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Justice and Toil Are Vapor | Ecclesiastes 4:4-8 | 06/21/26

West Hills Community Church // San Jose

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  1. The word work

  2. can sometimes seem like a dirty word in

  3. certain circles.

  4. Perhaps in church settings,

  5. I've seen the word work feel like a

  6. four-letter dirty word.

  7. And

  8. one can see why that would happen. There

  9. has been throughout the history of the

  10. church a theological misunderstanding of

  11. the role of work. And from almost the

  12. very beginning of the church's history,

  13. there have been some people who thought

  14. we really need to do lots of work to

  15. curry God's favor, to earn God's

  16. attention.

  17. And so

  18. from scripture, throughout church

  19. history, time and time again,

  20. we've come to recognize, no, we've we've

  21. learned about grace.

  22. God's grace is such that he has his

  23. favor on us independent of anything that

  24. we do. So this whole work salvation

  25. thing is a clear misunderstanding that

  26. leads to detrimental ramifications. So

  27. we got to get that out of the way. But I

  28. think sometimes there might be some

  29. people who so

  30. focus on that single message, a very

  31. important message, a message I think

  32. still some people today need to hear,

  33. that your labor, your works does not

  34. curry favor with God, that God's grace

  35. comes upon you independent of your work.

  36. Yes, some people need to hear that, but

  37. some people that's the only message of

  38. works that they talked about that we

  39. ignore the rest of scripture and all of

  40. the positive things that it says about

  41. the role of good works in the follower

  42. of Jesus' life. We are supposed to

  43. engage in good works. We just finished a

  44. series in Ephesians where it says we

  45. were created for good works.

  46. And I think that if we just get bogged

  47. down and and worry about this one

  48. problem and obsess about this one work

  49. uh problem that we might start thinking

  50. of work as a bad thing. And and

  51. true story, I I I once heard a sermon by

  52. a pastor

  53. who kept disparaging work to the point

  54. where he said, "You shouldn't love God

  55. because loving God is a kind of work.

  56. Just be loved by God, but don't love

  57. God." And he even said in the same

  58. message, "It's better if you fall asleep

  59. in the in the message because then at

  60. least you're not working." I thought,

  61. "Okay." [laughter]

  62. I I wish this this was hyperbolic, but

  63. Alyssa was there with me, so she can

  64. attest that we actually sat through a

  65. message that said all of this. And I

  66. think part of it is we've worried about

  67. one danger

  68. and it's a legitimate danger with

  69. regards to work that we've now fallen

  70. off the other side of the horse and now

  71. think of work is bad. Now, aside from

  72. church mistakes, I think even in

  73. adults in the working world, we might

  74. think of work as a bad thing.

  75. The A lot of the students I talk to, a

  76. lot of the young people I talk to,

  77. there's a sense where there's a positive

  78. benefit if you retire early.

  79. Is that just me and and my small

  80. parochial subset or is that seem to be

  81. true with a lot of people that that you

  82. meet in the working world? There's a

  83. kind of better

  84. achievement if you can retire early and

  85. then go have a series of yum-yums,

  86. treats. You go on You ask, "Well, what

  87. are you going to do when you retire?"

  88. Well, travel a lot, eat lots of good

  89. foods, experience lots of pleasures.

  90. Somehow that's better off than if you

  91. have to

  92. labor for the rest of your life.

  93. And because of that, I think we start

  94. developing an attitude that thinks of

  95. work as a bad thing. It's this bad but

  96. necessary thing that I have to just just

  97. do, but try to get rid of it as quickly

  98. as I can, and once I'm done with it, now

  99. I can enjoy my real life. Done with

  100. that.

  101. For me, it's like vegetables, right? I

  102. know some people like vegetables, but

  103. basically, if you ever notice my plate,

  104. the vegetables are the first thing to

  105. go. Just just have to get it out of the

  106. way, and then work.

  107. Or and then dessert. Um

  108. Yeah.

  109. I I think this is a mistake.

  110. And I hope that today's passage into

  111. Ecclesiastes

  112. can serve as a corrective for how we

  113. reflect on work. So, we've been going

  114. through the book of Ecclesiastes.

  115. And it's written by this guy who's in

  116. front of an assembly,

  117. and if you if you read through the ESV

  118. translation, which is what we do here at

  119. West Hills, they call this guy the

  120. preacher. So, he's talking to this

  121. assembly. And what we know about this

  122. guy is he's of royal lineage, the son of

  123. David,

  124. and specifically, he's the king in

  125. Jerusalem. So, at the very least, he's a

  126. king of Judah.

  127. So, this king, he's at the top of his

  128. game, the the wealthiest person in the

  129. land, the one who's accomplished the

  130. most.

  131. And all his life, he's been told there

  132. are certain goods

  133. there are certain goods that make your

  134. life worthwhile.

  135. And for the first time, it seems, in his

  136. life, he pauses after a series of

  137. experiences and observations,

  138. and he reflects.

  139. And his reflection is to him quite

  140. shocking.

  141. Because all of these ultimate goods are

  142. to him hevel. We've been using this word

  143. constantly. Just get used to hearing

  144. this word over the next several months.

  145. Hevel is the Hebrew word that means

  146. mist.

  147. When you wake up in the morning and it's

  148. cold outside, you can see the mist. I

  149. remember as a kid thinking I can grab a

  150. hold of it, much like cotton candy, but

  151. every time you try, you can't. You're

  152. grasping at nothing.

  153. And that's what all of these goods seem

  154. to him. He's been told, "Well, filling

  155. your life with pleasure is the reason

  156. why you should get up in the morning."

  157. And so he does that. Ah.

  158. But he's still high and dry. What was

  159. the point of that? Then he thinks,

  160. "Well, well, laboring, toiling,

  161. achieving the most." And so he's

  162. achieved the highest that you can.

  163. Still, nothing.

  164. And he even tries something noble.

  165. "Well, well, maybe if I become the

  166. wisest person." So he seeks after wisdom

  167. and he's attained wisdom and even after

  168. that he says, "I cannot grasp onto it."

  169. These things that I think are

  170. worthwhile, well, in the end,

  171. they won't be remembered, they don't

  172. endure,

  173. and they don't make a difference.

  174. And so he's shaken up. Now, as we've

  175. said multiple times,

  176. there's a difference between things

  177. really mattering and things mattering.

  178. And he recognizes these things don't

  179. really matter. The amount of attention

  180. and time and priority that people have

  181. put to work, pleasure, wisdom,

  182. it wasn't worth it.

  183. But they still might be valuable. And he

  184. seems to be hinting at

  185. there there being valuable. He seems to

  186. understand he will get it later in

  187. Ecclesiastes that he does think actually

  188. being wise is valuable.

  189. And as we'll see today, he he actually

  190. thinks work is valuable. Last time we

  191. talked about his observing troubling

  192. perceptions. He sees injustice,

  193. oppression, and he sees death.

  194. And he finishes by saying, "Well, we

  195. should at least enjoy our work."

  196. And I don't think for him it's a

  197. consolation prize.

  198. I think he actually has a positive view

  199. of work. He just doesn't understand how

  200. it fits in the big picture.

  201. And so today we're going to look at more

  202. of his reflections on work and see what

  203. we as followers of Christ can glean and

  204. what God might be teaching us with

  205. relation to work. So if you have your

  206. Bibles, please turn to Ecclesiastes

    Ecclesiastes 4 chapter mention

  207. chapter 4.

  208. And we're going to be reading from

  209. verses 4 through 8.

  210. Ecclesiastes chapter 4

    Ecclesiastes 4:4–8

  211. verses 4 through 8.

  212. Really short, so I bet you're hoping

  213. this will be a shorter sermon.

  214. >> [snorts]

  215. >> But some of you have met me, so uh

  216. >> [laughter]

  217. [clears throat]

  218. >> All right.

  219. A reading from the book of Ecclesiastes.

  220. Then I saw that all toil

  221. and all skill in work

  222. come from a man's envy of his neighbor.

  223. This also

  224. is vanity

  225. and a striving after wind.

  226. The fool folds his hands and eats his

  227. own flesh.

  228. Better is a handful of quietness

  229. than two hands full of toil and a

  230. striving after wind.

  231. Again,

  232. I saw vanity under the sun.

  233. One person who has no other,

  234. either son or brother,

  235. yet there is no end to all his toil.

  236. And his eyes are never satisfied with

  237. riches,

  238. so that he never asks,

  239. "For whom am I toiling and depriving

  240. myself of pleasure.

  241. This also is vanity

  242. and an unhappy business.

  243. The word of the Lord.

  244. The The Preacher

  245. is struggling here.

  246. And if we were just looking at it from

  247. the Preacher's perspective, we should

  248. share in some of that struggle. And And

  249. I alluded to that last week, especially

  250. with this idea of lament.

  251. But this is not just a text written by

  252. the hand of a man.

  253. It is also a revelation to us by God.

  254. And I think as we who have the whole

  255. revelation of God and we come to these

  256. texts,

  257. we don't have to be as confused, though

  258. there are some things we will certainly

  259. be confused about, but we can see God

  260. speaking to us and showing us good and

  261. valuable things.

  262. And as I've been thinking about this

  263. passage for the last month,

  264. this is what I think God wants us to

  265. know here at West Hills.

  266. That God gave us valuable gifts

  267. of work and friendship.

  268. God is a gift-giver. That is what the

  269. whole Bible

  270. declares to us. And he's given us

  271. something valuable in work and in

  272. friendship. And just because we spoil

  273. God's gifts, we wreck and ruin them,

  274. does not make the gifts any less

  275. valuable. We just have to remember how

  276. to use them, what they're for, how to

  277. engage with them. And so I want us to

  278. think about each one. I want us to think

  279. about the gift of work

  280. and then the gift of friendship.

  281. And then I want us to think about work

  282. us in light of Jesus.

  283. I want us to think about work in light

  284. of the person and work of Jesus. So

  285. let's first start about talking about

  286. the gift of work. Now again, that sounds

  287. like it's a positive thing, but for the

  288. Preacher, he has something negative to

  289. say. So, look at verse 4, and he says,

  290. "I saw that all toil

  291. and all skill in work come from a man's

  292. envy

  293. of his neighbor.

  294. And this is hevel and a striving after

  295. wind." So, just some clarification. He

  296. says, "Looks like everything that

  297. everyone does is out of envy. They're

  298. motivated by envy. They're motivated out

  299. of a sense of rivalry and competition."

  300. One thing to say or two things to say

  301. about that. One, we have to be careful

  302. when when people use the word all or

  303. every.

  304. Because I might say, "Yeah, everyone was

  305. sitting down."

  306. You're like, "Yeah, that that holds for

  307. the most part. It's like generically

  308. true, but I'm not sitting down. There's

  309. tons of people out in the United States

  310. that are not sitting down." But, you

  311. kind of get a sense when I say,

  312. "Everyone's sitting down," it's a kind

  313. of general claim that we're making.

  314. So, he's not

  315. it's not refuting the preacher if

  316. there's one instance or a person who

  317. works not motivated by envy or

  318. competition or rivalry. So, that's

  319. that's one thing to notice. The second

  320. is remember his frame of mind. What did

  321. he just say in the previous passage?

  322. Uh

  323. better to be dead than to be alive.

  324. Better to never have existed than to

  325. live and to die. And as I suggested, I

  326. think the right interpretation for that

  327. is he's having an emotional outburst.

  328. We We can see in other passages of

  329. Ecclesiastes that he doesn't really

  330. believe that.

  331. But, he's having this emotional

  332. outburst. So, I think part of what we're

  333. supposed to read here is when he's

  334. saying, "Everywhere I look, I just see

  335. people motivated out of envy and

  336. competition and rivalry," is part of

  337. this emotional outburst.

  338. And And what is he noticing? It It's

  339. true enough that the stereotype is

  340. holding up. He's looking around at all

  341. of these ambitious people and what are

  342. they doing? They're trying to keep up.

  343. To keep up with the Joneses, so to

  344. speak. There's a sense of this is what

  345. you're supposed to do and everybody has

  346. to go along with it.

  347. And is it any different today?

  348. What motivates our work choices?

  349. I I I've met people who've been promoted

  350. or were seeking promotions and they're

  351. utterly miserable.

  352. And so you ask, well well well why did

  353. you seek that promotion? Well, that's

  354. what you're supposed to do. There's a

  355. kind of failure if you stay in this one

  356. position no matter how much you like it.

  357. This might be your dream job, but if you

  358. leave it, you'll get paid more, you'll

  359. have higher opportunities, more

  360. opportunities to keep rising up in the

  361. ranks, so you're supposed to do it.

  362. To keep up with everybody else? This is

  363. not just in the working world. I see it

  364. amongst parents for their children and

  365. for their schooling.

  366. Where it's we need to send our kids to

  367. the best school. I I was shocked when I

  368. first um came out to the Silicon Valley

  369. 10 years ago. We took our kids to a

  370. playground. It was in Saratoga. I didn't

  371. I didn't realize how there are some

  372. places that are super duper nice. And we

  373. we we met families and we started

  374. talking with them and the first thing

  375. they asked

  376. What school? Hey, who said that? Yeah,

  377. thanks, Katie. What school do your kids

  378. go to?

  379. Well, home school. Then they looked at

  380. us like aliens or something like that,

  381. right?

  382. Because it really matters. I I was

  383. shocked to learn because I I see these

  384. public schools that are amazing in the

  385. Silicon Valley. And then I talked to

  386. high-powered um business people and I

  387. ask, well, certainly you must be sending

  388. your kids there. It's just like amazing.

  389. I've met teachers at some of these

  390. schools who are absolutely brilliant.

  391. They say, "No, we we pay an exorbitant

  392. amount to send them to private school

  393. because that's the school that sets them

  394. apart from everybody else. Even if it

  395. costs life and limb. And it will set

  396. them up to go to the best schools."

  397. There's this myth of prestige

  398. that doesn't exist. You just don't

  399. believe me. Just go look for yourself.

  400. College prestige as an undergrad is

  401. truly a myth.

  402. And yet people will

  403. bend over backwards. They'll labor so

  404. hard to ensure that their kids get the

  405. very best so that we keep up with the

  406. Joneses.

  407. And do we do anything different in

  408. church?

  409. Our various ministries. I meet pastors

  410. who keep thinking, "Well, I need to get

  411. more degrees cuz then I'll have a more

  412. impressive resume and then you can call

  413. me Dr. Such-and-Such. And there I'll

  414. finally have the respect that I'm

  415. I'm worth."

  416. We try to keep up because that's what

  417. everybody else does.

  418. And I think

  419. the preacher understands correctly. He

  420. sees it and he says, "Hevel.

  421. What's it worth?

  422. Does it really matter keeping up with

  423. the Joneses? It's all hevel and chasing

  424. wind." I love that language. He doesn't

  425. just say hevel and it's chasing wind

  426. meaning what?

  427. You'll never get there. You'll never

  428. catch it. Keep trying to move up the

  429. ranks. What's the problem?

  430. You'll You'll never be satisfied. Let me

  431. just confess some sin. While I was down

  432. in Southern California and while I was

  433. out in Boston, when you're with

  434. academics who are also moving up the

  435. ranks, it's easy for me to feel the

  436. temptation, "Well, I too should move up

  437. the ranks."

  438. And given where I am

  439. the only way for me to rise up the

  440. ranks, I'd I'd have to leave.

  441. Not to keep moving up.

  442. And I I'll confess, there are times

  443. where I'm thinking, "Oh, that would be

  444. nice." You look at the money that's

  445. being offered, you look at the prestige

  446. and the accolades. I confess,

  447. I desire it a great deal, my precious.

  448. It

  449. If you ever see me do that, throw

  450. something at me. I I mean it, because my

  451. heart is weak. I really feel the desire

  452. and I'm strongly tempted by it. I

  453. actually I was telling Josh this the

  454. other day,

  455. I really do think Ecclesiastes has been

  456. a gift to me, because while I was in

  457. Boston and while I was in um

  458. down in Southern California and I felt

  459. thought, "Yes, then I can move up."

  460. And I thought, "Havel."

  461. Because once I do get it, what will I

  462. want? More. And more and more and I'll

  463. never be satisfied.

  464. What's something that we can glean with

  465. regards to this?

  466. Well, there's an excellent way

  467. of approaching work.

  468. And the word excellence

  469. a historic word for it is virtue.

  470. There's a virtuous way of engaging with

  471. work. You know, some people have called

  472. it the virtue of diligence, but I just

  473. want us to think about what is the

  474. excellent way of engaging in work. And

  475. what the preacher notices is that one

  476. way of spoiling work is to be wrongly

  477. motivated.

  478. And if you're wrongly motivated in order

  479. to keep up with the Joneses,

  480. in order to have a certain status,

  481. well, it's going to spoil work. You're

  482. going to hate it. On the other hand,

  483. if we're rightly motivated,

  484. then our work can be pursued in an

  485. excellent way. There's another thing

  486. about virtue in general.

  487. One one way in which virtue can be

  488. missed

  489. is if you fall into one of two extremes.

  490. The extreme of excess and the extreme of

  491. deficiency. Let me just give you an

  492. example. Courage. Courage is a virtue.

  493. Uh one way you could be missed is if

  494. you're excessive about it. And we say

  495. you'd be

  496. rash. You'd be foolishly rash.

  497. And and one way of being deficient

  498. is that you're cowardly.

  499. So courage is the right balance between

  500. being rash

  501. and being cowardly. Does that kind of

  502. make sense? What's interesting is that

  503. the preacher is going to talk about a

  504. virtue related to work that strikes the

  505. right balance. So look now in verse

  506. verse chapter 5,

  507. the fool holds his hands and eats his

  508. own flesh.

  509. He's talking about

  510. the the

  511. deficiency, the extreme of deficiency.

  512. The person who doesn't work.

  513. So work

  514. might be a good thing, but he remember

  515. he says earlier in chapter 2, he hates

  516. his work.

  517. He hates his work.

  518. And if you hate your work, what's one

  519. thing you could do?

  520. You stop working.

  521. Uh and actually this language of folding

  522. his hands is a proverb idiom. It it it's

  523. an idiom in wisdom literature. If you

  524. read in Proverbs 6 and I believe chapter

  525. 24, it's a a way of describing the

  526. sluggard, the lazy person, the person

  527. who doesn't want to work.

  528. So the ex- the deficiency, the extreme

  529. of deficiency here is somebody who

  530. thinks, "Yeah, work is a toil. Maybe one

  531. way of

  532. responding to it is just not doing it at

  533. all."

  534. And I think some people get into that

  535. kind of mode. They become lazy. You can

  536. be lazy physically and you can be lazy

  537. mentally.

  538. Uh technology is a wonderful thing.

  539. Usually when you hear like Christians

  540. and technology, they say something about

  541. technology is a wonderful thing, but it

  542. poses lots of dangers.

  543. You can, if you want, have AI summarize

  544. Romans for you

  545. and give you insights that you probably

  546. wouldn't have gotten if you read it

  547. yourself.

  548. But what a waste

  549. if all you were trying to get was more

  550. cool information and insights from

  551. Romans rather than reading Romans

  552. yourself.

  553. We engage in political discourse,

  554. but nobody's ever read the great

  555. political thinkers.

  556. Nobody reads Aristotle or Machiavelli or

  557. Hobbes or Locke or Rawls, but then we

  558. have like strong political opinions.

  559. We're not scientists, but then we become

  560. epidemiologists when viruses start

  561. spreading. We become experts rather than

  562. pausing

  563. and doing the hard labor.

  564. It's odd to me that there are Christians

  565. who will fight to the death the

  566. inerrancy of scripture, and then I ask

  567. them, "Well, how often do you read the

  568. Bible?"

  569. Crickets.

  570. We have the wrong kind of approach. It's

  571. a slothful approach.

  572. Easier to go on to social media and

  573. YouTube and have people describe what

  574. Christian beliefs are rather than going

  575. to the source that you've been giving,

  576. and this will be a slog. It will be

  577. laborious. Just finished Second

  578. Chronicles. Laborious, right? Uh going

  579. through Nehemiah, laborious.

  580. And yet you get

  581. to commune with God

  582. and receive his revelation that goes

  583. beyond what AI or someone else can give

  584. you, but you commune with the spirit who

  585. brings us and confers on us wisdom and

  586. transforms us into likeness of Christ.

  587. That kind of sloth has no place in the

  588. life of the Christian. And and notice

  589. the language, and that person will eat

  590. his own flesh. That that's hyperbolic.

  591. Remember, he's having an emotional

  592. outburst. But it will be

  593. self-destructive.

  594. Humans don't live

  595. by bread alone, but on

  596. every word that proceeds

  597. from God's mouth.

  598. You'll starve

  599. if you don't read this.

  600. But but we want our Cheetos.

  601. A steak is offered to you. Filet mignon.

  602. And you're [snorts] settling for

  603. Cheetos? That's my AI.

  604. I hate Cheetos. That's why I had to pick

  605. something. I hate

  606. uh

  607. God is offering you so much. I I know

  608. work can be hard.

  609. And yet God is offering more. Don't be

  610. the slothful lazy person. So that's the

  611. extreme of deficiency. Notice though

  612. that the preacher understands the other

  613. problem. Read [snorts] in verse six.

  614. Better is a handful of quietness than

  615. two hands full of toil and striving

  616. after wind.

  617. He's

  618. intimidating the extreme of excess. He

  619. says, "Hey, but it Don't forget. Don't

  620. forget." So laziness and slothfulness is

  621. bad, but don't forget better to have two

  622. handfuls of rest

  623. than one handful of work.

  624. Who's he talking to?

  625. The workaholic.

  626. The workaholic. Well,

  627. I recognize that work is good, and I

  628. don't want to be like the slothful lazy

  629. person. So I'll work work work, and

  630. being a working person who works till I

  631. drop is the good life.

  632. He says, "No.

  633. Better to have two handfuls of rest.

  634. We were not built

  635. designed to engage in work.

  636. At creation, there was a day bequeathed

  637. upon humans to do what God did and to

  638. rest.

  639. Rest is supposed to be built in to the

  640. pattern of the follower of God.

  641. And I think some of us

  642. we engage too much in work. And I And I

  643. don't just mean having an occupation,

  644. though some people might have to rethink

  645. and reevaluate their occupation.

  646. Of work work work. There's a kind of

  647. badge of honor when you ask, "How are

  648. you doing?" that someone will respond

  649. and say, "I'm busy."

  650. Somehow we'd be embarrassed to say,

  651. "Well, I spent all day with my family

  652. and I spent most of the day just in

  653. silence and solitude praying to God."

  654. Like, great. What a what a wonderful way

  655. to spend your time.

  656. We want to work work work. We work for

  657. our children. We We freak out if our

  658. children aren't getting the best

  659. education, so we labor ourselves

  660. forgetting to rest.

  661. We plan our vacations. This This is

  662. And keep confessing sin. I'm such a

  663. scheduler that our vacations have to

  664. have a schedule. And I'll freak out if

  665. we didn't do the correct 20 minutes time

  666. of getting our coffee and affogato right

  667. here and we missed our time.

  668. Because even our rest can become

  669. laborious

  670. and so we spoil it.

  671. How should we think about this as we do

  672. what the preacher invites us to do,

  673. which is after having a series of

  674. observations, reflecting? We can spoil

  675. work by being wrongly motivated, by

  676. doing this out of a sense of keeping up

  677. with the status quo.

  678. We can do it poorly by becoming lazy and

  679. slothful, or we can be do it poorly by

  680. becoming workaholics.

  681. And before we think about this in light

  682. and his person and work, let's just

  683. think about this for ourselves. As you

  684. engage in work, what motivates you in

  685. your work?

  686. Is it because that's just what everybody

  687. does?

  688. Is that a good enough reason?

  689. Is it to get ahead

  690. so that you can stand out better than

  691. the rest?

  692. Are you being slothful?

  693. I I think we [snorts] might think we're

  694. inclined

  695. to be workaholics in the Silicon Valley.

  696. I meet people say, "I'm super duper

  697. busy." And then they tell me of all the

  698. TV shows and movies they've watched.

  699. >> [laughter]

  700. >> And somehow we think oh the the current

  701. generation with their doom scrolling is

  702. bad. They're just constantly on their

  703. phone. Do you know what the average

  704. amount of TV viewing was back in the

  705. '80s and '90s?

  706. 3 to 5 hours.

  707. So, it's not as though things have

  708. changed. It's just the devices have

  709. changed.

  710. But we are slothful.

  711. And some of us are workaholics.

  712. And I'd invite you to do what God

  713. invites us to do. Think of the gift of

  714. work. Work is actually a good thing.

  715. That doesn't mean it's never tough.

  716. Work is a toil. But notice if you enjoy

  717. your work, you don't mind the toil.

  718. My kids enjoy running laps when they

  719. prepare for soccer. Even though I'm

  720. going to run them hard. Right, to the

  721. point where they're going to collapse,

  722. maybe vomit. This is terrible, right? Uh

  723. Those who can't do coach, right? So this

  724. is this is my my view of coaching.

  725. But they don't mind. I ask you, "Hey

  726. Clara, was that really hard?" She's

  727. like, "I want more."

  728. But then when it comes to doing math,

  729. I'm like, "Well,

  730. you

  731. If you really see the value of your

  732. work, you're willing to engage in the

  733. toil. I love reading certain books in

  734. their original language, but it's a toil

  735. learning declensions. It's a toil

  736. learning conjugations. And then having

  737. to go through them, but then the

  738. pleasure the pleasure of being able to

  739. read these things is just wonderful. So

  740. if if you start thinking of gift of work

  741. as a gift, I think we'll change our

  742. attitude and our orientation. All right,

  743. I want us to now think about the value

  744. of friendship. But the way that we're

  745. going to get there, the gift of

  746. friendship, is by the preachers

  747. recognizing another thing that can spoil

  748. work. So, read verses 7 and parts of 8.

  749. Again, I saw vanity under the sun. One

  750. person who has no other, either son or

  751. brother,

  752. yet there is no end to all his toil, and

  753. his eyes are never satisfied with

  754. riches.

  755. What does he see as a passing thing?

  756. He sees somebody who is lonely.

  757. There are a lot of reasons why someone

  758. might be lonely. Though I I I think we

  759. have to recognize loneliness is not a

  760. good thing. It is a bad thing.

  761. In fact,

  762. I believe this because scripture and

  763. theological reasons, but there's a lot

  764. of medical and psychological support

  765. that corroborates how bad loneliness is.

  766. It has mental health effects, it has

  767. physical health effects.

  768. And the Some people, they're lonely not

  769. through any fault of their own, maybe

  770. through structural problems and systemic

  771. problems, but here the preacher is

  772. noting a reason one reason why someone

  773. is dealing with loneliness, and what is

  774. it?

  775. They're engaged in never-ending toil,

  776. and their eyes are never satisfied with

  777. riches. This is the workaholic who's

  778. motivated

  779. on the basis of greed.

  780. Just wants more.

  781. And the preacher recognizes this is

  782. very, very bad.

  783. Let me say something that's going to

  784. sound controversial at first, and I

  785. assure you it's not.

  786. God

  787. is not sufficient

  788. for our human life.

  789. Before you throw the tomatoes, let me

  790. tell you why I believe that.

  791. Because God

  792. told us that.

  793. God created paradise for a human.

  794. As ideal as can be, where that human can

  795. have

  796. sustained intimate relationship with

  797. God. And then out of the mouth of God,

  798. God says what? It is not good for the

  799. Adam to be

  800. alone.

  801. That means God designed us

  802. for human relationship.

  803. It was all part of the design plan.

  804. I I'm sure God could have made creation

  805. in all sorts of way. It's interesting.

  806. We have to We have to understand

  807. creation as God made it, not as I want

  808. it to be. And the way that God made

  809. creation is that we were meant to be in

  810. community. It's why it's one of our core

  811. values. We didn't invent it. Why isn't

  812. our core value just worship? If all

  813. we're supposed to do is just unite

  814. ourselves to God, our only core value

  815. should be worship.

  816. But we've included community and mission

  817. because when we see the testimony of all

  818. of scripture, we were meant to be

  819. together.

  820. And this is why it's bad if you let work

  821. spoil your relationships with each

  822. other.

  823. Because all you do is work, never-ending

  824. toil. All you do is try to gain more and

  825. more and more. The person who will be

  826. promoted. But that means long hours,

  827. sure more money, and you think, "Well,

  828. we'll be able to do more." But then I

  829. never see my family. I never see my

  830. friends.

  831. What gives? Something has become

  832. perverse in our understanding of work is

  833. it if it has taken away the good things

  834. that God has given to us. And one of the

  835. great gifts that God has given to us is

  836. friendship.

  837. We were meant to love and relate to each

  838. other.

  839. >> [sighs]

  840. >> And it would be a good thing for us to

  841. do what the preacher does,

  842. which is to step back

  843. and reflect. And and look at the very

  844. end of verse 8.

  845. I think some of us should do this.

  846. He says, "So some never ask,

  847. for whom am I toiling and depriving

  848. myself of pleasure?

  849. This also is vanity and an unhappy

  850. business." Why are you doing the work

  851. that you're doing?

  852. Who's it for?

  853. Is it out of love for someone

  854. in your family,

  855. your friends? And ultimately, as as we

  856. see, our primary motivation for all of

  857. our work should be love of God and love

  858. of others.

  859. Or we're heavily engaged in our work,

  860. our never-ending toil, because it

  861. advances our career.

  862. And I think the preacher

  863. cautions us, but despite the caution, we

  864. can see what God is telling us.

  865. That work is a gift,

  866. and friendship is a gift. And I want to

  867. conclude to now think about work

  868. in light

  869. of Christ,

  870. the person of Christ and the work of

  871. Christ.

  872. And let's first think about

  873. what work means now that Christ has

  874. come.

  875. Here's a shocking thing

  876. that I hope you know, because

  877. it's not okay for us as Christians, in

  878. avoiding work salvation, to disparage

  879. work.

  880. Because Christ

  881. and the apostles told us that we are

  882. co-workers

  883. with God.

  884. God has invited you to labor with Jesus.

  885. I think if we grew up in the church,

  886. it's like, "Yeah, whatever."

  887. Do you hear how insane that is?

  888. It's more insane than Steph Curry

  889. saying, "Hey Eric, come join the Golden

  890. State Warriors."

  891. Right? Or the World Cup men's soccer

  892. team saying, "Oh, our our star player's

  893. injured. Eric, get out here. We saw you

  894. coach your kids. You must be really

  895. good, right?"

  896. I mean, it'd be insane. We would have

  897. definitely lost if if I was on the team.

  898. And yet, that's what Christ has done. He

  899. called you. Look at you. Look at me.

  900. You know, I think there's this

  901. ultra-pious thing that some people like

  902. to say. They say something like, it was,

  903. you know, after someone's

  904. thanked somebody, they go, "It was all

  905. God. It was all God. God did it all."

  906. I mean, A, that's false. But B, if God

  907. did it, it would have been way better,

  908. right?

  909. Yeah, honestly. Like, if you thank me

  910. for my sermon, and if I say, "God did it

  911. all." God would have given a better

  912. sermon. We know that. I was a preacher,

  913. it's hard. I just finished Matthew 5-7 a

  914. couple weeks ago. I was like, "How do

  915. How do you rank compared to Jesus when

  916. it comes to preaching?"

  917. If God did this, this message would have

  918. been better.

  919. But I did it. Because for whatever weird

  920. reason, God called me. God called Josh.

  921. God called Scott.

  922. Who? What worldly wisdom would have

  923. chosen the three of us and go, "Yeah,

  924. that's the team." Right?

  925. But our Lord did.

  926. Despite our weakness.

  927. And God called you.

  928. To be our brothers and sisters, that we

  929. would be the church planted here

  930. to serve each other and to serve our

  931. surroundings, despite our weaknesses and

  932. our deficiencies.

  933. The traditional word for this

  934. is dignity.

  935. What a dignified task that we get to be

  936. co-laborers

  937. with Christ.

  938. Now, just to clarify, there are some

  939. things we can't do, right? We can't do.

  940. We can't make reconciliation with the

  941. Father. We can't pay the debt that we

  942. owe God. Only Christ can. So, please

  943. don't misunderstand that. We do need

  944. that caveat because there will be some

  945. people who do misunderstand things.

  946. Well, I got to make sure I have God's

  947. favor. For whatever reason, God called

  948. us while we were enemies to become his

  949. friends and to invite us into

  950. partnership with what he is doing. But,

  951. now he has done so and we all get to do

  952. it. We are building for his kingdom and

  953. I hope you see the dignity of your work,

  954. not on the basis of how much you get

  955. paid, not on the basis of how early you

  956. get to retire, not on the basis of

  957. keeping up with the status quo. You get

  958. the dignity of co-laboring with Jesus.

  959. The stuff curry of ministry, right? The

  960. best of the best. And even better.

  961. How unbelievable is that?

  962. Now, the nice thing, just to fill it

  963. out, is you're not doing it on your own

  964. strength.

  965. This is why the New Testament is so

  966. helpful for the full

  967. the full revelation of what God wants us

  968. to do. He's given us his spirit.

  969. So, you do have wisdom and strength to

  970. do the task, however imperfectly,

  971. because Christ is with you, united to

  972. you in his Holy Spirit.

  973. But, I do hope that you start seeing of

  974. your work as a dignified work.

  975. And as I said last last week,

  976. when an architect is having the

  977. construction folks do what appear to be

  978. menial tasks, but you put it all

  979. together and now you have this beautiful

  980. house, your task might seem small and

  981. menial, but put it all together, the

  982. labor of the church, and you get a

  983. beautiful, glorious thing. And

  984. specifically, what we get is the

  985. foundations for the kingdom which Christ

  986. will complete and finish at his return.

  987. We're preparing a home for God here in

  988. the new heavens and the new earth.

  989. This is why we can say our labor is not

  990. in vain when we do work in the Lord.

  991. Does that mean the work will be easy?

  992. No. This is why Paul in chapter uh

  993. 1 Corinthians chapter 15 has to have has

    1 Corinthians 15 chapter mention

  994. to say, "Be steadfast, immovable, always

  995. abounding in the work of the Lord." Cuz

  996. it's going to be hard. And you're going

  997. to want to give up. Doing children's

  998. ministry with baby screaming at you is

  999. hard work. Karen gave me a very strong

  1000. nod, right? That's hard. Organizing when

  1001. everybody has busy schedules is hard

  1002. work. Doing this when you have tinnitus

  1003. or other impairments is hard work. I'm

  1004. not saying it's going to be easy.

  1005. What I am saying is what we know

  1006. is it will be dignified work because

  1007. Christ has called you to it.

  1008. And here's the second thing.

  1009. The dignified status

  1010. of being friends

  1011. of God.

  1012. There's a lot of images between our

  1013. regarding our relationship with God.

  1014. There's the parent and the child,

  1015. the husband and the wife,

  1016. the suzerain and the vassal, the king

  1017. and the subjects,

  1018. property owner and the tenants.

  1019. Well, one

  1020. image that scripture gives us is

  1021. friendship.

  1022. We are invited to be friends with

  1023. Christ.

  1024. I I think when we're motivated to get

  1025. ahead and to keep up with the Joneses,

  1026. we're searching to be on the inside, the

  1027. inner ring, the inner circle. We finally

  1028. made it.

  1029. There's no better circle to be a part of

  1030. than the circle of Jesus' followers.

  1031. That's the best. And what's great about

  1032. this is it's open to all, which is why

  1033. we evangelize and tell everybody

  1034. the reach of the cross is for all. We

  1035. want people in. It is not an exclusive

  1036. group. It is the maximally inclusive

  1037. group. Why should we let the world with

  1038. their political agendas

  1039. capture inclusion? We as the church

  1040. should be the most inclusive place

  1041. because Christ wants all to be part of

  1042. his body. And so we want them to come in

  1043. and have the dignity of being Jesus'

  1044. friends.

  1045. Notice what that means then. When we

  1046. when we labor, we do it with our friend

  1047. Jesus.

  1048. And this feels like this should be a

  1049. Sunday school lesson, right? We get to

  1050. do things with our friend Jesus. But

  1051. that is true.

  1052. Work with your friends is so wonderful.

  1053. It makes the work less taxing

  1054. because you get to do it

  1055. together.

  1056. Well, working with Jesus, recognizing

  1057. that Jesus is the one who labors with

  1058. you as your friend, who is united with

  1059. you. He even promised that.

  1060. And he will be with you for how long?

  1061. Till the end of tax season?

  1062. Until the end of the ages.

  1063. Jesus is with you.

  1064. This also means there's something unique

  1065. about this group here.

  1066. Because this is the group of the members

  1067. of Christ's body.

  1068. That means there's a privilege of

  1069. belonging to this group.

  1070. Is this the group of smartest people?

  1071. The group of most athletic people? The

  1072. group with the most um influence over

  1073. the world, over the corporate world, the

  1074. political world?

  1075. No.

  1076. But this is the group whose head is

  1077. Christ, and we are members of Christ's

  1078. body, and our work is being

  1079. organized

  1080. and impacted by our head, Jesus.

  1081. This This means

  1082. your friendship means more to me than

  1083. other friendship because you're Jesus'

  1084. friends.

  1085. I have friends outside the church. I

  1086. love doing fun things with them. I'm

  1087. part of the hot food group at work. We

  1088. just love going out and eating spicy

  1089. food here in San Jose. It's one of my

  1090. favorite groups to belong to.

  1091. And yet that is not the privileged group

  1092. because they are not members of Christ's

  1093. body. You are.

  1094. That means our labor together

  1095. will have far more ramifications than I

  1096. can understand. Because in our labor

  1097. together, we're laboring for Christ and

  1098. with Christ.

  1099. And so I hope that changes the way that

  1100. you think about work.

  1101. And here's the beautiful thing about

  1102. Jesus' friendship with us.

  1103. Because we learn in John

    John 15 chapter mention

  1104. chapter 15,

  1105. what does friendship include?

  1106. It includes intimate knowledge.

  1107. It includes knowing the person's plans.

  1108. And that's what Jesus says.

  1109. I've revealed these things to you.

  1110. They know things that they couldn't know

  1111. unless they were Jesus' close pals.

  1112. And third, what does Jesus say?

  1113. That friends are willing to lay down

  1114. their lives

  1115. for their friends.

  1116. And that's what Jesus does for you and

  1117. for me.

  1118. As our intimate friend, he does the one

  1119. work that nobody in this building can

  1120. do,

  1121. which is to lay down one's life

  1122. to make atonement,

  1123. to justify us, and to reconcile us to

  1124. the Father.

  1125. You have a friend who did that for you

  1126. while you were undeserving and an enemy

  1127. of God.

  1128. And that is why we get to have

  1129. friendship. And so I hope now, as you

  1130. think about today, tomorrow, this week,

  1131. your relationship with work, your work

  1132. is not just so that you can get ahead.

  1133. Your work is so that you would love God

  1134. more and love each other more

  1135. participating in what Christ is doing.

  1136. Christ is at work. I know for some

  1137. people doing evangelism is scary. Like,

  1138. "Oh, I'm doing it by myself." Two

  1139. things. One, don't do it by yourself.

  1140. There are people who do it in groups. Go

  1141. in groups. Second,

  1142. there have been things happening before

  1143. you even get there. I love that mature

  1144. missionaries and evangelists all say,

  1145. "Before I ever walked into that group,

  1146. God and Christ were at work."

  1147. Christ is already working. He goes

  1148. before you. So, whatever labor that you

  1149. do, Christ is already laboring and the

  1150. joy is that you get to participate in

  1151. that labor with your BFF. He's invited

  1152. you to be his BFF.

  1153. And I hope that motivates you. And so, I

  1154. challenge you.

  1155. This might lead some of you

  1156. need to rethink why you're working.

  1157. Some of you

  1158. need to work harder.

  1159. And some of you need to rest more.

  1160. But above all, I hope that what we see

  1161. in our work is not so that we get ahead,

  1162. but it is an opportunity for us to be

  1163. with our friend Jesus, to love God more

  1164. with our whole heart, soul, mind, and

  1165. strength, and to love each other as

  1166. ourselves. Let's pray.