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EP 68: Why the Church Needs Members with Disabilities

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  1. We know that our adults can be discipled.

  2. I think there's a misconception that just adults with

  3. disabilities probably don't have the ability to learn or they

  4. can't. They can't capture anything and

  5. and a lot of times, unfortunately, they're probably

  6. seen as a scripture would say the parts that seem weaker, but

  7. they're actually indispensable. We would not be full of complete

  8. estrogens 4 talks about without our adults with disabilities and

  9. their gifts. Welcome back to the Grace Church

  10. Podcast. Many of you may be familiar with

  11. Mosaic as a ministry to families with special needs and

  12. disabilities, but did you know that we have a large and growing

  13. population of Mosaic adults? For this episode, we are joined

  14. by Joe Clary, pastor and Mosaic Director, along with CC Ambrose,

  15. Mosaic lead at our Travelers Rest Campus.

  16. They're going to discuss the work of our Mosaic staff and

  17. volunteers as they are breaking new ground in the area of

  18. discipling adults with special needs.

  19. So Joe Clary, CC Ambrose, welcome to the podcast studio.

  20. Yeah, thanks for letting us be here.

  21. Good morning. Excited for the topic and just

  22. just jump right in. And I really would love for you

  23. guys to set the table and just kind of let us know what are the

  24. different facets of discipleship that we have with adults with

  25. special needs. Yeah, thankfully we have a lot

  26. of really great things going on, really cool things and a lot to

  27. be very thankful for. First of all, we have our Sunday

  28. services which are specific for Mosaic adults where we have a

  29. lot of just adult volunteers coming in and we have our own

  30. service. So we have worship, we have

  31. prayer time, we have announcements and then we have

  32. teaching where we get to teach what was taught on in our main

  33. worship service on one week. The next week we re teach it and

  34. just consolidate some points and have it more specific to our

  35. people. So you're following the same

  36. sermon series just a week behind?

  37. Correct. Yeah.

  38. It's, it helps us be more in the life of the church instead of

  39. being siloed and just studying something completely different

  40. because our adults are talking with our volunteers and they're

  41. all learning the same thing. So it's really cool to kind of

  42. be able to put that together and have our people just engage

  43. together with that. So how many?

  44. Give us a a sense of how many adults and how many campuses are

  45. currently offering Sunday services.

  46. Yeah. So we have about 100 adults in

  47. in worship in the weekends across four different campuses.

  48. And we probably have about 70 volunteers in those groups as

  49. well, which is pretty cool. OK.

  50. So Sunday services, that's kind of a starting point.

  51. And then tell us about Mosaic Inspire, like what is what is

  52. that? What does that mean?

  53. So Mosaic Inspire is a adult discipleship program that meets

  54. during the week. And our goal is really to engage

  55. the community and a church to for them to be a disciple, but

  56. them also to share what God's doing in their life, to be a

  57. light into the world. And so they do a lot internally,

  58. they do Bible studies, they learn different lessons, but

  59. they also are blessing to so many people.

  60. They do Meals on Wheels, so they're delivering meals to shut

  61. insurance, developing relationships.

  62. They've been working on sharing their testimony, what God is

  63. doing in their life to these people, and really just engaging

  64. the community in a really unique way.

  65. We have seen the fruit of that and it has been amazing just to

  66. sit back and watch. OK.

  67. And we're going to get a little bit of history here in just a

  68. second. I just want to get through the

  69. the scope just so everybody can I think have their minds kind of

  70. captured with what we're talking about here.

  71. So then inspire Coffee House, that's something that more

  72. people may have heard. Of yeah.

  73. So our current location is at Front Porch Housing and we're

  74. looking to expand that. We see our people having a great

  75. impact on the community there as well.

  76. And so we are discipling our adults with disabilities in the

  77. workplace environment. Yeah, how many are employed at

  78. Coffee House? We have 16 baristas. 16

  79. baristas, yes, that's awesome. So the coffee house, is there

  80. overlap with Mosaic, Inspire or those completely separate

  81. things? They are completely separate

  82. things, but we do have a lot of individuals that are in both of

  83. those. OK, So they're being disciple in

  84. both areas, so in employment side and in really the church

  85. and community side. Yeah, that's cool.

  86. All right. And then last but not least is

  87. housing. What does mosaic housing look

  88. like? Yeah.

  89. So we currently have two units at Front Porch Housing and we've

  90. been doing this for almost five years now where we have several

  91. adults with disabilities living with a couple peers.

  92. And so they are doing life together.

  93. So they're helping each other, they are going on trips and they

  94. go on vacations together. They've really become a family

  95. unit. And we as church staff and

  96. volunteers have a support system around it where we are all

  97. working together kind of helping everyone be discipled in that

  98. aspect as well. So and all of those things is

  99. that we are learning more from them then we're actually

  100. teaching them most of the time. And so, Joe, you've been in the

  101. space for how many years? Since 2017.

  102. Since 2017, on staff, you're on staff, you're the Mosaic pastor.

  103. So you kind of oversee all aspects of the entire Mosaic

  104. ministry, right? Not just adults.

  105. We're talking about adults today, correct?

  106. And then CC, give us a little window into what this looks like

  107. on the campus level. Yeah.

  108. So I've been at the campus, we worship at TR, So we've been

  109. doing it about three years. So we get to do a lot of what

  110. Joe is mentioning from the Sunday service angle.

  111. We've got a group of volunteers who take our adults through

  112. teaching and small group time and they're talking about how to

  113. apply what we're learning to their daily lives, whether

  114. that's at Inspire or the Coffee House or just even in their

  115. homes. Ways that they can serve and

  116. love their families and things like that.

  117. So yeah, the campus level, we are really working to disciple

  118. them and help them live that out throughout the course of the

  119. week, like like I do. And we're seeing a lot of growth

  120. on the campus level as well, specifically in Traveler's Rest.

  121. Why do you think that is? I don't think there's a ton of

  122. churches in our area that are offering Mosaic programs like we

  123. have. For example, we have a new

  124. family that came in about 6 months ago.

  125. She has two adult boys with autism.

  126. Other churches actually sent her to us.

  127. And so they say we don't have really anything for your adult

  128. sons. And so they, I think, find us

  129. that way. And I do think that's why we're

  130. seeing some growth at TR. So right now we have 2 adult

  131. small groups. So we have an adult men and

  132. adult women's small group. And just age range, where are we

  133. talking like 19 and older or is it?

  134. It really fluctuates a little bit it depending on when they

  135. get out of high school. Gotcha.

  136. So as soon as I graduate high school, then we move our adults

  137. into adult mosaic. OK, that's awesome.

  138. And sometimes our friends are ready, like they'll turn 18 and

  139. they're like, I'm an adult now coming to an adult.

  140. Yeah. And so there's anticipation,

  141. there's excitement, we know what's coming, all that kind of

  142. stuff. Yeah.

  143. So we have 18 starting around 1821 all the way up to 55 as

  144. some of our older adults. Love it.

  145. So then how do we kind of like approach discipleship for our

  146. adults, maybe differently than we would just for anyone else in

  147. that season of life, But then also how how is it kind of the

  148. same in a lot of ways? Yeah, I think some things that

  149. we do that's a little bit different, we will take, I think

  150. Joe mentioned this earlier, we will take the church's teaching

  151. and we'll simplify it to 10 or 15 minutes.

  152. But then we really are asking the same questions of how do we

  153. apply this in our daily life. And then something that is

  154. unique, I think in this season is our adults really do have

  155. something to offer to our church.

  156. And so part of their discipleship looks like them

  157. serving. And what can we do to help them

  158. get involved and to serve our church and then for our people

  159. to serve alongside them and together to know them?

  160. So I think that's a, that's a difference between what we're

  161. doing with kids and students then, you know, adults.

  162. Yeah. Yeah, I think once they become

  163. adults, we start and students, we start to see some of their

  164. gifting. And then really, when they get

  165. into adults, we see a lot more of their gifts and are able to

  166. use them to serve throughout the church in multiple different

  167. ways, sometimes in the background, sometimes out in

  168. front. But there's so many unique ways

  169. in which our our people serve, and they provide joy and

  170. encouragement to our church. Yeah.

  171. And like we've talked about before, there is this difference

  172. and, and I mean this is true for all of us in some ways.

  173. There's distinctions, but then there's similarities.

  174. And I think often times this group can easily get put into

  175. the different category, but there's so many ways in which

  176. they just function like other members.

  177. And, and that's kind of part of what we've started thinking

  178. through as well of these individuals are members of our

  179. church as well. Right.

  180. Yeah. So our adults go through a

  181. foundations like course, we walk through the core values of the

  182. church, we talk about what it looks like to be a member and

  183. they sign their covenant agreement just like anybody

  184. else. And so that they're walking

  185. through it and maybe in a different setting.

  186. Normally we do it on Sunday mornings and then we'll do

  187. pastoral interviews with them. But that's kind of the way we

  188. bring our adults into the membership of the church.

  189. Yeah, that's cool. So, Joe, how did all this begin

  190. for Grace Church? Yeah.

  191. So it started. We started getting students that

  192. became older and. That happens.

  193. Right, yes. And so as as our individuals

  194. grow it, student ministry was not appropriate setting.

  195. And we just started with a couple people in the North End

  196. building at Pelham with an unmite guitar singing in the

  197. corner. And it was it was a pretty sweet

  198. time. It was it was cool just to see.

  199. I mean, I think there were four to five when we first started.

  200. And then we do teaching and we, we talk about things and then

  201. we'd have some activities to do. But we we know that our adults

  202. can be discipled. Yeah, tell, tell us a little bit

  203. more about that misconception. Yeah, I think there's a

  204. misconception that just adults with disabilities probably don't

  205. have the ability to learn or they can't, they can't capture

  206. anything. And, and a lot of times,

  207. unfortunately, they're probably seen as the scriptures would

  208. say, the parts that seem weaker, but they're actually

  209. indispensable. And so I want to put the second

  210. part in because they are a key to our church body.

  211. We would not be full and complete as fusions 4 talks

  212. about without our adults with disabilities and their gifts.

  213. So it kind of all just originated how we wanted to see

  214. better discipleship where it's not just sitting in a service

  215. main worship where our people were not able to grasp all the

  216. points where we can kind of put it into a better, I don't want

  217. to say package, but we could teach it better and allow more

  218. time for understanding. And it is cool to see the fruit

  219. of all of that. Yeah.

  220. And so I guess my question is what, what happens if you don't

  221. have an environment like that where they can have the package

  222. and it can be tailored and those gifts can be pulled out?

  223. So I guess some families they would just they're they're

  224. adults would just be sitting in large church services.

  225. Yeah, so they would just, I mean, it'd be almost like a

  226. babysitting thing where they're just sitting there.

  227. And I think that's one of the things that we have coached a

  228. lot of people, we've learned ourselves about.

  229. Just because a kid is sitting there and behaviorally OK does

  230. not mean they're being discipled.

  231. And so we want to make sure that because our goal as believers is

  232. to present the gospel ways in which people can understand.

  233. And so we have to do that, especially as a church.

  234. And as church staff, that's what we're constantly looking at.

  235. How can we get people access to the gospel ways in which they

  236. can understand? And so if they're just sitting

  237. there being compliant, people are, Oh yeah, no, they're

  238. sitting in church, they're great, but they're not learning

  239. anything. They're not hearing anything.

  240. They're probably it's, they're listening to Matt Williams and

  241. he's talking 1,000,000 miles a minute.

  242. He, they can't understand that. So it is where we can break it

  243. down in a way and have some repetition in it that helps

  244. promote discipleship. OK, Yeah.

  245. Can I add in here, I think to something that's been really

  246. unique is that the small group time following the teaching that

  247. we get to do, we can really work through what application looks

  248. like for our people. So even if they're still living

  249. at home with their parents, we can talk through what it looks

  250. like to serve mom and dad and to be a disciple in their own home

  251. or in their own spaces, which like if they're just sitting in

  252. a church service, it's not. You're not able to have those

  253. conversations and to apply like the scripture to their daily

  254. lives. Yeah.

  255. Can you think of a couple of stories that just encourage you

  256. guys on a daily basis where you've seen now you've been

  257. doing it for years, just just growth of individuals?

  258. Yeah, I think something that's been really interesting to

  259. watch, we have a friend who, and he's actually the reason or one

  260. of the reasons we started at TR. So we started with two adults

  261. and this family moved to South Carolina for some of the

  262. benefits of our church, which is really neat.

  263. But their son has autism. And so watching him get plugged

  264. in through our Sunday morning ministry and then he is now part

  265. of Inspire and part of the coffee house.

  266. But over the course of I guess, three years now, he has just

  267. grown tremendously and his ability to, I think, share his

  268. faith. So he can now like stand and

  269. read his testimony about what God's done in his life, but he

  270. challenges us as his like, I guess volunteers who get to

  271. serve alongside him when he prays just his heart for the

  272. Lord and his trust and dependence on God is really

  273. helpful in convicting for us too.

  274. So that's been a joy just to watch him from start to finish

  275. and for them to I guess as a family, take a step of faith to

  276. go somewhere that had some resources that he hadn't

  277. experienced before. Wow, what a.

  278. Testimony of love and care. And I mean, another cool thing

  279. about that story is now he wants to get baptized.

  280. And so he's taking a step of faith.

  281. And that's, that's kind of hard for a lot of our people.

  282. I mean, for, for some of us or some of our people, baptism

  283. could end in death. The fact that if water got down

  284. into their lungs, they could aspirate.

  285. And we had one, one girl who was kind of scared, but want to take

  286. that step of faith, believing and say, Hey, this is something

  287. that I want to do. And she was terrified at 1st.

  288. And so we created a vice to where she could be baptized.

  289. But I'm just the courage of saying she's like, I want to

  290. stand in front of my church by the, my church, by not just the,

  291. but my church. She is a part of that church and

  292. say, I want to identify with Christ in front of these people

  293. was just a really cool and that was all driven by her.

  294. And, and, and it was discipleship over all her, all

  295. her small group leaders inspired discipleship.

  296. I mean, all the people that have been discipling her over the

  297. last several years got her to that point where she's like,

  298. hey, I, I'm scared, but I want to take this step out of

  299. obedience and that, that is really, really cool.

  300. And it gets to your previous question, Whitney, about

  301. similarities and differences. I mean, that's what we want for

  302. every adult member of our church is to take those steps of

  303. obedience that take courage, that really take dependence on

  304. the Holy Spirit. So I love that.

  305. That's a great story, Joe. Yeah.

  306. As we have developed a lot of this, like are there other

  307. churches and organizations that are doing similar things that

  308. we're collaborating with? Or is this just like some of

  309. this culturally feels like special needs and things have

  310. become just more acceptable and more openly acknowledged

  311. recently? So how have we kind of developed

  312. a lot of this? Yeah, I mean, I think that there

  313. are churches that are trying to get in the game and there are,

  314. there are a couple that are in there.

  315. I think they're just trying to weigh out what they can do right

  316. now because you can't do everything.

  317. You can't just start where we were started in 2004.

  318. So we're over 22 years old and see how it's grow.

  319. And so just to let people know, hey, as you start, you just have

  320. to take steps of faith and and grow it so that there's not too

  321. many people in the adult world. There are a couple, but one of

  322. the things that we are trying to do is just unite the churches

  323. across the upstate and just around.

  324. And we have a conference in October to do that.

  325. And the goal of the conference is to equip local churches to

  326. better disciple their people. And, and this is for nonprofits

  327. as well, to better disciple their people and to bring a

  328. community together knowing that we're not in competition, that

  329. we are disciple the people that God's put before us.

  330. And so every congregation has individuals with disabilities.

  331. It's just how how we're treating that or if we're identifying if

  332. they're there or not. Yeah.

  333. So then Joe, what are the biggest challenges?

  334. Is it, you know, is it manpower volunteer wise, or is it even

  335. bigger than that, like a philosophy of ministry and of

  336. care? Yeah, I, I think there are

  337. challenges just for volunteers, I mean across all ministries and

  338. and most churches. But I think one of the

  339. philosophies is getting back to what we talked a little bit

  340. earlier is the fact that our people can be discipled.

  341. This is not just a sitting in front of the TV and let him

  342. watch a show or let him watch a Bible movie.

  343. We have the opportunity to engage them no matter where they

  344. are. We and we do it.

  345. And our, I'd be honest with you, our volunteers.

  346. Do we have some of the best volunteers in the church?

  347. I will say we do. And I mean it.

  348. The impact that our people have on the volunteers has brought in

  349. more volunteers because they're like, oh, I love serving in

  350. here. Let me tell you about what

  351. happened this. Week Like when someone's done it

  352. once, you never have to ask them to do it again.

  353. They're in. Rarely, rarely there's, there's

  354. one, there's 1,000,000. But but for the most part, yes.

  355. And, and our people come back and people are scared because if

  356. you're over the age of 45, you probably have not been around

  357. too many individual disabilities because they were in the

  358. trailers in the back of the school.

  359. Yeah. Talk a little bit more about

  360. that. I mean, I think that's an

  361. important point, yeah. I mean, I think just growing up

  362. and I'm, I'm close to that, that range in there where kids were

  363. just in the trailers. If if you had a special needs,

  364. you were separated from the rest of the school.

  365. From day day one of your schooling.

  366. For the most part, yes, and that's changed thankfully.

  367. But I mean they didn't have a lot of interactions.

  368. They ate lunch separately. They had different outside they

  369. had they had the trailers. Everyone was in the main

  370. building. Most of the, most of the time,

  371. individuals with disabilities run the trailers back and, and

  372. people didn't have exposure to them.

  373. So when they graduated, they only thought of individual

  374. special needs as like, weren't they a sane asylum?

  375. Which is it's, it's a, it's poor, we're thinking and it's

  376. really sad. But to see the progress that

  377. we've made has been really good. And to see the people that are

  378. in that age gap really come in really timid, but then be like,

  379. Oh my gosh, this is amazing. And they jump in.

  380. And I mean, I could tell you story after story about just

  381. volunteers coming in. None of them have any special

  382. needs background and just saying, hey, I'm willing to

  383. learn. I'm willing to be a part of

  384. this. And then there are a lot of

  385. different ways to engage our people, like with supper clubs.

  386. I know CC kind of talked about that with our adults.

  387. Just come and serve, bring a meal, come eat.

  388. We play games, we sing karaoke, we do a lot of different things

  389. together, but it's a great time just to interact and for you to

  390. Share your story, you to learn about our people and us to just

  391. love one another. Be in community together.

  392. Yeah, how, what are some ways we are supporting the the parents

  393. or the caregivers of these adults?

  394. So we do have a caregiver journey, which is a 12 week

  395. study where we are walking parents through how to think

  396. about this ability, how to process the things they're going

  397. through and even look at the scriptures.

  398. It's very scripturally based to know, hey, what do we need and

  399. really how to just engage a life.

  400. And it's cool because our parents are all in it together.

  401. So they're walking through this. Everyone has a different

  402. experience, they can all relate to one another and our goal is

  403. to get them into a community at that aspect to where they jump

  404. into another form of community where we know that our parents

  405. need to be discipled. And so we're discipling not only

  406. just our individuals, but our parents.

  407. That's the main way main study that we use for that.

  408. But every campus has some form of biblical community, which we

  409. want. All of our people, all of our

  410. members, matter who you are to be a part of some form of

  411. biblical community and serving and giving your life away.

  412. That's great. Which by the way, CC at TR y'all

  413. just did a SIM camp this summer and we also had it at

  414. Powdersville and Pelham. Can you just share a little bit

  415. about how that went and specifically how that impacted

  416. some of our mosaic families? Yeah.

  417. I'd love to. So we launched a SIM camp at TR

  418. for the first time this summer and we had 27 kids, which was

  419. quite a few more than we expected, but we were really

  420. excited about that. And we had four groups and one

  421. of our groups is called Siblings Journey.

  422. And so Siblings Journey is for siblings of individuals with a

  423. disability, and that was actually one of our largest

  424. groups. So it was a really fun, sweet

  425. time with those kids. They got to play and just share

  426. about life with some fun leaders.

  427. And we saw really just the ability for them to begin to

  428. open up, not even just in our groups, but with their parents.

  429. And so that was a really, really sweet thing.

  430. And it was neat to see that out in the TR community that it was

  431. a needed thing and necessary, I think even just by seeing how

  432. many kids and families signed up and.

  433. Participated. Yeah, absolutely.

  434. Can you share a little bit of what like the curriculum looks

  435. like and just maybe what are some of the goals that you guys

  436. are trying to accomplish for those kids?

  437. Yeah, I think the curriculum is really designed to help them

  438. begin to engage their their story.

  439. And so in Siblings Journey, they talk about some of the hard

  440. things about having a sibling with a disability, but also

  441. their favorite things about their sibling and how, you know,

  442. they image God and what they're learning from them.

  443. And so they get to do both of that.

  444. But the part I think that I love the most is the way our

  445. curriculum connects with parents.

  446. And so we have a parent take home sheet that the parents

  447. receive each day and they can look over that and have

  448. conversations with their child. And that was really neat at TR

  449. because there were some days where our kids were quiet.

  450. I mean, it's the first time we've done it.

  451. So like the first time that a lot of them had participated and

  452. they, you know, would be quiet in Group, but then I'd hear from

  453. a parent the next morning that their child opened up at home

  454. about about their sibling or about the situation.

  455. And I thought that was a really big win because before maybe

  456. they didn't feel the freedom to do that.

  457. And I think Ascend helps open the door for some of those

  458. conversations. One of our older guys and

  459. siblings journey his sibling that has disabilities, His

  460. parents have to put a lot of time and effort into just caring

  461. for him, which is is part of their story.

  462. And so this child felt like, you know, maybe mom and dad don't

  463. need to know that this is hard for me.

  464. He didn't want to add that stress and that weight to them.

  465. But what was really neat was to have the opportunity to

  466. encourage him to share with mom and dad and for him to be able

  467. to do that and the door that that opened for them and their

  468. relationship. The parents want to know, but

  469. you know, he knows that life is hard and so he didn't want to

  470. add. But it was really neat for them

  471. to be able to talk about those things together, and I think

  472. that was a big win. That's awesome.

  473. Yeah, yeah. And as we're talking about

  474. challenges and again, just the the cultural environment that we

  475. find ourselves in, I mean, I think 1 determining factor

  476. that's come up recently is there's a show on Netflix called

  477. Love on the Spectrum that's popular and it's fun and it's

  478. cute. But how does that mentality or

  479. approach to adults with special needs, how are we trying to

  480. engage that and disciple our people through that as well?

  481. Yeah, I think our culture pushes romanticism in so many ways.

  482. And we would say that that's, that's not necessarily in for a

  483. majority of our adults. They they won't get married.

  484. But we do have some adults that that do get married and, and

  485. have got married several married couples with disabilities in our

  486. church. And as long as they're

  487. fulfilling the, the roles of what the Bible would tell us

  488. about marriage, I think that we, we'd be great with that.

  489. We would continue to support that.

  490. But I think that we can't get this image or this illusion of,

  491. of marriage and romanticism and, and press that on our people.

  492. It's not healthy. And I really think that our

  493. people need community because everybody needs community.

  494. And that's such a biblical concept.

  495. I mean, we, we've had a one of our guys that's been with us for

  496. a while and he want to get married and they're about to get

  497. engaged. And really we found out that he,

  498. he was, he didn't really need marriage and couldn't

  499. necessarily fulfill the roles of a husband and marriage, But he

  500. doesn't have that desire as much because he's in community.

  501. He was so isolated. Some of our people are isolated

  502. where they, they think that that's going to solve the

  503. isolation. And I think that's where, where

  504. the problem is. I probably in our culture that

  505. that marriage is going to solve isolation and it doesn't.

  506. But we are seeing after that guy got into community and, and work

  507. and inspire discipleship. I mean, he doesn't really have a

  508. desire for it and he loves what he's doing and he has way more

  509. friends with the way it is now than if it he wants to be

  510. married because they probably would have isolated and it

  511. wouldn't have been great. So, yeah, I mean, I, I think

  512. that there's so many different things in society that are

  513. pushing against what we would believe and and that's probably

  514. one of the bigger ones in our adults.

  515. And we that's one of the the bigger struggles we have to

  516. disciple our people through all the time.

  517. Yeah, and I know that all of that is is got to be complicated

  518. and I'm sure that's can be unpopular at times.

  519. And I won't go down this rapid trail too far.

  520. That's probably a whole other podcast.

  521. But I do think that a lot of what you're describing is true

  522. for just our culture at large, not just for adults with special

  523. needs, but the ways that we think about romanticism and

  524. marriage, and that that's the ultimate goal in life when yes,

  525. God has made us not to be alone, but marriage isn't always the

  526. solution to that. Yeah.

  527. And what I hear you guys both talking about is holding

  528. biblical standards over cultural standards that may use some

  529. phrases like love and marriage and have some similarities to

  530. some biblical teaching, but really the core is not what it

  531. looks like to follow Jesus. And that's what it means to

  532. disciple. We keep using that word, but

  533. really that doesn't mean attending church services and

  534. attending inspired groups. It really means taking ownership

  535. for your faith and following Jesus.

  536. And I love how intentional specifically this ministry is.

  537. We it's part of the reason why we're having this podcast.

  538. We can learn a lot about the intentionality and the

  539. relationships from all different aspects of speaking into our

  540. adults lives that it requires to really follow Jesus.

  541. So that's great. As I was thinking about when you

  542. guys have just, I mean you have years of experience, what are

  543. some personal takeaways, some personal learnings that have

  544. really marked you as as a disciple that you've learned

  545. through your years in this ministry?

  546. Yeah. I mean, I would say, gosh,

  547. there's so many things that I have learned.

  548. One of the things probably is through my friend Elijah, who's

  549. no longer with us. But the man taught me about what

  550. does it look like to persevere? I mean, he had every reason to

  551. hate God in some ways and the way that he pushed me to Jesus

  552. and remind me of Jesus and have a heavenly perspective that has

  553. impacted my life. And no way I can't even

  554. describe. I mean, it has changed the way I

  555. have thought about like heaven, about dying.

  556. I mean, I go down the trail all the time, but I mean, it is, it

  557. is so encouraging that he had bed sores and he had people that

  558. abandoned him and over COVID, he was isolated and we had to talk

  559. through a window. And even when I would talk with

  560. him, he's be like, Hey, Joe, I'm I'm ready to see Jesus.

  561. I'm not, I'm not doing anything crazy, but I'm ready to see

  562. Jesus and I'm tired of this. And but I'm, I'm going to

  563. present, present the gospel and, and preach and, and love people

  564. until he takes me home. But gosh, I'm ready and I'm I'm

  565. thankful to. I mean, that's just one of many.

  566. I mean, he represents what Paul was talking about and and what's

  567. some of the. Best ways.

  568. And I mean, it's probably worth saying that that is a challenge

  569. of this ministry because sometimes we lose our friends

  570. too soon. Death is consistently in our

  571. community, especially our adult community past, I think it's

  572. like 4 years, we've had eight different people that have been

  573. connected to us pass away. Yeah.

  574. And that's, that's a lot. And, and they're young.

  575. Our people die younger, unfortunately, so we get a

  576. closer relationship with death and probably most people get,

  577. but it has it has shaped us in a really unique way and just the

  578. fragility of life for all of us that we're not promised

  579. tomorrow. That's right.

  580. And the heavenly perspective that I get from them.

  581. I mean it, it's it's amazing. I mean, it really does.

  582. It has changed my. Life and just how important that

  583. is to the discipleship process that having that perspective on

  584. life, death, eternity, resurrection.

  585. Yeah, CZ what about you? Yeah, I think just thinking

  586. about all that Joe just shared, but just the joy that our

  587. friends bring to the table, I mean, I think they are in some

  588. ways confined. And you know, maybe it's they're

  589. continuing to have seizures or they're confined to a

  590. wheelchair, but they live life in such a way where they are

  591. grateful for what the Lord has done and they're grateful to one

  592. day go be with him. And then they just have fun.

  593. So they've taught me a lot of how to how to laugh more and how

  594. to have fun. And I think all of that flows

  595. from, I mean, maybe it's that lack of control for them that

  596. leads to a freedom that I sometimes have a hard time

  597. reaching for. And so I'm just really grateful

  598. that I get to do life with them and laugh and worship God and

  599. all those things. All right, so let's hang on to

  600. that for just a second. So in some of the restrictions

  601. that they have, they actually experience more freedom.

  602. Yeah, yeah, I think, and I think part of that is they know

  603. ultimately that God's in control, right?

  604. So they've had to let go of some things that we grip really

  605. tightly. And that's a good lesson for all

  606. of us. Yeah.

  607. Thank you for that. That's great.

  608. All right. So as we close, what can we be

  609. praying for? And also an admonition, What

  610. would you really want our church to to know and take away from

  611. this time? Yeah.

  612. So I would love prayers for our families, specifically the ones

  613. that are navigating the transition from students to

  614. adults. The system is just hard to

  615. navigate. I mean, they're figuring out

  616. guardianship and I mean just so many different pieces of that.

  617. And so just wisdom for our parents and, and what the next

  618. steps look like. And I think some of that too is

  619. pray for them, maybe even as they, I think they've done some

  620. grieving over the course of their lifetime.

  621. And then the other thing I think an admonition for our church,

  622. and this is something I'd love for our TR campus to do, but

  623. also our other campuses, is really to think creatively about

  624. how our adult friends can serve and be part of the local body.

  625. So what we've seen and what Joe was talking about as far as

  626. community, they have community with their Mosaic friends, but

  627. our our church needs them. They need the same benefits that

  628. we get that the joy and walking alongside them.

  629. And so I'd love for us to be creative and to think about ways

  630. that our people can serve and serve alongside our other

  631. members. Why is the system so hard to

  632. navigate? It's really hard to navigate the

  633. transition system from students to adults because everything

  634. changes. There are a lot of options when

  635. you're a student, but once you graduate, they go down to a few.

  636. Most of them are not great, but there are several that are

  637. great, but they're hard to get into.

  638. And so there's only a selective amount of slots.

  639. So a lot of our adults, once they get out of school, they sit

  640. at home and most of the time they're either watching TV or

  641. they're on the Internet, which are not good, not not a good

  642. combination to be alone and be in front of technology all day.

  643. It's not healthy for anybody's mental health, physical health,

  644. whatever. And so that's, that's actually

  645. how we started Mosaic Inspire. We saw that the great need for

  646. our adults and we know that they have gifts to give and that's

  647. why that's how we started inspiring.

  648. See how we seen it grow? Yeah, no, that's great.

  649. Thank you for that. What about you, Joe?

  650. What's the five year dream? What can we be praying for?

  651. Yeah, so we, we've been very thankful.

  652. I mean, I, I look at what we're doing with adults and the fact

  653. that we are being able to disciple adults and their whole

  654. life really with housing, adult discipleship, employment and

  655. then church on Sundays. And then we're even partnering

  656. with people like David's table who are doing phenomenal things

  657. as well. And so I just think we, we're

  658. going to continue to grow God's, God's bringing in more people.

  659. I think that there's a piece of it just to pray for our church

  660. as we grow in Mosaic and also to pray for other churches.

  661. I think that that is my prayer. A lot of times God continue to

  662. raise up other churches that are going to own the cause and

  663. disciple the people that are in their churches because most time

  664. people come to us, they're like, Hey, my church isn't equipped.

  665. I love my church, but they're not equipped.

  666. And we, we would love to help. We don't know at all.

  667. We've made a lot of mistakes. We can tell you the things that

  668. we've done well and the things that we've failed in.

  669. And there's a lot of those, but you learn a lot from failures

  670. for sure. And so we, we would love to help

  671. equip anybody and we'll give them all of our resources or

  672. we'll come in and help train the staff.

  673. I mean, really, I am praying for other churches to continue to

  674. step up because there are churches stepping up and there

  675. are churches that don't know where to step.

  676. And so we've had some had a lot of years of help in this.

  677. And so we've been able to help guide some of those churches

  678. with it to kind of, hey, hey, here's the next step.

  679. Yeah. And the chances are if you're

  680. listening to this right now, you have friends at a church that

  681. could benefit from this. So we've got all of the details

  682. for the conference in the show notes and we would love to fill

  683. that room up with with folks. And like you said, we're not,

  684. we're not even trying to get a template.

  685. It's just much of here's some success stories, here's some

  686. failure stories, and some encouragement and exportation

  687. along the way. Yeah, we're actually flying in

  688. several speakers, pretty predominant people in the field

  689. of special needs and disability in the church, and they're going

  690. to come present to be a part October 20th and 20. 1st I love

  691. it, OK? Guys, this has been so great and

  692. so helpful and we do just let's all be praying for the

  693. conference coming up for all of these things.

  694. Y'all are busy, but it's all good things and we're just

  695. grateful that God has given us the opportunity to do this work.

  696. We'll also add the conference web page in the show notes and

  697. you guys can go there to see the speakers that Joe mentioned that

  698. we have lined up. And if you're interested in

  699. attending, the registration is on that page as well.

  700. But we would also love just for you guys to share that with

  701. anyone that you know in your circle who may be working in a

  702. disability ministry or partnering with a nonprofit.

  703. Just has an interest in learning more about the theology and

  704. getting some tools and some resource saying it'll just be a

  705. really cool opportunity to learn from each other and to encourage

  706. each other. And so we're just really looking

  707. forward to that in October. And Joe and Cece, thank you all

  708. so much for being here. This was really helpful.

  709. Thank you. Thanks so much.