Sermon
Mary’s Yes: The Faith, Sacrifice & Strength of a Mother | Mother's Day | Apostle Mike Signorelli
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Transcript
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Come on, stay up here, Jewel.
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Stay up here.
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You look so presidential.
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I know.
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I was like, I love this outfit.
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But I just wanted to say to each and every one of you, my wife
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loves you so much.
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She prays for you by name.
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I often hear it.
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And she really does care for you, and she cares for this church.
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I mean, I don't know if you guys know this, but she and I want
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every campus to understand this as well.
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She is the best that we have at V1 Church.
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I'm talking one of our best leaders, most faithful servants.
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And we just thank you so much because you really have been a mother
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to all of us and to our pastoral staff and our team and my
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babies.
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And I love you so much.
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Yeah, I'm gonna get you all the things for Mother's Day.
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So today's your day.
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Today is your day.
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Love you.
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She just said, we're going to Home Goods.
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I'm sure they saw the video.
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I just got her two carts full of Home Goods stuff.
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So how about let's pray for me?
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Okay, let's pray for me.
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Before I jump into this word, Heavenly Father, I thank you so much
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for every mother, Lord, under the sound of my voice, there's thousands
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watching right now via television, through the Internet,
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God.
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And we pray for them.
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Mothers in hospitals, mothers who are at home.
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We pray for them right now, Lord.
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We pray for the mothers of Brooklyn and Miami and Indiana.
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We pray for the mothers of New Jersey, God, Mothers here on Long
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Island.
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And we thank you, Lord, that you, by your sovereign design and
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your will, have caused women to be mothers.
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Lord.
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You give life.
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And, Lord, we thank you that you give them the strength and the
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ability to do what you called them to do.
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In Jesus name, Amen.
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You can go ahead and take your seats.
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This might.
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Okay, so you might be like, isn't it odd that a man is preaching
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Mother's Day?
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I asked my wife, I said, jules, what do you want for Mother's
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Day?
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And you know what she told me?
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I want you to preach Mother's Day.
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So she was like, I don't want to be the cliche pastor's wife that
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gets up and does a sermon on Mother's Day.
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I actually want to enjoy it.
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And you're my favorite preacher, so would you preach?
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Is this.
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Am I right?
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Am I lying, Jules?
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Okay, so good.
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Cause that's all you got.
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That's all you get right here is this.
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Put a bow on it.
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I'm playing.
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The other thing is, I made a commitment that I was gonna Keep
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service short so we can get to the things that you scheduled in
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your home.
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And I have given permission for my staff at 30 minutes into this
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message to jump on stage and to tackle me.
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And so I'm just gonna be as accountable as I can.
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Now, they already started this timer three minutes ahead.
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They accelerated me, so.
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But I got a word that I wanna share and it's really a special word.
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And this is something that I've had a front row seat for because
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I was raised by a single mother with five.
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I'm the oldest of five kids and we were very poor.
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And I watched my mom try to be a dad and a mom.
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And sometimes when my mom would discipline me a little too
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hard, she'd be like, well, this is me being your dad now.
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And that was kind of how life was.
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And then I watched my wife navigate motherhood.
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I had a front row seat for her giving birth to both of our children.
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But we also experienced the pain of miscarriage and we had two
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miscarriages in between children.
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So sometimes people are confused.
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They're like, you have a 19 year old daughter and you have a
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12 year old daughter, like what happened?
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And.
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But we actually unfortunately had two miscarriages between those
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pregnancies.
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And I believe that both of our children are miracles and testify
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to the power of God.
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But also being a pastor, you know, this day is very hard.
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There's people that may be watching right now.
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I hear the stories, they tell me, hey, you're not gonna see me
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in person on Sunday.
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It hurts too much to show up.
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And I empathize deeply because being a pastor for the last 20 years,
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I've walked people through many different scenari in many different
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situations.
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So I know we shouted out the biological mothers.
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Can we also shout out all the spiritual mothers right now that
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may not have biological children, but they have treated somebody
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else child like their own?
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Aren't you grateful for spiritual mothers as well?
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Can we put our hands together for all the mothers of adopted children
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that have brought children into their home?
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We have many families that have adopted and it's such a beautiful
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thing.
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Come on.
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And so we honor each and every one of them.
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I wanna just share a very brief sermon about who I believe
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in all of scripture is the greatest mother.
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And here's my proof.
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She was chosen by God to birth his son, Jesus, and her name is Mary.
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We're gonna talk about Mary because out of all the women in the
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entirety of scripture, as I thought about it, Mary must have
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been the most significant.
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She must have when the angel said, you have found favor with the
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Lord.
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I don't think any of us can quite understand the depths of that
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statement.
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Because she was found suitable physically, mentally, emotionally,
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spiritually, to birth the Messiah.
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And then God knew that she would see him all the way through
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to the cross.
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And I wanna take a look at that, because, yes, we celebrate
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all of the mothers here, but I wanna celebrate Mary as a mother.
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An example in scripture that we can all learn from both male and
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female today.
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And I'm gonna kind of weave in my wife's own story into this because,
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you know, she is my wife.
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And as I was studying Mary, I realized.
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And Julie, I know you didn't.
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Julie didn't know what I was gonna preach.
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And I promise I'm not doing this just to score extra points.
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But there's uncanny parallels between many of the attributes of
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Mary and my wife.
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And I thought, if in the way that it would be appropriate, I would
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try to take an ancient story and make it modern.
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And so we're gonna do some parallel.
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But it starts in the first chapter of Luke.
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So if you look at Luke, chapter one, verse 38, the Scriptures
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say, I am the Lord's servant.
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May everything you have said about me come true.
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As a matter of fact, leave that up on screen all around the
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world right now at all of our seven campuses.
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Can we repeat this scripture together?
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And so I'm gonna begin to read it and try to recite this with me.
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I am the Lord's servant.
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Okay, hold on.
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You're gonna have to do better than that.
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All right, get off your phone.
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All right, you ready?
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We're gonna say this out loud.
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Say this with me.
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I am the Lord's servant.
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May everything you have said about me come true.
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That's simple.
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But that is what came out of Mary when she was presented with
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this seemingly impossible task of giving birth to the Messiah.
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Look what she said.
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I am the Lord's servant.
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May everything that the Lord said about me come true.
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One of the hardest things in life is to come into agreement with
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what God says about you.
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Can I get an amen?
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One of the hardest things in life is to.
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As a matter of fact, if somebody calls me dumb, I'm inclined
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to believe them because I've made a lot of dumb decisions.
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You know what I'm saying?
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Like, it's almost easier to stay in a certain mindset, to give
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yourself permission to come into agreement with the negative.
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But there's something about when the Lord gives you an identity,
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when the Lord tells you that you're something.
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How hard it is to come into agreement, how hard it is to believe
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that you are that thing.
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And what I see in the life of Mary is that she makes a decision
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to come into agreement with what God says, even if she doesn't
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understand.
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How many of you know what it feels like to not understand why
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God would choose you?
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Do anybody know what I'm talking about?
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God, I don't even know why I would not have chose me.
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I don't know why you have chosen me.
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But there's something about Mary that where understanding is
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not a prerequisite to submission, understanding is not
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a prerequisite to submission.
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She really doesn't understand it.
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But she says, I will come into agreement with it.
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There's something powerful about that.
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And so when you look at Mary's life, it's this master class in what
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I call the pivot.
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Because she goes from this stable in Bethlehem, I mean, basically
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surrounded by common farm animals, to now taking flight in
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Egypt because there's a census on the firstborn.
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And she could actually have experienced her child Jesus being
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murdered.
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And so she never really gets this white picket fence reality,
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and she gets this life of constant adjustment.
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Isn't it funny how sometimes we want a life better than those
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that came before us in the scripture?
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And it's like we want normalcy.
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God, give me the white picket fence.
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God, give me the stability.
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God, root me in a place where everything's gonna be relatively
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stable.
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But when you look at the life of Mary, she goes from a stable in
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an inn, in a borrowed suite.
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Then she goes to take flight in Egypt, then she comes back in
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Nazareth, their family travels into Jerusalem for the feast and
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festivals, and you just really see Mary's life as a pretty consistent
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adjustment.
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And I don't know about you, but being a mother, and this is from
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a man's perspective, it seems to be a life of constant adjustment.
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Once you master the baby phase, the infant phase, they turn
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into toddlers.
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Then they start throwing fits and throwing themselves to the ground
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and crying and screaming.
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And then now you gotta deal with the terrible twos or whatever.
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And then the then, right when you figure out the toddler phase,
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then it's elementary school, and then all of a sudden elementary
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school, then they start puberty, and then now you got a whole
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nother issue because they smell bad and they need deodorant.
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And you know, you're like, man, how is that my kid's stinking
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so bad?
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And you're like, oh, it's cause they have armpit hair now and
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they're teenagers.
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And then you get that down, then young adults, and it's like
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a life of constant adjustment.
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And to think about the fact that God trusted Mary, that Mary
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was gonna be able to lead.
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Ooh, that Mary was gonna be able to lead Jesus.
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Think about the responsibility of being the woman that's tasked
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with leading Jesus.
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If ever you struggle with God.
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Am I doing a good enough job leading my kids?
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Can I propose to you, Mary, who is.
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Who had to lead God's kid?
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I mean, you know how sometimes you feel like you're not enough?
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You.
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You know, my.
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My mom.
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My.
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You're not my mom, Jewel.
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Sorry.
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My mommy.
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And the husband said amen.
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But my wife, you know, it's like she'll.
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And she's in that phase now of like driving our daughter to dance
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and then, you know, going grocery shopping, then she cooks.
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Then sometimes it's an Uber Eats day.
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Can I get an amen?
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God bless all those Uber Eats drivers on their missionary journeys
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through New York City delivering food to the Signorelli's.
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But it's funny because no matter how much my wife does, one
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of the constant feelings that she's dealt with, and after two decades
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of pastoring, I've come to recognize that this is like a normal
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experience is she doesn't ever feel like she's done enough, no matter
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how long her day was.
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Can any women bear witness to that?
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And so Mary is such a good example because she's constantly
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adjusting, she's constantly pivoting.
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And, you know, I wanna show you this picture from when our church
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first launched.
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It's a pretty funny moment.
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So this is Everly.
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And everly was in V1 Kids.
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And wheneverly was now, we used to have kids in the movie theater.
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So we didn't have big nice buildings like this on Long Island.
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Not the one that you're in in Indiana, you know, where we flipped
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it.
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It's got new carpet and all that.
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We were in the movie theater when we first got started, so we
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would have to set the kids stuff up around all of the chairs
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of the movie theater.
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And our kids of V1 kids had gotten this idea, what if we just
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climb on top of these recliners and just jump off of these
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things and go crazy and, you know, make it a gymnasium, you know.
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So this is when we had one location as a church and we were
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just getting started and all of a sudden we had got word that
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Everly was hurt.
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And we took her to the hospital and she's, she had broken
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her arm.
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And so the early days of V1 Church was Everly walking around
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with a sling and a broken arm.
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And there's my wife and she.
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Now, let me explain the look on her face.
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You know, she's smiling with her mouth but not her eyes.
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If, you know, you know, because we had just, you know, been
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through a lot as a family and we had downsized to come move to
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New York, so we had a 600 square foot apartment and my wife
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was figuring out how to live in the city.
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We didn't have laundry in our apartment, so we'd had to drag our
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clothes down the street.
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I remember those were the days, Julie, where we would get a
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flat tire every single time we went to church.
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Do you remember that?
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It was, we hit the streak for weeks where we got a flat tire.
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Every single time, every Sunday we had a flat tire.
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Remember that?
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And so then on top of that, Everly broke her arm and she's doing
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the peace sign.
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I don't know why we did that, but it's.
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But when I think about Julie as a mother, I think about the attributes
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of Mary of a constant adjustment, understanding the journey,
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understanding that we're headed somewhere.
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We're not where we want to be, but we're not where we used to be.
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Thank God.
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We're not where we used to be, but praise God, we're going to get
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to where we're supposed to be and I'm going to press on.
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I think about, you know, this situation with our family.
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It's like what we didn't know is that this single location church
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was gonna turn into a seven location church.
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What we didn't know is that at the time we barely could have six
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kids and V1 kids, all of our volunteers wanted to quit on a weekly
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basis.
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And now we have hundreds of kids all over the United States.
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And don't despise the days of small beginnings because the Lord
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rejoiced when it began.
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And come on, I gotta tell a mother right now.
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Your kids might be little now, but don't despise, despise the days
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of small beginnings because you're taking care of your kids,
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but your kids may very well end up taking care of you.
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And you never know what prophet, what.
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Apostle, you know, what evangelist, what preacher, what entrepreneur.
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You never know who you've got in.
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Government sitting in your house and you're changing some poopy
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diapers and you're feeding them now.
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But how many of you know, don't despise the days of small beginnings.
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And so when I think about this story, it's constant adjustments.
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It's being willing to adjust.
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And to every single mother under the sound of my voice, who
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doesn't have the house that they want, with the white picket
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fence that doesn't have the square footage that they want.
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Listen, some people have a house but.
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Don't know how to build a home.
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Listen, I'd rather have love in a home than have a nice house.
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You get what I'm saying?
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I'd rather have the presence of God in a house.
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Come on.
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Some in a small apartment.
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To have the peace of God that.
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Rules and reigns in that place.
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Thank you.
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Than to have a big old empty.
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House full of demons.
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Does anybody know what I'm talking about?
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And so I learned that from Julie's life.
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It's the art of adaptability.
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The eleventh commandment.
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Be thou flexible.
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You know what I'm talking about.
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You ever have your baby, they blow out their diaper and they.
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I mean, it's atomic.
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And it shoots up the backside, and somehow it goes from the rear
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up their back all the way into their hair.
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Have you ever seen that happen?
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Come on, bring that picture up.
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I'm just playing.
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You know, it's like you.
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If being a mother teaches you anything, expect the unexpected.
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Women have such a higher likelihood of bearing the fruits
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of the spirit because they get tested.
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They get tested.
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There's something about Mary navigating those tests, navigating
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those trials.
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The pivot.
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Everybody say pivot.
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See, pivot is.
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Watch this.
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I'm about to preach something.
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Cause I see this with Mary.
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When you pivot, you lock one of your feet into position.
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But now, this is like, for basketball.
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Like, to pivot, you have to keep one of your feet locked in a
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position, but then you're able to rotate your other foot.
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You're able to move and rotate.
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So what happened was when Mary got the assignment to be the mother
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of Jesus, to see him, to fulfill his destiny, she locked into
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position.
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In other words, she said, I'm planting my foot here.
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I know what the Lord's called me to do, but I thought I was gonna
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be able to build a nice house.
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But I'm gonna have to go from this barn to Egypt, and I'm gonna
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have to go from Egypt to Nazareth, and I'm gonna have to go
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from Nazareth to Jerusalem.
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And it may look like transition, but.
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But it's really pivot.
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Because I have never lost my first position.
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I have never given up my first position.
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Let me Just preach some revelation to you right now.
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When the Lord gives you a child and you become a mother, you
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may not be able to choose your physical.
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Address, but you can choose your spiritual address.
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And you can say, my husband can act however he wants to act.
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But as for me and my house, I will not lose this position.
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I may have to pivot, but I am not changing my position.
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Can somebody help me preach this?
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Man, you can drink as much as you want to drink.
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You can do as much drugs as you want to.
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You can cheat on me.
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I made up my mind.
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I'm planting my feet here.
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I might have to pivot.
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But you're not getting me off this position.
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I'm not going to sin with sinners.
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Anybody know what I'm talking about?
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We're going to go to church with.
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A blowout tire and a blowout during the through the back.
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I'll change a diaper.
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I'll change a tire.
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The only thing I'm not changing is the mission.
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This is going to be the same.
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I might be tired, but I'm not giving up.
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I might feel like quitting.
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Pivot.
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You got a word?
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Somebody say pivot.
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We've pivoted all over New York, haven't we, Jules?
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But we refuse to change the position for our mission.
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Number two, I want to talk to you about one of the aspects of Mary
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that is simply undeniable.
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Luke, chapter two, verse 19.
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So let's go one chapter over.
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But Mary treasured up all these things, pondering them in her
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heart.
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But Mary treasured up all these things, pondering in her heart.
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So when you talk about the endurance of a mother.
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Oh, when you talk about the.
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It's not about surviving.
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It's about holding the weight on that foot that's firmly in position.
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Mary had to endure public whispers.
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Public.
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Julie has had to endure a lot of public whispers, a lot of naysayers,
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a lot of gossip.
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Do you know their story?
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Do you know what Mike did?
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Do you know that he cheated?
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Do you know that this.
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Do you know all these things she's had to endure?
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Those.
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Those whispers.
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Mary had to endure those.
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You know, how believable it was to a first century Jew that Jesus
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was conceived immaculately?
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Try selling that to your local community.
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I had a baby without having sex.
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Yeah, right.
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Mary.
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So Mary had to learn how to endure, to stay rooted and planted
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in that position, even if it required pivotal.
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And when I was thinking about my wife, she's had to endure that.
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But this verse, Luke, chapter two, verse 19.
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We just skip over it, not realizing the depths of it.
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Let me read it again.
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But Mary treasured up these things, pondering them in her heart.
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Mary didn't ponder their gossip.
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In her heart.
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She pondered the things that the Lord had said to her that she
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came into agreement with, and that became her treasure.
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And let me just tell you this.
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In a materialistic world where people are seeking physical treasure.
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Listen.
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Oh, come on, somebody.
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She treasured up the word of God, and she pondered that in her
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heart.
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Listen, you gotta make up your mind.
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I don't care what they say.
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I care what he said.
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And my treasure is not physical.
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My treasure is the word of the Lord.
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And I'm gonna remember the prophecies he said.
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Remember the apostle Paul said to Timothy,.
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Timothy, remind yourself of the prophecies that were late said
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over your life so.
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That you might be able to fight the good warfare.
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How many of you know that good.
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Warfare is connected to remembering the good words, the good
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prophecies, the good dreams.
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And see, there was something inside of.
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Julie that said, yeah, everything you're whispering is correct,
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but make sure you finish the story.
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Mike messed up, but God is a God of second chances and third chances.
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And there was a test.
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There's a testimony in the.
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In the midst of that mess, and.
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God turned it around, and he'll birth a marriage ministry out
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of a dysfunctional marriage.
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He'll birth a church and a home spiritually out of a broken
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home.
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Does anybody believe that, or is it.
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Just me right now?
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And so it's like sometimes you can't stop them from whispering,
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but you can determine what goes into your heart and what you
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treasure, because what you treasure, you protect.
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Reject their words and protect God's words.
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Move God's words into your heart and move their words out of
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your heart.
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See?
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And this is why.
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Now, this is just a quick side note.
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My wife has a supernatural gift.
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And that gift is the ability to throw away anything that I think
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is valuable.
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It is a supernatural gift.
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I mean, and I now believe it's connected to.
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My wife can discard things.
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She's not.
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So it's a supernatural gift.
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But I am telling you, the amount of times I've come home to
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discover that my best favorite clothes have been donated, that.
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But my wife has an ability to let go.
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She has an ability to release.
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But it's funny, because she'll let go of material things, but she
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holds onto the promises of God, and there's a health.
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I want to show you this picture.
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There was a season where when our church was first getting off
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the ground and we were now going multi site.
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And we were traveling more and more.
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This is picture number two.
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Put it up now, please.
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There you go.
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Thanks, God.
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You know, sometimes I'm preaching.
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They just get slain in the spirit in the back and they.
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So do you remember this picture, Jules?
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So there was a time where we were learning.
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I'm about to teach y' all something.
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We were learning how to survive national church.
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So for all of you in Indiana, for all of you in Miami, there was
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a pioneering that happened.
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And our family had to learn that pioneering together.
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And we had this series of events where our flights kept getting
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canceled and canceled and canceled and we would be delayed
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and trapped in the airport.
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Remember this, babe?
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And I found this picture because I'm the only one not smiling.
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And my wife is like, I've got my Starbucks, I got my man's.
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That's what she calls me, her man's.
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And we're here together.
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How bad is this?
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And I'm like, I wanna go home.
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God, please.
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But there's a pioneering that happened.
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But you know what I noticed?
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When we are one location church, the problem was our daughter
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breaking her arm, living in a little apartment, dragging the laundry
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down the street, getting flat tires for six weeks straight.
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But then guess what happens when you graduate success.
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You graduate problems.
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So next time you ask God for more, understand what you're asking
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for.
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See, Hannah said, lord, give me a baby and I'll give them back
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to you.
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And she birthed Samuel.
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But there had to be.
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But there was a pain with that birth.
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Mothers understand that what they ask for requires a price to
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be paid.
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And there's something that we can learn about mothers, that when
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we graduate in levels, we also graduate in levels of sacrifice.
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And so for those of you who are watching in the campuses nationally,
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that was a price that our family paid and we endured it.
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But my wife, I noticed something, and I want to end this
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message like this.
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As I begin to look through the archive of pictures that I have over
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the last 10 years of being serving as the founding lead pastor
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of V1 Church, my wife was consistently smiling in every single
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one.
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She was also hurting to some degree in every single one.
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And I know the pain of that season.
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As a matter of fact, I wanna take you back to one more season.
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Because my point number three is there's mothers understand the
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courage of presence.
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And if you look at John, chapter 19, verse 25, it says, standing
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near the cross where Jesus, mother, brothers and followers standing
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near the cross, there's a power of presence and that ultimate
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pain threshold.
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Women know this is when everyone else has fled.
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Mary stood.
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When everybody else was ashamed to be connected, Mary stood.
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I think that's my wife bleeds the gospel.
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She bleeds the message of Jesus Christ.
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She also bleeds V1 church and there's been times where people have
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fled.
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But my wife stood just like Mary and said, I'm going to be here
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through all of it.
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I'm not ashamed.
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I know.
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Remember, she anchored her foot and she's.
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And now Mary does another pivot.
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Here I am at the cross.
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I don't understand the cross.
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I don't know why I'm here.
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I don't understand.
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But I know in the beginning, my story started when an angel showed
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up.
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And that angel told me that you were gonna give birth to the
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Messiah.
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And I said, God, let me come into agreement with everything that
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you say about me.
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And now Mary is in front of the cross with her son Jesus, not
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understanding just like she didn't understand in the beginning,
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but simply surrendering and saying, think about this, Peter.
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Big old tough fisherman, blue collar man work with his hands, willing
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to take a sword and kill somebody but run scared.
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And there's a little woman named Mary who stands at the foot
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of the cross and says, I'm not scared because I know who Jesus really
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is.
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She had a little old woman, had more courage than a big.
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A big burly man.
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How many of you are thankful for those prayer warrior mothers
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that we have?
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Those little women that they might be little in stature, but in
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front of giants?
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Come on.
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They are greater through Christ.
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You know what I'm talking about.
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That mother that'll stand up to a.
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Cancer diagnosis and say, God is going.
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To get glory out of this situation and God is going to show
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himself faithful and I'll live and not die.
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A mother that will get the news about a child being lost and
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say, well, we'll come together and we'll still eat good and God
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will make a way.
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The faith of a mother like Mary.
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That will stand at the foot of the cross saying, I'm still never
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leaving my position.
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I'm still never leaving my position.
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This is to every mother under the sound of my voice.
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Do not deviate one inch off of what God told you.
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If God said it, you will see it.
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If God promised it, it will come to pass just like Mary, because
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the.
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Same Mary that witnessed the cross, witnessed the resurrection.
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And let me just tell you, some.
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Of you are going through some dark times right now.
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And I remember My mother crying.
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And Sandra would say, God, how could you work this situation out
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again?
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It continues to get worse and worse.
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My mom didn't know that there was going to come a day when she
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was in a movie across 2,000 theaters in the U.S. she didn't know
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she was gonna be in a stadium telling our story.
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She didn't know that she.
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We couldn't have understood what God was doing.
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But how many of you know that God is, well, able to do everything?
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Come on.
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Exceedingly and abundantly.
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More than you can think, ask, or imagine.
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Come on.
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I'm speaking to the mothers right now.
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God will do more than you can.
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Even think or imagine.
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He'll exceed your expectation.
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God's not trying to meet him.
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He's trying to exceed.
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Seen Him.
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But you got to go back to that word he gave you, back to faith,
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back to what he showed you.
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And like Mary, you got to treasure it up in your heart and
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say, I love my Louis Vuitton, but I really love what the Lord said
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over me.
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I love my car, but I really love what the Lord said over me.
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And what I'm letting in my heart is not the whispers of demonic
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voices around me, but I'm gonna bring his word and hide it
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into my heart.
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And that will be the only thing that I rest upon.
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Lastly, I want to show you this last picture.
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This is my wife right out of surgery.
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And here we are launching campuses.
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And for a little while, it felt like I was a single dad because
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she was bedridden, and we were trying to figure out how to navigate
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that season of our life.
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And she was trying to do her best.
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But you guys, who maybe were not a part of our church for that
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season, you remember this, Julie.
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It took everything you had to even.
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I mean, you were drinking bone broth all day, and it was hard for
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you to walk from the bedroom to the bathroom.
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And we thought we were gonna lose you.
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If you look at pictures back to that time, I mean, you were just
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skin and bones.
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And it was a very devastating season.
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And the fact is, my wife ended up in this condition because she
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had obeyed.
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Think about what I'm saying to you.
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She obeyed the will of the Father to travel with me to Ukraine
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to do a women's conference.
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Everybody wants the pulpit, but they don't want the pain.
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Everybody wants the destination, but they don't want
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the journey.
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There's something about this picture.
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I didn't say, hey, let's take a picture.
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Smile.
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But I noticed that my wife smiles in every season.
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You don't impress me with your Greek.
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You don't impress me with your Hebrew.
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You don't impress me with your vocabulary.
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But my wife's theology has been made perfect through her smile,
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because it's the proof that she knows who God says he is is something
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that you can bank on.
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And it's true.
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That smile is perfect theology.
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That smile is, I know the great I am.
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I don't know why I'm in this hospital bed.
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I don't know why my daughter's arm was broken.
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I don't know why all these things I got.
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I got this in pursuit of your will.
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She got the virus, drinking water from Ukraine, preaching to
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women.
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But she said, God, I'm not going to be mad at you, but I'm going
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to know that you're going to.
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Bring me on the other side.
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And how many of you know that God took this moment, turned it into
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a song called I Believe It?
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Come on, you said it.
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I believe It.
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And the song that came out of this surgery has been sung all over
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the world and charted on the.
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On the charts.
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But listen, she didn't do it for that reason.
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She did it because she said, God,.
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Just like Mary, whatever you tell me to do, wherever you tell
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me to go, I'll do it and I'll do it, and I'll do it again and again
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and again.
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There are some mothers that they sacrifice in one season, but
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they give up in another season.
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But there are these other mothers that in every season, they
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make a new commitment to say, I'll sacrifice again.
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I'll sacrifice again.
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I'll sacrifice again.
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So this is to every single mother that has made a decision that
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I will sacrifice every single time.
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And I don't want to do it.
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I don't feel like doing it, but I will sacrifice every time.
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I want every single campus right now to give a standing ovation
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for the mothers that know how to sacrifice in every season and
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have refused to give up.
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Come on, you can do better than that.
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Let's give them everything we got.
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Come on, Brooklyn.
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Come on, Manhattan.
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Come on, New Jersey.
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Come on.
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Let's put our hands together for them that know how to sacrifice
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in every single season.
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Mary, the cross is not the end of the story.
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The cross is the part right before the best part.
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How many of you know it gets.
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The darkest right before it gets light?
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How many of you know that you might be going through something
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right now?
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I want to pray for each and.
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Every one of you that you're like, I don't see It.
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My wife barricaded.
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The very last time that I got drunk, my wife barricaded the door
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of our apartment.
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This was almost, I don't know, 15 plus years ago.
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And she said, I'm not letting you out of the house.
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She said, you are not Johnny Cash.
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You are.
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This is what she said to me.
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Now, believe me when I tell you we didn't even have this church.
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We didn't have no church.
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And I'm in a drunken stupor.
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I am actively giving up on myself.
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I am actively destroying my life.
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I am actively sabotaging my future.
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And my wife, my little five foot three wife with shoes on, probably,
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she barricades the front door and she says, mike, you are not Johnny
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Cash.
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You are a global church planter and you will plant many churches
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and you will not leave this house.
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You go up in the room and go to bed and sober up.
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And I'm telling you, that was the very last time.
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And I just made up my mind because Julie treasured up the words
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that were said.
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She hid them in her heart.
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And she said, even if Mike stopped believing it, I believe it.
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And she is reaping off of that many years later.
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And I. I don't know why I feel so led to say this to some of you,
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because you.
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You look at your husband, you look at your spouse, you look at
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your.
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Your season, and it doesn't add up.
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You're like, God, how could you take this and make something
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out of this?
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You look at your children, you look at your bank account, and you're
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like,.
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God, how could you.
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How could you take the.
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And you know, it's like a mother.
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You.
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You go to the grocery store and you buy the ingredients for the
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meal.
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And I think sometimes you look at the ingredients of your life and
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you say, God, how.
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How could you promise me this, but.
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Make it with these ingredients?
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And that's the factor.
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And I think my wife is like,.
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I don't know how you take Mike's.
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Alcoholism and his propensity to destroy his life.
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I don't know how you take our.
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Poverty and all this stuff we're in.
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I don't know how you take that.
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And you make.
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All I know is you said it.
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And I believe it and that settles it.
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This is like, Mary, I don't know how you take a teenager and
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give Christ the Messiah.
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I'm betrothed to be married.
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I don't know how you take these raw ingredients and you save
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the world out of it.
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But far be it from me.
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I wonder if when Jesus was in the garden and he said, nevertheless,
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I wonder if he learned that from his mama.
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I wonder.
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I wonder.
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Because it was the human side.
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It was the human side of them that said, if it be possible, let
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this cup pass.
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Every mother knows what I'm talking about.
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Every mother says, if it's possible, God, get me out of this.
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If it's possible to sleep through the night and not have to
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nurse this baby and not have to feed this baby, if it be possible,
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let this cup pass me.
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Everybody knows what I'm talking about.
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About Mary was like, nevertheless.
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And I wonder if when Jesus, that human part of Jesus wanted to
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fail.
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I wonder if it's what he inherited from Mary,.
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Who.
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I got chills all over me.
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I wonder if that was Mary's side, who said, whatever you say,
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Lord, I'm gonna be like my mama now.
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I'll go all the way.
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She said, yes, and I say yes.
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Let me just tell all the Marys out there right now, because you
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said.
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Yes, it becomes your child's yes.
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Because you said yes, it becomes your great grandchildren's
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yes.
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Because you said yes.
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That yes travels down a generation.
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I believe that your yes is about to be amplified.
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If you want to say yes to Jesus across every single campus
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right now, on the count of three, if you want to surrender your
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life, if you want to give him your life, if you want to confess
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Christ as Savior, if you want to surrender your family to him,
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when I say three, I want you to just lift your hand and we are
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going to give our lives to Jesus Christ and we're going to say
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yes.
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Somebody's child is about to get saved right now.
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Somebody's going to receive the greatest Mother's Day as they
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see their own spouse give their life to Jesus right now.
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One, two, three.
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If that's you, come on, lift your hands.
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Lord, I give you my life.
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Come on across every campus right now.
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Borrow my words and say this out loud.
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Say, heavenly Father, I confess.
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Jesus Christ is Lord and Savior.
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Wash me with your blood, make me new.
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I choose to serve you all the days of my life.
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And like Mary, I give you my yes in Jesus name.
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Come on, church, let's just shout unto God.
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Come on, let's celebrate right now.
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Come on, let's sing.
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Come on, tell them.
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Come on, God's got this thing.
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God's gonna work it out for your family.
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God is gonna move the mountain.
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God is gonna open the door, lift your hands and surrender one
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more time today.
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God is going to do the impossible.
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Now he's the Way Maker.
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He's the wheel in the middle of the wheel.
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He's El Shaddai.
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He's Rafa.
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Come on.
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Cry out to him, Church.
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Tell him.
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I just want to be with you.
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Come on, lift it up, Sam.