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A Conversation with Spencer Medcalf from HeavenEarth's Recovery Church

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  1. What would it look like to start a community that was really

  2. it's for the people like Jesus would be for?

  3. Welcome to Heaven Earth Church.

  4. I'm Ross Stackhouse, the founding pastor of Heaven Earth Church.

  5. From the start, our heart has been to be a church for people who

  6. don't fit neatly into church.

  7. We want to meet people where they are and know their stories.

  8. Because in every story there is God story.

  9. And this podcast is just about that.

  10. It's about inviting you to the stories of the people of Heaven Earth

  11. Church.

  12. So let's turn to the story.

  13. Hello good people.

  14. Brad Miller here, the producer and the co host of the Heaven Earth

  15. Church podcast.

  16. All about a church that's dedicated to making a lasting impact

  17. in our community.

  18. This podcast is all about meeting the people connected to the

  19. church and learning more about them.

  20. We have a fascinating interview here today with Spencer

  21. Metcalfe.

  22. Before we get into that, into that interview, we did want you to

  23. know you can always connect up with Heaven Earth Church at one of

  24. three gatherings that take place every week.

  25. One is the Sunday morning conversation which takes place live

  26. and in person at the main campus at the 309 E.

  27. Main St.

  28. In Whiteland, Indiana.

  29. And simultaneously to the in person worship experience is the

  30. online experience which you can [email protected] heavenerthchurch

  31. we also make reference in this episode to the Wednesday night gathering

  32. called Recovery Church, which has a special emphasis on people

  33. facing recovery issues.

  34. That's at 6:30pm every Wednesday night and always includes

  35. a meal.

  36. You can find out everything you want to know about Heaven earth

  37. A pleasure to have with us here on the podcast today Spencer

  38. Metcalfe, who's going to be sharing with us a little bit of some

  39. of what things he's experienced and the organization

  40. that he works for and then his relationship with the church.

  41. But Spencer, welcome to our conversation here today.

  42. Yes, well, thank you so much for having me.

  43. Excited to be here.

  44. Awesome.

  45. Awesome.

  46. Well, Spencer, tell us a little bit you let's kind of talk

  47. with for a second about who you work for and with and then we're

  48. going to talk about how you got there and how the a little bit

  49. of the church journey was a part of that process too.

  50. Tell me a little bit about the organization that you work for and

  51. what you do there.

  52. Yeah, absolutely.

  53. So I currently work for an organization called Spark Recovery.

  54. We are an outpatient recovery center on the north side of Indianapolis.

  55. So we're actually just right off of 96 in Meridian and we're providing

  56. outpatient therapy and services to clients with substance

  57. use disorder, often in early recovery.

  58. And then we also have another company called Reverie Sober Living.

  59. So we recently just opened that.

  60. And so we're providing the housing and the clinical treatment.

  61. And so I've been out there for a little over a year and started

  62. out really in the community side of things, doing business development,

  63. fostering and strengthening community partnerships and things

  64. like that.

  65. Um, and then with the recent expansion, I've shifted to more of

  66. an internal operations role within Spark and Reverie, so.

  67. Okay, well, then tell us a little bit.

  68. That's what you do.

  69. And it's obviously an organization that really works intensely

  70. with.

  71. With people recovering from various addictions.

  72. Tell us a little bit about the process, kind of the journey that

  73. led you eventually to end up with that job.

  74. And we're talking about in the process, how that relates to the

  75. mission and ministry of Heaven and Earth.

  76. Church in a minute.

  77. Yeah, absolutely.

  78. Well, it.

  79. It's a.

  80. It's a bit of a journey, if you will.

  81. So, you know, when I got out of DOC back in, gosh, 2017, I knew

  82. I wanted to work with people.

  83. I knew I wanted to work in the Behavioral Health.

  84. Just declared the doc.

  85. Department of Corrections, correct?

  86. Yes.

  87. Yeah.

  88. Department of Corrections or prison.

  89. I knew I wanted to work with people, but didn't know what that

  90. looked like.

  91. Didn't know, you know, what my future held.

  92. But I did take a class to become certified recovery coach while

  93. I was in the Department of Corrections.

  94. And so when I got out, I followed up to.

  95. To get certified.

  96. And so I would say about a year or so post release, I got certified

  97. as a recovery coach and have been working within the Behavioral

  98. Health substance use space ever since.

  99. My first, you know, starting point with that specific job was

  100. I worked in a small outpatient clinic in downtown Indianapolis.

  101. I did that for about six months, and my real takeoff or launch

  102. off point was my job at IU Health.

  103. So after about six months at the small outpatient clinic, I got

  104. a job at IU Health.

  105. They got a lot of grant money, both state and federal, to essentially

  106. put recovery coaches in all 15 of their emergency departments across

  107. the state.

  108. So I helped oversee that team and supervise it to be able to provide

  109. essentially crisis use assessments and all of those various

  110. emergency departments, and then my team within, help those folks

  111. that were struggling get into treatment or recovery resources or

  112. access to other community care needs.

  113. And you became a part of this, at least in part, because you were

  114. served by similar services, is that right?

  115. Yes, absolutely.

  116. Because you.

  117. We can Go as deep in this as you want to or feel comfortable doing.

  118. But you needed those services because you had your own addiction

  119. issues.

  120. Do you want to say anything about that in terms of how that kind

  121. of led you to where that's a part of the story?

  122. Is what I.

  123. Oh, absolutely, yes.

  124. Yeah.

  125. I mean, yeah, my, you know, addiction started at the age of 16.

  126. You know, I tell people I am the golden child of the opioid epidemic.

  127. If you think of things like, you know, the OxyContin crisis and

  128. over prescribing of Vicodin, that is my generation.

  129. That is, you know, a lot of my youth story.

  130. So, of course, started with things, quote unquote, as benign

  131. as, you know, alcohol or marijuana.

  132. But the thing that really stuck with me or that I really, you

  133. know, latched on to was the opioids.

  134. I remember the first time I took an opioid.

  135. I wasn't familiar with, like, the names or anything, but I remember.

  136. I remember taking it in about 10, 15 minutes after taking it.

  137. I remember the feeling it gave me, and I remember never not wanting

  138. to feel like that again.

  139. Yeah.

  140. And I asked my friend, I said, what is this called?

  141. And how do we get more.

  142. Right.

  143. I mean, there's a very clear moment in my life at that moment

  144. where I chased it for 10 years.

  145. So the actual aspect of addiction, physical otherwise, was

  146. a pretty, you know, pretty early on yesterday.

  147. It wasn't like a gradual leading up.

  148. You could have dived yet.

  149. Is that right?

  150. Correct.

  151. Yeah, absolutely.

  152. And so that led you to.

  153. In a pathway that fit you, led you, land you in the Department of

  154. Corrections and kind of goes back to the journey we mentioned

  155. there.

  156. Yes.

  157. As well.

  158. Let's talk for a minute, Spencer, then, about how the recovery

  159. process.

  160. I believe, as I've experienced with people in my life and people

  161. I've known in my ministry, I'm retired pastor who've gone through

  162. it.

  163. Each time anybody recovers and gets on the journey of recovery,

  164. it is a miraculous situation because so many people do get, you

  165. know, kind of go down to a vortex of that leads to demise.

  166. That's pretty bad.

  167. Absolutely.

  168. Am I.

  169. Am I accurate now?

  170. I'm.

  171. That I'm speaking, not trying to speak for you, but is that an

  172. accurate representation of your experience as well?

  173. Oh, yeah, I know I would absolutely agree with you that, you

  174. know, there's only a few ways that, you know, addiction really

  175. ends.

  176. Right.

  177. And most of them aren't pretty.

  178. Um, you know, I.

  179. Unfortunately, I think that folks achieving recovery, even if

  180. temporary, still seems to be like the, the smaller percentage.

  181. A lot of folks like you, to your point, get sucked up in that

  182. vortex of further illness or death or, or insane asylums or what

  183. have you.

  184. Yeah.

  185. And people around them get sucked into that, too.

  186. Family, friends, other societal entities, they all get impacted

  187. by that, right?

  188. Yes.

  189. Oh, absolutely.

  190. Let's talk for a second then about how your, you made us somehow

  191. made a connection with the mission and ministry of Heaven Earth

  192. Church, and particularly with the, with the Recovery church that

  193. is a part of the life here at Heaven have church.

  194. How did that happen?

  195. How did you get connected or even your, you know, paths crossed

  196. with the folks here?

  197. Well, you know, it's interesting.

  198. It's because of my job at IU Health that I even got connected

  199. with Ross.

  200. So as I shared, you know, I worked out at IU Health for a number

  201. of years, and one of the project managers that was helping

  202. to oversee the administration of one of the grants that we were

  203. awarded was from the Shelbyville area, and she knew that

  204. I lived on the south side.

  205. And she said, hey, I have this guy I went to high school with, and

  206. I think he's starting a church, like in your town or in your

  207. county, and he wants to do something with recovery.

  208. And so I'm going to send you the link to the church website and

  209. would love for you to maybe check it out.

  210. I thought, okay, well, why not?

  211. Any resource is a good resource, right?

  212. And so I remember going to Heaven Earth's, I believe it was

  213. just like the website and signing up for the mailing list and,

  214. you know, kind of poking around on there.

  215. I think at that time the website was pretty bare bones.

  216. You know, this is, it was before COVID so, gosh, over five

  217. years ago at that point.

  218. And so I said, I remember signing up for the mailing list,

  219. but then, I mean, it probably wasn't 30 minutes or an hour after

  220. I signed up for the mailing list, I got another email from the

  221. pastor, this Ross Stackhouse guy, saying, hey, I see you signed

  222. up for our email list.

  223. I'd love to, you know, meet with you and learn how you heard

  224. about us and just get a better understanding of what you're doing.

  225. And, and so I thought, what, what's going on here with this guy?

  226. You know, it just caught me off guard.

  227. But I, I, I remember emailing Ross back and thinking, okay, I'll

  228. meet with you.

  229. You know, at that point in my life, I tell folks I had experienced

  230. a lot of church trauma because of my addiction, and I'm an openly

  231. gay man, and I Think we all know how that goes to typically in

  232. churches, right?

  233. And so I had sworn off church for a really long time, and at that

  234. moment, I wasn't.

  235. I would say I was probably a little angry at church, but I just

  236. wasn't at a place where I really wanted to entertain that.

  237. But I thought, this is for work.

  238. I want to at least see what this guy has to say.

  239. So I met Ross several weeks later at a cafe in downtown Franklin.

  240. And I remember telling my mom, like, I'm going to meet this pastor

  241. from a church.

  242. He wants to do something with recovery.

  243. Everyone thought I was crazy because they knew kind of my stance

  244. at that moment, you know, And I remember some.

  245. People in your circle, family knew you had some, you know, unh.

  246. Un.

  247. Not good church experiences.

  248. Absolutely.

  249. Yeah.

  250. And so I, you know, met with Ross, and I remember very early off

  251. in the conversation just thinking, this guy is genuine.

  252. You know, you could sense and feel that, the genuine nature.

  253. And we had a great conversation.

  254. I think we talked for well over an hour.

  255. And at the end of it, he said, you know, we're starting this church.

  256. We didn't even have this location yet.

  257. They were just meeting weekly at his house.

  258. And he's like, but I'd love to have you out there and, you know,

  259. talk about what it looked like to get, you know, recovery church

  260. or incorporate recovery into our church.

  261. And so I toyed with it for a while, but, I mean, one thing led

  262. to another, and all of a sudden, I'm going to Ross house once

  263. a week, meeting with a small group of people.

  264. And then right before COVID you know, there was a.

  265. Another kind of smaller group of us in recovery that would meet

  266. with Ross to talk about what does recovery church look like?

  267. How do we incorporate the other tenets of recovery programs

  268. and recovery principles into our own recovery church program to

  269. support folks, you know, kind of the intersection of faith and

  270. recovery.

  271. So did you resonate with that, or did you kind of go, this is kind

  272. of contrived or just didn't quite get it.

  273. Tell me how you kind of reacted kind of viscerally when you're

  274. talking about this whole recovery church thing.

  275. Yeah, well, you know, I feel like there are some great programs

  276. out there that.

  277. That have kind of like, that concept of recovery church.

  278. And what really attracted me to, you know, kind of Ross's vision

  279. and what we're doing out here was that it wasn't so much this,

  280. you have to believe our way or the highway type thing, like, this

  281. is the way it is.

  282. It's A come in where you're at and we'll walk on this journey with

  283. you.

  284. And I really appreciated that because what I found in my own recovery

  285. journey and being in and around recovery for a while is at

  286. a different level or playing field.

  287. Right.

  288. When it comes to their own religious or spiritual journey.

  289. And so I think being able to offer a space that's safe and allowing

  290. folks to ask the difficult questions and kind of wrestle and

  291. struggle with that both alone, but together is a very special place.

  292. And so I like that is something that Ross wanted to do

  293. and that we wanted to be able to offer here at Heaven Earth.

  294. True.

  295. So at that time and then in your journey saying, having said

  296. you'd had some unhappy experiences there, what would do.

  297. What did you see spirituality's role to play in recovery?

  298. What I mean to say by that is there are some people who really,

  299. you know, that's a part of, you know, it's a piece of AA's 12

  300. step programs and so on.

  301. And.

  302. But I know people have different levels of, of understanding

  303. though.

  304. Importance of that.

  305. Was your kind of view of the role of spirituality in recovery

  306. overall and maybe with your particular situation?

  307. Yeah, I mean, I think from my own personal perspective, I think

  308. spirituality plays a very big piece in a person's journey of recovery.

  309. Looking back, there's lots of moments where maybe I wasn't in tune

  310. spiritually, but looking back, there's certainly moments where it's

  311. like there was something greater than myself at play there.

  312. Right.

  313. Or involved in those situations.

  314. And so I think when folks get into recovery and begin that journey,

  315. whether they want to acknowledge it or not, that's okay.

  316. But I think there is.

  317. We need to allow that space for folks to be able to wrestle with

  318. that and kind of come to terms with what is their level of comfortability

  319. with allowing spirituality to be in their lives, if that makes

  320. sense.

  321. Well, I think it does.

  322. And I want to go with this a little bit deeper on that because,

  323. you know, there are secular treatment centers.

  324. You know, you work at one of those.

  325. Yes, basically.

  326. And then there are, you know, very much heavily faith based treatment

  327. alternatives that some churches have and some entities have.

  328. They're really on that.

  329. What recovery churches says here in their documentation about

  330. what we do here at Heavenly Church is that basically it says

  331. spiritual foundations are a part of recovery, but spirituality

  332. is a supplement to treatment in meetings.

  333. So from your perspective, as someone who's gone through it, now

  334. works in a secular treatment facility and has had connections

  335. with this particular church and the recovery church.

  336. What do you See, how's that working?

  337. And what are some of the benefits that people have when they

  338. have some sort of a.

  339. I don't know, kind of a recipe or a mix of those things that comes

  340. into play?

  341. Is there a.

  342. A way that can be beneficial to people where they can experience

  343. all of pieces of all that?

  344. Yeah, no, absolutely.

  345. I do think when folks strengthen that spiritual component

  346. and incorporate it into their lives and into their recovery journey,

  347. it just creates for a richer recovery journey.

  348. You know, one thing that I have found that's been at least true

  349. for myself and a lot of others that I've, you know, encountered

  350. in this life is that those that are more spiritually in tune

  351. or plugged in seem to have more of a solid foundation in their

  352. recovery.

  353. Not that they're, like, immune or not prone to life and relapse

  354. and things like that, but it's like they have a little bit more

  355. fortitude to withstand those storms and those bad moments because

  356. they have that spiritual component.

  357. Where I found also, you know, there's also seems to be a greater

  358. sense of gratitude and a deeper meaning for them as it relates

  359. to that, where folks maybe that are beginning their spiritual

  360. journey or, you know, just not quite there yet, for a variety of

  361. reasons, they.

  362. They maybe struggle a little bit more.

  363. And that's certainly true for everyone.

  364. But, you know, looking back at, again, my own journey and.

  365. And the folks I work with, both personally and professionally,

  366. that seems to be somewhat of a consistent theme.

  367. Yeah, well, that's.

  368. That's good to hear.

  369. And I think what I'm understanding the recovery church

  370. here to do here at Heaven or church is to really.

  371. To be.

  372. Work in partnership, not at odds with these goals, you know,

  373. to help people get healthy, clean, get sober, whatever terminology

  374. you want to use, but help them to be.

  375. Get back integrated into society, not only for themselves,

  376. but for the good of, you know, their family and friends and their

  377. livelihood and contributions to society.

  378. And so that has to do with kind of the community aspect.

  379. I want to talk to you about for a minute, because I know that

  380. what I'm understanding from our conversation, from your work

  381. that you do and from the work that Heaven Earth Church does through

  382. the.

  383. Through recovery Church is that community integration, community

  384. support is really, really vital.

  385. Tell me how you have seen the integration of community, both kind

  386. of interpersonally, but also in the kind of the physical community,

  387. you know, you know, and the entities, the law enforcement and

  388. social services and everything else out there.

  389. Tell me a little bit about that, about how important it is for

  390. kind of this Partnership, this integration of community support

  391. to be part of what you do professionally and what we do here

  392. at the church.

  393. Yeah, I mean, I, I think as it relates to, you know, that community

  394. involvement and integration, it's so vital because, you know,

  395. when a person is suffering from not just substance use disorder,

  396. but a lot of chronic diseases, they're not often suffering al.

  397. And what I mean by that is they're often putting strain or using

  398. resources within the community, you know, or that the

  399. community is supporting.

  400. And so I think in supporting someone in the recovery journey or

  401. the recovery side of things, having that community support is

  402. so vital because it allows for those that are maybe new to recovery

  403. church, are new to the recovery journey, that that community

  404. aspect is so important.

  405. Right.

  406. And I think that's what's the biggest thing, if nothing else, is

  407. that these individuals see how important community and that community

  408. support is for them.

  409. But then also once they get to that place where they're able to

  410. give back, I think that's also huge because I know, at least for

  411. me personally, I put a huge strain on community resources.

  412. EMS runs, 911, being incarcerated, just list a few.

  413. And so to be able to do community service projects or be

  414. the, be a reliable person for a local officer to call and say,

  415. hey, I just went on a run and you know, I just talked to Johnny

  416. Smith and he needs treatment.

  417. Can you help?

  418. But being that person to be able to help facilitate that is huge.

  419. You know, I mean that, that's almost priceless of being able to

  420. give back.

  421. So that's kind of the difference between basically, you

  422. know, terminology may not be the best, but being a drain on society

  423. and then being an asset.

  424. Correct?

  425. Yeah.

  426. And that's an important aspect, I believe.

  427. And, and I believe that's kind of the part, the value of partnerships

  428. that heaven or church has has a part to play in that.

  429. And this church is built on, you know, several pillars of understanding,

  430. doctrinal statements of some sort or another.

  431. But a couple of them have to do with being a safe, non, non judgmental

  432. space.

  433. And churches are sometimes not known as that.

  434. Sometimes they are known as a not safe judgmental space.

  435. But I'm going to ask you, you've mentioned about your connection

  436. with the pastor, Ross Stackhouse, but you've also had interactions

  437. with other people in the congregation, not only with recovery

  438. church, but with the worshiping body and other folks connected

  439. to the church.

  440. What's your experience about heaven or a church in terms of that

  441. pillar?

  442. Are they living up to that pillar of being a safe, non Judge

  443. non judgmental space.

  444. Are they living up to it?

  445. And if so, how have you experienced that?

  446. Yeah, I mean, I could be biased, but I think that, you know,

  447. the, the overall congregational body of Heaven Earth

  448. Church does a great job of living up to that.

  449. I lovingly and I've heard, I think other people talk about it.

  450. You know, we're kind of like a bunch of misfits brought together.

  451. And so I think because of that component, we are all very warm and

  452. welcoming and accepting of each other and each other's journeys.

  453. And just however you come through that door is who you are.

  454. And we're just happy to see you here and be together and be able

  455. to worship and praise for an hour, whatever it is.

  456. So, you know, everyone that I've come across with my years throughout

  457. Heaven Earth Church, I have not felt, you know, this sense of

  458. judgment or, you know, being misunderstood or anything like that.

  459. I've often always felt like folks are warm and welcoming and

  460. excited to see me, but also that it's genuine.

  461. Right.

  462. Because I think we've all been in places where, you know, they can

  463. roll out the red carpet and maybe present that they're excited,

  464. but then when they turn their backs and they're whispering at their

  465. friends, what are they really saying?

  466. And I don't get the sense that that's happening here.

  467. I get the sense that folks actually do care, they do want you

  468. here, which has been all the difference compared to other churches,

  469. you know, that I've been through throughout my life.

  470. So as a pastor, we sometimes call those the parking lot conversations.

  471. Exactly.

  472. But after what goes up front.

  473. But another what you're touching on here, something else.

  474. I want to go with you here in a minute.

  475. Or is the value the church has of being a, a place for truth, for

  476. truth telling can take place?

  477. And I know that recently you were been able to speak at one of

  478. the Recovery Church events that have to do with basically truth

  479. telling.

  480. Yeah.

  481. So tell me how that value is lived out and do you feel like you've

  482. been able to tell your truth personally?

  483. And do you think it's a safe place for other people that you may

  484. have some understanding of addiction, community or whatever

  485. that could be a place to.

  486. To tell the truth and be.

  487. Be heard as well?

  488. Yeah, no, absolutely.

  489. So, yeah, the event that you're talking about, the, the Recovery

  490. Church speaker series that they recently started, you know,

  491. really, for those that might be familiar with it, it's very similar

  492. to like the traditional AA giving a lead, as they call it, you

  493. know, where you get up and you share your story.

  494. Essentially it boils down to what was it like, what happened and

  495. what is it like now.

  496. And so I feel like I, I, I often tell people as a person, be

  497. careful what you ask because you'll probably get an honest answer.

  498. So don't, you know, don't ask if you don't want an honest answer.

  499. So some of that could just be a me thing.

  500. But I feel like I, I can always be transparent or very upfront

  501. and you know, like that event, you know, I shared some, some pretty

  502. serious things, both positive and negative.

  503. You know, I shared some traumas that happened and some, some

  504. really great positive things in, in front of a group full of people

  505. in a church that, you know, most people may not have felt comfortable

  506. sharing, but I felt like I was in my safe space, you know.

  507. And there have been many times in the little circle around recovery

  508. church, you know, we kind of get together in that cliche circle

  509. right as we're talking or we used to, where there have been a

  510. lot of heavy things, truths told and shared by myself and by

  511. other participants in the circle that folks think may typically,

  512. you know, may wouldn't have been shared in a church.

  513. But because it is a safe space and we've created that kind of environment,

  514. folks feel comfortable sharing that.

  515. So I think to, you know, kind of your, your point of like that

  516. truth telling pillar, it very much so rings true for, you know,

  517. at least the interactions I've had and the experiences I've had

  518. here.

  519. Yeah.

  520. Because I think it goes to this set, I'm going to use a word

  521. here that is used, it's kind of a heavy word, but I think it applies

  522. addictions.

  523. People dealing with addiction often bring with it a stigma, you

  524. know, of.

  525. Well, these people cannot be relied upon or this is somebody who's

  526. just going to be, you know, just such a mess that we can't, you

  527. know, be really in communication with that.

  528. And so part of what heaven or church I believe is about is about

  529. a faith community that can help to reframe that stigma that

  530. comes with that.

  531. So what do you think is the role here?

  532. How can a church like Heaven Earth continue to work towards, you

  533. know, kind of going against this stigma of people who deal with

  534. it.

  535. We deal with addictions who have everything else going in their

  536. life too, whatever their other things in their life as well.

  537. But how can a faith community be helpful?

  538. Yeah, well, you know, I think so far so good.

  539. Right.

  540. You know, we've created kind of this groundwork in this support

  541. structure of Recovery Church and allowing folks to come in as

  542. they are, you know, to get that support.

  543. But the one thing that I found really beautiful that I've seen in

  544. the last several years is beginning is where, you know, the

  545. church is beginning to develop some of these longer standing members

  546. in recovery into leaders.

  547. Because I think that's kind of like the next level, if you will.

  548. Right.

  549. Is kind of not only giving them the, the opportunity to recover,

  550. but to like excel and propel their lives forward.

  551. Right.

  552. Because that's how, you know, how my success, you know, really

  553. took off professionally.

  554. Someone rolled the dice on me, you know, is what I tell folks is.

  555. And so.

  556. And I think being able to do that as a church and giving them

  557. these leadership opportunities and allowing folks to grow will just

  558. further strengthen that and support folks in recovery.

  559. And then it just creates, it creates this environment of where

  560. people want to do it, I think, you know, or they see what we have

  561. going on and it becomes this positive of not only are they supporting

  562. them, but they're like giving them all the tools and all the things

  563. necessary, right.

  564. To, to really grow and excel beyond just attending a meeting weekly.

  565. And so I think it's things like.

  566. That, that part, the, the leadership development piece, I think

  567. is so huge because that means, in my mind at least, it means that,

  568. you know, kind of the buy in and the ownership comes from within,

  569. not just kind of a, an imposed program by the church, which may

  570. be perceived that way or maybe, maybe that way.

  571. In some cases it is.

  572. But I, I like to think about how this sense of leadership now

  573. can maybe lead opportunities for new pathways to continue to serve

  574. the community, you know, new entry points, if you will.

  575. So how do you think that might work out?

  576. What kind of, what's next for you and for Recovery Church and how

  577. it role plays in secular organizations like the one you work

  578. for, Sparker Recovery.

  579. What's next?

  580. Or what are some pathways that can open.

  581. Open up here for?

  582. Because we know that the addiction problem remains, right?

  583. Absolutely.

  584. Yeah, absolutely.

  585. So we know that remains.

  586. Yes.

  587. And some people are in denial about it, but it remains.

  588. So what are some ways that this, this partnership, this, this

  589. thing we're describing here can open up pathways for more and

  590. more people to be served and get, get healthier and therefore

  591. serve the greater good?

  592. Yeah, well, you know, I, again, I think we've established

  593. that structure, right, of, of the weekly meetings and different

  594. things like that.

  595. So that is there.

  596. So then, you know, one of the things I've looked at is, okay, what

  597. does like those external relationships look like.

  598. Right.

  599. Or like those, like, marketing opportunities.

  600. What.

  601. What are some other ways, either conventional or unconventional,

  602. that we can engage community members, community partners, to a.

  603. Get the word out about our programming.

  604. But then also, like, is there.

  605. Are there partners that need assistance?

  606. Right.

  607. And does Recovery Church become a, like an extension of.

  608. Of the church, like this Helping Hand or arm.

  609. Right.

  610. Heaven Earth that goes out and helps folks and things like that,

  611. which I know the church does a lot of, you know, outside, you know,

  612. community work and partnerships, but I think to be able

  613. to have like, that specific extension from Recovery Church and

  614. know, like, these are the folks that are, you know, that have

  615. been through addiction or in recovery and now they're here helping

  616. to shovel snow or rebuild after the tornadoes or whatever.

  617. It is some practical thing.

  618. Yeah, yeah.

  619. And, you know, that may even go to such as, you know, work.

  620. You talk about, you know, kind of marketing, get the positive word

  621. out and more, but may like working with employers.

  622. I know around here we got these huge, massive distribution

  623. facilities and what have you.

  624. And yes, I at least know at least one or two situations where

  625. employers have had issues with employees.

  626. Yes.

  627. You know, who had addiction issues and.

  628. And, you know, in order for productivity to happen, they would

  629. like to deal with that.

  630. Absolutely.

  631. Just one example of how this might expand into whole different

  632. realms here.

  633. And I think that's really a cool thing.

  634. Well, let me bring it around to this, Spencer, and kind of bring

  635. it around to, you know, this is the Heaven Earth Church podcast

  636. and part of the mission and ministry of the church history with

  637. partnerships and including these pillars about being a safe

  638. place and so on that we've already talked about.

  639. I want to make it kind of personal with you just for a second

  640. in the sense of.

  641. And I like to ask most people this.

  642. What is this the type of place that you would feel comfortable if

  643. there's somebody in your life, in your circle of friends or people

  644. that you associate with that is some issue.

  645. It didn't even have to be addiction.

  646. It could be something else.

  647. You know, losing your job or going through a divorce or death

  648. in the family, any, you know, any number of things that happen

  649. to people.

  650. Is this the type of place that you'd feel comfortable inviting them

  651. to say, this is a place that you might want to check out?

  652. Oh, absolutely.

  653. Yeah.

  654. You know, I.

  655. I started coming by myself in the beginning, you know, but I eventually

  656. brought my mother and my brother.

  657. You know, I've invited several different friends.

  658. You know, maybe most of those haven't had, like, some specific

  659. issues or life struggles or Things that you've highlighted, but

  660. certainly had that interest in seeking or finding kind of a new

  661. church home.

  662. Right.

  663. You know, something that wasn't such like a.

  664. What I call, like, the big box church.

  665. Right.

  666. You know, and so I think this offers Heaven and earth offers a

  667. very much a unique experience that a lot of us, I think, especially

  668. the millennial age, where, you know, we're kind of products of that

  669. big box church, you know, wants to be a little bit smaller

  670. and intimate and, you know, things like that.

  671. So I am always trying to let folks know, you know, I.

  672. I don't want to become what I say, the crazy lunatic, like, come

  673. to my church.

  674. I'll save you.

  675. You know, the person that I may have, you know, looked down upon

  676. a few years ago.

  677. But I do want people to know that they are welcome.

  678. And I'm always happy to join folks and sit next to with them in

  679. a pew if they don't want to sit alone or if they want to ride.

  680. Always happy to do that because it can be scary, you know,

  681. even if you, you know, it was scary for me to show up at Ross's

  682. house, I think I would have been less scared to show up to a

  683. more traditional church.

  684. But it's like when you're going to someone's house and meeting

  685. in their living room.

  686. Right.

  687. You're gonna have to talk to people.

  688. Right.

  689. There's no, like, hiding behind the pew or anything like that.

  690. So, yes, all of that to say I.

  691. I do feel like this place is special and safe and can really offer,

  692. you know, some unique experiences, but ultimately some

  693. spiritual healing and growth for anyone that's seeking it, regardless

  694. of what their circumstances are.

  695. Well, having.

  696. And just to take that.

  697. That's sort of your experience now.

  698. Now I kind of want you to put yourself in that role of.

  699. Let's just say that there's a person who's watching our conversation

  700. here today, and.

  701. And they say, okay, that sounds good, man, and I resonate

  702. with your story, but, you know, I'm really a mess, you know,

  703. with addiction or other things like this.

  704. So what would be your kind of a personal invitation you might have,

  705. if you were sharing with that person here that how you personally

  706. might be involved or others here might be involved in order to

  707. be helpful to them.

  708. That person.

  709. Yeah.

  710. I mean, so you're talking about, like, you know, they're really

  711. struggling with their substance use, and maybe that needs

  712. to be addressed.

  713. Let's just go there because that's your experience.

  714. Yeah, I mean, you know, I.

  715. I have certainly been There where I have too been a.

  716. And some days still aren't the greatest.

  717. Right.

  718. We're all human.

  719. Right.

  720. And so I often tell folks that, you know, if, if that's where

  721. they're at and they're interested in even just investigating

  722. what options are out there.

  723. TreatmentAtlas.org is a state ran, you know, website where you

  724. can put in what substances you're struggling with, your zip

  725. code.

  726. It has a self kind of as a self guided questionnaire that helps

  727. kind of lead folks to the appropriate avenue.

  728. And it's all of course anonymous.

  729. You can do it on your phone or online.

  730. But this kind of allows folks to engage in treatment without having

  731. to maybe talk to another human because that can be really scary

  732. in that moment.

  733. Right.

  734. But if you do want help and you do want guidance, you can always

  735. reach out to myself.

  736. Indiana 211, you know, staff's recovery coaches.

  737. So that often allows for folks to be able to talk to a human, someone

  738. in recovery and allows them to, you know, walk with them even

  739. if it's telephonically through this journey and gets plugged in.

  740. And then there's also professional organizations like your

  741. organization you work for and once you share share with our, with

  742. our folks that the website or how people can get a hold of that

  743. if they want to go that route.

  744. Yeah, no, absolutely.

  745. So sparkrecovery.com is the best way to engage with Spark Recovery.

  746. And so we are again providing outpatient therapy and treatment

  747. for folks but more specific to Johnson County.

  748. I am also the board president for a recovery coalition.

  749. So if you go to upstreamprevention.org Rise R I S

  750. E you can go there to see our list of activities and events and

  751. get plugged into other more local like Johnson county specific

  752. resources.

  753. Yeah.

  754. Then if people want to somehow get connected with Recovery Church,

  755. just kind of tell folks how that actually works, what time it

  756. is, what would someone experience if they're going to come

  757. to want to find out more about Recovery church here at Governor

  758. Church.

  759. So as of right now it's every Wednesday 6:30 to 8.

  760. So it's here at Heaven Earth Church.

  761. I do not know the address but I'm sure we'll have that posted in

  762. the link here for Heaven Earth Church just across the street from

  763. Whiteland High School.

  764. But like I said, every Wednesday just you walk in through

  765. the main, you know, kind of doors.

  766. Typically we're meeting in the sanctuary and each week the format

  767. somewhat changes.

  768. Sometimes there might be a speaker, there might be more of a

  769. discussion or you know, that Somewhat varies, but overall the

  770. format typically is kind of a welcome period with a meal.

  771. They do provide a meal each week, which is nice.

  772. And then they roll into whether it's again the speaker or

  773. what have you.

  774. And there's always, you know, Ross or the other Recovery Church

  775. leaders here.

  776. So always looking for like those new faces or unfamiliar face

  777. so where we can make folks feel comfortable and engaged and

  778. welcome.

  779. So that's a very important thing to help people who are to feel

  780. welcome.

  781. Absolutely.

  782. And not, you know, so much can be so intimidating and that this

  783. type of thing.

  784. So that's.

  785. Well, that's wonderful.

  786. I just leave it with this.

  787. Anything else that you just want to share here, Spencer?

  788. That I want to share.

  789. You know, I typically like to end these things off with that recovery

  790. is possible and I am not special.

  791. You know, just reach out and do the work.

  792. Trust God and clean house, as they say.

  793. Trust God and clean.

  794. Yes.

  795. I love that.

  796. Well, we certainly thank you for being with us here today.

  797. Our guest here today on the Heaven and Earth Church podcast,

  798. Spencer Metcalf.

  799. He's really involved with the Wednesday night Recovery Church and

  800. is on the [email protected] and we'll

  801. put all the connections to that and our show notes at Heaven.

  802. Spencer, thanks for being our guest today.

  803. Thank you so much.

  804. Brad Miller, back with you to wrap up this podcast episode with

  805. Spencer Metcalf.

  806. I found it fascinating.

  807. I hope that you did too.

  808. Then once you know, you'll find all the links to everything

  809. that Spencer was talking about in our show notes.

  810. But you can always find at our website, heavenearthchurch.org all

  811. the podcast directories.

  812. You can also find this at YouTube HeavenEarth Church.

  813. And a reminder, your next opportunity to worship at Heaven

  814. Earth Church is this Sunday morning at 9:30am at the main campus

  815. at 309 E.

  816. Main St.

  817. In Whiteland and Recovery Church, 6:30pm every Wednesday night

  818. at the campus.

  819. You can always find us at our website, heavenearthchurch.

  820. We want to thank you for spending time with us today.

  821. My name is Ross Stackhouse, the pastor to Heaven Earth Church.

  822. And you may think out there that your story is over, but in fact,

  823. your faith story may just be beginning.

  824. If you want more information about our church or you're interested

  825. in the next step, you can go to heavenorthchurch.org Otherwise,

  826. we look forward to being with you next time at the Heaven Earth

  827. Church podcast.