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A Conversation with Jason and Kara Baker-HeavenEarth Church Stories

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  1. What would it look like to start a community that was really.

  2. It's for the people like Jesus would be for.

  3. Welcome to Heaven Earth Church.

  4. I'm Ross Stackhouse, the founding pastor of Heaven Earth Church.

  5. From the start, our heart has been to be a church for people who

  6. don't fit neatly into church.

  7. We want to meet people where they are and know their stories,

  8. because in every story, there is God's story.

  9. And this podcast is just about that.

  10. It's about inviting you into the stories of the people of Heaven

  11. Earth Church.

  12. So let's turn to the story.

  13. Hello, good people, and welcome to the Heaven Earth Church

  14. podcast.

  15. This is the church that looks to make a lasting impact in our community.

  16. My name is Brad Miller.

  17. I'm one of the hosts and producers of the podcast.

  18. We like to get to know the folks who are part of the Heaven

  19. and Earth Church community.

  20. And today we have as.

  21. As our guest, we have Jason and Karen Baker.

  22. We're so glad you're with us.

  23. So welcome to our podcast conversation here.

  24. Jason and Kara, welcome.

  25. Thank you for having us.

  26. Yeah, well, let's just kind of, let's.

  27. Our main focus here is get to know you guys a little bit and a

  28. little bit.

  29. What got you into Heaven Earth Church and what keeps you here, things

  30. of that nature.

  31. But, Carolyn, just start with you.

  32. What's a hometown for you?

  33. Where are you from?

  34. I grew up in Dayton, Ohio, specifically Kettering.

  35. We went to Fairmont High School.

  36. So born and raised a Buckeye.

  37. All right, big Buckeye fans in my household.

  38. Tell me a little bit about growing up in Kettering, Ohio, Dayton,

  39. Ohio area.

  40. What was something interesting about growing up?

  41. Your family life, Anything along that line?

  42. Yep.

  43. So first thing first, I was adopted at birth.

  44. So that makes my sister and I a little bit different.

  45. My sister and I were both adopted, unrelated biologically,

  46. but grew up with an amazing mom and dad and great childhood and

  47. lots of family and friends and just a wonderful childhood.

  48. So a pretty healthy growing up.

  49. Sounds like, you know, given circumstances, adopted.

  50. That's.

  51. That's us.

  52. Yep.

  53. Then you did almost die when you were born.

  54. Oh, yes.

  55. I guess that is an interesting point.

  56. So when I was a newborn, my parents got me about two weeks after

  57. I was born, and I was pretty sick right away.

  58. And my mom kept taking me to the doctor, and the doctor kept telling

  59. her, you're just nervous because you have this new baby you

  60. weren't expecting, and et cetera, et cetera.

  61. And.

  62. And so one day, a couple days later, my great grandmother was holding

  63. me and my great Grandmother said to my mom, if you don't get

  64. her help, she's going to die.

  65. And so my mom went back to the doctor, and thankfully, the doctor

  66. that she was seeing was not there that day, and we saw his partner,

  67. and his partner diagnosed me with a syndrome called pyloric stenosis,

  68. where a tube in your digestive system isn't formed correctly.

  69. And so if you don't get it fixed, you do.

  70. So we're talking here today because of some really divine intervention

  71. that happened.

  72. Right?

  73. Twice.

  74. Twice, right.

  75. Being adopted and then the doctor saving my life.

  76. That's a pretty cool start to life.

  77. And we're gonna have some more conversation about other cool things

  78. that have happened in your life here.

  79. But let's talk to Jason for a minute.

  80. Jason, what's hometown for you?

  81. Where are you from?

  82. I was raised in Steinsville, Indiana.

  83. Not Zionsville, Steinsville and Monroe County.

  84. And tell me a little bit about.

  85. Life growing up in Slingsville.

  86. My mom was a babysitter when I was growing up, and my dad was a

  87. traveling evangelist.

  88. So my mom was the babysitter to my best friend.

  89. So my childhood was great because we just went out in the woods

  90. every day and I got to play with my best friend, so.

  91. Well, so you just had.

  92. In many ways, you guys had both had pretty good childhood.

  93. So coming up in the.

  94. That's fantastic.

  95. Well, tell me a little bit about what you do right now, what

  96. got you to Whiteland, Indiana, or Greenwood and Indiana area, and

  97. maybe a little bit of, what, your kind of career, things you do

  98. right now.

  99. Kara, how about you?

  100. What got you here?

  101. And what.

  102. What do you do?

  103. Sure.

  104. So even though I was born and raised a Buckeye, I always wanted

  105. a different path.

  106. And so I went to swim camp at Indiana University when I was in

  107. eighth grade.

  108. And when I came home from swim camp, I told my parents, that's where

  109. I'm going to college.

  110. And they said, oh, okay.

  111. And then senior year of high school, my parents said, all right,

  112. what's next?

  113. Where are you?

  114. Where.

  115. Where are you applying?

  116. And I said, I told you, I'm going to iu.

  117. I knew no one at iu.

  118. I.

  119. And thankfully, my parents let me do that and met Jason our junior

  120. year.

  121. And so because of his work situation, my work situation, we

  122. ended up landing in Greenwood.

  123. And so we've lived in Greenwood ever since we got married

  124. in 2003.

  125. Sidious assault.

  126. You were a competitive swimmer?

  127. Yes, I swam all growing up.

  128. I swam from the time I was 4 years old until I was 18, but had

  129. no Desire to swim in college.

  130. I just want.

  131. I.

  132. But it was, it really shaped who I was growing up.

  133. And if there's ever a cultural reference or a biblical reference,

  134. I don't know, Jason likes to kindly remind me it was cause I was

  135. at swim practice that I probably don't know that.

  136. So.

  137. Yeah, that's how we ended up in Greenwood in central Indiana.

  138. Yeah.

  139. But Jason, how about you?

  140. Did you went to IU to I pick it up on, is that right?

  141. Yes.

  142. And I only met a couple of guys at IU because that's where I

  143. grew up, was in the same town pretty much.

  144. And so I felt like I had enough friends already.

  145. So I wasn't really into making new friends at college.

  146. But these two guys befriended me for no reason that I can understand.

  147. But one of those guys knew Kara, so that's why we met was through

  148. this other guy.

  149. So mutual friend.

  150. Shout out to Jordan Ablon.

  151. Yes.

  152. So I've said you were kind of a Lyndon Monroe.

  153. Did you, did you live at home or did you go to the dorms and all

  154. that kind of thing?

  155. I lived in the dorms one year, yes.

  156. Okay.

  157. What did you study at iu, Jason?

  158. We both studied sports communication, broadcast.

  159. And we know nothing about broadcasting.

  160. No shade to our alma mater.

  161. Here we are.

  162. Broadcasting.

  163. Yes.

  164. This is the most broadcasting I've ever seen and I have a degree

  165. in it.

  166. Well, how's it shaking out there?

  167. He said you're not in sports broadcasting.

  168. What are you at, Jason?

  169. What kind of career are you involved with?

  170. Well, I was when I was growing up.

  171. My dad and I had a baseball card shop for a decade while I was

  172. in middle school through college.

  173. And then we did ebay after that.

  174. And then I did ebay on my own until 2021 probably.

  175. And right now I'm just a reseller, we'll call it.

  176. Okay.

  177. And sell baseball gloves and baseball cards and anything that

  178. I can flip for a profit, I guess.

  179. And I was a stay at home dad when our girls were little, so.

  180. Well, awesome, awesome.

  181. Erin, how about you tell me about what kind of.

  182. What do you do in your career?

  183. Sure.

  184. So even though Jason and I both studied sports, I did an internship

  185. for the Toledo Mud Hens when I was a junior, between my junior and

  186. senior year of college.

  187. And I quickly realized that that lifestyle didn't align with

  188. what I wanted in life.

  189. I really wanted to get married and have children and to work in

  190. sports is.

  191. That's pretty difficult to do.

  192. And I knew I wanted to be a very involved parent.

  193. And late Night games and early, early morning office hours

  194. are not really what I wanted to do.

  195. So even though I got a degree in sports communications, I quickly

  196. realized that wasn't the path for me.

  197. I ended up landing a job in Greenwood out of college for a utility

  198. and basically worked in the utility space for 25 years.

  199. And I currently worked work for Wabash Valley Power alliance,

  200. it's an electric cooperative and I'm communications and marketing

  201. manager and I've been there this week.

  202. It will be 19 years.

  203. Good for you.

  204. Thank you.

  205. And you mentioned you have children.

  206. So it's just a nugget about your, about your kids.

  207. So you don't go in great detail.

  208. What's the nugget about them?

  209. So yes, we are parents to a 19 year old daughter named Emma and

  210. she's a freshman at Miami of Ohio studying biochemistry and minoring

  211. in Spanish.

  212. And our youngest daughter is just turned 18.

  213. Her name is Olivia and she's a senior at Greenwood High School.

  214. And the, the, the thing that, that sticks out to me about our girls

  215. is that they are absolutely nothing alike.

  216. The only thing they share is a gender and parents.

  217. You have anything to add to that?

  218. Any cool, any cool stories about you, about your kids or a nugget

  219. there that you might want to share?

  220. Not at the moment.

  221. Well, I will say that our girls are very blessed to have been

  222. raised by their dad.

  223. That's not a story that many people can share and it's pretty

  224. neat to see their bond.

  225. And I hear the stories they tell me from growing up when he used

  226. to split donuts between the two of them, but he got a whole one

  227. that they had to share.

  228. Well, tell me how that kind of shook up for you there, Carrie.

  229. That is a.

  230. It's more common than it used to be, but still a.

  231. A little bit different than many people's experiences.

  232. How did that shake out for you from your perspective?

  233. Kind of the stay at home dad type of thing.

  234. So yeah, it's hard to believe when you say it was 20 years ago

  235. that it started.

  236. But yeah, it was 20 years ago and Jason was self employed and it

  237. just made sense at the time.

  238. Daycare, super expensive and I had the health insurance and so it

  239. just kind of made sense that he would stay at home with the girls

  240. and he, he ran his business while they napped.

  241. My job on maternity leave was to get the girls on a schedule and

  242. also, you know, feed them, I guess.

  243. And so yeah, we had a.

  244. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

  245. And so it just, yeah, it really worked out well for our family.

  246. It was, I mean looking back, it was hard for me just because,

  247. you know, there were days where I definitely wanted to be the

  248. one to stay at home and be with the girls.

  249. But I knew that um, they were in great hands, probably better hands

  250. with Jason than me.

  251. Um, and yeah, I think that Emma and Olivia will look back on

  252. that time and, and really cherish those moments with their

  253. dad.

  254. Jason, how about you tell me a little bit about the stay at home

  255. dad experience for you.

  256. Obviously you did your, your ebay career and other things of that

  257. nature as well, but tell me how that went for you.

  258. Um, it was what I was felt.

  259. I always felt that was what I wanted to do.

  260. And my mom was always there every day of our life when I was

  261. growing up.

  262. So I wanted that for either one of us to be that for our kids.

  263. And it was easier than it should have been probably at that

  264. time for me personally.

  265. But I'm not really a people person so being home wasn't really.

  266. I didn't feel like I was missing out on anything.

  267. And there was opportunities I had where like at the church we went

  268. to at that time they had a MOPS program for mothers of preschoolers.

  269. So I was the child care for that because I didn't go, wasn't

  270. going to go to the class with a bunch of women, but I watched their

  271. kids.

  272. So it's just stuff like that where the kids that you interacted

  273. with then could see that guys could also be involved in their day

  274. to day life.

  275. I thought that was, worked for you guys and it definitely helped.

  276. That I'm the cheap parent.

  277. Yes.

  278. Because if you're, I can only say if you're going to be the stay

  279. at home parent, you can't be also the one that likes to spend

  280. money.

  281. So our girls, our girls always made fun of me because we never did

  282. anything unless it was free or we had a coupon.

  283. So there you go.

  284. Well, I'm sure there's more to that story.

  285. We'll delve a little deeper on another occasion.

  286. But I wanted to fellow you lived in Greenwood.

  287. I think you said 19 or 20 years you lived in Greenwood, is

  288. that right?

  289. Yeah.

  290. And then tell me a little bit about the experience of living in

  291. Greenwood.

  292. Particularly you said you were part of a church prior to coming

  293. here.

  294. So tell a little bit about, a little bit about your kind of spiritual

  295. background, church background, both growing up and maybe what you

  296. experienced here in Greenwood.

  297. Tell me a little bit about that.

  298. Just start with you.

  299. You want me to go?

  300. Oh, I'm going First.

  301. Okay, well, like I said, my dad was a traveling evangelist when

  302. I was a kid, and he was gone, like, one year, I think he was gone,

  303. like 300 and some days.

  304. And then he got off the road when I was in middle school and we

  305. had our store together.

  306. And I also have an older sister that I have not mentioned

  307. yet.

  308. And let's see, we hopped around to a lot of different churches

  309. when I was in.

  310. In school.

  311. And then when we moved up here, we started.

  312. We went to.

  313. We tested out, like, three or four churches.

  314. And there was one church in particular that was like a big church

  315. around here.

  316. And the week we were there, like, it was not for me, and I didn't

  317. think it was for Kara either.

  318. And then when we were walking to the car, I was like, oh, that

  319. was an amazing experience.

  320. Didn't you think that was great?

  321. And she was like, it was.

  322. I'm like, no, I was just kidding.

  323. And so we did not choose that church.

  324. But then we did go to a church for, I don't know, 16 years, we'll

  325. say.

  326. And we didn't have any reason that we left that church to come

  327. here.

  328. But I met Ross through the Bridges alliance of Johnson county

  329. program, which is people walking along, people struggling

  330. with poverty.

  331. And I met Ross there, and he just seemed like a nice guy.

  332. And so at one point, I was going to his services he was having.

  333. And our old church at the same time.

  334. And then when they started actually having services here, I

  335. was like, well, I feel like there didn't seem to be a lot of

  336. people that knew how to do church, I guess we'll say, at this

  337. church.

  338. And I felt led to be one of the people that knew kind of what

  339. was going on, or that could be not really a le.

  340. Not a leader, but just.

  341. Yeah, well, we'll come back to some of that here in just a minute

  342. here.

  343. But, Carol, want to find out for you a little bit about your church

  344. history growing up and maybe here in Greenwood area.

  345. Yeah.

  346. So basically, my church experience was the polar opposite

  347. of Jason's church experience growing up.

  348. I went to the same church all through.

  349. All through my life growing up.

  350. My mom went to the same church growing up.

  351. My grandfather was the founding member of the church.

  352. It was a Presbyterian church.

  353. And so that's all that I knew.

  354. Um, I'd never gone to any other type of church except for.

  355. Actually, I was thinking about this this morning.

  356. I was fortunate enough to grow up with a best friend who was Jewish.

  357. So I had that experience of having a different type of Religion

  358. around me, which I look back on really fondly, that I had that

  359. experience, but as far as, like, my personal experience, whereas

  360. Jason hopped around different churches and they had different experiences,

  361. I went to the same church, the same pew, with the same people doing

  362. the same things every week.

  363. And so when we got married, it was.

  364. It was like he mentioned, it was challenging to find a church

  365. that we could both agree on just because we had vastly different

  366. experiences.

  367. And then as he mentioned, we were with one church for a really

  368. long time.

  369. And I.

  370. I just felt kind of a calling, I think, after he did, but a calling

  371. that it was time for something different.

  372. And like you mentioned, nothing happened.

  373. There was no, you know, sometimes people leave churches for,

  374. you know, reasons or whatever, but we didn't.

  375. But then we.

  376. We started coming here and.

  377. And at first it was really hard for me because it was very different.

  378. I grew up Presbyterian.

  379. I went to the same church here for a really long time.

  380. I was used to one thing, and so this was.

  381. This was really stretching me, but I knew there was a reason.

  382. So that's part of the reason how you got here to have another

  383. church in the first place.

  384. So we want to go a little deeper in a minute.

  385. Let's go a little more basic or a little more foundational than

  386. that.

  387. Was there any time in your life that you kind of found was a.

  388. So do you care first in terms of kind of a.

  389. Kind of a God moment, kind of a coming to faith moment for you

  390. where you kind of felt like, you know, faith was a real thing

  391. that you wanted to some another.

  392. Live it out and express it?

  393. You know, a life of faith?

  394. You know, I.

  395. Not really.

  396. I just feel like it's been.

  397. Always been part of my life.

  398. There was never a profound moment.

  399. It's just always been.

  400. I was just raised in a Christian church in a Christian environment,

  401. and Jason is a man of faith.

  402. And yeah, I don't feel like there was that one aha moment now.

  403. There's been some aha moments of like, why we came here and.

  404. And how we landed here.

  405. I think God revealed that to me afterwards.

  406. And it was like, oh, okay, God.

  407. That's why.

  408. Let's stick a pin in that one.

  409. We're coming back there.

  410. Okay.

  411. Jason, for you, was there any kind of tell me a story about coming

  412. to faith for you or, you know, did Karen kind of describe her experience

  413. kind of this as a growing up and gradual, you know, just part

  414. of who life is.

  415. Tell me about your coming to faith experience.

  416. Well, I think I'm sometimes Jealous of people that come to faith

  417. later in life just because it's always.

  418. It seems more real for some reason when it's like you can see

  419. it, see somebody's life change instantly.

  420. It's amazing.

  421. And growing up in church, I don't feel I had that, like, I was

  422. always just a good kid and I was never a problem for my parents

  423. or anything like that.

  424. And just.

  425. You would look better doing drugs.

  426. Yeah.

  427. Well, both you church, you know, church people growing up in

  428. kind of an established church environment, and then you.

  429. That you kind of came to something new here at Heaven Earth

  430. Church.

  431. You already described a little bit of it.

  432. But tell me, Carol, let's come back to you about how you were first

  433. introduced to Lis.

  434. Connecting with Pastor Ross through Jason is my understanding.

  435. But tell me your.

  436. Some of your initial experiences of coming to Heavener

  437. at church.

  438. Just first impressions, this type of thing.

  439. Oh, boy.

  440. Well, I first met Ross, I believe, at a dedication for a baby

  441. box at White River Township Fire Department, if that's right.

  442. Jason knew Ross through bridges, like he mentioned and met

  443. him that day at that event and just was really impressed by what

  444. a nice guy he is.

  445. And he always remembers everyone's name, which is so impressive.

  446. I'm not that I'm not.

  447. I don't have that gift.

  448. But to be honest with you, when we first started coming here,

  449. it was tough because like I mentioned, I'd had this very similar

  450. experience growing up in Presbyterian Church, always with

  451. our other church.

  452. And then this was really pushing me outside of my comfort

  453. level.

  454. And it was also a challenging time because it was during the pandemic.

  455. So I think the first time we ever came to church here was maybe

  456. Easter Sunday when we were outside would have been 2021.

  457. Is that right?

  458. Maybe.

  459. And, yeah, it was just.

  460. It was just very different.

  461. But again, I had to trust God that I was here for a reason.

  462. And again, it's revealed itself of.

  463. Tell me about some of the conversations you had with Jason,

  464. kind of after some of those initial uncomfortable experiences.

  465. Does it sound like you had a prior experience where you went to

  466. some big megachurch and you both on the, you know, had some conversation

  467. about that, how that was not what you wanted.

  468. What were you.

  469. Some of the conversations that you had with Jason following that

  470. time?

  471. When I come here to HEC for.

  472. I think I just.

  473. I struggled with, like, I don't know, I just struggled with

  474. specifically.

  475. It was.

  476. It was a hard time in my life because of the pandemic and some

  477. of the.

  478. The.

  479. The things that were Happening and, And like, we couldn't sing here

  480. and things like that.

  481. So it was kind of a challenging time.

  482. Um, so I was just kind of like, sometimes I didn't come and

  483. Jason came by himself.

  484. Uh, but again, God just kept working on me and, and, and I overcame

  485. some of those things and, and saw the goodness.

  486. Well, we'll come back to some of that in a minute.

  487. Jason, let's talk about you.

  488. You initially met at Rostack House through some of the community

  489. organizations that are part of the church here.

  490. What they led you to kind of make that stuff to be part of the.

  491. You know, at least check out the worshiping community.

  492. What kind of led you to that?

  493. Well, that's a good story, because the main reason that we started

  494. coming here, like, I had met Ross before, but our daughter was

  495. playing volleyball at this school right here across the road.

  496. And so we would drop her off and then you would have to go somewhere

  497. for an hour and a half or two hours and then come back and pick

  498. her up.

  499. And I knew the church was right here.

  500. And Ross had always said that they had Bible study on the night

  501. I was dropping her off.

  502. And I'm not a people person and not really a small group type

  503. person.

  504. Like, I didn't go to youth group as a kid because it's just

  505. wasn't my thing.

  506. But they.

  507. I came here because I had some Bibles in my van that I had got at

  508. Goodwill, like little pocket Bibles.

  509. And I was going to drop them off here for him because there was

  510. some sort of ministry he gave them to at that point.

  511. So I came here for that, and then I was just going to leave.

  512. And he was like, oh, well, you should stay.

  513. And he's like, and I promise I'm not going to leave you.

  514. And we're going to split off into smaller groups, but I'll be

  515. in the same room you are.

  516. Because he knew that it was not my thing.

  517. And so I was like, okay, I'll just stay here.

  518. Because my other option was to go to Goodwill and then go have a

  519. beer at Oak and Barrel and then come back.

  520. And I chose not to do that.

  521. I chose to come to church.

  522. So then we split off into groups.

  523. Ross lied to me, did not go into the room that we were in, but

  524. we were in this room right back behind us.

  525. And there was me and I think four other people, and Spencer Metcalfe

  526. was one of them.

  527. And just seeing him in that room that night, it was like more

  528. God than I had seen in probably almost my whole Life and

  529. just in those people in that room.

  530. And one of the funny things was, is Mary Foreman was also in

  531. that room.

  532. And she had said that she could tell when I first got here,

  533. when we were in like the large group thing, she was asking me all

  534. these questions and that I didn't really feel like I wanted

  535. to answer them.

  536. And so she knew that her best bet was just to step back and not

  537. ask me questions.

  538. And so.

  539. And she didn't tell me that till, like, way later.

  540. And I thought that that was kind of funny that God told her,

  541. hey, knock it off.

  542. And then I stayed and it was just.

  543. And then I went home that night and it was just.

  544. I don't know, it was just like I felt like we should be part of

  545. this.

  546. So did you have some conversation with Kara about that

  547. type of experience that you had?

  548. Yeah, I just pretty much told her all that same stuff again.

  549. So it sounds like you kind of had a kind of an aha moment, if you

  550. will, for you at least, kind of like, okay, there's something

  551. here for me that's, you know, particularly for me.

  552. Am I.

  553. I don't want to read too much into it.

  554. Am I.

  555. Yeah.

  556. Track here at all.

  557. Yeah, yeah.

  558. And.

  559. And that night Spencer had to give a.

  560. Like, do this video at the end for some class he was doing for,

  561. I think nursing school or something.

  562. And he told like this to his two minute testimony pretty much

  563. of being an addict and all this stuff and recovery.

  564. And it was, it was just like that moment.

  565. I always feel like, not that those people are lesser than people,

  566. but I feel drawn to people, like people that aren't really accepted.

  567. Everywhere is more people that I'm drawn to.

  568. And it felt like a room of people that were like, we were only

  569. in there for 45 minutes or an hour maybe.

  570. And it felt like by the end that we were like family, which doesn't

  571. really happen in that short of a time.

  572. So kind of a transformation that happened relatively quickly

  573. over the course of that one evening, it sounds like.

  574. But also you were kind of led into it through other relationships

  575. and you shared that with Kara and then she eventually came along

  576. here.

  577. And that's what we're going to talk with her a minute.

  578. Am I accurate here?

  579. Yes, relatively so.

  580. Well, Carol, let's talk about you, that you had this experience.

  581. You know, let me ask you, did you see some animation in Jason or

  582. something along this line that caught your attention?

  583. It's something along that line here.

  584. Yeah, definitely.

  585. So just seeing kind of Jason's journey to coming Here.

  586. I mean, he, he.

  587. We would go to our other church in the morning and then he

  588. would.

  589. We would drive separate and it wasn't super close to our house,

  590. so it was maybe like a 15 or 20 minute drive.

  591. And he.

  592. We would drive separate and then he would go to.

  593. He would go to church.

  594. I think it was at Johnson's.

  595. Johnson's barbecue.

  596. Yeah, he would go to Johnson's barbecue.

  597. And then.

  598. And then he started, I think watching online here maybe, and.

  599. And then attending.

  600. Well, he was already attending bridges, but then attending different

  601. events here.

  602. And so again, I, I was a little slower to, to come along.

  603. Let's go there for you.

  604. Slower.

  605. Come along.

  606. And he mentioned about how this one night was important to him.

  607. Was there some sort of aha moment for you?

  608. Some.

  609. Would you sometimes, you know, the switch flip for you and say,

  610. okay, something maybe here for.

  611. From me.

  612. Well, I've certainly met some wonderful people here that I would

  613. never have connected with otherwise.

  614. But I think that the aha moment was July of.

  615. I don't know if it was 21 or 22 now, but our daughter shared with

  616. us something that I'm not going to share right now, but she

  617. shared something with us and then that was like, oh, okay.

  618. That's why God has pushed me.

  619. And so as soon as that happened, I knew that.

  620. That was when I knew.

  621. And I was like, okay, yep, God knows better than I do.

  622. And I was.

  623. I was.

  624. And I think sometimes when, you know, you.

  625. I like Jason works from home.

  626. So like getting up and coming to church on Sunday, you know, he's.

  627. It's probably exciting to him.

  628. Cause he probably wants to leave the house and go do things.

  629. But for me, I'm just the opposite.

  630. I work in an office all week and drive and commute and everything.

  631. And so sometimes on Sunday I just want to stay in bed.

  632. And so.

  633. So that.

  634. That's some of it why he was, you know, kind of doing lots of different.

  635. You know, he was going to two church services and all that.

  636. And I'm.

  637. Man, I'm tired.

  638. I need to rest.

  639. Transition.

  640. For her, the transformation for you to get connected to church

  641. was partly Jason, mostly Jason, you know, some other things.

  642. Going on with you.

  643. That kind of thing.

  644. Yes.

  645. Here's what the next step of this is.

  646. What keeps you here?

  647. You know, it's one thing to get kind of connected with something

  648. initially.

  649. But Kara, what.

  650. What keeps you here at heaven or church?

  651. The people.

  652. There's just some great people here that.

  653. From all walks of life that again, I wouldn't I wouldn't know

  654. otherwise without, without coming to church here.

  655. People very different than I grew up.

  656. People maybe I didn't.

  657. I wouldn't have otherwise encountered, but just nice, authentic

  658. people.

  659. I also, I never realized until I came here how much, I guess the

  660. term is church trauma, how much church trauma some people have.

  661. I'm fortunate that I don't feel that, but it's really opened

  662. my heart to that and made me open my eyes to that.

  663. And it's been.

  664. I feel like you grow and do better when you learn.

  665. And so I feel like I've grown and um, learned a lot from people

  666. that are.

  667. Otherwise I, I wouldn't have met.

  668. Um, and that's been really enlightening for me.

  669. It helps me probably relate to my children a little bit more because

  670. my children are our children.

  671. Um, you know, they're probably more open minded than I have been

  672. in my life.

  673. And so it's, it's just helped me grow.

  674. Great.

  675. Great.

  676. Jason.

  677. Kind of the same thing.

  678. What keeps you here?

  679. I would say the stuff that goes on not during church, like the

  680. community outreach type stuff.

  681. And like when the tornado happened, I was here pretty much

  682. that whole week and it was just crazy to see the impact that

  683. this church had on the community around us, which is how

  684. it was supposed to be because that's what made me so mad was the

  685. tornado was on like Friday night.

  686. And then some local churches like had church on Sunday and then.

  687. But some churches didn't and just went out into the community

  688. and helped.

  689. And then I was like, well, if you're a pastor at a church this

  690. Monday and you're in your church just sitting there, you're

  691. not doing this right.

  692. And so just stuff like that and like Recovery Church is amazing

  693. to see those stories and just the, the specific people that you

  694. know that this church has helped that know not because we're

  695. better, but because we're known to serve the people that not

  696. everybody will.

  697. Just those specific people that we've been able to help in the

  698. worst times of their life is just a great testament to what's

  699. going on around here.

  700. That's awesome.

  701. And I will say that I did stop drinking while we were here.

  702. And I'm coming up on a thousand days.

  703. I don't really, I don't go to meetings or anything.

  704. So I don't know, like, I don't do months or.

  705. But sometimes I look and I'm almost at a thousand days sober.

  706. And it just.

  707. The people at Recovery Church that were able to.

  708. That you could see it changed Their life.

  709. It was.

  710. It's amazing to see.

  711. Thank you for sharing that.

  712. Appreciate that.

  713. And, yeah, you got.

  714. Way to go.

  715. Yeah.

  716. Thousand dates.

  717. Yeah.

  718. Yay, God.

  719. Yay, Jason.

  720. Yeah.

  721. Yay, God.

  722. Yay, Jason.

  723. And thank you for the community of people who've been a

  724. part of helping to sustain that.

  725. You know, my belief is a part of what helps keep things going is

  726. the people, as you said, Kara.

  727. But when people come together not only to be kind of part of the

  728. community, but be present in times of need and be supportive,

  729. even though those folks may or may not have been directly supportive

  730. of you.

  731. But you've seen it happening, haven't you?

  732. Yeah.

  733. You've seen support, happiness.

  734. People have had some, you know, similar struggles with you

  735. with recovery issues and things like that, and you've seen

  736. that, and it's touched you.

  737. Yes.

  738. All right.

  739. Awesome.

  740. And I'll also add one thing, Brad, if you don't mind.

  741. I think.

  742. I think this church accepts people for who they are and come

  743. as you are.

  744. If that's dressed up, if that's dressed down, if that's stressed

  745. out, if that's happy, if that's.

  746. If you have a new puppy and you have to bring your puppy to church,

  747. which is what we did for a long time.

  748. Our little puppy, Molly, she's two and a half now, but we brought

  749. her to church every Sunday, and.

  750. And Angie would bring Benson for a long time, and that was a pretty

  751. neat thing.

  752. And people would always say, your church lets you bring a dog.

  753. They did.

  754. And that's something that, you know, it kind of leads me to, you

  755. know, one of the things we.

  756. The mission of the church states pretty clearly on banners

  757. and things of this and this nature, the church that exists to

  758. make a lasting impact on the community.

  759. Absolutely.

  760. So tell me, based on your experience, is there something to

  761. that?

  762. Is that true?

  763. Absolutely.

  764. Yes.

  765. Absolutely.

  766. And if it's true, how's it lived out?

  767. You've mentioned a few things, I think, here, but how else is that

  768. lived out?

  769. Well, I think Jason nailed it when he said that.

  770. It's.

  771. It.

  772. It's not what happens on Sunday morning.

  773. It's what happens every other day of the week.

  774. So it's the things that the members of our church do, whether

  775. it's helping the tornado victims or it's helping sometimes

  776. the man that comes in off the street who doesn't have any food

  777. or doesn't have any gas money.

  778. Our church helps.

  779. It's the Narcan on the side of the building for somebody who may

  780. need it.

  781. It's a church member's family member needing something uplifted

  782. at Christmas.

  783. I have a friend whose daughter is battling cancer right now and

  784. I have no qualms about saying I need prayers for our friend Lauren.

  785. And so it's just, you see it lived out every day by everybody

  786. in this church from the attendees to the pastoral staff.

  787. And yeah, that's just great to witness.

  788. Thanks for sharing that.

  789. Kind of along with that mission of the church is a phrase

  790. kind of a model if you will, that is on the church website and

  791. I hear it said quite often around here is something to the effect

  792. of if you feel like you don't fit in church, you fit here.

  793. Jason, speak to that.

  794. Do you think that's a true statement?

  795. If so, how have you seen that lived out?

  796. I think the greatest story that this church will ever tell and

  797. I don't know why I cry all the time now, but it's a new thing.

  798. There was a woman in Franklin who is a self proclaimed atheist,

  799. which is her is what she thinks.

  800. So we'll just say that.

  801. And if you think about her whole life story, she's a Korean

  802. adoptee who shouldn't even technically be here without having

  803. been adopted and brought to the Franklin area.

  804. And she was somehow become the greatest evangelist for our whole

  805. church.

  806. And the only reason that this one family came was because she had

  807. asked this other lady, she had asked the atheist woman, do you feel

  808. or I would like our family to have more of a community and if that's

  809. church or whatever.

  810. And she said, oh well you should take your kids to Heaven Earth

  811. Church.

  812. And then they started coming here and then her son tragically

  813. passed away when he was two and a half and our church was able

  814. to be here for that family and like they had the funeral here and

  815. the only reason that we were able to be there for that family

  816. during the worst week and I mean from then on, I mean it wasn't

  817. just a week, it's their whole life was because this woman said

  818. hey, this community will be there for you.

  819. And we were.

  820. And like we had the funeral here and they don't come to church

  821. here anymore.

  822. And I can understand why.

  823. I'm not going to speak for them, but I'm going to assume that

  824. coming to the same sanctuary where you had your child's funeral

  825. would be very hard for you to come back.

  826. But just if that's the only thing we ever did as a church was

  827. be there that time for them in their life, then all of this was

  828. worth it.

  829. So you saw a Real God moment there, didn't you?

  830. Yes, you really did.

  831. And so, Carrie, do you have any God moments that you've seen

  832. here?

  833. Well, I would definitely agree with Jason on that.

  834. Just there's.

  835. I think there's a lot of God moments.

  836. I'm not sure I can come up with one better than that at the

  837. time.

  838. I do have to.

  839. I know, I know.

  840. I do have to laugh.

  841. Jason mentioned that he doesn't know why he cries anymore.

  842. He made fun of my dad all the time because my dad would get emotional.

  843. Now Jason's following suit on that.

  844. I still don't think I'd cry during the good dinosaur movie, but

  845. like, he did.

  846. But maybe my dad was a movie crier.

  847. Um, I honestly, I can't think of anything off the top of my head

  848. right now.

  849. Well, let me bring it around in this way.

  850. And then is there.

  851. We all have, as you mentioned, we have life outside of church and

  852. even outside of work, whatever.

  853. But we have relationships, all those places.

  854. It might be co workers, it might be people that you, if you're,

  855. you know, activities your kids are in or social life, otherwise,

  856. that kind of thing.

  857. Do you think this is the type of church that if someone, a coworker,

  858. someone in your social life came to you with some issue, whatever

  859. it is, health, marital, you know, relation, work related things,

  860. and they kind of confide in you a little bit, do you think it's

  861. the type of church that you would feel comfortable inviting that

  862. person in your life to say, hey, this just might help?

  863. Definitely.

  864. And what would be the factors of why that would be?

  865. I think because there's just no judgment here.

  866. People are accepted and loved and for just who they are at that

  867. moment and always.

  868. So it's just truly a judgment free zone.

  869. Judgment free zone.

  870. Jason, do you concur with that and you want to say more?

  871. I don't have anything to add to that, but yes.

  872. Very good.

  873. Well, this podcast and this video maybe use as a way to help

  874. introduce people to heaven or church.

  875. So what would you want to share with a person who may be checking

  876. out heaven, earth, church?

  877. What kind of things do you want to share with them, Jason?

  878. I don't know.

  879. You go first and then I'll see if I'm great.

  880. Okay.

  881. Okay.

  882. You put me on the spot.

  883. I feel like I've said the same thing a lot, but just it's a group

  884. of people that comes together every week, most times more often

  885. than every week.

  886. There's small groups, there's something for everybody.

  887. Small groups and community service.

  888. Opportunities and worshiping on Sunday and, you know, celebrating

  889. the good times, whether that's your child's graduation or birthday

  890. parties or whatever.

  891. And then also they're in the hard times.

  892. So it's just.

  893. It's a nice group of people, and we keep getting bigger and bigger.

  894. You know, not huge, but it's not.

  895. It's probably not a place that you can come and blend in Sometimes.

  896. People like that.

  897. They like to come in and blend in.

  898. Ross knows everyone's name, like I mentioned, and he'll probably

  899. use it during a sermon, but it's.

  900. It's.

  901. It's a conversation every Sunday.

  902. Anything you want to add to?

  903. I have joked with Ross that I feel like he's ruined church for

  904. the rest of us.

  905. For the future.

  906. For the future.

  907. If we ever tried to go to another church where you can't just

  908. speak up at any time that you feel led.

  909. Not that that's me a lot, but you have contributed.

  910. I mean, you have been part of the conversation.

  911. Yeah.

  912. Worship in other ways.

  913. And besides, you also contribute as a stellar.

  914. I did forget to mention that if you want to play church softball,

  915. it's a good time.

  916. The guys are out there playing softball, and the ladies, we tend

  917. to just chat in the stance.

  918. There you go.

  919. Well, it's a joy to be with you and to be.

  920. To get to know both of you.

  921. And this is an opportunity for folks who may be checking out to

  922. have a church to get to know people who are part of the church.

  923. And we just.

  924. Thank you for being our guest here.

  925. And I have asked a couple of people, like, specifically, like,

  926. one family in particular.

  927. There was a sermon that Ross was going to give, and I was like,

  928. I feel like there was a couple families, but one in particular,

  929. I was like, I feel like you guys should be here.

  930. If you want to come, you should be here.

  931. And then they came and they spoke and they wept during church.

  932. And it was, like, cool to see that.

  933. I invited four specific people that day, and they all came.

  934. And then one of those couples is deeply rooted in their own church

  935. already, but the other was kind of looking for a church to join,

  936. and they have come here ever since.

  937. So you've seen life change happen based out of your own experience?

  938. Yes.

  939. Do you have anything you want to add to this, Kara, or anything

  940. else you want to share?

  941. And I do like that there's.

  942. Including you, there are three or four.

  943. Not that there's ever a retired pastor, but three or four

  944. retired pastors that come every Sunday, pretty much, which

  945. means that we have to be doing something right.

  946. Appreciate it.

  947. Anything you want to add, Gar?

  948. No, just thank you for having us today.

  949. Well, indeed, it's been a pleasure having you with us here.

  950. And again, our guest here today on the Heaven Earth Church

  951. podcast, Jason and Kara Baker, part of the community here of a church

  952. that is looking to continue to be to offer a lasting impact in our

  953. community.

  954. Thank you.

  955. My name is Brad Miller and thank you for joining us here on

  956. the Heaven Earth Church podcast.

  957. We want to thank you for spending time with us today.

  958. My name is Ross Stackhouse, the pastor to Heaven Earth Church.

  959. And you may think out there that your story is over, but in fact,

  960. your faith story may just be beginning.

  961. If you want more information about our church or you're interested

  962. in the next step, you can go to heavenearthchurch.

  963. Org.

  964. Otherwise, we look forward to being with you next time at the Heaven

  965. Earth Church podcast.