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Plains Baptist Church

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  1. As we look at a mother's legacy and some elements with it, you know, as we celebrate moms today.

  2. ! You know, it's important to set aside that time to do that.

  3. You know, moms make an important impact upon society, upon nations, upon even the legacy, the direction of the future,

  4. and the impact that they have is great.

  5. And so this morning we're going to take just a few moments here to look at a few things as we consider a mother's legacy,

  6. because the reality is every mom leaves a legacy to her children.

  7. You know, a legacy is tied directly to her life and to her influence as a mom,

  8. and every mom will shape the lives of her children.

  9. The real question is, is what kind of legacy will she leave?

  10. Because we choose what kind of legacy we're going to leave.

  11. We choose those things by what we do and how we do them, how we choose to address things.

  12. You know, her presence and her decisions form the lives of her children and even the atmosphere of her home.

  13. And it's easy to look at just the routine tasks sometimes.

  14. You know, moms teach a lot of routine tasks.

  15. You ever consider some of the routine tasks that moms teach through the years?

  16. I mean, they teach kids how to get dressed.

  17. They teach them when they're real little.

  18. They work with them on how to eat, you know.

  19. They work with them on how to dress.

  20. Just little things like washing your hands or etiquette like saying thank you and please.

  21. I mean, those are all sorts of little minute details that get taught along the way.

  22. And we find here that they teach them also to be grateful, you know, and just to share, you know.

  23. Things that they have, you know, sharing and caring and the legacy she leaves on her family will not be fully realized sometimes until years down the road.

  24. Because the thing about a legacy, a legacy isn't determined in the moment.

  25. A legacy is determined looking back of what happened before, how it impacts the present and the future.

  26. And I think we're going to look this morning here in Proverbs 31, we find a picture of a godly mother who does some things.

  27. I think we're going to look at some specific things here this morning.

  28. When it talks here about just like speaking wisely, you know.

  29. How somebody speaks impacts others around them.

  30. You know, when we think about how faithfulness is displayed.

  31. You know, the influence on her family and these critical elements to leave a good legacy are bound up in that.

  32. A legacy that reflects God's love and shapes her children's and her grandchildren's future.

  33. You know, we're going to look here today specifically at moms, but hopefully in the next few weeks we're going to be talking some for the next few weeks about family.

  34. And the different elements within family.

  35. And we're going to finish up on Father's Day talking about dads.

  36. So when dads are here, just buckle up, we'll get there, okay?

  37. But because it's one of those things, both of us together, moms and dads both impact the family.

  38. But today we're going to talk specifically about moms.

  39. We're going to talk about some important elements here.

  40. So if you found Proverbs chapter 31 this morning, let's stand together and look here in verse 26.

    Proverbs 31 chapter mention

  41. As we see the word of God here, it says this.

  42. It says,

  43. Let's pray.

  44. Heavenly Fathers, we just take a few moments here this morning to look into your word, Lord,

  45. about just even a godly mother and the legacy and the impact of a mom.

  46. Lord, we pray just would help our hearts and minds to realize the importance of this responsibility,

  47. this blessing that you've given.

  48. Lord, the importance of a godly mother's influence.

  49. Lord, and how it even ripples throughout generations.

  50. It shapes families and communities.

  51. Lord, we just ask that you'd be faithful here today, Lord,

  52. and to encourage moms and even dads and just even kids to realize the importance of these things.

  53. Lord, just let us know what to do and how to bear fruit for you through these things.

  54. Lord, help a legacy to not be one that's negative,

  55. but Lord, help us to build a positive legacy with our lives.

  56. And Lord, we just ask it all in your precious name.

  57. Amen.

  58. May you be seated.

  59. You know, we see here that Scripture's filled with moms.

  60. You know, if you start reading through Scripture, it doesn't take long.

  61. You come across the first mom right away.

  62. You know, you come across Eve.

  63. You know, the Bible says the mother of all living.

  64. And we find Eve, and then you go down through.

  65. I mean, you can just find moms listed throughout the Scripture.

  66. The list keeps growing.

  67. The more you dig into it, the more you find different ones.

  68. And each of them left an impact and a legacy behind.

  69. You know, when you read through the books of the Kings and the Chronicles,

  70. you know, you'll find there, as we've been studying the Kings on Wednesday night,

  71. you'll notice something, that God often lists the mother of the king.

  72. And that mother oftentimes has a direct impact on the direction the king takes.

  73. That legacy is tied together.

  74. You know, we see the legacy in their children.

  75. You find that even as you get into Exodus, you know, you have a mom by the name of Jochebed

  76. who left quite a legacy through her children.

  77. You know, when you consider one of which was Moses.

  78. You know, she left a legacy through that of what she taught him when he was young,

  79. impacted throughout time.

  80. What she did, her legacy, you might say, impacts us today.

  81. You know, moms have a greater impact than they realize and the importance of it.

  82. You know, then you think about Naomi who left a legacy through her daughter-in-law, Ruth,

  83. the mother of Obed, who then had Jesse and then David.

  84. I mean, you think about the impact of that.

  85. And then you have even a mom by the name of Jedidiah, you know,

  86. another one that you don't hear much, the mother of Josiah,

  87. king of Israel who turned the nation back to God,

  88. went from being evil to good on the influence of a mom.

  89. That influence and that legacy is real.

  90. And we find here that, yes, moms, you've been given a great opportunity

  91. to leave a legacy, a godly heritage for not just today, but for the ones to come.

  92. You know, oftentimes today we get pretty short-sighted.

  93. You ever notice we live in a short-sighted society?

  94. We want to know how it impacts the next hour.

  95. We want to know how it impacts just the next day.

  96. But when we look at Scripture, we realize God wants us to understand

  97. how does it impact long-term.

  98. What's the impact and direction of our choices today

  99. and how it's going to impact a generation or two down the road?

  100. You know, today in our society, we are facing issues

  101. because of decisions that moms and dads made one or two generations ago.

  102. We're living a legacy that somebody left us.

  103. The real question is, how do you leave a legacy that's not negative or going away from God,

  104. but how do we leave a legacy that's going towards God?

  105. How do you change up those things?

  106. And I think today we see here in Proverbs,

  107. God gives us some examples of some things of how to be a godly mom,

  108. and it often is related of being a godly woman

  109. because the two are tied together.

  110. Because a godly mother leaves a legacy,

  111. a legacy that impacts generations.

  112. And so as we see here, let's take a look at our text here,

  113. and we see here a godly mother here teaches with wisdom.

  114. Wisdom.

  115. You know, wisdom here, notice in verse 26,

  116. it tells us this.

  117. It says,

  118. She openeth her mouth with what?

  119. Wisdom.

  120. Wisdom.

  121. A wise mother realizes the power of her words.

  122. You know, what we say directly impacts people.

  123. How we say it impacts people.

  124. You can say the right thing the wrong way and still get in trouble, you know?

  125. It doesn't take very long in a relationship.

  126. You can say the right thing, but say it with the wrong tone,

  127. and it gets received totally differently.

  128. That's wisdom is to understand not only to say the right thing,

  129. but to have the right things attached to it.

  130. To understand how is it being received?

  131. How is it being understood?

  132. That wisdom that is there a wise mother realizes the power of her words

  133. because words do some things.

  134. Words will either build up or words will destroy.

  135. Words will encourage or discourage.

  136. Words are powerful instruments that God gives us.

  137. Words carry instruction.

  138. They carry guidance.

  139. A wise mom here, notice what it tells us here.

  140. She opened her mouth with what?

  141. Wisdom.

  142. Wisdom.

  143. In other words, not randomly,

  144. but selectively.

  145. You know, our words need to be measured.

  146. Our words have a great impact on the legacy that we leave.

  147. They prioritize in her teaching.

  148. A wise mother prioritizes her teaching.

  149. You know, we teach our kids many things about life.

  150. You know, oftentimes, I want you to understand,

  151. we need to teach a lot of things.

  152. You know, you teach your kids as they grow up.

  153. You teach them everything from how to tie their shoes.

  154. You know, practical life skills.

  155. We teach them how to handle money.

  156. We teach them even how to look for what they love to do in life

  157. and to build those things.

  158. We have a list of all sorts of things that you teach them.

  159. Many of those, I want you to understand,

  160. they're not unimportant,

  161. but those are things that are just basic functions

  162. and not legacy.

  163. Because legacy goes beyond them being successful

  164. in the worldly mindset.

  165. I want you to understand,

  166. these things might be beneficial in general,

  167. but the wisest moms teach their children

  168. to be wise, not in their own eyes,

  169. after their own things.

  170. You know, the Bible speaks about different types of wisdom.

  171. You know, we find in 1 Corinthians here,

  172. a list of different ones you find here

  173. in 1 Corinthians 1.26,

  174. it talks about being wise after the flesh.

  175. You know, some people are very shrewd individuals.

  176. They're wide after the flesh.

  177. Or the next one we find here,

  178. wise in the world.

  179. You know, the Bible speaks that you can be wise in the flesh.

  180. You can be, that's dealing with people.

  181. We can be wise in the world.

  182. That's the dynamic of being good in business

  183. or understanding things.

  184. You know, those things,

  185. there might not necessarily be anything wrong with them

  186. because you need to be wise about the world around us.

  187. But the reality is we want to,

  188. if you're going to leave a lasting legacy

  189. that makes a difference,

  190. you need to be wise in Christ.

  191. You know, we can have our kids wise according to the flesh,

  192. wise according to the world,

  193. but they're not wise about the things of Christ.

  194. We've left the wrong legacy.

  195. The legacy that we leave is important.

  196. You know, we can teach our kids

  197. how to get the most out of the world

  198. and get the most things according to the flesh,

  199. knowing how to navigate all the things of life.

  200. We can leave children who look successful on the outside

  201. but empty on the inside.

  202. You know, Ephesians chapter 5 and verse 15 tells us this,

    Ephesians 5 chapter mention

  203. so that you see ye walk circumspectly,

  204. not as fools, but as wise.

  205. It says a mom opens her mouth with what?

  206. Wisdom.

  207. What kind of wisdom are you imparting?

  208. Are you giving the right kind of wisdom

  209. that leaves the right legacy?

  210. You know, consider a man in Scripture

  211. mentions his moms, a young man Timothy,

  212. his mother Eunice and his grandmother Lois

  213. who left a godly legacy to him.

  214. You know, take a look over at 2 Timothy chapter 1.

    2 Timothy 1 chapter mention

  215. 2 Timothy chapter 1, you find here in verse 5,

    2 Timothy 1 chapter mention

  216. the Scripture talks about this

  217. and Paul says,

  218. when I call to remembrance that unfeigned faith

  219. that is in thee.

  220. Where did Timothy get that unfeigned faith?

  221. From the wise instruction

  222. of his mom and his grandmother.

  223. A direct impact, a direct correlation,

  224. which dwelt first in thy grandmother Lois

  225. and thy mother Eunice,

  226. and I am persuaded that is in thee also.

  227. That unfeigned faith.

  228. You know what?

  229. There's a couple of wise moms

  230. that said my legacy is not immediate.

  231. My legacy is where things go.

  232. The direction things go after me.

  233. What do you leave behind?

  234. What's the direction that is there?

  235. They understood the importance of godly wisdom

  236. both for themselves and for their children.

  237. You know, I want you to look,

  238. take a look over in Proverbs chapter 1.

    Proverbs 1 chapter mention

  239. Proverbs 1 and verse 7,

  240. when we consider the Bible says this,

  241. the fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge,

  242. but the fools despise wisdom and instruction.

  243. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge.

  244. The Bible also says it's the beginning of wisdom

  245. because if we don't put God in the right place,

  246. things get out of order.

  247. When we get God out of order,

  248. the problem is that sometimes as parents,

  249. God becomes second or third

  250. instead of in the first spot.

  251. If they're wise in Christ,

  252. it makes a big difference

  253. how they're wise in the flesh

  254. and wise in the world

  255. because that's the driving factor

  256. and filter through which they filter it.

  257. But if you're wise in the world

  258. and wise in the flesh

  259. and you filter Christ through those things,

  260. it changes.

  261. Because what's the first priority

  262. that we have of what we're teaching them

  263. makes a difference.

  264. You know, when you talk about those words,

  265. you know, how is this accomplished?

  266. This is important in accomplishment

  267. because oftentimes we find today,

  268. notice the next part of this verse,

  269. because these two are tied together

  270. because one deals with the information,

  271. the other deals with the attitude attached to it.

  272. It says,

  273. in her tongue is the law of kindness.

  274. In her tongue is the law of kindness.

  275. Now, let's talk a little bit about what that means

  276. because as a mom,

  277. how you say something

  278. and what you say makes a difference.

  279. The same applies for dads,

  280. but you know what?

  281. Oftentimes today,

  282. we find that people get upset

  283. and they start speaking through bitterness.

  284. They begin speaking through anger.

  285. You can speak through resentment.

  286. Those are some dangerous things

  287. in families,

  288. in relationships,

  289. because we're saying,

  290. I didn't get what I deserved.

  291. And the problem with bitterness,

  292. anger,

  293. and resentment,

  294. it focus becomes us

  295. instead of what we need to be focused upon.

  296. And what we're passing to the next generation

  297. is a bunch of angry,

  298. upset individuals.

  299. We passed a legacy counter to what we wanted.

  300. You know,

  301. I've yet to meet a mom that says,

  302. I want to raise the most angry,

  303. bitter,

  304. and resentful children I can.

  305. You know,

  306. if your mom said that,

  307. how would you look at them?

  308. You'd say,

  309. man,

  310. there's something wrong with you.

  311. But the reality is,

  312. if we don't open our mouth with kindness,

  313. having the right spirit

  314. and the right attitude,

  315. you can say the right things the wrong way,

  316. you end up with a different result.

  317. The law of kindness,

  318. literally here,

  319. this law of kindness

  320. means the practicing of mercy,

  321. both in words and in deeds.

  322. Because a wise mom controls her tongue

  323. and refrains from speaking things

  324. that don't need to be spoken.

  325. You know,

  326. sometimes it's not what you say,

  327. it's what you don't say

  328. that makes an impact.

  329. People get in trouble

  330. because they say,

  331. I'm just going to speak my mind.

  332. I won't ask for a show of hands on that one.

  333. But have you ever stopped to consider

  334. what do you leave behind

  335. when you speak your mind?

  336. What have you instructed?

  337. What have you taught?

  338. It might make you feel better,

  339. but you know what you did?

  340. You did more damage to your legacy.

  341. The importance of it.

  342. Take a look at a few verses here.

  343. You know,

  344. think about Proverbs 15.

  345. Proverbs 15 in verse 1 says,

  346. A soft answer turneth away wrath,

  347. but grievous words stir up anger.

  348. Consider Proverbs 21.

  349. It says,

  350. Whosoever keepeth his mouth

  351. and his tongue keepeth his soul

  352. from troubles.

  353. Let me sum this up for you.

  354. Let me put it this way.

  355. Just because it rolls through the mind

  356. doesn't mean it has to come out the mouth.

  357. We get ourselves in a lot of trouble

  358. when our filter opens up

  359. and runs restricted.

  360. Wisdom in words.

  361. You know,

  362. a godly mother is concerned

  363. about how she is using her words.

  364. Are they words that are building

  365. the things that are needed

  366. or are they words

  367. who are tearing down things?

  368. It's critical to grab a hold

  369. of these things.

  370. While it's important

  371. to instruct our children

  372. how to navigate life,

  373. it's critical that we teach them

  374. to do so in light

  375. of the life to come.

  376. And that's before Christ.

  377. To be focused on the right things.

  378. You know,

  379. as a mom,

  380. I want to encourage you,

  381. you know,

  382. are the words you use,

  383. are they pointing

  384. and displaying God's wisdom

  385. or are they just displaying

  386. worldly wisdom?

  387. Are you speaking life and truth

  388. into the lives

  389. of those around you?

  390. Or are you speaking things

  391. that tear down

  392. because life isn't going

  393. the way you thought

  394. it ought to go?

  395. Dangerous things.

  396. God speaks about a wise woman.

  397. A godly woman

  398. doesn't tear down

  399. but builds up.

  400. The use of words is important.

  401. It tells us there,

  402. she opens her mouth

  403. with wisdom

  404. and her tongue

  405. is the law of kindness.

  406. And look at this,

  407. verse 27,

  408. she looketh well

  409. to the ways of her household

  410. and eateth not the bread

  411. of idleness.

  412. A godly mother

  413. models faithfulness.

  414. She looketh well

  415. to the ways

  416. of her household.

  417. You know,

  418. in other words,

  419. she's concerned

  420. what kind of legacy,

  421. what kind of things

  422. are going on

  423. in my life,

  424. what direction

  425. are they going?

  426. You know,

  427. that's some good things

  428. for all of us,

  429. isn't it?

  430. To take a look

  431. and see what am I doing?

  432. What direction

  433. is it traveling?

  434. What things have I invested

  435. in?

  436. What things have I prioritized?

  437. How am I being faithful

  438. to the right things?

  439. Because a godly mother

  440. pays attention

  441. to what's happening

  442. in her household.

  443. You know,

  444. when it speaks here

  445. of looking well,

  446. looketh well,

  447. the term here

  448. isn't just looking

  449. in the immediate.

  450. When you look up

  451. this term in the Hebrew,

  452. it carries about

  453. looking into the future.

  454. In other words,

  455. it's this way.

  456. It's not just knowing

  457. what road I'm on,

  458. it's knowing

  459. where the road takes me.

  460. Because sometimes

  461. we can know

  462. where we're at,

  463. but we don't realize

  464. what's at the end

  465. of the road.

  466. We need to be careful.

  467. The Bible tells us

  468. that sometimes

  469. we can be on a road

  470. that seems right to us,

  471. but it leads

  472. to destruction.

  473. Just because you think

  474. you're on the right road

  475. or you know what road,

  476. think you know

  477. what road you're on,

  478. the only way you truly know

  479. is to know

  480. where it ends up.

  481. You need to look out

  482. to see where is it taking me.

  483. These things apply

  484. into our life.

  485. It's looking in the distance

  486. to see what is needed

  487. to arrive

  488. at the right destination.

  489. Then responding

  490. by teaching

  491. and modeling

  492. what's needed.

  493. A godly mom

  494. is she's faithful

  495. both in the things

  496. of God

  497. and to her family.

  498. Faithfulness

  499. is revealed

  500. through consistency.

  501. Consistency

  502. is intentional.

  503. It takes discipline

  504. because we always

  505. have to remember something.

  506. To say yes to one thing

  507. means you're automatically

  508. saying no to something else.

  509. If you agree

  510. to go this direction,

  511. you cannot go this direction.

  512. I mean,

  513. that's just simple understanding.

  514. To say yes to one thing

  515. means you're saying no

  516. to something else.

  517. The question is,

  518. what are you saying yes to

  519. and what are you saying no to?

  520. The importance of faithfulness

  521. to look down the road.

  522. You know,

  523. children learn

  524. from watching

  525. how their parents respond.

  526. You know,

  527. sometimes you don't realize

  528. our kids learn more

  529. through our adversity

  530. than they do

  531. through our advantage.

  532. I want you to understand

  533. that sometimes

  534. we think that

  535. we have all the things

  536. we can give them.

  537. We can provide.

  538. But you know what?

  539. Sometimes kids

  540. learn the most

  541. to see how you deal

  542. with adversity

  543. when it's tough.

  544. The problem is

  545. oftentimes

  546. that gets us in trouble

  547. in this part of faithfulness

  548. is the first part,

  549. our words.

  550. Because instead of thinking

  551. how is this affecting,

  552. what direction is it taking me,

  553. how am I going to be faithful

  554. to these things,

  555. we let loose of things

  556. that gets us in trouble.

  557. Takes us in alternate direction.

  558. You know,

  559. what do our kids need to see?

  560. They need to hear

  561. and see

  562. a direction

  563. that their future choices

  564. are going to make.

  565. You know,

  566. it's been said

  567. that it's more caught

  568. than taught.

  569. to see things play out.

  570. To say something

  571. than to do something.

  572. And to have the say

  573. and the do

  574. match up

  575. makes a difference.

  576. It changes

  577. the perspective.

  578. You know,

  579. think about another mom

  580. in scripture.

  581. Over in 1 Samuel chapter 1,

    1 Samuel 1 chapter mention

  582. you have a mom

  583. by the name of Hannah.

  584. She was without child

  585. and prayed to God

  586. that he would give her a child.

  587. God gave her a child

  588. and the child's name

  589. was Samuel.

  590. Samuel.

  591. They dedicated this child

  592. to the Lord

  593. and they gave him

  594. to the Lord.

  595. Verse 28 of chapter 1

  596. of 1 Samuel says,

  597. Therefore also

  598. I have lent him

  599. to the Lord

  600. as long as he liveth

  601. he shall be lent

  602. to the Lord

  603. and he worshipped

  604. the Lord there.

  605. I want you to understand

  606. she was willing

  607. to say

  608. my child

  609. that God

  610. has blessed me with

  611. I'm willing

  612. to dedicate

  613. the direction

  614. of that child.

  615. To say

  616. I'm going to give them

  617. to the Lord

  618. for what they would have.

  619. To do what God

  620. would have

  621. in their life.

  622. But I want you

  623. to see here

  624. she didn't just

  625. leave it there.

  626. Look over at

  627. 1 Samuel chapter 2

    1 Samuel 2 chapter mention

  628. for a moment.

  629. 1 Samuel chapter 2

    1 Samuel 2 chapter mention

  630. look down at verse 19

  631. because Hannah

  632. didn't just make

  633. a one time commitment

  634. she was faithful

  635. in looking at

  636. the direction

  637. and continuing

  638. that direction.

  639. Because it says

  640. moreover his mother

  641. made him a little coat

  642. and brought it to him

  643. year by year

  644. when she came up

  645. with her husband

  646. to offer the yearly sacrifice.

  647. In other words

  648. she had some consistency

  649. and faithfulness

  650. to what she had

  651. committed to do.

  652. She didn't just

  653. make a commitment

  654. and forget it

  655. she was faithful

  656. to fulfill it

  657. year by year.

  658. You know

  659. often times

  660. that's important

  661. because life

  662. isn't made

  663. in a day

  664. life and legacy

  665. is made

  666. year

  667. by year

  668. by year.

  669. She demonstrated

  670. faithfulness

  671. and commitment

  672. to God's plan.

  673. You know

  674. consider another one

  675. we already talked

  676. a little bit

  677. about Jochebed

  678. the mother of Moses

  679. there in Exodus chapter 2.

    Exodus 2 chapter mention

  680. Now here's a mom

  681. who faced

  682. an impossible decision.

  683. You know

  684. as I read through

  685. Exodus chapter 2

    Exodus 2 chapter mention

  686. as a parent

  687. I'm thinking

  688. you know

  689. that's a tough choice.

  690. How do I save

  691. the life of my child?

  692. That's an impossible

  693. decision for a parent.

  694. Walking through

  695. those things

  696. seem impossible

  697. but her faithfulness

  698. in a very difficult

  699. situation

  700. allowed Moses

  701. to be grounded

  702. in the knowledge

  703. of the Lord

  704. because if you remember

  705. she put him out

  706. in the bulrushes

  707. and who came by?

  708. You know

  709. Pharaoh's daughter

  710. comes by

  711. and she finds him

  712. and she takes him in

  713. and then

  714. Moses' sister's there

  715. and she says

  716. well let me go get

  717. somebody to take care of him.

  718. Who's she go get?

  719. She go get his mom.

  720. You know

  721. we read that story

  722. sometimes

  723. and we see how it turned out

  724. but I want you to

  725. think for a moment

  726. where she was

  727. in the moment.

  728. That took a lot of faith.

  729. It took a lot of faith

  730. to continue instructing him.

  731. She was faithful.

  732. The Bible tells us

  733. that what Moses learned

  734. as a young man

  735. stayed with him

  736. throughout his life.

  737. How did he understand

  738. what sin was?

  739. Hebrews tells us

  740. that he chose

  741. not to

  742. enjoy the things

  743. and the privileges

  744. of Egypt.

  745. He didn't get that

  746. in the Egyptian school.

  747. The only place

  748. he could have got it

  749. was from his mom.

  750. What a legacy.

  751. It's not easy

  752. to be faithful

  753. especially when life

  754. doesn't seem to make sense

  755. right now.

  756. You know

  757. when life doesn't make sense

  758. I want to encourage you

  759. that's the time

  760. to be the most faithful.

  761. To stick even harder.

  762. To hold on

  763. even tighter.

  764. To the things

  765. that you know

  766. are right.

  767. To be faithful

  768. to what we know

  769. God has given us

  770. and how God

  771. has guided us.

  772. You know

  773. this morning

  774. are you looking

  775. long term

  776. to where you need to go

  777. or are you caught

  778. in the madness

  779. of today?

  780. A godly mom

  781. looks beyond today

  782. to where does this

  783. take us tomorrow?

  784. Where is this going?

  785. You know

  786. it's been said

  787. that what you teach

  788. your children today

  789. will be how they live

  790. tomorrow.

  791. The choices

  792. that they make.

  793. But notice here

  794. also as we find

  795. here in the scripture

  796. we see something else.

  797. It says

  798. her children

  799. rise up

  800. and call

  801. her blessed.

  802. You know

  803. there is

  804. a benefit

  805. to investing

  806. in a lasting legacy.

  807. The benefit

  808. of this lasting legacy

  809. a godly mother

  810. leaves a lasting

  811. legacy.

  812. Her children

  813. arise up

  814. and call

  815. her blessed.

  816. A mother's influence

  817. is seen

  818. in the lives

  819. of her children.

  820. Her children

  821. arise

  822. that is

  823. they are successful

  824. and continue

  825. to follow

  826. the Lord.

  827. They know

  828. their direction

  829. and what they

  830. ought to do.

  831. Their direction

  832. will bring joy

  833. and happiness

  834. to their mother

  835. because her influence

  836. has extended

  837. beyond herself.

  838. You know

  839. moms do a lot

  840. to invest

  841. in their children.

  842. Being a mom

  843. takes effort

  844. takes intention.

  845. One of the greatest

  846. joy is to see

  847. the outcome.

  848. The outcome

  849. is your reward.

  850. To rise up

  851. and call you blessed.

  852. You know

  853. I want you to understand

  854. this isn't

  855. what you did yesterday

  856. and you get

  857. people applaud you

  858. the next day.

  859. This is

  860. what you did

  861. early in life

  862. comes back

  863. and benefits you

  864. late in life.

  865. There's a longevity.

  866. There's a time frame here.

  867. Oftentimes

  868. we want to do

  869. what makes us

  870. look good today

  871. instead of looking

  872. what's going to make

  873. the most benefit

  874. and be the most

  875. gracious

  876. and loving thing

  877. we can do

  878. for them

  879. in the future

  880. because their direction

  881. will bring joy

  882. and happiness.

  883. You know

  884. today

  885. our goal

  886. ought to be

  887. to raise

  888. your children

  889. that they grow up

  890. to be godly adults

  891. and pass the truth

  892. of God's word

  893. onto the next generation.

  894. Oftentimes

  895. today

  896. we get caught up

  897. how much money

  898. can I get my kids

  899. to make?

  900. There's nothing wrong.

  901. The Bible tells us

  902. there's nothing wrong

  903. with making money.

  904. There's nothing wrong

  905. with having money

  906. unless it's out

  907. of the wrong priority

  908. because God blesses us

  909. with resources

  910. that we might bless others.

  911. The same reality

  912. it's nothing wrong

  913. with equipping them

  914. for that

  915. but if you miss

  916. the point of reality

  917. of what they're going

  918. to do with Christ

  919. you've missed the boat

  920. because you've raised

  921. children who are

  922. wise according to the flesh

  923. wise according to the world

  924. and may very well

  925. spend an eternity

  926. separated from God.

  927. They may look successful

  928. on the outside

  929. but it'd be a failure

  930. in legacy

  931. because they don't know

  932. how to love the Lord.

  933. They don't know God's wisdom.

  934. You know we mentioned

  935. earlier the example

  936. of Naomi

  937. and her influence

  938. on Ruth.

  939. You know

  940. Ruth was a Moabite.

  941. She had married

  942. into the family.

  943. Ruth's decision

  944. to follow the Lord

  945. because of Naomi's testimony

  946. and legacy

  947. impacted everything.

  948. It impacted us today.

  949. Through her lineage

  950. came Christ.

  951. That's a lasting legacy.

  952. It was through her legacy

  953. that we find

  954. that Ruth was redeemed

  955. by Boaz

  956. the kinsman redeemer.

  957. You know

  958. you can see the picture

  959. sometime

  960. when you read through

  961. our study Ruth

  962. you can find out

  963. the implications of that.

  964. But we ought to consider

  965. the legacy

  966. that we're leaving

  967. for our children.

  968. how you can invest

  969. in their spiritual growth

  970. and character.

  971. Are you wise

  972. in what you're teaching them?

  973. You know

  974. Proverbs 9.10 says

  975. the fear of the Lord

  976. is the beginning of wisdom

  977. and the knowledge

  978. of the holy

  979. is understanding.

  980. You know

  981. this morning

  982. we're talking about

  983. the legacy

  984. of a godly mom

  985. but these principles

  986. apply for all of us.

  987. But directly to a mom

  988. it impacts

  989. a great legacy

  990. because moms

  991. have been given

  992. a special place

  993. and a special influence.

  994. in the life

  995. of their children.

  996. Don't squander

  997. the blessing

  998. that God's given you.

  999. Build a legacy

  1000. that makes a difference.

  1001. You know

  1002. keep in mind

  1003. that before you can be

  1004. a godly influence

  1005. to your children

  1006. you first understand

  1007. who God is

  1008. who you are

  1009. and what he's done for you.

  1010. You know

  1011. earlier we spoke

  1012. of two moms

  1013. and the influence

  1014. on a young man

  1015. named Timothy.

  1016. It tells us

  1017. a little later

  1018. in 2 Timothy chapter 3

    2 Timothy 3 chapter mention

  1019. it says

  1020. this in verse 14

  1021. but continue thou

  1022. in the things

  1023. which thou hast learned

  1024. and been assured of

  1025. knowing of whom

  1026. thou hast learned them

  1027. and that from a child

  1028. thou hast known

  1029. what the holy scriptures

  1030. which are able

  1031. to make thee wise

  1032. unto salvation

  1033. through faith

  1034. which is in Christ Jesus.

  1035. One of the greatest things

  1036. you can do as a mom

  1037. is to lead your children

  1038. to Christ.

  1039. To point the reality

  1040. of who Jesus is.

  1041. You know

  1042. the Bible reveals to us

  1043. and for us

  1044. what God has done

  1045. and true wisdom

  1046. begins when we understand

  1047. that all have sinned

  1048. and come short

  1049. of the glory of God

  1050. that our sin

  1051. has earned us

  1052. a wage of eternity

  1053. without God

  1054. an eternal separation.

  1055. The Bible calls it death.

  1056. It's an eternal separation

  1057. to a place called hell.

  1058. When we look in the distance

  1059. I don't know of a mom

  1060. that says

  1061. that's where I want

  1062. my children to go

  1063. but what are you doing

  1064. to lead them

  1065. in the right direction?

  1066. What are you doing

  1067. to invest

  1068. in those things

  1069. to be faithful?

  1070. This morning

  1071. it's important

  1072. because your children

  1073. if you do those things

  1074. will rise up

  1075. and call you blessed.

  1076. That's the legacy.

  1077. The legacy is what comes

  1078. after the investment.

  1079. The investment of time

  1080. the investment of controlling

  1081. our tongue

  1082. and what we teach

  1083. and how we teach it.

  1084. We need to understand

  1085. the importance

  1086. of even teaching them

  1087. the scripture.

  1088. Romans 10 tells us

  1089. so faith cometh by hearing

  1090. and hearing by the word of God.

  1091. Those things are important

  1092. this morning.

  1093. If you don't know

  1094. Jesus Christ

  1095. as your savior

  1096. there's no greater day

  1097. than today

  1098. because that's the foundation

  1099. of everything

  1100. we're talking about.

  1101. Because if you don't know Christ

  1102. the rest becomes irrelevant.

  1103. To trust him

  1104. to know that he is the one

  1105. that took your sin.

  1106. He is the one

  1107. that when you know him

  1108. as savior

  1109. says that he's the author

  1110. and giver of wisdom

  1111. that helps us know

  1112. how to walk through

  1113. the challenges

  1114. of building

  1115. a godly legacy.

  1116. Maybe today

  1117. you need to commit

  1118. to leave a legacy

  1119. of faith

  1120. to your children.

  1121. What do you need

  1122. to do

  1123. to be intentional

  1124. about teaching wisdom

  1125. and modeling faithfulness

  1126. and building

  1127. a lasting legacy?

  1128. The reality

  1129. of the legacy

  1130. of a godly mom.

  1131. As heads are bowed

  1132. and eyes are closed

  1133. this morning

  1134. let's just take a moment.

  1135. Maybe the Lord

  1136. spoke to you today

  1137. about some things.

  1138. The message

  1139. was directed

  1140. towards moms

  1141. but in reality

  1142. the principles

  1143. apply to all of us

  1144. to the choices

  1145. that we make.

  1146. Maybe the Lord

  1147. spoke to you

  1148. about some things

  1149. and decisions

  1150. because today

  1151. you can't change

  1152. the past

  1153. but you can change

  1154. the direction

  1155. of the future

  1156. by the choices

  1157. of today.

  1158. If the Lord

  1159. spoke to you

  1160. I encourage you

  1161. to spend some time

  1162. with him.

  1163. Heavenly fathers

  1164. we just come before you

  1165. this morning Lord

  1166. we just thank you

  1167. for the opportunity

  1168. Lord

  1169. we know that

  1170. your spirit's

  1171. working upon

  1172. each heart

  1173. each life

  1174. here today.

  1175. Lord that we might

  1176. be encouraged

  1177. and strengthened

  1178. Lord that we might

  1179. look to your wisdom

  1180. your wisdom

  1181. as the priority

  1182. of those things

  1183. that we pass

  1184. to the next generation.

  1185. Lord I pray

  1186. just have your hand

  1187. upon each heart

  1188. each life

  1189. here today

  1190. that we might

  1191. draw close to you

  1192. realizing

  1193. that our relationship

  1194. with you

  1195. sets a direction

  1196. for the legacy

  1197. we desire

  1198. and Lord

  1199. we just ask it all

  1200. in your precious name

  1201. as the piano plays

  1202. with you

  1203. and Lord

  1204. and Lord

  1205. and Lord

  1206. and Lord

  1207. and Lord

  1208. and Lord

  1209. and Lord

  1210. and Lord

  1211. and Lord

  1212. and Lord

  1213. and Lord

  1214. and Lord

  1215. and Lord

  1216. and Lord

  1217. and Lord

  1218. and Lord

  1219. and Lord