Sermon
The Father’s Love: From Orphan to Son | Marvele Jean-Baptiste, Pastor Evan Wilson & Pastor Daniel Santise
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God is good.
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It really is an honor and a privilege to be able to kick this
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thing off.
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My name is Marvel.
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I am one of the worship directors here at V1 Church.
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I am proud to say that I am a product not only of my parents, but
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also of V1 Church, my spiritual family.
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Apostle Mike is my spiritual dad.
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Pastor Julie is my spiritual mother.
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I'm just so grateful for everyone who's poured into me B1
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College, V1X.
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Like, I've been developed, okay?
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I've been invested in.
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And so I just want to impart some of the things that I've learned
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on my journey to you guys.
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So let us pray first.
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Father God, I ask for you to have your way.
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If you can use anything, Lord, use me.
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This is all for your glory, Lord.
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I thank you for your patience with me and your love, Lord God.
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And I just pray, Lord God, that you would remind someone that
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they are a son and daughter and that you see them, that you understand,
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and you're not done with them yet.
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In Jesus name, amen.
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All right, guys.
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Last week, though, that was an interesting sermon.
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I know some of you guys are still processing it, and it's all
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right.
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Some of you guys might have, I don't know, got a little convicted
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and realized you might have some things you need to bring up
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to the Lord.
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You might need to go up to the prayer line or something like that.
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And we're not judging.
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We don't judge here in B1 church.
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But I know for me, I've sat in these seats several times, a lot
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of times, actually, of the Lord just convicting me and just
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picking at things that I was oblivious to.
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I didn't think I had a problem.
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I thought, you know, I knew everything.
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And I've been humbled several times, but in love.
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The Lord's correction is love.
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How do many of you guys know that?
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His correction is love.
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He is protecting you.
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And so.
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So last week's sermon was very powerful.
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Apostle spoke about the orphan spirit.
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And I definitely, definitely needed to be delivered from that.
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And so I'm just gonna kind of take you back a little bit.
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But before that, for those who don't know me, if you go to V1 and
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you ask someone, you know, who's Marvell and how is she?
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Like, like, how would you describe her?
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Some people might say I'm extroverted.
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Some people might.
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Some people might say I'm super friendly.
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I am that person that will walk up to you.
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Yes, I am.
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If I don't know you, I'm Gonna know you today.
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I'm gonna ask you for your name, your story.
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Did you make any friends?
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Why you run?
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I will run after you.
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Actually, I've done that several times.
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I'm like, girl, I saw you in the service, but you left so fast,
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I had to stop you.
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I just want to let you know that I want to see you more often.
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That's marvel.
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Okay?
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And I really love people, but I wasn't always like that.
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Yeah, I know it's hard to believe, but when I came to V1, I
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was everything that apostles mentioned, like, those qualities.
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Like, I was mean.
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I was definitely guarded.
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I had walls up.
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I did not want to talk to nobody.
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But I love God.
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I love church.
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People would say, hi, like, how are you doing?
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I'm like, I gotta go.
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I'm sorry.
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Like, I.
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And the reason why I was like that is because I was in church my
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whole entire life.
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I.
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My dad's a preacher.
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My grandfather's a preacher.
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I was born and raised in the church.
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And there were some things that I would see, and I just didn't
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really understand it.
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I would see people fighting for titles, talking about each other.
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And my father's, like, one of the nicest people ever.
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Like, people were hurting him.
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I'm like, my dad is so nice.
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Like, how could you talk about him?
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How could you ever say anything bad about him?
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And I just couldn't understand that church culture.
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And I made a plan.
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I said, when I get older, I'm going to leave the church.
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I do not want to be, like, a church person.
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I don't wanna play a role.
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I feel like everybody's fake, and I'm gonna walk away.
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But God had other plans.
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All right, So I love God so much.
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I just never had the courage to fully walk away.
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I couldn't do it.
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My foundation was in my heart.
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I'm like.
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My flesh wanted to leave.
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My flesh wanted to quit.
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My flesh wanted to do its own thing.
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Like, I'm gonna have fun.
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I'm gonna do my own rules.
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But something just kept pulling me to still stay.
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And even though I stayed, my heart was hardening.
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And I think the orphan heart grows from disappointment.
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And so, as I continued on, I got to keep this story short, but
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it's a lot that the Lord was doing, but he was working on me little
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by little.
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And then I got to be one.
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I got to be one.
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You guys are clapping.
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But like I said, I didn't come in, like, how I am now.
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Okay.
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And I was kind of giving people a hard Time.
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I'm not gonna lie.
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I was not submitted.
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I wasn't in my mind.
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I was saying things.
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I was talking back.
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They didn't know, but I was talking back in my mind.
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I'm like, I don't agree with that.
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And I also was saying things that, like, you know what?
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Why is she looking at me like that?
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I don't think she likes me.
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You know what?
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I don't fit in here.
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You know what?
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Maybe they have something against me just making up all of
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these assumptions, but it really was an orphan language that
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I developed over the years.
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And it's just crazy because when you're in that position, no
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one can tell you anything.
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There's like a.
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There's scales on your eyes, and you don't even realize that your
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reality is not even truth.
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And that's a scary place to be.
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In Hebrews 15, you're actually not supposed to be problematic.
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I don't know if you guys know that.
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I had a verse.
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We're actually supposed to have confidence in our leaders.
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Like, if you believe that the Lord called you to this church, that
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means you're trusting him and you're trusting the leaders that
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he put over you.
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And it took me a very long time to get to that point.
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Like, I said, I came.
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I'm like, okay, apostle, I see you.
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You preaching.
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That was good.
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That was good.
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That was nice.
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You still not my pastor.
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People were catching me.
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They're like, but you said, he's your pastor.
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I'm like, I meant.
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I meant.
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No, I just like the sermon.
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Like, just.
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It just didn't make sense.
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But it was the orphan spirit, and I was blind to that.
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And sometimes we don't want the correction.
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Sometimes we don't want someone to tell us about ourselves,
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but we really need someone to correct us in love.
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Now, I've seen people get disciplined in churches before.
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I've seen people get embarrassed in church before.
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I've been embarrassed sometimes.
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I've heard people talk about me, or maybe they gave me a correction,
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and the tone or the delivery, it didn't really teach me anything.
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It just hurt my heart, and it made me even harder.
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And so we just have to be careful with that, and we really
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have to walk in humility.
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And I know it's.
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I know there's someone here.
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They're like, I'm not going to listen to her.
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You're still going to do your own thing.
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I'm telling you, I was you.
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So I know.
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I made the excuses.
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I kept coming to the church looking for A problem.
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I just.
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I'm like, you know what?
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I like what they said, but that's fake.
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How do I know it's fake?
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How would you know, Marvel?
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I'm like, you know, something don't seem right.
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It seem a little too good.
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Just making up things, right?
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And so the Lord had to correct me because he's my father.
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And there was a sermon where apostle was talking, and I felt like
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he was directly talking to me.
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That's the Holy Spirit.
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You can't make certain things up.
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I don't know if you guys could relate, but there's some sermons.
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It's like, did someone tell my business?
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Like, did they know I was coming today?
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Did my wife tell.
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Did my husband say something?
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Right?
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Like, there's just certain things, you know, it's God talking
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directly to you, so you can't even get mad at nobody.
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You can't get mad at who's preaching because you know that it's
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the Holy Spirit touching your heart and picking at something that
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you need to work on.
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And so with that being said, there was a sermon.
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And he said, yeah, I know you're cheating on this sermon on
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this church with another church.
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I was like, What's going on?
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And so.
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And.
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And I was like, okay, God.
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And mind you, God gave me confirmation.
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After confirmation, after confirmation.
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This is your church, and you need to commit.
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It's time for you to stop running.
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I know it's uncomfortable.
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I know it's not something that you're used to, but you need to settle
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down, and you need to commit, and you need to accept the people
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that I'm sending to you to help build you up.
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I said, okay, Lord, I'll give it one more chance.
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And at that time, there was a Q and A membership that Pastor Mike
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did at the Stanhope location in Brooklyn.
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We didn't even have an official Brooklyn location yet.
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And, guys, I came in with bad intentions.
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I'm not gonna lie.
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I was like, okay, he's telling us about the core values of the church.
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I like it.
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I'm gonna ask him a hard question, and when I ask him this
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question, I know he's probably gonna get offended or he's probably
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gonna stutter or he's probably not gonna like me.
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But you know what?
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I don't care.
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I'm just gonna ask it, and let's see what he says.
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Is that not kind of like the prodigal son when he was saying in
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his mind in Luke 15, verse 17, 18, 19, he's basically, like, making
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up what the Conversation with his dad is going to be like.
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And he's already taking 10 steps ahead and saying, you know
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what?
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He's going to.
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He won't accept me as a son, but he'll at least accept me as a
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servant, making assumptions, thinking the worst case scenario.
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And so I asked this question, and it was something like, you know,
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everything you say, you're saying it sounds good.
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But for someone who's been in church, who knows ministry, they're
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having a hard time trusting you.
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What advice would you give them?
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And I want you guys to see his response.
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He had to come back as the second ago.
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Sometimes the only thing that can heal church from one pastor is
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sure healing from another that's just not worse.
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So I'm sorry, but I know, I know, I know you love Jesus because
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the only reason I knew.
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There's something about that that's whole and special,.
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You guys, that was six years ago.
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I could cry about it again because I was so shocked at the response
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that I received.
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Because really, it was an orphan wanting recognition, just
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wanting someone to understand the things that I was feeling, the
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hurt that I've been through.
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And that was such a healing moment for me.
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And that night I was like, you know what, God, I'm gonna stop playing
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games.
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I hear you, I hear you.
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And I'm gonna commit and I'm gonna take another step to trust.
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But, guys, I didn't have the right intentions that night.
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And this is how he received me.
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You get what I'm saying?
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And so that moment was a healing moment, but it didn't fix
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everything.
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It didn't.
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As I continued to show up, the orphan thoughts would still creep
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back up.
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I still would think, oh, you know what?
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I made a mistake.
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They're going to kick me out the church, they're going to kick
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me out.
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They don't want me here.
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But I didn't realize by me still showing up every Sunday.
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I was showing up to a hospital, and every time I showed
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up, I was getting better.
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I showed up to a flight crew, I got better, I went up for prayer.
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I got better.
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I had a conversation with a leader.
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I got better.
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And the Lord really had to show me, like, you're trying to protect
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yourself and you have all of these walls up.
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You're protecting yourself, but you're also protecting yourself
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from the good things that I'm trying to send to you into your life.
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And so do you trust me, Marvel, if you trust me, then don't
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worry about who's going to hurt you.
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Don't Worry about if things are not going to work out.
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I have you.
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I just need you to listen to me.
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I just need you to be obedient to me, and I'm going to take care
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of you.
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Have I not already taken care of you before?
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My whole life, I got stories for days of just the Lord showing
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up for me in kindness and gentleness.
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And we have to be careful because our environments also influence
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us.
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My environment didn't make me feel safe, so I felt like I needed
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to be tough.
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I felt like I needed to portray myself a certain way.
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I felt like I didn't need to talk to anybody, but that's not who
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I really am.
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And so as I continued to show up, I stopped resisting.
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The Lord started to have his way.
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And literally, I cannot believe that it's really been seven
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years, really, of a process of the Lord dealing with me.
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And it's like if you.
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If you say yes and you humble yourself, you will see that there's
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so many things that are open to heal you.
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Have you ever read the sermon playbook?
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Before you judge the sermon?
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Have you ever went to a deliverance, Zoom.
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That people take time, they fast over you, they pray to literally
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see you get free.
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And so I stopped running, I stopped assuming, I stopped resisting,
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and I discovered something beautiful.
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I am not an orphan, but I'm a daughter who found her home.
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Come on.
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Can we give five seconds of praise for what God's already doing?
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Come on.
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Such a powerful testimony.
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God's not done yet.
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Y' all picked a great day to be in church.
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Grateful to be able to stand on Pastor Mike's platform and share
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with you.
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My name is Evan.
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I'm the online campus pastor here at V1 Church.
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Shout out, everybody watching online.
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We're going to be dropping into Luke chapter 15.
Luke 15 chapter mention
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You may be familiar, Pastor Mike preached out of it last week.
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We're talking about the prodigal son.
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And if you don't know, if you didn't color in this page in your
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coloring book in Sunday school, this is the son that thought
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he could do it better.
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He said, father, just, you know, give me my inheritance now,
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and I'm gonna go be an independent man.
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I'm gonna make moves.
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Come on, hustler.
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But we're gonna drop into Luke 15, verse 14.
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And it says, and when he had spent everything, a severe famine
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arose in that country, and he began to be in need.
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So he went and he hired himself out to one of the citizens
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of that country, and he sent him into his fields to feed pigs
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and he was longing to be fed with the pods that the pigs ate.
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And no one gave him anything.
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But when he came to himself, he said, how many of my father's
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hired servants have more than enough bread?
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But yet I perish here with hunger.
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I will arise and go to my father, and I will say to him, father,
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I have sinned against heaven and before you.
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I am no longer worthy to be called your son.
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Treat me as one of your hired servants.
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And he arose and he came to his father.
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You know, there's one phrase in that passage that sticks out to
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me and it's, he came to himself.
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You know, there comes a moment when you're honest about where you
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actually are, not where you'd like to be, not where you hoped you
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would be, not where you tell everybody else that you are, hello,
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somebody, but where you actually are.
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And where he was, was in a pig pen, broke, realizing that his father's
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servants were actually doing better than him.
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Now, I don't know where you're at today.
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Maybe you're sitting here in church, you're watching online, maybe
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you even serve, but you haven't actually spoke to God in
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months.
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Maybe if we looked at your life you're living like you actually
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don't even believe any of this.
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But see, that's what it means to come to yourself.
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The lies, they begin to fall away.
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The numbness, it begins to melt.
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And you realize, you come to this realization that you need to
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go home.
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And so when I read about this prodigal son's story, you know, there's
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actually one question that really sticks in my mind, and it's
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this question of I wonder how long he knew that he should go home,
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but that he avoided doing it because he was ashamed.
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Because can I tell you that what you avoid reveals what still
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has you bound.
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And so maybe you're here and you haven't prayed in months.
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Maybe you're here, you're watching online.
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And maybe if you're being honest, you haven't cracked open
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your Bible and read it for yourself in years.
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And actually, the self condemnation and the shame that has
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been accumulating day after day of knowing you're not measuring
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up, knowing that you're falling short, has actually started
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to drive a wedge between you and God getting bigger.
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You know, it's kind of like, you know, when somebody texts you
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and you mean to respond, you really do.
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You see the notification, you're gonna respond.
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But then a distraction comes.
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You know, I got a three year old, and that can happen very easily.
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And you mean to respond, but you don't anybody else.
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This is a support group for all of us.
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But.
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And you don't realize it's out of your mind until three weeks later
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when you go to text that same person about something completely
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unrelated.
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And then you realize, oh, no, I never responded.
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This was important.
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You know what?
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I'm actually not even gonna reach out to them again about this
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new thing, because then I'd have to rehash the fact that I didn't
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reach back out to them.
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Let me just leave it here.
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Yeah, I don't need to text them.
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And then before you know it, you're at the grocery store and you
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see him across the way, and you're, like, hiding behind the produce
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aisle because it's just too awkward.
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But, you know, that's where some of you are right now.
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You know you've been running from God, and you actually know that
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you need to go back home.
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But with each passing day, the tension builds in your heart, and
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so does the fear that he wouldn't even receive you back if
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you tried.
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But I want you to hear me, church, because pride will actually
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cause you to run from God in the first place, but shame will keep
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you from returning back to him.
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And so some of you, you might be in a running season.
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That might be you today, but I believe that many of you are actually
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in a shame season, knowing that you've ran, but you're here
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in.
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In the pig pen.
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And you know that the one thing that you actually need is to
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go home.
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But shame won't let you.
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And so you've been fighting it, you've been toiling, you've been
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wrestling, and you're laying in the slop, crafting your speech,
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scripting it, rehearsing it, exactly what you're going to say
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to hopefully convince your father to welcome you back.
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But can I tell you that maybe you've been scripting how you're
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gonna come back to God, because deep down, you don't believe
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that he even wants to ever see you again, especially the parts of
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you that you're most ashamed of.
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But I want you to look at what Jesus actually says happens next
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in this story.
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Says.
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But while he was still a long way off, Somebody say a long way
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off, his father saw him and felt compassion, and he ran and embraced
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him and kissed him.
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And the son said to him, come on, this is the speech that he was
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working on, right?
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Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you.
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I am no longer worthy to be called your son.
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But the father, he cuts him off and he says, but the father said
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to his servants, bring quickly the best robe.
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Come on.
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Before he can even finish, bring quickly the best robe and put
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it on him.
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Put a ring on his hand and shoes on his feet.
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But wait, wait, wait.
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Wasn't this.
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He cuts him off in the middle of the speech.
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I thought this speech was gonna be the thing that convinced
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his father to welcome him back.
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That speech.
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But he doesn't even let him finish.
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But can I tell you that it wasn't the words that the son was
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gonna say revealed his repentance.
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It was the fact that he came home.
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And so the evidence of your repentance, it's not the perfect
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apology.
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It's the fact that you've moved in the direction of your father.
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Come on.
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Somebody's getting free today.
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And so some of you, you've actually been thinking, man, when
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I finally go back home, when I finally give God this piece of my
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life, when I finally go home and I give him my apology, I've got
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to sound sorry enough.
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I've got to sound spiritual enough.
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I got to time it out to when the worship team is playing just
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right in church service.
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And then I run up to the altar, and we got this idea of what
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it's got to be like.
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But hear me.
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It's not your words.
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It's your direction.
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God is not grading you on the eloquence of your apology.
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He's looking at which direction your feet are pointed.
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And some of you, you feel so far off from God that you actually
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think it disqualifies you.
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But the scripture says that while the son was a long way off,
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somebody say, a long way off, his father saw him and ran.
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The son didn't even have to walk the full journey to the doorstep.
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Isn't that our God says, bring quickly the best robe.
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Put it on him, put a ring on his hand and shoes on his feet.
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The robe says, you're covered and you're mine.
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The ring says, you still carry my name and my authority.
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And the sandals say, you're not a slave.
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You're my son.
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Oh, come on, Church.
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This is not the kind of love that tolerates you enough to sneak.
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Sneak you in the back entrance.
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This is the kind of love that says, you are mine.
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Come on.
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Come on, Church.
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For I am sure that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor
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rulers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor
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height, nor depth, nor anything in all creation can separate
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us from the love of God in Jesus Christ.
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Come on can you give five seconds of praise?
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If you believe it, you know, this.
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Is that from another country kind of love that Pastor Mike was
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preaching on last week, it's the kind of love that isn't swayed
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by your performance, but it's the kind of love that sees you a
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long way off and says, I'm going to run out to you before you
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even get a chance to finish your speech.
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And so you know, at the time of this message that I'm preaching,
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next week is Father's Day.
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Can we talk about it?
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Because some of you, you had dads who weaponized approval.
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And you grew up in a home where you always felt like you had
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to perform, you had to prove, because approval was withheld.
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And you actually never felt like a son or a daughter.
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You felt like a servant in your own house who just happened
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to share the same DNA.
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So when you hear us talk in church about God as Father, what
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you're actually picturing is just another man with his arms folded,
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waiting to see if you're going to measure up.
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And when that's the reality that you were raised in, you learn
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real quick that approval will even manipulate and control you.
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And when you have an orphan heart, it will actually make you
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want to work that much harder for that approval.
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Because in the world systems, when something is more rare, it's
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perceived as more valuable.
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And so when the approval of your earthly father, which should
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have been abundant, was made rare, then you'll fight that much
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harder to do whatever it takes to get it.
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But can I tell you, church, that is not the God we serve.
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God's approval is not a carrot that he dangles to get something
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from you.
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It's an affirmation of who you are.
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Come on, somebody.
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And so while the son was still a long way off, the Father was already
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running towards him.
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It's not your speech, it's not your apology.
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It's not your level of performance that opens his arms.
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It's his love for you, it's his grace for you.
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And so what do we do with that right now?
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You stop editing the speech.
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You stop waiting to sound spiritual enough.
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You stop waiting to have it all together to come back home.
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And so this is your came to himself moment.
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This is your let me arise and go to my father moment.
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And so it's not about the perfect words.
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It's about turning your feet towards him.
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And so for those of you that you know, you've been a far way off,
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it's time to come home.
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Because he's been watching the horizon.
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And he's already decided that he's gonna come running for you.
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And so your father, he's not standing with his arms crossed, waiting
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for you to dazzle him with some rehearsed speech, but he hung
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on a cross with his arms open, ready to receive you.
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So receive him today, church.
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Come on.
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How do you follow that?
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Right?
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It's always put me in the hardest positions, because how can
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I preach after two amazing preachers?
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Can we hear from Rebel for Pastor Evan?
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They did such a phenomenal job, and it's.
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Well, first of all, thank you, Apostle, for giving us the opportunity
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to preach from your pulpit.
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You know, he's the father of our house, and we love him so much.
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And he spoke about this message last week, and this week
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we all had to, like, speak from the perspective in our lives.
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And we heard from Marvell about how she came to V1.
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And it's kind of being like that orphaned daughter, that orphan
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son, that prodigal, that lost kid that left the father's house
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but came back.
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And then we learned from Pastor Evan also, almost kind of
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in the point of view of the Father, that he's waiting for you
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with open arms.
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Jesus died in the cross with open arms, waiting for you to go
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to him, and he's running back to you.
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And that is amazing.
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But I said, lord, how is this applied to my life?
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Lord, I never left you.
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I always been in church.
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I've been a minister, even from before V1.
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I got married to my beautiful.
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The most beautiful woman in the whole entire world, my wife,
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Pastor Execa.
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Yes.
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She had a lapse of judgment.
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She saw me.
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She said, yes, that's a good joke.
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I stole it from another preacher.
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But it was good.
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I said, lord, how is this applied to my life?
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For those that don't know me, I'm the oldest of four.
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So I'm like, that's where it applies to me.
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I'm the oldest one.
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Lord, I always done what you told me to do.
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I've always been in church.
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I've always been on the straight and narrow.
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Yes, maybe sometimes one foot in, one foot out, but always there.
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Always in your house, always doing what you told me to do, always
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helping my father here on earth, and also you as my father
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in heaven.
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Always trying to do my best, always following the rules, always
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following, following the commandments, always doing the right
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thing.
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Lord, how does this apply to me?
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And that's how it applies to me.
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Because this was a party for not just the prodigal son, not for
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the youngest one.
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But it's also a party that was thrown for the oldest son as well.
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We're gonna read this in Luke chapter 15, just as we went on.
Luke 15 chapter mention
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Verse 25 says, Meanwhile, the oldest son was in the field working.
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See, I was working.
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I feel like identify with that.
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I was working in my father's house.
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Many of us here, how does this apply to me?
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I've been at church for a while.
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I'm in ministry for a while.
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I'm a leader.
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Even if I haven't been a leader here, I've been a leader in
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my previous church.
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I am a son of God.
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I'm always walking the right path.
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I'm always doing the right thing.
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I am joining the flight crews.
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I am on the ground crews.
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I am working.
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I'm a musician, I'm a worship leader.
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I'm whatever.
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Fill in the blank.
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You're working.
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And that's good.
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When he returned home, he heard the music and dancing in the
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house and asked one of the servants what was going on.
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Your brother's back, he was told, and your father has killed
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a fan calf.
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We're celebrating because of his safe return.
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The oldest brother.
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Fill in the blank right there.
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Daniel was angry and wouldn't go in the house.
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I wouldn't go in.
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But listen to this.
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Listen to the language that Jesus is using.
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His father came out and begged him.
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Did you catch that?
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His father came out and begged him.
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You see, the father didn't only ran for the son that went away
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to the far country, but he also went out of the party as the
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owner to the son that was already his house.
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But that son was too blind to see what was going on.
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But the father came out and begged him.
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But he replied, all these years I have slaved.
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Listen to the language Jesus is using.
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The oldest brother myself, I said, I've always slayed.
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I always worked for you.
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I always did what you told me to do.
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I slaved for you and never once refused to do a single thing
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you told me to.
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And all the time I never gave me.
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You never even gave me a young goat to feast with my friends.
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Yet when this son of yours comes back squandering your money
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on prostitutes, you celebrate by killing the fat calf.
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His father said to him, look, dear son, you have always stayed
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by me and everything I have is yours.
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We have celebrated this happy day, for your brother was dead.
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And now he has come back to life.
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He was lost, but now he's found.
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You see, the son was saying, I slayed for you listen to the language.
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I slayed for you.
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He didn't say, father, I'm your son, and I'm always here with
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you.
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He said, I slave.
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He treated himself like if he was a slave up to the father, instead
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of saying, father, I'm your son.
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Thank you.
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I'm in your house.
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I breathe the same air that you do.
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Everything that I do, I do it to please you.
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Because I love you, because you love me.
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But no, he didn't say it that way.
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He said, I slave.
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He didn't take into account that he was a child of God, that
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he was his son.
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So many times we feel like slaves here in the church, but we
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need to get away from that and say, no, we are children of God.
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Listen to what Romans chapter 8, verse 15 says.
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For you did not receive a spirit of slavery to fall back into
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fear, but you receive the spirit of adoption as sons.
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By whom we cry, abba, Father.
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Galatians 4, 6, 7 says, the spirit enabled us to cry, abba, Father,
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we are no longer slaves, but sons and heirs.
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And Ephesians 1:5 says, God decided in advance.
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This is so beautiful.
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From before we were even born.
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From before the creation of the earth.
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For before everything that you can see, he already had in his heart
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in advance.
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You know what this means?
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He was gracious even before we even had the chance to sin.
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Even before even being slaves.
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He was gracious into his own family by bringing us to himself
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through Jesus Christ.
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This is what he wanted to do and gave him great pleasure.
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We are no longer slaves.
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I am no longer a slave.
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Slave just because I'm in my Father's house.
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But I'm a son of the Almighty God.
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I'm a son of the Creator of heavens and earth.
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And I don't have to strive for anything because it was pleasing
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to Him.
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Even before everything, he decided to give me grace.
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See?
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Grace.
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We think that we make a choice, and then the grace of God
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follows us.
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But it's because he has grace that we get to repent.
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His grace comes before that.
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And sometimes.
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I was sitting down today when Marvel was preaching, and this thought
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came to my mind.
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I always thought that I always chose God.
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I didn't choose nothing.
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I realized, I understood that without Him, I am nothing.
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I can't even choose.
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But I come to the realization that he's my Father, that he loves
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me.
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So today the question that I have for you.
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Is he your Father?
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Does he love you?
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And if you don't feel that way, let me tell you something.
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He is your father.
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It pleased him before the creation of the earth to choose for
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him to choose you as his son, as his daughter.
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He's extending grace that produces that repentment, that saying,
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lord, I want to be with you because I understand that there's
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nothing I can do without you.
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See, the father runs after the prodigal when he's coming back, but
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the father also leaves the banquet to plead with the elder brother.
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Now the.
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The sad part of the story is that I think Jesus left the story
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that's sad for me.
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I mean, God knows everything, but it's that the story doesn't finish.
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There's no ending to the story.
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It says the father said to him, look, dear son, you have always
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stayed with me and everything I have is yours.
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We have to celebrate for this happy day.
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For your brother was dead and now he has come back to life.
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He was lost and now he's found.
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And there's nothing else said about the oldest brother.
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I don't know if the older brother repented to God.
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I don't know if he repented to his father.
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But I know one thing for sure, that I don't want to be the one that
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says I'm going to let my anger and my jealousy for my younger brother,
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the happiness that I should have for my youngest brother.
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He has come back to the father's house, not allow me to be
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in the father's house.
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And now for me to leave my father's house because I have a mindset
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of an orphan.
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I have a mindset of a slave, I have a victim mindset.
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But guess what?
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I'm a son of God, you're a daughter of God.
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We are his children.
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You understand?
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So this is so powerful.
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You see, in every other religion, you have to strive to get
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to the father.
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And here the father comes to you.
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He runs to you if you have left and if you are here, he's actually
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getting up on the table from the place of honor to go to your
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arms and to talk to you.
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We have a father that loves us, that talks to us.
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You understand?
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That is, that is, that is rare, that is impossible.
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To say that we have a father that loves us.
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To say that I have to do good and be better for him to love me.
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Do we not understand the love that he has for us?
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That it doesn't matter what we have done, he still loves us.
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Now.
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This doesn't mean I get to do whatever I want.
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The hyper grace of God.
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We're not talking about that at all.
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We're Talking about a father, that he loves us and he will correct
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us.
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He will make us walk the narrow path, but it's for our good.
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It's because we are his children.
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See, we live.
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I'm gonna even say it out.
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It doesn't matter.
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The whole entire world right now, there's debates between Christians
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and Muslims in Islam.
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And there was a debate that was going on online, and I was caught
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on watching it, and it was if Jesus was Muslim or if he was a Jew.
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And he said, but let me tell you something.
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He used the word abba.
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In Islam, you cannot have.
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God is not a father of anybody.
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You have to strive to be good.
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And maybe, maybe when you get judged, you might go, whatever.
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How beautiful it is that we don't have to.
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And we can't do anything to please him, but he just loves us.
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He went to the cross for us.
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He died for us.
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He gets up and runs after us when we are lost.
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He gets up from the banquet.
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He gets up from the party to say, son, daughter, I love you, and
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I want to be with you.
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And I'm willing to give my life for you.
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See, no other religion gets to say that.
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But you know what?
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We're not a religion.
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Christianity is not a religion.
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It's a relationship with God.
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This is what this is.
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It's a relationship.
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But I do not want to be like the oldest son, that the story is
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not written for him.
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So today, if you're the prodigal or if you're the older brother,
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we fall into one of the two.
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Into one of the two, we fall.
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But today is the day that the Father is running after you.
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Can we stand on our feet?
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The Father is running after us.
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I'm going to close with this.
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I'm going to take advantage that my wife is not here right this
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moment, because I'm going to use the.
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I'm going to put my pride to the side, right?
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She said something that she heard many years ago from a preacher.
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Don't tell her I told you, but he's a very good preacher.
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I didn't say that.
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All right.
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And he preached about this message.
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And the last part of the message was like him extending his
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hand as if he was God, saying, son, daughter, may we have this dance
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together?
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I feel like the Lord is telling us that today, May we have
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this dance together.
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There is music and there is dancing.
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God is not looking for slaves.
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He's looking for children.
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Music was playing.
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The robe, the ring, the sandals, the celebration are still
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available.
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Will you lay down the Score keeping and receive the love of the
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Father.
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Will you enjoy the Father in this last dance?
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Let's lift our hands and pray.
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Father, we give you thanks today because we get to call you
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father.
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Abba, we get to cry out to you.
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We get to tell you Lord, that we love you because you loved us.
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We get to enjoy your grace, Lord, because you came running after
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us, Lord, you came running after us when you saw us from far.
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And you came running after us to beg and talk to us when you were
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at the party, Lord.
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Lord, we hear music to the and there's dancing, there is joy.
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I declare that there will be joy today in the name of Jesus.
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The hearts, Lord, that have been sent, Lord, that are sad, that
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are broken today will receive joy because of your love.
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Father, we are talking to you.
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Lord, we are talking to you.
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Oh master, you are our Lord, but above everything else you are
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our Father.
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We get to call you Abba, we get to call you dad.
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Dad, we love you.
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And even though that there's nothing we can do, you loved us first,
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Lord.
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Thank you because we get to run to your arms.
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You waited for us with your arms open and we're running to you
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and you're running to us.
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Lord, we want to dance with you.
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We want to get joyful with you, Lord.
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Lord, today we cry out Abba, we want to be your children.
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We're no longer slaves to sin.
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We have no fear of nothing because we're your children.
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We're in your hands, Lord.
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And your word says that you did not lose one of your children.
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And we're in your hands, Jesus.
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And for that we give you thanks.
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In your name we pray.
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Amen and amen.