Sermon
Peace
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Transcript
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So anyway, Advent, hope.
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We now move on to the second one, and that is actually about peace.
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! There's a famous passage in Scripture that we always use this time of year.
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Isaiah chapter 9, verse 2 is when they said there's a people who are walking in deep darkness.
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We've heard that before, right?
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Isaiah 9, 2.
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And then the prophecy for Christmas comes in verse 5 to 7.
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If you've got your phones or what I prefer even more is a paper Bible,
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I'd love for you to open up now and follow me as I go through.
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Because I think it is really interesting as we go through this passage,
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I'm going to unpack a word that we always hear.
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We always hear the word peace, but what does it actually mean?
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And as I look at Isaiah chapter 9, where there's a prophecy of this child that is going to be coming.
Isaiah 9 chapter mention
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For to us, a child is born, a son is given.
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And then it's really Isaiah chapter 9, verse 2.
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If there's a Christmas passage, this is probably it.
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So the context of it is,
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The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light.
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Those who dwell in a land of deep darkness, on them light has shone.
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And then verse 6 is where we're going to kind of jump into a little bit.
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For to us, a child is born, to us, a son is given.
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And the government shall be upon his shoulder, and his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, and Prince of Peace.
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And then it carries on,
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Of the increase of his government and of peace, there will be no end.
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There will be no end to peace.
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And then the passage that Wes came and read for us in Luke chapter 2 is when the shepherds were watching their flock by night.
Luke 2 chapter mention
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And then they're told about the coming of this baby lying in a manger.
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And this baby is then going to bring peace.
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Because suddenly the angels appear in the sky and they're singing.
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They're singing glory to God in the highest.
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And there will be peace on earth.
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The question I want to unpack for us today is what's a baby got to do with peace?
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Why does the coming of a baby bring about peace?
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If, in fact, I personally don't use the word peace to describe babies.
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Have we met EJ?
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EJ, bless her, we love her.
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Where is she?
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She's in there now, of course.
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That's why it's a little bit more peaceful.
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It is not, peace is not the word.
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In fact, I've, and of course, Christina and I, we're expecting our baby that's coming in March.
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And you know what?
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If you've been a parent, put your hand up if you've been a parent.
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Put your hand up if you've looked after a teeny little baby.
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Kara, peace is not the word.
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Right?
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What I don't understand is when people say, oh, how did you sleep last night, Felix?
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And then Felix goes, oh, I slept like a baby.
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What?
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So you woke up every two hours and then you woke yourself up because you pooped your pants?
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Yes.
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Baby and peace.
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It doesn't really connect.
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It doesn't really link.
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So therefore, what is it about the baby that brings us peace on earth?
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Peace that will know no end.
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Because the truth is we don't really live in a world that has peace right now.
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You look at Israel and Gaza.
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You look at what's happening in Ukraine.
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You look anywhere.
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Anywhere.
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You look within your own families.
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There probably isn't peace.
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But maybe there's something else we have to do first.
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And this is where we're going to need a little bit of interaction.
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I did promise Nathan that I was going to pick on him and ask him some questions.
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So this is me being really kind and giving you some warning.
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What does peace mean to you?
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Have a think now.
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When Jesus, or when we say peace be with you, what does it actually mean?
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What does peace mean to you?
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Turn to the person next to you.
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If you don't know them, this is a great chance to introduce and say, hi, my name is D.
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And peace to me means D.
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Okay.
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One minute.
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What does peace mean to you?
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Go.
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Go.
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Go.
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Thank you.
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Thank you.
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I picked on you two enough.
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All right, all right.
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Here we go, here we go.
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What's peace then?
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What's peace to you?
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Let's start with Nathan.
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Nathan, what's peace to you?
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Peace is knowing that God is in control even though you're walking through different things in life.
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Peace is knowing that God is in control even though you're walking through different things in life.
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Like it.
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I really like that.
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Peace.
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What else is it about peace?
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Connie?
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I knew it.
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Oh, wow.
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You preempted and already paved the way.
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Man.
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What is it?
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I'll just.
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Being insecure in Christ and.
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Oh, finding stillness in body, mind, heart, spirit.
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Do I need to use.
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Oh, these are longer.
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Oh, thank you.
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Thank you, Rocky.
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Seriously, that earring is so cool.
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Peace.
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What else is peace?
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Shum, what's peace to you?
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Being present and undistracted.
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Being present and undistracted.
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That is good.
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That is really good.
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One last one.
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One last one.
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I'm going to go for you, Lawrence.
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At the back.
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What's peace to you, Lawrence?
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Wow, Rebecca.
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You guys are getting good at this.
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You're like passing it on.
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Okay.
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Rebecca.
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A choice to live in harmony with people around you, even though you may be disagreeing.
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Oh, wow.
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That's a big one.
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That's huge.
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And that is completely correct.
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Well done, Lawrence.
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You married up.
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Well done.
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Okay.
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You know, when I Googled peace, it was, people would say it's the absence of conflict.
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Right?
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I've actually got a colleague of Young Life, from Young Life, who's actually in Palestine
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right now.
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And we're asking him, how can we help you?
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What do you need?
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And he's just saying, we're just praying for peace.
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We're just praying for peace.
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Where there is harmony.
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Where, in some ways, there is absence of conflict.
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But the truth is, that's just one aspect of peace.
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A worldly kind of peace, which is, oh, as long as you're not fighting, there is peace.
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Going back to being parents of young children.
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Mothers just wanting a moment of peace.
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Can I just have a moment where you're not fighting?
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Where you're not arguing?
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Where you don't need me for something?
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I just need to sit and relax for one moment.
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I need a moment of peace.
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But peace, of course, isn't just the absence of conflict.
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It's not just the absence of fighting.
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Aidan's lying down in a way that looks very peaceful right now.
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Because it's a state of mind.
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It's not just the absence of conflict.
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There's a presence of something else that allows you to remain still in the heart, soul, and mind.
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Even when you're still walking through all these different circumstances.
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With people who are disagreeing with you on very different things.
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Put your hand up if you would say that in this current moment in your life right now, you have peace.
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That's good.
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Because the hard thing is, how do we get this kind of peace?
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Jesus talks about peace as well.
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In John chapter 14, he says,
John 14 chapter mention
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Peace I give to you.
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Peace, my peace I leave with you.
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This peace that the world cannot give.
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So do not let your hearts be troubled.
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Do not be afraid.
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And it's not even about circumstance.
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Because John 14, what's happening in John 14?
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John 13 is the Last Supper.
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Judas then heads off to start in motion,
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essentially the betrayal of Jesus that leads to the death of Jesus.
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And so John 13 is that.
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And John 14, Judas is gone.
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Judas is gone to start the thing.
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And then Jesus tells the disciples,
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Peace I leave with you.
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This guy's about to die.
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This guy's about to be nailed to a cross.
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And yet he says,
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My peace I leave with you.
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My peace I give you.
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It has nothing to do with circumstance.
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Ironically, in that season,
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it was a season called Pax Romana.
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Pax Romana, as historians would describe,
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is the peace of Rome.
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What that meant is,
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actually in that short span of time,
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maybe a hundred years or so,
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there was peace.
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The Roman Empire had taken over so much
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that there was peace.
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But it wasn't a real peace.
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It was a coerced, forced kind of peace.
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It was like,
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Abide by our rules,
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and you won't have any trouble.
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It was that kind of peace.
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And yet the Jews,
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they knew that there wasn't true peace.
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The Jews knew that they were still being oppressed.
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The Jews knew that they still weren't in the place
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that they should have been.
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And yet Jesus here is saying,
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My peace I leave with you.
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My peace I give you.
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The world cannot give it.
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Do not let your hearts be troubled.
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Or afraid.
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What does a baby have to do with peace?
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And the answer is,
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not really much at all.
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It's what that baby ends up becoming
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that gives us peace.
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Because the baby in a manger,
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lying swaddled for that moment,
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so they could take a photo
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for the nativity postcard
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that we'll use in 2,000 years' time,
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that moment of peace will be gone.
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As soon as the cows make an extra loud noise,
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wake the baby up,
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and then there will be no peace.
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But it's what that baby then becomes.
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It's who that baby is,
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and what that baby ends up doing,
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and it's the life that baby ends up living,
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and the death of that baby ends up dying,
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that gives us the peace.
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And I want to unpack that a little bit for us today.
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Because when you have peace,
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when this baby comes,
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this arrival of a baby,
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does a couple things.
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The first thing it does is this.
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It gives us the peace of God.
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I'm going to put us all on the spot again.
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When you think about the word peace in the Bible,
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do any Bible verses come to mind?
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Anyone?
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Does anyone remember a Bible verse
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that has something to do with peace?
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Alex?
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Peace that transcends all understanding.
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Well done.
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Round of applause, Alex.
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Solid.
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Solid.
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Rejoice in the Lord.
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Again, I will say rejoice.
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Let your reasonableness be known to everyone.
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The Lord is at hand.
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Do not be anxious about anything,
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but in everything,
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by prayer and supplication,
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with thanksgiving,
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let your requests be made known to God,
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and the peace of God,
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which surpasses understanding,
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will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
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The peace of God will guard your hearts and minds.
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You don't have to be anxious at all.
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I love that passage.
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It's everywhere.
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Philippians chapter four, verse four to seven.
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But the key to that isn't actually,
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do not be anxious about anything, for me.
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The key to that passage isn't even,
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put in everything with prayer and supplication,
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with thanksgiving.
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It isn't that bit.
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The key there is the Lord is at hand.
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The Lord is near.
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So don't be anxious about anything.
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What does the arrival of baby Jesus do for us when peace?
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It tells us that God wants to be with us.
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That God would choose to leave heaven
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and come and be with us.
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Emmanuel, God with us.
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Don't you have that person
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that if you were to walk into something
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that was scary for you,
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if you have that person with you,
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suddenly it will just be calm.
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We had this in the first few weeks
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when my children went to a new school
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and it was like,
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daddy, can you walk with me
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all the way to the door?
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As far as you possibly can
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before you get taken away by security.
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And if I could, as a parent,
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I would love to even sit
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in the dining hall with my kids,
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sit in the classroom with my kids.
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Or when Ruben's going to try and play basketball
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in the playground,
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I would love to be there with him.
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Don't you have that person that,
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oh, if that person was here,
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it would just calm me right down.
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Right?
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Do we have those kinds of people?
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There's a scene in Avengers Endgame
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where there's the big battle.
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Thanos is coming with his whole just army.
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And then it's like,
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oh man, this doesn't look good.
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But of course it's Marvel,
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so it will end up good.
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Apart from more recent Marvel entries.
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And so we're like,
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oh my goodness,
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something's going to happen.
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Something's going to happen.
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But then Captain Marvel comes.
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Captain Marvel,
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one of the most powerful superheroes.
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And the moment she comes in,
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he's kind of like,
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oh, Captain Marvel's here.
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We're going to be just fine.
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The arrival of baby Jesus
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tells us that God wants
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to actually be with us.
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I don't know what you're nervous about.
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I don't know whether it's going into work
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because work is just going to be brutal this week
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as we head up to Christmas.
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I don't know if it's because of the gossip
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that you have with the colleagues
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that you have around you
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and you're just like,
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oh, this is going to be hard.
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Or maybe it's the Christmas family meal
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that you have to go to
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where you have to field those same questions
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from the uncles and aunties
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that you get all the time,
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which gets you all anxious and worked up.
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What if I told you
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the arrival of baby Jesus
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reminds us that God wants to be with you.
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And because he is near,
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because he is at hand,
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you have the peace of God
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that transcends understanding.
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What does that mean?
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It means it doesn't make sense.
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It means you don't really understand
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why you have this peace,
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but you do.
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This happened for us
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during the fifth wave
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when everyone was leaving Hong Kong
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and it was just a mess
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and people were just like,
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what is happening?
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We're going to be shut down.
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There's going to be three tests
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that we all have to do
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and all the people that we knew
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were heading out.
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And I was like, you know what?
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God, what do you want us to do here
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in this season?
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And he's like,
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just have a peace
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that surpasses understanding.
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Any meeting that you have,
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any lunch that you have,
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any coffee that you have,
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any time that you have with people,
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let them see the peace of God in you,
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which is what?
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Man, things aren't going well.
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Things are pretty busy and hectic.
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Yet James seems to have this peace
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that doesn't make sense.
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This peace of God
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that surpasses understanding.
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The arrival of baby Jesus
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gives us that peace.
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I like to think that Joseph,
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his dad,
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had the same peace.
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Can you just put yourself
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in Joseph's shoes for a second?
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I think he couldn't have survived
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what he was about to go through
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were it not for the fact
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that he had the peace of God with him.
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So he's engaged to Mary.
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And then Mary comes to him one day
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and says,
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Hey Joseph,
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I know we're about to get married,
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but I need to tell you something.
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And then she tells,
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well,
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so actually I'm pregnant.
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And then Joseph is like,
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how did that happen?
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There was no biology,
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sex education at that time,
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but it was like,
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you're pregnant?
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How did that happen?
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Oh my goodness.
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Can you imagine what that would mean
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for people in that society?
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That the girl that you're actually
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about to be getting married to
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is now pregnant.
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And then the girl says,
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Oh, don't worry.
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Don't worry.
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Nothing bad has happened.
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The baby comes from the Holy Spirit.
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And then Joseph must be like,
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Huh.
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Huh.
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It would almost have been easier
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if it was something else.
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But now I'm going to have to explain
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to all our village
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that my fiance is pregnant
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because of an invisible force
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got her pregnant.
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This is going to be fun.
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The peace of God,
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the Tristan's understanding
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that allows us to have this peace
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even when things don't make sense,
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even when circumstances
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don't make sense.
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The arrival of baby Jesus
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reminds us that God
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wants to be with us.
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And if he's with us,
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then it's all going to be okay.
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It's even,
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he's even more powerful
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than Captain Marvel.
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Of course,
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there's an even more beautiful
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biblical gospel truth
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in that scene at the end
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because it's not the power
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that wins the battle.
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It's the sacrifice.
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It's the sacrifice of
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Robert Downey Jr.
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May he rest in peace.
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Though I hear he's actually coming back.
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Anyway,
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that's a different thing.
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The peace of God
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that surpasses understanding.
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The question I have for you here
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in this first point is this.
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Do you display that peace?
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Do you display that peace
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that surpasses understanding
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to the people that you have
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in your life,
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to your sphere of influence?
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When people talk to you,
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when people spend time with you,
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do they like,
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man,
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there is a peace about JP
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that I just can't simply understand.
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He just makes me feel like
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everything's going to be okay.
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We're supposed to be
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the type of people
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when other people spend time with us,
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they will feel as though,
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ah,
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you know what?
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Everything's going to be okay.
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Because the arrival of baby Jesus
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gives us that peace
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from within.
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Because it's saying,
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God wants to be with us.
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The second is this.
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The arrival of baby Jesus
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tells us something about peace
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that's really necessary.
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And it's what Rebecca
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talked about here is
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when we truly understand
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what the arrival of baby Jesus means,
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it means that we have peace
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with other people as well.
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That there is a peace with others.
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There's another passage
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in the scripture
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that talks a lot about peace.
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That says,
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Jesus,
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he himself is our peace
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and it's Ephesians 2.
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Can you turn with me
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to Ephesians 2?
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I want to show you
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a few things there.
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Ephesians 2,
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let me tell you
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a little bit of the context.
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I just said that
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we live in a world
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where everyone's
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fighting each other.
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Everyone's just
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arguing
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with each other.
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The context here
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for Ephesians 2
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is that the church
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was started
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was that there were
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two groups of people
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within the same church
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were arguing.
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Have you ever heard of that?
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How ridiculous
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and ludicrous
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does that sound?
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That people within a church
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would argue with each other
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and yet here we are.
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They're arguing.
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The Jews against the Gentiles.
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They're looking at each other
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going,
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oh, you guys shouldn't be here.
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You guys,
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oh, you don't do faith
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in the right way.
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Dr. Alex and I
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were having a lunch
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a couple days ago
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with a good friend of Alex's
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and he was asking me,
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hey, if Christianity is true,
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why are there so many denominations?
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Why are there so many people
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arguing about
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so many different things?
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Why does it seem like
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you don't,
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you guys don't even
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seem to have the answer?
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You're just fighting.
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You see,
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if we truly understood
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the arrival of baby Jesus
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and the message
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that that comes with,
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we would have peace
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with others.
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And Paul's actually
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writing about that
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that I want to unpack,
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but I want to tell you
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first of all
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that it has something
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to do with humility.
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In order to have peace
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with others,
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that baby Jesus
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that comes
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lying in a manger,
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swaddled up,
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what's that trying to show us?
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Is trying to show us
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that this battle is won
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not through force,
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but through humility.
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That Isaiah 9 one,
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he's a wonderful counselor.
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He's mighty God,
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which actually in another version
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is basically mighty warrior.
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Psalm 46 says,
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the nations rage,
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the kingdoms totter.
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He utters his voice
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and the earth melts.
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That's how strong
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and powerful this God is.
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And that's why he says,
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be still and know
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that I am God.
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If I open my voice,
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you are going to melt.
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So stop fighting
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is what he's saying.
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He could come
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and force peace onto us,
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yet he comes in the form
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of a baby
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in humility.
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The arrival of baby Jesus
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gives us peace with others
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because we're reminded
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that in order to get peace,
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it starts with humility.
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It starts with knowing
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what he's done for us.
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It's not just the absence
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of conflict.
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It is actually
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the presence of humility.
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Ephesians 2.
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Ephesians 2 verse 13
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says this,
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but now in Christ Jesus,
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you who once were far off
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have been brought near
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by the blood of Christ.
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For he himself
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is our peace
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who has made us both one
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and has broken down
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in his flesh
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the dividing wall
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of hostility.
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He's saying,
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Paul's saying,
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hey look,
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there's two groups here.
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You've got the Jews
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over this side,
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you've got the Gentiles
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over this side,
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you've got the people
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who used to be KFCI
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this side,
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and you've got the people
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who used to be
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the gathering this side.
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You have two sides
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and it does not make sense.
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Jesus came
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and preached peace
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to those who were far off
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and to those who were near
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and they break down
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that dividing wall
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of hostility.
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By the way,
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those two sides
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we should never need
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to label again.
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We are one church.
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In fact,
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there's plenty of people
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here who were neither.
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Paul's saying,
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we are one.
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Why?
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Because Christ himself
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is our peace
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and he came
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and broke down
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that dividing wall
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of hostility.
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The arrival of baby Jesus
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breaks down any walls
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because through humility
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those walls
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are broken down.
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The question
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that we have then is,
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are we proponents
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of that peace?
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do we truly recognize
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that?
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If it carries on
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in Ephesians 2,
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it says this,
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verse 16,
-
verse 15,
-
by abolishing the law
-
of commandments
-
expressed in ordinances
-
that he might create
-
in himself one new man
-
in place of the two,
-
so making peace
-
and might reconcile
-
us both to God
-
in one body
-
through the cross,
-
thereby killing
-
the hostility.
-
And he came
-
and preached peace
-
to you who were far off
-
and peace to those
-
who were near
-
for through him
-
we both have access
-
in one spirit
-
to the father.
-
There is no special access
-
because you're a Jew.
-
There is no special access
-
because now you're a Gentile.
-
We all go to the father
-
the same way.
-
It's through Jesus.
-
You are one.
-
You are one.
-
The question is,
-
are we proponents
-
of that peace
-
or are we actually
-
sitting on the sidelines
-
with our arms crossed
-
looking across
-
at the other side
-
of the fence
-
going,
-
those people.
-
The arrival of baby Jesus
-
should remind us
-
of the humility
-
where it's like,
-
man,
-
we are all one.
-
Jesus in his sermon
-
on the mount
-
says,
-
blessed are those
-
who are the peacemakers
-
for they shall be what?
-
Anyone know?
-
Known as the children
-
of God.
-
Ellie, yes.
-
Blessed are the peacemakers
-
for they shall be called
-
the children
-
or the sons of God.
-
If you truly understood
-
who you are in God
-
as a child of God,
-
as a son
-
and as a daughter of God,
-
you would be a peacemaker.
-
You might then ask,
-
okay,
-
so what does that look like?
-
I'll tell you
-
what it looks like.
-
All of us
-
who are in a workplace
-
or in some kind of field
-
or actually
-
any of us
-
who are surrounded
-
by human beings,
-
by family,
-
by friends,
-
tell you what you
-
are about to see
-
during this Christmas
-
as you spend time
-
with these people.
-
There is conflict.
-
There's people
-
talking bad stuff
-
about other people.
-
There's people
-
who don't like other people.
-
There's people
-
who are annoyed
-
at other people.
-
You know what
-
you're supposed to be
-
as a child of God?
-
You're supposed
-
to be the peacemaker.
-
I think those of us
-
who are working
-
in offices
-
will especially
-
know this right now.
-
Ken's just smiling
-
because he knows
-
it's a battlefield
-
out there.
-
We're supposed
-
to be peacemakers.
-
What does that mean?
-
What does that look like?
-
It means when you're
-
at the coffee machine
-
and someone's
-
talking bad
-
about someone else
-
and telling it to you,
-
you're supposed
-
to say,
-
yeah,
-
but maybe
-
there's another side.
-
We're supposed
-
to help them
-
understand
-
another perspective
-
because your goal
-
is peace.
-
It isn't,
-
oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
-
Wait till you hear
-
what they said to me.
-
That's not
-
the right answer.
-
We're supposed
-
to be proponents
-
of peace
-
where we,
-
as children of God,
-
because of the arrival
-
of baby Jesus,
-
have the humility
-
to kind of take ourselves
-
out of the equation
-
and bond people together.
-
Can you have,
-
do you have people
-
in your life right now
-
who are fighting
-
who you think,
-
maybe there is something
-
I could do.
-
Maybe I could help
-
in some way.
-
Maybe it's just
-
to help one side
-
dissipate their frustration
-
so they can understand
-
the other side
-
a little bit more.
-
Do you have that person
-
in your life?
-
Do you have those people
-
in your life?
-
Because the arrival
-
of baby Jesus
-
brings with it
-
peace.
-
Brings with it
-
a peace that comes
-
from humility.
-
And I'll tell you one thing,
-
it's not easy.
-
Being that proponent
-
of peace is not easy
-
and it's going to be hard.
-
But it gives me
-
to my final point.
-
The arrival of baby Jesus
-
not only gives you
-
the peace of God
-
that surpasses understanding,
-
it not only grants you
-
peace with others,
-
ultimately,
-
ultimately that peace
-
comes from one place.
-
The peace with God.
-
Ourselves.
-
That's the key.
-
if we understand
-
that actually
-
the arrival of baby Jesus
-
tells us that God
-
wants to be with us
-
because at the core of it,
-
the core problem
-
that we have,
-
the core problem
-
that each of us have
-
is that we have been
-
separated from God.
-
That we have been separated.
-
Why is there so much
-
conflict within our families?
-
Why is there so much
-
conflict within our churches?
-
Why is there so much
-
conflict in our city?
-
It's because we have all
-
been distanced
-
and separated from God.
-
The arrival of baby Jesus
-
first and foremost
-
is addressing that situation.
-
That Ephesians 2 passage
-
of the verse 12
-
says this,
-
remember that you were
-
at that time
-
separated from Christ,
-
alienated from the
-
commonwealth of Israel
-
and strangers to the
-
covenants of promise,
-
having no hope
-
and without God
-
in the world.
-
You say, hey,
-
before you talk about
-
unity together,
-
let me remind you one thing.
-
You were separated.
-
You were lost.
-
You were blind.
-
You had no hope
-
and without me.
-
But Jesus came
-
and preached peace
-
to you.
-
I was watching a TED talk
-
with Christina
-
the other night
-
and it was the title,
-
which they're always
-
really kind of
-
catchy titles.
-
It was like
-
the single parenting skill
-
that every parent
-
should have.
-
And of course,
-
as parents who are failing
-
on a daily basis,
-
we were attracted
-
in to watch it.
-
And you know what
-
the one trait
-
that they said,
-
the recommendation
-
they had for parents is?
-
To be good at repairing.
-
The speaker was saying,
-
actually,
-
that's the main thing,
-
to be good at repairing
-
because you're going
-
to make mistakes.
-
You're going to sever
-
your relationship
-
with your child
-
in some way.
-
You're going to be
-
disconnected some way.
-
When you end up shouting,
-
the example she had
-
was if you're shouting
-
at your child
-
across the kitchen
-
because they're being
-
sport and entitled
-
and then you end up
-
shouting
-
and then they leave
-
and then they slam
-
the door behind them,
-
all of that,
-
be good at repairing
-
was the answer.
-
And how she said
-
that you should do it
-
is to go back
-
to that point
-
of disconnection.
-
So if you were fighting
-
with someone,
-
let's say Danny and Grace
-
are fighting about something
-
and of course Danny's wrong.
-
So Danny's got to figure out
-
how to repair the connection.
-
The thing to do
-
is to go back
-
to that moment.
-
let's say Danny
-
then apologizes to
-
Hey Grace,
-
that moment there
-
in the scene
-
where I left the toothbrush
-
on the left side
-
instead of the right side,
-
my bad.
-
That's like,
-
I know how that made you feel.
-
Even though I think
-
it might be the other way around.
-
Danny's like,
-
this is such a stupid example
-
because it's the opposite.
-
The whole point
-
of the TED Talk
-
was saying
-
you've got to be good
-
at repairing.
-
You've got to go back
-
to that scene.
-
Hey,
-
do you know what I said
-
to you there
-
in the living room
-
the other day?
-
Actually,
-
that was out of order.
-
And actually,
-
I said it
-
because I was frustrated.
-
I said it
-
because of this.
-
You go back
-
to that scene
-
and you repair it.
-
In some ways,
-
she also said,
-
actually,
-
that's essentially
-
why counseling
-
is so good,
-
why therapy
-
is so good
-
because you get
-
a space
-
where you sit back
-
into a spot
-
where you go back
-
to that,
-
you process
-
that moment
-
of disconnection
-
with someone else
-
in a safe space
-
and that's when
-
the repair begins.
-
Why does
-
baby Jesus,
-
prince of heaven,
-
prince of peace,
-
come to this world?
-
Because he's trying
-
to go back
-
to that moment
-
of disconnection
-
and he's trying
-
to repair
-
that disconnect
-
that you and I
-
all have
-
the moment
-
we choose
-
ourselves
-
over God.
-
Romans 5,
-
1 says,
-
we get peace
-
with God
-
through Jesus.
-
Until you remember
-
and you recognize
-
that actually
-
you're distanced
-
from God
-
all the way
-
from your OG
-
ancestor,
-
Adam and Eve,
-
when they chose
-
to go their own way,
-
when they chose
-
the flesh
-
over the spirit
-
that leads to death
-
as opposed
-
to life and peace,
-
until you recognize
-
that you were
-
separated from God,
-
then you won't
-
get the peace
-
of God
-
and you won't
-
get the peace
-
with others.
-
It starts
-
with that.
-
Jesus coming
-
to this world
-
is trying to go
-
back to that
-
point of disconnection.
-
The Garden of Eden
-
is where the point
-
of disconnection
-
comes,
-
where Adam
-
would even go,
-
God,
-
can you really
-
be trusted?
-
Did you really
-
say what you said?
-
Should we really
-
follow you?
-
Jesus,
-
baby Jesus,
-
comes back
-
to the earth
-
and goes back
-
to another garden,
-
the Garden of
-
Gethsemane
-
and he repairs
-
and he surrenders
-
his will
-
and he says,
-
God,
-
not my will,
-
but yours.
-
Why?
-
Because he had
-
our separation
-
in mind
-
because he was
-
going back
-
to that scene
-
of disconnection
-
to bring about
-
reconciliation.
-
That is why
-
we have a baby Jesus.
-
That's why
-
Christianity
-
remains to be
-
the only one
-
that addresses
-
the issue
-
that we have
-
which is disconnection
-
because we have
-
a God
-
who comes to us
-
in the form
-
of a baby
-
and says,
-
I want connection
-
with you.
-
No other religion
-
does that.
-
All the other ones
-
say,
-
hey,
-
we've got to
-
figure out
-
a way
-
to become
-
perfect
-
so we can
-
get to that
-
place.
-
The truth is
-
we can never
-
get to that
-
place.
-
The truth is
-
the only way
-
we can get
-
to that place
-
is if that
-
place comes
-
to us.
-
That's what
-
the arrival
-
of baby Jesus
-
does.
-
Let me finish
-
with asking you
-
this.
-
Would you
-
welcome
-
the arrival
-
of baby Jesus
-
in your life?
-
Would you
-
welcome the
-
peace of God
-
that surpasses
-
understanding?
-
The peace
-
that doesn't
-
make sense?
-
Can you
-
commit with
-
me as
-
you leave
-
this place
-
to go back
-
into the
-
world that
-
you're in
-
and have
-
a peace
-
that doesn't
-
make sense?
-
So the
-
next time
-
someone's
-
complaining
-
in your
-
company about
-
the future
-
or is worried
-
about something,
-
you can display
-
to them a
-
peace of God.
-
Why?
-
Because
-
the arrival
-
of baby Jesus
-
tells you and
-
reminds you that
-
God wants to
-
be with us.
-
In fact,
-
God is with
-
you right
-
now.
-
He is near,
-
he is at
-
hand,
-
so you don't
-
have to be
-
anxious about
-
anything.
-
Can you
-
display that
-
kind of peace
-
of God that
-
surpasses
-
understanding?
-
And secondly,
-
when I asked
-
you, hey,
-
are there people
-
in your lives
-
that you're
-
not at peace
-
with?
-
This is the
-
season to do
-
it.
-
Because there
-
is a baby
-
that comes to
-
show you what
-
humility looks
-
like.
-
That baby,
-
God himself,
-
who if he
-
uttered his
-
voice,
-
everything,
-
everyone would
-
melt,
-
and yet he
-
chose to come
-
in the form
-
of a baby.
-
That means
-
there's someone
-
in your life
-
that you can
-
display the
-
same level
-
of humility
-
to.
-
And you're
-
like, oh,
-
but what if I
-
humble myself
-
and then they
-
trample all
-
over me?
-
Then they
-
trample all
-
over you.
-
The Lord,
-
the King,
-
the one who
-
ends up bringing
-
redemption and
-
reconciliation to
-
the whole world
-
was nailed to
-
a cross.
-
for you.
-
You can be
-
a doormat
-
because your
-
savior went
-
onto the
-
cross to
-
die for
-
you.
-
Now, if
-
you get to
-
a point where
-
you are
-
getting so
-
taken advantage
-
of that you
-
end up on
-
a cross,
-
then come
-
and talk to
-
me.
-
We'll try
-
and figure
-
out a
-
solution.
-
But until
-
then, I
-
think there's
-
still humility
-
that we can
-
show.
-
I think there's
-
still peace.
-
And if you
-
are a child
-
of God,
-
then you're
-
not supposed
-
to just let
-
people walk
-
all over
-
you.
-
Not to
-
say that's
-
what you're
-
going to go
-
out and
-
do.
-
Hey, everyone,
-
walk all
-
over me.
-
But you
-
have a
-
peace of
-
God that's
-
like, you
-
know what,
-
whatever happens.
-
I'm just
-
going to be
-
as faithful
-
as I can,
-
as kind
-
as I can,
-
knowing that
-
my savior
-
lives and is
-
standing right
-
next to me.
-
so there's
-
nothing that
-
you can do
-
to me that
-
is going
-
to affect
-
my situation.
-
It's not
-
going to
-
hinder my
-
promotion because
-
if God wants
-
my promotion,
-
he will
-
promote me.
-
And if God
-
wants me to
-
be popular
-
and be able
-
to succeed
-
in a certain
-
arena of my
-
life, he
-
will do it
-
for me.
-
So I don't
-
need to
-
scrounge and
-
I don't
-
need to
-
strive and
-
strain and
-
stress for
-
it because
-
God is
-
with me.
-
Can we
-
be that?
-
Can we
-
be the
-
peacemakers
-
because we
-
are children
-
of God?
-
And finally,
-
would you
-
humble yourself
-
at the
-
throne of
-
Jesus?
-
Would you
-
humble yourself
-
by the
-
baby in a
-
manger,
-
recognizing
-
that he
-
came to
-
save you
-
and me,
-
that we
-
were separated,
-
we were
-
disconnected,
-
we chose
-
our own
-
way, we
-
turned our
-
backs on
-
God, yet
-
now we
-
have peace
-
with him.
-
That word
-
peace, the
-
Old Testament
-
word is
-
shalom.
-
We heard of
-
that?
-
Shalom.
-
What does
-
that mean?
-
Shalom means
-
wholeness.
-
It's
-
complete.
-
It's not,
-
okay, so
-
when I think
-
about peace
-
sometimes, I
-
think about
-
a lake,
-
calmness,
-
no human
-
beings around,
-
not even my
-
children, well
-
definitely not
-
my children,
-
nor my wife,
-
just complete
-
utter silence,
-
just me,
-
that's peace.
-
But that
-
isn't real
-
peace that the
-
Bible talks
-
about.
-
The word
-
shalom means
-
that things
-
are complex,
-
things are
-
complicated, yet
-
there is a
-
wholeness to
-
it because
-
everything fits
-
together in
-
the right
-
place.
-
Who's old
-
enough to
-
remember what
-
you used to
-
do in
-
Microsoft
-
Windows where
-
you have
-
defragmentation?
-
Who remembers
-
that?
-
Oh, Albert,
-
I know you
-
got me.
-
Albert and
-
Paul, the
-
guys with
-
the same
-
hairstyle as
-
me, we
-
got this.
-
I used to
-
love doing
-
defrag.
-
I mean, I
-
didn't really
-
know what
-
I did, but
-
you just got
-
this picture,
-
this logo that
-
the puzzle was
-
like getting
-
fixed.
-
We all, yeah, I
-
mean, my wife
-
always gives me
-
grief about my
-
wardrobe because
-
like, I'm,
-
anyway, so.
-
And after a
-
while of using
-
wardrobe or your
-
bookcase or your
-
bookshelf, everything
-
just goes into,
-
like, it starts
-
getting messy,
-
right?
-
Whenever you do
-
anything in life,
-
it starts to get
-
messy.
-
I know Ellen
-
likes to organize
-
her phone apps in
-
the right color, and
-
it's all, her phone
-
screen is just
-
immaculate.
-
Mine starts off that
-
way too, but then
-
suddenly you start to
-
download apps, and
-
then you go to
-
Shenzhen and you
-
have to download all
-
these new apps, and
-
then suddenly my
-
whole screen looks
-
completely different,
-
and then I need a
-
defrag.
-
I need someone to
-
come in to help
-
tidy everything up.
-
That process of
-
defragmentation, what's
-
that haming for?
-
Shalom.
-
Wholeness.
-
Complex.
-
Yet complete.
-
I believe that's the
-
kingdom of God that
-
we're heading to.
-
I believe that's the
-
shalom that baby Jesus
-
is bringing.
-
And it starts with
-
us.
-
Would you let this
-
baby, and what he
-
does, and his life,
-
and his death, and
-
his resurrection,
-
defrag your life,
-
organize it back into
-
a way where you have
-
shalom.
-
When you have
-
shalom, you will
-
have the peace of
-
God, you will have
-
peace with others, and
-
you will have peace
-
with God.
-
That is what we're
-
aiming for.
-
Peace has come,
-
and our king is with
-
us.
-
Jesus, we thank you.
-
That you would leave
-
heaven's throne as the
-
prince of peace, and you
-
would come into the dark
-
world that we live in, and
-
that you would bring light,
-
that you would bring
-
peace.
-
peace.
-
And so we pray for shalom
-
over every single person
-
in this room.
-
We live complex lives, in a
-
complex city, in a complex
-
world, that so often feels
-
incomplete, and it truly
-
isn't complete.
-
Until you come.
-
would you bring
-
shalom.
-
shalom?
-
Would you bring those who
-
feel distant to you
-
back into your arms?
-
Would you meet us at our
-
point of disconnection, and
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repair, and reconcile us to
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God the Father?
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Jesus, this Advent season, we
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await your arrival.
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Arrival filled with humility
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and peace.
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Thank you, Lord.
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And it's in your name, the
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name that all governments, the
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whole world, will rest on.
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Where there will be peace
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that has no end.
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It's in your name, that name,
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that we pray.
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Amen.