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Mark 14:26-42 || The Book of Mark || Pastor Joel Holm

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  1. We're jumping into the Gospel of Mark again. And here's

  2. the deal. Sometimes when you read the scriptures, they are

  3. there and they really inspire you. Sometimes they give you

  4. a new revelation. Sometimes they're incredibly practical and to kind

  5. of give you a direction of what you.

  6. Got to do.

  7. The passage we've come up to now Mark fourteen is

  8. highly practical, not in the words of Jesus, but in

  9. the example of Jesus. What he does in this window

  10. of scriptures is what he wants us to do, which

  11. means at the end of it, our application is not

  12. so much what we'll do tonight, but what will do tomorrow. Now,

  13. in order to really understand this passage in Mark fourteen,

  14. we actually have to start all the way back in

  15. the Old Testament in Nexus twenty. Because the Nexus twenty

  16. God gave the ten commandments, and the second commandment was

  17. this don't make any other graven images. So in our mind,

  18. we're thinking, in the ancient world, somebody making like this

  19. stone statue and say I'm going to worship you God

  20. by worshiping this stone statue. And maybe in the ancient

  21. world that's what it kind of looked like. But that

  22. commandment is still ill valid today because here's what the

  23. commandment says, don't put an image on God that is

  24. not accurate. Now, the first commandment is don't worship other gods.

  25. But the second commandment is, when you're.

  26. Worshiping God, do not impose upon him an image. When

  27. you're in a relationship. We do this all the time.

  28. You meet somebody and you begin to have an imagination

  29. of who they are, and you impose upon them that image,

  30. especially if there's romance involved. I want this lady to

  31. be like this, so I'm gonna impose upon her that image.

  32. And then you get married real fast and you're one

  33. year in your marriage, going what happened to this person?

  34. Because we will impose our image of what we want

  35. that person to be like. And when we impose on them,

  36. this is what I want you to be like. We

  37. do not let them speak for themselves. And this second

  38. command is God is not a statue. He is a

  39. person to be revealed. And in this passage in Mark,

  40. we have a revelation of the person of God, the.

  41. Son of God, giving for us a role model.

  42. And it's going to challenge us in some ways because

  43. we all have the tendency to want to imagine Jesus

  44. in a certain way.

  45. That we want him to be.

  46. And our imagination isn't necessarily always wrong, but it can

  47. be really incomplete. And Mark, what is beautiful about the

  48. Gospel of Mark, one of four writers, is Mark is

  49. probably the most down to earth of all the Gospel writers.

  50. He's the one that really shows the Son of God

  51. in his humanity. Matthew is like the son of God

  52. as the king John is kind of like the son

  53. of God internally. But Mark says, here is what Jesus

  54. as a.

  55. Human really looked like.

  56. And we're gonna study this passage of scripture to understand

  57. by his example, here's what he taught us.

  58. Now we have to go out and do it.

  59. And the truth that we're gonna discover is Jesus was

  60. engaged in relationships of a specific kind.

  61. That he wanted and he needed.

  62. We always think of him only on the divine side

  63. of being the son of God who needs nothing, that

  64. is the deity side.

  65. But on the human side, if you.

  66. Study the Gospel of Mark, as we have all year long,

  67. you discover he got frustrated. He never sinned, but he

  68. got frustrated, got angry sometimes ask questions, and.

  69. He had these relationships with people.

  70. And so we're gonna look at this and we're gonna

  71. discover that our relationships are inherently very important to us

  72. as Christians, but which relationships we have really matter. Christianity

  73. was never designed to be an individual sport.

  74. It is not golf, it is football. It's a teams.

  75. But the Bible drills down even more specifically with Jesus

  76. about the kind of relationships you need. And we're gonna

  77. read a passage where he illustrates for us there are

  78. three specific people you need in your life. And as

  79. we study this, it's really practical. You've got to do

  80. like a self inventory. Do I have these three voices?

  81. Are these three people in my life? And you may

  82. discover you have one or two, but not all three.

  83. And your response is, am I gonna follow his role

  84. model and allow him to architect for me the relationships

  85. I need. So open your Bibles to Mark chapter fourteen.

  86. We're gonna read these verses. The setup is he's on

  87. the night of his death.

  88. He's gonna be arrested.

  89. It's an intense time, it's an emotional time, it is

  90. a really charge time. But the whole story here is

  91. about his relationships with his people. Starting in verse twenty

  92. thirty two, they went to a place called Smine, and

  93. Jesus said to his disciples, sit here while I pray.

  94. Then he took Peter, James, and John along with him,

  95. and he began to be deeply distressed in trouble. My

  96. soul is overwhelmed with sorrow, to the point of death.

  97. He said to them stay here and keep watch. Going

  98. a little farther, he fell to the ground and prayed,

  99. if possible, the hour might pass from him. Ahbah, Father,

  100. he said, everything is possible for you. Take this cup

  101. from me. Yet not what I will, but what you will.

  102. Picture the scene. They come out of the upper room.

  103. It's Jesus and his twelve followers, and he takes the

  104. twelve and he sets him down in the forest and

  105. he says, listen, pray.

  106. That's one group.

  107. Then he takes three farther up the mountain, Peter, James,

  108. and John. We know that the gospels teach us that

  109. they were a tighter group than the twelve were. They

  110. knew each other. One of them was actually nicknamed the

  111. one he loved. They were best friends, and he looks

  112. at them, and he says something to them that he

  113. doesn't say to the twelve.

  114. To the twelve, it's pray. I need you to help

  115. me out. Pray.

  116. To the three, he says this, my soul is full

  117. of anguish to the point of death. That's kind of religious,

  118. biblical language. Here's what he's saying in contemporary Joel revised version.

  119. Guys, this is really hard for me. Guys, I'm really

  120. struggling with this.

  121. He opens his heart to the three in a way

  122. he does not with the twelve. He doesn't make that

  123. statement to the larger group. He makes that statement to

  124. a tighter group of friends, but he is fully transparent

  125. with them.

  126. He opens his heart to them.

  127. Then he goes farther up alone by himself, to the

  128. Father and he says something different to the father. And

  129. what he says to the Father is listen, if there's

  130. any way I don't have to do this, could this

  131. cup pass by me?

  132. But then he says, not my will, your will be done.

  133. Three different pictures of Jesus in a relationship, and it's

  134. a pattern for us of three different people we need

  135. in our life that will allow us to walk.

  136. In the fullness of everything. God has because you.

  137. Will never discover everything the Lord has for you and

  138. the fullness of your faith until you do it in

  139. relationship with others. But there's these three groups. First, there's

  140. the twelve. They're defined by if you'll study the disciples.

  141. These were just broken people. They were messed up. We'll

  142. talk about them in a second. But you need in

  143. your life broken people. We spend most of our time

  144. trying to protect ourselves from broken people. Jesus invited them

  145. into his life. Then the three. You need somebody in

  146. your life that you can be transparent with, somebody you

  147. can open up your heart and soul to and talk

  148. honestly about.

  149. You.

  150. Don't do that with the twelve because it'll up, but

  151. you do that with these three. Then you need somebody

  152. in your life who has a voice of authority over you.

  153. Not just somebody who will give their opinion, but somebody

  154. because of the nature of who they are. In relationship

  155. with you, you actually.

  156. Honor a measure of authority.

  157. And oftentimes sometimes God will still be the authority, but

  158. he speaks through a human intermediary so we can hear clearly.

  159. These are the three relationships that are modeled by Jesus,

  160. you need in your life a broken person, broken people.

  161. For what they do.

  162. You need in your life people that you can be

  163. transparent with. And then you need in your life somebody

  164. who you acknowledge has authority over you that helps guide you. Now,

  165. let's look at these three relationships, and while we're describing them,

  166. you got to do an inventory. Do I have that?

  167. Do I have a transparent person? Do I have somebody

  168. who has authority over me. Let's take a look at

  169. these and we're gonna look at three things. Why is

  170. the relationship so hard, how does each relationship benefit me?

  171. And where do I find these people? It's very important

  172. you do not confuse the relationships. If you become transparent

  173. with the wrong people, wow, you gonna be in a

  174. lot of trouble. You will find things on Instagram you

  175. did not expect to find on Instagram about you. So

  176. you got to have a whole lot of wisdom as

  177. to who you're gonna be transparent with.

  178. But that leads us to not say anything and we

  179. don't have that relationship. If you give the wrong.

  180. Person a place of spiritual authority in your life.

  181. And they function out of the flesh.

  182. Then you're gonna be messed up again. So these three

  183. are very distinct in that way. First, somebody you serve,

  184. who is it you are serving because they are broken

  185. and they need you.

  186. To serve them. Think of the twelve Disciples and how

  187. broken they were.

  188. It's almost like is Jesus recruiting a team to build

  189. the kingdom or is he developing a hospital, and these

  190. are his first patients.

  191. Peter was so arrogant. He always had a better idea

  192. than Jesus. He was always fighting against Jesus.

  193. Jesus wanted to do one thing. No we're not gonna

  194. do that. No you're not gonna wash my feet. He's

  195. the guy who pulls out the sword and cuts the

  196. soldier's ear off. I'll do it my way, and Jesus going,

  197. you don't get it.

  198. Peter, the scriptures have to be fulfilled.

  199. He was broken inside because he was always kind of

  200. fighting for his rights. James and John two brothers who

  201. dealt with such insecurity and such pride, so much so

  202. that one story says they went to their mom and said,

  203. would you talk to Jesus so that you could elevate

  204. our status in the team and we would be like

  205. the executive directors at his right and left hand. If

  206. you got to ask mommy to talk to your boss,

  207. you have insecure problems. You got serious issues. These are

  208. broken people. They don't get it at all. You take

  209. Matthew the tax collector, who comes out of a past

  210. that he is so ashamed of.

  211. And he just doesn't know what to do with that past, and.

  212. He's ridiculed and he's just all the baggage from the

  213. past broken. You take Simon the zealot, who basically was

  214. a terrorist and just wanted to kill every Roman there was.

  215. There was so much anger inside of him, just pent up.

  216. When Jesus gathers these twelve together, he gathers them not

  217. just for the kingdom, but for them, and he's going,

  218. how do I serve them?

  219. Do you have.

  220. Broken people in your life that you are not trying

  221. to avoid? Are they there? Because if we're honest, we

  222. just tried to avoid them. I mean in anyway, I'm

  223. walking down the street and I see this guy walking

  224. towards me, and he's got long hair and he's talking

  225. and he's going like this. I'm going, this guy is nuts.

  226. And I walk as far away as I can, but

  227. as he gets close, I realize he's just got an

  228. air button and he's listening to music and talking on

  229. the phone. But I so prejudged him. This guy I'm

  230. gonna stay away from. And we have that mindset sometimes.

  231. Why is it so hard to intentionally follow the model

  232. of Christ and put broken people in our life because

  233. they take time, they don't change overnight. There's a parable

  234. that Jesus gave of a vineyard manager and there's a

  235. tree and it's not very fruit and the owner comes

  236. and says, cut it down.

  237. Get rid of it.

  238. And the vineyard manager says, just give me one more year,

  239. and the owner goes, okay, one more year. And we

  240. oftentimes talk about grace and truth, but what the Bible

  241. teaches is grace.

  242. And truth and time.

  243. Jesus working with his disciples for three years, helping them heal,

  244. helping them be restored, helping them discover faith. And it's

  245. hard sometimes because broken people deplete you. We think, so

  246. we isolate ourselves and protect ourselves from broken people, but

  247. they actually give us this enormous benefit if you get

  248. into it.

  249. And the benefit is this. There's a statement in the

  250. New Testament.

  251. Says people who are a kind of at the crossroads

  252. and the eternity and Jesus saying welcome, because you fed

  253. them and you clothe them and you help them, and

  254. they're going, when did we do this? And they said,

  255. when you did that to broken people, when you served it,

  256. you served me. We think we bring Jesus to broken people.

  257. Do you know what they bring Jesus to us?

  258. And we discover a revelation of who Jesus is.

  259. When I was in my previous church as a pastor,

  260. there was somebody in my congregation. They were broken and

  261. they ticked me off as a pastor, I just like,

  262. I had no patience for this person. They were just

  263. a pain. And I'm talking to my wife one time

  264. and I'm just complaining about this broken person, and she

  265. said this to me. She said, Joel, what are you

  266. missing from Jesus that that person can get under your

  267. skin so easily? And she said, Joel, Jesus put that

  268. broken person in your world so you would discover more

  269. of who he is and you would get a resource

  270. from him to be able to do that. If you

  271. shield yourselves from broken people, you will never discover the

  272. Christ in.

  273. You that will grow in you to serve those people.

  274. You have got to have this relationship, and it would

  275. take time and it won't necessarily be easy. But that's

  276. I want to become like Christ. And if I surround

  277. myself just with really easy, glorious people, I won't become

  278. like Christ very quickly. So one of the relationships is

  279. broken people. Where do you find them? You don't look hard,

  280. They're already there. You just need new eyes because you've

  281. seen these people, and rather than broken people that Jesus

  282. has brought to you, you've labeled them as just a

  283. pain in the butt, I got a pray away.

  284. You've labeled them in ways.

  285. That have already judged them and convicted them and removed

  286. yourself from them. It's my contention that most of us

  287. have broken people in our world. We just don't see

  288. that Jesus has actually brought them to us for them

  289. and for us. And our response is this response of

  290. prayers saying, God.

  291. Give me the eyes to see them the way you

  292. see them, give me.

  293. The faith and the courage to engage with that. Of course,

  294. there are health the boundaries, but you need a relationship

  295. like the Son of God had a relationship. You need

  296. somebody in your life who won't be easy. They'll take time,

  297. they will stretch you, they will frustrate you, and.

  298. You'll become like Jesus because he had that person in

  299. his life. That person's already there.

  300. Some of you parents that have children, God's given you

  301. a broken person, especially if it's an adult child, and the.

  302. Tendency is just to create that space. Jesus say no.

  303. If you will lean into my grace and into the

  304. power in the presence of the Holy Spirit, you are

  305. going to grow by volumes. When you have that relationship

  306. in your life, then you go to a second relationship,

  307. which is somebody you are transparent with. I think it's

  308. amazing that Jesus would say this to Peter and James

  309. and John, that he would bear his soul to them.

  310. And the role model illustration for us is you are

  311. not wired to follow Christ alone, that there is this transparency.

  312. What are you transparent about? Let's just follow the example

  313. of Jesus. There were two things he was really transparent

  314. about with his followers. One in this case, he's really

  315. transparent about the battle he is having in that moment

  316. with his call that when you are a Christian, you

  317. have a father who blesses you and watches out for you.

  318. But make no mistake about it. Within that context, Jesus

  319. also said, you're gonna follow me, You're gonna pick up

  320. your cross, and there will be a sacrifice that you

  321. have to make. The sacrifice may be with that broken person.

  322. The sacrifice may be when he says, you know, I

  323. would like you to give a donation to this ministry.

  324. The sacrifice will be something and you have a battle

  325. with that. Jesus had that battle. It's okay to have

  326. that battle. But if you don't have somebody to talk

  327. to about that, you open yourself up for the enemy

  328. to begin to whisper into your mind about how unfair

  329. the sacrifice is, how wrong it is. But if you

  330. can take what is in shadows and bring it into light,

  331. because you have Christian friends who love you and you're

  332. safe with and you can share that with All of

  333. a sudden, now God just kind of smiles on that.

  334. You gotta share your hardships. Jesus said, you will have hardships.

  335. They will be there. Do you have somebody that you

  336. can share that with. But then there's a second thing

  337. that Jesus shared, which is a real challenge for us.

  338. Real challenge for us.

  339. He goes into the wilderness and he's tempted by Satan

  340. and he says, I'm gonna let the world know. And

  341. in the Gospels is a story of Jesus being tempted.

  342. When was the last time you told somebody about the

  343. temptations you are facing? Because we see temptation wrongly as sin.

  344. It's not sin. It will lead to sin if you

  345. don't deal.

  346. With it, and then you really get messed up. But

  347. while it's there as temptation, it is not sin.

  348. But because we have this idea that it's.

  349. Sin, we just shut up about it wouldn't be great

  350. right now, I said, turn to your neighbor and tell

  351. them the biggest temptation you're facing.

  352. Jesus did that.

  353. You read the account and here's what he said. You

  354. know how I was tempted. I was tempted like I

  355. had to prove myself if you're the son of God,

  356. turned the stones to bread.

  357. I had to validate my identity. And for Jesus, make.

  358. No mistake, it was a very real temptation he had.

  359. It was not subtle, it was blatant. It temptation was

  360. so strong that the angels had to come and minister

  361. to him after the temptation. So whatever temptation your face

  362. and the Bible says, he gets it. He's just more

  363. honest about it than we are. And he comes to

  364. the Peter James and I gotta tell.

  365. You what I'm really struggling with here.

  366. And it is so important for us to find a

  367. liberty when we have a couple of friends. And he

  368. can say, you know, this thought went through my mind

  369. and I know it's wrong.

  370. It just keeps popping up.

  371. The moment that word of confession of a temptation comes

  372. out of you, Man, you are positioned for healing and

  373. strength and that temptation goes away. But if that relationship

  374. isn't there, there's a great probability that temptation morphs into

  375. bad choices.

  376. And you know, my.

  377. Heart, gang, there are some of you here and making

  378. bad choices, and you're trying, by your own conviction to

  379. change it, and you're not succeeding because you got to

  380. start beforehand. And when there is a thought or an

  381. idea or temptation, if I just change a number on

  382. the tax forms when it's due, man, that'll save me

  383. four hundred bucks. And it's real. And if you have

  384. a friend you can talk to about that, all of

  385. a sudden you are.

  386. Freed from that. Why is it so hard?

  387. Because we have been influenced by the enemy to put

  388. shame on temptation. And there is no shame on temptation,

  389. none whatsoever. When it comes to sin, you are forgiven

  390. and you are set free, but especially at temptation, and

  391. you gotta go no. I will not allow the enemy

  392. to define my relationships because of a false understanding of

  393. what's there. I will take what's in the shadows and

  394. I will bring into the life. What's the benefit those

  395. of you who have this relationship.

  396. You know the moment you can share what a hardship.

  397. Is or what a temptation is, there is immediate freedom.

  398. You shall know the truth, and the truth shall set

  399. you free. There's immediate liberty that comes into that because

  400. you're going it's in light. I don't carry it anymore.

  401. But you have to have somebody that you can talk to.

  402. Where do you find your people? Jesus said this, pray

  403. the Lord of the harvest to send forth workers.

  404. You know what I'm saying. You pray them in.

  405. You need somebody in your life that you pray him

  406. in and you act that way, will always be up

  407. here encouraging you. Get in relationship, Join a ministry team,

  408. join a small group, do something that positions you for relationships,

  409. and out of that you'll discover, Oh, there's beginning to

  410. be a connection with these two people. I feel safe

  411. around them. I feel secure around them. And God is

  412. at work and he's positioning you and he's positioned them.

  413. But you gotta put yourself in that place where you

  414. discover those kinds of relationships. And when you do, and

  415. many of us.

  416. In you're contestify to this.

  417. They are the most God send gift that you will

  418. never be without again. If you're here and that's the

  419. relationship that's missing. I want you to be full of

  420. hope because there is freedom coming to you. There is

  421. joy and life coming to you. There is victory coming

  422. to you because the temptation will lose his force and

  423. it will never turn into sin. But you need those

  424. relationships that are there. Then you get to the last one.

  425. The last one is the hardest one.

  426. Okay.

  427. I know I need somebody broke in my life and

  428. they're gonna sharpen me and I'm gonna serve them.

  429. And that's gonna be good.

  430. I want somebody transparent my life because I need to

  431. get this off my chest, and I want to talk

  432. to them and I want to be have that blessing

  433. of freedom. But somebody who has authority over me, somebody

  434. who actually carries a word that I'm going to let

  435. have a weight in my life. We live in a

  436. society that says, don't ever put yourself in that place.

  437. We live in a society that strongly echoes, do not

  438. ever let anybody tell you what to do. You are

  439. the independent, free one. You belong to nobody. And yet

  440. in this model, the Son who is fully God says,

  441. not wi your will, Now listen to me. I am

  442. not saying that there is a human person you need

  443. in the life who's your boss and controls everything you do.

  444. You understand that.

  445. I'm saying that we all all have blind spots and

  446. we need people, somebody in our life who understands that.

  447. Here's why we need this role in our life. Number One,

  448. we all have wrong beliefs. None of us have this

  449. perfect theology. Saul persecuted Christians, and he needed Barnabas in

  450. his life right now. Some of us, in one way

  451. or another there's something we're thinking wrong. We're thinking something

  452. wrong about ourselves. It may be a false guilt, it

  453. may be we don't see ourselves rightly in Christ. And

  454. we need an authoritative voice that will correct that wrong thought.

  455. Not just a transparent voice that will let us echo it,

  456. but an authoritative voice that says, Joey, you're wrong. The

  457. Bible doesn't actually teach that about what Jesus has.

  458. Done in your life. Because we have these wrong beliefs.

  459. We also need it because sometimes the reality is we

  460. don't see our shortcomings. If this was true of King David.

  461. Remember King David, he has the affair with Basheba. He's

  462. so clueless about it that when the problem comes in

  463. talks to him about somebody doing something wrong, he goes,

  464. oh nail him.

  465. And the prophet goes, it's you. He wasn't even aware

  466. of it.

  467. If King David, who wrote the Book of Psalms, is

  468. unaware of some of his shortcomings, trust me, we're unaware.

  469. And I want to live a life that is holy

  470. and glorifies God. So I need a voice that I

  471. will listen to, that I invite and give permission to,

  472. that says, if you see.

  473. Me, ever being a little squirrely.

  474. Let me know, because on my own I can't be

  475. the only guardian of my actions.

  476. I have that voice. A couple of them.

  477. So one of them is a pastor, and he was

  478. in a meeting with me with a group of other pastors.

  479. And I was having a rough day and I was

  480. not in.

  481. A good mood, and these pastors were just they were

  482. just idiots.

  483. They were just idiot. I'm sorry.

  484. I shouldn't say that about pastors, but they were just idiots.

  485. After the meeting, I'm walking out and this friend of

  486. mine was there, and he was the pastor who said

  487. I meet. He goes, Joe, can I talk to you

  488. for a second.

  489. He said, I.

  490. Noticed in the meeting and you're kind of edgy. Now,

  491. if anybody else says that to me, I kind of

  492. blow it off.

  493. But this is a man.

  494. I have given permission to speak into my life.

  495. So when he says it, it carries weight, and I go, oh, man,

  496. you're right. I did not behave in the best way

  497. in that meeting.

  498. If I didn't have that voice, I wouldn't have seen it.

  499. If you were the one that had told me that,

  500. I would have blown it off. But because I had

  501. given permission to a spiritual leader, a real man of God.

  502. When he pulls me aside and said, Joel, you okay

  503. that carries weight. Do you have that voice in your life?

  504. And it's not your spouse, it's some other voice that

  505. is there because you don't see everything. We all have

  506. these blind spots. It's not just about wanting their opinion.

  507. This happened to me as a pastor where a man

  508. came to be in front of our churts, really affluent guy,

  509. him and his wife made a lot of money.

  510. He said, Joel, could I see you? I said yes.

  511. We met for coffee and he had this binary and

  512. opened it up. He said, we're thinking about building a house,

  513. but I want to make sure it's not too opulent.

  514. And I don't know what's right or wrong.

  515. And he laid out all of his finances, and he

  516. laid out the design of the house, and he laid

  517. out the budget for it. And I was so grateful

  518. in that moment that there was a Christ follower who

  519. was not going to assume they could make this decision

  520. on their own, and they wanted to make the right

  521. decision that would honor and glorify God. So they came

  522. to me and they said tell us. And they had

  523. put me in that position as their pastor speak into us.

  524. And if I had said, you know, guys, it's a

  525. little over the top, they wouldn't have built it. Now

  526. I was able to counsel them say no, it's fine,

  527. it's good. Do you have that voice, because if you're

  528. making some big decisions all on your own, none of

  529. us have the capacity to navigate life's big decisions by ourselves.

  530. And it's not just we need a couple of other opinions.

  531. We actually need an authoritative voice so that when somebody

  532. pulls me after a meeting and says, Joel, I'm listening.

  533. And when somebody says should we build the house, they're

  534. actually gonna kind of follow.

  535. What's there? Why is this so hard? Honestly because we

  536. don't want to let go of control.

  537. It's the God complex in every one of us. We

  538. want to be the ones who dictate our lives.

  539. Because that's a scary place to be because.

  540. What you're doing is not saying, John, you're in control

  541. of my life, just saying John, I trust God, and

  542. I need to hear from God, and I can't hear

  543. from God alone. So I need your help with this,

  544. and I am inviting you and giving you permission to

  545. speak into my life so that I can more herely

  546. hear the voice of God. That individual doesn't replace God,

  547. but sometimes they are a mouthpiece for God. So you

  548. can hear more clearly in that way. And that is hard,

  549. but the benefit you get is untold wisdom. You will

  550. become so much wiser, so much more aware, so much clearer.

  551. You will discover things about you, both good and challenging

  552. that allows you to move forward, and the grace and

  553. faith that's there. Where do you find this person? I

  554. find with these people, you grow into them. They don't

  555. just start there, but they grow into that. The three

  556. or four people in my life I've known him from

  557. twenty five years. They didn't start there, but they've grown

  558. into that. And it's come to a place where I've

  559. said I need you and I'm giving you permission to

  560. speak into my life that way. And there are some

  561. of you here on the flip side be willing to

  562. say yes when you're asked. I would rather not because

  563. now you're in that role where you have to really

  564. do that. But if God asks you to do that,

  565. to help a brother or sister.

  566. Then be willing.

  567. Yeah, Lord, help me give me wisdom, not to control them,

  568. not to dictate them.

  569. But if you want me to be.

  570. Somebody who's been at this ro while to speak into that,

  571. I will do that. Three relationships that Jesus had, and

  572. as a role model he lays it out for us,

  573. the broken, the disciples whom he served, the transparent, who

  574. he was honest with. I've been tempted, I'm having a struggle.

  575. This is really hard. And then the.

  576. Authoritative, what do I do about this? Who's missing in

  577. your life? No condemnation. The reason why we study Mark

  578. all year is to have Jesus, through his word, teach

  579. us how we can get better, how we can grow,

  580. how we can have a greater identity. Who may be

  581. missing in your life? Because for many of us in here,

  582. I discover we usually have two, but not always three.

  583. And the response is not to run out find some

  584. broken person.

  585. You're it.

  586. And the response is not to run out and say,

  587. please speak into my life. No, but it is to say,

  588. you know, Mark in recording Jesus as being really practical here,

  589. and so my practical response is to begin to make

  590. this a matter of prayer, a matter of discussion, and

  591. a matter of expectation. This I'm gonna need some help

  592. from you Lord. This find the right people.

  593. This one. Wow, you find a voice.

  594. Of authority in your life, you will be so much

  595. better off.

  596. You will be in such a healthier place.

  597. So I'm gonna ask you to do this. Just close

  598. your eyes and bow your head. I'm gonna give you

  599. a moment with the Lord.

  600. Just a moment. It's all God needs.

  601. For some of you when it comes to that first relationship.

  602. All He wants you to do is see that person differently.

  603. Stop praying them away, serve them. And you say I

  604. don't have the strength to do with that, That's okay.

  605. That's when you lean into Jesus, just in the quiet

  606. of your own spot there on your chair, Just tell Jesus,

  607. give me your eyes to see that person.

  608. That coworker, that family member. Give me your eyes to

  609. see them.

  610. And know that as you serve the broken person, you're

  611. going to be radically transformed into the image of Christ.

  612. Maybe for some of you you're missing that transparent relationship.

  613. Just ask the Lord right now in this moment, pray, pray,

  614. the Lord of the.

  615. Harvest to send forth the workers. Jesus.

  616. I pray for anybody who is in this room and

  617. they just don't have a good friend, a safe friend,

  618. a trusted friend that they can share their deepest struggles with.

  619. I pray Lord Jesus.

  620. That even in the couple of weeks to come, you

  621. would give them the courage to position themselves here in

  622. Patria as a family, and you would begin to highlight

  623. those people.

  624. You would bring into our lives, really good friends.

  625. That love us and don't judge us, and let us

  626. share what's happening. Lord, I pray there would be an

  627. expectation that the things we stay hidden in our hearts

  628. could come into the light and we would find freedom

  629. through our friends. And lastly, they may be some of

  630. you here and you don't have that voice of authority.

  631. That's the tough one game. And tonight, your position, if

  632. you're gonna respond to Mark and the role model of

  633. Jesus is really it's really a position of okay, God,

  634. a position of submission. You acknowledge that you do not

  635. have the goods to navigate the Christian life alone, that

  636. we all have blind spots. Lord, I pray for each

  637. person who is here and they are missing that voice.

  638. I pray, Lord God that there would not be a

  639. fear or an anxiety around this, but.

  640. There would be a hope and an expectation of godly.

  641. Wisdom spiritual authority that would help us see parts of

  642. our lives that we don't see. I pray, Lord God,

  643. whatever relationship that we are missing, would you bring it

  644. into our lives. We thank you for the model of Jesus,

  645. the practical role model of the Son of God, who

  646. chose to have these relationships. So we choose tonight to

  647. follow him. And from here forward, Lord, we will work,

  648. we will trust, we will position ourselves. But as we

  649. live this life of faith, we will have broken people,

  650. transparent people, and a voice of authority that we welcome

  651. into our lives so that we can become more like you. Jesus,

  652. we thank you and we praise you in Christ. Then

  653. we pray Amen, Amen.

  654. Got to let you all, Hey man, let's get pastor

  655. choel a round of applause for that strong, practical message

  656. before we dismiss.

  657. I want to stay in that same posture. So if

  658. we can bow our heads and close our eyes and

  659. can just continue in that posture as we're listening to

  660. this message, and we recognize the relationships we need. The

  661. ultimate relationship that will give us the surrender to seek

  662. to serve broken people, to be transparent and to have

  663. an authority in our life is to allow Jesus to

  664. be the savior and the lord of our life.

  665. And for some of us, we would confess that we're

  666. that broken person and Jesus wants to serve you right now.

  667. Right now, we're just reminded of the gospel story that

  668. Jesus loves you as is. You don't have to change

  669. anything about who you are to receive his love. It's

  670. just a confession that, yes we are broken, Yes we

  671. have sin, yet we believe that Jesus died.

  672. On the cross for all of our sin.

  673. From that revelation, we start our relationship with Jesus. For

  674. some of us, we've started our relationship with Jesus, and

  675. there's certain things that have occurred in our life that

  676. cause us to pause or stop in our faith journey.

  677. Why don't we continue that with Jesus tonight? So as

  678. we are seeking to.

  679. More healthy, some of us are going to start our

  680. faith journey with Jesus. Some of us are going to

  681. declare tonight we're going to continue our faith journey. I

  682. would like all of us to repeat this prayer together

  683. as a community to encourage those that are praying.

  684. This prayer for the first time. It may not be

  685. the first time you heard the prayer, be the first

  686. time that you prayed this prayer. Sincerely to give your

  687. life to Christ or to rededicate your life. Repeat this

  688. Please after me say, Dear Lord Jesus, I believe that

  689. you died on the cross for all of my sin.

  690. Thank you for forgiving me. From this moment forward. You

  691. are my savior and you are my Lord. Teach me

  692. to trust you. Surround me with people that continue to

  693. point me to You in power me to serve broken people,

  694. to be open and transparent with the right people, and

  695. have safe authority in my life to guide me. In

  696. Jesus' name, we pray