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Philippians 2:1-11

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  1. Now I just wanna reference.

  2. This beautiful artwork here, which I did not do.

  3. Just so you know, one of our young adults, Joe Frost, did this painting,

  4. and it was during a worship night we did at the Naval Store last

  5. year.

  6. And, the relevance

  7. of this painting will come to light as we go

  8. through, the message

  9. for today.

  10. All right.

  11. So we are in our series, defiant Joy, going through the book of Philippians.

  12. And so let's dive into the passage for today, which is

  13. Philippians two verses one to 11.

  14. And

  15. it is a, before we

  16. begin to read, I just wanna set the scene of this passage of scripture.

  17. It is

  18. one of the, most treasured

  19. and precious passages of scripture in all of scripture.

  20. If we did not have this passage of scripture, we

  21. would be, limited in

  22. our understanding of who Jesus is.

  23. And the divinity of Jesus.

  24. The passage that we'll read in a moment is possibly the clearest

  25. passage on the incarnation, on the truth of the incarnation, that you

  26. will find anywhere in scripture.

  27. So it's an incredibly important and incredibly

  28. precious, passage of

  29. scripture.

  30. So I'd encourage you to adopt a posture of really leaning in.

  31. Lord, what have you got for me this morning?

  32. Through your word, through this incredibly powerful and press

  33. precious passage of scripture.

  34. All right, let's read.

  35. Therefore, if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any

  36. comfort from his love, if any, common sharing in the spirit, if any tenderness

  37. and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same

  38. love being one in spirit and a one mind.

  39. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, rather, in humility,

  40. value others above yourselves.

  41. Not looking to your own interests, but each of you to the interests of others.

  42. In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus,

  43. who being in the very nature, God did not consider equality with God, something

  44. to be used to his own advantage.

  45. Rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant

  46. being made in human likeness.

  47. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming

  48. obedient to death, even death on a cross.

  49. Therefore, God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name

  50. that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus, every niche should

  51. bow in heaven and on earth, and under the earth and every tongue.

  52. Acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord to the glory of God the father.

  53. Amen.

  54. Oh, right.

  55. Before we dive in, babe, can I just ask, could you just get me some water?

  56. I'm a little bit parched up here.

  57. My tongue is sticking to the roof of my mouth.

  58. All

  59. right.

  60. So, Paul says,

  61. at the beginning of this passage, he says to them, make my joy complete.

  62. She's essentially saying, just make my day church, make my day, make my joy complete.

  63. How?

  64. By the church, in this case, the Philippian Church, knowing their

  65. foundation and their identity in Christ by the church being unified and by the

  66. church having the same mindset as Jesus.

  67. And what is that mindset?

  68. It is a mindset of true humility.

  69. So let's just break down the first part, the first few verses, verses

  70. of the passage that we just read and break it down so that we can

  71. grasp what he's actually saying here in the framework of, can we just

  72. set this next slide up, Sabrina?

  73. Thanks.

  74. All right.

  75. Identity and our foundation, but then also unity and humility.

  76. So he's saying if you have, and this is an identity and a foundation statement

  77. that he brings here, if you have any encouragement from being united

  78. with Christ, my friends, we could park there on just that truth alone.

  79. For days.

  80. Have you come this morning, did you wake up this morning?

  81. Encourage because your life, if you profess Jesus as Lord and Savior,

  82. your life is united to the life.

  83. Of Christ, like you don't have to earn it.

  84. You don't have to wake up every day securing it, behaving right?

  85. So in order so that Christ doesn't flee from you.

  86. Now Christ has bound his life to yours.

  87. That's what it is to be saved.

  88. That's what it is to be born again.

  89. It's that the life of Christ permanently united to your life.

  90. There is a lot.

  91. Of encouragement to be gained by just pondering on that truth alone.

  92. If that is true of you, my friends, what could possibly shake you if you're

  93. eternally united to the life of Christ?

  94. What in this life could truly, truly shake you if you were to truly, truly apprehend

  95. the fullness of that reality right there?

  96. I think we forget to think about that sometimes, don't we?

  97. Who we are in

  98. him that, that foundational

  99. identity, any comfort from his love?

  100. Because it is his love that binds him to us.

  101. Any common sharing in the spirit, any tenderness and compassion.

  102. What is he talking about here?

  103. Any deep, deep affection because when you understand who you are in Christ

  104. and you understand his love for you.

  105. The natural overflow.

  106. That is a posture of deep tenderness and compassion.

  107. So sharing this with the word and way people.

  108. On Wednesday night, our Bible study, the, the word for tenderness there

  109. in the Greek is actually, if you were to translate it directly, it's the

  110. word B, translate directly to bowel.

  111. So if you have any bowels and compassion, right?

  112. What?

  113. What could that possibly mean?

  114. Well, for the ancients, this place here.

  115. It was where you felt so very deeply.

  116. It's that place.

  117. And so when I

  118. say church, you know,

  119. love your guts.

  120. That's kind of tapping into that truth there.

  121. It is a, it's a gut born affection and love.

  122. It's deep.

  123. It's deep, deep in the bowels.

  124. I think something gets lost in modern translation there,

  125. but you know what I mean?

  126. And then he goes, then what?

  127. Make my joy complete by next slide there, Sabrina.

  128. By being what?

  129. By being unified.

  130. By being humble, by being like-minded, actually agreeing with one another.

  131. Oh, this does not come easy, does it?

  132. By having the same love loving one another with the love that Christ has given you.

  133. Being one in spirit and of one mind being deep spirited friends.

  134. That's beautiful, isn't it?

  135. I've borrowed that language from Eugene Peterson in the message paraphrase.

  136. Be deep seated friends.

  137. That just sounds like a really good time, doesn't it?

  138. Just to be in the company of deep seated friends.

  139. Is there any greater blessing in the world?

  140. Ugh, humble.

  141. Doing nothing outta selfish ambition or VA conceit.

  142. Valuing others above yourself, not looking to your own interests,

  143. but to the interests of others.

  144. And so off the bat, the conclusions that we can draw from this right

  145. from the beginning is this joy is found in knowing your foundation

  146. and your identity in Christ.

  147. Joy is found in being a unifying member of a unified community.

  148. So it's not just found in being in a unified community.

  149. It's actually contributing to the unity of that community by being a unifying

  150. member of a unified community, joy, that is a joyful, joyful place to be.

  151. And joy is found in a life of humility, which enables you to be a person of unity.

  152. There is no unity apart from humility.

  153. You can't have.

  154. Unity without humility.

  155. We try to do that, and that's called uniformity.

  156. That's when we all just convince ourself we're unified because we look the same.

  157. We sound the same, we wear the same.

  158. We think the same.

  159. We support the same politicians and sports teams, and we all

  160. listen to the same music.

  161. That's not unity.

  162. Okay?

  163. It's diversity that prove proves unity, and it's only

  164. possible through deep humility.

  165. All right.

  166. So there is a deep joy in unity, which comes when we know and we live

  167. out of a Christ founded identity with a humble Christ-like mindset.

  168. So that is my encouragement for us all this morning, that we would lean into

  169. that, that we would desire to know the joy that comes with living in this way.

  170. We would desire to know the joy that comes from living out of a Christ.

  171. Found that identity with a humble Christ-like mindset.

  172. And so this is what Paul is saying.

  173. He wants this for this church, and that will bring him the greatest joy.

  174. And I don't think it's a stretch to understand why.

  175. I mean, for, for those of you who are parents, you know the joy of seeing your

  176. children getting along and being unified, loving one another, serving one another,

  177. championing one another, that brings joy to a parent's heart, doesn't it?

  178. And for Paul, he sees these churches like his children, and for God, well, we are

  179. his children, so you wanna bless the Lord.

  180. Love the people around you.

  181. Be deep spirited friends with those around you.

  182. Don't put a smile on the Lord's face.

  183. You know, it doesn't put a smile on the Lord's face when you just bitch and

  184. complain about all the people around you.

  185. And just when God, them, them, them theming.

  186. I know that God really enjoys that.

  187. Who really enjoys that.

  188. At the end of the day, nobody enjoys watching their children fight and

  189. disagree, but that place of unity birthed in humility is precious and beautiful and

  190. just, just a source of deep, deep joy.

  191. So why does unity matter?

  192. Other than being a source of joy, why would the Philippian Church being

  193. unified matter so very much to Paul?

  194. 'cause remember the first chapter of Philippians, we got this real

  195. sense of what really matters to Paul and what really matters to Paul

  196. is the advancement of the gospel.

  197. And why does that matter to Paul?

  198. Because in Paul's mind, when the gospel advances, the kingdom comes

  199. and the darkness is pushed back and light comes and evil is overcome

  200. by good when the gospel advances.

  201. So it matters greatly to Paul that the gospel advances.

  202. And the gospel advances best through a unified church, doesn't it?

  203. And so unity matters.

  204. Unity matters to Paul, and it should matter to us here

  205. because it's the will of God.

  206. Again, the words of Paul here as found in Ephesians that God made

  207. known to us the mystery of his will according to his good pleasure.

  208. And what is this will to bring unity to all things in heaven and on earth.

  209. The whole point of this all is unity.

  210. It's reconciliation.

  211. It's bringing everything back into a harmonious state of shalom and oneness.

  212. Next.

  213. Because our unity tells the world about the love of Gods Jesus.

  214. As he's praying before he goes to the cross in John's gospel here,

  215. my prayer is not for them alone.

  216. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message that all

  217. of them what may be one unified father, just as you are in me and I am in you,

  218. this deep relational unity, then what?

  219. Then the world will know that you sent me and have loved them.

  220. Even as you have loved me, our greatest witness is not in how loudly we scream

  221. the gospel in people's faces and not how loudly we tell the wrong how the

  222. world, how wrong and immoral it is.

  223. But as we love one another, as we dwell in unity, it's a, it's a beacon to a

  224. broken disintegrating world around us.

  225. That beacon of love.

  226. Yeah, Adam's, as I was going through my message with Adam

  227. yesterday reminded me there's

  228. this saying, division

  229. in the church breeds atheism in the world.

  230. Oh, it's a challenging statement, isn't it?

  231. I think there's a lot of truth to it, because when the church is divided, our

  232. lives are telling a lie about the goodness of the gospel when the church is divided.

  233. Our lies don't bear a true witness to the truth of the gospel and the truth

  234. of who God is and how he sees the world and how he wants to relate to the world.

  235. All right, next.

  236. Unity matters because it is there that we know the presence of God.

  237. Psalm 133, how good and pleasant it is when God's people live together in unity.

  238. It is like precious oil pulled on the head, running down the beard, running

  239. down Aaron's beard, down the collary robe.

  240. It's as if the Jew of Herman were falling on Mount Zion for there, the Lord bestows

  241. his blessing, even life forevermore.

  242. And so that picture of oil, it sounds kind of gross, doesn't it?

  243. As you just read it, like can take it and it's plain kind of, you know,

  244. describing there, you're just like, oh, Gracie, and did they have shampoo?

  245. Then?

  246. How did he get all that oil out of his beard?

  247. But what did oil represent?

  248. In the Old Testament, it represented the spirit, represented the very presence

  249. of God and and so it's

  250. saying that's what unity is.

  251. Unity to be unified in the name of Jesus is to know the very presence of God.

  252. There will be life, there will be life next because it's the very ministry

  253. that we have been called to all this is from God writes Paul in Second

  254. Corinthians, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and then gives us what.

  255. The Ministry of Reconciliation.

  256. You know, there's this interesting reality, right?

  257. Every single person on this planet is an image bearer is

  258. made in the image of God, right?

  259. Not just the Christians.

  260. Every single person human being is created in the image of God.

  261. So every person is an image bearer, but not every person is a name bearer.

  262. And for those who bear the name of Jesus, this is your ministry.

  263. It is a ministry of reconciliation.

  264. That's what you had to wear every day when you walk out the door, to just be

  265. that place where heaven and earth collide.

  266. Where God's will is done on earth that is, is in heaven and the kingdom comes.

  267. And that's not so much just running around preaching the gospel at people,

  268. but it's carrying the presence of God wherever your foot treads and

  269. bearing witness in whatever way is authentic to how God has created.

  270. You.

  271. All right.

  272. So why does Unity matter?

  273. There we go.

  274. And with this in mind, as we, as we consider all this, I wonder sometimes

  275. if we're not just a little bit casual about unity, a bit quick and a bit

  276. willing to divide over differences that ultimately just do not matter

  277. content, or at least happy to feel justified in our reluctance to forgive

  278. our brothers and sisters in Christ.

  279. A little bit justified carrying bitterness and resentment.

  280. But 'cause we truly understood the preciousness of unity, would we really

  281. waste our time with things that divide?

  282. I think if we're honest, there is something in the human heart that inclines

  283. us to division that client inclines us to fight with one another, to be against

  284. one another rather than for one another.

  285. We acknowledge the good of it, right?

  286. But there is something in our heart that often pulls us in this

  287. direction of division, of conflict, of disagreement, of fighting.

  288. And you know, not always outwardly, because you know, we're very good at

  289. sanctifying our behavior, aren't we?

  290. Church, we're very good at looking like nice Christians on the outside

  291. and then what's going on in the heart, and this is what this is all about.

  292. It's not about the outward behavior.

  293. Yeah, it's like the positive posture of your heart.

  294. Are you for.

  295. The people here.

  296. Are you here because God called you here and you know he called

  297. you here so that you could be four.

  298. This church family.

  299. But then beyond that, are you for the church down the road, or are

  300. you just worried about all the things that they do different to us

  301. and how we do it better than them?

  302. You know, I know nobody would think that, would they?

  303. You know?

  304. No.

  305. I've been greatly challenged through this.

  306. You know, when Paul said in back in chapter one, where he talks about, you

  307. know, what does it matter what people's motives are in preaching the gospel?

  308. Whether a false mood is or true, all that matters is the gospel is

  309. preached and you know, and that as a teacher, right, as one who is,

  310. can be very black and white, right?

  311. And likes things to be right.

  312. You know, I can get my little knickers all in all sorts of wedges

  313. about, oh, is this being done right?

  314. Oh, oh, oh.

  315. And it's not a unifying heart posture.

  316. Now, do we accept false teaching distortions of the gospel?

  317. No, we don't, but it What is the posture of our heart towards our

  318. brothers and sisters in Christ?

  319. Is it one of humility and unity?

  320. So if you just take a look at these few verses, what you're gonna see is

  321. Paul describes the heart that fights, and then he describes the kind of

  322. heart that doesn't fight, but that makes peace and that brings joy.

  323. And then he shows us how to get that kind of heart that makes peace.

  324. So what kills unity?

  325. He talks about it here.

  326. Selfish ambition and vain conceit.

  327. And so what is, oh, the water.

  328. I forgot to drink it.

  329. Ugh.

  330. Ah.

  331. So much better.

  332. Alright.

  333. Oh, don't tip over.

  334. Okay, what kills unity?

  335. Selfish ambition and Bain

  336. Conceit.

  337. So let's

  338. have a look here.

  339. Selfish ambition is having a spirit of divisiveness, a

  340. desire to put oneself forward.

  341. It's a desire to be first, a desire to be recognized, to

  342. be seen, to be acknowledged.

  343. And what I would advise as we come before this is to resist the temptation to start

  344. to think of all those other people who operate like this and just graciously

  345. hold the mirror up to your own self.

  346. Don't worry about the others, let the Lord worry about them.

  347. You just hold it up to your own good self and see if there is anything

  348. here that resonates for you.

  349. All right.

  350. Vain conceit or vain glory, as it says in the King James.

  351. And what does this mean?

  352. It means to be glory empty.

  353. So the Greek word there is keno.

  354. Docea.

  355. So keno means empty, which I thought was really funny.

  356. 'cause who knows what keno is like as a gambling thing.

  357. Yeah, yeah.

  358. It's gonna empty

  359. your wallet.

  360. So funny.

  361. They would call it

  362. that.

  363. Yeah.

  364. And then

  365. docia means glory, so it actually means.

  366. To be somebody who is glory empty, and if you are empty of that, what does it do?

  367. It makes you hungry.

  368. It makes you hungry for honor.

  369. For respect to be seen, to be acknowledged, to be

  370. valued, to be appreciated.

  371. It's kind of this anxiety as chin Keller put it, a ra, a radical

  372. cosmic insecurity and anxiousness for assurance around your identity.

  373. But it's this, it's kind of this GNA deep seated conviction in you that you

  374. don't count and that you don't matter.

  375. So therefore you need to spend your days proving that you do and gaining

  376. that approval from other people.

  377. So you need to be seen and you need to be acknowledged.

  378. And again, we can immediately in our minds go to a caricature of this, of some

  379. very obvious, arrogant, prideful person.

  380. Don't do that.

  381. Okay?

  382. Allow the spirit to bring conviction to your own heart and

  383. go, where is this in me, Lord?

  384. Where might I be able to invite your spirit that I could be set

  385. free of any kind of selfish ambition or vain conceit that would rob

  386. your church of a joy filled unity?

  387. Because remember, it's not just about you.

  388. Is it, this is what we forget, right?

  389. We can so easily come to church and we can hear these messages and we can receive

  390. them in the sense of, of like self-help.

  391. So how do I just become a better person so that I can look in the mirror and

  392. just be more at peace with who I am?

  393. But no, no, no.

  394. It's like how, how do I take the beautiful truth of God, bring it to bear in my

  395. own brokenness for the good of others?

  396. It's, yes, it's for your own good, but.

  397. Ultimately it's for the good of the people that God has

  398. called you to love and to serve.

  399. Okay, so why are we this way?

  400. Why are we can, can we be people of selfish ambition

  401. and people of vain conceit?

  402. And I think it is because we're made to live forever in God's presence.

  403. But when we turn away from the presence of God, we, we miss out

  404. on receiving what we need most.

  405. We miss out of being in the presence of his glory that fills us in a beautiful

  406. way that doesn't distort us or deform us.

  407. John 17 three says, this is eternal life that they know you God.

  408. So outside of knowing God and deep relational, knowing not.

  409. Had knowledge about God, but relational knowing of God, there is only death.

  410. This is what the implications of these words of Jesus is, and so

  411. we are made to never be forgotten.

  412. We were made.

  413. We weren't made to be unseen or unknown.

  414. We were made to know God.

  415. We were made to be known by God.

  416. We're also made to be deeply known by one another as well.

  417. But this relationship.

  418. Our relational world is all broken.

  419. It's broken by sin, and so we feel broken.

  420. We feel incomplete, missing, and restless and anxious.

  421. So we desperately look to everyone around us that we possibly can to get them to

  422. say, you are good and you're special.

  423. You're important.

  424. You're worthwhile.

  425. You're significant.

  426. Welcome to the unholy fuel for social media.

  427. Hey you.

  428. But there's a great quote from Madonna that just describes this so beautifully.

  429. She says this, my drive in life comes from a fear of being mediocre.

  430. That is always pushing me.

  431. I push past one spell of it and discover myself as a special human being, but

  432. then I feel I am still mediocre and uninteresting unless I do something else.

  433. Because even though I have become somebody, I still have

  434. to prove that I am somebody.

  435. My struggle has never ended, and I guess it never will.

  436. Oh, what a horrible way to live.

  437. There's no freedom there.

  438. There's no joy.

  439. It's, oh, just this hamster wheel of having to prove yourself.

  440. You know, our culture's response to this reality is well

  441. just go believe in yourself.

  442. All that matters is what you think of.

  443. You just love yourself.

  444. Oh, that's such helpful advice.

  445. It's really not.

  446. It doesn't work.

  447. We are deeply relational beings.

  448. We're actually meant to get our identity and worth from beyond ourselves, but

  449. not ultimately from other people, because that does not work either.

  450. When we do this, we end up using other people as a means of

  451. validation, and then what happens?

  452. We end up resenting them when they don't deliver.

  453. Happens in church all the time, you know, people come and then they like, you

  454. know, and as, as, as leaders, we can be

  455. particularly, I guess susceptible

  456. to this and all this expectations that these people are gonna meet all

  457. my needs and all my self validation needs, and then we don't perform

  458. and then people get really upset.

  459. And we've all been, you know, probably on both sides of the coin here.

  460. And that's the journey of maturity as well.

  461. So what I say here today, remember no guilt, shame, or condemnation.

  462. The conviction comes, oh, hallelujah.

  463. Praise the

  464. Lord.

  465. Right?

  466. This is not

  467. about guilting or shaming anyone because we're all on a journey of

  468. maturity in this space of coming to fully understand our identity in Christ

  469. and how God sees us and who we are.

  470. You know, and so, but when we don't have that assurance, we end up competing

  471. and we compare, you know, so I'm okay so long as I'm better in some way.

  472. Then, you know, that person or those people, again, welcome to the unholy fuel

  473. for social media, the basis of comparison.

  474. Just getting that sense of, oh, right, I'm okay because I'm better

  475. than them Happens in church all the time, you know, oh yeah, I might do

  476. this, but at least I don't do that.

  477. So, oh dear.

  478. So we use people to bolster our shaky ego, and every time you meet a new person,

  479. you can be unconsciously wondering, how can this person contribute to my

  480. need to prove that I count and that I matter, and then life, or life therefore,

  481. becomes a constant battle to use people.

  482. So this is the sickness pride, which is a hunger for glory and

  483. need for respect and need to be ultimately assured that we are o.

  484. K, but so then what builds unity?

  485. If that's what Tears it down.

  486. Destroys it.

  487. What builds it?

  488. Well, humility.

  489. So Philippians one, five.

  490. Paul gives this instruction to the church when he says,

  491. oh, we got it there, Sabrina.

  492. Nope.

  493. Philippians one verse five.

  494. Ah, yeah, there we go.

  495. In your relate oh two, sorry about that.

  496. For the confusion in your relationships with one another, have

  497. the same mindset as Christ Jesus.

  498. This is the instruction he gives to the church as to how to cultivate humility.

  499. And your relationships with one have the same mindset as Christ Jesus.

  500. So what's a mindset?

  501. A set of beliefs that shape how you make sense of the world and yourself

  502. influencing how you think, feel, and behave in any given situation.

  503. Often our mindset isn't something we think about.

  504. But it's something that's good to think about.

  505. When you know you this week, as you go through this week, watch how

  506. you respond and react to different situations through your day.

  507. And they'll tell you what your mindset is.

  508. You know, the attitude with which you wake up in the morning will

  509. tell you what your mindset is.

  510. The attitude with which you go to bed at night will tell you so much about your

  511. mindset.

  512. You know,

  513. the way I drive tells me a lot about my mindset and it's.

  514. Because, I don't have

  515. a lot of tolerance.

  516. It turns out my pride, I think, gets

  517. manifested, quite greatly

  518. on the road.

  519. And this assumption that I am vastly superior to whoever the other, the

  520. driver.

  521. And, I have no

  522. tolerance for anybody who doesn't drive like me.

  523. And I verbalize it to no one in particular 'cause I'm using the car by myself.

  524. But, um.

  525. It, it reveals a lot about my mindset.

  526. It's going, okay, if I genuinely was a humble driver, would I be.

  527. Losing my mind 'cause this person is driving so very slow.

  528. Or the, or people's inability to navigate roundabouts, like,

  529. you know, but this self, right?

  530. But it's this, but I have this belief and it's like, well, driving brings it out.

  531. And so chances are this mindset is manifesting in other places other than

  532. just the traffic, if I'm gonna be honest.

  533. Right.

  534. So.

  535. Yay.

  536. Bring on traffic.

  537. Bring on the revealing of my unhealthy mindset that I can bring it before the

  538. Lord and have it redeemed.

  539. So having the same mindset as Jesus.

  540. So let's first take a look at the word humility.

  541. What is it?

  542. The Greek word used in the New Testament means?

  543. Gentle, modest, deferential.

  544. But the outside the Bible, in ancient Greek literature, this

  545. word was always used negatively.

  546. This is so interesting.

  547. So in Greco Roman culture, so the culture in which this letter

  548. was originally written to be deferential and gentle and modest was

  549. considered the attitude of a slave.

  550. And so their culture valued strength.

  551. They believed social stability depended on fear.

  552. Respect was built on fear.

  553. If people feared you, then they respected you.

  554. Humility that was for slaves, and yet Christianity changed

  555. everything in the Bible.

  556. This word or variations of it appeared 270 times almost always

  557. positively, and that is nothing short of a worldview revolution.

  558. And if you go back to Greek philosophy, philosophy to Aristotle, to Plato, you

  559. will not find humility listed as a virtue.

  560. But in the Bible, humility is central.

  561. Consider Jesus's words when he says it is the meek.

  562. It is the humble who will inherit the earth.

  563. And he says, what?

  564. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me.

  565. For I am meek, I am humble.

  566. I am gentle and lowly in heart.

  567. And what is he saying?

  568. Well, if you think about the gospel, right, what it is.

  569. If you come to God and say, Lord, look at my accomplishments.

  570. Look at what I have done.

  571. Am I not wonderful?

  572. You must therefore receive me.

  573. God's gonna say, you don't know me.

  574. You don't know yourself clearly, and you do not understand the cross.

  575. But if you come saying, Lord, I repent.

  576. I need your grace.

  577. I have nothing to merit your favor, but I ask that you save me.

  578. Accept me for Christ's sake.

  579. That's repentance and that's faith, and that is humility.

  580. So do you see how essential it is in the kingdom?

  581. The only thing that can destroy you eternally actually is a lack of humility.

  582. Think about the Pharisees.

  583. They were the only ones Jesus had problems with.

  584. He didn't have a problem with the prostitutes.

  585. You have a problem with the tax collects you happily hung, hung out with them.

  586. The Pharisees, he couldn't get through to them.

  587. Why?

  588. The pride that sat in their heart that they were right.

  589. Pride, pride, pride.

  590. You.

  591. So ultimately, Jason doesn't, they have a problem with, you know, these

  592. sins that we get all wigged out about and judging one another about, right?

  593. Ooh, they swore, Ooh, Jesus must be out there sticking his fingers in his ears.

  594. No, the, I'm not endorsing swearing.

  595. All right.

  596. But.

  597. It's the, it's the self-righteous heart.

  598. The one that says, oh, I've got it all.

  599. I'm right.

  600. Or at least I'm more right than them.

  601. So therefore I'm okay.

  602. I'm right.

  603. That's the heart that is impenetrable to the gospel.

  604. That's a dangerous ground to be on.

  605. That's why Jesus said, beware of the use of the Pharisees.

  606. Yeah, and you put real emphasis on that.

  607. Beware.

  608. Beware of it.

  609. 'cause it's sneaky and it's subtle and it feeds our flesh and before we know

  610. it, it's kind of gripped our heart.

  611. Be really be aware of that yeast as it creeps in.

  612. So you can lack almost anything, but not humility because humility

  613. is what connects you to God.

  614. And humility, ultimately what connects us to one another.

  615. You can't have a deep abiding, deep spirited friendship between

  616. two prideful people can you?

  617. You can't, 'cause there's no vulnerability there.

  618. So the kind of relationship that we are creative for is only

  619. found in postures of humility.

  620. So do you see how important humility is?

  621. What is it?

  622. It's not weakness, it is not self-hatred.

  623. It's seeing yourself accurately before God and seeing God accurately as well.

  624. And that changes everything.

  625. So by way is giving us a means of self-evaluation to

  626. really assess our hearts.

  627. And I'm borrowing this from Tim Keller, who borrowed it from Jonathan Edwards,

  628. insights on humility and pride.

  629. So let's just have a look at this for a moment.

  630. Pride is drivenness a relentless need for success and validation

  631. is scornful a tendency to mock, ridicule or look down on others.

  632. Willfulness being unteachable and willing to admit wrong and rigid in beliefs.

  633. Self-conscious and excessive focus on oneself, whether in

  634. arrogance or insecurity, and that's really important to note, right?

  635. Pride is not just for the overtly arrogant pride is for the one who is

  636. constantly obsessing about themselves.

  637. You know, if you go home after every social interaction and just sit there

  638. analyzing everything you said, right?

  639. You have a pride problem.

  640. Okay.

  641. If you can't walk out the door of your house without obsessively

  642. considering what you are wearing, there is a pride problem there.

  643. And you might convince yourself, you know, oh, I'm not proud because I don't boast.

  644. No, but it's just ultimately, it's all just where your gaze

  645. is fixed.

  646. So whether

  647. it's arrogance or whether it's overly self-conscious and now self-awareness.

  648. Yeah, right.

  649. We need to have an awareness of ourselves that's, that's good and healthy.

  650. Okay?

  651. But that's obsessive self-consciousness.

  652. You've tipped in to pride, and again, I say this not to condemn, shame, guilt,

  653. anybody, pure recognition at the heart that you'd be able to repent, bring it

  654. for the Lord, and go, Lord, oh gosh, this is a bit icky, this thing in me.

  655. Lord, would you help me?

  656. Would you heal me of this?

  657. Would you remove this from me?

  658. All right, so humility.

  659. It is the opposite of these contentment instead of drivenness, courtesy and grace.

  660. Instead of s skillfulness, openness and teachability, instead of

  661. willfulness, self forgetfulness instead of self-consciousness.

  662. Why does time go so fast for me?

  663. That's very unkind.

  664. All right.

  665. How many pages have we got here?

  666. People hang in there.

  667. All right, so who's read the screw tape letters?

  668. So great.

  669. Okay.

  670. 'cause this brings, so I'm just gonna read a bit

  671. of this, from the

  672. Screw Tape Letters, which is a book by CS Lewis and it

  673. describes, a senior

  674. demon screw tape

  675. and he's, instructing

  676. his nephew

  677. wormwood.

  678. And, it's so,

  679. so incredibly insightful.

  680. But this

  681. particular bit on, pride and

  682. humility, so this is Screw Tape Counseling wormwood.

  683. So your patient has become humble.

  684. Have you drawn his attention to the fact all virtues are less formidable to us

  685. once the man is aware that he has them.

  686. But this is especially true of humility.

  687. Catch him at the moment when he is really poor in spirit and smuggle into his

  688. mind the gratifying reflection by Jo.

  689. I'm being humble, and almost immediately pride.

  690. Pride at his own humility will appear.

  691. You must conceal from the patient.

  692. The true end of humility, let him think of it not as self forgetfulness, but as

  693. a certain kind of opinion, namely a low opinion of his own talents and character.

  694. By this method, thousands of humans have been brought to think that humility means.

  695. Pretty women trying to believe they are ugly and clever men

  696. trying to believe they are fools.

  697. And since what they are trying to believe may in some cases be manifest nonsense,

  698. they cannot succeed in believing it.

  699. And we have the chance of keeping their minds endlessly revolving on themselves

  700. in an effort to achieve the impossible.

  701. So the enemy, which in their minds is God wants him to be so free from any

  702. bias in his own favor, that he can rejoice in his own talents as frankly

  703. and gratefully as in his neighbors.

  704. Talents.

  705. He wants each man in the long run to be able to recognize all creatures, even

  706. himself as glorious and excellent things.

  707. It's really good, isn't it?

  708. Again, CS

  709. Lewis, in his, book mere

  710. Christianity, again on humility, he writes, do not imagine that if you

  711. meet a really humble man, he will be what most people call humble nowadays.

  712. He will not be a sort of greasy, smarmy person who is always telling you that.

  713. Of course, he's nobody.

  714. But probably all you will think about him is that.

  715. He seemed a cheerful, intelligent chap who took a real interest

  716. in what you said to him.

  717. If you do dislike him, it will be because you feel a little envious of anyone

  718. who seems to enjoy life so easily.

  719. He will not be thinking about humility.

  720. He will not be thinking about himself at all.

  721. So what is the way to humility?

  722. Because the way to humility is not to think yourself into humility.

  723. It's not to condemn yourself for your pride.

  724. That won't form humility in you.

  725. What does Paul do when he wants to instruct the church

  726. about the way to humility?

  727. He goes to a poem, he goes to this hymn that we read in verses six to 11.

  728. And why?

  729. So this passage from six to 11 that talks about Jesus and that

  730. we read at the beginning.

  731. So it's whether it was a poem that was written by Paul, or whether it was a

  732. poem that was known at the time that Paul just took and put in his letter

  733. to the Philippians, this Christ hymn, he uses poetry for a specific reason.

  734. I think because to understand humility and have it deeply formed in you, you,

  735. you can't really work on it directly.

  736. Humility has to be a byproduct of something else.

  737. Real humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself

  738. less, so you're not gonna attain it by thinking about yourself.

  739. I really like this description of humility.

  740. Humility is a shy virtue.

  741. As soon as you look at it, it goes away.

  742. It's a great way of thinking about is it's very shy as we've got, these

  743. friends of ours and one of their classic stories is, one of their members of their

  744. family when they were younger went away to Africa and a bit of a mission trip,

  745. and they came back and when asked how it was, how it affected them, their comment

  746. was, oh, I got so good at humility.

  747. Yeah.

  748. That doesn't sound quite right, does it?

  749. Oh dear.

  750. So what's

  751. Paul saying?

  752. Paul's saying that the way we are gonna fix what is most wrong with us

  753. in our center is you gotta see Jesus.

  754. You need to have the theology and the doctrine of who Jesus is and what he

  755. did actually on fire in your heart.

  756. Not all sorted in your head.

  757. But on fire, in your heart, you know something, you praise God for

  758. something that actually captures your imagination, and this is what beauty does.

  759. When we see Jesus as beautiful, when we see the cross as beautiful, when

  760. we see the gospel as beautiful, it captivates us and it forms something

  761. deeply precious in us that kills pride.

  762. We must come to see Jesus as beautiful and not just useful.

  763. So often that's what happens in the church and in a, even in our devotional time,

  764. we just come with this sense of like, show me what I need to do today, Lord.

  765. And it just leaves us as just like this life coast or this life

  766. manager, like it's your devotional time, a thing of beauty for you.

  767. Do you just.

  768. Enjoy being in his presence or has it always gotta be useful for you

  769. to walk away feeling like it was a good time with the Lord today?

  770. 'cause I learn something, you know?

  771. Or, or are you are you just be able to sit in restful, contented joy, it

  772. just being in his beautiful presence.

  773. 'cause that is what cultivates a humble heart of humility.

  774. If you do not find Jesus beautiful, my friends.

  775. I would suggest that you haven't actually truly seen him.

  776. You've only seen a distortion and there's plenty of distortions on display.

  777. It's actually takes quite a bit of work to perceive him in his beauty

  778. because there are so many distortions.

  779. Um.

  780. You know, look at Jesus.

  781. And in this poem, what does Paul describe?

  782. He describes this beautiful trajectory of Jesus's humility, a symphony

  783. in three movements, if you like.

  784. And so we see the incarnation, though he was God, he became human.

  785. We see the atonement.

  786. He went lower suffering death on the cross.

  787. And we see his exaltation because he humbled himself.

  788. Yeah, because he was obedient.

  789. God.

  790. Then what lifted him up, and this is a pattern that we ought to follow.

  791. This is the mindset that we ought to have as how we live our lives, Christ

  792. in us enabling us to die to ourselves, that we will trust that in our obedience.

  793. The Lord will lift us up and we've got this beautiful, like

  794. very simple image here that helps put picture to this because.

  795. This is what?

  796. This is power of poetry, right?

  797. Because what sits right in the middle of this poem, the central,

  798. central line, is death on a cross.

  799. The cross sits at the middle of this poem, and that is very, very, I poignant.

  800. So this is trajectory that the poem takes.

  801. Jesus was divine in his glory.

  802. He emptied himself kenosis.

  803. That's a great word, that he emptied himself of his divinity

  804. and he took on the nature.

  805. Of a servant, and he lived a life of humble obedience.

  806. I said this on Wednesday night, and this is really important to know, you

  807. we're coming out to Easter, which is all about the death and the resurrection

  808. of Jesus, and we celebrate Christmas, which is all about the birth of Jesus.

  809. And we can think Christianity is all about those two things.

  810. Jesus being born and Jesus dying, and Jesus rising again and ascending.

  811. But the life of Jesus really, really mattered too.

  812. And one of the reasons that it really, really mattered was he showed

  813. us what it's to be truly human.

  814. He showed us how to live a truly human life.

  815. And a truly human life is one livid lived in humble submission to the will of God.

  816. A truly human life is one live freely in loving service to those

  817. around you, even your enemies.

  818. That is what it is to be truly human.

  819. And so this poem takes you down to this point of death, to death

  820. on a cross obedience unto death.

  821. He wasn't obedient to death, he was obedient to the point of death.

  822. Humbled to the point of death.

  823. And then what happens?

  824. Because of his humility, the Lord raises him up, exalts him to that place of glory.

  825. And this is a pattern that we are to stand before and wonder at, but also to seek to

  826. live according to this pattern as well.

  827. Not being afraid of death, not being afraid of dying to ourself, but knowing

  828. that in our humble, submitted, yielding to the way and the will of God.

  829. That from that place that God brings true life.

  830. So the paradox of humility is that the way up is down the way to be rich is to give.

  831. The way to rule is to serve, and the way to happiness is to seek it for others.

  832. So we try to fill ourselves with glory, but we remain empty.

  833. Jesus who had true glory emptied himself.

  834. So that what?

  835. That we could be full because he gave up his reputation.

  836. We no longer lead to clinging to ours.

  837. We get so worried about our reputations, don't we?

  838. Jesus didn't worry about his reputation, never defended himself.

  839. Just let the Lord take care of that.

  840. That's freedom, isn't it?

  841. That is joy.

  842. That is freedom to be so free.

  843. You don't need to worry about your own reputation.

  844. You can just leave that in the Lord's hand.

  845. You're just free love.

  846. Whoever the Lord brings across your path.

  847. This is joy, this is freedom.

  848. And of course, this kind of mindset will lead to unity because you

  849. don't care about being right.

  850. You don't care about being acknowledged, being validated,

  851. being respected, joy for you.

  852. This is, this is, this is, this will be your joy in this place, and this

  853. will make you a joy to be around.

  854. Hey, it is a joy to be around, truly humble people.

  855. It is an absolute delight.

  856. If you see Jesus as beautiful as what he did for you as the most

  857. stunning, beautiful act of sacrificial love, that will humble you to be

  858. loved, genuinely, and extravagantly is a deeply humbling experience.

  859. It's one of the reasons why I've got this painting of Joe's here, right?

  860. Because this is a painting of what Jesus washing the disciples feet.

  861. That is humbling.

  862. Jesus did the most lowly task that a slave would do in a house.

  863. He washed his disciples dirty manky feet, and they were foul.

  864. Right?

  865. It was not a good time for feet back in ancient days.

  866. Okay?

  867. Because there's just a lot of.

  868. Yucky stuff on the roads that you tread and you didn't have nice covered

  869. shoes, and so your feet will not be covered in like dirt and poo and stuff.

  870. And Jesus, Jesus like washes the disciples feet.

  871. And we saw Pete, when you read the story, Peter's reluctance, no,

  872. Lord, no, because he's humbling.

  873. When the Son of God washes your dirty feet, grace humbles.

  874. You know, we can try and shame people out of their pride.

  875. That doesn't work.

  876. What delivers people of pride is grace.

  877. It is grace.

  878. At the center of this poem stands the cross before the wonder

  879. and the beauty of the cross.

  880. There is no room for pride.

  881. And the pride that causes one to self grand, oh, sorry, to self

  882. aggrandize or the bride that causes one to self-flagellate.

  883. The need to make oneself big, or the need to try and make one's mouth sell small.

  884. But to stand before the cross is to stand before grace and nothing

  885. will humble you like grace.

  886. And this is a blessing of your own pride, your selfish ambition, and

  887. your vain conceit if you will own it.

  888. Right.

  889. Stand before the cross, my friends with all of your stupid pride, all

  890. of your stupid striving, all of your stupid meanness towards others, or

  891. your stupid selfish ways, or your stupid bitter heart, your stupid

  892. neurotic self-consciousness, right?

  893. I'm kind of like, you know, for those of you who who've seen

  894. this morning, I am so prideful.

  895. You are.

  896. You know what?

  897. You're really blessed because you have so much crap to bring before

  898. the cross that God's able to pour grace on because we are sinner bound.

  899. Grace abounds even more.

  900. Hey, so stand before the cross with Oliver.

  901. Own every bit of your stinking pride, and watch it melt away

  902. at the foot of the cross as you gaze at the loving face of Jesus.

  903. The face of welcome, the face of acceptance.

  904. And then let it melt away.

  905. And then just delight in your identity as one who was loved by one,

  906. who would love you like that one.

  907. Who would love you to death.

  908. Delight in that delight that you are an image bearer, that you are a name bearer.

  909. Delight in that, my friends.

  910. All right, let's bring this home team.

  911. Do you wanna come on a. Church, can I just ask you to, close your eyes

  912. and bow your heads for a moment and,

  913. I just wanna take a moment of just stillness before the Lord

  914. and just to ask that

  915. question, just prayerfully

  916. ask that question.

  917. Lord, what is there of this morning that is for me?

  918. Well, where is pride

  919. robbing me of joy?

  920. Where is pride ruling my life?

  921. Or perhaps for you, it's like I don't know that I've ever

  922. really seen Jesus as beautiful.

  923. So maybe the cry of your heart in this moment is, Lord, show me your glory.

  924. That cry of, Moses' heart,

  925. show me your glory.

  926. Show me your beauty.

  927. Maybe there has been a moment of deep humbling for you this morning.

  928. Maybe the Lord has shown you.

  929. A place where you are deeply, deeply prideful, where you are

  930. deeply in bondage to pride, and it's made you very judge judgmental.

  931. It's made you very self-righteous, always looking out, criticizing other people.

  932. It's made your heart somewhat small and shriveled.

  933. Would you dear friends, stand before the foot of the cross and see the

  934. loving eyes of Jesus upon you.

  935. Would you see and you receive His grace poured out upon you.

  936. He doesn't condemn you.

  937. He just welcomes you into life.

  938. Into life with him.

  939. Allow his grace to melt away that pride.

  940. Allow his grace to tell you who you truly are.

  941. You don't need to strive for these things.

  942. Just receive them from him.

  943. You don't need to strive.

  944. And scramble for worth and identity.

  945. He freely gives it freely.

  946. He has given freely, he has given.

  947. You know, the Apostle Paul, he had to be knocked off his high horse in

  948. order to be able to behold the truth of who Jesus was, and it changed

  949. everything for him in that moment.

  950. And maybe that is for you today.

  951. Maybe you know, oh Lord, I need to be knocked off my high horse.

  952. Humble me Lord, that I can be free of this pride.

  953. That enslaves me and snares me, and robs me of living in

  954. beautiful, unified, humble, joyous relationship with those around me.

  955. Oh Lord, do this beautiful and precious work in all of us, we pray, Lord.

  956. Amen.

  957. Church, how about you stand and let us worship?