Sermon
The Comparison Trap
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Transcript
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Open your Bibles to John chapter 10 and meet me at verse 10,
John 10 chapter mention
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and I'll read this from the Amplified Classic.
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John chapter 10, verse 10. Jesus tells us, the thief comes only in order to
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steal and kill and destroy.
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I came that they may have and enjoy life and have it in abundance to the full till it overflows.
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Notice that Jesus draws a line in the sand and makes a distinction between the thief and himself.
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He says the thief is coming to take, to steal, kill, and destroy.
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But I've come that I can give you life or that you may continue to have life and enjoy life.
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That's the Zoe life, the God kind of life, the life Jesus lived here on the
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earth, and that you will enjoy. you'll celebrate, you'll have abundance to the
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full until it overflows.
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So understand that Satan is trying to steal from you what Jesus has already given you.
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If we have this posture that Satan is trying to steal from me,
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I believe we'll stand up and we'll fight.
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I believe we won't allow him to continue
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to take from us if our posture is someone
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is trying to steal now Jesus made a
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difference between a thief and a robber a thief
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or let me say this way a robber is someone that's gonna bop you over the head
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and knock you out and take your stuff and run off that is a robber but a thief
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is gonna be someone that steals from you and you not even realize they've taken it from.
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They're secret. They're stealth. They've taken something from you.
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You didn't even know it was gone.
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And that's why Jesus didn't say a robber is going to come because you would
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know that would take place.
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He said, no, a thief is going to come. He's going to take from you and you not realize it.
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So you already have everything that you need and the thief is stealing it from
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you or he's attempting to, you're not the sick trying to get healed.
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You're the healed resisting sickness. You're not the poor trying to become rich.
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You are the rich, and you're resisting poverty.
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And so your posture, your stance must be the thief is trying to tell you.
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He's trying to get himself involved in my life so that I could then feel like
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that I'm empty, I'm losing, I'm lost, when really you're winning.
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You are winning and the thief is trying to take from you.
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So realize what the thief is trying to do. And if you're not experiencing or
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if you're not enjoying life, if you're not experiencing this abundant life,
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if you're not living life to the full till it overflows,
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If you're not celebrating life and thankful in life,
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I submit to you that the thief is stealing from you.
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He's taking from you. You may not realize it, but he's taking from you,
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and it's the reason why you're not enjoying life.
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Now, one way the thief steals this abundant life from us is by distracting us
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from enjoying right where we are right now.
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If he can distract us and make us think, Other things like you should be further
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along and or you should have this and that. And that's a major distraction.
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You'll you'll not celebrate where you are and the journey that God has you on.
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And over the last several weeks, we have been talking about,
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I believe, hindrances to joy or killers to joy.
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And a few weeks ago, we talked about worry, worry being a major killer of this
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abundant, joyful life that God wants us to experience. And then we really got into impatience.
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You remember that being impatient and getting out of
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the will of God by going a little faster than he wants you
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to go Can be a hindrance and cause you not to enjoy life And a couple of weeks
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we talked about fear the last few weeks and how fear will cause you not to enjoy
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life God never intended for you and I to wake up every single day stressed out
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afraid worried and concerned.
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That was never his intention for you and I. And so fear will cause you not to enjoy life.
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And today I want to talk to you about something that I believe will impact you
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in a great way. It has impacted my life, and I believe it will impact your life as well.
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We find out in 2 Corinthians 10, verse 12, the Apostle Paul wrote this passage
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of Scripture under the unction of the Holy Spirit.
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He says, for we dare not class ourselves or compare ourselves with those who commend themselves.
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But they measuring themselves by themselves and comparing themselves among themselves are not wise.
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They are not wise. When we first started the church back in July 2011,
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we started at Community House Middle School. We were only there for a couple of months.
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We were in a stinky, smelly band room. We had no musical equipment.
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We had acapella singing, and I had no microphone. But I was recording our messages.
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I kid you not, we were still recording them, but we had no speakers, no microphones, etc.
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We just got started. Then we moved to Butler High School, met in a in a stinky,
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smelly band room at Butler High.
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And we just got going, got started and we got to really going and growing.
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And well, let me say this before we got to growing. We got to going.
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And I was always wondering if people are going to come back.
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Will somebody come back the next week? I mean, will they come back?
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I mean, I just wonder if they're going to come back the following week. Well, I was invited.
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By someone to attend the church on Saturday night. Now, this was back in 2011 or 12.
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At the time, Saturday night service was hopping. Y'all remember that when some
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churches were having Saturday night services?
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And I was invited to attend, so I took my entire family to this church on a Saturday night.
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And when I walked into this church on a Saturday night, they was rocking.
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I mean, the music was rocking. Remember, we didn't have any music at this time.
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The music was rocking, the sound system was great, the ushers were amazing,
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the greeters were amazing, everybody was sort of welcoming.
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When the minister got up, I mean, he preached a dynamic message,
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and when we left, we got the first class treatment.
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My kids come from children, and they're doing backflips and all type of stuff.
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What a marvelous time everybody had. And I get in the car and I tell Stacey
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this and I wrote it down because I want to be exact what I told her.
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I said, why would anyone come to our church when they can just go there?
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Why would anybody come to our church when they can just go there?
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And I had serious thoughts of closing down our brand new church,
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which was less than a one-year-old.
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I thought, why don't I just go over there? Why don't I just help them?
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Why would anybody come to our church when they can just go there?
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From the outside, it looked like they had mastered what we were even trying
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to do in the beginning stages of our ministry. And I was wrestling with comparison.
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I was wrestling with comparison.
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Comparison is the thief of joy.
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Comparison is the thief of joy.
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That night I went home and I couldn't sleep. I just, I couldn't figure out why should I continue?
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Why keep going? I mean, this guy is blowing and growing, and we are barely making it.
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Why should I continue? Why would
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anybody come to this church that we're starting, they can just go there?
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And I was battling with comparison. I have a wonderful wife.
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Stacy is the greatest thing that happened to me.
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And she called one of my friends. I didn't know this until a couple years later.
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She called one of my really good friends and they
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called me that night or the next day and I was trying to
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figure out you know he called out of blue and all of a
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sudden he said hey what'd y'all do last night I'm like well we went
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to this this other church and I had a blast and I'm thinking about closing my
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church now I told him that and let's go on over here and man what a great thing
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they got going on over here and he began to talk to me about comparison and jealousy.
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Comparison and jealousy. Comparison is taking two or more items,
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putting them together and looking for inadequacies.
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That's what comparison does. You're either going to look at a situation and
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you will feel either inferior because you compared yourself to someone else
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or what God's called you to do to something else or you're going to feel superior.
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You're going to feel better about yourself. But more often than not,
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you and I are going to feel inferior.
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And I was dealing with comparison.
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We look at our lives, compare them to others, and think, I should be further along by now.
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How many of you have ever done that? If you want to be honest today,
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you look at your and you think, I should be further along by now.
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About 10 years ago, right around my birthday, full disclosure,
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I used to not be happy on my birthday.
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I used to feel like I should be further alone than I am by now,
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I should be you know so and so look
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how far so and so is and so and so look how far they are and look at me I should
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be further alone it wasn't until the Lord set me free about 10 years ago now
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I celebrate jump them down we just take the whole week for my birthday now I'm
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excited about my birthday look what the Lord has done but at the time I'm comparing.
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My pace with someone else's pace, and we say, I should be further along by now.
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Comparison will quickly turn into jealousy.
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Comparison will quickly turn
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into jealousy, and jealousy is more than wanting what someone else has.
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Listen to me now, lock in here. Jealousy is more than wanting what someone else has.
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Jealousy is the subtle belief that God has not done enough for you.
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Jealousy is the subtle belief that God has not done enough for me.
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And so when we are jealous, it's an indicator that you are ungrateful and you're unthankful.
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When if you're experiencing jealousy, you are should be realizing that there's
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an area of your life that you are ungrateful and unthankful.
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It could be, man, look at her. She can get in those jeans, and I can't even get in those jeans.
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Look at her hair. Her hair is so great, and look at my hair.
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It could be any. Look at my sister. My sister seems to have a great life, and I don't.
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It could be anything that we begin to compare, and we'll begin to get jealous.
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And it's not that we even want what they have. It's the subtle belief that God's
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not done enough for you and I.
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It's the belief that I wish God would do more for me it appears that he's doing
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more for someone else I don't even want they raggedy new car but it looks like
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they got a new car and it appears that they got a new car and God where's my new car.
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And that's what comparison and jealousy will do.
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It's a major indicator of your ungratefulness.
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Comparison is dangerous because it blinds you to your own blessings.
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It will blind you to your own blessings.
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Look what the Lord has done for me. But you won't notice that because you're
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comparing yourself with someone else or their progress with your progress.
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When you compare, as I said before, you're either going to feel inferior or superior.
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And it will cause you to overlook what God is doing in your life because you're
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too focused on what he appears to be doing in someone else's life.
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Now, I know we're going to get a lot of amens today, but I know this is bouncing off of your heart.
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I used to be able to tell you someone else's vision better than I could tell you my vision.
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I can look at Pookie and Ray Ray and tell you this is what God's called Pookie
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and Ray Ray to do and can't even tell you what God's called me to do.
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I would know their vision better than I would even know my vision.
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I would understand their goals more than I would even understand my goals.
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I would be looking at them more than I'm looking at God trying to figure out,
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God, what have you called me to do?
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And this is what comparison and jealousy would do. you begin to compete with
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someone that doesn't even know you're competing with them.
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And they're competing with someone that they don't even realize at all is competing with them.
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We're in this comparison competition game, and social media has not helped us
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a bit at all with this. It's made it absolutely worse.
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That person that looks like they're so happy, they're not.
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It's all a lie. It's all a facade. They're not as happy as they're presenting
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it. But we begin to compare ourselves among ourselves.
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Scripture says that's not wise.
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It's not wise to look at someone else's life and compare it to your life as
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if they are a lot further along and you think God's done more for them than he's done for you.
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You can't compare. Here's one reason you can't compare. You ready for this?
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You can't compare because you and I have all started at different places.
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You don't know Pookie and Ray Ray's start. The guy that I was comparing to,
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in particular, in the beginning story, they started with a handful of dedicated
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folks and hundreds of thousands of dollars.
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That's how they started. Why would I compare? We started with nothing.
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Nothing. We had, by God's grace, someone sowed a seed, $1,200.
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I remember one of the biggest seeds at the time into our ministry before we
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even had a bank account open.
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I had to hold on to the check and go get a bank account open first.
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Why am I comparing our start to someone that started with $400,000?
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You don't know everybody's start. So you can't compare. You can't compete.
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Everybody has a different start. If you want some scripture on that,
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remember the parable of the talents.
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One guy had five, one guy had two, one guy had one. Totally different starts.
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But they continued to be faithful, the first two did, and got the same reward.
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But they had different starts.
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And so we can't compare ourselves to anybody because somebody's got a different start than I got.
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They may have started in luxury.
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Maybe you grew up and you didn't have a dad.
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Maybe they started with a dad. And statistics will tell you, right?
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A father in the home is a great start for a child, an individual.
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And that doesn't mean, now, that doesn't mean, Stacey grew up without a father
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and she's doing quite well. Don't mean you can't break the odds.
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Come on, say amen to that. You can break it. But having a father in the home
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is a better start, right?
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Then not. And so stop comparing because you don't know where someone started.
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And so you have to understand that comparison will cause you to overlook what
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God is doing in your life.
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Because you become too focused on what appears that he's doing in someone else's life.
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Your enemy, Satan himself, loves it when you compare because he can get you
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looking sideways. sideways, left and right, and it'll stop you from moving forward.
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He can get you looking sideways and stop you from moving forward.
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God never called you to compare. He called you to obey.
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He called you to be faithful. He never called you to compare. So why do we compare?
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Why do we look to the left and to the right and say, look what God's doing in
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their life and compare to our life and become sad, disgruntled,
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and ultimately believe God's not done enough for me?
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He never asked you to run someone else's race.
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He gave you your own lane. Your journey is designed for your calling.
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Say this, my journey is designed for my calling.
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There is grace for your assignment. There is favor for your calling.
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There is provision for what God told you to build.
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Stop looking at everyone else and look at what God told you to do because there's
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a special grace, divine favor, and provision for what God told you to build.
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I'm going to say this to you because I don't know if I've ever said it publicly.
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I'm going to say it to you.
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Sometimes you look around and you think, man, that person's doing really,
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really good. Oh, my gosh.
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They are making a difference in the earth. And I tend to think sometimes I wonder
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if they're going to get well done, good and faithful service.
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You think they might, but they might not. They may not.
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I only got to be concerned about what I'm going to get. I need to hear the Lord
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say at the end of my life, well done, good and faithful servant.
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What he said to somebody else is between them and God. But sometimes you're
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looking at somebody, man, it looks like they're doing a great job.
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Look at them. Oh, it looks like things are going well. They may not even get
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well done at the end of the day.
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That's deep right there. but you got to look at your look look at what God's
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called you to do I have a friend of mine,
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and he said that uh he I didn't
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plan to tell this story so bear with me he he was on an airplane he was flying
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private on an airplane and they saw a beautiful airplane out there part it was
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he said it was the most beautiful plane he had ever seen and he said I was sitting
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in this this plane that we were in,
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and I was looking at that plane, and I was thinking, my goodness,
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wouldn't it be nice to fly in that plane?
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Look how beautiful it is. He said it had gold on it and everything. I mean, it was great.
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Come to find out, the person that owned that plane was a porn, ran a porn business, and.
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Now, is he doing well? No. Now, you might think financially he is, but he ain't doing well.
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I mean, this man is not going to get well done, good and faithful servant.
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And here he said, man, I had to catch myself.
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I'm sitting in a plane looking at that plane thinking it would be nice to have that plane.
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And then I look at the guy that got the plane, and he's living a terrible life.
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And here I am thinking, oh, I wish I had what he has. No, you don't.
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No, you don't. You don't you don't want some of the problems that these folks
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got that you're comparing yourself to. You don't know what they're going through.
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You don't want it. And so you can't compare because it's unwise.
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God never asked you to run someone else's race.
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There's grace for your assignment. And when you compare yourself to others,
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you minimize the work of God in your own life.
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You belittle and you minimize what God is doing in your life.
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You forget your testimony. You got a powerful testimony.
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You forget your testimony. You discount your progress.
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You despise the small beginnings that God often uses to birth something great.
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God uses small beginnings to birth something extraordinary.
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In scripture God will tell you that's too many for me when he tell Gideon he
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had 20,000 plus folks he's like listen I need you to trim that thing all the
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way down because that's too many for me,
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you ain't never seen anywhere in scripture where God said I just need more people,
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to get anything done no he uses the small matter of fact do you guys know the
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average sized church in America.
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The average size church in America, the number is 60 to 65 people.
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That's the average. God is telling you, this is my system of how I want to use
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in the earth to get things done.
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Now, I'm not mad at mega churches. I got a lot. I know a couple of pastors that pastor me.
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Not mad at them. But it's interesting that the average size,
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and they say 80% of churches are under 100 people.
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God has always used something small to do big things in the earth.
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You're valuable. You're significant.
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God is looking at you. He's planted and invested in you.
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I know you feel like nobody knows me and I'm forgotten about,
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but God knows you and he puts something on the inside of you and he just wants
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you to enjoy the journey that you're on.
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Enjoy it because he's got something great for you if you'll just remain faithful.
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If you agree, say amen to that.
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Zechariah 4.10 in the New Living Translation says, Do not despise these small
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beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work began.
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Don't despise small beginnings. God is rejoicing to see the work began.
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The fastest way, listen to me, the fastest way to kill something special is
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to compare it to something else.
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The fastest way to kill something special is to compare it to something else.
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So today, refuse comparison.
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Let's release our faith. Say, I refuse to compare myself with someone else.
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Do not compare but celebrate celebrate instead
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of comparing celebrate glory to
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God I have a I have a couple friends that
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are a lot further along than me I love to talk to them they got some in my eyes
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some some big things happening you know when they tell me something big I just
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shout one guy told me we paid off our house I said glory to God I celebrated
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why because I want to pay off my house too. Amen.
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Hallelujah. Don't compare. Celebrate.
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Celebrate. And if you're the wisest person in your group, you need to get in another group.
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Get in another group of people doing greater things than you're doing and celebrate
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what they're doing. They'll begin to give you secrets.
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They'll begin to share things with you that, oh, that's really good. Ah, I see that.
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You just got to get in a room and you got to celebrate instead of,
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well, you know, that always happened for you.
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See, it happened for you all the time because, you know, this,
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that and the third. No, I just celebrated.
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I just celebrated. Yeah, that man, that's great. That happened.
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That's awesome. Why? Because I want it to happen to me, too. Amen.
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Celebrate what God is doing for others without letting it steal your joy.
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Don't let it steal your joy celebrate what
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he's doing in others stay in your lane because
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when you are content because when
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you are not content I'm sorry stay in your lane because when you are not content
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you will compare when you are not content you will prepare I believe one definition
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of the word content means to be thankful when you are unthankful you'll start
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comparing your life to someone else's life.
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If you keep obeying, what feels small today may become the very thing God uses
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to impact generations tomorrow.
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All you got to do is keep obeying and stay faithful, and God will use you in this earth.
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Galatians 6.4 in the New Living Translation says it this way.
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Pay careful attention to your own work, for then you will get the satisfaction of a job well done.
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And you won't need to compare yourself to anyone else. Glory to God. Just stay faithful.
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Pay close attention to what God's asking you to do. Don't look to the left. Don't look to the right.
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And you will get well done, and you won't compare yourself to what someone else is doing.
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What God has for you does not need to be compared to or competed for.
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Sometimes we think we're competing for the same thing. We're not.
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We're not. If as a pastor, it feels like we're all, you know,
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competing sometimes for the same folks.
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If everybody in Charlotte and the surrounding cities decided to come to church
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on the same day, we don't have enough church facility to house them.
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We're not competing for the same folks. If everybody said, I'm coming to church,
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we could not fit everybody in church buildings on that Sunday.
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There's still work to be done. There's still churches that need to start.
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There's still growth that needs to take place. Let's stop comparing.
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Where have you been comparing yourself to someone else?
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Where have you been comparing yourself to someone else?
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Watch this in Genesis chapter 4. And I'm going to read through verses 1 through 8.
Genesis 4 chapter mention
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Genesis 4, 1 through 8, New Living Translation.
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Now Adam had sexual relations with his wife, Eve, and she became pregnant.
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And when she gave birth to Cain, she said, with the Lord's help, I have produced a man.
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Later she gave birth to his brother and named him Abel.
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When they grew up, Abel became a shepherd while Cain cultivated the ground.
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I want to pause here for a second, I'm going to give you a little side note.
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This is what I believe, the King James Version, and you do your own little research,
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but this is what I believe, fun fact, I can't prove it, but you can't prove me wrong, all right?
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So, fun fact, I believe that Cain and Abel were twins.
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I believe they were twins. If you read in the King James Version,
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it says that she conceived once and bore twice.
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She conceived once and bore twice. I believe Cain and Abel were twins,
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but you can't prove me wrong, but that's what I believe.
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And so it says here they had sexual relations, right?
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She gave birth to Cain, and then later, I believe in a few minutes later,
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she gave birth to Abel. Abel became a shepherd.
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Cain cultivated the ground. When it was time for harvest, in verse 3,
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Cain presented some of his crops as a gift to the Lord. So he just gathered
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whatever was remaining.
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Whatever I got left over, I'm going to gather that. I'm going to present it
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to the Lord. But look at verse 4. Abel also brought a gift, but what did he bring?
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The best portions of the firstborn. He bought the best and the first.
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To the Lord. The Lord accepted Abel and his gift, verse 5, but he did not accept Cain and his gift.
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This made Cain very angry, and he looked dejected.
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Why are you so angry, the Lord asked Cain. Why do you look so dejected?
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You will be accepted if you do what is right, but if you refuse to do what is right, then watch out.
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Sin is crouching at the door, eager to control you, but you must do it and be its master.
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One day Cain suggested to his brother, let's go out into the fields.
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And while they were in the field, Cain attacked his brother, Abel, and killed him.
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Have you allowed someone else's success to make you angry at them and at God?
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I want you to consider this question. Have you allowed someone else's success
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make you angry at them and at God.
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Ask God to show you where comparison has become jealousy in your life.
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Ask him to reveal any place in you where you resent someone he's blessed.
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Ask him to expose every hidden insecurity that makes you feel threatened by others.
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Ask him to deliver you from the need to compare your journey to anyone else's.
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Ask him to heal the part of you that feels like you are behind.
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Healing begins when you pray for the person you once envied.
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Healing begins when you pray for the person you once envied.
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Watch this. if God showed you their blessing it may not be to provoke jealousy
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it may be to strengthen your faith,
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if he showed you something it may not have been to provoke your jealousy it's
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to show you well if he did it for them he can do it for me say amen to that,
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if he did it for them he can he can do it for me,
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maybe it's not to provoke jealousy,
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maybe it's to provoke God is able and he can do it,
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hallelujah.
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I feel led to share this with you, but here I am, I told you,
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wanting to close down our ministry.
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Because I went to another ministry and they was blowing and growing.
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And here I am thinking, what are we doing?
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Why would anybody come to our church when they could just go over there?
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And in 2019, a prophetic word came to us from a friend of mine.
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He stood in our church and essentially this is what he said he said God is going
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to send people to your ministry.
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That's going to give they're going to support they're going to give financially
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5, 10, 20 and 100 he said receive them call them blessed he said the Lord will
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send people to your ministry that will support and give thousands,
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he said receive them call them blessed and the
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Lord will send people to your ministry that will give tens of thousands
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receive it call it and bless
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he said then the Lord will send people to your
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ministry that will give hundreds of thousands he
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said receive it and call them bless he said then if you're faithful and if you
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will continue to obey God he'll send people that will send millions at a time
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and the word was to get big things done quickly for me, saith the Lord. That was the word.
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At the time, you know, we were growing and going and this past week,
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the Lord reminded me of that prophecy.
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I read that prophecy pretty often, but it reminded me of it.
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God has fulfilled that.
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Where people have been five, tens, twenties, hundreds, thousands,
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tens of thousands, we're into the hundreds of thousands now,
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praise God, and the next step will be the millions. Amen. Say amen to that.
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What if I quit?
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He had all that in store for our ministry. What if I said, you know what?
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Why would anybody come to our church when we can just go to that church?
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What if you quit? God says, I've got this plan.
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But if you quit in the early stages, I'm never going to be able to fulfill the plan.
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If you start comparing and belittling and despising what I have for you,
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I will never be able to do what I've planned for you.
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This is deep today because I want
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you to look at blessings that are happening for other people to strengthen your
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faith when I hear of somebody receiving something big and large my first tendency
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used to be oh that's just because your daddy's name is this come on somebody,
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You know, that's just because I know it's because you got this or that. I don't do that anymore.
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I say, praise God, I'm next.
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If God can do it for them, he can do it for me.
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I'm next, and I'm not going to compare it. Thank you, Lord, for showing me that
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you did it for a human being. And if you did it for that human, I'm a human.
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You can do it for me too. Say amen to that.
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Romans chapter 12, verse 15 says it this way. rejoice with those who rejoice
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and weep with those who reek.
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So we're to rejoice when other people are rejoicing and we're to weep when people are weeping.
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And so can I ask you a difficult, hard question this afternoon?
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When somebody around you gets blessed, promoted, recognized,
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favored, healed married or pregnant do you really rejoice or do you just act like you do.
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This is an indicator of our heart. Do we really rejoice or do we just act like we do?
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And then there are some people, and you know this, that you can't even tell
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what God's done in your life.
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There are certain people I can't even tell because they will begin to hate me.
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And so you can't even tell. I don't want to be one of those people.
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I want people to tell me what God's doing in their life so that I can rejoice
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with them, so that I can celebrate with them and be glad and what they don't
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know, in the back of my mind, I'm saying if God did it for you, he can do it for me too.
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If he worked it out for you, he can work it out for me too. If he did it before,
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he can do it again. Say amen to that.
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Ask the Lord to teach you how to celebrate others with sincerity.
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How to celebrate others with sincerity. We're talking about hindrances to enjoying the journey.
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And this comparison and jealousy is a major hindrance that I hear,
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that I've experienced, that I've talked to people. They're not enjoying right
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where God has them because they're comparing themselves to someone else.
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Now, I want to talk to someone today who's been watching other people step into
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things that you've been praying for.
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And if you're honest it's been hard on your heart if comparison has stolen your joy.
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If someone else's blessings has made you question your own matter of fact just
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close your eyes if someone else's blessings have made you question your own,
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if frustration insecurity or silent resentment has been weighing on you.
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You don't have to carry it anymore.
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This is not a moment of shame. This is a moment of healing.
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This is a moment where God wants to restore your joy and help you trust his timing again.
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If that's you and you're saying, Pastor, I need God to heal my heart today.
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I want you to be honest with me. And I want you to just lift up your hands right where you are.
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If that's you, I see hands up all over, all over. My hand is up too,
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right, right where we are.
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Put your hand down. I believe the Lord is healing hearts right now.
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Receive healing in Jesus name. I speak healing of the broken heartedness.
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The expectation that we thought things were happening at a certain time or by
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a certain period that has hurt us, broken our heart.
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I speak healing over your heart in Jesus' name.
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He's lifting heaviness right now.
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The Lord is breaking comparison right now. Receive it right now.
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He's breaking comparison right now.
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Let me remind you that you are not forgotten.
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You are not behind.
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Rose, I hear the Lord saying you're not too old. Stop saying that. You're not too old.
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You're just getting started.
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You are not overlooked. Overlooked.
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God has not changed his mind about you. What he promised you is still yours.
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What he spoke over your life is still yours.
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Lift up your hands right where you're seated. Just lift up your hands. Receive his healing.
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Receive his peace. receive his joy,
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right now. God is healing broken hearts right now.
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Expectations. He's giving you fresh expectation.
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You're holding on. I hear the Lord saying you're holding on the old expectations.
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You're holding on the things that God said, hey, you came up with that.
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I didn't come up with that. You're holding on to it. The Lord says, release it. Let it go.
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Let it go and receive new expectations from me.
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Don't look to your left. Don't look to your right. Look to me.
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Look to me, said the Lord.
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I'll give you fresh new expectations.
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Don't compare. Celebrate where I have you.
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Rejoice where you are right now because the best is yet to come.
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The best is yet to come. The best.
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It's going to be fresh. It's going to be original. It's going to be new.
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It's going to be tailor-made, suitable for you, cultivated for you.
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I've made it just for you.
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If you'll obey, remain faithful. Don't look to your neighbor.
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Stop looking to your neighbor. Stop competing with them unknowingly.
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Competing with your neighbor, stop.
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The Lord says, I got something just for you. Just for you.
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Enjoy, enjoy where you are right
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now, because I've got something specifically for you, saith the Lord.
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If you receive that, stand to your feet.
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This is how you receive true life.