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For The Graduates of 2026 - Grad Sunday

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  1. I want to say a big welcome and thank you to those of you who

  2. are newer with us here at Real Life Church.

  3. And we're so glad that you were here with us this morning that

  4. you are spending your morning with us.

  5. We truly have been praying for you and planning for you this

  6. week. And we really, we don't want

  7. anything from you. We're not going to ask anything

  8. from you today except for this one thing and that's simply just

  9. introduce yourself to us. We'd love to get to know you, to

  10. welcome you here at Real Life Church.

  11. And you can do that simply by grabbing that connection card

  12. that is on your seat. You can file the information

  13. there in that top section. Check first time here.

  14. And you can just hold on to that during the gathering, let you

  15. know what to do with that later. But truly, we are so glad that

  16. you are here with us this morning.

  17. And our mission here at Real Life Church is to see people far

  18. from God discover their real life and purpose in Jesus.

  19. That's right. That's why we do what we do,

  20. man. Last week and we threw a welcome

  21. party for some newer gifts and first time guests and we had

  22. over 20 people come and get connected to that, which was so

  23. awesome. There we go.

  24. Yes, so good to see all those people and you can check it out

  25. right there. Hey, that could be you next time

  26. being connected. Just real people, real

  27. connections, real friendships, people finding their place and

  28. their home here at Real Life Church.

  29. And it's truly because of moments like that that we have

  30. eight people serving on the Dream Team for the very first

  31. time today. Let's give them a hand.

  32. So awesome to see people get connected and find their home

  33. here at Real Life Church. And hey, today is going to be a

  34. great day in the house. Today is graduation Sunday.

  35. We truly are a church that believes we put young people on

  36. our shoulders. They're going to go further and

  37. farther and faster than we did. And we are excited for them.

  38. And you're going to hear stories of transformation, of life

  39. change, stories where they're going to help shape their

  40. calling, their courage to follow Jesus as they take their next

  41. steps. You're going to hear from the

  42. graduate themselves this morning with some testimonies.

  43. We're going to pray over them and just Commission them out as

  44. they take their next steps. And so to help us do that today,

  45. would you help me welcome our youth pastor to the stage, Logan

  46. Hardy? Oh man, you guys hear me man,

  47. give it up one more time for the band.

  48. That was awesome worship, man. This is going to be such a good

  49. morning. I am so excited.

  50. I'm a little bit too far over, man.

  51. As you've heard, we are celebrating our real life youth

  52. graduates today. We have three of them.

  53. It is going to be a blast. And I will tell you, man, I am

  54. so proud of each and every single one of these girls, man.

  55. I have enjoyed having them in youth.

  56. I'll talk about this in a bit, but if the kids team is in here,

  57. I'm sure we've enjoyed having them come through the kids

  58. ministry and it has been such a blessing to see how they have

  59. grown in their Christ likeness and how they just are

  60. forerunners of the youth group. I'll talk about this.

  61. But they are the very best that we have to offer and today is a

  62. big moment for them. Today signifies years of pushing

  63. for exams that have been taken. Hopefully some late nights that

  64. have been studied. Obviously we're going to hear

  65. their stories. For some of them, this might not

  66. be a reality for, but most people that graduate, this

  67. includes late night studied. Maybe this is projects

  68. submitted. Man, they're all going on to

  69. further education. So this has been a grind for

  70. them to position themselves academically, to take awesome

  71. steps moving forward. But more importantly, more than

  72. the academics, more than just the perseverance, it is

  73. perseverance. But what we're really here to

  74. honor is how they have pushed through, and they have made it

  75. all the way through high school while remaining faithful to God.

  76. If you know anything, yeah, give it up for that man.

  77. If you know anything about school, that is no small feat.

  78. It is not easy to get through school and remains faithful and

  79. steadfast in your relationship with God in such a manner that

  80. these girls have done. So today, let's honor them.

  81. I'm going to call them up. I want you guys to show genuine

  82. excitement for this mile marker and their lives.

  83. When I bring them up, I want you to cheer super loud like Sean

  84. always says that baptism is like the Chiefs just won the Super

  85. Bowl, man. Be excited for them.

  86. Show them your love. Show them that you're here to

  87. support them. I'm going to call Brett up.

  88. He's going to give him a book and a handshake.

  89. And as I, as I call him up, give them a big round of applause and

  90. give them a bunch of excitement. So starting us off, first up, we

  91. have Aubrey Cubbley. If she wants to come to the

  92. stage, yes man, Aubrey's. Aubrey's parents are Josh and

  93. Carrie Cubbley. Yeah, let's give it up for them,

  94. man. Aubrey is graduating from the

  95. Summit Christian Academy. What Aubrey is going to miss

  96. most about high school is that she is going to miss being able

  97. to hang out with her friends, mess around in softball and go

  98. on field trips. What she is going to miss the

  99. least about high school, she says, quote UN quote, I will not

  100. miss waking up early for school. Notice that she goes to Summit

  101. Christian Academy. As I say this next thing.

  102. She will not miss listening to boring tangents about nothing

  103. she and she will not miss the people in the hallways that

  104. don't know how to walk. Her plans after high school are

  105. that she plans on attending UMKC, to major in biology with

  106. an emphasis in pre Med to hopefully either study radiology

  107. or sonography. And if she could do anything for

  108. God and not fail, she wants to attend more mission trips and do

  109. more community service. If there's anybody special that

  110. she would like to thank, she would like to thank both of her

  111. parents for helping raise her in a Christian environment and

  112. encouraging her to go to church. She would also like to thank

  113. Tori Jones and Christy Hardy for helping her grow in her walk in

  114. leadership. Give it up one more time for

  115. Aubrey. Next up, Grace Fairly, go ahead

  116. and come to the stage. Grace's parents are Scott and

  117. Katrina Fairly. She is graduating from Ray Peck

  118. High School. What Grace is going to miss most

  119. about high school is her friends.

  120. What she's going to miss the least about high school is theme

  121. waking up early. Her plans after high school are

  122. to attend college and major in early childhood education.

  123. Her goal is to become a kindergarten teacher or a truly

  124. early childhood educator where she can help young children

  125. learn, grow, and build a strong foundation for their future.

  126. If she could do anything for God and not fail, it would be to

  127. make a difference in other people's lives.

  128. And somebody special that she would like to thank are both of

  129. her parents. Give it up one more time for

  130. Grace Fairly and our last graduate.

  131. Welcome up to the stage, Lily Hough.

  132. Lily's parents are Janelle and Jeff Hough.

  133. She is graduating from Belton High School.

  134. What Lily is going to miss most about high school is she will

  135. miss her friends in wrestling or she will miss the least about

  136. high school. Again, quote UN quote.

  137. I will not miss homework is Lily is not going to miss homework.

  138. Her plans after high school, she plans on attending Missouri

  139. State University to get a degree in radiology.

  140. I think that's going to take some more homework so you're not

  141. done with that. And she eventually wants to

  142. become a sonographer. She could do anything for God

  143. and not fail. She would like to become a

  144. teacher or a mother. And somebody special that she

  145. would like to thank is she would like to thank again Tori Jones

  146. and Logan Hardy. Man, give it up one last time

  147. for all of our graduates. Man, this is awesome.

  148. Like I said, these are the best that real life youth has to

  149. offer. And I feel like some honoring is

  150. in order. So if you're in here and you are

  151. a parent of these graduates, please stand up.

  152. Parents. I know there's two here.

  153. We got Scott and Katrina. Give it up for them.

  154. All the way in the back. We have Carry ON soundboard.

  155. Josh is blending in with his hat, blocking the lights.

  156. I don't see Janelle, but Janelle's somewhere.

  157. All right, Give it up for all the parents.

  158. Yeah. All right, parents.

  159. You can take a seat, mate. If you are a grandparent and you

  160. are in here, please stand up. Any grandparents in here?

  161. Oh, we do. We'll give it up to the

  162. grandparents. Man, I don't know, make

  163. grandparents make such a large imprint on the lives.

  164. I know in my story, my great grandma had such a big, she had

  165. such a big imprint on my walk with God.

  166. So man, grandparents are amazing.

  167. If you were in here and you serve on the youth team, would

  168. you stand up? Oh, we have Tori up here in the

  169. front. That's Hannah.

  170. We have Hannah over there. We have Brett in the back.

  171. Yeah, man, thank you guys so much for serving week in and

  172. week out. You heard Tori was mentioned

  173. twice for people that made the biggest impact on these

  174. graduates. So I appreciate all of our youth

  175. team and this church long enough to that.

  176. If you are on the kids team, would you stand up?

  177. If you are on the kids team, you had an impact on them.

  178. We got my brother Coleman back there.

  179. He sat back down. He didn't really feel it.

  180. They're all on the kids team. So give it up the graduates

  181. again. Oh man, this is awesome.

  182. I'm I'm having such a good time so far.

  183. But you guys have heard a lot from me.

  184. I'm going to give you guys the opportunity to hear from the

  185. graduates themselves. So welcome up Lily Huff to give

  186. her testimony. Hi, OK I'm just going to read

  187. off of this. I said I was born into a

  188. Christian family and we went to church weekly for several

  189. several years. After a while we felt

  190. disconnected from the church and decided to search for a new one.

  191. I then started attending real life church within the first

  192. year of launch. For several years I was just

  193. going to church to see friends, but I didn't take it very

  194. seriously. Once I started youth group, I

  195. felt more connected to the sermons.

  196. But camp is where I really started to notice a change.

  197. I started feeling more motivated to spread the gospel and invite

  198. people to church. Though it is a constant battle,

  199. I know God is always working through me and for me, and

  200. you've had a large impact on my walk with God.

  201. Hashtag real life youth is great.

  202. Man, that's awesome. I love that God is working

  203. through me and for me. Man, Lily has been such a joy to

  204. have in youth. She's always active, whether or

  205. not this is productivity or not. She is always active at real

  206. life youth and she has been such a blessing.

  207. So man, give it up one more time for Lily.

  208. And as you give it up, welcome Grace to give her testimony.

  209. Hello, so I'm grateful enough to have been raised in church my

  210. whole life as well. I was fully, I fully gave my

  211. life to Christ when I was around 8 at church camp a few years ago

  212. when I moved here, I was looking for a church that I could feel

  213. welcome and have that like come as you are feeling.

  214. And as soon as I came to real life, I, I felt immediate

  215. connection with the girls and the leaders.

  216. I felt like I could have people sharpen me and impact my walk in

  217. a positive way. And I could definitely say that

  218. if it wasn't for them, then I wouldn't be where I am in my

  219. walk right now. OK man, this is so awesome.

  220. Grace has been awesome in the youth group.

  221. She is one of our most steady and consistent people.

  222. She's very consistent coming out to youth group.

  223. She's always willing to engage in the messages and she always

  224. brings her a game during live groups.

  225. Before I invite Aubrey up here to pray and lead us out of the

  226. celebration, I have a little bit of a charge for our graduates.

  227. It's going to be on the screen. But First Timothy, First Timothy

  228. 612 says to fight the good fight of the faith, take hold of the

  229. eternal life to which you were called, which you made your good

  230. confession in the presence of many witnesses.

  231. There are three big things that stand out to me that Paul writes

  232. for us to fight the good fight of our faith.

  233. To me, this means that we were to anticipate resistance.

  234. Like I said, it's no small feat getting through high school,

  235. being faithful to God. But the the resistance does not

  236. stop there. It might be even more ramped up

  237. as these girls get ready to enter the adult world to go off

  238. to college. Man, you're going to have people

  239. in, it sounds like you're all going for higher education.

  240. There is going to be people that are going to ridicule your

  241. beliefs, whether it's classmates, whether it's

  242. professors, whether it's just random people you meet in your

  243. daily lives. There are going to be people

  244. that just make fun of you for what we hold to as our faith.

  245. There's going to be peers that test your restraint and as you

  246. step out and as you get ready to be a little bit more on your

  247. own, it's going to be less of a support group that is going to

  248. hold you accountable. You're going to hold yourselves

  249. accountable as you're going to have peers that are going to

  250. test what you really believe and test what your convictions are

  251. to live out a Christ like life. And man.

  252. This is one of the most unfortunate things about getting

  253. older is you realize that your quote UN quote friends are going

  254. to be the first people that are going to drag you down.

  255. They're going to be the first people that are going to make it

  256. harder for you to follow your faith.

  257. But as Paul writes for us to fight the good fight, he gives

  258. us some advice on how to do that.

  259. He says to keep our eyes on the prize and to take hold of

  260. eternal life. We started this year going

  261. through a message series called Heaven, and learning about

  262. heaven is all the motivation we need to fight that good fight

  263. and to encounter that resistance.

  264. It is so much easier to fight for your convictions, to fight

  265. for your Christ likeness, to stand against peers that drag

  266. you down when you know the reward that is waiting for you

  267. in heaven. It's easier to fight with that

  268. prize in mind. And what I don't want you to

  269. forget is Paul writes that you made your confession in the

  270. presence of many, that when you started your faith, you started

  271. with the support of your church, you started with all these

  272. people rallying around you when you decided to start a

  273. relationship with God. And as you've grown in your

  274. faith, you've still had that support.

  275. You've come to youth group, you've been here at church every

  276. Sunday morning, you've been going to life groups, you've

  277. been doing all the various ministries that we have, and

  278. you've had the support for your faith.

  279. But as you go out and as you guys scatter about the world, I

  280. want to give you the encouragement that that support

  281. is never going to leave. If missions take you somewhere,

  282. you always have a home in real life youth.

  283. If you find yourself in Springfield, you will always

  284. have a home in real life youth. Maybe you're just up the road at

  285. UMKC or at MCC. Wherever you are, you will

  286. always have the support of this church to rally behind you and

  287. give you everything you need to support you in your Christ like

  288. this and in your sanctification. Amen.

  289. Church. Yeah, so man, that's my push for

  290. you. Fight for your fight.

  291. Anticipate resistance. Fight for your faith.

  292. Anticipate resistance and let the church support you.

  293. Man, this has been a blast. I appreciate you guys for being

  294. so energetic and celebrating them.

  295. And I'm going to invite Aubrey to pray us out of this

  296. celebration. Slip gang.

  297. OK, let's pray. All right, Dear Only Father,

  298. thank you so much for this amazing group of people.

  299. And thank you for everybody here just being so encouraging and

  300. working on us into the future. I pray that hopefully, wherever

  301. you take us, that we will still pursue our faith in you.

  302. And I thank you so much for all the amazing opportunities you've

  303. given us at this church. Amen.

  304. To guys, books are tickle. Yeah, give it up one last time

  305. real loud for our graduates. This has been a blast.

  306. I've enjoyed celebrating you guys so much and that is the

  307. heart of today. It is celebration.

  308. It is happiness, it is exuberant joy because we've seen God's

  309. working hand in each and every single one of their lives.

  310. So let's celebrate that today. We're going to continue the

  311. celebration and I'm going to tell you guys about real life

  312. youth, man. I told you Aubrey, Lilly and

  313. Grace are the forerunners of our group up here, man.

  314. They have been leaders in the youth group.

  315. They are always willing whenever I'm preaching.

  316. This is such a fight. If you know students, whenever

  317. I'm preaching, they are always willing to engage with the

  318. message. If I ask somebody to read a

  319. verse, they will always be willing to read it.

  320. If I ask a question, they'll always shout out their thoughts.

  321. If people are getting too loud, they'll either correct them or

  322. they'll correct themselves. If it's them, I never usually

  323. have to correct them. They are very much young women

  324. that have been intimately shaped by God and they are the best at

  325. the moment. I would say real life youth has

  326. to offer. They are the cream of the crop

  327. and they are setting such an example for our young students

  328. to follow in their path. They're the best we have to

  329. author offer. So what I want to do as we get

  330. ready to get into the message of this morning and as we wrap up

  331. the morning, I want to do a few things in regards to real life

  332. youth. I want to cast light and I want

  333. to cast vision on to what real life youth is and what we are

  334. doing. I want to tell you about what we

  335. value and in the morning I want to tell you about where we are

  336. going. The heartbeat of real life youth

  337. is the heartbeat of this church. What's our church's mission?

  338. Guys, tell help me out. Tell me to see people far from

  339. God discover real life and purpose in Jesus.

  340. I mean, I don't know if you guys know that, but that is the Great

  341. Commission put into our own language.

  342. The Great Commission is found in Matthew 2819 through 20.

  343. And this is the heartbeat of what we value at real life

  344. youth. Therefore what?

  345. Go, go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the

  346. name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and

  347. teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you, and surely

  348. I am with you always to the very end of the age.

  349. The Great Commission has two very important pieces is to go

  350. out and evangelize the lost, to tell people about the hope that

  351. we've been given, but then also to bring them in and help equip

  352. them in the faith. We're to find the lost and to

  353. equip the Saints. So for us, this comes down to 4

  354. pillars of language for what we value as a youth group.

  355. The first of these 4 pillars is that we are welcoming.

  356. We do our very best and I think we do a very good job of not

  357. being judge mental for those that come out to the youth

  358. group, man, we view our ministry as a hospital and you don't have

  359. to be healthy to come get the treatment of the gospel, to come

  360. get the medicine of Christ. We don't judge.

  361. We don't care if you're perfect. The leaders of real life youth,

  362. of real life youth group, we are not perfect.

  363. The fellow students of the group, they are not perfect.

  364. You don't have to be perfect to show up to our ministry.

  365. We don't care how you dress. When Brett's son used to come to

  366. the youth group, he came in a full suit very often.

  367. But we also have people that show up in jeans and flip flops.

  368. We have a whole spectrum of people and they show up in

  369. different ways and we meet them where they're at.

  370. We don't care if you have a past, there is no there is not a

  371. plane, there is no baggage limit on what you can bring to real

  372. life youth. Come with what you got.

  373. We'll show you what we have and we'll all find help together

  374. underneath the umbrella of Christ.

  375. We don't need you to show up anything other than as you are.

  376. We just want to meet your students where they are and as

  377. they are now. We get this heart from Romans

  378. 15-7. Romans 15 says and says accept

  379. one another. Then just as who accepted us?

  380. Christ, man. As you read the New Testament,

  381. as you read the writings of Paul and somebody else that I'm

  382. blinking on their name right now, there are so many things

  383. that we were called to do that is an emulation of Christ.

  384. James man. Paul writes for us to be

  385. generous because Christ was generous to us.

  386. He writes for us to be humble because Christ was humble to us.

  387. And he also writes for us to be welcoming, because Christ was

  388. welcoming to us. I think back to the story of the

  389. woman at the well. Do you guys know that story

  390. where Jesus found the woman at the well and he confronted her

  391. about this adulterous circumstance that she was living

  392. in? But did he condemn her?

  393. No, He met her where she was at and he gave her the medicine of

  394. the gospel. And what did she do with that?

  395. She went out and she told every person that she knew.

  396. That is our heartbeat for the youth group.

  397. Man. We want to accept students as

  398. they are because that's what Christ did for us, so that when

  399. they come to the youth group and when they come to be equipped

  400. and they learn about the gospel and they foster a relationship

  401. with Jesus, they can take that out and tell their friends at

  402. school. Man, I don't know if you guys

  403. have noticed, but the church is growing and the youth group has

  404. been feeling that we have had so many new students come and join

  405. us over the last few weeks, the last couple months really.

  406. And it is our heart to see them given a safe, a fun, and a

  407. reverent home to learn about, foster a relationship with, and

  408. find rest in Jesus so that they can take that and they can take

  409. it out to their world. So we want to be welcoming.

  410. And our second thing that we want to do is we strive to be

  411. life giving. But how many of you guys know

  412. that being a Christian is hard? Many guys know that being a

  413. Christian is hard. And we talked about this.

  414. It is a lot harder, arguably, when you're a teenager, when

  415. you're a student. Man, being a teenage Christian

  416. can sometimes feel overwhelming. Between social media, it does

  417. not take very many scrolls down TikTok and Instagram and YouTube

  418. to know that this world is not a world interested in becoming

  419. more like Christ that deforms our teenagers.

  420. Or what about school? What about teachers?

  421. What about fellow students that have ridicule beliefs?

  422. Or what about friends? What about friends that are

  423. unequally yoked with our with our students?

  424. Not that that's a bad thing, like we want those friends to

  425. come to the ministry, but those are the kind of friends that if

  426. we're not careful, can deform our faith if we give them too

  427. much influence over us. Or maybe for some of our

  428. students, that's our own family members.

  429. Man, there's so many influences that can deform our teenagers.

  430. So we want to be life giving. We love to see our students

  431. given a stress free environment to learn about, to engage with,

  432. and to fall deeply in love with God.

  433. One way we do this is through discipleship.

  434. We have a book that we go through in our discipleship

  435. making relationships. It is by Andy Stanley.

  436. It's called the Seven Checkpoints.

  437. It's really cool. It walks through seven key

  438. things for our students to be given a faith that can stand

  439. through the test of these afflictions.

  440. Checkpoint #1 we we talk about having an authentic faith and

  441. then we talk about establishing spiritual disciplines, giving

  442. moral boundaries in our relationships, making meaningful

  443. friendships, making wise choices, submitting to the

  444. ultimate authority of God over our given authorities on earth,

  445. and putting others first. So we meet with our students

  446. that want to go through this relationship.

  447. We meet weekly over each checkpoint there are 7 days and

  448. there are 7 scriptures attached to it.

  449. So we get into the word, we feed into your students when they go

  450. through this because like I said, we want to be life giving.

  451. We have a couple people that have already finished.

  452. Julian and Aubrey who graduated have already finished a disciple

  453. making relationship and they enjoyed it, right guys?

  454. Did you enjoy it? Yes, man, they got Bibles for

  455. going through it. I know Julian specifically.

  456. He, I took Julian through it. He was a rock star with going

  457. through this. And right now we have still some

  458. other people that are going through it.

  459. Kate and Ashton in Brooklyn are all being LED through it by

  460. Mandy Spratt, superhero Mandy, who has such a heart for her

  461. girls and for discipleship. Luciana and Julie, man, Julie

  462. has had so many things on her plate.

  463. She finds herself being taken out of Missouri so often, but

  464. when she is here, she feeds into Luciana to the best of her

  465. ability. And then right now, me and

  466. Saban, Lily's little brother, we're going through a

  467. relationship right now. So we started to be life giving

  468. and we love to see our group students grow because of our

  469. third thing, which is that we value relationships.

  470. We want our students to be poured into by our leaders, man,

  471. Our leaders kind of brag on our leaders for a minute.

  472. Our leaders have a radical heart for your students.

  473. Our leaders have a radical passion for going above and

  474. beyond to care for, to pour into, and to challenge your

  475. students. We have some awesome

  476. relationships forming right now at Real Life Youth as we speak.

  477. Brett, who is up here giving our girls handshakes and handing him

  478. out books. He and Brady have an awesome

  479. relationship. Man, Brady looks up to Brett so

  480. much. Brady is like me.

  481. He loves sports and particularly basketball is Brady's thing.

  482. And as much as it pains me to say it, I'm a Mizzou fan through

  483. and through. But Kansas does have the Mecca

  484. of basketball. So Brady was brought out by

  485. Brett to go to a women's basketball game all the way out

  486. in Lawrence. They took a day trip together.

  487. Man, Brett has brought Brady, Brady out to basketball games.

  488. He took them golfing and he takes them out to dinner every

  489. once in a while. Brett is doing such an amazing

  490. job fostering that relationship with Brady.

  491. Man, how many times what I heard Brett say something?

  492. How many times do you hear Tori's name up here?

  493. Man, Tori has been super intentional with these

  494. graduating girls. They are super close knit.

  495. They have a text group together. She has, she LED Aubrey through

  496. the disciple making process. They always have a ton of fun in

  497. life groups, as you guys have heard, probably too much fun

  498. sometimes, but they always bring it back.

  499. They always bring it back to the Bible.

  500. Man. You heard about her already, but

  501. Mandy? Mandy has a heart for our girls.

  502. Mandy feeds into and has a radical heart for discipling our

  503. younger girl. She has awesome dynamic man.

  504. Her birthday was last Wednesday. Do you know how awesome of a

  505. relationship you have to have to have a 16 year old girl buy you

  506. a birthday present and bring it to youth?

  507. That says everything about Mandy.

  508. One of her girls got her a Starbucks cup and a Starbucks

  509. gift card for her birthday last Wednesday.

  510. And that says everything about that relationship that they have

  511. fostered. And I've been having a ton of

  512. fun getting connected with Saban.

  513. Saban in his own words. I'll, I'll, I'll change up the

  514. phrasing a little bit, but Saban wants to intellectually

  515. reconcile his faith. We've talked about it with the

  516. Bible, but it extends to Christianity.

  517. We have faith, but we don't have a blind faith and Satan does not

  518. want a blind faith. And that is the kind of faith

  519. that is going to last. I'm so grateful for that.

  520. So finally, everything that we do is for God's glory.

  521. All the students, the graduates that have come up here, that is

  522. not to credit of real life youth.

  523. That's not the credit of Logan or Tori or Mandy or any other

  524. leader. That all goes back to God that

  525. empowered their relationship. Romans 15-7 says that we are

  526. welcoming in order to bring praise to God.

  527. Man, everything that we do, our ultimate and our ultimate goal

  528. is for the glory of God. Man, we love our ministry and we

  529. serve it to the best of our ability, but we cannot win glory

  530. for ourselves. We get win glory for the

  531. Heavenly Father that has enabled us and enabled our students to

  532. know and to love Him and a real life youth.

  533. We live this out. We love your students and we

  534. work for the glory of God because we have seen the glory

  535. of God. I'm going to tell you guys about

  536. a girl that has been coming out to real life youth for a few

  537. years now, I think. But Brooklyn, and she's up here,

  538. Brooklyn has been, I don't think you're supposed to rank wins

  539. that you've seen in a ministry, but I think Brooklyn has

  540. probably been my favorite win that we've seen in real life

  541. youth, man. Brooklyn has been in these few

  542. years that she's come out, she has been very steady.

  543. She comes in week after week. She is very level headed.

  544. She never causes any problems. She's been faithful to the group

  545. in her time. There's been times that she's

  546. shadowed the worship team. There's been times that like

  547. right now, she's meeting with Mandy, like the girls over here.

  548. She's always engaged with messages through and through,

  549. off top and down, left to right. She is a rock star in real life

  550. youth. In January to start January, we

  551. celebrated the new year. We went out to main events.

  552. We had a ton of fun. We had a blast.

  553. We came back, we had ice cream or cupcakes or something to that

  554. effect. And we also had a message before

  555. we got ready for the ball drop. It was a quick message.

  556. I was anticipating some new students.

  557. So I had a really strong evangelistic push.

  558. And as I went through this message and as I went through

  559. this invitation, what Brooklyn told us after the fact is that

  560. as she was listening to the gospel again, she realized she

  561. could not say for certain whether or not she had a

  562. relationship with Jesus. So as we were going through the

  563. message, as we were going through the invitation,

  564. Brooklyn, the rock star that had been through real life youth for

  565. a couple years at that point, faithful week in and week out

  566. fully and finally gave her life to Christ and made a decision to

  567. follow Jesus. And that invitation, Yeah, you

  568. can give it up for that. Then on that night, during that

  569. invitation to start the year, Brooklyn started a relationship

  570. with God. And I can speak for myself, but

  571. I also imagine I'm speaking for every leader that is in here at

  572. Real Life Youth and in the kids department and any other

  573. ministry we have. That is all the fuel we will

  574. ever need to keep going and keep serving in the ministry.

  575. But that's not for us, that's for God.

  576. It's thank you God for Brooklyn. It's thank you God for these

  577. graduating girls. It's thank you God for Julian.

  578. Thank you God for these serving leaders.

  579. It's all to God's glory. That is why real life youth

  580. exists. So we talked about where we are.

  581. We talked about what we value. But I want to tell you guys

  582. about where we're going. We are extremely proud of how

  583. God has used real life youth, but let me tell you about what I

  584. see God doing in even bigger work through our ministry.

  585. I see a youth group that has top to bottom all the students

  586. bringing the gospel into their schools.

  587. Julian is a shining example of this.

  588. I give him connection cards and bring invitations.

  589. We call them. He goes through stacks upon

  590. stacks week in and week out. He's passing them out at his

  591. work. He's passing them out at school.

  592. He's telling everybody he can about the good news that has

  593. been given to him. I see every single one of our

  594. students being like Julian in that way.

  595. I see, I see a youth group that has tools and even more

  596. opportunities with at their fingertips to grow and knowing

  597. God deeper man. Maybe this looks like a Bible

  598. study that we start outside of the group.

  599. Maybe this looks like classes that we host.

  600. Maybe it looks like just outside of the group entirely and it's

  601. the students forming their own cohorts and going through Bible

  602. studies together. I see a youth group that is

  603. radically Invitational, evangelistic, and lives out

  604. every single day. The mission of real life youth

  605. in order for students that are far from God to discover their

  606. real life purpose in Jesus living out Matthew 28 every

  607. single day. Man, I am so glad that we have

  608. the ministry that we have. I am so proud of all the girls

  609. that are graduating and I thank you guys so much for giving me

  610. the opportunity to talk about our ministry.

  611. If you guys all would go ahead, bow your heads and close your

  612. eyes. Man, this has been such a day.

  613. I cannot help but imagine there are some people in here that

  614. have just been inspired by the morning.

  615. Maybe you've seen all the work that God is doing through the

  616. ministries of real Life youth. Maybe you're being inspired to

  617. get plugged in with how the church is moving and this could

  618. look like a different thing. This could look like a few

  619. different ways for all of you guys.

  620. Maybe this looks like serving. Maybe you're feeling called to

  621. serve in a ministry like the youth group.

  622. Or maybe you're feeling called to serve in the kids team or in

  623. the hospitality team set up, tear down whatever it is.

  624. Maybe you're just feeling called to serve on real life at real

  625. life church may get connected to a leader after this if this is

  626. you or maybe it's generosity that needs to be changed after

  627. hearing this. How many you guys know that this

  628. story that you heard this morning, all these stories that

  629. you heard would not have happened without the faithful

  630. giving of all of you guys? Man, maybe it's prayer that you

  631. need to give. Maybe you just need to pray for

  632. our students. Maybe you need to pray for us

  633. leaders so that we disciple the students biblically and well and

  634. with passion and with reverence. Or, man, maybe you're up here

  635. and don't miss this. One of the biggest takeaways you

  636. should have tonight or this morning is that the parents of

  637. these graduates are worthy of emulation.

  638. Maybe you see what Josh and Kerry have done, or what Janelle

  639. has done, or what Scott and Katrina have done and you feel a

  640. call to disciple your kids. Even better, maybe it's getting

  641. the Bible, reading the Bible with your kids regularly.

  642. Maybe it's making sure your kids come to church regularly,

  643. getting them plugged into youth group, getting them plugged in

  644. to the kids ministry. That whatever it is, maybe

  645. you're feeling a push to get more plugged into the church.

  646. So if any of these things spoke to you after this morning, would

  647. you raise your hand if you're feeling spoke?

  648. Maybe I need to be serving, or maybe I need to be discipleling

  649. my kids better, or maybe I just need to be praying for the youth

  650. group. And if that's you, would you

  651. raise your hand? I see your hand.

  652. I see your hand, and that's you. Pray this prayer after me.

  653. Hey, God, you're good. I pray for boldness in plugging

  654. into my church. My church is moving and taking

  655. ground for Christ, and I want to be a part of that.

  656. I pray. I pray for wisdom and serving.

  657. I pray for wisdom and leading my kids.

  658. I pray that I will be faithful in praying on behalf of all the

  659. students. And keep your head bowed.

  660. Keep your eyes closed because maybe there's a second group in

  661. here today, and maybe you're in here today and you don't know

  662. Jesus. Maybe you're relating to one of

  663. our stories in that way, and you're just hearing the stories

  664. of how the ministry of real life has been working and how God is

  665. working and there's just a story that has touched you.

  666. Maybe, maybe one of these stories are making you want to

  667. start a relationship with God. But if that's you, can I tell

  668. you that God created this world good and unstained, but our sins

  669. and rebellion against God separate us from perfect

  670. communion with Him. And these sins, they can't be

  671. paid by good deeds. They can't be paid by anything

  672. that we do, but they have been paid by Jesus on the cross and

  673. to secure eternal life with God, to secure what we have been

  674. created for, The only thing that you need to do is confess with

  675. your mouth and believe in your heart that Christ is Lord and

  676. you will be given the eternal life that starts now and lasts

  677. forever. So if you're in here and just

  678. something is stirring in you after listening to these

  679. stories, would you raise your hand?

  680. If you're in here and you want to start a relationship with

  681. God, would you raise your hand? Man, if that's you, you're in

  682. here. Just pray this prayer after me.

  683. Thank God you are so good. I'm a Sinner in need of a Savior

  684. and I accept and I recognize that Jesus died on the cross for

  685. my sin. I thank you for your Son and I

  686. will live out every single one of my days in complete

  687. dedication to you. Hey man, give it up for anybody

  688. that made that decision. Thank you guys so much for

  689. coming out to supporting our graduate.

  690. I appreciate your guys's energy in celebrating them and I

  691. appreciate you guys letting me tell you about real life youth.

  692. Thank you guys so much. Logan is a ball of fire.

  693. Amen man, we're blessed by Logan.

  694. You met for Logan, you know, it's so interesting when you

  695. when you leave these, you know, you have honor or glory,

  696. everybody and Logan, you know, nobody says, hey, you're great

  697. and he's fantastic. Just a passionate man for God.

  698. And it's been amazing to watch the transformation, the youth

  699. group, and it's hard for people and I'll encourage you guys.

  700. The goal really is to reach the youngest duration possible when

  701. it comes to following Jesus. And I was thinking about why is

  702. that so significant? It's because we have an enemy

  703. that his goal is to reach the youngest generation possible.

  704. And so much of A youth and teens and young people, there are so

  705. many distractions and there's so many things in the way and

  706. there's so many counterfeits and there's so much delusion and

  707. deception. It is so important to have a

  708. life giving like kids program, but also youth Group A Ben and

  709. not about you, but I'm a product of a youth ministry.

  710. I I came to Christ because there was passionate men and women

  711. that love Jesus that would give up all the things that could be

  712. doing in their 20s and 30s and 40s to show up to invest in

  713. young people, Amen. And we have an amazing team and

  714. amazing people love Jesus. And I just want to encourage

  715. you. The youth group has been

  716. growing. There's been amazing things

  717. happening, people coming to Christ.

  718. They've been packing out all the seats in the building,

  719. apparently buy more chairs, Amen.

  720. It's a thing. It's a great problem to have.

  721. But with that, we need life giving people to serve our young

  722. people, Amen. And there there's somebody took

  723. a chance on me and I, I started thinking, where would these

  724. young people be if it wasn't for a life giving youth group or men

  725. and women that will not pour into them.

  726. And I don't know about my wife's going to share her story a

  727. little bit, but we, we both came to Christ because a friend in

  728. high school invited us to a youth group that changed our

  729. life. And it's a mission field and a

  730. right mission field, but it's, it's dangerous to that age,

  731. right? Because there's so many hooks

  732. and so many lures that Satan puts out.

  733. And it's so important to shine a light as bright as possible in

  734. the next generation because ultimately a lot of people give

  735. up their 20s to follow Satan. I was going to encourage you

  736. guys. We have an amazing group out

  737. there that serves every Wednesday.

  738. I'm very blessed by them. I trust them.

  739. They love our teens, they love Jesus.

  740. They're doing a fantastic job. Amen.

  741. I mean, you keep pushing into the light and I think about our

  742. church. It's important that we're

  743. passionate about a harvest. They'll take bold steps to see

  744. the next generation to reach for Christ.

  745. And I was thinking about our held some 8 project we're

  746. stepping into and I started dreaming.

  747. I was out of the parking lot last night and I was like, you

  748. know, maybe do this here and do this here and blah, blah, blah.

  749. But start thinking maybe so amazing to pack this place out

  750. for young people for Jesus, Amen.

  751. Would be pretty crazy. Instead of going to a movie and

  752. just, you know, being entertained, showing up and

  753. hearing the gospel, let the light of Christ change your life

  754. to about Brooklyn coming to Christ and you don't know where

  755. God's going to go with that. Like my journey would not be

  756. here if it wasn't for other people.

  757. I've stood on their shoulders, Amen.

  758. And that's what we get to play a part of the story.

  759. So I would encourage you guys when you give here and when you

  760. serve here, this is all fruit to your account, Amen.

  761. It takes a whole team. It takes a lot of energy, a lot

  762. of effort. It takes revenue.

  763. We're still praying for a way to camp, Amen.

  764. We don't have a bus right now. Like it just takes a lot to

  765. reach. The young people I know

  766. mentioned camp. Some of you are like, man, this

  767. is the place that God changed my life was at camp.

  768. Some of you guys talked about the next generation.

  769. You felt welcomed. I thought that was pretty cool.

  770. Logan talked about being welcoming and you mentioned

  771. being welcomed ever being out there talking to you about how

  772. you felt. So just, it's so important

  773. people show up to church that they know they're loved, Amen.

  774. Of any place in the world that you could walk into, whatever

  775. situation you come out of, most people think the building's

  776. gonna catch on fire and burn down, Amen.

  777. I was every every week, somebody tells me it hasn't crashed yet,

  778. it hasn't come on fire. It's like it's not going to

  779. catch on fire, Amen. You might catch on fire for

  780. Jesus, but the building's gonna burn down because God's been

  781. calling you here. So man, it's exciting.

  782. I would encourage you guys, be faithful in your generosity,

  783. faithful in your giving. It's a fun season.

  784. I'm not going to say it's without a stress, Amen.

  785. But man out last night I kept waking up over and over and over

  786. again so excited what God is going to do in this next season

  787. of our church. I mean every every like every

  788. hour kept waking up start think about that building going man,

  789. what could God do in this space and how we're going to do this

  790. and just so exciting. Amen.

  791. So encourage you guys to play part of the story.

  792. You guys know how we give here. You can give the buckets will

  793. come up. So you guys can come up right

  794. now and we'll pass buckets, but we give it online.

  795. And more than that, just be praying.

  796. How, how Lord, how can you use me to make a difference here?

  797. It's God multiplies the money, but it's really after your

  798. heart. And there's so much work to be

  799. done for the Kingdom. There's so many lost souls and

  800. there's other teams that we need to find and reach for Jesus.

  801. And so Lord, we thank you so much for what you're doing.

  802. Thanks for Logan, thanks for the team, thanks for your heart to

  803. die for us, God to love us. Pray that we can just express

  804. that we can serve others. God is behind the scenes of so

  805. many faithful ways. God, we just make your name and

  806. your noun and your glory go out to lost and dying world and

  807. praise in Jesus name. The church said Amen.

  808. I'm gonna buy my wife dying up to the stage coming up here.

  809. Babe, leave us out here today. All right, last thing, this is

  810. your reminder 7 days in advance that next Sunday is Mother's

  811. Day. And like we love to do it real

  812. life. We're going to pull out all the

  813. stops, bouquet bars, so many things to make our ladies feel

  814. super special next week. So you're not going to want to

  815. miss it. I know we've said before, but

  816. this is one of those Sundays where maybe God's put someone on

  817. your heart that's far from him but close to you.

  818. And this might be an opportunity to say, you know what?

  819. That neighbor I've been praying for, that Co worker who's been

  820. telling me about the tough time they're going through, this is

  821. the moment to invite them out. And Sean, sure, just a little

  822. bit. But my story is that way.

  823. One time when I was a high schooler, someone took a chance

  824. on me and invited me out to church, and I got to hear about

  825. the love and the goodness of God.

  826. And God is so good in the way that he works that we think that

  827. this big, beautiful production is what draws people in.

  828. But it's the faithfulness of a person reaching another person.

  829. And he multiplies that in such a beautiful way to see his Kingdom

  830. spread all across the world. And so it's easy to think, man,

  831. they're up on stage, they have a microphone.

  832. But he's called every single one of us to be that person to the

  833. people that are in our circle, people in your circle that

  834. Pastor Sean is never going to see.

  835. He's never going to meet, he's never going to reach.

  836. But God has called you to invite them.

  837. And so next Sunday is going to be super special.

  838. I do hope that you'll come out and I hope you'll bring somebody

  839. to sit with you. It's going to be at 9:00 and

  840. 10:45, just like our normal times.

  841. And so we can't wait to see you then.

  842. And if you need prayer for anything today, we're going to

  843. have somebody up here who can pray for you and pray with you

  844. and connect you with a pastor if needed.

  845. And right before you go, it's very important that you know, if

  846. you haven't had breakfast yet, please go and grab a graduation

  847. cupcake. We've got them out there to

  848. celebrate our graduates, but really to celebrate with all of

  849. you. So grab a cupcake.

  850. And as you go, remember that whoever finds Jesus discovers

  851. real life and purpose.