Sermon
The Devils Real Plan to Destroy Men | Men of Valor | Pastor Evan Wilson
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And so I believe that God has something so special for you today.
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And so I want you right now, say this like you mean it.
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Say men of valor.
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Oh, man.
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You know, man, I heard that was too high pitched.
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I think the women were louder than you, which is kind of awkward.
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So.
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So I'm going to give you one more chance.
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Somebody say men of valor.
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All right, now that's better.
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Now, women, I want you to find a man in your row and tell him you
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are a mighty man of valor.
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Somebody drop it in the chat right now.
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Tag somebody.
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Now, single ladies, I just gave you the biggest golden opportunity
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right there to say that to the man you've been worshiping next to
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for three weeks.
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I hope you didn't blow it.
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Hope you chose wisely.
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But married folks, that might have got awkward because you said
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that knowing full well that you guys just argued the entire way
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to church today.
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But that's okay.
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Speaking it in faith.
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How many married people do we have here today?
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Don't sound so excited.
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Come on, we gotta make marriage look good for all the single
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people who's married here today.
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That's better.
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I've been married, going out five years to my bride, Caitlin.
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She's amazing.
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I don't know how I pulled it off.
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She's beautiful, she's anointed, she's talented.
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We have a son, 2 years old, named Easton, and we're having a
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blast.
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Being married is awesome.
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Being a parent is awesome, despite what culture may try to tell
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you.
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And so who's our single people in here?
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Go ahead, raise your hand high.
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Look around, take a snapshot, not a real photo.
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Don't be creepy.
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These are your options.
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Look around in the comment section.
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Don't be weird though.
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Men, I'm just saying stay for loadout.
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Lift as many heavy things as you can and a wife will appear.
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I'm just.
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Don't put God on that.
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That was a joke.
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Can I be blunt with you today?
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Okay, you said yes.
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So it's obvious to me that there is an all out concerted attack
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on men in our world and in our culture today.
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Now, I'm not saying that women hear me to say that you do not also
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have your unique struggles and obstacles that seem impossible to
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break through that we as men do not understand.
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I'm not saying that at all.
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But what I am saying is that it's obvious to me that there is
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a concerted attack on men that has left them so demoralized, so
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discouraged and so emasculated that it has broken the Spirit of
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a generation of men.
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And you might be watching right now, men in Miami, in Indiana.
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And you've stopped reaching, you stopped leading, you've stopped
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pushing, and you've become at peace with being passive.
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And that's why I believe it's actually an emergency that the church
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would raise up mighty men of valor in this time.
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And so we just finished an amazing time as a church, Our men's
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retreat called the Forge.
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If you were there, man, you know it was powerful.
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It's an amazing time.
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And wives, mothers, sisters, cousins, nieces, many of you are
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already feeling the effects of what God did in the men in your life
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in that time.
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It was amazing.
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And we got to hear from Apostle Mike Signorelli, the apostle
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of our house, and he brought a message Talking about the 25 characteristics
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of a spiritual father.
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And it was incredible.
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It lit a fire in me as a man.
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And so I want to share three of them with you today.
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Can I do that?
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All right.
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But before I do, we just need to take a moment and give some honor
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where it is due.
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Apostle Mike and Julie, they're not here right now, but can
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we give a hand for the mother and father of our house?
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And I just want to tell each and every person watching, and I
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can say this as somebody who's journeyed with them for over 10 years,
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the closer you get to them, actually, the more you see to the
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depth of their relationship with Jesus.
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And actually, and this is saying a lot, they love Jesus and
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each other more now than they did when they started.
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And unfortunately, when you journey this long in ministry and
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you see the success that we've seen a lot of the time, unfortunately,
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the opposite is true.
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And so through the ups and downs of starting a church, raising
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a family, they love Jesus, they love each other, and they love
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you.
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And so we are counting the minutes very selfishly until they
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get back from this sabbatical that they are on.
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But we're praying that they come back rested.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Three things.
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And you can put these in your notes if you want to see.
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Preachers say that, but we want you to take notes.
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So three things that a true man of valor embodies.
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Are you ready for him?
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He is a protector, he is a provider, and he is a priest.
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Now, as I said that list, I'm well aware of the fact that some
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of you men may have been inspired, while others of you, your
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heart sank because in your heart of hearts, you feel like you're
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over three.
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And that's okay.
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It's why we're here today.
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But some of you women, you may have heard that in your heart leapt
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with gratitude for the man of valor in your life.
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That is doing great on all three.
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But I would wager that there's many more women right now that when
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they heard that, they felt a pain in their heart because their
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father never truly protected them, that their husband has not
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been a provider.
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And maybe neither of them ever led you spirit spiritually like they
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should have.
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And so I'm well aware that there's a tension in the room when
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we talk about things like this.
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And so I want to look today at the life of a guy who's preached
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about a lot.
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He slayed giants.
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He was a musician.
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You probably colored pages of him in Sunday school.
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His name's David.
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And we actually are going to get a window into who David was as
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a young man.
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We're going to start in 1st Samuel, chapter 17, in verse 34.
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And this is David telling King Saul of what life was like as a young
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shepherd living on the backside of a hill.
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And it says this, but David said to Saul, your servant used to
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keep sheep for his father.
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And when there came a lion or a bear and took a lamb from the flock,
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I went after him and I struck him and delivered it out of his mouth.
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And if he arose against me, I caught him by his beard and struck
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him and killed him.
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Your servant has struck down both lions and bears.
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Come on.
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No big deal, right?
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And I want to pause there and I want to camp out there for a moment
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because some of you, those of you who have been to the zoo ever,
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you're doing the math in your head right now.
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You're saying, I've seen lions, I've seen bears.
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Why on earth would David have risked life and limb fighting one
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of those for one sheep, when honestly, he probably had hundreds,
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maybe thousands, I don't know, his whole sheep inventory.
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But why would David do that?
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Right?
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Because hear me.
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Men of valor do not protect because there's something in it for
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them.
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Men of valor do not protect because the thing they're protecting
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exists to serve them.
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Men of valor protect because it's at the very core of who God
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created them to be.
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And can I tell you, Church, that the Bible actually describes
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Satan, the devil, as a lion who's on the prowl seeking whom he
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may devour.
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And there's many men under the sound of my voice right now that
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you have stopped protecting the things that you should protect.
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And you've actually been allowing the devil the Line to pick
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things off in your life piece by piece.
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Because you revealed to him that you're going to let it go without
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a fight.
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And so you stop protecting the purity in your marriage.
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You've stopped.
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Stop protecting the peace in your home.
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But I came here today to tell you that God is calling you.
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He's calling you back to be a protector.
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Somebody say protector.
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And not just.
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Hear me, church.
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Not just to hold the line, but to take territory and to go after
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the lion and the bear and to rip that thing back out of the lion's
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mouth.
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See, David, he did not wait for the lion and the bear to come
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back to him.
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Hear me?
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He went after it and he took back what it stole from him.
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And so God is calling you to take territory, to plunder hell what
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it stole from you.
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Come on, man.
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It's time to cross over.
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It's time to be a protector.
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And women, this message ain't just for the men.
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Women, hear me in Indiana, in New Jersey, God wants to heal wounds
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left in your heart from the men who should have protected you,
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but instead chose to be predatory.
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Because here's the truth.
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The man that fails to walk in his design as a protector ends up
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becoming a predator.
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And so God wants to heal those wounds in you.
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Woman of God, I don't know why they didn't cherish your purity.
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I don't know why he chose to abuse, abandon, and neglect you.
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But what I do know is that above it all, there is a God in heaven
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who never stopped protecting you, who never has forsaken you,
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who never failed you.
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And women, hear me, because he is raising up in this hour mighty
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men of.
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Of valor in this house that are going to be an image bearer of
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the heavenly Father, and they're going to be an extension
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of the Father's heart in your life, regardless of your age, your
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stage of life, your background, because that's what the
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church is supposed to be.
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Don't be a predator.
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Be a protector, man.
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Because predators they take.
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Predators they isolate.
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Predators are only concerned with what's gonna serve them.
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But protectors give.
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Protectors unify and connect.
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Protectors will lay their life down for those that they have been
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charged to protect.
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And so today, man, I'm gonna ask you, which one are you gonna
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be online?
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Which.
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Which one are you going to be?
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And I want to look again at the life of David.
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We're going to flash forward a little bit into second Samuel, chapter
2 Samuel 11 chapter mention
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11, because in David's life, we actually get to see what happens
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when you Lose sight of who you are as a protector.
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It says, in the spring of the year, the time when kings go out
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to battle, they, David sent Joab and his servants with him and
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all Israel.
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And they ravaged the Ammonites and besieged Rabba.
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But David remained in Jerusalem.
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Now, it happened late one afternoon when David arose from his
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couch and was walking on the roof of the king's house, and he
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saw from the roof a woman bathing.
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And the woman was very beautiful.
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Ain't it funny how in one season of David's life, he's the
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guy who will kill a lion and a bear over one sheep?
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But then you flash forward just a little bit, and he's the kind
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of guy who will seek the safety and the distance and the comfort
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of a rooftop far away from the fight that he should have been.
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In verse three, it goes on to say, david sent and inquired about
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the woman.
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And one said, is not this the daughter of Eliam, the wife of Uriah,
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the Hittite son?
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So David sent messengers and took her.
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Come on, predators.
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Take.
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And she came to him, and he lay with her.
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See, somehow, David, over the course of his life, he went from
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killing predators to becoming one.
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And some of you men, as I was reading that you were being brought
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back to a time in your life when you walked in integrity, when
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you showed up for your kids, when you were pursuing your wife.
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And you're asking yourself, how did I get here?
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How did I go from the man that would kill a lion and a bear for
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my family to the man hiding on a rooftop, spying on things that
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I shouldn't even have?
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How did I get here?
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But I came on assignment today, men of God, to remind somebody
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that it is not too late, that there is still time, that God is
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not done with you yet, that you have not drifted so far from
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him, that he cannot reach you.
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And I feel prophetically right now that God is raising something
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up on the inside that says, I don't care what came before.
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I don't care about the shame, the labels.
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I'm stepping over as a protector.
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Stepping over as a protector.
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Don't be a predator.
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Be a protector.
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But you see, David, he wasn't just a protector.
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He was also a provider.
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Now, okay, okay.
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God's moving, but I want to ask a question.
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This is going to get a little interactive, okay?
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Because I want to find out who the providers are in our midst.
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Okay?
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Don't worry.
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I'm not going to ask salaries.
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I'm not going to ask who's employed and who's Not.
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There's actually a better way to find out who the providers are
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in our midst.
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And I want 100% participation.
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Come on, Back row Indiana.
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Wake up.
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I see you in the spirit.
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I'm just kidding.
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I'm sure they're locked in.
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We love you, Indiana.
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I'm from Indiana, by the way, so I can.
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I can say that.
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Okay, by show of hands, I want to know which of you are the designated
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Netflix subscriber of you and your extended family.
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Oh, man.
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Come on, lift it.
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Loud and proud.
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Can we give a hand clap and a shout for the real team players,
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the ones that put society on their back?
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Come on.
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Come on.
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Men of God.
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Amen.
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Amen, man.
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Some of y' all, you got aunts that you've never met, you've got
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exes still logged in.
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You're gonna go home, you're gonna purge that account, be a good
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steward.
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I'm standing before you as a man of God, as a pastor who probably
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bumps his mother in law off her own Netflix account five times
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a week.
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Don't you judge me, Eric.
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Don't you.
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She gave us the login.
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I'm not trying to rob her of a blessing.
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Let it be.
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Somebody watch him.
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But see, we in society, we place a special honor on people that
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provide.
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We place a special honor on the people who go first and provide
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that safety and that security.
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And I want to remind the men today that that is a mantle that
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God has called you to take up.
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But see, hear me, being a provider, it doesn't mean you have
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to have the nicest house on the block.
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It doesn't mean that your wife has to have all the Gucci, all the
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Louis, that you have to have the best car.
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But what it does mean is that the people in your life that are
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under the covering of your provision are taken care of.
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And see, it's not about a number.
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It's if you are physically able to earn, you earn.
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And then what you earn, you give generously to the people under
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your care.
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And so I want to.
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I want to read out of 1st Chronicles, chapter 29, we get to
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see a snapshot into David's life in a time where he shows us
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what it is to be a provider.
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This is later in David's life.
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And going to pick it up in verse two says this.
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So I have provided for the house of my God so far as I was able.
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The gold for the things of gold, the silver for the things of
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silver.
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And we're going to move down to verse three.
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Moreover, in Addition to all that I have provided for the holy
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house, I have treasure of my own of gold and silver.
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And because of my devotion to the.
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To the house of my God, I give it to the house of my God.
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Now, men, you may not have kingly riches like David.
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You may not have now what you someday hope to have in the future.
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Some of you are starting businesses.
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Some of you guys are building.
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But I want to highlight six words in this passage.
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Are you ready for them?
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All right, I'll ask you guys.
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Are you ready for them?
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Come on.
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So far as I was able.
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See, it's not about a number.
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You may not have monetarily as much as David did at this time, but
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it's not about a number church.
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It's about an able.
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Somebody say it.
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So far as I was able, it's about enable.
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Because can I tell you, man, I remember as a young man, what it
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still young.
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A younger man.
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I'm aging on stage right before you.
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I got grays.
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I remember what it feels like to overdraft your checking account
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at the gas pump, knowing that paycheck's gonna hit in a couple
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days, but you gotta get home.
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I remember the shame of feeling like everybody has their
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finances together more than you do.
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But what I also know is that I was young and now I am old.
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Yet I have not seen the righteous forsaken, nor his children
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begging for bread.
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See, men, being a provider is not about a number.
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It's an identity that you walk in that says, I'm gonna work to provide
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for house.
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I'm gonna work to provide for God's house.
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And then I'm gonna trust that what I have in his hands turns what
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I have into enough.
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And because he's the ultimate provider, and I'm gonna be like my
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father.
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And I know, I know because I've been a pastor for a few years
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now, hearing a message like this, Some of you men, you're thinking
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to yourself, okay, Evan, my wife has a good job.
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She actually happens to make more than I do.
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And I think that's great.
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Some of you, you might be thinking, okay, Pastor, I got laid
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off.
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This all sounds great.
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I couldn't control that.
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And the fact that I'm not working right now, does that make
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me less of a man?
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And what I want to say to you, number one, I think that's amazing
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that you have a woman of God in your life.
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Proverbs 31.
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Woman that brings finances into your family blesses your family.
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That's amazing.
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Number two, I know that Things happen outside of your control.
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Layoffs happen, injuries happen, you get laid off.
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And you as a man, you might feel like you're in an in between
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season right now, but what I want to caution you against men is
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don't let your in between season turn into a full, forever
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season.
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Because some of you are like, man, I got laid off.
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And I'm saying, brother, that was 18 months ago.
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You're dangerously close to laying in it and staying in it instead
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of walking through it.
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And so God, he's called you to be a provider.
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I want to read in first Timothy 5, verse 8, before I read
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this, I want to let you know this is not Evan Wilson's opinion.
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Don't get mad at me.
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This is the word of God, verse 8.
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It says, but if anyone does not provide for his relatives and
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especially for members of his household, he is denied the faith
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and is worse than an unbeliever.
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Now, I want you to underline, if you got your Bible, three words
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in this verse.
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Are you ready for them?
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His, his, and he.
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Notice it doesn't say she.
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It doesn't say her.
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Not that a woman of God cannot earn and help provide.
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But I'm saying this is a mandate and a mantle that is placed
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on men.
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And it actually says, this is the word of God.
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If you deny that call, you have denied the faith, and you're
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actually worse than an unbeliever.
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And I know this part of the sermon doesn't get shouts, but, man,
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we need to get this.
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Because the reality and why I'm preaching this so emphatically
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and why I believe God takes this so seriously is that as a man,
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if you do not function as a provider, you end up becoming a parasite.
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And as I'm sure you're getting a sense for by this point in the
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message, David is a complicated guy.
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And in his life, the pendulum swings in both extremes.
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Sometimes he really gets it, other times he does not.
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And so I want to look at David's life, and I want to go back
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to a time when he stepped out outside of being a provider, and
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he actually became a parasite.
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We're going to read in 2nd Samuel, chapter 12, but to give you
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some more context, David, when he slept with Bathsheba, not only
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did he sleep with a married woman, but he actually orchestrated
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for her husband to die on the battlefield in order to cover up
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his sin.
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And so this all happens.
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And then God commissions David's friend Nathan to confront
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David about this.
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And the way David chooses to do it is with a fictional Story to
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draw attention to what David had done.
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And so we're gonna be 2nd Samuel 12, verse 1.
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And it says, the Lord sent Nathan to David.
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And he came to him and said to him, there was two men in a certain
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city, one rich and the other poor.
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The rich man had very many flocks and herds, but the poor man
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had nothing but one little lamb which he had bought.
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And he brought it up, and it grew up with him and his children.
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It used to eat of his morsel and drink from his cup and lie in
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his arms, and it was like a daughter to him.
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Some of you dog parents that let your dog kiss you on the mouth.
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This is you.
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It's gross, but praise God, we'll pray for you.
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Now, there came a traveler to the rich man.
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And the rich man was unwilling to take one of his own flock or herd
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to prepare for the guests who had come to him.
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So instead, he took the poor man's land and prepared it for the
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man who.
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Who had come to him.
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Now, upon hearing this, David, he gets angry.
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Righteously angry.
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Okay, Nathan, we got to find this guy.
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We got to find this rich man.
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He needs to die.
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Then we need to find the poor man, and we need to multiply and
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restore to him fourfold what was taken.
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And so David's getting all worked up.
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And then Nathan looks him dead in the eye and he says, david, this
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story is about you.
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You are the rich man, and you took in your plenty, in your kingly
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riches.
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You took something that you shouldn't have had.
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Because what do parasites do?
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Parasites eat what they don't earn.
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Parasites, they get fat while the house gets weak.
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Parasites, they have no regard for who they're taking from.
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Parasites, they don't build legacy.
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They bleed it dry.
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And so don't be like David in this instance.
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Be a provider man.
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Somebody say provider.
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Amen.
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If you want to be the real alpha, I know that word is used,
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it means different things to different people.
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But if you want to be the real man, it's not who has the biggest
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muscles, the biggest bank account, the nicest car.
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It's the man who's the most generous.
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It's the man who gives of himself, that the people around him's
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lives are better because he's in leadership.
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And so you can be a protector and a provider.
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But can I tell you where most men really miss it?
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Because I know that many of you, maybe you've stepped into those
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first two, but the reality is you can protect and you can provide.
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But if you don't learn how to pray, then you're never gonna step
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in as a man to who God's called you to be.
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I'm talking about priesthood.
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Because let's be real.
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Can we be real right now?
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Church.
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There's a lot of secular red pill podcasters that are preaching
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this message of you gotta be a provider, you gotta be a protector,
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you gotta be a high value man.
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And men who don't even follow Jesus are flocking to these kind
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of messages because it resonates with something on the inside
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of them.
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But can I be real?
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Can I be blunt?
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It also feeds on the pride of a man to say, oh yeah, I'm a protector,
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I'm a provider.
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Look at me, look at all the people that I can take care of.
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But can I tell you that if you are only a protector, if you are
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only a provider, and you don't catch a revelation of priesthood.
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See, the antidote to pride in a man is priesthood.
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It's not about looking impressive in the eyes of the world.
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It's how yielded and submitted.
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Can I be in the presence of my father?
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And so we're talking about, about priesthood husbands.
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Can I talk to you for a moment?
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Can I tell you what your wife needs even more than your financial
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provision?
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She needs your prayers.
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She needs your encouragement.
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See, more than hearing another preacher on a microphone on a stage
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preaching a message on a Sunday, she needs to hear and feel
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your prayers on a Monday.
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And your prayers, your encouragement, no matter how inarticulate
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you feel that they may be, will do more for the soul of your
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wife than a hundred sermons preached by a man who is not her
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husband.
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And I had to learn this crash course.
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Young married man.
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No podcast, no conference, no altar call can replace the prayer
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priesthood of your home fathers, fathers.
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As a young father myself, can I tell you that what your kids need
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more than you teaching them how to throw a baseball is you showing
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them how to throw a petition up to heaven.
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If they have seen you get worked up over a game more than they
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have seen you on your face before your God, they are gonna grow
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up in an increasingly strong secular world having no idea how
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to withstand the things that are coming their way.
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They need to see your priesthood and single man.
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I didn't forget you, what a blessing that it is to be single
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right now.
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And I can feel the collective eye roll of seven campuses of our
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church hearing that from a married guy.
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I feel it.
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I've been there.
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I've been in conferences.
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Okay, easy for you to say, married preacher man.
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I want a wife.
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But what a blessing it is to be single.
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Now, hearing messages like this, getting the revelation of priesthood,
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imagine the power in your marriage if you go into it healed
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and whole and the man that God called you to be.
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Because when a man does not become the priest of his house, he
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becomes a poison to his family.
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Can I say that again?
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The man who doesn't become the priest of his home will become a
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poison to his family.
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Some of you men, you feel like that's you right now, but can I tell
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you more about David's life?
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This mighty man that we hear about and that we color in coloring
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books about?
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See, when David stepped out as operating as a priest, his baby died
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as a judgment for his sin.
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His son violated his own sister because David did not protect
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the purity of his home.
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Another son, he took things into his own hands and he committed
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murder.
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And then that same son rebelled and tried to overthrow David.
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And then that same son died because David did not deal with the
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sin that was knocking at his door.
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And some of you, right now, you're thinking, man, I thought my
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family was dysfunctional.
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I see myself a whole lot more in David now.
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And you might be thinking, okay, I don't want that for my family.
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I know enough to know that.
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But I don't know how to be a priest.
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And so I want to.
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As we get ready to close, I want to give you five things that
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a priest does.
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If you haven't written anything else down, this whole sermon,
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shame on you.
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Number one, it's a joke.
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Number two, I think this is gonna help somebody.
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Five things that a priest does.
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Number one, A priest stands in the gap.
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When nobody else is praying, you're praying.
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Man of God.
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When nobody else is fasting, you're fasting.
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When nobody else feels like what?
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Worshiping.
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You turn up the worship music and you praise your God.
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See, you set the atmosphere of your home when you're a priest.
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Number two, a priest offers sacrifice.
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You sacrifice your time, your preference, your ego.
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You sacrifice for the sake of leading your family to the cross.
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Number three, priests teach and model God's word.
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Now, you don't have to have a microphone and scream and foam at
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the mouth like some preachers.
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But maybe what that looks like, men, is being the guy that
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says, no matter how busy we are as a family, no matter how many
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travel, sports we are signed up for, no matter what extracurriculars
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there are, we are going to sit down with the daily growth journal
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every single day, and we're going to open up the word of God.
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See, we made it as easy for you as we could, man.
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We want to put a sword in your hand.
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But, see, a priest, he teaches and models God's word.
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Number four, A priest blesses people.
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Man, if we only knew the effect that our words actually have
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on the people in our life.
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Our wives, our kids, if you're single, your cat.
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We don't realize the effect that our words have.
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And I think if we took an inventory, we'd realize we speak
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more curses than blessings.
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But a priest blesses his home.
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Number five.
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A priest keeps the house holy.
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A priest says, there are some things that are not gonna cross over
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the threshold of my home.
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I'm gonna be the gatekeeper.
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I'm gonna cast out what needs to be cast out.
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And as for me and my house, I will serve the Lord.
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I'm gonna filter culture, and I'm gonna lift up the name of Jesus
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in my home.
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A priest keeps his home holy.
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And now, as we get ready to close my fourth close, I know that
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that list, to many of you men, it was not inspiring, it was crippling,
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because it reminded you of all the ways that you feel like you're
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not measuring up.
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You know, Evan.
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Yeah, I get it.
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I can't remember the last time I prayed, let alone prayed for my
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family.
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Lord, man, you know, I feel like I probably cussed out my family
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more than I've encouraged them.
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I don't know the word of God.
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How am I supposed to teach the word of God?
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And you're thinking through all of these reasons why you can't
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be a priest, but can I tell you Miami?
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Can I tell you Indiana?
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Can I tell you Long Island?
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That's kind of the whole point of this faith that we walk in, is
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that you cannot measure up.
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You actually can't do it.
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On your best day, you're gonna fail.
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Because, see, we as men, we live in this tension of responsibility
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and release.
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As a man, I'm responsible for my walk.
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I'm responsible for my family.
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I'm responsible for my home.
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But if you only ever catch a revelation of responsibility and
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never a revelation of release to Jesus, you're gonna find that
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you're building a house of cards, and it's gonna come crashing
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down.
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Because here's the truth.
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You don't have to lead anybody to the dead end that is yourself.
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You just gotta lead them to the foot of the cross.
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You don't have to be perfect men.
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You just gotta show them who is Takes the pressure off, doesn't
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It.
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Because, see, man, we gotta.
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We gotta grow beyond the minimums.
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We gotta grow beyond checking the boxes.
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All right?
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I took my family to church on Sunday.
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Praise God.
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That you did.
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I provided for my family.
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I went to work 9 to 5.
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I checked my box.
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Because, see, following Jesus is not a formula.
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It's a funeral.
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It's going to take dying to yourself, man of God.
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It's going to say, I'm going to look inward.
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I'm gonna kill the predator.
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I'm gonna kill the parasite.
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I'm gonna kill the poison deep in my heart, and I'm gonna step in.
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And so right now, under the sound of my voice, I want to know
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which men are gonna answer the call.
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Because you know what?
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I'm not even gonna count down.
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Because a man of valor does not need a countdown to step up and
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step into what God has.
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So right now, I want you to jump up on your feet.
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If you are a man who says, I'm going to be a protector, I'm going
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to be a provider.
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I'm going to be the priest of my home.
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Come on, can we get loud right now?
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There's men in living rooms right now standing up.
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There's men in Miami standing up right now.
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We're killing the predator.
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We're killing the parasite.
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We're killing the poison, man.
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But you can't do it by yourself.
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I think we know that.
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And I would be remiss, as a preacher of the gospel today if I
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commissioned you to be the priest of your home without reminding
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you that there is a high priest who leads you.
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Hebrews chapter four is going to encourage somebody.
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Verse 14.
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It says, since then, we have a great high priest who has passed
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through the heavens.
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Jesus, the son of God.
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Let us hold fast our confession, for we do not have a
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high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weakness, but
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one who in every respect has been tempted as we are.
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Hear me, man.
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Yet he was without sin.
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Let us then with confidence, draw near to the throne of grace
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that we may receive mercy and find grace in our time of need.
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See, David, he couldn't save his sons.
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But Jesus overcame the world, David.
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He ran from the fight he should have been in.
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But Jesus, he stepped in the fight that nobody else could.
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David.
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He knew how to build altars.
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But Jesus stepped onto the altar as a sacrifice.
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See, I'm grateful for scripture to see ourselves in men
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like David.
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But you don't just need to see yourself.
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You need a savior.
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And so there's men being commissioned all over the world right
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now.
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Count yourself among the ranks of mighty men of valor today.
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Come on.
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Can we give a hand for our men?