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Life is a Choice

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  1. If you have your copy of God's Word, go and make your way to

  2. Genesis chapter 13, Genesis chapter 13.

    Genesis 13 chapter mention Genesis 13 chapter mention

  3. And as we prepare to dive into this chapter, I want to share

  4. with you several quotes that are from a variety of sources, but

  5. as you're going to be able to tell, are essentially saying the

  6. same thing. All right, so who knows who

  7. originally said or what the original saying was, but check

  8. these out. Here's the first one on the

  9. screen. Life is a matter of choices, and

  10. every choice you make makes you. Our lives are fashioned by our

  11. choices. First we make our choices, then

  12. our choices make us. There's a choice you have to

  13. make in everything you do, so keep in mind that in the end,

  14. the choice you make makes you. Life is about choices.

  15. Some we regret, some we're proud of, some will haunt us forever.

  16. The message We are what we choose to be.

  17. Finally, we are our choices. To say in a sentence what I

  18. think Genesis 13 is trying to say is that life is a choice and

  19. our choices make our life. Life is a choice and our choices

  20. make our life. Listen to verse 1.

  21. So Abram went up from Egypt, he and his wife and all that he

  22. had, and Lot went with him into the Negeb.

  23. Now you remember, Abraham's been called by God to leave house, to

  24. leave home, to leave country, and to leave kindred.

  25. And Abraham's been promised land, nation, name, offspring,

  26. blessing, protection, and on and on it goes in the covenant that

  27. God has made and will make with Abraham.

  28. There was a famine in the land, and so for a short period of

  29. time, Abram takes the hiatus from that land in the land of

  30. Egypt. And while they're on the way in,

  31. a fear overcomes Abram that due to the beauty of his wife Sarai,

  32. that the people of the land are going to want to take her for

  33. their wife and kill him. And so they make a plan to

  34. pretend that she's only his sister.

  35. Sure enough, Pharaoh of Egypt takes Sarah into his house.

  36. And based on this decision, driven by fear instead of faith,

  37. Abram's now put into jeopardy all that God has promised him.

  38. By not believing that God would be good to his promises, by

  39. believing that the beauty of his wife was going to overcome God's

  40. goodness, Abram's now threatened all the promises, land and

  41. nation and name and offspring and blessing.

  42. Now his wife's in the House of another man.

  43. He's between a rock and a hard place.

  44. Unless God intervenes, this is all going to end well.

  45. Guess what God does even in the midst of our unfaithfulness?

  46. Praise God. He intervenes, does he not?

  47. Praise God, He is still faithful despite our unfaithfulness.

  48. Even when we mess up, God still in His grace shows up.

  49. Hallelujah. So he does so, for Abram sends

  50. him out of Egypt with extra blessings than what he came

  51. with. We pick up in verse 2 through 4.

  52. Now Abram was very rich in livestock, in silver and in

  53. gold, and he journeyed on from there, from the Negeb as far as

  54. Bethel, in the place where his tent had been at the beginning

  55. between Bethel and AI, to the place where he had made an altar

  56. at the 1st. And there Abram called upon the

  57. name of the Lord. Abram makes it back to where his

  58. journey had begun, and here is where God had appeared to him,

  59. and here is where Abram had made an altar from which to worship

  60. God. Remember, an altar was a place,

  61. a physical thing. They built a platform, if you

  62. will, on which they would offer sacrifices and offer prayer and

  63. where they would worship. All right, praise God, we no

  64. longer need to show up with our dead animals to put on an altar.

  65. Amen. You know what you want to know?

  66. Why? Because Jesus is the final and

  67. full physical complete sacrifice for the sins of the world, The

  68. Lamb of God who takes away the sin of what?

  69. Every sacrifice before Jesus just pointed forward to Jesus

  70. that one day Jesus would eliminate all those sacrifices

  71. because he would be the one final one.

  72. Jesus is the final and full sacrifice.

  73. Therefore, we no longer need to alter on the altar offer like

  74. what Abraham did. Abram had a place though where

  75. he called on the name of the Lord.

  76. He was making a deliberate choice to worship is what I want

  77. you to see because again, life is a choice and our choices make

  78. our make our life. So Abram is making choices that

  79. are making his life here. It's the same for us today.

  80. Every day you have an opportunity to make a deliberate

  81. choice whether you are going to worship God or not.

  82. In fact, I want you to write this down in your notes.

  83. The first thing I think we learned here is life's greatest

  84. choice is who you will worship. Life's greatest choice is who

  85. you will worship. Listen, in one sense, every

  86. single human being is worshipping every single day.

  87. Whether you realize it or not. You were actually made to

  88. worship. You were designed by God to

  89. worship. You are worshiping whether you

  90. realize it or not. Now, typically what happens is

  91. if we're not worshipping God deliberately, I can kind of go

  92. ahead and kind of break the news to you.

  93. Most likely human beings worship who themselves every day.

  94. What I mean by you worship is you're giving your life and your

  95. loyalty and your love and your allegiance to something or

  96. someone. You're going to do that.

  97. That's worship. The only question is, who are

  98. you really giving that first love, that first loyalty, that

  99. first allegiance, that first of your life, too?

  100. All right. And ever since the fall of sin,

  101. ever since sin entered the world and infected our lives, we as

  102. human beings default to worshipping ourselves all right,

  103. because our hearts have been infected by a virus called

  104. idolatry that turns us to worship anything and everything

  105. but the one true God. Which is the reason why the

  106. Bible says we must be born again, made new, saved, given

  107. new life, made a new creation, forgiven of our sin, joined with

  108. Jesus and set free so that we can say no to that virus of sin

  109. that's infected us and be filled with the Holy Spirit made alive

  110. in Christ and live by worshipping him.

  111. If you've never experienced that new birth, that forgiveness,

  112. that salvation, what you need to realize is that your sin

  113. separates you from God, your sin personally.

  114. We've all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.

  115. This is why Jesus came. This is why He lived a sinless

  116. life. Can you imagine living a sinless

  117. life? Just wrap your mind around that.

  118. That's what Jesus did. Never thought, spoke, or did

  119. anything that would dishonor God.

  120. Why did He do it? Why did He come to earth to do

  121. it? To do it in your place and in my

  122. place so that he could go to the cross, the perfect, qualified,

  123. spotless Lamb of God for the sins of the world, to pay for

  124. your sin and to pay for mine, so that he could go to the grave,

  125. be laid in that grave, and rise on the third day.

  126. Defeating death, defeating sin, defeating hell, defeating Satan

  127. the enemy, and offering us forgiveness and life.

  128. And the Bible says when you call on the name of the Lord to be

  129. saved, When you hear that your sin separates you from God.

  130. And when you hear what Jesus has done for you to bring you back

  131. to God. And you call on Jesus to ask Him

  132. to say you and forgive you and be your Lord.

  133. The Bible says you're born again, you're made alive, you're

  134. forgiven, you're rescued, all the things, a new creation in

  135. Christ so that you now live to worship Him.

  136. Abram's making a deliberate choice to worship every day.

  137. God calls us those who've chosen to follow Christ, to make a

  138. deliberate choice to worship Him.

  139. Let me just give you some of those scripture references to

  140. specify what I'm talking about. Luke 923 If anyone would come

  141. after me, let him what? Deny himself, and take up his

  142. cross, and follow me. Romans 12/1 I appeal to you,

  143. therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, that you offer

  144. yourselves as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable

  145. to God, which is your spiritual act of worship.

  146. John 15. Five.

  147. I am the vine, Jesus says, and you are the branches, and

  148. whoever abides in me and I in him, here it is.

  149. That bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.

  150. Every single day. You must make the most life

  151. determining choice you can make it.

  152. I want to break that choice down into three things you're going

  153. to see in your notes there. If you're going to deliberately

  154. choose to give God your life, your loyalty, your love, and

  155. your allegiance, it's going to look like this number one,

  156. You're going to intentionally have to choose to die to

  157. yourself. Jesus, this day is not mine.

  158. Jesus, my body is not mine. Jesus, my money is not mine.

  159. My job is not mine. My family is not mine.

  160. Jesus, all I got you've given me, and all the life I have is

  161. you've given me. And I'm dying to my way and

  162. living it the way I want so that I can say yes to what you want.

  163. Step #1 #2 this is a daily thing #2 is to offer yourself as a

  164. living sacrifice. Again, God's not asking you to

  165. bring a dead animal. He's asking you to bring a

  166. living surrendered, submitted you.

  167. Why? So that through your life and

  168. your living, Jesus can live through you.

  169. So you got to say no to yourself and then you got to say yes to

  170. Jesus, right? And then thirdly, you are going

  171. to live by abiding in Jesus. What does that mean?

  172. Abiding in Jesus, right? It means that when you go to

  173. work or when you go to school and how you do marriage and how

  174. you do parenting and how you do your hobbies is in this way, not

  175. the way you want to do them, but constantly you're walking,

  176. you're living aware of God's presence.

  177. You're praying without ceasing, you're asking God for wisdom and

  178. direction, saying God, as I go here, as I do this, as I say

  179. this, as I respond to this, God help me do this in a way that's

  180. dependent on your way, your wisdom, and your power and not

  181. mine. This is a moment by moment

  182. reality of a mentality for a Christian that we're not just

  183. out there on our own doing this by ourselves and our strength.

  184. So you got to say no to yourself.

  185. You got to say yes to the living sacrifice and you got to say God

  186. help me every moment along the way.

  187. That's what it looks like. That's the Christian life in a

  188. nutshell. Is daily death to you, daily yes

  189. to Jesus and God, daily help me moment by moment.

  190. That's it. That's how we walk by the

  191. Spirit. That's how we die.

  192. That's how we live. That's how we abide.

  193. Right now, let's pick up verse 5 through 7.

  194. And Lot, who went with Abram, also had flocks and herds and

  195. tents so that the land could not support both of them dwelling

  196. together, for their possessions were so great that they could

  197. not dwell together. And there was strife between the

  198. herdsmen of Abram's livestock and the herdsmen of Lot's

  199. livestock, and that at that time, the Canaanites and the

  200. Perizzites were dwelling in the land.

  201. You know, Abram is choosing to worship God.

  202. But if you remember, and here's what I love about the Bible, the

  203. Bible doesn't sugarcoat anything.

  204. The Bible just tells you how it went down and how it happens.

  205. And one of the things the Bible has told us is that Abram has

  206. made a decision. Even as someone who's seeking to

  207. walk with God and worship God and honor God, Abraham's made a

  208. decision that it seems pretty clear may not have been exactly

  209. what God had in mind. Because if you go back to God's

  210. instructions to Abraham, he said leave house, home, country and

  211. kindred. But guess what Abram does?

  212. He takes a little kindred along with him.

  213. All right, Guy named Lot, that's going to cause him lots of

  214. problems, right? So will that decision come back

  215. to haunt him? If life is a choice and our

  216. choices make our life, is that decision going to have impact on

  217. his life? You better believe it, right?

  218. So here, how does this go? All right, well, the problem is

  219. they both accumulated so much stuff.

  220. Now their people can't get along, right?

  221. I mean, now they got a first world problem on their hands,

  222. they've gotten rich and nobody can get along.

  223. Does that not sound right? Anyway, that's a different

  224. sermon. Yeah.

  225. In North Georgia, from what I understand, a couple acres can

  226. sustain a cow. If you're going to have cattle,

  227. you're going to have a couple acres per cow.

  228. All right, because North Georgia grows pretty good grass.

  229. Go to the Middle East. Couple acres won't support half

  230. a cow. All right?

  231. You have a dead cow on 2 acres after about a day, All right,

  232. you need more. All right, So this is what the

  233. herdsmen are fighting about. They need more room to feed

  234. their animals. The animals are stressed because

  235. they can't get enough food, not finding enough.

  236. The herdsmen are stressed. There's physical, there's

  237. relational problems, but there's another problem in the land that

  238. you know what, if you're not paying attention, it'll just

  239. slide right past you because God says something here in the midst

  240. of this physical, relational conflict, there's a bigger

  241. conflict going on, but you might not notice it.

  242. Did you see what it said at this time?

  243. The Canaanites and parasites were dwelling in the land.

  244. There is a spiritual danger that's going to lead that's

  245. bigger than physical conflict. That's going to lead to a

  246. spiritual conflict. God goes out of His way to say

  247. that the reality surrounding this problem that Abram and Lot

  248. are having is a bigger problem caused by the inhabitants of the

  249. land being wicked people. Now I know it doesn't say

  250. they're wicked there yet it's going to in verse 13.

  251. And then it's going to come even more obvious if you know your

  252. Bible just how wicked these people in the land were.

  253. All right, so how wicked are we talking?

  254. Well, Leviticus 18, verse 24 and 25 says this.

    Leviticus 18:24

  255. God speaks this to his people to help give them understanding of

  256. what's going to happen in this land.

  257. He says, Do not make yourselves unclean by any of these things,

  258. for by all these the nations I am driving out before you have

  259. become unclean. And the land became unclean so

  260. that I punished its iniquity and the land vomited out its its

  261. inhabitants. A lot of times you'll hear

  262. people in kind of attacking the Bible, they'll talk about maybe

  263. quote how God, you know, in the conquest of Israel in this land,

  264. God kicked out, God wiped out peoples that were living in this

  265. land as if God did that for no reason, which is not true.

  266. What's true is that the people inhabiting this land, their

  267. wickedness and rebellion against God is coming up before God in

  268. such proportions that God does what he does as a holy God.

  269. God is not mean, but God is holy, holy.

  270. He is so holy He knows He does not associate with sin outside

  271. of the right way of judging sin and then giving mercy in the

  272. place where we can choose to trust God and have our sin

  273. forgiven when we choose to have faith in God and His provision

  274. out of His Holiness for our sin. So God is telling, He's giving a

  275. heads up that this sin is a problem.

  276. In fact, the problems are specified in Luke 18.

  277. I mean, not Luke, Leviticus 1819 through 23.

  278. I'll let you read that on your own time, but God specified what

  279. are some of these things that God is going to remove the

  280. inhabitants of the land for? Let me just mention some of

  281. them. This isn't culturally popular.

  282. This isn't politically correct, but this is what the Bible says,

  283. and that's what my commitment is to tell you.

  284. These things included in that passage are adultery, child

  285. sacrifice, homosexuality, and bestiality.

  286. And God says because of the rampantness of these things that

  287. don't honor him, that go against God's design, God says I'm going

  288. to judge sin because of the rebellion of mankind against me.

  289. And so wicked people are living in the land.

  290. There's strife between the families of Abram and Lot.

  291. Where will they go? What will happen?

  292. Let's keep going. Listen to verse 8 through 13.

  293. Then Abram said to Lot, Let there be no strife between you

  294. and me, and between your herdsmen and my herdsmen, for we

  295. are kinsmen. Is not the whole land before you

  296. separate yourself from me? If you take the left hand, then

  297. I'll go to the right. If you take the right hand, then

  298. I'll go to the left. And Lot lifted up his eyes and

  299. saw that the Jordan Valley was well watered everywhere, like

  300. the garden of the Lord, like the land of Egypt in the direction

  301. of Zoar. This was before the Lord

  302. destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah, so Lot chose for himself all the

  303. Jordan Valley, and Lot journeyed E Thus they separated from each

  304. other, and Abrams settled in the land of Canaan, while Lot

  305. settled among the cities of the valley and moved his tent as far

  306. as Sodom. Now the men of Sodom were wicked

  307. great sinners against the Lord. Abram, if you notice, takes the

  308. lead in seeking to solve this conflict.

  309. He says lot. We're family man.

  310. We ought not be fighting. You choose take first choice, go

  311. the direction you want to go and I'll choose second.

  312. I'll go last, right. And but from their location

  313. geographically on the hills and arid kind of mountain area of

  314. Judea, they could look down, if you will, on a clear day and see

  315. the entire Jordan Valley that is following the river that flows

  316. down to the Dead Sea. They could see how well all

  317. watered, how lush, and how fertile that land was.

  318. All right? It mentions it like it was

  319. compared to the Garden of the Lord, that's the Garden of Eden.

  320. It talks about it as if it was like the Nile Delta, well

  321. watered by the river, right? So Lot looks around and makes a

  322. massive life decision. Remember, life is a choice, and

  323. our choices make our life. And though the Bible doesn't

  324. come out and say this directly, I want you to notice you can't

  325. miss the two factors that are driving Lot's decision to go

  326. this direction #1 one is material prosperity.

  327. Lot looks around and says, where could I go to maintain my

  328. standard of living? What's going to make me richer?

  329. What's going to sustain my riches?

  330. Where can I go and experience greater material prosperity?

  331. But then Lot makes the decision about where he's going to live

  332. based on a second factor that we'll call moral neutrality.

  333. Lot makes a decision about his address, regardless of the

  334. spiritual consequences it's going to have on his life.

  335. So Lot looks around. Life is a choice.

  336. Our choices make our life, and material prosperity and moral

  337. neutrality are driving Lot's decision here.

  338. He looks around and he doesn't call on the name of the Lord.

  339. It says he doesn't pray and ask God for direction.

  340. He doesn't ask Abram, who he knows really has been trying to

  341. worship and walk with God. He doesn't ask Abram for advice.

  342. Lot sees what appears to be the greatest material advantage,

  343. regardless of the spiritual risk, and he takes it.

  344. And listen, I'm not up here trying to say Lot was a bad guy.

  345. The Bible doesn't say that. But the Bible presents Lot as a

  346. guy who would not yet learned to make wise life decisions.

  347. Do you see the difference? You don't have to be a bad

  348. person to end up in a bad place, right?

  349. All it takes is making a decision or two, not according

  350. to God's wisdom, and next thing you know you make it based on

  351. material prosperity or. Moral neutrality.

  352. And it's like, whoa, I didn't, I didn't mean to end up in such a

  353. bad position, but I didn't follow God's wisdom.

  354. And guess what? A not bad guy is going to end up

  355. in a terrible situation. Life #2 can mark this down in

  356. your notes. Life choices are determined by

  357. the wisdom you choose, by the wisdom you choose lots.

  358. I don't want you to miss this. Lot's decision of where to live

  359. was based on wisdom. It was just the wrong wisdom.

  360. Did you realize you are living by a wisdom right now?

  361. You're choosing to operate by wisdom.

  362. The question is not if, but what?

  363. What wisdom are you? Are you choosing to operate by

  364. your own wisdom as if and all the universe you know best?

  365. That's a pretty arrogant place to be.

  366. Are you operating by your friend's wisdom?

  367. That's a pretty foolish place to be typically.

  368. Are you operating by the world's wisdom?

  369. By the culture? Listen, I've had a sentence

  370. resonating in my heart and mind based on different situations

  371. I've been encountering pastorally, personally, and it's

  372. this. It's that.

  373. It's not that the Word of God is not clear.

  374. It's that the world we live in is so loud.

  375. We struggle sometimes with what to do, what to say, where to go.

  376. As if the word of God is not clear, right?

  377. As if God's will and God's best is not obvious.

  378. The problem is, it's not that God's word is not clear.

  379. It's that the world we live in is so loud, it's all we hear.

  380. And so often that's the only wisdom we choose to walk in and

  381. never question it. Because guess what?

  382. This is the water we live in. It's the air we breathe.

  383. We're blind, by the way. John Newton was too in 1779.

  384. He said I once was blind, but now I see I once was lost.

  385. But now I'm. I've changed the wisdom I'm

  386. living by. My eyes have been opened.

  387. There's another wisdom, and it's God's his choices.

  388. Lots are spiritually careless. Have you ever made a bad choice

  389. based on bad wisdom and paid a terrible price?

  390. Yeah, young people in the room. I want you to, I want you to

  391. hear me. I'm going to tell you about four

  392. choices just very quick that you've got to have God's wisdom,

  393. all right? I don't mean these are the only

  394. choices you need God's wisdom for, but I mean you better have

  395. them for these four. Are you ready?

  396. Number one is your choice of the church that you attend.

  397. By the way, I sure hope you choose to attend even beyond

  398. your days under your parents roof.

  399. All right, but the choice you choose, the choice of your

  400. church matters because whether or not you choose a place that

  401. stands and believes the word of God or not is going to impact

  402. you and your thinking and the wisdom you choose to live by.

  403. The church you choose better stand on the Word of God.

  404. Regardless of what the world says, what the culture says,

  405. what politics say, you better choose one that stands on the

  406. word of God. All right, number 2 is your

  407. choice of friends. If your friends don't love

  408. Jesus, you are headed for trouble.

  409. You are just headed for trouble. It's coming.

  410. All right, you've got, I know this is hard, but it would be

  411. better off to walk alone for a little while if you have to than

  412. friends that don't. With friends who don't love

  413. Jesus. OK, God has promised you never

  414. to leave you nor forsake. You'd be better off alone for a

  415. little while if you have to. Number 3 is your spouse.

  416. You better choose to marry someone who loves Jesus, not

  417. that you think loves Jesus, not who says well, I'm a Christian,

  418. not who starts going to church with you because you ask them

  419. no, because you found them following Jesus.

  420. I'm not saying there's some situations that don't work out.

  421. Praise God that weren't that Hallelujah for God's grace, but

  422. that's not the normal, it's not the normal.

  423. Choose a spouse by God's wisdom. And then finally, fourthly,

  424. choose your career by God's wisdom.

  425. Now, I don't mean that there are better or worse careers.

  426. There's so many options out there.

  427. I'm just saying that you don't want to choose that randomly.

  428. God built you and made you for a purpose, like He gave you gifts

  429. and talents and a calling. And so God knows where He wants

  430. to put you and how He wants to use you.

  431. Ask God to guide you by His wisdom to be doing with your

  432. life something that He made you to do.

  433. Let me tell you what a blessing that will be.

  434. Those four things you need God's wisdom for every decision, but

  435. those four, you better mark it down.

  436. You got to make a decision that I'm not going to make those

  437. without God's wisdom. Verse 11, let me go back to it.

  438. It says thus they separated. That's Lot and Abram separated

  439. from each other. Verse 12, Abram settled in the

  440. land of Canaan while Lot settled among the cities of the valley

  441. and moved his tent as far as Sodom.

  442. You ought to hear some like danger music in the background

  443. right there. All right, now the men of Sodom.

  444. Here's where the Bible just comes out and tells you the men

  445. of Sodom were wicked, great sinners against the Lord.

  446. Part of part of God's call y'all on Abram's life involved a

  447. separation. Do you remember?

  448. God calls Abram to leave, to be separate from house and home and

  449. country and kindred. Why?

  450. Because God's calling, God's calling our lives, doesn't

  451. always call us out of all of those things, but God's calling

  452. our lives always calls us out of something so he can call us into

  453. what he's calling us into. All right, so Abram's call had a

  454. separation involved. Lot, on the other hand, also had

  455. a separation, but a wrong kind. He separated himself from Abram

  456. and joined himself with who the Bible calls great sinners.

  457. This again, young people. He chose friends, He chose

  458. neighbors that we're not going to lead in the right direction.

  459. He separates himself from the promised blessings of God, and

  460. he puts himself and his family in the path of the judgment of

  461. God. In fact, the famous reformer

  462. John Calvin writes this. He says let us learn from Lot's

  463. foolishness that our eyes are not to be trusted.

  464. We must rather be on our guard lest we be ensnared by what we

  465. see. Lot fancied he was dwelling in

  466. paradise, but it was a place that nearly plunged him into the

  467. depths of hell. Listen, one of the greatest

  468. lessons you can learn is you got to learn to decide what you're

  469. going to trust, because you're either going to trust in what

  470. you think and what you feel and what you want.

  471. And you're going to Plumb line your life by that and you're

  472. going to walk in your own wisdom.

  473. Are you going to say, you know what?

  474. If there is a God and you believe in Him and if he has

  475. spoken and if what he speaks is true and if what he says is

  476. true, then I got a different Plumb line by which I got to do

  477. life. And you may not like the Plumb

  478. line, you may not like it, but guess what?

  479. God didn't ask you and He didn't ask me.

  480. He just said this is how I made you.

  481. This is how I've designed you to operate.

  482. You can go off and do it yourself, your way, if you want

  483. to. God gives us choices and life is

  484. a choice and our, our choices make our.

  485. And God in his love invites you, invites you to his wisdom and

  486. way to be called out separate to Him.

  487. So #3 life choices are determined by the separation you

  488. choose. Life choices are determined not

  489. just by the wisdom you choose, but by the separation you

  490. choose. Listen to what the word of God

  491. says. John 1519.

  492. If you were of the world, the world would love you as its own,

  493. but because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of

  494. the world. 2nd Corinthians 616 and 17 Paul writes for where the

  495. temple of the living God. And God said, I'll make my

  496. dwelling among them and walk among them, and drop down to

  497. verse 17. He says therefore go out of

  498. their midst and be separate from them.

  499. First, Peter 29 but you're a chosen race, a royal priesthood,

  500. a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may

  501. proclaim the excellencies of him.

  502. What's this? Who called you out of darkness

  503. into his marvelous light? God calls us out.

  504. This is the separation. I mean, that is the right

  505. separation of out of the world, out of the ways of the world,

  506. the wisdom of the world, and to walking in the ways and wisdom

  507. in the will of God. It's going to make you look

  508. different. It's going to make you sound

  509. different. It's going to make the world

  510. hate you, as Jesus said, and reject you because you know

  511. what? You don't look like, you don't

  512. sound like. You don't talk like what the

  513. world looks like, sounds like, and talks like.

  514. I've heard it said that those who are citizens of heaven ought

  515. to have the accent of heaven, not the accent of earth.

  516. But the problem is when you live somewhere long enough and guess

  517. what you tend to do? Adapt the accent.

  518. When I was in South Georgia, where I was born and raised, I

  519. said a few words different than I now say them.

  520. I've been through Mississippi, I've been through Texas, I've

  521. been through Alabama, Back to Georgia, right?

  522. One of the words I used to say was for H2, Oi would say water.

  523. Why are you laughing at me? That's what I said, water.

  524. Hey, were you going to go water skiing?

  525. That's how I would say it. I got to Mississippi my 9th

  526. grade. The comrades looked at me and

  527. was like, what, what, what, what, what, what is that?

  528. Do you mean water? I was like, yes, that's what I

  529. mean water. Well, it took me about two weeks

  530. and guess how I said water? The way, the way I just said

  531. water. I, I lost a little bit of my

  532. South Georgia accent getting to a new place.

  533. How often the temptation is in our lives to lose the accent of

  534. heaven on earth, because you're going to be called out for the

  535. accent of heaven. You're not going to sound like,

  536. talk like, look like. It's going to be different.

  537. And this is the separation that God calls us to.

  538. I've heard it said like this. A ship is all right in the sea,

  539. but the sea is all wrong in the ship.

  540. The church is all right in the world, but the world is all

  541. wrong in the church, right? Are you living separate?

  542. I don't mean in a commune in a neighborhood that says

  543. Christians only at the gate. Jesus says be in it, but not

  544. what, but not of it, right? So let's pick up and keep

  545. reading. In Genesis 13, beginning in

  546. verse 14, the Lord said to Abram after Lot had separated from

  547. him, Lift up your eyes and look from the place where you are

  548. northward and southward and eastward and westward, for all

  549. the land that you see. I will give you in your

  550. offspring forever. I'll make you make your

  551. offspring as the dust of the earth, so that if one can count

  552. the dust of the earth, your offspring also can be counted.

  553. Arise and walk through the length and the breadth of the

  554. land, for I will give it to you. So Abram moved his temp and came

  555. and settled by the oaks of Monterey, which are at Hebron,

  556. and there he built an altar to the Lord.

  557. I want you to notice how Abram responded to conflict.

  558. This is so practical because we walk into conflict all the time.

  559. I want you to notice how how Abram handled it here.

  560. The source of conflict in our lives is typically when

  561. something we like, love, want, or care for is endangered and we

  562. go into protection mode, we go into fight mode, we go into

  563. that's mind mode. We going to, you're not going to

  564. touch that mode, right? And in this case, it's the

  565. physical space and provision for their livestock and their

  566. possessions. And the strife that begin with

  567. the herdsman could have worked its way up the chain and even

  568. spoiled Abram and Lot's relationship, right?

  569. But that's not what happened. Why?

  570. Because of the way Abram responded.

  571. How did Abram respond? I think you could say Abram

  572. responded generously, graciously, selflessly.

  573. Why? Because Abram's life was

  574. anchored in believing the promises of God.

  575. And when your life is anchored in believing that you're going

  576. to receive and be blessed by the promises of God, you realize you

  577. can't give yourself out of the blessings of God, right?

  578. Abram's like, listen, I'm free to let Lot choose first.

  579. God has promised me more than I could have ever imagined.

  580. How could you not live generously when God has promised

  581. you all things He didn't? He didn't choose first because

  582. he believed the promises of God. He didn't stress in the midst of

  583. conflict because he believed the promises of God.

  584. He didn't fight for his own, protect his turf, or alienate

  585. lot because he believed the promises of God.

  586. Can I just ask you, are you believing the promises of God?

  587. Can I ask you based on specific promises, right?

  588. Just kind of run these through your heart and mind.

  589. Are you ready? Let me name some Hebrews 13

  590. five. Keep your lives free from the

  591. love of money and be content with what you have because God

  592. has said, never will I leave you, never will I forsake you.

  593. How many times do we quote the second part of that verse but

  594. never the 1st? It's so true that we love some

  595. parts of the Word of God and we don't like others, right?

  596. But again, whose wisdom? Whose Plumb line are we living

  597. by? Are you believing that promise?

  598. Luke 1224 Consider the Ravens. They do not sow A reap.

  599. They have no storeroom or barn, yet God feeds them.

  600. How much more value valuable are you then birds?

  601. Philippians 419 And my God will meet all your needs according to

  602. the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.

  603. How many needs has God promised to meet in your life?

  604. How many wants, just just in case you're listening?

  605. Matthew 633 But seek first His Kingdom and His righteousness,

  606. and then what? Then all these other things that

  607. you need will be rightly and appropriately added.

  608. Romans 832 This is so good. He who did not spare his own

  609. Son, but gave Him up for us all, how will He not also with Him

  610. graciously give us all things? You can't give yourself out of

  611. the generosity of the promises of God.

  612. You're free when you believe the promises of God to be a

  613. blessing. You're free to be selfless.

  614. You're free to be gracious. You're free to be generous.

  615. Yet you know what dries up? Generosity and graciousness, not

  616. believing the promises of God's generosity to you.

  617. Then you start fighting for your own and protecting your turf and

  618. choosing not to share and choosing not to give because

  619. guess what? You got to fight for what you

  620. got as if it depends on you clawing and hanging on.

  621. You don't live like that when you realize God has given you

  622. everything. Abram is believing the promises

  623. of God. Life is a choice, and our

  624. choices make our lives. Write down #4 in your notes

  625. here. Life choices are determined by

  626. the promises you believe. Life.

  627. Life choices are determined by the wisdom you choose, the

  628. separation you choose, and the promises you believe.

  629. You see, Lot went after what he saw.

  630. Abram waited for what God promised.

  631. A lot walk by sight. Abram walked by faith.

  632. Such faith honored God. And guess what God did in

  633. response to Abram's faith and generosity?

  634. God shows up here at the end of the chapters like, hey Abram, I

  635. just want you to look up, man. I want you to survey the

  636. horizon. Look at all I'm going to give

  637. you in your offspring. Abram, go take a walk, tread the

  638. land. Go scout out all that.

  639. I'm going to bless you and provide you.

  640. Just go check it out. Abram honored God, he put his

  641. faith in God and God just happens to show up and hit

  642. refresh on all the promises says, hey, let's just review

  643. Abram, just to encourage you. I love that life is a choice and

  644. our choices make our life. I'm going to ask you to bow your

  645. head and close your eyes. John and praise team are going

  646. to come out. Before I ask you to stand and

  647. sing and respond this morning, I want to ask some questions that

  648. you might want to use to respond to and maybe the way God has

  649. spoken to you this morning. The first one is this.

  650. Who are you worshipping? Who are you worshipping for?

  651. Whom are the altars in your life built?

  652. Who's getting your life, love, loyalty, allegiance?

  653. Is it God? Is it something else?

  654. Let me ask you, secondly, what wisdom are you living by?

  655. Are you living from the wisdom of heaven, from the wisdom of

  656. God? Are you living from the wisdom

  657. of this world? What separation have you chosen?

  658. Separation from the world for God, or separation from God for

  659. the world? And finally, whose promises are

  660. you believing? Are you believing the promises

  661. of the world of the enemy or the promises of God says Abram built

  662. an altar and there he worshipped.

  663. These steps might be this morning, a physical place where

  664. you need to make decisions in regard to the things that I just

  665. mentioned. As I stand here, I stand here to

  666. receive you, to pray for you, to talk to you about following

  667. Jesus, to receive him as your Lord and Savior if you need to

  668. make that decision. Or maybe you seem to come here

  669. and kneel or stand and talk to God about whom you're worshiping

  670. or what wisdom separation are promises you're choosing and

  671. believing. Maybe you need to leave

  672. something here and say, God, I got something I need to trade

  673. out for what you've promised, for what you've offered, and I'm

  674. choosing that today. I'm going to pray and I'm going

  675. to ask you to stand and we're going to sing and worship and

  676. you come. Heavenly Father, I want to pray

  677. right now, the Lord Jesus. Then these next moments that

  678. your way would be had in our lives, that nothing would hold

  679. us back from saying yes to you. God, help us choose your wisdom,

  680. even as unpopular as it is in the world.

  681. God, we just want to be people who say we believe.

  682. We believe you. We're aligning our lives with

  683. your will and your way. So have your way in US.

  684. God help. Would that be the cry of every

  685. heart? In Jesus name I pray and all

  686. God's people said Amen. Would you stand with me as John

  687. and praise team lead us? I'm going to wait for you.

  688. These steps are open. Our encouragers are close.

  689. You come.