Sermon
Solid Marriage Build on the Rock
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7 this morning.
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As we look, tomorrow is a special day though.
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It's a day set aside to remember those who paid a price for our freedoms.
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Because it costs somebody something for everything that we do.
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And we remember here as Memorial Day allows us to slow down and consider the price that was paid for us.
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You know, when we consider the thousands that have lost their lives in the struggle to preserve a safe and prosperous nation,
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you know, that's why we should not take for granted the liberties that we enjoy and the very foundation of those liberties.
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You know, tomorrow many are probably going to attend a ceremony or many even in our day might visit a gravesite at somebody that died in one of the struggles.
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You know, while it's good to honor the sacrifices that were made, not only in lost lives but also in the families that were impacted afterwards.
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You know, when we realize the big picture of what it costs and we need to honor that price that was paid for our liberties.
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And so as we're going to be looking through here, this for the next few weeks, we've been talking about family.
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You know, one of the best ways you can honor those who have fallen for our liberties is to have a strong foundation.
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And our nation is founded strongly upon families.
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Every nation is built upon a family.
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That is the basic building block of any society.
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God established it.
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We saw a few weeks ago that God is the one who designed marriage.
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God is the one who put it together.
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God was the one who organized those things.
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And so as we're going to look here this morning about the importance of a family being the building block,
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but I think it's a building block of society,
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but it's also the building block that keeps our freedom secure.
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Because it's where we understand and are taught and instructed and all the things that go with it.
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A family is a valuable enough thing that we ought to work to preserve it,
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to work for everything to keep families strong.
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Because strong godly families begin with strong godly marriages.
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And having a godly marriage is important.
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Marriages that are built upon the rock, the solid rock of Jesus Christ.
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And so we're going to look here this morning, Matthew chapter 7.
Matthew 7 chapter mention
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If you found in your Bibles there, Matthew 7, let's stand together.
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As we'll pick up in verse 24 here this morning.
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And we see this, it says this in verse 24.
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It says,
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Let's pray.
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Heavenly Father, as we come before you today, Lord, we're just thankful for what we enjoy.
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We're thankful for the salvation that we can enjoy in you, of what you've paid for.
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Lord, we pray just have your hand upon each heart, each life here today.
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Lord, as we look at the importance of marriage, Lord,
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we know the importance of building strong families and marriages that are built upon the rock,
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built upon you, built upon your word.
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Lord, but it's not only it starts with families, but it starts with individuals
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who decide that they're going to build their life upon the foundation that you've given to us.
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Lord, help us to build upon the right things.
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Lord, that we might stand firm in the truth.
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Lord, that we might not fall.
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And Lord, we just pray you have your hand upon the message.
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The things said and done here today might glorify and honor you.
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And Lord, we just give you all the praise in Jesus' name.
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Amen.
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You may be seated.
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You know, this solid foundation that Jesus spoke about here is himself.
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You know, he's given an illustration here using a principle of a firm foundation.
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But he's using an analogy that's very familiar throughout the scripture.
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When you read through the Psalms, you'll find that the psalmist reminds us that God is our rock and our redeemer.
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It tells us that he is the rock of our salvation.
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He is our defender and our refuge.
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He is the righteous rock.
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You know, you go on, there's many things.
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When you look it up, how many different references it is to God.
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Him being the rock, the solid foundation on which we build our lives.
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You know, we understand the practicality involved in this.
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That Jesus makes it clear here this morning.
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We're going to look at this passage.
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He's talking here on the Sermon on the Mount.
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And he gives them very clear illustration about building upon the right things.
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And the implications if you don't.
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Because, you know, one thing you'll find as we look at this this morning is when things are untested, things look pretty good.
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You know?
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Now, we might analyze that like something today, you know?
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And today you have different places you can buy things, you know?
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And you've got websites like Amazon or you have Timu and you get these ads.
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Well, this guy's selling it so much cheaper it looks the same until you get it.
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And then sometimes it might even look the same out of the box, but then you find out one falls apart and the other doesn't.
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What makes the difference isn't the picture, it's the use, it's the testing of it that proves out what is it built upon.
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What is the foundation that it is?
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And we understand the principle of it.
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We're going to look here because Jesus here is talking about our lives.
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He's talking about our families.
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He's talking about the practicality of building our lives on the foundation of the designer's instruction.
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You know, one of the things we feel, we listen to a lot of things about our lives today.
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I mean, you go down here to the bookstore and you have entire sections on self-help books.
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Trying to give you instruction on how to have a better life.
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How to fix something in your life.
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How to do whatever.
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I mean, if they have a book for everything nowadays, I'm telling you how you can do it.
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Somebody's an expert.
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But the reality is, is that for the real foundation of our life can't be built in worldly wisdom,
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it needs to be built in the designer's wisdom.
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Built upon the truth of his word.
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Built upon the things that will last, that gives us stability in life.
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And Jesus gives this practical illustration here about longevity and stability of a house.
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Not when things go smoothly, but when the reality of life's storms and struggles come along.
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I mean, I think it's not long before you realize, you know, when you're a teenager,
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you think you know all the answers.
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But then life happens.
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And you find out that you don't know near as much as you thought you did because you didn't have the questions yet.
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And when you realize what's going on here, you see that dynamic happening and the struggles come.
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You know, you have financial problems.
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You know, it's not long before you start figuring out money runs out fast.
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You know, that things don't come or unexpected bills come in or you have issues with time or health.
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You know, storms around us will test the foundation.
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You know, in relationships, there's a lot of things that test the foundation.
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There's things such as unmet expectations.
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You know, because oftentimes when people start a relationship, they have an idea of the other person.
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And then pretty soon when they really get to know them, they find out there might not be all that they thought they were.
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That's the reality.
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That you find out that person isn't everything that you might have thought.
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And we need to understand that those things are going to happen because sometimes we have unspokens that we have in our mind.
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This is the way it's going to be.
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And then when it doesn't happen that way, we struggle with it.
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It's a storm that comes in a relationship or just needs.
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You know, how about exhaustion?
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You know, how do you deal when everybody's exhausted and irritable?
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I know you guys would never be tired and irritable, right?
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Or the term we use to do, hangry.
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You know, you're hungry and angry.
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But those are things in life.
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And sometimes in those moments, the test of how we're going to deal with one another comes to play, doesn't it?
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Those things become a reality.
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The storms of life.
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And we find out that these storms are often followed by hurt, heartaches.
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And you know what hurt and heartaches break too?
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Bitterness.
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And all these things are a result of how the foundation has been placed.
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Because we want a solid foundation.
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When we respond, how will we respond to the test?
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You know, how we respond to the test of the things in life is a direct reflection of what you've built it upon.
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Of how we built those things.
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You know, because look here back in Matthew 27, 24.
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Notice what Jesus says here.
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He says, therefore, whosoever heareth these sayings of mine and doeth them.
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Hearing these sayings.
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I want you to understand.
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Solid marriages are grounded in the obedience to God's word.
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It's obedience to God's word.
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Now, we can all agree.
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You know, if you do what God tell you to do, it's going to work out.
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Right?
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Do you really believe it?
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I want you to understand it won't work out, but it will be for your good.
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It might not work out the way you think, but it will be for your benefit.
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It will serve you well to obey the things of God.
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God never said it was going to be easy.
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He never said it would be without the struggle.
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As a matter of fact, notice here, Jesus doesn't say, if the storms come, it will be tested.
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He basically, this passage, if you read through, Jesus is basically saying the storms are going to happen.
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The issues are going to be there.
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Those things are going to be true no matter what.
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The question is, will it stand?
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You know, I believe today we have a lot of marriages that are built upon a sandy foundation.
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We have couples that get married for all sorts of reasons that are counter to what God says.
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And then when their reasons fall apart, marriages fall apart.
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But I want you to understand today that the emphasis here is clear that we must not only know what we ought to do,
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but then we need to do it.
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You know, it's amazing.
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You can attend church services, give your time to help and serve in church.
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You can read and study the truth of God's Word.
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You can have all the information.
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You might say, you know, it's kind of like students in school.
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They'll have all the information to pass the test on the written form.
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But the question is, do you understand how to use it in real life?
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What's the function?
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Are you putting it into practice?
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You know, putting those things into practice and understanding what is the trade-off of those things is important.
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To know is one thing.
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To do it is another.
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And to do God's Word is, even when we implement it into the storms of life.
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You know, God tells us how to walk through storms.
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He tells us what we need to, how we need to respond.
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He tells us how we need to engage.
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He tells us how we need to think.
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To understand what's happening around us.
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Because often I think we know what we ought to do.
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You know how I know people know what they ought to do?
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Because they can be sure to tell somebody else what they ought to do.
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The problem is oftentimes we don't have, it's not that we don't have the answer.
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The problem oftentimes is the answer is always for somebody else.
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But not for me.
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To know and to do.
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To apply the truth of God's Word.
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It's a practical reality.
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Because, you know, Jesus makes it clear that we need to live out the principles in our lives,
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aligning our relationships with His design.
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You know, it's kind of funny today.
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Many think that a godly marriage is won because it was performed in a church.
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Now, having a church wedding, there's nothing wrong with.
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Matter of fact, it's a good thing.
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But that does not make a marriage godly.
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The ceremony doesn't make it godly.
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What makes a solid foundation godly is following God's principles.
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Doing what God has given to us.
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And Jesus here is applying that very basic principle to us today.
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You know, as we saw last week, that His design is for compassion and mutual support and unity.
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But how do we practice the truth of these things in our life?
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How does it happen?
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Well, simply by being obedient to what God's told us to do.
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You know, obedience isn't always easy.
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You know, look over to Jeremiah chapter 7.
Jeremiah 7 chapter mention
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Jeremiah chapter 7 and verse 23 tells us this.
Jeremiah 7 chapter mention
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But this thing I command thee, I command them saying,
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Obey my voice and I will be your God and ye shall be my people.
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Walk ye in all the ways I have commanded you.
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Now notice this, that it may be what?
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Well with you.
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I want you to understand, if you obey what God says,
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it doesn't mean you're not going to have struggles and trials.
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It just means you're going to be able to walk through those things
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and be standing on the other side.
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Because you're built upon a firm foundation.
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A foundation that doesn't shift and move.
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You're built upon the principles of God's Word.
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And we need to obey those things because marriage is grounded on the Word of God.
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The rock will practice daily.
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The principles revealed in Scripture.
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Because, you know, it's very simple.
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It's not easy to put them into practice.
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You know, there's a lot of biblical principles that are hard to obey.
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We expect others to do them for us.
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But why aren't you doing what you ought to do?
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You ought to forgive me.
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You ought to have grace.
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You ought to have these things.
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But it's different when we have to say, am I doing that?
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Am I applying those things in the midst of the struggle?
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It's only when we see that what God has said to be true
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and act accordingly by faith that we see the benefits that come from it.
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Because, see, you have to make a choice.
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Look over to Romans chapter 6.
Romans 6 chapter mention
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Romans chapter 6 and verse 16 says this,
Romans 6 chapter mention
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Know ye not that whom ye yield yourselves servants to obey,
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his servants ye are whom ye obey,
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whether sin unto death or obedience unto righteousness.
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You know, the Bible talks a lot about obedience.
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This is that same dynamic Jesus is speaking about here
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when he says to hear and to do.
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You know, now, that's pretty simple terms.
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You know, it's kind of like when you tell a child,
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when you're trying to correct them and instruct them on what they want to do,
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you don't want them just to hear you.
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You know, it's amazing when you deal with little kids,
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they'll hear what you say.
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I didn't put an age on it.
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And you'll know they understand.
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And they'll look right at you and defiantly do it anyways
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or do something different.
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To hear and to do.
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They have to go together because just to hear isn't enough.
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You know, consider what James says over in James chapter 1.
James 1 chapter mention
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He says this,
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Be ye doers of the word and not hearers only,
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deceiving your own selves.
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You know, I think oftentimes we can deceive ourselves
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into thinking that we're doing what we ought to do
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when clearly from God's word we're not.
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Because when we look here, notice what it says,
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For if anyone be a hearer of the word and not a doer,
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he's like unto a man beholding his natural face in a glass.
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For he beholdeth himself and goeth away in a straight way,
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forget of what manner of man he was.
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But whosoever looketh into the perfect law of liberty
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and continueth therein shall not be a forgetful hearer,
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but a doer of the work.
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This man shall be blessed in his deed.
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Now I want you to understand,
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it's for your benefit, it's for your good,
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it's for your blessing.
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But nowhere does the Bible say you're not going to have the problem.
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It's you're going to be a benefit
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even though the problem is present.
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Because the storms are going to come.
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You know, I hate to break the bad news to you
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that storms in life are going to happen.
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Some are going to come,
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you're going to kind of see them coming,
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you know, kind of like you see a storm brewing on the horizon.
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Other ones are going to hit you like a freight train
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just out of the blue.
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It doesn't matter which kind it is,
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they're going to come.
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Those things are going to be a reality.
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You know, today are you building your marriage
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on obedience to God's word?
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It needs to be prioritized in your relationship.
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Now as we look through this,
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notice what Jesus says in verse 25.
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He says,
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And the rain descended, and the floods came,
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and the winds blew and beat upon the house,
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and it fell not, for it was founded upon a rock.
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Solid marriages founded on the rock
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are strengthened to withstand the storm.
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They have in place the things to withstand the storm.
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You know, today we live in a generation
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that thinks as soon as marriage gets difficult,
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it's time to trade off for a new model.
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Like the new model is going to have something better
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than the old model.
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You know, the problem is that when you get married,
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you soon find out the other person is just a human being,
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and all of us are the same, really.
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Got our different uniquenesses and things,
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but we're all sinners.
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You're not going to find a perfect person.
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The person you marry,
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you might enter into it with rose-colored glasses,
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but you'll soon find out
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they're not as perfect as you think they were.
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What are you going to do?
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How are you going to respond?
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What's going to happen?
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Jesus tells us that storms will arrive
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that test the strength of the structure,
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and the outcome is determined by the foundation.
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When you put into practice his precepts and his commands,
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it will endure the trial, the disagreements,
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the external pressures without coming apart.
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You know, today the problem is a lot of people say,
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well, there's a problem.
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We're just going to get rid of the problem.
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But if you don't deal with the problem
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according to God's words, you know what you do?
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You just trade it for a different problem.
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We need marriages that are solidly built
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upon the truth of God's word.
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Now, one of the main reasons we often don't practice
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is that we don't see it as beneficial for us.
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You know, oftentimes we say, well, what about me?
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It becomes a very me-focused thing,
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and we don't see how it's going to benefit me in the moment
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when it makes me uncomfortable.
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There's things that make you uncomfortable in life.
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There's going to be challenges that come.
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But notice here, it tells us that it fell not.
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Why did it not fall?
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Because they were obedient to those things.
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We just read in James 1.25 where it says,
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but a doer of the work,
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this man shall be blessed in his deed.
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Do you believe that God will bless you for obedience?
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You know the test of that is whether you do it.
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Look at Job 34 in verse 3.
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It tells us this,
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for the ear trieth words as the mouth tasteth meat.
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You know, we can hear it,
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but do we consider it good?
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Do we consider it beneficial?
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Do we consider it something that's going to make us prosperous?
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Psalm 34 in verse 8 says this.
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It says,
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Oh, taste and see that the Lord is good.
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You know, how do you taste and see if the Lord is good?
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By being obedient to see and then see what happens.
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Notice it says,
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Blessed is the man that trusteth in him.
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Obedience is critical.
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I wanted to just talk a little bit here this morning, though.
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Just cover a few things of practical application.
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You know, there's a book by Lawrence Crabb called The Marriage Builder.
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And he gives three essential building blocks from Scripture for a marriage.
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And he says there's grace, there's commitment and acceptance.
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Grace.
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You know, I want you to understand.
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He says this.
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He says,
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We cannot have real commitment without first having grace.
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It's impossible to accept our spouse as we need to accept them without first being committed to them.
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Now, let's break that down a moment because grace is what's needed.
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When's grace needed?
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When there's failure.
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When there's a storm.
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When something didn't happen the way you thought it should have happened.
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Or that you had it pictured in your mind.
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Grace is needed when failure, disappointment, or tragedy begin to rob us of the confidence that God can heal your marriage and deepen our maturity in him.
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And there's no situation so desperate that God's grace isn't sufficient to walk through.
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The problem is oftentimes people don't believe that.
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You know, but consider what God told the Apostle Paul in 2 Corinthians 12, 9.
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Now, this isn't regarding to marriage, but I think this application of grace and God walking through applies to all the problems we have in life.
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If it applies to the ones outside a relationship, it definitely applies to the ones within.
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And he says this, and he said,
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Consider Job.
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Job chapter 2, it tells us this,
Job 2 chapter mention
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And then said his wife unto him,
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Dost thou still retain thy integrity?
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Curse God and die.
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Now, that's a marital encouragement.
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You know, you think about that in the context of marriage.
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Here's Job's wife comes up to me and says,
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Just curse God and die.
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She's basically saying, I'm done with you.
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Notice Job's response.
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He said,
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But he said unto her,
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Thou speakest as one of the foolish women speaketh.
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What?
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Shall we receive good at the hand of God,
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and shall we not receive evil?
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You know what Job said?
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Storms are going to come.
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Should we not trust God when things are going good as much as we should trust God when there's problems?
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Because notice Job's response in all this,
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Did not Job sin with his lips?
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Now, that could be a whole message right there, problems with our tongue.
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Because when it comes to grace to others,
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you know our tongue gets in front of us
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and gets us in trouble, doesn't it?
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Commitment.
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Commitment is established when we know that our strength of hope is seen by persisting to work on our marriage,
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even when we're tempted to quit.
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You know, I guarantee you,
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there's nobody, whether they've been married a year,
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or they've been married 50 years.
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If you talk to people who've been married 50 years,
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I guarantee you, you'll find they had problems along the way.
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You know why?
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Because there were two human beings.
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And there's going to be things you don't agree on.
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There's going to be decisions about the kids,
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and future, and jobs,
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and all sorts of things.
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There's going to be things happen in life that you can't control.
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What do you do?
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How do you deal with all those things?
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Well, in order to deal with them, there has to be a commitment.
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Commitment is what God prescribes in our marriage, you know?
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But you can't have commitment if you don't understand you need to have some grace.
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Just as God had grace for you,
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you have to have grace for others.
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You know, commitment is what God has.
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He prescribes in our marriages,
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although we must not be committed as a duty or grudgingly compliance.
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You know?
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That's an important point right there.
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Because as human beings, we can do our duty.
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You can do what you're supposed to do,
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and you can do all the right things,
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and fulfill all the right commitments.
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But you know what the problem is?
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You can do it with the wrong attitude.
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A dutiful commitment without the right attitude is a problem.
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Because you know what?
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You might be going through all the actions,
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but you know what the other person sees?
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Your attitude towards it.
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Am I doing this just because I have to?
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Or am I doing this because I want to?
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Grace is the first building block that allows us to have a commitment of want to.
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When we give grace to the other, we have ability to say,
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I need to do this because it's beneficial for me,
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it's beneficial for them,
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and it's obedience to God to have the right attitude.
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Because if it's obedience to God, it's for my benefit.
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But oftentimes we look at what God tells us.
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Well, God, that's going to be hard.
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That's going to cause issues in my life.
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I don't feel good about that.
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But obedience and blessing are tied together.
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We practice it all the time.
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I mean, it's like when a kid disobeys, do you give them extra stuff?
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You know, if somebody's disobeying and you give them promoting their misbehavior,
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what are you doing?
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It's not beneficial.
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We don't do that.
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And then we look at God and say,
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I'm not being obedient, but bless me.
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Commitment is what God prescribes.
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Your attitude is dependent on how you see God's command.
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Do you think that they are grounded in your best interest?
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Do you think what God tells us how to live is in our best interest?
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It's not going to be easy, but it's going to be where the place of blessing is
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because God says this is what's going to be beneficial.
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You know, you'll have to live very long to realize
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often things that are beneficial are not easy.
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Things that are going to benefit you are not easy things.
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Do you think they're grounded in your best interest?
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Do you think that God is good and his instruction and precepts are for your benefit?
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You know, the one thing you'll find,
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that when you think something is for your benefit, it's easier to do it.
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When you think there's something good attached to it,
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it's easier to accomplish it, isn't it?
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Even if it's difficult because we say,
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hey, I know there's going to be an outcome here
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that's going to be beneficial.
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There's something attached to it.
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And this builds us into that next stage of acceptance.
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Because I want you to understand acceptance is not endurance.
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You know, praise God I put up with her for 50 years.
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We're not there yet.
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Thankfully, we still enjoy hanging out with one another.
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Problem is we don't get to hang out enough sometimes.
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You know, I want you to understand acceptance is not endurance.
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When there's grace extended, just as God extended his grace to you,
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and a commitment, because God says that's what we ought to do,
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we ought to understand and it builds to acceptance.
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But God requires an acceptance more than endurance.
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Romans 15, 7 says this,
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Wherefore receive ye one another as Christ also received us to the glory of God.
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I want you to understand the principle here is this.
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Would you want God to say, well, I put up with him?
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Think about that for a moment.
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If God looked at you and said, I've just been putting up with you.
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The great thing is God doesn't put up with us.
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God loves us.
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The Bible says we're accepted in the beloved.
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There's a true acceptance.
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And you know what?
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God knows everything about your heart and he still accepts you.
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Your thoughts.
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Everything about you, God understands.
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And he accepts you.
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Why?
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Because of his grace.
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And he says that whosoever shall call upon him shall be saved.
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That's a commitment that God makes.
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And he says we're accepted in the beloved.
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Because remember, marriage is a picture of our relationship
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between believers and Christ.
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It gives us a picture.
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It reveals those things.
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God didn't just put up with us.
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He gave himself for us.
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He acted with you and I in view.
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Look over to Ephesians 4.
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Ephesians 4 and verse 32 says this,
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Now there's a biblical principle that's real easy some days, right?
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Especially in relationships.
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Is that always easy?
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It's not easy, but it's commanded.
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And forgiveness is an important dynamic of any relationship.
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If you cannot forgive one another because the reality is that living with an imperfect partner
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makes the task of accepting one another sometimes a severe test.
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Yet as Christian marriages require a thorough, sincere, and substantial felt acceptance of the
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other, no matter what disagreeable habits make the task difficult.
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There's going to be difficulties.
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When two people come together, there's going to be tension.
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There's going to be some problems.
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But the problem is, not that there's a problem.
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The problem is, what is your relationship built upon?
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Because remember, the storms are going to come.
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The problems are going to come.
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The question is, what foundation have you laid to withstand them?
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Not just to endure them.
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Because I want you to understand that acceptance does not mean we agree with everything that
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they do.
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You know, that's the important thing, that you're not going to agree with every detail of what
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somebody else does.
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If that's the only time you'll accept somebody, you're going to be pretty lonely.
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I want you to understand, it doesn't mean that you agree with everything, but it does require
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a willingness to be vulnerable, even to be rejected sometimes.
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In other words, there's a connection there that makes you vulnerable.
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That's true acceptance.
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Much more could be spoke about here, but, you know, for biblical forgiveness in the context
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of grace and commitment and acceptance.
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But we don't have time this morning to cover all that, but I want to put forth that thought.
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Those are essential building blocks upon the foundation of the Word of God.
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Because you know what happens when marriages reflect what God wanted them to reflect?
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You know what it does?
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It's a testimony to the world.
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A marriage that stays together upon the principles of God's Word is a testimony to a lost world.
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It's a testimony to those around us.
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You know, Matthew chapter 7, look at verse 26.
Matthew 7 chapter mention
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And for everyone that heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them not, shall be likened
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unto a foolish man which built his house upon the sand.
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And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon the house,
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and it fell, and great was the fall of it.
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You know, today marriages are built upon either a solid foundation or a sandy foundation.
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And the testimony of a solid foundation speaks loudly.
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It's a testimony because they see what God has shown to us put into action.
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God's love for us is seen through a good marriage.
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A solid marriage built upon the truth of God's Word.
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Because when marriages continue through trough and trying times,
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it stands as a testimony to the truth of God's Word.
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The foundation is revealed not when things are good.
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The foundation is revealed when things are hard, when things are difficult.
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Because the foundation is revealed through the storms of life.
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It will either be devastating, great was the fall of it,
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or it will offer hope and encouragement to others around about them.
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Because we see here that it was founded upon the rock.
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Notice in verse 25,
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It fell not, for it was founded upon a rock.
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It was founded upon a rock, the rock of the truth of God's Word.
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When a marriage reflects Christ's love and faithfulness, it brings glory to God.
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You know, this morning, you can either build your life upon the solid rock of Christ and His Word,
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or the shifting sands of emotion and selfishness.
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A life built upon the true rock begins when you trust Him as your Savior,
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and begin a new life with Him.
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You know, if you know Christ as your Savior, I'll ask you today,
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are you putting into place the things that are going to build a solid foundation?
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You know, we're talking specifically about marriage this morning,
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but you know, the principle in this passage deals to everything in life.
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It deals with you as a person.
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Am I building, am I putting together the things that are going to build upon a solid foundation in obedience to God's Word,
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or am I building upon falsehoods that the foolishness of this world promotes?
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That's the reality that we need to deal with.
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Is He the foundation of your relationships?
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Are you trusting Him by obeying the truth of His Word?
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And really, it boils down to this, are you just a hearer?
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Are you going to be a doer?
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Because after salvation, we have a choice to make.
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Are we going to apply the truth of God's Word in our lives?
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As heads are bowed and eyes are closed this morning, what about you today?
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Maybe the Lord spoke to you.
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Maybe you're unsure about where you stand with God.
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Maybe you're not sure about when we talk about being saved,
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talk about salvation, talk about being redeemed,
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that your sins might be forgiven, that you might understand truly the grace of God.
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If you don't understand that today, I trust that you'll seek the Lord today.
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You can come and talk to somebody.
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We can show you from God's Word what God has to say about it.
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But maybe you're here today, and God's spoken to you about some things in your relationship,
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whatever the need might be.
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What about you today?
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Heavenly Fathers, we come before you today, Lord.
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We just thank you and praise you for your Word, Lord, as we look at the reality of obedience.
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Lord, not just to be a hearer, but a doer.
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Lord, it applies to each and every one in areas of our life, Lord, of decision that we make.
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Lord, I pray your Spirit work upon hearts and lives here today in a mighty way.
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Lord, we might not depart here the same way that we walked in,
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Lord, that we'd be changed according to your Word.
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Lord, as we have an opportunity to respond today, Lord, you might just work mightily in hearts here today.
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And we ask it all in your precious name.
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As the piano plays, what about you today?
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What about you today?