Sermon
Philippians 2:1-11
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Now I just wanna reference.
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This beautiful artwork here, which I did not do.
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Just so you know, one of our young adults, Joe Frost, did this painting,
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and it was during a worship night we did at the Naval Store last
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year.
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And, the relevance
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of this painting will come to light as we go
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through, the message
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for today.
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All right.
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So we are in our series, defiant Joy, going through the book of Philippians.
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And so let's dive into the passage for today, which is
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Philippians two verses one to 11.
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And
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it is a, before we
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begin to read, I just wanna set the scene of this passage of scripture.
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It is
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one of the, most treasured
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and precious passages of scripture in all of scripture.
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If we did not have this passage of scripture, we
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would be, limited in
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our understanding of who Jesus is.
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And the divinity of Jesus.
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The passage that we'll read in a moment is possibly the clearest
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passage on the incarnation, on the truth of the incarnation, that you
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will find anywhere in scripture.
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So it's an incredibly important and incredibly
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precious, passage of
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scripture.
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So I'd encourage you to adopt a posture of really leaning in.
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Lord, what have you got for me this morning?
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Through your word, through this incredibly powerful and press
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precious passage of scripture.
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All right, let's read.
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Therefore, if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any
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comfort from his love, if any, common sharing in the spirit, if any tenderness
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and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same
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love being one in spirit and a one mind.
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Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, rather, in humility,
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value others above yourselves.
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Not looking to your own interests, but each of you to the interests of others.
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In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus,
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who being in the very nature, God did not consider equality with God, something
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to be used to his own advantage.
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Rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant
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being made in human likeness.
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And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming
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obedient to death, even death on a cross.
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Therefore, God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name
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that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus, every niche should
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bow in heaven and on earth, and under the earth and every tongue.
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Acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord to the glory of God the father.
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Amen.
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Oh, right.
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Before we dive in, babe, can I just ask, could you just get me some water?
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I'm a little bit parched up here.
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My tongue is sticking to the roof of my mouth.
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All
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right.
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So, Paul says,
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at the beginning of this passage, he says to them, make my joy complete.
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She's essentially saying, just make my day church, make my day, make my joy complete.
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How?
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By the church, in this case, the Philippian Church, knowing their
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foundation and their identity in Christ by the church being unified and by the
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church having the same mindset as Jesus.
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And what is that mindset?
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It is a mindset of true humility.
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So let's just break down the first part, the first few verses, verses
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of the passage that we just read and break it down so that we can
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grasp what he's actually saying here in the framework of, can we just
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set this next slide up, Sabrina?
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Thanks.
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All right.
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Identity and our foundation, but then also unity and humility.
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So he's saying if you have, and this is an identity and a foundation statement
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that he brings here, if you have any encouragement from being united
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with Christ, my friends, we could park there on just that truth alone.
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For days.
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Have you come this morning, did you wake up this morning?
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Encourage because your life, if you profess Jesus as Lord and Savior,
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your life is united to the life.
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Of Christ, like you don't have to earn it.
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You don't have to wake up every day securing it, behaving right?
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So in order so that Christ doesn't flee from you.
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Now Christ has bound his life to yours.
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That's what it is to be saved.
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That's what it is to be born again.
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It's that the life of Christ permanently united to your life.
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There is a lot.
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Of encouragement to be gained by just pondering on that truth alone.
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If that is true of you, my friends, what could possibly shake you if you're
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eternally united to the life of Christ?
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What in this life could truly, truly shake you if you were to truly, truly apprehend
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the fullness of that reality right there?
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I think we forget to think about that sometimes, don't we?
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Who we are in
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him that, that foundational
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identity, any comfort from his love?
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Because it is his love that binds him to us.
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Any common sharing in the spirit, any tenderness and compassion.
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What is he talking about here?
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Any deep, deep affection because when you understand who you are in Christ
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and you understand his love for you.
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The natural overflow.
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That is a posture of deep tenderness and compassion.
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So sharing this with the word and way people.
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On Wednesday night, our Bible study, the, the word for tenderness there
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in the Greek is actually, if you were to translate it directly, it's the
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word B, translate directly to bowel.
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So if you have any bowels and compassion, right?
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What?
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What could that possibly mean?
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Well, for the ancients, this place here.
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It was where you felt so very deeply.
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It's that place.
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And so when I
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say church, you know,
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love your guts.
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That's kind of tapping into that truth there.
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It is a, it's a gut born affection and love.
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It's deep.
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It's deep, deep in the bowels.
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I think something gets lost in modern translation there,
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but you know what I mean?
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And then he goes, then what?
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Make my joy complete by next slide there, Sabrina.
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By being what?
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By being unified.
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By being humble, by being like-minded, actually agreeing with one another.
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Oh, this does not come easy, does it?
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By having the same love loving one another with the love that Christ has given you.
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Being one in spirit and of one mind being deep spirited friends.
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That's beautiful, isn't it?
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I've borrowed that language from Eugene Peterson in the message paraphrase.
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Be deep seated friends.
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That just sounds like a really good time, doesn't it?
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Just to be in the company of deep seated friends.
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Is there any greater blessing in the world?
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Ugh, humble.
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Doing nothing outta selfish ambition or VA conceit.
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Valuing others above yourself, not looking to your own interests,
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but to the interests of others.
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And so off the bat, the conclusions that we can draw from this right
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from the beginning is this joy is found in knowing your foundation
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and your identity in Christ.
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Joy is found in being a unifying member of a unified community.
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So it's not just found in being in a unified community.
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It's actually contributing to the unity of that community by being a unifying
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member of a unified community, joy, that is a joyful, joyful place to be.
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And joy is found in a life of humility, which enables you to be a person of unity.
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There is no unity apart from humility.
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You can't have.
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Unity without humility.
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We try to do that, and that's called uniformity.
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That's when we all just convince ourself we're unified because we look the same.
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We sound the same, we wear the same.
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We think the same.
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We support the same politicians and sports teams, and we all
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listen to the same music.
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That's not unity.
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Okay?
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It's diversity that prove proves unity, and it's only
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possible through deep humility.
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All right.
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So there is a deep joy in unity, which comes when we know and we live
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out of a Christ founded identity with a humble Christ-like mindset.
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So that is my encouragement for us all this morning, that we would lean into
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that, that we would desire to know the joy that comes with living in this way.
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We would desire to know the joy that comes from living out of a Christ.
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Found that identity with a humble Christ-like mindset.
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And so this is what Paul is saying.
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He wants this for this church, and that will bring him the greatest joy.
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And I don't think it's a stretch to understand why.
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I mean, for, for those of you who are parents, you know the joy of seeing your
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children getting along and being unified, loving one another, serving one another,
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championing one another, that brings joy to a parent's heart, doesn't it?
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And for Paul, he sees these churches like his children, and for God, well, we are
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his children, so you wanna bless the Lord.
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Love the people around you.
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Be deep spirited friends with those around you.
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Don't put a smile on the Lord's face.
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You know, it doesn't put a smile on the Lord's face when you just bitch and
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complain about all the people around you.
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And just when God, them, them, them theming.
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I know that God really enjoys that.
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Who really enjoys that.
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At the end of the day, nobody enjoys watching their children fight and
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disagree, but that place of unity birthed in humility is precious and beautiful and
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just, just a source of deep, deep joy.
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So why does unity matter?
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Other than being a source of joy, why would the Philippian Church being
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unified matter so very much to Paul?
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'cause remember the first chapter of Philippians, we got this real
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sense of what really matters to Paul and what really matters to Paul
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is the advancement of the gospel.
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And why does that matter to Paul?
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Because in Paul's mind, when the gospel advances, the kingdom comes
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and the darkness is pushed back and light comes and evil is overcome
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by good when the gospel advances.
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So it matters greatly to Paul that the gospel advances.
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And the gospel advances best through a unified church, doesn't it?
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And so unity matters.
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Unity matters to Paul, and it should matter to us here
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because it's the will of God.
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Again, the words of Paul here as found in Ephesians that God made
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known to us the mystery of his will according to his good pleasure.
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And what is this will to bring unity to all things in heaven and on earth.
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The whole point of this all is unity.
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It's reconciliation.
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It's bringing everything back into a harmonious state of shalom and oneness.
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Next.
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Because our unity tells the world about the love of Gods Jesus.
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As he's praying before he goes to the cross in John's gospel here,
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my prayer is not for them alone.
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I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message that all
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of them what may be one unified father, just as you are in me and I am in you,
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this deep relational unity, then what?
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Then the world will know that you sent me and have loved them.
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Even as you have loved me, our greatest witness is not in how loudly we scream
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the gospel in people's faces and not how loudly we tell the wrong how the
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world, how wrong and immoral it is.
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But as we love one another, as we dwell in unity, it's a, it's a beacon to a
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broken disintegrating world around us.
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That beacon of love.
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Yeah, Adam's, as I was going through my message with Adam
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yesterday reminded me there's
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this saying, division
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in the church breeds atheism in the world.
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Oh, it's a challenging statement, isn't it?
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I think there's a lot of truth to it, because when the church is divided, our
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lives are telling a lie about the goodness of the gospel when the church is divided.
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Our lies don't bear a true witness to the truth of the gospel and the truth
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of who God is and how he sees the world and how he wants to relate to the world.
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All right, next.
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Unity matters because it is there that we know the presence of God.
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Psalm 133, how good and pleasant it is when God's people live together in unity.
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It is like precious oil pulled on the head, running down the beard, running
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down Aaron's beard, down the collary robe.
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It's as if the Jew of Herman were falling on Mount Zion for there, the Lord bestows
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his blessing, even life forevermore.
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And so that picture of oil, it sounds kind of gross, doesn't it?
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As you just read it, like can take it and it's plain kind of, you know,
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describing there, you're just like, oh, Gracie, and did they have shampoo?
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Then?
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How did he get all that oil out of his beard?
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But what did oil represent?
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In the Old Testament, it represented the spirit, represented the very presence
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of God and and so it's
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saying that's what unity is.
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Unity to be unified in the name of Jesus is to know the very presence of God.
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There will be life, there will be life next because it's the very ministry
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that we have been called to all this is from God writes Paul in Second
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Corinthians, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and then gives us what.
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The Ministry of Reconciliation.
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You know, there's this interesting reality, right?
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Every single person on this planet is an image bearer is
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made in the image of God, right?
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Not just the Christians.
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Every single person human being is created in the image of God.
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So every person is an image bearer, but not every person is a name bearer.
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And for those who bear the name of Jesus, this is your ministry.
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It is a ministry of reconciliation.
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That's what you had to wear every day when you walk out the door, to just be
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that place where heaven and earth collide.
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Where God's will is done on earth that is, is in heaven and the kingdom comes.
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And that's not so much just running around preaching the gospel at people,
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but it's carrying the presence of God wherever your foot treads and
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bearing witness in whatever way is authentic to how God has created.
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You.
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All right.
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So why does Unity matter?
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There we go.
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And with this in mind, as we, as we consider all this, I wonder sometimes
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if we're not just a little bit casual about unity, a bit quick and a bit
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willing to divide over differences that ultimately just do not matter
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content, or at least happy to feel justified in our reluctance to forgive
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our brothers and sisters in Christ.
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A little bit justified carrying bitterness and resentment.
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But 'cause we truly understood the preciousness of unity, would we really
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waste our time with things that divide?
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I think if we're honest, there is something in the human heart that inclines
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us to division that client inclines us to fight with one another, to be against
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one another rather than for one another.
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We acknowledge the good of it, right?
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But there is something in our heart that often pulls us in this
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direction of division, of conflict, of disagreement, of fighting.
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And you know, not always outwardly, because you know, we're very good at
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sanctifying our behavior, aren't we?
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Church, we're very good at looking like nice Christians on the outside
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and then what's going on in the heart, and this is what this is all about.
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It's not about the outward behavior.
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Yeah, it's like the positive posture of your heart.
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Are you for.
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The people here.
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Are you here because God called you here and you know he called
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you here so that you could be four.
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This church family.
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But then beyond that, are you for the church down the road, or are
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you just worried about all the things that they do different to us
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and how we do it better than them?
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You know, I know nobody would think that, would they?
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You know?
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No.
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I've been greatly challenged through this.
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You know, when Paul said in back in chapter one, where he talks about, you
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know, what does it matter what people's motives are in preaching the gospel?
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Whether a false mood is or true, all that matters is the gospel is
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preached and you know, and that as a teacher, right, as one who is,
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can be very black and white, right?
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And likes things to be right.
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You know, I can get my little knickers all in all sorts of wedges
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about, oh, is this being done right?
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Oh, oh, oh.
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And it's not a unifying heart posture.
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Now, do we accept false teaching distortions of the gospel?
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No, we don't, but it What is the posture of our heart towards our
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brothers and sisters in Christ?
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Is it one of humility and unity?
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So if you just take a look at these few verses, what you're gonna see is
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Paul describes the heart that fights, and then he describes the kind of
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heart that doesn't fight, but that makes peace and that brings joy.
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And then he shows us how to get that kind of heart that makes peace.
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So what kills unity?
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He talks about it here.
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Selfish ambition and vain conceit.
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And so what is, oh, the water.
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I forgot to drink it.
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Ugh.
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Ah.
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So much better.
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Alright.
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Oh, don't tip over.
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Okay, what kills unity?
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Selfish ambition and Bain
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Conceit.
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So let's
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have a look here.
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Selfish ambition is having a spirit of divisiveness, a
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desire to put oneself forward.
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It's a desire to be first, a desire to be recognized, to
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be seen, to be acknowledged.
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And what I would advise as we come before this is to resist the temptation to start
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to think of all those other people who operate like this and just graciously
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hold the mirror up to your own self.
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Don't worry about the others, let the Lord worry about them.
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You just hold it up to your own good self and see if there is anything
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here that resonates for you.
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All right.
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Vain conceit or vain glory, as it says in the King James.
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And what does this mean?
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It means to be glory empty.
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So the Greek word there is keno.
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Docea.
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So keno means empty, which I thought was really funny.
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'cause who knows what keno is like as a gambling thing.
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Yeah, yeah.
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It's gonna empty
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your wallet.
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So funny.
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They would call it
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that.
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Yeah.
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And then
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docia means glory, so it actually means.
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To be somebody who is glory empty, and if you are empty of that, what does it do?
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It makes you hungry.
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It makes you hungry for honor.
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For respect to be seen, to be acknowledged, to be
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valued, to be appreciated.
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It's kind of this anxiety as chin Keller put it, a ra, a radical
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cosmic insecurity and anxiousness for assurance around your identity.
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But it's this, it's kind of this GNA deep seated conviction in you that you
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don't count and that you don't matter.
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So therefore you need to spend your days proving that you do and gaining
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that approval from other people.
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So you need to be seen and you need to be acknowledged.
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And again, we can immediately in our minds go to a caricature of this, of some
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very obvious, arrogant, prideful person.
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Don't do that.
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Okay?
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Allow the spirit to bring conviction to your own heart and
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go, where is this in me, Lord?
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Where might I be able to invite your spirit that I could be set
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free of any kind of selfish ambition or vain conceit that would rob
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your church of a joy filled unity?
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Because remember, it's not just about you.
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Is it, this is what we forget, right?
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We can so easily come to church and we can hear these messages and we can receive
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them in the sense of, of like self-help.
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So how do I just become a better person so that I can look in the mirror and
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just be more at peace with who I am?
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But no, no, no.
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It's like how, how do I take the beautiful truth of God, bring it to bear in my
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own brokenness for the good of others?
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It's, yes, it's for your own good, but.
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Ultimately it's for the good of the people that God has
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called you to love and to serve.
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Okay, so why are we this way?
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Why are we can, can we be people of selfish ambition
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and people of vain conceit?
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And I think it is because we're made to live forever in God's presence.
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But when we turn away from the presence of God, we, we miss out
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on receiving what we need most.
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We miss out of being in the presence of his glory that fills us in a beautiful
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way that doesn't distort us or deform us.
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John 17 three says, this is eternal life that they know you God.
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So outside of knowing God and deep relational, knowing not.
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Had knowledge about God, but relational knowing of God, there is only death.
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This is what the implications of these words of Jesus is, and so
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we are made to never be forgotten.
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We were made.
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We weren't made to be unseen or unknown.
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We were made to know God.
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We were made to be known by God.
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We're also made to be deeply known by one another as well.
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But this relationship.
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Our relational world is all broken.
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It's broken by sin, and so we feel broken.
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We feel incomplete, missing, and restless and anxious.
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So we desperately look to everyone around us that we possibly can to get them to
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say, you are good and you're special.
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You're important.
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You're worthwhile.
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You're significant.
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Welcome to the unholy fuel for social media.
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Hey you.
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But there's a great quote from Madonna that just describes this so beautifully.
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She says this, my drive in life comes from a fear of being mediocre.
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That is always pushing me.
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I push past one spell of it and discover myself as a special human being, but
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then I feel I am still mediocre and uninteresting unless I do something else.
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Because even though I have become somebody, I still have
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to prove that I am somebody.
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My struggle has never ended, and I guess it never will.
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Oh, what a horrible way to live.
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There's no freedom there.
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There's no joy.
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It's, oh, just this hamster wheel of having to prove yourself.
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You know, our culture's response to this reality is well
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just go believe in yourself.
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All that matters is what you think of.
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You just love yourself.
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Oh, that's such helpful advice.
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It's really not.
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It doesn't work.
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We are deeply relational beings.
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We're actually meant to get our identity and worth from beyond ourselves, but
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not ultimately from other people, because that does not work either.
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When we do this, we end up using other people as a means of
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validation, and then what happens?
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We end up resenting them when they don't deliver.
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Happens in church all the time, you know, people come and then they like, you
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know, and as, as, as leaders, we can be
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particularly, I guess susceptible
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to this and all this expectations that these people are gonna meet all
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my needs and all my self validation needs, and then we don't perform
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and then people get really upset.
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And we've all been, you know, probably on both sides of the coin here.
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And that's the journey of maturity as well.
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So what I say here today, remember no guilt, shame, or condemnation.
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The conviction comes, oh, hallelujah.
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Praise the
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Lord.
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Right?
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This is not
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about guilting or shaming anyone because we're all on a journey of
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maturity in this space of coming to fully understand our identity in Christ
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and how God sees us and who we are.
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You know, and so, but when we don't have that assurance, we end up competing
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and we compare, you know, so I'm okay so long as I'm better in some way.
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Then, you know, that person or those people, again, welcome to the unholy fuel
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for social media, the basis of comparison.
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Just getting that sense of, oh, right, I'm okay because I'm better
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than them Happens in church all the time, you know, oh yeah, I might do
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this, but at least I don't do that.
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So, oh dear.
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So we use people to bolster our shaky ego, and every time you meet a new person,
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you can be unconsciously wondering, how can this person contribute to my
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need to prove that I count and that I matter, and then life, or life therefore,
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becomes a constant battle to use people.
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So this is the sickness pride, which is a hunger for glory and
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need for respect and need to be ultimately assured that we are o.
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K, but so then what builds unity?
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If that's what Tears it down.
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Destroys it.
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What builds it?
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Well, humility.
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So Philippians one, five.
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Paul gives this instruction to the church when he says,
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oh, we got it there, Sabrina.
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Nope.
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Philippians one verse five.
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Ah, yeah, there we go.
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In your relate oh two, sorry about that.
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For the confusion in your relationships with one another, have
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the same mindset as Christ Jesus.
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This is the instruction he gives to the church as to how to cultivate humility.
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And your relationships with one have the same mindset as Christ Jesus.
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So what's a mindset?
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A set of beliefs that shape how you make sense of the world and yourself
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influencing how you think, feel, and behave in any given situation.
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Often our mindset isn't something we think about.
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But it's something that's good to think about.
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When you know you this week, as you go through this week, watch how
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you respond and react to different situations through your day.
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And they'll tell you what your mindset is.
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You know, the attitude with which you wake up in the morning will
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tell you what your mindset is.
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The attitude with which you go to bed at night will tell you so much about your
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mindset.
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You know,
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the way I drive tells me a lot about my mindset and it's.
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Because, I don't have
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a lot of tolerance.
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It turns out my pride, I think, gets
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manifested, quite greatly
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on the road.
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And this assumption that I am vastly superior to whoever the other, the
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driver.
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And, I have no
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tolerance for anybody who doesn't drive like me.
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And I verbalize it to no one in particular 'cause I'm using the car by myself.
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But, um.
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It, it reveals a lot about my mindset.
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It's going, okay, if I genuinely was a humble driver, would I be.
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Losing my mind 'cause this person is driving so very slow.
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Or the, or people's inability to navigate roundabouts, like,
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you know, but this self, right?
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But it's this, but I have this belief and it's like, well, driving brings it out.
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And so chances are this mindset is manifesting in other places other than
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just the traffic, if I'm gonna be honest.
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Right.
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So.
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Yay.
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Bring on traffic.
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Bring on the revealing of my unhealthy mindset that I can bring it before the
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Lord and have it redeemed.
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So having the same mindset as Jesus.
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So let's first take a look at the word humility.
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What is it?
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The Greek word used in the New Testament means?
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Gentle, modest, deferential.
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But the outside the Bible, in ancient Greek literature, this
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word was always used negatively.
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This is so interesting.
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So in Greco Roman culture, so the culture in which this letter
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was originally written to be deferential and gentle and modest was
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considered the attitude of a slave.
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And so their culture valued strength.
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They believed social stability depended on fear.
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Respect was built on fear.
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If people feared you, then they respected you.
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Humility that was for slaves, and yet Christianity changed
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everything in the Bible.
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This word or variations of it appeared 270 times almost always
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positively, and that is nothing short of a worldview revolution.
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And if you go back to Greek philosophy, philosophy to Aristotle, to Plato, you
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will not find humility listed as a virtue.
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But in the Bible, humility is central.
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Consider Jesus's words when he says it is the meek.
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It is the humble who will inherit the earth.
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And he says, what?
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Take my yoke upon you and learn from me.
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For I am meek, I am humble.
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I am gentle and lowly in heart.
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And what is he saying?
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Well, if you think about the gospel, right, what it is.
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If you come to God and say, Lord, look at my accomplishments.
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Look at what I have done.
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Am I not wonderful?
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You must therefore receive me.
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God's gonna say, you don't know me.
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You don't know yourself clearly, and you do not understand the cross.
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But if you come saying, Lord, I repent.
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I need your grace.
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I have nothing to merit your favor, but I ask that you save me.
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Accept me for Christ's sake.
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That's repentance and that's faith, and that is humility.
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So do you see how essential it is in the kingdom?
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The only thing that can destroy you eternally actually is a lack of humility.
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Think about the Pharisees.
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They were the only ones Jesus had problems with.
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He didn't have a problem with the prostitutes.
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You have a problem with the tax collects you happily hung, hung out with them.
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The Pharisees, he couldn't get through to them.
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Why?
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The pride that sat in their heart that they were right.
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Pride, pride, pride.
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You.
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So ultimately, Jason doesn't, they have a problem with, you know, these
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sins that we get all wigged out about and judging one another about, right?
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Ooh, they swore, Ooh, Jesus must be out there sticking his fingers in his ears.
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No, the, I'm not endorsing swearing.
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All right.
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But.
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It's the, it's the self-righteous heart.
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The one that says, oh, I've got it all.
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I'm right.
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Or at least I'm more right than them.
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So therefore I'm okay.
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I'm right.
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That's the heart that is impenetrable to the gospel.
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That's a dangerous ground to be on.
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That's why Jesus said, beware of the use of the Pharisees.
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Yeah, and you put real emphasis on that.
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Beware.
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Beware of it.
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'cause it's sneaky and it's subtle and it feeds our flesh and before we know
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it, it's kind of gripped our heart.
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Be really be aware of that yeast as it creeps in.
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So you can lack almost anything, but not humility because humility
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is what connects you to God.
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And humility, ultimately what connects us to one another.
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You can't have a deep abiding, deep spirited friendship between
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two prideful people can you?
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You can't, 'cause there's no vulnerability there.
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So the kind of relationship that we are creative for is only
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found in postures of humility.
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So do you see how important humility is?
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What is it?
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It's not weakness, it is not self-hatred.
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It's seeing yourself accurately before God and seeing God accurately as well.
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And that changes everything.
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So by way is giving us a means of self-evaluation to
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really assess our hearts.
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And I'm borrowing this from Tim Keller, who borrowed it from Jonathan Edwards,
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insights on humility and pride.
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So let's just have a look at this for a moment.
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Pride is drivenness a relentless need for success and validation
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is scornful a tendency to mock, ridicule or look down on others.
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Willfulness being unteachable and willing to admit wrong and rigid in beliefs.
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Self-conscious and excessive focus on oneself, whether in
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arrogance or insecurity, and that's really important to note, right?
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Pride is not just for the overtly arrogant pride is for the one who is
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constantly obsessing about themselves.
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You know, if you go home after every social interaction and just sit there
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analyzing everything you said, right?
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You have a pride problem.
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Okay.
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If you can't walk out the door of your house without obsessively
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considering what you are wearing, there is a pride problem there.
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And you might convince yourself, you know, oh, I'm not proud because I don't boast.
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No, but it's just ultimately, it's all just where your gaze
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is fixed.
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So whether
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it's arrogance or whether it's overly self-conscious and now self-awareness.
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Yeah, right.
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We need to have an awareness of ourselves that's, that's good and healthy.
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Okay?
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But that's obsessive self-consciousness.
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You've tipped in to pride, and again, I say this not to condemn, shame, guilt,
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anybody, pure recognition at the heart that you'd be able to repent, bring it
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for the Lord, and go, Lord, oh gosh, this is a bit icky, this thing in me.
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Lord, would you help me?
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Would you heal me of this?
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Would you remove this from me?
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All right, so humility.
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It is the opposite of these contentment instead of drivenness, courtesy and grace.
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Instead of s skillfulness, openness and teachability, instead of
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willfulness, self forgetfulness instead of self-consciousness.
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Why does time go so fast for me?
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That's very unkind.
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All right.
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How many pages have we got here?
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People hang in there.
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All right, so who's read the screw tape letters?
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So great.
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Okay.
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'cause this brings, so I'm just gonna read a bit
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of this, from the
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Screw Tape Letters, which is a book by CS Lewis and it
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describes, a senior
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demon screw tape
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and he's, instructing
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his nephew
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wormwood.
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And, it's so,
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so incredibly insightful.
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But this
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particular bit on, pride and
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humility, so this is Screw Tape Counseling wormwood.
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So your patient has become humble.
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Have you drawn his attention to the fact all virtues are less formidable to us
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once the man is aware that he has them.
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But this is especially true of humility.
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Catch him at the moment when he is really poor in spirit and smuggle into his
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mind the gratifying reflection by Jo.
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I'm being humble, and almost immediately pride.
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Pride at his own humility will appear.
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You must conceal from the patient.
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The true end of humility, let him think of it not as self forgetfulness, but as
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a certain kind of opinion, namely a low opinion of his own talents and character.
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By this method, thousands of humans have been brought to think that humility means.
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Pretty women trying to believe they are ugly and clever men
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trying to believe they are fools.
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And since what they are trying to believe may in some cases be manifest nonsense,
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they cannot succeed in believing it.
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And we have the chance of keeping their minds endlessly revolving on themselves
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in an effort to achieve the impossible.
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So the enemy, which in their minds is God wants him to be so free from any
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bias in his own favor, that he can rejoice in his own talents as frankly
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and gratefully as in his neighbors.
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Talents.
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He wants each man in the long run to be able to recognize all creatures, even
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himself as glorious and excellent things.
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It's really good, isn't it?
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Again, CS
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Lewis, in his, book mere
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Christianity, again on humility, he writes, do not imagine that if you
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meet a really humble man, he will be what most people call humble nowadays.
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He will not be a sort of greasy, smarmy person who is always telling you that.
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Of course, he's nobody.
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But probably all you will think about him is that.
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He seemed a cheerful, intelligent chap who took a real interest
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in what you said to him.
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If you do dislike him, it will be because you feel a little envious of anyone
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who seems to enjoy life so easily.
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He will not be thinking about humility.
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He will not be thinking about himself at all.
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So what is the way to humility?
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Because the way to humility is not to think yourself into humility.
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It's not to condemn yourself for your pride.
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That won't form humility in you.
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What does Paul do when he wants to instruct the church
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about the way to humility?
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He goes to a poem, he goes to this hymn that we read in verses six to 11.
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And why?
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So this passage from six to 11 that talks about Jesus and that
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we read at the beginning.
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So it's whether it was a poem that was written by Paul, or whether it was a
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poem that was known at the time that Paul just took and put in his letter
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to the Philippians, this Christ hymn, he uses poetry for a specific reason.
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I think because to understand humility and have it deeply formed in you, you,
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you can't really work on it directly.
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Humility has to be a byproduct of something else.
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Real humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself
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less, so you're not gonna attain it by thinking about yourself.
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I really like this description of humility.
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Humility is a shy virtue.
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As soon as you look at it, it goes away.
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It's a great way of thinking about is it's very shy as we've got, these
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friends of ours and one of their classic stories is, one of their members of their
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family when they were younger went away to Africa and a bit of a mission trip,
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and they came back and when asked how it was, how it affected them, their comment
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was, oh, I got so good at humility.
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Yeah.
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That doesn't sound quite right, does it?
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Oh dear.
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So what's
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Paul saying?
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Paul's saying that the way we are gonna fix what is most wrong with us
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in our center is you gotta see Jesus.
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You need to have the theology and the doctrine of who Jesus is and what he
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did actually on fire in your heart.
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Not all sorted in your head.
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But on fire, in your heart, you know something, you praise God for
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something that actually captures your imagination, and this is what beauty does.
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When we see Jesus as beautiful, when we see the cross as beautiful, when
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we see the gospel as beautiful, it captivates us and it forms something
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deeply precious in us that kills pride.
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We must come to see Jesus as beautiful and not just useful.
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So often that's what happens in the church and in a, even in our devotional time,
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we just come with this sense of like, show me what I need to do today, Lord.
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And it just leaves us as just like this life coast or this life
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manager, like it's your devotional time, a thing of beauty for you.
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Do you just.
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Enjoy being in his presence or has it always gotta be useful for you
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to walk away feeling like it was a good time with the Lord today?
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'cause I learn something, you know?
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Or, or are you are you just be able to sit in restful, contented joy, it
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just being in his beautiful presence.
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'cause that is what cultivates a humble heart of humility.
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If you do not find Jesus beautiful, my friends.
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I would suggest that you haven't actually truly seen him.
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You've only seen a distortion and there's plenty of distortions on display.
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It's actually takes quite a bit of work to perceive him in his beauty
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because there are so many distortions.
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Um.
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You know, look at Jesus.
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And in this poem, what does Paul describe?
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He describes this beautiful trajectory of Jesus's humility, a symphony
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in three movements, if you like.
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And so we see the incarnation, though he was God, he became human.
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We see the atonement.
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He went lower suffering death on the cross.
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And we see his exaltation because he humbled himself.
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Yeah, because he was obedient.
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God.
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Then what lifted him up, and this is a pattern that we ought to follow.
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This is the mindset that we ought to have as how we live our lives, Christ
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in us enabling us to die to ourselves, that we will trust that in our obedience.
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The Lord will lift us up and we've got this beautiful, like
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very simple image here that helps put picture to this because.
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This is what?
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This is power of poetry, right?
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Because what sits right in the middle of this poem, the central,
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central line, is death on a cross.
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The cross sits at the middle of this poem, and that is very, very, I poignant.
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So this is trajectory that the poem takes.
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Jesus was divine in his glory.
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He emptied himself kenosis.
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That's a great word, that he emptied himself of his divinity
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and he took on the nature.
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Of a servant, and he lived a life of humble obedience.
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I said this on Wednesday night, and this is really important to know, you
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we're coming out to Easter, which is all about the death and the resurrection
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of Jesus, and we celebrate Christmas, which is all about the birth of Jesus.
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And we can think Christianity is all about those two things.
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Jesus being born and Jesus dying, and Jesus rising again and ascending.
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But the life of Jesus really, really mattered too.
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And one of the reasons that it really, really mattered was he showed
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us what it's to be truly human.
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He showed us how to live a truly human life.
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And a truly human life is one livid lived in humble submission to the will of God.
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A truly human life is one live freely in loving service to those
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around you, even your enemies.
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That is what it is to be truly human.
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And so this poem takes you down to this point of death, to death
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on a cross obedience unto death.
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He wasn't obedient to death, he was obedient to the point of death.
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Humbled to the point of death.
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And then what happens?
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Because of his humility, the Lord raises him up, exalts him to that place of glory.
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And this is a pattern that we are to stand before and wonder at, but also to seek to
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live according to this pattern as well.
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Not being afraid of death, not being afraid of dying to ourself, but knowing
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that in our humble, submitted, yielding to the way and the will of God.
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That from that place that God brings true life.
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So the paradox of humility is that the way up is down the way to be rich is to give.
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The way to rule is to serve, and the way to happiness is to seek it for others.
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So we try to fill ourselves with glory, but we remain empty.
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Jesus who had true glory emptied himself.
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So that what?
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That we could be full because he gave up his reputation.
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We no longer lead to clinging to ours.
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We get so worried about our reputations, don't we?
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Jesus didn't worry about his reputation, never defended himself.
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Just let the Lord take care of that.
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That's freedom, isn't it?
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That is joy.
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That is freedom to be so free.
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You don't need to worry about your own reputation.
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You can just leave that in the Lord's hand.
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You're just free love.
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Whoever the Lord brings across your path.
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This is joy, this is freedom.
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And of course, this kind of mindset will lead to unity because you
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don't care about being right.
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You don't care about being acknowledged, being validated,
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being respected, joy for you.
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This is, this is, this is, this will be your joy in this place, and this
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will make you a joy to be around.
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Hey, it is a joy to be around, truly humble people.
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It is an absolute delight.
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If you see Jesus as beautiful as what he did for you as the most
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stunning, beautiful act of sacrificial love, that will humble you to be
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loved, genuinely, and extravagantly is a deeply humbling experience.
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It's one of the reasons why I've got this painting of Joe's here, right?
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Because this is a painting of what Jesus washing the disciples feet.
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That is humbling.
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Jesus did the most lowly task that a slave would do in a house.
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He washed his disciples dirty manky feet, and they were foul.
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Right?
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It was not a good time for feet back in ancient days.
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Okay?
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Because there's just a lot of.
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Yucky stuff on the roads that you tread and you didn't have nice covered
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shoes, and so your feet will not be covered in like dirt and poo and stuff.
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And Jesus, Jesus like washes the disciples feet.
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And we saw Pete, when you read the story, Peter's reluctance, no,
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Lord, no, because he's humbling.
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When the Son of God washes your dirty feet, grace humbles.
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You know, we can try and shame people out of their pride.
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That doesn't work.
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What delivers people of pride is grace.
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It is grace.
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At the center of this poem stands the cross before the wonder
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and the beauty of the cross.
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There is no room for pride.
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And the pride that causes one to self grand, oh, sorry, to self
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aggrandize or the bride that causes one to self-flagellate.
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The need to make oneself big, or the need to try and make one's mouth sell small.
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But to stand before the cross is to stand before grace and nothing
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will humble you like grace.
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And this is a blessing of your own pride, your selfish ambition, and
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your vain conceit if you will own it.
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Right.
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Stand before the cross, my friends with all of your stupid pride, all
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of your stupid striving, all of your stupid meanness towards others, or
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your stupid selfish ways, or your stupid bitter heart, your stupid
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neurotic self-consciousness, right?
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I'm kind of like, you know, for those of you who who've seen
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this morning, I am so prideful.
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You are.
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You know what?
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You're really blessed because you have so much crap to bring before
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the cross that God's able to pour grace on because we are sinner bound.
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Grace abounds even more.
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Hey, so stand before the cross with Oliver.
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Own every bit of your stinking pride, and watch it melt away
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at the foot of the cross as you gaze at the loving face of Jesus.
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The face of welcome, the face of acceptance.
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And then let it melt away.
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And then just delight in your identity as one who was loved by one,
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who would love you like that one.
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Who would love you to death.
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Delight in that delight that you are an image bearer, that you are a name bearer.
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Delight in that, my friends.
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All right, let's bring this home team.
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Do you wanna come on a. Church, can I just ask you to, close your eyes
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and bow your heads for a moment and,
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I just wanna take a moment of just stillness before the Lord
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and just to ask that
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question, just prayerfully
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ask that question.
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Lord, what is there of this morning that is for me?
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Well, where is pride
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robbing me of joy?
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Where is pride ruling my life?
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Or perhaps for you, it's like I don't know that I've ever
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really seen Jesus as beautiful.
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So maybe the cry of your heart in this moment is, Lord, show me your glory.
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That cry of, Moses' heart,
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show me your glory.
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Show me your beauty.
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Maybe there has been a moment of deep humbling for you this morning.
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Maybe the Lord has shown you.
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A place where you are deeply, deeply prideful, where you are
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deeply in bondage to pride, and it's made you very judge judgmental.
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It's made you very self-righteous, always looking out, criticizing other people.
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It's made your heart somewhat small and shriveled.
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Would you dear friends, stand before the foot of the cross and see the
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loving eyes of Jesus upon you.
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Would you see and you receive His grace poured out upon you.
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He doesn't condemn you.
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He just welcomes you into life.
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Into life with him.
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Allow his grace to melt away that pride.
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Allow his grace to tell you who you truly are.
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You don't need to strive for these things.
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Just receive them from him.
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You don't need to strive.
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And scramble for worth and identity.
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He freely gives it freely.
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He has given freely, he has given.
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You know, the Apostle Paul, he had to be knocked off his high horse in
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order to be able to behold the truth of who Jesus was, and it changed
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everything for him in that moment.
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And maybe that is for you today.
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Maybe you know, oh Lord, I need to be knocked off my high horse.
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Humble me Lord, that I can be free of this pride.
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That enslaves me and snares me, and robs me of living in
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beautiful, unified, humble, joyous relationship with those around me.
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Oh Lord, do this beautiful and precious work in all of us, we pray, Lord.
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Amen.
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Church, how about you stand and let us worship?