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What's A Mother Supposed To Do!!

Hopewell Church Of God

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  1. Hey man, what, there's a, I put my finger on

  2. it this morning, but there's a sweet presence

  3. of the Lord in the house today. Hey man, I just

  4. feel the Lord near us today. Hey man, could you

  5. just take a moment and just, in your own way,

  6. lift a hand, close your eyes, however, just honor

  7. the Lord. Recognize Him in His house today, would

  8. you? Just take a minute in your own way. You

  9. know what he means to you. And you just recognize

  10. him. Lord, I recognize your presence in this

  11. house today. Such a sweet, sweet presence here

  12. today, Lord. Your anointing is in this house.

  13. We love you and we thank you today, Lord, so,

  14. so much for your goodness. So much for your nearness

  15. today. Hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah. As

  16. it is my custom, I've made it so over the years.

  17. In pastoring, you realize some days are lighter,

  18. some days are heavier, some days are hard, some

  19. days are easy for people to be at church and

  20. in church. And for several today, I'm sure today...

  21. is a hard and difficult day for you. So first

  22. of all, let me just honor you by getting up,

  23. getting ready, getting out, and getting to the

  24. house of the Lord today. I know it took great

  25. effort. It took some resolve and strength for

  26. you to do that simply because of what today is.

  27. And so I thank you for being in the house of

  28. the Lord here on Mother's Day. And with that,

  29. I want to honor you if your mother has already

  30. deceased and already gone on, no longer with

  31. you. I want to honor you today. We want to show

  32. you how much we respect you and know that each

  33. of us will stand in that place one day. If the

  34. Lord tarries at some point, we will all... be

  35. feeling the emotions that you're battling today.

  36. But I want to honor you as you're here this morning.

  37. And yesterday I read something that just really

  38. struck my heart, so I sent the word out. And

  39. you'll notice these white roses. A white rose

  40. is for each of you if your mother is deceased.

  41. When you leave today, just make your way forward

  42. and take one of these with you. That's one way

  43. we want to honor you. But also you'll see a candle.

  44. That's the front. No, it's a candle of honor.

  45. I want a light today, this white candle. I read

  46. something yesterday that stirred my heart. And

  47. in doing so, I began to think about the light

  48. of motherhood. And whether they're present or

  49. not, the light still burns. It still burns. It

  50. doesn't go out. And so for you today, I just

  51. want to let that light represent. We're going

  52. to light. Sister Erica, if you don't mind, light

  53. this candle. And as she gets this lit. What I

  54. want you to do is if your mother is deceased,

  55. I want you to stand and let us honor you with

  56. a moment of silence. If you don't feel comfortable

  57. standing, you just remain seated. And we're going

  58. to honor you with a moment of silence in this

  59. house today. And we're going to pray the Lord

  60. touch you and bless you and comfort you today,

  61. of all days today. So if you would, if you...

  62. I don't mind if your mother's deceased. Would

  63. you stand and let us honor you today? Thank you

  64. so much. I know it's hard. I know it's hard.

  65. Let's bow our heads together this morning in

  66. this moment of silence. And while you silently

  67. wait a moment, whisper a prayer. Father God,

  68. for each one who's feeling this absence in their

  69. heart today, I pray your comfort, your peace

  70. that passes all understanding overwhelm them

  71. this morning. And Lord, as this candle of representation

  72. of the light that's standing all across this

  73. room, the light of motherhood, Lord, we know

  74. that you are the light of the world and we are

  75. in this world because of your abundant grace.

  76. Lord, we've all been brought into this world

  77. through labor and pain and sorrow. So let this

  78. light burn ever so brightly as we honor those

  79. here today pushing their way through this day.

  80. I pray your grace and your peace and let joy

  81. find its way to their heart today as they remember

  82. a flicker of the light of their mother. In Christ's

  83. name, in the church's name. Amen. You can be

  84. seated. I originally had planned to go ahead

  85. and do the drawing for those baskets, the flowers,

  86. but we'll do that right before we dismiss this

  87. morning. I just kind of feel like we need to

  88. move on ahead and do what little I'm going to

  89. do today. I don't want to keep you long. I really

  90. mean that sincerely this morning. So if you'll

  91. pray for me, we'll be expedient today. But I

  92. do feel like the Lord has given me something

  93. to share with you. Amen? Proverbs chapter 1.

    Proverbs 1 chapter mention

  94. The book of wisdom, if you would. Instruction

  95. for daily living. Verse 8 reads, My son, hear

  96. the instruction of thy father and forsake not

  97. the law of thy mother. For they shall be an ornament

  98. of grace under thy head and chains about thy

  99. neck. I want to preach to you on a thought. What's

  100. a mother supposed to do? What's a mother supposed

  101. to do? Father, I love you and thank you for your

  102. abundant grace as we approach your throne one

  103. more time. Lord, help me this morning be expedient,

  104. Lord. Speak what would glorify you and lift up

  105. the assembly today to encourage. Lord, I'll praise

  106. you for it in Christ's name. Amen and amen. The

  107. psalmist said in 30 and verse 5, The last portion

  108. of that verse, he says, weeping may endure for

  109. a night, but joy comes in the morning. There

  110. was a mother putting her little four -year -old

  111. son to bed the night before his birthday. And

  112. she asked him how old he would be when he woke

  113. up in the morning. And he said, a handful. When

  114. I read that, I thought, hmm. A handful. Some

  115. of you may be in here. We're mainly directing

  116. this toward mothers and to be mothers and the

  117. role of motherhood and womanhood this morning,

  118. but it'll apply to all of us because sometimes

  119. life does feel like it's a handful, whether you're

  120. a mother or a father or just getting out of the

  121. bed. Sometimes life feels like it's a handful.

  122. And when life becomes a handful, sometimes you

  123. wonder, now what am I supposed to do? What am

  124. I going to do now? What's next? I can only imagine

  125. the nights that Sister Kathy put our three to

  126. bed when they'd finally wind down. And I'm so

  127. thankful today that my entire posterity is in

  128. the house this morning. All, yeah. Got the whole

  129. bunch here today. So I've often wondered, especially

  130. dealing with what she had to deal with, ADHD,

  131. wide open, smart mouth teenage daughters, and

  132. on and on it goes. And so I've thought many times,

  133. she's had to have thought that because I wasn't

  134. necessarily the same temperament I am now then.

  135. I have learned to be very domestic. It took her

  136. years to train me. I'm not the most domestic

  137. type, you know what I'm saying? So I've wondered

  138. at times what goes through a mother's mind when

  139. it's been a long, hard day. Maybe a public job,

  140. maybe a career and child raising and husband

  141. rearing and housekeeping and all of that, right?

  142. Have you ever thought to yourself, now what am

  143. I supposed to do? Life can seem very overwhelming.

  144. It can catch up to you very quickly. A mother

  145. who had a dozen children was asked one time,

  146. did she have a favorite? Which one did she love

  147. the most? And her answer was, the one that is

  148. sick until it gets well. And the one that is

  149. gone until they're back home. That's the one

  150. she loves the most. Amen. You can't divvy up

  151. a mother's love. Now a father's love, ours is

  152. a little different. We pick favorites. I knew

  153. that was coming. I knew that was coming. We have

  154. favorites. Normally it's the one that tends to

  155. be the most like us. It was true in our home.

  156. A father only becomes concerned when a child

  157. breaks a bone or is really bleeding bad. But

  158. a mother's heart is injured when the knee is

  159. skint or over the tiniest of boo -boos. So when

  160. life is all in an uproar, when we're upside down,

  161. not really knowing what to do, when the weeping

  162. has endured through the night, and we're waiting

  163. and longing for the dawning, for the joy to come

  164. in the morning, what are you supposed to do?

  165. There are many, many examples throughout Scripture

  166. that give us great insight from the sense of

  167. motherhood and... just from the heart of womanhood

  168. on how we are to react and respond, from various

  169. encounters throughout Scripture that God has

  170. shown up and proven himself mighty and strong.

  171. There's every example possible, every example

  172. possible, from fostering children to being step

  173. -parents, even to the point where you think of

  174. one who maybe have... Maybe you're here, you've

  175. been adopted. Maybe you don't know and have never

  176. discovered and never found out, but the wondering

  177. is always there who your biological parents were

  178. and what they were and how they are. You begin

  179. to think sometimes, how could this happen? How

  180. could this be? Do you know that there's actually

  181. a woman in the Bible who actually gave up a child?

  182. Her name is Yoshabed, and her son's name was

  183. Moses. She actually gave him up. She wove a basket,

  184. put him in a basket, and set him out on the Nile

  185. River. It wasn't from not loving that child,

  186. but it was from loving him. Now, there's so many

  187. different degrees of love that I know it baffles

  188. our mind. And I know we've all seen the portrayals,

  189. and we've seen... every kind of movie that could

  190. be written about all kinds of things and how

  191. it works out in the long run, the whys, the ifs,

  192. and the shouldas. But the Bible is very clear

  193. on all these aspects of motherhood. You think

  194. about Yoshabed who sent him out and sent him

  195. away, but then you think about the foster mother

  196. who picked him up and how all of it seemingly,

  197. not seemingly, it was in the plan of God. and

  198. in the will of God. God moves in the mightiest

  199. of ways. And when you're scratching your head,

  200. when you finally got them laid down, Gerald used

  201. to not go to sleep in the bed. He would actually,

  202. like the energized bunny, it was wherever he

  203. unwound, you picked him up and put him in the

  204. bed. Wouldn't go around a couch, he'd go over

  205. a couch. And you wonder, what am I supposed to

  206. do now when there's a little bit of peace and

  207. quiet? What do I do when situations arise and

  208. things change and culture has its way and we're

  209. left with the aftermath of life? What do we do

  210. while we are dealing with life? The Scripture,

  211. again, I say, gives all manner of example. There's

  212. even examples of single mothers in the Scripture,

  213. widowed mothers. Raising children. One of those

  214. is found in 2 Kings 4. There's this widow who

  215. comes to the prophet. She's in a dilemma there.

  216. The creditors are about to come and take her

  217. sons and put them to work in order to pay off

  218. the debt that she owed. And when you don't know

  219. what to do and when you're thinking, what am

  220. I supposed to do now? She winds up. At the feet

  221. of the prophet. She winds herself down to the

  222. place where the voice and the word of God is

  223. to be heard. It's God's representation. The man

  224. that God is touching to speak through. She makes

  225. her way to the prophet. She puts her case before

  226. him. And then he asks her this question. What

  227. is it that you have in your house? And I love

  228. this widow woman's answer. She said nothing.

  229. First of all, she said, there's nothing in the

  230. house, but there's bound to be something. Don't

  231. overlook. Never despise small things because

  232. God is great, and things become great when God

  233. gets in it. There's nothing there, and it's like

  234. it's an afterthought. She thought, well, there

  235. is a little cruise of oil in there. I do have

  236. a little oil left over. And then God begins to

  237. get into the situation. Well, here's what you're

  238. supposed to do. You're supposed to go home, and

  239. you're supposed to borrow every pot. in the community

  240. that anybody will lend you. If it'll hold liquid,

  241. I want you to get it. I want you to get in the

  242. house with it, and I want you to close the door,

  243. and then I want you to begin to pour and pour

  244. and pour, and you pour till you run out of pots

  245. because here's the guarantee, little is much

  246. when God is in it and when God begin to anoint

  247. the pouring up because it was a faith initiative.

  248. Listen, when you don't know what else to do,

  249. believe God. When you don't know what else to

  250. do, else to do? Obey God. And she got that answer.

  251. I want you to get in the house. It's never nothing.

  252. You've always got something. Hallelujah. It may

  253. seem insignificant. And what are you supposed

  254. to do? You're supposed to respond and react by

  255. faith whenever you hear a word from the Lord.

  256. Take it. Get in the house. Borrow everything

  257. you can borrow and begin to pour. And when you're

  258. done pouring, sell everything that you need to

  259. sell and live off the profit. Live off the rest.

  260. Why? Because God will not forsake you. Listen,

  261. they say, you may be a single mom in the house

  262. today, but if you're going to trust God, you're

  263. going to obey God. It may be nothing to you,

  264. but little is much when God is in it. And when

  265. God takes over, he'll multiply whatever you need,

  266. and the smallest amount will go the furthest,

  267. and it'll blow your mind. When you're looking

  268. at the checkbook, and you're looking at the balance,

  269. or you're looking at your phone balance, and

  270. you don't know what you're going to do now, I'll

  271. tell you what to do. You just keep on trusting

  272. God. They endure for the night. Nowhere does

  273. it ever say you won't weep. Nowhere does the

  274. Bible ever say you won't have trouble. Nowhere

  275. does it ever tell you that when you ask God into

  276. your life and accept Christ to be your Lord and

  277. Savior, you're never going to have another problem.

  278. Matter of fact, the guarantee is just the opposite.

  279. Amen. Because in this life you shall have trouble

  280. and you shall have tribulation. But you've got

  281. something because the Lord said be of good cheer.

  282. Amen. Because he has overcome. the world. Amen.

  283. Even though trouble and trial come your way,

  284. even though weeping does endure through the night,

  285. joy is coming. It'll sunshine one day. When you

  286. wake up and it's raining, just keep on trusting

  287. God. The sun is going to shine. Why? Because

  288. it's a promise from God. Amen. Weeping may endure

  289. through the night, but joy cometh in the morning.

  290. And if you'll read earlier, it talks about the

  291. favor of God and being over the life and the

  292. blessed life. What are you supposed to do? You

  293. keep on trusting God. When you don't see any

  294. other way, you just keep trusting God and letting

  295. God have his way in your life. Little is much

  296. when God is in it. I think Abraham Lincoln said

  297. it well. He said, no one who's poor, no one is

  298. poor who has a godly mother. No one is poor who

  299. has a godly mother. That's a pretty good quote

  300. if I've ever heard one. No one is poor who has

  301. a godly mother. Why? The old songwriter said,

  302. rich in faith and hope and love beyond compare,

  303. more than my share. Amen? Because of the love

  304. of God. I believe God actually honors the heart

  305. and the prayers of mamas when he don't listen

  306. to us daddies. Why? Because mama's praying over

  307. the boo -boo. Dad, we don't even intervene until

  308. bones sticking out through skin or stitches are

  309. required. And it really depends on how big and

  310. wide and deep the cut is before we even start

  311. to pray. Well, they'll take care of that. That'd

  312. be all right. That was our motto growing up.

  313. It ain't bleeding that bad. You'll be okay. Go

  314. on. A little as much when God is in it. And the

  315. second thing you might need to understand is

  316. you need to trust God in every situation. You

  317. need to trust God in every situation because

  318. as I've said, Scripture covers almost every situation

  319. of life. For us fathers, Scripture covers it.

  320. Mom, if you need a promise from the Lord, get

  321. in His Word. If you need help from the Lord,

  322. get in His Word because you're not alone. You're

  323. not the only one that's standing where you're

  324. standing today. Somebody else has been there.

  325. Someone else has already endured the endurance

  326. race of what you're having to deal with and what

  327. you're going through, and God has already given

  328. an answer of what you're supposed to do. So you

  329. trust God. If you were to go back and do a little

  330. bit of questioning, Sarah would tell you that

  331. nothing is too hard for the Lord. If you remember

  332. the story of Sarah, she was barren, and that

  333. was a shame of her day and her culture not to

  334. be able to bring four children. into the world,

  335. and it went on, and then all of a sudden, she's

  336. eavesdropping on a conversation, and she hears

  337. her husband receive a word from the Lord, the

  338. promise that she's going to have a child, and

  339. he's going to be a father, and she begins to

  340. snicker and laugh behind the tent door because

  341. she knew her age, and she knew she was past and

  342. beyond. She's not a young girl anymore. Come

  343. on, somebody. She's done past the age of childbearing,

  344. and she actually even laughed more for Abraham.

  345. She did herself. He's old, too. How's this going

  346. to happen? And she kept it going, and she kept

  347. it in her heart. And a few years go by, 10 years

  348. go by, and still nothing. But then we get a reassurance

  349. of the promise. 15 more years goes by, and then

  350. all of a sudden, she's singing lullabies in the

  351. tent one night. Why? Because God is able to take

  352. care of any and every situation in your life.

  353. Nothing is impossible with God. What am I supposed

  354. to do now? This situation's impossible. Pastor,

  355. what am I supposed to do? He won't this or they

  356. can't that. What am I supposed to do? You just

  357. keep on trusting God because nothing is impossible

  358. to those who believe. Why? Because nothing is

  359. too hard for the Lord. And when you begin to

  360. read the Bible, is he still able to do the things

  361. that we read? Those are just fables. Those are

  362. just stories. No, these are eyewitness accounts

  363. to the glory and the power of God. I just wonder,

  364. is anybody in the house? house had an impossible

  365. situation and you prayed and God heard and God

  366. answered. Lift your hand up. It was impossible.

  367. Look around you. It's not impossible because

  368. nothing is too hard. For what am I supposed to

  369. do? You keep on trusting God in the middle of

  370. the impossibilities. Hagar, a woman who was taken,

  371. a woman out of her own will who had no choice,

  372. brings a child into this world. And when it comes

  373. time for the child to be blessed, she gets driven

  374. out of something that was not even her choice,

  375. a situation she didn't even require or request

  376. in her life. And now her and her son is driven

  377. out and put in the wilderness, and he's about

  378. to die from heat stroke and thirst and starvation,

  379. and she cannot bear watching her own child die.

  380. She puts him under a shade, and she walks a distance

  381. away, and she begins to cry. And talk to the

  382. Lord. And the Lord heard her. Oh, it's there

  383. where we see the name Jehovah -Rohi, which means

  384. God sees. What am I supposed to do now? You may

  385. be crying off somewhere over something you can't

  386. do anything about, a situation that you did not

  387. elicit in your life. It come on you. Oh, not

  388. because you requested it, because the world and

  389. the enemy of your soul has saw fit to come against

  390. you. But know this, God sees you. He's watching

  391. after you. He sees your tears, and he spoke in

  392. her situation, and not only did he speak, but

  393. he made her a promise, my God, concerning her

  394. son. What am I supposed to do? Sometimes all

  395. you can do is cry, but God sees every tear, mama.

  396. God sees every tear. Nothing will drive you to

  397. deeper tears and greater depths of sorrow and

  398. sobbing. Than your children. I just pray I hadn't

  399. caused mine too much pain and grief. Hopefully

  400. there's been some joyful moments. Amen. I still

  401. think she loved me more than she did the other

  402. three. The reason I think that is because she

  403. punished me more. You know, the father loveth

  404. the son that he chasteneth. Mama really loved

  405. me. She did. I just hope I didn't cause her too

  406. much sorrow in my earlier years. I think I've

  407. made up for that in the last 30, hopefully. You

  408. just got to keep on trusting God. You know what

  409. Rahab would tell you? You know Rahab the harlot,

  410. right? The harlot who spared and hid the 12 spies

  411. of the Israelites when they went in to spy out

  412. the land. They're in Jericho. She hides them.

  413. Here's what Rahab would tell you to do. Your

  414. past doesn't define your future. God will still

  415. use you. Let me tell you, you cannot allow the

  416. enemy to define your present by your past. God

  417. knows what you were. He's the one that come after

  418. you and found you. And he know exactly where

  419. you were at. Rahab, the harlot who hid the spies,

  420. do you realize she is in the lineage of the Son

  421. of God? Do you realize you can trace? Why? Because

  422. God will still use you. God will use you. He'll

  423. save you. He'll pick you up. So, therefore, do

  424. not allow your past to dominate your present.

  425. God knows what you were when he found you and

  426. the reason that you come to him. What do I do

  427. now? You don't go back the way that he brought

  428. you from. You keep walking away from it in the

  429. fullness of hope. You lift up your head in the

  430. respect that God has given you because of his

  431. grace that is abundant. in and over your life.

  432. That's what you're supposed to do. Keep on going.

  433. You remember Hannah, the story of Hannah. Hannah

  434. would tell you God still answers prayer. What

  435. are you supposed to do? Keep on praying. Keep

  436. on praying. Our invitation is to pray and to

  437. cease not. I've had people ask the question,

  438. well, what do you do when you pray for people

  439. and they don't get healed or this don't happen?

  440. I said, well, the healing part's not my responsibility.

  441. That one's not on me. Mine is to pray. Mine,

  442. your responsibility is to keep on praying. Amen?

  443. I've said it this way, and I'll say it this way

  444. again. If you don't have anything else to pray

  445. for, pray for me. I need the prayer, and you

  446. need the practice. So just keep on practicing

  447. prayer. Hannah would tell you, God answers prayer.

  448. No matter what others see, no matter what their

  449. perspective of your situation is, that does not

  450. matter. It matters what God sees and what God

  451. does. He will still, Ruth. She'd tell you it's

  452. not over until God says it's over. What am I

  453. supposed to do? You just keep going. Keep on

  454. going. What am I supposed to do? She receives

  455. the release from her mother -in -law. You can

  456. go back home. You're released. You are a widow.

  457. I'm so old now. You'd be my age by the time I

  458. got a son old enough for you. Mary, so you just

  459. go on home. But Ruth would tell you this, make

  460. your stance with God. She said, no, can't do

  461. that, Naomi. I'm going where you're going. Your

  462. home's going to be my home. And let me just go

  463. one step further. Your God is going to be my

  464. God. And where they bury you, that's where they're

  465. going to bury me. I'm putting my hope and my

  466. confidence and my trust in God. What are you

  467. supposed to do when you don't know what to do?

  468. You put your trust in God because God, believe

  469. it or not, is still in control. Esther, if she

  470. had any advice, wouldn't ask what were you supposed

  471. to do. She'd say, keep trusting God. He'll show

  472. up right on time. He won't be late. I'm glad

  473. he doesn't tell time the way I tell time. He's

  474. on time. In our culture, early is on time, on

  475. time is late. But God is just on time. He shows

  476. up when you need him. And if anybody knew it.

  477. Esther would have that testimony. God showed

  478. up right on time. That woman in Matthew with

  479. the issue of blood, she would tell you, if you

  480. don't know what else to do, if you're broke,

  481. you're busted, you spent everything you had to

  482. try to get better, do better, and be better,

  483. and it's still worse. She'd tell you, if you'll

  484. show up, you'll show out. What are you supposed

  485. to do? Keep showing up. Showing up where? Showing

  486. up at prayer time. Showing up at worship time.

  487. Showing up at church time. Showing up where you're

  488. going to meet and encounter God. Keep showing

  489. up. That's what you do. I've spent all. She had

  490. nothing left. Not a thing, not a cent to her

  491. name, but she said, if I can just touch the hem

  492. of his garment, if I can just touch him, if I

  493. can just get close enough. I know I'll be made

  494. whole. I know it. You need to get that resolve

  495. in your heart today. What do you do? You keep

  496. showing up. Because I assure you, if you show

  497. up, he'll show out. It'll be miraculous, and

  498. you won't even realize the miracle has taken

  499. place until you look back and say, huh, I don't

  500. know how I made it. You made it because the hand

  501. of God is on your life, over your life, in your

  502. life. Aren't you glad that the hand of God removes

  503. you from your past and he puts you in a present

  504. and he provides you with a future hope that goes

  505. beyond your own imagination? God never fails.

  506. He'll never forsake you. He'll never leave you.

  507. He'll never let you down. Well, you don't know

  508. where I'm at. What am I supposed to do here?

  509. You just keep. You just keep moving. There's

  510. a story. It's called The Shunammite Woman. The

  511. prophet of God would go by on his way to minister,

  512. and he'd be going by, and they provided a place

  513. for him to stay. They built a little side room

  514. for the man of God. When he'd come through, he

  515. could stay. You do remember it. He walked most

  516. everywhere he went. So they fixed up a room for

  517. the man of God to come by, and when he was there

  518. to stay, when he's going back and forth to worship

  519. or whatever the business of the prophet was,

  520. the prophet noticed there was something missing.

  521. It's a wonderful encounter. It tells you how

  522. the heart, It tells you how deeply the heart

  523. can feel. This woman acknowledged the power of

  524. God on this man's life. And one day he approaches

  525. her about what was absent. He noticed he didn't

  526. trip over toys. There was no crying and screaming

  527. and squealing and laughter going on. She didn't

  528. have any children. So he approaches her and begins

  529. to give her a word. Begin to speak a promise

  530. over her. I'm going to just show you the depth

  531. of a mother's heart right here. And that exchange

  532. between this barren woman and the prophet. I'm

  533. going to paraphrase it for you. Be like me and

  534. you having a conversation. When he said that

  535. to her, she said, preacher, don't you be messing

  536. with me. Don't mess with my mind. Preacher, don't

  537. mess with my heart. That's not funny. That's

  538. not a subject that I care to. Joke about. Hello?

  539. It's very serious to me because no one knows

  540. how desperately. So don't you mess with me. Wow.

  541. A prophet of God. Whom the power of God had used

  542. to perform miracles. Signs and wonders. And she

  543. says to him, don't mess with me. Don't play with

  544. my heart. Don't play with my emotions. But he

  545. reaffirmed her. When the time is fulfilled, when

  546. it all comes, the cycle of life comes around,

  547. you'll have a child. Sure enough, he comes back

  548. through. She's got the son that he promised.

  549. Just to prove to you that bad things happen to

  550. good people. And even though God's in something.

  551. Are you with me now? I'm about finished. I'm

  552. going to quit with this. He's out in the field

  553. working with his father. Huh? Ain't that what

  554. we do? We'll either send them, and if they can't

  555. walk, we'll carry them. Go see your mother. That's

  556. what we do. So he picks the boy up, takes him

  557. to his mama. Mama don't know what to do. She

  558. lays him on the anointed bed. There's something

  559. about putting your youngins on the anointing.

  560. But things got worse. And he stops breathing.

  561. What are you supposed to do when you don't know

  562. what to do? Keep on trusting? Do we trust now?

  563. Well, she'd already said, don't mess with me,

  564. man of God. Don't fool, don't, it's my heart.

  565. She says, honey, get the donkey ready. Get me

  566. one of the young men. I'm going to find that

  567. preacher. He says, well, honey. It's not the

  568. Sabbath. It's not the new moon. Where are you

  569. going to find him? He don't have a cell. You

  570. can't text him on the backside of the desert.

  571. I'll find him, and I'm coming back. He coming

  572. with me. Those of you who know the story, you

  573. know she finally gets near him. Not even there

  574. yet. The servant of the prophet said, hey, that

  575. looks like that. That looks like that Shunammite

  576. woman coming over the hill. That's who it was.

  577. And before she gets there, the greeting goes

  578. out. Is it well with thine husband? The only

  579. reason you run in the preacher downs, you got

  580. problems. Is it well with thine husband? It is

  581. well. I can't hardly talk about this story. That

  582. tears me up. Is it well with thee? It is well.

  583. Is it well with thy son? Listen to the change.

  584. It shall be well. When I get there, it shall

  585. be well. No concession there. No give up. It's

  586. going to be all right. Oh, I need to tell somebody,

  587. it's going to be all right. What do you do when

  588. you don't know what to do? What are you supposed

  589. to do? You keep confessing your faith. You keep

  590. standing firmly on the promise of God. It shall

  591. be well. Why? Because it's not on you. What am

  592. I supposed to do? Stand with me. I quit. What

  593. are you supposed to do? Lord, I love you today.

  594. When we don't know what to do. When we don't

  595. know what to do. There are those in this room

  596. that do not know what to do. What are they supposed

  597. to do with what they're looking at? What are

  598. they supposed to do when the children act like

  599. heathens? What are they supposed to do? What

  600. are we supposed to do, God, when they won't do

  601. what we've taught them to do? What are we supposed

  602. to do when we've raised them according to your

  603. word in the way that they should go? I know the

  604. way's there, but they're not in it. What are

  605. we supposed to do? We keep trusting. You keep

  606. praying. That's what you do. Because it's not

  607. on you. When you're exhausted, physically, emotionally,

  608. spiritually, financially, in any way, emotionally.

  609. Some of you are just here by the grace of God

  610. because you don't know what you're supposed to

  611. do. If your trust is in God, let God take control.

  612. Join that Shunammite woman and say, it shall

  613. be well. It shall be well. The end of that story

  614. is powerful. The prophet goes with her, finds

  615. the boy on his bed, shuts the door, stretches

  616. out on him, breathes life into him, and brings

  617. the boy and hands him to his mama. Look here,

  618. there's some things that you can't control, mama.

  619. Dad, there's some things we can't control. You

  620. can't control the decisions they make when they

  621. become accountable for themselves. Oh, I know

  622. we'd like to just take a stick and make it right.

  623. But no, they are now accountable before a holy

  624. and righteous God by whom they will stand in

  625. front. So what am I supposed to do, preacher?

  626. You keep on praying. You keep speaking your faith

  627. over the promise. It shall be well. We've covered

  628. about every aspect of motherhood in whichever

  629. role that you may be playing. There's more to

  630. motherhood than giving birth. Father, I love

  631. you over this house, I pray. No greater joy for

  632. a mother today than a lost child. One in sin

  633. to give their heart back to the Lord today. If

  634. you're here and you aren't serving Jesus as Lord,

  635. you're just doing whatever. The Lord knows and

  636. the Lord sees everything. Oh, it may be a secret

  637. to others, but it's not a secret to the Lord.

  638. He sees. Remember, Hagar, Jehovah -Rohi, the

  639. God who sees, he sees. If you want to accept

  640. Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior today and

  641. repent of your sin, And believe on him as your

  642. Lord. No greater joy in a mama's heart than that.

  643. Heads bowed all across the house. If anybody

  644. needs the Lord, raise your hand up. I want to

  645. accept Christ today, Pastor. I want to accept

  646. him in my heart and in my life. For every woman

  647. that's... functioning in the role of motherhood,

  648. I want you to just lift your hands up. I'm going

  649. to pray over you today, every single one of you.

  650. Father, we love you today. All across this room,

  651. all across this room today, we pray this morning

  652. for mothers and motherhood. Because I know in

  653. their mind and their heart, they've posed the

  654. question, what am I supposed to do? I don't know

  655. what to do. So I trust in you, Lord. I'm going

  656. to keep praying. I'm going to keep asking God

  657. to move and deliver. I'm going to keep pouring

  658. out. Because it's you, God, that supplies all

  659. of our need. I ask, Lord, that you would encourage

  660. them here today. Give strength, Lord. Give strength

  661. this morning for the weary and for the tired,

  662. for the exhausted and for the frustrated, for

  663. the bewildered. I ask, Lord, that you just touch

  664. and move in hearts and lives. In Jesus' name.

  665. And everybody say it. Amen and amen. Give the

  666. Lord a good hand clap.