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Wednesday Night Recharge | March 18th, 2026

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  1. Hello. Good evening. Welcome to

  2. Recharge. You made it out of the rain.

  3. We've had a lot of rain here this week.

  4. I want to invite you to come on in.

  5. We're going to get started in about 30

  6. seconds here and uh we'll sing together.

  7. We'll read some scripture and we're

  8. going to hear from God's word.

  9. Well, it's a a spring break for some.

  10. How many of you have people in your

  11. family who are on spring break this

  12. week? Anybody in this room? Yeah, I see

  13. a couple here. I see one right here.

  14. Matias, are you on spring break, buddy?

  15. That's so exciting. Our kids were on

  16. spring break last week. Um, it is good

  17. to gather together. And so, because of

  18. spring break stuff that are that's going

  19. on outside of Sheridan Hills Christian

  20. School, we've got everybody all together

  21. in here. We've got young young people

  22. joining with us. And so, I want to

  23. invite everybody to stand up and uh this

  24. is an appropriate verse uh for a week

  25. when we've got adults and kids all

  26. together. Look at this. It says in

  27. Ephesians 5:1 and2, "Therefore, be what?

    Ephesians 5:1

  28. >> Be imitators of God just like beloved

  29. children." Think about how a child sees

  30. its parent and begins mimicking exactly

  31. what the parent does. And so, in the

  32. same way, we're supposed to imitate God

  33. as beloved children and walk in love as

  34. Christ loved us and gave himself up for

  35. us, a fragrant offering and a sacrifice

  36. to God. And so in just a moment, we're

  37. going to sing about the way that we are

  38. the children of God and uh in the way

  39. that we can follow and mimic and imitate

  40. him. And so I want to invite you to bow

  41. your head and let's pray together. And

  42. then we'll sing and lift up our voices

  43. to God. Father in heaven, we praise you

  44. for the God that you are. We praise you

  45. that we can belong to you as your

  46. children. And on a night when it's

  47. dreary outside, I'm thankful for the way

  48. that you've renewed our hearts on the

  49. inside. I'm thankful for the body of

  50. Christ in my family who's here with me

  51. tonight um spiritually. And so we ask

  52. all this in Jesus' name. Amen. Let's

  53. sing together.

  54. All praise [music] to him, the God of

  55. light who [music] the mountains

  56. [singing]

  57. by his might. All praise [music] to him

  58. who makes the stars [singing] that sing

  59. his fame and skies above.

  60. All [music and singing] praise to him.

  61. Who reigns in love. Who guides the God

  62. sees [music and singing] above yet to

  63. hear our everywhere [music]

  64. with sovereignty. [singing]

  65. [music]

  66. All praise to him who love

  67. [music and singing]

  68. Christ the son will serve [singing] me

  69. who left behind [music] his glorious

  70. [singing]

  71. to the ransom for his own. All praise

  72. [music and singing] to him. Who humbly

  73. came to bear our sorrow,

  74. sin [music and singing] and shame. Who

  75. let you die? Who died [music] to rise?

  76. The all sufficient [singing]

  77. sacriice.

  78. [music]

  79. All praise to him whose kind [singing]

  80. hearts. The love of [music] God within

  81. [singing] our hearts. The spirit of

  82. [music] all truth and peace. The

  83. fountain of joy and holyness.

  84. To father son [music and singing]

  85. and spirit now. Our souls we live. Our

  86. wills we [music] bow. To you the tri

  87. [singing]

  88. with loving hearts our song

  89. [music and singing]

  90. of praise to father son and spirit

  91. [music and singing]

  92. now our souls we lift our wills we bow

  93. [singing and music]

  94. to you the triune

  95. god we race with loving

  96. [music and singing] hearts our song of

  97. praise

  98. No [music] wisdom [singing] says I have

  99. not.

  100. No [music and singing]

  101. virtues

  102. I pursue.

  103. No wisdom.

  104. I [singing and music] am not like can

  105. myself

  106. a place for you. Oh Godful

  107. to me. I am a s [music]

  108. through and through. My only hope

  109. [music]

  110. of [singing] rightousness.

  111. It's not in me.

  112. I [singing] only you.

  113. [music]

  114. No humble grass, no fing [music] prayer,

  115. no lifted hands, no tearful song, no

  116. resitation

  117. of [music and singing] the truth can

  118. justify

  119. a single wrong. My rightousness

  120. is Jesus died. [singing]

  121. My [music] death was made by Jesus

  122. death. My [music and singing] weary love

  123. was born by him and [singing] he alone

  124. can [music]

  125. rest.

  126. No separation [music]

  127. from the world, no work [singing] I do,

  128. no gift I give [music]

  129. can cleanse [singing] my conscience,

  130. cleanse my hands, [music]

  131. I [singing] can cause my soul to

  132. Jesus [music] died and rose [singing]

  133. again.

  134. The power [music]

  135. of death is over the throne. My God

  136. [music and singing] is merciful

  137. to me and merciful

  138. in Christ alone. [music]

  139. My rightousness [singing]

  140. is Jesus life. My death was made by

  141. [music] Jesus death.

  142. My [singing] weary love was [music] born

  143. by him and [singing] he alone

  144. can give me rest [music and singing] and

  145. he alone

  146. can give me [music] rest.

  147. >> Amen. You may be seated. What great

  148. encouraging songs this morning or this

  149. evening, Pastor William and team, thank

  150. you very much. I hope you're encouraged

  151. by that. How many of you got wet coming

  152. in? Anybody get wet coming in? All

  153. right. Anybody get up get I guess some

  154. of you guys came in or or uh you got

  155. going early this morning when it was

  156. raining then, too. So, uh we've needed

  157. the rain terribly and uh finally we're

  158. getting it. It seems like we're getting

  159. it all at once. So, it's great to see

  160. you tonight. Hope and pray that you've

  161. had a good day. We're going to uh have a

  162. great time as we dive into God's word.

  163. Uh if you didn't get a sermon outline

  164. for tonight, lift your hand and we have

  165. Eli Aras and these a lot of people. We

  166. we missed you. Be patient. They're going

  167. to get to you. So here comes Ivan. Just

  168. get your hand up whenever. Come on

  169. forward all Ivan and then work your way

  170. back. Um few things. First of all,

  171. Easter outreach. All these boxes are up

  172. here in the front. And maybe some of you

  173. were not here Sunday morning and you

  174. didn't see this. we have some great

  175. invitation things uh for you to give to

  176. your neighbors and uh just put this on

  177. one of their one of their doors or

  178. something like that. And there are uh

  179. postcards in the seat pews right there.

  180. Pass those down if you would. Grab some

  181. of these, invite these. Um I I just

  182. really want to encourage you to invite

  183. folks to come for Easter. We're going to

  184. have a great time. It's a wonderful,

  185. wonderful day. Uh those of you who have

  186. been to an Easter sunrise service on the

  187. beach with us, you know, it's really

  188. cool. Um we pray for good weather. You

  189. never know what the Lord's going to

  190. give. Sometimes it's awesome. Sometimes

  191. it's a little dicey. Um it's kind of

  192. weird. A couple of years ago, we saw

  193. this storm coming up and we're like,

  194. "Lord, please let it go north. Let it go

  195. north. Oh Lord, please let it." But you

  196. know what? There was another sunrise

  197. service going on north of us. So I don't

  198. know how to pray about that. Um,

  199. so, uh, I think, uh, Calvary Chapel,

  200. Fort Lauderdale had a service going

  201. north of us, so it was the battle of who

  202. prays harder, I guess. I don't know.

  203. But, um, no, we we just have a great

  204. time inviting folks for a great Easter

  205. time. Good Friday service will be very

  206. powerful and meaningful. Um, we observe

  207. the Lord's supper on that evening,

  208. remembering that he died for us. And um

  209. then on Easter Sunday morning, we

  210. celebrate that on the beach uh with a

  211. rich time. And not only the beach

  212. service, but also the 11:00 service

  213. here. If you need to be baptized, we

  214. have a long list. Listen to this. We

  215. have 31 people on the list to be

  216. baptized. And so we're we're just uh

  217. really looking forward to that. And uh

  218. we still need volunteers. I invite you

  219. to volunteer. Um it's a great time to do

  220. that. And uh we we we need help

  221. welcoming people. There's going to be

  222. thousands of people there on the beach

  223. and we need help with that. So, join us

  224. for um something good to drink and eat

  225. immediately following tonight. So, this

  226. is probably the last evening of cool

  227. weather for the uh for the year, I don't

  228. know, or at least until the end of uh

  229. fall uh next year or not next year, in

  230. the fall. And so, we're going to enjoy

  231. that tonight and uh get something to eat

  232. right out there in just a minute. So,

  233. well, this last Sunday, what was the

  234. message about this last Sunday? Does

  235. anybody remember what was the message

  236. about?

  237. >> Okay, anxiety. Um, anybody have any in

  238. particular things that uh the message on

  239. anxiety um did how many of you the

  240. message on anxiety gave you anxiety? Did

  241. any did it give anybody anxiety?

  242. I'm serious. When I was preparing the

  243. message, I was praying for our church. I

  244. was praying for all of you. Um, now most

  245. people wouldn't be that anxious, but you

  246. know, some people are really caught in

  247. the in the vortex, caught in the storm

  248. of anxiety.

  249. And just talking about the idea of

  250. anxiety could could trigger some

  251. anxiety. And that word trigger, isn't

  252. that a key word in these present day and

  253. time? You know, we have all these lingo

  254. in our present moment. But God cares.

  255. Um, and freedom from anxiety. Um, if you

  256. have your sermon outline and if you guys

  257. can give me one of them, I would

  258. appreciate that. If if there's there

  259. should be one up here. Sorry. Okay.

  260. Let's go not to the first page and the

  261. second page, but go to the next one

  262. there. Just which is really the one from

  263. this last Sunday. And remember with me

  264. that we did review that first page, the

  265. one that has a one at the bottom of it.

  266. Um, we did review the whole message of

  267. Peter and then we dove into, if you turn

  268. the page again, uh, and so this would be

  269. on your page, too. These are the notes

  270. from Sunday with all the answers. Um,

  271. but notice in the box up there at the

  272. top of the page, this is what got us

  273. going. And tonight we're going to ask a

  274. key question in just a minute, but look

  275. at the box um in 1 Peter chapter 5 verse

    1 Peter 5:6

  276. 6 and 7. So that's what we're going to

  277. go to is the scripture. 1 Peter 5 6 and

  278. 7. Look what it says. It says, "Humble

  279. yourselves therefore under the mighty

  280. hand of God so that the proper time he

  281. may exalt you." Look at verse seven.

  282. casting all your anxieties on him. And

  283. read it out loud at the end. What does

  284. it say? Because he cares for you. That's

  285. amazing. Verse seven is an amazing

  286. verse.

  287. Casting all your anxieties on him

  288. because he cares for you.

  289. Um,

  290. what I sought to do Sunday morning was

  291. remind us and underneath number one, we

  292. see here these are the closing thoughts

  293. of Peter's letter. And these ideas are

  294. narrowing down to the very important big

  295. picture items on how to what to

  296. persevere well in a broken world. And

  297. he's he's acknowledging I have there the

  298. on the ground realities. And here's the

  299. idea of the fall, the fact that the

  300. world's messed up. And so because the

  301. world's messed up, we have anxieties.

  302. But God has a reset for the world.

  303. It's from the heavens. And who came from

  304. the heavens? But Jesus Christ.

  305. God, for those who are being saved, is

  306. sustaining and restoring his goodness.

  307. This is right there in the middle of the

  308. page where it says from the heavens,

  309. reset. God resets everything. Jesus

  310. Christ is the one antidote to the

  311. brokenness and curse of sin. Number

  312. three, Christ's death and resurrection

  313. makes the reverse of the curse possible.

  314. And number four, true Christians live in

  315. Christ's great reset by faith and and

  316. obedience. And that's what Peter's

  317. trying to get at. He's trying to help us

  318. live in the new life in Christ.

  319. And um it's really kind of amazing what

  320. he does. Um and it starts with our

  321. humility before God. That's in verse

  322. six. Humble yourselves under the mighty

  323. hand of God. Flip the page. Notice that

  324. there's a re a reward. Uh there's the

  325. promise of a reward. This is verse six

  326. as well. It says, "So that at the proper

  327. time he may exalt you." We talked about

  328. the fact that he um he calls us to to

  329. humble ourselves now that later he will

  330. exalt us. For those who are prideful, he

  331. will humble. For those who are humble,

  332. he will exalt. It's kind of amazing that

  333. box in the middle of the page. Human

  334. posture. If we're prideful, God opposes

  335. us. God's not prideful. He could be

  336. prideful. He's powerful, but he's

  337. humble.

  338. and he calls us to be humble. And then

  339. look at that um God's response

  340. uh is he opposes us. Look at human

  341. posture, self-exaltation. God humbles us

  342. and then humility, brokenness,

  343. obedience, seeking him. So God just

  344. invites us into be with him in the right

  345. spirit and he brings us into that spirit

  346. by his grace. Um then number four,

  347. notice the real privilege of real relief

  348. from anxiety. So he really wants us to

  349. be free from that. Casting all of our

  350. cares upon him because he cares for us.

  351. Um you know, Sunday morning we looked at

  352. all those graphs.

  353. We looked at all those graphs about the

  354. reality of our culture and the fact that

  355. anxiety is just getting stronger and

  356. stronger and stronger. And it has to do

  357. with so much information. And it has to

  358. do with so much busyness.

  359. It has to do with so much pressure upon

  360. us.

  361. And we looked at the fact that we're

  362. looking for escapes from this anxiety. I

  363. I am very concerned about those things.

  364. Back up a couple of those graphs. Go

  365. back one more. Right there. This is

  366. everybody across the board. Um ages 18

  367. to 25 most anxious. And then a little

  368. bit young, a little bit older, 26

  369. through 34, next most anxious. And these

  370. are 100% increase um just in the last 15

  371. years. And then um ages 35 to 49.

  372. These are these are very real issues

  373. um for us. I am very concerned. The next

  374. one does show the the impact that

  375. anxiety has on girls. Girls are far more

  376. susceptible to anxiety than boys. Um,

  377. and there's a lot of different reasons

  378. for that, but um, especially in light of

  379. media, um, girls, you know, are are tend

  380. to be more concerned about appearance.

  381. And part of what a mir media is all

  382. about. It's just you got to look like

  383. this, you got to look like this, you got

  384. to look like this. Um, boys are just

  385. ugly and that's just the way it is.

  386. Girls are pretty and, you know, guys are

  387. like, well, there's nothing I can do

  388. about it. I am what I am. And you know,

  389. we we but but no, really, God has made

  390. it. So, um I mean, that that's part of

  391. the thing about um a woman is the idea

  392. of beauty and and so because that's out

  393. there and it's so strong with all of the

  394. media, it has a greater impact. And and

  395. then we we we looked at this last graph

  396. and this is a bit of fresh air in that

  397. if we're really living our Christian

  398. faith,

  399. our Christian faith should be having an

  400. impact upon our anxiety.

  401. And so we the whole message was how can

  402. I be free from anxiety? So um look at

  403. that last page um that is there. It's

  404. has to do with number four, the real

  405. relief. But um look at the top of that

  406. on the last page. God invites us to

  407. bring every anxiety to him without

  408. exception. He says, "All your anxieties,

  409. give them to me." All of them.

  410. Um there's nothing too small for God's

  411. attention. There's nothing too large for

  412. his ability. So he cares about the

  413. smallest thing and he's able with the

  414. biggest thing.

  415. Um letter C there God himself is the

  416. place where our anxieties belong. Peter

  417. doesn't say cast them away. He says cast

  418. them on him.

  419. And the Christian life is not anxiety

  420. suppression.

  421. It's anxiety relocation

  422. that we give it to him. The gospel does

  423. not um teach us to deny our burdens but

  424. to redirect them. And then I love point

  425. number five the most quite honestly

  426. because this is really well the gospel

  427. where the gospel is.

  428. Why are we commanded to give cast our

  429. anxieties on him? Why? Because he cares

  430. for you. God actually cares. We live in

  431. a world that cares less and less and

  432. less about the individual about the

  433. person standing in front of you. You

  434. know, we live with all these used to the

  435. customer was always right. Used to there

  436. was great priority on how the customer

  437. has the experience used to all that. And

  438. these days it's come in the store, get

  439. your stuff, get out. I mean, the the

  440. restaurant is this is just the way it

  441. is, you know, whatever. That's probably

  442. one of the most shocking things when I

  443. moved to Europe.

  444. Who in this room has lived in Europe?

  445. Has anybody lived in Europe? I Fabio

  446. has. Miss Colin Bay. Yeah. See, it's

  447. hysterical.

  448. There was this guy that picked us up

  449. from the airport as missionaries. He

  450. said a few things. Okay, here's a few

  451. points of illustr of of orientation.

  452. Number one, do you have an American

  453. Express card? I said, "Yeah." And he

  454. said, "You might as well leave home

  455. without it. Nobody takes American

  456. Express car here." I'm like, "Oh, okay."

  457. And then he went on to say several

  458. things and one of the things he said

  459. was, "You're in France now. Just so you

  460. know, the customer is always wrong in

  461. France.

  462. And it's so true. I mean, it is it is so

  463. true. The customer is 100% wrong. I

  464. mean, you you can go and say, "Excuse

  465. me. Um, this isn't this happened." And

  466. they're like, "No, sorry." Um, that's

  467. just the way it is. I mean, and

  468. customers. So, the you have to really go

  469. through relationship and all that thing,

  470. get things fixed. I bought a juicer for

  471. Marcy when we first moved there. And um

  472. I took it home, took it out of the box,

  473. and it didn't work. And so I took it

  474. back to the store and I said, "Hi, um

  475. this thing didn't work. I need to go get

  476. another one." And the lady goes, "No,

  477. no." And I said, "Well, no. I just

  478. bought it. I mean, look, the receipt. I

  479. bought it today and it doesn't work. I

  480. can I just go get another one?" She

  481. goes, "Oh, no. We'll have to send this

  482. off to be fixed."

  483. I said, "What?

  484. She said, "Oh, no." I said, "Well, how

  485. long is that going to take?" She said,

  486. "Normally two months." And I said, "I

  487. just want my money back." "Oh, no, no,

  488. no, no, no, no. We don't do that."

  489. Literally is true. That am I lying, Mike

  490. Todd? I mean, you and Lily live there.

  491. You lived in the same town where that

  492. happened.

  493. >> You got to make sure that they enjoy you

  494. as a customer. And if you can make sure

  495. that they're enjoying serving you,

  496. they'll spend all day with you. But you

  497. got to stay on their good side.

  498. Yeah, if you go in there demanding

  499. anything, forget it. Now, what I learned

  500. was I could go in there and I could say

  501. two things. I would say bonjour,

  502. I am a new student of French. And then I

  503. would say,

  504. "My French is a huge catastrophe."

  505. And then I would say,

  506. Devotra,

  507. I need your help. And they would go,

  508. what do you need my help for? And then

  509. once you went through all of that, you

  510. could say, I bought this thing and it

  511. didn't work.

  512. And then they might go, okay, well, we

  513. can find a solution. You know, anyways,

  514. we live less and less in a world

  515. of care.

  516. We live less and less in a world of

  517. care. Here's the thing. God never

  518. changes. He's the same yesterday, today,

  519. and forever. And you know what the Bible

  520. tells us? He cares for us. And that's

  521. the reason we can give him our cares.

  522. So we there on that last page, we notice

  523. his heart. Number five, his trusting

  524. care. Notice his heart. We we Anxiety

  525. grows when we doubt God's care. Peace

  526. grows when we rest in his care. or the

  527. antidote is um the anxiet the antidote

  528. to anxiety is not control but it's

  529. confidence in the care of God. So um a

  530. question came up when the pastors were

  531. were dealing with this um you know how

  532. do we how does our church deal with

  533. anxiety?

  534. Are we part of that graph that maybe is

  535. less?

  536. I don't know.

  537. Um, sometimes we are, sometimes we

  538. aren't. Uh, because we all are

  539. susceptible to anxiety.

  540. Any comments on Sunday's message? Was

  541. there was there anything that was

  542. helpful to you on Sunday's message? Did

  543. anybody have anything that was helpful

  544. to you uh as you review this, as you

  545. look at this? Any thoughts about that?

  546. Anybody?

  547. >> Nobody.

  548. No. No help to you.

  549. >> I like the idea of casting your

  550. term.

  551. >> Yeah. But other than that, the entire

  552. sermon was helpful.

  553. >> Well, thanks a lot, Sharon. That's

  554. great. She said casting the idea of

  555. really throwing it off onto him is

  556. helpful. That's good. That's good. Yes.

  557. >> Okay.

  558. take it to him and take it right back.

  559. He's still there.

  560. >> Great point, Cassandra. Cassandra said,

  561. "Well, a lot of times we'll cast it on

  562. him, but then we take it back." Have you

  563. ever done that?

  564. And then, but he's inviting us to

  565. continue to cast it upon him. That's a

  566. That's really good. Who else? Somebody

  567. else. Sorry. Yeah.

  568. >> It's interesting.

  569. >> Real loud. Real loud. It's interesting

  570. how you chose

  571. an

  572. >> okay um Gabby is pointing out something

  573. really important

  574. in verse six. It says humble yourselves

  575. which is which is the opposite of of

  576. pride.

  577. But verse six and verse 7 are connected

  578. where your anxiety actually comes from

  579. pride.

  580. And so if you want to be if you want to

  581. be free from anxiety, stop being

  582. prideful. But that's counterintuitive

  583. because we think no prideful people tend

  584. to not have any anxiety, right? No it

  585. that's that's a that's a false view of

  586. pride. What we need to understand is

  587. sometimes our anxiety is a sign of our

  588. pride.

  589. And I think that's what you're saying.

  590. Is that is that what you're saying?

  591. Yeah. So that's really really good.

  592. Okay. This side's kind of done. All

  593. right. This side. Matthew.

  594. probably to go back and reread the text

  595. in it context and I notic

  596. my relationship to my brothers and

  597. sisters here

  598. myself

  599. with all the cares that I have.

  600. >> Yeah, that's good.

  601. As I explained to Pastor Lawler

  602. yesterday, I might be frustrated about

  603. not finding a fulltime job, but it's not

  604. going to stop me looking for some way

  605. serving.

  606. That's still

  607. >> That's good.

  608. >> Yeah. Yeah. That's good. That's good.

  609. And that actually when we serve others,

  610. when we get our focus off of oursel,

  611. Matthew, what I hear you saying is, "My

  612. anxiety goes down when I minister to

  613. others."

  614. I saw a report one time

  615. about

  616. people in professions

  617. that are serving others

  618. that where their life involves in

  619. helping others in their problems.

  620. And the survey was was saying the stress

  621. levels

  622. of people that are involved in serving

  623. others when there's it was talking about

  624. high stress people from all different

  625. walks of life. High stress people. And

  626. it was talking about the difference in

  627. high stress when you're kind of doing it

  628. for yourself

  629. versus high stress when you're doing it

  630. for others. when it, you know, maybe

  631. involving doctors, maybe involving

  632. uh social workers, maybe involving other

  633. things. Did you know that

  634. I I what they talked about was crisis

  635. health is lower among people who live

  636. high stress lives serving others versus

  637. high stress lives in profit for

  638. themselves.

  639. Does that make sense? When you are doing

  640. high stress life for yourself or for

  641. your profession or for your paycheck,

  642. you tend to have crisis health.

  643. But when you spend your life, even under

  644. high stress, serving others, you have

  645. less crisis. There's less disease. Yeah,

  646. Rick,

  647. >> I can testify.

  648. >> Okay, say it real loud.

  649. >> I can testify that when you see the

  650. issues of other people face health

  651. issues, let's say that are devastating

  652. and you're serving them and helping them

  653. getting them through them and you can

  654. see them getting

  655. you look at your own life and you see my

  656. comparison

  657. as long as you're there

  658. see

  659. that Yeah.

  660. >> Amen. That's a that's a that's an

  661. encouraging, relieving thing. And I'm

  662. not saying, Dr. Beth Court, that doctors

  663. don't have crisises, that they don't

  664. have heart attacks, they don't have

  665. strokes, they don't have that. I'm sure

  666. that they do. But this study was just

  667. saying when you live stressed out for

  668. selfish gain, you're going to have

  669. you're going to crash more. When you

  670. live stressed out to help others,

  671. there's a freedom there. That is a

  672. beautiful thing. Somebody else started

  673. to say something. Yes, Michael.

  674. >> Real loud, brother.

  675. Liberals, right?

  676. Most people it's not that

  677. happiness

  678. like that's

  679. the word conservative realize

  680. conservativeire

  681. always.

  682. >> Yeah.

  683. >> Sometimes when they see numbers like

  684. this, it makes them think there is

  685. something

  686. Yeah. Yeah. And hopefully when they see

  687. us bear a terrible thing and yet

  688. genuinely have a peace and and

  689. struggling in the Lord. I mean, I think

  690. about Billy John's and his death. He had

  691. a long struggle with cancer and he was

  692. he was in the midst of all of that long

  693. struggle. He was he was constantly a a

  694. rock of strength. And people would look

  695. at that and and be I I remember being in

  696. the hospital the last week of his life

  697. and um talking to people who were around

  698. him and caring for him and they said,

  699. "Man, he's he has such peace. He has

  700. such strength." And everybody knew that

  701. his the end of his life was there.

  702. People from Publix commenting on that

  703. all the time about what a rock he was.

  704. So those are good things. Go to the

  705. front page. for a Christian, is anxiety

  706. just a condition or is it or is it a

  707. sin? And I think I Yes, I have my own

  708. notes. I want to just share with you a

  709. couple things. You go, you guys go ahead

  710. and come on up. That's great. Um I I

  711. want us to talk about this for just a

  712. minute and uh let's move these way up

  713. front. Yeah.

  714. Let's look at this. First of all, number

  715. one, Christians are commanded not to

  716. fill it in, live in anxiety. Christians

  717. are commanded not to live in anxiety.

  718. Look at Philippians 4:4-6.

    Philippians 4:4–6

  719. Do not be anxious about anything. Says

  720. it right there. Don't be anxious, but in

  721. everything by prayer and supplication

  722. with thanksgiving, let your requests be

  723. made known to God. And the peace of God

  724. which surpasses all understanding will

  725. guard your hearts and your minds in

  726. Christ Jesus.

  727. So if God commands, "Do not be anxious

  728. about anything," then ongoing embrace

  729. anxiety is actually

  730. disobedience.

  731. Look at Jesus's own words. Matthew

    Matthew 6 chapter mention

  732. chapter 6. Therefore, I tell you, do not

  733. be anxious about your life.

  734. Look down at verse 6:31. Therefore, do

  735. not be anxious, saying, "What shall we

  736. eat? What shall we drink? What shall we

  737. wear?" the most basic things. For the

  738. Gentiles seek after all these things,

  739. and your heavenly father knows that you

  740. need them all. And then in verse 34,

  741. therefore do not be anxious about what?

  742. >> Tomorrow, man.

  743. Do not be anxious about tomorrow. How

  744. often are we tempted to be anxious about

  745. tomorrow?

  746. What's going to happen? What about this?

  747. What about this? I have this problem.

  748. Look at the next one. Number two,

  749. anxiety is contrasted with trust in God.

  750. So Jesus says it in in 6:30 and this is

  751. very similar to what we've just been

  752. looking at above that. But if God so

  753. clothe the grass of the field, will he

  754. not much more clothe you,

  755. oh you of little faith?

  756. I love Psalm 56 in verse three. When I

  757. am afraid, I will put my trust in you.

  758. In God in whose word I praise I in God I

  759. trust. I shall not be afraid. Isaiah

    Isaiah 26:3

  760. 26:3, another one of my favorites. Can

  761. you guys read this out loud together?

  762. It's at the bottom of the page. Look

  763. what it says. Read it out loud. You keep

  764. him in perfect peace whose mind is

  765. stayed on you because he trusts in you.

  766. >> I love that. Can you circle those?

  767. Perfect peace.

  768. Um, I learned that in the King James.

  769. Thou wil keep him in perfect peace whose

  770. mind is stayed on thee, whose heart

  771. trusts in thee. That passage right there

  772. has seen me through many a tight spot.

  773. There's been many times when I was

  774. tempted to be freaking out about

  775. something in my life. And that passage

  776. right there

  777. helped me to realize h

  778. if I am super upset right now that means

  779. that I am not looking to the Lord.

  780. I am not trusting in God.

  781. My eyes are on the problem. They're not

  782. on the problem solver.

  783. And God is calling me to have my eyes on

  784. the problem solver. Flip the page there

  785. and look at the next one. Anxiety can

  786. become a failure

  787. to cast our burdens on God. And this is

  788. from our verses uh six and seven. Humble

  789. yourselves therefore under the mighty

  790. hand of God, casting all your anxieties

  791. on him because he cares for you. So

  792. anxiety can become this failure to cast

  793. our burdens on God. So we're not doing

  794. what we were told to do.

  795. Um he actually tells us to give him our

  796. problems,

  797. our anxieties. Number four, anxiety as

  798. opposed to faith and peace. John 14:27,

    John 14:27

  799. "Peace I leave with you. My peace I give

  800. to you. Let not your hearts be troubled,

  801. neither let them be afraid." Who said

  802. these words? Jesus said these words.

  803. Jesus said these words. "Peace I live

  804. with you." Circle those words. My peace.

  805. It's not just peace. It's his peace

  806. I give to you. Let not your hearts be

  807. troubled.

  808. So that's inferring that we are to

  809. control our hearts.

  810. Um sometimes you would say I can't

  811. control my heart.

  812. Well the scripture is is encouraging you

  813. yes you can.

  814. U modern psychology very often will just

  815. say to you well you can't control your

  816. thoughts. You can't control your minds.

  817. You know that's part of what

  818. obsessivecompulsive

  819. disorders are about. trying to bring

  820. thoughts under control. Um, I think

  821. about lots of passages of scripture. One

  822. of them is take every thought captive

  823. unto the obedience of Christ. You're not

  824. just to let your mind run.

  825. You can stop your mind from running.

  826. You can stop it from running in fear.

  827. You say, "Oh, but pastor, I don't think

  828. so. I can't." And I would say, "Well,

  829. you may be weak right now. You may

  830. struggle with that, but let's start

  831. building

  832. trust and faith in him and start

  833. memorizing scripture. And as you do

  834. that, you'll learn to stop the thoughts

  835. with his help.

  836. Um, notice the next one there. I love

  837. Colossians 3:15. And let the peace of

    Colossians 3:15

  838. Christ,

  839. look at that word, rule.

  840. That means be in charge in your hearts.

  841. So you let the peace of Christ rule in

  842. your hearts. Number five, anxiety as a

  843. form of a divided

  844. or a distracted heart.

  845. Your heart can be divided in its

  846. allegiance or distracted from what's

  847. important.

  848. And um we saw Martha, she comes to Jesus

  849. and she's complaining about something

  850. and Jesus looks at her and says,

  851. "Martha, Martha, you are anxious and

  852. troubled about many things,

  853. but one thing is necessary."

  854. That's a powerful passage right there. I

  855. mean, look at that.

  856. Andrew, Andrew, can you put your name in

  857. there? Say your name twice. Are you

  858. ready? Here we go. One, two, three.

  859. You are anxious and troubled about many

  860. things,

  861. but one thing is necessary. Now, some of

  862. you are going, "Okay, well, so what's

  863. the one thing that's necessary?" Anybody

  864. want to tell us what's the one thing

  865. that's necessary from this passage?

  866. What?

  867. >> Jesus.

  868. >> Yeah. Worshiping Jesus.

  869. Being with Jesus. That's the one thing

  870. that's necessary.

  871. And and the opposite of that is anxiety

  872. and troubles. And then number six,

  873. anxiety actually

  874. is revealing unbelief.

  875. Unbelief and unbelief is the root issue

  876. here. Take care, brothers, lest there be

  877. any of you and even any of you an evil

  878. and unbelieving heart. So, and then look

  879. at Romans 14:23. Whatever does not

    Romans 14:23

  880. proceed from faith is sin.

  881. So, um

  882. this is an anti-popular psychology Bible

  883. lesson tonight.

  884. Popular psychology says, "Oh, you're

  885. burdened and you know, you're anxious

  886. and you know, there's not a lot you can

  887. do about that. There's there's these

  888. devices you can use and some thought

  889. patterns that you can use to manipulate

  890. your thought." And what we would say is

  891. God is saying, "No, just come to me and

  892. worship me instead of worshiping your

  893. problem.

  894. Be in awe." God is saying, "Be in awe of

  895. me, not your problem.

  896. If you'll be in awe of me, I'm going to

  897. help you deal with your problem, and

  898. I'll either solve your problem or I'll

  899. give you the strength to deal with your

  900. problem."

  901. So, um, I guys, what were some things

  902. that we talked about this morning,

  903. Ruben? What were some things that were

  904. on your or yesterday? What were some

  905. things there?

  906. Yeah, you were mentioning one of the

  907. things we're talking about in

  908. conversation and there's something that

  909. Pastor Jason mentioned is whenever the

  910. Bible talks about anxiety, it's always

  911. coupled with faith. It's always coupled

  912. with trust. Um, whenever Jesus is saying

  913. not to be anxious or receiving a command

  914. in scripture, do not be anxious, there's

  915. always an antidote given. There's

  916. something else. Um, I like how you

  917. mentioned earlier we're talking about,

  918. you know, people say they can't control

  919. their hearts. Well, the Bible never

  920. commands us to do something that we or

  921. >> lays a responsibility upon us if we were

  922. not able to do it.

  923. >> So, if he's saying do not be anxious,

  924. but instead, you know, through

  925. supplication and thanksgiving, let your

  926. requests be made known to God. Cast your

  927. anxieties upon God. That is the thing to

  928. replace that action with. Um, you can't

  929. just stop thinking about something and

  930. then it's like, don't think about flying

  931. elephants. Well, you're going to be

  932. thinking about flying elephants. But if

  933. you give your mind something else to

  934. focus on, you stop thinking about the

  935. one thing, right? Um if you focus on

  936. what you're not supposed to think about,

  937. you're just going to think about it all

  938. the more. And in scripture, what we're

  939. given is really the picture of Christ.

  940. The thing what we focus on is Christ. We

  941. focus on who he is. We focus on his

  942. character, his love, his um just the

  943. great care that he has for us, which is

  944. why it's mentioned right there in the

  945. verse.

  946. >> Yeah. Well, I love what you just said

  947. that God doesn't tell us to do anything

  948. and we don't have the ability to do it.

  949. So, anything God tells us to do,

  950. [snorts] he is giving us the ability to

  951. do it.

  952. >> His holy spirit empowers us.

  953. >> Yeah. And his spirit is what empowers

  954. that. That's right. That's a That's a

  955. really good word. Other key things that

  956. you thought about from our conversation?

  957. >> I've been thinking about that

  958. conversation for a long time since

  959. Tuesday. not a long time. But I um was

  960. also anxious because I didn't come up

  961. here with the notes. I'm at a

  962. disadvantage. But um here I'll give you

  963. my notes. There you go.

  964. >> Thank you.

  965. [snorts]

  966. >> I since we've had that conversation,

  967. I tried to look through the scriptures

  968. to see if the scriptures ever describe

  969. Jesus as being anxious.

  970. And I cannot find any single time that

  971. the scripture says Jesus was anxious.

  972. Jesus did suffer in the garden. We know

  973. that in the garden of Gethsemane and he

  974. he dealt with a lot of sorrow. He looked

  975. at the people of Jerusalem and wept. He

  976. looked at the different states of

  977. leadership in Israel at the time and he

  978. realized that they were taking advantage

  979. of the people.

  980. Certainly there were descriptions and

  981. descriptors that we could say in our

  982. modern vocabulary. You know, Jesus was

  983. definitely worried about this group of

  984. people and all that.

  985. The only problem is I can't find it in

  986. scripture.

  987. And that is that is the standard.

  988. I think I know why the scripture never

  989. describes Jesus as being anxious because

  990. he's God. God doesn't get worried. God

  991. knows the plan.

  992. God is the one telling us not to worry.

  993. And so, what a friend,

  994. >> what a friend to have uh to have Jesus

  995. right by your side when you're going

  996. through some of the worst things in your

  997. life. Uh Pastor Lucas shared this and

  998. I've been thinking about this uh many

  999. years ago. Some of you remember Pastor

  1000. Lucas. He was uh our music pastor and he

  1001. also did a lot of biblical counseling.

  1002. He was describing a situation in which

  1003. he got he went to the grocery store

  1004. Indie his wife had sent him and he was

  1005. going to buy orange juice. That's what

  1006. she wanted. And he knew how much money

  1007. he had in the bank at the time and he

  1008. went to reach for the orange juice. And

  1009. in his mind, as he was reaching for it,

  1010. in a quick second, he thought about how

  1011. buying that would put them under in

  1012. their budget, would deplete their bank

  1013. savings, would then result in debt, and

  1014. then would result in hardship. And then

  1015. he would have to explain to his wife why

  1016. he didn't get orange juice. She would be

  1017. mad at him and perhaps even leave him.

  1018. And after that, he would be ashamed to

  1019. ministry because his wife left him. and

  1020. he did my orange juice and and he stood

  1021. there thinking,

  1022. >> "I've let my mind run.

  1023. >> I've let it go too fast." And it's kind

  1024. of comical, but you get the point. Uh

  1025. Lucas uh in that moment was sharing how

  1026. in his weakness he failed to catch his

  1027. mind and failed to bring it under

  1028. submission to Jesus and failed to look

  1029. at Jesus as his perfect friend who never

  1030. is anxious and to entrust his heart and

  1031. his mind in his in that moment to the

  1032. Lord. It's kind of a comical situation,

  1033. but how many of us go through each day

  1034. letting our minds, as Pastor Andrew just

  1035. earlier said, control us instead of

  1036. reigning in our minds under the lordship

  1037. of Jesus. So, that's what I've been

  1038. thinking about since we had that

  1039. conversation.

  1040. >> Yeah. And I I think that that's a key

  1041. part because I think that when we let

  1042. our minds run,

  1043. >> that's when anxiety builds and builds

  1044. and builds and builds.

  1045. And when does that happen most for you?

  1046. I think everybody may be different.

  1047. For some of you, it's on the drive to

  1048. work.

  1049. >> For some of you, it's when you lay down

  1050. to go to sleep. You're laying there or

  1051. you wake up in the middle of the night.

  1052. Maybe that starts off with having to run

  1053. to the restroom, but then you're sitting

  1054. there and you're awake and you're

  1055. thinking about whatever it is

  1056. and your mind can race and especially if

  1057. you're in the midst of a storm.

  1058. You know, you you you have a particular

  1059. thing in your life that's going on,

  1060. something that happened at work and

  1061. maybe your job is at threat or there's

  1062. somebody that is driving you crazy and

  1063. you're sitting there and you're thinking

  1064. about all the things that you would say

  1065. or I'm going to say or I'm going to

  1066. write this in an email. You know, be

  1067. very careful about long emails.

  1068. What you can do is you can write the

  1069. email,

  1070. email it to yourself and then forget it.

  1071. I I mean just okay, you sent it, you

  1072. send it to yourself and then go to when

  1073. I was leaving to go and become a

  1074. missionary with the IMB.

  1075. Mark Cassay said to me, this was kind of

  1076. actually in the early days of email, but

  1077. he said, he said, "Go ahead, write your

  1078. email. Do not send it until you've slept

  1079. on it. He said, "Don't write an email

  1080. that's dealing with a problem and then

  1081. send it before you've had a chance to

  1082. sleep on it." Because there's a lot of

  1083. times you wake up and you're like, I'm

  1084. not going to send that.

  1085. In our church office, we say this, you

  1086. are never allowed to solve a problem

  1087. through email.

  1088. If you have a problem with somebody

  1089. else, you have a problem that you're

  1090. trying to work out, you have to go to

  1091. them and work it out. Do it on the

  1092. phone, do it face to face, but don't

  1093. start texting. Don't start writing

  1094. emails.

  1095. Um, can I get an amen on that?

  1096. Trying to solve things with texts or

  1097. emails very often turns it'll blow up in

  1098. your face

  1099. and it's just not the way to do it.

  1100. Humans are designed to look at one

  1101. another, read each other's face, and

  1102. hear each other's voice. And we do a

  1103. whole lot better when we organically

  1104. solve problems.

  1105. But when we are laying there at night or

  1106. when we're driving to work or when we

  1107. are walking the dog or doing whatever

  1108. we're doing and our mind is running,

  1109. I believe your flesh

  1110. wants to run in that with no bridal,

  1111. with no whoo.

  1112. M

  1113. >> this is part of the reason it's good to

  1114. walk through life with brothers and

  1115. sisters with family. This is part of the

  1116. reason you should be able to talk with

  1117. people around you so that they can say,

  1118. you know, if if I'm going off on my

  1119. problem and Angela Colomb and I are

  1120. sitting here talking about Angela can

  1121. say, "Whoa, whoa, whoa, wait a minute,

  1122. pastor.

  1123. Why do you say that? That hasn't

  1124. happened yet. Why are you worried about

  1125. that?

  1126. You're worrying about something that

  1127. hasn't even come up yet." Marcy

  1128. sometimes will look I'm a worst case

  1129. scenario thinker. She's like, "Ah,

  1130. whatever. Let's go." And I and I, you

  1131. know, sometimes I'm like that, but I'm

  1132. kind of paid to be a worst case scenario

  1133. thinker in order for the safety of the

  1134. church. And so there's a lot of times

  1135. where I'm sitting there thinking, well,

  1136. I need to consider what all the

  1137. possibilities are. And she's like, keep

  1138. your possibilities. I don't want to

  1139. think about that right now.

  1140. But I tend to think about those things.

  1141. But for those of you who are worst case

  1142. scenario thinkers,

  1143. that can just turn into sin

  1144. >> and anxiety.

  1145. Now, some of you, we wish you'd think

  1146. about it a little more. Um, [laughter]

  1147. but

  1148. >> yep. I was thinking um I I remember

  1149. talking about this with some students

  1150. years ago in a chapel and as I was

  1151. studying through scripture looking at

  1152. all the places where the Bible talks

  1153. about anxiety and when we're not to be

  1154. anxious and one of one of the common

  1155. threads that we see is I mean the word

  1156. in the in Greek really refers to cares

  1157. but more often than not when we're

  1158. referring to anxiety we're thinking

  1159. about fears

  1160. >> you know do not worry about tomorrow

  1161. what are people worried about what

  1162. they're going to eat you know what about

  1163. my job what about you know people say

  1164. that traffic gives them anxiety what are

  1165. you worried about that cutting you off

  1166. and hitting you. You know, it's almost

  1167. the root of anxiety. It's usually fear.

  1168. >> You know, we we may not be able to

  1169. control when you feel afraid at the

  1170. moment,

  1171. >> but do we live in the fear?

  1172. >> Do we continue to entertain the fear? Do

  1173. we continue to let that dominate our

  1174. lives? Well, scripture says, "Perfect

  1175. love casts out fear." If we know our

  1176. loving father, we know his disposition

  1177. towards us, we know how he provides, we

  1178. know his ability to protect, what reason

  1179. do we have to fear anything in the

  1180. future? know um whether we're going to

  1181. make ends meet. He's going to provide uh

  1182. what we're going to wear. You know,

  1183. what's the fear there? I mean, we don't

  1184. worry about what we're going to wear

  1185. about our clothes not being there. What

  1186. we're worried about is what people are

  1187. going to think about our clothes. We're

  1188. afraid of their opinion. So, almost

  1189. always whenever we see anxiety, it's

  1190. usually an undercurrent of fear. And so,

  1191. if we start looking at everywhere where

  1192. scripture talks about fear and how we

  1193. handle fear as children of God redeemed

  1194. by Christ, well, what does scripture say

  1195. about that?

  1196. >> Yeah. And you know that goes pastor

  1197. Rubin that goes to a good definition or

  1198. at least a maybe we can have a working

  1199. definition of anxiety. Um I I think we

  1200. have to look at anxiety at different

  1201. stages different levels. Um what you

  1202. described is a spiritual uh form of

  1203. anxiety. an anxiety that is rooted in

  1204. the unbelief of [snorts]

  1205. maybe even fear of man, fear of

  1206. circumstances, fear of uh predicaments,

  1207. fear of my own weaknesses.

  1208. I I think there's certainly uh a

  1209. definition of anxiety that has to

  1210. connect unbelief, fear, and um certainly

  1211. a seeking after things that bring

  1212. greater fear or greater uncertainty.

  1213. It's kind of a it's kind of a vicious

  1214. cycle if you think about it. Anxiety is

  1215. is such a um poison uh to follow. Jesus

  1216. says in Matthew 6, the Gentiles seek

  1217. after all these things. That is why they

  1218. are anxious.

  1219. So anxiety is a seeking. Jesus says

  1220. though, but for you seek first the

  1221. kingdom. So the remedy to anxiety is a

  1222. seeking, but it's a seeking of God's

  1223. kingdom, the first priorities of

  1224. righteousness, and all of these other

  1225. things will be given to you. It's almost

  1226. like, hey, prioritize God in your life.

  1227. All these things will melt away. Not

  1228. that troubles won't um disappear, but

  1229. they'll melt away because God matters

  1230. more. But to your point too, Pastor

  1231. Andrew, the physiological response of

  1232. anxiety, I mean, there's certainly

  1233. people that we meet with and even what

  1234. you just described, worst case scenario

  1235. thinking. Paul writes in 2 Corinthians

  1236. 11, he says, "Apart from other things

  1237. for himself, there's the daily pressure

  1238. on me." Paul writes, "Of my anxiety for

  1239. all the churches." And Paul is saying,

  1240. "This is a weakness that I have." Now,

  1241. for Paul, we wouldn't say that he's

  1242. sinning here because Paul later says,

  1243. "This is causing me to go to God on your

  1244. behalf to the Corinthians." Um, I am a

  1245. prime witness to Pastor Andrew's worst

  1246. case scenario thinking. One of the

  1247. reasons why I'm a worst case scenario

  1248. thinker is because of Pastor Andrew.

  1249. >> Thanks a lot. [laughter]

  1250. >> But,

  1251. >> sorry, sorry I did that to you. But one

  1252. of the things that I've I've so admired

  1253. about Pastor Andrew over the years is

  1254. that worst case scenario his worst case

  1255. scenario thinking the brand that he's

  1256. the flavor the the type that he's

  1257. describing is one that leads us to pray.

  1258. It leads us to where Paul led us to

  1259. humility because Pastor Andrew often

  1260. says, "I have no wisdom here. Sorry,

  1261. Ben." I'm like, "You're supposed to know

  1262. everything. You're the lead pastor of

  1263. our church." And he says, "Nope.

  1264. I don't have the wisdom, but I know who

  1265. does. And we stop and we pray. And it's

  1266. important for us to do that. And it's

  1267. important for you to know that that

  1268. we're worst case scenario thinking

  1269. thinkers up to a point where we say,

  1270. "God, you're our friend and we need your

  1271. wisdom because we don't we're about to

  1272. go into a meeting

  1273. >> and we have the anxiety of this

  1274. situation

  1275. weighing heavily on our hearts and we

  1276. don't want to sin." And so th this is um

  1277. you know that that anxiety of unbelief

  1278. also the anxiety the physiological

  1279. anxiety of the reality of the pressures

  1280. of life. We have to recognize that those

  1281. um anxieties must for the Christian lead

  1282. us to trust and pray and depend on stop

  1283. what you're doing. Go to God.

  1284. >> Amen. You know we have some middle

  1285. schoolers and high schoolers in here

  1286. tonight and young people. I'd like to

  1287. ask you to just look right here for just

  1288. a minute. I want to talk to you guys for

  1289. a second because when I was your age,

  1290. and I can tell you this, when the other

  1291. two pastors on either side of me were

  1292. your age or were your age,

  1293. we all three would have been Christians

  1294. at that point.

  1295. But that didn't mean that we didn't have

  1296. things that we worried about. There were

  1297. lots of things that our mind would be

  1298. very concerned about and they would be

  1299. things about okay tomorrow. What's going

  1300. to happen tomorrow? But sometimes when I

  1301. was your age, I would think about

  1302. well what about what kind of what kind

  1303. of a man am I going to be? What kind of

  1304. a w I wasn't asking what kind of woman,

  1305. but if I was a woman, I could b ask what

  1306. kind of woman am I gonna be? What what

  1307. job am I gonna have?

  1308. What career am I going to have?

  1309. >> Um,

  1310. I see there's good fathers and there's

  1311. bad fathers.

  1312. Will I be a good father someday?

  1313. And I would sometimes I would worry

  1314. about, well, everybody else seems to be

  1315. able to find somebody to marry. Would I

  1316. ever be able to find somebody to marry?

  1317. Would somebody ever really love me?

  1318. Would I be a good husband?

  1319. And so there were things that were I was

  1320. worried about in my own little sixth

  1321. grade life or my 10th grade life,

  1322. but there were also things that were off

  1323. in the distant future that were on my

  1324. mind. And I just want to say to you,

  1325. some of these verses

  1326. were some of the verses that God used

  1327. to help me learn to trust in him and not

  1328. just live my life in anxiety.

  1329. >> You don't have to live your life in

  1330. anxiety.

  1331. You can begin to memorize passages of

  1332. scripture. Isaiah 26:3, "Thou wil keep

    Isaiah 26:3

  1333. him in perfect peace, whose mind is

  1334. stayed on thee, whose heart trusts in

  1335. thee." The reason I can quote that is

  1336. because I learned it when I was starting

  1337. to see I needed it.

  1338. And learning that verse

  1339. was part of the thing that God used to

  1340. reset my mind.

  1341. So, I think it's real important for you

  1342. to know

  1343. that you and God can control your

  1344. thoughts.

  1345. You and God can control your heart.

  1346. The world says, "Oh, there's nothing

  1347. really you can do about that. You have

  1348. this condition."

  1349. >> Well, you only have that condition if

  1350. you allow it.

  1351. they they mention as a condition.

  1352. Anxiety really isn't a condition. It's

  1353. more of a symptom. It's usually tied in

  1354. with other things. But we want so

  1355. desperately to find a label to explain

  1356. or or justify our weakness. But

  1357. scripture doesn't give us that

  1358. allowance. Um not to say that we can't

  1359. people can't be dealing with very

  1360. crippling fear and they need something

  1361. kind of help take a little bit of that

  1362. edge off in order to deal with it in a

  1363. way that's healthy. It's not just a

  1364. pharmaceutical problem. I mean, you have

  1365. to address a spiritual issue, too. And

  1366. we can't identify, oh, I'm I'm an

  1367. anxious person. What can I do about

  1368. that? No, we're we're told to not be

  1369. anxious. So, there is something we can

  1370. do about it. Not

  1371. >> are there certain personalities that are

  1372. more prone toward being anxious?

  1373. >> Absolutely.

  1374. >> I believe that that's true.

  1375. >> But that's where you realize, oh, okay,

  1376. maybe I do have a personality that's

  1377. more prone toward that. There's other

  1378. people that have a personality that's

  1379. more torn toward not being anxious but

  1380. being really irresponsible,

  1381. >> angry,

  1382. >> or maybe there's some personalities that

  1383. are a little bit more prone toward a

  1384. caleric. We call it a caleric

  1385. personality. That's a that's an angry

  1386. response, whatever it may be. There's

  1387. some people that brood a lot. That means

  1388. they think a lot. They ruminate on it a

  1389. lot. There's some people that don't. My

  1390. daughters when I was in middle when they

  1391. were in middle school they said to me

  1392. dad did you know it's been stat excuse

  1393. me it's been scientifically proven that

  1394. boys are capable of thinking about

  1395. nothing

  1396. [laughter]

  1397. I said what they said yes we studied it

  1398. today some boys are capable of thinking

  1399. about nothing

  1400. because I would always say you know

  1401. girls your mind is always working on

  1402. something the brain is very powerful He

  1403. said, "Nuh-uh. Boys are capable of

  1404. thinking about nothing. They can just,

  1405. you know, they're kind of

  1406. I don't know what the truth of that is,

  1407. but I know that they were convinced of

  1408. it, but

  1409. don't be the victim.

  1410. We kids, listen. We live in a society

  1411. that loves to make victims. And a victim

  1412. is somebody that can't do anything about

  1413. their circumstance.

  1414. Don't live in victimhood.

  1415. Jesus said, "I am the King of Kings and

  1416. the Lord of Lords.

  1417. I rule over everything.

  1418. And if you are his and you're his

  1419. servant, you're not a victim. You're a

  1420. child of the most high God and king

  1421. and he can help you as you work through

  1422. your problems.

  1423. You're you're a victim most when you're

  1424. without him.

  1425. >> But when you're with him, you're

  1426. anything but a victim.

  1427. And that's exactly what first Peter

  1428. says. Because he cares for you. Cast

  1429. your cares upon him. Why? Because the

  1430. high king of heaven cares about you.

  1431. So, does that help, guys? I I I hope

  1432. you're hearing me. I I hope you'll allow

  1433. God's word. I mean, Psalm 56, when I am

  1434. afraid, I will trust in you. How about

  1435. this one? 1 Timothy

    1 Timothy 1:7

  1436. 1:7

  1437. which says, "For God has not given us a

  1438. spirit of fear, but of power and love

  1439. and a sound mind." I think part of the

  1440. reason I can sit here today and not be

  1441. lost in insanity is that verse.

  1442. >> That verse saved my sanity.

  1443. Um, God's word will will save you.

  1444. Um, in Romans it says, and help me out.

  1445. In Romans, do not be conformed to this

  1446. world, but be transformed by what?

  1447. By the renewing of your mind. Well, how

  1448. do you renew your mind?

  1449. The word of God.

  1450. Let the word of God renew your mind.

  1451. So that means you're getting renew means

  1452. get rid of the old, bring in the bring

  1453. in the new. And the new is God's word.

  1454. So you're reprogramming.

  1455. Don't be conformed to this world, but be

  1456. transformed

  1457. by the reprogramming of your mind. And

  1458. how do you reprogram your mind? with the

  1459. truth of the word of God that will help

  1460. you with anxiety. It will help you

  1461. greatly with anxiety. So, okay. So, then

  1462. when we find oursel anxious and we're

  1463. upset and everything else,

  1464. >> what do we do?

  1465. >> Do we confess that as sin?

  1466. >> There may be times. There may be times

  1467. if there's been a long pattern of

  1468. letting fear dominate our lives. we we

  1469. need to repent and go back to the Lord

  1470. and confess, I haven't been trusting you

  1471. with this issue or this particular

  1472. problem. I've been relying on my own

  1473. strength, relying on my own ability to

  1474. control this, and I need to let that go.

  1475. I need to that's been wrong, and I I

  1476. need to cast that on you, Lord. And at

  1477. that point, it goes from being an a fear

  1478. thing to a patience thing. Because if

  1479. I've given my burden over to him,

  1480. knowing that he will act in his time,

  1481. well then what I do now is I wait for

  1482. him. As I was just thinking about Psalm

  1483. 26 or 27:14, wait for the Lord. Be

  1484. strong and let your heart take courage.

  1485. Wait for the Lord. So after I've

  1486. repented and turned back to him and and

  1487. cast my anxiety on him. Well, now I wait

  1488. for him to act.

  1489. >> Yeah.

  1490. One of our do not daughters, one of our

  1491. nieces from California, they live in LA,

  1492. came and stayed with us for spring break

  1493. two years ago.

  1494. Uh, actually it was more like five years

  1495. ago. Sorry, time flies. And she at the

  1496. time was in high school and she at the

  1497. time dealt with anxiety

  1498. and uh she spent a week with Uncle

  1499. Andrew and Aunt Marcy and we were down

  1500. in the Keys together and we talked a

  1501. lot. we'd had dinner and we would sit

  1502. around and talk and she told

  1503. us and her sister about her struggle

  1504. with anxiety and um and I I just went I

  1505. got a big piece of paper and I wrote out

  1506. a couple of verses

  1507. and I said, "Stella, I think you ought

  1508. to memorize these."

  1509. And so Stella started memorizing those.

  1510. And I talked to Jason and Amanda, her

  1511. mom and dad, a couple of months later

  1512. and they said, "You know, something

  1513. happened on that trip to Florida."

  1514. She said, they said, "We went in

  1515. Stella's bedroom

  1516. and on the ceiling of her bedroom, she

  1517. had gone and gotten a poster, a big

  1518. piece of poster board."

  1519. And she wrote on the big piece of poster

  1520. board this verse right here, Psalm 56:3,

    Psalms 56:3

  1521. "When I am afraid, I will trust in

  1522. thee." Mhm.

  1523. >> And she put that above her bed

  1524. on her room. They went in her bathroom

  1525. in her house. I mean, excuse me, in her

  1526. bathroom in her there in their house.

  1527. And they noticed on the bathroom mirror

  1528. was another poster that she had made,

  1529. smaller one. And it said, "Thou will

  1530. keep him in perfect peace whose mind is

  1531. stayed on thee." M

  1532. >> and they just noticed that she had

  1533. posted around in her room in her little

  1534. domain

  1535. >> God's word.

  1536. >> Yeah.

  1537. >> And she started memorizing it and they

  1538. said Stella is just maturing. She's

  1539. overcoming these fears and these

  1540. anxieties. Today she's in college. She's

  1541. very success. She's a senior in college

  1542. actually. and um she's she's doing very

  1543. very well, but what could have been

  1544. something that gripped her life forever

  1545. um became under control.

  1546. And so the more that you guys back there

  1547. in the back, the more that you guys can

  1548. get a hold on this now,

  1549. it will become a great strength for the

  1550. rest of your life.

  1551. You won't build huge habits of running

  1552. around afraid.

  1553. You can build huge habits of running

  1554. around trusting in the Lord. And I would

  1555. just encourage you just casting all of

  1556. your cares upon him because he cares for

  1557. you. So

  1558. >> when when I consider those passages of

  1559. scripture too, Pastor Andrew, and I I

  1560. have to process if I need to repent of a

  1561. sin, I I start with what what does Jesus

  1562. command? What did Jesus command in those

  1563. passages? He says there, you know, have

  1564. you worried about what you're going to

  1565. eat? I've worried about that. What about

  1566. what you're going to wear? I've worried

  1567. about that, too.

  1568. Are you worried about what you're going

  1569. to drink? Yeah, I've worried about that.

  1570. Uh when it comes to anxiety, yeah, do we

  1571. worry about the earthly things? I I

  1572. confess I have worried about those

  1573. things. Whenever we process repentance,

  1574. we should go to scriptures and see where

  1575. have we missed the mark. I'm not talking

  1576. to non-believers. I'm talking to

  1577. believers.

  1578. >> Can you what Pastor Ruben shared about

  1579. being afraid?

  1580. Am I afraid?

  1581. I've been afraid before. My kids have

  1582. been afraid. I've seen some of you be

  1583. afraid before. Have I failed to trust

  1584. the Lord? Have I failed to seek his

  1585. righteousness first and his kingdom?

  1586. Yeah, I've failed. And so, um, I have a

  1587. friend in Jesus who I can run to and

  1588. anchor my soul. Pastor Andrew also

  1589. talked about something really important

  1590. that I I think often goes overlooked

  1591. with anxiety.

  1592. It's Have you all ever been to that

  1593. Holland outlet in Miami? Like the water

  1594. where the waves are huge and things go

  1595. up and down. Have you ever seen that

  1596. with the boats they crash the waves?

  1597. Have you ever

  1598. >> Oh, a haulover inlet. Hollowover inlet

  1599. where the where the boats go out to from

  1600. the inter coastal out to the other side.

  1601. Haulover. Yeah.

  1602. >> We're a bunch of kayaks on that body of

  1603. water.

  1604. And the fastest thing that you and I

  1605. need to do in Christ is anchor ourselves

  1606. to Christ in anxiety.

  1607. You don't just have Christ, though. If

  1608. you're a Christian, a genuine believer,

  1609. you have other brothers and sisters that

  1610. anchor you. What do I need most when I'm

  1611. seeking and my mind is out of control? I

  1612. need brothers and sisters who will

  1613. anchor me to the truth, to the beauty

  1614. and um just everlasting word of God.

  1615. If I'm a young person or if I'm an older

  1616. person, I am trying to find people to

  1617. fill my life that will anchor me

  1618. increasingly so because we're a bunch of

  1619. kayaks in the middle of a storm,

  1620. >> untethered.

  1621. And if we get tethered to Christ and to

  1622. the brothers and sisters, to the local

  1623. body of believers, we will anchor

  1624. ourselves. Our minds will be under

  1625. control. The Lord will be the lords of

  1626. our the Lord of our heart and of our

  1627. minds. So I that's what I do. I have to

  1628. repent of my sin of not trusting God,

  1629. being anxious when I should be trusting,

  1630. and then anchor myself to Christ and the

  1631. brothers and sisters.

  1632. >> Yeah, that's good. That's good. One last

  1633. concept before we go and I'm going to

  1634. ask um just for a minute if Jackie I

  1635. want to give you a heads up. If you have

  1636. a word for everyone tonight, I want to

  1637. give you that opportunity because you

  1638. have been through a lot in your life and

  1639. you have rested in the Lord. I'm going

  1640. to let you kind of think about that. But

  1641. let me give you this concept.

  1642. How many of you have ever been to the

  1643. Grand Canyon? Has anybody been to the

  1644. Grand Canyon? Over half of you, how many

  1645. of you have ever been anywhere? We're in

  1646. Florida, so this is a little different,

  1647. but have you ever been anywhere where

  1648. you were on the edge of a cliff

  1649. like the Grand Canyon? Kids, have you

  1650. ever been on the edge of a cliff? How

  1651. many of you ever had a thought of

  1652. [laughter]

  1653. whoa,

  1654. like it scared you? Did you ever feel

  1655. that way when you were standing on the

  1656. edge of something? Why did you have that

  1657. thought?

  1658. Because bad things could happen, right?

  1659. And what is it? What what bad thing

  1660. could happen?

  1661. >> Okay. You could fall

  1662. >> fall over and die.

  1663. >> You could fall over and [laughter] die,

  1664. right? That's exactly right. Good job.

  1665. So, is that a good fear or a bad fear?

  1666. >> That is a fear that will save your life.

  1667. Not all fear is a bad fear, right?

  1668. There's some fears that are good.

  1669. Let's say this.

  1670. If you are on the edge of a decision

  1671. that is a moral decision, you're you're

  1672. contemplating sinning and there's

  1673. something inside of you that is saying,

  1674. "Don't do it. Don't do it. Don't do it."

  1675. And there's this fear. Is that a good

  1676. fear or a bad fear?

  1677. >> That's a good fear.

  1678. So, I'm not saying that all fear is

  1679. evil. Some fear is given to you by God

  1680. to save you, to preserve you.

  1681. But I will say this,

  1682. there is a fear that doesn't come from

  1683. God.

  1684. And there's a fear that he would often

  1685. say to people around him when either an

  1686. angel would show up or God would show

  1687. up. And he would say, "Fear not.

  1688. You don't need to be afraid. Yes, I'm

  1689. awesome and powerful and right now

  1690. you're scared, but don't be afraid. I

  1691. have good news. Don't be afraid. You are

  1692. a favored one. Don't be afraid. I I have

  1693. something good for you. When I think

  1694. about this,

  1695. most of the time if you're looking at

  1696. life and you're afraid, you have these

  1697. things that is making you afraid, you're

  1698. afraid with anxiety, understand this,

  1699. that is not from God.

  1700. >> For God has not given us a spirit of

  1701. fear. If your whole life is a spirit of

  1702. fear, understand that's not from God.

  1703. 1 Timothy 1:7 says, "For God has not

    1 Timothy 1:7

  1704. given us a spirit of fear." So if you're

  1705. running around afraid, if you're running

  1706. around afraid of what's going to happen

  1707. with your friends, afraid of what's

  1708. going to happen with your job, afraid of

  1709. what's going to happen with this, afraid

  1710. of what's going to happen with that, if

  1711. you're running around

  1712. with a spirit of fear, that is not from

  1713. God. And you can take courage with this

  1714. that God says, I give you a spirit of

  1715. a

  1716. >> not of fear but of power and love and a

  1717. sound mind.

  1718. >> Yeah.

  1719. >> So be encouraged that when you have

  1720. fear, that's not from God. Unless you're

  1721. standing on the edge of the Grand

  1722. Canyon, and that's a good fear that he

  1723. gave you to preserve your life. Or

  1724. unless you're about to make a moral

  1725. decision that's going to ruin your life,

  1726. >> that's a good fear. He's given you that

  1727. fear to save you. But a spirit of fear

  1728. is not from him. So, I'm going to give

  1729. Jackie the last word. Jackie, what would

  1730. you say um to us tonight as we kind of

  1731. think about anxiety and fear and

  1732. trusting the Lord and casting our cares

  1733. upon him?

  1734. >> Well, recently I've been thinking about

  1735. all the whatifs in my life. What if uh

  1736. my son lives in a tornado alley and what

  1737. if what if something happened? What if

  1738. there isn't enough money at the end of

  1739. the month? what if uh one of the

  1740. grandkids is sick? And and so many what

  1741. ifs and I've really been trying to

  1742. concentrate on what if I trust the Lord?

  1743. What [snorts] if I hold that thought

  1744. captive? What if I um pray without

  1745. ceasing?

  1746. >> What what would that be like? So, I'm

  1747. really trying to turn that around and

  1748. stay away from [clears throat] the

  1749. whatifs and turn it to uh we know what

  1750. the answer is.

  1751. >> Amen. Good word. Thank you. Let's stand

  1752. together.

  1753. Now listen, we have something good to

  1754. eat over here. I I think a couple of

  1755. guys are going to go for a brief

  1756. meeting. And so for those of you that

  1757. need to be in that brief meeting, let's

  1758. do that right away. But for others of

  1759. you, there is something good to drink

  1760. and something good to eat over there.

  1761. There are new folks here this evening

  1762. and we want you to know that we're

  1763. really glad you're here if you're new to

  1764. us. And get to know one another. Take a

  1765. minute to say hello. What's your name?

  1766. Where are you from? Um get to know

  1767. somebody new uh tonight. Let's pray

  1768. together as we go. Father, thank you

  1769. that you have not given us a spirit of

  1770. fear, but of power and love and a sound

  1771. mind. Thank you that you don't want your

  1772. children to run around afraid. Thank you

  1773. that you care about us. I pray that we'd

  1774. be the kind of people that grow in

  1775. confidence in you. And uh Lord, that our

  1776. lives would be characterized by a

  1777. steadfast faith in you. Lord, help us to

  1778. learn from Martha and her struggles.

  1779. Martha, Martha, you've got so many

  1780. things on your mind. Lord, I pray that

  1781. we would hear that our name there.

  1782. Andrew, Andrew,

  1783. you have so many things. Trust in me.

  1784. Don't be afraid of those. Lord, I pray

  1785. that our lives would grow powerful in

  1786. faith, in confidence, in joy, and in

  1787. peace. In Jesus name we pray. Amen.

  1788. Amen. Love you all very much. Enjoy

  1789. something to eat.