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Wisdom/Light vs Foolishness/Darkness | Ephesians 5:11-21 | 3/1/26

West Hills Community Church // San Jose

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  1. All right. Well, good morning everyone.

  2. Uh we are back together going continuing

  3. our study through Paul's letter to the

  4. Ephesians. And we're getting to a really

  5. interesting part of the book where

  6. Paul's transitioned out of his profound

  7. statements about what God has done in

  8. Christ into what this means for our

  9. daily lives. And he's been unpacking the

  10. moral implications of this gospel using

  11. a variety of metaphors. uh temple, tree,

  12. growth, body. He's talked about light

  13. and dark. Today, he's going to talk

  14. about wise and wisdom and folly.

  15. And a big part of what we're going to

  16. touch on this morning is the role of the

  17. Holy Spirit in all of this. How does God

  18. through the giving of the Holy Spirit

  19. help us to walk in light, to walk in

  20. wisdom, to walk in love, to love the

  21. truth, and speak the truth in love? Um,

  22. if you're new to the Christian faith,

  23. one of the really important things to

  24. understand is that when we put our faith

  25. in Jesus, when we decide to follow him

  26. and strive to imitate his example, one

  27. of the first and most powerful things

  28. that God does is give us himself. He

  29. puts his spirit inside of us to help us

  30. become more like Jesus. But a really

  31. important question to ask when you hear

  32. a sentence like that

  33. and any a very important question to ask

  34. whenever someone says something like

  35. that about God is what does it mean for

  36. him to help us?

  37. What does that mean?

  38. Does it mean he's going to give us what

  39. we ask for or make our lives easier or

  40. take away the things that frustrate us?

  41. To be sure, that's usually what we want.

  42. Often when we bow our knees to pray,

  43. that's kind of on the forefront of what

  44. we're thinking. These things that we

  45. wish were different.

  46. But we've talked many times over this

  47. last year about how not all pain is bad.

  48. About how struggling and strife in the

  49. Christian life often yields strength and

  50. holiness and sanctification.

  51. Waiting can purify us. Hardship makes us

  52. holy. So when I say that God by his

  53. spirit is going to help you,

  54. what should you expect that help to look

  55. like?

  56. As is often the case, someone has

  57. already said all of this way better than

  58. I can. So listen to this short reading

  59. from CS Lewis in his classic book, Mere

  60. Christianity. Quote,

  61. I find a good many people have been

  62. bothered by our Lord's words, "Be ye

  63. perfect."

  64. You might have heard that in your Bible

  65. as be perfect as your heavenly father is

  66. perfect. Be ye perfect. Some people seem

  67. to think that this means unless you are

  68. perfect, I will not help you. And as we

  69. cannot be perfect, then if he meant

  70. that, our position is hopeless. But I do

  71. not think he did mean that. I think he

  72. meant the only help I will give is help

  73. to become perfect. You may want

  74. something less, but I will give you

  75. nothing less.

  76. He goes on, "When I was a child, I often

  77. had a toothache and I knew that if I

  78. went to my mother, she would give me

  79. something that would deaden the pain for

  80. the night and let me get to sleep. But I

  81. often did not go to my mother, at least

  82. not till the pain became very bad." And

  83. the reason I did not go was this. I did

  84. not doubt she would give me the aspirin,

  85. but I knew she would also do something

  86. else. I knew she would take me to the

  87. dentist the next morning.

  88. I could not get what I wanted out of her

  89. without getting something more, which I

  90. did not want. I wanted immediate relief

  91. from the pain. But I could not get it

  92. without having my teeth set permanently

  93. right. And I knew those dentists. I knew

  94. they started fiddling about with all

  95. sorts of other teeth which had not yet

  96. begun to ache. They wouldn't let

  97. sleeping dogs lie. If you gave them an

  98. inch, they took a mile.

  99. Now, if I put it that way, our Lord is

  100. like the dentists. If you give him an

  101. inch, he'll take the mile. He actually

  102. says the L, but uh that's not a unit of

  103. measurement we use in our side of the

  104. English speaking world. So, it's the

  105. mile.

  106. Dozens of people go to him to be cured

  107. of some particular sin which they are

  108. ashamed of, masturbation, physical

  109. cowardice, or something that's obviously

  110. spoiling their daily daily life like a

  111. bad temper or drunkenness. Well, he will

  112. cure it. All right, but he will not stop

  113. there.

  114. that may be all you asked for, but if

  115. once you call him in, he will give you

  116. the full treatment." End quote.

  117. That's pretty well said. Um Paul in this

  118. morning's text is going to explain that

  119. a little more,

  120. what the full treatment looks like in

  121. the kingdom of God. And so, we're going

  122. to pick up where we left off. Um but for

  123. today, the main point is this. Here's

  124. what it means to walk in light in the

  125. kingdom of God. Main point,

  126. light exposes darkness.

  127. Bringing in things into the light

  128. exposes darkness. So, embrace exposure,

  129. mortify sin, and be filled with God.

  130. Light exposes darkness. So, embrace

  131. exposure, mortify sin, and be filled

  132. with God. Please open your Bibles to

  133. Ephesians chapter 5. And let's take a

    Ephesians 5 chapter mention

  134. minute to just remind ourselves where we

  135. are in the flow of the argument of this

  136. letter.

  137. As I said a moment ago, the first half

  138. of the book was laying out this glorious

  139. gospel that God has achieved in the

  140. death and resurrection of Christ. And he

  141. has now transitioned in the beginning of

  142. chapter 4 to the implications of it for

  143. our lives.

  144. He's told us that instead of God

  145. condemning us as we deserve, God has

  146. chosen to make us his children. He's

  147. adopted us into his family. However, to

  148. belong to God, to become a child and a

  149. member of his family requires embracing

  150. the family culture.

  151. It requires embracing the values of his

  152. family and the example of his son.

  153. His example, the example of Jesus,

  154. established the tone for how we are to

  155. conduct ourselves, cultivating unity,

  156. speaking the truth in love, striving to

  157. be more like him. We've been called to

  158. depart from our old ways and to bring

  159. everything we do under the rubric of

  160. sacrificial self-giving love and truth.

  161. And to achieve this, we must walk in

  162. light embracing embracing this identity,

  163. but then making a clean break from any

  164. other way of life that flourishes in the

  165. darkness. So that being said, we'll pick

  166. up. We're sort of mid-argument in verse

  167. 11.

  168. Chapter 5 11. Hear the words of the

  169. Lord.

  170. take no part in the unfruitful works of

  171. darkness, but instead expose them. For

  172. it is shameful even to speak of the

  173. things that they do in secret. But when

  174. anything is exposed by the light, it

  175. becomes visible. For anything that

  176. becomes visible is light. Therefore, it

  177. says, "Awake, O sleeper, and arise from

  178. the dead, and Christ will shine on you.

  179. Look carefully then, how you walk, not

  180. as unwise, but as wise, making the best

  181. use of the time because the days are

  182. evil. Therefore, do not be foolish, but

  183. understand what the will of the Lord is.

  184. And do not get drunk with wine, for that

  185. is debauchery, but be filled with the

  186. spirit, addressing one another in psalms

  187. and hymns and spiritual songs, singing

  188. and making melody to the Lord with your

  189. heart, giving thanks always and for

  190. everything to God the Father in the name

  191. of our Lord Jesus Christ, submitting to

  192. one another out of reverence for Christ.

  193. This is God's word. Lord, open our eyes

  194. to see light that we might depart from

  195. the darkness forever. Amen.

  196. All right. So, the way we're going to

  197. work through this text is just we're

  198. going to go sentence by sentence. We're

  199. going to break down what I've laid out

  200. as the main point, which I think is a

  201. summary of what this basically teaches.

  202. We're going to talk about how light

  203. exposes darkness. We're going to talk

  204. about what it means to embrace exposure.

  205. We're going to talk about mortifying

  206. sin. and we're going to talk about being

  207. filled with God. So, let's begin by

  208. looking at verses 11 and 12.

  209. It's really important to look at these

  210. two verses together and consider what it

  211. is that they're talking about. What is

  212. he talking about before we ask the

  213. question of how does it apply? Paul

  214. says, "Take no part in unfruitful works

  215. of darkness." Which of course is a

  216. contrast from last week's text in verse

  217. 8, which describes the fruit of light of

  218. a life lived walking as children of the

  219. light.

  220. So we had the fruitbearing walk of light

  221. that we're exhorted to walk in. And here

  222. we have the fruitless works of darkness

  223. that we are forbidden from participating

  224. in. And so it's worth asking the

  225. question, what exactly are those? What

  226. are the unfruitful darkness works?

  227. Well, at minimum, if it's functioning

  228. like a contrast, as I said, it's

  229. somewhere in the reverse of goodness,

  230. righteousness, and truth.

  231. badness, sinfulness, and deception

  232. in verse 9.

  233. Second, the fact that these things are

  234. described as darkness probably implies

  235. they are morally evil.

  236. Probably worse, they are things so

  237. appalling that you keep them private

  238. from your family and friends.

  239. In verse 12, these are things that are

  240. shameful to even talk about. But I think

  241. the real key is at the end of verse 12

  242. when it says they are things that they

  243. do in secret.

  244. they do in secret.

  245. They do probably refers back to the sons

  246. of disobedience in verse six. And the

  247. fact that even they, the sons of a

  248. disobedience in verse six, do them in

  249. secret

  250. means, listen to me,

  251. everybody knows it's wrong.

  252. Not even everyone.

  253. Everyone agrees it's wrong.

  254. You don't keep stuff a secret if you

  255. think it's okay.

  256. These are not morally questionable

  257. things that some of the neighbors

  258. thought was fine and others the

  259. neighbors thought were wicked. These are

  260. things that everyone thought was dark

  261. and unfruitful.

  262. Take no part, Paul says, in these kinds

  263. of activities. [snorts]

  264. It's shameful, he says, to even speak of

  265. them.

  266. I don't think when he when he says it's

  267. shameful to even speak of them, I don't

  268. think he's saying it's shameful to talk

  269. about them publicly or to address them

  270. specifically, I think he's talking more

  271. about like going into details and

  272. talking about it like it's a trit thing

  273. or joking about it.

  274. In the same way that love should shape

  275. speech,

  276. truth and goodness should determine the

  277. degree of detail we go into when we

  278. confess our sins.

  279. It is shameful to speak, I would say,

  280. casual casually or gratuitously about

  281. dark things that we do in secret.

  282. But instead, he says at the end of verse

  283. 11, we should expose them. We should

  284. bring them into the light. We should

  285. make them known. So it can't when he

  286. says it's shful to speak of them, both

  287. those things like you can't take a hyper

  288. literal don't talk about them, but bring

  289. them out into the light. It's like how

  290. do you do that? Uh, don't talk about

  291. them means don't be gratuitous about

  292. them, but bring them out into the light

  293. where they can be seen. Confess them is

  294. probably how you should understand that

  295. walking in darkness is bad.

  296. Participating in the works of darkness

  297. is bad. But there is something worse

  298. than participating in the unfruitful

  299. works of darkness. And that is having

  300. done it, keeping it a secret from the

  301. people who want to help you.

  302. hiding in the dark. That is worse than

  303. the sin itself.

  304. Let me say this again so it sinks in.

  305. It's bad to participate in the works of

  306. darkness. It's bad to wander out into

  307. the dark. But if you come back, there is

  308. help and hope and forgiveness and

  309. healing. The only thing worse than going

  310. out into the dark is staying there.

  311. If you stay there, you will get lost.

  312. When you get lost, you lose the ability

  313. to come back.

  314. Sometimes people wonder who Paul is

  315. talking to here and they introduce

  316. these, I would say, unhelpful

  317. distinctions that Paul doesn't have in

  318. mind. They go, "Well, is he talking to

  319. believers or unbelievers?" He's talking

  320. to people who are tempted to participate

  321. in works of darkness. That's who he's

  322. talking to.

  323. Don't create new distinctions that he

  324. doesn't introduce.

  325. Are you participating in works of

  326. darkness and are you covering them up?

  327. Yes or no? That's his question. And if

  328. the answer is yes, I am doing that and I

  329. have covered it up. You are commanded by

  330. the living God to expose those things.

  331. to bring it out into the light, to

  332. confess to someone the truth, to come up

  333. out of the shame, out of the guilt, out

  334. of that tomb, that dungeon, that grave,

  335. and come out into the holy light of God

  336. in Christ.

  337. If you are walking in darkness this

  338. morning, brother, sister, friend, if you

  339. are living living in habitual

  340. unrepentant sin,

  341. today is the day to repent.

  342. Now is the time to repent. Tomorrow is

  343. not promised. An hour from now is not

  344. promised. I don't know when you're going

  345. to meet the Lord,

  346. but this is his word to you. Expose it.

  347. Bring it into the light. Confess it to a

  348. brother, to a sister, someone who is

  349. going to love you and preach the gospel

  350. to you.

  351. Rip off the tarp that's hiding the sin.

  352. The storm is coming to blow it all away.

  353. Anyway,

  354. Paul says, "Take no part in the

  355. unfruitful works of darkness.

  356. There has never been any good fruit from

  357. hating someone in your heart. There has

  358. never been any good fruit that has come

  359. from despising your neighbor, from

  360. drunkenness, from sexual immorality,

  361. from obscene talk, from participation in

  362. greed and the exploitation of others.

  363. There has never been any good fruit

  364. that's grown up from hidden lusts or

  365. gossip or hypocrisy or envy or idolatry.

  366. There's never been good fruit that has

  367. sprung up from fixing your hope and your

  368. faith on things far lower than God.

  369. By the way, that's not a matter of my

  370. opinion.

  371. That is objectively true.

  372. Take no part in these things, but if you

  373. see them, expose them. bring them to the

  374. light. Which brings me to the next

  375. verse. Embrace exposure.

  376. Embrace being exposed.

  377. You know, this verse was initially kind

  378. of confusing. It says, "When anything is

  379. exposed by the light, it becomes

  380. visible. For anything visible is light.

  381. If anything's exposed by light, it

  382. becomes visible. And then the visible

  383. thing becomes light."

  384. I feel like if you overpress the

  385. metaphor, you'll twist yourself into a

  386. pretzel like I did. Um, you don't want

  387. to overly literalize Paul's metaphor.

  388. Paul's metaphor is that the light helps

  389. us to see. Light make things makes

  390. things visible and things kept in

  391. darkness can't be seen.

  392. But when they've been out been brought

  393. out into the light, it becomes visible

  394. by the light. And eventually that thing

  395. exposed by the light can become part of

  396. the light. Also,

  397. think about what happened to me. I mean,

  398. I feel like I talk about it kind of a

  399. lot, but it's worth thinking about. I

  400. was in the darkness until God through

  401. Christ brought his light into my life

  402. and he exposed my sins for what they

  403. were. There was a dark and distorting

  404. evil that was hurting me, twisting me,

  405. causing me to walk in all kinds of other

  406. terrible sins. And it turned out by

  407. going to God about that, I'm addicted to

  408. cocaine. Help me. By giving him an inch,

  409. he took the mile.

  410. When his light began to shine into my

  411. light, the first thing I thought was,

  412. I'm doing drugs and I need to stop. But

  413. when Christ came in, he revealed with

  414. greater clarity, I was not just doing

  415. drugs. I was stealing to pay for it. I

  416. was not just doing drugs. I was lying to

  417. people to cover it up. I wasn't just

  418. addicted to a drug. I was amping myself

  419. up to 10,000 feet to get these feelings

  420. to go away. And then I was drinking beer

  421. like a mad person to try to come down

  422. every single day.

  423. I was serving a different god named my

  424. flesh.

  425. And I was doing every evil thing I

  426. needed to to feed my false god and

  427. satisfy my false god.

  428. But then the light of Christ came into

  429. my life.

  430. That light did not create these sins. It

  431. exposed them. It revealed them to me.

  432. And I in turn was called to expose those

  433. sins to be others to to expose them to

  434. others to be honest with other people in

  435. my life about what was really going on.

  436. And look at what happened. I mean, I

  437. just like talk about it publicly all the

  438. time now. and no one gets mad at me or

  439. hates me for it.

  440. There was a time in my life where saying

  441. what I just said was the most horrifying

  442. thought I could possibly think of.

  443. Everyone knowing what I'm actually up

  444. to.

  445. What are you looking at right now as you

  446. hear this?

  447. You are looking at Ephesians 5, the

  448. light exposing and making visible and

  449. turning that thing made visible into

  450. light.

  451. A few years later, I started meeting

  452. with other people who were dealing with

  453. addiction as I've been now. And 18 years

  454. after the fact, what was made visible by

  455. the light is now part of the light. And

  456. I use everything that I have learned to

  457. help others.

  458. Paul has his own version of this kind of

  459. the New Testament. He talks about his

  460. own self-righteousness. He t he does it

  461. a couple places. He does it really

  462. clearly in Philippians 3. He talks

  463. about, you know, as far as everyone else

  464. was concerned, I was a Jew, the greatest

  465. Jew of all. I was number one in my rabbi

  466. class. I knew the law backwards and

  467. forwards. I was totally righteous. No

  468. one could find any guilt in me. I was

  469. unparalleled in my knowledge and outward

  470. compliance of the law. It just turns out

  471. though, it was all a cheap imitation.

  472. All of that performative work was

  473. inadequate. It turns out it was so

  474. inadequate I consider it to be something

  475. equivalent to garbage

  476. compared to actually knowing Christ

  477. and being forgiven and healed by him.

  478. Once he was in darkness and now he's

  479. brought into the light. He used to think

  480. he could earn his way into

  481. righteousness, but he was discovered you

  482. cannot be good enough. You can project

  483. an outward appearance for a long time,

  484. but you cannot keep it up forever. All

  485. of us sin. All of us sin. And it's going

  486. to leak out eventually, and you will be

  487. exposed for what you really are.

  488. Whatever value he derived from being

  489. thought of as a great person, as a

  490. righteous person, he began to count it

  491. as worthless in comparison to gaining

  492. Jesus.

  493. If you will humble yourself, you will

  494. receive glory from him.

  495. I'm saying it all like this because we

  496. tend to primarily think of our sin being

  497. exposed as a bad thing, as a scary

  498. thing.

  499. But for Paul

  500. and also for me,

  501. exposing my sin was a good thing.

  502. Getting out of that way of life, out of

  503. that darkness is a thing to be

  504. celebrated. It's a thing to praise God

  505. for.

  506. When our sin comes out into the light,

  507. we not only have a chance to heal from

  508. it, that very thing that we kept in the

  509. dark has a very real chance of being

  510. transformed into part of the light

  511. itself.

  512. Your confession of sin today becomes

  513. your testimony of the Lord's grace

  514. tomorrow.

  515. And your confession of the Lord's grace

  516. tomorrow can become your ability to

  517. serve others and lift them out of that

  518. same darkness.

  519. It's a rich and beautiful cycle.

  520. And this beautiful hymn in verse 14

  521. gives us one of the big reasons to do

  522. it.

  523. Paul says in verse 14, "Therefore," it

  524. says, "Awake, O sleeper, and arise from

  525. the dead, and Christ will shine on you."

  526. There is a long rich discussion about

  527. what that text is. Is Paul quoting an

  528. ancient hymn? Is this a baptism formula?

  529. Is this It's all so deliciously

  530. interesting, I don't have time to talk

  531. about any of it and actually cover this

  532. text. So, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I don't

  533. know who I'm apologizing to. Maybe I'm

  534. mad at myself and I don't get to talk

  535. about everything all the time, but it's

  536. all interesting and cool. It's probably

  537. a hymn based on Isaiah 26:19 and Isaiah

    Isaiah 26:19

  538. 60 verse1, but we're not going to talk

  539. about that. I just said

  540. what's more critical is what Paul is

  541. clearly implying here.

  542. You should bring your sins into the

  543. light because it's going to be like

  544. waking up from sleep.

  545. It's going to be like raising up out of

  546. a grave.

  547. And you will not be greeted by the

  548. things that you fear will greet you. You

  549. are going to be greeted by Christ

  550. himself, by the great physician himself

  551. who has come to give you the full

  552. treatment.

  553. The promise of this hymn of light

  554. [snorts] is that by coming out of your

  555. sins, you'll find Christ. In the waking,

  556. in the rising up out of the grave, you

  557. will not be greeted by the things you

  558. fear, but by Jesus.

  559. The great lie that the darkness tells. I

  560. I deleted this from my sermon, but now I

  561. feel compelled to say it. John chapter

    John 3 chapter mention

  562. 3, Jesus talks about being the light

  563. that's come into the world. And I'm

  564. going to miss I I wrote it down. I

  565. delete it. The exact quote, but Jesus

  566. says, "People don't come to the light

  567. because they love the darkness and they

  568. don't want to be exposed by the light.

  569. We hide and we cherish our sins. But

  570. then worse than that, we're afraid that

  571. something really horrible is going to

  572. happen if we just come out and tell

  573. everyone the truth.

  574. The lie is that the darkness is where

  575. you're safe.

  576. The lie is that the darkness is better.

  577. And of course,

  578. you've probably noticed that as the

  579. darkness tells you that, as it tells you

  580. it's better here, it torments you and it

  581. sickens you and it weakens you and it

  582. threatens you if you think about

  583. leaving.

  584. The darkness is a den of lies.

  585. Try to just

  586. I'm sure there are some of us in here

  587. who are thinking of a specific sin right

  588. now. So, let's just do a simple

  589. exercise. Try to come out of yourself

  590. for a second. Try to come out of that

  591. dark cave of darkness and look back in.

  592. There you are stuck inside.

  593. There is a person sitting inside the

  594. darkness who genuinely believes that

  595. they are safer, that it's safer to stay

  596. in the place where your soul is dying.

  597. While God through his son Jesus through

  598. his word to you this very morning is

  599. saying, "Come out into the light and be

  600. healed. Come out and meet Christ."

  601. Christ wants to heal you.

  602. In the light, there are no threats. In

  603. the light, there's no sickness, no

  604. poison, no fear. In the light, there is

  605. grace and truth and help and healing.

  606. In the light, there is clarity and the

  607. renewed ability to even understand what

  608. your actual problems are.

  609. In the light, there are people in this

  610. room who love you and want to help you.

  611. I thought for a long time, I'm addicted

  612. to drugs.

  613. But you know what it turned out to be?

  614. I am really, really, really, really,

  615. really sad that my dad died.

  616. And I don't have another way to cope

  617. with these horrific feelings I feel. And

  618. so the only thing I've ever learned to

  619. do when I'm feeling these things is to

  620. numb them with substances.

  621. To numb them.

  622. And it was actually very freeing to

  623. realize I just need better habits.

  624. I just I'm telling myself I'm this

  625. awful, you know, the devil's telling me

  626. you're the worst.

  627. And it's like actually you just need to

  628. probably go for a walk.

  629. You probably need to stop believing

  630. these false things that you tell

  631. yourself and listen instead to what the

  632. word of God is telling you.

  633. The only reason I was able to figure any

  634. of that out is because I exposed my sins

  635. to the light. And being exposed, they

  636. became visible. And what was made

  637. visible became part of the light.

  638. Awake, O sleeper.

  639. Awake,

  640. rise,

  641. and Christ will shine on you.

  642. It reminds me of the song. I think we're

  643. going to sing it at the end here. Jesus

  644. Christ,

  645. shine into our night. Drive the dark

  646. away

  647. until your glory fills our eyes.

  648. He wants to answer that prayer in your

  649. life.

  650. Now, let's say you've done this. You

  651. finally brought out your sins. You've

  652. confessed your need for help. What next?

  653. Part three,

  654. we have to mortify our sin.

  655. Paul says here, "Next, look carefully

  656. then.

  657. Look carefully."

  658. That's the language of vigilance. Pay

  659. very careful attention to yourself. Keep

  660. careful watch over yourself in the

  661. teaching. Keep a watch over your heart.

  662. For from it, from it flows the wellsp

  663. springs of life. Proverbs 4.

  664. Nowhere in any part of the New Testament

  665. will you ever encounter a casual

  666. Christianity.

  667. A Christianity that you're just sort of

  668. like, you know, we'll just kind of see

  669. how it goes.

  670. That doesn't exist in the Bible. Um, if

  671. that's how you try to do it, you'll

  672. fail. It's too hard. It requires too

  673. much.

  674. Paul's expectation is that if you're a

  675. follower of Jesus, you're going to pay

  676. careful attention to what you do and to

  677. what's happening in your heart. Your

  678. walk with Jesus isn't just going to be

  679. something that you feel out and hope

  680. nothing bad happens. If you love God,

  681. you're going to seek wisdom and fear

  682. sin. He assumes that you care more about

  683. your walk with God and the holiness of

  684. your heart than your finances

  685. and your career and your marriage and

  686. your hobbies.

  687. When he says walk carefully not as an

  688. unwise person but as a wise person, he

  689. is talking about what it is that you're

  690. going to focus on. What are you going to

  691. consider most important?

  692. What it says the beginning of the uh

  693. wisdom is the fear of the Lord. That's

  694. talking about what you think is most

  695. important.

  696. Think about that for a while.

  697. Walk carefully not as an unwise person

  698. but as a wise person.

  699. Be careful that you are focusing on the

  700. right things with the right intensity.

  701. Pay attention to how you are valuing

  702. things.

  703. All of us are focused on things we

  704. consider valuable. All of you spend your

  705. time and your money on things that

  706. you've deemed important.

  707. Not all of us have stopped and paid

  708. careful attention to what we're doing

  709. and asked ourselves, is this wise or is

  710. this unwise.

  711. How would you know if it's wise or

  712. unwise?

  713. How would the light of Christ cause you

  714. to live differently? Well, here's a

  715. couple of important things when it comes

  716. to learning to mortify your sin and walk

  717. in a way that pleases God. The first

  718. thing is where he starts. How are you

  719. thinking about time? Paul says, "The

  720. wise person makes the best use of the

  721. time because the days are evil."

  722. Some of your translations will say,

  723. "Redeem the time." That's what the word

  724. literally means in Greek. Buy back

  725. this time that you've in theory lost.

  726. Get it back because the days are evil.

  727. You live in a fallen world full of

  728. brokenness, sin, temptation, and

  729. distractions. And there are constantly

  730. interruptions and disturbances that are

  731. ups there to upset your ability to focus

  732. on pleasing God. And so Paul exhorts you

  733. to try and pull as much of your life

  734. away from the evil of these days as you

  735. possibly can.

  736. How can you try and use your time for

  737. good?

  738. The easiest place to start with that

  739. question is with your time off. How do I

  740. use my time off for good?

  741. And of course, resting is an important

  742. value to God. We ought to rest, but we

  743. also ought to think, how can I love my

  744. neighbor with my time, with my free

  745. time?

  746. And as you move down from your te free

  747. time, you you arrive at like, you know,

  748. what you do for work or school or or at

  749. home or whatever. How do I use that time

  750. to glorify Christ?

  751. You think about it. Are you using time

  752. for good or for evil?

  753. Second, whose will are you trying to

  754. live out? Paul says, ' Don't be foolish,

  755. but understand what the will of the Lord

  756. is.

  757. So, just to say this really bluntly,

  758. like

  759. don't be foolish, be wise.

  760. You and I

  761. naturally incline towards the flesh,

  762. towards being selfish and self- serving.

  763. All of us naturally incline that way.

  764. There's nobody who's ever lived who

  765. doesn't naturally incline what's best

  766. for me. [laughter]

  767. And it actually takes a good deal of

  768. force and energy. It takes a good deal

  769. of training and teaching and repeating

  770. and practicing to get into the habit of

  771. what's best for my neighbor. How can I

  772. serve and love the people around me and

  773. not just myself?

  774. When he says, "Don't be foolish," I

  775. think a very real application can be

  776. made to wanting to do my own will

  777. contrary God's will.

  778. What I naturally incline towards is

  779. folly.

  780. What God naturally inclines to uh toward

  781. is purity, truth, justice, goodness,

  782. holiness, and love.

  783. Whose will are you trying to live out?

  784. Third,

  785. and I guess this is on my mind because

  786. of what we said earlier, but what are

  787. you using to escape?

  788. Paul asks in says in verse 18, "Do not

  789. get drunk with wine." For that is

  790. debauchery.

  791. The word for debauchery refers to being

  792. out of control.

  793. It's something like you hate the way

  794. life makes you feel and so you

  795. intoxicate yourself to try to feel free

  796. of those feelings.

  797. And to be sure in Paul's day, one of the

  798. primary ways people did that was with

  799. wine, was drinking too much and getting

  800. drunk.

  801. And

  802. I think you all I think I've said this

  803. clearly a number of times, drinking

  804. alcohol is not inherently sinful.

  805. Getting drunk is inherently sinful. It's

  806. distorting our ability to love.

  807. But the truth is in our day, people can

  808. do this with alcohol. But you can also

  809. do this with drugs, with prescription

  810. medication, with sex, with vacations,

  811. with shopping, with gambling, with

  812. endless scrolling, with pornography,

  813. with binge watching.

  814. All these things that give us that

  815. short-term dopamine hit that make that

  816. feel good for a second but then dulls

  817. your conscience and weakens your ability

  818. to pray and reduces your ability to pay

  819. attention to scripture and distracts you

  820. from the people and relationships that

  821. might actually help you.

  822. Debauchery

  823. is a treatment for pain relief that is a

  824. treacherous lie.

  825. you're treating boredom, loneliness,

  826. [snorts]

  827. whatever are those negative feelings

  828. that you want to escape from. We all

  829. have, you know, there's the more

  830. socially acceptable like,

  831. you know, and again, this is not

  832. inherently sinful. This becomes

  833. inherently sinful when it's out of

  834. control, when it's debauched,

  835. when there's nothing deliberate or wise

  836. about it.

  837. Debauchery is treating cancer with

  838. candy.

  839. Debauchery is healing a cavity by taking

  840. an aspirin. It feels sort of like it

  841. sort of works for a minute.

  842. It gives you the illusion of healing

  843. while perpetuating or worsening the pro

  844. the problem. It promises relief, but it

  845. just deepens misery.

  846. What are you doing to escape?

  847. You don't want to go the other extreme

  848. with this either. It's not wrong to want

  849. to do things to relax. It's not wrong to

  850. want to relieve stress. Everybody has to

  851. do that. It's part of being healthy.

  852. It's part of the logic of the command

  853. Sabbath and rest.

  854. Everyone has a way of calming their mind

  855. and body down after a day of just taxing

  856. activities and interactions.

  857. But the point is, there are good ways to

  858. seek relief when you were down or

  859. stressed or sad or lonely or ashamed or

  860. whatever. And there are unhealthy ways

  861. to do it. There are debauched ways to do

  862. it.

  863. Don't get drunk with wine, for that is

  864. debauchery.

  865. But instead, he's going to say in a

  866. second, be filled with the spirit.

  867. Choose good stuff. [laughter] Choose

  868. stuff that's helpful that leads to life

  869. and blessing. Worship, pray,

  870. get some exercise, go for a walk, talk

  871. to somebody who loves you, read a book,

  872. play a game, listen to music, make

  873. something, fix something, serve someone.

  874. There's a million things you can do that

  875. are way better for you, and get you used

  876. all these great financial terms and now

  877. I don't return on investment. Is that

  878. one? Way higher payout. You guys h I'm

  879. terrible at this. You know what I mean?

  880. It's way better when you do that stuff.

  881. you get way more out of it.

  882. Don't try and escape bad feelings into

  883. harmful and sinful escapes. Go serve.

  884. It's more blessed, Jesus says, to give

  885. than it is to receive.

  886. If you want to do this, if you are

  887. thinking to yourself, all right, I want

  888. to do that, but I don't know how and I

  889. don't know who to who to ask, ask me.

  890. I'll help you. Ask Scott Jung. There's a

  891. lot of people in this church that are

  892. that would love to help you do that. And

  893. if you're nervous or embarrassed, I just

  894. told everyone I used to snort drugs with

  895. my nose.

  896. And look, they still love me. It's going

  897. to be okay. Come talk to me.

  898. Focus on doing things that please God,

  899. and you will find your mind and your

  900. heart satisfied and less tempted with

  901. the evil days, the evil world.

  902. Which brings us to the final point. be

  903. filled with God.

  904. Instead of getting drunk, instead of

  905. acting debauched, Paul says, "Be filled

  906. with the spirit." And the first thing I

  907. noticed looking at this in Greek is how

  908. it's all plural.

  909. This is something you do together.

  910. Um, Christianity is inherently a

  911. communal religion. It's predicated on

  912. fellowship, on sharing, on us doing

  913. things with one another and not just on

  914. our own.

  915. This exhortation takes on a corporate

  916. dimension of and he uses the example of

  917. making music together, talk to each

  918. other, using God's words, singing

  919. together, praying worship songs over

  920. each other, making melody in your hearts

  921. to the Lord. Do it from your heart. He

  922. says,

  923. and it's interesting. I spent some time

  924. thinking about this is I was like,

  925. should we be singing way more in

  926. service? You know, he's talking about

  927. what we're doing with our heart. I think

  928. the I think the music in some ways is

  929. almost like a metaphor for harmony. Uh

  930. do things

  931. together where you will find harmony in

  932. your shared love for Christ. Do things

  933. together where you will find unity in

  934. your shared worship and devotion to God.

  935. Not all of you can sing or play an

  936. instrument, but all of you can do that.

  937. strive to be in one accord with each

  938. other.

  939. We will never lack for reasons to be at

  940. odds with each other.

  941. There are there are always going to be

  942. reasons to find offense. That's just the

  943. nature of being human together. We will

  944. find reasons to be bothered by our

  945. neighbors. And this says, 'Focus on

  946. pursuing harmony with us, with your

  947. brothers and sisters. Pursue harmony

  948. with your neighbor. And he says, 'd do

  949. it through giving thanks together. Look

  950. for reasons to be grateful, to rejoice

  951. together.

  952. Gratitude is not just a habit of saying

  953. thank you. It's actually a Holy Spirit

  954. wrought disposition.

  955. I've wondered, I don't even know how I

  956. would study this, but have you ever

  957. wondered how we ended up with the

  958. cultural norm of saying thank you when

  959. someone gives us something? Not every

  960. culture does it. We do it. I wonder if

  961. it has Christian roots.

  962. Get in the habit of being thankful, of

  963. expressing your thanks.

  964. A grateful heart, John Owens says, is a

  965. sign of a spiritfilled soul. for the

  966. spirit always points us to the gifts of

  967. God and not ourselves." End quote.

  968. Finally, Paul says at the end there,

  969. submitting to one another out of

  970. reverence for Christ.

  971. The word to submit here is a word that

  972. refers to how we order ourselves in the

  973. various capacities in which we're called

  974. to live. In the church, you submit to

  975. elders. In the home, wives submit to

  976. father to husbands. Children submit to

  977. parents. Uh at work, we submit to our

  978. employers. Out in the world, we submit

  979. to the police. We submit to our

  980. government, to the king or whatever. All

  981. of us are called into different spheres

  982. of life in which we're called to submit.

  983. Men and women, boys and girls, old and

  984. young. All of us have areas where we are

  985. supposed to submit. And all of us, a lot

  986. of us will end up in areas where we have

  987. to to lead and exercise authority.

  988. The big idea is if you rever Christ in

  989. your heart and you are full of the Holy

  990. Spirit, you will do this in reverence to

  991. Christ.

  992. That word says reverence for Christ, but

  993. it's often translated as fear.

  994. In light of Christ's power and holiness,

  995. not in light of the effectiveness of the

  996. authorities. We submit.

  997. You don't submit because you think the

  998. person's doing a great job. You submit

  999. out of fear of Christ.

  1000. So this is what it means to walk in

  1001. light, to live a spiritfilled life. This

  1002. is what it means to expose what's in

  1003. darkness, to embrace and properly

  1004. respond to that exposure, than to go

  1005. about mortifying your sin and striving

  1006. to be full of God. And we want to do

  1007. this together in harmony with the

  1008. church, full of gratitude and willingly

  1009. submissive to our God-given authorities

  1010. in Christ.

  1011. Now, to the person who's heard all this,

  1012. and we're almost done. I'm about to run

  1013. land the plane here. To the person who

  1014. hears all this and looks at their own

  1015. life and sees sin in the darkness and

  1016. recognizes that to bring it out into the

  1017. light might create feelings of shame. It

  1018. might create death to your ego. It might

  1019. cause pain to someone you love. It might

  1020. be uncomfortable or even painful for any

  1021. number of reasons. If that's you,

  1022. if you are thinking, I don't want to

  1023. expose what I do in the darkness for the

  1024. same reason CS Lewis didn't want to go

  1025. to the dentist. It might be

  1026. uncomfortable.

  1027. What's the alternative

  1028. to just stay in the dark?

  1029. Come out into the light. Hear the word

  1030. of God. Expose it. Confess it.

  1031. Tell the truth to somebody. You don't

  1032. have to stand up in the middle of

  1033. service and tell everybody. Tell someone

  1034. you trust and that you believe loves you

  1035. and cares about your soul.

  1036. Whatever temporary pain you might feel,

  1037. whatever it costs you in the end, I

  1038. promise you will consider whatever you

  1039. lost as refugees compared to the all

  1040. surpassing value of having more of

  1041. Christ Jesus.

  1042. Arise,

  1043. arise, oh sleeper.

  1044. Come out of your dark prison. Come out

  1045. of your slavery. Come out of your grave.

  1046. And Christ will shine on you.

  1047. Come out into the light and be free.