Sermon
The Value of Character || Pastor Diego Mesa
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All right, well, good morning to everybody, and thank you
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for coming to church, and thank you for coming to
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church on time, and thank you for inviting people to
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church today. All of us know somebody that needs Jesus
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or is lost or searching, so thank you for being
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considered of that. You know, I really, now, more than ever,
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look forward to the privilege to preach. It just really
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is more special than ever before. You sometimes take it
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for granted, you know, the day to day stuff and
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when you're you don't do it as often anymore. Just
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has a lot of value. So really appreciate you guys.
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And so we're in a series and I just you know,
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I heard the message by Pastor Aaron and he talked
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about Christ, and then last week Pastor Nathan talked about community,
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and I'll talk about character today, you know. And then
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and then Pastor and Adam with what he's doing and
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his preaching. You know, they have so many great props
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and illustrations. I feel like Henry Ford and I'm driving
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the Model T and there Enzo Ferrari now uh so uh,
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but that that's really what it's that's really what it's
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all about. And I really want to commend my son
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in his pastorial leadership, because uh, pretty much everything that
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you see that goes on is because of him now
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and I have little and Pastor Kenny can verify it
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because he's in those meetings. He didn't even see me
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in those meetings anymore. And uh so this series that
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deals with the vision last month we're talking about walking out,
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those are all his creativity getting before the Lord laboring. Uh.
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Right now, our trip, we have a team in Ghana
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right now on a missions trip and all that is
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under his organization.
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And I just want to commend and thank God for.
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The good job that's but you got to put up
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with me for today and next week and then you'll
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then that'll be it. So let me preface this by
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saying again we have a three full vision. So you
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go to your house, and your house has a vision.
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You go to your company, it has a vision. Wherever
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you go, there's a mission statement or a vision. There
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may be they may both sell Hamburgers, but they have
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a different mission statement and it's taught the values to
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their employees.
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Right.
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Well, there's a lot of Christian churches and we honor
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those even in our community. But even though they worship
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Christ every one of them has maybe a different focus.
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And what our job was is to introduce people that
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are visitors, people that are young to coming to our
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church and possibly becoming members, to re establish with old members.
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What makes a bundant, I would say.
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What makes Patria Patria amongst all the other churches outside
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of Jesus. And so we have a vision here and
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that is to seek the lost. We are serious about
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getting people saved because all of us are a whole
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bunch of ex somethings in this place that have been.
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Delivered by God.
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And if our record be be shown on that screen,
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you probably want one wouldn't want to be sitting next
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to the person as close as you're sitting next to them.
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So we seek the lost. Number two, we teach the fount.
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We teach them how to be Christians now, how to
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renew their mind, how to change their behaviors, and then
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we send them out into their world, into their community
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to be great witnesses. From that, we have a what
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we're talking about a a vision of asking me values.
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We have values and those values are centered around Christ.
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So you're always gonna get Christ when you come.
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To this church.
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You're not gonna get philosophies, theories, ideals, you're gonna get Jesus,
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You're gonna get the Bible. If we if we can't
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prove it to you in the Bible, then go home,
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don't come back. And I'm not using a book on
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theories to help you. Those have not stood the test
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of time, the Bible, Jesus's words.
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That's what we're gonna preach.
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Number two, We're all about community. We're all about community,
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and we're about relationships. And the third value that we're
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gonna talk about today is we're all about our Christian character,
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which deals with how we treat one another.
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So I'm gonna prepare you. I want to prepare you.
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I'm gonna encourage you, but I also I'm gonna challenge
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you big time today. Okay, but always be back by
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the word of God. So, Father, thank you so much
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for everybody coming to church today.
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We sit at your feet.
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We want to learn more about how to be better
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people and our marriages and our homes and our job.
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We honor you in Jesus' name a man, which is
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stand for the reading of God's word.
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Just to reverence God's word and the scriptures.
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Today I'm gonna read one scripture today, but two translations
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of it. Wat says, but if I tarry long, this
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is Timothy. I mean Paul talking to Timothy. But if
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I tarry long, that thou mayest this is old King
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James knowest how thou oughtest. It's funny that people used
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to talk that way. But we're gonna read it. But
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you know, mayut know how thou oddest. But I wanted
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you to I kept it here because I wanted you
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to see this word to behave, say, behave, say it
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the way Austin Power says it. Oh, behave, okay, so
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behave thyself. Where he's saying, I want to teach you
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how to behave in the church, which is the Church
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of the Living God, the pillar and ground of truth.
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One other translation, this will be more contemporary now at
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that moment of writing.
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I hope to be with you soon.
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But if there should be a considerable delay, then I
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want to have written. I want to have written will
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show you the sort of character men of God, men
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of God's household ought to have. It is a remember
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that the Church of the Living God, the pillar of
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the foundation of the truth. You may be seated. He
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uses a strong terminology there about conduct, manners, behaviors that
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should exist within the church. You know what, when I
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grew up, and many of you that went to school
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around the time or even before me, you had courses
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called home eck social studies. Because the budget cuts, they're
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not popular. You know what, there they go again. It
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went out for a moment. They're not popular anymore, they're
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not interesting anymore.
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They've dropped them.
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But for those of you that don't understand what these
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courses once were in our public schools, they taught you
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lifestyle skills.
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They taught you how to believe, behave.
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They taught you etiquette, They taught you manners, They taught
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you conduct. They taught you how to how to go
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to work and how to work hard, and how to
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respect and how to honor, and how to be accountable
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and how to be a good steward. Now we've taken
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that out of our curriculums. So let's judge it today.
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Is our society better now that we've eliminated those courses.
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I believe they ought to go back into our school rules.
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But the reality is Paul is addressing the issues two
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thousand years ago that still faced today. That Christians don't
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know how to behave in the House of God. Look
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at somebody, and look at somebody. Tell him he's not
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talking about you. Christians don't know how to behave in
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the Kingdom of God. Christians don't know how to be
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Christians anymore. And that's what he was talking about. And
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that's what defines this message today. As we talk about character,
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we today, you would agree, we today live in a
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society that prizes itself on fame and fortune and looks
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and followers and intelligence and popularity and abilities and skills
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more than character, honesty, trust.
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You will be mocked if that is important to you.
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Trustworthiness, faithfulness, dependability, accountability.
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There's no price for that in society.
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All we care about is your gifts and your skills
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and how much money you make. That's that's what matters
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often today in our society.
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Today.
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We live, obviously in a world where people today are
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relationally deficient. Their relation there, they're socially inept. Stay with me,
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their community inadequate. They're their social their relational and their
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friendly skills they.
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Do not have.
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And yet we in the Body of Christ are called family.
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Yet we in the Body of Christ are called brothers
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and sisters.
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Yet you and the.
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Body of Christ, I will spend eternity in a place
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called heaven. Yet we are relationally deficient. We don't know
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how to talk to each other. We don't know how
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to we don't know how to listen to each other.
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We don't know how to care for one another. I'm
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too busy, I ain't got time I come to church,
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I come to church late and I leave early. Don't
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be looking at me. Don't mean asking me for anything.
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We're relationally deficient. We can't handle tough conversations. We can't
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be accountable to one another. We can't be corrected by
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But we are family. Hugs and kisses until you offend me,
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until you disappoint me, because then I'll divorce you, I'll
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leave your church, and I'll say something about you on
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social media. Yet we are family. We are relationally deficient.
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Look at your children today. Why Because in today's world,
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with everything being high tech, robot AI scan this, text,
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this email, this automatic this, it has taken away the
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ability to talk to people. I don't know about you.
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I'm fed up. I hate I love the community. But
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you know what, let it not take the place of
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sitting down and say, how do you feel today?
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How are you today? Let me touch you, let me
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talk to you.
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When I go into my restaurant today, or excuse me,
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when I go into a market today or home deepo today.
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They're forcing me to not go to a register where
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there's a human being. You know what I'm doing. I'm
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in rebellion right now. I won't go to them. I
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will not go to them because that's somebody's job and
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somebody wants to get paid, and you're not going to
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force me. So I'll stand in that long line. I'll
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complain to that people. I don't know if it'll ever
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get up, but I won't do it. Even I got
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one thing, I'm not going to sprouts and scan it.
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I'll stand in that line and then I'll say, don't
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you guys have any other people that can open these things.
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I'm in rebellion because I see the detriment of what's
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taking place through that.
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You talk to a young they don't know how to
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talk to you.
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And let's not blame the young people because you don't
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know how to talk to them. All of this reflects
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oftentimes our characters. So you know, next year, I'll be
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forty years in full time ministry. So I wrote down
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a few of the misbehaviors that I've seen within the
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church in the body of Christ, and They'll be on
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the screen right now and I'll read them straight from there.
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People are in the church, but they don't talk to
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each It's amazing. You could sit next to somebody on
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the left and right behind you, in front of you
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and never talk to them. You could be in church
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but never ever really see people and look into their hearts.
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You could be in the church and don't show no
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affection toward them or touch them in any form or fashion.
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We come to church late and we leave early because
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we are just too.
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You don't know who I am.
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I am a celebrity, and you folks come to church
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on time. I will walk through the parking lot thirty
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minutes late with my latte, but I will not do
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that tomorrow morning, on my job, I will be on
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work on time. How to behave our character? All this
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reflects our character. Be in church but not be known.
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I respectfully say this. It's amazing how many people come
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to me and say, Pastor, I've been a member of
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this church for fifteen years.
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I look at them and say I don't know you.
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I do not know you.
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I don't know you because you don't serve, because that's
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the only way I'll get to know you. As in
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this ministry, I don't know you because you're maybe not
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in a neighborhood group where we could build relationships together.
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So there's a behavioral character flaw when somebody is a
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member of this church and I'm not just saying to
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me as only as somebody knows you. We can't be
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in the church body and leave without saying goodbye to
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affording add Oh, this is a huge pet peeve of mine.
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If we are let's just say that, Let's just say,
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well I have I've been living with this woman, my
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wife for forty one years, and decide tonight I'm deciding
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not to go home, and she won't ever know what happened.
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People do that every Sunday morning in this church, every
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week in this church. They're a member of this church,
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but they never tell us they're leaving. They never tell
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us they're moving. Would you do that to your natural family?
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And yet we're a spiritual fan. See how we treat
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each other. That's why it's hard for us to get
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along with one another, be honest with one another, transparent
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with one another, because you hurt me too much. I've
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had friends that I've run with miles with only to
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find out they moved to Arizona.
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I'm thinking of a guy right now.
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He didn't even tell me, and all the times I
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run with him, he was considering about moving, and then
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someone told me, Hey, you know your friend he moved
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to Arizona. I say, you got to be kidding. We
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give no forwarding address. We're here one day and then
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we don't know what happened. Because we're not a family,
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we don't know how to have Christian character. I don't
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care whatever you do, at least be respectful to one
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another and say, listen, I'm moving to Arizona. I've been relocated.
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I'm gonna be taking care of my mom in Hyspiia,
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so you guys won't be See we're not a family.
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See how quiet it is here? Yeah? You preaching passages?
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When are we getting Adam back? Let's let's move along.
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We can be in the church, sit, watch, observe, and
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criticize and complain, but not contribute. I just, uh, who
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can I talk to today that there's no more toilet paper
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in the bathroom? Who can I talk to today about that?
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Who could I talk to the parking lots?
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Who can I talk to about all that construction out
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there going on that makes it really difficult out here.
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We'll leave it at that. Let me give you a
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few quotes, and then I'm gonna preach. Let me give
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you a few quotes. Here's here's the quote. Live in
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such a way that you would not be ashamed to
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sell your parrot to the town gossip.
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How do you like that one?
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Do I have another one? Can you show me another
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quote up there? Or is it not working? I guess
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we're Oh, there we go. What is required of us
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as Christ followers is called character. It is who you
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really are when no one is looking. It's what you
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do when no one is watching. And it's your inward
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voice that tells you what you can do and what
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you can't do. As you guys know, I'm a mountain biker.
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So this is a mountain bike helmet, okay, And I've
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been mountain biking probably like about maybe fourteen years or
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something like that. And in those fourteen years, I've taken
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a lot of falls, some of them very seriously, I've
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cracked four ribs, I've cracked two ribs, I've separated my
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shoulder and then other falls. Okay, but you wear this helmet, okay,
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and this helmet protects you because you never know when
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you're going to take a fall.
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So I have fallen and hit this.
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And come up and I've been perfect been perfectly fine. Well,
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I was with my friend one time, many years ago, Ryan,
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and Ryan knew that I had fallen, and he came
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out of the blue and he said, how's your helmet.
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I thought to myself, what do you mean? He says,
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how's your helmet? I said, oh, it's perfectly fine. I
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didn't hurt it or damage it in any form or fashion.
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He said, did the helmet hit the ground with And
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I said, yes, it did. He said, throw away the helmet.
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I said, but there's nothing wrong with it. He said,
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you have compromised the materials and the character of the helmet.
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Now it is now weakened.
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Even though it still looks good, even though it still fits,
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you have weakened the character of it and it can't
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perform anymore.
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Throw it away.
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I wonder what happens when our character has been violated?
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Has it been weakened in our lives? Let me read
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a scripture and this is where park it for the
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last twenty minutes. Here, here's a great story here about character.
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Could you give me the story please?
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In Luke.
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In Luke, it says Jesus took up the question and said,
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a man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and
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he fell into the hands of robbers. They stripped him,
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They beat him up and fled, leaving him half dead,
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pretty sad.
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A priest happened to be going.
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By, say, pass on by, okay, that road where he
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saw this guy, but he went to the opposite side
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of the street. He turned his face in avoidance. He
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passed by on the other side, saying I'm too busy.
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I didn't finish reading. Please. In the same way, a
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levied a levi when he arrived a second guy at
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that place, he saw him too, but he passed by
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on the other But a Samaritan on his journey came
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to him. Same scenario. Three different people came to him.
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And when he saw him the same way, watch what
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he did. There are nine traits. He had nine characteristic traits.
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He had compassion on him. He went over to him,
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and he bandaged his wounds. He poured olive oil and wine.
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Then he put him on his own animal, put him
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in his car, and he brought him to the end,
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took him to the hospital, took him to his house,
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took him to a hotel, and he took care of
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him all night. The next day he took out some denaro,
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some money, some cash rooney and gave it to the
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innkeeper and said, take care of him, and when I
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come back, I'll reimburse you for whatever extra you spend.
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Which Jesus says this, Which of these three do you
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think proved to be a neighbor Or I'll say this
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proved to have character to the man that fell among robbers,
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the one who showed mercy to him.
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And I love Jesus' word.
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Go and do the exact same thing that you just
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saw this Samaritan. Do not a lesser version. Do the
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exact same thing. Wow, What character looks like? What character
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looks like? Three things that I want to point out
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in the Samaritan of what character is and what will
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challenge us?
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Number One, he got involved. Character gets involved.
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Character doesn't watch observe, character gets in, character doesn't use excuses.
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This man has a busy life, just like you. He
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was going somewhere. He wasn't prepared to do this. He
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wasn't looking for someone in need. He got involved. He
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got involved with his time. He got involved with his money,
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He got involved with his heart, He got involved with
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his resources.
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He got involved in not perfection.
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He got involved in a messy situation, a dirty situation,
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A bothersome in this situation, a problem, a plight. We
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get involved with things we like. We don't want to
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get involved with messy people. We don't want to get
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involved with dirty with people with issues and problem You'd
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be too training for me. I'd get too tired. We
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gotta get involved like this guy did. This is a
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messy situation. This guy is gonna deal with therapy, emotional.
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He been jacked up, tor. I don't know if it
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was purposeful. I don't know if it's accidental. I don't
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I'm not he didn't go into it. Start interviewing him
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and say, can you give me the details before I
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commit here right now? Are you a runaway right now?
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Did somebody tell you not to go down this road?
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Are you stupid? And we love lecturing people judging and critique.
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He doesn't do no that just here here, here, We
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say this all the time. See the need and take
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the lead. That's all he did. He saw a need
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and he took the lead. And he just simply got
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involved and put his hands in his pocket.
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Didn't pass on by. He stopped and that's it.
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Stop.
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Look and hear God on what I can do with
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my gifts, my talent and my abilities. I do have
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something to offer. So God wants me deeply involved in
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his kingdom. He wants me deeply involved in relationships. He
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wants me involved in this church. And it'd be wrong
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for me to be a Christian and have character and
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not be involved, he challenges us. There's a couple and
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they'll be on the screen and you'll see them. Their
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name is Genie and Paul Briggs. They have thirty four children,
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but they adopted twenty nine of them. They adopted them
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from Ghana, from Mexico and from Ukraine. And they're Christians
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that heard this call of God in church. The challenge
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is is that many of them are not healthy, perfect kids.
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They've got disabilities, but they're committed. They got involved, and
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I think that's the problem really with our world today,
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in our society. That's why politics is so crazy today.
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So the world is so because everybody complained, but nobody
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gets involved. Nobody gets involved. No, it has skin in
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the gate. Nobody has sweat equity in the game. So
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for many years, well I'll just say within the last year.
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Last year, I became a chaplain. I'm a sand burned
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you know, shariff chaplain.
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Okay, so that's that's what I do. I'm a I'm
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a sheriff chaplain. So see, I knew you would clap.
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Because you're just honoring or you know, you could think
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it's elite and its privileges, and it does. I could
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do ride alongs. I can go wherever an employee does,
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wherever virtually wherever an officer goes, or where he doesn't
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want me to go. That's unsafe. But I have a key,
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and I have access, and I have the uniform and whatever.
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But let me talk to you about it for a minute.
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Okay.
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So the reality was is that I had to go
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through a background investigation.
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Okay.
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The second thing that I want you to want you
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to recognize is that it is required of me to
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log in a certain amount of hours monthly and yearly
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to be a sheriff. It is required of me to
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wear the uniform when I am on duty.
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To be a shriff chaplain, it is required of me
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to pay monthly or yearly dues to be a chaplain.
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It is required of me to go through extensive training
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to be a chaplet. I gotta know how to use
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the gun, the ar the shotgun, know how to disengage it.
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I know how I need to know how to drive
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the vehicle. I need to go know how to use
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the microphones.
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I need to know.
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I have to be trained and then I have to
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go through i'mgoing training to.
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Be a chaplain.
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I have to show up at that station and be
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ready to perform as a chaplain. So I get a
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call on a suicide, I go over there, a death,
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I go in there.
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Whatever it is, I have to perform a duty. Are
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you still.
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Tracking with me? Okay, here's here's the here's the drop kicker.
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I'm a volunteer. I'm I don't get paid to do
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all that, and yet we don't want to be required
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as a Christian to do anything. Don't look at me,
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don't talk, don't approach, don't ask me for nothing, and
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yet we're not.
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Building a community.
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Naturally, we're not defending a city or a county. We
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are part of the Kingdom of God, light versus darkness,
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representing God wherever we go, and there should not be
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any requirements of us. Second thing, don't worry, pastor Adam's
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coming back. Second thing, he lives a life of integrity, integrity.
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Here's what the Bible says about integrity. The righteous who
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walks in his integrity, blessed.
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Are his children.
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Man, you want your children blessed, walk in integrity. You
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want them to have difficulties. Do not be a person
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of integrity. This guy just plays all kind of integrity,
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has a conviction.
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He has a conscience.
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He knows the difference between right and wrong, what's required
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of me and what's not required of me. He has
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this moral compass within him, he has this inward voice.
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I'm trying to describe integrity to you.
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The integrity he has, ethics, he has standards, He has
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all that in his life, excellence in his life.
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The word integrity means wholeness.
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There is a wholeness in his life, not purposely having
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holes in his life.
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There is a soundness to his life.
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He's trustworthy, he's absolutely dependable. He's integral. And that's the
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way God challenges us. He challenges us in our integrity.
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He challenges us to be integral with our eyes, eyes
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that are not jealous or lustful, or eyes that are
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not always in competition with one another. And we are
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to have integrity with our ears, not to listen to
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gossip or discord or junk. We are have integrity with
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our mouths, how we talk, how we speak profanity. All
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of that is integrity our heart, integrity of our heart
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to offer forgiveness and mercy towards somebody rather than retaliation
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and judgment towards somebody. God challenges us to not live
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a compromising life, or a fraudulent lifestyle, or pretentious lifestyle,
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or a hypocritical lifestyle.
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All of that revolves around our integrity.
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Let me read your scripture here in Proverbs the first
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chapter and in verse number ten. I'm sorry Proverbs in
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Philippians Philippians one ten, that you may approve the things
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that are excellent, and that you may be sincere.
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Without offense to the day of Christ.
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The way I'm supposed to treat you is I am
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not to purposely offend you. I am not to purposely
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hurt you through my lifestyle. You and I are familiar
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with people that we tried to witness to or share
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our faith, and they looked at us said, get that, Jesus,
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you know what out of my face, because I know
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a so called Christian that ripped me off, didn't pay
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their bills and didn't be wrong.
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What was that?
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Somebody that had no integrity? Somebody that's what we would
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call in the streets. Ain't straight, They ain't right, man,
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they just ate, they're dirty. How many remember that street
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talk like that? They ain't straight, crooked? Whatever it was.
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God saying that, to the best of my ability, I
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am not whether in church, outside of the church, my marriage,
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my personal life, my leisures my pleasures not to cause
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you hurt or harm or to offend you. He tells
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me that I'm to live a harmless and blameless life
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with my employer, with my bill collectors. Oh you're preaching
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good past well, thank you, I thank you. He Us
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is the word sincere. Okay, so during Jesus's day as
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well as today. How many have you ever been to
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how many have ever been to a swap meet? Don't
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act like you ain't never been to a swap meet?
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How many have you been to a garage sale? Come on,
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when we started life, we bought all our furniture from
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those places. Now that you're all dignified, you go to
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tarja and buy all your stuff, But your life started
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at garage sales and swap meets.
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Well they would do. There'd be merchants lining the.
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Streets and they try to sal you something of imperfection,
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something that was flawed. They try to jack you. Okay,
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are you with me or maybe you're familiar with that. Okay,
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So let's just say you were looking for a pot
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to cook with, or to put a plan in, or
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whatever you wanted a pot. So what what happened? This
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is where this word sincere comes from, or in the
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Greek sinceros. Okay, So what a merchant would do is
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he said, oh, my grandma made this pot. This is
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made from the finest materials. We probably got about five
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hundred dollars into this. You are not going to find
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a better pot in all of Israel than this one
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right here. And you know what, I like you, I'm
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gonna give you a special deal. I don't know what
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it is.
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I just like you. How many have you heard what
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I'm talking about today? Okay?
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And you know what I I have a Sunday sale
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going today. You just can't hardly ever have Sunday sales going.
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But I'm won't take care of you.
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I you like it? Do you like it? I like it? Okay?
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And so you pick it up, and this is what
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you would do to inspect it.
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Okay.
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You'd get the pot and you lift it up to
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the sun, and the beam of the sun would look
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through the pot and you would be able to see
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if there were any cracks in the pot. See, because
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what the merchant would try to do is that where
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there were cracks, he'd put fillers called waxen, and then
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he'd color over it. And so you'd be ripped off
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and cheated because in your natural eye you could not
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see that. But when you lift it up to the sun,
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the sun exposes the character.
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It's not sincere.
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And so today, if I'm living as a liar, a cheater,
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a conniver, the only thing that will heal you is
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to lift you up in the sun. The sun Jesus
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Christ will heal you of where you're trying to wax
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over people in their lives. And here's the last one.
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His life inspires, his life inspires. He's in the book.
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This man is in the book. Jesus uses him to say,
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go and do.
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So.
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Your character will inspire others. It will say, you.
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Know what, he is a template, she's a template. They're
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a model.
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They're an example of how to stay married forty one
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years and never have cheated on a man or cheated
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on a woman. They're an example of how to raise
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godly children and godly grandchildren. They're an example of coming
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off the streets and having that street in you. But
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God's delivering you, and you're no representation of what you.
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Used to be.
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You're somebody that I can emulate. Here's somebody that inspires me.
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You're somebody that provokes me. You're somebody that encourages me.
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Here're somebody that challenges me as opposed to where are
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all the examples? We say God will do it? But
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then and we go to church, Well, where's the fruit
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of it? So I have a little list here that
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I want to go through because Paul says this, let
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me read the scripture to you about Onisimus. Could I
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read the scripture? It says the Lord grant mercy to
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the family of Onisifras because he often Here's the word
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refresh me. Do you refresh someone? Am I a refreshing
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to you? Or are you a refreshing to me? Who
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showed me kindness, comforting and reviving me?
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Are you fresh air to people or like a stink
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to people?
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And he was not ashamed of my change. So here's
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what I want to share with you, basically what you
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and I need to be to other people. You need
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to refresh people rather than tire people out. Don't look
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at your neighbor, but you and I know somebody people
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that they just tire us out. You and I know
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people that replenish us, but we also know people that
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drain us. We also, we want to be people that
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others will follow rather than I'm not going to follow you.
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We want people that restore people rather than destroy people.
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And we want people that reconcile you rather than ridicule you.
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This is what you and I are called to be.
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You know, Pastor Nathan last week showed beautiful pictures of
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members and how they're building this church and what they're doing.
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If you were, you know, volunteering and getting.
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To know them, if you know a little history about
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our church. More than thirty years ago. I started in
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my house in South Ridge, Fontana, with twelve people. But
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you know what, lovely Cindy, I was thinking about that
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there were twelve physical people, but they're literally if you
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count me and her, there were fourteen, but we never
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count each other. But there were twelve guests or visitors.
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So really, she's the longest member of Abundant Living right
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there she is, and she's probably put up with more
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than you know what, than anyone else, and she still
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loves me and she still loves you. Okay, But I
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want to introduce to you someone that. So we had
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this wave that was in the house. Then we moved
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to the next wave, which is this the thirty, the twelve,
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and then you moved to the thirty because a lot
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of the twelve aren't here anymore, they even transition there
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in glory. A lot of the original they're not here anymore.
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But here is the longest active member of Abundant Living
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Family Church.
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Her name is Johnette.
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Johnette has served in all her and in her thirty years.
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And you don't even remember the donut ministry we used
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to have. We used to literally have a donut stand.
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When you walked in to the church. You could have
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free donuts and coffee when you sat down. I know
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some of you want us to revive that ministry again.
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She was the coffee cart, Children's check in Prison Ministry,
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Mexico Mission, Women's Ministry, Christmas and Easter productions, caring for
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the goats and chickens. She's been a member of Abundant
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Living for more than thirty years. That ought to inspire us.
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That's how this thing gets built. I want to end
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with this story to just show the character of something.
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Pretend with me that this is my great great great
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grandfather's chair. It's one hundred and twenty five years old.
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There's hardly no screws in it. There's no plastic in it,
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no lamin lamination it not lamination would laminate. There's no
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laminate in it, no plastic in it. It's made out
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of real wood, craftsmen. It took several hours of a
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man wielding with his hand. This is a chair that
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I got from Akia. Anybody familiar with ikea, hmm, none
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wrong with Ikia. But there's a vast difference between an
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Akia chair and a craftsman chair. Stay with me, I
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can get a Kia at a reasonable price. Akia is nice,
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and you know what, it's gonna fill my house. But
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here's the difference. Akia is not something you're gonna pass
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down to your children and your grandchildren, your great grandchildren.
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This is something that's going to be passed down.
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You know what the difference in the two is is
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the durability of them.
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The durability of them.
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Character is seen by the durability of what you can
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handle and what you can handle.
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None of us is born with character.
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You develop character when you are tempted and you don't
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give into that temptation, when you are tired and tried,
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and you don't do what your flesh wants to do
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when you're alone, hurt and offended. And I'm not going
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to get even when I'm going through a crisis. Now
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I feel like getting drunk, cheating on my mate, going
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through a strip joint and doing something crazy. But you
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pass the test that's durability, because here's the reality watch this, this.
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Thing can't handle much good?
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Gosh, are you?
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Are you?
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This?
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Are you?
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This?
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Which one you want to be? How dependable are you?
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How durable are you? How long are you going to
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be around.
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Can you be passed on to your children, children and
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children and still be standing and a witness.
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For Jesus Christ.
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That's the character God needs from us to your world,
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on your job and your friends, in your home, and
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the kind of behavior and christian you need to be
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in this church with your brothers and sisters. Father, I
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thank you for the message today. I pray it spoke
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to us all. God raise our level of character. God
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help us to not be so selfish sometimes and immature sometimes.
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And help us definitely not to be like that priest
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and that levi God that won't stop but passes by
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an avoidance and judgment and busyness. God help us. Help
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us to be sensitive to the world that we're around,
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not everyone, but somebody. We're not called to everybody what
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we're called to somebody, and may we make that difference.
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In Jesus' name. Amen. Hey, thanks for listening today. I'm
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gonna ask it you stay in your seat.
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We're going to dismiss together, and I think passor Kenny
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is going to come and dismiss us, and.
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At that time we'll walk out together.
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The Bible as well as secular historians, one of them
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by the name of Josephus if for reference purposes, who
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is not a Christian, he was just a secular historian
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writes about the day that this man from Nazareth or
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Galilee died. His name was Jesus, as the Romans killed
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him on his Historians not the.
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Bible, but I mean not just the Bible.
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The Bible does say the same, but historians say there
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were two thieves, one on the left hand and one
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on the right. Of that day, three people died on
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this mound called gal Galgatha. To one side was thief
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who was so close to Jesus he could almost see
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the breath out of his mouth, so close that the
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blood from him almost spilled on him, so close that
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he could see every scar and mar that he had
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beaten with, So close, but not close enough that I'm
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going to repent.
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I don't believe in you, and I won't believe in you.
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I don't believe you're the Messiah. I don't believe you're
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the savior of the world. I surely not my God
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and my Lord. So close.
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Yet so far, with all the evidence in the world
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right next to you, in how he died and what
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he said when he was dying and what supernaturally took
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place the earthquake from for three hours, it was darkness.
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He never cussed, he never raised judgment.
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It was all love. Forgive them, for they know not
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what they do. On the other side was another thief.
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See that's what thieves do. They steal, they rob, they'll
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jack you, they'll tear you up. I don't know what
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kind of records these guys had. I don't know the
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mamas and daddy's are lack of that they had in
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their home. I don't know how they ran the streets.
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But they're two thieves, two ranked sinners.
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But this one.
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He recognizes who he's next, and he said, you know
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what I need to be forgiven? I need to repent.
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I ask you to remember me today in this place
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called heaven or paradise. And I'm not so hardened in
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my life that I don't recognize who you are. I
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won't identify with that other guy that I'm close, but
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I won't commit.
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I'm close and I will commit.
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Two different people that relate to different people, that encounter
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Jesus with two.
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Different outcomes in their lives.
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You and I are the thieves, righteous thieves, moral thieves.
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Or immoral. It doesn't matter.
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We're just all thieves one way or another, because that's
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the nature of sin. But the reality is you could
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be close to Jesus and never not accept him and
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believe in him today, So it doesn't matter. Just like
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these thieves, it doesn't matter the years of what you've done,
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it doesn't.
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Matter the depth and the nastiness and the measure.
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These thieves show us that they could be the worst
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of the scum of society, nasty, filthy, perverted, and dirty.
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One will die in his sin and be judgment the
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other will be forgive of his sin and will never
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be judged for his sin.
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Who do you want to identify with today?
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I'm going to challenge you if you've never accepted Jesus
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Christ and you want to be like that thief on
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his right that asks for forgiveness, or maybe you're a
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Christian that was once that thief on the right, but
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you've fallen away from God and you picked up the
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ways of this world and you just want to get
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right and rededicate your life on this Sunday morning, it's
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no coincidence how you got here today?
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Just think about it. How are you here today? How
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did it happen? What made you? I think it's God.
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When I count to three, you raise your hand like that,
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be bold, just the way it was bold for Jesus
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to dine across.
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And we're going to pray for you.
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Two one, two three, Raise your hand all across this
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out of torn wherever you might be.
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God, love you, God, bless you. Say this prayer with me.
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Dear Jesus, forgive me of my sins.
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I recognize outside of you I am a thief, but
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in you I am forgiven.
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Thank you today that your home is my home.
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It's called heaven. I ask you to come and live
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in my heart now in Jesus' name. I'll be outside.
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If you'd like to say hello, passor Kenny, would you
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dismiss us