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The Gifts And Callings Of God || State Road Church Of The Nazarene
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I want you just to look at two verses with me
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today. And we'll be in a couple other places
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that I'll try to make sure you're with me. But
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the two main verses that we're going to focus
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on today are Ephesians chapter four, verses 11
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and 12. Ephesians chapter four, verses 11 and
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12. And he gave some to be apostles, some prophets,
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some evangelists. and some shepherds. How many
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of your Bibles say pastors? We'll talk a little
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bit about that, not really much today, but we'll
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be in this passage or at least referring to it
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for about the next six weeks. So we'll talk a
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little bit more about that. Shepherds is a little
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bit of a better translation, but some of the
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Bibles do translate that as pastors. He gave
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some to be apostles, some to be prophets, some
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to be evangelists, some to be shepherds and teachers
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for the equipping of the saints. So let's break
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that down a little bit and keep your Bible open
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there with you just for a second. The first thing
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I want you to notice there is how many of your
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Bibles, the translation that you're looking at,
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start with the word and. There's a conjunction
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there at the very first part of that verse. And
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he gave some. How do you have a conjunction there?
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Something like that. How many of you are alive?
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Let's start with that. So so still a conjunction.
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Yes, so there's some kind of a conjunction there
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so or and or something like that Do you have
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something like that? Okay, you guys were making
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me nervous there for a second some kind of conjunction
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the one that I'm reading from says and and Whether
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it's and or so it's a conjunction and you already
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know this, right? So anytime there's a conjunction
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It's taking something it's introducing a new
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thought after a thoughts already been introduced,
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right? We are we understand that So like if Danita
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sends me to the store and she says to me, hey,
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Phil, I want you to go to the store. I want you
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to get milk and coffee and cookies. Specifically,
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there would be Oreo cookies, right? So Danita
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loves Oreo cookies. So milk and coffee and Oreo
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cookies. It's taking something that we already
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know and adding to that list. You already know
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this. So here in Ephesians chapter four, the
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and is linking apostles, prophets, evangelists,
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shepherds, and teachers to something. And here
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specifically is referring back to verse seven.
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Verse seven says this, teach one grace has been
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given. The and that we're looking at is connecting
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this new thought of these leadership roles of
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apostles, prophets, evangelists, shepherds, teachers.
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back to verse seven which says that to all of
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us grace has been given. So there's an important
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thought even in that simple word. So it's connecting
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this new idea of leadership roles of apostles,
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prophets, evangelists, shepherds, teachers, back
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to the fact that it's about grace. That the reason
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we have these gifts is because of grace. So these
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are not status symbols, they're not just titles,
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but they're gracious appointments by Christ for
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the purpose of building up the body of Christ.
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So the reason that there are apostles, prophets,
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evangelists, shepherds, and teachers in the church
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and in the world is because of what? Because
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of grace. So the outcome of that is that the
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body should be built up. But the reason that
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we have those in the church and in the world
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is because of grace. So it's safe to say that
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apostles, prophets, evangelists, shepherds, and
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teachers are a means of grace. That the reason
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those have been given to the church and to the
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world is so that they would be a means of grace
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in the world. So what that tells us is that prophecy
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done well is a means of grace. That shepherding
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done well is a means of grace. That teaching
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done well is a means of grace. That evangelism
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done well is a means of grace. So if that's true,
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then why do we allow those who serve in these
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leadership capacities to use and abuse the same
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people who should be the recipients of grace?
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So let's take a quick survey here. Of all of
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those things, apostles, prophets, evangelists,
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shepherds, teachers, how many of you have ever
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realized that it wasn't, you didn't receive it
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in a way that was gracious. So let me give you
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some examples. Have you ever heard somebody who's
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trying to tell somebody about Jesus and they
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sound really angry about it? Have you ever heard
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these kind of approaches to evangelism? Like
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the entire turn or burn, right? So I'm telling
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you right now, you either listen to what I'm
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gonna tell you or you're gonna burn forever in
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a lake of fire. Now there's truth to that, right?
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We understand that. But is that gracious? No,
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that's not gracious. Have you ever heard somebody
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preaching a sermon? Hopefully it's not me, but
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have you ever heard somebody who's preaching
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a sermon and you're like this dude is ticked
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off? He's he's really mad at us and he's really
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mad at God And I think he doesn't even like himself
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because this guy is ticked off How many of you
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have ever had something like that? So is that
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gracious? You're like, you know what? I'm excited
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the recipient of grace today because this guy's
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ticked off, right? No Have you ever heard teaching
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that was less than gracious? So in all of those
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things the reason they've been given to the church
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and given to the world is to be a means of grace
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and unfortunately sometimes they get weaponized.
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But I think it's foundational for us to remember
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that the reason that those leadership roles exist
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is to be gracious to the church and to the world.
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So, that's the and. The second thing I want you
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to notice there is and. It's a conjunction. It's
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tying what we're about to learn about leadership
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roles back to grace. Here's the next part, and
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he gave. Now, that phrase, he gave, is in the
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aorist active form. Everyone say ooh -ah. That
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was pretty good. That was pretty good. That felt
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good hearing you say that. Everyone say ooh -ah.
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That's just fantastic. So, the aorist active
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verb, in scripture, it points to a completed
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act with lasting effect. So anytime you find
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an aorist active verb, it's something that has
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been done, but once it's done, it's gonna continue
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to have ripple effects forever. It will never
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stop having a ripple effect. These are the things
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for which there is no undo button. So I don't
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know about you, but I like the undo button on
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my computer. I use it all the time. Because I'll
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realize that I did something wrong I know this
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will shock many of you But I did something wrong
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and I want to click the undo button and I know
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what it looks like on Apple I know what it looks
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like on IBM stuff I know what the undo button
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looks like and I'm a big fan of the undo button
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But what this is saying is that this is the kind
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of thing that once it's done. It's done There's
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no undoing it It will be like that forever There's
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it's once it's done. There's no going back So,
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there's a powerful expression of this in Romans
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chapter 11 verse 29. This is so good. So, this
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is Roman. You can't turn over there. You don't
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have to. It's Romans chapter 11 verse 29. It
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says, for the gifts, that's what we're talking
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about, right? So, Ephesians chapter 4 verse 7
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says, and he gave gifts. And then it goes on
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and it's talking about that he gave some gifts
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that are apostles, prophets, evangelists, shepherds,
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and teachers. If you're with me, go like this.
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So we're talking about the gifts, right? So Romans
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11 says, the gifts and the calling of God are
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irrevocable. Heiress active verb. Once it's done,
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there's no going back. There's no undo button
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whatsoever. Once it happens, it's that way forever.
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So, it's referring back to verse 7 and 8. So,
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verse 7, to each one grace has been given, and
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then in verse 8, he's given these gifts. These
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roles are not man appointed, they're not self
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-selected, nobody can get up tomorrow morning
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and say, you know what, I am an apostle. It doesn't
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work like that. God has to call us to that. He's
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the one who gives these gifts. So, here's the
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point that I want you to see. The gifts and the
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calling of God are not like Amazon Prime. So
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you can't take the stuff off the Amazon Prime
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truck and say you know what it doesn't it doesn't
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look good with my eye color It was it's the color
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in the description is not quite what I'm looking
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for It's not that I'm getting any bigger the
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size of the shirt is off. I'm sure that's what
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it is So I don't like this shirt anymore, and
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I'm gonna take it back to Kohl's It's my place
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that I like to return stuff to Amazon because
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they give me Kohl's cash So I don't like this
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thing. I'm gonna take it to Kohl's I walk in
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there and I give it to them and they give me
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five dollars in Kohl's cash Hoping that I'll
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come back to the store. Here's the point of Act
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it heiress active. It's not like that at all
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Once he's been done that it gets stamped into
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our spiritual DNA forever So and he gave some
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to be here's the point that I want you to see
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in that Not everybody's an evangelist Not everybody's
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a shepherd. Not everybody's a teacher. Not everybody's
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an apostle. Now there are some things that we
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do know. Like not everyone's an evangelist. That's
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true. But everyone can and should evangelize.
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Everyone should and can evangelize. What do I
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mean? Everyone should tell people the good news
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about Jesus. Do you know how incredibly selfish
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it is if you know the good news about Jesus and
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you don't tell anybody about the good news about
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Jesus? I mean, it's pretty terrible. So everyone
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can and should tell people about Jesus Paul says
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that everyone can and should prophesy, right?
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First Corinthians talks about this that everyone
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can and should prophesy, but not everyone's a
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prophet So there's this guy that I doubt any
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of you have ever met his name was Mike It really
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was his name. I'm not changing it for any reason
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I have no reason to change it but Mike was one
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of the most gifted shepherds I've ever known
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and yet Like a lot of times when we think about
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shepherds, we automatically make the connection
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that some of your Bibles have made and we think
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about shepherds in the role of being a pastor.
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So like when I talk about Mike was one of the
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best shepherds I've ever known. Like how many
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of you heard that and you immediately thought
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that I was talking about a pastor? Because that's
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kind of the stereotype that we have. If you're
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a shepherd, you're a pastor. And Mike wasn't
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a pastor. In fact, Mike was the district ODOT
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director. Delaware if you're if you're familiar
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at all with Delaware as you're going into Delaware
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from Sunbury on 36 and 37 you go in and 36 go
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straight 37 beers off right before that happens
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there's the district ODOT garage there he was
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an ODOT director there one of the most gracious
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shepherding people I've ever known in my life
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and so Mike's not a pastor he's never been in
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that role but he was fantastic at caring for
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people and like he could teach a master's level
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course to pastors on how to take care of people.
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So Mike was known, like he would do these kind
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of things. So when the guys who are operating
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the plows in the middle of the winter, when they'd
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had an incredibly long night, you know what Mike
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would do? He wouldn't sleep. And he would go
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track down his plows and jump up on the side
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of the plow and just say, hey, how you doing?
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Are you doing okay? Do you need anything? Can
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I run and buy you a cup of coffee? Are you doing
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all right? And sometimes he'd say, hey, I'm going
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to jump in the truck with you. And they'd be
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like, hey, I don't like this. The director's
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in the truck with me. And he'd be like, no, listen,
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I'm not here for that. I'm not here to judge
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how you're doing. I just want to make sure you're
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OK. And just one of the best shepherds I've ever
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worked with. And he cared for people in a way
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that I have found to be very rare. And he just
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was like, nothing I'd ever seen before. So what
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am I getting at with all of that? We need to
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be aware of false consensus effect. It's a cognitive
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bias where people overestimate the extent to
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which their beliefs, values, habits, and behaviors
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are normal and typical of others. In other words,
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we tend to assume that others think and act exactly
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like we do. Does that make sense? We talked about
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this over the weekend at our house. So I don't
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know if you know this but these two beautiful
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ladies it's their birthday today So we've been
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celebrating because like when you this is a big
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birthday. I won't tell you which one it is It
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could be 25. You don't know any better. It's
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25. Don't they look good for 25? So they look
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good for 25 I don't know how we have a child
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that's close to that same age, but hey, we don't
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need to talk about that. 25 it is. 25 is a good
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number. And we were talking about this over the
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weekend, so everybody's in. And we all do this
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to some extent, right? So how many of you, like
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you just thought that whatever your family dynamic
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was, that that's what it was like in every other
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household that your friends were a part of. And
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at some point you realize, no, it's really not
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like that. And maybe it's better for me, or maybe
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it's not better for me. But we start to realize
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that it's not quite like that. But at least to
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some extent, we all have this idea that whatever's
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normal to me is normal to everybody. And here's
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where we get in trouble with that. And here's
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where it got me in trouble. So one of the things,
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like if I took the test that I asked you guys
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to take this week, one of the things that I would
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score extremely high on, because I have a few.
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And I score very poorly in a few of them too.
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Which is the way it's supposed to be, by the
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way, right? So sometimes we look at that, and
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we're like, man, I wish I would be able to score
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higher at this. Hey, listen, God wired you that
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way on purpose. He knows what he's doing. It's
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not a mistake. It's OK. That's the way that he
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wanted you to be. So I would score very high
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on any test that I was given about being a shepherd.
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And we'll talk more about that when we talk about
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shepherding. And one that I also score very highly
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in is the prophet role. And I kind of, here's
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the way that I best explain that, and we'll talk
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more about this when we get to these two. When
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the pressure's on, I kind of gravitate more to
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the shepherd side. So when things are tough,
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that's the part that kind of shines through,
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is I become more of a shepherd. And it becomes
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more important to me to take care of people.
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When I'm resting and things are good, that's
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where I tend to be more in the prophetic. Does
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that make sense? But when things are tough, I
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kind of default to being a shepherd. And then
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like right under that is, and it kind of depends
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on the role that I'm in, the one that's just
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below that is apostle, and like what I do with
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public safety, that's 100 % the role that I'm
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in. So like with the highway patrol, with local
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law enforcement and fire, that's kind of the
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role that I'm in, and we'll talk more about that
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when we get there. But so I'm a shepherd. But
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here's where it gets me in trouble. Because I'm
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a shepherd, my natural tendency is to assume
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that everyone in a role that's similar to mine
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is a shepherd. And when they don't respond like
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a shepherd should, because I know how a shepherd
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should respond, because I am one. So I know what
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the response of a shepherd should look like.
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So when people who are in roles like mine, they
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don't respond like a shepherd, at best, I walk
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away feeling disappointed. But if I'm going to
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be completely honest, there are times when people
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who are enrolled similar to mine and they don't
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behave like a shepherd, I'm not just disappointed,
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I'm disgusted. Because sometimes I look at it
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and I'll say, how can you be so blind as to not
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care for the people who have been entrusted to
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you? And how dare you treat them like cattle?
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You can't begin to understand how liberating
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it was for me. This was a recent development
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when I recently realized that not everyone's
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like me. And the reason that God put me in that
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situation is not so that I could look at them
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and say, you know what, I can't believe that
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they would do it that way. But the reason I'm
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in the situation is because I am a shepherd.
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So when I see those things, I just need to provide
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care. Get over the fact that they're not doing
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it. But if I'm aware of it, I can provide that
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care. Does that make sense? So I just assume
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that everyone's a shepherd. And man, it was liberating
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when I realized that not everyone's like me.
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And that's OK. I don't have the luxury of being
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a shepherd when I'm at the church. And here's
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what I mean by that. So once I come to grips
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with my gifting and calling, it's irrevocable.
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It cannot be stopped. It's not like it's something
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that's a switch that I can turn on and off. So
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here's what that looks like So yes when we're
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here and things are good. I tend to be more of
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a prophet It's just the way that God's wired
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me. I don't make excuses for it. I don't apologize
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for it That's the way that God wired me when
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things are tough. I tend to be more of a shepherd
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So let me ask you a question. Which one am I
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right now? If I had to toss up between the prophet
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and things are really good and when things get
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tough, I tend to be more of a shepherd. Which
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one am I right now? I'm a shepherd. In fact,
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if I were to take the test right now, like you
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wouldn't see the tension between shepherd and
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prophet right now. You would see that, hey, this
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guy's a pretty strong prophet. I mean, a pretty
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strong shepherd. That's because things are a
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little challenging right now, and that's fine.
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Eventually realized that and here's the way that
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that looks so I don't get to shut that off So
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when I go to the bus yard, you know the way that
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the Lord wires me I'm still a shepherd So it's
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a common thing when I'm out driving school bus
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I'm telling you it happens like all the time
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like multiple times every single week people
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will come up to me out of the blue and they'll
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say things like Hey Phil, would you pray with
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me? Like not in your prayers, but would you pray
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with me right now about this particular thing
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that's going on? Why is that? Because I'm a shepherd
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And I don't have to find people people come find
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me Because they understand that hey if you go
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talk to Phil about that he's gonna care he's
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gonna show up he's gonna do those things it's
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because the way the Lord's wired me so at home
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and you can ask the need afterwards if you want
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you can ask her So what I want you to know is
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that when I'm here, what you see is pretty much
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what you get at home, right? So the way that
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you experience interaction with me, that's pretty
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much what Danita gets. And Danita would tell
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you that at home, I'm pretty much a shepherd,
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except for when things are really good and I
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tend to be more of a prophet at things. I'm not
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as much of an apostle at home because that's
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more of like Danita's lane. And so anyways, we
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don't need to get into all that. We will talk
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about that at some point. So it's not something
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we can turn on or off. When I'm in ministry,
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I'm kind of a hybrid between shepherd and prophet
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in my roles with public safety. I'm definitely
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kind of a shepherd apostle, but shepherd's always
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right there in the top of the list. So we need
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all the fivefold in the church to function well,
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right? So here's the reason that Christ has given
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these gracious gifts. And this is back to Ephesians
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chapter four, verse 12, for the equipping of
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the saints. So it's a fascinating word that's
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used there. You know that I'm a biblical language
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nerd. The word that's used there is catturismo.
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Catturismo, say that. Catturismo. And that word
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that's used there means to make fully ready to
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repair or to restore to proper function. And
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it's used throughout the New Testament, but here
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are a couple places that I think are super fascinating
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to me. So this word is used in Matthew chapter
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four, verse 21. We'll look at it in just a second,
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but in Matthew chapter four, it's used to mend
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nets. And I'll actually read the passage to you
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in a second. You don't need to turn there, but
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it's used to mend nets, to return them to their
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proper function, to repair them, to make them
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fully ready. Well, why nets? Well, because nets
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catch what otherwise would be lost. Now think
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about that in the context of Apostles prophets,
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evangelists, shepherds, teachers. So why do we
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use words like mend? Because if we don't get
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this right, we're going to miss things that they're
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going to be lost forever. So you understand what's
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riding on this. So we're talking about the people
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your loved ones your friends who do not know
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the Lord if we get this right And we get the
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net mended correctly. It's able to catch that
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which otherwise would be lost And if we don't
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get it right The lost are still lost You see
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the connection So here's what it says in Matthew
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chapter 4 verse 21 and going from there. He saw
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two brothers. He's talking about Jesus He sees
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two brothers, James, the son of Zebedee, and
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John, his brother, in the boat with Zebedee,
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their father, mending their nets. There's the
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word, mending their nets. And he called them.
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It's also used throughout the New Testament,
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it's mending nets, that's true, but also for
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restoring a broken bone. So many, many years
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ago, Kalen was just a tiny, tiny little thing.
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She was about two years old. I was actually working
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with my in -laws who are in town because these
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lovely ladies are having their 25th birthday
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and I was working with them. We were working
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on this barn in the middle of nowhere and I was
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putting sheeting on the top of this barn and
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I have the nail gun in my hand and So I mean
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we have to get these sheets all the way up on
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top of this ladder and it's the very last sheet
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up on the very top of the barn and we have to
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get the sheet in the kind of the middle of the
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ladder so you get everything squared up well
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by the time you get it where it needs to go it's
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not really in a great spot to get all the nails
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in. So I needed to get one last nail on the very
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top far side of that board. I'm right -handed.
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So this left nail way up there on the very top
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of the barn is the last one that I need to get
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to. And I can't quite get there because I'm on
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the ladder and if I get out there too far, I'll
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lose my balance and fall off the ladder. So I'm
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a little bit stubborn. I don't know if you knew
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that, but I have a little bit of a stubborn streak,
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a determined streak. It's a determination streak
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is what it is. So my father -in -law said, hey
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Phil, just wait a second. Don't do anything stupid.
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Because how 40 feet up in the air, something
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like that? 45 feet, something like that. We were
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up there pretty far. So I'm like, he's like,
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just wait a minute. Don't do anything stupid.
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I'll come up through the inside of the barn and
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I'll get that last nail. I'm like, that's ridiculous.
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It's going to take you 10 minutes to climb up
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through the entire barn. That's insane. I'm just
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going to get it. So he's telling me, wait, don't
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do anything. I'll come up and get it. And I'm
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determined. Some people would call it stubborn.
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So I laid out across the barn. And I'm like,
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I can do this. He'll be happy if I do this. He
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doesn't have to climb up to the barn. So I'm
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laying out on the barn. I've got my feet on the
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ladder. I've got the gun. And I'm like, OK, here
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we go. So I'm stretched out. I've got this hand
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at reach out as far as I can on the board. I've
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got the nail gun in this hand. I'm like, here
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we go. And I reach up and bang! And I'm like,
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yes, except for now the gun recoils and comes
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down on my hand, my middle finger, and put a
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ring shank nail through my middle finger. So
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I'm like, well, that's not quite what I was hoping
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for. So I pretty calmly said, I just shot myself
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with a nail gun. Now this might be a shock to
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you, but I'm a little bit of a jokester too.
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So they thought that I was just being funny.
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And so he's making his way up through the barn
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and he gets up there and he's like, he did, he
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shot himself with a nail gun. He's got a nail
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in his hand. So I'm like, it's okay. So I came
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down off the ladder and I'm like, I'm just gonna
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bandage it up. It'll be fine. And I'll go have
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the doctor look at it later. So the plan was
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they're gonna get off these shears and cut the
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glove off my hand. And that was a good plan until
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they bumped the nail with the shears. and just
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shot pain all the way through my arm into my
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neck and into my head. I did not know that you
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could feel the bone in your finger in your head,
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but I'm like, yeah, let's not do that. So long
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story short, I was originally just going to drive
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myself to the ER, and we asked the owner of the
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barn, hey, where's the nearest ER? He said, it's
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40 minutes if you know where you're going. I'm
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like, that's fantastic. And being that I don't,
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this is probably not a good option. So they call
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an ambulance. So the ambulance comes out, it's
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like, I'm like, this is amazing. I knew that
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a day like this would come. I've waited for this
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moment to come. So they get there, and I'm making
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jokes about the entire thing, and I said, I'm
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so glad that I put on clean underwear. I'm just
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so glad. I mean, it's really the thing that matters
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to me, because when they cut all my clothes off
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of me, I'm glad that I have clean underwear on.
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You know, I'm so glad my grandmother got it right.
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I really am glad I have clean underwear on. They
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didn't cut my clothes off, in case you're wondering.
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So the medics get there, and they see the barn
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and the ladder and the entire thing, and I'm
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just going to have some fun with them. So they
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say, ask all the normal questions. Do you know
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where you are? What's your name? So I said immediately,
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I said, I'm 53 years old. I'm the president of
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the United States. And they look and they say,
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did he fall off the ladder? I'm like, I'm just
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making all that up. They load me in the ambulance.
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We get to the emergency room. They think that
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I'm going to have to have surgery. So they're
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starting to prep the entire thing for surgery.
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They give me a pain block for my hand. And that's
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pretty amazing. I'm pretty happy with that. And
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they're doing all the stuff they need to do to
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get me ready to go to surgery. Contacts have
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to come out the entire deal. Getting ready to
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do all that and two deputies come walking in
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and I'm like, you've got to be kidding me. So
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they walk in and they said, hey, we need to ask
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you a couple of questions. I'm like, you've got
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to be kidding me. You're just making this worse.
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You're adding insult to injury. And they're like,
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it's technically a gun wound. So we need to question
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you about that. I'm like, you've got to be kidding
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me. So I'm like, you guys are just absolutely
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making it worse. So they make everybody leave
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and they're like, OK, so You shot yourself with
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the nail gun for the hundredth time. Yes, I shot
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myself with the nail gun. Did anyone tell you
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to say that? Would you stop it? You're making
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it worse. No one told me to say that. Did anyone
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pay you to say that you shot yourself? Listen,
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how can I explain this to you? I shot myself
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with a nail gun. No one else was a part of it.
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No one else paid me anything. I shot myself with
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the nail gun. Are you happy? He's like, yes.
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I just had to ask, well, for pity's sake, stop
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asking. I shot myself. And now I just feel like,
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not only am I at cluts, but I'm just like, man,
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this is embarrassing. So they go through the
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entire thing, and the surgeon says, he's like,
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well, let's just hold off. I think we might be
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able to pull the nail out, and I won't get too
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graphic, but he's like, I think we can just pull
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it out without surgery. So, I mean, hours have
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gone by. So he comes in, and he's like, yeah,
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we're just gonna... but we're just gonna pull
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that nail out the way that it went in. So I'm
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like, hey doc, I know you're a doctor and I don't
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play one on TV, I'm not a doctor, but do you
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understand ring shank nails at all? And he's
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like, well yeah. I'm like, I don't think you
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do. It's like, there's rings on that that are
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made so that it won't pull back out the way that
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it went in. He's like, yeah, yeah, I can see
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that on the x -ray. I'm like, I don't think you
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get it pal. He's like, I said, why don't you
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just cut the nail off and pull it the rest of
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the way through the hand. He's like, no, no,
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no, I want to pull it out the way that it went
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back in. And I'm like, man, you're crazy. So
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he literally, he calls the guy from the maintenance
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department and he's got a pair of pliers on his
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tool belt. And he's like, those will do just
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fine. I'm not making this up. They're not surgical
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at all. So I don't know what he was just doing
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with it, but he grabs these pliers off this guy's
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tool belt. And he's like, okay, he has like a
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nurse hold my arm down. He has another nurse
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lay on my chest and he grabs the nail with the
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pliers and he pulls the nail back out of my finger.
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And it's extremely painful. So I'm like, whew,
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I'm not doing so good. I'm white. And he's like,
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listen, that's psychosomatic. That's just your
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brain telling you that it's supposed to hurt.
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And I'm like, dude, I'm going to hit you. I'm
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going to hit you right now. And he's like, you
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had a pain block, right? I'm like, yeah, when
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I came in. First thing in the ER, they gave me
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a pain block. And then he's like, oh, you did
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feel that then. I tried to tell you that. I felt
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every bit of it. And they bandaged my hand all
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up. And it hurt like crazy. It's probably the
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worst pain I've ever been in my life. In fact,
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it was so bad when Danita went to get Kalen from
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the the daycare place where she was hanging out
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until we all got back. I called Danita and I
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said, babe, I'm in horrible pain. I can't even
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think. So they figured out something to get the
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pain under control. And it pretty much hurt like
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that. I think it was 10 days later, I had a follow
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up, go back and see the surgeon who pulled the
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nail out of my finger. And then I was able to
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punch him. I didn't punch him. Yeah. So I go
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back to see him, and he re -bandaged my hand.
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He gave me another script for more pain meds.
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And it was the craziest thing, because when he
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got it re -bandaged, I never needed the pain
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meds again. Because I don't know if it was just
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pressure, or if it was just in a funny spot.
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I don't know what it was. But he got the bandage
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off, re -bandaged it, and I'm like, no, I'm really
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good. Now, here's the point with all of that.
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I needed every last single one of those people
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along the way. So who was the most important
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to me on that day? I couldn't begin to tell you
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So you do you mean to tell me that on that day
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that the role that my mother -in -law played
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Even though I didn't necessarily wasn't very
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happy about it. She's like, you know, you need
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to lay down. I'm like, no, I'm fine So they called
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Donita in the midst of all that, and Donita's
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response was, she's like, don't you die! I'm
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like, babe, calm down, okay? I shot myself in
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the hand with a nail gun. I promise I'm not going
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to die. I promise I'm not gonna die. So I'm good.
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So was that role most important, or was it the
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doctor's role, or was it the people on the emergency
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squad, or was it the people in the ER? Who was
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the most important to me? I can't begin to tell
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you. because every last person was important,
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every last person had a different role to do,
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and every last person was doing that to mend
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a broken bone. Every last person did what they
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did, and I was depending on them to do what they
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did for me to be mended up so I could fulfill
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the purpose that I was supposed to have. That's
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this word. That's the word that's used there.
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It's a picture of how we should be interacting
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with a hurting and broken world. People are hurting
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and broken. Yes, I understand sometimes it's
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self -inflicted, like mine was. But just because
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somebody's pain and brokenness is self -inflicted,
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they still need and deserve grace. Amen. God
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in his love and his mercy has put a system in
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place for us to mend what's broken and for them
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to be restored to right relationship with God
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For them to fulfill their God -given purpose
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and destiny and I can't begin to do that by myself
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I need all the fivefold the fivefold parts of
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the hand to be the hands and feet of Jesus to
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mend what's broken so I'm gonna go ahead and
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risk being misunderstood here. So if you're wondering
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like, when is he gonna get himself in hot water,
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this is probably the moment that I can get myself
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in some hot water. So this year, the Church of
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Nazarene in USA and Canada, and does anybody
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know what we're focusing on? Like they have a
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focus every year now. Does anyone know what we're
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focusing on? What is it? Bringing others to Jesus,
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very good. So bringing others to Jesus. And I
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think that I can speak for everyone and say that
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we can all get behind that. Right? Like, is there
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anybody here who's like, I absolutely, I'm not
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sure I wanna be Nazarene now. If that's what
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we're gonna focus on this year, I'm out. Anybody,
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like, we can get behind that, right? That hurting,
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broken people would be brought to Jesus. We can
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get behind that. That's a great thing. There's
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nothing wrong with that. So how are we gonna
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go about doing that? It's a great question. So
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I think what we typically would do is this. We
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would say that what we need to do is to train
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everyone to be an evangelist, right? So we need
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to talk about how we can share people with people
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about Jesus and the good news and don't get me
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wrong We'll do that when we talk about evangelism
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and evangelists. We'll talk about that but hear
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me I'm not opposed to evangelism training I'm
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not opposed to it in any way I believe that every
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believer should be able to help someone begin
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a relationship with Jesus and I'm just gonna
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take away all the stuff Here's here's what it
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is. Do you know how simple it is? It's one beggar
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telling another beggar where to find bread. That's
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all evangelism is. You just tell somebody who's
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looking for the hope and significance in life
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that you have, this is what Jesus did for me.
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If he did it for me, he'll do it for you. I mean,
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I'm not special. If he did it for me, he'll do
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it for you. That's all evangelism is. And we
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will provide some opportunities for training.
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I am not opposed to that. In fact, I'm certified
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in three different evangelists evangelism techniques.
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I'm certified in it. I'm certified as a trainer
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in two of those. So I could actually, with full
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endorsement from them, I could train you in these
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evangelistic approaches. I'm not opposed to evangelism
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training. But here's the problem. Not everyone's
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an evangelist. He gave some to be evangelists.
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I think it makes more sense, at least it makes
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more sense to me, if we were to operate within
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our gifts and abilities and callings, if we did
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that and did that well, I think that makes more
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sense. And I think that we have a better chance
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of reaching the world if we did that than if
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we try to play to what we're not called to. Are
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you following me? Now, I'm not talking to people
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who are called to be an evangelist. If you're
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called to be an evangelist, then by all means,
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you should go do evangelism. You should do it
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really well. And you should help all of us with
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that. You should help us to be better at it.
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But I think it makes more sense. Like, if I'm
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a shepherd, doesn't it make more sense for me
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to be a good shepherd? And doesn't it make more
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sense for me to allow evangelists to be great
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evangelists? And doesn't it make more sense for
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me to allow the prophets to be prophets and the
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teachers to be teachers? Because this is what
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God's called me to. It's not that he's just called
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it to me and I can flip it on and flip it off
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and in this moment I can be an evangelist. That's
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not the way that it is it gets stamped into your
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spiritual DNA So this is who I am and Doesn't
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it make more sense just to allow me to be who
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God's called me to be It doesn't make more sense
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for you to be who God's called you to be And
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I'm not saying that we shouldn't help people
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to know how to evangelize. We will. We'll talk
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about that. I'll give you some tools. I've given
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you tools. I'll continue to give you tools. But
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sometimes I think it just makes more sense and
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I think we're more effective if we do what God's
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called us to do. So I already told Danita that
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I have like tons more material, but I want to
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be done before you are, so I will be done before
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you are. We're only going to talk about all of
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the fivefold today, and then I'm going to start
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with the Apostles next week. So I've got a couple
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different graphics I want to throw up just so
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you can see what I'm talking about. So Apostles,
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that's what I'm going to talk about first. We'll
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take them in the order that they are in Scripture.
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Apostles, they're pioneers, they're innovators,
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they're catalysts. They start new movements,
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cast vision. That makes sense, right? So prophets,
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they're truth tellers, they're reformers, they're
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cultural architects. They speak truth, seek justice,
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challenge systems. Evangelists, they're connectors,
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influencers, storytellers. They build relationships,
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spreads ideas passionately. I don't know how
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many of you know this guy, James Smith. I know
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that some of you know James Smith, one of my
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friends. We worked together on staff at Findley,
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worked for Mount Vernon for a while. James Smith
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is an evangelist through and through. Like everything
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that you see there, he is every last one of those.
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He's a connector. He's an influencer. He's a
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storyteller. He's incredibly passionate about
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what he does. He's an evangelist through and
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through. shepherds, nurturer, mentor, community
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builders, cares for people's foster belonging
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and health, teacher's guide, their educators,
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system thinkers, brings clarity, structure, and
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understanding. Now, even that, that's not bad,
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but sometimes we see things like that and we're
-
reluctant to say, hey, I am an apostle. And some
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of that's because of the abuse that has happened
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in the body of Christ, right? So because, I mean,
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let's face it, we've already talked about this.
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Not all of the times have these been gracious
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things. And there have been pastors who have
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abused that, and they've abused their people.
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And so we're reluctant to say, because we don't
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want to be associated with that. And I get that.
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So this next slide actually gives us just some
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other ways to think about those things. So apostles
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are sent ones. They can be church planters. They
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can be entrepreneurs. I just feel smarter saying
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the word entrepreneurs. I just want you to think
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about that for a second. And the reason I want
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you to see that is, so business people, people
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who start their own business from nothing, people
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like Bob Robbins, they start a business from
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nothing. That takes a special kind of calling
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to do that. The calling that that would be is
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we would say that they're an apostle. They take
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something and make it from nothing. People who
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can start a company from nothing in my, like,
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you tell me you started a company from nothing
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and I automatically start thinking, okay, that's
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an apostle. That's somebody who can take something
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and make something out of nothing. They can do
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things in new places. They can replicate that.
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That to me is an apostle. So they are church
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planners, they're entrepreneurs, prophets, they're
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truth tellers, artists. Sometimes we think about
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artists in all of their forms. We think about
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artists and we would not ever say, okay, I think
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of that person as a prophet, but that's what
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they are. Is that making sense? Things like intercessors,
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evangelists, they're gospel bearers, they're
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storytellers, they're bridge builders, shepherds
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are caregivers, coaches, mentors. Kevin Deming,
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he's a football coach. He's been a part of what
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we do at camp for, oh goodness, well over a decade.
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And a lot of our students at camp, they just
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call him coach. And it's not something that he
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says, hey, call me this. It's just because that's
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who he is, right? It gets stamped into his DNA.
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And people, like, Kevin doesn't have to say,
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I am a football coach, right? So if you're around
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Kevin for five seconds, you'd be like, dude's
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a coach. I don't know what he coaches, but dude's
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a coach, right? It gets stamped into his DNA.
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So, like you understand how, like I see that
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and I say, okay, Kevin's a shepherd. Because
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he cares for, he guides, he invests in the youth
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of our culture, teachers. truth organizers, educators,
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curriculum developers and I just wanted you to
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see that because I think it helps us to see like
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it sometimes it's difficult for us to say with
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these biblical titles that's what I am and I
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just want to flesh it out a little bit so that
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you can see that there are other expressions.
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Does that all make sense? So we need all of those
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in the body of Christ right? We need every last
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one of those and if we're going to mend a broken
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world It's gonna take all of those people doing
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what they do and We want to get out of their
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way and let them do what they do amen So I told
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you I would be done before you are and that's
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the point that I need to land the plane so In
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2007 which how many of you think that seems like
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forever ago, I mean 2007 so what? 18 years ago,
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18 years ago, there was a band by the name of
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Blue Tree. Has anyone heard of Blue Tree? I hadn't
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really heard of them either. But they were performing.
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They're a Christian. Let me back up. So Blue
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Tree is a Christian band, a worship band. They
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were performing in a bar in Patea. And it was
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part of this outreach place. They went there
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on purpose because Pataya at the time was one
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of the darkest places, the darkest communities
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in the world. And they intentionally wanted to
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find the darkest places in the world. And they
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went on tour to all of these really dark places
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where some awful things happened. This particular
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one, they were known for... Pataya at the time
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was one of the leading cities in the world for...
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human trafficking and sex slave trade. It's one
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of the largest places in the world at the time.
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So during their concert in Patea, Aaron Boyd,
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who was the lead singer, he felt stirred in his
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spirit by all that was going on around him. I
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mean anywhere that you would look you just saw
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brokenness and exploitation and spiritual need
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and in a moment he just began to sing out a spontaneous
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prayer really over the city of Patea. prayer
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went like this greater things have yet to come
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and greater things are still to be done in this
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city now you probably recognize those words because
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chris tomlin heard the song that blue tree did
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in patea and then he recorded it and everyone
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knows um god of this city because chris tomlin
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heard it he began to sing it So those words weren't
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rehearsed. They weren't pre -written. It was
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something that was almost a prophetic declaration
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that was birthed from the band's heartache and
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hope for what God could do in a place called
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Pate. So it is a prophetic declaration. I won't
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dispute that at all, but in my mind that's that's
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the heart of an apostle. A heart of an apostle
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sees past what is to what could be and begins
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to to get the heart of what God wants to do in
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Patea, and what God wants to do in Parma, and
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what God wants to do in North Royalton, and what
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God wants to do in Independence and Brexfield
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and Burlington, and what God wants to do in your
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town. And I think at some point, like we need
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all five right and i understand that we need
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all of the fivefold doing their thing to reach
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a broken world to mend the brokenness that's
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in the world around us but we're going to sing
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that song that they that they they wrote over
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patea and this morning i want you to make a declaration
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over your town the place that you live here's
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some things i want you to think about as we do
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that I want you to think about the theme of the
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song is very easy to figure out that it's talking
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about hope in the midst of the worst kind of
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darkness that you can imagine. So I don't know
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what the darkness looks like in your life. I
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don't know what things are dark and seem like
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they're bleak and hopeless. But as we sing this,
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I want you to know that in the midst of that,
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that there's hope. Amen. And maybe you even need
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to like... stir up some prophetic stuff in you
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and you may need to make this a declaration just
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like they did in Patea and say you know what
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greater things are yet to come this isn't the
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end of the story greater things God's gonna do
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in the midst of all of this stuff than what I'm
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seeing right now and the song speaks about God's
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sovereignty over our cities and our nations and
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And maybe this morning you want to make that
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kind of declaration, that God's sovereign over
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your town, that God's sovereign over your city.
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Maybe some of you, that's not what God's calling
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you to. Maybe what God's stirring up in you apostolically
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today is that you want to declare that over our
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nation, that greater things are coming, that
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this isn't the end. We're not going to be known
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for this. That God's going to do something greater
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than this. And the song speaks to a call for
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us to intercede and believe for transformation.
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That when things are dark and they're bleak,
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that we don't just roll over and say, I guess
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that's as good as it's gonna get. But that we
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begin to intercede and we lean in and we pray
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and we don't quit. We keep leaning in until things
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change. The chorus of the song simply says this,
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you're the god of this city. You're the king
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of these people. You're the Lord of this nation.
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You are. And whatever your circumstance, whatever
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your situation, I want you to declare that over
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your circumstance. You're the God of this. I
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think that we can do that and almost make that
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a prayer. Amen. That's what I want you to do
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with me today. When we're done singing it, don't
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leave. I do have an official benediction that
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I'll give you. But I want us to kind of corporately
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pray this over some dark things together. Will
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you do that with me?