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The story of Ruth

3Ci - Capital City Church International

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  1. Good morning. Welcome to church.

  2. Man. I love the book of Ruth.

  3. Don't you love the book of Ruth? This incredible love story?

  4. If you like love stories, me and my daughter, oh, we love us.

  5. A good Hallmark movie. She told me like 3 times this

  6. weekend, the 1st of November. There's so many of them coming.

  7. But I mean, those things have nothing on the Bible.

  8. It is this incredible story of redemption.

  9. It is this picture of the gospel.

  10. You know that the book of Ruth only has 85 verses in it, but

  11. actually the word redeem or redemption or redeemed is

  12. actually in that in that book 23 mentioned 23 different times in

  13. the 85 verses. It's this incredible story of

  14. redemption. And if you don't know it yet,

  15. everything in the Old Testament points to the New Testament.

  16. If you're reading your Bible and you're reading something in the

  17. Old Testament, you've got to say to yourself, what is the saying

  18. to me about what Jesus has done? Because either it shows us in

  19. the Old Testament how we can't save ourselves and how we need

  20. Jesus to come, or it's actually a picture of Jesus coming.

  21. And the book of Ruth is exactly that.

  22. It's this picture of this Moabite woman who's outside of

  23. the outside of Israel, outside of God's people, who gets

  24. knitted into the family of God by this kinsman Redeemer Boaz,

  25. which is a picture of Jesus who came and knitted us into his

  26. family as outsiders, knitted us into his family so that we can

  27. be in the family of God. It's an incredible book.

  28. If you haven't read it yet, go read it.

  29. It's beautiful. But you know, I think the book

  30. of Ruth, although it's a picture of Jesus, I think there's some

  31. very practical things in the book of Ruth that can help us

  32. actually redeem our mess here on earth.

  33. You know, it's about Jesus redeeming us, ultimately our

  34. salvation, but I believe it's also a book that can really help

  35. us to redeem our mess here on earth to forgot to come into our

  36. mess here on earth and actually bring a redemptive story through

  37. our stories. And you know, what I want to go

  38. after today is is actually that I think Ruth lived this

  39. incredible life of significance. And I want to go of what, what

  40. what do we do if we want to live a life of significance, not just

  41. success, You know, the world chases success.

  42. But actually, when you come, when you look back one day, when

  43. you when you there die lying on your deathbed and you look back,

  44. you want to say, actually, I lived a life of significance.

  45. What does that look like? You know, I believe that's we,

  46. we I love that song we sing so often nowadays, again and again

  47. and again and again. He rescued me out of this mess I

  48. was in and we dancing on the graves that we one lived in,

  49. once lived in. And you know, I think that's

  50. when we sing that it stirs our faith, doesn't it?

  51. I mean, the worship today, I don't know about you, but it

  52. stirred my faith about, hey, man, we've got this life of joy.

  53. We've got this life we can live with God that should look

  54. beautiful. Jesus did it all for us.

  55. But you know, as much as it stirs us, when we sing that song

  56. on a Sunday, it can't stop thee. You know, your mess is not going

  57. to be redeemed by singing a song in church.

  58. Your God starts to work thee. That's where he starts to work.

  59. But actually we need to take it into our Monday because when we

  60. take what God's doing in our hearts on a Sunday through the

  61. worship and through the word, when we take that into our

  62. Monday, that's when God starts redeeming our stories.

  63. And that's where he actually takes us into a life of

  64. significance. You know, I think if you've been

  65. in this church long enough, and if you, if you're here for the

  66. first time today, I'll give you a quick rundown.

  67. But if you've been here long enough, and if you've been here

  68. through the book of Romans, you would, you would hopefully know

  69. by now that our salvation is Jesus and Jesus alone.

  70. We don't have a part to play in that.

  71. You can't save yourself. It's only Jesus.

  72. One day when we get to heaven and we stand before God, what

  73. he's going to see is the righteousness of Christ.

  74. So our salvation is Jesus alone. Let's, I hope that we've all got

  75. that clear. We've got that settled in our

  76. hearts. If you don't have that settled

  77. in your hearts, please go go on the app and listen to the series

  78. of Romans and get that settled in your heart.

  79. But you know here on earth that if we want God to come into our

  80. mess here on earth and redeem it, we have a part to play when

  81. when we redeem us, when our story here on earth gets

  82. redeemed is US and Jesus. You know, it's the thing about

  83. the work of the cross and the walk of the cross, the work of

  84. the cross. Only Jesus, the walk of the

  85. cross, our sanctification here on earth, living a life of

  86. significance, that's us and Jesus.

  87. There's a partnership. We've got a part to play.

  88. He's got a part to play. We can't do it on our own.

  89. But let me tell you something, God can't do it on his own

  90. either. He needs you to partner with him

  91. when it comes to your mess here on earth.

  92. You see, when you read the book of Ruth, it's only four

  93. chapters, only 85 verses, but you know that this book actually

  94. spans over 11 to 12 years. You know that it's the story

  95. about these characters, Elimelech and Naomi and Boaz and

  96. Ruth. And you know, the Bible is a

  97. little bit like an Instagram Reel.

  98. You know, we get these highlights.

  99. But in between there was these moments, many, many moments and

  100. many, many choices they made in the everyday mundane life that

  101. actually ultimately led to this life of significance.

  102. You know, it seems like 4 chapters, Bam, bam, thank you,

  103. ma'am. You know, we just bring God in

  104. and everything sorted out. But it was walking with God to

  105. walk into this life of significance.

  106. So good. So let's read in Ruth one.

  107. I'm going to wait for you to get there because you know me.

  108. I like you to see it in the Bible.

  109. So we're going to read in Ruth one.

  110. If you went to Sonar school like me, you'll know it's that's

  111. where you find it. Sunday School was good for

  112. something. OK, so we're going to read Ruth.

  113. One in the days when the judges ruled, there was a famine in the

  114. land. So a man from Bethlehem and

  115. Judah, together with his wife and two sons, went to live for a

  116. while in the country of Moab. The man's name was Elimelech,

  117. his wife's name was Naomi, and the names of his two sons were

  118. Melon and Killian. They were Ephratites from

  119. Bethlehem, Judah, and they went to Moab and lived there.

  120. Now Elimelech Naomi's husband died and she was left with her

  121. two sons. They married Moabite woman, one

  122. named Orapa and the other Ruth. After they had lived there about

  123. 10 years, both Maelon and Killian also died, and Naomi was

  124. left without her two sons and her husband.

  125. When Naomi heard in Moab that the Lord had come to the aid of

  126. His people by providing food for them, she and her daughters in

  127. law prepared to turn return home.

  128. From there with her two daughter in law's, she left the place

  129. where she had been living and set out on the road that would

  130. take them back to the land of Judah.

  131. Then Naomi said to her two daughters in

  132. Then she kissed them goodbye and they wept aloud and said to her,

  133. We will go back with you, to your people.

  134. But Naomi said, return home, my daughters.

  135. Why would you come with me? Am I going to have any more sons

  136. who could become your husbands? Return home, my daughters.

  137. I am too old to have another husband.

  138. Even if I thought there was still hope for me, even if I had

  139. a husband tonight and then gave birth to sons, would you wait

  140. until they grew up? Would you remain unmarried for

  141. them? No, my daughters, it is more

  142. bitter for me than for you, because the Lord's hand has

  143. turned against me. At this they wept aloud again.

  144. Then Orpa kissed her mother-in-law goodbye, but Ruth

  145. clung to her. Look, said Naomi, your

  146. sister-in-law is going back to her people, and her gods go back

  147. with her. But Ruth replied, don't urge me

  148. to leave you or to turn back from you.

  149. Where you go I will go, Where you stay I will stay.

  150. Your people will be my people and your God.

  151. My God, where you die I will die, and there I'll be buried.

  152. May the Lord deal with me, be it ever so severely, if even death

  153. separates you and me. When Naomi realized that Ruth

  154. was determined to go with her, she stopped urging her.

  155. So the two women went on until they came to Bethlehem.

  156. When they arrived in Bethlehem, the whole town was stirred

  157. because of them. And the woman exclaimed.

  158. Can this be Naomi? Now, I don't know about you if

  159. it's, if it's just me, but when I read this passage, I can't, I

  160. can't help but think of the series of Romans 8 we've just

  161. done, you know? And the verse that jumps to mind

  162. for me is the one in Romans 8, verse 5 to 6 where we where we

    Romans 8:5–6

  163. learned in Romans 8 that those who live according to the flesh

  164. have their mind sets on what the flesh desires.

  165. But those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds

  166. set on what the Spirit desires. The mind governed by the flesh

  167. is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life.

  168. And I see just in verse in chapter 1 of Ruth.

  169. I actually see two very clear examples of this in chapter 1 of

  170. Ruth. And the first one is the

  171. scenario of Elimelech. And I think Stephen explained to

  172. us beautifully last last week what it actually meant when

  173. Elimelech chose to take his family to Moab.

  174. If you weren't here last week, go listen to last week's

  175. message. Because the Moabites and the

  176. Israelites hated each other, the hatred.

  177. It was a debauched land. There was no godliness in Moab.

  178. And yet Elimelech looks at this and he decides to take his

  179. family from the from from out of the family of God where he's

  180. been placed amongst God's people to this country, Moab.

  181. For me, that's a very clear example of living life in the

  182. flesh and not in the spirit. And you know, The thing is God's

  183. God's redemption happens through family.

  184. If you read your Bible long enough, you'll see it actually,

  185. God comes and takes us and by by the blood of Jesus, he puts us

  186. into the family of God. And then he puts us into a

  187. family called the church. You know, it's God's plan

  188. because he knows we need people next to us that can walk this

  189. road with us. But Elimelech looks at his

  190. situation with his eyes, with what his eyes can see.

  191. He looks at his situation in the flesh and what he sees as famine

  192. in Israel. It's going well in Moab.

  193. Surely it's got to be better for me to go there.

  194. Surely it's got to be better for my business if I go do there.

  195. Surely I'm going to make more money when I go there.

  196. Surely there's going to be a better future for my children

  197. there. Surely my kids are going to are

  198. going to have better opportunities when I go there.

  199. But he looks, he looks at the situation in the flesh instead

  200. of in the spirit. You know what happens?

  201. Firstly, his sons end up marrying Moabite women.

  202. Think of the implication of that.

  203. Then what happens? He passes away, his sons pass

  204. away, and his wife is left widowless in a foreign country

  205. with no family around her, nobody to support her, nobody to

  206. walk this road out with her. And you know what happened in

  207. the meantime. In the meantime, God had already

  208. brought relief in Israel. The famine was over there.

  209. The people in Israel was living, there was food.

  210. There was no more famine there. But now Naomi was stuck in Moab

  211. with no food, no husband, no kids, no family around her.

  212. Because you know that when we look at our situations with our

  213. eyes with, with what our eyes can see in the flesh, then

  214. actually sometimes we don't make godly decisions because you know

  215. what? We serve a God that knows the

  216. future. We don't know the future, but

  217. but he knows, he knows the future.

  218. The second scenario is the scenario of the story of Ruth,

  219. you know, when Naomi urges Ruth and Oraput to go back to their

  220. to their own families. That was really the wise thing

  221. to do. I mean, we've already said the

  222. Israelites hated the Moabites. I mean, what were the odds of

  223. Ruth actually founding her husband in in Israel?

  224. In fact, actually the Israel's were not allowed to marry people

  225. that were outside of the nation of Israel.

  226. So in the natural, it made so much more sense.

  227. In the flesh with my eyes can see, it made so much more sense

  228. for Ruth and Orpa to go back to their own families where they

  229. could find another husband and marry and start a family.

  230. But you know, Ruth must have seen something in that family in

  231. the middle of Moabite. She must have seen something in

  232. the faith of Naomi. She must have seen something in

  233. how she walked this out and how she clung to her guard in spite

  234. of it that she says, I don't want to go back there.

  235. I've seen something. She saw the situation with her

  236. spiritual eyes. She made a decision in the

  237. spirit, not in the flesh because in the flesh you're going back

  238. to your own people makes much more sense in the natural.

  239. But actually, you know, then we get this beautiful verses in

  240. Ruth one which, you know, it's often quoted at weddings.

  241. You know, it's this beautiful promise, but you're just by the

  242. way, this is for free. It's not actually part of my

  243. message. But she said those words to her

  244. mother-in-law, not to a handsome husband.

  245. But anyway, that's the preach for another day.

  246. I won't go there today, but but you know, she says these words

  247. don't urge me to leave you or to turn back from you.

  248. Where you go, I will go and where you stay, I will stay.

  249. Your people will be my people and your God, my God, where you

  250. die, I will die. And there I'll be buried.

  251. May the Lord deal with me ever so severely if even death

  252. separates you, me, you and me. And you know, with this

  253. decision, this one decision, Ruth starts this amazing

  254. redemptive story, this amazing life of significance.

  255. Do you know that Ruth is the great grandmother of David?

  256. Do you know that Ruth is actually in the genealogy of

  257. Christ? You're going to read She's a MO

  258. by Tess. She comes from the tribe of

  259. Moab. But when you read Matthew 1,

  260. she's mentioned in the genealogy of Christ.

  261. Do you know that she that she's one of only two women that has a

  262. book in the Bible named after them?

  263. And you know, that her life was so significant that more than

  264. two and a half thousand years later, we're sitting here today

  265. actually reading her story and saying, God, how does this

  266. apply? How does this apply to my life?

  267. How does this actually apply to what I'm how does this apply to

  268. my mess that I'm finding myself in right now?

  269. You know, isn't that the life you want to live a life of

  270. significance, a life that can have an impact for generations

  271. from now? But now you say to me, Wendy,

  272. that sounds amazing. You know, surely we all want

  273. that. But how do I get there?

  274. You know, I think there's a, there's a pretty guaranteed way

  275. of living a life of significance.

  276. It's a bold statement to make, but I reckon if we could live in

  277. the will of God, surely we would live a life of significance.

  278. Don't you think so? If we could somehow get it right

  279. to live a life in the will of God, surely if you're inside the

  280. will of God, your life must have significance.

  281. Now you must say to me, Wendy, now you really like looking for

  282. a Unicorn because like, how do I know what is the will of God for

  283. my life? But you know that the Bible

  284. actually gives us such great guidance with that.

  285. And I want us to read and verse in Romans 12 verse 2 today and

    Romans 12:2

  286. Romans 12 verse 2 says do not conform to the patterns of this

    Romans 12:2

  287. world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.

  288. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is.

  289. He's good, pleasing and perfect will.

  290. How do we know what's God's will for our life?

  291. He's good, pleasing and perfect will.

  292. How do we know? It says then you will be able to

  293. know. When will we be able to know?

  294. Actually it says do not conform to the patterns of this world,

  295. but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.

  296. The first part of that word says do not be conformed to the

  297. patterns of this world. You know, I believe the main

  298. reason why so many of us struggle to actually do this, to

  299. struggle to live in the in the spirit and not in the flesh is

  300. because we don't understand who God is.

  301. We actually, our picture and our understanding of God has been

  302. built by other voices and not by actually what the word of God

  303. says about who God is. You know, we live in an age

  304. where there's so many voices, You know, I mean, when most of

  305. us grew up, you know, all the ones like me who had to go

  306. colour my hair so I can come preach here today.

  307. You know, the ones that have been along for around for a long

  308. time before the Internet and social media and all of that,

  309. you know, the voices that spoken to our life was mainly our

  310. parents, our friends, our family, our church.

  311. But nowadays we have people from all over the world, people from

  312. all walks of life speaking into our life.

  313. And they, they form how we see God, they form how we view God.

  314. And you know that I think people think that when you become a

  315. Christian, there's like a whole set of rules you have to follow.

  316. And if you do it really well, then you become a nice, good

  317. Christian. But you have this dull, boring

  318. life. Now, I don't know about you, but

  319. that's certainly not what I signed up for.

  320. But you know, I think one of the biggest misconceptions we have

  321. is, is that we, I believe that God is a God of big yes, little

  322. no. When I read my Bible, I see God

  323. as this God of big yes. So much freedom, so much love.

  324. But there's a few no's. There's a few things that you

  325. shouldn't do, not because I want to spoil your fun, but actually

  326. because God knows it's not good for us, you know, and I think

  327. most Christians tend to either lean towards the one side or

  328. towards the other side. Either we're so focused on the

  329. nose of God, don't do that, don't do that, don't go there,

  330. that we actually don't live in the freedom, that freedom that

  331. Mitch was talking about today. We actually don't live in the

  332. freedom that God paid for us because we're so stuck on the on

  333. the nose of God. Or we lean to the other side

  334. where we're like, you know, Jesus paid for it all.

  335. Hallelujah. I can do what I want to do.

  336. You know, the nose of God are just suggestions.

  337. You know, we don't have to do the nose of God.

  338. We can actually, we can actually, you know, it's OK, God

  339. Forgives us. And I think this is part of the

  340. reason why we struggle to walk in the fullness of what God has

  341. for us. Let's talk a little bit about

  342. sexual intimacy. You know, I think this whole

  343. thing of understanding the, the, the, that God is a God of big

  344. yes and a little and little no actually started with the first

  345. sin. You know, when Adam and Eve was

  346. in the Garden of Eden, God said, here's a whole garden for you.

  347. You can eat from all the trees, every single one of them except

  348. this one. Just this one one, No big yes.

  349. So that was the first sin. And I think we do the same with

  350. our sexual intimacy. You know, when when we start

  351. dating, The Bible's not very prescriptive about how you

  352. should date. It doesn't tell you step one,

  353. Step 2, do this, do that, do that.

  354. It actually says, man, go for it, have fun, go on dates, have

  355. a picnic, go ice skating, hold hands, kiss a little bit, go

  356. have conversations that I just say that I'd lie.

  357. Oh, that that's, you know, voice of mine.

  358. Play board games, paint, pottery, play paddle.

  359. It's like all of this, yes, that you can do while you're dating.

  360. But one thing sexual intimacy is meant for inside the marriage

  361. one, No. But you know, nowadays in the

  362. church, it's become so normal for people to sleep together.

  363. It's become so normal for people to move in together.

  364. We met with a couple a couple of weeks ago.

  365. They wanted to marry us and they're living together.

  366. And when Gene asked them what, how did you get to this decision

  367. to move in together, he said to Gene, But it's normal.

  368. Everybody does it. You see, we conform our thinking

  369. to the patterns of the world and we actually throw the little

  370. nose of God away in the process. Do you know that?

  371. Do you think that 2000 years ago, 3000 years ago when the

  372. Bible was written, do you think people didn't want to sleep

  373. together? Do you think hormones have

  374. changed and evolved over the years?

  375. You know, I mean myself and Eugene's married 25 years this

  376. year. When we were dating, we were

  377. both already, we had personal relationship with the Lord.

  378. We were spirit filled Christians.

  379. Do you think we didn't want to sleep together?

  380. I mean, have you seen what it looks like?

  381. I mean, I don't know. I don't know if I'm biased or

  382. anything, but I mean, but like by far the best looking guy in

  383. this church. Like, I mean, not even a

  384. competition. And I mean, do you think we

  385. didn't want to sleep together? Of course we did.

  386. Of course we did, you know, but but we chose not to do it

  387. because we actually chose to submit ourselves to the world in

  388. the ways of God. And you know, Eugene always says

  389. to people, you know what? You don't get a saved hormone.

  390. So in fact, you may be saved, but your hormones aren't, you

  391. know, so I think so you got, you want to think about yourself.

  392. Why did God do this? Why did God make it so

  393. difficult? Why did God say sexual intimacy

  394. is meant to be in the marriage? You know, I've heard many

  395. explanations and, and different people will tell you different

  396. things about soul ties and, you know, sticking the paper

  397. together and then when you tear them apart, just pieces all

  398. those two. And I believe it's all true.

  399. But I believe that the biggest reason why God says sexual

  400. intimacy is, is belongs in the marriage.

  401. It's because God wants to teach us before we get married to

  402. actually submit our sexual desires to his will in his ways.

  403. Because you know what, for those of you here that aren't married

  404. yet today, you may think, man, if I can just get married, then

  405. I won't have to struggle with sexual temptation anymore.

  406. Well, I've got news for you. It doesn't go away.

  407. Sexual temptation is still there when you're married.

  408. And if you don't, learn to submit your sexual desires to

  409. the will and the ways of God before you get married.

  410. How are you going to do it later in life when you've been married

  411. 15 years and your marriage is in that famine that Stephen spoke

  412. about last year and your colleague at the at work is

  413. giving you that attention that you so badly crave?

  414. How are you going to submit your sexual desires to the world in

  415. the ways of God? Because you know what else is

  416. normal nowadays? Even in the church?

  417. Having affairs, getting divorced, we had last week.

  418. It's become normal. So if it's normal to sleep

  419. together before you get married, why would you not do the normal

  420. thing when you get through that time of famine later on in your

  421. marriage? God wants to teach us and once

  422. again, it's the little no. He's saying do every have fun,

  423. go do what you want to do. Go have do as much many things

  424. as you want to. But this one thing, sexual

  425. intimacy belongs in the marriage.

  426. It's just an example. And we can apply this to so many

  427. different aspects of our life. We can apply this to our

  428. finances. We can apply this to our ethic

  429. in the workplace. We can apply this to our

  430. marriages. When my marriage goes through

  431. your marriage is going through a difficult time.

  432. Do I conform to the pattern of the world and start fighting for

  433. myself, my rights, my whatever? Or do I actually do what the

  434. word of God says and die to myself and love my husband and

  435. he dies to himself and he loves me.

  436. And as we do that, we we start living ourselves up.

  437. It's a little thing, it's a little small thing, but it takes

  438. you into the freedom and the abundant life that God has for

  439. us. I read this quote recently and I

  440. loved it. I think it's going to come up on

  441. the screen. Oh, it's always terrible when

  442. you turn around and you see yourself on that big screen.

  443. This, it's by Charles Stanley and he says God is responsible

  444. for the consequences of our obedience.

  445. We are responsible for the consequences of our

  446. disobedience. Let's read that again.

  447. God is responsible for the consequences of our obedience.

  448. We are responsible for the consequences of our

  449. disobedience. So it means when you choose to

  450. actually submit your life to the little nose of God and to be

  451. obedient to the Word of God, you're actually taking your life

  452. and the consequences of your choices.

  453. And you're putting it in the hands of this God that we heard

  454. about in Romans 8 that promises that He will make all things

  455. work together for the good of those who love Him.

  456. I mean, how can that not be a recipe for success?

  457. He promises that if we put our consequences in His hands, He

  458. will make all things work together for the good of us.

  459. I mean, I love that. You know, it's like, it's like

  460. foolproof, like foul proof, you know?

  461. But it when we, when we actually obedience to God, you see, when

  462. we choose obedience to God, like the book of Ruth, we can walk

  463. into this redemptive story when we take our mess and we say,

  464. God, I want to partner with you and I want to actually give my

  465. mess to you. And I say, God, show me, show me

  466. how to make decisions that will Take Me Out of this mess into

  467. the story of success and the story of redemption.

  468. You know, the second part of that verse in Romans 12 is 2, so

  469. it's going to come up again. Yeah, the second part says.

  470. The first part says do not be conformed to the pattern of this

  471. world. But the second part says, but be

  472. transformed by the renewing of your mind.

  473. You know, I believe this is exactly what Stephen spoke about

  474. when he spoke two weeks ago about the awe of God, about

  475. living in the awe of God, that actually when we renew our minds

  476. to living in the awe of God, actually that's when we are

  477. transformed. You see that?

  478. When, when the Almighty God, the creator of the universe, the guy

  479. who made Betelgeuse, the guy who knit you together in your

  480. mother's womb, when he says, I don't think you should be doing

  481. this, it's not going to be good for you.

  482. Like, how do you not obey that? How do you think like, but maybe

  483. that's like Bill Gates coming to you and saying, hey, you know

  484. what? You know your laptop, it's not

  485. good for it when you put it underwater.

  486. Like I wouldn't recommend that. You know, it's not good for it.

  487. And you go like, surely so much more fun to work in the swimming

  488. pool out of my desk. Surely it'll be OK.

  489. I mean, how bad can it be if my swim, if my laptop goes in the

  490. computer? Would you do that?

  491. No, he's the guy that like made Microsoft.

  492. He's like, like, you wouldn't do that.

  493. But we do that with God. He's the God who created us.

  494. He's the God who promises that He wants us to have life and

  495. life in abundance. But we think we know better

  496. because actually when you choose to ignore the little nose of

  497. God, what you're actually saying is God, thank you.

  498. But I actually know better what's good for me and my future

  499. than you do, beautiful girlie. Go for it.

  500. That's what it comes down to. You know, I believe this is

  501. exactly what a nominal Christian is.

  502. We've heard the word nominal Christian has been been

  503. mentioned a few times in the last couple of weeks.

  504. I believe a nominal Christian is not someone that doesn't love

  505. God. They love God, but all they say

  506. is I love God and I'll and I will submit my ways to his ways

  507. when it suits me. But sometimes, you know,

  508. sometimes I actually know a little bit better than God

  509. what's good for me and my future.

  510. It's what a nominal Christian is.

  511. So, you know, the story of Ruth is this picture of how if we

  512. allow God to come into our mess, he can knit us into his family

  513. and take us into this life of significance.

  514. But actually, you know, ultimately it comes down to a

  515. choice. We've got this life in the in

  516. the flesh, which may lead to joy and success, or we got life in

  517. the spirit. Sorry, the life in the flesh

  518. which leads to pleasure and success or life in the spirit

  519. which leads to joy and significance.

  520. And that's the choice you stand before today.

  521. Do I want a life of pleasure and success or do I want a life of

  522. joy and significance? That's where we at today.

  523. Now you, you may same to me today when the you know, I've

  524. I've, I'm aware of the mess of my own life.

  525. Even as you were speaking today, maybe some of the patterns of

  526. the world that you've been conforming to would have popped

  527. in your head. Or maybe you're saying, hey, I

  528. realize I'm not living in the awe of God, that I'm not always

  529. actually building my life around the ways of God.

  530. I'm actually doing it a lot like my friends who aren't saved.

  531. My life looks a lot like those. Where do I start?

  532. Where do I even start doing this?

  533. Because, you know, it can be very daunting.

  534. Well, all I can say to you today is in my life, there's two

  535. things that's had the biggest impact on how I've walked this

  536. walk with God. And once again, I mean, that's

  537. why we preach here from the floor, why we don't stand on the

  538. stage, because my life is not perfect.

  539. Let's get, let's get that clear right off the bat.

  540. My life is not perfect. It's not like I live in the

  541. perfect will of God all the time.

  542. You know, you see like feathers falling when I walk.

  543. It's not like that. We all make mistakes.

  544. You know, it's not easy. But you know what, there's two

  545. things which I've, I've found the most helpful in living this

  546. life. But before I say those two

  547. things, I want to remind you of how about how I started, you

  548. know, this walk that we do here on earth, US and Jesus, It's a

  549. partnership. You're not going to get this

  550. right on your own. You're not going to get this by

  551. naming it, claiming it, framing it, putting a sticker on your

  552. steering wheel, putting a sticker on your mirror where you

  553. put your makeup on, and like, I'm not going to do this again.

  554. It doesn't work that way. It's a partnership with God, us

  555. and Jesus, us and the Holy Spirit day by day together, we

  556. choose to submit ourselves to Him.

  557. He leads us. It's a partnership.

  558. You're not going to do it on your own, but God's not going to

  559. do it on his own either. It's a partnership.

  560. And here's the two things I found most helpful in my walk

  561. with God. Get up 10 minutes earlier, Take

  562. your Bible, read a scripture and ask yourself, God, don't you

  563. want to show me who you are in this verse or these 5 verses?

  564. I'm not talking about verse of the day that pops up on your

  565. phone and you read it and you go OK, bam, bam, thank you ma'am,

  566. I've done that. I'm good for the day.

  567. I'm talking about get you know what?

  568. You're not going to be more tired if you get up 10 minutes

  569. earlier. In fact, just get up at the same

  570. time and instead of scrolling for 10 minutes before you get

  571. out of your bed, take your Bible, read a verse and just ask

  572. God, this God, won't you show me who you are in these verses,

  573. these two or three verses or this chapter I read today.

  574. Why don't you show me who you are and take 10 minutes, 10

  575. minutes to just think about who God is.

  576. And the second thing, which I believe is that the most, the

  577. biggest impact on my walk and our walk with God has been

  578. getting into a life group. I've said this many times today.

  579. The story of God's, God's redemptive story plays out in

  580. family. You know, when we get into a

  581. life group, we meet with other people, we get to know them.

  582. They encourage us, they challenge us.

  583. When they see our life is not lining up with the ways of God,

  584. they could recorrect each other. The Bible says iron sharpens

  585. iron. And when we get in a life group,

  586. we start walking into the fullness of what God has for us.

  587. It's God's plan. Family is God's plan.

  588. So I'm going to take just a few minutes.

  589. I'm finished and I've said a lot.

  590. I hope it was a little bit slower than last time, but can

  591. we just close our eyes for a moment and say, God, I want to

  592. give my mess to you today. I want to ask you today, God, I

  593. want to partner with you today to walk in this walk where I can

  594. give my mess to you and you can come alongside me and you can

  595. walk me out into a life of significance and ask that we

  596. just just take a moment and just say to God, God, I want to

  597. partner with you. Won't you partner with me?

  598. I want to live a life of significance.