October 5, 2025: Provision & Discipline - Genesis 29:1-30

As a reminder, it is a Communion Sunday.

If you're planning to commune with us, you need to receive the

elements in the foyer. If you need to slip out in order

to do that, that's fine. We are in a series in Genesis

and noting how important Genesis is not only for the foundation

of Holy Scripture, but also for answering our most vexing and

important questions in life, namely who am I, what am I, and

why am I here? All humans need answers to these

types of questions and their idolatries surround trying to

satisfy these deepest longings. Thankfully, God has given in His

Word truth that we may have the correct answers to these

questions and therefore live according to His precious

promises. We can note in the Bible in the

early chapters of Genesis that Adam and Eve have these

questions provided for them. Who?

What are they? They are humans made in the

image of God. Why are they here?

To multiply and fill the earth and be agents of blessing

throughout the earth. They are in a special place,

special people with a special purpose.

But sadly, because of of the fall, these precious things are

wrecked, and so they leave their special place in paradise in the

Garden of Eden, and are exiled out of that space.

And their beautiful sons, their family, the beginning of their

people. Cain murders Abel, and as the

generations unfold in those early chapters of Genesis, we

see these people who are supposed to be agents of God's

blessing in the world, his viceroys.

We see them making horrible, horrible decisions, cursing one

another, murdering one another until God decides to start over.

There's a universal flood. He reiterates a covenant with

Noah. And then we come to Chapter 12

when he meets Abraham and says, I'm going to make you a land, a

nation, in order for that so that you can be a blessing to

the nations. And as we go through the stories

of the patriarchs, Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, we see certain

things repeated. We're going to see some of that

this morning. Even as we come into Chapter 29

on the heels of Chapter 28, we're we're worried because the

son of promise, Jacob, is leaving the land.

He has to flee from Esau because he has just deceived Esau and

his father. Esau's murderously angry.

And in order for this not to be Cain and Abel, 2 point O Jacob

has to run away outside the land in exile.

Once again, he's under the threat, a death threat from his

brother. And we're wondering how that's

going to resolve. And that tension is going to

keep him out of the land. We don't know how long we're

worried about this. We're in suspense.

Some of us Are you probably right ahead?

And what's to become of his life?

How is he going to be a blessing to the nation's when he lives

such deceptive, lying ways to his closest people, his brother,

his father? How is this going to resolve?

Last week we were in Chapter 28 and Jacob's on the run, and

we're nervous for him. He's exposed, he's vulnerable.

He has nothing, no friends, no protection, no peace, and God

himself comes in his grace that is greater than his sin, reveals

himself to Jacob and this stairway to Heaven, gives him an

Oracle and reiterates the promises given to his father and

his grandfather before him, that he will indeed have the

blessing, be the son of promise, land, nation, and blessing.

So he's got to spring his step. Perhaps he's encouraged by this

night time vision and heads on his way, which is where we pick

him up in the text. So if you follow along in your

Bibles, we're in Genesis chapter 29.

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I'll be working my way through not the whole chapter, but some

of it. There are two scenes, 2 scenes.

The first, as was introduced in the scripture reading, is

Jacob's meeting of Rachel. What we're going to learn from

this scene is that God provides according to His promises.

Let's read together Genesis chapter 29, beginning in verse

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one. Then Jacob went on his journey

and came to the land of the people of the East.

As he looked, he saw a well in the field and behold 3 flocks of

sheep lying beside it, for out of that well the flocks were

watered. The stone on the well's mouth

was large, and when all the flocks were gathered there, the

shepherds would roll the stone from the mouth of the well and

water the sheep and put the stone back in its place over the

mouth of the well. Interesting setting.

Let's continue verse 4. Jacob said to them.

My brothers, where do you come from?

Keep in mind Jacob doesn't have all your fancy GPS systems.

He doesn't even know for sure where he is.

He asked these folks, Hey, where am I?

We are from Haran, Yes. Imagine you have no idea where

you are and you're hoping to get to such and such a place and you

walk up and you're there. This is what Jacob was worried

about. How am I supposed to even find

my way to Uncle Laban? How am I supposed to know?

God gives him all the reassurances and guidance by

angels and then lo and behold, he is in Haran, the country of

his extended family. So, so far so good.

He asked him another question, verse 5.

He said to them, any chance you know Laban, the son of Nahor?

They said we know him, yes, but we're still nervous.

I mean, is he still alive? There's no e-mail.

Verse 6. He said to them, is it well with

him? They said it is.

Well, yes. I'm not only where I need to be,

but the guy that's supposed to take care of me is still alive.

There's hope rising, but it gets even better.

My friends, they said it as well.

And see Rachel, his daughter, is coming with the sheep.

Let's stop right there. Do you remember the story before

when Abraham sent his servant over to Haran to find a wife for

his son Isaac? Lots of similarities here.

They went to the same place and there's a rapid sequence.

Right away you meet Rebecca in that text, and right away we're

meeting Rachel in this one. Surely Jacob knows that story,

and hope is rising as the similarities begin to map out.

Rachel, his daughter is coming with the sheep.

Verse 7, Jacob says, behold, it's still high day.

It's not time for the livestock to be gathered together, water

the sheep and go and pasture them.

I can't help but think Jacob trying to get rid of these guys.

He's seen Rachel, we know some things about her and he's like,

hey, you guys, you know, get out of here.

I don't know, say reading verse 8.

But they said we cannot. We cannot until all the flocks

are gathered together and the stone is rolled from the mouth

of the well. Then we water the sheep stone's

heavy. Seems like they have to

cooperate in order to move this heavy stone that is over the

mouth of the well to water the sheep.

This is probably my favorite part.

While he was still speaking with them, Rachel came with her

father's sheep, for she was a shepherdess now.

As soon as Jacob saw Rachel the daughter of Laban his mother's

brother, and the sheep of Laban his mother's brother, Jacob came

near and rolled the stone from the well's mouth and watered the

flocks of Laban, his mother's brother.

Whoa, do you remember the first time you saw her?

Did you get a fluttery feeling? I met Deidre in high school.

I can still remember how I sort of was quavering inside when I

saw her eyes and her smile and her bouncy hair.

I wanted to drop down and do one handed push ups.

Something about this this so relatable it draws us in.

Do we believe in love at first sight?

Parents don't. Now that's infatuation something

compelling, especially when you think about the previous story

and how God was in all of the moves of this matchmaking

endeavor with the the servant. Before he can even stop his

prayers, they're being answered in rapid sequence, and he prays

and he worships, and Jacob probably feels like he's living

in that story. Verse 11.

Then Jacob kissed Rachel and wept aloud.

Strange reaction. Why is he crying?

You might too, if you were full of suspense and worry, on a

difficult journey, totally exposed, and you at last find

your place and your people. Cries loud.

Not tears of grief, but tears of relief and joy.

Hopefully this isn't too off putting for her.

And she still remembers the story about how he moved the

heavy stone so the things may progress.

Apparently she's excited. Rapid sequence.

He verse 12. And Jacob told Rachel that he

was her father's kinsman and that he was Rebecca's son.

And she ran and told her father. Verse 13.

As soon as Laban heard the news about Jacob, his sister's son,

he ran to meet him and embraced him and kissed him and brought

him into his house. These, this sounds just like the

story before Laban's the one to hear the news.

He comes out to grieve, interested in investigating.

But friends, there's some very important differences between

this story and the one with Abraham's servant.

What are some of the differences?

Do you remember? Abraham's servant came with a

retinue of camels, ostentious displays of wealth and fine

gifts, prepared to negotiate a match.

Laban investigates that and is excited about the wealth that he

sees, and we get a hint in the text that he might be a touch

greedy. Now Jacob shows up and he's got

deja vu. Except in this case, there's no

camels, there's no wealth, there's no presence.

There's this nephew on the run. How will it go for him?

Seems like everything's going well, but now there's a shade of

tension. He ran to meet him, and embraced

him and kissed him and brought him into his house.

So far so good. Jacob told Laban all these

things, and Laban said to him, Surely you are my bone and my

flesh. He's convinced that this is

indeed his nephew. And Jacob stayed with Laban for

a month. Then Laban said to Jacob,

Because you're a I'm because you are my kinsman.

Should you therefore serve me for nothing, tell me, what's

your wages be? Seems like a nice thing to do.

Offer him some employment. Jacob's still thinking about his

mission, and he's still thinking about the lovely shepherdess.

Verse 16. Now Laban had two daughters.

The name of the older was Leah, and the name of the younger was

Rachel. Leah's eyes were weak, but

Rachel was beautiful in form and appearance.

Stop right there. You may have English

translations that think that the Hebrew is complimenting Leah's

eyes. You can find those readings.

The Hebrew word is tender or weak.

It's hard to interpret, probably doesn't refer to her eyesight.

She's probably well seeing. But since there's such a strong

contrast here between Leah and Rachel, particularly in beauty,

most commentators and translators think there's

something wrong with her eyes that makes her unattractive.

So the story is setting you up. The older sister lives in the

shadow of the younger, invisible, unnoticed, unloved.

Perhaps verse 18. Jacob loved Rachel and he said I

will serve you 7 years for your daughter Rachel.

Something that we know from the cultural context here is that

Jacob is making an extremely generous offer.

It's customary for the family of the groom to provide something

in the betrothal and he more than double S the expected gift

here. Laban's no dummy.

He senses an opportunity and we're going to find out that he

may be more than he seems, and not in a good way.

This guy's desperate. I have an opportunity.

Verse 19. Laban said it's better that I

give her to you than I should give her to any other man.

Stay with me. The response is very ambivalent

at best. Verse 20 So Jacob served seven

years for Rachel, and they seemed to him but a few days

because of the love that he had for her.

Isn't that lovely? What is work when there's a

reward at the end of the road? So he serves this time and we're

LED in our imaginations to consider that the relationship

is growing to the point where he is desperate to be with her and

kind of rude and perhaps out of line.

In verse 21. Then Jacob said to Laban, give

me my wife that I may go into her, for my time is completed.

Don't talk to your father-in-law that way, ever.

Verse 22 so Laban to so Laban gathered together all the

people, the place and made a feast.

So we're getting set up here for the next scene.

OK, so in that, in that first movement, what I'm going to do

is I'm going to divide this into two scenes.

As I told you in the first movement, God provides according

to his promises. He provides for Jacob according

to his promises. It's why he's so excited that

things seem to be going so very well.

We can also consider that the Lord provides for his people

according to his promises, not just to Jacob, but to people of

faith, that we receive his promises in a very special way

as people of faith. But first we need to consider

how Jesus. There's little vignettes in this

first scene that can remind us of the life of Christ.

So let's draw some of those or look to see some of those before

we apply this first scene to our own lives.

Well, what are some things that I see?

This is not an exhaustive list. And perhaps you have your own,

some Jesus parallels to this first scene.

Well, the first thing that you can note is that Jacob hopes to

be a bridegroom, doesn't he? And he's on a mission away from

his father's house in order to find one that sounds a lot like

Jesus, the bridegroom, who in his incarnation goes on a

mission away from his father's house to fetch a bride that is

his church. What are some other little

things that we may be able to notice in this story that remind

us perhaps of the life of Christ?

Well, one thing that I thought of when I was looking at this is

that there are other watering stories in the Old Testament,

aren't there? When the nation of Israel needs

water in the wilderness, they speak to the rock.

And then Moses errantly strikes the rock, right?

He strikes the rock and then speaks, strikes twice.

He's supposed to strike, then speak.

It's a motif of Christ, the rock that we've been singing about

that provides living water for the people, children of Israel.

But then it gets even more specific in the Gospels when he

tells the Samaritan woman at the well called Jacob's Well, if you

knew who I was, you'd ask me for a drink and I'd water it because

I have special water. You don't know anything about

living water. I'm the living water.

So we have this watering Jesus, who is the one who gives living

water, who is the living water. But then the other thing I

noticed, and maybe you see it too, is that there's a stone

that has to be rolled away in this passage.

What does that remind you of? Thank you.

I heard that Jacob has to roll the stone away to provide the

water for the sheep. Christ our Lord, on that third

day, stone rolled away and the living water comes out of the

tomb for we his sheep. It's a beautiful thing.

He provides according to His promises through His person and

His work. And for this we must, friends,

rejoice in His Providence, rejoice in His Providence.

And I want to think about His provinces according to His

promises. He gives you a people, a place

and a purpose, doesn't He? First, if you're a believer, He

gives you a special place. And here I have in mind the

gathering places of the local churches.

We used to call this room a sanctuary, a sacred space where

special meetings occur. He gives us a sacred space, A

holy place, a local fellowship, not only in the here and now,

but he says that he's gone to repair a place for us in heaven.

So he gives us a place. He not only gives us a place, He

gives us a people in the family of God.

Before your conversion, you're lost.

You don't. You may not know that you're

lost, but you're homeless and helpless.

You don't have your people. Bible teaches us in our

conversion we are adopted into a network, a kinship, a family of

God. We call each other brother and

sister. He gives us a people, the family

of God. And finally, he gives us a

purpose. You join his church.

You. Engage His Commission and His

mission to bless the nations as we go forth on a mission of

disciple making and friends, I hope whether you're just

beginning to walk with the Lord or you've walked with Him for a

long time, that you're rejoicing today that He's given you a

place, that you're not homeless, that He's given you a family and

you're not an orphan, and He's given you a purpose to do holy

work in His name. It's exciting, it's awesome.

It's because what he has done in our behalf.

So we enter in Scene 2 as I was setting up, and it's hard to

find a place in the Bible where it goes from sort of the highest

of highest to the lowest of lows.

So fast, mind. Some sort of crazy Shakespearean

drama where everybody lies dead at the end of the play.

What's happening move to is that we're going to learn something

about God's discipline. God disciplines according to his

purposes. God disciplines according to his

purposes. So Jacob's asked for the

marriage. Laban gathers everyone together,

made a feast. Verse 23 But in the evening he

took his daughter Leah and brought her to Jacob, and he

went in to her. Laban gave his female servant

Zilpah to the daughter Leah to be her servant.

And in the morning, behold, it was Leah.

OK, that's super messed up. Can we all agree that that is

super messed up? So whatever we thought of the

previous deceptions leading up to this one, deceiving somebody

for a pot of lentils for their birthright, deceiving another

person, an old blind person, tricking them into giving you a

blessing, that's all terrible. We agree this has to be worse.

You think you're marrying someone, it's the best day of

your life, and it turns out to be somebody else in the morning.

What? What?

How could that even happen? Well, just you can think about

the custom to have these people, the brides, totally veiled, and

the wedding party, as it gets later and later in the evening,

you don't have electric lights. It's getting darker and darker

and darker. You're feasting, probably

imbibing some wine or other intoxicating beverages.

Little tipsy, perhaps going into the bridal tent the end of the

night. This occurs in the morning.

Jacob is incensed. And what we have here is a type

of poetic justice, don't we? There's something compelling

about that, you story lovers. Don't you kind of like it when a

villain gets their just desserts, when the trap that

they've been building is sprung upon them?

But famous, famous biblical example could be Haman in the

story of Esther, builds A gallows for Mordecai's enemy

only to be hung on his own gallows.

So now the great deceiver, the great Jacob is out.

Jacob by of all people, his father-in-law, his protector

that he thought who was going to help and bless his life.

He's incensed, he's super angry. And in the morning, behold, it

was Leah. And Jacob said to Laban, what is

this you have done to me? By the way, that's a Genesis

echo. There's been an atrocity like in

the Garden of Eden when they eat the fruit, God says what is this

you have done? What is this you've done to me?

Did I not serve with you for Rachel?

Why then have you deceived me? Laban said.

It is not so done in our country to give the younger before the

first born. Oh, now you tell me.

Dad, we had seven years to talk about this.

We had an understanding. But interestingly, the angry

Jacob becomes almost totally passive, like putty in this

tyrant's hands. You noticed this?

He noticed this. Why?

Well, one reason is this line, it is not so done in our

country. To give the younger before the

first born is like, hey, does this sound familiar?

We know Jacob, we know. We don't let the younger go

before the older. Ouch.

Laban has all the leverage Jacob would have to kill him and run

away with Rachel, but where's he even going to go?

Isn't there a death threat back home too?

What are we going to do? Besides, he still has Rachel,

and that's whom he wants. That's whom he's in love with,

that's whom he's smitten by. Verse 27.

Complete the work. Sorry.

Complete the week of this one. That is Leah, and we will give

you the other also in return for serving me another seven years.

Now some think that this means that Jacob has to work another

seven years before he can marry Rachel.

Some people read it that way. It's probably much more likely

that Laban gives Rachel to Jacob now in this moment, and then he

agrees to work another seven years so that both marriages

occur in the same relative space.

Verse 28. Jacob did so and completed her

week. Then Laban gave him his daughter

Rachel to be his wife. Laban gave his female servant

Bilhah to his daughter Rachel to be her servant.

So Jacob went in to Rachel also, and he loved Rachel more than

Leah and served Laban for another seven years.

Jacob is under discipline. This is not say that God is is

making people sin, but that He is allowing them in their

deceptive practices, in their fallen hearts, to entrap and

deceive each other in order to teach the deceiver what it feels

like, in order for him to taste a little bit of his own

medicine, that he may become humble and kind, a truth teller,

that he may find his place. He's a deeply holy man of God.

This is God's end, his will. So the deceiver is deceived, the

grasper is grasped, he has servitude for 14 more years or

caught in a situation that's explicitly condemned later in

Leviticus chapter 18, verse 18 says, and you shall not take a

Leviticus 18:18

woman as a rival wife to her sister, uncovering her nakedness

while her sister is still alive. The Bible, in all of these

stories regarding polygamy show it as an unmitigated disaster

that always hurts the vulnerable.

And we're entering into a time of intense strife for a

household that's hard to imagine.

Pastor Brighton's going to unpack that for us next week.

And through all of this, God is sovereign over all things.

And through these four women now He will begin the process of

expanding the family and building a nation.

The ends do not justify the means, and yet the Lord is

sovereign over it all. Again, before we apply this, I

would like to look for some glimpses of Jesus.

We've already talked about him being a type of Jacob, a

bridegroom on mission from his father to find a wife.

But what else can we see here now in scene two?

Well, like Jacob, our Lord went through a horrible treachery,

didn't he? When Judas Iscariot betrayed

him, his so-called friend, one whom he trusted and loved,

betrayed him. So our Lord is the betrayed

bridegroom. We can also see that our Lord

went through servitude in order to win his bride, didn't he?

He's called the servant. I did not come into the world to

be served, but to serve and give my life as a ransom for many.

He is the bridegroom who served went through a type of slavery

in order to win his bride. We can also think about how Leah

is unloved and our Lord is called one whom there is nothing

about his appearance that should cause us to be drawn to him.

He's also despised and rejected, forsaken.

It's just sad, sad thing. But our Lord, unlike Jacob, will

love perfectly to the end, won't he?

So He is a better bridegroom. We could also think of our

Lord's discipline. He's constantly disciplining His

disciples as He disciples them. In fact, an important aspect of

discipleship is discipline. You're going to go through

suffering. That suffering is going to mold

us and shape us, hopefully, if we respond well to it, into the

image of our suffering. Servant, Savior, groom.

He rebukes them, He teaches them, He trains them.

Jacob or sorry Peter especially has to go through hard lessons.

Thomas as well. So my friends, as we consider

our story, consider our Lord, we should try to apply this to our

lives that somehow we may too persevere in His discipline.

Some of the consequences that we suffer are obviously and frankly

directly related to our sin. If you get a ticket for speeding

down the road, you should be like, why this is happening to

me, I don't understand. No, you're under discipline that

directly corresponds to your sin.

Other things are more murky and hard to sort out.

And then you don't want to necessarily always think that if

you got a cold this week that it'd be because you maybe didn't

do all your Bible reading last week.

Not sure that's exactly how it works.

But the Bible does teach us to consider our suffering, all of

our suffering in some ways, to be formative, to be sanctifying,

to be sharpening, to be saving, to be redemptive.

We don't always know what he's doing, but he's sovereign over

all of it. And he asks us to persevere

within it, even when it's really, really hard.

How does Jacob stay in this dysfunctional mess with Laban

for so long? What is he learning?

That question is going to drive the story for chapters.

What's driving you? What's driving me?

Proverbs chapter 3, verses 11 and 12.

Proverbs 3:11

Worth memorizing, my son? Oh, it's worth memorizing for

the women too, my daughter. Do not despise the Lord's

discipline or be weary of his reproof.

Why? For the Lord reproves him whom

he loves as a father, the Son, her daughter, in whom he

delights. So behind his bitter providences

there's a shining sun of His grace.

And his redemptive purposes need to be the kind of people that

rejoice, not also rejoice in his provisions, but also the kind

that can be persevering under his discipline.

So to conclude, our Lord is guiding Jacob, it's clear, to

Laban's land, to his family, providing for him according to

his promises, given him the blessing.

But we've also seen this morning that the Lord is disciplining

deceitful Jacob by allowing him to be deceived by his uncle,

which gives him a taste of his own medicine.

So we too must rejoice in his provision and receive his

discipline according to his sovereign redemptive plan.

Let's pray. Father, will you move in our

hearts by Your Holy Spirit convicting us of a sin and

causing righteousness in us? We pray that You would infuse

our worship, Thanksgiving for how kind You are to us in Your

provision, but also in Your loving hand of rebuke and

discipline. Bless us, we pray, in Jesus name

and by the Spirit, Amen.