Sermon
Parashat Lekh Lekha | Rabbi Felicia Sol | November 1, 2025
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I grew up in a small town in Connecticut
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with very few Jews.
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I remember a penny being tossed at me in the school hallway
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in elementary school, and I have a hazy memory that, as the new girl in town,
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I wasn't invited to a sleepover at my Evangelical Christians Friends house
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because I because I was going to hell.
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We lived on a pond.
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My parents still do.
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And after I learned about the Shoah,
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I started to have a recurring nightmare
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that the Nazis were invading the pond
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over and over again, night after night.
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I never truly felt unsafe in our small town,
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but my Jewishness was always exposed.
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Something that fills me with both pride
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and a profound sense of vulnerability.
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I haven't felt
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that same kind of exposure as a Jew in 40 years,
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but I'm feeling it now.
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Not in my small town in Connecticut,
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but in the very Jewish city of New York.
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We are close to the end of a very volatile mayor's race,
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where Jews in Israel have been at the center of the conversation.
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You could be a Jew who is Zionist or anti-Zionist.
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Secular or religious?
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Liberal or conservative.
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There is no escaping the magnifying glass.
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The Jewish people are under.
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For such a small people, we sure do
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get a lot of attention.
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This past week marks seven years since the massacre
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at the Tree of Life synagogue, where 11 Jews were murdered
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for attending shul on an October Shabbat morning.
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Who imagined in 2025
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that we would be speaking about the rise of anti-Semitism?
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Who would have
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thought that Israel would be an issue that would take up so much airtime
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in our local and national elections, and discourse?
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The exposure
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that the Jewish community is experiencing is deeply unsettling,
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to say the least.
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This past summer, Jewish
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teen groups on tours in Europe
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were told not to wear any jewelry
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or clothes that identify them as Jews.
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No margins of means, no mezuzah hanging from their necks.
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Israelis have changed the way they travel and where they go.
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Boulder, DC and Manchester are locations that we've added
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to the list of Pittsburgh, Paoli, Poway and Colleyville.
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I understand the fear and the worry.
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The world is on fire.
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Israel is on fire.
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Our country is on fire
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and our city is on fire.
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And this week's Paris.
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Avraham receives the call now from my Aunt Sara.
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And we will light at her when we beit Tuffy her Ella. Our.
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It's our share of Raqqa.
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Go forth from your native land and from your father's house
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to the land that I will show you,
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because the Torah grants us no information
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about why Avraham or Avram was commissioned by God.
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The Midrash try to fill in the blanks.
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And very sweet.
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Rabbi, Rabbi Yitzhak teaches on the opening verse of the haka
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when we read, and he brings in a verse from the Psalms.
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Listen, daughter, see, and incline your ear.
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Forget your people and your father's house.
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Me beats Avi.
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You hear the verse from Lara that says you should go forth.
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Me beats from your father's house.
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And then you hear that
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same word in this verse, from Psalms, from your father's house,
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and then that's called the picture, the opening lines, the Midrash.
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This is analogous to one who is passing
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from place to place and saw a castle on fire.
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He said,
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is it possible that this building has no one in charge of it?
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The owner of the building looked out.
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Oh, sorry.
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Looked out at him and said, I am the owner of the building.
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This is likened to Abraham saying, is it possible
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that this world is without someone in charge?
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The Holy One looked at him and said,
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I am the owner of the world.
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This moment when Avraham notices
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the metaphorical castle ablaze and asks
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whether there is a master of the house, is the very moment,
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according to the Midrash that precedes God's summons to him
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go forth!
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What about this moment?
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Cause God to commission Avraham?
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One reads.
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One read of this midrash is that Avraham was chosen because he felt
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the intense dissonance between order,
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beauty, and grandeur of the palace and the destructive chaos
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and disorder of the fire consuming it.
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How could it be that a creation design designed
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with such intention and purpose devolved into such madness?
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It is this gap and this dissonance, that causes
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Avraham to question whether anyone is in charge.
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It is his assertion also that
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there is a gap between what is and what ought to be.
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The tragic gap.
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As Parker Palmer calls it.
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That is the beginning of his faith and his calling.
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In his
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time, Abram seems to be the only one who notices
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the world engulfed in flames and is disturbed by it.
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We, however, are living in a time where we can see all the beer ads,
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or look at the castle of flame and feel the fire surrounding us.
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What differs in our time, I think, is
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what we believe has caused the fire
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for some of us.
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Assemblyman mundane is language feels dangerous
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not just because it is anti-Zionist,
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but because it feels like incitement.
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His seeming obsession with Israel, the occupation
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and the disavowal of the legitimacy of Israel's right to exist
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as a Jewish state is not only deeply disturbing,
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but an affront to the Jewish people and our most precious commitments.
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Of course, it's important to say that there are many Jews
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that are attracted to him, particularly young Jews, for that very reason.
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For others,
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Governor Cuomo is a candidate who has been a danger to women
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and has not owned his mistakes.
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In addition, there is profound, profound concern
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that he has too much allegiance to our current president
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and those in his government who have sounded anti-Semitic tropes,
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conspiracy theories, and weaponized anti-Semitism
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for their own pernicious ends.
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This puts the Jewish people at risk.
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I know
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there is also significant concern among many of us
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that the Jewish people's power has diminished.
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After all, if someone like Mamdani can even win the primary,
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that is in some way an indication that Jewish power is diminished.
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We are fractured.
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There is deep discord where our priorities lie.
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Israel, being among the most contentious.
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Our dirty laundry is being displayed
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and played out on the local and national stage.
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This mayoral election is the prism
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through which to see all the divides amongst our community.
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Divides between generations around what Zionism
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should or shouldn't be, or whether it even should be at all,
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or even what safety looks like for the Jewish people.
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I think for most of us,
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the discourse has become so toxic,
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categorical and extreme amidst
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an election where it feels like there is no good choice,
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and there is so much confusion that the greatest fear
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is that our communities will become as polarized as our nation.
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Instead of being a place or places
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of resilience, comfort, compassion
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and inspiration.
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I am not going to rank
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these hierarchies of fear, endanger.
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I believe there is some significant truth in all of them.
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But I can tell you that you all, we all rank them differently.
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What scares some of us the most is not the same thing
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that scares others of us the most.
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The reality is that we all have a hierarchy of values
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that drive our feelings, and our analysis of this present moment,
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which is informed by our own lived experiences and histories.
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In Jonathan Height's book The Righteous Mind
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Why Good People Are Divided by Politics and Religion,
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he argues that our moral intuitions
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are guided by six foundational values.
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The first.
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Care versus harm.
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Sensitivity to suffering and the need for compassion and kindness.
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Second, fairness versus cheating.
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A sense of Justice and reciprocity.
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Three.
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Loyalty versus betrayal.
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Group cohesion.
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Patriotism and the Obligations of Belonging.
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Four.
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Authority versus subversion.
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Respect for social hierarchy.
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Tradition and order.
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Fifth.
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Sanctity versus degradation.
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Reverence for the sacred and avoidance of contamination.
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And six.
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Liberty versus oppression.
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The desire for freedom from domination and the opposition to tyranny.
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All human beings
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are guided by these values in some way.
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But the emphasis and hierarchy of these values is different for everyone.
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His book is premised on the notion
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that liberals and conservatives high
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rank these particular pieces
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very differently, that liberals tend to prioritize care.
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And, And conservatives tend to prioritize authority and loyalty.
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So that's just what it is.
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And so he says that we all prioritize.
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It's not that any of us are devoid of care,
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or that we're not devoid of loyalty or the sense
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of what our relationship is to authority, but based on where we are.
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And often that aligns around political alliances.
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We all have a different way.
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What kind of gets at us the most?
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Implicit in this understanding
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is that when we prioritize certain values over others,
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we also often have gaps in awareness
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or blind spots that prevent us
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from tolerating other people's opinions.
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I'll admit that at times I can understand
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what makes people believe what they do, and that makes it hard.
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Especially now when tensions run
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high, when fear hovers close,
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and when amongst us are among us are those who are drawing
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painful lines of division through our community.
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Even rabbis and other leaders, some are drawing those lines, and others
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are being cast as loyalists or traitors
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based solely on how they might vote.
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I might disagree with your particular practice,
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your particular analysis.
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You might disagree with mine.
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If we had the chance to sit down together and talk it through.
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And that's all right.
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It's okay that we have a different analysis.
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You and me.
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Those of us sitting in this congregation, those joining us from afar.
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It's okay.
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I can live with that.
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I hope you can too.
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If what we see
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or what we seek is a monolithic community,
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one that does not tolerate diversity even to the slightest degree,
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or celebrate the beauty of the tapestry that makes up our congregation.
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That would be a choice.
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But it is not a choice
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that really, Becca or I are willing to make.
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Certainly not over an election that will be decided
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in just a matter of days
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when all the ballots are counted on November
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4th, or perhaps in the early hours of the fifth.
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Our work as a community will remain the same.
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To pray together, to learn together,
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to care for one another and to pursue justice together.
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No matter who is elected, our responsibility will be to hold him
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and someday her.
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I hope, accountable for the safety
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of our people and the safety of others.
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For the words he speaks and the actions he takes.
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We will continue to fight for the values that matters most to us
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and the city we call home.
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That calling does not change whether our candidate wins or loses.
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Whether he is a Republican, Democrat or independent,
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the castle is a flame.
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There is no doubt.
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Might we be like Avram in this week's Paracha,
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who looks at the fire engulfing what is most precious to him
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and feels the gap, feels the discord,
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feels the pain of so much that is crumbling
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before our eyes, but knows it should be otherwise.
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It is in the discord that Abraham's faith is born.
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Might we look inward at our own commitments
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in faith rather than castigating someone else's choices?
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With all his doubt about this world.
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Avram asks if the palace had an owner.
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He couldn't fathom that no one cared enough to put out the flames.
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He raised his voice to both question and protest
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at the same time in his question and God's response.
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A number of powerful possibilities begin to emerge.
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Rabbi Jonathan Sacks writes,
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When God said, I am the owner of the palace,
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it is as if God were saying to Abraham,
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I need you to help me put out the flames.
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Doctor Paul Mandell of the Schachter Institute offers another response.
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He teaches that when God responds, I am the owner of the palace.
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God is saying that God is in fact trapped in the fire.
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God, too, is engulfed by the flames and needs Avraham
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to rescue God and God's image in the world.
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And Rabbi Sarah Hurwitz provides an alternative read Abraham's questions.
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She says, is it possible that the castle has no owner?
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Catalyzes God into action?
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Abraham implies
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in asking that question that the world is no longer sustainable as it is.
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Something must change.
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God hears Avram and has an awakening
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and says, I am the master of the world.
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It's a very radical read of the text.
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I'm just going to say it again. If you missed it.
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She says, Rabbi Sarah Horowitz, who's them first?
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Met her at?
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She says, When God when Abraham asks
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the question, who's the owner of the palace?
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Who is the.
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Does the palace not have an owner?
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She said Abraham is implying that the world is no longer
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sustainable as it is, which causes God to consider.
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I have to act.
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I have to be the owner of this palace.
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It is God that Abraham.
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God hears Abraham, and it's God
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that has the awakening, not Abraham.
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She catalyzes God to have the awakening.
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Or Abraham catalyzes God.
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Sarah catalyzes us to realize is that Abraham causes God to have an awakening.
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I am the master of the world.
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God realizes and sends Abraham away
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from the burning castle out into the world.
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Abraham sees the fire and catalyzes God to act.
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In this
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uncertain moment, with fear and anger abounding,
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where the discourse has become more and more hateful and polarizing, of which,
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by the way, the Jewish people are a big factor in that.
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We need to own that.
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The Jewish people are a big, big part of what is making this campaign
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hateful and polarizing, not exclusively, but significantly.
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Perhaps we, like Abraham, need to pay attention to the fire
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that is ablaze, to listen to the fear in each other's voices.
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And as Rollie said last week, to awaken some compassion
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in and for our broken hearts, our tattered souls,
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and our moral injury which needs some care,
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reducing the complexity of this moment will not make us stronger.
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After the election.
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And maybe we all need to hold
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little doubt in our self-righteousness.
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Like Abraham.
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God needs us to
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put out the flames, not douse them with oil.
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We need to rescue our faith, its purpose and mission.
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We need to affirm God's presence in the world
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and to resist evil and hatred, inflammatory speech,
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and to demand a different world, not to succumb to the world as it is.
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Oh dear people, Israel,
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a people that I love,
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that I have devoted my life to.
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Our beginnings were with Avram.
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Let us not forget his audacious ness and his faithfulness.
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Let us not give in to a world on fire,
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but affirm a faith, a tradition
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that sets us on a path to a promised land that has yet to be learned.
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Haha. Get out of your land.
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The mess that Amit says on this verse,
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a person should always keep on walking her made her laugh
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like her to some new possibility.
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Let us try to walk forward no matter what comes on Tuesday.
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Believing it can be so and working to make it so.
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Maybe then instead of being a world ablaze,
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it will become a world full of light, a castle full of light.
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Which is another read of that midrash that instead of being a world
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ablaze, it is a castle filled with light.
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Can you hear that sound?
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So may it be.