Sermon
A Conversation with Spencer Medcalf from HeavenEarth's Recovery Church
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What would it look like to start a community that was really
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it's for the people like Jesus would be for?
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Welcome to Heaven Earth Church.
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I'm Ross Stackhouse, the founding pastor of Heaven Earth Church.
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From the start, our heart has been to be a church for people who
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don't fit neatly into church.
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We want to meet people where they are and know their stories.
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Because in every story there is God story.
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And this podcast is just about that.
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It's about inviting you to the stories of the people of Heaven Earth
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Church.
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So let's turn to the story.
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Hello good people.
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Brad Miller here, the producer and the co host of the Heaven Earth
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Church podcast.
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All about a church that's dedicated to making a lasting impact
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in our community.
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This podcast is all about meeting the people connected to the
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church and learning more about them.
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We have a fascinating interview here today with Spencer
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Metcalfe.
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Before we get into that, into that interview, we did want you to
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know you can always connect up with Heaven Earth Church at one of
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three gatherings that take place every week.
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One is the Sunday morning conversation which takes place live
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and in person at the main campus at the 309 E.
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Main St.
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In Whiteland, Indiana.
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And simultaneously to the in person worship experience is the
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online experience which you can [email protected] heavenerthchurch
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we also make reference in this episode to the Wednesday night gathering
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called Recovery Church, which has a special emphasis on people
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facing recovery issues.
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That's at 6:30pm every Wednesday night and always includes
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a meal.
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You can find out everything you want to know about Heaven earth
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A pleasure to have with us here on the podcast today Spencer
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Metcalfe, who's going to be sharing with us a little bit of some
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of what things he's experienced and the organization
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that he works for and then his relationship with the church.
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But Spencer, welcome to our conversation here today.
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Yes, well, thank you so much for having me.
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Excited to be here.
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Awesome.
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Awesome.
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Well, Spencer, tell us a little bit you let's kind of talk
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with for a second about who you work for and with and then we're
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going to talk about how you got there and how the a little bit
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of the church journey was a part of that process too.
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Tell me a little bit about the organization that you work for and
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what you do there.
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Yeah, absolutely.
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So I currently work for an organization called Spark Recovery.
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We are an outpatient recovery center on the north side of Indianapolis.
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So we're actually just right off of 96 in Meridian and we're providing
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outpatient therapy and services to clients with substance
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use disorder, often in early recovery.
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And then we also have another company called Reverie Sober Living.
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So we recently just opened that.
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And so we're providing the housing and the clinical treatment.
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And so I've been out there for a little over a year and started
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out really in the community side of things, doing business development,
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fostering and strengthening community partnerships and things
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like that.
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Um, and then with the recent expansion, I've shifted to more of
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an internal operations role within Spark and Reverie, so.
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Okay, well, then tell us a little bit.
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That's what you do.
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And it's obviously an organization that really works intensely
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with.
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With people recovering from various addictions.
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Tell us a little bit about the process, kind of the journey that
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led you eventually to end up with that job.
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And we're talking about in the process, how that relates to the
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mission and ministry of Heaven and Earth.
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Church in a minute.
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Yeah, absolutely.
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Well, it.
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It's a.
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It's a bit of a journey, if you will.
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So, you know, when I got out of DOC back in, gosh, 2017, I knew
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I wanted to work with people.
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I knew I wanted to work in the Behavioral Health.
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Just declared the doc.
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Department of Corrections, correct?
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Yes.
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Yeah.
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Department of Corrections or prison.
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I knew I wanted to work with people, but didn't know what that
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looked like.
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Didn't know, you know, what my future held.
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But I did take a class to become certified recovery coach while
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I was in the Department of Corrections.
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And so when I got out, I followed up to.
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To get certified.
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And so I would say about a year or so post release, I got certified
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as a recovery coach and have been working within the Behavioral
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Health substance use space ever since.
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My first, you know, starting point with that specific job was
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I worked in a small outpatient clinic in downtown Indianapolis.
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I did that for about six months, and my real takeoff or launch
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off point was my job at IU Health.
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So after about six months at the small outpatient clinic, I got
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a job at IU Health.
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They got a lot of grant money, both state and federal, to essentially
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put recovery coaches in all 15 of their emergency departments across
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the state.
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So I helped oversee that team and supervise it to be able to provide
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essentially crisis use assessments and all of those various
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emergency departments, and then my team within, help those folks
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that were struggling get into treatment or recovery resources or
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access to other community care needs.
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And you became a part of this, at least in part, because you were
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served by similar services, is that right?
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Yes, absolutely.
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Because you.
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We can Go as deep in this as you want to or feel comfortable doing.
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But you needed those services because you had your own addiction
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issues.
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Do you want to say anything about that in terms of how that kind
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of led you to where that's a part of the story?
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Is what I.
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Oh, absolutely, yes.
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Yeah.
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I mean, yeah, my, you know, addiction started at the age of 16.
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You know, I tell people I am the golden child of the opioid epidemic.
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If you think of things like, you know, the OxyContin crisis and
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over prescribing of Vicodin, that is my generation.
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That is, you know, a lot of my youth story.
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So, of course, started with things, quote unquote, as benign
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as, you know, alcohol or marijuana.
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But the thing that really stuck with me or that I really, you
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know, latched on to was the opioids.
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I remember the first time I took an opioid.
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I wasn't familiar with, like, the names or anything, but I remember.
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I remember taking it in about 10, 15 minutes after taking it.
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I remember the feeling it gave me, and I remember never not wanting
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to feel like that again.
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Yeah.
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And I asked my friend, I said, what is this called?
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And how do we get more.
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Right.
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I mean, there's a very clear moment in my life at that moment
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where I chased it for 10 years.
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So the actual aspect of addiction, physical otherwise, was
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a pretty, you know, pretty early on yesterday.
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It wasn't like a gradual leading up.
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You could have dived yet.
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Is that right?
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Correct.
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Yeah, absolutely.
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And so that led you to.
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In a pathway that fit you, led you, land you in the Department of
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Corrections and kind of goes back to the journey we mentioned
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there.
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Yes.
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As well.
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Let's talk for a minute, Spencer, then, about how the recovery
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process.
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I believe, as I've experienced with people in my life and people
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I've known in my ministry, I'm retired pastor who've gone through
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it.
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Each time anybody recovers and gets on the journey of recovery,
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it is a miraculous situation because so many people do get, you
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know, kind of go down to a vortex of that leads to demise.
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That's pretty bad.
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Absolutely.
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Am I.
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Am I accurate now?
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I'm.
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That I'm speaking, not trying to speak for you, but is that an
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accurate representation of your experience as well?
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Oh, yeah, I know I would absolutely agree with you that, you
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know, there's only a few ways that, you know, addiction really
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ends.
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Right.
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And most of them aren't pretty.
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Um, you know, I.
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Unfortunately, I think that folks achieving recovery, even if
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temporary, still seems to be like the, the smaller percentage.
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A lot of folks like you, to your point, get sucked up in that
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vortex of further illness or death or, or insane asylums or what
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have you.
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Yeah.
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And people around them get sucked into that, too.
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Family, friends, other societal entities, they all get impacted
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by that, right?
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Yes.
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Oh, absolutely.
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Let's talk for a second then about how your, you made us somehow
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made a connection with the mission and ministry of Heaven Earth
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Church, and particularly with the, with the Recovery church that
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is a part of the life here at Heaven have church.
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How did that happen?
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How did you get connected or even your, you know, paths crossed
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with the folks here?
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Well, you know, it's interesting.
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It's because of my job at IU Health that I even got connected
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with Ross.
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So as I shared, you know, I worked out at IU Health for a number
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of years, and one of the project managers that was helping
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to oversee the administration of one of the grants that we were
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awarded was from the Shelbyville area, and she knew that
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I lived on the south side.
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And she said, hey, I have this guy I went to high school with, and
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I think he's starting a church, like in your town or in your
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county, and he wants to do something with recovery.
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And so I'm going to send you the link to the church website and
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would love for you to maybe check it out.
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I thought, okay, well, why not?
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Any resource is a good resource, right?
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And so I remember going to Heaven Earth's, I believe it was
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just like the website and signing up for the mailing list and,
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you know, kind of poking around on there.
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I think at that time the website was pretty bare bones.
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You know, this is, it was before COVID so, gosh, over five
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years ago at that point.
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And so I said, I remember signing up for the mailing list,
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but then, I mean, it probably wasn't 30 minutes or an hour after
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I signed up for the mailing list, I got another email from the
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pastor, this Ross Stackhouse guy, saying, hey, I see you signed
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up for our email list.
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I'd love to, you know, meet with you and learn how you heard
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about us and just get a better understanding of what you're doing.
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And, and so I thought, what, what's going on here with this guy?
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You know, it just caught me off guard.
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But I, I, I remember emailing Ross back and thinking, okay, I'll
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meet with you.
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You know, at that point in my life, I tell folks I had experienced
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a lot of church trauma because of my addiction, and I'm an openly
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gay man, and I Think we all know how that goes to typically in
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churches, right?
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And so I had sworn off church for a really long time, and at that
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moment, I wasn't.
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I would say I was probably a little angry at church, but I just
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wasn't at a place where I really wanted to entertain that.
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But I thought, this is for work.
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I want to at least see what this guy has to say.
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So I met Ross several weeks later at a cafe in downtown Franklin.
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And I remember telling my mom, like, I'm going to meet this pastor
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from a church.
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He wants to do something with recovery.
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Everyone thought I was crazy because they knew kind of my stance
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at that moment, you know, And I remember some.
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People in your circle, family knew you had some, you know, unh.
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Un.
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Not good church experiences.
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Absolutely.
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Yeah.
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And so I, you know, met with Ross, and I remember very early off
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in the conversation just thinking, this guy is genuine.
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You know, you could sense and feel that, the genuine nature.
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And we had a great conversation.
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I think we talked for well over an hour.
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And at the end of it, he said, you know, we're starting this church.
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We didn't even have this location yet.
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They were just meeting weekly at his house.
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And he's like, but I'd love to have you out there and, you know,
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talk about what it looked like to get, you know, recovery church
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or incorporate recovery into our church.
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And so I toyed with it for a while, but, I mean, one thing led
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to another, and all of a sudden, I'm going to Ross house once
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a week, meeting with a small group of people.
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And then right before COVID you know, there was a.
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Another kind of smaller group of us in recovery that would meet
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with Ross to talk about what does recovery church look like?
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How do we incorporate the other tenets of recovery programs
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and recovery principles into our own recovery church program to
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support folks, you know, kind of the intersection of faith and
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recovery.
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So did you resonate with that, or did you kind of go, this is kind
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of contrived or just didn't quite get it.
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Tell me how you kind of reacted kind of viscerally when you're
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talking about this whole recovery church thing.
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Yeah, well, you know, I feel like there are some great programs
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out there that.
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That have kind of like, that concept of recovery church.
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And what really attracted me to, you know, kind of Ross's vision
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and what we're doing out here was that it wasn't so much this,
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you have to believe our way or the highway type thing, like, this
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is the way it is.
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It's A come in where you're at and we'll walk on this journey with
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you.
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And I really appreciated that because what I found in my own recovery
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journey and being in and around recovery for a while is at
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a different level or playing field.
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Right.
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When it comes to their own religious or spiritual journey.
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And so I think being able to offer a space that's safe and allowing
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folks to ask the difficult questions and kind of wrestle and
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struggle with that both alone, but together is a very special place.
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And so I like that is something that Ross wanted to do
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and that we wanted to be able to offer here at Heaven Earth.
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True.
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So at that time and then in your journey saying, having said
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you'd had some unhappy experiences there, what would do.
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What did you see spirituality's role to play in recovery?
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What I mean to say by that is there are some people who really,
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you know, that's a part of, you know, it's a piece of AA's 12
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step programs and so on.
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And.
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But I know people have different levels of, of understanding
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though.
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Importance of that.
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Was your kind of view of the role of spirituality in recovery
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overall and maybe with your particular situation?
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Yeah, I mean, I think from my own personal perspective, I think
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spirituality plays a very big piece in a person's journey of recovery.
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Looking back, there's lots of moments where maybe I wasn't in tune
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spiritually, but looking back, there's certainly moments where it's
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like there was something greater than myself at play there.
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Right.
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Or involved in those situations.
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And so I think when folks get into recovery and begin that journey,
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whether they want to acknowledge it or not, that's okay.
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But I think there is.
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We need to allow that space for folks to be able to wrestle with
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that and kind of come to terms with what is their level of comfortability
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with allowing spirituality to be in their lives, if that makes
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sense.
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Well, I think it does.
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And I want to go with this a little bit deeper on that because,
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you know, there are secular treatment centers.
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You know, you work at one of those.
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Yes, basically.
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And then there are, you know, very much heavily faith based treatment
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alternatives that some churches have and some entities have.
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They're really on that.
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What recovery churches says here in their documentation about
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what we do here at Heavenly Church is that basically it says
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spiritual foundations are a part of recovery, but spirituality
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is a supplement to treatment in meetings.
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So from your perspective, as someone who's gone through it, now
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works in a secular treatment facility and has had connections
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with this particular church and the recovery church.
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What do you See, how's that working?
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And what are some of the benefits that people have when they
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have some sort of a.
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I don't know, kind of a recipe or a mix of those things that comes
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into play?
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Is there a.
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A way that can be beneficial to people where they can experience
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all of pieces of all that?
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Yeah, no, absolutely.
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I do think when folks strengthen that spiritual component
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and incorporate it into their lives and into their recovery journey,
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it just creates for a richer recovery journey.
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You know, one thing that I have found that's been at least true
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for myself and a lot of others that I've, you know, encountered
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in this life is that those that are more spiritually in tune
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or plugged in seem to have more of a solid foundation in their
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recovery.
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Not that they're, like, immune or not prone to life and relapse
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and things like that, but it's like they have a little bit more
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fortitude to withstand those storms and those bad moments because
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they have that spiritual component.
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Where I found also, you know, there's also seems to be a greater
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sense of gratitude and a deeper meaning for them as it relates
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to that, where folks maybe that are beginning their spiritual
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journey or, you know, just not quite there yet, for a variety of
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reasons, they.
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They maybe struggle a little bit more.
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And that's certainly true for everyone.
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But, you know, looking back at, again, my own journey and.
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And the folks I work with, both personally and professionally,
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that seems to be somewhat of a consistent theme.
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Yeah, well, that's.
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That's good to hear.
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And I think what I'm understanding the recovery church
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here to do here at Heaven or church is to really.
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To be.
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Work in partnership, not at odds with these goals, you know,
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to help people get healthy, clean, get sober, whatever terminology
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you want to use, but help them to be.
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Get back integrated into society, not only for themselves,
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but for the good of, you know, their family and friends and their
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livelihood and contributions to society.
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And so that has to do with kind of the community aspect.
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I want to talk to you about for a minute, because I know that
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what I'm understanding from our conversation, from your work
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that you do and from the work that Heaven Earth Church does through
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the.
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Through recovery Church is that community integration, community
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support is really, really vital.
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Tell me how you have seen the integration of community, both kind
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of interpersonally, but also in the kind of the physical community,
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you know, you know, and the entities, the law enforcement and
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social services and everything else out there.
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Tell me a little bit about that, about how important it is for
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kind of this Partnership, this integration of community support
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to be part of what you do professionally and what we do here
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at the church.
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Yeah, I mean, I, I think as it relates to, you know, that community
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involvement and integration, it's so vital because, you know,
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when a person is suffering from not just substance use disorder,
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but a lot of chronic diseases, they're not often suffering al.
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And what I mean by that is they're often putting strain or using
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resources within the community, you know, or that the
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community is supporting.
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And so I think in supporting someone in the recovery journey or
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the recovery side of things, having that community support is
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so vital because it allows for those that are maybe new to recovery
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church, are new to the recovery journey, that that community
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aspect is so important.
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Right.
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And I think that's what's the biggest thing, if nothing else, is
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that these individuals see how important community and that community
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support is for them.
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But then also once they get to that place where they're able to
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give back, I think that's also huge because I know, at least for
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me personally, I put a huge strain on community resources.
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EMS runs, 911, being incarcerated, just list a few.
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And so to be able to do community service projects or be
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the, be a reliable person for a local officer to call and say,
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hey, I just went on a run and you know, I just talked to Johnny
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Smith and he needs treatment.
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Can you help?
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But being that person to be able to help facilitate that is huge.
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You know, I mean that, that's almost priceless of being able to
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give back.
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So that's kind of the difference between basically, you
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know, terminology may not be the best, but being a drain on society
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and then being an asset.
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Correct?
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Yeah.
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And that's an important aspect, I believe.
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And, and I believe that's kind of the part, the value of partnerships
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that heaven or church has has a part to play in that.
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And this church is built on, you know, several pillars of understanding,
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doctrinal statements of some sort or another.
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But a couple of them have to do with being a safe, non, non judgmental
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space.
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And churches are sometimes not known as that.
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Sometimes they are known as a not safe judgmental space.
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But I'm going to ask you, you've mentioned about your connection
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with the pastor, Ross Stackhouse, but you've also had interactions
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with other people in the congregation, not only with recovery
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church, but with the worshiping body and other folks connected
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to the church.
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What's your experience about heaven or a church in terms of that
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pillar?
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Are they living up to that pillar of being a safe, non Judge
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non judgmental space.
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Are they living up to it?
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And if so, how have you experienced that?
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Yeah, I mean, I could be biased, but I think that, you know,
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the, the overall congregational body of Heaven Earth
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Church does a great job of living up to that.
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I lovingly and I've heard, I think other people talk about it.
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You know, we're kind of like a bunch of misfits brought together.
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And so I think because of that component, we are all very warm and
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welcoming and accepting of each other and each other's journeys.
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And just however you come through that door is who you are.
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And we're just happy to see you here and be together and be able
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to worship and praise for an hour, whatever it is.
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So, you know, everyone that I've come across with my years throughout
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Heaven Earth Church, I have not felt, you know, this sense of
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judgment or, you know, being misunderstood or anything like that.
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I've often always felt like folks are warm and welcoming and
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excited to see me, but also that it's genuine.
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Right.
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Because I think we've all been in places where, you know, they can
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roll out the red carpet and maybe present that they're excited,
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but then when they turn their backs and they're whispering at their
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friends, what are they really saying?
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And I don't get the sense that that's happening here.
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I get the sense that folks actually do care, they do want you
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here, which has been all the difference compared to other churches,
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you know, that I've been through throughout my life.
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So as a pastor, we sometimes call those the parking lot conversations.
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Exactly.
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But after what goes up front.
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But another what you're touching on here, something else.
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I want to go with you here in a minute.
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Or is the value the church has of being a, a place for truth, for
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truth telling can take place?
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And I know that recently you were been able to speak at one of
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the Recovery Church events that have to do with basically truth
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telling.
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Yeah.
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So tell me how that value is lived out and do you feel like you've
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been able to tell your truth personally?
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And do you think it's a safe place for other people that you may
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have some understanding of addiction, community or whatever
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that could be a place to.
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To tell the truth and be.
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Be heard as well?
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Yeah, no, absolutely.
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So, yeah, the event that you're talking about, the, the Recovery
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Church speaker series that they recently started, you know,
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really, for those that might be familiar with it, it's very similar
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to like the traditional AA giving a lead, as they call it, you
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know, where you get up and you share your story.
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Essentially it boils down to what was it like, what happened and
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what is it like now.
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And so I feel like I, I, I often tell people as a person, be
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careful what you ask because you'll probably get an honest answer.
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So don't, you know, don't ask if you don't want an honest answer.
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So some of that could just be a me thing.
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But I feel like I, I can always be transparent or very upfront
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and you know, like that event, you know, I shared some, some pretty
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serious things, both positive and negative.
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You know, I shared some traumas that happened and some, some
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really great positive things in, in front of a group full of people
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in a church that, you know, most people may not have felt comfortable
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sharing, but I felt like I was in my safe space, you know.
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And there have been many times in the little circle around recovery
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church, you know, we kind of get together in that cliche circle
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right as we're talking or we used to, where there have been a
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lot of heavy things, truths told and shared by myself and by
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other participants in the circle that folks think may typically,
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you know, may wouldn't have been shared in a church.
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But because it is a safe space and we've created that kind of environment,
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folks feel comfortable sharing that.
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So I think to, you know, kind of your, your point of like that
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truth telling pillar, it very much so rings true for, you know,
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at least the interactions I've had and the experiences I've had
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here.
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Yeah.
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Because I think it goes to this set, I'm going to use a word
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here that is used, it's kind of a heavy word, but I think it applies
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addictions.
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People dealing with addiction often bring with it a stigma, you
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know, of.
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Well, these people cannot be relied upon or this is somebody who's
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just going to be, you know, just such a mess that we can't, you
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know, be really in communication with that.
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And so part of what heaven or church I believe is about is about
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a faith community that can help to reframe that stigma that
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comes with that.
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So what do you think is the role here?
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How can a church like Heaven Earth continue to work towards, you
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know, kind of going against this stigma of people who deal with
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it.
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We deal with addictions who have everything else going in their
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life too, whatever their other things in their life as well.
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But how can a faith community be helpful?
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Yeah, well, you know, I think so far so good.
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Right.
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You know, we've created kind of this groundwork in this support
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structure of Recovery Church and allowing folks to come in as
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they are, you know, to get that support.
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But the one thing that I found really beautiful that I've seen in
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the last several years is beginning is where, you know, the
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church is beginning to develop some of these longer standing members
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in recovery into leaders.
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Because I think that's kind of like the next level, if you will.
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Right.
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Is kind of not only giving them the, the opportunity to recover,
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but to like excel and propel their lives forward.
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Right.
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Because that's how, you know, how my success, you know, really
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took off professionally.
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Someone rolled the dice on me, you know, is what I tell folks is.
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And so.
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And I think being able to do that as a church and giving them
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these leadership opportunities and allowing folks to grow will just
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further strengthen that and support folks in recovery.
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And then it just creates, it creates this environment of where
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people want to do it, I think, you know, or they see what we have
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going on and it becomes this positive of not only are they supporting
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them, but they're like giving them all the tools and all the things
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necessary, right.
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To, to really grow and excel beyond just attending a meeting weekly.
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And so I think it's things like.
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That, that part, the, the leadership development piece, I think
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is so huge because that means, in my mind at least, it means that,
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you know, kind of the buy in and the ownership comes from within,
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not just kind of a, an imposed program by the church, which may
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be perceived that way or maybe, maybe that way.
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In some cases it is.
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But I, I like to think about how this sense of leadership now
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can maybe lead opportunities for new pathways to continue to serve
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the community, you know, new entry points, if you will.
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So how do you think that might work out?
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What kind of, what's next for you and for Recovery Church and how
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it role plays in secular organizations like the one you work
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for, Sparker Recovery.
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What's next?
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Or what are some pathways that can open.
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Open up here for?
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Because we know that the addiction problem remains, right?
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Absolutely.
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Yeah, absolutely.
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So we know that remains.
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Yes.
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And some people are in denial about it, but it remains.
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So what are some ways that this, this partnership, this, this
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thing we're describing here can open up pathways for more and
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more people to be served and get, get healthier and therefore
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serve the greater good?
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Yeah, well, you know, I, again, I think we've established
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that structure, right, of, of the weekly meetings and different
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things like that.
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So that is there.
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So then, you know, one of the things I've looked at is, okay, what
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does like those external relationships look like.
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Right.
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Or like those, like, marketing opportunities.
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What.
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What are some other ways, either conventional or unconventional,
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that we can engage community members, community partners, to a.
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Get the word out about our programming.
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But then also, like, is there.
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Are there partners that need assistance?
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Right.
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And does Recovery Church become a, like an extension of.
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Of the church, like this Helping Hand or arm.
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Right.
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Heaven Earth that goes out and helps folks and things like that,
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which I know the church does a lot of, you know, outside, you know,
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community work and partnerships, but I think to be able
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to have like, that specific extension from Recovery Church and
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know, like, these are the folks that are, you know, that have
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been through addiction or in recovery and now they're here helping
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to shovel snow or rebuild after the tornadoes or whatever.
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It is some practical thing.
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Yeah, yeah.
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And, you know, that may even go to such as, you know, work.
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You talk about, you know, kind of marketing, get the positive word
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out and more, but may like working with employers.
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I know around here we got these huge, massive distribution
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facilities and what have you.
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And yes, I at least know at least one or two situations where
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employers have had issues with employees.
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Yes.
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You know, who had addiction issues and.
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And, you know, in order for productivity to happen, they would
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like to deal with that.
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Absolutely.
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Just one example of how this might expand into whole different
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realms here.
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And I think that's really a cool thing.
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Well, let me bring it around to this, Spencer, and kind of bring
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it around to, you know, this is the Heaven Earth Church podcast
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and part of the mission and ministry of the church history with
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partnerships and including these pillars about being a safe
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place and so on that we've already talked about.
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I want to make it kind of personal with you just for a second
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in the sense of.
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And I like to ask most people this.
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What is this the type of place that you would feel comfortable if
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there's somebody in your life, in your circle of friends or people
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that you associate with that is some issue.
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It didn't even have to be addiction.
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It could be something else.
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You know, losing your job or going through a divorce or death
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in the family, any, you know, any number of things that happen
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to people.
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Is this the type of place that you'd feel comfortable inviting them
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to say, this is a place that you might want to check out?
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Oh, absolutely.
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Yeah.
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You know, I.
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I started coming by myself in the beginning, you know, but I eventually
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brought my mother and my brother.
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You know, I've invited several different friends.
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You know, maybe most of those haven't had, like, some specific
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issues or life struggles or Things that you've highlighted, but
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certainly had that interest in seeking or finding kind of a new
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church home.
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Right.
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You know, something that wasn't such like a.
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What I call, like, the big box church.
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Right.
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You know, and so I think this offers Heaven and earth offers a
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very much a unique experience that a lot of us, I think, especially
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the millennial age, where, you know, we're kind of products of that
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big box church, you know, wants to be a little bit smaller
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and intimate and, you know, things like that.
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So I am always trying to let folks know, you know, I.
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I don't want to become what I say, the crazy lunatic, like, come
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to my church.
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I'll save you.
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You know, the person that I may have, you know, looked down upon
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a few years ago.
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But I do want people to know that they are welcome.
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And I'm always happy to join folks and sit next to with them in
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a pew if they don't want to sit alone or if they want to ride.
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Always happy to do that because it can be scary, you know,
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even if you, you know, it was scary for me to show up at Ross's
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house, I think I would have been less scared to show up to a
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more traditional church.
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But it's like when you're going to someone's house and meeting
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in their living room.
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Right.
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You're gonna have to talk to people.
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Right.
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There's no, like, hiding behind the pew or anything like that.
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So, yes, all of that to say I.
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I do feel like this place is special and safe and can really offer,
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you know, some unique experiences, but ultimately some
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spiritual healing and growth for anyone that's seeking it, regardless
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of what their circumstances are.
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Well, having.
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And just to take that.
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That's sort of your experience now.
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Now I kind of want you to put yourself in that role of.
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Let's just say that there's a person who's watching our conversation
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here today, and.
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And they say, okay, that sounds good, man, and I resonate
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with your story, but, you know, I'm really a mess, you know,
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with addiction or other things like this.
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So what would be your kind of a personal invitation you might have,
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if you were sharing with that person here that how you personally
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might be involved or others here might be involved in order to
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be helpful to them.
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That person.
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Yeah.
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I mean, so you're talking about, like, you know, they're really
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struggling with their substance use, and maybe that needs
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to be addressed.
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Let's just go there because that's your experience.
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Yeah, I mean, you know, I.
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I have certainly been There where I have too been a.
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And some days still aren't the greatest.
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Right.
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We're all human.
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Right.
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And so I often tell folks that, you know, if, if that's where
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they're at and they're interested in even just investigating
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what options are out there.
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TreatmentAtlas.org is a state ran, you know, website where you
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can put in what substances you're struggling with, your zip
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code.
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It has a self kind of as a self guided questionnaire that helps
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kind of lead folks to the appropriate avenue.
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And it's all of course anonymous.
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You can do it on your phone or online.
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But this kind of allows folks to engage in treatment without having
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to maybe talk to another human because that can be really scary
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in that moment.
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Right.
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But if you do want help and you do want guidance, you can always
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reach out to myself.
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Indiana 211, you know, staff's recovery coaches.
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So that often allows for folks to be able to talk to a human, someone
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in recovery and allows them to, you know, walk with them even
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if it's telephonically through this journey and gets plugged in.
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And then there's also professional organizations like your
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organization you work for and once you share share with our, with
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our folks that the website or how people can get a hold of that
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if they want to go that route.
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Yeah, no, absolutely.
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So sparkrecovery.com is the best way to engage with Spark Recovery.
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And so we are again providing outpatient therapy and treatment
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for folks but more specific to Johnson County.
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I am also the board president for a recovery coalition.
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So if you go to upstreamprevention.org Rise R I S
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E you can go there to see our list of activities and events and
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get plugged into other more local like Johnson county specific
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resources.
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Yeah.
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Then if people want to somehow get connected with Recovery Church,
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just kind of tell folks how that actually works, what time it
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is, what would someone experience if they're going to come
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to want to find out more about Recovery church here at Governor
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Church.
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So as of right now it's every Wednesday 6:30 to 8.
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So it's here at Heaven Earth Church.
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I do not know the address but I'm sure we'll have that posted in
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the link here for Heaven Earth Church just across the street from
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Whiteland High School.
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But like I said, every Wednesday just you walk in through
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the main, you know, kind of doors.
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Typically we're meeting in the sanctuary and each week the format
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somewhat changes.
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Sometimes there might be a speaker, there might be more of a
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discussion or you know, that Somewhat varies, but overall the
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format typically is kind of a welcome period with a meal.
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They do provide a meal each week, which is nice.
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And then they roll into whether it's again the speaker or
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what have you.
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And there's always, you know, Ross or the other Recovery Church
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leaders here.
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So always looking for like those new faces or unfamiliar face
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so where we can make folks feel comfortable and engaged and
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welcome.
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So that's a very important thing to help people who are to feel
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welcome.
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Absolutely.
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And not, you know, so much can be so intimidating and that this
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type of thing.
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So that's.
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Well, that's wonderful.
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I just leave it with this.
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Anything else that you just want to share here, Spencer?
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That I want to share.
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You know, I typically like to end these things off with that recovery
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is possible and I am not special.
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You know, just reach out and do the work.
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Trust God and clean house, as they say.
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Trust God and clean.
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Yes.
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I love that.
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Well, we certainly thank you for being with us here today.
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Our guest here today on the Heaven and Earth Church podcast,
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Spencer Metcalf.
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He's really involved with the Wednesday night Recovery Church and
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is on the [email protected] and we'll
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put all the connections to that and our show notes at Heaven.
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Spencer, thanks for being our guest today.
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Thank you so much.
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Brad Miller, back with you to wrap up this podcast episode with
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Spencer Metcalf.
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I found it fascinating.
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I hope that you did too.
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Then once you know, you'll find all the links to everything
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that Spencer was talking about in our show notes.
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But you can always find at our website, heavenearthchurch.org all
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the podcast directories.
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You can also find this at YouTube HeavenEarth Church.
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And a reminder, your next opportunity to worship at Heaven
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Earth Church is this Sunday morning at 9:30am at the main campus
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at 309 E.
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Main St.
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In Whiteland and Recovery Church, 6:30pm every Wednesday night
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at the campus.
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You can always find us at our website, heavenearthchurch.
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We want to thank you for spending time with us today.
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My name is Ross Stackhouse, the pastor to Heaven Earth Church.
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And you may think out there that your story is over, but in fact,
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your faith story may just be beginning.
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If you want more information about our church or you're interested
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in the next step, you can go to heavenorthchurch.org Otherwise,
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we look forward to being with you next time at the Heaven Earth
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Church podcast.