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How Can You Know God's Plan For Your Life?

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  1. Thank you, John and worship team.

  2. Well, good morning. My name is Drew and for those of

  3. you that don't know me and many of you in here that I do not

  4. know, but it's an honor and privilege to be here with you

  5. today. As Pastor Kyle said, I'm

  6. currently the discipleship pastor at a church in Kennesaw

  7. North Star Church. And but right here at CFBC is

  8. where my ministry roots began right here.

  9. And it started in 2007 as my wife Lauren and I were praying

  10. that would give us friends in our stage of life.

  11. We were much younger then, only had one Gray hair, and we'd only

  12. been married for three years at that time.

  13. But I remember our first Sunday at CFBC, we visited Shep Hilton

  14. Study School class and through that class God provided us with

  15. some of our best friends, some who and many of of whom are

  16. still at CFBC today. But at that time in my life, I

  17. was teaching math, I was coaching baseball, and I was

  18. helping with the Fellowship of Christian Athletes at

  19. Cartersville High School. But that was my mission field

  20. and God was doing some pretty amazing things with those

  21. students spiritually. But it was it in that time that

  22. the plans that Lauren and I had made for ourselves but kind of

  23. began to unravel in a sense, or should I say, go in a different

  24. direction than what we had planned.

  25. You see, our friends began having kids and we were trying

  26. but unsuccessful. And then our friends began to

  27. have more kids and yet we still had none.

  28. So Lauren and I wondered why us? We've been obedient up to that

  29. point at what God had asked us to do.

  30. So why was he withholding something that Lauren and I

  31. desire to be so deeply, which was to be parents?

  32. So raise your hand if you've ever asked God the question why

  33. before anybody? OK, good.

  34. I'm not alone. OK, good.

  35. Just making sure. But we all have, right?

  36. It's a natural question to ask. But here's something we all need

  37. to know today is that God has a plan.

  38. And it just might not be the plan that you have for your

  39. life. But something that I've learned

  40. in my 44 years of living is that God's plan is always better than

  41. I could have imagined, even if it means going through difficult

  42. times. You see, God always works it out

  43. ultimately for our good, whether on this side of heaven or that

  44. side of heaven, and for His glory, even if we don't

  45. understand the why. So today I want to answer this

  46. question for you. How can you know God's plan for

  47. your life? How many of you, by show of

  48. hands, would like to know God's plan for your life?

  49. Anybody. Oh, good.

  50. OK, all right, great. That is good.

  51. If not, then I'll just shut my Bible and we would just move on

  52. with our day. But that's good.

  53. So here's what I want you to do is if you will go ahead and grab

  54. your Bible. And we're going to be in

  55. Proverbs chapter 3 today. And what we're going to do is

    Proverbs 3 chapter mention

  56. I'm going to take two very familiar verses, and we're going

  57. to use those two verses to simply answer the question, how

  58. can you know God's plan for your life?

  59. So if you're able to do so, will you please stand in honor of

  60. reading God's Word? And we're going to be looking at

  61. Proverbs chapter 3, verses 5 and 6.

    Proverbs 3:5

  62. And I'm going to be using the New Living Translation only

  63. because I'm not that smart and I understand it better.

  64. Here's what it says. Trust in the Lord with all your

  65. heart. Do not depend on your own

  66. understanding. Seek His will in all you do, and

  67. He will show you which path to take.

  68. Will you pray with me? Heavenly Father, thank you for

  69. your word and Holy Spirit, we ask that you would speak clearly

  70. to us this morning through your word.

  71. And Lord, may your word be a lamp to our feet and a light to

  72. our path as we discover what Your plan is for our life in

  73. Jesus name, Amen. Thank you.

  74. You may be seated. As I look around today I see

  75. several kids have joined us. So adults, teenagers, would

  76. y'all give it up for the kids that are in the room this

  77. morning? Thank them for being here with

  78. us. So here's what I want us to do

  79. OK, I know some of you are are note takers, but today I want to

  80. encourage the kids to draw. OK, I'm not a good artist.

  81. I draw stick people. My kids are very good artist.

  82. But adults, if instead of taking notes, if you just want to draw

  83. today, that's cool too. But I'm going to be giving some

  84. things for the kids to draw to help them understand what we're

  85. talking about. But here's the first thing that

  86. I want everybody to write down. God has a plan.

  87. Write that down. God has a plan.

  88. You see, when God created the heavens and the earth, God had a

  89. plan. When God sent Moses to rescue

  90. the Israelites out of slavery from the Egyptians, God had a

  91. plan. When God sent his Son Jesus to

  92. earth to save us from our sins, God had a plan.

  93. And when Jesus returns to defeat Satan and bring an end to this

  94. world, God has a plan. God has a what?

  95. He's got a plan. And here's what I need you to

  96. know today. God has a plan specifically

  97. designed for each one of you. So how can you know God's plan

  98. for your life? So on this map, kids or adults,

  99. we're going to have four different points.

  100. And on that first point, I want you to write these words, Trust

  101. God. We're going to keep it simple

  102. today. OK, keep it simple.

  103. Trust God. Verse 5 says this.

  104. Trust in the Lord with all your heart.

  105. And this word trust means to rely on someone or something

  106. with complete confidence. I remember back in my teenage

  107. years when I would go to church, youth camp, we would sometimes

  108. do these things called trust falls.

  109. OK Anybody do trust falls before youth camp?

  110. Yeah. OK.

  111. And you live to tell about it. That's amazing.

  112. So the first step that you do, there's about four different

  113. levels that you do. The first one is you would

  114. interlock your fingers in a really weird way, and you put

  115. them against your chest. And there'd be a person behind

  116. you who's kind of leaned back with their hands up and there'd

  117. be called the spotter. And so you would be the person

  118. you'd go spotter ready and they would go redder and you say

  119. falling and they would say fall on.

  120. They kind of gently put, you know, catch you and push you

  121. back off step one. Then you go to the next one and

  122. and you get in a circle and they pass you around, which is really

  123. weird, OK? Because like you're rolling

  124. around and you got your eyes goes like, who is that?

  125. Did somebody just stick their finger in my ear?

  126. So you're getting passed around. That was level 2.

  127. Level 3 was you would graduate to a chair, right?

  128. And then your youth group would kind of interlock arms and they

  129. would you would fall onto them. But then only the bravest, only

  130. the bravest of souls would get up on the platform, right, the

  131. four foot tall platform and fall off into the arms of your youth

  132. group. But there was always that one

  133. person that I knew would probably have the just the, I

  134. don't know, we'll probably remove their arms.

  135. Tyler Heath, I think you would be one that one of those people

  136. would remove their arms and just let that person maybe fall

  137. through. It never happened.

  138. But if you were that person's shame on you.

  139. But in order to do any of the trust falls, you had to rely on

  140. that person who is spotting you or that group of people.

  141. You had to have complete confidence that they would catch

  142. you. And this is the picture the

  143. author is trying to paint for you about trusting God.

  144. So I want you to write this down.

  145. OK, here's what trust in God means for a Christian.

  146. It means to have confidence that God is in complete control in

  147. every situation. To have confidence that God is

  148. in complete control in every situation.

  149. So kids, if you're drawing or adults, what should you draw?

  150. A person with some muscles. OK, all right, we can do that

  151. muscle arm emoji. One day I'll have one of those

  152. when I get to heaven, but not today.

  153. So muscle is what I want you to draw.

  154. But King Solomon, the author of these verses, says that we must

  155. trust God with our whole heart, which it means it's full trust,

  156. not trusting God in some situations but not in others.

  157. It's all or nothing in this situation, in this trust.

  158. So after a couple of years of trying to have kids with no

  159. success, I will never forget the night that our hearts took a

  160. turn. I was sitting next to Lauren on

  161. our couch in our starter home on Country Meadow Way and we were

  162. watching something called live TV.

  163. It's before the days when you choose when and what you watch.

  164. Kids. That's these things called

  165. commercials, not ads. And then all of a sudden I heard

  166. my wife start to cry and I think we were watching the Braves

  167. maybe, which can make you cry sometimes.

  168. But after a waiting a minute I asked her what was wrong and she

  169. told me that one of our friends had just text her to let her

  170. know that they were having their second child.

  171. So she got up, went into our bedroom while I sat there and

  172. stood an anger at God. It was the first time in a

  173. couple of years that I've been mad at God about this situation

  174. because I tend to be a glass half full type of guy.

  175. So I went into the bedroom ready to be on Lauren's side to be mad

  176. at God. But before I could say a word,

  177. she said this. She said I have to be OK.

  178. It was great confusion. I replied, you have to be OK

  179. with what? And she said these words that I

  180. will never forget because she said them with confidence.

  181. She said I have to be OK with whether God wants me to be a mom

  182. or not. And I was speechless.

  183. But then all of the sudden, God brought to my mind the prayer

  184. that I've been praying for Lauren for a couple of years.

  185. And I would pray this almost daily.

  186. I would say, God help Lauren to be OK with the situation of, of

  187. us not being able to have kids, help her to be OK, help her to

  188. be at peace. And God had answered my prayer

  189. two years later in his time and in his way.

  190. And instantly in that moment, we both felt a peace that God was

  191. in control of our situation and we knew in our hearts that He

  192. had a plan for us. We had seen Him work many times

  193. in our lives up to that point and we had complete confidence

  194. that God was in control and He was at work in this situation as

  195. well. He had brought us to this point

  196. where we trusted Him and His plan for us.

  197. Isaiah 26 verse 3 says this. You talking about the Lord will

    Isaiah 26:3

  198. keep at will, keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all

  199. whose thoughts are fixed on you. So my question for you is this,

  200. do you trust God with your current situation, whatever it

  201. might be? It might be you have a kid going

  202. off to college, you might have some marriage issues right now,

  203. you may have some health problems.

  204. But do you trust God with your current situation?

  205. Do you have perfect peace that He is in control?

  206. So step one to knowing God's plan for your life is to trust

  207. God. As to what?

  208. I can't hear you as to what? Trust God.

  209. That's exactly right. And here's step #2 OK, here's

  210. point #2 on your map. And it's this surrender control,

  211. Surrender control. I told you, I said keep it

  212. simple today. Surrender control.

  213. The second part of verse 5 says this.

  214. Do not depend on your own understanding.

  215. I've watched my fair share of cop shows, usually comedies

  216. where the police always catch the bad guy or bad girl when

  217. they when they finally get to him and there's no way out, they

  218. always go freeze. Put your hands what?

  219. Put your hands up. That's exactly right.

  220. And then the bad guy or bad girl, there's two options they

  221. have. They can either try to run,

  222. which never turns out well, right?

  223. They always get caught and something bad happens, or they

  224. can put their hands up. So we're going to focus on that

  225. part for the sake of this next illustration.

  226. OK, so why do why does the bad guy or bad girl put their hands

  227. up? Why?

  228. That's exactly right. Because they are giving up or

  229. surrendering control of the situation.

  230. So I want you to write this down for a Christian to surrender

  231. control means this giving up control and trusting God.

  232. Giving up control and trusting God.

  233. So kids or adults, if you're drawing, I want you to draw a

  234. picture of somebody with their hands up.

  235. OK, somebody with their hands up right there.

  236. But surrender also requires this word called humility.

  237. And here's what humility says. Humility says this, I don't know

  238. everything, but surrender says this, I will trust God anyway.

  239. Humility says I don't know everything, but surrender says I

  240. will trust God anyway. As most people do, Lauren and I

  241. tried to figure out what God was doing in our situation, but we

  242. were unsuccessful. But as we surrendered control of

  243. our situation of not being have being able to have children, we

  244. began to see God use us to work in the lives of impacting

  245. teenagers. At Cartersville High School, I

  246. began discipling some of my baseball guys.

  247. My wife Lauren was substituting there at the time and some of

  248. their girlfriends came to her and said, hey, would you mind

  249. discipling us? And then in the summertime,

  250. Lauren and I would take a group of FCA leaders to FCA camp.

  251. But Lauren and I got this front row seat to watch God bring

  252. teenagers to Christ and watch them grow spiritually right

  253. before our very eyes. And it was something that we had

  254. never imagined. But of course, we hadn't

  255. imagined it. It wasn't our plan.

  256. It was God's plan. See, we had tried to depend on

  257. our own understanding for so long.

  258. And when we finally gave up trying to figure out God's plan,

  259. he began to do some pretty crazy stuff that brought glory to

  260. Himself, which is the purpose we were created for, to bring glory

  261. to God. Proverbs 28 verse 26 says this.

    Proverbs 28:26

  262. Those who trust their own insight are foolish, but anyone

  263. who walks in God's wisdom is safe.

  264. Anyone who trusts what they think is foolish, but anybody

  265. who walks in God's wisdom, the Bible says it's safe.

  266. So here's a question for you. Is there a situation in your

  267. life right now, right now, that you are hesitant to fully

  268. surrender control to God? I want you to think about that

  269. situation. We all have got something right.

  270. We all got our fingers most of the way open, our hands most of

  271. the way open, but it's still holding on to something.

  272. But here's what I want you to. If you got something in your

  273. hands, I want you to put it down just for a second.

  274. And I want you to hold out both fists in front of you. close

  275. your fists if you can hold them out in front of you.

  276. And I want you to do this with me, OK?

  277. This is something that I do every morning during my prayer

  278. time. And I want you to imagine that

  279. inside your fists is that situation that you are

  280. struggling to surrender to God. And on the count of three,

  281. here's what I want you to do. On the count of three, I want

  282. you to slowly open your hands and say this, Lord, I surrender

  283. this to you. So on the count of three, we're

  284. going to go. We're going to open our hands

  285. and say, Lord, I surrender this to you.

  286. Say it out loud with me. OK, All right, Ready. 123 Lord,

  287. I surrender this to you. And I'm telling you every

  288. morning that I do this, you can put your hands down.

  289. Every morning that I do this, God gives me this peace that I

  290. can't explain because what I know is that I when I put those

  291. situations in God's hands, they're in the best hands they

  292. can be in order to have control of that situation.

  293. So Step 2 in knowing God's plan for your life is to surrender.

  294. Control is to surrender what? That's exactly right.

  295. And here's Step 3 on your map. Step 3 on the map is this Pursue

  296. God's best. Pursue God's best.

  297. Verse 6 says this. Seek His will in all that you

  298. do. Seek His will in all that you

  299. do. Back in the day, I went to

  300. Shorter College and I remember seeing this pretty blind girl in

  301. several of my classes and I didn't know who she was, but I

  302. was determined to find out. I remember before fall break my

  303. freshman year asking this girl if I could help her with her

  304. computer assignments. You see, I'd kept an eye on her

  305. in computer class and I noticed that she never did her work

  306. because she was too busy messaging people on AOL Instant

  307. Messenger. So to my surprise, she agreed to

  308. meet me. So when we got back on campus

  309. after fall break, I met her in the computer lab to help her

  310. with her work. And for the next 4 hours, I see

  311. a lot of students over here for the next 4 hours.

  312. Do you know how much work we did?

  313. None. But it was the best 4 hours I'd

  314. spent a long, long time. It really, really was because I

  315. learned so much about this girl. She was good looking, which I

  316. already knew, OK, but she came from a strong Christian family.

  317. She was a strong believer. And she liked baseball, which is

  318. what I played at Shorter. So for the next four years, I

  319. continue to pursue her, which led us to getting married in

  320. 2004. And 21 years later, I'm still

  321. pursuing her. But there were some other pretty

  322. girls out there. But Lauren was God's best for

  323. me. So I want to take just a time

  324. out, just real quick and just a quick commercial for people that

  325. are in the dating scene. OK, can I, can I give some of

  326. you teenagers and young people some dating advice?

  327. Good. You're going to have to listen

  328. anyways. Don't just settle for anyone.

  329. Don't just settle for anyone. Pursue God's best for you.

  330. And it might take time, but I promise you this, the waiting

  331. for God's best is worth it. It's worth it.

  332. Commercial over. But the word pursue means this.

  333. It means to actively and intentionally go after something

  334. with focus and effort. And for me, oh man, I was

  335. actively and intentionally finding ways to go after Lauren

  336. with extreme focus and effort. Probably more than my studies,

  337. sometimes even more than baseball.

  338. But this is what King Solomon means when he tells us to seek

  339. God's will for your life. You see, when you were a kid and

  340. you played hide and seek, or maybe some adults played it

  341. during Christmas, I don't know. But when you played hide and

  342. seek? You didn't just stand there

  343. waiting for the people that you were looking for to come to you,

  344. right? What did you do?

  345. You actively and intentionally went out to find those people,

  346. right? So I want you to write this down

  347. for a Christian. Here's what it means to pursue

  348. God's best. It means to actively and

  349. intentionally seek God's plan for your life, to actively and

  350. intentionally seek God's plan for your life.

  351. And if you're drawing, I want you to draw.

  352. A running person, OK? Person running OK, because

  353. you're being active. So in 2011, I was approached by

  354. a friend after an FCA event, and my friend asked me this.

  355. He said, Drew, have you ever thought about doing something

  356. besides teaching and coaching? And I literally lol like I

  357. laughed out loud. I laughed in his face as I

  358. confidently told him heck no man, I got all my education and

  359. teaching and Cartersville High School, that's my mission field.

  360. So no. But then he said these words

  361. that sent me on a journey that I never saw coming.

  362. And he said this. He said, Drew, I want to

  363. encourage you to ask God to open and close doors as he sees fit.

  364. So I went home and told Laura what my friend had said.

  365. And we began praying that simple prayer for God to open and close

  366. doors as he saw fit, not knowing what God was getting ready to

  367. do. And within a period of eight

  368. months from that conversation with my friend, God had called

  369. me out of teaching and coaching, which I thought I would do my

  370. whole career, and he redirected my path to full time church

  371. ministry, which I've been doing for the last 13 years.

  372. I didn't have a seminary degree. I had no experience working at a

  373. church. But I clearly remember the peace

  374. that I felt when I said yes to God's best for me.

  375. Did I see it coming? No, I didn't see it coming, but

  376. God taught me through all those years and all those

  377. circumstances that I could trust Him.

  378. But I must surrender control, and I must pursue His best for

  379. my life. See Isaiah 55, verses 8 and 9

    Isaiah 55:8

  380. says this, and you may be very familiar with it.

  381. It says my thoughts are nothing like your thoughts, says the

  382. Lord, and my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine.

  383. For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my

  384. ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your

  385. thoughts. So Step 3 to knowing God's plan

  386. for your life is to pursue God's best is to pursue God's what his

  387. best for you. And then here's the result.

  388. The result is this, when you draw, draw close to God, He will

  389. show you the next step. When you draw close to God, he

  390. will show you the next step. So kids, draw an arrow or maybe

  391. on that last dot, maybe a couple different arrows just signifying

  392. the next step that you need to take.

  393. But the end of verse 6 simply says this.

  394. He talking about God will show you which path to take.

  395. Not your Mama, not your grandpa, not your auntie or your uncle,

  396. but God will show you which path to take.

  397. But here's what we've got to understand.

  398. When we read in the Bible and story after story, we see that

  399. God never reveals His whole plan for anybody, Not at one time.

  400. He only lets you see one piece at a time.

  401. Why? Why does He do that?

  402. Because He wants you to keep pursuing Him.

  403. That's why He wants a relationship with you.

  404. He doesn't want a transaction. It kind of reminds me of the

  405. Waze app. OK, if you're looking on your

  406. Waze app while you're driving in the car, at the very top, the

  407. banner simply gives you the next instruction, right and 1.5

  408. miles, turn left, blah, blah, blah, road right.

  409. OK, it's probably, you probably have a much better person saying

  410. that than I do, probably the British person or whatever it

  411. might be, But it only gives you the next step.

  412. It never gives you all the steps, but you never see the

  413. final destination until you have completed each next step that

  414. you're supposed to take. God doesn't promise to show you

  415. the entire map of your life, but He does promise to show you

  416. which path to take as you trust Him, as you surrender control,

  417. and as you pursue His best for your life.

  418. And sometimes God's best will surprise you as it did me.

  419. So James 48 says this. It says draw close to God and he

  420. will draw close to you. If you heard that one before,

  421. draw close to God and he will draw close to you.

  422. So can I give you 3 quick practical ways that you can draw

  423. close to God so you can know what the next step is for you?

  424. All good with that. Just real quick.

  425. OK? They're very simple.

  426. Not hard, very simple. But here's #1 read the Bible.

  427. So if you're drawing, draw a book.

  428. OK Draw a book right there. Read the Bible.

  429. The best way to get to know God is to read the letter that He

  430. wrote to you that tells you all about Himself and His plan for

  431. you. It's the best way for me.

  432. Here's what I do. I get up early in the morning, a

  433. little bit earlier than I would really like.

  434. I get a cup of coffee. I sit down in my chair with my

  435. Bible and my journal, and I read and I take notes.

  436. That's what I do. And there are more people that

  437. are, that are probably far along in their relationship with God

  438. that still struggle with this and they just, I get asked this

  439. question all the time. Hey, what do you do?

  440. How do, where do I start? Well, here's what I would say a

  441. simple place to start is by reading the proverb a day.

  442. There's 31 chapters in Proverbs. So just read 1 proverb a day.

  443. Or maybe you can pick two or three Psalms and read some of

  444. those and write down some notes that you that you learned.

  445. Or maybe you can start in the Gospels, Matthew, Mark, Luke,

  446. and John and learn about the story of Jesus, but, but find

  447. some of those simple places to start.

  448. But can I tell you this? The best way that you can learn

  449. to dive deeper into scripture is by being a part of a Sunday

  450. school class. It's the best way because here's

  451. what Lauren and I found is that as we were in that stage of

  452. life, we were looking for people to do life with and in Shep

  453. Hilton Sunday School class and then eventually, eventually Adam

  454. Baker's Sunday school class and and so on, we found friends to

  455. do life with. Friends that would challenge us,

  456. friends that would help us know God better, friends that would

  457. pray for us, friends that would help us in difficult times and

  458. friends that held us accountable.

  459. But if you're not in a Sunday school class, I'm just telling

  460. you this, you're missing out. And I would encourage you today

  461. to find someone as you get into the new year.

  462. Make it your goal to go. I'm just going to try to find a

  463. class that fits us. But listen, life was not meant

  464. to do alone. Read the Bible.

  465. Jesus wasn't alone. He was with people.

  466. The disciples were alone. They were with with others, life

  467. was meant to be done in community.

  468. But join us study school class and get that's the best way to

  469. get started and diving deep into the Bible.

  470. And then through that, you can help yourself on your own.

  471. So that's number one, Number two, Number two is talk to God.

  472. OK, talk to God. So if you're drawing, draw a

  473. picture of a phone, OK, draw a picture of a phone, talk to God.

  474. So after I read my Bible, I always take a few minutes to

  475. talk to God. And the cool thing is, is that

  476. you can talk to God about anything, anything.

  477. And here's what prayer is. Prayer is simply having a

  478. reverent and real conversation with God.

  479. You have to understand who your authority is and he's the

  480. authority of you, right? So therefore, it's having a real

  481. and reverent conversation with God.

  482. So if you go, man, is there a way that you can kind of help me

  483. learn how to pray? Well, I am so glad you asked

  484. because I asked ChatGPT and it gave me a couple of great, a

  485. great answers for you. OK, I did ask, but I didn't know

  486. these. By the way, here's an acronym

  487. for you Ready, Pray, pray, PRAY. Here's what the P stands for.

  488. The P stands for praise, praise. And what you want to do is just

  489. take time to thank God for who he is and what he's done for

  490. you. Write down some some things that

  491. God's done for you and make sure you go back and you tell him

  492. thank you for those things, but praise him for his character,

  493. for loving you, for not treating you as your sins deserve.

  494. Praise God for who he is and what he's done.

  495. The R stands for repent and repent is just a fancy word that

  496. means to to ask God to forgive you where you've messed up and

  497. to help you do what's right to ask God to forgive you where you

  498. messed up and help you do what's right.

  499. The A means ask and this is where you get to bring your

  500. request to God for yourself, for your family and for your others.

  501. So you get to talk to him about God.

  502. This is I just want to pray for this friend.

  503. I want to pray for this family member.

  504. God, this is something I need to ask you to help me with, but

  505. ask. And then the why means yield.

  506. This is what we kind of been talking about a little bit this

  507. morning with surrender, right? And this is where you surrender

  508. all of your plans, all of your worries, and all of your

  509. situations to God. You yield.

  510. So pray, praise, repent, ask and yield.

  511. And then the last one is this. Listen and obey.

  512. Listen and obey. So if you're drawing, draw a

  513. picture of a person with some really big ears, OK, Listen and

  514. obey. So as you spend time reading the

  515. Bible and talking to God, He will begin to speak to your

  516. heart. I had somebody in between

  517. service ask a great question. How do you know when He's

  518. speaking? Well, here's what I've

  519. experienced. The more time I spend with God,

  520. the easier it is for me to recognize His voice.

  521. I'll give you an example. When I was in preschool, OK, all

  522. the parents at the end of the day would come and get their

  523. kids, and I couldn't wait for my mom to show up at the door.

  524. But there was a crowd of parents, and so sometimes I'd

  525. get nervous and scared my mom coming for me.

  526. But every single day I could hear my mom whistling a song

  527. coming down the hallway, and I knew that it was her coming to

  528. get me. That's what she'd whistle every

  529. day. And I knew that was my mom.

  530. But how did I know? I heard it every day.

  531. And the more time you spend with God, the more you'll be able to

  532. recognize His voice when He speaks to you.

  533. It may not be an audible voice, but you will know it when you

  534. hear it. And God speaks to us in

  535. different ways. He speaks to us through His

  536. Word, right through the Bible. He speaks to us through prayer.

  537. He speaks to us through other believers, And He also speaks to

  538. us through our circumstances. So when God prompts your heart

  539. to do something, you will have a choice to make.

  540. And here are your two choices. Are you ready?

  541. It's pretty rocket sciency right here.

  542. OK, obey or don't obey, right? Two choices that that's all.

  543. That's all you got. And when we read the Bible, we

  544. read story after story after story.

  545. Here's what we find out. When you obey, that produces

  546. blessings. When you disobey, that produces

  547. consequences every single time. So the choice is yours, but I

  548. highly recommend that you choose to obey.

  549. So in closing, want to take us back to the very first thing

  550. that we talked about. God has a what?

  551. He has a plan and he has a plan specifically designed for you.

  552. And by the way, God eventually allowed my wife Lauren to get

  553. pregnant and she had Price in 2010, then followed by Henley in

  554. 2013, and then followed by Ellenie Kate in 2015.

  555. And then we had one more surprise in 2017 with Beckett.

  556. But here's the deal. If God would have allowed us to

  557. have kids when we wanted to have kids, I just don't believe that

  558. we would have had the opportunity to have such an

  559. impact in the lives of the countless teenagers that he

  560. brought our way. I just don't.

  561. And what's cool is, is that right outside after the service,

  562. I got to see several of those, a couple of guys that I coached

  563. baseball in in in high school years ago come out there.

  564. They're dads, they're here in church, they've grown up,

  565. they're serving the Lord. We just hired one at North Star

  566. Church, helping with our college ministry, and she's doing a

  567. phenomenal job. But just to see the fruit of

  568. what God allowed us to experience by just trusting in

  569. his plan. But in hindsight, Lauren and I

  570. are beyond grateful for the waiting and even for the

  571. difficult circumstances because God taught us that we can trust

  572. Him. But here's what I want to just

  573. make sure you hear before I finish today, OK?

  574. Listen to me. God loves you and God is

  575. faithful, and God has a plan for your life.

  576. But you must trust Him. You must surrender control and

  577. you have to pursue His best as you draw close to Him.

  578. Will you bow your heads with me? I have a couple of questions for

  579. you as we come to this time of response.

  580. And question number one, is this, What action do you need to

  581. take today after hearing this message?

  582. Immediate action. What is it that you need to do?

  583. The Bible says that we're not just to be hearers of the Word,

  584. but we're to be doers. So what is God telling you to do

  585. after hearing his message today? Is there a situation in your

  586. life that you're struggling to to surrender to God?

  587. Man, as we sing in just a minute, take that time to sit in

  588. your seat or come to the altar and surrender that to God.

  589. Or just ask a friend, will you pray for me about this?

  590. Or maybe you're, you're going man, Drew, I really need to

  591. start reading and, and talking to reading the Bible and talking

  592. to God more and listening to him and so I can obey and know what

  593. he's saying. Oh, man, I'd encourage you to,

  594. to ask God to help you with that as well.

  595. Or come talk to a pastor, or even if you're not in a Sunday

  596. school class, ask them how you can get connected to, to one at

  597. the beginning of the year. But maybe, just maybe, God's

  598. speaking to your heart about surrendering your life to Jesus,

  599. which is where a relationship with God truly begins.

  600. And it's the most important decision that you'll ever make

  601. in your life because it will determine where you will spend

  602. eternity. And there are pastors down front

  603. that can help you know how you can start a relationship with

  604. Jesus. But whatever God is asking you

  605. to do right now, I encourage you to be obedient.

  606. Heavenly Father, thank you so much for your word.

  607. Thank you for the power that comes through it.

  608. And Lord, you tell us to trust in you with all of our heart.

  609. Don't depend on our own understanding.

  610. Seek your will in all that we do and you will show us which path

  611. to take. Thank you for not leaving us

  612. alone. Thank you God, that you're a

  613. Father who loves us and who wants what's best for us and

  614. who's willing to show us what our next step is.

  615. So as we trust you, or as we surrender to you, as we pursue

  616. you God, show us what that next step is in Jesus name.