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Now is the Day of Salvation | 2 Corinthians 6:1-13 | 04/19/26

West Hills Community Church // Morgan Hill

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  1. Have you ever had to confront someone

  2. and then find that that person got

  3. really really offended that you would

  4. have the nerve to confront them?

  5. Like afterwards your relationship wasn't

  6. quite the same.

  7. It it was impacted in a in a in a bad

  8. way. They either completely shut you out

  9. or maybe they avoid you

  10. or maybe they're just straight up

  11. hostile to you. Or maybe you've

  12. experienced it the other way around.

  13. Maybe you've been that person that's

  14. been confronted and you've been

  15. defensive and you've been hostile

  16. towards the person who is confronting

  17. you. You no longer like them very much.

  18. You don't feel safe around them because

  19. they criticized you. You no longer

  20. respect them anymore. Now, to be sure,

  21. there are people who are emotionally or

  22. verbally abusive. There are cynics and

  23. critics in this world. People whose

  24. corrections and confrontations you

  25. probably need to ignore.

  26. Those are not legitimate corrections.

  27. They see the bad in everything. I'm not

  28. talking about those kinds of corrections

  29. from those kinds of people. I'm talking

  30. about when somebody actually cares about

  31. you. They really love you and then they

  32. offer you a correction. Have you ever

  33. closed off your heart to someone who

  34. really cares about you and wants to help

  35. you?

  36. With some people, it seems like every

  37. time you correct them, you roll the dice

  38. on the relationship. Have you have you

  39. met people like that? Have you been a

  40. person like that?

  41. We've all probably been like that from

  42. time to time because it's human nature

  43. to get defensive when we're corrected.

  44. Physiologically, your adrenaline starts

  45. pumping.

  46. Your brain becomes less rational as you

  47. prepare for a fight or a flight.

  48. We tense up in response to critique. We

  49. emotionally harden because we feel like

  50. we're about to be attacked or we are

  51. being attacked. It's an anim animalistic

  52. self-preservation instinct that kicks

  53. in.

  54. We can all be tempted to close off our

  55. hearts to people who challenge us. And

  56. our culture doesn't do us any favors

  57. here, does it? Because we're taught that

  58. we all have our own truth. We all have

  59. our own truth. If someone corrects you,

  60. you can just chalk it up to their truth.

  61. I have my truth. It happens to be the

  62. exact opposite truth of your truth.

  63. Their truth is that you made a mistake.

  64. But your truth is that you're an

  65. absolutely amazing person with no

  66. issues.

  67. You've got nothing to learn.

  68. And you know what? People haven't really

  69. changed that much in 2,000 years.

  70. This human tendency was alive and well

  71. when the New Testament was written. Paul

  72. encountered the same attitude that we

  73. struggle with in Corenth.

  74. A church that he loved with all his

  75. heart. A church where many people heard

  76. his corrections and repented. But then

  77. there were also many who he was gambling

  78. with a relationship by correcting them.

  79. He was rolling the dice on whether they

  80. would still listen to him. They had

  81. closed off their hearts towards him. And

  82. they ran to find themselves new leaders

  83. who were who had nicer things to say

  84. about them, who didn't correct them,

  85. leaders who agreed with how amazing they

  86. were, leaders who were not about to

  87. challenge or correct or rebuke.

  88. Today, Paul is going to plead with the

  89. Corinthians in our text and with you.

  90. He's going to plead with us. Don't miss

  91. the grace of God by closing off your

  92. heart. That's his plea in our text.

  93. Don't miss the grace of God by closing

  94. off your heart. And before we get into

  95. our text this morning, let me just

  96. remind you what we covered last week in

  97. second Corinthians. Last week, we saw

  98. that God is the initiator of our

  99. salvation. He is the initiator of our

  100. salvation. If you're in Christ, if

  101. you're a Christian, it's because God

  102. made you a new creation. He did it. If

  103. you're a Christian, it's because Jesus

  104. became sin for you and you became the

  105. righteousness of God. We learned all of

  106. this that all of this this great

  107. salvation, this reconciliation with God,

  108. this trading places between you and

  109. Jesus, that all of it was from God. We

  110. didn't do anything. We didn't do

  111. anything. We did nothing to earn it. We

  112. didn't initiate it.

  113. All we did was receive it. That's all we

  114. did. This week, Paul is going to talk

  115. about the other side of the coin. There

  116. is something that you do.

  117. There is some ways there are some ways

  118. that we participate in our salvation.

  119. We have responsibility.

  120. You might wonder after a passage like

  121. last week, do we have any any role to

  122. play at all in our salvation or are we

  123. completely passive? Paul's going to

  124. answer those questions today. So, our

  125. text this morning is 2 Corinthians

  126. chapter 6:es 1-13. So, if you've got

  127. your Bibles, go ahead and make your way

  128. over to 2 Corinthians chapter 6 and I'll

    2 Corinthians 6 chapter mention

  129. read verses 1 through13.

  130. Paul writes, "Working together with him,

  131. then we appeal to you not to receive the

  132. grace of God in vain. For he says, in a

  133. favorable time I listened to you, and a

  134. day of salvation I have helped you.

  135. Behold, now is the favorable time.

  136. Behold, now is the day of salvation."

  137. We put no obstacle in anyone's way so

  138. that no fault may be found with our

  139. ministry. But as servants of God, we

  140. commend ourselves in every way by great

  141. endurance in afflictions, hardships,

  142. calamities, beatings, imprisonments,

  143. riots, labors, sleepless nights, hunger

  144. by purity, knowledge, patience,

  145. kindness, the Holy Spirit, genuine love

  146. by truthful speech, and the power of God

  147. with the weapons of righteousness for

  148. the right hand and for the left through

  149. honor and dishonor through slander and

  150. praise. We are treated as imposters and

  151. yet are true. As unknown and yet

  152. well-known. As dying and behold, we

  153. live. As punished and not yet killed. As

  154. sorrowful yet always rejoicing. As poor

  155. yet making many rich. As having nothing

  156. yet possessing everything.

  157. We have spoken freely to you

  158. Corinthians. Our heart is open wide is

  159. wide open. You are not restricted by us

  160. but you are restricted in your own

  161. affections. In return I speak to you as

  162. children. Widen your hearts also. This

  163. is the word of God.

  164. So let's get into our text this morning.

  165. right after saying last week that we are

  166. ambassadors for Christ. God making his

  167. appeal to the world through you

  168. saying be reconciled to God. Then Paul

  169. keeps going with that thought in our

  170. text. And I want you to notice how he

  171. began verse one. He says working

  172. together with him. Now who is he talking

  173. about? Who is working together with

  174. whom? Well, the subject of the sentence

  175. is Paul and his co-workers.

  176. the people he said last week who are

  177. ambassadors for Christ.

  178. But it's not just limited to Paul and

  179. his co-workers. As we said last week,

  180. all Christians are ambassadors for

  181. Christ. That means you. He's talking

  182. about you in this text.

  183. Who is working together with whom? You

  184. are working together with someone. Who

  185. is the himymn? Who is the himymn that

  186. you're working together with that the

  187. sentence is referring to? It's referring

  188. to God. The one who initiates salvation,

  189. the one who makes people a new creation.

  190. You can see this clearly if you go back

  191. to 2 Corinthians chapter 5 21 and then

    2 Corinthians 5 chapter mention

  192. read through chapter 6 verse one. He

  193. says, "For our sake he," that's God made

  194. him who knew no sin to become sin that

  195. we might become the righteousness of

  196. God. working together with him. Working

  197. together. We work together with God. So

  198. this is us and Paul and the Corinthians

  199. and all Christians working together with

  200. God on something.

  201. Paul is saying we work alongside the one

  202. who did all the work in our salvation.

  203. Did you catch that? We work alongside

  204. the one who did all the work in our

  205. salvation.

  206. Now what is this work that we do

  207. together?

  208. Finish verse one. Working together with

  209. him. Then we appeal to you not to

  210. receive the grace of God in vain. This

  211. is how Paul and you and me and all

  212. Christians work together with God. We

  213. appeal to people. He appealed to the

  214. Corinthians not to receive the grace of

  215. God in vain. Now, I'll I'll explain in a

  216. little bit what receiving the grace of

  217. God in vain means, but let me just

  218. unpack that first part. That Paul's work

  219. and his ministry partners' work and your

  220. work is to appeal to people. We saw this

  221. last week too in 2 Corinthians 5:20

    2 Corinthians 5:20

  222. where Paul wrote, "Therefore, we are

  223. ambassadors for Christ. God making his

  224. appeal through us. We implore you on

  225. behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God."

  226. So that's the first kind of appeal that

  227. we are doing that we are working with

  228. God on. We're the messengers taking that

  229. message of reconciliation to the people

  230. who have not yet heard it or who have

  231. not yet believed.

  232. The work we do with God is we appeal on

  233. God's behalf. We plead with people. We

  234. challenge them to first be reconciled to

  235. God by receiving his grace, his

  236. forgiveness, his peace. And then we

  237. appeal to them. This is important. And

  238. then we appeal to them to not receive it

  239. in vain, to keep on receiving it, to

  240. keep on receiving that grace.

  241. That means pleading with people not to

  242. lose faith.

  243. That's how Christians work together with

  244. God. He does the saving. He does the

  245. reconciling. He makes the new creation.

  246. He gives the grace. And all we do and

  247. what we do most importantly is we beg

  248. people to receive it.

  249. That's our job

  250. to receive it and keep on receiving it.

  251. Now, back to this very important phrase

  252. in verse one. We appeal to you not to

  253. receive the grace of God in vain.

  254. Vain means empty.

  255. How can you receive the grace of God in

  256. vain?

  257. Vain is something that comes to nothing

  258. in the end. It was worthless. It was a

  259. waste of time in the end.

  260. How can the grace of God in our lives

  261. amount to nothing in the end? How is

  262. that possible? How can you be saved by

  263. grace and then not have it end in

  264. salvation?

  265. Well, the Bible has a category for this.

  266. There are many places where the New

  267. Testament is especially clear about how

  268. we can receive the grace of God in vain.

  269. how we can receive the grace of God and

  270. have it not actually end in our

  271. salvation. I'll mention a few of these

  272. passages. The first is Jesus's parable

  273. of the sewer and the seeds. We we read

  274. this in Matthew 13:es 3-23.

  275. Jesus said, "And he told them many

  276. things in parables, saying, a sewer went

  277. out to sew, and as he sowed, some seeds

  278. fell along the path, and the birds came

  279. and devoured them. Other seeds fell on

  280. rocky ground where they did not have

  281. much soil, and immediately they sprang

  282. up since they had no depth of soil. But

  283. when the sun rose, they were scorched,

  284. and since they had no root, they

  285. withered away. Other seeds fell among

  286. the thorns, and the thorns grew up and

  287. choked them. Other seeds fell on good

  288. soil and produced grain, some hundfold,

  289. some 60, some 30. Then skip to verse 18

  290. where we read Jesus's explanation of

  291. this parable. Hear then the parable of

  292. the swer. When anyone hears the word of

  293. the kingdom and does not understand it,

  294. the evil one comes and snatches away

  295. what has been swn in his heart. This is

  296. what was sown along the path. As for

  297. what was sown on rocky ground, this is

  298. the one who hears the word and

  299. immediately receives it with joy.

  300. someone who's tasting grace and yet he

  301. has no root in himself but endures for a

  302. while and when tribulation or

  303. persecution arises on account of the

  304. word immediately he falls away. As for

  305. what was sown among thorns, this is the

  306. one who hears the word but the cares of

  307. the world and the deceitfulness of

  308. riches choke the word and it proves

  309. unfruitful.

  310. As for what was sown on good soil, this

  311. is the one who hears the word and

  312. understands it. He indeed bears fruit

  313. and yields in one case a hundfold in

  314. another case 60 in another 30.

  315. Jesus explains that the seeds in this

  316. story are the gospel. This is the

  317. message of reconciliation that we are

  318. taking to the world as ambassadors for

  319. Christ and we're begging people to

  320. receive it. And then there are four

  321. kinds of seeds that he mentions there.

  322. One kind does not receive the message at

  323. all. You've met many people like this.

  324. You were a person kind of like this at

  325. one point until God softened your heart

  326. and made you new. You hear the gospel

  327. and you don't receive it. You just

  328. reject it. You can't believe it.

  329. That there are many people in the world

  330. like that. But there are three other

  331. kinds of seeds that do receive it. I

  332. think we misunderstand this parable

  333. sometimes. They do receive. They take

  334. root for a little while. Unfortunately,

  335. two of those three receive the grace in

  336. vain. The grace comes to nothing in the

  337. end. Those who receive the grace and

  338. start to grow, but then they begin to

  339. suffer for Christ and they abandon the

  340. grace. They abandon Christ.

  341. They have received the grace of God in

  342. vain.

  343. or the others that receive the grace and

  344. they start to grow but then they get

  345. distracted by the comforts of this life

  346. and they forget about the grace of God.

  347. They lose their first love and then

  348. their grace also comes to nothing in the

  349. end. They have received it in vain.

  350. So Jesus explains through the parable

  351. how one receives the grace of God in

  352. vain. Namely, you fail to endure. You

  353. fail to end. You don't grow up. You

  354. don't grow up. You die out.

  355. something causes you to give up.

  356. Excessive discomfort or excessive

  357. comfort

  358. or something else causes some to not

  359. endure in the grace that God has given.

  360. Here's a second New Testament passage

  361. that speaks to receiving the grace of

  362. God in vain. Receiving the grace of God

  363. and it ends up being wasted.

  364. Hebrews chapter 6 verses 4-8

    Hebrews 6:4–8

  365. the author of Hebrews writes for it is

  366. impossible in the case of those who have

  367. once been enlightened who have tasted

  368. the heavenly gift who have shared in the

  369. Holy Spirit and have tasted the goodness

  370. of the word of God and the powers of the

  371. age to come and then have fallen away.

  372. It's impossible to restore them again to

  373. repentance since they are crucifying

  374. once again the son of God to their own

  375. harm and holding him up in contempt. For

  376. the land has drunk the rain that often

  377. falls on it and produces a crop useful

  378. to those for whose sake it is cultivated

  379. receives a blessing from God. But if it

  380. bears thorns and thistles, it is

  381. worthless and near to being cursed, and

  382. its end is to be burned.

  383. Now, this is not talking about

  384. Christians who lose their salvation.

  385. This is talking about those seeds which

  386. spring up. They do grow. They do receive

  387. grace.

  388. They taste the gifts and the goodness of

  389. Christ, but they are not new creations.

  390. They are not born again. They seem like

  391. it at first. They look like, you know,

  392. these little sprigs of plants. They all

  393. look the same at first.

  394. They look just like Christians, but in

  395. the end they get choked out or scorched

  396. out. This is what the Apostle John was

  397. writing about when he said in 1 John

    1 John 2:19

  398. 2:19, "They went out from us, but they

  399. were not of us. For if they had been of

  400. us, they would have continued with us,

  401. but they went out that it might become

  402. plain that they all are not of us."

  403. Those who do not endure in the faith do

  404. not lose their salvation.

  405. I can't I can't say this carefully

  406. enough.

  407. Those who do not endure in their faith

  408. do not lose their salvation.

  409. Rather, they prove that they receive the

  410. grace of God in vain. They were never

  411. among us.

  412. They prove that they were never among

  413. us.

  414. This is the whole point of the book of

  415. Revelation. This is the whole point of

  416. the book of Revelation.

  417. The one who conquers will inherit the

  418. new heavens and the new earth. The one

  419. who conquers will eat of the tree of

  420. life. The one who conquers will be

  421. delivered from the second death. The one

  422. who conquers will receive a new name.

  423. The one who conquers will have authority

  424. over the nations. The one who conquers

  425. will have their names written in the

  426. book of life. The one who conquers will

  427. be a pillar in the temple of God. And

  428. the one who conquers will sit on

  429. Christ's throne with him. That's what

  430. the book of Revelation is about. So you

  431. believed in Jesus. You received the

  432. grace of God. Good for you. Keep on

  433. believing. That is the appeal of the

  434. Christian ambassador. You must keep on

  435. receiving. You must endure to the very

  436. end.

  437. Church, let this be a warning for you.

  438. Some of you may have tasted the heavenly

  439. gift.

  440. You may have godly parents. Maybe you've

  441. shared in the Holy Spirit at church.

  442. You've you've sampled it. You've sampled

  443. things that belong to eternity

  444. and it was good and you loved it.

  445. You have to endure to the end. You have

  446. to conquer.

  447. Now, you won't do that in your own

  448. strength. You won't do that in your own

  449. strength.

  450. But ambassadors, what we do is we work

  451. together with God. We appeal to people

  452. to receive the grace of God in the first

  453. place and then to keep on receiving it.

  454. That's how you make it to the end. You

  455. keep on receiving grace all the way to

  456. the very end.

  457. We teach people to persevere, to

  458. conquer,

  459. and sometimes that requires correction.

  460. Sometimes that requires correction. If

  461. you see a little

  462. a little sprig of life about to be

  463. choked out

  464. by thorns,

  465. you do something about it. You call it

  466. out.

  467. Sometimes it necessitates a rebuke.

  468. Okay, we understand what Paul is doing

  469. with this text. So, we can move on. He's

  470. making an appeal to the people who are

  471. in danger, the Corinthians, who are in

  472. danger of not making it to the end. He

  473. sees them surrounded by thorns. He sees

  474. them being scorched by false teachers.

  475. And he's like, "You're in danger. I'm

  476. trying to help you. I'm trying to make

  477. sure you make it to the end."

  478. So next, Paul makes a passionate appeal

  479. by quoting the Old Testament book of

  480. Isaiah. Look at verse two with me.

  481. For he says, that is God says in Isaiah,

  482. "In a favorable time I listen to you,

  483. and in a day of salvation I have helped

  484. you. Behold, now is the favorable time."

  485. Behold, now is the day of salvation.

  486. Paul is quoting from a section in Isaiah

  487. 49. In that part of Isaiah, God is

  488. speaking to his people, Israel, when

  489. they were in utter rebellion against

  490. him. They were so defiant in this phase

  491. of their history. And so he brought in

  492. foreign nations to discipline them, to

  493. bring them back to himself, to humble

  494. them

  495. that they might repent and turn back to

  496. God. And Israel heard, they heard, they

  497. got the message and they asked God for

  498. deliverance. They asked him for help.

  499. And he writes Isaiah 49 in response. And

  500. he promises help will come. He promises

  501. a Messiah. He promises a day of

  502. salvation.

  503. He promises to deliver them to remove

  504. Israel's sins from her and to purify

  505. her. Not just her, but the whole world

  506. through a suffering servant. Now, we

  507. know that person to be Jesus Christ.

  508. They didn't have a name for him yet. But

  509. they knew there was somebody who was

  510. going to come. Some Messiah, some Christ

  511. would come into this world and he would

  512. rescue us from our sins and he would

  513. deliver us.

  514. We know who that is.

  515. The second half of the verse, Paul says,

  516. "Today is the day. Today is the day of

  517. salvation.

  518. Today is the day where you can find

  519. favor with God."

  520. He's telling the Corinthians, "If you

  521. have a chance to repent, if you can hear

  522. my words,

  523. today is the day to repent. Today is the

  524. day to to come back to God."

  525. in West Hills. The truth of the matter

  526. is that the day to repent is always

  527. today. It's never when I'm done having

  528. fun. It's not later when I'll get my

  529. life together. It's never then. It's not

  530. tomorrow. It's today. It's always today.

  531. Today, if you have a chance, it's today.

  532. This is what the author of Hebrews means

  533. in Hebrews 3:12-15.

    Hebrews 3:12–15

  534. He says, "Take care, brothers, lest

  535. there be in any of you an evil,

  536. unbelieving heart leading you to fall

  537. away from the living God, but exhort one

  538. another every day as long as it is

  539. called today, that none of you may be

  540. hardened by the deceitfulness of sin.

  541. For we have come to share in Christ if

  542. indeed we hold our original confidence

  543. firm to the end. As it is said today, if

  544. you hear his voice, do not harden your

  545. hearts as in the rebellion.

  546. I got to move on. We're through two

  547. verses.

  548. Don't worry, we're going to go much

  549. faster through the rest of this. So,

  550. what's happened in our text so far?

  551. Paul has said that the job of

  552. ambassadors for Christ is to appeal to

  553. people to receive the grace of God and

  554. to keep on receiving it.

  555. They need to he we need to appeal to

  556. people to receive God's reconciliation

  557. and then not waste it by falling away

  558. but to keep on believing it all the way

  559. to the end to endure, to conquer, to

  560. persevere.

  561. Now Paul shifts gears a bit in verse

  562. three. He says, "We put no obstacle in

  563. anyone's way so that no fault may be

  564. found with us or with our ministry."

  565. Now, Paul is about to defend himself for

  566. what feels like the 10th time in second

  567. Corinthians. He's had to say some pretty

  568. hard things to the Corinthians so far in

  569. this book and in First Corinthians as

  570. well. He's had to rebuke them because

  571. some of them are closed off to hearing

  572. from him. Some of them are rejecting him

  573. as an apostle and as a leader. And

  574. they're in danger of falling away from

  575. the gospel and receiving the grace of

  576. God in vain. So Paul is trying to

  577. explain how his ministry was an attempt

  578. to serve the Corinthians, not hurt them.

  579. He's like, "Everything I've done for

  580. you, I know it was painful, but it was

  581. for your good."

  582. So in verse three, he's essentially

  583. saying, "Look, our ministry is above

  584. reproach.

  585. You may have been offended by me, but we

  586. were trying to help you.

  587. And then in verse four, he begins this

  588. long list of proofs that his ministry

  589. towards them was sincere. Notice what he

  590. says in verses four and five. But as

  591. servants of God, we commend ourselves in

  592. every way by great endurance in

  593. afflictions, hardships, calamities,

  594. beatings, imprisonments, riots, labors,

  595. sleepless nights, hunger. Here Paul

  596. lists some of the many things he's had

  597. to endure to bring this message of

  598. salvation to the Corinthians. He'll go

  599. into even greater detail about these

  600. sufferings in chapter 11, but for now

  601. he's bringing it up just to make an

  602. important point. He's trying to prove

  603. his love for them.

  604. When you know someone has suffered

  605. tremendously for your sake, it's a

  606. little easier to receive rebukes. Or it

  607. should be it should be easier. It should

  608. be easier to take correction from

  609. somebody that you know loves you.

  610. The more someone loves you, the more we

  611. should hear them when they challenge us.

  612. The more seriously we should take their

  613. charges, their corrections, their

  614. criticisms because we know they're

  615. trying to help us.

  616. Paul is saying, "Look at what I have

  617. done. Look at what I have done for you,

  618. Corinthians. Don't reject me. Don't

  619. close off your hearts to me. My heart

  620. was broken for you so many times.

  621. The proof of someone's love for you is

  622. their willingness to suffer for you.

  623. Whenever I do premarital counseling with

  624. couples, I always talk to the the woman,

  625. the female fiance about what it's like

  626. to submit to a husband.

  627. And then I talk to the man about what

  628. it's like much harder job for the man.

  629. what it's like to love your wife like

  630. Christ loves the church, giving himself

  631. up for her.

  632. And I and I tell these guys, you know,

  633. you're you're going to be willing to

  634. take a bullet for your wife. At least

  635. you should be. You have no business

  636. getting married if you won't take a

  637. bullet for your wife.

  638. And they're like, yeah, I'll take a

  639. bullet. And I'm like, great. You'll

  640. never have to do that. That's never

  641. going to happen in Morgan Hill,

  642. California. Like,

  643. and and sure, if it does happen, great.

  644. you'll have a great opportunity.

  645. But

  646. what you will, you can't just trade I'm

  647. willing to take a bullet for her for all

  648. of the thousand little deaths that you

  649. should be dying every single day to love

  650. your wife. It is much harder to every

  651. single day change diapers, wash dishes,

  652. take out the trash. That is harder than

  653. one time maybe probably not ever taking

  654. a bullet.

  655. You suffer

  656. for the person you love. That is

  657. Christlike.

  658. That is what Paul did for the

  659. Corinthians. Paul proves his love by his

  660. willingness to suffer for them. He goes

  661. on with his list in verse six, but his

  662. list changes tone a bit. His list shifts

  663. from what he endured for their sake to

  664. how he endured it. Look with me at

  665. verses six and seven. By purity,

  666. knowledge, patience, kindness, the Holy

  667. Spirit, genuine love, by truthful

  668. speech, and the power of God with the

  669. weapons of righteousness for the right

  670. hand and the left. Here Paul is

  671. highlighting the positive marks of his

  672. ministry. Yes, he suffered greatly for

  673. the sake of the Corinthians, but his

  674. ministry was also marked by purity and

  675. knowledge and patience. So many good

  676. things accompanied his ministry. It

  677. wasn't all hard. It wasn't all negative.

  678. But Paul's not done with his list.

  679. His next list shows how much the

  680. Corinthians have misunderstood him. They

  681. have missed the love that he has tried

  682. to convey, that he has tried to prove

  683. over and over again. Look at verses 8

  684. through10. Through honor and dishonor,

  685. through slander and praise, we are

  686. treated as impostors and yet are true.

  687. As unknown yet well-known, as dying and

  688. behold, we live. As punished and yet are

  689. and not killed, as sorrowful yet always

  690. rejoicing. As poor yet making many rich,

  691. as having nothing yet possessing

  692. everything.

  693. To paraphrase Paul, he's saying, "You

  694. Corinthians are rejecting my apostilhip

  695. and the gospel that I proclaim to you.

  696. You treat me like an impostor, but I am

  697. sincere. You act like you don't know me,

  698. but you know me very well. You treat me

  699. like I'm about to die, like I'm about to

  700. become irrelevant, but I'm still very

  701. much alive.

  702. You're ashamed that I'm always punished.

  703. You're embarrassed by me that I have not

  704. been killed yet.

  705. You're bummed out that my life is so

  706. sorrowful, so sad, so pitiable,

  707. but I'm still rejoicing.

  708. You're embarrassed that I'm poor, but I

  709. became poorer to make you rich in faith.

  710. You think I have nothing? I have

  711. everything.

  712. I have everything. Why are you rejecting

  713. me? Why are you rejecting the gospel

  714. that I preached? Look at what I've done

  715. for you, Corinthians.

  716. Now he's done with his lists, but he has

  717. another thing to add. Look at verses 11

  718. and 12. We have spoken freely to you,

  719. Corinthians. Our heart is wide open. You

  720. are not restricted by us, but you are

  721. restricted in your own affections.

  722. Paul is putting the fractured

  723. relationship between himself and the

  724. Corinthians completely on them. He says,

  725. "This is your fault." If there's any

  726. sort of fracture between us Corinthians,

  727. us and you Corinthians, it's your fault.

  728. Our hearts were open wide. We were

  729. sincere. We suffered for you and you

  730. closed off your hearts to us.

  731. Don't miss the grace of God,

  732. Corinthians, by closing off your hearts.

  733. I don't want you to have received the

  734. grace of God in vain. That's what he's

  735. saying.

  736. Christians, are you in danger of being

  737. like the Corinthians?

  738. Closed off to correction, withholding

  739. affection

  740. from those who would challenge you and

  741. help you grow.

  742. Be careful. They may be the ones who are

  743. working together with God to make sure

  744. that you did not receive the grace of

  745. God in vain.

  746. They are probably in your life to help

  747. you endure, to help you change, to help

  748. you grow. Be thankful for the people in

  749. your life who correct you

  750. because we can so easily be like the

  751. Corinthians. We restrict ourselves. I

  752. see children do this with their parents

  753. all the time. Parents correct or

  754. discipline their kids and kids get angry

  755. and defensive because they misunderstand

  756. what love is, right?

  757. And then we do that as adults too.

  758. Children don't see how much their

  759. parents have suffered.

  760. How much they've given up,

  761. how they've become poor to make their

  762. children rich.

  763. In some ways,

  764. they don't see what their parents have

  765. sacrificed. They don't see. They don't

  766. understand how much their parents love

  767. them. One of my kids tells me every

  768. single day, "Dad, I love you more than

  769. you love me.

  770. And I'm like, you wait.

  771. One day you will know that that's not

  772. true.

  773. I see this with people and their elders

  774. sometimes, too.

  775. People

  776. don't see how much the elders pray for

  777. them,

  778. how much we love them, how much we fret

  779. over them, how anxious we are for them,

  780. how much sleep we lose when you suffer

  781. or when you're trapped in sin.

  782. And when we have to confront someone, we

  783. know we're rolling the dice on the

  784. relationship

  785. because there's a good chance that this

  786. correction or this rebuke or this

  787. critique will be interpreted as an

  788. attack and there will be a fight

  789. orflight response

  790. instead of receiving it for what it

  791. really is, which is love.

  792. It's an attempt to prevent you from

  793. receiving the grace of God in vain,

  794. from having the grace of God wasted in

  795. your life.

  796. So here is Paul giving a stern warning

  797. for all Christians, Christians in this

  798. room.

  799. Hatred of correction can lead to the

  800. rejection of the gospel.

  801. can lead to a rejection of the gospel

  802. and then to receiving the grace of God

  803. in vain.

  804. The gospel

  805. the gospel itself

  806. is a giant offensive correction.

  807. The message of reconciliation is that

  808. you are wrong

  809. and you were born wrong.

  810. Not just that you sin, but you were born

  811. a rebel, an enemy of God that needs to

  812. be remedied. And Jesus is that remedy.

  813. And God corrects you by making you a new

  814. creation. That is the ultimate

  815. correction. You had to be remade.

  816. You had to be made new. You had to be

  817. given a new heart because the old one,

  818. the heart of stone, wasn't working. It

  819. was never going to bring you to God. It

  820. was never going to get you there. And he

  821. offers you amnesty for your rebellion by

  822. sending Jesus to the cross to receive

  823. the punishment for your defiance, for

  824. your rebellion. He reaped what you sowed

  825. and he became sin for your sake. And you

  826. ex in exchange reap what he sowed and

  827. you became a child of God.

  828. And Christ, hear this, Christ did not

  829. close off his heart towards you. Oh, how

  830. he could have. He could have closed off

  831. his heart to me.

  832. He should have.

  833. But he didn't.

  834. He did not restrict his love for you,

  835. but instead his heart was pierced by a

  836. spear for you. And he proves his love

  837. for you by his suffering for you.

  838. And then he sends correction to us.

  839. When we stumble,

  840. sometimes the correction of the Lord

  841. comes through the conviction of the Holy

  842. Spirit and and the hol and his holy

  843. word. That's how it usually comes.

  844. That's typically how you receive

  845. correction, right? You you do something

  846. wrong. You sin in some way. You treat

  847. somebody poorly and the spirit is like,

  848. "That was messed up." And you're like,

  849. "Yep, it was." And you repent. That's

  850. that's normally how correction comes. Or

  851. or it comes in the form of you reading

  852. your Bible and you see something and

  853. you're like, "I've never seen that

  854. before. I've got to change this right

  855. now. Correction comes through the Holy

  856. Spirit and the Holy Word.

  857. But sometimes it comes through brothers

  858. and sisters, people who are outside of

  859. your situation who can see what's really

  860. going on. You're too close to it, but

  861. they can see it.

  862. You need other people from the outside

  863. to offer correction. I don't know if if

  864. you're a glasses wearer. I mean, have

  865. you ever taken off your glasses and like

  866. seen like the the gunk that's collected

  867. on them, right? You're too close to it

  868. to see it, but other people have been

  869. probably watching that for a while and

  870. kind of grossed out.

  871. You need other people. You're too close

  872. to it.

  873. Sometimes it comes through our pastors

  874. and our elders, our community group

  875. leaders, people in our church.

  876. Sometimes it comes through your children

  877. or your parents or your friends if you

  878. have good friends. But however

  879. correction comes to you, this is Paul's

  880. final appeal in our text. Verse 13. In

  881. return, he said, I give love to you. In

  882. return, I speak to you as children.

  883. Widen your hearts.

  884. Widen your hearts also. My heart is open

  885. wide for you. Widen your hearts.

  886. So what is our responsibility in our

  887. salvation?

  888. Widen your hearts to the correction of

  889. God.

  890. Widen your hearts for God and others.

  891. Don't restrict your love. Reject the

  892. fight or flight instinct when you're

  893. challenged.

  894. Stay there and be changed by the

  895. correction, by the challenge.

  896. Now I want to end by giving you two

  897. attitudes to adopt so that you will not

  898. receive the grace of God in vain. This

  899. will help you to not receive the grace

  900. of God in vain. The first attitude is

  901. humility.

  902. Let me give you two verses that really

  903. drive this home. Proverbs 12:1,

    Proverbs 12:1

  904. "Whoever loves discipline loves

  905. knowledge, but whoever hates correction

  906. is stupid."

  907. Didn't know that word was in the Bible,

  908. did you? I'm not allowed to say that

  909. word. But whoever loves discipline loves

  910. knowledge, but whoever hates correction

  911. is stupid.

  912. James 4:6, God opposes the proud, but

    James 4:6

  913. gives grace to the humble. You want to

  914. keep on receiving grace,

  915. be humble.

  916. When someone corrects you, again,

  917. disregarding abusive people, but when

  918. someone corrects you, someone who loves

  919. you corrects you and is willing to

  920. suffer for you, someone who's willing to

  921. risk their relationship with you to tell

  922. you something hard, when that kind of

  923. person corrects you, listen to them.

  924. They're probably right, at least mostly

  925. right or right about something.

  926. Can you have enough humility to believe

  927. that the people who love you and are

  928. willing to correct you are probably

  929. right?

  930. Think about what they say and ask honest

  931. people if they agree. Don't ask your

  932. friends who think you're super amazing

  933. at everything. They're not going to tell

  934. you the truth. Ask your friends who who

  935. tell you the truth even when it hurts.

  936. If you don't have people like that in

  937. your life,

  938. you need to get some. If you don't have

  939. people in your life who tell you the

  940. truth even when it hurts, who are

  941. willing to roll the dice on your

  942. relationship because they love you that

  943. much, you need to get some of those

  944. people in your life.

  945. If you need to join a community group,

  946. if you need to become a member of the

  947. church,

  948. become a part of a people who love one

  949. another enough to tell each other hard

  950. things.

  951. Have humility with God and with others.

  952. Be willing to be corrected and

  953. challenged by God. Not everything you do

  954. is amazing.

  955. It's it's just not all amazing.

  956. If you want to grow, you'll need some

  957. correction. You'll need some challenges

  958. in your life. And those are always

  959. uncomfortable.

  960. Now, if no one ever corrects you in your

  961. life, it might be it might be because

  962. you're not known.

  963. If you have nobody speaking into your

  964. life, it might be that you're not known.

  965. You have only shallow relationships.

  966. And this leads me to the second attitude

  967. that we should adopt from this text.

  968. Vulnerability.

  969. This is implied by Paul's last words in

  970. the text. Widen your hearts. Let people

  971. It has to be wide enough for people to

  972. come in. Open the door. Let people see

  973. what's in there.

  974. Widen your hearts. Paul let the

  975. Corinthians know the real him. He opened

  976. his heart wide. He's like, "This is all

  977. of me. All the raw Paul. It's all here.

  978. Now you do the same. Also widen your

  979. hearts. Let people in.

  980. How will people be able to speak into

  981. your life if they don't know what's

  982. going on? If they don't know the real

  983. you. You might think, "Ah, that's why

  984. I'm not vulnerable. I don't want people

  985. to know what's really going on. If they

  986. do, they might correct me. They might

  987. challenge me." If that's you, you will

  988. never change. You will never change with

  989. that attitude.

  990. Change requires being challenged. And

  991. being challenged requires being known.

  992. And being known requires being

  993. vulnerable.

  994. Don't miss the grace of God by closing

  995. off your heart to the people that he

  996. brings into your life with the message

  997. of reconciliation and with a message of

  998. correction. He's giving you the grace

  999. that will not be in vain.

  1000. We've seen Paul plead with the

  1001. Corinthians. He plead he plead with

  1002. them. Don't miss the grace of God by

  1003. closing off your hearts.

  1004. And why would they close off their

  1005. hearts their hearts? Why would they be

  1006. tempted to do that? Because the path of

  1007. faith is hard. The path of

  1008. reconciliation, the path of bearing

  1009. fruit is often marked with suffering and

  1010. misunderstanding and correction. It's

  1011. human nature to want to flee from

  1012. challenge and to shrink back from pain

  1013. and to restrict our affections when love

  1014. demands vulnerability and when Christ

  1015. demands change. It's human nature to

  1016. shrink back from these things. They're

  1017. scary. They're hard. We don't choose to

  1018. go through hard things most of the time.

  1019. But look again at Jesus. He did not

  1020. close his heart to you. He did not

  1021. restrict his love. Instead, his heart

  1022. was open wide and pierced on the cross

  1023. to prove his love for you by his

  1024. suffering, offering you amnesty and

  1025. reconciliation and the ultimate

  1026. correction of a new creation.

  1027. And so, West Hills, this morning, I'm

  1028. calling you to be courageous.

  1029. The battle is real, but the victory is

  1030. certain. Keep your heart humble to

  1031. correction so your faith doesn't wither

  1032. in suffering or get choked out by

  1033. comfort. Don't receive the glorious

  1034. grace of God in vain by closing off your

  1035. heart.

  1036. Widen your hearts to people who would

  1037. correct you. Humble your spirit and

  1038. embrace the vulnerability required to

  1039. endure.

  1040. You have received the grace already. If

  1041. you're in Christ, you have received the

  1042. grace. Now all you have to do is keep on

  1043. receiving the grace, holding your

  1044. original confidence firm to the end.

  1045. Be the one who conquers by the grace

  1046. that he supplies. Let's pray.