Sermon
Wednesday Night Recharge | March 18th, 2026
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Hello. Good evening. Welcome to
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Recharge. You made it out of the rain.
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We've had a lot of rain here this week.
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I want to invite you to come on in.
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We're going to get started in about 30
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seconds here and uh we'll sing together.
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We'll read some scripture and we're
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going to hear from God's word.
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Well, it's a a spring break for some.
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How many of you have people in your
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family who are on spring break this
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week? Anybody in this room? Yeah, I see
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a couple here. I see one right here.
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Matias, are you on spring break, buddy?
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That's so exciting. Our kids were on
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spring break last week. Um, it is good
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to gather together. And so, because of
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spring break stuff that are that's going
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on outside of Sheridan Hills Christian
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School, we've got everybody all together
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in here. We've got young young people
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joining with us. And so, I want to
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invite everybody to stand up and uh this
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is an appropriate verse uh for a week
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when we've got adults and kids all
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together. Look at this. It says in
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Ephesians 5:1 and2, "Therefore, be what?
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>> Be imitators of God just like beloved
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children." Think about how a child sees
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its parent and begins mimicking exactly
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what the parent does. And so, in the
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same way, we're supposed to imitate God
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as beloved children and walk in love as
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Christ loved us and gave himself up for
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us, a fragrant offering and a sacrifice
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to God. And so in just a moment, we're
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going to sing about the way that we are
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the children of God and uh in the way
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that we can follow and mimic and imitate
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him. And so I want to invite you to bow
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your head and let's pray together. And
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then we'll sing and lift up our voices
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to God. Father in heaven, we praise you
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for the God that you are. We praise you
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that we can belong to you as your
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children. And on a night when it's
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dreary outside, I'm thankful for the way
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that you've renewed our hearts on the
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inside. I'm thankful for the body of
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Christ in my family who's here with me
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tonight um spiritually. And so we ask
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all this in Jesus' name. Amen. Let's
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sing together.
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All praise [music] to him, the God of
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light who [music] the mountains
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[singing]
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by his might. All praise [music] to him
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who makes the stars [singing] that sing
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his fame and skies above.
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All [music and singing] praise to him.
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Who reigns in love. Who guides the God
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sees [music and singing] above yet to
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hear our everywhere [music]
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with sovereignty. [singing]
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[music]
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All praise to him who love
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[music and singing]
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Christ the son will serve [singing] me
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who left behind [music] his glorious
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[singing]
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to the ransom for his own. All praise
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[music and singing] to him. Who humbly
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came to bear our sorrow,
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sin [music and singing] and shame. Who
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let you die? Who died [music] to rise?
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The all sufficient [singing]
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sacriice.
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[music]
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All praise to him whose kind [singing]
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hearts. The love of [music] God within
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[singing] our hearts. The spirit of
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[music] all truth and peace. The
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fountain of joy and holyness.
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To father son [music and singing]
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and spirit now. Our souls we live. Our
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wills we [music] bow. To you the tri
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[singing]
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with loving hearts our song
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[music and singing]
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of praise to father son and spirit
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[music and singing]
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now our souls we lift our wills we bow
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[singing and music]
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to you the triune
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god we race with loving
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[music and singing] hearts our song of
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praise
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No [music] wisdom [singing] says I have
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not.
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No [music and singing]
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virtues
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I pursue.
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No wisdom.
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I [singing and music] am not like can
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myself
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a place for you. Oh Godful
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to me. I am a s [music]
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through and through. My only hope
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[music]
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of [singing] rightousness.
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It's not in me.
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I [singing] only you.
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[music]
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No humble grass, no fing [music] prayer,
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no lifted hands, no tearful song, no
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resitation
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of [music and singing] the truth can
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justify
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a single wrong. My rightousness
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is Jesus died. [singing]
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My [music] death was made by Jesus
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death. My [music and singing] weary love
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was born by him and [singing] he alone
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can [music]
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rest.
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No separation [music]
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from the world, no work [singing] I do,
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no gift I give [music]
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can cleanse [singing] my conscience,
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cleanse my hands, [music]
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I [singing] can cause my soul to
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Jesus [music] died and rose [singing]
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again.
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The power [music]
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of death is over the throne. My God
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[music and singing] is merciful
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to me and merciful
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in Christ alone. [music]
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My rightousness [singing]
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is Jesus life. My death was made by
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[music] Jesus death.
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My [singing] weary love was [music] born
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by him and [singing] he alone
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can give me rest [music and singing] and
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he alone
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can give me [music] rest.
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>> Amen. You may be seated. What great
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encouraging songs this morning or this
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evening, Pastor William and team, thank
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you very much. I hope you're encouraged
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by that. How many of you got wet coming
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in? Anybody get wet coming in? All
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right. Anybody get up get I guess some
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of you guys came in or or uh you got
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going early this morning when it was
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raining then, too. So, uh we've needed
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the rain terribly and uh finally we're
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getting it. It seems like we're getting
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it all at once. So, it's great to see
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you tonight. Hope and pray that you've
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had a good day. We're going to uh have a
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great time as we dive into God's word.
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Uh if you didn't get a sermon outline
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for tonight, lift your hand and we have
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Eli Aras and these a lot of people. We
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we missed you. Be patient. They're going
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to get to you. So here comes Ivan. Just
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get your hand up whenever. Come on
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forward all Ivan and then work your way
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back. Um few things. First of all,
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Easter outreach. All these boxes are up
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here in the front. And maybe some of you
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were not here Sunday morning and you
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didn't see this. we have some great
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invitation things uh for you to give to
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your neighbors and uh just put this on
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one of their one of their doors or
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something like that. And there are uh
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postcards in the seat pews right there.
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Pass those down if you would. Grab some
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of these, invite these. Um I I just
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really want to encourage you to invite
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folks to come for Easter. We're going to
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have a great time. It's a wonderful,
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wonderful day. Uh those of you who have
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been to an Easter sunrise service on the
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beach with us, you know, it's really
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cool. Um we pray for good weather. You
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never know what the Lord's going to
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give. Sometimes it's awesome. Sometimes
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it's a little dicey. Um it's kind of
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weird. A couple of years ago, we saw
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this storm coming up and we're like,
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"Lord, please let it go north. Let it go
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north. Oh Lord, please let it." But you
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know what? There was another sunrise
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service going on north of us. So I don't
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know how to pray about that. Um,
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so, uh, I think, uh, Calvary Chapel,
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Fort Lauderdale had a service going
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north of us, so it was the battle of who
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prays harder, I guess. I don't know.
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But, um, no, we we just have a great
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time inviting folks for a great Easter
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time. Good Friday service will be very
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powerful and meaningful. Um, we observe
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the Lord's supper on that evening,
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remembering that he died for us. And um
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then on Easter Sunday morning, we
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celebrate that on the beach uh with a
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rich time. And not only the beach
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service, but also the 11:00 service
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here. If you need to be baptized, we
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have a long list. Listen to this. We
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have 31 people on the list to be
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baptized. And so we're we're just uh
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really looking forward to that. And uh
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we still need volunteers. I invite you
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to volunteer. Um it's a great time to do
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that. And uh we we we need help
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welcoming people. There's going to be
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thousands of people there on the beach
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and we need help with that. So, join us
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for um something good to drink and eat
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immediately following tonight. So, this
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is probably the last evening of cool
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weather for the uh for the year, I don't
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know, or at least until the end of uh
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fall uh next year or not next year, in
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the fall. And so, we're going to enjoy
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that tonight and uh get something to eat
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right out there in just a minute. So,
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well, this last Sunday, what was the
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message about this last Sunday? Does
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anybody remember what was the message
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about?
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>> Okay, anxiety. Um, anybody have any in
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particular things that uh the message on
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anxiety um did how many of you the
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message on anxiety gave you anxiety? Did
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any did it give anybody anxiety?
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I'm serious. When I was preparing the
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message, I was praying for our church. I
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was praying for all of you. Um, now most
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people wouldn't be that anxious, but you
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know, some people are really caught in
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the in the vortex, caught in the storm
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of anxiety.
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And just talking about the idea of
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anxiety could could trigger some
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anxiety. And that word trigger, isn't
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that a key word in these present day and
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time? You know, we have all these lingo
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in our present moment. But God cares.
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Um, and freedom from anxiety. Um, if you
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have your sermon outline and if you guys
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can give me one of them, I would
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appreciate that. If if there's there
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should be one up here. Sorry. Okay.
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Let's go not to the first page and the
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second page, but go to the next one
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there. Just which is really the one from
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this last Sunday. And remember with me
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that we did review that first page, the
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one that has a one at the bottom of it.
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Um, we did review the whole message of
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Peter and then we dove into, if you turn
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the page again, uh, and so this would be
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on your page, too. These are the notes
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from Sunday with all the answers. Um,
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but notice in the box up there at the
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top of the page, this is what got us
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going. And tonight we're going to ask a
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key question in just a minute, but look
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at the box um in 1 Peter chapter 5 verse
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6 and 7. So that's what we're going to
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go to is the scripture. 1 Peter 5 6 and
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7. Look what it says. It says, "Humble
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yourselves therefore under the mighty
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hand of God so that the proper time he
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may exalt you." Look at verse seven.
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casting all your anxieties on him. And
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read it out loud at the end. What does
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it say? Because he cares for you. That's
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amazing. Verse seven is an amazing
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verse.
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Casting all your anxieties on him
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because he cares for you.
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Um,
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what I sought to do Sunday morning was
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remind us and underneath number one, we
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see here these are the closing thoughts
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of Peter's letter. And these ideas are
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narrowing down to the very important big
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picture items on how to what to
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persevere well in a broken world. And
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he's he's acknowledging I have there the
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on the ground realities. And here's the
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idea of the fall, the fact that the
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world's messed up. And so because the
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world's messed up, we have anxieties.
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But God has a reset for the world.
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It's from the heavens. And who came from
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the heavens? But Jesus Christ.
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God, for those who are being saved, is
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sustaining and restoring his goodness.
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This is right there in the middle of the
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page where it says from the heavens,
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reset. God resets everything. Jesus
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Christ is the one antidote to the
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brokenness and curse of sin. Number
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three, Christ's death and resurrection
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makes the reverse of the curse possible.
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And number four, true Christians live in
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Christ's great reset by faith and and
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obedience. And that's what Peter's
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trying to get at. He's trying to help us
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live in the new life in Christ.
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And um it's really kind of amazing what
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he does. Um and it starts with our
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humility before God. That's in verse
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six. Humble yourselves under the mighty
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hand of God. Flip the page. Notice that
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there's a re a reward. Uh there's the
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promise of a reward. This is verse six
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as well. It says, "So that at the proper
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time he may exalt you." We talked about
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the fact that he um he calls us to to
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humble ourselves now that later he will
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exalt us. For those who are prideful, he
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will humble. For those who are humble,
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he will exalt. It's kind of amazing that
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box in the middle of the page. Human
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posture. If we're prideful, God opposes
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us. God's not prideful. He could be
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prideful. He's powerful, but he's
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humble.
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and he calls us to be humble. And then
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look at that um God's response
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uh is he opposes us. Look at human
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posture, self-exaltation. God humbles us
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and then humility, brokenness,
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obedience, seeking him. So God just
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invites us into be with him in the right
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spirit and he brings us into that spirit
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by his grace. Um then number four,
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notice the real privilege of real relief
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from anxiety. So he really wants us to
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be free from that. Casting all of our
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cares upon him because he cares for us.
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Um you know, Sunday morning we looked at
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all those graphs.
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We looked at all those graphs about the
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reality of our culture and the fact that
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anxiety is just getting stronger and
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stronger and stronger. And it has to do
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with so much information. And it has to
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do with so much busyness.
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It has to do with so much pressure upon
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us.
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And we looked at the fact that we're
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looking for escapes from this anxiety. I
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I am very concerned about those things.
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Back up a couple of those graphs. Go
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back one more. Right there. This is
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everybody across the board. Um ages 18
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to 25 most anxious. And then a little
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bit young, a little bit older, 26
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through 34, next most anxious. And these
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are 100% increase um just in the last 15
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years. And then um ages 35 to 49.
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These are these are very real issues
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um for us. I am very concerned. The next
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one does show the the impact that
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anxiety has on girls. Girls are far more
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susceptible to anxiety than boys. Um,
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and there's a lot of different reasons
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for that, but um, especially in light of
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media, um, girls, you know, are are tend
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to be more concerned about appearance.
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And part of what a mir media is all
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about. It's just you got to look like
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this, you got to look like this, you got
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to look like this. Um, boys are just
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ugly and that's just the way it is.
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Girls are pretty and, you know, guys are
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like, well, there's nothing I can do
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about it. I am what I am. And you know,
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we we but but no, really, God has made
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it. So, um I mean, that that's part of
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the thing about um a woman is the idea
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of beauty and and so because that's out
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there and it's so strong with all of the
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media, it has a greater impact. And and
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then we we we looked at this last graph
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and this is a bit of fresh air in that
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if we're really living our Christian
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faith,
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our Christian faith should be having an
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impact upon our anxiety.
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And so we the whole message was how can
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I be free from anxiety? So um look at
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that last page um that is there. It's
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has to do with number four, the real
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relief. But um look at the top of that
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on the last page. God invites us to
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bring every anxiety to him without
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exception. He says, "All your anxieties,
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give them to me." All of them.
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Um there's nothing too small for God's
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attention. There's nothing too large for
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his ability. So he cares about the
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smallest thing and he's able with the
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biggest thing.
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Um letter C there God himself is the
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place where our anxieties belong. Peter
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doesn't say cast them away. He says cast
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them on him.
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And the Christian life is not anxiety
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suppression.
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It's anxiety relocation
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that we give it to him. The gospel does
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not um teach us to deny our burdens but
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to redirect them. And then I love point
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number five the most quite honestly
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because this is really well the gospel
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where the gospel is.
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Why are we commanded to give cast our
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anxieties on him? Why? Because he cares
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for you. God actually cares. We live in
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a world that cares less and less and
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less about the individual about the
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person standing in front of you. You
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know, we live with all these used to the
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customer was always right. Used to there
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was great priority on how the customer
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has the experience used to all that. And
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these days it's come in the store, get
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your stuff, get out. I mean, the the
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restaurant is this is just the way it
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is, you know, whatever. That's probably
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one of the most shocking things when I
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moved to Europe.
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Who in this room has lived in Europe?
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Has anybody lived in Europe? I Fabio
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has. Miss Colin Bay. Yeah. See, it's
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hysterical.
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There was this guy that picked us up
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from the airport as missionaries. He
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said a few things. Okay, here's a few
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points of illustr of of orientation.
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Number one, do you have an American
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Express card? I said, "Yeah." And he
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said, "You might as well leave home
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without it. Nobody takes American
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Express car here." I'm like, "Oh, okay."
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And then he went on to say several
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things and one of the things he said
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was, "You're in France now. Just so you
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know, the customer is always wrong in
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France.
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And it's so true. I mean, it is it is so
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true. The customer is 100% wrong. I
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mean, you you can go and say, "Excuse
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me. Um, this isn't this happened." And
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they're like, "No, sorry." Um, that's
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just the way it is. I mean, and
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customers. So, the you have to really go
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through relationship and all that thing,
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get things fixed. I bought a juicer for
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Marcy when we first moved there. And um
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I took it home, took it out of the box,
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and it didn't work. And so I took it
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back to the store and I said, "Hi, um
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this thing didn't work. I need to go get
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another one." And the lady goes, "No,
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no." And I said, "Well, no. I just
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bought it. I mean, look, the receipt. I
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bought it today and it doesn't work. I
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can I just go get another one?" She
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goes, "Oh, no. We'll have to send this
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off to be fixed."
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I said, "What?
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She said, "Oh, no." I said, "Well, how
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long is that going to take?" She said,
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"Normally two months." And I said, "I
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just want my money back." "Oh, no, no,
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no, no, no, no. We don't do that."
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Literally is true. That am I lying, Mike
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Todd? I mean, you and Lily live there.
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You lived in the same town where that
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happened.
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>> You got to make sure that they enjoy you
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as a customer. And if you can make sure
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that they're enjoying serving you,
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they'll spend all day with you. But you
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got to stay on their good side.
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Yeah, if you go in there demanding
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anything, forget it. Now, what I learned
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was I could go in there and I could say
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two things. I would say bonjour,
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I am a new student of French. And then I
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would say,
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"My French is a huge catastrophe."
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And then I would say,
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Devotra,
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I need your help. And they would go,
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what do you need my help for? And then
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once you went through all of that, you
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could say, I bought this thing and it
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didn't work.
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And then they might go, okay, well, we
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can find a solution. You know, anyways,
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we live less and less in a world
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of care.
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We live less and less in a world of
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care. Here's the thing. God never
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changes. He's the same yesterday, today,
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and forever. And you know what the Bible
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tells us? He cares for us. And that's
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the reason we can give him our cares.
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So we there on that last page, we notice
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his heart. Number five, his trusting
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care. Notice his heart. We we Anxiety
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grows when we doubt God's care. Peace
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grows when we rest in his care. or the
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antidote is um the anxiet the antidote
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to anxiety is not control but it's
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confidence in the care of God. So um a
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question came up when the pastors were
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were dealing with this um you know how
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do we how does our church deal with
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anxiety?
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Are we part of that graph that maybe is
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less?
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I don't know.
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Um, sometimes we are, sometimes we
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aren't. Uh, because we all are
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susceptible to anxiety.
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Any comments on Sunday's message? Was
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there was there anything that was
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helpful to you on Sunday's message? Did
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anybody have anything that was helpful
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to you uh as you review this, as you
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look at this? Any thoughts about that?
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Anybody?
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>> Nobody.
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No. No help to you.
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>> I like the idea of casting your
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term.
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>> Yeah. But other than that, the entire
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sermon was helpful.
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>> Well, thanks a lot, Sharon. That's
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great. She said casting the idea of
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really throwing it off onto him is
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helpful. That's good. That's good. Yes.
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>> Okay.
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take it to him and take it right back.
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He's still there.
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>> Great point, Cassandra. Cassandra said,
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"Well, a lot of times we'll cast it on
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him, but then we take it back." Have you
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ever done that?
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And then, but he's inviting us to
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continue to cast it upon him. That's a
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That's really good. Who else? Somebody
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else. Sorry. Yeah.
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>> It's interesting.
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>> Real loud. Real loud. It's interesting
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how you chose
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an
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>> okay um Gabby is pointing out something
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really important
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in verse six. It says humble yourselves
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which is which is the opposite of of
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pride.
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But verse six and verse 7 are connected
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where your anxiety actually comes from
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pride.
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And so if you want to be if you want to
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be free from anxiety, stop being
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prideful. But that's counterintuitive
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because we think no prideful people tend
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to not have any anxiety, right? No it
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that's that's a that's a false view of
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pride. What we need to understand is
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sometimes our anxiety is a sign of our
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pride.
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And I think that's what you're saying.
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Is that is that what you're saying?
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Yeah. So that's really really good.
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Okay. This side's kind of done. All
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right. This side. Matthew.
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probably to go back and reread the text
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in it context and I notic
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my relationship to my brothers and
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sisters here
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myself
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with all the cares that I have.
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>> Yeah, that's good.
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As I explained to Pastor Lawler
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yesterday, I might be frustrated about
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not finding a fulltime job, but it's not
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going to stop me looking for some way
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serving.
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That's still
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>> That's good.
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>> Yeah. Yeah. That's good. That's good.
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And that actually when we serve others,
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when we get our focus off of oursel,
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Matthew, what I hear you saying is, "My
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anxiety goes down when I minister to
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others."
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I saw a report one time
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about
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people in professions
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that are serving others
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that where their life involves in
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helping others in their problems.
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And the survey was was saying the stress
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levels
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of people that are involved in serving
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others when there's it was talking about
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high stress people from all different
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walks of life. High stress people. And
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it was talking about the difference in
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high stress when you're kind of doing it
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for yourself
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versus high stress when you're doing it
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for others. when it, you know, maybe
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involving doctors, maybe involving
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uh social workers, maybe involving other
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things. Did you know that
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I I what they talked about was crisis
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health is lower among people who live
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high stress lives serving others versus
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high stress lives in profit for
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themselves.
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Does that make sense? When you are doing
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high stress life for yourself or for
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your profession or for your paycheck,
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you tend to have crisis health.
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But when you spend your life, even under
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high stress, serving others, you have
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less crisis. There's less disease. Yeah,
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Rick,
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>> I can testify.
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>> Okay, say it real loud.
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>> I can testify that when you see the
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issues of other people face health
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issues, let's say that are devastating
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and you're serving them and helping them
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getting them through them and you can
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see them getting
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you look at your own life and you see my
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comparison
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as long as you're there
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see
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that Yeah.
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>> Amen. That's a that's a that's an
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encouraging, relieving thing. And I'm
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not saying, Dr. Beth Court, that doctors
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don't have crisises, that they don't
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have heart attacks, they don't have
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strokes, they don't have that. I'm sure
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that they do. But this study was just
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saying when you live stressed out for
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selfish gain, you're going to have
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you're going to crash more. When you
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live stressed out to help others,
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there's a freedom there. That is a
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beautiful thing. Somebody else started
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to say something. Yes, Michael.
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>> Real loud, brother.
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Liberals, right?
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Most people it's not that
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happiness
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like that's
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the word conservative realize
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conservativeire
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always.
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>> Yeah.
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>> Sometimes when they see numbers like
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this, it makes them think there is
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something
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Yeah. Yeah. And hopefully when they see
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us bear a terrible thing and yet
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genuinely have a peace and and
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struggling in the Lord. I mean, I think
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about Billy John's and his death. He had
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a long struggle with cancer and he was
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he was in the midst of all of that long
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struggle. He was he was constantly a a
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rock of strength. And people would look
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at that and and be I I remember being in
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the hospital the last week of his life
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and um talking to people who were around
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him and caring for him and they said,
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"Man, he's he has such peace. He has
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such strength." And everybody knew that
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his the end of his life was there.
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People from Publix commenting on that
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all the time about what a rock he was.
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So those are good things. Go to the
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front page. for a Christian, is anxiety
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just a condition or is it or is it a
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sin? And I think I Yes, I have my own
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notes. I want to just share with you a
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couple things. You go, you guys go ahead
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and come on up. That's great. Um I I
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want us to talk about this for just a
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minute and uh let's move these way up
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front. Yeah.
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Let's look at this. First of all, number
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one, Christians are commanded not to
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fill it in, live in anxiety. Christians
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are commanded not to live in anxiety.
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Look at Philippians 4:4-6.
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Do not be anxious about anything. Says
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it right there. Don't be anxious, but in
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everything by prayer and supplication
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with thanksgiving, let your requests be
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made known to God. And the peace of God
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which surpasses all understanding will
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guard your hearts and your minds in
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Christ Jesus.
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So if God commands, "Do not be anxious
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about anything," then ongoing embrace
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anxiety is actually
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disobedience.
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Look at Jesus's own words. Matthew
Matthew 6 chapter mention
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chapter 6. Therefore, I tell you, do not
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be anxious about your life.
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Look down at verse 6:31. Therefore, do
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not be anxious, saying, "What shall we
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eat? What shall we drink? What shall we
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wear?" the most basic things. For the
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Gentiles seek after all these things,
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and your heavenly father knows that you
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need them all. And then in verse 34,
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therefore do not be anxious about what?
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>> Tomorrow, man.
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Do not be anxious about tomorrow. How
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often are we tempted to be anxious about
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tomorrow?
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What's going to happen? What about this?
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What about this? I have this problem.
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Look at the next one. Number two,
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anxiety is contrasted with trust in God.
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So Jesus says it in in 6:30 and this is
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very similar to what we've just been
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looking at above that. But if God so
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clothe the grass of the field, will he
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not much more clothe you,
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oh you of little faith?
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I love Psalm 56 in verse three. When I
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am afraid, I will put my trust in you.
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In God in whose word I praise I in God I
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trust. I shall not be afraid. Isaiah
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26:3, another one of my favorites. Can
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you guys read this out loud together?
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It's at the bottom of the page. Look
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what it says. Read it out loud. You keep
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him in perfect peace whose mind is
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stayed on you because he trusts in you.
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>> I love that. Can you circle those?
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Perfect peace.
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Um, I learned that in the King James.
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Thou wil keep him in perfect peace whose
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mind is stayed on thee, whose heart
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trusts in thee. That passage right there
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has seen me through many a tight spot.
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There's been many times when I was
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tempted to be freaking out about
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something in my life. And that passage
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right there
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helped me to realize h
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if I am super upset right now that means
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that I am not looking to the Lord.
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I am not trusting in God.
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My eyes are on the problem. They're not
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on the problem solver.
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And God is calling me to have my eyes on
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the problem solver. Flip the page there
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and look at the next one. Anxiety can
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become a failure
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to cast our burdens on God. And this is
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from our verses uh six and seven. Humble
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yourselves therefore under the mighty
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hand of God, casting all your anxieties
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on him because he cares for you. So
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anxiety can become this failure to cast
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our burdens on God. So we're not doing
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what we were told to do.
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Um he actually tells us to give him our
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problems,
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our anxieties. Number four, anxiety as
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opposed to faith and peace. John 14:27,
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"Peace I leave with you. My peace I give
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to you. Let not your hearts be troubled,
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neither let them be afraid." Who said
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these words? Jesus said these words.
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Jesus said these words. "Peace I live
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with you." Circle those words. My peace.
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It's not just peace. It's his peace
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I give to you. Let not your hearts be
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troubled.
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So that's inferring that we are to
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control our hearts.
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Um sometimes you would say I can't
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control my heart.
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Well the scripture is is encouraging you
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yes you can.
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U modern psychology very often will just
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say to you well you can't control your
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thoughts. You can't control your minds.
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You know that's part of what
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obsessivecompulsive
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disorders are about. trying to bring
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thoughts under control. Um, I think
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about lots of passages of scripture. One
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of them is take every thought captive
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unto the obedience of Christ. You're not
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just to let your mind run.
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You can stop your mind from running.
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You can stop it from running in fear.
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You say, "Oh, but pastor, I don't think
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so. I can't." And I would say, "Well,
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you may be weak right now. You may
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struggle with that, but let's start
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building
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trust and faith in him and start
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memorizing scripture. And as you do
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that, you'll learn to stop the thoughts
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with his help.
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Um, notice the next one there. I love
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Colossians 3:15. And let the peace of
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Christ,
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look at that word, rule.
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That means be in charge in your hearts.
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So you let the peace of Christ rule in
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your hearts. Number five, anxiety as a
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form of a divided
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or a distracted heart.
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Your heart can be divided in its
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allegiance or distracted from what's
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important.
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And um we saw Martha, she comes to Jesus
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and she's complaining about something
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and Jesus looks at her and says,
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"Martha, Martha, you are anxious and
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troubled about many things,
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but one thing is necessary."
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That's a powerful passage right there. I
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mean, look at that.
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Andrew, Andrew, can you put your name in
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there? Say your name twice. Are you
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ready? Here we go. One, two, three.
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You are anxious and troubled about many
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things,
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but one thing is necessary. Now, some of
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you are going, "Okay, well, so what's
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the one thing that's necessary?" Anybody
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want to tell us what's the one thing
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that's necessary from this passage?
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What?
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>> Jesus.
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>> Yeah. Worshiping Jesus.
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Being with Jesus. That's the one thing
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that's necessary.
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And and the opposite of that is anxiety
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and troubles. And then number six,
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anxiety actually
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is revealing unbelief.
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Unbelief and unbelief is the root issue
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here. Take care, brothers, lest there be
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any of you and even any of you an evil
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and unbelieving heart. So, and then look
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at Romans 14:23. Whatever does not
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proceed from faith is sin.
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So, um
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this is an anti-popular psychology Bible
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lesson tonight.
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Popular psychology says, "Oh, you're
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burdened and you know, you're anxious
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and you know, there's not a lot you can
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do about that. There's there's these
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devices you can use and some thought
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patterns that you can use to manipulate
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your thought." And what we would say is
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God is saying, "No, just come to me and
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worship me instead of worshiping your
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problem.
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Be in awe." God is saying, "Be in awe of
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me, not your problem.
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If you'll be in awe of me, I'm going to
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help you deal with your problem, and
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I'll either solve your problem or I'll
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give you the strength to deal with your
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problem."
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So, um, I guys, what were some things
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that we talked about this morning,
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Ruben? What were some things that were
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on your or yesterday? What were some
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things there?
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Yeah, you were mentioning one of the
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things we're talking about in
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conversation and there's something that
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Pastor Jason mentioned is whenever the
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Bible talks about anxiety, it's always
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coupled with faith. It's always coupled
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with trust. Um, whenever Jesus is saying
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not to be anxious or receiving a command
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in scripture, do not be anxious, there's
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always an antidote given. There's
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something else. Um, I like how you
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mentioned earlier we're talking about,
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you know, people say they can't control
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their hearts. Well, the Bible never
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commands us to do something that we or
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>> lays a responsibility upon us if we were
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not able to do it.
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>> So, if he's saying do not be anxious,
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but instead, you know, through
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supplication and thanksgiving, let your
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requests be made known to God. Cast your
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anxieties upon God. That is the thing to
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replace that action with. Um, you can't
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just stop thinking about something and
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then it's like, don't think about flying
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elephants. Well, you're going to be
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thinking about flying elephants. But if
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you give your mind something else to
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focus on, you stop thinking about the
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one thing, right? Um if you focus on
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what you're not supposed to think about,
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you're just going to think about it all
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the more. And in scripture, what we're
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given is really the picture of Christ.
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The thing what we focus on is Christ. We
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focus on who he is. We focus on his
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character, his love, his um just the
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great care that he has for us, which is
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why it's mentioned right there in the
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verse.
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>> Yeah. Well, I love what you just said
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that God doesn't tell us to do anything
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and we don't have the ability to do it.
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So, anything God tells us to do,
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[snorts] he is giving us the ability to
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do it.
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>> His holy spirit empowers us.
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>> Yeah. And his spirit is what empowers
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that. That's right. That's a That's a
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really good word. Other key things that
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you thought about from our conversation?
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>> I've been thinking about that
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conversation for a long time since
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Tuesday. not a long time. But I um was
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also anxious because I didn't come up
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here with the notes. I'm at a
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disadvantage. But um here I'll give you
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my notes. There you go.
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>> Thank you.
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[snorts]
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>> I since we've had that conversation,
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I tried to look through the scriptures
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to see if the scriptures ever describe
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Jesus as being anxious.
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And I cannot find any single time that
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the scripture says Jesus was anxious.
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Jesus did suffer in the garden. We know
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that in the garden of Gethsemane and he
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he dealt with a lot of sorrow. He looked
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at the people of Jerusalem and wept. He
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looked at the different states of
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leadership in Israel at the time and he
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realized that they were taking advantage
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of the people.
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Certainly there were descriptions and
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descriptors that we could say in our
-
modern vocabulary. You know, Jesus was
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definitely worried about this group of
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people and all that.
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The only problem is I can't find it in
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scripture.
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And that is that is the standard.
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I think I know why the scripture never
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describes Jesus as being anxious because
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he's God. God doesn't get worried. God
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knows the plan.
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God is the one telling us not to worry.
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And so, what a friend,
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>> what a friend to have uh to have Jesus
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right by your side when you're going
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through some of the worst things in your
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life. Uh Pastor Lucas shared this and
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I've been thinking about this uh many
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years ago. Some of you remember Pastor
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Lucas. He was uh our music pastor and he
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also did a lot of biblical counseling.
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He was describing a situation in which
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he got he went to the grocery store
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Indie his wife had sent him and he was
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going to buy orange juice. That's what
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she wanted. And he knew how much money
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he had in the bank at the time and he
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went to reach for the orange juice. And
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in his mind, as he was reaching for it,
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in a quick second, he thought about how
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buying that would put them under in
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their budget, would deplete their bank
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savings, would then result in debt, and
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then would result in hardship. And then
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he would have to explain to his wife why
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he didn't get orange juice. She would be
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mad at him and perhaps even leave him.
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And after that, he would be ashamed to
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ministry because his wife left him. and
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he did my orange juice and and he stood
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there thinking,
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>> "I've let my mind run.
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>> I've let it go too fast." And it's kind
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of comical, but you get the point. Uh
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Lucas uh in that moment was sharing how
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in his weakness he failed to catch his
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mind and failed to bring it under
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submission to Jesus and failed to look
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at Jesus as his perfect friend who never
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is anxious and to entrust his heart and
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his mind in his in that moment to the
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Lord. It's kind of a comical situation,
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but how many of us go through each day
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letting our minds, as Pastor Andrew just
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earlier said, control us instead of
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reigning in our minds under the lordship
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of Jesus. So, that's what I've been
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thinking about since we had that
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conversation.
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>> Yeah. And I I think that that's a key
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part because I think that when we let
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our minds run,
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>> that's when anxiety builds and builds
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and builds and builds.
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And when does that happen most for you?
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I think everybody may be different.
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For some of you, it's on the drive to
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work.
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>> For some of you, it's when you lay down
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to go to sleep. You're laying there or
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you wake up in the middle of the night.
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Maybe that starts off with having to run
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to the restroom, but then you're sitting
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there and you're awake and you're
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thinking about whatever it is
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and your mind can race and especially if
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you're in the midst of a storm.
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You know, you you you have a particular
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thing in your life that's going on,
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something that happened at work and
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maybe your job is at threat or there's
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somebody that is driving you crazy and
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you're sitting there and you're thinking
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about all the things that you would say
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or I'm going to say or I'm going to
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write this in an email. You know, be
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very careful about long emails.
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What you can do is you can write the
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email,
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email it to yourself and then forget it.
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I I mean just okay, you sent it, you
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send it to yourself and then go to when
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I was leaving to go and become a
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missionary with the IMB.
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Mark Cassay said to me, this was kind of
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actually in the early days of email, but
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he said, he said, "Go ahead, write your
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email. Do not send it until you've slept
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on it. He said, "Don't write an email
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that's dealing with a problem and then
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send it before you've had a chance to
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sleep on it." Because there's a lot of
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times you wake up and you're like, I'm
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not going to send that.
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In our church office, we say this, you
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are never allowed to solve a problem
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through email.
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If you have a problem with somebody
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else, you have a problem that you're
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trying to work out, you have to go to
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them and work it out. Do it on the
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phone, do it face to face, but don't
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start texting. Don't start writing
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emails.
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Um, can I get an amen on that?
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Trying to solve things with texts or
-
emails very often turns it'll blow up in
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your face
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and it's just not the way to do it.
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Humans are designed to look at one
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another, read each other's face, and
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hear each other's voice. And we do a
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whole lot better when we organically
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solve problems.
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But when we are laying there at night or
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when we're driving to work or when we
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are walking the dog or doing whatever
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we're doing and our mind is running,
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I believe your flesh
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wants to run in that with no bridal,
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with no whoo.
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M
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>> this is part of the reason it's good to
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walk through life with brothers and
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sisters with family. This is part of the
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reason you should be able to talk with
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people around you so that they can say,
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you know, if if I'm going off on my
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problem and Angela Colomb and I are
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sitting here talking about Angela can
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say, "Whoa, whoa, whoa, wait a minute,
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pastor.
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Why do you say that? That hasn't
-
happened yet. Why are you worried about
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that?
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You're worrying about something that
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hasn't even come up yet." Marcy
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sometimes will look I'm a worst case
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scenario thinker. She's like, "Ah,
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whatever. Let's go." And I and I, you
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know, sometimes I'm like that, but I'm
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kind of paid to be a worst case scenario
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thinker in order for the safety of the
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church. And so there's a lot of times
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where I'm sitting there thinking, well,
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I need to consider what all the
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possibilities are. And she's like, keep
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your possibilities. I don't want to
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think about that right now.
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But I tend to think about those things.
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But for those of you who are worst case
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scenario thinkers,
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that can just turn into sin
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>> and anxiety.
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Now, some of you, we wish you'd think
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about it a little more. Um, [laughter]
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but
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>> yep. I was thinking um I I remember
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talking about this with some students
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years ago in a chapel and as I was
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studying through scripture looking at
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all the places where the Bible talks
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about anxiety and when we're not to be
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anxious and one of one of the common
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threads that we see is I mean the word
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in the in Greek really refers to cares
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but more often than not when we're
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referring to anxiety we're thinking
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about fears
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>> you know do not worry about tomorrow
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what are people worried about what
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they're going to eat you know what about
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my job what about you know people say
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that traffic gives them anxiety what are
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you worried about that cutting you off
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and hitting you. You know, it's almost
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the root of anxiety. It's usually fear.
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>> You know, we we may not be able to
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control when you feel afraid at the
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moment,
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>> but do we live in the fear?
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>> Do we continue to entertain the fear? Do
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we continue to let that dominate our
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lives? Well, scripture says, "Perfect
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love casts out fear." If we know our
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loving father, we know his disposition
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towards us, we know how he provides, we
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know his ability to protect, what reason
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do we have to fear anything in the
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future? know um whether we're going to
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make ends meet. He's going to provide uh
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what we're going to wear. You know,
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what's the fear there? I mean, we don't
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worry about what we're going to wear
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about our clothes not being there. What
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we're worried about is what people are
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going to think about our clothes. We're
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afraid of their opinion. So, almost
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always whenever we see anxiety, it's
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usually an undercurrent of fear. And so,
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if we start looking at everywhere where
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scripture talks about fear and how we
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handle fear as children of God redeemed
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by Christ, well, what does scripture say
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about that?
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>> Yeah. And you know that goes pastor
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Rubin that goes to a good definition or
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at least a maybe we can have a working
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definition of anxiety. Um I I think we
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have to look at anxiety at different
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stages different levels. Um what you
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described is a spiritual uh form of
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anxiety. an anxiety that is rooted in
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the unbelief of [snorts]
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maybe even fear of man, fear of
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circumstances, fear of uh predicaments,
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fear of my own weaknesses.
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I I think there's certainly uh a
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definition of anxiety that has to
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connect unbelief, fear, and um certainly
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a seeking after things that bring
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greater fear or greater uncertainty.
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It's kind of a it's kind of a vicious
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cycle if you think about it. Anxiety is
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is such a um poison uh to follow. Jesus
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says in Matthew 6, the Gentiles seek
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after all these things. That is why they
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are anxious.
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So anxiety is a seeking. Jesus says
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though, but for you seek first the
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kingdom. So the remedy to anxiety is a
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seeking, but it's a seeking of God's
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kingdom, the first priorities of
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righteousness, and all of these other
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things will be given to you. It's almost
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like, hey, prioritize God in your life.
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All these things will melt away. Not
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that troubles won't um disappear, but
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they'll melt away because God matters
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more. But to your point too, Pastor
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Andrew, the physiological response of
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anxiety, I mean, there's certainly
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people that we meet with and even what
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you just described, worst case scenario
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thinking. Paul writes in 2 Corinthians
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11, he says, "Apart from other things
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for himself, there's the daily pressure
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on me." Paul writes, "Of my anxiety for
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all the churches." And Paul is saying,
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"This is a weakness that I have." Now,
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for Paul, we wouldn't say that he's
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sinning here because Paul later says,
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"This is causing me to go to God on your
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behalf to the Corinthians." Um, I am a
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prime witness to Pastor Andrew's worst
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case scenario thinking. One of the
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reasons why I'm a worst case scenario
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thinker is because of Pastor Andrew.
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>> Thanks a lot. [laughter]
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>> But,
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>> sorry, sorry I did that to you. But one
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of the things that I've I've so admired
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about Pastor Andrew over the years is
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that worst case scenario his worst case
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scenario thinking the brand that he's
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the flavor the the type that he's
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describing is one that leads us to pray.
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It leads us to where Paul led us to
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humility because Pastor Andrew often
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says, "I have no wisdom here. Sorry,
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Ben." I'm like, "You're supposed to know
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everything. You're the lead pastor of
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our church." And he says, "Nope.
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I don't have the wisdom, but I know who
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does. And we stop and we pray. And it's
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important for us to do that. And it's
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important for you to know that that
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we're worst case scenario thinking
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thinkers up to a point where we say,
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"God, you're our friend and we need your
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wisdom because we don't we're about to
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go into a meeting
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>> and we have the anxiety of this
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situation
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weighing heavily on our hearts and we
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don't want to sin." And so th this is um
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you know that that anxiety of unbelief
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also the anxiety the physiological
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anxiety of the reality of the pressures
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of life. We have to recognize that those
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um anxieties must for the Christian lead
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us to trust and pray and depend on stop
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what you're doing. Go to God.
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>> Amen. You know we have some middle
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schoolers and high schoolers in here
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tonight and young people. I'd like to
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ask you to just look right here for just
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a minute. I want to talk to you guys for
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a second because when I was your age,
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and I can tell you this, when the other
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two pastors on either side of me were
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your age or were your age,
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we all three would have been Christians
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at that point.
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But that didn't mean that we didn't have
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things that we worried about. There were
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lots of things that our mind would be
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very concerned about and they would be
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things about okay tomorrow. What's going
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to happen tomorrow? But sometimes when I
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was your age, I would think about
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well what about what kind of what kind
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of a man am I going to be? What kind of
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a w I wasn't asking what kind of woman,
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but if I was a woman, I could b ask what
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kind of woman am I gonna be? What what
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job am I gonna have?
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What career am I going to have?
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>> Um,
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I see there's good fathers and there's
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bad fathers.
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Will I be a good father someday?
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And I would sometimes I would worry
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about, well, everybody else seems to be
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able to find somebody to marry. Would I
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ever be able to find somebody to marry?
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Would somebody ever really love me?
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Would I be a good husband?
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And so there were things that were I was
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worried about in my own little sixth
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grade life or my 10th grade life,
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but there were also things that were off
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in the distant future that were on my
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mind. And I just want to say to you,
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some of these verses
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were some of the verses that God used
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to help me learn to trust in him and not
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just live my life in anxiety.
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>> You don't have to live your life in
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anxiety.
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You can begin to memorize passages of
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scripture. Isaiah 26:3, "Thou wil keep
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him in perfect peace, whose mind is
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stayed on thee, whose heart trusts in
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thee." The reason I can quote that is
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because I learned it when I was starting
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to see I needed it.
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And learning that verse
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was part of the thing that God used to
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reset my mind.
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So, I think it's real important for you
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to know
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that you and God can control your
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thoughts.
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You and God can control your heart.
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The world says, "Oh, there's nothing
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really you can do about that. You have
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this condition."
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>> Well, you only have that condition if
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you allow it.
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they they mention as a condition.
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Anxiety really isn't a condition. It's
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more of a symptom. It's usually tied in
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with other things. But we want so
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desperately to find a label to explain
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or or justify our weakness. But
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scripture doesn't give us that
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allowance. Um not to say that we can't
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people can't be dealing with very
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crippling fear and they need something
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kind of help take a little bit of that
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edge off in order to deal with it in a
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way that's healthy. It's not just a
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pharmaceutical problem. I mean, you have
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to address a spiritual issue, too. And
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we can't identify, oh, I'm I'm an
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anxious person. What can I do about
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that? No, we're we're told to not be
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anxious. So, there is something we can
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do about it. Not
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>> are there certain personalities that are
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more prone toward being anxious?
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>> Absolutely.
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>> I believe that that's true.
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>> But that's where you realize, oh, okay,
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maybe I do have a personality that's
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more prone toward that. There's other
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people that have a personality that's
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more torn toward not being anxious but
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being really irresponsible,
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>> angry,
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>> or maybe there's some personalities that
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are a little bit more prone toward a
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caleric. We call it a caleric
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personality. That's a that's an angry
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response, whatever it may be. There's
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some people that brood a lot. That means
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they think a lot. They ruminate on it a
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lot. There's some people that don't. My
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daughters when I was in middle when they
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were in middle school they said to me
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dad did you know it's been stat excuse
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me it's been scientifically proven that
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boys are capable of thinking about
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nothing
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[laughter]
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I said what they said yes we studied it
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today some boys are capable of thinking
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about nothing
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because I would always say you know
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girls your mind is always working on
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something the brain is very powerful He
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said, "Nuh-uh. Boys are capable of
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thinking about nothing. They can just,
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you know, they're kind of
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I don't know what the truth of that is,
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but I know that they were convinced of
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it, but
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don't be the victim.
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We kids, listen. We live in a society
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that loves to make victims. And a victim
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is somebody that can't do anything about
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their circumstance.
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Don't live in victimhood.
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Jesus said, "I am the King of Kings and
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the Lord of Lords.
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I rule over everything.
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And if you are his and you're his
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servant, you're not a victim. You're a
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child of the most high God and king
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and he can help you as you work through
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your problems.
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You're you're a victim most when you're
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without him.
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>> But when you're with him, you're
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anything but a victim.
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And that's exactly what first Peter
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says. Because he cares for you. Cast
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your cares upon him. Why? Because the
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high king of heaven cares about you.
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So, does that help, guys? I I I hope
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you're hearing me. I I hope you'll allow
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God's word. I mean, Psalm 56, when I am
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afraid, I will trust in you. How about
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this one? 1 Timothy
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1:7
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which says, "For God has not given us a
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spirit of fear, but of power and love
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and a sound mind." I think part of the
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reason I can sit here today and not be
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lost in insanity is that verse.
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>> That verse saved my sanity.
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Um, God's word will will save you.
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Um, in Romans it says, and help me out.
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In Romans, do not be conformed to this
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world, but be transformed by what?
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By the renewing of your mind. Well, how
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do you renew your mind?
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The word of God.
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Let the word of God renew your mind.
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So that means you're getting renew means
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get rid of the old, bring in the bring
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in the new. And the new is God's word.
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So you're reprogramming.
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Don't be conformed to this world, but be
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transformed
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by the reprogramming of your mind. And
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how do you reprogram your mind? with the
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truth of the word of God that will help
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you with anxiety. It will help you
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greatly with anxiety. So, okay. So, then
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when we find oursel anxious and we're
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upset and everything else,
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>> what do we do?
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>> Do we confess that as sin?
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>> There may be times. There may be times
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if there's been a long pattern of
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letting fear dominate our lives. we we
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need to repent and go back to the Lord
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and confess, I haven't been trusting you
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with this issue or this particular
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problem. I've been relying on my own
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strength, relying on my own ability to
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control this, and I need to let that go.
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I need to that's been wrong, and I I
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need to cast that on you, Lord. And at
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that point, it goes from being an a fear
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thing to a patience thing. Because if
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I've given my burden over to him,
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knowing that he will act in his time,
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well then what I do now is I wait for
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him. As I was just thinking about Psalm
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26 or 27:14, wait for the Lord. Be
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strong and let your heart take courage.
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Wait for the Lord. So after I've
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repented and turned back to him and and
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cast my anxiety on him. Well, now I wait
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for him to act.
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>> Yeah.
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One of our do not daughters, one of our
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nieces from California, they live in LA,
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came and stayed with us for spring break
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two years ago.
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Uh, actually it was more like five years
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ago. Sorry, time flies. And she at the
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time was in high school and she at the
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time dealt with anxiety
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and uh she spent a week with Uncle
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Andrew and Aunt Marcy and we were down
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in the Keys together and we talked a
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lot. we'd had dinner and we would sit
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around and talk and she told
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us and her sister about her struggle
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with anxiety and um and I I just went I
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got a big piece of paper and I wrote out
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a couple of verses
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and I said, "Stella, I think you ought
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to memorize these."
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And so Stella started memorizing those.
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And I talked to Jason and Amanda, her
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mom and dad, a couple of months later
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and they said, "You know, something
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happened on that trip to Florida."
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She said, they said, "We went in
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Stella's bedroom
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and on the ceiling of her bedroom, she
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had gone and gotten a poster, a big
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piece of poster board."
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And she wrote on the big piece of poster
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board this verse right here, Psalm 56:3,
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"When I am afraid, I will trust in
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thee." Mhm.
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>> And she put that above her bed
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on her room. They went in her bathroom
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in her house. I mean, excuse me, in her
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bathroom in her there in their house.
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And they noticed on the bathroom mirror
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was another poster that she had made,
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smaller one. And it said, "Thou will
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keep him in perfect peace whose mind is
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stayed on thee." M
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>> and they just noticed that she had
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posted around in her room in her little
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domain
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>> God's word.
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>> Yeah.
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>> And she started memorizing it and they
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said Stella is just maturing. She's
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overcoming these fears and these
-
anxieties. Today she's in college. She's
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very success. She's a senior in college
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actually. and um she's she's doing very
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very well, but what could have been
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something that gripped her life forever
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um became under control.
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And so the more that you guys back there
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in the back, the more that you guys can
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get a hold on this now,
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it will become a great strength for the
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rest of your life.
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You won't build huge habits of running
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around afraid.
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You can build huge habits of running
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around trusting in the Lord. And I would
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just encourage you just casting all of
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your cares upon him because he cares for
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you. So
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>> when when I consider those passages of
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scripture too, Pastor Andrew, and I I
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have to process if I need to repent of a
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sin, I I start with what what does Jesus
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command? What did Jesus command in those
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passages? He says there, you know, have
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you worried about what you're going to
-
eat? I've worried about that. What about
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what you're going to wear? I've worried
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about that, too.
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Are you worried about what you're going
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to drink? Yeah, I've worried about that.
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Uh when it comes to anxiety, yeah, do we
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worry about the earthly things? I I
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confess I have worried about those
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things. Whenever we process repentance,
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we should go to scriptures and see where
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have we missed the mark. I'm not talking
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to non-believers. I'm talking to
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believers.
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>> Can you what Pastor Ruben shared about
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being afraid?
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Am I afraid?
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I've been afraid before. My kids have
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been afraid. I've seen some of you be
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afraid before. Have I failed to trust
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the Lord? Have I failed to seek his
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righteousness first and his kingdom?
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Yeah, I've failed. And so, um, I have a
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friend in Jesus who I can run to and
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anchor my soul. Pastor Andrew also
-
talked about something really important
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that I I think often goes overlooked
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with anxiety.
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It's Have you all ever been to that
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Holland outlet in Miami? Like the water
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where the waves are huge and things go
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up and down. Have you ever seen that
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with the boats they crash the waves?
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Have you ever
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>> Oh, a haulover inlet. Hollowover inlet
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where the where the boats go out to from
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the inter coastal out to the other side.
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Haulover. Yeah.
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>> We're a bunch of kayaks on that body of
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water.
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And the fastest thing that you and I
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need to do in Christ is anchor ourselves
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to Christ in anxiety.
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You don't just have Christ, though. If
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you're a Christian, a genuine believer,
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you have other brothers and sisters that
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anchor you. What do I need most when I'm
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seeking and my mind is out of control? I
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need brothers and sisters who will
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anchor me to the truth, to the beauty
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and um just everlasting word of God.
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If I'm a young person or if I'm an older
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person, I am trying to find people to
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fill my life that will anchor me
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increasingly so because we're a bunch of
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kayaks in the middle of a storm,
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>> untethered.
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And if we get tethered to Christ and to
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the brothers and sisters, to the local
-
body of believers, we will anchor
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ourselves. Our minds will be under
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control. The Lord will be the lords of
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our the Lord of our heart and of our
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minds. So I that's what I do. I have to
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repent of my sin of not trusting God,
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being anxious when I should be trusting,
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and then anchor myself to Christ and the
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brothers and sisters.
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>> Yeah, that's good. That's good. One last
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concept before we go and I'm going to
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ask um just for a minute if Jackie I
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want to give you a heads up. If you have
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a word for everyone tonight, I want to
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give you that opportunity because you
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have been through a lot in your life and
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you have rested in the Lord. I'm going
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to let you kind of think about that. But
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let me give you this concept.
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How many of you have ever been to the
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Grand Canyon? Has anybody been to the
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Grand Canyon? Over half of you, how many
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of you have ever been anywhere? We're in
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Florida, so this is a little different,
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but have you ever been anywhere where
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you were on the edge of a cliff
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like the Grand Canyon? Kids, have you
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ever been on the edge of a cliff? How
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many of you ever had a thought of
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[laughter]
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whoa,
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like it scared you? Did you ever feel
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that way when you were standing on the
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edge of something? Why did you have that
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thought?
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Because bad things could happen, right?
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And what is it? What what bad thing
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could happen?
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>> Okay. You could fall
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>> fall over and die.
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>> You could fall over and [laughter] die,
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right? That's exactly right. Good job.
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So, is that a good fear or a bad fear?
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>> That is a fear that will save your life.
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Not all fear is a bad fear, right?
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There's some fears that are good.
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Let's say this.
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If you are on the edge of a decision
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that is a moral decision, you're you're
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contemplating sinning and there's
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something inside of you that is saying,
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"Don't do it. Don't do it. Don't do it."
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And there's this fear. Is that a good
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fear or a bad fear?
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>> That's a good fear.
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So, I'm not saying that all fear is
-
evil. Some fear is given to you by God
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to save you, to preserve you.
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But I will say this,
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there is a fear that doesn't come from
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God.
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And there's a fear that he would often
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say to people around him when either an
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angel would show up or God would show
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up. And he would say, "Fear not.
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You don't need to be afraid. Yes, I'm
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awesome and powerful and right now
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you're scared, but don't be afraid. I
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have good news. Don't be afraid. You are
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a favored one. Don't be afraid. I I have
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something good for you. When I think
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about this,
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most of the time if you're looking at
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life and you're afraid, you have these
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things that is making you afraid, you're
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afraid with anxiety, understand this,
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that is not from God.
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>> For God has not given us a spirit of
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fear. If your whole life is a spirit of
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fear, understand that's not from God.
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1 Timothy 1:7 says, "For God has not
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given us a spirit of fear." So if you're
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running around afraid, if you're running
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around afraid of what's going to happen
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with your friends, afraid of what's
-
going to happen with your job, afraid of
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what's going to happen with this, afraid
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of what's going to happen with that, if
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you're running around
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with a spirit of fear, that is not from
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God. And you can take courage with this
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that God says, I give you a spirit of
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a
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>> not of fear but of power and love and a
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sound mind.
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>> Yeah.
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>> So be encouraged that when you have
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fear, that's not from God. Unless you're
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standing on the edge of the Grand
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Canyon, and that's a good fear that he
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gave you to preserve your life. Or
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unless you're about to make a moral
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decision that's going to ruin your life,
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>> that's a good fear. He's given you that
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fear to save you. But a spirit of fear
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is not from him. So, I'm going to give
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Jackie the last word. Jackie, what would
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you say um to us tonight as we kind of
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think about anxiety and fear and
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trusting the Lord and casting our cares
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upon him?
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>> Well, recently I've been thinking about
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all the whatifs in my life. What if uh
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my son lives in a tornado alley and what
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if what if something happened? What if
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there isn't enough money at the end of
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the month? what if uh one of the
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grandkids is sick? And and so many what
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ifs and I've really been trying to
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concentrate on what if I trust the Lord?
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What [snorts] if I hold that thought
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captive? What if I um pray without
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ceasing?
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>> What what would that be like? So, I'm
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really trying to turn that around and
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stay away from [clears throat] the
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whatifs and turn it to uh we know what
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the answer is.
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>> Amen. Good word. Thank you. Let's stand
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together.
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Now listen, we have something good to
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eat over here. I I think a couple of
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guys are going to go for a brief
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meeting. And so for those of you that
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need to be in that brief meeting, let's
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do that right away. But for others of
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you, there is something good to drink
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and something good to eat over there.
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There are new folks here this evening
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and we want you to know that we're
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really glad you're here if you're new to
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us. And get to know one another. Take a
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minute to say hello. What's your name?
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Where are you from? Um get to know
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somebody new uh tonight. Let's pray
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together as we go. Father, thank you
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that you have not given us a spirit of
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fear, but of power and love and a sound
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mind. Thank you that you don't want your
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children to run around afraid. Thank you
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that you care about us. I pray that we'd
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be the kind of people that grow in
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confidence in you. And uh Lord, that our
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lives would be characterized by a
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steadfast faith in you. Lord, help us to
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learn from Martha and her struggles.
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Martha, Martha, you've got so many
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things on your mind. Lord, I pray that
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we would hear that our name there.
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Andrew, Andrew,
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you have so many things. Trust in me.
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Don't be afraid of those. Lord, I pray
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that our lives would grow powerful in
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faith, in confidence, in joy, and in
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peace. In Jesus name we pray. Amen.
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Amen. Love you all very much. Enjoy
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something to eat.