Sermon
Forgiveness in Practice: Moving Beyond Hurt || Pastor Aaron Levy
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Heymen, hey man, good evening, Patre How are we feeling tonight?
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Oh that feels good.
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Who's ready to squeeze these scriptures? If we haven't met yet,
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my name is Aaron. I get the opportunity to serve
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as one of the pastors here on staff. And before
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we talk about the message, can you help me honor
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our lead pastors, Pastor Adam and Pastor Ashley, just leading
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so beautifully with so much vision. I counted an honor
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anytime I get to be entrusted to be a part
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of the sermon series.
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So here we are.
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And also we got Pomona watching us right now. We
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got Alameda watching us right now. Come on, let's give
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it up for our campuses. We love you, Pastor Steven Delors,
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we love you. Fore you go with tiffany Man. Our
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campuses are growing and phenomenal and more on the horizon. Hey,
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if you're new to Patriot, what we've been doing all month?
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We've been in a series called the Red Letter series,
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and in your Bibles, Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John, many
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of those translations have what Jesus said in read letters,
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hence the series called read Letters.
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But we've done something a little different.
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We've also coupled that with looking at chosen clips.
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Anybody watch Chosen.
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Yeah, and what we're talking about tonight is something very important.
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It's a tough subject.
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Look at your neighbor and say forgiveness. Look at your
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other neighbor and say forgiveness online type forgiveness.
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Yeah.
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It's one of the things that we receive from God,
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and then he expects us to steward it by.
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Giving it out to others.
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So if we stand on our feet, we stand on
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our feet to honor God's word. We'll be in Matthew
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chapter eighteen versus twenty one through twenty two.
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I'll be reading from the ESV.
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Or it'll be on the screens Matthew eighteen twenty one
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through twenty two. If you have it, say hey many
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more times, say.
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Hold on, hold up, Okay, we hold up, We hold up.
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That's what my dad used to say when I was
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a kid. Hold up, preacher, all right, it's time.
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Then Peter came and said to him, Lord, how often
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will my brother sin against me?
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And I forgive him as many as seven times? And
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Jesus said to him, I do not say to you
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seven times, but seventy seven times.
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Let's pray, God, help us to understand what you're requiring
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of us. I pray in the name of Jesus that
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as we unpack your word, that you get me out
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of the way. Holy Spirit, encourage us, challenge us, free us,
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and give us the courage to apply this word.
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In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
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Amen, you may be seated and pay attention to the
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screens as we look at a clip from Chosen.
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What do I do when there's someone who has sinned
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against me egregiously, repeatedly and without repentance.
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I can't imagine who that would be?
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The portrayal of our people by working for Rome, that
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was one thing that was a sin against all of
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us and our heritage. And he showed no mercy when
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Andrew begged him for extra time on his tribute that
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and even charge an extra sixty percent on what was pasted.
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Do Yeah, I was gonna let Rome seize our vot's collateral,
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which would have taken our ability to work and landed
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us both in jail, meaning Aiden could have starved. He
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didn't even hesitate for a moment when quintessessin Despine me,
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I'm up to seven, and I haven't even gone to
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the fact that he was fully ready to turn me
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in the morning.
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That the morning that what you know, I do, he
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may have been ready to turn to him, but it
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didn't come to that. So for the moment, let's keep
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it at seven a number of completion. He sends it
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against me seven times, and I'm supposed to just.
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Forgive that.
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No, not seven, but seventy seven times.
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I could stuck him up that high if I really
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broke down each offense and the consequences.
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You know, I don't mean literally seventy seven times, seventy
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times seven completion times completion, endless forgiveness, without limits.
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Look, a couple of days ago you gave me a
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new name and made big proclamations. But whether my name
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is Simon or Peter, I'm still the same man I
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was the day before that. I'm still human and I
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can't do it. I can't and no one would blame me.
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You mentioned the consequences of Matthew's actions, Remember the circumstances
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that put.
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You in Yeah, that's all I can think about. That's
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why I'm out here and not asleep next to Eden.
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But after that, on the summer Rose, I know it's hard.
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Why does everything have to be? Man makes it much
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harder when he leans on his own.
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Understanding powerful scene. Right, Well, I'm want to check this out.
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Forgiveness is hard on its own, but sometimes forgiveness even
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because more complex, because we don't really know what forgiveness is.
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And if you look at that clip between Jesus and Peter,
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that's how forgiveness starts out. Because forgiveness is between you
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and Jesus, is not between you Jesus and.
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The other person. Forgiveness is not reconciliation.
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Reconciliation has to do with you, Jesus and the other person.
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So as we go through those stages of forgiveness, we
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need to look at restoration.
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Through the lens of forgiveness.
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So we look at that clip and Peter is remorseful,
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and Peter is bitter and he's angry, but Jesus reminds
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him of Luke chapter five. And in Luke chapter five,
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he's reminding Peter of.
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How good he is to him.
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And we forgive because we have been forgiven. I want
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to share with you the definition of forgiveness.
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Let's go ahead and go to the next one.
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Forgive in Greek is ah it goes a fi I
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may e. Okay, I butcher that. I don't know Greek,
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but it's off he may e.
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Can you say that with me?
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Yeah, it's root word in two words, one being apo
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and one being he amy. And the thing about forgiveness,
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it means get away from.
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Or off and it means release and send away.
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And there's times in our life where we do the apo,
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we cut people off, but we don't do the hee amy.
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Will we release it from our soul. And that's why
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Jesus tells us, hey, if we're going to forgive, we
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have to not necessarily reconcile with the person, but you
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do need to reconcile with me.
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That's what Jesus is saying.
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And when you reconcile with Jesus, he'll guide us on
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how to treat.
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People who've offended us.
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And that's why our first first point is forgiveness is
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not a formula. Forgiveness is faith based. Forgiveness is not
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a formula. Forgiveness is faith based. If we go to
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Luke chapter seventeen, verse three through six, look what it
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says here. It's the same story, but Luke gives us
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a little more detail. He says, pay attention to yourselves.
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Sometimes we pay more attention to the one that offended
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us than to ourselves.
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If your brother sins rebualk him, and if he repents,
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forgive him.
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And if sinds against you seven times in a day
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in terms of you seven times saying I repent, you
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must forgive him.
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The apostle said, Lord, increase our faith.
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And the Lord said, if you had faith like the
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grain of a mustard seed, you can say to this
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mulberry tree, be uprooted and planted in this sea, and
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it would obey you.
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Forgiveness is faith based.
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The disciples saw blind eyes, heel, the disciples saw people raise.
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But the only time in scripture where the disciples ask
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for more faith is.
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When Jesus challenged to forgive.
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And Jesus, being the master teacher, what he does is
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he uses a mustard seed, and he.
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Uses a mulberry tree.
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And I got really curious about this mulberry tree.
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There should be a picture of it over here. Now
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this is a mulberry tree.
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What's awesome about mulberry trees that provide great shade? They
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have great strong roots that go deep. But if he's
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saying is all you need is the faith of a
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mustard seed, and you can uproot this mulberry tree. Now,
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I want you for a second to picture all your
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relationships in your soul.
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Your soul is a garden full of mulberry trees.
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And this is your husband, This is your wife, This
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is your kids, this is your grandkids, this is your grandparents,
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your parents, this is your mailman, this is your enemies,
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this is your baby daddy.
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All the people that are in your soul.
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And I want you to picture your soul as a
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relational garden or a relational forest.
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And what happens in life.
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There are people that offend us, that lie to us,
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that hurt us, that backstab us.
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And we're gonna say, you know what, Remember that word
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in Greek it was opo, Right, So I'm gonna cut
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you off.
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To what we do a lot of times we get
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a changsaw. Go to that person that hurt us, and
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look at.
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This together, the person that hurt me. I'm gonna cut you.
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I'm gonna cut you off because you're blocking my view.
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I don't want you in my face.
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But low key, what ends up happening is I want
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you to feel the hurt that I felt. Sometimes I
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take pleasure in seeing you fall, and I want to
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participate in you falling because.
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You're the one that hurt me. So what happens is
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sometimes this is what we want forgiveness to look like,
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because it's loud, it has a lot of action. I'm
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in control, and the way that you made me feel,
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I'm gonna make you feel. But that's not forgiveness. That's vengeance.
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That's anger. That was okay to be angry, it's not
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okay to stay angry.
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That's why Jesus is talking to Peter by the fire,
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because what ends up happening if you look at your
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relational soul, all were left with his stumps, and a
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lot of our souls look like this. Well, we cut
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off the person, but we haven't uprooted the offense.
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So that person's not in your life no more, but
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you take you with you. So what happens is we.
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Get hurt, we cut the person off, but then we
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carry the offense and we go to a new neighborhood
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group and I'm just gonna be here and I don't
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really trust nobody. I'm just trying to see what the
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vibes are and I knew y'allways liked the last church
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because we're not rooted in Christ, We're rooted in bitterness.
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We take us with us, we take us to our
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next marriage, we take us to our next job.
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And it's not.
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The person that hurts you, it's the stumps. It's the
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roots and our souls that we never dealt with. So
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from Jesus perspective, I got a picture that shows this.
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From Jesus perspective, it just looks like we have.
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All this deadness in our souls, all these tombstones, and
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this is why we get tripped up and tangled because
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we're tripping over past relationships that hurt us.
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It's valid that they hurt, but.
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Jesus has a power to help you uproot those things. Now,
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why would Jesus use a mulberry tree. Mulberry tree roots.
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Go all the way si sixty feet down.
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I think we got a picture of mulberry trees to
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go sixty feet down.
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So when Jesus says, if you have faith the size
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of a mustard.
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Seed, you can speak to a mulberry tree, So I
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use my creative imagination to say, you know, with forgiveness,
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I've been using the wrong tool.
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I've been using the chainsaw. I need to use this pickaxe.
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And the word of God is sharp as a two
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edged sword. So the person's not in my life no more.
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But the offense is. So I use the word of
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God in faith to start uprooting the things that hurt me.
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I'm honest to God and saying it's taking time God,
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it's taking.
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The time Lord.
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But if I have faith the size of a mustard seed,
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I can uproot this.
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Out of my life.
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We need the word of God to handle the offenses,
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not the behavior of people that hurt us. And sometimes
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we hold unforgiveness because that person hasn't changed. But maybe
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God is allowing the pain so we can change. You know,
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you've been forgiven. Once you forgive others, anybody can receive forgiveness. Oh,
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it is a challenge to steward that forgiveness. So Peter
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has a decision to make because Peter is spending time
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with Jesus and he's asking Peter pretty much, what are
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you gonna focus on, Peter? What they did to you
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or what I did for you. See, Peter tried to
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have a formula. Here's what Peter's formula if you cross me,
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I'll cut you. I mean, that's proof of that. He
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cut malcous here off right. But Jesus has a different
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formula rooted in faith.
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What Jesus said is when you cross me, I'll carry
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your cross. And if we're going to be.
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Disciples of Christ, yes people are going to hurt us.
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Yes people are gonna let us down.
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But it also is the reason why we grow in
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our spiritual maturity, being able to uproot the offenses. If
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you can change, why can't somebody else change?
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Here's the question I want to ask us.
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What roots are inside of you that needs to be uprooted. See,
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sermons aren't good until you apply them. This is not content,
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This is transformation. What needs to be uprooted from your life?
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When you're watching the video, when you're seeing the illustration,
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there are fouls that are probably popping up in your soul.
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What needs to be uprooted from your life now?
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Point number one is forgiveness is not a formula, is
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faith based. Point number two is forgiveness is not forbearance.
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Forgiveness is release. Jesus is talking to Peter. He tells
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them to forgive seventy times seven and then he goes
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into a story to help teach on forgiveness. We're going
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to be in Matthew chapter eighteen, verse twenty three, and
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this is Jesus giving Peter a story.
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Look what it says here.
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Therefore, the kingdom of Heaven may be compared to a
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king who wished to settle accounts with the servants. When
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he began to settle, one was brought to him who
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owed him ten. Everybody say ten, ten thousand talents. Whenever
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you see ten in the Bible, that means test ten
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commandments ten plagus tive ten percent, So the.
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Ten means test as.
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Since he could not pay, his master ordered him to
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be sold and his wife and children and all that
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he had, and payment to be made. So the servant
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fell on his knees, imploring him have patience with me,
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and I will pay you everything. And out of pity,
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pome Ona say pity, alom to say pity.
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See Rancho, I didn't ask y all to say pity.
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Okay, have just kidd and out of pity for him,
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the master that the servant released.
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Him and forgave him the debt.
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The servant asked for patience, but the king gave him
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pity a little more on pity, but firstly, I wanted
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to describe what forbearance looks like. Let's talk about what
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forbearance looks like. Yes, okay, average home in southern California is.
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Why is the keeper ration? There we go? Five hundred
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thousand dollars? Okay, yeah, whatever.
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Now let's say God gave you favor, but we're doing
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this for very simple math. You get a killer interest
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rate and your mortgage payment is what.
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Two thousand dollars? Okay? That would be a killer interest rate? Right,
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thank you, Sean.
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Now this person, it's five months past.
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Do why is a keeper ration? Okay? I ran out
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of Yeah, do best due? Now?
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Almeda, how much does he owe in moretge payments?
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Come on, you're right next door to a school, rancho.
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How much is he? Oh? Okay? Ten thousand?
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What?
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Okay? All right, I'm gonna need to be discipled on this.
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Jesus A. He owe ten thousand dollars? Okay? Yeah, Now
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when you owe ten thousand, thank you give a run
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of a plus for a hobby? Oh? There we go, okay,
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he owe ten thousand dollars.
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Now here's what a mortgage company is not going to do, Hey,
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we forgive you.
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You're now current, you have to move forward.
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But they know that it'll be a loss if there's foreclosure,
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so they don't want to foreclose. They don't want to forgive,
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so they forbear. And what a forbearance is. You have
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some that's five months past due and they're gonna say,
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you know what, We're gonna act like you're not past due,
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but this ten thousand dollars we're gonna put on the
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end of your loan. Right, So, now how much do
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you owe?
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And this is just simple math.
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We're not including the interest rate, plus God gave his
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favor on the interest rate or whatever. But I'm trying
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to explain what forbearance is. It's forbearance forgiveness.
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No, I'm acting.
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Like you're not past due, but I'm still holding something
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over your head in the future. And that's what sometimes
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happens in relationships. Something happens and we say I forgive you,
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but then five years go by and you get into
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an argument.
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Do you remember what you did to.
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Me back in the day when I need no, no, no,
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you need to give you my tenth thousand. That's not forgiveness.
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That's forbearance, and when we look at the grace and
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mercy of Jesus, I'm so so grateful.
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He doesn't count us as pass due.
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We don't have nothing to collect on. He treats us
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as current. You're my son, you're my daughter.
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I love you. You can have your.
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Dignity because I won't hold nothing over your head. How
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many times have we been in relational situations? Okay, I
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forgive you, she said, Listen, we hood too, Rancho Pomona.
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When we forgive, we apo, we take it off and
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we he aimy, we release the debt and the forbearance. Example,
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their payoff was supposed to be in June. Now their
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payoff is until December. And sometimes we're saying that we're
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forgiving people. But you got a lot of making up
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to do. You got make it up to do on restoration,
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on reconciliation, but not forgiveness. Is under everybody to understand
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what that means. So we talk about.
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This word pity, because he said he had pity on
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the man.
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And when I looked at that word pity, I looked
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for a black Theolosian that can help us with the
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word pity.
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Here he is.
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Professor I didn't know team was for the Elosian I
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pitied the fool?
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Remember that? Or am I just telling my age? But
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he shares a video on why he came with I
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pitied the fool. Let's check out the video.
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You coined one of the most famous catchphrases in history.
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I pity the fool.
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What's interesting is I read an article with you once
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for you said that when you pity the fool, you
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consider that an act of kindness to Oh yes, oh yes,
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oh yes, I always say it is. I pitied the
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fool means I want to kill the guy.
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Oh no, no, no, no, when you pity somebody, you're
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showing the mercy. Because I didn't start this pity stuff.
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It was in the Bible. You know. You found pity
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so many times in the Bible, and food so many times.
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So I put him together, pity the food because a
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lot of a lot of guys in the Bible was
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as for pity, yeah, you know, And then a lot
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of them was saying I did a foolish eight, right,
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So I put it together.
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But I didn'tonize you did all this research when you
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came up with I pitied a fool.
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Oh yeah, oh, yeah, let's give it up. Let's give
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it up for the theologian, I pitied a food.
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Now, let's look at what pity means.
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In the Greek splink knit zomi splink knit zomi splink
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means there's a deep gut feeling I have, and I
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have a love that meets you where you're at. That's
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called compassion. So pity is different than how we say
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it today. Pity in the Greek means that God has
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moved so deeply when we need his help. He has
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a compassion that takes action on our behalf pity, and
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through that pity God gave us grace.
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I have an example of how that worked out in
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my life.
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I remember decades ago, I just knew I was going
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to be this famous rapper touring all over the world,
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and I had this this rap group. And the thing
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about it is, I'm I'm I'm really wasn't a thug,
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like I was a church kid, but I'm hanging around
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rappers that like they actually like did certain things right.
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So I thought it was just about bars.
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So what would happened was we'll go to the studio,
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we go to somebody's house and some of my homies
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always had new shoes on, and I'm like, man, how'd
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you get those shoes? And they say, hey, we'll put
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you up on game. I said, well, how what were
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we doing? He said, all you gotta do is go
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to the department store, take an old pair of shoes
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that you want to get rid of, take those off,
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get the new shoes, put the old shoes in the box,
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and then you walk out the store. And I said,
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but that's stealing now if you don't get caught. So
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I would go to the homies house, new shoes. Go
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to the homies house, new shoes, and I'm just looking
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at I got.
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Pro wings on them. Fela's. I'm like, I'm like, man.
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I needed, I needed, I need to do something this.
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So I go with the guys. We're at the department store.
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It's four of us, and I mean, I.
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Am not the.
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Toughest guy, okay, So I'm walking around and then my
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heart is just.
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So I go to the shoes, I get the shoes,
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put them on my feet, put them on my feet.
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Put the old ones back, and then I don't want
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to walk out immediately.
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So it's like I gotta act like.
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I'm like really shopping so like, but now like the
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homies are leaving and they're not getting caught one goal, two,
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goal three, it's just me. So now I'm I'm like
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looking at women's dresses. I'm not I'm not exact. I
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remember this like, yeah, so now it's my time to go.
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I start walking out and as soon as I went
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out of the store.
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I get tackled by three people. I get handcuffed. I
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can still remember, like yesterday, the pavement.
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That was on my cheek and just looking sideways of
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all these people staring at me.
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The shame, the embarrassment. How I get caught on my
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first time. I can laugh at it. Now I'm crying.
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I go to the back and I can't see anything
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because of the tears that are running so much down
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my face. But the lights that were shining in my face,
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and the guy said I remember, he looked at me
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and he said, first of all, you're going to jail,
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and second of all, I need your dad's number.
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Oh so I.
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Just went back in my chair and I was crying
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so much. I remember the tears on my ears. Oh God,
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I started crying to it. Now I pray. Now I'm praying, right,
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so I started praying to God, and I don't my
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eyes were closed. All of a sudden, the guy comes
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next to me. He takes off my handcuffs. He gives
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me tissue, and he's I knew you weren't a thug. No,
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he didn't say that, but he gave me tissue, and
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he said, hey.
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I don't want to see you in the store again.
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I don't want you to steal no more. Are you
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going to obey? Yes, sir, yes, sir, yes, sir. He
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gets up.
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I just want you to walk straight out and don't
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look at anyone. And I remember, like yesterday, the freedom
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it felt like. I remember the he like that heaveness.
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So I'm going to like jail and then to walk
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out the doors free. I remember when I walked out
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and I sat down in my nineteen eighty eight Ford Escort,
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and I'm like, oh my God, See, that's what forgiveness
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feels like. That's what freedom feels like. Because I know
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I was wrong. I knew I messed up.
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I know what I deserve, and that's what the grace
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of God is. That's what pity is. God's seen every
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single thing that we have done. But yet he chooses mercy.
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He chooses to set us free, and we describe that
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feeling by having other people enjoy it. So my question
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to you is what is your past do amount? See
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sometimes we think that since we're current and we forget
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where we came from when somebody does us wrong. No,
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but what's your past due amount? Because the first question
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was what needs to be uprooted? But will give you
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motivation to uproot? That is the soberness of your past?
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Do amount?
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Point number one is Forgiveness is faith space. Point number
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two is forgiveness is release. Point number three forgiveness is
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not fairness. Forgiveness is freedom. One of the things that
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causes us not to be free is because when we forgive,
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we feel like it's not fair. And God tells us
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to have pity on people.
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That hurts us. But many times we ain't trying to
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be pity. We being petty.
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This is how you know you being petty? What do
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your lips do when that person's name come up?
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Al Amita?
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What happens when you're around somebody that offended you and
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it just so happened that person is getting all the compliments. Oh,
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they're not all that, They don't they not, because it's
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not fair. They must not know what they did.
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So if we look at.
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Verse twenty eight, we're gonna see how that servant that
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was forgiven treated somebody that owed him money verse twenty eight.
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But they but when they But when that same servant
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went out, he found one of his fellow servants who
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had owed him one hundred dinariyat, and seizing him, began
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and to choke him, saying pay.
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What you owe.
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He didn't pity the fool, and so his fellow servant
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fell down and pleaded with him, have patience with me,
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and I will pay you the same things he said
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to the king.
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Now was said to him, But he didn't release.
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He refused and went and put him in prison until
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he should pay the debt. When his fellow servants saw
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what had taken place, they were greatly distressed, and then
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went and reported to their.
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Master all that had taken place.
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Then his master summoned him and said to him, you,
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wicked servant.
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I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me.
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And should you not have had mercy on your fellow
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servant as I had mercy on you?
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And in his anger, his master delivered him to the jailers.
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Everybody say, jailer's until he should pay all his debt.
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So also, my heavenly father will do to every one
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of you if you do not forgive your brother from
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your heart. Oh my gosh, that's tough. There's a quote
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here by Max Lusato.
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Forgiveness is unlocking the door to set someone free and
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realizing you were the prisoner. How many times in our
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life have somebody done us wrong. It's their fault, it's
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not your fault. This time they did you wrong. They
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didn't repent, they didn't change, and we just pull out
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the chainsaw and we want them to feel how they felt. Well,
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remember all those roots that we had an opportunity to forgive.
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This is what it looks like when we don't. Let's
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look at the picture. In Jesus name, there's a picture
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that shows what roots.
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Look like when they are Okay, I just want you
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to picture Pomona.
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Trees behind a jail cell.
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Because what happens is in relationships, when we're broken, we
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don't choose to forgive, and we.
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Want somebody to feel what we feel.
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We end up sitting right next to them.
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And that's how soulmates become cellmates. You hurt me, you
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owe me, you hurt me, Jesus heal me. And as
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Jesus heals.
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Me, He's going to test my faith in my love
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to see how I forgive others.
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As we conclude, we can clap in church. I mean
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is a yeah, we are that type of church. As
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we conclude, I just want to ask the question, where
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are you stumped? Where are you stumped?
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You know, I'd encourage us all to read the Book
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of Jonah. The Book of Jonah is about a story
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of forgiveness. And in Jonah chapter four, you see Jonah
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sitting under a plant getting shade.
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The shade gets moved, and for the.
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Third time, Jonah is seeking or is having suicidal thoughts.
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But the problem with Jonah is he's called by God
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to give mercy to people he hasn't forgiven the Ninavites.
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God wanted Jonah to be in his calling, but it
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just so happened his calling triggered him because he wants Jesus.
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Wants him to show kindness to somebody that he hates.
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So when Jonah sees the Ninavites enjoying the mercy of God,
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instead of Jonah rejoicing. He wants to commit suicide. And
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we don't know the end of Jonah's story, just like
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we don't know the end of your story. And sometimes
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we're seated on things that just continue to trigger us
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on the inside.
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When those roots get.
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Entangled with our bitterness, what our stubbornness, what our childhood trauma.
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That's what's strong holds are and what Jesus is inviting
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all of us to do is to let it go.
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Romans chapter five, verse eight says God demonstrates his love
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towards you that while you were a sinner, Christ died
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for you.
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Jesus didn't wait for any of us to improve.
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He did the work on the forefront, and he's just
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asking us to surrender.
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To What would you do with forgiveness?
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Peter had a choice, Jonah had a choice, and now
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you have a choice. You can receive his forgiveness and
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give it out to others where you can receive his
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forgiveness and hoard it yourself. Let's pray, Jesus, we thank
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you for what you taught us regarding forgiveness. Thank you
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that you are the model of what that looks like.
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You took the penalty that we deserve by dying on
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the cross. And now you put the ball in our court.
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I thank you that you're bringing up fouls right now.
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That needs to be uprooted. Give us the courage right
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now to release, to release in Jesus. Then we pray Amen.
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You know, one of the most sobering things about the
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gospel is that the king was treated like a criminal
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when he died on the cross.
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He was in between two criminals.
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And as he's in between two criminals, and he looks
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at both of them, and he has pity, and he says, Father,
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forgive them, for they know not what they do. He
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prayed for both of them, Father, forgive them, for they
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know not what they do.
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And if you know the story in Luke, one criminal
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continue to mock Jesus.
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Another criminal declared that Jesus was lord, and Jesus said, today,
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you'll be with me in Paradise. Jesus is still asking
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that question to you right now.
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Do you want to be a part of his kingdom?
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He knows everything you've done, yet he still chooses to
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love you as is. But his love is so powerful
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and influential that you can't just stay the same.
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Because when you know that somebody loved you at your worst.
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They're worth following. You may know church, but you may
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not know Jesus.
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I'll tell you that was a professional church goer, but
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I knew nothing about Jesus.
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I knew nothing about the Bible.
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And now that I know how much God loves me,
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it's my duty to invite others. The start line of
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Christianity is forgiveness. My ask is, have you taken that
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first step? That's the first step of the faith journey forgiveness.
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Now there's a second group of you. You've been walking
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with Jesus for a while, and as you walk with Jesus,
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the posture is to stay holding his hand. But there
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are sometimes where people have hurt you, and situations have
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caused us to let go of Jesus hands and put
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the offense in our own hands. When we put that
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offense on our own hands, that's when we get off
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the chainsaw. That's when we want to hurt other people.
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And what Jesus is saying, put your hand back in
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my hand.
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Let's keep walking forward. I see you're heard, I see
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your pain.
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But as you keep walking, what you're doing is your
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light is shining for a dark world.
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To see.
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Forgiveness doesn't mean that you trust them. Forgiveness means that
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you trust God. So trusting God is holding his hand
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while we're hurt. This all close our eyes for a moment,
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seal this in prayer. It's an invitation for you to
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give your life to Christ for the first time.
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I'm not asking you to give your life to this church.
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This church can't take you to heaven.
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I'm asking you to give your life to Christ, the
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one who died for you. In the second group, you're
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gonna pray that you're gonna keep walking forward holding Christ's
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hand in this faith journey. And I would like everybody
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to repeat this prayer after me to encourage those that
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are praying this prayer for the first time to give
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your life to Jesus or to rededicate your life to Jesus.
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Repeat this, please say, Dear Lord Jesus, I believe that
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you died.
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On the cross for all of my sin.
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From this moment forward, you are my savior and my Lord.
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Teach me to trust you with my decisions. As I
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receive forgiveness, I release forgiveness.
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Be with me and give me.
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The courage to walk out forgiveness for those that have
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hurt me, surround me with people that point me to
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you in Jesus.
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Then we pray. Let's open our eyes for a moment.
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Just want us to celebrate as a community. We've been
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praying for this moment, for you to give your life
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to Christ or to continue walking in your faith journey
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with Christ. If you pray that prayer for the first
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time or the last time. On the counter three, I
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just want you to shoot your hand bold in the
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air as a declaration that was for me.
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I'm receiving it forgiven. That's for me. I'm gonna walk
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forward in.
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Forgiveness for others. One two one two three. Go ahead
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and raise your hand high, Raise your hand high. Come on, Church,
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Let's celebrate. Come on church, Let's celebrate people giving their
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life to Christ.
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People are rededicating their life to Christ. This is what
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it's about. Church. Hallelujah. Thank you Jesus. Well, we have patriot.
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Patriot just means family in Greek.
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And we know this Christian journey is not easy and
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it's very hard trying to walk by yourself. So Patrio
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doesn't want to replace Jesus.
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We just want to walk alongside you too, So we have.
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Some next steps that are available to help with your
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faith journey. So if you pull out your smartphone and
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you visit www. Grow dot Faith, we want to put
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a book in your hand by our founding pastor. It
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just talks about the next steps in your faith journey.
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And speaking of faith journey, maybe your next step is
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growth Track.
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That is the class that people are, the series of classes.
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That people take when they want to start being a
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part of the family through serving. So it's every Sunday
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at nine am. We teach you more about our vision
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and values in detail, but most importantly about you how
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God is uniquely designs you to make a difference in
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your family and your community's lives.
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Amen, I ask you to stand on your feet.
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Please, Were you, guys blessed by our service today?
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God is good, He's faithful. If you need.
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Specific prayer, we'll have a prayer team that will pray
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for you up at the front. I'll pray generally and
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you'll be dismissed. Heavenly Father, thank you for what you've accomplished.
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Through your word. Give us the courage to walk this out.
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Protect our families, protect our souls. Father God in Jesus name,
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we pray hey Man, God bless you, miss thank you
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hey Love you HM.