Sermon
Wisdom/Light vs Foolishness/Darkness | Ephesians 5:11-21 | 3/1/26
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All right. Well, good morning everyone.
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Uh we are back together going continuing
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our study through Paul's letter to the
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Ephesians. And we're getting to a really
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interesting part of the book where
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Paul's transitioned out of his profound
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statements about what God has done in
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Christ into what this means for our
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daily lives. And he's been unpacking the
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moral implications of this gospel using
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a variety of metaphors. uh temple, tree,
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growth, body. He's talked about light
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and dark. Today, he's going to talk
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about wise and wisdom and folly.
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And a big part of what we're going to
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touch on this morning is the role of the
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Holy Spirit in all of this. How does God
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through the giving of the Holy Spirit
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help us to walk in light, to walk in
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wisdom, to walk in love, to love the
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truth, and speak the truth in love? Um,
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if you're new to the Christian faith,
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one of the really important things to
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understand is that when we put our faith
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in Jesus, when we decide to follow him
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and strive to imitate his example, one
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of the first and most powerful things
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that God does is give us himself. He
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puts his spirit inside of us to help us
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become more like Jesus. But a really
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important question to ask when you hear
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a sentence like that
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and any a very important question to ask
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whenever someone says something like
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that about God is what does it mean for
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him to help us?
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What does that mean?
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Does it mean he's going to give us what
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we ask for or make our lives easier or
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take away the things that frustrate us?
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To be sure, that's usually what we want.
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Often when we bow our knees to pray,
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that's kind of on the forefront of what
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we're thinking. These things that we
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wish were different.
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But we've talked many times over this
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last year about how not all pain is bad.
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About how struggling and strife in the
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Christian life often yields strength and
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holiness and sanctification.
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Waiting can purify us. Hardship makes us
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holy. So when I say that God by his
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spirit is going to help you,
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what should you expect that help to look
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like?
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As is often the case, someone has
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already said all of this way better than
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I can. So listen to this short reading
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from CS Lewis in his classic book, Mere
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Christianity. Quote,
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I find a good many people have been
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bothered by our Lord's words, "Be ye
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perfect."
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You might have heard that in your Bible
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as be perfect as your heavenly father is
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perfect. Be ye perfect. Some people seem
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to think that this means unless you are
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perfect, I will not help you. And as we
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cannot be perfect, then if he meant
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that, our position is hopeless. But I do
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not think he did mean that. I think he
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meant the only help I will give is help
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to become perfect. You may want
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something less, but I will give you
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nothing less.
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He goes on, "When I was a child, I often
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had a toothache and I knew that if I
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went to my mother, she would give me
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something that would deaden the pain for
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the night and let me get to sleep. But I
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often did not go to my mother, at least
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not till the pain became very bad." And
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the reason I did not go was this. I did
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not doubt she would give me the aspirin,
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but I knew she would also do something
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else. I knew she would take me to the
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dentist the next morning.
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I could not get what I wanted out of her
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without getting something more, which I
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did not want. I wanted immediate relief
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from the pain. But I could not get it
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without having my teeth set permanently
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right. And I knew those dentists. I knew
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they started fiddling about with all
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sorts of other teeth which had not yet
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begun to ache. They wouldn't let
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sleeping dogs lie. If you gave them an
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inch, they took a mile.
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Now, if I put it that way, our Lord is
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like the dentists. If you give him an
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inch, he'll take the mile. He actually
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says the L, but uh that's not a unit of
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measurement we use in our side of the
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English speaking world. So, it's the
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mile.
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Dozens of people go to him to be cured
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of some particular sin which they are
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ashamed of, masturbation, physical
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cowardice, or something that's obviously
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spoiling their daily daily life like a
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bad temper or drunkenness. Well, he will
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cure it. All right, but he will not stop
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there.
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that may be all you asked for, but if
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once you call him in, he will give you
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the full treatment." End quote.
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That's pretty well said. Um Paul in this
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morning's text is going to explain that
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a little more,
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what the full treatment looks like in
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the kingdom of God. And so, we're going
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to pick up where we left off. Um but for
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today, the main point is this. Here's
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what it means to walk in light in the
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kingdom of God. Main point,
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light exposes darkness.
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Bringing in things into the light
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exposes darkness. So, embrace exposure,
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mortify sin, and be filled with God.
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Light exposes darkness. So, embrace
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exposure, mortify sin, and be filled
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with God. Please open your Bibles to
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Ephesians chapter 5. And let's take a
Ephesians 5 chapter mention
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minute to just remind ourselves where we
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are in the flow of the argument of this
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letter.
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As I said a moment ago, the first half
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of the book was laying out this glorious
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gospel that God has achieved in the
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death and resurrection of Christ. And he
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has now transitioned in the beginning of
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chapter 4 to the implications of it for
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our lives.
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He's told us that instead of God
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condemning us as we deserve, God has
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chosen to make us his children. He's
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adopted us into his family. However, to
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belong to God, to become a child and a
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member of his family requires embracing
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the family culture.
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It requires embracing the values of his
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family and the example of his son.
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His example, the example of Jesus,
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established the tone for how we are to
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conduct ourselves, cultivating unity,
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speaking the truth in love, striving to
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be more like him. We've been called to
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depart from our old ways and to bring
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everything we do under the rubric of
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sacrificial self-giving love and truth.
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And to achieve this, we must walk in
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light embracing embracing this identity,
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but then making a clean break from any
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other way of life that flourishes in the
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darkness. So that being said, we'll pick
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up. We're sort of mid-argument in verse
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11.
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Chapter 5 11. Hear the words of the
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Lord.
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take no part in the unfruitful works of
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darkness, but instead expose them. For
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it is shameful even to speak of the
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things that they do in secret. But when
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anything is exposed by the light, it
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becomes visible. For anything that
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becomes visible is light. Therefore, it
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says, "Awake, O sleeper, and arise from
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the dead, and Christ will shine on you.
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Look carefully then, how you walk, not
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as unwise, but as wise, making the best
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use of the time because the days are
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evil. Therefore, do not be foolish, but
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understand what the will of the Lord is.
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And do not get drunk with wine, for that
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is debauchery, but be filled with the
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spirit, addressing one another in psalms
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and hymns and spiritual songs, singing
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and making melody to the Lord with your
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heart, giving thanks always and for
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everything to God the Father in the name
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of our Lord Jesus Christ, submitting to
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one another out of reverence for Christ.
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This is God's word. Lord, open our eyes
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to see light that we might depart from
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the darkness forever. Amen.
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All right. So, the way we're going to
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work through this text is just we're
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going to go sentence by sentence. We're
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going to break down what I've laid out
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as the main point, which I think is a
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summary of what this basically teaches.
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We're going to talk about how light
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exposes darkness. We're going to talk
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about what it means to embrace exposure.
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We're going to talk about mortifying
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sin. and we're going to talk about being
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filled with God. So, let's begin by
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looking at verses 11 and 12.
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It's really important to look at these
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two verses together and consider what it
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is that they're talking about. What is
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he talking about before we ask the
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question of how does it apply? Paul
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says, "Take no part in unfruitful works
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of darkness." Which of course is a
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contrast from last week's text in verse
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8, which describes the fruit of light of
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a life lived walking as children of the
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light.
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So we had the fruitbearing walk of light
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that we're exhorted to walk in. And here
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we have the fruitless works of darkness
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that we are forbidden from participating
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in. And so it's worth asking the
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question, what exactly are those? What
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are the unfruitful darkness works?
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Well, at minimum, if it's functioning
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like a contrast, as I said, it's
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somewhere in the reverse of goodness,
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righteousness, and truth.
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badness, sinfulness, and deception
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in verse 9.
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Second, the fact that these things are
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described as darkness probably implies
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they are morally evil.
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Probably worse, they are things so
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appalling that you keep them private
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from your family and friends.
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In verse 12, these are things that are
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shameful to even talk about. But I think
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the real key is at the end of verse 12
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when it says they are things that they
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do in secret.
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they do in secret.
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They do probably refers back to the sons
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of disobedience in verse six. And the
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fact that even they, the sons of a
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disobedience in verse six, do them in
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secret
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means, listen to me,
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everybody knows it's wrong.
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Not even everyone.
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Everyone agrees it's wrong.
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You don't keep stuff a secret if you
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think it's okay.
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These are not morally questionable
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things that some of the neighbors
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thought was fine and others the
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neighbors thought were wicked. These are
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things that everyone thought was dark
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and unfruitful.
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Take no part, Paul says, in these kinds
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of activities. [snorts]
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It's shameful, he says, to even speak of
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them.
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I don't think when he when he says it's
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shameful to even speak of them, I don't
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think he's saying it's shameful to talk
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about them publicly or to address them
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specifically, I think he's talking more
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about like going into details and
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talking about it like it's a trit thing
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or joking about it.
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In the same way that love should shape
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speech,
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truth and goodness should determine the
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degree of detail we go into when we
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confess our sins.
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It is shameful to speak, I would say,
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casual casually or gratuitously about
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dark things that we do in secret.
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But instead, he says at the end of verse
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11, we should expose them. We should
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bring them into the light. We should
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make them known. So it can't when he
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says it's shful to speak of them, both
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those things like you can't take a hyper
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literal don't talk about them, but bring
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them out into the light. It's like how
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do you do that? Uh, don't talk about
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them means don't be gratuitous about
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them, but bring them out into the light
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where they can be seen. Confess them is
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probably how you should understand that
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walking in darkness is bad.
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Participating in the works of darkness
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is bad. But there is something worse
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than participating in the unfruitful
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works of darkness. And that is having
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done it, keeping it a secret from the
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people who want to help you.
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hiding in the dark. That is worse than
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the sin itself.
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Let me say this again so it sinks in.
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It's bad to participate in the works of
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darkness. It's bad to wander out into
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the dark. But if you come back, there is
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help and hope and forgiveness and
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healing. The only thing worse than going
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out into the dark is staying there.
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If you stay there, you will get lost.
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When you get lost, you lose the ability
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to come back.
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Sometimes people wonder who Paul is
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talking to here and they introduce
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these, I would say, unhelpful
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distinctions that Paul doesn't have in
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mind. They go, "Well, is he talking to
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believers or unbelievers?" He's talking
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to people who are tempted to participate
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in works of darkness. That's who he's
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talking to.
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Don't create new distinctions that he
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doesn't introduce.
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Are you participating in works of
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darkness and are you covering them up?
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Yes or no? That's his question. And if
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the answer is yes, I am doing that and I
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have covered it up. You are commanded by
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the living God to expose those things.
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to bring it out into the light, to
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confess to someone the truth, to come up
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out of the shame, out of the guilt, out
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of that tomb, that dungeon, that grave,
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and come out into the holy light of God
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in Christ.
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If you are walking in darkness this
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morning, brother, sister, friend, if you
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are living living in habitual
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unrepentant sin,
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today is the day to repent.
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Now is the time to repent. Tomorrow is
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not promised. An hour from now is not
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promised. I don't know when you're going
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to meet the Lord,
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but this is his word to you. Expose it.
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Bring it into the light. Confess it to a
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brother, to a sister, someone who is
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going to love you and preach the gospel
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to you.
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Rip off the tarp that's hiding the sin.
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The storm is coming to blow it all away.
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Anyway,
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Paul says, "Take no part in the
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unfruitful works of darkness.
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There has never been any good fruit from
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hating someone in your heart. There has
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never been any good fruit that has come
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from despising your neighbor, from
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drunkenness, from sexual immorality,
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from obscene talk, from participation in
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greed and the exploitation of others.
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There has never been any good fruit
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that's grown up from hidden lusts or
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gossip or hypocrisy or envy or idolatry.
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There's never been good fruit that has
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sprung up from fixing your hope and your
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faith on things far lower than God.
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By the way, that's not a matter of my
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opinion.
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That is objectively true.
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Take no part in these things, but if you
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see them, expose them. bring them to the
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light. Which brings me to the next
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verse. Embrace exposure.
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Embrace being exposed.
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You know, this verse was initially kind
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of confusing. It says, "When anything is
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exposed by the light, it becomes
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visible. For anything visible is light.
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If anything's exposed by light, it
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becomes visible. And then the visible
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thing becomes light."
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I feel like if you overpress the
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metaphor, you'll twist yourself into a
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pretzel like I did. Um, you don't want
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to overly literalize Paul's metaphor.
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Paul's metaphor is that the light helps
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us to see. Light make things makes
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things visible and things kept in
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darkness can't be seen.
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But when they've been out been brought
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out into the light, it becomes visible
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by the light. And eventually that thing
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exposed by the light can become part of
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the light. Also,
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think about what happened to me. I mean,
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I feel like I talk about it kind of a
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lot, but it's worth thinking about. I
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was in the darkness until God through
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Christ brought his light into my life
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and he exposed my sins for what they
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were. There was a dark and distorting
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evil that was hurting me, twisting me,
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causing me to walk in all kinds of other
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terrible sins. And it turned out by
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going to God about that, I'm addicted to
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cocaine. Help me. By giving him an inch,
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he took the mile.
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When his light began to shine into my
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light, the first thing I thought was,
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I'm doing drugs and I need to stop. But
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when Christ came in, he revealed with
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greater clarity, I was not just doing
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drugs. I was stealing to pay for it. I
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was not just doing drugs. I was lying to
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people to cover it up. I wasn't just
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addicted to a drug. I was amping myself
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up to 10,000 feet to get these feelings
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to go away. And then I was drinking beer
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like a mad person to try to come down
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every single day.
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I was serving a different god named my
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flesh.
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And I was doing every evil thing I
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needed to to feed my false god and
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satisfy my false god.
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But then the light of Christ came into
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my life.
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That light did not create these sins. It
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exposed them. It revealed them to me.
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And I in turn was called to expose those
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sins to be others to to expose them to
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others to be honest with other people in
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my life about what was really going on.
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And look at what happened. I mean, I
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just like talk about it publicly all the
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time now. and no one gets mad at me or
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hates me for it.
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There was a time in my life where saying
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what I just said was the most horrifying
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thought I could possibly think of.
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Everyone knowing what I'm actually up
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to.
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What are you looking at right now as you
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hear this?
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You are looking at Ephesians 5, the
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light exposing and making visible and
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turning that thing made visible into
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light.
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A few years later, I started meeting
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with other people who were dealing with
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addiction as I've been now. And 18 years
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after the fact, what was made visible by
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the light is now part of the light. And
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I use everything that I have learned to
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help others.
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Paul has his own version of this kind of
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the New Testament. He talks about his
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own self-righteousness. He t he does it
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a couple places. He does it really
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clearly in Philippians 3. He talks
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about, you know, as far as everyone else
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was concerned, I was a Jew, the greatest
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Jew of all. I was number one in my rabbi
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class. I knew the law backwards and
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forwards. I was totally righteous. No
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one could find any guilt in me. I was
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unparalleled in my knowledge and outward
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compliance of the law. It just turns out
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though, it was all a cheap imitation.
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All of that performative work was
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inadequate. It turns out it was so
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inadequate I consider it to be something
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equivalent to garbage
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compared to actually knowing Christ
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and being forgiven and healed by him.
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Once he was in darkness and now he's
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brought into the light. He used to think
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he could earn his way into
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righteousness, but he was discovered you
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cannot be good enough. You can project
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an outward appearance for a long time,
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but you cannot keep it up forever. All
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of us sin. All of us sin. And it's going
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to leak out eventually, and you will be
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exposed for what you really are.
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Whatever value he derived from being
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thought of as a great person, as a
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righteous person, he began to count it
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as worthless in comparison to gaining
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Jesus.
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If you will humble yourself, you will
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receive glory from him.
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I'm saying it all like this because we
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tend to primarily think of our sin being
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exposed as a bad thing, as a scary
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thing.
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But for Paul
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and also for me,
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exposing my sin was a good thing.
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Getting out of that way of life, out of
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that darkness is a thing to be
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celebrated. It's a thing to praise God
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for.
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When our sin comes out into the light,
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we not only have a chance to heal from
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it, that very thing that we kept in the
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dark has a very real chance of being
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transformed into part of the light
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itself.
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Your confession of sin today becomes
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your testimony of the Lord's grace
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tomorrow.
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And your confession of the Lord's grace
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tomorrow can become your ability to
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serve others and lift them out of that
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same darkness.
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It's a rich and beautiful cycle.
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And this beautiful hymn in verse 14
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gives us one of the big reasons to do
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it.
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Paul says in verse 14, "Therefore," it
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says, "Awake, O sleeper, and arise from
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the dead, and Christ will shine on you."
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There is a long rich discussion about
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what that text is. Is Paul quoting an
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ancient hymn? Is this a baptism formula?
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Is this It's all so deliciously
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interesting, I don't have time to talk
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about any of it and actually cover this
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text. So, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I don't
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know who I'm apologizing to. Maybe I'm
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mad at myself and I don't get to talk
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about everything all the time, but it's
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all interesting and cool. It's probably
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a hymn based on Isaiah 26:19 and Isaiah
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60 verse1, but we're not going to talk
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about that. I just said
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what's more critical is what Paul is
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clearly implying here.
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You should bring your sins into the
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light because it's going to be like
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waking up from sleep.
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It's going to be like raising up out of
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a grave.
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And you will not be greeted by the
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things that you fear will greet you. You
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are going to be greeted by Christ
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himself, by the great physician himself
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who has come to give you the full
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treatment.
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The promise of this hymn of light
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[snorts] is that by coming out of your
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sins, you'll find Christ. In the waking,
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in the rising up out of the grave, you
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will not be greeted by the things you
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fear, but by Jesus.
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The great lie that the darkness tells. I
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I deleted this from my sermon, but now I
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feel compelled to say it. John chapter
John 3 chapter mention
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3, Jesus talks about being the light
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that's come into the world. And I'm
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going to miss I I wrote it down. I
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delete it. The exact quote, but Jesus
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says, "People don't come to the light
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because they love the darkness and they
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don't want to be exposed by the light.
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We hide and we cherish our sins. But
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then worse than that, we're afraid that
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something really horrible is going to
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happen if we just come out and tell
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everyone the truth.
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The lie is that the darkness is where
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you're safe.
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The lie is that the darkness is better.
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And of course,
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you've probably noticed that as the
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darkness tells you that, as it tells you
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it's better here, it torments you and it
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sickens you and it weakens you and it
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threatens you if you think about
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leaving.
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The darkness is a den of lies.
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Try to just
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I'm sure there are some of us in here
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who are thinking of a specific sin right
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now. So, let's just do a simple
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exercise. Try to come out of yourself
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for a second. Try to come out of that
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dark cave of darkness and look back in.
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There you are stuck inside.
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There is a person sitting inside the
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darkness who genuinely believes that
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they are safer, that it's safer to stay
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in the place where your soul is dying.
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While God through his son Jesus through
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his word to you this very morning is
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saying, "Come out into the light and be
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healed. Come out and meet Christ."
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Christ wants to heal you.
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In the light, there are no threats. In
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the light, there's no sickness, no
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poison, no fear. In the light, there is
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grace and truth and help and healing.
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In the light, there is clarity and the
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renewed ability to even understand what
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your actual problems are.
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In the light, there are people in this
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room who love you and want to help you.
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I thought for a long time, I'm addicted
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to drugs.
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But you know what it turned out to be?
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I am really, really, really, really,
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really sad that my dad died.
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And I don't have another way to cope
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with these horrific feelings I feel. And
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so the only thing I've ever learned to
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do when I'm feeling these things is to
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numb them with substances.
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To numb them.
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And it was actually very freeing to
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realize I just need better habits.
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I just I'm telling myself I'm this
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awful, you know, the devil's telling me
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you're the worst.
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And it's like actually you just need to
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probably go for a walk.
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You probably need to stop believing
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these false things that you tell
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yourself and listen instead to what the
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word of God is telling you.
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The only reason I was able to figure any
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of that out is because I exposed my sins
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to the light. And being exposed, they
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became visible. And what was made
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visible became part of the light.
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Awake, O sleeper.
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Awake,
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rise,
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and Christ will shine on you.
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It reminds me of the song. I think we're
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going to sing it at the end here. Jesus
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Christ,
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shine into our night. Drive the dark
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away
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until your glory fills our eyes.
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He wants to answer that prayer in your
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life.
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Now, let's say you've done this. You
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finally brought out your sins. You've
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confessed your need for help. What next?
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Part three,
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we have to mortify our sin.
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Paul says here, "Next, look carefully
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then.
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Look carefully."
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That's the language of vigilance. Pay
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very careful attention to yourself. Keep
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careful watch over yourself in the
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teaching. Keep a watch over your heart.
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For from it, from it flows the wellsp
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springs of life. Proverbs 4.
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Nowhere in any part of the New Testament
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will you ever encounter a casual
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Christianity.
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A Christianity that you're just sort of
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like, you know, we'll just kind of see
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how it goes.
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That doesn't exist in the Bible. Um, if
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that's how you try to do it, you'll
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fail. It's too hard. It requires too
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much.
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Paul's expectation is that if you're a
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follower of Jesus, you're going to pay
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careful attention to what you do and to
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what's happening in your heart. Your
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walk with Jesus isn't just going to be
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something that you feel out and hope
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nothing bad happens. If you love God,
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you're going to seek wisdom and fear
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sin. He assumes that you care more about
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your walk with God and the holiness of
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your heart than your finances
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and your career and your marriage and
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your hobbies.
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When he says walk carefully not as an
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unwise person but as a wise person, he
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is talking about what it is that you're
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going to focus on. What are you going to
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consider most important?
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What it says the beginning of the uh
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wisdom is the fear of the Lord. That's
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talking about what you think is most
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important.
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Think about that for a while.
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Walk carefully not as an unwise person
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but as a wise person.
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Be careful that you are focusing on the
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right things with the right intensity.
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Pay attention to how you are valuing
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things.
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All of us are focused on things we
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consider valuable. All of you spend your
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time and your money on things that
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you've deemed important.
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Not all of us have stopped and paid
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careful attention to what we're doing
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and asked ourselves, is this wise or is
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this unwise.
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How would you know if it's wise or
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unwise?
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How would the light of Christ cause you
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to live differently? Well, here's a
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couple of important things when it comes
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to learning to mortify your sin and walk
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in a way that pleases God. The first
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thing is where he starts. How are you
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thinking about time? Paul says, "The
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wise person makes the best use of the
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time because the days are evil."
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Some of your translations will say,
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"Redeem the time." That's what the word
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literally means in Greek. Buy back
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this time that you've in theory lost.
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Get it back because the days are evil.
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You live in a fallen world full of
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brokenness, sin, temptation, and
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distractions. And there are constantly
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interruptions and disturbances that are
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ups there to upset your ability to focus
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on pleasing God. And so Paul exhorts you
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to try and pull as much of your life
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away from the evil of these days as you
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possibly can.
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How can you try and use your time for
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good?
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The easiest place to start with that
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question is with your time off. How do I
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use my time off for good?
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And of course, resting is an important
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value to God. We ought to rest, but we
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also ought to think, how can I love my
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neighbor with my time, with my free
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time?
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And as you move down from your te free
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time, you you arrive at like, you know,
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what you do for work or school or or at
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home or whatever. How do I use that time
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to glorify Christ?
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You think about it. Are you using time
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for good or for evil?
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Second, whose will are you trying to
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live out? Paul says, ' Don't be foolish,
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but understand what the will of the Lord
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is.
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So, just to say this really bluntly,
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like
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don't be foolish, be wise.
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You and I
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naturally incline towards the flesh,
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towards being selfish and self- serving.
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All of us naturally incline that way.
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There's nobody who's ever lived who
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doesn't naturally incline what's best
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for me. [laughter]
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And it actually takes a good deal of
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force and energy. It takes a good deal
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of training and teaching and repeating
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and practicing to get into the habit of
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what's best for my neighbor. How can I
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serve and love the people around me and
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not just myself?
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When he says, "Don't be foolish," I
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think a very real application can be
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made to wanting to do my own will
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contrary God's will.
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What I naturally incline towards is
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folly.
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What God naturally inclines to uh toward
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is purity, truth, justice, goodness,
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holiness, and love.
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Whose will are you trying to live out?
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Third,
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and I guess this is on my mind because
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of what we said earlier, but what are
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you using to escape?
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Paul asks in says in verse 18, "Do not
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get drunk with wine." For that is
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debauchery.
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The word for debauchery refers to being
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out of control.
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It's something like you hate the way
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life makes you feel and so you
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intoxicate yourself to try to feel free
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of those feelings.
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And to be sure in Paul's day, one of the
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primary ways people did that was with
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wine, was drinking too much and getting
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drunk.
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And
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I think you all I think I've said this
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clearly a number of times, drinking
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alcohol is not inherently sinful.
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Getting drunk is inherently sinful. It's
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distorting our ability to love.
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But the truth is in our day, people can
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do this with alcohol. But you can also
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do this with drugs, with prescription
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medication, with sex, with vacations,
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with shopping, with gambling, with
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endless scrolling, with pornography,
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with binge watching.
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All these things that give us that
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short-term dopamine hit that make that
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feel good for a second but then dulls
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your conscience and weakens your ability
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to pray and reduces your ability to pay
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attention to scripture and distracts you
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from the people and relationships that
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might actually help you.
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Debauchery
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is a treatment for pain relief that is a
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treacherous lie.
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you're treating boredom, loneliness,
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[snorts]
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whatever are those negative feelings
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that you want to escape from. We all
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have, you know, there's the more
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socially acceptable like,
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you know, and again, this is not
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inherently sinful. This becomes
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inherently sinful when it's out of
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control, when it's debauched,
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when there's nothing deliberate or wise
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about it.
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Debauchery is treating cancer with
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candy.
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Debauchery is healing a cavity by taking
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an aspirin. It feels sort of like it
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sort of works for a minute.
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It gives you the illusion of healing
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while perpetuating or worsening the pro
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the problem. It promises relief, but it
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just deepens misery.
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What are you doing to escape?
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You don't want to go the other extreme
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with this either. It's not wrong to want
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to do things to relax. It's not wrong to
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want to relieve stress. Everybody has to
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do that. It's part of being healthy.
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It's part of the logic of the command
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Sabbath and rest.
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Everyone has a way of calming their mind
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and body down after a day of just taxing
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activities and interactions.
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But the point is, there are good ways to
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seek relief when you were down or
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stressed or sad or lonely or ashamed or
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whatever. And there are unhealthy ways
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to do it. There are debauched ways to do
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it.
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Don't get drunk with wine, for that is
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debauchery.
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But instead, he's going to say in a
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second, be filled with the spirit.
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Choose good stuff. [laughter] Choose
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stuff that's helpful that leads to life
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and blessing. Worship, pray,
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get some exercise, go for a walk, talk
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to somebody who loves you, read a book,
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play a game, listen to music, make
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something, fix something, serve someone.
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There's a million things you can do that
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are way better for you, and get you used
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all these great financial terms and now
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I don't return on investment. Is that
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one? Way higher payout. You guys h I'm
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terrible at this. You know what I mean?
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It's way better when you do that stuff.
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you get way more out of it.
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Don't try and escape bad feelings into
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harmful and sinful escapes. Go serve.
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It's more blessed, Jesus says, to give
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than it is to receive.
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If you want to do this, if you are
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thinking to yourself, all right, I want
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to do that, but I don't know how and I
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don't know who to who to ask, ask me.
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I'll help you. Ask Scott Jung. There's a
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lot of people in this church that are
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that would love to help you do that. And
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if you're nervous or embarrassed, I just
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told everyone I used to snort drugs with
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my nose.
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And look, they still love me. It's going
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to be okay. Come talk to me.
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Focus on doing things that please God,
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and you will find your mind and your
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heart satisfied and less tempted with
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the evil days, the evil world.
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Which brings us to the final point. be
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filled with God.
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Instead of getting drunk, instead of
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acting debauched, Paul says, "Be filled
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with the spirit." And the first thing I
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noticed looking at this in Greek is how
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it's all plural.
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This is something you do together.
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Um, Christianity is inherently a
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communal religion. It's predicated on
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fellowship, on sharing, on us doing
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things with one another and not just on
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our own.
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This exhortation takes on a corporate
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dimension of and he uses the example of
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making music together, talk to each
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other, using God's words, singing
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together, praying worship songs over
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each other, making melody in your hearts
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to the Lord. Do it from your heart. He
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says,
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and it's interesting. I spent some time
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thinking about this is I was like,
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should we be singing way more in
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service? You know, he's talking about
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what we're doing with our heart. I think
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the I think the music in some ways is
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almost like a metaphor for harmony. Uh
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do things
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together where you will find harmony in
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your shared love for Christ. Do things
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together where you will find unity in
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your shared worship and devotion to God.
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Not all of you can sing or play an
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instrument, but all of you can do that.
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strive to be in one accord with each
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other.
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We will never lack for reasons to be at
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odds with each other.
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There are there are always going to be
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reasons to find offense. That's just the
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nature of being human together. We will
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find reasons to be bothered by our
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neighbors. And this says, 'Focus on
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pursuing harmony with us, with your
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brothers and sisters. Pursue harmony
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with your neighbor. And he says, 'd do
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it through giving thanks together. Look
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for reasons to be grateful, to rejoice
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together.
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Gratitude is not just a habit of saying
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thank you. It's actually a Holy Spirit
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wrought disposition.
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I've wondered, I don't even know how I
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would study this, but have you ever
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wondered how we ended up with the
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cultural norm of saying thank you when
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someone gives us something? Not every
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culture does it. We do it. I wonder if
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it has Christian roots.
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Get in the habit of being thankful, of
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expressing your thanks.
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A grateful heart, John Owens says, is a
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sign of a spiritfilled soul. for the
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spirit always points us to the gifts of
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God and not ourselves." End quote.
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Finally, Paul says at the end there,
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submitting to one another out of
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reverence for Christ.
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The word to submit here is a word that
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refers to how we order ourselves in the
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various capacities in which we're called
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to live. In the church, you submit to
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elders. In the home, wives submit to
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father to husbands. Children submit to
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parents. Uh at work, we submit to our
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employers. Out in the world, we submit
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to the police. We submit to our
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government, to the king or whatever. All
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of us are called into different spheres
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of life in which we're called to submit.
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Men and women, boys and girls, old and
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young. All of us have areas where we are
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supposed to submit. And all of us, a lot
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of us will end up in areas where we have
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to to lead and exercise authority.
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The big idea is if you rever Christ in
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your heart and you are full of the Holy
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Spirit, you will do this in reverence to
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Christ.
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That word says reverence for Christ, but
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it's often translated as fear.
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In light of Christ's power and holiness,
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not in light of the effectiveness of the
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authorities. We submit.
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You don't submit because you think the
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person's doing a great job. You submit
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out of fear of Christ.
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So this is what it means to walk in
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light, to live a spiritfilled life. This
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is what it means to expose what's in
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darkness, to embrace and properly
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respond to that exposure, than to go
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about mortifying your sin and striving
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to be full of God. And we want to do
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this together in harmony with the
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church, full of gratitude and willingly
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submissive to our God-given authorities
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in Christ.
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Now, to the person who's heard all this,
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and we're almost done. I'm about to run
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land the plane here. To the person who
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hears all this and looks at their own
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life and sees sin in the darkness and
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recognizes that to bring it out into the
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light might create feelings of shame. It
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might create death to your ego. It might
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cause pain to someone you love. It might
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be uncomfortable or even painful for any
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number of reasons. If that's you,
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if you are thinking, I don't want to
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expose what I do in the darkness for the
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same reason CS Lewis didn't want to go
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to the dentist. It might be
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uncomfortable.
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What's the alternative
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to just stay in the dark?
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Come out into the light. Hear the word
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of God. Expose it. Confess it.
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Tell the truth to somebody. You don't
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have to stand up in the middle of
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service and tell everybody. Tell someone
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you trust and that you believe loves you
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and cares about your soul.
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Whatever temporary pain you might feel,
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whatever it costs you in the end, I
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promise you will consider whatever you
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lost as refugees compared to the all
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surpassing value of having more of
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Christ Jesus.
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Arise,
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arise, oh sleeper.
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Come out of your dark prison. Come out
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of your slavery. Come out of your grave.
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And Christ will shine on you.
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Come out into the light and be free.