Sermon
The Prayer of Surrender
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Transcript
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Morning, everyone. Morning, morning. That's it. Are we here? Are we live? Morning.
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It's good to see you. I'm James, again, just like Alex, part of this gathering here.
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We're doing something different. Actually, I feel obliged to at least give an intro,
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because I think each week there's probably different people who are coming for the first time.
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This is not what we normally do, but it's something that we're trying to do.
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Actually, I'm going to take this off.
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With the sole reason of, I have this fear, and these intros are getting shorter and shorter,
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so if you're here every week, then don't worry, it'll get less painful.
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My fear is that we run through the motions.
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You come to church on a Sunday morning, and you do church.
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You sing a few songs, you listen to someone do a TED Talk, and then you sing one more song,
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and then you go for lunch, and then that's it.
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And so I have this fear that, one, the church ends up, the service ends up like a memorial service.
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We're just here to talk about a guy, remember a guy who used to live, who was a good guy, and that's it.
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And we all kind of just say hello and then goodbye.
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I'm also afraid that we turn our church service into like a birthday party,
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where we celebrate, we hold this party for someone,
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but then the birthday boy, we leave in the corner, and we completely ignore him.
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I don't know why you're here.
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Part of it is to meet friends and to hear someone speak,
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but the main thing is to meet Jesus and to hear him speak.
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And then it makes me think, what on earth are we doing if we want to meet Jesus and want to hear from him,
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and yet we don't spend any time or enough time praying?
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I think the church globally is going through this pandemic, epidemic of prayerlessness.
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Have you been in a service where actually you've barely prayed?
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I have.
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And so for us, we're like, you know what, let's just stop.
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We're still small enough just to be able to say, hey, let's stop.
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Let's keep reminding ourselves, like with the statements, like with just what we're doing here,
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let's just keep reminding ourselves why we're here.
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Isn't that the most important thing?
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That you don't want to just hear from me, you want to hear from Jesus.
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You want to walk away from here and go, man, I heard from God, and I spent time with him,
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and I spent time with his people.
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And so we're changing things up.
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We're not going to sing songs at the beginning just to kind of shock ourselves out of the system.
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If anything, this is a little bit more like the early church, how it began.
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It was only 500 years ago when a guy called Zwingli, a theologian from Switzerland,
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put the pulpit into the middle of the service and said, this is the most important thing.
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And so you have the long sermon and you have everything else stressed around the side.
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Like in reality, when they first gathered, it was just to pray.
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And then they would open up the word and they would, back then it would have been the Old Testament
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and they would have just read through it.
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And then someone would have taught a little bit on it.
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And then they would have just worshipped and prayed.
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So we're going to try and do that for these next few weeks.
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And I hope that, yes, it may make you feel uncomfortable,
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but the goal is, can we get to a place where actually, man, I want to pray.
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I want to get to know these people.
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I want to get to know God.
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And so that's kind of the heart behind it.
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Last week, and hopefully through these next few weeks,
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teach us some different tools about how to pray that may help you when you go home.
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And last week we talked about the simple prayer.
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Pete Gregg talked about how you just pray what you've got.
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C.S. Lewis says, don't pray, don't lay before the throne what ought to be in you,
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just lay before the throne what is in you.
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And if it's anger, if it's frustration, if it's fear, if it's anxiety,
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just pray those things.
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That's okay.
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You can be like a child to God and just tell him, I want this.
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I need this.
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I'm so tired of this.
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I'm so angry about this.
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I'm so worried about this.
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And you just come to him and you just go, God, this is where I'm at.
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No pretense, no pretending.
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This is what I'm worried about and I want to give it to you.
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And I trust that you care about me.
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And so that was a simple prayer where you just pray what you've got.
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And I taught us a different kind of different things to help us.
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Because why?
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Because prayer is hard.
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Prayer is hard.
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Whether you pray on your own, whether you pray in a group, it's often very hard.
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So we're trying to just equip each other with some tools.
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St. Teresa was the one who said, everyone's a beginner when it comes to prayer.
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Even if you've prayed for years, you can still go back to this childlike prayer and say, God, I'm angry.
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That's okay.
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And so that's what we're going to try and do.
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And I told you that actually different people have different things to pray, ways to pray.
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John Mark Homer was the one who every morning wakes up and faces east and just prays east because that's where the Bible says that's where Jesus is going to return.
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And so it's kind of his way to remind himself, Jesus is returning.
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I want to focus on him.
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I want to be ready for him.
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So we're going to teach different ones.
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And I'm going to teach us one today that I found particularly interesting.
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It will require a little bit of movement.
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So what I'm going to ask you to do, actually, before I ask you to stand, because at the moment you stand, none of you will see me.
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So this is what we're going to do.
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Now, it's called the body prayer that I've been doing every day.
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And actually, I only recently learned this.
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And so I'll do it in front of all of you first, just to kind of embarrass myself a little bit.
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It's called the body prayer.
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And there's four parts that I'm going to talk you through.
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I do this every morning because actually when I wake up in the morning, I'm super groggy.
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My mind is all over the place.
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And something about prayer is that you've got to do it like if you're really going to connect and pray to God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength, your body is a part of that.
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You know, typically, actually, the most common prayer style body posture wise in the Bible is lying prostrate on the floor.
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Okay, so that's the most common one.
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So you won't see this, but I'll just do it.
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That's the prayer.
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The second most common style is this.
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Every time you see someone pray in the Bible, they're doing either lying on the floor completely prostrate or they are standing with their hands up.
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The kind of prayer that we do these days, you cannot find one example in the Bible.
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Isn't that interesting?
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And yet here we do.
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I'm convicted that when we pray, our bodies are very important.
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If you watch friends talk, I had a lunch with Aidan and Alex and Ken just in the summer and we had lunch and man, that group is loud.
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And they're talking and their arms are waving and it's just, they're just so impassioned about roast goose and all those kinds of things that you pray with your body.
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So this is the body prayer.
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So the first part is this and you feel free to do it at home.
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I really enjoy doing it myself every morning.
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And the first one is this.
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Okay, so the guy who taught me, he was like, hey, touch your toes.
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And I was like, I've never been able to touch my toes, even when I was 10 years old.
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But anyway, you do this.
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And then you shake, you just basically shake.
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And what you do is when you're praying this prayer, you're basically just shaking off any, anything that's not of God.
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Any bad vibes, any fears, any anxieties, any pride, anything that you know that shouldn't be in your heart and shouldn't be in your body.
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You're just shaking it off.
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Just shake, shake, shake it off.
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Okay, so that's the, that's the first prayer.
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Okay.
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Okay.
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And after that, you then stand up and then you lift up your hands to do the very common posture of prayer in the Bible, which is you lift it up and you go, actually, I've shaken off all the things that aren't of you.
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And now I just focus on you.
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God, you are worthy to be praised.
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Hallowed be your name.
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What's that?
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It means you're different.
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God, you are so different.
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You're so big.
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I don't even dare imagine knowing who you truly are.
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And then after that, you do this.
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And it is the kind of a hugging yourself prayer.
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And this is the one where you just receive whatever God has given you, the warm embrace of what God has given you.
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Actually, may I operate from today, knowing that I am loved, knowing that I'm safe, knowing that he is near and he's close to me.
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And after that, you open up your hands like this and you offer a prayer to God and say, whatever I've just received from you, I now give back to you.
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Use it for your glory.
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Just take it back.
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Use it.
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Use me.
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And freely I receive and now freely I give.
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So those are the four parts.
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Is that okay?
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Right.
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Can I invite you to stand?
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We're going to quickly do the body prayer together.
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So you might have to kind of make a little bit more space for you, for yourself.
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Now, you can do this for however long you want.
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My back won't let me do it for too long.
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And we'll do it short.
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But actually, I encourage you, if you're looking for ways to start your day, this is a great one.
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Okay?
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So let's start by just kind of reaching towards your toes and shaking off.
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Shake it off.
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And I will lead us in a prayer now.
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God, we come to you with any fatigue we have, any cynicism we have, any fears, any worries, any pride, any insecurity.
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There are so many things that trouble us in this day.
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And so we shake it all off.
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Holy Spirit, we give it to you.
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Release it all to you.
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And then we stand up, reach out.
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Try not to hit the person next to you.
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There we go.
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Can you imagine the upper room in Acts 1?
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This is probably how they prayed.
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Look around.
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Isn't that crazy?
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It's just people going,
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God,
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you alone are holy.
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You alone are worthy.
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There is none like you.
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You are God in heaven.
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And here we are on earth.
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Let our words be few.
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You are so much bigger than we realize.
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And we are so much smaller.
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So we lift our prayers up to you.
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And then we embrace ourselves and hug ourselves.
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Give yourself a really big hug.
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Lord, there are so many of us who are in need of intimacy.
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We yearn for love.
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We struggle with loneliness.
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And yet here you are all wrapping your arms around us.
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Can you allow us to feel your warm embrace today?
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Whatever we think,
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whatever we say,
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whatever we do,
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comes from a place of knowing that we are loved by you.
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But just like a parent with a child,
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just
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you hug us,
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you wrap your arms around us.
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Never let us forget.
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We are loved.
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We are your children.
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Your grace just covers us.
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Even when we don't feel it.
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And finally,
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we open up our hands
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and we offer it to you.
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That love that we've just received from you.
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We seek to pass on to those who need it.
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Those gifts you've given us.
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We seek to use them for your glory.
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Our cups, they overflow.
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May they overflow.
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For those of us who feel empty,
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Lord, would you fill us up
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so that we can then pour out to others?
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We know this day isn't about us.
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We know it's about you
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being lifted high,
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being glorified.
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And so we serve you.
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We look to you.
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We worship you.
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And we give everything that we have to you.
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In your name we pray.
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Amen.
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Please take a seat.
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So I hope that's helpful.
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I hope that's a
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that'll be a fun way for you to try.
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If you're thinking,
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okay, I've got to stop my prayer.
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And you could do all of those actions
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within 10 seconds.
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It'll probably really hurt you.
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But
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it's just a good way
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just to
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start your day.
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And I hope that helps you.
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The other thing I taught
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us last week,
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again,
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it's not because
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I created it,
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but it's called Lectio Divina.
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Lectio Divina is just a way
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to pray through scripture.
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And we're actually going to do that again today.
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Does anyone remember
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how many parts there is
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to Lectio Divina?
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Anyone remember?
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Me?
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Four.
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Yes.
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Four.
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Of course,
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they're described in Latin,
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but in English,
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the first one will be read.
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So you simply read it.
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When you open up the scripture,
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let's say you've just done
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the body prayer in the morning
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and you're like,
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okay,
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I want to start the day
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with some scripture.
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So I'll pick a passage
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and we've been going through
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the songs of ascent,
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which are just simple prayers
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that Jesus would have prayed,
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that all the Jewish people
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heading to worship
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would have prayed these prayers.
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and you take a simple passage,
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doesn't have to be too long,
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and then you do these four steps.
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And the first stage
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is simply you read it.
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Okay?
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And Lectio Divina
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simply means divine reading.
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So you're reading it
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and then asking God,
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show me something.
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Tell me something.
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I want to hear from you.
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I don't just want to read
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and tick it off.
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I want to hear from you.
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If the word of God
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is living and active,
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this is what I want to hear from.
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So what you do is
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first you read it
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and then afterwards
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you read it again
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for the second time,
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but this time you reflect on it.
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And as you read those words,
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you're like,
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oh, what does that actually mean?
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Oh, that's interesting.
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And you just reflect.
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You can let your mind
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wander a little bit
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if you need to.
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And then you read it
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for a third time
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and this time you respond.
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You're like,
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oh God, man.
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Yeah, I'm reflecting on that
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and that means something to me.
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You're telling me something here.
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I need to do something.
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I need to act on this.
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And then the fourth one
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is you rest in it.
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You read it again
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because it's not all about doing.
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It's not all about instructions
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and obeying.
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It's about then just resting in him
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going, oh God,
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I receive this
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and I'm just going to rest
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in this passage,
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this word.
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Okay, so we're going to do that today
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and we're going to do it
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on another Psalm.
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It's Psalm 127.
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Afterwards,
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I actually asked
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two of our dear members
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of this family,
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one Hank and Cara,
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who actually have been doing this
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this week already
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and just reflecting
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and they're going to come up
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and share with us
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what their experience was like
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as they went through this passage.
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Is that okay?
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So we're going to try it.
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This is Lectio Divina.
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If you need more information
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about this,
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if you're like,
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oh, that's a cool way.
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I'd like to,
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I'd be interested in that.
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Just Google it,
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Lectio Divina.
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Actually, there's an app.
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There's multiple apps
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that lead you through it.
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So feel free to have a look at those.
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But what we're going to do is
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I'm going to read through Psalm 127.
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Because we're doing it four times,
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I won't ask us to stand.
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But I hope you share that thought with me
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that the Word of God
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is something to be revered.
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This is a big deal.
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This isn't just reading tweets
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or Instagram posts.
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This is the Word of God
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that has lasted thousands of years
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that is still here today.
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That speaks to us today.
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And we're asking the Holy Spirit
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to speak to us in it.
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Okay?
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So why don't we spend a moment now
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just to calm our hearts.
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I'm actually going to sit down
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because I'm not the center of this.
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But...
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Whatever we've come in here with today,
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we calm our hearts
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and we seek only you.
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The words of this psalm,
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a song attributed to Solomon,
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will be on the screen.
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But you can also feel free
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just to close your eyes
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and listen to it.
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It's a short one.
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It's five verses,
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just in case you're worried.
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And we're going to do the first one
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where we're just simply going to read it.
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Holy Spirit,
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as we open up your Word,
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speak to us.
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Calm our hearts.
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Steady our thoughts.
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So that we can hear from you.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Psalm 127.
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Psalm 127.
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Unless the Lord builds the house,
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those who build it labor in vain.
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Unless the Lord watches over the city,
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the watchman stays awake in vain.
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It is in vain that you rise up early
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and go late to rest,
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eating the bread of anxious toil,
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for he gives to his beloved sheep.
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Behold,
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children are a heritage from the Lord,
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the fruit of the womb a reward.
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Like arrows in the hand of a warrior
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are the children of one's youth.
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Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them.
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He shall not be put to shame
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when he speaks with his enemies in the gate.
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This is the word of the Lord.
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I'm going to read it for a second time now
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and this time reflect on the words.
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What's the author trying to say?
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What's God trying to show you?
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A Song of Solomon.
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Psalm 127.
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Unless the Lord builds the house,
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those who build it labor in vain.
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Unless the Lord watches over the city,
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the watchman stays awake in vain.
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It is in vain that you rise up early
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and go late to rest,
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eating the bread of anxious toil,
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for he gives to his beloved sheep.
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Behold,
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children are a heritage from the Lord,
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the fruit of the womb a reward.
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Like arrows in the hand of a warrior
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are the children of one's youth.
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Blessed is the man
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who fills his quiver with them.
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He shall not be put to shame
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when he speaks with his enemies in the gate.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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a third time.
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This time, ask yourself, how can I respond to this?
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What about my life is he trying to address?
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A song of Solomon, Psalm 127.
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Unless the Lord builds the house,
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those who build it labour in vain.
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Unless the Lord watches over the city,
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the watchman stays awake in vain.
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It is in vain that you rise up early and go late to rest,
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eating the bread of anxious toil,
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for he gives to his beloved sheep.
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Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord.
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The fruit of the womb a reward,
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like arrows in the hand of a warrior,
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are the children of one's youth.
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Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them.
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He shall not be put to shame
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when he speaks with his enemies in the gate.
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So we've read
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We've reflected
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We've sought to respond
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And so finally we just rest
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As we read it one last time
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Just rest
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In these words
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These words that transcend time
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Heaven and earth shall pass away
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But the word of the Lord remains
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And just rest in
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The security we get from reading this
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And learning from this
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A song of Solomon
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Psalm 127
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Unless the Lord builds the house
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Those who build it
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Labour in vain
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Unless the Lord watches over the city
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The watchman stays awake in vain
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It is in vain that you rise up early
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And go late to rest
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Eating the bread of anxious toil
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For he gives to his beloved sheep
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Behold
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Children are a heritage from the Lord
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The fruit of the womb
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A reward
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Like arrows in the hand of a warrior
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Are the children of one's youth
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Blessed is the man who fills his quiver
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With them
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He shall not be put to shame
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When he speaks
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With his enemies
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In the gate
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This
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Is the word of the Lord
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So
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That's 10 minutes
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12 minutes
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I've found that it's just a
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Good way to start your day
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Just to be like
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Oh gosh
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Hey Freddie
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This is the most important thing
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These are words of truth
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That I can impact
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Into
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How I go about my day
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So
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I actually asked
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Two friends
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To reflect on this passage
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This last week
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Just to kind of
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See what they received
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I don't know what was going through your mind
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Maybe the first time
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You were just like all over the place
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It was just
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What's happening here?
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What are we doing?
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And then the second time
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You're like
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Oh okay
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I'm stilling a little bit
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Oh what does that even mean?
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And the third time
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You're like
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Oh
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Oh that's for me
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And so just
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To go through that
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I've got two friends
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I'm going to invite
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I want to invite ladies first
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So Cara
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If you're around
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I'm just going to
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Bring her up here
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And as she was praying
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Through this
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Trusting that the Lord
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Has something for her as well
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Alex and Cara
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Our dear friends
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Alex is in the back
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Carrying Ari
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I think right now
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They were with us
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From the very beginning
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From KFCI
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And then
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When we started
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The family gathering
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And they're just
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Actually long long long
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Long time friends
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Of senior pastor
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Peter Lam
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From Kongfuk Churchside
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So that's
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I really wanted to
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Bring Cara up
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And she's going to
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Share with us
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How she thought
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About this passage
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And I don't know
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Maybe
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Did you read it
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In English or Chinese?
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You read it in both
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Okay that's cool
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So anyway
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I'm just going to
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Give it over to you
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Just to share
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What you received
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It's here if you need it
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Thank you James
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For asking to share
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I'm not usually
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Asked to be
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Speaking in a public
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Place so
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Bear with me
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This week
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I've been
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Meditating and
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Reflecting on this
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Passage
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I actually
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Took James'
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Advice
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I did it in
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English and
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Chinese
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And he
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Encouraged me
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To memorise
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This as well
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So I did
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And it's actually
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Very helpful
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Because once
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You actually
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Internalise it
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It just comes
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In even more
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So here
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A couple
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Quick personal
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Thoughts that I
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Have
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First thing
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Is
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In reflection
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When I'm reading
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I just feel
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A lot of comfort
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I have a lot of
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Peace reading
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This passage
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Because
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Knowing that
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God is in
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Control
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Of it all
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And I think
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That this is
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Very important
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To me
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Like growing up
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I know that
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God is there
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And that
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He is in
-
Control of
-
Everything
-
It just brings
-
Me a lot of
-
Peace
-
And he
-
Talks about
-
How God
-
Is actually
-
Partnering
-
With the
-
People
-
Unless
-
God is
-
Building
-
Unless
-
The Lord
-
Builds the
-
House
-
Those who
-
Labor
-
Those who
-
Build it
-
Labor in
-
Fain
-
And unless
-
God watches
-
Over the
-
City
-
The watchman
-
Stays awake
-
In faint
-
And not
-
Only
-
Is he
-
In control
-
He is
-
Actually
-
Asking me
-
To partner
-
With him
-
And knowing
-
That God
-
Is partnering
-
With us
-
Gives me
-
A lot
-
Of comfort
-
And he
-
Provides
-
As well
-
Later on
-
In the passage
-
He talks
-
About children
-
And I
-
Just feel
-
So so
-
Loved
-
By the
-
Lord
-
When I
-
Was resting
-
In the
-
Word
-
In his
-
Presence
-
I can
-
Feel that
-
He
-
Is so
-
Loving
-
And
-
After all
-
I'm just
-
A sinner
-
You know
-
I for sure
-
Every day
-
I'm just
-
I'm undeserving
-
Of all
-
These but
-
Time after
-
Time
-
Lord is
-
Still
-
Pursuing
-
After me
-
And he's
-
Loving
-
Me
-
To like
-
No end
-
This gives
-
Me a lot
-
Of comfort
-
And then
-
The second
-
Thing is
-
The word
-
Unless
-
Unless
-
Means
-
It's like
-
Conditional
-
Like unless
-
God is
-
There
-
In reflection
-
I feel like
-
If God
-
Is not
-
In the
-
Things that
-
We do
-
Like it's
-
Meaningless
-
The passage
-
Talks about
-
Everything is
-
In vain
-
If he's
-
Not there
-
Like whatever
-
You do
-
Is a waste
-
Of time
-
And it
-
Just gives
-
Me like
-
It reminds
-
Me it's a
-
Good reminder
-
That whatever
-
I do
-
Like cannot
-
Leave God
-
Out of it
-
Like he
-
Just has to
-
Be there
-
And then
-
Later on
-
The passage
-
Talk about
-
Children
-
I grew
-
Up in
-
Church
-
This passage
-
Is actually
-
Very familiar
-
To me
-
I read
-
About it
-
Many many
-
Times
-
But I
-
Think I
-
Did not
-
Understand
-
It deeper
-
Until I
-
Have my
-
Own
-
So my
-
Daughter
-
Is one
-
Year old
-
Now
-
She's
-
Actually
-
Turning
-
13 months
-
End of
-
The week
-
Sometimes
-
Well when
-
I read
-
The passage
-
Children
-
Like they
-
Are like
-
Arrows
-
In the
-
Hand of a
-
Warrior
-
Some days
-
I feel like
-
This passage
-
Read
-
They are
-
Like grenades
-
In the
-
Hand of a
-
Warrior
-
My child
-
Is so
-
Wildcat
-
But then
-
She is a
-
Heritage
-
She is a
-
Gift
-
From the
-
Lord
-
Which prompts
-
Me to
-
Think like
-
What kind
-
Of legacy
-
I can leave
-
Behind for my
-
Child
-
Like what
-
Gift can I
-
Give to her
-
Now that I've
-
Received such
-
A great gift
-
From God
-
Very early
-
On in
-
Our
-
Journey of
-
Expecting
-
That my
-
Daughter is
-
Born
-
Alex and
-
I just
-
Recognize that
-
She is
-
Our child
-
That is
-
Entrusted to
-
Us by
-
The Lord
-
But after
-
All she
-
Is God's
-
Child
-
She is
-
God's
-
Daughter
-
So am
-
I
-
I'm
-
God's
-
Daughter
-
I think
-
The best
-
Thing that
-
We can
-
Do as
-
Parents
-
Is to
-
Point
-
Her
-
To God
-
So that
-
She can
-
Have a
-
Personal
-
Relationship
-
With God
-
I think
-
That is
-
Like the
-
Biggest
-
Legacy
-
If we're
-
Talking about
-
Heritage
-
It's like
-
The biggest
-
Legacy that
-
I can give
-
To her
-
Other than
-
Well we
-
Don't have
-
A lot of
-
Fortune
-
We
-
We just
-
Don't have
-
Anything
-
But I
-
Think
-
Like a
-
Reflection
-
My prayer
-
For her
-
Is that
-
She will
-
Learn
-
Grow to
-
Understand
-
The Lord
-
Know
-
His heart
-
And love
-
People around
-
Her well
-
So yeah
-
I think
-
That's like
-
The biggest
-
Legacy
-
Thank you
-
Thank you
-
Thank you
-
So much
-
Thank you
-
Thank you
-
So much
-
Actually it's
-
Incredible
-
Even just
-
Having
-
Being able to
-
Hear other
-
People hear
-
From God
-
As well
-
And it's
-
Just different
-
She picked
-
Out things
-
That I
-
Never noticed
-
Either
-
And that's
-
The beauty
-
Of what
-
We're doing
-
Here
-
We all
-
Have access
-
To him
-
To hear
-
From him
-
To commune
-
With him
-
So the
-
Second person
-
I'm going
-
To bring
-
Up
-
Is Hank
-
Now
-
Hank
-
Can I
-
Invite you
-
Up
-
We can
-
Give Hank
-
A round
-
Of applause
-
As well
-
Unless the
-
Lord builds
-
The house
-
Those who
-
Build it
-
Build it
-
In vain
-
Unless the
-
Lord used
-
Hank
-
We actually
-
All wouldn't
-
Be here
-
Okay
-
Because Hank
-
Here is
-
The chairman
-
Of the deacons
-
Board of
-
The wider
-
Church
-
Gong
-
Ful
-
Tong
-
He looks
-
Like a
-
Very serious
-
Man
-
But I
-
Assure you
-
This guy
-
This man
-
Is God
-
Fearing
-
And just
-
Has the
-
Softest
-
Heart
-
Honestly
-
And actually
-
There's often
-
This thing
-
About okay
-
What are your
-
Church leaders
-
Doing
-
What are they
-
Like
-
Are they
-
Like CEOs
-
In a boardroom
-
And they
-
Have their
-
Meetings
-
In the
-
Dark
-
No
-
This
-
Actually
-
Himself
-
Tony
-
And
-
Agnes
-
I've
-
Just watched
-
Them just
-
Be such
-
Faithful
-
People
-
Who pray
-
There's one
-
Time
-
I
-
Try not
-
To embarrass
-
Him
-
We're
-
In a
-
Smaller
-
Prayer
-
Meeting
-
And
-
Hank
-
Got down
-
On his
-
Knees
-
To pray
-
And I
-
Saw from
-
Across the
-
Room
-
I was like
-
That's
-
Someone
-
That I
-
Want to
-
Follow
-
Someone
-
Who just
-
Is willing
-
To do
-
That
-
I was
-
Mildly
-
Worried
-
He
-
Wouldn't
-
Be able
-
To get
-
Back up
-
But he
-
Did
-
To
-
But it
-
Was
-
That
-
Show
-
Of
-
Humility
-
That
-
Just
-
Inspires
-
Me
-
To keep
-
Serving
-
With a
-
Brother
-
Like him
-
So he
-
Also has
-
Been
-
Reflecting
-
On the
-
Same
-
Passage
-
And he's
-
Now just
-
Going to
-
Bless us
-
With what
-
He
-
Received
-
Thank you
-
Very much
-
For inviting
-
Me
-
I
-
Happen
-
To have
-
Recently
-
Built
-
A house
-
And I
-
Happen
-
To have
-
A lot
-
Of kids
-
But I'm
-
Not going
-
To talk
-
About my
-
Personal
-
Life
-
About my
-
House
-
Or my
-
Kids
-
I'll
-
Spend
-
The next
-
Few minutes
-
Just talk
-
About
-
The thing
-
That
-
Mostly
-
Occupers
-
My
-
Time
-
And my
-
Life
-
I'm
-
Very much
-
Retired
-
And most
-
Of the
-
Time I
-
Spend
-
I spend
-
Serving
-
In the
-
Church
-
This
-
Church
-
Is my
-
Church
-
It's our
-
Church
-
But at
-
The same
-
Time
-
It's
-
Really
-
God's
-
Church
-
It's
-
Not
-
Really
-
Mine
-
I'm
-
Just
-
Helping
-
To take
-
Care
-
Of
-
I
-
Think
-
This
-
First
-
Part
-
Of
-
The message
-
Of
-
Psalm
-
127
-
Is
-
Very
-
Clear
-
This
-
Is
-
God's
-
Church
-
The
-
Privileged
-
To have
-
A small
-
Part
-
In it
-
And
-
God
-
Allow
-
Me
-
To
-
Spend
-
Some
-
Time
-
Helping
-
To
-
Shape
-
Some
-
Of
-
The
-
Strategy
-
Of
-
The
-
Church
-
The
-
Things
-
That
-
We
-
Need
-
To
-
Do
-
God
-
So
-
The
-
Fact
-
That
-
It's
-
God's
-
Church
-
Also
-
Gives
-
A lot
-
Of
-
Comfort
-
That
-
I
-
Don't
-
Need
-
To
-
Worry
-
About
-
Messing
-
Up
-
Okay
-
By the
-
Way
-
Everywhere
-
You
-
Go
-
You
-
Always
-
Face
-
Criticism
-
Even
-
In
-
A
-
Church
-
So
-
Many
-
Of
-
The
-
Things
-
That
-
We
-
Do
-
We
-
Get
-
Criticized
-
But
-
It's
-
God's
-
Church
-
As
-
Long
-
As
-
We
-
Truly
-
Believe
-
We
-
Following
-
His
-
Will
-
I
-
Think
-
There's
-
One
-
Fellow
-
In
-
North
-
America
-
Called
-
Larry
-
Osborne
-
He
-
Wrote
-
A
-
Book
-
About
-
Sticky
-
Church
-
Very
-
Good
-
Book
-
By
-
The
-
Way
-
He
-
Talk
-
About
-
In
-
Many
-
Settings
-
Including
-
A
-
Church
-
You
-
Always
-
Have
-
Squeaky
-
Wills
-
They
-
Will
-
Always
-
Make
-
Noises
-
Doesn't
-
Matter
-
How
-
Much
-
You
-
Fix
-
It
-
It
-
Will
-
Always
-
Make
-
Noises
-
That
-
Bother
-
You
-
Don't
-
Be
-
Bothered
-
By
-
It
-
Okay
-
This
-
Is
-
God's
-
Church
-
Do
-
The
-
Best
-
You
-
Can
-
To
-
Help
-
Be
-
Grateful
-
To
-
Be
-
Part
-
Of
-
It
-
I'm
-
Very
-
Grateful
-
I'm
-
Part
-
Of
-
This
-
I'm
-
Very
-
Grateful
-
I've
-
Been
-
Able
-
To
-
Help
-
Not
-
Just
-
In
-
Building
-
!
-
KFCI
-
Helping
-
To
-
Recruit
-
John
-
Snell
-
Grove
-
And
-
John
-
Help
-
Recruit
-
James
-
And
-
James
-
Spott
-
And
-
All
-
These
-
Young
-
Leaders
-
That
-
We
-
Have
-
So
-
Be
-
Grateful
-
For
-
It
-
Because
-
It's
-
God's
-
Church
-
The
-
Second
-
Part
-
It's
-
To
-
Me
-
It's
-
All
-
About
-
Building
-
Up
-
The
-
Next
-
Generations
-
I'm
-
Very
-
Grateful
-
That
-
While
-
Nominally
-
To
-
The
-
Board
-
Tony
-
And
-
I
-
Are
-
Still
-
Very
-
Much
-
Involved
-
In
-
Leading
-
This
-
Group
-
But
-
We
-
Didn't
-
Have
-
To
-
Do
-
Much
-
Of
-
Anything
-
It's
-
Joseph
-
It's
-
Alex
-
It's
-
Aaron
-
It's
-
Obviously
-
James
-
Doing
-
All
-
The
-
Leading
-
Okay
-
I
-
Am
-
Truly
-
Seeing
-
God's
-
Work
-
In
-
This
-
In
-
Bringing
-
Up
-
Our
-
Next
-
Generation
-
Leaders
-
That
-
Tony
-
And
-
I
-
Will
-
Be
-
Facing
-
Out
-
Pretty
-
Soon
-
But
-
This
-
Is
-
The
-
Whole
-
Point
-
About
-
This
-
Church
-
We
-
Want
-
To
-
Do
-
It
-
In
-
A
-
Family
-
Setting
-
Bring
-
Up
-
The
-
Next
-
Generation
-
And
-
You
-
Guys
-
Will
-
Carry
-
On
-
And
-
Build
-
This
-
Church
-
Up
-
Thank
-
You
-
Very
-
Much
-
Thank
-
You
-
Hank
-
Just
-
It's
-
Good
-
Just
-
To
-
Hear
-
For
-
All
-
Of
-
Us
-
To
-
Hear
-
A
-
Little
-
Bit
-
Of
-
The
-
Heart
-
For
-
The
-
Church
-
Leadership
-
And
-
Just
-
Maybe
-
To
-
Add
-
On
-
One
-
Thing
-
There
-
Is
-
No
-
Joe
-
Without
-
Alex
-
There
-
Is
-
No
-
Alex
-
Without
-
Kara
-
There
-
Is
-
No
-
Aaron
-
Without
-
Rebecca
-
And
-
There
-
Definitely
-
Is
-
No
-
James
-
Without
-
Christina
-
Okay
-
So
-
This
-
Is
-
A
-
Whole
-
This
-
Is
-
A
-
Whole
-
Team
-
And
-
A
-
Whole
-
Family
-
Together
-
Just
-
Wanting
-
To
-
Just
-
Seek
-
The
-
Lord
-
In
-
All
-
Of
-
This
-
And
-
Recently
-
I
-
Introduced
-
A
-
Few
-
Friends
-
To
-
A
-
Mentor
-
Of
-
Mine
-
And
-
I
-
Told
-
Her
-
Hey
-
This
-
Is
-
My
-
Friend
-
And
-
He's
-
In
-
Charge
-
Of
-
This
-
Ministry
-
And
-
This
-
Is
-
My
-
Other
-
Friend
-
And
-
She's
-
In
-
Charge
-
Of
-
This
-
And
-
My
-
Mentor
-
Just
-
Said
-
Oh
-
James
-
You
-
Have
-
People
-
In
-
Charge
-
Of
-
Things
-
Do
-
You
-
Implying
-
That
-
You
-
Don't
-
You're
-
Not
-
In
-
Charge
-
Or
-
Anything
-
God's
-
In
-
Charge
-
And
-
God's
-
In
-
Charge
-
And
-
That's
-
Okay
-
We're
-
Just
-
Here
-
To
-
Follow
-
Instructions
-
So
-
Thank
-
You
-
Cara
-
Thank
-
You
-
Hank
-
And
-
What
-
I'm
-
Going to
-
Do
-
Now
-
Is
-
In
-
A
-
Bit
-
I'm
-
Invite
-
Paul
-
To
-
Lead
-
Us
-
In
-
A
-
Time
-
Of
-
Worship
-
And
-
Prayer
-
But
-
Before
-
Then
-
I
-
Want
-
Share
-
A
-
Unless
-
The
-
Lord
-
Builds
-
The
-
House
-
Those
-
Who
-
Build
-
It
-
Labor
-
In
-
Vain
-
And
-
Then
-
It
-
Talks
-
About
-
Security
-
Unless
-
The
-
Lord
-
Watches
-
Over
-
The
-
City
-
Those
-
Who
-
Are
-
Watching
-
Over
-
It
-
They're
-
Staying
-
Awake
-
In
-
Vain
-
It
-
Is
-
In
-
Vain
-
That
-
You
-
Rise
-
Up
-
Early
-
And
-
Go
-
Late
-
To
-
Rest
-
And
-
You're
-
Eating
-
The
-
Bread
-
Of
-
Anxious
-
Toil
-
And
-
Then
-
He
-
Talks
-
About
-
Children
-
What
-
The
-
Psalmist
-
Is
-
Security
-
And
-
We
-
Need
-
Family
-
Right
-
Those
-
Are
-
Things
-
When
-
You
-
Think
-
How
-
Good
-
Is
-
Your
-
Life
-
Right
-
Now
-
You're
-
Thinking
-
About
-
This
-
Do
-
I
-
Have
-
A
-
House
-
Do
-
I
-
Have
-
A
-
Place
-
To
-
Stay
-
Or
-
Can
-
I
-
Pay
-
Rent
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That's
-
The
-
Big
-
Thing
-
Right
-
And
-
The
-
Second
-
Thing
-
Is
-
Do I
-
Feel
-
Safe
-
Those
-
Of
-
Of
-
Who
-
Have
-
Grown
-
In
-
The
-
West
-
And
-
We've
-
Gone
-
Recently
-
That's
-
All
-
Of
-
Us
-
That's
-
All
-
We're
-
Doing
-
And
-
Of
-
Course
-
We're
-
Also
-
Looking
-
For
-
Family
-
This
-
Psalm
-
Tells
-
You
-
Something
-
Which
-
Is
-
Interesting
-
Which
-
Is
-
Hey
-
God's
-
The
-
One
-
Who
-
Gives
-
You
-
All
-
These
-
Things
-
And
-
The
-
First
-
Question
-
I
-
Had
-
Was
-
This
-
What
-
Building
-
Projects
-
Do
-
I
-
Have
-
In
-
My
-
Life
-
James
-
What
-
Are
-
The
-
Projects
-
That
-
You've
-
Got
-
Going
-
In
-
Your
-
Life
-
That
-
You
-
Think
-
You're
-
Building
-
Maybe
-
It
-
Is
-
A
-
House
-
That
-
You're
-
Trying
-
Maybe
-
It
-
Is
-
A
-
CV
-
Maybe
-
It
-
Is
-
Some
-
Kind
-
Of
-
Ambitions
-
For
-
Your
-
Work
-
Whatever
-
It
-
Is
-
We
-
All
-
Have
-
Our
-
Building
-
Projects
-
Do
-
We
-
Not
-
We
-
All
-
Have
-
Them
-
Whether
-
We
-
Admit
-
To
-
It
-
Or
-
Not
-
We
-
All
-
Have
-
Our
-
Building
-
Projects
-
Of
-
Where
-
We
-
Want
-
To
-
Get
-
To
-
And
-
What
-
God
-
Is
-
Saying
-
!
-
Hey
-
He
-
Will
-
He
-
Might
-
Give
-
Us
-
These
-
Things
-
But
-
Unless
-
He
-
Builds
-
It
-
You're
-
Doing
-
It
-
In
-
Vain
-
What
-
He
-
Wants
-
To
-
Do
-
Is
-
Partner
-
With
-
You
-
In
-
It
-
He
-
Doesn't
-
Need
-
You
-
But
-
He
-
Does
-
Desire
-
You
-
That's
-
The
-
Goal
-
Of
-
What
-
He's
-
Trying
-
To
-
Do
-
Here
-
And
-
So
-
What
-
Building
-
Projects
-
Do
-
We
-
Have
-
That
-
Actually
-
We
-
Need
-
To
-
Surrender
-
This
-
Is
-
A
-
Prayer
-
Of
-
Surrender
-
This
-
Is
-
Well
-
God
-
You
-
Know
-
Actually
-
None
-
Who's
-
Fairly
-
Comfortable
-
With
-
Where
-
They're
-
At
-
In
-
Their
-
Life
-
Like
-
I've
-
Got
-
A
-
Decent
-
House
-
I've
-
Got
-
A
-
Nice
-
Family
-
I've
-
Got
-
This
-
Freddie
-
You're
-
Happy
-
That's
-
Good
-
Man
-
Long
-
May
-
That
-
Continue
-
!
-
Work
-
That
-
I
-
Put
-
In
-
I
-
Studied
-
Hard
-
I
-
Am
-
Studying
-
Hard
-
As
-
A
-
Doctor
-
To
-
Pass
-
My
-
Exams
-
I
-
Am
-
Working
-
I
-
Got
-
To
-
Where
-
I
-
Am
-
Because
-
Of
-
What
-
I
-
Did
-
My
-
Efforts
-
And
-
That
-
Sounds
-
Admirable
-
And
-
That
-
Sounds
-
Almost
-
Right
-
Until
-
You
-
Realize
-
Well
-
But
-
Aren't
-
You
-
Just
-
Where
-
You're
-
At
-
Because
-
Of
-
Where
-
You
-
Were
-
Born
-
And
-
The
-
Family
-
You
-
Were
-
Born
-
Into
-
!
-
You
-
Can
-
Work
-
As
-
Hard
-
As
-
You
-
Want
-
You're
-
Probably
-
Not
-
Sitting
-
Where
-
You
-
Are
-
Right
-
You
-
Might
-
Have
-
Studied
-
Really
-
Hard
-
For
-
Your
-
DSEs
-
And
-
For
-
Your
-
University
-
Degree
-
But
-
If
-
Your
-
Family
-
Didn't
-
Put
-
You
-
Into
-
The
-
School
-
You
-
Went
-
Into
-
You
-
Didn't
-
Have
-
A
-
Choice
-
Which
-
Family
-
You
-
Got
-
Put
-
Into
-
!
-
Builds
-
The
-
House
-
Those
-
Who
-
Build
-
It
-
Labor
-
In
-
What
-
Building
-
Projects
-
Have
-
You
-
Taken
-
On
-
I
-
Got
-
To
-
Do
-
This
-
This
-
Makes
-
Me
-
Think of
-
This
-
Church
-
As
-
Well
-
Hank
-
Was
-
Talking
-
About
-
Church
-
I'm
-
Looking
-
At
-
This
-
Church
-
Such
-
Such
-
A
-
Such
-
A
-
Great
-
Thing
-
That
-
We're
-
Doing
-
It's
-
So
-
Exciting
-
We
-
Get
-
To
-
Have
-
Wine
-
!
-
Tasting
-
Class
-
And
-
Classes
-
And
-
Those
-
Who
-
Are
-
Frustrated
-
With
-
Each
-
Other
-
But
-
What
-
Good
-
Are
-
We
-
If
-
God
-
Is
-
Not
-
Building
-
This
-
What
-
Terrifies
-
Me
-
The
-
Most
-
Is
-
You
-
Could
-
Build
-
Something
-
That
-
Looks
-
Very
-
Shiny
-
And
-
Big
-
On
-
The
-
Outside
-
But
-
God
-
Is
-
Not
-
In
-
It
-
Jesus
-
Talks
-
To
-
The
-
Church
-
In
-
Revelation
-
And
-
Says
-
That
-
You
-
You
-
Forgotten
-
Why
-
You
-
Were
-
Here
-
And
-
Now
-
What
-
Am I
-
Going
-
To
-
Do
-
I
-
To
-
Tear
-
You
-
Down
-
I
-
Want
-
To
-
Break
-
It
-
Down
-
These
-
Things
-
Unless
-
The
-
Lord
-
Builds
-
The
-
House
-
Those
-
!
-
Who
-
Build
-
It
-
Labor
-
In
-
Vain
-
We
-
Seeking
-
Prosperity
-
We're
-
Seeking
-
A
-
Building
-
And
-
Security
-
Unless
-
The
-
Lord
-
Watches
-
Over
-
The
-
City
-
Those
-
Who
-
Watch
-
Over
-
It
-
Stay
-
Awake
-
In
-
Vain
-
Don't
-
We
-
All
-
Want
-
That
-
Like
-
The
-
Security
-
Don't
-
You
-
Want
-
That
-
When
-
It
-
Comes
-
To
-
Health
-
We
-
Were
-
Just
-
My
-
Brother
-
And
-
We're
-
Just
-
Sharing
-
Actually
-
We've
-
Always
-
Enjoyed
-
Flying
-
But
-
Him
-
And
-
Alex
-
And
-
EJ
-
Have
-
Just
-
Came
-
Back
-
And
-
Christina
-
That
-
Turbulence
-
That
-
She
-
Experienced
-
Flying
-
Back
-
To
-
The
-
K
-
With
-
The
-
Kids
-
And
-
When
-
You're
-
On
-
A
-
Plane
-
You
-
Put
-
That
-
Seat
-
On
-
That
-
That
-
That's
-
Cute
-
But
-
If
-
There's
-
Something
-
Wrong
-
With
-
The
-
Plane
-
If
-
there's something wrong with outside, you're not in control. You can hold tight onto that seatbelt,
-
but you're not really in control. We look for security. We look for health. Those of you who
-
have kids, you're like, oh God, please just look after my kids. Please just, when they cross the
-
road, like, you know, you don't have any control and you have to surrender. You know, I could do
-
it. I could be right next to my kids and they will still get hurt. Unless the Lord watches over the
-
city, those who stay awake, stay awake in vain. And that's the pandemic showed us that you can do
-
whatever you want. You can spray your hands as much as you want to. You can wear three masks,
-
but if it's coming for you, it's coming for you and it's coming for the whole world. And there's
-
nothing you can do about it. Where's your security? So one, what building projects are you embarking on?
-
Number two, where do you think you're actually getting that security from? What security are you
-
craving? And do you realize that actually God is the only place you can find that?
-
And then it says this, and it's interesting. It says, it is in vain that you rise up early and go
-
late to rest, which is what Hong Kongers do. Eating the bread of anxious toil. You'll get some bread,
-
but it is anxious toil. You're eating it and you're just anxious. You're like, oh, I've worked hard for
-
this. I'm still nervous. And you see this everywhere. You see, I've met people who are
-
very high up in their industry and they're contemplating giving up their job. And I've
-
heard them say this and it's surreal. The moment they say it to me, they're like, oh yeah, I might,
-
I might finish my job, but you know, I'm just, I'm just worried about my finances. And they're like
-
a partner of this firm. And I'm like, oh, you're worried about your finances.
-
Oh, anyway, your driver's just about pulling up and coming to pick you up now.
-
And that's an extreme example, but don't we have that? Oh God, I'm so worried.
-
And every time I do work harder, and that's why I have to work harder. Because when you're working
-
harder, when you're staying up late and when you're getting up early to do the best that you can,
-
now that isn't a bad thing. God created us to work and do well. But if that is coming from a place of,
-
if I don't do this, I won't get what I want. I won't get the prosperity that I want. I won't get the
-
security I won. Then you've got it wrong. Then you've got it twisted. Because then this next line
-
is key. And I wanted to show you another type of prayer that you can do. The next line says this,
-
for he gives to his beloved sheep. He's like, you're doing everything in vain. You're building
-
that project. You're trying to stay awake to keep your family healthy and safe. You're trying to work
-
hard. All of it is in vain. Why? Why is it in vain? Because he gives to his beloved sheep.
-
And this is another type of prayer I want to help you. If doing Lectio Divina for a whole psalm is
-
too long, I encourage you just to pick one line like this and pray that one line. And this is how
-
you do it. And I think this is a fascinating, it is an easy way to do it. What I would do is I would
-
actually highlight different words as I'm praying this prayer. So, and I'll reflect on it. I'll tell you
-
what I mean. For he gives to his beloved sheep. While I do, as I'll pray, I'll go, for he gives to his beloved
-
sheep. Him, not anything else. For he gives to his beloved sheep. And just rest in that and just remind
-
he's the one who is doing this. And once you've finished the first word, you can do the second one.
-
For he gives to his beloved sheep. What does that mean? That means it's not from us. We can't get it
-
ourselves. He's the one who gives. He's the giver. Man, it's not even me. For he gives to his beloved
-
sheep. Then I reflect on that. And then I'm like, oh, are we okay? You okay there, Flo?
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Sleep.
-
It is not sleep. Though sleep is also very important.
-
Sleep, sleep, sleep.
-
Oh my goodness. Anyway, sorry. I'm wrong. Thank you, Flo.
-
Flo. Thank you, Flo, for that. Helpful. Let me try and spin that. So.
-
Well, then this is the beautiful thing about prayer. It does not have to be perfect.
-
And it can be broken up. It can be laughed about. Thank you, Flo. That's super helpful
-
because that changes my sermon altogether. For he gives to his beloved sleep.
-
Fine. We can go with that. For he gives to his beloved. What's that? That's my goodness.
-
I'm his. I belong to him. For he gives to his beloved. And then that word beloved is the
-
key one that I would just stay on. I'd be like, beloved, what does that mean? That I'm actually
-
loved. That's the key of all of this. Because if we don't get that point, we will build our
-
own projects. We will stay awake at night because we don't realize that we are loved.
-
Oh. And then sleep, not sheep. But sleep is very important, isn't it, Christina?
-
Super important. For he gives to his beloved. Sleep. Rest. When you can sleep at night
-
sleep, it's because you know that you're not in control. But you can close your eyes because
-
it's going to be okay. When you don't sleep, when you can't sleep, that's when you're worried
-
because you think that by you not sleeping and by you grafting and doing something, you'll
-
get what you need. No, you can rest easy like a weaned child with his mother from last week.
-
You are content. For he gives to his beloved sleep. So that's one way to pray and you can
-
laugh about that, how I got the words wrong there. And when you understand that, that you
-
can rest, there's a couple of things that happen. First of all, you're just filled with
-
gratitude. You're like, oh God, I'm yours. You give it and I can rest. I'm just thankful.
-
The second thing is you're gracious because you're like, man, it's not from me. It's not
-
because of me. That means, wait, that means on the surface, I look better than you and
-
I've got my life together in a way that you don't. But that's only because he gives me
-
the gifts of grace right now that I'm receiving. It's not because of me. It's not because of
-
how good I am. And so I'm praying for the same grace to fill your life. And then you're
-
also generous with your time, with your efforts, with your love. For he gives to his beloved
-
sleep. And finally, it's the children part. And we're actually not going to focus too much
-
on this because Kara already said it. Children are a gift. And it really convicted me of something
-
which is, oh, I don't know if I pray for my children enough. And I'll tell you, Christina
-
and I, we pray for our kids every day. But I don't think we pray for them enough.
-
Because they're growing up in a broken and twisted and crooked world.
-
And they need prayer. And I don't know if we pray for them enough.
-
There's a slide that actually has the name of our children that I'm going to put up on the
-
screen. Roger's going to find it for me. And the idea is actually, can we lift up the
-
kids in our community and pray for them? Because I'll tell you this. If the kids are
-
only going to do well because of their parents, then we're in trouble. Our kids need our prayers.
-
Our kids need our prayers. And so what I want to do is I'm going to invite Paul just to
-
start us off on a time of reflection. And we're going to pray about different things today.
-
But we're going to go work our way back and we're going to start with praying for the children
-
who are a heritage from the Lord.
-
Hank talked about the next generation. I mean, I hope that him and Tony are not tapping out soon
-
because I'd love for them to continue sharing their wisdom with us. But that's the heart.
-
That's the heart. Do we care enough about the next generation that we would pray for them?
-
And here are just some of the names. I hope, I sincerely, earnestly hope that I've not made
-
any mistakes and made any spelling mistakes or missed any kids out. But I want to invite us to pray.
-
There's different groups of children I want to invite you to pray for. If you have kids of your own,
-
I want you to pray for them. Pray with the person sitting next to you and tell them
-
your kids' names and pray for them. Second, if you don't have kids, then you will have nieces and
-
nephews and friends who have kids. Pray for them. After that, there are the kids who are specifically
-
part of this family here. Pray for them. Pray because their parents often don't know what we're doing.
-
We're trying to figure out how to not make so many mistakes so we don't screw up our children's lives
-
in the future by saying the wrong thing, doing the wrong thing, not prioritizing them.
-
Pray for them. And afterwards, we're going to then spend some time praying for some of the different
-
things, health, security, and even some of the building projects that we've got. And we just
-
surrender and go, this building project that I have, whatever it might be, and it might actually
-
be a building project. Then you surrender that and go, oh God, thank you for partnering with me
-
and helping me build this. But it's not going to work unless you're the one who's actually building it.
-
Thank you for letting me take part in choosing some of the furniture and the curtains. But it's you.
-
It's you. It's always been you. So why don't we do that? Paul's going to sing a song over us. Feel
-
free to join him as he sings as well, or just listen to his lovely voice and have it be blessed by it.
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And then just pray. Children first. Let's spend time. This is where this, just to clarify, this is
-
where you have to turn to your neighbor. I'm sorry. Love your neighbor. Turn to your neighbor.
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You don't have to say much. Just your own name. Just the names of the kids that are on your heart
-
or the ones here. And just spend some time praying for a few minutes. Is that okay?
-
All right.
-
Now we've finished introducing, maybe let me start us off in a word of prayer.
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Jesus, this is a prayer of surrender. This is our prayer of surrender. Whether it's building
-
projects, whether it's security, whether it's our children. First of all, we give our children
-
to you. We surrender our children to you. I mean, they were never ours in the first place,
-
as Kara said. They're from you, for you, and ultimately will return to you.
-
So as a body, as your body, as your family, we lift up these children to you.
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I know there's a lot of people in the room, so maybe we have to keep our voices low, but
-
why don't we start praying now for the kids that are on the screen and also in our own lives.
-
Let us pray.
-
So Lord, we surrender.
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We give up our dreams, our fears, our ambitions for our kids.
-
We surrender everything because we know that children are a gift from you, a heritage from
-
the Lord.
-
We pray for baby Theo, for Akachi, for Josiah, for Ellie, for Bella, for Sam, for Ruben, Alicia,
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Micah, Roro, and Riri, Ari, EJ, Jacob, and Talia, Estelle, and Angelica, and Theo, and Myla,
-
and Asher, and Evelyn, and Theoden, Alvin, Aaron, baby Rotho, and any other children in our
-
care in this family, the children that are yet to be born, the children that are being
-
faithfully and wonderfully made.
-
We lift them up to you.
-
We surrender any control that we think we have over them.
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You are their strength.
-
You are their shield.
-
You are their refuge.
-
And Lord, we need refuge from this.
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From this world.
-
From the hurt.
-
From the brokenness.
-
Would you cover them?
-
Would you cover them as they enter into school?
-
Would you cover them as they grow up and see the
-
brokenness that surrounds, the anxiety that surrounds?
-
Let them know that they are dearly beloved.
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Dearly beloved.
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The next and final part of prayer.
-
Can we bring those building projects that we have to each other now?
-
And if there's something that you just need to share with the group,
-
maybe you don't know that person, maybe you know them super well.
-
Is there a building project in your life that you need to surrender?
-
And recognizing that unless the Lord builds it, you will build it in vain.
-
Is there security that you're after?
-
That actually, that won't come from you.
-
That your efforts in rising early, going late to rest, are in vain.
-
Share with each other what the building projects are.
-
And then just pray for one another.
-
Lord, we just want you.
-
Lord, we just want you.
-
Lord, take everything else away.
-
We just want you.
-
You are the one who's been there all along.
-
You are the one who grants us rest.
-
You are the one who builds our house.
-
You are the one who keeps us safe.
-
You are the giver of gifts.
-
Every good and perfect gift comes from you.
-
And so we surrender.
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Lord, your will be done.
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Your kingdom come.
-
Nothing else will do.
-
So we surrender our building projects to you.
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The things we're trying to build for ourselves.
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The reputation.
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The reputation.
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Accomplishments.
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Our church.
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Our house.
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Our family.
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Our careers.
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Our health.
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Our safety.
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I guess it's funny because none of those things are really from us and by us anyway.
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They were all from you.
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By you.
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For you.
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Through you.
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And we're here just to give it back.
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And we seek to experience the freedom that comes of letting go.
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In surrendering.
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Knowing that it's not on us.
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That we can make mistakes.
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That there will be complaints.
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And there will be disappointments.
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But Lord, that you are sovereign.
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That you are building something.
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You are doing something.
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And you are making something beautiful.
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Out of the broken vessels.
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That we have in this room.
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Thank you, Lord.
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Thank you, Lord.
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In your name we pray.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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Amen.