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A Time and a Blessing | Ecclesiastes 3:1-15 | 05/31/26

West Hills Community Church // San Jose

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  1. All right. Well, grace and peace

  2. everyone. It's so sweet to be with you

  3. again this morning. As always, my name

  4. is Josh. I'm one of the elders and

  5. pastors here, and it is my the great

  6. privilege of my life to get to convey

  7. what I have received from God's word.

  8. You ever thought about how much

  9. technology and time and money and energy

  10. has gone into trying to give you the

  11. illusion of control?

  12. We plan for our careers. We save for our

  13. retirements. We manage our calendars. We

  14. monitor our health. We organize our

  15. lives down to the smallest detail. We

  16. live in a culture that constantly

  17. conveys to us that if we just work hard

  18. enough, plan carefully enough, make wise

  19. enough decisions, we can shape the

  20. future we want

  21. until there's a military trade embargo

  22. somewhere on the other side of the

  23. world. Then it

  24. upsets everything.

  25. Sooner or later, we all, even if stuff

  26. like that doesn't happen, we run into

  27. this reality that we can't control

  28. called time.

  29. No matter what we do, we cannot stop our

  30. children from growing up. We cannot hold

  31. on to seasons we love. We can't speed

  32. through seasons of pain. We can't keep

  33. tragedy at a distance because of time.

  34. One of the most moving examples of this

  35. that I've ever read is from a book

  36. called A Severe Mercy by a guy named

  37. Sheldon Van Aram. U if you've never read

  38. that book, I would encourage you to. He

  39. was a young man absolutely in love with

  40. this young lady and before they were

  41. Christians, all they could see was their

  42. love for each other. And they created

  43. this thing called the shining barrier

  44. that they would use to try to protect

  45. and nurture and foster and cultivate and

  46. strengthen their love for each other.

  47. So, long story short, hopefully this

  48. isn't spoiling the book, but you know,

  49. they go to Oxford, they meet CS Lewis,

  50. they convert to Christianity, they fall

  51. in love with Jesus, and their love is

  52. properly ordered under Jesus's love. And

  53. then the wife, Davey, gets sick and

  54. dies,

  55. like 30ome years old.

  56. And the severe mercy is about him coming

  57. to grips with a reality that no matter

  58. what he did, no matter how hard they

  59. tried to create this perfect, beautiful

  60. bubble, like it didn't matter in the

  61. end. She died and there was nothing he

  62. could do about it.

  63. The future they had imagined was gone.

  64. The life they had carefully built and

  65. constructed was interrupted by

  66. circumstances completely outside of

  67. either of their control.

  68. God used that to deepen his faith and to

  69. draw him closer.

  70. Through his suffering, Sheldon learned

  71. that human relationships, no matter how

  72. beautiful, can bear the weight of being

  73. our ultimate source of meaning. It's a

  74. really beautifully told story. He

  75. discovers that true hope is not in

  76. holding on to a season in life, but in

  77. trusting the God who remains faithful

  78. through all of life, including times of

  79. loss. This is the reality Cohelith is

  80. confronting in Ecclesiastes 3.

  81. He's going to tell us that there is a

  82. time to be born. There's a time to die.

  83. There's a time to laugh and a time to

  84. weep. A time to mourn and a time to

  85. dance. In other words, life's unfolding

  86. in seasons that you don't actually

  87. really control.

  88. We're not in charge of the times we find

  89. ourselves in in life.

  90. They just kind of happen.

  91. And what we can do is learn to trust the

  92. God who appoints these times. This my

  93. main point today from the book of

  94. Ecclesiastes.

  95. Peace is not found in controlling time.

  96. Peace is not found in controlling the

  97. kind of time you're in. Only in trusting

  98. the God who governs it. Please open your

  99. Bibles to Ecclesiastes chapter 3.

    Ecclesiastes 3 chapter mention

  100. Before we read, I'm going to just

  101. remember what we've reminded so far. So

  102. in chapters 1 and two, the great king,

  103. the Solomon has begun this great quest

  104. of trying to figure out where is gain.

  105. What can I do that's of ultimate

  106. significance? What can I do that matters

  107. in the long run?

  108. He's looked everywhere.

  109. He's looked everywhere under the sun.

  110. And yet everywhere he's looked, he's

  111. reached the same conclusion. None of

  112. this provides lasting fulfillment. Not

  113. wealth, not prestige, not pleasure, not

  114. the pursuit of wisdom itself. None of

  115. these things give me anything solid I

  116. can hold on to and that will ultimately

  117. matter in the end. Why? Because death

  118. eventually takes everything away.

  119. Because no matter how wise you get, the

  120. world just remains frustratingly out of

  121. your control.

  122. And having shown us the limits of human

  123. wisdom and striving, Cohel now turns in

  124. chapter 3 to one of the fundamental

  125. reasons for that frustration. We are

  126. creatures bound by time. So let's read

  127. uh Ecclesiastes chapter 3 beginning

    Ecclesiastes 3 chapter mention

  128. verse 1 through verse 15.

  129. For everything there is a season and a

  130. time for every matter under heaven. A

  131. time to be born and a time to die. A

  132. time to plant and a time to pluck up

  133. what is planted. A time to kill and a

  134. time to heal. A time to break down and a

  135. time to build up. A time to weep and a

  136. time to laugh. A time to mourn and a

  137. time to dance. A time to cast away

  138. stones

  139. and a time to gather stones together. A

  140. time to embrace and a time to refrain

  141. from embracing. A time to seek and a

  142. time to lose. A time to keep and a time

  143. to cast away. A time to tear and a time

  144. to sew. A time to keep silence and a

  145. time to speak. A time to love and a time

  146. to hate. A time for war and a time for

  147. peace.

  148. What gain has the worker from this toil?

  149. I've seen the business God has given to

  150. the children of man to be busy with.

  151. He's made everything beautiful in its

  152. time. Also, he has put eternity into

  153. man's heart, yet so that he cannot find

  154. out what God has done from the beginning

  155. to the end. I perceive that there is

  156. nothing better for them to be joyful and

  157. to do good as long as they live. Also,

  158. that everyone should eat and drink and

  159. take pleasure in all his toil. This is

  160. God's gift to man.

  161. I perceive that whatever God does

  162. endures forever. Nothing can be added to

  163. it, nor can anything be taken away from

  164. it. God has done it so that people fear

  165. before him. That which is already has

  166. been. that which is to be already has

  167. been. And God seeks what has been driven

  168. away. This is the word of the Lord. God,

  169. would you seal these truths upon our

  170. heart in Christ's name, amen?

  171. All right, we're going to look at three

  172. things in our text today. We're going to

  173. look at the truth about our times.

  174. Second, we're going to look at living in

  175. our times. And third, we're going to

  176. consider God in time. So, let's start

  177. with the truth about our times.

  178. Looking down at verse one, Cohelith

  179. begins, the author begins by laying out

  180. a somewhat ominous claim.

  181. There's a time for everything,

  182. for every matter under heaven. He says,

  183. on the one hand, there's going to be a

  184. time for all the good stuff that you

  185. like, like laughing and dancing and

  186. sewing and reaping and so forth.

  187. But alongside each and every good thing,

  188. he asserts there is also a season and a

  189. time for bad things. For death, for

  190. plucking, for breaking down, for

  191. weeping, for hating.

  192. And although this passage, it presents

  193. itself with a certain symmetry. There's

  194. a time and season for good and for bad.

  195. It sort of lands with a grim realism.

  196. There are going to be good times and bad

  197. times, hard times and easy times, happy

  198. times and sad times, days of bright and

  199. optimistic beginnings and days of tragic

  200. sorry ends. There's nothing we can do

  201. about it.

  202. He goes so far as to say there's going

  203. to be a time to love and a time to hate,

  204. a time for war and a time for peace.

  205. That is not offering any sort of moral

  206. justification for hating or for warfare.

  207. is to say rather that every kind of

  208. thing, every kind of experience, every

  209. kind of feeling has been appointed for

  210. mankind under the sun. It's just the way

  211. that it is. He keeps using the time for

  212. this, the time for that. It's called

  213. like a the figure of speech is called a

  214. meism. You say everything from this to

  215. that is appointed for men under the sun.

  216. The two extremes of the spectrum to

  217. emphasize the totality of everything in

  218. between.

  219. Verses

  220. 1-8 are like a hardcore example of a

  221. bunch of meisms. For everything there is

  222. a season. Every matter there is a time.

  223. A time to be born and a time to die. All

  224. of life. A time to plant. A time to

  225. pluck up what is planted. All of

  226. harvest. A time to kill. A time to heal.

  227. The totality of human relationships.

  228. He is setting couplets next to each

  229. other at different ends of a spectrum to

  230. stress the totality of all that's in

  231. between. What he is saying is that the

  232. truth about our times is that there is a

  233. season and a time for everything and

  234. it's not in your control.

  235. The times for these things appear to

  236. have been set. But they're not set by

  237. us. You make a plan. Your life is on a

  238. schedule. It's on a clock and everything

  239. seems to be on someone else's schedule.

  240. You start doing this something and then

  241. oh no this thing happened and gosh that

  242. upset my entire plan. It's just one

  243. thing after another like that in our

  244. lives. You plan a fun vacation. You're

  245. excited to go and you get there and

  246. apparently it's not time to have fun

  247. yet. It's time to have that argument

  248. we've been avoiding for the last 6

  249. months.

  250. You make plans. You're about to act on

  251. them. And then suddenly for reasons that

  252. are completely beyond your control

  253. things happen and you can't execute. You

  254. can't do it.

  255. Even bigger than that, all of life, even

  256. the stuff you care most about, are not

  257. things you can control. Everything's

  258. always shifting and fluid and unstable.

  259. You find yourselves in these really

  260. good, sweet, precious seasons, and you

  261. can't freeze it or slow it down.

  262. You can't do anything, it seems, to

  263. avoid or mitigate or minimize the

  264. seasons of tragedy and pain. You can't

  265. plan for them. You can't put them on

  266. their your calendar and schedule them

  267. according to your will. They simply

  268. impose themselves on you when they

  269. decide it's time. When someone decides

  270. it's time and the person that decides it

  271. is not us.

  272. And the reason I think Solomon is

  273. bringing this up is because this appears

  274. to be another element of life that he's

  275. tested with wisdom. I can't find wis

  276. meaning in wisdom. He says, I can't find

  277. gain in pleasure or prestige or work.

  278. What about creating certain kinds of

  279. time? What about figuring out how to

  280. make every day like vacation?

  281. What about trying to create glory

  282. moments out of every moment? What about

  283. trying to be like Sheldon and Davey in a

  284. severe mercy? What about that?

  285. He's saying you might find some of that

  286. under the sun. It's just that you're

  287. also going to find everything else. All

  288. of them have a season and those seasons

  289. all come and those seasons all go. And

  290. the reason this passage feels ominous is

  291. because he's saying it's not just the

  292. good times that are appointed. It is in

  293. fact bad times too.

  294. You will find golden moments with people

  295. that you care about. It's just that that

  296. other stuff is also coming down the

  297. pike.

  298. And this whole paragraph

  299. is trying to trying to get us to reckon

  300. with this uncomfortable reality.

  301. It looks and feels like no matter what

  302. we do, much of our life is happening

  303. according to someone else's plan, some

  304. inaccessible plan. And so much of what

  305. we do and so much of how we experience

  306. life is us being forced to respond to

  307. circumstances that were never in our

  308. control.

  309. All these things are truly in their very

  310. essence he

  311. vapor. We can't hold on the good or the

  312. bad. It comes like a beautiful or a

  313. terrible vapor. It's here for a while

  314. and then it's gone. And of course, that

  315. is both good and bad news.

  316. Some of you are going through really

  317. difficult things right now and you're

  318. suffering or you're struggling or

  319. someone you love is in pain and it feels

  320. like this is the worst season ever.

  321. That season

  322. is appointed for a time and then it will

  323. end just like everything else.

  324. The good news is that all of our sorrow,

  325. all our of our suffering are only

  326. appointed for a time. They do not last

  327. forever. All things eventually pass

  328. because God has appointed a time for

  329. everything, both sorrow and laughter.

  330. On the other hand, maybe you're living

  331. in a really sweet time that you don't

  332. want to end. Of course, the bad news is

  333. it does end because everything ends.

  334. Eventually,

  335. you have to be the adult. It turns out

  336. I remember being in high school and

  337. going surfing every day with my friends.

  338. I feel like, man, this is what a great

  339. life I live. And of course, I'm not

  340. responsible for anybody. There's no one

  341. depending on me. Now, every day I wake

  342. up, there's a whole gaggle of people who

  343. need my attention and time.

  344. But that season also will end.

  345. Some of us are in really hard seasons

  346. that feel like they will never end. And

  347. one of the glories of Solomon's

  348. realization is that he clarifies that

  349. it's just not true. Hard things do come,

  350. but those same hard things will go.

  351. Others of you are really anxious about a

  352. season that's coming. You can see a big

  353. change on the edge of the horizon and

  354. you don't know yet if it's going to be

  355. good or bad. You can breathe easy,

  356. brother, sister, because it's probably

  357. going to contain great stuff and it's

  358. probably going to contain hard stuff

  359. because it's a time for everything under

  360. the sun.

  361. You might control some tertiary elements

  362. of what happens to you. But everything

  363. you do, both happy and sad, is going to

  364. massively be massively affected by

  365. things that are just not under your

  366. control. You might get a great job and

  367. have a terrible coworker. You might find

  368. a great house but have a difficult

  369. neighbor. You might find a great church

  370. that has horrible preaching.

  371. Hopefully that's not your

  372. All these things are appointed for their

  373. season. All these kinds of days have

  374. been set in motion before the foundation

  375. of the world and they just lay right

  376. outside of our ability to grasp and

  377. control.

  378. This has been a very long way of saying

  379. you will not find peace. There is no

  380. peace to be found in trying to control

  381. the big things in your life.

  382. There's no peace to be found in trying

  383. to control the kind of season you're

  384. living in. And the reason you will never

  385. find peace in trying to control it is

  386. because it is not something you're ever

  387. going to be able to control. We are not

  388. masters of our times. We live in time

  389. and under time and with time.

  390. We are not sovereign and every kind of

  391. time has been appointed and there's

  392. nothing we can do to stop it. That's the

  393. simple truth about our times.

  394. So let's now transition to how we live

  395. in time.

  396. So what? We can't master time. Time

  397. seems to be unfolding according to

  398. someone else's agenda.

  399. What can we do with that fact? Well,

  400. Solomon ponders the same question again

  401. he's been asking since the third verse

  402. of the first chapter. What gain has the

  403. worker for his toil? Or what gain is

  404. found in trying to do this?

  405. What can be gained by the energy and

  406. effort we exert to control our time?

  407. I've seen the business, he says, that

  408. God has given to the children of man to

  409. be busy with. I've looked at time and

  410. seen that man is not its master.

  411. Further, I've considered all that man

  412. does to try and get a grip of the

  413. unrelenting march of time, and I've seen

  414. that that too is he. It's like grasping

  415. vapor on a cold morning.

  416. And then we experience just the most

  417. delightful surprise.

  418. Every time I read it again, it's like it

  419. surprises me. He, it says, being God in

  420. verse 10, he has made everything

  421. beautiful in its time. And also, not

  422. just that, he's put eternity into man's

  423. heart. yet so that he cannot find out

  424. what God has done from the beginning to

  425. the end. The word for beautiful there

  426. means fitting, proper, appropriate,

  427. best. He has made everything fit just

  428. the way it needed to for things to be

  429. the best.

  430. This is touching on a really, really,

  431. really deep, really, really profound

  432. aspect of wisdom that human beings are

  433. just sort of scratching the surface of.

  434. He is not saying that everything is

  435. beautiful including human evil. God

  436. hates evil and God judges evil. He is

  437. saying God is using everything including

  438. that which man means for evil for good

  439. in a way that's fitting.

  440. When hard and terrible things happen in

  441. our lives, the most natural thing in the

  442. world, what almost all of us

  443. instinctively do is go, "Why, Lord? Why

  444. would you let this happen to me?

  445. Why are you allowing this?

  446. And the fact of the matter is that when

  447. things like that are happening to you,

  448. my notes are out of order. Uh oh.

  449. Whoa. Am I just missing a

  450. I'm straight up missing a page of notes.

  451. Wow. Okay.

  452. So, this is a first.

  453. Are these in order 789?

  454. >> Yeah, it'll this two will pass. Stell

  455. says

  456. okay. Well,

  457. let's see what just comes out. Okay.

  458. God's made everything beautiful. God's

  459. made everything fitting. And horrible

  460. things happen. And in the moment, you

  461. think to yourself, "How could this be

  462. happening? What is this for? How could

  463. this be good?" And you're not really

  464. prepared to assess it when you're in the

  465. middle of it.

  466. But I think the older people in here

  467. will agree that often times you look

  468. back on those times in your life and you

  469. think to yourself, "Wow, I really did

  470. not understand what God was doing, but I

  471. can now see in retrospect how God was

  472. using that to make me stronger. How God

  473. was teaching me about his love and

  474. sacrifice and humility. How God was

  475. showing me how to be a better version of

  476. myself in the imitation of Christ Jesus

  477. through what I experienced in that

  478. suffering and pain.

  479. I didn't I would have never wanted that.

  480. I would have never asked for it. But

  481. we're broken people. We need travail. We

  482. need to struggle through difficult

  483. challenging things in order to grow. I

  484. don't know why that is, but that is the

  485. truth.

  486. So that's the first thing. God made

  487. everything beautiful in its time. I feel

  488. like I had like great illustrations and

  489. examples of this. My note, where could

  490. my note have gone? Um,

  491. additionally, it says that God set

  492. eternity in our hearts so that we can't

  493. figure out what he's up to.

  494. There's this part of us that he made to

  495. long for permanence, to long for the

  496. eternal, to long for a final justice, to

  497. long for a day without sorrow and tears

  498. and death. And it's so funny that he

  499. made us with that because none of us

  500. have ever experienced it.

  501. None of you have ever experienced

  502. perfect justice done exactly right in

  503. the world. And yet you know

  504. there's a part of you that knows that

  505. that's how things ought to be. None of

  506. us have never had the experience of

  507. something permanent and unchangeable and

  508. good. We've experienced the good and

  509. we've experienced the loss of the good.

  510. We've never just had it forever and yet

  511. we long for it. God set this thing in

  512. our heart and it's all it's there in all

  513. of you. I don't need to make an

  514. argument. You feel it in your soul.

  515. And yet given that he didn't give us

  516. enough to understand fully what he was

  517. doing. It says he cannot find out what

  518. God has done from the beginning to the

  519. end. We know that we're made for

  520. something beyond this world. We know

  521. that we long for this thing that we've

  522. never actually experienced. And he

  523. doesn't tell us enough that we can trust

  524. him without faith.

  525. He designed this relationship to be one

  526. where we have to learn to just trust

  527. him. Trust him that he's good. Trust him

  528. that he loves us and that he's going to

  529. stabilize our times. That he's going to

  530. meet us in the difficult things. That

  531. he's going to give us everything we need

  532. to be strong through it by faith.

  533. I cannot believe I do not have my This

  534. is the weirdest

  535. I'm just going to jump in right here.

  536. Once we stop looking to our own ability

  537. to understand everything, once we stop

  538. trusting ourselves to figure this whole

  539. thing out, we're free to start trusting

  540. him.

  541. Once we let go of the idea that if God

  542. just explained everything to me, then I

  543. would trust him.

  544. Once we let go of that, we're free to

  545. trust him. The longer you tell yourself,

  546. if I just understand everything, if he

  547. just explains it all first, then I'll

  548. put my faith in him. It's like, first of

  549. all, if he explained it all to you, you

  550. wouldn't understand. He's playing 10D

  551. chess and you live in a 3D world. How

  552. are you going to understand what the

  553. almighty is thinking? I mean, it's good

  554. to let yourself reflect on that. I think

  555. once you accept that the answer isn't

  556. answers, but the answer is trust, you're

  557. set free to enjoy the good for the good

  558. it is, and you're free to accept the bad

  559. for the passing shadow that it is.

  560. Verse 12 says, I perceive that there was

  561. nothing better for them than to be

  562. joyful and to do good as long as they

  563. live.

  564. Let me tell you, those two things are

  565. more connected than I ever would have

  566. imagined as a younger person.

  567. When you're a little kid, you think, "If

  568. I just get the cookie and eat it, let's

  569. say I steal it so mom doesn't see I get

  570. to eat it and I get away with it, then

  571. I'll have joy because I got to eat a

  572. sweet treat." But then you do and you

  573. get away with it and now you're a thief

  574. and you're living with that guilt.

  575. When you grow up, you think to yourself,

  576. "Well, I'll get a job and I'll work and

  577. I'll earn my own money and I'll bake my

  578. own cookies and then I'll eat the

  579. cookies and they'll taste really good."

  580. And then you do it and you eat them and

  581. you're like, "Wonder how many calories

  582. that was just now."

  583. And then you start following Christ

  584. and you start walking along people that

  585. you learn to care about, you learn to

  586. love through the ups and downs. And you

  587. start thinking, I'm going to bake

  588. cookies to share with them and we're

  589. going to enjoy these couple of these

  590. cookies together.

  591. And you start to realize that joy and

  592. love are connected.

  593. These cookies offered as a sacrifice of

  594. love. In doing good, in doing good, you

  595. will find joy. It's more blessed to give

  596. than to receive. That's what that means.

  597. Maybe you're thinking, I think I know

  598. how to do good. I know how to imitate

  599. Christ. I know how to obey God's word. I

  600. know how to fear him. I know how to do

  601. his will. Okay, got that. How do I be

  602. joyful?

  603. Is that something I can control? I used

  604. to wonder that for myself. Can I control

  605. how I feel? Is God is God just telling

  606. me to put on a face, act joyful even

  607. though I feel terrible inside? No.

  608. He's saying be joyful. And the way to be

  609. joyful is to take pleasure in all the

  610. good that God gives by receiving it with

  611. thankfulness for what it is, something

  612. intended for your good.

  613. It says, "Eat, drink, and take pleasure

  614. in your work."

  615. Don't look at those things as a way to

  616. find permanence and meaning in the

  617. world. Don't treat them like idols. that

  618. will crush you.

  619. Receive them as a present, as a every

  620. day you wake up, God is like, "Here,

  621. good things for you to try and eat and

  622. enjoy.

  623. Good work for you to do that matters and

  624. that you're going to find blesses you."

  625. I think the call to enjoy food and drink

  626. and work as God's gift is almost a

  627. metaphor for talking about everything.

  628. He's referring to the simple universal

  629. things of life that we all do together.

  630. We all eat, we all drink, and we all

  631. have work we have to do. I think that's

  632. a simple summary of all the goods of

  633. creation. I think the smell of flowers,

  634. the view of a sunrise, the sound of a

  635. spring shower,

  636. you know, that first sip of hot coffee

  637. on a cold morning, the light shimmering

  638. off the dew of the grass when you first

  639. wake up and it's still frigid outside.

  640. We should rejoice and give thanks for

  641. these things for they are all this says

  642. God's gift to man. It is God's

  643. deliberate act of kindness to show you

  644. to reveal to you how much he loves you

  645. and how adamantly he intends to make all

  646. things beautiful in their time.

  647. It's good to enjoy these gifts as you

  648. can while you can. And it's good to

  649. share these kinds of things with one

  650. another. But you should receive them

  651. with a recognition that they've been

  652. given to us as a gift so that we have

  653. joy in this world. I mean, I I feel like

  654. I've said this recently, but it's it's

  655. good to reflect on like food didn't have

  656. to taste good.

  657. That's a gift.

  658. The ocean didn't have to be beautiful.

  659. The way that we make children didn't

  660. have to be as awesome as it is.

  661. God just did that as a gift. I mean, if

  662. sorry if you're married, okay, but

  663. look, I've been going without notes for

  664. a little while here. You have to

  665. please don't don't judge me. Um,

  666. it's good to share these things. It's

  667. good to enjoy these things. It's good,

  668. but it's you do so recognizing, wow,

  669. this all is awesome because you love us.

  670. This all is awesome because you're kind.

  671. This is all the way that it is because

  672. you're a loving God who wants to fill me

  673. with joy that I might obey your

  674. commandments all my days.

  675. Life in time is beyond our control.

  676. And yet it is not beyond all control. It

  677. is filled with gifts from your creator

  678. as you experience the good and the bad,

  679. the right and the wrong, the hard and

  680. the easy. Let's now close by considering

  681. what this has to say about God in time.

  682. Verse 14. I perceive that whatever God

  683. does endures forever. Nothing can be

  684. added to it nor anything taken away from

  685. it. God has done it so that people fear

  686. before him.

  687. So it turns out after looking at all the

  688. he of the world and being like this is

  689. all ephemeral. I can't grab onto

  690. anything. It turns out that there is

  691. something enduring and permanent that

  692. which God does.

  693. God alone has the ability to set things

  694. in place so that they can never be

  695. moved. God alone

  696. has the ability to give ultimate meaning

  697. and a movable and perpetual purpose in

  698. the universe. And this says that he set

  699. things up this way on purpose. He

  700. created your eternal longings. He

  701. created you with a deep desire for

  702. permanence and then made the world in

  703. such a way so that the only permanence

  704. you will ever find in the universe is

  705. from him. I wonder if that was on

  706. purpose.

  707. He did it this way so that you would

  708. learn to fear him, to revere him, to

  709. reflect on how powerful and everlasting

  710. he is as the only one, the only thing

  711. that stands over and above time.

  712. to appreciate

  713. how in a universe that is constantly

  714. changing and where everything seems to

  715. be he, there exists over us an

  716. unchanging and unfading

  717. permanent God.

  718. My sons are watching me age.

  719. They point out sometimes that my hair is

  720. getting a lot grayer. And I'm sure you

  721. know you've been at church for a while

  722. have just watched that change happen.

  723. And it's just a small token of a greater

  724. change that I'm getting older and I'm

  725. going to get older and older.

  726. And I made that doctor's appointment

  727. before you ask that I talked about last

  728. week

  729. and I'm going to weaken and then one day

  730. I'm going to die.

  731. And there's nothing I can do to stop

  732. that.

  733. They will see these things, God willing.

  734. They will watch me perish from this

  735. world and enter into my hope and my

  736. inheritance with joy.

  737. And the only things I'll be able to

  738. leave behind are what I was able to give

  739. them while I was here. And yet, God did

  740. it this way on purpose.

  741. He did it this way on purpose so that

  742. they will come to grips with as much as

  743. their dad loves them and desires to give

  744. them a life that I'm not forever. I'm

  745. not permanent. There's only one who is

  746. and it's God. And they ought to turn and

  747. seek the God of their father. They ought

  748. to seek to walk in the ways of the God

  749. who made us all. Because only in him do

  750. we have that which is permanent. this

  751. home, this life,

  752. this work,

  753. this living that we've done, we've

  754. worked so hard to create for our kids,

  755. it's not permanent. Only God is

  756. permanent. Only God can say to the sun,

  757. "You will follow this path along this

  758. line, and you will not stray to the left

  759. or the right. Only God can do that. Only

  760. God can set the stars in place. Only God

  761. can look at the ocean and say, you will

  762. go this far and no further." That's

  763. God's prerogative. It's not yours and

  764. it's not mine and it never will be.

  765. Only God can ever say to my children or

  766. to you in a way that really means

  767. something,

  768. I will never leave you.

  769. I will never forsake you.

  770. I will never change. And my steadfast

  771. love for you endures forever.

  772. My love for you in Christ Jesus is

  773. literally stronger than death.

  774. And nothing anyone anywhere can do to

  775. change that.

  776. There is permanence.

  777. There is something lasting in this world

  778. and it's found in God in fearing him and

  779. obeying his voice.

  780. God in verse 15 says he has established

  781. the world. So that which has happened

  782. before will just keep happening again.

  783. Nothing new will ever come under the

  784. sun. He also we cannot alter this cycle

  785. of unbreenting unchanging change. It's

  786. just going to keep happening. All we can

  787. do is trust God who seeks what's been

  788. driven away.

  789. That last sentence there is a very

  790. difficult sentence in Hebrew to

  791. translate. Um, it could mean a couple of

  792. different things. Rather than going down

  793. the rabbit trail of of that question,

  794. I'm just going to tell you what I think

  795. it means. I think what it's saying is

  796. things come and go and they come and go

  797. again, but God remembers all of it. From

  798. our perspective, it comes and goes,

  799. comes and goes. But from him, he doesn't

  800. forget. He keeps a grip on all that has

  801. happened in the past.

  802. And God will never forget.

  803. The way time appears to us is not the

  804. way time truly is. God is the one who's

  805. fixed all the seasons. God has appointed

  806. all things to be beautiful in their

  807. time. And God has fixed the day for

  808. judgment.

  809. That's what this means, I think, where

  810. he will recall back. He will bring back

  811. those things that have come and gone and

  812. appear to us to be passed away. and he

  813. will assign meaning and value to all

  814. that we've done and said,

  815. listen,

  816. you are never going to be able to

  817. control time and life the way you want.

  818. You are never going to be able to govern

  819. and determine for yourselves the kind of

  820. time you find yourself in at any given

  821. time of life, no matter how much you

  822. would hope to.

  823. You can either hate and resist that fact

  824. and fight against it, strive against it,

  825. or you can accept it as a fact and put

  826. your faith in the God over time,

  827. the God who controls time, the God who

  828. grasps time in his very hand.

  829. You can accept that and choose to enjoy

  830. the good he gives us while he's given us

  831. the ability to enjoy it.

  832. The fact that you long for permanence

  833. and for perfection and for a day without

  834. sorrow or tears is not meant to drive

  835. you to obsessively try to control. It's

  836. meant to drive you to the God who made

  837. you and loves you and who is seeking to

  838. redeem you in Christ Jesus.

  839. Jesus is the only one who has ever

  840. entered into time and done something

  841. truly different. Jesus is the only one

  842. who's lived a perfect life without sin.

  843. Jesus is the only one who after having

  844. been crucified and buried was raised

  845. again never to ever die again. Only one.

  846. First guy ever.

  847. He is the only one that we can truly

  848. grasp. His death and resurrection is the

  849. only thing in life that is not in the

  850. end he hell. His life and death and

  851. resurrection is the only thing that can

  852. bring forgiveness for our sins and new

  853. birth from above and the promise of a

  854. world without death and the promise of

  855. the resurrection of our body and the

  856. certainty and shity of judgment making

  857. all of our deeds in this world

  858. meaningful.

  859. If you want to rerun Solomon's tests,

  860. you can do that. There's nothing saying

  861. you can't.

  862. hope for a different result.

  863. Or you could receive this information as

  864. as it's intended, as a gift, as a gift

  865. to teach your heart to seek God, to seek

  866. God in Christ.

  867. You cannot control things. You cannot

  868. hold time. Only God can. We will never

  869. be able to squeeze permanence or meaning

  870. out of anything in this world. And so

  871. go home and enjoy the taste of fruit.

  872. Go home and tell each other you love

  873. each other. Go home and enjoy the taste

  874. of chocolate and the sight of the trees

  875. and the sounds of birds.

  876. Enjoy your covenant. Snuggle and squeeze

  877. your children while they're young. Laugh

  878. at stupid jokes.

  879. And receive it all with thankfulness as

  880. a It's a gift. It's a gift to be enjoyed

  881. and used, not hoarded and trying to

  882. build upon.

  883. These are foretastes of a better future

  884. in Christ. Peace will never be found in

  885. trying to control time, only in trusting

  886. the one who governs it. Let's pray.