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Sunday Conversations: Flourishing In Your True Self and Strengths
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Welcome to Heaven Earth Church.
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My name is Ross Stackhouse.
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I'm the founding pastor of Heaven Earth Church.
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From the beginning, our heart was to be a church for people who
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don't fit neatly into church.
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Our heart is to meet people where they are, to learn their stories,
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to honor their stories.
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Because in every human story is God's story.
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In this podcast, you'll hear more about the people who now call
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Heaven Earth Church home.
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Their stories, in many cases of misfits who are discovering or
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rediscovering faith.
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If you want to know more about us, you can go to heavenorthchurch.org
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Otherwise, we invite you now into the story.
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Hello, good people.
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Brad Miller here, the producer of the Heaven Earth Church podcast.
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One of the main benefits of being a part of the Heaven Earth
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Church community is our Sunday morning conversations taught by founding
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pastor Ross Stackhouse.
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You can watch and participate in the Sunday morning conversation
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this Sunday morning, 9:30am Eastern time at YouTube.com heavenorthchurch.
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The audio version of the Sunday morning conversation is available
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here on the podcast, which you can find at Apple Podcasts, Spotify
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and on the website, which is heavenearthchurch.org Here is Heaven
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Earth Church Pastor Ross Stackhouse with the message, flourishing
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in your true self and strengths.
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Lord, please shed your light on us.
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Wake us up to the gift of your love, a lavish kind of love that
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maybe we haven't worked hard to earn, but you give it because
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you decided it's something that we can receive and be changed
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by and share with others.
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So help us to do so.
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In the name of Jesus, amen.
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Can somebody grab me a bottle of water from the back?
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Jamon's coming.
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Look at this.
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If you want to throw it, you can.
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Either way.
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Whatever you want, dude.
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Yep, It's a good throw, man.
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It's one of those things, like where that's 0 for 1 on your stat
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sheet, but really it's a drop.
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So that's my bad, dude.
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So they're going to release me.
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It's okay.
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So a lot of us think like, so this is us.
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Remember the pot?
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Anybody else remember this guy?
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If you're new to church, you missed it one time.
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I had this pot up front.
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I'm really giving Heather a hard time today, but I smashed this
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pot.
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She had a panic attack over it, but so I had this pot and I smashed
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it.
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Because I talk about how, like, this is what the world does
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to us.
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Like, we come into the world.
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The Apostle Paul says, we are like jars of clay that hold treasure.
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So it's Kind of like this.
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But if you exist in the world for about five minutes, this world,
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that is not as it should be.
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It beats the crap out of you.
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I hope you're allowed to say crap in church.
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I just said it twice.
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So anyways.
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And the goal of what Jesus comes to do is not to give you a
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golden ticket to some paradise with golden streets, if that's what
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you've heard Christianity is.
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I'm sorry, that's not it.
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It's.
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And I'm not sorry because it's way, way, way better.
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Jesus comes to restore you.
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That's what discipleship with him is.
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He comes to restore the entire creation.
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He says in Revelation, behold, I'm making all things new.
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So he comes to restore you this jar of clay so that you hold
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treasure.
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And just like this, you actually don't want to be a nice
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perfect jar anymore.
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You actually want the cracks so that.
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Hold on a minute.
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So that you do something like this, Rachel, wherever you are, I'll
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clean this up, I swear.
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So that as the Spirit pours into you and as grace pours into
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you, it also pours out.
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Grace pours into and through the cracks.
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We don't want to be shiny, perfect, golden people.
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We want to be broken and repaired, people who give out grace
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and gifts.
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And the problem is, though, we also think maybe it works like this.
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I'm not going to do the whole bottle, so everyone can, if you're
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worried about that.
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But like, we think, all right, to go get a little grace today from
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Jesus, and then you pour it out and then your cup is empty.
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That's not how it works, actually, from Jesus's angle, our
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angle, we may think it's like that, but I stole this from.
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Her name is Kenda Creasy Dean.
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I thought about bringing the Hose in today, but I thought that
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would be a bad idea for our neighbors downstairs and for the
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structure of the building, actually, there is a constant fount
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font.
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I don't know, water's coming in all the time.
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From Jesus's angle, the grace is non stop, nonstop.
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It's whether we are aware of it, receiving it, being, being filled
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by it.
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And that's what I want to talk to you about today.
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I want to talk to you about this whole.
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We're in this series called.
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Can you throw that image up there, Hudson?
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If you're on the image.
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Bingo.
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That one.
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We're in a series called Everyone has a Place.
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And we're talking about how in the kingdom of Jesus, it isn't like
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our world, our World is a world of hierarchy.
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Yes.
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Like, everybody's, like, at different rungs on the ladder, right.
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Sometimes in the career world, everybody's hustling to get to a
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higher rung on the ladder.
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Right.
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And sometimes it gets competitive and it gets nasty, even
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in places where we're serving people.
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Even gets competitive and nasty in places like schools, nonprofits,
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churches.
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Did you know that there are egos in church politics?
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These institutions that are meant to serve people just become
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another hierarchy.
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Because our human nature is built for hierarchies.
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If our nature is not restored, we sign up for the hierarchy.
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And I'm going to read you a letter today in a minute to talk
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about this concept where it's a letter written by a guy named Paul,
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who, if we think we exist in a world of hierarchies, he was even
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more so in a hierarchy.
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But before I do that, I want to ask you, in your ordinary life,
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in the places where you live, work, learn, and play, how do you
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experience that ladder I just talked about?
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How do you relate to it?
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You can answer that anyway.
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How does it make you feel?
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Do you find yourself tempted to participate in it?
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How does that work for you?
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I'd be interested to hear.
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How do you experience.
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How do you relate to the hierarchies of your life?
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PT Go ahead.
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People who make more money than I always need to consider themselves
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much better.
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You.
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You experience that.
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People who make more money have a sense of, like, superiority
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sometimes.
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So you're confirming there's a hierarchy even in the church others,
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what's it like in your world, this world of hierarchy you live
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in?
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You make your own ladder.
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Okay.
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All right.
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Some jobs you have to.
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You're either climbing or you're falling.
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You can't just chill if you're not climbing.
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They're like, hey, sit down.
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We need to have a conversation with you.
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Others of you, how do you experience it in your world, in your
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organization where you live, work, learn, and play?
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Does everyone have a place?
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Even people who work in the.
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The bleeding heart nonprofit people in the room?
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Does everyone have a place?
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It's everywhere, isn't it?
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Everywhere.
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And the reason is we'll talk about this at the end is like, there's
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part of our human nature again.
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It's part of our culture that we are built 4.
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Like climbing the ladder and trying to get to the top place, or
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we go to the other extreme because we don't get to the top place.
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We feel that we aren't worthy, and so we just kind of feel like
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nothing at the bottom.
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That's why I want to read this letter to you today.
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I want to shed light on this concept of everyone has a place today.
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I hope to build you up in the belief that you have a special place
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in Jesus Kingdom.
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That's not just a cool idea.
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He proved it in his ministry, the way he lived.
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And he did it also with this Paul guy.
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But first, I want to give you context, because context is important.
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Reading the Bible a lot of times.
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The Bible, we say this all the time.
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The Bible is very weird.
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Very weird library to hang out in.
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Okay?
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Context can help, but it's not going to cure the weirdness.
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It's a beautiful weird, though.
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Much like our church, we specialize in weird here at Heaven
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Earth.
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So Paul is in pretty much a lot of his letters.
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You can conclude this.
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He is in jail while he's writing this letter.
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He was a guy who was throwing people in jail for following Jesus.
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Then he became a guy who was imprisoned because he became a follower
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of Jesus.
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Is that climbing the ladder?
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He jumped off the ladder and destroyed the ladder.
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He says in Philippians 3, I climbed to the top of the ladder.
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I consider all that stuff the top now.
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Sewer trash compared to following Jesus.
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Forget it.
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And so he went around planting church communities, telling people
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like he did to the Corinthians in Corinth and Greece.
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Like, he wrote them back and said, hey, because they guess what
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they did five minutes after they started a church.
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What were they doing?
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Our faction of Christianity is better than yours.
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You guys are idiots.
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You follow Paul.
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We follow Apollos.
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They follow Cephas.
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You guys are idiots.
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We're the right ones.
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We're at the top of the ladder.
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We.
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I mean, like, man, just like that, they turned church into a ladder.
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And so Paul says, hey, you guys, we are all part of one body.
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We are all members of one body.
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He says it again to the romans in chapter 12.
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And then he'll say it again here to the Ephesians.
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Ephesus was the town of the communities to whom he was writing.
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He went around to these different cities bearing witness
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to pouring out the treasure that was in his broken pot.
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He just poured out.
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He lived into his giftedness as an apostle.
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We're going to talk about that because every single one of you is
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an apostle, prophet, evangelist, shepherd, or teacher.
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Did you know?
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Every single one of you.
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But I want to show you what he says first.
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This is the letter to the Ephesians.
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Listen to what he does think about that ladder that I'm telling
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you.
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About and how he speaks to this concept of ladder.
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The opposite of ladder for Paul is, wait for it.
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I, therefore, the prisoner in the Lord.
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Sometimes he means that metaphorically.
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He feels happy to be, like, responsible and obligated to Jesus.
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It's a joy that he's received.
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I, therefore, the prisoner in the Lord, beg you to walk in a manner
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worthy of the calling to which you have been called.
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Every single person in this room is called sometimes.
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Like, maybe you grew up in church traditions where, like, it's
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only the preachers who are called to ministry.
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That's a big fat stupid lie.
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The division between clergy and laity is a lie that was formed
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out of the pits of hell.
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I'm just a dude with you.
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Following the Lord.
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Together we are all called.
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And he's saying to all of these people in Ephesians, I beg
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each of you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling.
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With all humility and gentleness, with patience bearing
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with one another in love.
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Do you see how he's busting up the ladder here?
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This is a new guy, Paul.
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Paul had ascended to be like the CEO of his religion.
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He was up in the executive suite getting like stock options
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and stuff.
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I don't even know what a stock option is.
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But guess what happened?
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He met Jesus on the road.
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And Jesus said, why are you persecuting me?
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He had a vision of the risen Lord.
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And Jesus said, why are you persecuting me?
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I always tell people with that verse, how is Paul persecuting Jesus?
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Because he was persecuting people.
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When you persecute somebody vulnerable, you persecute Jesus.
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Jesus says, when you have not done it to the least of these, when
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you've not helped them, you have not done it for me.
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So when we neglect somebody who's vulnerable, we neglect Jesus.
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Paul was doing just that.
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He had a vision of Jesus.
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Jesus said, why are you persecuting me?
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Paul was blinded, couldn't eat, couldn't drink for three days.
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And then he got filled up.
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And he kept getting filled up and he kept pouring it out.
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All of a sudden, ego driven Paul was.
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Humility filled Paul, pouring it out, bearing fruits of the Spirit.
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He says it in Galatians, the fruits of the Spirit are love, joy,
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peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness,
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and self control.
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Man, he started bearing that fruit and he gave it to others to
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build them up, not to climb the ladder for himself.
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Making every.
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Here's the opposite of the ladder.
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Making every effort to maintain the.
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Can you read the next word?
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Making every effort to maintain the Paul's going to do a
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wild thing in this chapter.
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He's going to highlight this impossible diversity of God's creation
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and also bear witness to the improbable unity that we can have
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in the midst of this impossible diversity.
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He's saying, let's explode the ladder.
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Let's all be one.
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Let's all be on the same plane with Jesus.
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There is one body, one spirit, just as you were called to the one
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hope of your calling, One Lord, one faith, one baptism.
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There's one thing that we're all a part of, one thing through
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which we are all reborn, one thing for which we are built up,
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one God and Father of all, who is above all and through all and
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in all.
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Good Lord.
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Amen.
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You know what excites me about this?
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These folks.
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You know how many doctrines they had written out by this point?
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Everybody hold up a big zero.
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They had no doctrines figured out yet that they had.
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Like, there was no scriptures yet.
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Somebody wrote this down like they were writing this down live.
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They are.
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They have.
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They're filled with the Spirit.
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They're navigating this hard life.
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I'm not trashing doctrines.
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They're good guides, good structure to guide us in our.
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In a rich faith.
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But look at what he's able to do with the spirit.
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The treasure filling his jar, and he just wants to pour it out.
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This is it right here.
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But a few special people are giving grace to the measure of Christ's
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gift.
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A few extraordinary preachers get an extraordinary amount of grace.
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What's that second word?
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But do you think he's lying?
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Think he's like, it's a good idea.
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I'm gonna say something that's gonna sell books.
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I'm gonna get this letter published.
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I'm gonna make people feel good.
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No, I know he believed it because he lived for it and he ultimately
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died for it.
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He truly believed that every single person has a flickering flame
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like a pilot light.
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He just wanted to fan that and ignite it, not for his sake, but
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for the sake of God's kingdom and the restoration of the world.
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Every single person in here, all of you, that's your destiny.
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Sorry, I just thought of Forrest Gump again.
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What's my destiny, Mama?
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I don't know.
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But I know that.
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That.
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That it's.
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It's to be ignited.
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We're gonna have to skip these because I need a whole sermon on
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chat on verses 8, 9, and 10.
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Cosmic stuff.
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Go read it in your own time if you want to talk about it.
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Basically, Paul's like, hey, Jesus is really awesome and he's
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gone everywhere to make a place for us and give his gifts to
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us.
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Cosmic stuff.
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We're gonna get here.
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That's where we're ending.
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It's going to be practical and I hope energizing at the end.
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Okay, we're almost already there.
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I am moving at warp speed today.
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This is fabulous.
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So that all this stuff I want to point to the so that.
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Look at this.
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He's saying like, hey, I'm calling you.
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All this stuff in verse one through six.
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I'm begging you to step into your calling and live in it with
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these kind of spiritual characteristics in unity that the
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Holy Spirit can provide like nothing else because we are all one
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in this thing.
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He's calling them to this and he's saying, hey, each of you has
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something, wake up to it.
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You're one of these things.
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Apostle, prophet, evangelist, pastor, or shepherd and teacher.
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I'm going to teach you something we talked about before.
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A pest.
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Everyone say a pest today or this week at work.
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You'd be like, hey, can I tell you about a pest?
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They'll think you're weird and they'll be excited.
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Here's the so that all this so that to equip the saints for.
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For the work of ministry Are only a few people saints.
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Not in this letter.
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Guess what?
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Sorry, I have to tell you something.
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You might feel attacked in a minute.
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Every single one of last, every single in the room is just
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a boring, ordinary, good old fashioned sinner.
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Some of you are triggered right now because maybe you heard
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that language in the church.
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All I mean by that, it's nothing shocking.
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We're pretty good at selfishness, ego, false self.
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Am I attacking you here?
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Did anybody have a perfectly 100% no sin day yesterday?
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Everybody had.
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We were at the baseball field together.
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He can bear witness.
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It wasn't good for me.
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It was a bad day.
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We were up nine to 11 going in the fourth inning and we gave up
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10 runs in the last inning and lost.
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How did I do?
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Not well, okay, I don't think anybody was 100% yesterday.
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And yet this is the beauty.
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Do you think that stops Jesus whatsoever from pouring out his extravagant
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treasures for you?
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Was he like, all right, the human goodness meter has crossed
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over 50%.
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I will now go down and give them my treasures.
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No, Paul says it.
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This thing is still true.
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Don't let the bad church and bad Christianity, which hijacked
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the beauties of Jesus.
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Don't let them steal this beautiful one while we were yet sinners.
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Jesus said, God, I love them, God, they're my people, and I want
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to go be with them.
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And I want to go pour out my blood to defeat the forces of death,
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evil and darkness, to make a new way while we were yet sinners.
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Don't let the bad church that hijack Christianity steal that beautiful
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truth from you.
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It's still true.
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He did all this to equip the saints, you sinners and saints, to
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build you up for the work of ministry.
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Everybody's in ministry tomorrow.
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Melissa will be in ministry at Custer Baker, Ashley at Arrow Earth,
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or Heather at Franklin, Amanda at the Johnson County Housing Coalition,
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the director of residential programming, davita over at juvenile
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probation.
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Sorry, I'll keep.
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I could keep going.
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All of you.
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You're going to be in ministry somewhere, and he's saying these
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things to you to build you up.
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He wants to build you up in your ministry, wherever you live,
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work, learn and play until all of us come to the unity of faith
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in the knowledge of the Son of God.
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To maturity.
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Guess what?
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That word is right there.
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To maturity.
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It's the word that inspired this series.
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Let's learn some Greek today.
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What do you say?
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Woo.
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It's a word.
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The word is teleos.
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It's the word that says, like you're moving on to completion.
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You ain't there yet, but you're going to be.
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That's the goal of discipleship, is moving on to completion,
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to restoration.
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Jesus comes to help you move back to restoration and completion
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to the measure of the full stature of Christ.
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In other words, Jeremy, he wants you to be all of completely,
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Jeremy.
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The fullness of you and also the fullness of Christ.
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So you grow up into you, you, but also into Jesus.
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We must no longer be children, tossed to and fro and blown about
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by every wind of doctrine, by people's trickery, by their craftiness
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and deceitful scheming.
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Lots of big words there from Paul, but speaking the truth in love.
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We must grow up in every way into Him.
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Who is the head into Christ?
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You.
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You know who's at the top of the ladder?
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No, there is no ladder.
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The head is Christ.
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But what did he do?
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Philippians 2.
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Paul says, Be of the mind of Christ, who humbled himself, though
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he shared in divinity, did not consider it something to be exploited,
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but humbled himself to the point of death, even death on a cross,
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so that at the sound of his name, every knee will bow and tongue
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confess that he is Lord.
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Even the head of the church humbled himself to build you up.
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So Don't.
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Don't start doing a ladder.
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Do what he did.
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From whom?
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The whole body.
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There's that body again, joined and knit together by every
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ligament with which it is equipped.
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As each part is working properly, promotes the body's growth
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in building itself up.
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In love, everything is ultimately to shower this earth,
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to restore this earth in the rich love of the Lord, of which you
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are a recipient and called to share.
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All right, I'm going to stop.
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And then we get to the practical session.
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It's 1022.
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Bang.
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What's this making you think, feel, wonder.
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If you say nothing.
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I just keep talking.
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All right, you just want me to keep talk.
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Go ahead, Ralph.
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There we go.
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Thank you, Ralph.
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Yes.
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There's the biblical spiritual perspective.
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Even if we didn't have that, it seems to me that it's a whole
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lot more fun and less stressful that instead of trying
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to cut the ladder out for somebody else and also be worried
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about somebody cutting the ladder out underneath you, it's a
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whole lot more fun to try and build other people up.
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Absolutely.
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I love that point.
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Ralph says, like, even if you didn't have the biblical and spiritual
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side of this, it's still better to do.
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It's more fun.
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I've said to people before, I believe if you practice the teachings
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of Jesus without believing in him yet, which makes it hard, believing
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in him makes it more possible to do the teachings because you need
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the grace and the Spirit to do so.
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But if you practice his teachings, you'd be like, man, I
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have to admit, I'm freer.
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I'm more peaceful.
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I'm happier.
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What else are you thinking?
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Feeling about this.
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Go ahead, PT.
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There are days when you don't feel connected to God.
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There are days when you don't feel the Spirit.
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One of the important reasons is to be a part of the body is because
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from everybody else, you know, it's still very.
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Though your is not spark very well.
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You need that community to be with.
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Absolutely.
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Some days you don't feel it.
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Sometimes like you.
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You want to feel the fire, but you don't.
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And that all the more reason why he's calling these people into
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community and into unity of the Spirit.
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He says in Corinthians, like, sometimes there are weaker parts
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that need the stronger parts and vice versa.
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Anybody else.
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Recently, But I feel like we've seen a situation where someone.
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Hierarchical.
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Thank you.
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Ladder was like shaking our ladder to try and make sure that
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in our lives we weren't like in any way accelerating.
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And people that, like, love us that we have unity and community
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with that would, like, at the bottom, catch us.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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So there's an experience of, like, where someone tried to kind
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of maybe at the top, kind of shake you off because, like, they
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want the top by themselves.
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Maybe out of insecurity, ego wounding, whatever.
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But it was the community that you had around you at the bottom
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that lifted you up, Melissa.
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Yes.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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We get scripted very early on in big fancy word here, meritocracy,
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like, you are what you are based on what you can earn.
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You are what you are based on your ability to secure a promotion
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and get to the next level.
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When I reflect back on the fact that in elementary school, there
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are a group of kids, while other kids watched, who went away
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to a gifted and talented group.
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The other kids knew.
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Those are the gifted and talented people.
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That makes, like, my soul hurt, man.
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It's.
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It's very early on.
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Yeah.
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What else?
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Anybody else?
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Debbie, Go ahead.
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Yeah.
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Separating your worth from your accomplishments.
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That's what I'm talking about.
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Exploding the ladder, Setting the ladder on fire if it's wooden.
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And that's the whole gospel of the narrative.
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The narrative of the gospel is that you are like what you are from
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God right now.
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You can't increase that or diminish it.
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You can only realize it.
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You can only wake up to it.
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Jesus comes to wake you up.
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All right, we better move along.
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You guys are causing us to get back behind.
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Yeah.
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All right, so what do you do with this?
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I had a few slip points on that.
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I'm going to skip those and just go to one.
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Okay.
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That faith is a series of yeses and no's.
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Like PT said, some days we.
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We're like, no, not doing it today.
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Yesterday, the Lord was like, ross, stop thinking about baseball
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and come and pray for a little while.
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I didn't do it.
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I have a sickness.
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I do.
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I'm competitive.
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It's a problem.
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The Lord knows it still loves me.
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Today was the opportunity to say the next yes, to be here with
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you, to accept the grace that God so desperately wants to give
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me, to accept the gift of Jesus that is here for me always
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and to grow in my faith.
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Like, just say the next yes.
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Which means that there's something else we probably have to
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say no to.
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Good old fashioned churchy word repent is simply saying no to
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one thing so you can turn and say yes to something else.
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How many people in the room struggle to say no?
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Come on.
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That's going to play up here in a minute.
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All right, here we go.
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Let's end with some fun.
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I hope this energizes you.
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And then Emily's going to tell us the Enneagram test that we recommend,
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Right?
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Okay.
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Thanks, Emily.
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All right, each one of you is an apostle, prophet, evangelist,
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shepherd, teacher.
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You have a lead in one of those two areas, maybe a couple.
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I don't want to overplay this, but this is the original personality
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test.
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So let's see what you think you are.
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Okay, you ready?
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Let's have some fun with this.
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All right, let's start with the apostle.
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That font is too small.
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Who did that?
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I'll read it, though.
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So the apostle, that's a word that means the sent one.
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These people tend to be mission driven people, like, almost
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obsessive about mission stuff.
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They're entrepreneur types, visionary types.
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They feel sent to people.
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They get discouraged and frustrated when the organization
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is off mission.
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They start new things to reach new people or quote, unquote, lost
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people.
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They feel very driven to carry on the mission, to lead with the
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values of the mission.
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They.
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They appreciate most, perhaps the stories where Jesus places himself
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along people who are on the outside looking in.
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So Emily makes jokes.
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Sometimes we're fun with each other.
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I sometimes make fun of her because she's an enneagram one.
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And I will say, Emily, just enneagram1me.
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But she will poke fun at me because guess which one of these
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I am.
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That one.
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Yeah.
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What's that?
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Yeah, I know.
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I'm mixing tests.
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Sorry.
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Sorry.
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Yeah, sorry.
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I. I'm.
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Follow the structure.
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See, she just enneagram won me.
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See, it's good.
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That's good, Emily.
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Good job, prophet.
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Lots of people these days think of themselves as prophets.
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They get on the Facebooks.
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That don't make you a prophet.
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A lot of people.
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Prophets have one thing that most of the prophets in our time
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lack.
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Humility.
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Their witness comes from a humble posture towards God and a
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desire for a heart to be aligned with God.
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Apostles are out.
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Prophets are up people who feel compelled to call out wrongs,
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especially wrongs that hurt neighbors.
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They get bothered, even angry, when the church or people aren't
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taking care of the downtrodden.
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They say and do concrete things to advocate for justice.
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They humbly pursue the heart of the matter, especially God's heart,
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and call people back to God's heart.
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They appreciate perhaps most the stories where Jesus confronts
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and corrupt leaders or crooked systems that harm people.
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So, like, they're justice driven investigative journalists,
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protesters.
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It doesn't mean that they're out there with a sign necessarily.
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Their protest Might be they just go have a conversation with
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their boss.
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That's hard.
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Okay, next.
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Are you good so far?
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Everybody with me?
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Still, isn't the sun through the stained glass awesome?
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The evangelist.
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Joanna's an evangelist.
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These are gatherers, sharers, inviters, relators.
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Joanna will host a 40th birthday party for, like, 50th birthday.
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If you want a party host, you don't have to ask her.
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She's already thinking of it.
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Because she's planning it.
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She's planning it while you're not even thinking about it.
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They're people, Right, Joanna?
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Yes.
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People who build connections easily and invite people authentically.
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They have an earnest desire to bring good experience and news to
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people.
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They don't treat people as means to an end.
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Again, there's a lot of people who thought of themselves as evangelists
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on the street corner saying, repent, or you're going to hell when
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you die today.
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Those aren't evangelists.
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Those are idiots.
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Who are desperately loved by God.
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Okay, that's not evangelism.
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That there's.
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That has nothing to do with evangelism.
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Evangelism starts with relationship, connection and a love
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for the good things of God and the good news of Jesus.
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So they don't treat people as means to an end, but they genuinely,
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deeply love people.
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And they love Jesus, man.
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They love God in the story of Jesus, they cherish it deeply.
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They hold it sacredly as a gift.
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They appreciate perhaps most the story where Jesus shares good
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news with people that really needed to hear it.
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Are we still good?
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Are you with me?
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It's 10:34.
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We're almost done.
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Okay.
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The shepherds.
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I know a shepherd.
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I know a few shepherds in the room.
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These are caregivers, healers, listeners, comforters.
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They're people who carry compassion in their bones and extend
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it to others.
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They naturally come alongside others to bring them comfort.
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They don't see people's ailments as inconvenience.
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They love God and God's people with an empathetic heart.
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They appreciate most, perhaps, the stories where Jesus comforts
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and heals.
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I've told what I am.
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I'll tell you what I'm not.
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I am not naturally that one.
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I do it out of skill and out of mission.
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When I took the strengthsfinders test.
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Sorry, another mix here.
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You might be shocked to know this.
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Don't hold it against me, all right?
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Empathy was, like, at the bottom.
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And some of you are like, what?
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I met you, Ross.
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You don't seem to be a jerk.
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I mean, maybe you Do.
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I don't know.
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I do it because I know it's the right thing to do and I believe
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in it.
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But am I naturally gifted at it?
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Not so much.
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The teachers.
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My top two are apostle and teacher.
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Every time I've taken it, there's an assessment you can take.
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These are the sages, the communicators.
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They're the students, too.
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They're people who cherish the mysteries of God and want to share
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them.
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They enjoy searching the scriptures and world for God's deep
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wisdom.
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They love lighting people's path with knowledge of God.
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They appreciate most the teachings of Jesus.
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All right.
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Apostle, prophet, evangelist, shepherd.
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Teacher.
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Here's your homework.
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I just got a bad look like you can't give people homework at home
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practices.
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Yep, yep.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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I will.
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I will send these out to you.
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Or you can take pictures like davita did.
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Smart.
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Ask three to five people who know you well this week which one
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they think you are.
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You can ask me.
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I don't care If I get 60 texts this week.
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Now, some people know it might take a while before I get back.
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Sometimes you might three days later be like, ross, hi.
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I'm not good at texts.
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I get a lot of them.
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So keep.
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Please do keep that in mind.
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See.
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My family.
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Hey, if you think you got it bad, ask my family.
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It's not good.
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Not good.
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Sorry.
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I am not that one.
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Okay.
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Ask three to five people in your life.
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Which one do you think I am?
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I will put them out.
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How about we put them on the church center homepage and we'll
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put them out on social media?
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Okay.
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If you need.
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If you're like, I don't do either of those things, then just
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call me or something.
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No, don't do that.
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That'll be too many calls.
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Figure something out.
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Email me.
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Email me.
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Yeah, there you go.
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That's number one, homework.
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Number two, homework.
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What is the Enneagram that we recommend, Emily?
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Well, there's a free one at Truity.
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There's a site called truity.com.
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So I think it's T, R, U, I, T, Y, something like that.
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They have actually a bunch of different assessments, but they're
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all.
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You can do them all free.
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And they'll give you, like, an initial, just base assessment.
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So, like, there's the Enneagram, there's a disc profile.
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There's.
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There's a couple others on there.
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But the Enneagram is.
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It's fun.
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And then there's something called the Enneagram Institute that
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actually will give a little more Information, So you can do it
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that way, too.
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So you take the test over here where it's free, and you can find
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more information over here where it's also free.
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I like free.
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So there you go.
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Thank you, Emily.
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Sure.
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We'll put that on the socials, too.
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Emily and I are.
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I'm going to give Emily and I some props for a minute.
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So you're just going to have to endure this.
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Emily and I work really well together.
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Our personalities are not the same.
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Emily's a one on the Enneagram.
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I'm a three.
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I'm an apostle.
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She's a teacher.
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But we work extremely well together.
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Extremely well.
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Because we pursue unity all the time.
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If we have, like, a conversation, we need to talk, we
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keep coming back to unity.
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That's church, too.
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That's church.
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We come back.
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If someone hurts your feelings, you say, hey, that hurt
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my feelings.
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If you saw it differently, it's probably because you had a personality
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clash.
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Right.
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Maybe you saw it from the lens of an apostle.
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They saw it from the lens of a shepherd.
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Right.
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Or an Enneagram one.
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Or an Enneagram three.
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So that's your homework.
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Ask three to five people which one they think you are.
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You can say yourself, too.
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Take the Enneagram, send them to us.
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We're going to put it into your church center profile so we
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can fit you into a nice little box.
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No, so that, like, when we have things to do.
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Well, no, like, oh, Ralph Hill.
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That's not a good ask of Ralph, because Ralph is.
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This Ralph would be better perhaps, at this.
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So does that make sense?
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All right, let's.
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Let's have some fun.
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How many people in the room would say, like, I think I might.
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My leading one might be apostle.
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We have, like, three of those.
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I'm going to tell you, that's a latent gift in the church.
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It's one that we've not fanned the flame of.
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Well, so we had like two or three of those.
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Mission driven.
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They get up.
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They're like, get nervous when we're not on mission.
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How many prophets in the room?
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Don't be shy.
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We're.
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Everybody's something.
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They're all beautiful.
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How many prophets in the room?
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Yeah, come on, raise your hand.
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Heather, good Lord.
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Didn't you literally teach journalism somewhere?
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Yeah, come on.
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How many evangelists in the room?
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Raise your hand?
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Joanna.
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Yeah, dude.
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Jason, you are an evangelist.
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Dude, straight up.
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You are an evangelist.
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How many shepherds in the room?
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See this?
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Watch.
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Look around the room.
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The church has fanned the flame of that one, not the apostle
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one so much.
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Alan Hirsch says the church needs to wait for it.
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I need to make sure I says correctly.
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Ape out.
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We need to fan the flame more of apostle, prophet, evangelist.
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What's the most prominent gift in United Methodist Church that gets
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we raise up shepherds and teachers.
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We need to fan the flame of the people who are not those things.
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All right, how many people?
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Uh huh.
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Yep.
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How many people are teachers?
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Some of you.
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I feel like I know what you are, but all right, send them to
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us this week and we'll have some fun with this.
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The good news is everyone has a place.
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Let's pray.
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Lord, thank you that that's true.
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Help us to experience that truth and to grow in it.
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Guide us so that we find our place with you and that we take our
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place in your inheritance and that we share the riches that you
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so desperately want to give to the world with others.
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In Jesus name.
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Amen.
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