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Angela Stackhouse: Unveiling Stories-The Heart of HeavenEarth Church | Ep. 003
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What would it look like to start a community that was really,
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it's for the people like Jesus would be for? Welcome to Heaven Earth
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Church. I'm Ross Stackhouse, the founding pastor of Heaven Earth
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Church. From the start, our heart has been to be a church for
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people who don't fit neatly into church. We want to meet people
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where they are and know their stories. Because in every story,
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there is God's story. And this podcast is just about that. It's
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about inviting you into the stories of the people of Heaven Earth
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Church. So let's turn to the story.
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Hello, good people. Welcome to the Heaven Earth Church podcast.
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My name is Brad Miller and I'm the producer and one of the hosts
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of the podcast. And today we have as our special guest. Her name
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is Angela Stackhouse. And we welcome you to the Heaven Earth Church
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podcast. Angela, tell us a little bit about you. Tell us, first
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of all, where do you come from? What's hometown for you?
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Hometown's Shelby County. I grew up in Fairland and went to Fairland,
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a small rural school where Ross, my husband, also went. So.
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Yeah. And my family still lives there mostly, and now we're
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of course in Greenwood, so still pretty close.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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So did you meet Ross in high school then?
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I did. I actually met him in middle school. Middle school, yeah.
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Kind of grew up together.
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Wow. He's a grade behind me, so we weren't interacting all the
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time. But when we got into high school, he was in advanced math
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and I was just in regular math, so we ended up lining up there.
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So we spent a little more time together then.
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Well, awesome. And then. So did you ended up getting married,
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I don't know, Shortly after high school. I don't really know.
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Help me out.
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Yeah, no, we actually. Let's see. So we started dating in high
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school and I was a senior and he was a junior, and then I went
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off to IU for one year, which a lot of couples do. Kind of had
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a lot of breakups throughout college. The year, let's see, it
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would be 2010. So two years after I graduated from college, we
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got married. So we had a pretty long time together. And then
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sometimes not together, but mostly together.
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And we should, you know, I get that, of course, but I get. And what
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we want to say at this point and be a part of our conversation
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is that Ross Stackhouse is the pastor of Heaven Earth Church. You
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were just a part of the ongoing mission and ministry here,
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but let's learn a little bit more about you, particularly kind
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of some of the formative things that happened in your life,
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either growing up or in your family that you grew up with, school
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or whatever. What were some of the things that were. Kind of helped
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shape the person that you are?
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That's a good question. One that I don't probably reflect on
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terribly much. I grew up in. I guess what you would consider, at
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least my immediate family was a nuclear family. Both my parents
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are still married today. I had a younger sister that was from that
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marriage. But then I also had two older siblings, an older brother
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and an older sister from my mom's first marriage. So we had kind
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of that dynamic where they would kind of be living with us sometimes
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and then living with their dad sometimes. Grew up in the country,
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actually. I started out in Carmel, and I went to school there
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first till first grade, and then I went to. We moved to Fairland.
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That was quite the transition, moving out to the country. And one
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that really. I loved living in the country. I would say probably
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one of the biggest influences. My parents were both small business
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owners, so my mom had a diner and my dad had a hardware store.
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Okay.
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And that was kind of. It led to kind of a charm childhood where
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I got, you know, go to these businesses and work and then eventually
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actually really work, flavor of small.
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Business, entrepreneurship, that type of thing.
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And got to spend a lot of time with my parents, which was nice.
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And my other family, my dad's father helped. My grandpa helped
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him. They owned the store together. So I got to spend a lot
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of time with my grandparents. Another thing that was definitely
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formative is that both my older siblings struggled. Have struggled
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with addiction their entire lives. Heroin addiction, specifically.
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So I got to see as a child growing up, kind of how that was
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impacting their lives for the negative. And it definitely kind
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of put me on the straight and narrow. I didn't want to do any,
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you know, anything that. That they were doing at the time. And
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then also my sister had four. Has had four children. My parents
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have raised. So starting when I was 12 years old, Eli was my sister
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became pregnant when I was 12 years old. And then Eli was born
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when I was 13. So I really have basically four younger siblings.
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Even younger than my sister Maria. Yeah. And that was definitely.
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I mean, that's been a huge impact in my life.
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Well, that's really a part of informing the person.
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Yep. And their addiction has too. I mean, it's an awareness I
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have.
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So let's talk a little bit about your life of faith. You know,
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you're in a part of a faith institution here, Heaven, Earth,
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Church, now, but people come to be a part of a church for lots
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of reasons. And obviously your husband's the pastor here. That's
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one reason. I know we'll get into some of that, but yeah, let's
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talk about your faith story, about how you came to faith in the
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first place and how that's kind of been a part of forming your
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life, part of your faith story.
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So after we moved from Carmel back to Shelby county, my mom's from
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Shelbyville originally, so I think she felt a little more called
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to get us what she considers back into the church. We started
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going to the church when I was probably 11, 12, 13ish that she went
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to as a child, which was First Baptist in Shelbyville, which is
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part of the American Baptist Church. There are a lot of different
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Baptists, and they have. I know growing up, I didn't realize
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that there were all of these different flavors of Baptist, but
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American Baptists have. For instance, they'll have, like, women
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preachers, which is different than some Baptist religions. I was.
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I think it's a little bit more like. Like, I was allowed to do certain
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things that I know some of my other Baptist friends weren't. Like,
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I could read Harry Potter, for instance, just to give people kind
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of an idea of what it was like as far as kind of the flavor of what
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you would hear on a Sunday. There was definitely more fire and
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brimstone than what I would hear Ross talking about. Now, there
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were some things that I think happened in the church that harmed
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other people. I don't feel harmed by them, but I was part of
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the. The era that grew up in purity culture, which was a big deal.
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I went to church camp a lot, and that was like, one of the themes
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one year for the entire church camp was like, true love waits. I
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kind of grew up in that era, but I'm a really big rule follower.
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So I actually liked having.
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She liked it.
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I liked having this from the security.
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Culture type of thing. It gave you a real kind of rigid set of parameters
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to live within, right?
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Yep. And the church kind of as a whole, did, too. I felt like some
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of the stuff that I realize now is probably dogma, it might not
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have come straight from Jesus's lips or even some of the
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stuff that we see in acts. It, I think, for me, and I know many
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people have a very different experience, it helped me because
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I was prone to wanting to follow the rules. So it helped me
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kind of create a framework for my life.
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Yeah.
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So.
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So how did that upbringing there kind of evolve or Influence
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you as you and Ross started your life together. And where kind
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of where you at now? How has your faith journey evolved?
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It's evolved a lot the older I get, and I think a lot of people
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probably have the same experience. I realize that the world
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is not black and white, that there is so much nuance to the world.
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And that a black and white framework, while it might have worked
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for my younger life, and it really even works a lot for my life
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now. I mean, I'm still a rule follower. I work in compliance. That's
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what I do. I realize that it doesn't always work when you're applying
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it to the greater world. I've definitely had some faith crises
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along the way where it didn't seem like things really, you couldn't
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reconcile them with a black and white framework. And so that
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was difficult at times. And I also had. There was a lot of evolution
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where for me, I realized growing up, the discussion, a lot
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of the discussion was about how to get into heaven. And that
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was really foundational to my faith. How the choices you need to
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make to get into heaven. I definitely had a faith crisis when
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I realized that it meant if certain people are getting into heaven,
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that means certain people are going to hell. And I looked around
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me and there were so many people in my life that weren't following
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that strict, like a plus B equals C guideline for how to get
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into heaven, but they were really, really good people and like,
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pillars of my life.
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So you had some dilemmas that you were dealing with?
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Yes.
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Kind of based on your faith teaching compared to your life experience,
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Right?
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Yeah. And that. That was troubling to me. I think it probably
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led to me to that becoming. Not just. It wasn't just that realization.
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If there were certain people in my life that were going to hell,
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then that wasn't. I wasn't gonna be able to continue in that
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mindset. And I know for a lot of people that that still is kind
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of their.
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Did you come to any kind of resolution or place of understanding
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where you. That you're at now? So take us there.
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I think so too, or I think I have. I think. And Ross was very
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aligned with me too, by the way. We had a very similar. I mean,
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we both grew up in a rural area that kind of had a similar kind
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of feel, even though he went to a Methodist church and I went
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to a Baptist church. Eventually. When you look at the
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Bible, I think in its totality, you realize that it's actually
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that the question is not actually how to get to heaven. The
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prevailing question that it's actually a lot more about relationship
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with God. That has helped me a lot. I'm not focusing so much on
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where everybody is going. I'm focusing more on how do we live out
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our relationship with God in relationship with others. And that's
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been really helpful to me in my faith.
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So it's gone from kind of a little bit of dogmatic to more relational.
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How relate to Jesus and to others and how they're all integrated
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together.
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Yes.
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Your life of faith is being lived out. You are a part of the
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Heaven Earth Church, and we're here on the Heaven Earth. Tell us
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about how you end up getting connected to Heaven Earth Church
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in the first place and kind of what are you involved with now?
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Yeah, it started out with kind of a funny story, actually. I told
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Ross before he became a pastor that I was adamant with not going
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to be a pastor's wife, which, of course is a ridiculous thing to
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say, probably. But again, I grew up in a Baptist church where
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I felt like there was a prototype or a stereotype for what
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a pastor's wife did. And I didn't feel like I fit that stereotype.
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Just taking a slight aside, give me a couple nuggets of what
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was burnt in your brain about that.
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Like, they led children's church all the time. A lot of them
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didn't work, which is totally fine. It's just that I knew I wanted
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to work in my life. They played the piano. I don't know how
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to play the piano. They always sang on Sunday. Yeah.
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So those are some of the things stereotypical. I just wondered
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if your experience was similar. Let's go back to your. How
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you got connected with heaven or church. And where we left it at
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was you told Ross, I don't want to be a preacher's wife in the
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kind of traditional sense. So what has that evolved to you now
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and kind of. How did you get started here?
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Yeah, and the reason I told him that is because he was in theology.
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He was in a theology program, and he wanted to be a professor.
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Well, he got rejected from all of his doctoral programs. His sister
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sent him a job interview or not a job, a job description for
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opening at a church in Carmel. And I was like, I don't want to be
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a pastor's wife. He went ahead and applied despite me. He was really
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good at preaching. He'd never preached before. He'd never done
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anything like that before. And they did, like a practice sermon
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with him. And I went to it and I was like, okay, I think I might
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have to be a pastor's wife. He became a pastor in the Methodist
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Church, which is kind of leading to Heaven Earth Church. He
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was at that Carmel church. He was there for, like, six years. Thankfully,
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the stereotypes that I had in my mind about being a pastor's wife
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were not really stereotypes that I saw an action there. So I
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didn't. It ended up being fine, like, a lot of things I worry
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about. And then it came time to. Within the Methodist Church,
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they move people around. Pastors get moved around to different
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churches. And it came time for him to move to somewhere else. And
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to make a long story short, he ended up leading the charge of a
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church plant. Brad, you probably know more about it than
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I do in that, like, the different technical terms, but a
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church plant in Johnson County. That's how Heaven Earth Church
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originated. And it was a house church at first. We were meeting
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in our house every week. It's always had a recovery church component.
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So there was also a recovery church meeting going on. But, yeah,
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it's really grown from there. I can't remember exactly the details
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about how we ended up in this building, but even that was really
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felt very ordained.
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What was your initial feelings in that first year or so about the
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church? Were you kind of thinking, okay, this is a little
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wobbly. This is something cool going on here? What were some of
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your emotions? Because it's not only about starting a church.
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There's family life, there's marital life, there's transitioning
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to new community, things of that nature. And really, with a new
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church plant, you do not have a community that's supportive of
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you.
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Initially, I will tell you that I really struggled with the
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idea that our family would be uprooted every so many years because
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of Ross's calling. I struggled because I struggled as a woman, because
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I had a job that I liked, and I didn't want to be uprooted and
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moved around away from my job. And I didn't want my kids to be uprooted.
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So honestly, knowing that we were going somewhere close in proximity
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to where we were before, which was in Shelby County, I was actually
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very grateful that we were going to be trying to do this. I
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remember making a joke that I was going to lay in front of cars
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to get them to come to our church because I wanted it to work,
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because I want to be close to my family. I don't want to move to
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Fort Wayne or something.
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Any new adventure is a little bit dicey, if that's right.
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Exactly. So I felt good about it. Knowing that we would still have
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at least our family within an hour of us, you know, and still be
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able to see them and participate in family stuff. And
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with a church plant, if it goes well, then it usually lasts
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a little longer. And you're not uprooted every, you know, five
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years. So I was also excited about that prospect, although it
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is scary because it's a parachute drop, and oftentimes those
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don't work.
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Tell me about a time in that era of forming the church and getting
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involved with the community and things that you have chosen to
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be involved with in the life of the church where you kind of had
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a. An aha moment. Okay, this might work. And this is kind of cool.
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You have a moment like that kind of. That.
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I remember during COVID we had. I can't remember if it was the
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beginning of COVID or if it was toward the end of COVID where
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we decided we would meet outside. I guess it must have been
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further along because I don't think people were meeting at all.
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But we decided to have an outdoor meeting and, like, outdoor
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church service. And I just looked around and I couldn't believe
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I looked at all these different people that we didn't know,
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you know, like, two or three years earlier. And it was just. It
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was very inspiring to see all of these people that somehow had
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made their way to our church that we had not even known. Like,
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there was no relationship, and now there's a relationship. And it
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was very organic, too. And so that was really. That felt really
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neat. And we've had a couple services, like the Christmas service,
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which a lot of people tend to. You know, your whole church ends
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up kind of coming to that, and you see everybody in one place, which
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sometimes you don't do. And those moments have been really. It's
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not all about the numbers, but there is certainly something about
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seeing everybody together.
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It's kind of the validity that comes with seeing a group of people
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there. Every end endeavor has its times of challenge and of stress
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and crisis. So if you don't mind, tell me. Tell us about a kind
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of a lump in the throat moment that you've had in the life of the
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church that you're kind of like, okay, I.
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Know exactly what it is for me. So there was a time, and it was
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shortly after Iva was born. I think it put us again in the middle
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of COVID So I was already feeling probably isolated, and we
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had started meeting in the church. Church service in the church,
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you know, as opposed to, like, meeting outside during COVID and
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stuff. So it must have been pretty far on. We didn't have a lot
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of kids coming at that time. I was really the only one with kids.
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I found myself coming to church with my children. Ross would
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have already left in the morning. I found myself getting the
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kids ready to go to church, to take my children to the back, to
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watch my own children, to not even be around anybody, and then
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to come back home. And I found that to be very. It was difficult
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for me. I don't. I'm not a person who likes to be told what
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to do anyway. And sometimes a pastor's wife can feel so pressured
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to do something, even though nobody's telling her to do it.
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Goes a little bit to the stereotype. You had children's ministry,
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and.
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And the line gets blurred where you're saying, is this my decision,
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or am I compelled to do this, even though nobody's said it? And
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that was difficult for me. And I was going to a counselor at that
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time, and I talked to her about it, and it eventually got to
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the point where I told Ross, I'm not coming anymore. I'm gonna
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stay at home. I'm gonna watch the service at home while the kids
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play in the comfort of our own house where I can actually hear what's
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happening. And until we get, like, a better structure in place,
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that's what it's gonna be. And I felt. I've told you before, I'm
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a rule follower.
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Yeah.
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So that was very difficult.
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So that really went as good as great. You personally, and I'm sure
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it had its challenges, family wise, marital wise, all that stuff.
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It was hurtful to Ross, which I don't blame him. But it was one
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of those moments that I had to be, like, authentic to myself.
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You had assert yourself to be. Because I sensed that there was.
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This was a moment when you kind of felt something kind of slipping
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away, some sense of. Of this was just not working here.
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I felt my autonomy slipping away. Like, I. I didn't have control
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over that decision. And it was a decision. It felt like it was harmful
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to me at the time. Not that Ross was actively doing that. I want
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to be very clear. Ross wasn't harming me. It was just the position.
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It was the circumstances.
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Circumstances were happening that were as they were. But let's
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talk about a moment, a cool, high, holy moment, when you just
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kind of knew that this isn't just kind of a deal where this organizationally
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is going to work, but this is a God thing. This is a holy thing.
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This is something bigger than myself. And bigger than a lot of
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things. Have you had a moment like that?
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I think it was our very first harvest gathering that we had, which
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is something that we have come to do now. Every year it's another
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time in the church. You know, I've mentioned that we have. I don't
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know that I mentioned that we still have house churches going,
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but we also have our recovery church. I have mentioned that. And
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then we have our normal Sunday gathering. There are a lot of different
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people that oftentimes don't come together at once. And we had
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a harvest gathering where everybody did come together at once.
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And it wasn't for the church service. It was to just be in community
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together and to see each other. It was a moment where we were
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all eating together. I felt like we were doing. Even though it's,
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you know, a modern flair with cell phones around and stuff, it
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felt like we were doing something holy and connecting to
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something that people have done forever. Like commune together,
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eat together, and just celebrate together.
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Kind of a connection kind of with something that's a little bit
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traditional, a little bit historical, but in the context of
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a new church plant.
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Yeah. So that was special.
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That was a God thing, right?
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It totally was, yeah.
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If you were not married to the pastor, do you think this is the
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type of church that if you lived in this community, you moved
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here for whatever reason, Is this the type of church you might
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want to either be attracted to or seek out? What is it about this
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place that you might be attracted to in that regard?
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I definitely think it would. Although it is hard to. Ross and
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I have grown. I mean, we got together as children and we've been
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so influential on each other in the past that we've taken. It's
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hard to imagine what type of person I would be without him. But
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I can only answer with a present mind. Yes, it's definitely
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a church I would want to come to. I love how we have a very diverse
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group of people. Maybe not racial diversity, but socioeconomic
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diversity. We have the diversity that you see with people
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who are in addiction or recovering from addiction versus
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people who aren't. That's a big, you know, a big difference.
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We have a lot of political diversity. I really value that in
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my life and in my children's lives. I don't want them to be part
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of. Even though the experience that I had in my First Baptist Church
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was a positive experience, it was very one dimensional in a way.
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Like I wasn't exposed to a lot of people and that wasn't First Baptist's
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fault. I mean, it was, you know, just a little town church and
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that's just the people that come there. But I'm thankful that
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we've created a space where we do attract a of different kinds of
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people. I think because there are so many different people on so
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many different journeys. My hope is that people would feel welcomed
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no matter where they are.
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Given your interaction you have with people in the church, because
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the point of entry for many people is through the pastor Ross,
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and then you're right there as well. What do you think would keep
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you here? But what you hear people talk about why they stay a
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part of Heaven Earth Church.
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I mean, I hesitate to say this because it's one of the things Ross
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and I always talk about should not be the premier thing. But Ross
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is a very gifted teacher. I think he's been given a lot of gifts
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and I know for sure that's one of the reasons people stay is because
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when they hear him preach, I think it feels very meaningful to
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them and to their lives. But there's a lot outside of teaching
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and preaching in a church, and a church should be a much more vibrant
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offering than that. The fact that we're small is a big draw to
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me. I'm not a big person who likes the great big church where
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you feel like you're kind of just going to check a box sometimes.
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And I mean, any church can really be that. Like you're going
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to check a box. But I feel like we're hopefully building the
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opposite of that. Like you really can feel connection and you
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can feel like convicted without being judged. And I think
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that's a difficult balance sometimes.
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I see connected and convicted, but without being judged. I think
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that's an interesting way of putting it. And so I think that's
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kind of the struggle a lot of people have. They do not want to
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feel guilt driven, but they want to feel responsible. They want
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to feel kind of a connected to something greater themselves that
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they can invest in that is something that would be make a. Make
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a difference. Because I believe people really, many, many
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people really want to make a difference and they're transformed
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by that. So I'd like you to tell me a story, if you will, Angela,
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about a person or situation here in the life of the church where
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you really seen something happen that changed either a person's
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life change or a situation change where life change took place.
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I mean, there have been people that came initially. I mean, they
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were some of our very first church attendees that are still here.
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There are some that are no longer necessarily Attending our
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recover church. But Ross is still connected with them through
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other organizations, and their lives and their testaments are very
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compelling, especially to other people who are trying to obtain
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sobriety.
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Mission statement of the church that is displayed quite prominently
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is we exist to make a lasting impact in our community. Yeah, tell
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me about that. What does that statement mean to you?
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Well, it makes. I mean, we were talking this morning during
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church, and Ross was recounting a story that really made
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me think about how when you're connected to the vine, and I think
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that's kind of church speak, but when you're connected to Jesus,
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that you can't help but flourish. And this is not prosperity
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gospel. You can't help but feel like your cup can overflow.
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And that cup. I had this image in my head today of one person's
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cup overflowing to flow into other people's cups. I think our
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church tries to embody that. We make connections throughout the
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neighborhood, throughout the neighborhood, throughout the community,
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with a lot of different organizations that are already doing
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really important work. We've also. Ross and team have also created
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the Heaven Earth Spaces organization that is trying to make
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not only housing, but places for nonprofits, physical places for
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nonprofits to use. And so downstairs in the basement, we have
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resources of hope. That's one example they offer. They're basically
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a store for foster parents and foster families help get resourced
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for their foster journey. And then the house that the church owns
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is also now part of Heaven Earth Spaces. The church does not
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own it. Heaven Earth Spaces owns it. Heaven Earth Spaces owns
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it. And it has a family that lives there now that gets reduced
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rent. And we're trying to expand that. Heaven Earth Spaces
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is trying to expand that. So that's like a very real example of
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that.
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So you see that impact. I guess what I'm getting at is that
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statement is a real thing. It's not just a trite thing to put
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on the wall somewhere, right?
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Yeah. No, I think it's one of. I mean, it is. It's certainly something
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that is. You can see it in the lifeblood of the church.
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One of the things that's said about Heaven Earth Church in one
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line is if you feel you don't fit in church, you fit here. Is that
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true?
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Or for people who don't fit neatly into church, is that true?
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And how do you see that lived out?
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I think it is true. I know for certain that there are many people
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who have felt harmed by some of the institutional churches that
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they encountered as children that have found a safe place to exist
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here and try to grow their relationship with God. I have always
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felt like I fit in a church, so I'm not a person that can personally
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attest to it. But Ross has also felt like he doesn't fit neatly
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into church, and I would agree with that. And so I think he's tried
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to build that and the people around him have tried to build that
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here. I think it has worked. I don't think that we get very caught
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up. I mean, we are a United Methodist church, but you're not
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gonna hear us talking about it that often. You're not gonna hear
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us talking about a lot of institutional stuff or even using
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a lot of churchy words because we don't wanna alienate people who
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might not, you know, have that insider speak. I think that there
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are a lot of small intentional decisions made fits here.
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And they're doing okay.
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There are, yeah. Oh, yeah, definitely.
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Let me just ask you if there's somebody who came to in your life
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outside of the church, meaning a co worker. You know, your kids
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are involved with athletics and other things, that kind of stuff.
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If you're talking one of the other moms and there's somebody that
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came to you and said, okay, I just got some issue in my life. It
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might be job related or marital or, you know, health or whatever.
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They got some issues in their life. Do you think you'd be comfortable
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inviting them to be a part of Heaven Earth Church as a part of
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responding to their need?
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Yeah, I definitely would. I think we have something. I think
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what we have here is something very special and different than what
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a lot of people perceive church to be. It has a very vulnerable
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community that comes along with it. And I think that's one of
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the most powerful tools in the face of really any kind of adversity
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is vulnerability. And I think that people would benefit from that.
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We joke a lot because one of our biggest evangelists for this
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church is actually an atheist. It's a woman in Franklin who has
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sent like five people to us. It's just really funny to me that
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she's constantly sending people to our church because of what
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she has seen, even though she's atheist.
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Yeah, isn't that cool? Tell us a little bit about one cool thing.
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Tell us the names of your kids and then something cool about each
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of them.
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Okay, so I have Boaz, who's 8, Iva, who's 5, and Juniper, who is
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a year, almost a year and a half. Boaz is the typical oldest
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child. He's a rule follower. Like his Mommy. And he has a heart
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of gold. His teacher said that he is a friend to everyone. That
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was one of her main pieces of feedback she gave us in our parent
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teacher conference. Iva is like a ray of sunshine. She is on
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the go all the time and wanting to do some sort of activity
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all the time. I mean, making things out of materials you wouldn't
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even think could really amount to anything. That's her superpower.
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And then Juniper, who's the caboose? We're not having any more,
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if I have anything to say about it. And I never say never anymore,
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because Ross became a pastor like you said. So I don't want to
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tempt fate here, but most likely, she will be the last child
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of ours. She has really just been. It's been such a joy. She is
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so funny and just so cute, and it just tickles us every day getting
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to watch her. I mean, all four of us, because the kids are older.
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She was born when I was four and a half, so we just all. She's
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like the little princess that we just do whatever she wants, basically.
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She's awesome. And I still don't know how you get that top knot
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thing working on her hair there. And here you are, you're raising
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a family. You're planting the church. You're doing all the things
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here. Tell us about Ross. Tell us whatever you want to tell us about
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Ross. Good, bad, ugly, anything but any.
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So I remember when I was in high school before, I had really
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had serious relationships, because I wasn't really that kind
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of person that had a lot of serious relationships and. Or any
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kind of relationship, just to make that clear. I was very independent.
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That's a better way of putting it. I didn't really need anybody
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else. I remember telling myself that I wanted to find somebody
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that was genuinely a kind person. Like, that was kind of like
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the number one attribute that I wanted in a partner. And Ross is
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one of the most genuinely kind, empathetic people that I have
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ever been around. I mean, he has people. You know, we all have
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people in our lives who have, like, done something to us and, you
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know, that you feel victimized by. I feel more victimized on his
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behalf than he ever does on his own behalf. He just gives people
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so much grace. Amir. I mean, it's truly, really wonderful to watch.
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Well, just one last thing, and that is just. Is there anything.
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Just any word of encouragement or anything else you'd like to share
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with the Heaven Earth Church?
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I mean, if it's the Heaven Earth Church community, we're happy
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to have you here. And if it's anybody else who's not part of the
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church, just I hope what I've talked about today makes you feel
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welcomed and makes you feel like a child of God, because that's
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important.
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Well, thank you. Our guest today on Heaven Earth Church podcast,
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Angela Stackhouse. We thank you for joining us here on this podcast,
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which is all about a church that's looking to make a lasting
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impact in our community.
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Thanks, Brad.
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We want to thank you for spending time with us today. My name
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is Ross Stackhouse, the pastor to Heaven Earth Church. And you may
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think out there that your story is over, but in fact, your
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faith story may just be beginning. If you want more information
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about our church or you're interested in the next step, you
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can go to heavenorthchurch.org Otherwise, we look forward to being
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with you next time at the Heaven Earth Church Podcast.