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Biblical Manhood & Womanhood - 2 Timothy 1 - Lead By Living…

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  1. Good morning family. Good morning. All right.

  2. So before we get started, we're going to do our

  3. little reading today. Except today's reading,

  4. today's doctrinal focus is in the 1689 London

  5. Baptist Confession, chapter 14, section 1. We

  6. will all read it together. And then we're going

  7. to dive into 2 Timothy. So we have four chapters.

  8. I've got four weeks before I go on sabbatical.

  9. I get 30 days to get refreshed and come back

  10. raring to go for another three years. So I'm

  11. excited. So this gives me some time where I can

  12. just relax in Jesus and just focus and then come

  13. back raring to go again. So that being said,

  14. let's read the 1689 London Baptist Confession.

  15. The grace of faith whereby the elect are enabled

  16. to believe to the saving of their souls. So it

  17. is the work of the Spirit. of God that He saves,

  18. and the process by which He brings us to the

  19. saving knowledge of Christ is through the Word.

  20. And our building up, our working out of our faith

  21. comes through all of these other means by which

  22. God uses to sanctify His people. So, are you

  23. guys ready for a little walk today in 2 Timothy

    2 Timothy 1 chapter mention

  24. chapter 1? All right, let's pray. Father, I want

  25. to thank You so much for Your goodness. Thank

  26. You, Lord, for Your Word. Thank you that we can

  27. come before you in awe and in wonder that you

  28. are God. Thank you for holy time that we can

  29. bow our hearts and minds, not only as little

  30. ones, but also as adults to hear from you. We

  31. are listening. Lord, when our ears are attentive

  32. to what you say, help us, Lord, to honor and

  33. glorify you in all that we do. to walk in wisdom,

  34. and to lead by living obediently according to

  35. your word. Lord, we praise you and thank you.

  36. Your name is great, and there is no name greater

  37. in all of the universe and all of creation. You

  38. are the almighty God. In Jesus' name, amen. 2

    2 Timothy 1 chapter mention

  39. Timothy chapter 1. Paul, an apostle of Christ

  40. Jesus, by the will of God, according to the promise.

  41. of the life that is in Christ Jesus. To Timothy,

  42. my beloved child, grace, mercy, and peace from

  43. God the Father and Christ Jesus our Lord. I thank

  44. God, whom I serve, as did my ancestors. with

  45. a clear conscience, as I remember you constantly

  46. in my prayers night and day. As I remember your

  47. tears, I long to see you, that I would be filled,

  48. or I may be filled with joy. I am reminded of

  49. your sincere faith, a faith that dwelt first

  50. in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice.

  51. Now, I am sure, dwells in you as well. For this

  52. reason, I remind you to fan into flame the gift

  53. of God, which is in you through the laying on

  54. of my hands. For God gave us a spirit not of

  55. fear, but of power and love and of self -control.

  56. Do not be ashamed of the testimony about our

  57. Lord Jesus, nor of me, his prisoner, but share

  58. in suffering for the gospel by the power of God

  59. who saved us and called us to a holy calling,

  60. not because of our works, but because of his

  61. own purpose and grace, which he gave us in Christ

  62. Jesus before the ages began. and which now has

  63. been manifested through the appearing of our

  64. Lord Jesus Christ. who abolished death and brought

  65. life and immortality to light through the gospel,

  66. for which I was appointed a preacher and apostle

  67. and teacher, which is why I suffer as I do. But

  68. I am not ashamed, for I know whom I have believed,

  69. and I am convinced that he is able to guard until

  70. that day what has been entrusted to me. Follow

  71. the pattern of sound words. that you have heard

  72. from me in the faith and love that are in Christ

  73. Jesus. By the Holy Spirit who dwells within us,

  74. guard the good deposit entrusted to you. You

  75. are aware that all who are in Asia turned away

  76. from me, among whom are Phygelus and Hermogenes.

  77. May the Lord grant mercy to the household of

  78. Onesiphorus. For he often refreshed me and was

  79. not ashamed of my chains. But when he arrived

  80. in Rome, he searched for me earnestly and found

  81. me. May the Lord grant him to find mercy from

  82. the Lord on that day. And you well know all the

  83. service he rendered in Ephesus. So it's quite

  84. a bit. We're going to get through the chapter,

  85. I promise. First principle, godly leaders are

  86. called by the will of God to preach, teach, and

  87. proclaim the gospel. Godly leaders are called

  88. by the will of God to preach, teach, and proclaim

  89. the gospel. Mark 16, 15, and he said to them,

  90. go into all the world, proclaim the gospel to

  91. the whole creation. What we see here in verses

  92. one and two is a very important phrase here.

  93. And it is the word according to the promise of

  94. life. I want you to see this. Paul, an apostle

  95. of Christ Jesus by the will of God. It is God's

  96. will that he is an apostle. It is God's will

  97. that he has been called to come and preach. Now,

  98. this term that we see in the English ESV says

  99. according to the promise of the life that is

  100. in Christ Jesus actually is kata ipanjalia zoe.

  101. and Christos Isus. That's how you say it. What

  102. it means is to proclaim life in Christ Jesus.

  103. That's what it means. So Paul, an apostle of

  104. Christ Jesus, by the will of God, to proclaim

  105. life. in Christ Jesus. Very important that we

  106. see that. Why? Because that's Paul's purpose.

  107. That's God's will for every believers to proclaim

  108. the life of Christ, that there is life in Jesus.

  109. And that very promise that Paul has concerning

  110. life in Christ is also offered to all who believe.

  111. That's the idea here. So in verse two, it says,

  112. to Timothy, my beloved child. Now this is a common

  113. phrase for people who have disciples, people

  114. that are mentored, right? And so Paul has this

  115. young man who has, he's come alongside to raise

  116. up as a pastor to develop, right? It's a very

  117. similar, and I'm not saying this because where's

  118. Bob? Bob's here. Anyway, so it's very similar

  119. to my relationship with Owen as a mentor and

  120. a pastor. I've come alongside him. That's the

  121. idea. And so Paul's come alongside Timothy, and

  122. he looks at him and treats him and develops him

  123. as a pastor as he would a son. Right? And so

  124. it's important that we see why Paul does that.

  125. Number one. Number two, Paul really has grown

  126. to have an attachment for this young man because

  127. he doesn't have a dad. His dad is gone. His dad

  128. has passed away. And so Paul takes this on. personally,

  129. as someone who's highly invested in this young

  130. man. And you see this relationship a little bit

  131. later in this chapter. He says, to Timothy, my

  132. beloved child, grace, mercy, and peace from God

  133. the Father and Christ Jesus our Lord. Very important.

  134. So he's getting Timothy to understand, you mean

  135. a lot to me. Now, So godly leaders must continue

  136. to proclaim the gospel, preach it, and teach

  137. it, and come alongside those who are being trained

  138. in it to raise up godly leaders for the future.

  139. Now, godly leaders have and live a life of sincere

  140. faith. Godly leaders have and live a life of

  141. sincere faith. Let us hold fast the confession

  142. of our hope without wavering, for he who promised

  143. is faithful. Hebrews 10, 23. You're going to

  144. see this here in verses 3 through 5. I thank

  145. God whom I serve. Notice what Paul says here.

  146. I thank God whom I serve. The word serve here

  147. is the word that implies a render homage or worship.

  148. So it's one thing to come and do work. We have

  149. people that aren't even believers that come here

  150. and work. That doesn't mean that they're serving

  151. God. This is to serve with a heart and an act

  152. of obedience. So when I come and I render homage,

  153. I also give worship. I obey as did my ancestors,

  154. Paul says. In the same way that Abraham believed

  155. God and obeyed, I do the same. That's the point

  156. here. Can we say that as God's people, as the

  157. people that we have watched and witnessed that

  158. they have been obedient servants, that they have

  159. rendered homage and obeyed God in all that they

  160. do. And Paul says that he does the same thing

  161. as my ancestors did. Now think about that in

  162. that Paul persecuted the church. He was radically

  163. changed, completely regenerated, renewed. changed.

  164. His mind was completely changed. And now he says,

  165. I am just like them, just like my ancestors.

  166. And I do it with a clear conscience. I do it

  167. with no guilt, no shame, no accusation above

  168. reproach. Why? Because in Christ, he has been

  169. cleansed, changed. As I remember you constantly

  170. in my prayers day and night. Do you remember

  171. each other constantly in prayers day and night?

  172. When you're driving down the road and you think

  173. of someone, do you call and pray with them or

  174. talk with them? Do you spend time praying and

  175. thinking about them? Or do you just take those

  176. particular moments where you just set aside for

  177. your day? Because prayer is more than just ritual.

  178. There is a ritualism to prayer. Prayer can be

  179. ritualistic. It's a good thing. but it's so much

  180. more. Like when I'm driving and the Lord brings

  181. to mind a person's name, and I immediately pray

  182. for them, and I'm like, I got to call them. My

  183. wife goes, who are you calling? I just got to

  184. call. Right? It's important. And so do you do

  185. that? Do you remember God's people day and night?

  186. You know, even in my days off, I'm thinking of

  187. y 'all and my family. specifically my kids and

  188. my wife and my grandkids. And it's like constant

  189. all the time. But that's the way, that's the

  190. way it should be. You should be, we should be

  191. on each other's minds constantly praying for

  192. each other all the time. Notice what he says

  193. in verse four, as I remember your tears. He remembers

  194. when Timothy and him had to split. Timothy had

  195. to go. And what happens immediately, Timothy

  196. cries and Paul remembers the love Timothy had

  197. for him. And as a result, he says, I long to

  198. see you that I may be filled with joy. Do you

  199. get excited when someone walks in you haven't

  200. seen in a while? I mean, to be honest with you,

  201. Colleen's on the phone. I was like, yo Colleen,

  202. are you guys excited about seeing each other?

  203. When you haven't seen somebody come in a while.

  204. Of course we are. That's how we should be with

  205. each other. But are we really being filled with

  206. joy when we see someone we haven't seen in a

  207. while? Do they know that you love them? He says,

  208. I am reminded of your sincere. This word sincere

  209. means genuine, not hidden faith. You'll see why

  210. this is important, because later on he deals

  211. with the issue of not being ashamed and not being

  212. afraid. Because when we are afraid, we keep things

  213. hidden. But not Timothy. Timothy reminds Paul,

  214. he's reminded, Paul's reminded of the sincere,

  215. the genuine, the unhidden faith of Timothy. A

  216. faith that dwelt, that word dwelt means to dwell

  217. in or influence. A faith that influenced first

  218. his grandmother Lois and his mother Eunice. Does

  219. the faith of Christ influence you to be different?

  220. Does it influence you to have courage? Does it

  221. influence you to commit all? your ways to him.

  222. Acknowledge him in all that you do. Does your

  223. faith really drive you, or do you just say that

  224. you believe? Then he says this, for now I am

  225. sure dwells in you as well. Paul has seen the

  226. faith of Christ, which was in his grandmother

  227. Lois and in his mother Eunice. He has seen at

  228. work the influence of faith in Timothy also.

  229. So what kind of men and women should we be? Godly

  230. leaders. must preserve all that God has entrusted.

  231. Now, when we look at this, why should we preserve

  232. what was entrusted to us? Why should we guard

  233. what was entrusted to us? Because it's something

  234. that God has given that we should be fanning

  235. into flame. Look what it says in 2 Timothy 1,

  236. 6 -7. For this reason, what reason? What cause?

  237. because of your faith. In verse 5, he talks about

  238. the faith that Timothy has. And for this reason,

  239. Timothy, for this cause, I remind you to fan

  240. into flame, to kindle, inflame one's mind, strength,

  241. and zeal. In other words, when we think about

  242. the gospel, are we going in inflamed? Have we

  243. kindled the fire of the gospel of evangelism

  244. in our lives? Okay. Now I love the gospel. Okay.

  245. And every Sunday I get to come and preach. I'm

  246. like, let's go. Like that's like, it's like,

  247. they know that. Cause I do that every time I

  248. get done praying. Every time I get done praying

  249. in the back, I'm like, let's go. It should be,

  250. that should be flammed in, fanned into flame.

  251. You should be so excited because you get to tell

  252. someone about Christ. Like that's, that's, that

  253. excites me. And so are you fanning into flame?

  254. Are you kindling one's mind, strength, and zeal

  255. for the gospel, for the gift of evangelism? Are

  256. you excited to go out? And Paul says, which is

  257. in you through the laying on of my hands. Paul

  258. has departed this gift of evangelism through

  259. the laying on of hands. God, Paul has given him

  260. the biblical authority to go. The same thing

  261. Jesus did with his disciples. Okay. Now notice

  262. verse seven, for God gave us a spirit. Now the

  263. way this is rendered in ESV, it should be capital

  264. S, right? God gave us a spirit. God gave us the

  265. spirit, not a fear. So the spirit of God is not

  266. a fear. This word spirit is disposition or influence

  267. that fills and governs a person. Does the person

  268. Are you being influenced by the Spirit of God

  269. that has filled you in governing you? Or are

  270. you being controlled by fear? This word fear

  271. means cowardice. Are you a coward? Are you chicken?

  272. Are you afraid to tell people about Jesus? Because

  273. Jesus says, if you deny me before men, I will

  274. deny you before my Father which is in heaven.

  275. Think about that. God doesn't want cowards. He

  276. wants bold believers. And these people were so

  277. bold in their faith that they were willing to

  278. suffer for the sake of the gospel. So, for God

  279. gave us a spirit, an influence that governs us.

  280. His name is the Holy Spirit. He lives in you.

  281. He doesn't live in you to make you afraid. He

  282. lives in you to make you courageous. God does

  283. not give us a spirit of fear, but of power. and

  284. of love, and of sound mind. What's interesting

  285. about that is it's His power, and His love, and

  286. His soundness of mind is what means here. How

  287. can we say that? Because the Spirit Himself lives

  288. in you. It's His power He gives you. It's His

  289. love, His agape that He gives you. It's His mind

  290. that He gives you. Philippians 2. What's it say

  291. in Philippians 2? That we have been given the

  292. mind of Christ. You have it. It's yours. You

  293. can be sound in your mind. So walk with the Spirit.

  294. Let Him be the key influencer and filler and

  295. governor of your life. Don't let fear control

  296. and dominate you. Why? Walk in His power. Walk

  297. in His love. And walk in His sound -mindedness.

  298. Fear not in preaching, teaching, and proclaiming

  299. the gospel. Third, godly leaders must not be

  300. ashamed of the gospel and must be willing to

  301. suffer. Anyone who goes into ministry must learn

  302. to suffer well. This includes anybody. Missionaries,

  303. pastors especially, elders must learn to suffer

  304. well. One of the reasons, one of the things that

  305. we see within churches today, especially young

  306. men coming out of college, going out of university,

  307. got all the book stuff they can get. They come

  308. out and they think they can go and lead a church,

  309. and within five years they quit because they

  310. can't handle it. Why? Because they're weak. There's

  311. a strengthening in the suffering. There's a strengthening

  312. in the suffering. There's an ability to stand

  313. the pressure, persevere in suffering. Suffering

  314. is necessary. Y 'all know that scripture, okay?

  315. Character, perseverance, perseverance, love.

  316. Look what it says in 1 Peter 4, 16. Yet if anyone

  317. suffers as a Christian, let him not be ashamed,

  318. but let him glorify God in that name. Therefore,

  319. verse 8, Timothy, therefore do not be ashamed

  320. of the testimony about our Lord. That word testimony

  321. is witness or gospel. Therefore do not. It's

  322. an imperative. It's a command. You don't have

  323. an option. You cannot just like, yeah, it's commanded.

  324. You cannot be ashamed of the gospel of our Lord.

  325. And Paul says that I am not ashamed of the gospel

  326. of Christ for it is the power of God unto salvation.

  327. Look what else he says. He says, therefore, do

  328. not be ashamed of the gospel of our Lord Jesus

  329. or our Lord, nor of me, his prisoner, his captive.

  330. Are you ashamed of each other? So he's telling

  331. Timothy, listen, don't be ashamed of the gospel

  332. of Christ. And don't be ashamed of me, his captive.

  333. Are we ashamed of each other? Are we really so

  334. uncomfortable with each other that we aren't

  335. willing to live with one another in peace? Purpose

  336. to fulfill the kingdom and the call of God as

  337. brothers and sisters. Are we ashamed to be associated

  338. with each other? Are you just not fitting my

  339. way? He says he's the captive. But share in suffering.

  340. Share in suffering. Suffer with and suffer together

  341. for the gospel by the power of God. Meaning his

  342. power. It's one thing to... not be ashamed of

  343. somebody. It's another to say, I'm willing to

  344. suffer with you. Are any of you willing to suffer

  345. with people that you really don't like, but they're

  346. part of the family? I mean, that's pretty deep,

  347. right? Am I really willing to suffer with you

  348. because you're my sister or brother in Christ

  349. for the gospel by the power of God? Or am I just

  350. not willing to be associated with you at all

  351. because you just don't fit me? Or as the young

  352. people say, we're not vibing. You and I just

  353. aren't vibing. And so look what he says here.

  354. God, but share in suffering for the gospel by

  355. the power of God, who saved us and called us

  356. to a holy calling. Notice this word, this term,

  357. this phrase, who saved us means to make a partaker

  358. of salvation. God has made you a partaker of

  359. salvation. And called us. Now, what's interesting

  360. about the call of God to salvation is it's two

  361. things. One, it's an invitation. He invites you

  362. as a friend. Hey, you know, I got this and I'd

  363. really like for you to have it. You're like,

  364. yeah. That's the first. He does it as a friend.

  365. The second is he summons you as a king. You see,

  366. the invite is like, hey. And then he says, you

  367. must bow. It's both. Isn't that interesting?

  368. Kind of reminds me of election. Isn't that interesting?

  369. He's like, hey, come. All who come, come. Then

  370. he says, by the way, get over here and bow before

  371. the king. Yes. Very interesting. That word called

  372. literally means both. Both are required. Now,

  373. look what it says. He has saved us and called

  374. us to a holy calling. A sacred embrace of salvation,

  375. kingdom, and station of life. I want you to get

  376. that. This invite and this summoning, he has

  377. brought us into a sacred embrace of his salvation,

  378. his kingdom, and station of life. Now, what's

  379. interesting is he saves us in spite. He puts

  380. us in a kingdom and makes us a kingdom. And then

  381. he actually changes. the station of life for

  382. you. In God's heaven, you're not poor. You're

  383. a prince or a princess. In God's heaven, you're

  384. no longer children of darkness, but children

  385. of light. In God's heaven, you are children of

  386. the living God. That's a station of life. Yes,

  387. I'm privileged, and I am not going to apologize

  388. for it. Now, not because of our works, not because

  389. you guys did something, not because I earned

  390. it. It's not because I saved myself or called

  391. myself or decided I'm going to go into a holy

  392. calling myself. It's because of his own purpose

  393. and grace, which he gave. He didomized the word

  394. here. He granted, he delivered, and he committed.

  395. He granted salvation. through purpose and grace.

  396. He's delivered salvation through purpose and

  397. grace, and he has committed salvation through

  398. purpose and grace to us in Christ Jesus. Where

  399. is our purpose, and where is the purpose and

  400. grace fulfilled? In Christ alone. Now get this,

  401. before the ages began. You hear that? Before

  402. any epoch. before earth was even created, before

  403. God instituted, there was morning and evening

  404. and first day. Before any of that, God has saved

  405. you in Christ. You're like, well, I thought I

  406. had a part of that. That should, anybody who's

  407. free will, that should wreck you. Because this

  408. has nothing to do with free will, because it's

  409. not something that you decided like yesterday.

  410. This is something that has been determined before

  411. the ages began. This work of Christ for you.

  412. Notice in verse 10, in which now has been manifested,

  413. meaning revealed or made known through the appearing

  414. of our Lord Jesus Christ. And the proof of that

  415. is he abolished, who abolished death and brought

  416. Zoe, brought eternal life. So he destroys death.

  417. He brings eternal life and immortality. This

  418. word immortality means incorruptibility. imperishableness.

  419. We are incorruptible in Christ and imperishable

  420. in Christ. You're like, well, we're dying. But

  421. when he resurrects you, or if we're raptured,

  422. i .e. taken up, you're going to receive a incorruptible

  423. body. Now, this immortality, this incorruptibleness,

  424. this imperishableness has come to light through

  425. the gospel. It's the gospel that has brought

  426. the reality of the truth of the eternity with

  427. Christ and the abolition of death and the immortality

  428. of our souls has come through the gospel. This

  429. word through means dia, which is by the means

  430. of. So when Jesus says, There is only one way.

  431. There is only one way. There is no other way.

  432. Now, let's keep reading. Paul says, for which

  433. I was appointed a preacher, apostle, and teacher.

  434. God has appointed him as a preacher, apostle,

  435. teacher for the gospel's sake, not for my mission

  436. or my church or my ministry. It's not yours.

  437. It's God's. Your responsibility wherever he places

  438. you to work is the gospel, period. There is no

  439. other vision. Kind of hard for some pastors to

  440. hear. What's the vision for the church? I know

  441. I got to pray on that. Really? Holy smokes. I

  442. didn't know God had another plan. That's a pretty

  443. big book to try to find a vision outside of the

  444. vision that's already been cast. I mean, this

  445. vision has been going on for a couple thousand

  446. years and still going and still going and still

  447. going. There is one vision. There's one purpose.

  448. And Paul understands this. It's the gospel, which

  449. is why I suffer as I do. Are you willing to suffer

  450. for the gospel? Or can you be like Paul who says,

  451. but I am not. ashamed, for I know whom I have

  452. believed. The reason why he is willing to die

  453. for the gospel and die for Christ is because

  454. he knows beyond a shadow of a doubt who he has

  455. believed. He has seen him. He has been taught

  456. by him. You know what Jesus said, blessed are

  457. those who believe and yet have not seen. Everyone

  458. who believes and has not seen has a faith that

  459. is so great. You have great faith. if you believe.

  460. But belief without obedience isn't faith. Now,

  461. let's keep going. For I am convinced he is able.

  462. Dunatas. Dunatas. He has the power, the might.

  463. Do you hear that? I am convinced that Jesus has

  464. the power and the might to guard, to fulaso.

  465. Fulaso means to guard, protect, or keep. Keep

  466. from being snatched. Does your Jesus, does my

  467. Jesus, does he have the power to and might to

  468. keep the gospel, my salvation, my inheritance

  469. from being snatched? Yes, he does. Yes, he does.

  470. He is more than capable, more than powerful.

  471. And he will do it until that day what has been

  472. entrusted. What has been entrusted to me, the

  473. gospel. He will guard and protect and keep from

  474. being snatched until that day what has been entrusted

  475. to me, the gospel. He will keep the gospel from

  476. being taken from me. Why are so many churches

  477. running away from the gospel? Why are so many

  478. people, so many pastors removing the gospel as

  479. it was intended to be preached and heard? Don't

  480. want to be offensive. The very thing that Paul

  481. warns Timothy not to do, churches today are doing

  482. in droads. Don't want to offend you. Sorry. I

  483. don't want to talk about sin. It hurts your feelings.

  484. Oh, isn't that a shame? God forbid. It's okay.

  485. Run in the middle of the street. It's good. You're

  486. welcome to. Hey, there's a truck coming. Beep,

  487. beep. Come on, man. We must stand for the gospel.

  488. Now look what else it says. Until that day he

  489. has entrusted, entrust to one's faithful keeping

  490. and stewardship. Can you hold to the gospel?

  491. Can you keep the gospel? the way it was intended

  492. to be heard and preached, the gospel, that wonderful,

  493. beautiful gospel. Godly leaders keep and guard

  494. with their lives the faith and purpose to live

  495. in obedience. Look carefully then how you walk.

  496. not as unwise, but as wise, making the best use

  497. of the time because the days are evil. Therefore,

  498. do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord's

  499. will is. Ephesians 5, 15 through 17. What is

  500. God's will? Preach the gospel in its entirety.

  501. Christ was crucified, buried, rose again on the

  502. third day. Why? Because you're a sinful human

  503. being. And without Christ, you are destined a

  504. child of wrath. Now, Notice what it says in verse

  505. 13 and 14, follow, keep, take hold, seize the

  506. pattern, seize the example, copied and modeled

  507. of the sound words. Now this word, hugiaino,

  508. hugiaino is the word where we get hygiene from.

  509. These sound words, the word sound means hugiaino,

  510. logos, healthy words of Christ is what that means.

  511. So take hold and seize the example that has been

  512. copied and modeled for you, which are the healthy

  513. words of Christ that you have heard from me,

  514. Paul says to Timothy. In other words, these words

  515. of Jesus are good for you. And sometimes, I don't

  516. know about you, but not all kids want to take

  517. a bath. I mean, I know I didn't. Sometimes. Why?

  518. Because I was having fun. We don't want to be

  519. healthy sometimes. We like to be dirty, but that's

  520. not good. We need healthy. God's words are healthy

  521. for us. Notice what it says. Where do these healthy

  522. words come from? They are in faith and love that

  523. are in Christ Jesus. The only way to have healthy

  524. words is through Jesus. What does John 1 say?

  525. In the beginning was the... word. And the word

  526. was with God and the word was God. He is the

  527. healthy word. And he's given you his healthy

  528. word on paper. Now, notice he says here, these

  529. healthy words, which are in Christ Jesus, are

  530. by the Holy Spirit who dwells within us. The

  531. Spirit, the word of God lives in you, in the

  532. person of the Holy Spirit who dwells. who is

  533. the influencer of your life. He says guard. This

  534. word guard means obey, watch, and keep from being

  535. snatched. Are we keeping the word of God? I think

  536. there are many churches like ours. Yes, I think

  537. we're striving. That's our hunger. That's our

  538. thirst. I think there's a lot of churches that

  539. aren't because they want the easy Jesus. And

  540. it's not easy. Christian life is meant to be

  541. hard. Why? Because it makes muscles. which I

  542. need to do. Got my blood pressure down, but I

  543. need to work out because it keeps me healthy.

  544. It's the same idea in our spiritual life. Guard,

  545. obey, watch, keep from being snatched the good,

  546. the kalos, the proper, beautiful, valuable, and

  547. virtuous deposit entrusted to you. I want you

  548. to hear that. This good deposit, this... beautiful,

  549. valuable, virtuous, and proper deposit that's

  550. been entrusted to you is the gospel of Jesus.

  551. Why do we think we got to fix it? I mean, the

  552. cross is a beautiful thing for us. It is the

  553. power of God for us. The cross is foolishness

  554. to those who are embarrassing, but to us, men

  555. and women of God seek out opportunities to serve.

  556. This is the end. Like, why? would Paul at the

  557. end of chapter one, which I don't think that

  558. was intended. I think he was just a continual

  559. thought. He mentions being like abandoned. But

  560. I want you to notice this one individual, Onesiphorus,

  561. he's like out of everybody, he's mentioned. It's

  562. because men and women of God seek out opportunities

  563. to serve and minister to others. Why do I share

  564. that? It's providential, I will tell you. You

  565. guys, should be finding every opportunity to

  566. serve here. There should not be a moment that

  567. you're not getting involved serving and caring

  568. and connecting and praying for God's people and

  569. working with God's people because there's a kingdom.

  570. And all the little things matter. All of them

  571. matter. From the beautification of the property

  572. to helping over with spaghetti and meatballs,

  573. helping Grace Alliance, helping each other in

  574. men's ministry. I'm going to call this. I got

  575. to do it. I'm going to do it. Men, I'm going

  576. to be very frank with you. There should not be

  577. four or five guys showing up at men's meeting

  578. every other month. Every man in this church should

  579. be there if they can be there. How are you going

  580. to sharpen? How are you going to learn to continue

  581. to grow in your faith if you're not there? Even

  582. if you came once a month, that would be a good

  583. thing. You wonder why women have a hard time

  584. following? Because you're not leading in some

  585. cases. And I'm being honest. I got to call you

  586. out on this. I want to see the men involved,

  587. growing in their faith, fully committed to the

  588. word, being men of the living God, learning his

  589. ways. Take a little bit of time to spend time

  590. with Jesus. Just a little. You won't grow if

  591. you don't. You'll be like, well, pastor, you're

  592. not there. Pastor can't be everywhere. The church

  593. goes as the men go. Where the men go? The church

  594. will go. And the leaders, the men, must lead.

  595. It's hard. Make a point to be there. We have

  596. several opportunities to gather and serve. And

  597. some of you guys already know you're serving

  598. a lot. You're serving a lot of other areas. Okay?

  599. You're involved in a lot of other areas. This

  600. is not a guilt trip. This is challenging the

  601. men who are not involved. But I needed to do

  602. that before I went on sabbatical, so I got it

  603. out of the way. At least a month in advance so

  604. you won't be too mad at me in three weeks. I

  605. love you all. Really, I do. You're like, you're

  606. a jerk, pastor. Let love be genuine. Abhor what

  607. is evil. Hold fast to what is good. Love one

  608. another with a brotherly affection. Outdo. What's

  609. interesting about this word, outdo, in Romans

  610. 12, 9 through 10, is this word means to show

  611. the way, lead, and give preference. Be the example.

  612. Outdo one another in showing honor, in showing

  613. value, in showing specialness. Isn't that interesting?

  614. Or in to show preciousness. Are others more precious

  615. than you? So here you go. Verse 15 through 18.

  616. You are aware that all who are in Asia turned

  617. away from me, among whom are... You'll never

  618. guess what I said early in first service. It

  619. was so funny. I said Pelagius. It was so bad.

  620. Phagellus and Hermogenes. Now, why is Paul abandoned?

  621. Well, he gets arrested. And now, if you're in

  622. another area and, you know, the dude that was

  623. persecuting and killing the church ends up getting

  624. arrested, you're like, uh -oh, what'd he do now?

  625. And so, like, all of Asia was like, I'm out.

  626. But, He mentions this one person. He says, may

  627. the Lord grant mercy to the household of Onesiphorus.

  628. Why? Onesiphorus. Because for he often refreshed

  629. me and was not ashamed of my chains. He wasn't

  630. ashamed of Paul's arrest because of the gospel.

  631. But when he arrived in Rome, he searched for

  632. me earnestly and found me. He went out of his

  633. way to find where he was at in house arrest.

  634. Why? to serve him. I can't help but think he

  635. remembered what Paul had done for the church

  636. there in Ephesus. Look what it says. May the

  637. Lord grant him to find mercy from the Lord on

  638. that day, and you well know all the service he

  639. rendered at Ephesus. So why do I challenge the

  640. men? Why am I challenging the men? Why am I being

  641. hard on us as men to serve? because it speaks

  642. volumes of where the church is going. It speaks

  643. volumes. It's not because I'm being condemning.

  644. It's to stir you up. It's like if I went into,

  645. I said this before in a message. I know I did.

  646. It's like going into a football game, and you're

  647. at halftime, and you're getting like down by

  648. two touchdowns, and you're defeated, and you're

  649. like, oh, we ain't gonna win. It's sort of like

  650. the Eagles and the Chiefs, but they were already

  651. done. It didn't matter what. Reed said, you know,

  652. let's go out there, you guys stink, you're terrible,

  653. but you can still win. You know, that's the kind

  654. of idea. But that's sort of like what I get here.

  655. It's like, as men, let's continue to strive to

  656. serve one another, to learn and to walk in Christ,

  657. to allow each other to sharpen each other. Can

  658. you imagine how much more further we would be

  659. as a church? How strong our church would be?

  660. considering everyone else around us. We have

  661. a good, strong church and we have a good group

  662. of men that do serve, but we have men that aren't.

  663. And so my challenge is to you, if you're not

  664. involved, get involved. That's my challenge to

  665. you. And you're like, how can you say that? Because

  666. you already know me. I've set the example and

  667. my family's given sacrifice. And if I can do

  668. it, you do it. Father, I want to thank you so

  669. much for this wonderful letter. It's a reminder

  670. of our call to the gospel, our commitment to

  671. not be ashamed, but to contend, to keep it from

  672. being snatched, to walk with purpose, to lead

  673. in living. And Lord, I know even these things

  674. that are difficult to handle and talk about,

  675. it is for our good. Lord, we so thank you and

  676. we do praise you. I thank you for all the men

  677. and the women here. I thank you for the service.

  678. for those who are serving and giving and working

  679. and really working hard to honor and glorify

  680. you. But Lord, I pray that you would continue

  681. to stir in the hearts of everyone here the importance

  682. of being part of what you are doing, the establishment,

  683. the continued establishment of your kingdom to

  684. build upon what you have already laid. Help us

  685. to be faithful keepers of the gospel. In Jesus'

  686. name, amen.