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Life on the Vine

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  1. [music]

  2. Good morning.

  3. >> Good morning, OC Church. Uh let's give a

  4. hand here to our Spanish mystery worship

  5. team. [cheering]

  6. I know you've heard them before because

  7. we're up there and every now and then we

  8. catch the Holy Spirit and get a little

  9. louder. Um, but no, it's been great to

  10. be here. Speaking of the Holy Spirit

  11. in Acts chapter 2,

    Acts 2 chapter mention

  12. as the Holy Spirit descends on the young

  13. congregation

  14. and Peter is empowered uh to preach to

  15. people who were from other lands

  16. visiting Jerusalem at the time. There

  17. are

  18. these amazing signs, sounds and sights

  19. uh that

  20. pull the people to come towards Peter to

  21. hear

  22. the gospel for the first time.

  23. And it's interesting that the people in

  24. response to all the miraculous things

  25. they are seeing,

  26. if you go back to Acts chapter 2, what

    Acts 2 chapter mention

  27. they say is,

  28. "We hear you

  29. declaring

  30. the wonders of God

  31. in our native

  32. language,

  33. signaling to us that even though those

  34. people were not from Jerusalem. They

  35. spoke their own native language. It was

  36. important to the Holy Spirit. It was a

  37. priority to the Holy Spirit to deliver

  38. the message of the resurrected Lord in

  39. people's native language.

  40. The spirit did not call them to

  41. assimilate to one dominant language, but

  42. the spirit embraced and spoke to

  43. everyone in their native language. And

  44. that's a little bit of what God is up to

  45. in the OC church as we are one church

  46. with three languages. Amen.

  47. >> Our Korean ministry is upstairs having

  48. their own service and maybe one day

  49. we'll have a triilingual

  50. worship service. Amen.

  51. >> Only if there's food after. Can I get an

  52. amen?

  53. >> Amen to that. As we continue our study

  54. here in the of the Holy Spirit, life on

  55. the vine,

  56. let's read this passage once again in

  57. Galatians

  58. 6 22.

  59. It reads, "But the fruits of but the

  60. fruit of the spirit is love,

  61. joy, peace, forbearance,

  62. kindness, goodness, faithfulness, and

  63. you've done those studies. And today we

  64. will do gentleness."

  65. In a few weeks, we'll conclude with

  66. self-control. And Paul goes on to say,

  67. "Against such thing there is no law."

  68. Let's keep reading a little bit.

  69. Those who belong to Christ

  70. have crucified the flesh with its

  71. passions and desires.

  72. Since we live by the spirit, let us keep

  73. in step with the spirit. Let us not

  74. become

  75. conceited,

  76. provoking and envying

  77. each other. That's a no no.

  78. And Paul continues and says, "Brothers

  79. and sisters, if someone is caught in a

  80. sin,

  81. you who live by the spirit should

  82. restore that person

  83. gently."

  84. But watch yourselves

  85. or you may also be tempted.

  86. And we can summarize that that possible

  87. temptation is whatever you've witnessed

  88. that person do. And you don't want to

  89. once you hear it, you may be tempted. I

  90. guess there's room for that. But in the

  91. context of gentleness,

  92. isn't it interesting

  93. that after the description of these nine

  94. fruits and the eighth one, gentleness,

  95. right after that, he includes gentle

  96. again.

  97. He says you should restore that person

  98. gently, but watch yourselves so you also

  99. may be tempted. And he continues to say,

  100. "Carry each other's burdens, and in this

  101. way, you will fulfill the law of Christ.

  102. You ever been restored in your faith

  103. after a mistake?

  104. You ever been corrected when you were

  105. off?" And you look back and you can say,

  106. "Man, so grateful for that conversation.

  107. It changed me." Someone said it to me in

  108. a way that I needed to hear it. Is that

  109. not true? Yeah, that's in our past.

  110. There's also other experiences

  111. where we may still carry a hurt or a

  112. wound because of the way that things

  113. were done or expressed that didn't

  114. include the fruit of gentleness.

  115. As a result of those experiences,

  116. we then end up picking different types

  117. of habits as to how we encounter one

  118. another.

  119. And we'll either

  120. ignore because we don't want to go there

  121. or we don't want to sound harsh, right?

  122. Or

  123. we're just kind of sitting in seats of

  124. judgment looking for what mistakes

  125. people are making. Those are two

  126. extremes.

  127. I'm going to need some help today. So,

  128. can I get you guys to pass me these uh

  129. uh stools right here, please? I want to

  130. introduce you my uh co-partners in this

  131. lesson. [clears throat]

  132. Church, meet aggression. Everybody say,

  133. "Hi, aggression."

  134. >> Let's be nice to aggression.

  135. In church, please meet. Pacivity.

  136. Everybody say passivity.

  137. >> Pacivity is like

  138. aggression

  139. and passivity.

  140. Two extremes.

  141. Both make assumptions about what

  142. gentleness is,

  143. but they miss it.

  144. But we're going to help see in scripture

  145. today what gentleness is. Please turn

  146. your Bibles to Matthew 7 verse 29. We'll

    Matthew 7:29

  147. get there soon. But first, a little bit

  148. more dialogue in preparation for that.

  149. One of the definitions in scripture

  150. about gentleness is

  151. gentleness is a strength

  152. under God's reign.

  153. Gentleness is not a weakness.

  154. Gentleness is a strength that submits

  155. itself under God's reign.

  156. And here's the kicker.

  157. It is exercised with humility

  158. for the good of

  159. others.

  160. So gentleness

  161. is a strength

  162. submitted under God's reign

  163. that is exercised for the good of

  164. others.

  165. The way aggression understands

  166. gentleness

  167. is correcting others because I feel

  168. worried for you.

  169. So the protagonist for aggression in the

  170. correcting one another and the restoring

  171. one another is the fears and concerns of

  172. aggression. That's not gentleness. Are

  173. you with me right here?

  174. >> The filter of passivity of gentleness is

  175. you know everybody's got free will

  176. whatever you want to do. No judgment

  177. here.

  178. And that is standing in contrast to

  179. aggression. These two are rivals.

  180. They don't get along. They don't like

  181. each other.

  182. Can I can you just nod? Can you can you

  183. can we engage here? Like don't leave me

  184. alone here.

  185. And so it is important for us to not

  186. miss what gentleness is

  187. because all of us lean towards

  188. aggression

  189. or passivity. It could be a default.

  190. Sometimes it depends on the context.

  191. In certain spaces there's a leaning

  192. towards aggression. In other spaces,

  193. we're here again leaning towards

  194. pacivity.

  195. But what the spirit is forming

  196. in the Christian community

  197. is of fruits. these eight, these nine,

  198. but including

  199. gentleness.

  200. That we would be able to restore one

  201. another

  202. gently, not with the posture of

  203. aggression and that filter

  204. and not with the distance withdrawal of

  205. passivity.

  206. I'll just pray for you. Sometimes it's

  207. that's applicable, sometimes not. But

  208. the point is

  209. the spirit wants to form

  210. gentleness

  211. in us. In our modernday imagination or

  212. association of gentleness,

  213. uh it's definitely not viewed as a

  214. strength. It could be viewed as a

  215. weakness as someone is just a nice

  216. person.

  217. and we'll use uh sentiments of charity

  218. of there is such a gentle soul.

  219. There's not necessarily something wrong

  220. with that. But what I'm trying to

  221. recover is sometimes we can associate

  222. gentleness

  223. and remove the strength that comes from

  224. gentleness.

  225. Amen.

  226. >> So that's where we're at in the book

  227. Life on the Line. This chapter is titled

  228. Cultivating Gentleness in the midst of

  229. aggression.

  230. And the author goes on to critique our

  231. modern day culture. I would say our

  232. modern day cultures because there isn't

  233. one culture, there's multiple cultures.

  234. and the glorification of these cultures

  235. of violence

  236. all the way from entertainment to our

  237. word usage to our you know how we

  238. interact with one another, how we want

  239. to solve problems. And so the author

  240. pins uh or describes this permanent

  241. tension

  242. between GENTLENESS, WHAT THE SPIRIT IS

  243. trying to form in God's community and

  244. God's people and aggression, what the

  245. modern day cultures are forming in us.

  246. There is no violence in the kingdom of

  247. God.

  248. There is no manipulation

  249. in the kingdom of God.

  250. There's no passivity

  251. that's embraced in the kingdom of God.

  252. So we need gentleness. Now gentleness is

  253. not a halfway between aggression and

  254. passivity.

  255. Gentleness is something completely

  256. different.

  257. It's the way of the kingdom.

  258. So Paul has described the fruit of the

  259. spirit which includes

  260. gentleness.

  261. Matthew and why Matthew? Because in the

  262. Spanish ministry we've been studying on

  263. Matthew. So that's the world that we're

  264. in. Matthew uses gentleness as well and

  265. it's the same word.

  266. And so Jesus in the sermon on the mount,

  267. he says, "Blessed are the meek,

  268. or another word, humble, or another

  269. word, gentle,

  270. for they will inherit

  271. the earth."

  272. The filter of aggression

  273. hears that

  274. meek people

  275. inheriting the earth.

  276. What a waste.

  277. What's it going to produce with a bunch

  278. of meek people? What a waste of

  279. creation.

  280. Because aggressiveness,

  281. aggression does not understand

  282. gentleness.

  283. Passivity.

  284. I'm going to get my steps in today.

  285. >> [clears throat]

  286. >> hears that passage and says,"Great, we

  287. don't have to do anything. We're just

  288. going to receive it." Because they

  289. assume they are gentle. But gentle is

  290. not passivity.

  291. Remember Paul? Paul says, "Restore one

  292. another gently.

  293. You can engage with someone else's

  294. struggle and passivity."

  295. So passivity seats itself as a recipient

  296. of the blessing.

  297. aggression seats itself as what a waste

  298. of that blessing. But if we come back to

  299. Jesus,

  300. his intent in his kingdom is to form a

  301. people that are gentle. And that's just

  302. one of the biatitudes. And he goes on uh

  303. in the sermon on the mount about other

  304. uh qualities that describe kingdom. One

  305. of the things that we discovered in

  306. studying the sermon on the mount was

  307. that everything that Jesus is teaching

  308. in the sermon on the mount

  309. equals to two things. One, who he is.

  310. Everything he teaches in the sermon on

  311. the mount is a description of who Jesus

  312. is.

  313. He is humble. He mourns. He is salt and

  314. light. He doesn't judge. He doesn't

  315. create do miracles and announce it to be

  316. praised. He does everything for the

  317. glory of the father. So everything Jesus

  318. is teaching, he's also describing who he

  319. is.

  320. You with me?

  321. >> He also

  322. in the sermon on the mount is describing

  323. everything his ministry is going to be

  324. about. So everything he teaches in the

  325. sermon on the mount, he then embodies it

  326. in his ministry through the rest of

  327. Matthew. So the sermon of the mount

  328. is a lot of things, but two of those is

  329. the description of Godself

  330. and a description of God's ministry.

  331. Amen.

  332. >> And one of his formations is

  333. gentleness.

  334. Later in Matthew in chapter 11,

  335. guess how Jesus is going to describe

  336. himself.

  337. And if you've been around James Willis,

  338. he'll quote the scripture every three

  339. days.

  340. [clears throat] Jesus is gentle

  341. at heart. of all the things

  342. that Godself that Jesus could have

  343. described himself as, he says, "I am

  344. gentle."

  345. So if you lean towards aggression,

  346. you may want to reconsider

  347. the strength of gentleness.

  348. And if you lean towards pacivity, you

  349. may want to reconsider

  350. that you may not be embodying

  351. gentleness.

  352. In that same passage, what is Jesus

  353. doing? Come carry burdens with me. I'll

  354. carry them with you. I am gentle at

  355. heart. Let's do this together.

  356. Aggression depends on self.

  357. I got to be the hero. I got to go make

  358. it happen. I got to do this. That's the

  359. filter how aggression sees itself and

  360. others and filters God in scripture.

  361. Very dangerous.

  362. Pacivity

  363. does the same thing. It misses. It just

  364. wants to be carried. Let others do it.

  365. It doesn't participate faithfully

  366. in the mission in the life of the

  367. kingdom of God.

  368. Are you with me right here?

  369. >> And later in Matthew chapter

    Matthew 21 chapter mention

  370. 21,

  371. a prophet is quoted as Jesus enters

  372. Jerusalem.

  373. And of all the descriptions of this

  374. prophetic entry,

  375. Matthew chooses to describe Jesus as a

  376. gentle king.

  377. Your king comes to you gentle,

  378. riding on a donkey. During that time of

  379. Passover, people are, you know, in the

  380. city. There's all crowds all over. You

  381. need more police. you need more armed

  382. forces. You you need more of your Roman

  383. army. And so on one side, here's Jesus

  384. riding gently

  385. on a donkey into the city. And on the

  386. other side of the city, you have the

  387. Roman soldiers marching in on foot,

  388. horses with weapons. the contrast

  389. between kingdom and empire coming into

  390. the city.

  391. So gentleness

  392. is a strength.

  393. Gentleness is who God is.

  394. And gentleness

  395. does not get along with aggression.

  396. And gentleness

  397. interrupts deeply the posture of

  398. passivity.

  399. Amen.

  400. >> And so let's go back here one slide.

  401. I wrote this.

  402. Gentleness

  403. it's God's way of exercising

  404. authority.

  405. The spirit forms us to reflect Christ's

  406. likeness. Is that not what the spirit's

  407. up to? And so in Jesus,

  408. we witness authority exercised

  409. without aggression and without

  410. passivity.

  411. always for the father's glory and

  412. the restoration

  413. of others.

  414. Therefore,

  415. the spirit forms a community

  416. marked by gentleness

  417. that guides,

  418. welcomes,

  419. restores,

  420. and bears one another's burdens rather

  421. than seeking self protection.

  422. What was the sermon about today? This

  423. is the summary of my study of

  424. gentleness, the chapter on li the book

  425. life on the vine and the content for

  426. today.

  427. So let's talk about our postures before

  428. we read Matthew chapter 7.

    Matthew 7 chapter mention

  429. Which one do you lean towards the most

  430. and why? and how did you get there?

  431. I'm going to assume that you're like me,

  432. which means I spend more time in the

  433. posture of aggression

  434. and passivity

  435. than gentleness.

  436. But it's what the spirit is trying to

  437. form in me, in you, in our homes, in our

  438. family, in our fellowship, in our

  439. church.

  440. I'm going to venture to say that in this

  441. new era of the OC church

  442. that we are being led and ushered by God

  443. into something

  444. new. Those could be just words, but I'm

  445. going to choose to trust

  446. that God is living present and active in

  447. forming the OC church into one faithful

  448. community, three languages, and

  449. restoring our relationships with God,

  450. with ourselves, and with one another.

  451. I'm going to choose to believe that when

  452. I step into the space of the OC church

  453. and I interact that the spirit is

  454. already present and at work forming us

  455. and forming the fruit of the spirit. All

  456. nine dynamics.

  457. And these are these these nine uh

  458. fruits. Let's say they're not this

  459. checklist of self-help, you know, things

  460. that we need to do more of.

  461. Rather

  462. one,

  463. if it's the fruit of the spirit, that's

  464. who God is. Those are characteristics of

  465. God. As we have already noted,

  466. gentleness is a characteristic of Jesus.

  467. He embodies the true full embodiment of

  468. gentleness.

  469. Amen.

  470. and two that he's creating God's

  471. creating a new culture of how we

  472. interact with one another

  473. that we can get back to restoring one

  474. another

  475. gently.

  476. The challenge for that is not going to

  477. be God. It's going to be our

  478. assumptions,

  479. our hurts,

  480. right, and our dominant filters.

  481. Something about passivity.

  482. Passivity

  483. has chosen passivity because it's safe.

  484. I've passivity has chosen to disengage

  485. because

  486. I used to be aggression.

  487. And I don't want to be aggression

  488. anymore

  489. because when I was aggression,

  490. I hurt a lot of people.

  491. I use scripture

  492. that judged people and I regret it.

  493. And I was so tired of just being this

  494. hero, hero, and

  495. just who's in, who's out, AND ALL THIS

  496. THAT I GOT so burned out

  497. that I chose a safe space,

  498. passivity.

  499. The challenges with passivity is that

  500. now I miss being spiritual.

  501. I actually feel alone a lot because I

  502. don't have true genuine friends because

  503. I'm guarded.

  504. Often I actually don't even know what's

  505. happening

  506. and that bothers me

  507. and I want to blame people but ah

  508. whatever. So I'm just withdraw and when

  509. I hear aggression I just get triggered

  510. and I and it reassures me passivity is

  511. better. I don't want to do that again.

  512. Aggression.

  513. The dominant feeling for aggression is

  514. fear.

  515. Fear of passivity. [laughter]

  516. Fear that you, me, all of us will become

  517. passive. So I got to be full of

  518. aggression.

  519. We need to go back.

  520. I don't want to be that. That bothers

  521. me. They need to change.

  522. For aggression, the priority is you,

  523. not God.

  524. It's your feeling is what leads.

  525. In fairness to aggression,

  526. it's very well intended.

  527. It wants the passive group

  528. to be faithful to God.

  529. And they're active. They're serving,

  530. right? You're caring. You're doing.

  531. And you're really frustrated. Are you

  532. even a Christian?

  533. And passivity hears those tones and

  534. reads between the lines.

  535. And here's some of us. Here

  536. we go again

  537. and they're fighting off

  538. one another.

  539. And once pacivity says, you know what? I

  540. got to get out of pacivity,

  541. the misstep is I got to go back to

  542. aggression.

  543. And once aggression is burned out,

  544. they're going to go to pacivity.

  545. Oh, how the

  546. tables have turned. Or to quote the

  547. great Michael Scott, oh, how the

  548. turntables have turned.

  549. >> We got to get a office reference there

  550. before it dies out.

  551. >> Um,

  552. can we make an assumption that most of

  553. us have been in this

  554. chair movement

  555. arrangement?

  556. Can we consider how dangerous it is when

  557. you read scripture from a posture of

  558. aggression?

  559. You're full of enemies.

  560. Everything concerns you. It's a fear.

  561. You're going to treat people that way.

  562. It's hard to pray because you the way

  563. you treat others is how you're treating

  564. yourself. You're just projecting

  565. That's not a gentle.

  566. That's not what the spirit is trying to

  567. form.

  568. And passivity

  569. is also very dangerous

  570. because it lacks so much love.

  571. The opposite of love is indifference.

  572. in passivity.

  573. You see your friends hurting, but you

  574. already said nothing for so long.

  575. And then what it starts producing is a

  576. just insecurity.

  577. You cease to learn how to discern

  578. because all you do is ah I don't want to

  579. I don't want to be harsh so I say

  580. nothing.

  581. But thanks be to God for God

  582. that we have a king,

  583. that we have a God who wants to move us

  584. out of aggression and out of passivity

  585. and not switch tables or chairs again,

  586. but to embody, to be formed, to be

  587. gentle, to have a strength

  588. that's not self-reliant

  589. or critical. and save, but a strength

  590. that submits to the living, present God.

  591. That the motivation

  592. of gentleness is not fear, but it's

  593. genuine and it's not indifference, but

  594. it's genuine love for the sake of the

  595. other.

  596. I carry this. I carry your burden. I

  597. approach you. I initiate this

  598. conversations not because of my fear or

  599. concern, not because I I THIS IS THE

  600. RIGHT THING TO DO. NO, IT'S BECAUSE GOD

  601. CALLS me and you to be to love one

  602. another

  603. because God is forming us to be gentle,

  604. to be meek, to have that strength under

  605. God's reign.

  606. And if you have a role of leadership, of

  607. servitude, first and foremost, thank

  608. you.

  609. But could you please consider

  610. and be attentive in the next 24 hours

  611. how aggression comes out

  612. in the way you view others?

  613. And then when you notice it, pray,

  614. identify it, write it down. What's the

  615. root issue?

  616. Talk to someone. Move into gentleness

  617. with the God who's leading you and

  618. inviting you.

  619. And again, if you are in this role of

  620. servitude or leadership, thank you. Pay

  621. attention to the next 24 hours. And if

  622. you notice passivity, withdrawal,

  623. distance, indifference, cynicism,

  624. could you be attentive that the spirit

  625. just provoked you, interrupted you to

  626. wake up, oh sleeper,

  627. and come to gentleness,

  628. not go back to aggression, but to engage

  629. in a God centered way, all for the glory

  630. of God. and the benefit of others.

  631. Now to close, let's read

  632. how Jesus comes down the mountain after

  633. the sermon of the mount.

  634. And it's very symbolic that he went up

  635. to the mountain like Moses, but not

  636. Moses because Jesus is God. And so

  637. instead of Moses receives

  638. the law because he's human, Jesus sits

  639. there and reinterprets

  640. gives the true meaning of the law

  641. because he is God. Are you with me right

  642. here?

  643. >> And now there isn't a a Moses that comes

  644. down the mountain, but now is God

  645. himself,

  646. Jesus, that comes down. And Matthew is

  647. very intentional to show us

  648. the first actions of Jesus after his

  649. sermon. And so in verse chapter 8 verse

  650. or we're in 7:28 728 when Jesus had

  651. finished saying these things the crowds

  652. were amazed at his teaching because he

  653. taught as one who had what?

  654. >> Authority not as the teachers of the

  655. law. Again,

  656. the filter of authority for aggression.

  657. I'm the boss.

  658. We need a boss.

  659. We need a king.

  660. The filter

  661. of authority for passivity. Nobody wants

  662. none of that. They're all terrible.

  663. I'm going to do whatever I want.

  664. But the authority should not be

  665. condemned.

  666. We should move away from aggression

  667. filter of authority or the definition of

  668. passivity. But what is God's authority?

  669. So very intentional. Matthew draws this

  670. question. Okay, what kind of authority

  671. does he have? And now he's going to show

  672. us, Jesus is going to embody what this

  673. authority, what this gentleness is like.

  674. Amen.

  675. >> Chapter eight.

  676. When Jesus came down the mountain side,

  677. large crowds follow him. Here's number

  678. one. A man with leprosy came and knelt

  679. before him and said, "Lord, if you are

  680. willing, you can make me clean."

  681. Jesus reached out his hand and

  682. touched the man. I know you've read this

  683. before probably, but do you understand

  684. what's happening?

  685. God comes down the mountain and the

  686. first thing he does is what? Touches

  687. who?

  688. >> God comes down the mountain and what

  689. does he do? He touches a man, a human

  690. being who is in need, who is isolated,

  691. who has likely made some major mistakes

  692. in his life. And because of this disease

  693. that he has, he's been isolated from his

  694. community.

  695. So we see the authority of gentleness,

  696. the authority of Jesus that says

  697. I am willing.

  698. Aggression would interrogate the

  699. motives.

  700. Passivity would be like, I don't know if

  701. I'm the one. Can you get some help from

  702. someone else?

  703. It's not that bad.

  704. Gentleness

  705. says, "I am willing."

  706. Touches the man.

  707. Jesus is embodying

  708. what Paul wrote before Matthew was

  709. written. Yes, Galatians was written

  710. before Matthew

  711. that Jesus is restoring this person

  712. gently. And then he said, "Be clean."

  713. Immediately he was cleansed from his

  714. leprosy. Then Jesus said to him, "See

  715. that you do not tell anyone, but go show

  716. yourself to the priest and offer the

  717. gift Moses commanded as a testimony to

  718. them." Mark is going to take us

  719. somewhere else with the story. Matthew

  720. just leaves it like this to show us

  721. Jesus just preached, "I didn't come to

  722. abolish the law, but to fulfill it." So

  723. he heals this man and what does he say?

  724. Hey, go fulfill the law. And if this man

  725. were to go to the priest after being

  726. cleansed, the priest would examine him

  727. so that he's no longer a danger for

  728. himself. He's no longer a danger for the

  729. community. And the priest would come out

  730. and shout and declare in front of the

  731. community, clean, clean. And now

  732. everybody can welcome and feel safe

  733. around that person. And that person is

  734. no longer in isolation. That person is

  735. now back and restored into their

  736. community

  737. >> because that's what the authority of

  738. gentleness does.

  739. Again, what if aggression were to meet

  740. this man? Or what if passivity were to

  741. meet this man? Guess what? You and I are

  742. this man. And if we're sitting in

  743. passivity and I recognize it, I hope you

  744. embody the humility of this person who

  745. goes to God and says, "If you're

  746. willing, you can help me be freed from

  747. passivity."

  748. If your filter and dominant instinct is

  749. aggression because you think you're in

  750. some kind of war and you're the main

  751. warrior,

  752. I hope you have the humility to go to

  753. the true gentle king

  754. and be and ask for help

  755. because you know you don't want to be

  756. passive and you're right about that. But

  757. you can't stay here

  758. >> and you can be cleansed as well. Jesus

  759. continues

  760. verse eight. Then the centurion replied,

  761. "Lord,

  762. I do not deserve to have you." Oh,

  763. sorry. Uh, where am I? [laughter]

  764. Um, verse five, when Jesus entered

  765. Capernium,

  766. a centuring, a Roman soldier

  767. came to him asking for help. Lord, he

  768. said, my servant lies at home paralyzed,

  769. suffering ter terribly. Jesus said to

  770. him, "I shall come and heal him." Say

  771. what?

  772. >> What did Jesus say?

  773. As a Jewish rabbi,

  774. I am willing to go into the home

  775. of a gentile family.

  776. Not only that, the home of a servant

  777. of one of the military leaders that's

  778. hindering and hurting my people.

  779. Didn't Jesus not just preach, love your

  780. enemies? And so, he's embodying

  781. everything that he just taught.

  782. Gentleness is willing to go.

  783. Pacivity says, "I'll get around to it.

  784. I know. I know. I know. I can do better.

  785. I know.

  786. And three days later, you're mad at

  787. something. Disappointed and bored

  788. because you've not engaged spiritually,

  789. waiting for the answer to come, for the

  790. program to be created, for someone to

  791. carry you.

  792. Aggression. I don't even know if

  793. aggression would approach Jesus

  794. because aggression tends to have all the

  795. answers.

  796. And it's usually someone else's fault

  797. that they have to fix and repair.

  798. But we see the embodiment of gentleness

  799. right here, the Jesus that's willing to

  800. go. And then surprise,

  801. the centurion replied, "Lord, I do not

  802. deserve to have you come under my roof,

  803. but just say the word

  804. and my servant will be healed. For I

  805. myself am a man under authority with

  806. soldiers une. I tell this one, go," and

  807. he goes, and that one, "Come," and he

  808. comes. And when I say to my servant, "Do

  809. this," he does it. When Jesus heard

  810. this, he was amazed and said to those

  811. following him, "Truly I tell you, I have

  812. not found anyone in Israel with such

  813. great faith. I say to you

  814. that many will come from the east and

  815. from the west, and will take their

  816. places at the feast of Abraham, Isaac,

  817. and Jacob in the in the kingdom of

  818. heaven. But the subjects of the kingdom

  819. will be thrown outside into the darkness

  820. where there will be weeping and nashing

  821. of the teeth." Then Jesus said to the

  822. centurion, "Go,

  823. let it be done to you as you have

  824. believed it would." And the servant was

  825. healed at that moment.

  826. Aggression would have seen

  827. this foreigner

  828. centurion

  829. who's profiting under the hardship of

  830. his people

  831. as the problem that needs to be solved.

  832. And yet Jesus sees the faith and the

  833. humility to the point he says, "I have

  834. not even seen this kind of faith in all

  835. of Israel."

  836. Again, passivity would have just let the

  837. paralyzed servant die.

  838. It's just a consequence of the system.

  839. Gentleness is different.

  840. Are you with me? You got a little more

  841. energy here. Are we

  842. >> We're almost done.

  843. >> Okay,

  844. >> you're good. Verse 14. When Jesus came

  845. to Peter's house, he saw Peter's

  846. mother-in-law lying in bed with a fever.

  847. He touched her and he and the fever left

  848. her and she got up and began to wait on

  849. him.

  850. So now it's a woman, an elderly woman.

  851. And when you read this that she's

  852. healed, it doesn't mean okay now you

  853. know cook us some food lady. That's not

  854. what it means.

  855. But it means when God helps us, we start

  856. serving God.

  857. So in recap of these three very

  858. intentionally placed miracles as God

  859. descends from the mountain is a Jewish

  860. man

  861. isolated from his community now guided

  862. to be connected to his

  863. community.

  864. two Gentiles or foreigners that are what

  865. that are welcomed into the kingdom of

  866. God and their faith is honored as they

  867. are. They don't have to become a Jewish

  868. faith to have faith. They can be

  869. Gentiles and have faith as Gentiles and

  870. we see the welcome of the foreigner by

  871. Jesus. And the third most marginalized

  872. group in this society was elderly,

  873. women, widows that are now restored into

  874. lifegiving into their homes where they

  875. can faithfully participate in the

  876. kingdom of God.

  877. Let's close.

  878. When evening came,

  879. many who were demonpossessed

  880. were brought to him. And he drove the

  881. spirits with a word and healed the sick.

  882. And this is where we're going to land.

  883. This was to fulfill what was spoken

  884. through the prophet Isaiah. He took up

  885. our infirmities and he bore our

  886. diseases.

  887. In other gospels, this quotation of

  888. Isaiah 53 is mainly associated with

  889. Jesus on the cross. You with me? But not

  890. so for Matthew. For Matthew,

  891. he took up our infirmities and he bore

  892. our sins is not associated with Jesus on

  893. the cross only, but mainly it's

  894. associated with the ministry of Jesus.

  895. Is Jesus on the cross right now? No. Is

  896. Jesus present, living, and active in his

  897. ministry? Yes.

  898. >> In fact, that's one of the main themes

  899. of Matthew. God with us. So, what is God

  900. up to right now among us? He's taking up

  901. our infirmities and he's bearing our

  902. diseases. What is he doing? He's leading

  903. us gently.

  904. >> So, aggression,

  905. don't wait for the big sign.

  906. He comes to you in a gentle whisper.

  907. >> Pacivity.

  908. Life is short. Time is short.

  909. >> Remember the L the love God has for you

  910. and the love deep down you have for God.

  911. You don't need to go back to aggression.

  912. You can embody gentleness for the glory

  913. of the father and for the sake and

  914. restoration of others.

  915. We're going to say a prayer to take

  916. communion here. I have three questions

  917. for you to just think about as you take

  918. communion. I'm going to pray. The

  919. questions will be up there. We'll play

  920. some reflection music. You can take

  921. communion. After that, we'll have uh our

  922. offering.

  923. Gentleness is one of the fruits the

  924. spirit is forming in us.

  925. Gentleness is different from both

  926. aggression and passivity. As you reflect

  927. on today's message, can you really think

  928. about what interrupted you

  929. today? Not from the speaker, but from

  930. the scriptures from the message.

  931. Two, where do you notice your own

  932. tendencies towards aggression or

  933. passivity in contrast to God's way of

  934. gentleness? Can you do some inventory?

  935. And very important second question to

  936. this one is what impact has that

  937. contrast had on your relationships?

  938. You lean towards aggression. What impact

  939. has it had on your relationship? you

  940. lean towards pacivity is saying and

  941. finally the spirit is cultivating the

  942. fruit of gentleness in our church

  943. community.

  944. How might the spirit be inviting you to

  945. participate

  946. in that formation?

  947. Choose one of these questions or like we

  948. like to say in the Spanish mystery,

  949. which of these questions has chosen you?

  950. Let's pray. Let's meditate and take

  951. communion.

  952. As you finish your reflection, God,

  953. we're so grateful that you are living,

  954. present, and active in our lives. That

  955. you do not abandon us in our postures of

  956. aggression. That you do not judge us or

  957. ignore us in our postures of passivity,

  958. but that you come to us and you call us

  959. and you summon us and you invite us

  960. to carry the burden with you to

  961. participate in this formation.

  962. God, as we see the examples

  963. of the embodiment of gentleness in

  964. Jesus, help us to see what true

  965. leadership is like in scripture

  966. and how you call us to restore one

  967. another gently.

  968. As you have chosen maybe one of these

  969. questions for us, help us to take to

  970. heart what you are saying, to be

  971. attentive to your interruptions in the

  972. next 24 hours, and to make decisions.

  973. God, thank you for the OC church. Bless

  974. this ongoing new era. May we leave

  975. behind

  976. domination of passivity

  977. or the domination of aggression.

  978. May we embody the courage and the

  979. strength of gentleness. We love you God.

  980. It's in Jesus name we pray. Amen.

  981. >> [music]

  982. >> Hey, [music]

  983. hey,

  984. hey. [music]