Sermon
A Conversation with Jason and Kara Baker-HeavenEarth Church Stories
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What would it look like to start a community that was really.
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It's for the people like Jesus would be for.
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Welcome to Heaven Earth Church.
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I'm Ross Stackhouse, the founding pastor of Heaven Earth Church.
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From the start, our heart has been to be a church for people who
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don't fit neatly into church.
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We want to meet people where they are and know their stories,
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because in every story, there is God's story.
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And this podcast is just about that.
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It's about inviting you into the stories of the people of Heaven
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Earth Church.
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So let's turn to the story.
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Hello, good people, and welcome to the Heaven Earth Church
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podcast.
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This is the church that looks to make a lasting impact in our community.
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My name is Brad Miller.
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I'm one of the hosts and producers of the podcast.
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We like to get to know the folks who are part of the Heaven
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and Earth Church community.
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And today we have as.
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As our guest, we have Jason and Karen Baker.
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We're so glad you're with us.
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So welcome to our podcast conversation here.
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Jason and Kara, welcome.
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Thank you for having us.
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Yeah, well, let's just kind of, let's.
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Our main focus here is get to know you guys a little bit and a
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little bit.
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What got you into Heaven Earth Church and what keeps you here, things
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of that nature.
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But, Carolyn, just start with you.
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What's a hometown for you?
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Where are you from?
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I grew up in Dayton, Ohio, specifically Kettering.
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We went to Fairmont High School.
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So born and raised a Buckeye.
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All right, big Buckeye fans in my household.
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Tell me a little bit about growing up in Kettering, Ohio, Dayton,
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Ohio area.
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What was something interesting about growing up?
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Your family life, Anything along that line?
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Yep.
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So first thing first, I was adopted at birth.
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So that makes my sister and I a little bit different.
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My sister and I were both adopted, unrelated biologically,
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but grew up with an amazing mom and dad and great childhood and
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lots of family and friends and just a wonderful childhood.
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So a pretty healthy growing up.
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Sounds like, you know, given circumstances, adopted.
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That's.
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That's us.
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Yep.
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Then you did almost die when you were born.
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Oh, yes.
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I guess that is an interesting point.
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So when I was a newborn, my parents got me about two weeks after
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I was born, and I was pretty sick right away.
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And my mom kept taking me to the doctor, and the doctor kept telling
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her, you're just nervous because you have this new baby you
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weren't expecting, and et cetera, et cetera.
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And.
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And so one day, a couple days later, my great grandmother was holding
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me and my great Grandmother said to my mom, if you don't get
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her help, she's going to die.
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And so my mom went back to the doctor, and thankfully, the doctor
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that she was seeing was not there that day, and we saw his partner,
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and his partner diagnosed me with a syndrome called pyloric stenosis,
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where a tube in your digestive system isn't formed correctly.
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And so if you don't get it fixed, you do.
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So we're talking here today because of some really divine intervention
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that happened.
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Right?
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Twice.
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Twice, right.
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Being adopted and then the doctor saving my life.
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That's a pretty cool start to life.
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And we're gonna have some more conversation about other cool things
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that have happened in your life here.
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But let's talk to Jason for a minute.
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Jason, what's hometown for you?
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Where are you from?
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I was raised in Steinsville, Indiana.
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Not Zionsville, Steinsville and Monroe County.
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And tell me a little bit about.
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Life growing up in Slingsville.
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My mom was a babysitter when I was growing up, and my dad was a
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traveling evangelist.
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So my mom was the babysitter to my best friend.
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So my childhood was great because we just went out in the woods
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every day and I got to play with my best friend, so.
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Well, so you just had.
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In many ways, you guys had both had pretty good childhood.
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So coming up in the.
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That's fantastic.
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Well, tell me a little bit about what you do right now, what
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got you to Whiteland, Indiana, or Greenwood and Indiana area, and
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maybe a little bit of, what, your kind of career, things you do
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right now.
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Kara, how about you?
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What got you here?
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And what.
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What do you do?
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Sure.
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So even though I was born and raised a Buckeye, I always wanted
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a different path.
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And so I went to swim camp at Indiana University when I was in
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eighth grade.
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And when I came home from swim camp, I told my parents, that's where
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I'm going to college.
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And they said, oh, okay.
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And then senior year of high school, my parents said, all right,
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what's next?
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Where are you?
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Where.
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Where are you applying?
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And I said, I told you, I'm going to iu.
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I knew no one at iu.
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I.
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And thankfully, my parents let me do that and met Jason our junior
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year.
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And so because of his work situation, my work situation, we
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ended up landing in Greenwood.
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And so we've lived in Greenwood ever since we got married
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in 2003.
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Sidious assault.
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You were a competitive swimmer?
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Yes, I swam all growing up.
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I swam from the time I was 4 years old until I was 18, but had
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no Desire to swim in college.
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I just want.
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I.
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But it was, it really shaped who I was growing up.
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And if there's ever a cultural reference or a biblical reference,
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I don't know, Jason likes to kindly remind me it was cause I was
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at swim practice that I probably don't know that.
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So.
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Yeah, that's how we ended up in Greenwood in central Indiana.
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Yeah.
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But Jason, how about you?
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Did you went to IU to I pick it up on, is that right?
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Yes.
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And I only met a couple of guys at IU because that's where I
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grew up, was in the same town pretty much.
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And so I felt like I had enough friends already.
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So I wasn't really into making new friends at college.
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But these two guys befriended me for no reason that I can understand.
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But one of those guys knew Kara, so that's why we met was through
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this other guy.
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So mutual friend.
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Shout out to Jordan Ablon.
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Yes.
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So I've said you were kind of a Lyndon Monroe.
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Did you, did you live at home or did you go to the dorms and all
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that kind of thing?
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I lived in the dorms one year, yes.
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Okay.
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What did you study at iu, Jason?
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We both studied sports communication, broadcast.
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And we know nothing about broadcasting.
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No shade to our alma mater.
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Here we are.
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Broadcasting.
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Yes.
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This is the most broadcasting I've ever seen and I have a degree
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in it.
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Well, how's it shaking out there?
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He said you're not in sports broadcasting.
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What are you at, Jason?
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What kind of career are you involved with?
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Well, I was when I was growing up.
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My dad and I had a baseball card shop for a decade while I was
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in middle school through college.
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And then we did ebay after that.
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And then I did ebay on my own until 2021 probably.
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And right now I'm just a reseller, we'll call it.
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Okay.
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And sell baseball gloves and baseball cards and anything that
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I can flip for a profit, I guess.
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And I was a stay at home dad when our girls were little, so.
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Well, awesome, awesome.
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Erin, how about you tell me about what kind of.
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What do you do in your career?
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Sure.
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So even though Jason and I both studied sports, I did an internship
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for the Toledo Mud Hens when I was a junior, between my junior and
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senior year of college.
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And I quickly realized that that lifestyle didn't align with
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what I wanted in life.
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I really wanted to get married and have children and to work in
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sports is.
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That's pretty difficult to do.
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And I knew I wanted to be a very involved parent.
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And late Night games and early, early morning office hours
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are not really what I wanted to do.
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So even though I got a degree in sports communications, I quickly
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realized that wasn't the path for me.
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I ended up landing a job in Greenwood out of college for a utility
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and basically worked in the utility space for 25 years.
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And I currently worked work for Wabash Valley Power alliance,
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it's an electric cooperative and I'm communications and marketing
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manager and I've been there this week.
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It will be 19 years.
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Good for you.
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Thank you.
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And you mentioned you have children.
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So it's just a nugget about your, about your kids.
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So you don't go in great detail.
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What's the nugget about them?
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So yes, we are parents to a 19 year old daughter named Emma and
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she's a freshman at Miami of Ohio studying biochemistry and minoring
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in Spanish.
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And our youngest daughter is just turned 18.
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Her name is Olivia and she's a senior at Greenwood High School.
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And the, the, the thing that, that sticks out to me about our girls
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is that they are absolutely nothing alike.
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The only thing they share is a gender and parents.
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You have anything to add to that?
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Any cool, any cool stories about you, about your kids or a nugget
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there that you might want to share?
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Not at the moment.
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Well, I will say that our girls are very blessed to have been
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raised by their dad.
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That's not a story that many people can share and it's pretty
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neat to see their bond.
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And I hear the stories they tell me from growing up when he used
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to split donuts between the two of them, but he got a whole one
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that they had to share.
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Well, tell me how that kind of shook up for you there, Carrie.
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That is a.
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It's more common than it used to be, but still a.
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A little bit different than many people's experiences.
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How did that shake out for you from your perspective?
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Kind of the stay at home dad type of thing.
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So yeah, it's hard to believe when you say it was 20 years ago
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that it started.
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But yeah, it was 20 years ago and Jason was self employed and it
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just made sense at the time.
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Daycare, super expensive and I had the health insurance and so it
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just kind of made sense that he would stay at home with the girls
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and he, he ran his business while they napped.
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My job on maternity leave was to get the girls on a schedule and
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also, you know, feed them, I guess.
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And so yeah, we had a.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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And so it just, yeah, it really worked out well for our family.
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It was, I mean looking back, it was hard for me just because,
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you know, there were days where I definitely wanted to be the
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one to stay at home and be with the girls.
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But I knew that um, they were in great hands, probably better hands
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with Jason than me.
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Um, and yeah, I think that Emma and Olivia will look back on
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that time and, and really cherish those moments with their
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dad.
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Jason, how about you tell me a little bit about the stay at home
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dad experience for you.
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Obviously you did your, your ebay career and other things of that
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nature as well, but tell me how that went for you.
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Um, it was what I was felt.
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I always felt that was what I wanted to do.
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And my mom was always there every day of our life when I was
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growing up.
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So I wanted that for either one of us to be that for our kids.
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And it was easier than it should have been probably at that
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time for me personally.
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But I'm not really a people person so being home wasn't really.
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I didn't feel like I was missing out on anything.
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And there was opportunities I had where like at the church we went
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to at that time they had a MOPS program for mothers of preschoolers.
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So I was the child care for that because I didn't go, wasn't
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going to go to the class with a bunch of women, but I watched their
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kids.
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So it's just stuff like that where the kids that you interacted
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with then could see that guys could also be involved in their day
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to day life.
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I thought that was, worked for you guys and it definitely helped.
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That I'm the cheap parent.
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Yes.
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Because if you're, I can only say if you're going to be the stay
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at home parent, you can't be also the one that likes to spend
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money.
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So our girls, our girls always made fun of me because we never did
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anything unless it was free or we had a coupon.
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So there you go.
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Well, I'm sure there's more to that story.
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We'll delve a little deeper on another occasion.
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But I wanted to fellow you lived in Greenwood.
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I think you said 19 or 20 years you lived in Greenwood, is
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that right?
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Yeah.
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And then tell me a little bit about the experience of living in
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Greenwood.
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Particularly you said you were part of a church prior to coming
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here.
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So tell a little bit about, a little bit about your kind of spiritual
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background, church background, both growing up and maybe what you
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experienced here in Greenwood.
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Tell me a little bit about that.
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Just start with you.
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You want me to go?
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Oh, I'm going First.
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Okay, well, like I said, my dad was a traveling evangelist when
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I was a kid, and he was gone, like, one year, I think he was gone,
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like 300 and some days.
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And then he got off the road when I was in middle school and we
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had our store together.
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And I also have an older sister that I have not mentioned
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yet.
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And let's see, we hopped around to a lot of different churches
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when I was in.
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In school.
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And then when we moved up here, we started.
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We went to.
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We tested out, like, three or four churches.
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And there was one church in particular that was like a big church
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around here.
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And the week we were there, like, it was not for me, and I didn't
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think it was for Kara either.
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And then when we were walking to the car, I was like, oh, that
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was an amazing experience.
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Didn't you think that was great?
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And she was like, it was.
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I'm like, no, I was just kidding.
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And so we did not choose that church.
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But then we did go to a church for, I don't know, 16 years, we'll
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say.
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And we didn't have any reason that we left that church to come
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here.
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But I met Ross through the Bridges alliance of Johnson county
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program, which is people walking along, people struggling
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with poverty.
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And I met Ross there, and he just seemed like a nice guy.
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And so at one point, I was going to his services he was having.
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And our old church at the same time.
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And then when they started actually having services here, I
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was like, well, I feel like there didn't seem to be a lot of
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people that knew how to do church, I guess we'll say, at this
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church.
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And I felt led to be one of the people that knew kind of what
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was going on, or that could be not really a le.
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Not a leader, but just.
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Yeah, well, we'll come back to some of that here in just a minute
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here.
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But, Carol, want to find out for you a little bit about your church
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history growing up and maybe here in Greenwood area.
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Yeah.
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So basically, my church experience was the polar opposite
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of Jason's church experience growing up.
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I went to the same church all through.
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All through my life growing up.
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My mom went to the same church growing up.
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My grandfather was the founding member of the church.
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It was a Presbyterian church.
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And so that's all that I knew.
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Um, I'd never gone to any other type of church except for.
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Actually, I was thinking about this this morning.
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I was fortunate enough to grow up with a best friend who was Jewish.
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So I had that experience of having a different type of Religion
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around me, which I look back on really fondly, that I had that
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experience, but as far as, like, my personal experience, whereas
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Jason hopped around different churches and they had different experiences,
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I went to the same church, the same pew, with the same people doing
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the same things every week.
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And so when we got married, it was.
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It was like he mentioned, it was challenging to find a church
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that we could both agree on just because we had vastly different
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experiences.
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And then as he mentioned, we were with one church for a really
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long time.
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And I.
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I just felt kind of a calling, I think, after he did, but a calling
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that it was time for something different.
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And like you mentioned, nothing happened.
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There was no, you know, sometimes people leave churches for,
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you know, reasons or whatever, but we didn't.
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But then we.
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We started coming here and.
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And at first it was really hard for me because it was very different.
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I grew up Presbyterian.
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I went to the same church here for a really long time.
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I was used to one thing, and so this was.
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This was really stretching me, but I knew there was a reason.
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So that's part of the reason how you got here to have another
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church in the first place.
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So we want to go a little deeper in a minute.
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Let's go a little more basic or a little more foundational than
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that.
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Was there any time in your life that you kind of found was a.
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So do you care first in terms of kind of a.
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Kind of a God moment, kind of a coming to faith moment for you
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where you kind of felt like, you know, faith was a real thing
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that you wanted to some another.
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Live it out and express it?
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You know, a life of faith?
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You know, I.
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Not really.
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I just feel like it's been.
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Always been part of my life.
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There was never a profound moment.
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It's just always been.
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I was just raised in a Christian church in a Christian environment,
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and Jason is a man of faith.
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And yeah, I don't feel like there was that one aha moment now.
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There's been some aha moments of like, why we came here and.
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And how we landed here.
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I think God revealed that to me afterwards.
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And it was like, oh, okay, God.
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That's why.
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Let's stick a pin in that one.
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We're coming back there.
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Okay.
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Jason, for you, was there any kind of tell me a story about coming
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to faith for you or, you know, did Karen kind of describe her experience
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kind of this as a growing up and gradual, you know, just part
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of who life is.
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Tell me about your coming to faith experience.
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Well, I think I'm sometimes Jealous of people that come to faith
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later in life just because it's always.
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It seems more real for some reason when it's like you can see
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it, see somebody's life change instantly.
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It's amazing.
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And growing up in church, I don't feel I had that, like, I was
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always just a good kid and I was never a problem for my parents
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or anything like that.
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And just.
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You would look better doing drugs.
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Yeah.
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Well, both you church, you know, church people growing up in
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kind of an established church environment, and then you.
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That you kind of came to something new here at Heaven Earth
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Church.
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You already described a little bit of it.
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But tell me, Carol, let's come back to you about how you were first
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introduced to Lis.
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Connecting with Pastor Ross through Jason is my understanding.
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But tell me your.
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Some of your initial experiences of coming to Heavener
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at church.
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Just first impressions, this type of thing.
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Oh, boy.
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Well, I first met Ross, I believe, at a dedication for a baby
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box at White River Township Fire Department, if that's right.
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Jason knew Ross through bridges, like he mentioned and met
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him that day at that event and just was really impressed by what
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a nice guy he is.
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And he always remembers everyone's name, which is so impressive.
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I'm not that I'm not.
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I don't have that gift.
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But to be honest with you, when we first started coming here,
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it was tough because like I mentioned, I'd had this very similar
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experience growing up in Presbyterian Church, always with
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our other church.
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And then this was really pushing me outside of my comfort
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level.
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And it was also a challenging time because it was during the pandemic.
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So I think the first time we ever came to church here was maybe
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Easter Sunday when we were outside would have been 2021.
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Is that right?
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Maybe.
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And, yeah, it was just.
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It was just very different.
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But again, I had to trust God that I was here for a reason.
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And again, it's revealed itself of.
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Tell me about some of the conversations you had with Jason,
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kind of after some of those initial uncomfortable experiences.
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Does it sound like you had a prior experience where you went to
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some big megachurch and you both on the, you know, had some conversation
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about that, how that was not what you wanted.
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What were you.
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Some of the conversations that you had with Jason following that
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time?
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When I come here to HEC for.
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I think I just.
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I struggled with, like, I don't know, I just struggled with
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specifically.
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It was.
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It was a hard time in my life because of the pandemic and some
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of the.
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The.
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The things that were Happening and, And like, we couldn't sing here
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and things like that.
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So it was kind of a challenging time.
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Um, so I was just kind of like, sometimes I didn't come and
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Jason came by himself.
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Uh, but again, God just kept working on me and, and, and I overcame
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some of those things and, and saw the goodness.
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Well, we'll come back to some of that in a minute.
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Jason, let's talk about you.
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You initially met at Rostack House through some of the community
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organizations that are part of the church here.
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What they led you to kind of make that stuff to be part of the.
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You know, at least check out the worshiping community.
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What kind of led you to that?
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Well, that's a good story, because the main reason that we started
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coming here, like, I had met Ross before, but our daughter was
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playing volleyball at this school right here across the road.
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And so we would drop her off and then you would have to go somewhere
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for an hour and a half or two hours and then come back and pick
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her up.
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And I knew the church was right here.
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And Ross had always said that they had Bible study on the night
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I was dropping her off.
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And I'm not a people person and not really a small group type
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person.
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Like, I didn't go to youth group as a kid because it's just
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wasn't my thing.
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But they.
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I came here because I had some Bibles in my van that I had got at
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Goodwill, like little pocket Bibles.
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And I was going to drop them off here for him because there was
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some sort of ministry he gave them to at that point.
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So I came here for that, and then I was just going to leave.
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And he was like, oh, well, you should stay.
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And he's like, and I promise I'm not going to leave you.
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And we're going to split off into smaller groups, but I'll be
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in the same room you are.
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Because he knew that it was not my thing.
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And so I was like, okay, I'll just stay here.
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Because my other option was to go to Goodwill and then go have a
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beer at Oak and Barrel and then come back.
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And I chose not to do that.
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I chose to come to church.
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So then we split off into groups.
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Ross lied to me, did not go into the room that we were in, but
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we were in this room right back behind us.
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And there was me and I think four other people, and Spencer Metcalfe
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was one of them.
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And just seeing him in that room that night, it was like more
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God than I had seen in probably almost my whole Life and
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just in those people in that room.
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And one of the funny things was, is Mary Foreman was also in
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that room.
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And she had said that she could tell when I first got here,
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when we were in like the large group thing, she was asking me all
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these questions and that I didn't really feel like I wanted
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to answer them.
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And so she knew that her best bet was just to step back and not
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ask me questions.
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And so.
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And she didn't tell me that till, like, way later.
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And I thought that that was kind of funny that God told her,
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hey, knock it off.
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And then I stayed and it was just.
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And then I went home that night and it was just.
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I don't know, it was just like I felt like we should be part of
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this.
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So did you have some conversation with Kara about that
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type of experience that you had?
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Yeah, I just pretty much told her all that same stuff again.
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So it sounds like you kind of had a kind of an aha moment, if you
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will, for you at least, kind of like, okay, there's something
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here for me that's, you know, particularly for me.
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Am I.
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I don't want to read too much into it.
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Am I.
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Yeah.
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Track here at all.
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Yeah, yeah.
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And.
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And that night Spencer had to give a.
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Like, do this video at the end for some class he was doing for,
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I think nursing school or something.
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And he told like this to his two minute testimony pretty much
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of being an addict and all this stuff and recovery.
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And it was, it was just like that moment.
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I always feel like, not that those people are lesser than people,
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but I feel drawn to people, like people that aren't really accepted.
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Everywhere is more people that I'm drawn to.
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And it felt like a room of people that were like, we were only
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in there for 45 minutes or an hour maybe.
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And it felt like by the end that we were like family, which doesn't
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really happen in that short of a time.
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So kind of a transformation that happened relatively quickly
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over the course of that one evening, it sounds like.
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But also you were kind of led into it through other relationships
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and you shared that with Kara and then she eventually came along
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here.
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And that's what we're going to talk with her a minute.
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Am I accurate here?
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Yes, relatively so.
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Well, Carol, let's talk about you, that you had this experience.
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You know, let me ask you, did you see some animation in Jason or
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something along this line that caught your attention?
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It's something along that line here.
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Yeah, definitely.
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So just seeing kind of Jason's journey to coming Here.
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I mean, he, he.
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We would go to our other church in the morning and then he
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would.
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We would drive separate and it wasn't super close to our house,
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so it was maybe like a 15 or 20 minute drive.
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And he.
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We would drive separate and then he would go to.
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He would go to church.
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I think it was at Johnson's.
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Johnson's barbecue.
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Yeah, he would go to Johnson's barbecue.
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And then.
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And then he started, I think watching online here maybe, and.
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And then attending.
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Well, he was already attending bridges, but then attending different
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events here.
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And so again, I, I was a little slower to, to come along.
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Let's go there for you.
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Slower.
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Come along.
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And he mentioned about how this one night was important to him.
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Was there some sort of aha moment for you?
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Some.
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Would you sometimes, you know, the switch flip for you and say,
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okay, something maybe here for.
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From me.
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Well, I've certainly met some wonderful people here that I would
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never have connected with otherwise.
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But I think that the aha moment was July of.
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I don't know if it was 21 or 22 now, but our daughter shared with
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us something that I'm not going to share right now, but she
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shared something with us and then that was like, oh, okay.
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That's why God has pushed me.
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And so as soon as that happened, I knew that.
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That was when I knew.
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And I was like, okay, yep, God knows better than I do.
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And I was.
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I was.
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And I think sometimes when, you know, you.
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I like Jason works from home.
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So like getting up and coming to church on Sunday, you know, he's.
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It's probably exciting to him.
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Cause he probably wants to leave the house and go do things.
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But for me, I'm just the opposite.
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I work in an office all week and drive and commute and everything.
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And so sometimes on Sunday I just want to stay in bed.
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And so.
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So that.
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That's some of it why he was, you know, kind of doing lots of different.
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You know, he was going to two church services and all that.
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And I'm.
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Man, I'm tired.
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I need to rest.
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Transition.
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For her, the transformation for you to get connected to church
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was partly Jason, mostly Jason, you know, some other things.
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Going on with you.
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That kind of thing.
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Yes.
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Here's what the next step of this is.
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What keeps you here?
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You know, it's one thing to get kind of connected with something
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initially.
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But Kara, what.
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What keeps you here at heaven or church?
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The people.
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There's just some great people here that.
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From all walks of life that again, I wouldn't I wouldn't know
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otherwise without, without coming to church here.
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People very different than I grew up.
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People maybe I didn't.
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I wouldn't have otherwise encountered, but just nice, authentic
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people.
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I also, I never realized until I came here how much, I guess the
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term is church trauma, how much church trauma some people have.
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I'm fortunate that I don't feel that, but it's really opened
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my heart to that and made me open my eyes to that.
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And it's been.
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I feel like you grow and do better when you learn.
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And so I feel like I've grown and um, learned a lot from people
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that are.
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Otherwise I, I wouldn't have met.
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Um, and that's been really enlightening for me.
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It helps me probably relate to my children a little bit more because
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my children are our children.
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Um, you know, they're probably more open minded than I have been
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in my life.
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And so it's, it's just helped me grow.
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Great.
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Great.
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Jason.
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Kind of the same thing.
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What keeps you here?
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I would say the stuff that goes on not during church, like the
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community outreach type stuff.
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And like when the tornado happened, I was here pretty much
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that whole week and it was just crazy to see the impact that
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this church had on the community around us, which is how
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it was supposed to be because that's what made me so mad was the
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tornado was on like Friday night.
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And then some local churches like had church on Sunday and then.
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But some churches didn't and just went out into the community
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and helped.
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And then I was like, well, if you're a pastor at a church this
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Monday and you're in your church just sitting there, you're
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not doing this right.
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And so just stuff like that and like Recovery Church is amazing
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to see those stories and just the, the specific people that you
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know that this church has helped that know not because we're
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better, but because we're known to serve the people that not
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everybody will.
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Just those specific people that we've been able to help in the
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worst times of their life is just a great testament to what's
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going on around here.
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That's awesome.
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And I will say that I did stop drinking while we were here.
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And I'm coming up on a thousand days.
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I don't really, I don't go to meetings or anything.
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So I don't know, like, I don't do months or.
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But sometimes I look and I'm almost at a thousand days sober.
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And it just.
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The people at Recovery Church that were able to.
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That you could see it changed Their life.
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It was.
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It's amazing to see.
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Thank you for sharing that.
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Appreciate that.
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And, yeah, you got.
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Way to go.
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Yeah.
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Thousand dates.
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Yeah.
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Yay, God.
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Yay, Jason.
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Yeah.
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Yay, God.
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Yay, Jason.
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And thank you for the community of people who've been a
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part of helping to sustain that.
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You know, my belief is a part of what helps keep things going is
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the people, as you said, Kara.
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But when people come together not only to be kind of part of the
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community, but be present in times of need and be supportive,
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even though those folks may or may not have been directly supportive
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of you.
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But you've seen it happening, haven't you?
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Yeah.
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You've seen support, happiness.
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People have had some, you know, similar struggles with you
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with recovery issues and things like that, and you've seen
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that, and it's touched you.
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Yes.
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All right.
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Awesome.
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And I'll also add one thing, Brad, if you don't mind.
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I think.
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I think this church accepts people for who they are and come
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as you are.
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If that's dressed up, if that's dressed down, if that's stressed
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out, if that's happy, if that's.
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If you have a new puppy and you have to bring your puppy to church,
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which is what we did for a long time.
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Our little puppy, Molly, she's two and a half now, but we brought
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her to church every Sunday, and.
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And Angie would bring Benson for a long time, and that was a pretty
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neat thing.
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And people would always say, your church lets you bring a dog.
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They did.
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And that's something that, you know, it kind of leads me to, you
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know, one of the things we.
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The mission of the church states pretty clearly on banners
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and things of this and this nature, the church that exists to
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make a lasting impact on the community.
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Absolutely.
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So tell me, based on your experience, is there something to
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that?
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Is that true?
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Absolutely.
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Yes.
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Absolutely.
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And if it's true, how's it lived out?
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You've mentioned a few things, I think, here, but how else is that
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lived out?
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Well, I think Jason nailed it when he said that.
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It's.
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It.
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It's not what happens on Sunday morning.
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It's what happens every other day of the week.
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So it's the things that the members of our church do, whether
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it's helping the tornado victims or it's helping sometimes
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the man that comes in off the street who doesn't have any food
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or doesn't have any gas money.
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Our church helps.
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It's the Narcan on the side of the building for somebody who may
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need it.
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It's a church member's family member needing something uplifted
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at Christmas.
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I have a friend whose daughter is battling cancer right now and
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I have no qualms about saying I need prayers for our friend Lauren.
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And so it's just, you see it lived out every day by everybody
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in this church from the attendees to the pastoral staff.
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And yeah, that's just great to witness.
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Thanks for sharing that.
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Kind of along with that mission of the church is a phrase
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kind of a model if you will, that is on the church website and
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I hear it said quite often around here is something to the effect
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of if you feel like you don't fit in church, you fit here.
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Jason, speak to that.
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Do you think that's a true statement?
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If so, how have you seen that lived out?
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I think the greatest story that this church will ever tell and
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I don't know why I cry all the time now, but it's a new thing.
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There was a woman in Franklin who is a self proclaimed atheist,
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which is her is what she thinks.
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So we'll just say that.
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And if you think about her whole life story, she's a Korean
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adoptee who shouldn't even technically be here without having
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been adopted and brought to the Franklin area.
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And she was somehow become the greatest evangelist for our whole
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church.
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And the only reason that this one family came was because she had
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asked this other lady, she had asked the atheist woman, do you feel
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or I would like our family to have more of a community and if that's
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church or whatever.
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And she said, oh well you should take your kids to Heaven Earth
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Church.
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And then they started coming here and then her son tragically
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passed away when he was two and a half and our church was able
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to be here for that family and like they had the funeral here and
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the only reason that we were able to be there for that family
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during the worst week and I mean from then on, I mean it wasn't
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just a week, it's their whole life was because this woman said
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hey, this community will be there for you.
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And we were.
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And like we had the funeral here and they don't come to church
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here anymore.
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And I can understand why.
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I'm not going to speak for them, but I'm going to assume that
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coming to the same sanctuary where you had your child's funeral
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would be very hard for you to come back.
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But just if that's the only thing we ever did as a church was
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be there that time for them in their life, then all of this was
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worth it.
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So you saw a Real God moment there, didn't you?
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Yes, you really did.
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And so, Carrie, do you have any God moments that you've seen
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here?
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Well, I would definitely agree with Jason on that.
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Just there's.
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I think there's a lot of God moments.
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I'm not sure I can come up with one better than that at the
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time.
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I do have to.
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I know, I know.
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I do have to laugh.
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Jason mentioned that he doesn't know why he cries anymore.
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He made fun of my dad all the time because my dad would get emotional.
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Now Jason's following suit on that.
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I still don't think I'd cry during the good dinosaur movie, but
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like, he did.
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But maybe my dad was a movie crier.
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Um, I honestly, I can't think of anything off the top of my head
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right now.
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Well, let me bring it around in this way.
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And then is there.
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We all have, as you mentioned, we have life outside of church and
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even outside of work, whatever.
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But we have relationships, all those places.
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It might be co workers, it might be people that you, if you're,
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you know, activities your kids are in or social life, otherwise,
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that kind of thing.
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Do you think this is the type of church that if someone, a coworker,
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someone in your social life came to you with some issue, whatever
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it is, health, marital, you know, relation, work related things,
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and they kind of confide in you a little bit, do you think it's
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the type of church that you would feel comfortable inviting that
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person in your life to say, hey, this just might help?
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Definitely.
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And what would be the factors of why that would be?
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I think because there's just no judgment here.
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People are accepted and loved and for just who they are at that
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moment and always.
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So it's just truly a judgment free zone.
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Judgment free zone.
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Jason, do you concur with that and you want to say more?
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I don't have anything to add to that, but yes.
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Very good.
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Well, this podcast and this video maybe use as a way to help
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introduce people to heaven or church.
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So what would you want to share with a person who may be checking
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out heaven, earth, church?
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What kind of things do you want to share with them, Jason?
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I don't know.
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You go first and then I'll see if I'm great.
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Okay.
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Okay.
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You put me on the spot.
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I feel like I've said the same thing a lot, but just it's a group
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of people that comes together every week, most times more often
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than every week.
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There's small groups, there's something for everybody.
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Small groups and community service.
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Opportunities and worshiping on Sunday and, you know, celebrating
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the good times, whether that's your child's graduation or birthday
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parties or whatever.
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And then also they're in the hard times.
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So it's just.
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It's a nice group of people, and we keep getting bigger and bigger.
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You know, not huge, but it's not.
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It's probably not a place that you can come and blend in Sometimes.
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People like that.
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They like to come in and blend in.
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Ross knows everyone's name, like I mentioned, and he'll probably
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use it during a sermon, but it's.
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It's.
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It's a conversation every Sunday.
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Anything you want to add to?
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I have joked with Ross that I feel like he's ruined church for
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the rest of us.
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For the future.
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For the future.
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If we ever tried to go to another church where you can't just
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speak up at any time that you feel led.
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Not that that's me a lot, but you have contributed.
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I mean, you have been part of the conversation.
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Yeah.
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Worship in other ways.
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And besides, you also contribute as a stellar.
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I did forget to mention that if you want to play church softball,
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it's a good time.
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The guys are out there playing softball, and the ladies, we tend
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to just chat in the stance.
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There you go.
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Well, it's a joy to be with you and to be.
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To get to know both of you.
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And this is an opportunity for folks who may be checking out to
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have a church to get to know people who are part of the church.
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And we just.
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Thank you for being our guest here.
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And I have asked a couple of people, like, specifically, like,
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one family in particular.
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There was a sermon that Ross was going to give, and I was like,
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I feel like there was a couple families, but one in particular,
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I was like, I feel like you guys should be here.
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If you want to come, you should be here.
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And then they came and they spoke and they wept during church.
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And it was, like, cool to see that.
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I invited four specific people that day, and they all came.
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And then one of those couples is deeply rooted in their own church
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already, but the other was kind of looking for a church to join,
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and they have come here ever since.
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So you've seen life change happen based out of your own experience?
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Yes.
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Do you have anything you want to add to this, Kara, or anything
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else you want to share?
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And I do like that there's.
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Including you, there are three or four.
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Not that there's ever a retired pastor, but three or four
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retired pastors that come every Sunday, pretty much, which
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means that we have to be doing something right.
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Appreciate it.
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Anything you want to add, Gar?
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No, just thank you for having us today.
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Well, indeed, it's been a pleasure having you with us here.
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And again, our guest here today on the Heaven Earth Church
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podcast, Jason and Kara Baker, part of the community here of a church
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that is looking to continue to be to offer a lasting impact in our
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community.
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Thank you.
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My name is Brad Miller and thank you for joining us here on
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the Heaven Earth Church podcast.
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We want to thank you for spending time with us today.
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My name is Ross Stackhouse, the pastor to Heaven Earth Church.
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And you may think out there that your story is over, but in fact,
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your faith story may just be beginning.
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If you want more information about our church or you're interested
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in the next step, you can go to heavenearthchurch.
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Org.
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Otherwise, we look forward to being with you next time at the Heaven
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Earth Church podcast.