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075 The Fundamentals: Love

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  1. Do you know the Bible is God's Holy Word? Do you know it is

  2. inspired, in errant, and infallible? If so, like, share,

  3. subscribe and support this podcast. So we are Maranatha Ministries and now Reduction Draweth

  4. Nigh. Welcome, Ladies and gentlemen, Welcome to the program. We are

  5. your host, Matthew and Mariah. Tonight we're getting back to the fundamentals.

  6. But tonight we are going to go write of conservative because most people won't say

  7. that what we're going to cover tonight is a fundamental of christian But Bobo exactly.

  8. Mariah takes umbrage with that. And not that that's a bad thing,

  9. not that it's a good thing, but once I got to thinking about it,

  10. well, it is absolutely mandatory. It is a fundamental of Christianity,

  11. and that singular thing being love. So Mariah, give your opening comments as

  12. to how this even entered your mind. Well, I just I've always thought

  13. that, you know, before I even started thinking about these fundamentals, I

  14. ever since I had learned about love, and I had learned about the love

  15. of Jesus Christ and what it meant to act like a Christian, I had

  16. been taught that the root of everything is love. If I can't love my

  17. neighbor, how how am I Christian? If I can't love the sinners?

  18. How am I Christian? And so it just astonished me because I was thinking,

  19. well, of course, it's one of the fundamentals. Of course,

  20. it's what it's one of the most important things. I mean, it says

  21. that so many times, just in Matthew. I found so many verses just

  22. inn Matthew about love. Well, yeah, that that is the that is

  23. the medium through which Christians are supposed to operate. I mean, just like

  24. a fish, you know, operates in water. That's what its medium is

  25. water. Our medium is supposed to be loved. There's no doubt about that.

  26. I mean, this is what makes us Christian, it's what separates us.

  27. Yes, it's what defines us. There's no doubt about that. And

  28. you know you can take the ten commandments and culminate them, even as the

  29. Lord Jesus Christ did and said, you know you should love the Lord your

  30. God with all your heart, soul of mind. And then he said the

  31. second is like it, love your neighbor as yourself. Well, right,

  32. this is a this is fundamentally true. If you love someone, you will

  33. not lie to them. If you love someone, you will not steal from

  34. them. So how Jesus put that was absolutely perfect. But let's take a

  35. look at the last verse of First Corinthians chapter thirteen, and this is a

  36. quagmire of theology right here. But now, faith, hope, and love

  37. by these three, but the greatest of these is love. So isn't this

  38. saying that the three primary pillars of Christianity is faith, hope, and love.

  39. Yes, but you never hear anybody say that. I mean, you

  40. know, we started this series off of the book The Fundamentals, right,

  41. I mean, this is this is it's troubling that this verse is stating the

  42. obvious. But yet faith, hope, and love is not found in the

  43. work The Fundamentals. It's not there. There's no essays contained in that work

  44. that describes love being one of the fundamentals of Christianity. And that's kind of

  45. disturbing to me now that I think about it. So there are so many,

  46. oh so many places we can go. But I mean, I mean,

  47. I think it's paramount that we read these thirteen verses because that's what First

  48. Corinthians chapter thirteen is. Yeah, it is the love chapter. You cannot.

  49. There's no consternation on that point. It is the love character. I

  50. had so many notes about that from that chapter. So do you want to

  51. read it or you want me to? Oh, you can read it.

  52. Okay, I'm going to be reading out of a New American Standard Bible,

  53. the nineteen ninety five update, as is the mainstay of this ministry, boys,

  54. has been since it came out, because well, that's just what we

  55. do. First Corinthians, chapter thirteen, Verse one. If I speak with

  56. the tongues of men and of angels, but do not love, I have

  57. become a noisy gong or a clanging symbol. If I have the gift of

  58. prophecy and know all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith

  59. so as to move mountains, but I do not have love, I am

  60. nothing. And if I give all my possessions to feed the poor, and

  61. if I surrender my body to be burned, but do not have love,

  62. it profits me nothing. Love is patient, Love is kind and is not

  63. jealous. Love does not brag, It is not arrogant, does not act

  64. unbecomingly. It does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not

  65. take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices

  66. in the truth, bears all things, believes all things, hope, all

  67. things endures all things. Love never fails. But if there are gifts of

  68. prophecy, they will be done away. If there are tongues, they will

  69. cease. If there is knowledge, it will be done away. For we

  70. know in part, and we prophesy in part. But when the perfect comes,

  71. the partial will be done away. When I was a child, I

  72. used to speak like a child, think like a child, reason like a

  73. child. When I became a man, I did away with childish things.

  74. For now we see in a mere dimly, but then face to face.

  75. Now I know in part, but then I will know fully, just as

  76. I also have been fully known. Now, faith, hope, love abides

  77. these three. But the greatest of these is love. You know that that

  78. leaves you speechless. I mean that it's direct message, just directing to the

  79. point. It's very blunt, and I don't see how you could read these

  80. thirteen verses and come to the conclusion that you could even be a Christian if

  81. it were not for love. No, because that's the point that he's trying

  82. to make. That's the point he's trying to get across. It can't be

  83. Christian if you don't love. There's what's the point? You know, that's

  84. a good question, Mariah. What is the point of being a Christian?

  85. What's the point love? I mean, what is the point of giving your

  86. money to any cause if you don't love? If you were to say,

  87. let's take a very Christian scenario, if you were to go to Africa and

  88. give your money to children who don't have food, but you don't love.

  89. If you sit there and you hate those children, if you unlove those children,

  90. what is the point of your gift? What is what's God gonna think

  91. when he sees you giving a gift not out of love? Oh, I

  92. guess at the end of the day. Well, this chapter brought up that

  93. very thing. I mean, it literally brought up that example of giving everything

  94. that you have in order to feed the poor. It did say that verse

  95. three, And if I give all my possessions to feed the poor, and

  96. if I surrender my body to be burned, but do not have love,

  97. it profits me nothing. So what does that mean? That's a very disturbing

  98. statement. So's that's saying that if I don't love I'm not a Christian.

  99. I'm not going to heaven. Think about this last phrase. It profits me

  100. nothing? I mean, are you what? What a very disturbing conundrum you

  101. have brought up? Mariah. This is disturbing to me because I never thought

  102. about it in dislike. But it's saying that no matter what I do,

  103. no even if I prophecy. It says, even if I know all things

  104. and I do not love, it does not profit me anything. Therefore,

  105. the actions themselves is not going to get me into heaven. I mean,

  106. is that what this is saying. Is it saying that if you don't love,

  107. you will not enter the kingdom of heaven? Because it sounds like to

  108. me that's exactly what it's saying. Without coming out and saying it, let

  109. me ask you something. Can you accept Jesus Christ into your heart? Can

  110. you believe in Jesus Christ and allow him to enter into your heart? If

  111. you do not love, if you don't know how to love, and you

  112. don't love him as your loving Lord and savior, your father, your best

  113. friend, how could you allow him to enter into your heart and be saved.

  114. I'm gonna read this very small part in Acts where what chapter chapter eight.

  115. Okay, no, wow, that lost these Chapter eight, verses thirty

  116. six and thirty seven. Okay, I'll start in thirty five. Then Philip

  117. opened his mouth, and beginning from this scripture, he preached Jesus to him.

  118. And they went along the road and came to some water, and the

  119. eunuch said, look, water, what prevents me from being baptized? And

  120. Philip said, if you believe with all your heart, you may. And

  121. he answered and said, I believe that Jesus Christ is the son of God.

  122. And he ordered the chariot to stop, and they both went down into

  123. the water, Philip as well as the eunuch, and he baptized it.

  124. So it doesn't say anything here about love. So what do you what's your

  125. point here? What is your point in bringing us here? Are you saying

  126. that that we don't know if the eunuch loved or not? No, I'm

  127. saying Philip said, if you believe with all your heart? Can you believe

  128. with all your heart? If you do not have love, what can you

  129. do with your heart? What say that again? What? What what can

  130. you do with your heart? If you can't love, how are you going

  131. to believe with all your heart? If you don't love. So you're saying

  132. that the heart is the wealth spring of emotions. I'm saying that the heart

  133. is the way to God. When I was saved what I believed in Jesus

  134. Christ, I loved, I felt love. I felt it in my heart.

  135. Do you purport a very difficult riddle, Mariah? This is a very

  136. difficult thing you were saying. I mean, you're saying you cannot be saved

  137. unless you love. Yeah, that's exactly what I'm saying. Do you have

  138. any verses to back that up? I mean any, I mean, what

  139. are you basing that statement off of everything? Everything? Let me read a

  140. golden rule says I can find it ye doing to others as you would have

  141. them do to you, teacher, What is the great commandant in the law?

  142. This is Matthew Chapter twenty two, verses thirty six through forty. And

  143. remember you told me this once. The golden rule is not the golden rule.

  144. The golden rule that we know comes second. The first rule is and

  145. he said to him, you shall love the Lord with all your heart,

  146. and with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the

  147. great and foremost commandment. The second is like it you shall love your neighbor

  148. as yourself. And why is that? Because once we love, once we

  149. have the love of Christ, then we can know how to love others too,

  150. right, right? Well, you know? And and it follows the

  151. statement of it says on these two commandments to bend the whole law and the

  152. prophets. Right, so, so, so I understand what, I understand

  153. what you're saying. But I mean, God is love. How can he

  154. come from anything but love? How can he come without? So? So,

  155. so let's go back to Philip and the Eunuch. Okay, Philip never

  156. asked the dude if he loved. He never said that. Now they ask

  157. him if he believed. You have to believe with all your heart, you

  158. mad. He didn't say all your mind, He didn't say all your actions.

  159. He didn't say all your little facts that you learned. He wanted to

  160. know that he believed with his heart after he told him the whole story of

  161. Jesus Christ, and and and and you've come to this conclusion. How I

  162. don't know you? Yeah, Rio, you know me pretty well, right?

  163. Who would you say? No? Who who would you point to that

  164. that that might know the scripture better than me? And I don't mean your

  165. translation. I mean the Hebrew, the Greek, who knows this better than

  166. me? God? How is it you have opened this can of worms?

  167. Because I understand exactly what you're saying, and I am not I'm not contradicting

  168. you, but I don't know what it was that made you arrive to this

  169. conclusion. This is why you completely confused me when I said, Mariah,

  170. what's the next fundamental we're gonna do? And you said, love, Michael,

  171. was just no big deal? Like duh? I was raised on it

  172. wasn't I What did mom? What? What did? What did my mother

  173. teach me? When I was young? I've known little else more than love

  174. my entire life. I was raised on love and Jesus Christ. This is

  175. like, this is like common knowledge for me. What you create quite the

  176. conundrum for me, because who's the one that that that that facilitated all your

  177. family, churches, your whole life, right? Who? Yep? But

  178. yet this thought is outside of my paradigm, even though it is it's so

  179. obviously true, it's disturbing to me. Well, church didn't teach me everything

  180. I know about everything I knew about God? You did. But Mariah,

  181. I did not teach this to you. You taught it to me. Your

  182. actions teach it to me. Though my mom's actions teach it to me.

  183. The Word of God, you choose it to me just by anyone reading it.

  184. And I absolutely I'm not. Like I stated at the beginning of the

  185. program, it's obvious that the three greatest pillars is faith. Hoping loop,

  186. let me read another one to you, just for fun, Okay, all

  187. right? John Chapter thirteen Versus thirty four through thirty five. Way for it

  188. to load here thirty three through thirty five. Little children, I am with

  189. you a little while longer you will seek me. And as I said to

  190. the Jews, now I also say to you where I am going, you

  191. cannot come. A new commandment. I give to you that you love one

  192. another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another.

  193. By this, all men will know you are min disciples if you have

  194. love for one another. Okay, that's cheating. Okay, it is very

  195. confusing to me, and it's putting me out of sorts because there is no

  196. there is no doubt you heard this from my mouth. It was my voice

  197. that read this to you the first time. Because okay, you literally had

  198. family Church every single night your whole life. Correct, yep, So who

  199. knows how many times I actually read this to you, And many of the

  200. times when I was reading it to you, you had no idea what I

  201. was talking about, right, I mean, because you you know, you

  202. were in somebody's lap a great deal of the time. I mean, I

  203. realize up until you were two years old, because we couldn't have you escaping

  204. family church, right, yeah, until you were two three? You know,

  205. through there, you know, somebody had to hold you to make sure

  206. that you stayed in place. But we did this every night. We we

  207. did this every night. So there is no doubt it was I who first

  208. read this to you. Why why has not this thought engaged in my consciousness?

  209. Because that is what he's saying. But the little people will know you

  210. are a Christian if you love one another. That means it's a very worthy

  211. thing to say. It's using a whole bunch of words to say this.

  212. You must love to be a Christian. You must. How could you not

  213. be? I mean, Jesus talks about it all the time. Yeah,

  214. but he doesn't come out and say it, just like this. First he

  215. did not come out and say it. I mean he did. It's like

  216. it's like when you read a novel, you got to read it from beginning

  217. to end, so you can just you can't just read the book report.

  218. Jesus wants you to read his book, his epistles. He wants you to

  219. read the whole story to get the plot. I mean, what about the

  220. story with well, obviously, story with Jesus interacting with anyone. About the

  221. story where he healed that merchant's daughter. Was that not love? You're about

  222. the story where he healed the lepers, healed the lame man when he was

  223. scolding the the pharisees. Yes, all these things are true, but they

  224. are only pieces to a pustle, just like this verset we just read.

  225. I mean, first off, you realize in this context, Jesus is stating

  226. that he is God, the Son. He is able to interject a new

  227. commandment. You do understand. This is the eleventh commandment, right, Okay,

  228. I'll read it myself. Okay, not that I need to read it.

  229. I know it. Okay, A new commandment. I give you that

  230. you love one another even as I have loved you, that you also love

  231. one another. This is the eleventh commandment. Only God, and only God

  232. himself can add to the commandments. This is the eleventh Commandment. And verse

  233. thirty five he comes out and says, now, if you keep this commandment,

  234. by this, all men will know that you are my disciples if you

  235. love for one another. So you calling love a fundamental of Christianity. It

  236. well, it is very confusing to me because the Bible never comes out and

  237. says that. But yet if you put all the verses together like a puzzle,

  238. you you, you know, you wind up with this great, big,

  239. huge puzzle, and that puzzle states that you must love to be a

  240. Christian. You must love to enter the Kingdom of Heaven. You must,

  241. I mean, But yet it doesn't say it. I don't know about any

  242. other Christians, but that is how I define. That's who I am as

  243. a Christian. That's how I define my Christianity is love. Well, and

  244. that's exactly what he just will come out of Jesus mouth. I mean,

  245. I was. I was saved at a very early age, like in my

  246. tweens, when I was like a jew in junior high. But I do

  247. remember what I was like before I was saved, and I did not have

  248. love, not the way I did after I was saved. I did not.

  249. Yeah, you're contradicting yourself. You just contradicted yourself because in the beginning

  250. of this program you said that you have to love before you get saved.

  251. You have to decide to love. You're not and that's what you so.

  252. So, so you're saying that you got saved, right, and you decided

  253. to love. No, I decided to love, and that led me to

  254. get saved. Okay, that that puts it out of order. Then that's

  255. not why. That's not what I was hearing. So so now you're saying

  256. the exact opposite. You're saying because you began to start loving. No,

  257. no, no, no. I read about Jesus and I learned about Jesus

  258. and Jesus's love, and I thought to myself, I want to love like

  259. Jesus. And this was before or after you got saved off. And then

  260. I found that love in my heart and that led me to the love of

  261. Jesus Christ, and I would not be the same without it, and all

  262. and all, Okay, let me explain it to you this way. I

  263. was filled with the Holy Spirit. I was given the Holy Spirit. And

  264. you're saying that the Holy Spirit triggered, Yes, the emotion for love.

  265. I mean what I'm saying, If a person does not love, they're not

  266. a Christian. That's what I'm saying. What well, I mean, that

  267. is basically what Jesus is saying here in John chapter thirteen. Because if you

  268. don't I mean, Marian, I am. I am hyper extenuating this to

  269. the rest of Bible. And how many verses do I have in my brain?

  270. All of them? All of them, so I'm able to look past

  271. what you're saying. And you're saying this. That's why the Lord Jesus Christ

  272. made this eleventh commandment. It's the ultimate trump. If you don't love,

  273. you are breaking the eleventh Commandment. You are not going to enter the Kingdom

  274. of Heaven because you've broken feel it and the commandment. And I'd never seen

  275. that before you brought this up. It's like the fruits of the spirit that

  276. we were talking about. If you're the fruits of the spirit is love,

  277. joy, peace. If a person, I don't care what you say to

  278. me about going to Sunday School, about being raised in a Christian family,

  279. if you don't love, I don't believe you. You are not a Christian.

  280. If I see you and you are not loving, I don't care what

  281. you say about yourself. I don't think you're a Christian. I don't think

  282. you've been saved. That's just not possible to me. So I think you

  283. have to love. Well, I'm just trying to say this to not be

  284. confusing. You have to love before and during. If you never have love

  285. in your heart to begin with, and you don't have love when you're a

  286. Christian, love never convicted you to be a Christian. Okay, So that's

  287. really what you're saying that it is the emotional feeling of love that will convict

  288. you to get saved. Yeah, and it's the emotional feeling of love that

  289. you will continue to walk in the ways of righteousness. If I never had

  290. loved, and I was saved when I was thirteen, and I didn't love

  291. all that time, eventually I would have been like the seed that fell in

  292. love, what was it? The thorns? I would have continued my life

  293. and I've been like, screw this, I want I want, you know,

  294. this thing that I want to steal from this person. There's no reason

  295. why I shouldn't I want to lie. Why shouldn't I right, because breaking

  296. the Ten Commandments is only for your benefit. This is the crux of the

  297. problem. And you've probably heard me and your mother talk about this. This

  298. is the crux of the problem. If you love, your actions will only

  299. benefit others. If you break the ten Commandment, it only benefits you.

  300. I mean, isn't this the quickest way for you to move up in your

  301. career? This is common knowledge. Whoever's above you lie about them, falsely

  302. accuse them, plant false evidence that they've done something, get them fired to

  303. get them relieved to their duties, and you take over the duties. This

  304. is absolutely the most common practice in the United States of America. But then,

  305. once you have love, how much more amazing is it when you do

  306. none of that and you lead one person to Christ who you never knew before

  307. because you love them, You never met them in your life, and you

  308. love them because you have that love in your heart that Jesus Christ gave to

  309. you, that Jesus Christ amplified. So let me ask you this. You

  310. know what the definition for empathy is. Yes, empathy is when you feel

  311. for another person. Yes, you know you walk It's not when you do

  312. it, it's you have the ability to do it. Many many people,

  313. well, criminals do not have the ability to do this. We'll just say

  314. that. Okay, hard core criminals do not have the ability to do this.

  315. They they they don't have the ability. Now let's read the see this

  316. is the dictionary definition from the opt for dictionary. It is the ability to

  317. understand and share the feelings of another. It's not whether you are actually feeling

  318. and sharing the feelings of others, it's when you have the ability to do

  319. so. That's empathy. So what you're saying is, I mean, this

  320. is very disturbing to me. This can of worms to me because what you're

  321. saying is you must first have this love toward Jesus. Were we not taught

  322. in Sunday School to accept them into our heart? What does that mean?

  323. If it does, that literally translates to you have to love Jesus. And

  324. you're saying, once you do, that will trigger a salvation event that will

  325. trigger a crisis. It has to And you're saying that after that, after

  326. salvation, the Holy Spirit induces empathy in the Christian This is the end game

  327. conclusion that you're stating, as far as psychology is concerned. If you accept

  328. the Lord Jesus Christ, and believe with all your heart upon him. Ask

  329. him into your heart, ask him to change you. The change that he

  330. induces is empathy. Let me read somewhere verses for you, and reading in

  331. first John, chapter four, and starting in verse four. You are from

  332. God, little children. You have overcome them, because greater is he who

  333. is in you than he who is in the world. They are from the

  334. world. Therefore they speak as from the world, and the world listens to

  335. them. We are from God. He who knows God listens to us.

  336. He who is not from God does not listen to us. By this we

  337. know the spirit of truth and the spirit of error. Beloved, let us

  338. love one another, for love is from God. And everyone who loves is

  339. born of God and knows God. The one who does not know God the

  340. word. The one who does not know God. The one who does not

  341. love does not know God or God, is love. By this, the

  342. love of God was manifested in us. That God has sent his only begotten

  343. son into the world so that we might live through him. In this is

  344. love, not that we loved, but that He loved us and sent his

  345. son to be A propitation, propitiation propitiation for our sins. Beloved, If

  346. God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one

  347. has seen God at any time. If we love one another, God abides

  348. in us, and his love is perfected in us. By this, we

  349. know that we abide in Him and he in us, because He has given

  350. us of his spirit. We have seen and testify that the Father has sent

  351. the Son to be the savior of the world. Whoever confesses that Jesus is

  352. the Son of God, God abides in him, and he in God.

  353. We have come to know and have believed the love which God has for us.

  354. God is love, and the one who abides in love abides in God,

  355. and God abides in him. By this, love is perfected in us,

  356. so that we may have confidence in the day of judgment. Because as

  357. He is, so, also are we in this world. There is no

  358. fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves punishment,

  359. and the one who fears is not perfected in love. We love because

  360. He first loved us. If someone says I love God and hates his brother,

  361. he is a liar. For the one who does not love his brother,

  362. whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen. And

  363. this commandment we have from him, and that the one who loves God should

  364. love his brother also, I am stunned to silence. I mean, you

  365. didn't read anything I didn't already know. The problem is is that you've put

  366. this into an entirely new concept because he is coming out and saying, if

  367. you don't love, you're not a Christian. That's basically what he's saying.

  368. But he's not saying that. He is not coming out and directly addressing it.

  369. And by the way, empathy is manifested in verse nine, by this,

  370. the love of God was manifested in us. What's that Greek word for

  371. nay up to make visible? Literally, that's what this is saying that it

  372. triggers empathy. That's what the man. Let me read this plainly, by

  373. this, the love of God was manifested in us. That God has sent

  374. his only begotten son into the world so that we might live through him.

  375. This is exactly what you described a few minutes ago. You had you exhibited

  376. love toward Jesus and got saved, And this verse is saying that once that

  377. happened, God triggered empathy. In you, and that is how the rest

  378. of the chapter plays out. And he's saying that if you don't have this

  379. manifested empathy to love you know other people, you're a dead issue. You're

  380. not Mariah. But let's not give it another name, because what is empathy

  381. if not love? Right, it is the ability of love. And that's

  382. what verse ninety is saying that once you become a Christian, this has manifested

  383. in you that we might live through him. So don't you understand what it's

  384. saying. It's saying that the empathy that you require is not yours child.

  385. It's saying that it is exactly you know. That's bold words to say to

  386. somebody like me. I knew this in the Greek long before you ever realized

  387. what I was reading to you. So how is it that your eyes have

  388. been open to this but mine has not until now? I don't know.

  389. Let the little children come, you know, let's listen to this one more

  390. time. Let's do the KJV this time. Listen. This is what it's

  391. saying. What you've stated. It says in this was manifested the love of

  392. God toward us. Okay, so you're saying that God triggers this event,

  393. and you started loving. You loved Jesus right because that God sent his only

  394. begotten son into the world that we might live through him. What's this saying?

  395. How is it that we live through him? It's saying that he's the

  396. one that gave us this empathy. Now I'm gonna word this a different way,

  397. but I've thought this before. I've never really said it to anybody.

  398. I've never really talked about to anybody. But I do consider Jesus to be

  399. my teacher. God is my teacher, right. God and the love of

  400. Jesus taught me to love. Once I was saved, and once I opened

  401. my heart to him, he did teach me how to love. And I

  402. did not know things before that I know now. I need you to qualify

  403. that for me. You know things or you feel things. If you know

  404. things now that you didn't know before, or you feel things you didn't feel.

  405. I know things I didn't know what. Give me an example. I

  406. didn't know how to love before. I didn't know why. I didn't know

  407. why I would give something up for someone. I didn't understand that. But

  408. now I know, Well, there's any child I would die for. Before

  409. I was saved. I didn't really understand giving up anything for anyone, but

  410. I would give up my life for most people without badding an eye. And

  411. I was taught that. I was taught to give, I was taught to

  412. love. I was taught to have compassion for people that I didn't have any

  413. reason to feel anything for. Yeah, that's what I'm trying to tell you,

  414. that God gave you empathy exactly. And if I meet another person who

  415. claims to be a Christian and they do not also feel those things, I

  416. cannot trust. You know they're not well. Obviously from just the few verses

  417. we've read here tonight, obviously they're not. And you've run into this before

  418. I have. I'm speaking from a personal experience, and we don't need to

  419. say from who, No, but you have obviously met Christians, not only

  420. met them, interacted with them at length, and at the end of the

  421. day, you were having problems with their own relationships toward their own family members,

  422. correct your own relationships with each other. Yeah, that's what I'm trying

  423. to say, that the members of their own family, they were exhibiting actions

  424. that proved that it was not love right. What what? What was going

  425. on? In this between these family members was not love. It was not

  426. and not only the family members, but all these people who well there wasn't

  427. a ton, but like these people who I was surrounding myself with and spending

  428. a lot of time with and put my trust in, they were not treating

  429. each other with love. And I didn't understand it till later. What was

  430. wrong? I knew something was wrong, but I couldn't put my finger on

  431. it. But looking back hindsight is twenty twenty. You know, they obviously

  432. were not loving not only each other, they weren't loving their own family members.

  433. Oh so you knew these individuals, You had seen them interact with not

  434. only their own family members, but with other people, and you were able

  435. to come to this conclusion that they don't even love their own family members.

  436. They can't be Christians. Is that what you're saying? Yeah, I Christians

  437. are my second family. If you don't love other Christians, what's wrong with

  438. you? You're not That's that's the thing. That's like, you don't.

  439. It's like you're disowning your sister or your daughter before you even met them.

  440. You know. That's like that's like divorcing your husband at the altar, right

  441. before you said your vows, right before you put the before you put the

  442. ring on you. You know it? You know it? Yeah, Mariah,

  443. tell me this. We did that first show on the fundamentals, right,

  444. Yes, did you come to this conclusion after or before? M h?

  445. I think after, But it's always kind of been in here, Like

  446. I never had the idea to like put it in there, but like it's

  447. always kind of men floating around in my head, you know, like I

  448. just kind of know because of passages like this would be a Christian is to

  449. love and meeting people who that was not a priority for them. Confused me.

  450. It confused my brain. I did not understand. Well, one thing

  451. is for certain, a ministry is not a business, okay, and let's

  452. keep that very clear. And this is the main problem that the Church of

  453. the Lord Jesus Christ has right now. Right, we're in agreeance that a

  454. ministry is full of expenditures. You will literally expend yourself to get people saved

  455. and to train them up in the way they should go. But a business

  456. is exactly the opposite. A business is the man on top. That's all.

  457. It is a pile of bodies climbing a ladder to be the man on

  458. top. And that is the opposite of what I believe in. I don't

  459. know what anyone else thinks that they believe in when they say they're a Christian,

  460. but that is not what I believe in. I believe in the love

  461. of Jesus Christ, my Lord and Savior, my brother, my best friend,

  462. and my father, and he is love and he is Well, that's

  463. what this that's what this these verses just said you read from, and what

  464. it's literally saying is that we are an extension of Him. That's how this

  465. this word you know, fanahru in the Greek works very hard saying. These

  466. are very hard words. It's noriah. They're very hard words because when you

  467. weigh these very simple words against the bulk of Christianity, I don't care,

  468. because I've met them and I did not care for them. If you say

  469. you're a Christian and you do not love the man standing next to you,

  470. I don't care. You are a foreigner to me. You are not my

  471. brother or sister. That is to say, they are not in the body

  472. of Christ. That's what this verse I mean literally, it's what these verses

  473. are saying. But yet it does not come out and say that you must

  474. love to be a Christian. It's not using that phrase always, not just

  475. it feels like betrayal. It feels like a lie. When someone says they

  476. are Christian, and yet they turn around and they push down the man behind

  477. them down that ladder so they can get a step up. That feels like

  478. betrayal. And it is to be sure. And then you're turning around and

  479. you are claiming to be a child of my Father, who is love.

  480. So what other verses you got for us? Do do? Do? Do?

  481. Do? Do? Do? Do? Do? So? This is

  482. it? Well, I mean, what about Matthew Chapter five. I'm looking

  483. here at your notes point two? What is love to us? Matthew Chapter

  484. five, verses thirteen or sixteen. Yes, you put this in here for

  485. a reason, so give it to you. So this verse, this passage

  486. doesn't come out and say that it's love, but it is when you think

  487. about when you think back of that verse where he's saying, this is how

  488. they will know that you are my disciples because you love. Okay, read

  489. Matthew five, verses thirteen through sixteen. You are the salt of the earth.

  490. But if the salt has become tasteless. How can it be made salty

  491. again? It is no longer good for anything except to be thrown out and

  492. trampled underfoot by men. You are the light of the world. A city

  493. set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor does anyone light a lamp and

  494. put it under a basket, but on the lampstand, and it gives light

  495. to all who are in the house. Let your light shine before men in

  496. such a way that they may see your good works and glorify your father,

  497. who is in heaven. And then again in verse twenty. I don't know

  498. why I skipped some verses. You definitely did. Let's go to it to

  499. it's loading. Oh, so while this is loading, what is the light?

  500. How do we shine the light of Jesus Christ. Well, it said

  501. with your good works, that they may see your good works and glorify your

  502. Father's and heaven. So obviously utilizing this empathy. God is expecting you to

  503. take the empathy that he's given you and carrying it out by performing good works

  504. to just or most notably people who are in need. Right, Oh,

  505. this gets good, So leave it where we left off verse sixteen. Let

  506. your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good

  507. works and glorify your Father, who is in heaven. Do not think that

  508. I came to abolish the law or the prophets. I do not come to

  509. abolish, but to fulfill. For truly, I say to you, until

  510. heaven and earth pass away, not the smallest letter or stroke shall pass from

  511. the law, until all is accomplished. Whoever, then unmolls one of the

  512. least of these commandments and teaches others to do the same, shall be called

  513. least in the Kingdom of heaven. But whoever keeps and teaches them, he

  514. shall be called great in the Kingdom of heaven. For I say to you,

  515. unless your righteousness surpasses that of the scribes and pharises you will not enter

  516. the Kingdom of Heaven. Which is this is bearing out the same thing that,

  517. And it is obvious numerous occasions when Jesus engaged with the scribe and Pharisees,

  518. they did not have empathy. And this is just a little bit from

  519. my brain. But unless your righteousness surpasses that of the scribes and Pharisees,

  520. what were the scribes and Pharisees? What did they do? They were the

  521. clergy. They're the ones that ran the church. They studied right, Yes,

  522. and they read everything, they memorized the Yes, the scribes, that's

  523. what the scribes job was. Yeah. They were very smart people, weren't

  524. they. Yes, they had to be highly intelligent, probably the most some

  525. of the most intelligent people in that society. Absolutely, yes, So how

  526. could your righteousness surpass that of the smartest people you could put a finger on?

  527. There was toutly one way empathy. If those people, I mean,

  528. no matter how smart a scribe is or was, if they did not love

  529. the people they were studying for, they were a dead issue. It would

  530. have to surpass knowledge, right, And only feelings can do that exactly.

  531. Feelings is the only thing that can surpass or go beyond the thoughts. And

  532. I said this earlier. It is only to other people's benefit if you follow

  533. the ten commandments. The only way you can do that is going to beyond

  534. the thought process. And that means spice up this conversation by bringing in a

  535. worldly two worldly sayings and bringing them together. Okay, knowledge is power,

  536. but also the most powerful thing in the universe is love. Those are two

  537. sayings that are completely unrelated to each other. But what happens when you put

  538. them together? Even people of the world know this. Love is the most

  539. powerful thing in the world, not knowledge, Right, this is true.

  540. So it really does that this conundrum really does bother me that I didn't realize

  541. this until you brought it up. I mean, because literally, shouldn't these

  542. be the pillars of the faith? I mean, is it not faith,

  543. hope, and love? That's the pillars of the faith? Everything else is

  544. fundamentals. This is a pillar. These are the pillars. These are the

  545. three pillars. Yep. So you know you have me, You have me

  546. lost in my own thoughts. You have me because what you're saying is absolutely

  547. true and not only that love is the litmus test to Christianity. And yep,

  548. this is part and parcel with with with. You will know them by

  549. their fruits. You will know them by what they're doing, because obviously what

  550. they're doing, you'll be able to distinguish this from what they're doing. Either

  551. they love people or they love themselves. It's one or the other. Another

  552. verse I have in here. I have two more verses in here, passages

  553. in here that are more on the difficult to choose side. Okay, but

  554. the first one is Listen to this and tell me if you don't hear love.

  555. Then Jesus said to his disciples, if anyone wishes to come after me,

  556. you must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me.

  557. For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, But whoever loses his

  558. life for my sake will find it. Right, that's exactly what I was

  559. saying, exactly as you were saying that I read this verse. It's literally

  560. backing up exactly what you just said. I wasn't thinking of that verse or

  561. not. But yes, that verse is saying exactly what I was saying.

  562. But I don't know. It makes me thinks that I think that the reason

  563. why I was saying what I was saying is because that verse is in my

  564. subconscious But no, I wasn't thinking of that. So what's the other set

  565. of verses? This one's a little bit more out in the water. But

  566. Jesus answered and said to him, truly, truly, I say to you,

  567. unless one is born again, he cannot see the Kingdom of God.

  568. And Nicodemus said to him, how can a man be born when he years

  569. old? He cannot enter a second time into his mother's womb and be born.

  570. Can he and Jesus answered truly, Truly, I say to you,

  571. unless one is born of water and spirit, he cannot enter the Kingdom of

  572. God. I think that when you are born again, it's like learning to

  573. love in a whole different way. Well, I would have to agree.

  574. All right, we're at the top of the hour, so you get to

  575. pray us out of here. I think we should sing the song? What

  576. song? Mm hmmm, mm hmmm, sing it our father, guy,

  577. will be done, honor as it is in you lastnesses day, our day

  578. read and forgave baside as gamely to tempted, but as from the slicky and

  579. the power and the glory. Fo uh Father in oh, Amen and Amen.

  580. Till next time, ladies and gentlemen, God bless, God speed.

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