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Lessons on Friendship 6 (How To Manage Trust & Regulate Love in Friendship) | Rev. COS Fawenu
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Don't be left in the dark. Get proper understanding of life
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through the Word of God. My people perish for lack of
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knowledge. The Word of God is an
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illumination which gives direction.
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Remember, place as Reverend goes far and illuminates your mind
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with the Word of God with all simplicity and clarity.
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Welcome back to The Cave of Truth excavation, because as I
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reflect on how the Holy Spirit has been leading us in the last
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three weeks, we have actually been going beyond just sharing
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revelation about friendship. Rather we have been doing
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excavation of eating truth about relationship in general.
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I don't know whether you took notes of that we have been doing
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or what we have been doing in the last six weeks.
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It's not just sharing revelation about friendship, but rather we
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have been doing excavation of hidden truth about relationship
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in general. So turn to your neighbor NIA of
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our Pharaohs say welcome back to The Cave of excavation.
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And I guarantee you that today promises attaining another
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deeper level of excavation of Kingdom mystery.
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And may the Lord quicken your understanding to receive the
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hard truth that will help your destiny in the name of Jesus.
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I have just prayed and I can hear that woman aligning with us
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in the spirit. I say may the Lord quicken your
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understanding to receive the truth that will help your
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destiny in the name of Jesus. So we are not just digging for
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water, we are digging for trails.
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We are digging for trail and today we are going deeper.
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Tell somebody we are going deeper.
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Now before we lay our finger on the focus for today, it's
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important that we do equip review of the concluding parts
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of last week's study. Last week's study, if you
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examine it critically, it was a two in one session.
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The first session we examine our law to inherit enemies and that
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eventually drove till into the second session where we commence
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a study on trust management in friendship, trust management in
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person. And we have to do that part
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because a mind that is be clouded with sentiments cannot
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love correctly. When your mind is be clouded
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with sentiments, you will not be able to love correctly.
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So love, which is the adhesive that bind people together in
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friendship. Do you know that you know what
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an adhesive is? Gum.
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The adhesive that bind people together in friendship is love.
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But where your mind is be clouded with sentiment, you will
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not be able to love correctly. And that was the reason we
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before we start to look at trust management in friendship, we
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first examine the subject of you not inheriting your neighbor's
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enemy. Why love can only thrive and
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friendship can only flourish where trust is genuine.
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Where trust is what's genuine in any form of relationship.
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Once trust is wounded, love will be damaged.
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Once trust is wounded. Once trust is affected
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negatively, love will be damaged.
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The way you preserve love is by protecting trust.
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Once trust is wounded, I said love will be damaged.
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If you want to preserve love, the assignment you must commit
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yourself to is to protect trust. So you preserve love by
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protecting trust. And I did mention very
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emphatically, and I explained the concept properly, that
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friendship is the highest level of interpersonal relationship.
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Friendship is the highest level of interpersonal relationship
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OK, when even when you are married are your spouse is not
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your friend, you don't make it a point of duty to make your
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spouse your friend. You will discover that you will
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see share intimacy with others get that is deeper than the why
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you are with your spouse. Am I talking with to somebody?
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So friendship, been the highest level of interpersonal
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relationship, must be built on trust.
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It must be built awards trust. There is no security for love
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where trust is missing. When trust is not there, your
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love is not secure. So there is no security for love
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where trust is absent. Then, among many other issues
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that were raised last week for consideration, I equally stated
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the following poetic lines for your meditation.
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I'll quickly run over them before we start to engage the
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focus for today. I did mention that what makes
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friendship so exceptional among different levels of
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interpersonal relationship is trust.
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You can have an accuters, OK, You just relate at the platonic
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level and at that, at that platonic level, your mind is
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actually not there. Your mind is prepared for any
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damage that may come. Are you with me?
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But once you call it friendship, trust must be there.
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So and it is that trust that makes it exceptional, that makes
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it the chief of all forms of interpersonal relationship.
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And I did mention that when we talk about this trust thing, OK,
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is it a colour thing that we will be able to describe by its
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colour? Is it a matter that we will be
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able to describe it by its weights?
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Are we able to now put it into calculation?
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I said this is the mass was you can was it way this particular
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wait there you'll be able to say it is excellent or less than
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excellent. Am I talking to somebody?
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So trust still exists in the abstract realm.
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So it's not totally provable empirically.
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And I think that was what made one of you to ask that question
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last week, that if we say trust must precede love, for how long
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will love with until we are sure that trust exists before we dive
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into the ocean? Praise the name of the Lord.
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Yes, trust may not be totally provable, provable empirically,
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but it must be standing on a rational and reasonable ground.
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I will not be able to describe the colour.
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I will not be able to describe the texture.
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OK, but where it exists there are certain characteristics that
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will be present that will convince you that trust is here
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and when it is not there, you will also be able to say trust
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is absent. So your trust must be standing
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on the rational and reasonable ground.
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You don't assume it. You know what?
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Assume it. You must experience it.
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And I pray in the name of Jesus the Lord will give you faithful
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friends. You will not fall into the hand
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of those who will deceive you and destroy you in the name of
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Jesus. So love on the other hand,
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different from trust, may not allow for rational evidence.
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But trust must be built on rational evidence for love,
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because it's an emotional thing. It may not allow for rational
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evidence, but trust must be based on convincing grounds.
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That can serve as a regulator for over boiling love.
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Love can over boil Hello. Love can do what it's over boil
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and we have to be regulated so but we are trust is not does not
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precede it. You will not have the capacity
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to regulate love from over boiling.
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So if you're boiling love therefore will not lead to
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emotional bonds. Trust must be established before
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love is expended. Trust must be established before
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you start to expand love. Love is like a capital you bring
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into your social business. Do you know friendship is the
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social business. Hello, Friendship is what a
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social business. So at the capital you bring
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there to treat which is love. So before you start to now
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expand the love, throw in the love, OK, you must be so sure
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that trust is there. So if you're boiling, love will
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not lead to emotional bonds. Trust must be established before
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love is expended in the social capital markets of love.
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So when we talk about trust, it is the core, It is the essence
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of friendship. Love, on the other hand, is the
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backbone. Love is providing structure and
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supports. Love is providing structure and
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supports. But the core, the essence of
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friendship is what is trust. So it is trust that give
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friendship its depths. Friendship not built on trust is
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starting on a shallow ground. Friendship not built on trust is
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standing on what shallow ground so but when trust is there, the
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friendship will be deep. So it is trust that give
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friendship its depths. What what?
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What love does is to give it stability and strengths.
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So you establish the depth of love by trust.
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Then when you bring in love, it will give it stability and
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strength. So essentially it is not one
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without the order. So they must go hand in hand
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simultaneously. Of course, the the rhetorical
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question will always exist which one should precede the order.
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Sometimes it's a situation of the egg and the chicken.
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You see the chicken that comes before the egg or the egg that
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comes before the chicken. So by the time you hug you for
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the chicken, you eventually discover that without anybody
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telling you, you also have to hug you for the egg.
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Praise the name of the Lord or which one confess the chicken or
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the egg. If you say the chicken, you said
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the chicken come before the the egg, OK, or the egg came before
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the chicken. So that's the way trust and love
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relates sometimes. So this week we are going to
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focus on how to manage trust. How to manage trust and regulate
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love and friendship. Since the two of them must
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coexist for friendship to be deep and stable.
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Trust we give its depths, love we give it stability.
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So for friendship to be deep and stable, both must be present.
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How do you now manage trust and how do you regulate love and
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friendship for love? Love is desperately impulsive.
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Love will not ask for your permission before it will start
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to lead you. Affair by a beauty.
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Do you understand what I'm talking about?
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So love is desperately impossible.
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And that is why I want to argue that trust must precede love,
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especially when we're talking about friendship that may
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eventually leave to marriage. So love is desperately
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impossible. It is more extremely expensive
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when it is supported by a form of trust that is merely
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speculated and not properly calculated.
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You want me to explain that I said love is desperately
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impossible? It will not ask for your
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permission before it starts to drive you gay, sometimes not
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even wise. You can drive.
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You can drive you much? Am I talking to somebody there?
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It will not become more extremely expensive, very
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costly, when it is supported by a form of trust that is merely
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speculated and not properly calculated.
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Remember, I already established the fact that in friendship both
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trust and love must cohabit. They must exist.
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While we give it depth, the other we give it stability.
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But love will be outside your control.
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You can control trust and that is why you must not play with
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the form of love that is supported by a trust that is
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merely speculated. He, just as you, is honest, is
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sincere. You don't make deliberate or
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intentional effort to prove the trust.
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Am I talking to somebody? So love is extremely expensive
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when it is supported by a form of trust that is merely
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speculated and not properly calculated.
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So nobody should therefore experiments with friendship,
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with a trust that is merely speculated and not properly
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calculated. Even the lover boy King Solomon,
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you know, King Solomon, the lover boy King Solomon, in spite
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of his gyration, in spite of his Randy nature, you know he's a
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very Randy personality. In spite of his Randy
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personality, he was still careful enough to identify the
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dangers associated with the impulsive nature of love.
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You already agree with me that love could be desperately
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impulsive and King Solomon so and the man in spite of that was
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take careful enough to identify the dangers that are associated
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with the impossible nature of love in Songs of Songs.
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Songs of Solomon, chapter 2 and 7, chapter 3 and 5, the same
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verse, I mean the same text was repeated verbatim in those two
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verses. Chapter 7 of verse 2, Song of
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Songs, Chapter 5, verse 3 of I mean verse 7 of chapter 2 and
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verse 5 of chapter 3 said, I charge you, Oh yeah, daughters
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of Jerusalem, by the rules and by the ends of the fee that you
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steer not all nor awake my love till he please, till the
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safeguards are put in place, till the boundaries are
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established. Please don't wake up my love
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because once you wake it up it will be outside my control.
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I have had Doctor Bob tell young people here severally don't warm
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the Oval when you are not ready to big.
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Hello. Don't warm the Oval when you are
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not ready to do all to big. Because you warm the Oval, you
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are not ready to big the Oval. You overheats by the time you
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put in. You do if you get bonds.
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Am I talking to somebody? So it's almost the same thing
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that King Solomon was saying in his poem Here I tell you, your
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daughters of Jerusalem, you daughters of Jerusalem, close
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your cleavage. You daughters of Jerusalem, stop
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wearing trousers, OK? That depicts all the contours in
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your body. Don't wake up, my love, because
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you may tempt me to rape you. Let's put it wrong that way.
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Am I talking to somebody because I know myself?
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You know, I put myself in the position of Kintulu now because
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I know myself by the time I almost go right or now, I can do
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anything. But today we behave even in
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church as if these things are not real.
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Love can be desperately words and proceed until the safeguards
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are in place. OK don't jump into it until you
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can trust that brother that he will treat you like his own
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blood Sister don't start courtship because that's the
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Bible recommendation. When he was talking to is it
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titles or apropos Paul was writing either titles or or
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Timothy. How is to relate with different
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age groups in the church. He said for the young women,
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treat them as your sisters. Love is an is an Oval with
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emotion as it's fire. You know, an Oval that use for
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baking. So love is an Oval with emotion
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as it's fire. The fire that born in the Oval
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of love is what emotion so and if that fire is not regulated if
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we born any food place in it. I pray you will not get your
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destiny destroyed on the platform of relationship in the
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name of Jesus. And so the reason you must put
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trust ahead of love is because trust is easier managed.
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Love is difficult to regulate. Trust is easier managed but love
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is difficult to regulate. Why love is emotional?
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Why trust is rational? Love is emotional, but trust is
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what rational You. You can subject trust to
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intellectual query. We almost that control love will
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not allow you to be reasonable. That's why they say love is
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blind. Hello.
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It doesn't mean that love is not seen.
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Love is seen, but love will not allow you to reason.
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Hello, are you with me? The truth about love is that
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love by Cuba even for parents when you are raising your
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children, the one that you have emotional attachment to OK, you
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condo certain things that organization not condo and then
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all that people will be seen. It's be you do baby or you and
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that's why when they tell me Emma kill me I came by gay OK,
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they are telling me you fare anything back back go back.
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Am I talking to somebody? Emma Keo Mauniya came back the
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trust of Winnipeg. He failed.
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Second, you put him by back Uber.
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Because love is emotional. But for trust, trust cannot
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happen without a decision to give it.
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Hello, are you with me? When he trust the one, so you
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take a deliberate or intentional decision to either give it or
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not give it. So I'm trying to establish the
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reason why I continue to advocate that trust must precede
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love. Don't throw your love on
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somebody you cannot trust. Economic Padilla City no any
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form of scrutiny, no any form of due diligence and then you are
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already swimming in the ocean of love or do any will be alone.
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Lord congestion Abdami or do you feel if, if, if, if, if, if if
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we all know it's got talking to somebody.
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So trust cannot happen without your decision to give it because
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its in your, its in your pocket to control.
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So before trust can happen, you wear the evidence.
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You want to see the evidence. Before trust can happen, you
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consider the risk to reach a conclusion.
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Love, hello love may not take calculated risk, but trust will
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not accept all reasonable risk. So what is the biggest
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difference there? The biggest difference here is
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that you can control trust, but love control you.
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You can control trust, but love controls you.
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So for trust, it is something you can choose to give or you
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can choose to withhold it. Trust Apple under the atmosphere
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of conscious decision, conscious words.
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Decision for love, on the other hand, is awful.
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In for lamprey, love can sweep you off your feet to the degree
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that you can't control who you fall for or how you feel.
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Love can be that impossible. Love can be that arrogance.
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Hello. Are you with me?
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Love is good, OK? But love does also respect your
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intellect. It doesn't respect who you fall
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for. I mean, doesn't control.
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It will control who you fall for.
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It will also control how you feel.
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So. If you want to put it
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differently, you will say trust is like a gate that you open or
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close, but love is the floor that comes to Rossi in I'm
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pushing the gates and when floor comes, OK except you channel the
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floors, it will flow everywhere. You can even enter your bedroom.
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Am I talking to somebody? So you must put trust in place,
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OK, as the channel, OK, that will control the flood of laws.
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So that's why I keep on emphasizing again today the way
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I did last week, that law should be invested into where trust is
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suspected. The reason I use the word
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suspected is because I already told you that it is still
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abstract. You cannot empirically prove it
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please the name of the law, but you must be able to suspect that
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trust is here. I know the way this one is
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saying I am. I am in Lagos, OK, And what I'm
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seeing on my phone is releasing. Am I talking to somebody?
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Are you saying it's trustworthy, it's likeable?
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It's likeable and it's lying to you.
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If you allow a man that is lying to you to lie on you,
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so law, take it and walk by it, run your destiny by it.
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Love to be invested into only where trust is suspected.
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So don't expect trust suspected. Lay your hands on the signal
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that trust is present before you open the lid of your emotion.
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I'm giving you cost to chew each of the statements I am making.
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OK can take you weeks if you go back and sit down and meditate
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on these matters. So lay your hair on the signal
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that trust is present before you open the leads of your emotion.
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Why the bottle of love? Once it is opened it does not
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have a controlling valve that regulates it.
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I like him trust to a gate that you can open and close, and I
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lack a love to a floor that will not have respect for the gate
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and want to push it and enter everywhere, so the bottle of
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love wants to open it. It does not have a controlling
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valve that can control it, so love can only flow this way.
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In an atmosphere of trust, love can only be profitable.
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In an atmosphere of trust, if you put your love where trust is
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absent, you will have your fingers to bite later, either
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sooner or later. Am I talking to somebody?
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Do we have a biblical position for this?
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Do we have a contest in the wave of God in late with us to
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establish all these that we are seeing?
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You have had it said over and over again and properly recorded
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in the Bible, particularly in the epistle of the apostle of
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love, John, that God is love. Is that not?
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But don't forget this God. That is the crime, as love is
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also the truth, is also what the truth.
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So don't be deceived, anybody who does not have regard for
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trust cannot truly love, cannot love.
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Truly anybody who don't have regard for trust, who don't have
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regard for integrity, who have been regard for transparency.
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Because there's a need for us to also break down this word trust
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that we are talking about. What are the things, OK, that
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you can see? What are the character traits?
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What are the elements? What are the kind of heartbeats,
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OK, that you see in the pressure?
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You say this is trustworthy. So yes, God is love, but is also
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the truth. Jesus reveals himself as the
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truth that must be trusted, as the way to the Father.
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Hello. For God so loved the words, OK?
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But for us to be able to appreciate the love, respect the
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law, and embrace the law, Jesus first reveal himself to us as
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what? The truth.
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So trust me, OK, And after you have trusted me there you enjoy
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my love. That's the concept.
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So Jesus will serve as the truth that must be trusted as the way
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to the Father. John 14 says Jesus said unto
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him, I am the way, the truth and the life.
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No man comment unto the Father bought by me.
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So there was a claim made by Jesus, I am going to the Father.
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If you read from Basuan, I will take you with myself.
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The way a young man we approach you.
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I will say I want to bring you to the bottom of my father.
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There will become my beloved wife.
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Then the disciple were very smart.
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Can we really trust this claim? So I just did not dismiss them
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for asking for a grant to be trusted.
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You go this Gospel Saint John chapter 14, Jesus was making a
John 14 chapter mention
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claim by the disciples. We're asking for a grant to
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trust the claim. I just did not dismiss the
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query. But I said I am the win, the
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truth and the life. No man commented to the Father
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bought by me. So he was saying I am worthy of
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your trust. And that was the proof he
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presented as the evidence of His love and the basis for the faith
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that He demands that will fail me to draw the line.
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And I said for you the different between trust and faith.
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Faith will be difficult to display when trust is not first
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established. What Jesus was asking for there
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was their faith. Are you with me?
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He was asking them to display faith and he was saying is
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possible for you to do because I've established the ground for
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you to trust me. So friendship.
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Is not an exercise of faith OK? It belong to the realm of trust.
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Faith may come later. Hello in.
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Pura in double dates. Are you with me?
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Opera. On double date.
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With Africa AM. I talking to you daughters.
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Of Zion, daughters of Zion. Are you listening to?
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Me. So don't subject.
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Friendship don't subject Koshy, don't subject future partnership
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OK to faith, let trust come first.
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Let trust from the background for the faith.
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Want to exercise that tomorrow will be good.
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We are going to make great couple.
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Before you say we are going to make great couple, let there be
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trolls. So it's not.
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It's not an exercise. OK, that is suspended in faith.
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You build a bedrock of trolls before you bring in faith.
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Am I talking to somebody? Tomorrow will be great.
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I said tomorrow will be great, but if tomorrow will be great,
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you must be a serious somebody to be otherwise I'm going.
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To be living in. Sad deception.
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So just was saying. I am worthy of your trust.
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And that is the evidence of my love.
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And the basis for asking or demanding for your faith.
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So he commanded trust. To demand faith.
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Hello the. Man who we demand your love of
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faith in Him, that you should go together, must first command
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your trust. So a man upon.
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Or a woman upon you will invest your love must command your
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trust. The man, the woman.
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Upon whom you will invest your love most Force command your
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trust. What is the lesson laws will be.
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Invested into where? Trust can be tangibly suspected.
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I have said that before loves to be invested into where trust can
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be tangibly suspected. So don't throw out your love
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carelessly. Don't make.
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The issue of trust. And afterthoughts don't.
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Make the issue of. Trust and afterthoughts.
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Never you treat love. Like a mushroom phenomenon.
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Never you treat love. Like a mushroom, phenomenal love
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will want to be treated that way.
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It is you that we say no you back and.
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When the sun comes. Up it deserves.
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Hello. That's the muscle.
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Phenomenal. Something that grow
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spontaneously but cannot stand the test of time Love will want.
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To be pampered that. Way OK, it is you that we say
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no, you're better at me AM. I talking to somebody.
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So don't treat love like a mushroom phenomenon.
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Yes, it may happen spontaneously, but you must give
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it through room to grow systematically.
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Love at four sights The first time you meet you warm.
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Up to yourself. Something inside you tell you
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that this. Is the man Something inside you
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tell you this is the woman? You get back home.
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You are only on the bed. You cannot sleep.
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You close your eyes. You are dreaming about
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wonderful. That is the spontaneity of.
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Love, but please my son, please my daughter, give me time to
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grow systematically. It must not grow sporadically.
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It is only allowed to start spontaneously.
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Let the growth be. Systematic, not sporadic.
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And then may I drop this again? With you give it attention.
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Do. Diligence with.
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It by meditation test love before you taste it.
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Test love. Before you do what you taste it.
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Hello young persons in. The house, Are we together?
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Please hear me correctly. The bed is.
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Not the place to. Taste.
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Love. Debate is.
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Not a place to test law sex. Is not an experiment.
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It is. An experience reserved for.
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Marriage. Are we together?
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Sex is not an. Experiment.
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It is an. Experience reserved.
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For marriage. So when I now say test low
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before you taste it, this is what I mean.
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Dive in the head, let the mind. Go in first.
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Before you put in your hearts. Dive in the head.
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Before you submit your hearts into any relationship, what?
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Does this means? It means getting to know
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somewhere. See how the handle.
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Challenges. This also means.
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Engaging in interaction before intimacy sets in.
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Many of you don't know the difference between.
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Interaction and intimacy. Intimacy is a level that.
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Is deep. Are you with me?
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Interaction is a level that is casual and general, so test love
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with. One question.
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Asked differently. One question, but.
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You asked what differently at different time, at different
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scenario. Same question you asked.
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OK, when he is happy on his birthday, ask the same question
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when he is angry. So test it with one question
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asked differently and what the consistency of the answer I.
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Am not providing the. Answer to somebody who asked the
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question that how do we establish trust before we bring
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in love? A trustworthy person is.
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Known by consistency. A trustworthy person is known
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by. Words consistency kill a Toto,
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SU, atomas or me. They speak from the.
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Abundance of their hearts. Their mouth is not disconnected
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from their hearts. A lot of people today, their
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mouths and their heart, are disconnected.
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And the government? Principle for communication OK
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is that you speak from the abundance of your hearts.
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Am I? Talking to somebody.
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So test. It with.
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Same question, one question ask differently in different
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situation. And then watch for the
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consistency, because a trustworthy personality is known
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by consistency. Probe what?
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You already know the. Information.
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You have about your. Potential friend.
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Your will be husband. Quotes and UN.
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Quote your will be wife quotes and UN quote.
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The established facts. You have gotten but not from
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him. Probe that information and watch
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where whether there will be honesty and transparency.
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You. You have had somewhere OK that
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you wrote to a head five times before you could pass English.
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Hello. And the evidence?
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Is with you. You are discussing and he said I
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passed my wife at First City all 10 years a.
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Christian should not lie. But even if.
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He will lie if. We will lie OK to attack
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importance to himself among his colleagues.
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Should he be lying to you that says you will live your life
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together, the rest of your life together AM.
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I talking to somebody so pro what you.
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Already know? And what if there would be
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honesty and transparency? How again do you test?
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Watch for. Harmony.
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Between presentation and manifestation, these are two
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different things. Watch for harmony.
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Watch for synergy between presentation and manifestation.
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Presentation is what a man profess about himself.
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Manifestation is what you find out he does.
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Hello. Presentation.
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Is what a man? Claim about himself what a man
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call himself for you. Are you with me?
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But manifestation is what you later find out he does, so watch
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for harmony. Between presentation.
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And manifestation. I will know the roofer.
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I will know the back. There are many of them like
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that. This we talk you to believing
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that they are everything. They should talk you to believe
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they are excellent. They should talk to you to
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believe that. Oh, they are making millions.
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Then what against? Double face actions I will bring
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We're going to go into character study from next week to begin to
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see how this apply in practical life.
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What against? Double face.
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Action. How do I mean by that?
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Somebody that is. Presenting himself humble and
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and caring. And it is only you that deserve
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that. You can slap any of that gate.
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You escorted him to. His to his to his home.
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OK, you are you are over here. I always talking at the top of
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his voice and shouting down his mother and.
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Then my time is coming out. To to miss you is is is a
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perfect gentleman. Hello AM.
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I talking to somebody so watch against double.
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Faced action. You are not the only one that
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deserve respect or that people should do so.
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You would disrespect your friend will one day serve you the same
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meal. So these are the foundations.
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For trust, these are the things you watch out for before you
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say, oh, I can trust him. I therefore control my destiny.
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Into his hand or into our hand? Then do background check.
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You will have convictions. Within you it is very
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subjective, so don't cast such convention in concrete until you
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have received confirmation from independent people.
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AM I? Talking to somebody.
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So you. May have your conviction.
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By what you are saying, OK, but also do background check to
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receive confirmation from independent people.
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That is what is called due diligence.
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Do what? Due diligence, OK, If you meet
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at University of Illori, OK, The opportunity you now have to meet
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with the secondary schoolmates, OK?
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And they are talking. Listen.
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Hello. Do what?
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Listen. You met a master of Villorian
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who? Is on Bible church.
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He has taken up the nickname of only Ghost Dove.
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Are you with me? But divine.
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Providence made it possible. For you to meet.
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Him in the company. Of the secondary schoolmates on
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the EE, quickly describe that you are there or change the
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poster. You need to cross check again.
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Has there been a time? OK.
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When? He made AU turn and he has
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abandoned that lifestyle of Echo AM.
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I talking to somebody, so whatever opinion.
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Your emotion give you. Treat it as premonition.
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Pending the time of confirmation from independent minds.
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So let the confirmation you receive.
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From independent mind either prove.
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You right or prove. You wrong and that's why.
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I said earlier. That put trust ahead of love.
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As I went down today to continue.
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This week. This is what I am saying.
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Lay your hand on evidence before you display your confidence.
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Before you go in. With your full chairs and
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confidence, first lay your hand on evidence.
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I did mention it. And I'm saying it again, suspect
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trust, don't just expect it. Don't go by premonition, go for
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confirmation. Trust should be intentional.
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It should be. Invested where?
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Love. Can grow.
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Don't. Just scatter trust around.
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Be mindful of where it lands. And when I said suspect?
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Trust before you invest love, don't just expect it.
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I am in essence saying be designing with your love by
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making trust a top priority. Be designing.
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With your love. By making trust a top priority.
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Yeah, me again. Daughters of Zion, young men of
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valor, lay your. Hands on.
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The signals that trust is present before you open the lead
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of your emotion. Because like I said earlier, the
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bottle of love, once it is opened it does not have a
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controlling valve that can regulate it.
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So be aware. Of the science of.
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Trust before pouring out your emotions because once love is
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out is hard to control. Love like a force of nature.
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Trust is the foundation. That keep you from getting messy
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and by. The grace of God.
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From next week will commence character study that will
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further help you to understand these subjects.
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I love you with the love of Jesus, but can I trust you that
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you will walk by these teachings?
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God bless you. Don't be left in the dark.
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Get proper understanding of life through the Word of God.
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My people perish for lack of knowledge.
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The Word of God is an illumination which gives
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direction. Remember please, as Reverend was
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far alone illuminates your mind with the Word of God with all
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simplicity and clarity.