Sermon
Dead Man Walking (Part 4): What’s Any of This Got to Do with Relationships?
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Welcome to Heaven Earth Church.
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My name is Ross Stackhouse.
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I'm the founding pastor of Heaven Earth Church.
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From the beginning, our heart was to be a church for people who
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don't fit neatly into church.
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Our heart is to meet people where they are, to learn their stories,
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to honor their stories.
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Hello, good people.
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Brad Miller here, the producer of the Heaven Earth Church podcast.
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Church community is our Sunday morning conversations taught by founding
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and on the website, which is heavenearthchurch.org Here now is
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Ross Stackhouse with part four of the Dead Man Walking series.
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What's any of this got to do with relationships?
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All right, let's have a prayer and then we'll have our conversation.
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Lord, hear our prayers.
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Hear the expressions of sorrow that are in our hearts.
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We lift those up to you.
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We celebrate.
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Roger and Laura.
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We don't know exactly how you act in the midst of our the concerns
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we raise, but reaching out in faith and hope that you do illuminate
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our minds, soften our hearts.
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Help us to hear something new.
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Help us to catch a glimpse of your glory in the name of Jesus,
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Amen.
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Hey.
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So when I say that word, it's a theme throughout this series.
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It's a big part of what we're doing in this series.
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Right now we're in a series called that Dead Man Walking.
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Why Jesus Died and why It Still Matters for Ordinary People.
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When I say the word glory, what thought or image comes to your
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mind?
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Yes, it is a good movie.
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It is anything that comes to mind.
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Happiness.
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Okay, Winning.
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Which the Boilers almost did.
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Josh.
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We were close.
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We were close to some glory that was unexpected.
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Maybe next year.
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Perpetually glory.
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Light.
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Wonder.
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Magnificence.
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Kara.
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Gloria Way brought up Purdue.
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I can sing the Purdue version of it if you'd like right now.
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My father taught me when I was a wee lad.
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My dad taught me many Good things.
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He also taught me some other things.
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Brightness.
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Yeah.
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Heavenly fullness or wholeness.
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Transcendent.
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Anything else?
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Glory.
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Something of God.
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Is that what you said?
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Yeah.
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I'm going to come back to that in a minute.
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We're going to swing right back to that.
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But I have to tell you about a dynamic that happens in our household.
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I'm sure this doesn't happen to any of you sometimes.
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Angela and I will be married 15 years in June.
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We've been together almost 22 years.
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I know.
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You're like, man, you guys have been together since you were
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like five.
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Ross.
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Yeah.
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Well, it's kindergarten on up.
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Sometimes we get in a fight.
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I know it's hard to believe a holy man like myself would ever get
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in a fight.
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And wouldn't you know that sometimes also when we get in a fight,
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a holy man like myself will sit in a room by myself and go, I'm
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not saying sorry first today.
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Not happening.
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No.
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That was her tonight.
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No way.
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Nope.
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She said this.
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That did not merit that kind of reaction.
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She needs to own up to it.
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Nope.
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Anybody got that going on in their life?
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I love it right now.
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Just me.
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And it's not just marriage.
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Right.
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It's in our friendships.
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Right.
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And for some of us, like, those conflicts go way back.
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I've had family situations.
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It's hard to imagine a holy man like myself holding grudges in
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my family life.
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I guess I'm revealing today that I'm just another dude, which
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I try to tell you all the time.
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But what I want to share to you with today, we're talking about,
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like, why did Jesus die today?
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I want to talk to you about this word reconciliation, which for
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some may be a word that you don't use a lot or it's not very
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familiar to you, but in case you needed some definition of what
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that word is.
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Nope.
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Nope.
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Yep.
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From Merriam Webster.
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It's to restore to friendship or harmony, to settle or resolve,
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to make consistent or congruous.
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And then if you.
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What in the world?
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It doesn't show that at all on my phone.
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What the heck is going on?
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I have no idea.
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Well, there's the Greek word for it, in case you wanted to know.
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You can't see the definition, but I have no idea what it's doing.
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That.
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Yeah.
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It's a secret.
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You got to figure out what that is.
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It means to.
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I got to read it in little fit.
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To transfer from a certain state to another, which is quite
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different.
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To transfer from a certain state to another, which is Quite
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different.
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Hence to reconcile.
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So, like, that verb shows up quite a bit to transfer from a certain
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state to another.
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So if you think about a relationship, like, if I approach
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someone and I say sorry, which for whatever reason is a terribly
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difficult thing to do for human beings, especially people who
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are in power, they're just putting that back up there to taunt
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me.
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These slides always get the best of me.
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We need to reconcile me and propresenter.
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God bless you, Emily.
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Emily's trying to reconcile me in the slides right now.
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You see, Restore it to harmony.
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But when you say sorry, it has a way of transferring the relationship
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from, from one state to another.
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Right now it doesn't promise it because you could say sorry and
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the other person could say, to hell with you.
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Right.
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So it doesn't necessarily transfer it from one state to another.
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But as they say in Alcoholics Anonymous, steps 8, 9.
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We're going to clean up our side of the street.
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Right.
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So you gave it your shot.
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Right?
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So we're talking about reconciliation today.
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So that's where we're going to hang out.
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But I've got to get back to this word glory.
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I promise.
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They go together.
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Okay.
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So do you see what this person's doing here?
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It is a bathtub.
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Anybody been doing that recently?
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Yeah.
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So there's this phenomenon called star bathing.
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Star bathing.
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I read an article about it on BBC.
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You can go to a star bathing retreat at, like an international
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dark sky Park.
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This one was in.
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I don't remember.
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But the.
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Obviously you can see the article.
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It's.
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Could a star bathing retreat calm your frazzled mind?
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If you look that up on BBC.
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Don't do it now because you're paying attention here.
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Could a star bathing retreat calm your frazzled mind?
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And I thought this was so fascinating that there was this whole
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article that was like, groundbreaking and earth shattering.
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Like staring at the stars could restore you to equilibrium.
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Wow.
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But it is.
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We don't pay attention as much.
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That's not a prisoner of the moment thing.
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Research shows it anecdotally.
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We are more distracted as a people.
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We are more looking down than looking up than ever.
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And it's destroying us.
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There's book upon book about it.
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The Anxious Generation is a popular book right now about how
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we're so engaged and addicted to, like, things like this and propaganda
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that's floating around on social media.
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We're so stuck in certain ways of thinking, worldviews, narratives.
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We're not seeing the glory, the glory of it all.
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I mean, it's an old, old idea, folks.
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Psalm 8.
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This is a star bather right here.
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A person's looking at this impossible cosmos and like going,
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what in.
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When this person was writing it, everything was an international
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dark sky park.
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The whole world was.
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But now there's light pollution everywhere.
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So you got to go somewhere to see the stars.
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What are human beings that you think about them?
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What are human beings that you pay attention to them?
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You've made them only slightly less than divine.
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Crowning them with.
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Crowning them with.
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And grandeur.
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It goes back.
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We had this series on the spiritual practice of wonder.
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Star bathing would be an example of practicing wonder.
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When you position yourself in a place to have great attention to
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the awe of God in a way that creates gratitude in you and enjoyment
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and also a sense of responsibility about what you have
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been given.
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And so today, like, I want to talk to you about how, like when
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I was studying and I have been studying this concept of salvation,
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like pouring over the New Testament.
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I keep telling you I'm going to share that document with you.
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And I don't.
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It's just a Google Doc with all these notes.
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I'm struck by how, like, I'm asking, like, some of our students
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are, like you asked, like, saved from what?
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What is God saving us from?
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And how.
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And as Brandon asks, why is death the mechanism?
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Why is blood?
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That's not this week.
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It's two weeks.
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So, Brandon, hang on.
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Okay.
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This week is reconciliation.
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When I poured over that this concept of reconciliation is everywhere,
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that somehow Jesus life and his death restore things to harmony.
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It transfers us from one state to another.
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And when I looked at the Bible, it wasn't just about.
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It transfers you, Heather, from going to hell to going to heaven.
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No, back to that in a minute.
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Our formula.
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Remember that?
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When I read it, it's that everything is just all over the Bible.
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That everything is made to reflect the glory of God.
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Everything is made to reflect the glory of God.
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Say it with me.
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Everything is made to reflect the glory of God.
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Say it again.
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Everything is made to reflect the glory of God.
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When I think of glory, I think of all the things that you've mentioned.
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I think of this impossible, transcendent light, like what the
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Hubble telescope first discovered in the 90s.
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Like that kind of glory.
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Like impossible, brilliant light.
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Like gazing at the cosmos and saying, like, could it be?
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It is.
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It's not.
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Could it be?
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It is incredible heavenly light and warmth.
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Like we cannot imagine something that you know, like when
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you've had an experience that makes the hairs on the back of your
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neck stand up kind of glory like we're made to reflect the beauty
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and grandeur and glory of God, to shine like the stars.
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It's not an accident that Jesus said, I am the light of the
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world.
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And he also said that you, Jay, are the light of the world,
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the salt and the light of the world.
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When God creates humankind, he says, let us create humankind in
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our image.
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In your very DNA is glory.
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You're crowned with it.
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But, uh.
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Oh, there's a picture of the solar system in there.
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Christy, can you get to it?
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My slides aren't working so hot.
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Also from the BBC Solar System Facts, 5 Things Everyone should know
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about our cosmic neighborhood.
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Did you know you're part of a cosmic neighborhood?
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The Bible recounts that something happened almost like our.
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I'm sure you've read up on some of this stuff, that our solar
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system exists in this impossible harmony.
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It's unbelievable.
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And the Earth is at this tilt.
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I think it's 23 and a half degrees or something like that.
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And if it were tilted even fractionally differently, life would
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not exist at all.
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But yet it does, in this impossible, wonderful, glorious harmony.
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The Bible recounts that something happened along the way
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to disturb the harmony.
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It's like the planets got knocked out of their glorious harmonious
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orbit.
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Things fell.
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The world is not as it should be.
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And in some mystery, see if this happens.
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There it is.
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Jesus's life and death reconciles all things to God, restores
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all things to harmony with God's glory.
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It's like some force comes along and restores the planets that
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have been disturbed from their.
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Some force comes along and restores them so that they're orbiting
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as they should around the sun.
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Jesus is the most of force and he is the sun.
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We are made to, like, be in this glorious harmonious orbit with
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God reflecting the beauty of the sun, receiving its warmth and
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its light.
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That's how big the whole thesis of this series, remember,
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is that, like, salvation is so much bigger, so much brighter, so
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much more beautiful, freeing and mysterious than we've ever heard.
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And it affects and it matters for every ordinary person on Earth.
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But really quick, I just want to take you through.
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I want to ask you a question.
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I already asked you one.
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In your experience, in your church life, or maybe just in your
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life as a whole, what has been your understanding of what God's
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main concern is like?
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What's like at the end of the day, like, what is God trying to
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do with Jesus?
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What's God's main concern?
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Lucy, you've heard that.
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Good.
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I'M glad.
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Well, you just heard it from me.
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Yes.
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Take this morning out of the equation.
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Is.
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Is.
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You're right.
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That's exactly what today is about.
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Luz.
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No, you know, that's what today is about.
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What else have you heard?
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What's God's main concern?
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Save us from hell.
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That's what you've heard, Josh.
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Like, if you had to boil it down, that's what you've heard.
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Okay.
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Courtney, were you going to say something?
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God's main concern is saving us from hell.
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Like in the.
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If you gathered the thesis from Christianity at the end of the
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day, no matter what the other paragraph said, that was the thesis.
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Okay.
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Yeah.
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Yeah, sure.
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Okay.
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What's God's.
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To re.
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Establish relationship with God's children.
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To save us from ourselves, to save us from destruction.
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Does that mean hell, Christy?
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Or just.
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Yeah, okay.
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Adam.
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Adam used to think, like, maybe used the takeaway, used to
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be some of the other stuff, but now has moved more to this saying,
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like Jesus coming to him so that we would receive life and know
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it.
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Like in the fullest.
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Charles, similar transformation where in a similar
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vein to other people.
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It was kind of more save us from our sins.
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Kind of the camp I grew up in.
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Yeah, hell, everything else.
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I think for me it's kind of this radical shift.
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Yes, let's pivot on that point.
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Charles grew up in a camp too, where, like, if you had to boil it
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down, God's main concern was saving us from sin and hell.
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But Charles is moving more to.
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There's a weird thing going on with the slides.
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When I click on one, it goes to a different one.
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There's a one that says God's main concern.
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We talked about this earlier in the series.
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God's main concern is making things right, is making all things
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new.
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Jesus said, behold, I'm renewing all things.
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I'm making all things new.
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That's where we're going to end up, is with justice, with the
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wrong things being made right, with the things that are broken being
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restored.
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That is God's heart.
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That's where the end is.
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And I said, I'm just going to recap really briefly.
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When we shrink down our view of salvation and we just make it
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that formula we talked about the last two weeks, we can't help
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but also shrink down our view of God.
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We'll shrink down our view of people.
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So that's why this series is about, like, blowing it back up to
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its right size.
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Salvation is cosmic.
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Like, it's huge, it's galactic, like God, it's Bigger and
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brighter, more beautiful, freeing and mysterious than we've
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heard.
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And I want to show you that in these.
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In scriptures.
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Go to Colossians Christy.
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Oh, wait, it's in my.
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This is fabulous how it's doing this today.
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I'll try to restart the app and see what happens.
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Yes, there we go.
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This is Colossians 1.
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Colossians is a letter to communities of early Christians in
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a town called Colossi.
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So Paul would visit, would travel around, build relationships
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with people, share with them, like who Jesus is, what he's about.
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They would start a church, and then he would touch back with them.
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He'd write them a letter.
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And in this one, this is one of the earliest sort of hymns of
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the first Christian movement.
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Listen to how cosmic this is.
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The Son is the image of the invisible God, the one who is first
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over all creation.
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Keep going, Christy.
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Because all things were created by him, both in the heavens
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and on the earth.
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Do you see how big Jesus is right now in this?
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He's not small little transaction Jesus that you go to
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him to get your golden ticket to go to heaven.
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He is the Lord of the universe.
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The things that are visible and the things that are invisible,
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whether they are thrones or powers or rulers or authorities,
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all things were created through Him.
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And for him, he existed before all things, and all things are held
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together in Him.
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He is the head of the body, the church, who is the beginning,
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the one who is firstborn from among the dead.
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Hang on to that one right there.
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It's coming up in Brandon's week.
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This concept of firstborn of the dead, it's repeated several times
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in Scripture.
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Like, Jesus is the beginning.
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He is the first step of an entirely new thing.
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So he might occupy first place in everything because all the fullness
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of God was pleased to live in Him.
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And he say that word, and He.
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He restored to harmony.
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He transferred things from one state to another.
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He reconciled to himself through him, whether things on earth
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or in the heavens.
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He brought peace through the blood of the cross.
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We're going to talk about that in two weeks.
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Did I tell you?
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Hold on.
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P.T.
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asks a question.
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When did Jesus.
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A couple weeks ago.
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When did Jesus go from, like, human to more than human?
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Answer now.
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It's complicated.
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And it took the church like, 400 years to come up with something
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we'd call a doctrine.
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You've heard it before.
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He's fully human and fully.
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Well, that answers it.
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Everybody got that?
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What?
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Look, we don't have to know exactly how to explain it all, folks.
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Certainty has Become an untrustworthy idol at which we've
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been worshiping for too long.
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Let yourself be given to mystery.
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This is saying, you're not going to get it.
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But before there was anything, he was, and he is glorious.
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And so this big reconciliation, we're going to be
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big for a minute.
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I'm going to get practical, like, so why do I care?
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Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday.
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This restoration is about.
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This hymn starts out with the beginning.
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All things were created through him, and that it ends with
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now.
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Because things went awry, everything has to be reconciled to
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Him.
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Everything was created to reflect his galactic glory.
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Everything is supposed to shine with this warmth and glory
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and beauty of God.
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We don't know it.
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We're like, well, what is he?
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Even Is that we're asking that from the vantage point of our broken
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situation.
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Everything was created to reflect God's glory, and Jesus came
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to set it straight.
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Unlike me sitting in the room.
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And when Angela and I fight.
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Love you, darling.
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You weren't in here for the first part.
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And I'm sitting in my room going, I'm not going to say sorry.
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No, she did it today.
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She's being cranky and irritable.
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And that response did not merit.
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It wasn't there.
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I'm not saying sorry.
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She's going to have to say sorry.
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I'm going to sit in here until she says sorry.
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Any of you do that.
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Here's the good news.
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Jesus always leaves the room to reconcile.
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He left the room of the.
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Of the heavenly kingdom to come here and make it right.
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Goes to Kiersten's question about, like, so which is it people
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say, like, we're saved by grace.
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It's all about God's work.
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It's all about Jesus's character and what he does.
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But if we don't respond to it, we're not saved.
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Well, it's a little bit of a both.
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It's like Evan.
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Evan's a good friend of mine.
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If I.
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If Evan and I were a bit at odds because he's an IU fan, I'm
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a Purdue fan.
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And he said something that really hurt my feelings.
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But then I wanted to reconcile with him.
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So I thought really hard, like, man, what does Evan need?
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How do I give him something that can restore us?
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And so I put together.
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I work with Kara, who's really good at designing things, and I say,
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and she's an IU man, too, help me design something that's really
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glittery and glorious and Hoosier like.
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And so she sets the song the IU fight song on like this, she goes
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on, what is it?
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Pinterest.
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And finds a design, and we design it, and I give it to Evan
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as, like, a.
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Like, I make the first move, and he takes the gift, and he's like,
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cool, man.
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And he stays mad at me, puts it on a shelf in its closet, and
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it gathers dust.
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It doesn't change the fact that I extended the gift.
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It is up to him to say, you know, I think he put a lot of thought
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and love and care into this.
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Ball's in my court now.
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So all of this is by the grace and work of God.
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Our entire life, my friends, our entire lives are one thing, a
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response to God's grace.
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It's your entire life.
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It's to receive this glorious beauty that was given at creation
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and is given out again and again and again and again and again
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through grace.
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When you don't care about it, when you're running off and doing
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your thing, God is pursuing you and saying, like, the gift is
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there for you in hopes that one day, like that prodigal son or
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daughter, you'll turn around to discover God was waiting.
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Right, Jim?
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Wasn't he waiting?
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It said, here, look at this.
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Some people have asked.
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It's been said, the cross doesn't change God's mind about us.
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It changes our mind about God.
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Some theology.
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The formula kind was like Jesus was trying to trick the Father.
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What?
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They're the same being.
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They're on the same page.
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Last time I checked, the Father's just in love with us as
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the Son.
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That's why they collaborate.
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Weird for us to understand.
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Another day we'll talk about the Trinity.
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They're like, we gotta go save these people.
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Yes, they screwed it up, but we got to go save them.
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How are we going to do it?
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Like the world does it with violence and swords and stuff?
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No, we're going to do it with the only weapon that can actually
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restore things.
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Love.
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Of course.
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Yeah.
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But then it will still be up to them to choose it.
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Well, yeah.
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That's how relationships work.
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If it's force or manipulation, it's not a relationship.
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I got to choose.
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You got to choose.
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Jay and I are friends.
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If I keep asking Jay to come to lunch with me, and he says, no,
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I'm busy.
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Well, I'm not gonna show up and rip Jay out of bed.
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Get in my car right now.
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We're going to Charleston's to get some key lime pie.
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Yeah, I know.
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It's good.
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That's not a friendship.
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Jay has to choose I have to choose.
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God makes the move to restore us to harmony so that we reflect
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this brilliance.
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When Jesus was transfigured on the mountain, he showed his disciples
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like, hey, here's what I actually look like when I'm really
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decked out in all my heavenly glory.
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I took on your form for a bit, but guess what?
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You're gonna become like me.
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You're becoming like me.
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It's in your head.
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Keep going.
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Christy, once you were alienated from God and you were enemies
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with him, can you read the next three words in your minds?
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And then you, because you're doing that, you're like, you know,
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I'm going to join up with the forces of darkness and evil.
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Perhaps I didn't do that.
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Well, I told you last week, sin is not just like when you choose
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to lie.
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It's actually like participating in this cosmic force
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of darkness for which you are not destined.
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You're destined for the kingdom of light and glory.
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One more thing from Ephesians.
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Actually, let's skip it.
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You know what?
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I'm going to do a good thing and cut to the end.
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We're not going to go over today because Angela and I got to
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leave for Tennessee right after church.
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Don't we, honey?
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And if I want to start a fight today, I'll go over and stay after,
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and then I will have to go say sorry.
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So did you all hear me?
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I'm leaving right after church.
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I want to have a good ride down there.
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Nothing to do with her.
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So, like, so what?
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Go read Ephesians 2 this week.
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Did you read Romans 5 and 6 like I assigned you?
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Go read Ephesians 2.
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Here's why it matters.
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Here's what I want to show you.
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Jesus, whole life he spent teaching people about, like, how
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this big concept of reconciliation plays out in everyday
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life.
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All of his teachings are about, like, reflect God's heart
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in your relationships.
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I think it's Matthew 5 in there.
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It's all in one thing.
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It was supposed to be so organized today.
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And the daggone thing doesn't work.
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It's always not working.
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Actually, I don't have it in there.
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Forget it.
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I'm on fire today.
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Woo.
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J.
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Jesus says in Matthew 5, Sermon on the Mount.
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He says something like this, if you're going to church, if you're
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going to worship on Sunday at 9:30 at Heaven Earth Church, should
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we move it to 10?
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Never mind.
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Hold that thought.
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Anyways, you're going to church.
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You're like, I'm going to worship today.
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I'm Going to bring the Lord my best.
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Jesus says stop.
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First.
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If you got a quarrel with somebody, put down your gift, Go
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to your friend or your person with whom you have some hostility.
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Go do your part to make it right.
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Go reconcile.
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Then come back, grab your gift and go to church.
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This isn't just like abstract, like woo hoo, we get reconciled to
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the cosmic glory.
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It's something you practice.
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Reconciliation makes sense when you practice it.
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You know who gets reconciliation?
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Ross, you're always talking about recovery.
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Yeah, because I learned so much from it.
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You know people who get reconciliation, people who work the
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12 steps, they do steps one, two and three, have the spiritual
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awakening and surrender to God.
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Then they take a deep, hardcore inventory.
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Steps four and five, they look at their own defects.
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Step six and seven, and then eight and nine, they go make amends
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with people.
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Make a long list of people they got to make amends with.
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Who wants to do that?
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But what if they.
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Now, you don't do it if it's gonna.
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How's it go, Bobo?
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If it's going to injure yourself or others.
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But you go clean up your side of the street, you offer your gift.
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Jesus spent his whole time talking about relationships.
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Reconciliation.
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Ross.
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I don't want to say sorry.
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I don't want to pursue reconciliation.
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Do you want to be a part of the kingdom of light and glory balls
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in your court?
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Yeah, but they hurt me.
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They wronged him.
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I know that if it were easy, then, I mean, everybody be doing
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it.
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Jesus didn't come to give us something easy.
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He gave us something that's transformational and reflects God's
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glory.
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It's up to you to be a part of it.
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He's going to give you grace every step of the way.
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He's not like, hey, Heather, go reconcile.
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Good luck.
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Hope it goes well.
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Like in my hardest moments of needing to reconcile with my enemies.
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Yes, I know I'm a holy man of God, but I've had some enemies, people
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that hurt me.
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And in my head, whoo, I was not treating them nicely up here.
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And so I prayed about it.
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It's a weird thing, prayer.
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I don't know how it works yet.
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Maybe someday.
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But this little thing started changing in my heart about my enemy.
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I started to see it from their shoes, in a person who had really
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wronged me and mistreated me.
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Not just once, but over and again.
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I saw what that person had been through in life, how they'd
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lost people.
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Dear people, they were hurting me because they were hurting.
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And so I went and said, sorry did that person receive my gift?
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Did we reconcile?
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No.
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Do I regret doing it?
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Not one bit.
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Because you know what happened?
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I caught a glimpse of the glory.
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My God, that's what you're like.
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Praise be to God.
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I have so much love in my heart for that person standing here
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right now.
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And we have not reconciled.
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So this has, like, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday,
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Saturday kind of stuff.
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It's not just later.
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I leave you with this Second Corinthians.
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Go there, if you would, Christy.
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These are Paul's words.
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All these new things are from God, who reconciled us to himself
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through Christ and who gave us the ministry of reconciliation.
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Do you see how it works?
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Jesus comes as the glorious gift to you so that you are realigned
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with the glory of heaven.
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You're transferred from one state to another.
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You are over here, like, partying in Vegas.
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What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas.
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Participating in the spiritual forces of darkness.
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Not really.
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You were just thinking bad things about your friend.
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Whatever.
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But it's like Vegas.
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You thought nobody saw it wrong.
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God said, hey, I'm defeating every force, every barrier that keeps
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you from walking from this kingdom to this one.
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Be reconciled.
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Go to the next one, Christy.
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He's not counting your mistakes against you.
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He's not expecting you to get the rap sheet cleared up.
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Keep going.
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So you are ambassadors.
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You represent this glorious cosmic Christ who came to reconcile
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you.
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Paul says it.
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This is my so what?
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For the day.
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Be reconciled.
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What's Paul saying?
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The ball's in your court.
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It's like Evan.
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I gave him my beautiful gift that Carrie and I designed so we
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could reconcile.
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But Evan put it up on a shelf.
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He's got to get it off the shelf.
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And some of you might be saying, like, Ross, but you don't
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know what I've been through in my church experience.
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It's been bad.
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I've got spiritual trauma.
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I can't even receive this message today because it's got too
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much baggage in it.
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I'm triggered too much.
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I feel you on that.
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It happened and it mattered.
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But can I ask you to do something?
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Don't.
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Please don't let people ruin your view of this glorious Jesus.
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He is the head of the church, but he also transcends the church.
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He is still as glorious and as beautiful as he's ever been.
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Be reconciled.
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Come back to him.
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He stands waiting.
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Keep going, Christy.
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That's good enough for today.
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Maybe go to the star bathing picture.
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That's fun.
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That's where we'll end.
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How do you get reconciled?
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How do you be reconciled.
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This is it, folks.
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Do what you're doing today.
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Every time you show up and you're fully present with your community
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like this, it's like you're gazing at the stars, you're gazing
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at the sun.
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We're doing it together.
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We're trying to get restored to this glorious harmony with God
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together.
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But it's also something you do.
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I said it last week.
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When you Decide to give 10 minutes of your morning to stillness
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and prayer rather than Facebook.
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Ross, I don't have any time.
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Hey, can I see your screen time for a minute?
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Ross, why are you judging me?
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You got time.
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Be reconciled.
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It's a relationship, folks.
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When you show up, you're investing in the relationship and
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he will honor it.
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He will grow new things in you and through you.
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When you show up for 10 minutes of prayer, when you show
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up fully with people, you see people, you're being reconciled.
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And also you're being an ambassador.
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You're taking forward the ministry of reconciliation.
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You're participating in this kingdom of light and glory.
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Guys, this is something you can do.
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Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday.
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Every day is an opportunity to participate in the kingdom of light
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and glory with Jesus.
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So let's do it.
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Let's pray.
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God, I ask that you would heal the parts of us that are hurt.
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Heal us from our wounds, how we've been hurt, perhaps by church
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going folks, people who are Christian.
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Heal us and help us to receive your presence, your friendship, your
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love.
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And also forgive us for how we've neglected your gifts, neglected
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time with you, neglected relationship.
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Forgive our resentments and our self justifications, how we've
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looked at people as enemies and as means to ends.
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Bring us back into your glorious light.
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Bring us back into this harmonious orbit with you.
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And as the sound of children enters the room, we give you thanks
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that you welcome us as your children in Jesus name.
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Amen.
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Thank you for participating in the conversation happening at Heaven
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Earth Church.
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Your next opportunity to do so live is this Sunday morning, 9:30am
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We want to thank you for spending time with us today.
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My name is Ross Stackhouse, the pastor to Heaven Earth Church,
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and you may think out there that your story is over, but in fact,
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your faith story may just be beginning.
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If you want more information about our church or you're interested
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