Sermon
Living From Belovedness
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So let us look at these scriptures here as we begin.
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So Paul writing to the Colossian Church.
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This is Colossians chapter one.
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For this reason, since the day we heard about you, we have
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not stopped praying for you.
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We continually ask God to fill you with the knowledge of His will through all the
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wisdom and understanding that the Spirit gives, so that you may live a life worthy
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of the Lord and please him in every way.
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Bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God,
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being strengthened with all power according to his glorious mind.
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So that you may have great endurance and patience.
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And then next slide, Colossians two, verses six and seven.
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So then just as you receive Christ, Jesus', Lord, continue
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to live your lives in him.
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Rooted and build up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught
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and overflowing with thankfulness.
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And there's that word again.
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So let me begin here.
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Here, and this might be a little bit random, but track with me.
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Who here has their skipper's ticket?
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All right.
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If anybody wants to trip out in the boat, these are the people that you go and see.
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All right.
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If you're not sure what a skipper's ticket is, it's what you need to be able to, uh.
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Operate is a good word.
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Operate a boat.
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And one of the skills you learn as you are going about getting your skippers ticket
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is that of navigation, like navigation's kind of important when you're.
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In charge of a boat.
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And I always remember this story, that my brother told, and this is years
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and years and years ago when he was going for his skip skipper's ticket
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and he was out on a boat doing the training before you take the test.
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And and they were learning about navigation.
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And this one particular girl, there was a group of them on the boat who
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are all learning, you know, trying to get their skipper ticket and, um.
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They were told to pick a point kind of in the distance in order to, that
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the boat would travel in a straight, relatively straight direction,
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choose a point, focus on it, and then the boat should go that way.
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Well, as this particular girl was at the helm, it's suddenly the
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boat just starts drifting and the instructor's like, what is happening?
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What point did you fix on?
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And they're in the river.
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And she goes, oh.
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I picked a car on the freeway.
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Clearly she should not have a skipper ticket.
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Right?
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Which she failed to realize.
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Needed to be a fixed point.
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Yes.
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It's only gonna work.
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You are only gonna get navigate well in that way if you have
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located a fixed point to aim for.
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So what is navigation exactly?
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Navigation can be defined as the process or activity of accurately
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ascertaining one's position.
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Then planning and following a route or course either by land,
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sea, or air to your objective.
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And so navigation's really important with boats, with planes, with hiking.
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'cause how often do we hear about people getting lost?
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Many, many stories.
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And so, even church camp, many, many, many people over the years have failed to
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navigate rightly their way to church camp.
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And we hear all sorts of stories of the weird and wonderful
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places that people end up in.
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And so in the spiritual life navigation is the ongoing work of
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orientating one's life towards God.
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Amid the noise and distraction and competing voices and practices like
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discernment, and this is what we are focusing on over this month of January.
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This practice of discernment, living a life worthy.
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it functions like a compass for us.
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It's help helps us to recognize God's guidance as we seek to navigate this life.
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Well, and last Sunday, Luke opened with a simple but probing question.
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What are you listening to?
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In Colossians one, Paul prays that the church would know God's
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will through spiritual wisdom and understanding, not so that they can
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make better plans, but so that they can live lives worthy of the Lord.
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And at the beginning of a new year, many of us are planning and
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prioritizing, imagining dreaming, thinking about what lies ahead.
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But beneath all of that, for followers of Jesus, there is a deeper desire.
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Or at least there should be, maybe it's a little bit more buried in some than
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in others, is this question of how do I live in a way that pleases God or
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how do I navigate this life this year?
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In a way that I would live a life that is worthy of God, as Paul
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talks about in those verses in the first chapter of Colossians.
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And so this question becomes something that helps us to orientate around our.
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True north.
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And I love this idea of a true north 'cause it's a, really important idea when
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it comes to things like navigation and
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orientating ourselves.
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who knew?
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There's actually
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three kinds of north, there is true North, there is magnetic
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north and there is grid north.
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And Sue's nodding at me 'cause she's big into boats, aren't you, Sue?
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And, and plane on planes.
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Yeah.
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Yes.
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And they're not the same thing.
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And so if you are trying to navigate, and you are using magnetic North and you don't
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know it, and you think you're using True North, you are gonna end up off track.
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And, so in navigation, distinguishing between true North, magnetic
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North and grid North is essential because each represents a different
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referencing system, confusing them.
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Leads to Drift, and in some context, serious consequences
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for safety and decision making.
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And I don't think it's a huge stretch to see how this can be a
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bit of a metaphor for our lives.
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Hey, and so one's true North is established.
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Every other direction can be accurately understood in relation to it.
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Without this fixed reference, movement becomes reactive,
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inconsistent, and prone to drift.
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So deliver life worthy of the Lord.
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What does it require?
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It requires knowing the will of God, which is what Paul talked about in that
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first passage we looked at, and that that would be our true north, which requires
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spiritual wisdom and understanding, and which scripture actually
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calls or refers to as discernment.
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And so what exactly is discernment?
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Got a, got a definition here.
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Discern this is from Dallas Willard.
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So discernment is the cultivated ability to perceive and respond to God's
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guidance as a natural expression of a life rooted in loving attention to God.
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One shaped by scripture, community obedience, and the transforming
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work of the Holy Spirit.
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And so just to kinda lean in a little to what the ground
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that, Luke covered last week.
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We live in this world that is saturated with voices competing for our attention.
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There is a almighty war out for our attention, and so the voices that we
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listen to, they shape our decisions, our priorities, and our sense of self.
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So it's really important we ask.
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That question, what voices am I listening to?
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Am I being led by influenced, by, shaped by?
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If we desire to live lives worthy of the Lord, then we must learn to
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discern God's voice above all the others, to recognize where he is
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leading and where he is guiding us.
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What voices are you listening to?
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What voices are guiding you?
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Are you discerning the voice of God or are you being led by other voices
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that are perhaps taking you off course?
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Like in Homer's Odyssey, many of you'll be familiar with
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the story of Homer's Odyssey.
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Where you have these sirens who are luring the sailors to their
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demise on the rocks with their siren song, the Call of the Siren.
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And so like in Homer's Odyssey, the siren songs of the world, they can
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lure us so very easily off course if we don't have our true north in mind.
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And, and they can lure, lure us off course into directions that are destructive and
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harmful, just like in Homer's Odyssey.
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And I wanna share with you right now, another question, A question that came
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to mind for me in prayer this week.
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I actually found really, really helpful to help me reestablish my true north
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because we drift, we all drift, and we all can easily get off course.
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And this question came to mind and I believed it was prompted by the
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Holy Spirit in a time of prayer.
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And this question was this, am I at peace with myself?
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Interesting question.
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I would pose that question to you this morning.
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Are you at peace with yourself?
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You see, the answer for me was very clearly in that moment that I wasn't on
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that particular morning I was anything but, but as I prayed through this,
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I started to discern an invitation from the Lord to come back to truth.
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I'd wandered onto the condemning rocks of not good enough.
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Do better try harder.
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Which is greatly affecting how I was thinking and feeling about the
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year ahead and the spirit through this question was leading me back.
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And so you see, when we're not at peace with ourselves, we become
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very, very, very vulnerable.
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We become very vulnerable to the siren song of our culture.
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We become vulnerable to striving that is birthed out of an
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anxious need to be good enough.
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We become vulnerable to really unhealthy patterns of consumption,
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whether that's consumption of food, of alcohol, of entertainment, of
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comfort, whatever it might be.
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When we're not at peace with ourselves, we become really vulnerable to leaning into
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inward and self-protective ways of living.
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And in any of these places, we cannot be found, to be.
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We we're not in a place to make good and wise decisions that we would
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be living lives worthy of the Lord.
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And so in states of non peace, we are severely limited in
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our capacity in this space.
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And we live in a culture that wants us to be anxious about everything.
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We live in a culture that wants us to be anxious about our
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appearance, our health, our income.
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Why?
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Because anxious people buy stuff don't they?
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Anxious people are easy to manipulate because we're all wired for peace.
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We're all longing for it.
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If we can be in a constant led into a constant place of anxiety by our natural
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default desire to be at peace, we will grab hold of anything that seems to
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promise it, that makes us vulnerable.
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And easy to manipulate.
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By the forces of the culture around us.
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And this is why we need to constantly come back to this next and related
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question and a, a really good true north question to ground ourselves
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in at this time of year because this is where our peace comes from.
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And it's this question here, who does God say?
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I am.
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Who does God say I am?
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This message today is not rocket science.
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You know, it's kind of a bit of a 1 0 1, but I think the beginning
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of a new year is a good time to come back to 1 0 1 kind of stuff.
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And I think this question of who does God say I am?
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This is a question that we can f.
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We can forget the true answer to quite easily, and so it's one that is good
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for us to return to quite regularly.
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So Paul reminds the Colossian Church that peace has already been made for them when
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he says this in Colossians one 19 to 23.
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For God was pleased to have all his fullness dwell in him.
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That is Jesus, and through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether
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things on earth or things in heaven, by making peace through his blood shed
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on the cross once you were alienated from God and were enemies in your minds
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because of your evil behavior, but now he has reconciled you by Christ, physical
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body through death to present you wholly any sight without blemish and free from
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accusation if you continue in your faith established and firm, and do not move
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from the hope held out in the gospel.
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This is the gospel that you have heard and that has been proclaimed to
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every creature under heaven, and of which I, Paul, have become a servant.
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God has reconciled us to himself through Christ presenting us holy without
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blemish, and free from accusation.
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This is the gospel.
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Our identity is not earned.
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Our worth is not fragile.
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Our peace is not dependent upon our performance.
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So actually, if you are a child of God in this place this morning, if you
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have professed faith in Jesus Christ, if you have given your life to him
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and he is the one that you follow.
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It doesn't matter how awfully you live out this year ahead, it doesn't change
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your status as the beloved your 'cause.
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Your worth is not fragile.
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It is grounded in the gospel.
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So what I heard that morning in that place of prayer, through the invitation
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of this questions, what I heard was this.
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The gospel tells me that God is okay with me.
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And if God is okay with me, then I can be okay with me.
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I know that's really simple language, isn't it?
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It's not exactly theological speak, but if God is okay with me and that
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is what the gospel says, I can be okay with me 'cause he's forgiven me.
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He's good with me, and so I can be good with him and therefore
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I can be good within myself.
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I can be at peace within myself.
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Now that's freedom.
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We can have all these notions in this world about what freedom is, but that
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is freedom to be at peace with God and to be at peace with one another.
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And that's what Jesus died for, to give us that peace.
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And I think sometimes we think that peace is the absence of fear
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or anxiety, but I think we are better served to actually think of
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peace as a substance within itself.
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And that, what anxiety is, is actually the absence of peace.
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And so the peace, if peace is a substance, the peace of God is a
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substance and it's right there for us to apprehend when we take hold of it.
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Anxiety must flee.
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It must go because anxiety is like darkness, which is
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the absence of light, right?
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Darkness is is not a substance in itself.
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It's the absence of something.
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So when we are places of anxiety, when we're not at peace, yeah, it's
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not that anxiety is substance, it's.
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Our peace has wandered somewhere and we need to apprehend it again.
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And so my hope and my prayer that if perhaps here you are here today and
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there is anxiety within you, there's pressure, there's a striving I need.
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As you think about the year ahead and you're thinking about all these
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things that you need to do, and I must do this and I must do that,
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and I must organize my time better.
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And pressure, pressure, pressure.
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I must do this with my kids.
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And pressure, pressure, pressure.
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That you would actually stop, you would discern who God says you are, that you
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would come to a place of peace, and then think about what this year might bring.
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So Jesus's mission was to bring us into his own life, to ground our deepest
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identity in him so that we may live as he lived, to live fully in God.
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And so our first and most important spiritual task is to know and to
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claim God's unconditional love.
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For us, which is why Paul prays for the Ephesians that they would have
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power to grasp the love of God.
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You know, Ephesians chapter three, he prays that they would power to
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grasp how wide and high and long and deep as the love of Christ that
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surpasses understanding why, so that they would be filled to the
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measure of all the fullness of God.
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It must be discerned this reality of who we are before God.
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I can tell you.
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But it's gonna be a work of the spirit for to actually take root in your heart.
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It must be discerned.
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It's a world of difference between me just here standing up here and telling you a
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fact than you actually hearing the voice of God for yourself, saying, I love you.
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You are my beloved to the spirit testifying with your spirit,
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that you are a child of God.
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So to navigate well.
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You gotta know where you are and you gotta know where you're going.
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And I think we'd all do well at this time of year to spiritually discern where
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we are in God, to have a revelation of our position as the beloved, as Paul
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speaks about in one Corinthians two, there are spiritual truths that can
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only be discerned through the spirit.
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When the spirit reveals to you you're a child of God, that you are the
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beloved, you have peace with God, and then you are at peace with yourself.
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And when you have those.
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Things peace in those two realms.
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The natural default is you are a peace with those around you because it is an
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unshakable peace and you're able to then orientate yourself around what is true.
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So when we discern and we, we accept and we receive our belovedness.
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This identity as the beloved, we are free so much.
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This is what occurred to me in this place of free, oh my gosh.
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In that place, when I know I am the beloved, you, I know I am at peace
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with God and I have this peace.
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Then with myself, I'm free to be misunderstood.
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I'm free to fail.
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I'm free to love without fear.
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I'm free to serve without striving.
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I'm free to trust God's guidance.
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I'm free to live a life of loving service towards others.
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I don't need to worry about what's in it for me because I've got it all.
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I've got all that I need.
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I have peace with God and peace with myself.
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And so the fruit of belovedness, it is joy and it is freedom, and it's the
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capacity to love others as God loves us.
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I read this story in, Henry Nolan's book called Discernment.
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Luke referred to this book last week, and I'd highly encourage you if this
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idea of this practice, this discipline of discernment, is something that's
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really sparking in you.
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to grab a hold of this
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book and have a read, it's a beautiful book, and Henry Nowan just writes
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in the most beautiful, gracious way, but in his book, so, um.
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Henry Noun was a, Catholic priest and he ended up living in a community called
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La Ash Daybreak Community, which is a community where people with intellectual
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disabilities would live alongside their caregivers and their friends.
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And so he speaks about a time, not long after he arrived at La Ash as the priest.
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And he says this, I had a powerful experience of offering the
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blessing of belovedness to another.
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Shortly before I started a prayer service, Janet, a member of our community, said
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to me, Henry, can you give me a blessing?
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I responded in a somewhat automatic way by tracing with my thumb, the
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sign of the cross on her forehead.
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No, that doesn't work.
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She said, I want a real blessing.
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I suddenly became aware of the inadequacy of my response and said, oh, I'm sorry.
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Let me give you a real blessing when we are all together for the prayer service.
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She nodded with a smile and I realized that something special was required of me
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after the service, when about 30 people were sitting on the floor, I said, Janet
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has asked me for a special blessing.
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She feels she needs that now.
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Janet stood up and walked toward me.
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I stood up, opened my arms to welcome Janet as she walked up
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and laid her head on my chest, putting my hands on her shoulders.
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The sleeves of my robe enveloped her.
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I looked at her and said, Janet, I want you to know that you
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are God's beloved daughter.
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You are precious in God's eyes, your beautiful smile, your kindness
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to the people in your house and all the good things you do.
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Show us what a beautiful human being you are.
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I know you feel a little low these days and that there is some sadness
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in your heart, but I want you to remember who you are, A very special
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person, deeply loved by God, and all the people who are here with you.
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As I said these words, Janet raised her head and looked at me.
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She smiled and said, thanks, Henry.
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That is so much better than the first one.
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And so maybe you are a
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bit like Janet.
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As Henry writes here,
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she feels she needs that now.
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She feels like she needs that blessing from the Lord to know
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that she is seen and that she is accepted and that she has known.
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And maybe that is you today.
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You are guy.
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I am not at peace.
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My internal world is a hot mess.
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And maybe you need to sit before the Lord and say, I need that
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blessing, Lord, I need to know.
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That you're good with me.
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I need to hear it again.
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I know the Bible tells me so, but that's not cutting it right now.
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I need to hear it from you.
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I, you need to hear your heart to mine, that you're good with me and
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that I can be good with myself.
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We all need this blessing because the world is constantly
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telling us a different story.
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Our culture is constantly telling us, you're not enough.
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You're not good enough.
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Whatever you might put before that word enough.
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And so we need to come back to the heart of our Heavenly Father and say, bless me,
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Lord, bless me with your heart to mind telling me what you think of me, that
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you love me, that you are good with me.
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So in Ephesians six, Paul, speaking of the armor of God, he talks
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about feet that are fitted with the readiness of the gospel of peace.
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And when the gospel is what we are grounded in, we have
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a peace and we are ready.
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We are peace and that when we are ready.
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So are you grounded in who God says you are?
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Or are you still being tossed to and fro by the wind and the waves
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of the voices of this world around us being tempted by its siren song?
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So for me, once I had been reestablished in this place of
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peace, in that time of prayer.
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My orientation completely changed.
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My thinking about this year shifted from, well, I need to eat better,
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I need to exercise more, and I need to use my time more effectively.
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And this is how I let people down in this previous year, so I better make
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not sure I don't do it this coming year.
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Maybe I'm the only one that operates at this level of anyone else Res resonate.
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Oh good.
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Praise the Lord.
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This is kind of a chill area, but it seems like the wings are
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more anxious folks amongst us.
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You're my people.
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Um.
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And so once I had sat in this place and I was re able to
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reorientate myself to what was true.
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My thinking about the year ahead did shift.
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So how do I plan and prioritize my life?
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Then it became too, yeah, away from these ideas of striving and all the
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things I must do to be better and try harder to, how do I plan and prioritize
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my life so that I'm loving God with all my heart, with all my soul, with
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all my mind and strength, and how this year can I love my neighbor as myself?
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Because if these two things are my focus in this year, then I'm gonna live
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a life worthy of the Lord, aren't I?
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I'm gonna be much better set up to at least, and it's not hard to see
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which two of these postures, the striving, anxiety ridden posture, or
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the one that is grounded in peace.
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And knowing who I am in God, it's not hard to see which of these two
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postures is gonna lead me to that place.
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Of meeting that brief that Paul lays out at the beginning of his letter
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to the Colossians of a life worthy.
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And we don't live a life worthy of the Lord to earn the Lord's favor, right?
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I don't want you to now be anxious about, oh my gosh, I've gotta go live a life
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worthy of the Lord on top of losing weight and organizing my time better, and
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eating better, and being kinder to people.
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No, no, no.
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We live a, we pursue living a life worthy of the Lord because we have it.
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We have his favor not to earn it.
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And because this is the way of life.
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You know how so much of last year, what were we looking at?
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We were looking at and covering the way of Jesus.
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And that is the good way, the way of life and truth and peace and joy, and the way
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where we are blessed and those around us are blessed as we live as children
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of light in that way and in that place.
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So again, as we bring this home, let me just refer us to those scriptures
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that we read at the beginning.
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Paul continually asking God to fill the church, to fill you
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with the knowledge of his will.
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May you be filled with the knowledge of God's will, through discernment, through
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all the wisdom and understanding that the Spirit gives, so that you may live
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a life worthy of the Lord pleasing him in every way you know for the child
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of God in this place this morning.
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And my prayer is that it is all of you, but I don't know where you've come.
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Maybe, maybe you're not quite there yet and that's fine.
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You are welcome here.
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But if you have the Holy Spirit, you are a child of God.
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There should be a resonance in you.
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Even as I read these words, I go, oh yeah, that's what I wanna do.
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I wanna live a life worthy Lord.
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Oh my gosh, I forgot that's what what I meant to be about.
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Praise the Lord.
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I've heard it again, I'm reorientated, right?
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There should be a stirring, a desire, a willingness.
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To wanna live this way, to live a life worthy of the Lord, no matter where your
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foot treads, no matter what this year might look like for you, pleasing him
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in every way, bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of
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God, being strengthened with all power according to his glorious mind, so that
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we may have great endurance and patience.
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So talked about this thing called discernment.
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Luke talked about it last week and we're gonna talk about it again next week.
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But how do we actually practice it, right?
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Just in these few minutes I have left here, how do we practice it?
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Because we would do well to set our hearts and minds on the goal
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of being those who are disciplined in our practice of discernment.
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Right, because what discernment allows us to do is actually to hear
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the voice of God for ourselves.
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And so, as Luke mentioned last week, it begins with solitude and with
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silence, silence creates space.
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It removes us from the noise, and it gives our full attention back to God.
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And this, this time of being in silence and solitude with God, stillness with God.
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I mean, what does the scripture say?
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Be still and know that I am God.
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And that is that knowing, that deep relational knowing.
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And so this time of silence and solitude is not about being productive.
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It's simply about being in the presence of God.
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And so some key elements of discernment, which are helpful for us to be aware of
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as we think about how we can actually
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practice it and I guess, implement it into our
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daily and weekly rhythms of life.
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Some things to be aware of.
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Discernment grows out of obedience, not curiosity.
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Okay.
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God's not a genie in a bottle.
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He's not a magic eight ball.
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And sometimes people can think discernments like that,
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I've got a question now.
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I'm gonna go discern the answer from God.
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And once I've got the answer the formula, then I'm good and I can go
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off and I can live my life because God's given me the instructions.
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It's not that it comes from a posture of obedience before God.
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God speaks to those who intend to do His will not merely just know it.
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A character precedes clar clarity.
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A surrendered unhurried and truthful life creates the conditions in
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which discernment becomes reliable.
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And this is really important because I think one of the downsides particularly,
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I mean probably in your more charismatic Pentecostal expressions of church, is
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you do hear people say an awful lot.
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Oh, God said, I have discern, and God said, and I, well.
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The character of your life, I'm struggling to trust.
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That you're actually hearing right?
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There should be a kind
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of matchup.
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And so, this idea of character,
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you can't just go and be living life however you want and then
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run around claiming, oh, I've heard the voice of the Lord.
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A surrendered unhurried, truthful life creates the conditions in
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which discernment becomes reliable.
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God guides whole persons, not just isolated decisions.
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Discernment is about living wisely and faithfully, not just extracting divine
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instructions like I talked about before.
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And discernment is communal and scriptural.
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Luke talked about this last week as well, tested within the life of the church and
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grounded in the reveal character of God.
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One of the most dangerous parts of this idea of discernment is when
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people just run off on their own and go, I've discern this from the Lord
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and not checked it with anybody.
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And not submitted it to anybody.
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Not prayed with it with anybody.
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It's amazing the stuff people can come up with
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that God says, and, this is why we need
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community and we need to test these things in community.
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And so, um.
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If we just go, can we just go to the next slide there, Sarah?
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So what I've just got, these are just some simple
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strategies.
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and I've put, actually these notes
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here from here on, they're actually on the app, the Red Door app.
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So if you
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wanted to grab these, get the app and you
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will find document there with just on
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how to prep.
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Just, discernment and I've
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just drawn on a few different people who I have found helpful in this space.
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So strong Coleman here strong is great
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New Zealand guy.
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And, his writings on practicing, prayer and discernment
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are just so beautiful, so good.
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So he uses a technique called breath prayer where you just, you find
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a word, right?
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And, some suggestions there.
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Abba or Jesus.
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And, so you inhale one word
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or you breathe out another word or phrase and you just, you don't do
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that for like the whole 20 minutes, but it just helps settle you into
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that space of God's pre, it helps quiet the noise, quiet the mechanism.
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If anybody's familiar with that movie.
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Anybody know what movie I'm talking about?
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No.
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What's the movie, babe?
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Quiet.
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Oh, my husband's not listening to me.
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He's not hanging off my every word
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quiet.
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No.
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Quiet.
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Quiet.
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The mechanism.
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It's a baseball movie.
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Kevin Costner.
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Yeah.
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Kevin Costner.
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Anyone For the love of the game?
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Yeah, for the Love The game.
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For the of the game.
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Anyway, sorry.
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That was a massive squirrel.
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I am so sorry.
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Come back.
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Come back to me, church.
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All
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right, next slide.
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centering prayer tradition
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just uses a single word to bring your attention back
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when your attention starts to
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wander.
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Next slide.
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welcoming prayer.
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So,
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Ruth Haley Barton.
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She's another one who has a lot of wisdom in this space.
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Another writer I've found really helpful, gleaning from her wisdom.
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So she's talks about when you notice strong emotions or resistance
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arise oh, and you will, um.
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Just notice what is present, name it
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and offer it to God.
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you know, when, when
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I first started really practicing silence and solitude, I was
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shocked at what rose up.
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And to find myself just randomly in places of tears.
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Like sometimes if you've never practiced this and you start
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practicing silence and solit.
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Your soul will almost begin to weep because it is just so weary and exhausted.
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And so if you find yourself crying, don't be surprised.
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It's not that it's you're going wrong, you're doing anything wrong, it's just
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that your soul has finally found a place to just rest in stillness with God.
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And it's just so
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relieved about that.
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it's interesting the
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different kind of feelings that as we just sit in the presence of God still in still
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places of stillness, what can bubble up.
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All right, next slide.
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Loving gaze.
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So Henry now talks about just using your imagination.
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See yourself sitting before God.
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A God who is looking at you with delight, like a loving parent
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would look at their child.
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No words, no agenda, just sitting in a place of just
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being seen and just being loved.
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Oh, it is a very, very good thing.
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It's a blessing for your own soul to do these kind of things.
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Next, noticing without engaging, so thoughts will arise.
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Don't fight them.
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Instead, notice them.
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Let 'em pass gently.
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Return attention to God.
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Next one.
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Actually, just keep going 'cause I just
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wanna bring it home.
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I just wear parents
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with kids.
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Keep
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going.
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You guys can, access this document
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if you want.
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Next.
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Beautiful.
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All right, so
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practicing the way.
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which is an organization, that, puts out a lot of resources
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around this idea of spiritual formation and different practices.
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So they have a really great teaching on the practice of solitude.
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So if this is something that is really you, like, you know, this
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is something I really need to
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get serious about, you can access that
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material there and it is really good, solid stuff.
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Highly recommend it.
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And
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this next one here, rule of Life.
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also
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from practicing the way.
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Yes, because what you will find, so rule of life is essentially how
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do I order my entire life around my true north, which is Jesus,
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but my whole life, not just my church
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life,
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but all of it, and, a rule of life is just
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a simple way that we can think about our whole world and bringing
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it into alignment with God.
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Because if we do not.
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Get really intentional about how we live our lives.
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We won't find the space for silence and solitude.
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Yeah, we're always going.
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We're always doing.
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We're always, because the pressures of this life are, that's the way
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they are leading us and calling us.
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And so this is a simple workbook you can go through as you think about the year
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ahead, about how you're gonna organize and structure, prioritize your life,
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which I can highly recommend as well.
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Alright, my friends, well.
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I'm gonna pray for you now and then I will release you and, but as we go,
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just have a think about, you know, I talked about different questions.
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Were there, was there any of those questions that I mentioned this
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morning that really resonated in you, that you felt like, oh yeah, that's
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something I need to pay attention to?
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You know, are you at peace with yourself?
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Do you know who God says that you are?
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What is your true north?
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Like you might, oh, hello.
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Yeah, go.
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Sorry.
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We're a team.
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If you listen, you know, when you are listening to those sort of prayers, you
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know, silence, prayers, breath prayers, if
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there's a level of resistance in your inner soul towards
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doing that, what that means is.
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Is that you are not posturing yourself to receive God's love for you.
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You're actually in a posture of trying to achieve that
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yourself.
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So be very, wary and observant
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about your own soul because we are hardwired to earn this ourselves.
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Are you hearing me?
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Like the natural default to every person sitting here is
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not to receive, but to earn.
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That's the thing that we are battling against.
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And, but it's in the places of silence and solitude, that that
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can be exposed and then realigned to receiving the grace of God.
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D's gonna pray.
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You wanna pray?
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No.
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You want Oh, okay.
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I'm gonna pray all.
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Let's close your eyes for
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a moment.
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Lord, we, we bring all this before
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you, and I pray that this morning for everyone, particularly those who really,
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really need it, that this morning would've been a moment of recalibration
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and perhaps where we, have listened to voices
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that are not your voice and they've been taking us off course.
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That this morning would be a time to come back into alignment with you, with your
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heart, with your will, and with your way.
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Lord, help each one of us here as we go out this day,
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this week, and into this year,
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to have our eyes fixed on our true north, which is you.
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Your word says you will keep imperfect peace.
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The one who keeps their eyes fixed upon you.
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The psalmist writes that I will always keep my eyes on the Lord
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for with him at my right hand.
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I will not be shaken.
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So Lord, help us to be those who truly have you as our true north.
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And Lord, for the souls that are here today that are
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wondering, that are doubting.
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And that are anxious about whether you are okay with them.
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I pray for your Holy Spirit to come, and I pray for them to cry out for that blessing
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that Janet asked for and that you would meet them there in that place of longing
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of needing to know that place of anxiety.
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That if they have surrendered their lives to Jesus, then they have nothing to fear.
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Then they are good with you and they can be at peace, and then go out with that
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peace having feet that are fitted with the readiness of the gospel of peace.
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Lord, as we come back to this place, this place, as the beloved may we find
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ourselves truly ready to enter into this new year and to live it out in a
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way that honors you that is fruitful.
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And that is worthy of you, Lord, in Jesus name.
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Amen.
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Amen.