.
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I mean, I, I look at what we're doing with adults and the fact
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that we are being able to disciple adults and their whole
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life really with housing, adult discipleship, employment and
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then church on Sundays. And then we're even partnering
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with people like David's table who are doing phenomenal things
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as well. And so I just think we, we're
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going to continue to grow God's, God's bringing in more people.
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I think that there's a piece of it just to pray for our church
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as we grow in Mosaic and also to pray for other churches.
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I think that that is my prayer. A lot of times God continue to
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raise up other churches that are going to own the cause and
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disciple the people that are in their churches because most time
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people come to us, they're like, Hey, my church isn't equipped.
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I love my church, but they're not equipped.
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And we, we would love to help. We don't know at all.
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We've made a lot of mistakes. We can tell you the things that
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we've done well and the things that we've failed in.
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And there's a lot of those, but you learn a lot from failures
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for sure. And so we, we would love to help
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equip anybody and we'll give them all of our resources or
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we'll come in and help train the staff.
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I mean, really, I am praying for other churches to continue to
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step up because there are churches stepping up and there
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are churches that don't know where to step.
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And so we've had some had a lot of years of help in this.
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And so we've been able to help guide some of those churches
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with it to kind of, hey, hey, here's the next step.
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Yeah. And the chances are if you're
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listening to this right now, you have friends at a church that
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could benefit from this. So we've got all of the details
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for the conference in the show notes and we would love to fill
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that room up with with folks. And like you said, we're not,
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we're not even trying to get a template.
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It's just much of here's some success stories, here's some
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failure stories, and some encouragement and exportation
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along the way. Yeah, we're actually flying in
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several speakers, pretty predominant people in the field
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of special needs and disability in the church, and they're going
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to come present to be a part October 20th and 20. 1st I love
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it, OK? Guys, this has been so great and
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so helpful and we do just let's all be praying for the
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conference coming up for all of these things.
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Y'all are busy, but it's all good things and we're just
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grateful that God has given us the opportunity to do this work.
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We'll also add the conference web page in the show notes and
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you guys can go there to see the speakers that Joe mentioned that
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we have lined up. And if you're interested in
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attending, the registration is on that page as well.
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But we would also love just for you guys to share that with
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anyone that you know in your circle who may be working in a
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disability ministry or partnering with a nonprofit.
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Just has an interest in learning more about the theology and
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getting some tools and some resource saying it'll just be a
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really cool opportunity to learn from each other and to encourage
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each other. And so we're just really looking
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forward to that in October. And Joe and Cece, thank you all
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so much for being here. This was really helpful.
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Thank you. Thanks so much.