Sermon
Pastor the People – 1 Timothy 5:1-2
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We are in First Timothy. We've been studying this book of
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the Bible since the beginning of the year and we are now entering
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into the 5th chapter in a series in First Timothy that we're
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calling trustworthy. And I just I love that one
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simple word to give us a constant reminder of why this
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book is so good and necessary to know because it it is God's
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design for in some ways the church to have an instruction
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manual, a blueprint. How would the whole operation
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should work so that it is a place where you can come and
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find the trustworthy God faithful for all our lives
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represented in a trustworthy gathering.
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And so as we enter into this new chapter, and as you think about
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everything we've we've looked at and studied so far, it's almost
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as if if the study stopped now, we, we just about have
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everything that we would need as we've studied and looked at the
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word to, to see a vision of a trustworthy and healthy church
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in the 1st 4 chapters of this letter.
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If, if a church executes and really takes seriously
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everything we've looked at so far, they, they'd be so close to
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being a healthy and good church. And so just think about what
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we've already talked about. The, the, the, the letter starts
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by Paul writing to young Timothy, his mentor or his his
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disciple in the faith. You got to have sound doctrine.
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You got to stand on the truth. You can't get, you can't get
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sidetracked by arguing over fables and mythology.
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It's like have sound doctrine and a church that does that
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teaches the truth has a really important part of being a good
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church. And there's a huge emphasis.
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As we've read this time and time again, Paul is saying wherever
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you find bickering and arguing, turn it into a reason to pray.
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A church that's praying is going to be a solid church.
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We went through and looked at all of the important
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qualifications and characteristics of having a
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healthy, trustworthy leadership and having elders and overseers
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in place that have the, the right characteristics and the
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right marks of a good leader and, and having that as a
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church. And you're close, you're getting
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really close to being a healthy church.
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And then we talked about being a church that has qualified
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servants that are serving, washing the, the, the church
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representing the hands and feet of Jesus.
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Again, all of these beautiful blueprints.
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And we're so close just in these 4 chapters.
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And yet there is something that we now still have yet to cover
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that if you don't have this, none of it matters.
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And it's it's, it's almost so obvious that you can miss it.
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It's like losing the forest for the trees.
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And sometimes that's how it is. The most obvious thing is the
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thing. You forget it.
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I'm mindful of that several years ago as my wife and I
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welcomed in our third child to the family.
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And by by child #3 you've got, you know, your training wheels
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are off in a sense, you're ready for the mission.
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And I'll never forget our very first time doing our family
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outing as a family of five. So we've got oldest daughter
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now, middle daughter now and youngest daughter.
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And we were ready to kind of step out in faith, do our first
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excursion, run a couple errands, come back and, and see how it
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went. And we just had the order of
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operation down. You know, my wife has got the
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diaper bag locked, loaded, ready to go.
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We're ready for anything. It's like, you know, you got a
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diaper bags. Sometimes you feel like, you
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know, you're about to go on a Mount Everest hike.
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You got everything. We've got the older kids fed
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ready. They've got some entertainment.
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We've got them buckled into the car.
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They're ready to go. They're they're excited.
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Take our first excursion. We've got some places on the
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list of errands that we're going to run and we get to our very
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first stop and I go to get our newborn baby out of the back and
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I realized I'd left her at home. Forgot the baby 100%.
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You know you got everything on the checklist and none of it
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matters if you don't have the baby.
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And I've learned to finish stories by the way.
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We went home and grabbed her and she's fine.
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She's part of the family and she's with us.
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But parenting is a lot like pastoring.
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There are a lot of lessons I have learned that go both ways
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in pastoring for parenting and for parenting for pastoring.
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And the story I just described is like reading First Timothy
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one through 4 and closing the book and saying I got it because
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what Paul is about to say to Timothy is starting with this
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chapter and towards the end of the letter, now focus on the
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people. You've got the procedures and
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the policies and you've got how to preach and how to raise up
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leaders and how to care for the church.
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But if you don't put the whole thing around serving and caring
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for the people, you'll lose it. And, and I know I'm blessed for
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that refreshment and that reminder because sometimes in
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the pursuit of God in the congregation of a church, in
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leadership, you can put the policies and the calendar of
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events and the budgets and the building and all of the things
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that we do to gather can sometimes take precedent over
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the actual people. I know it's true of all of our
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lives. Sometimes the, the planning
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takes precedent over the parenting over the, the, the
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people that we're planning around.
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And, and now we, we cannot miss this.
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And, and if this chapter kind of was a mini series within our
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series, it would be called pastor the people.
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It's going to be an entire chapter of ways that Paul's
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going to say with everything in mind about a healthy operation
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of a church. Now you have to have a healthy
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pastor and a people, and so we won't get to all of it.
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Today. We're actually only going to
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cover 2 verses, but for the chapter that we're studying,
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which will resume after this Sunday, after Easter, there
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there is a clear emphasis on the importance of a good and healthy
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church caring for primarily and as utmost of importance, the
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people of the church. Verses 1 and 2 is Paul telling
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Timothy how to care for all the people of the church.
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When we resume after Easter, we're going to look at verses 3
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through 16 that that is all about how to care for those who
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are in the most need. The people who have desperate
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needs of a church care for them in, in the context of this
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letter, it's the widows, but it's the, the idea is how do you
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care for people that need care the most?
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Then we'll look at 17 through 19.
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It's all about the the elders. Once again, a word for the
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overseers and leaders. Make sure that you're overseeing
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with a heart for people. And then as we look at the last
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part of this chapter, it will be verses 21 through 25.
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And it is really practical people skills for a pastor.
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How do you just interact with the church and make sure the
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preaching is good, but the pastoring is sound.
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You want sound doctrine and sound pastoring.
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And so with that in mind, we're going to look today, pass
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through the people and specifically the categories of
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old and young men and women. And we'll look at that in the
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1st 2 verses. And just if you take nothing
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else from this, just know that the whole emphasis now is the
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importance of the people of the gathering.
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Starting in verse 1 of chapter 5, he says do not rebuke an
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older man, but exhort him as a father, younger men as brothers
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and older women as mothers, younger women as sisters with
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all purity. And This is why this headline is
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how to pass through the people with all categories in mind.
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You got old men and young men and here's your here's your
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pastoral duty to serve them and categorically different.
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And then you've got older women and younger women and here's how
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you handle them. And so we're going to just look
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at those 4 sections that we just read in these two verses.
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But we before we do, we we have to catch the vision once again
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that Paul is encouraging Timothy to have for the church.
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And it is very simply a family that is multi generational.
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This is clearly working under the assumption that Timothy is
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going to be pastoring using a reference points for family,
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fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters.
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And also there's going to be old and there's going to be young.
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So when we think of when we look for a vision of a healthy church
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body, when we look at this and study this and and measure our
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own church against the the New Testament writing, we have to
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acknowledge and celebrate that the church is supposed to be old
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and young, multi generational. It is not healthy for a church
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to emphasize a movement towards youth at the expense of the
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older generation. And it's also not healthy for
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the church to defend traditions of the older generation at the
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expense of welcoming new people in.
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And I think that our church from season to season needs to hear
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that. But no doubt all churches feel
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this tension. Last week we looked at the
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advice that Paul had to Timothy. He said, listen, Timothy, you're
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going to be a little bit younger than some of the people in your
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church. Let no one despise your youth.
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And churches need to hear that as young leaders are being
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raised up, they're, they're going to do their best.
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And as long as they're acting in maturity, don't despise them
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just because they're young. It's good to have young people
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at the church. It's good to have young leaders.
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And now the counterweight of that is it's also good to have
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older people in the church and throughout time, different
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cultures emphasize their age preferences.
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In Ephesus, it was actually much more honor honorable to be old
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people. They lived in a culture not
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unlike other cultures in our world where old people had a
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certain honor as patriarch or matriarch of the community.
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Our culture is the exact opposite.
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Our culture emphasizes the youthful spirit.
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And I think sometimes that creeps into the church and
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sometimes the church feels like it's doing everything to be hip
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and attractive to young people. And sometimes, and I know I felt
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this for our own congregation, sometimes the the older
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generation is like, hey, are we still noticed, recognized and
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valuable? And so the answer is, according
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to the Word of God, absolutely yes, the church must honor the
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young generation coming and honor with respect and value the
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generation that is part of the church now.
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And so that is the vision that you will find all throughout the
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New Testament. And that's also as an extension
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of our church practicing this. That is the vision that that we
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have for our house church Calvary communities, that when
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you go into the smaller communities of our church, we
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want to reject the idea that those should be, you know,
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pockets of friends getting together and sharing a meal,
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young with young and old with old.
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And that's why we encourage all of the communities to come into
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houses, not based off their age, but based off their location so
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that you will be in a community of believers opening the word
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and eating together. And the older and wise can pour
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into the young and the young can be encouraged and also support
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the older people. So if you're part of the Calvary
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community, that is the vision. And we celebrate those that are
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multigenerational because this is giving a vision for the
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family to represent old and young because that's what the
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family does represent. And so now let's look at the
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categories. He said in verse one, do not
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rebuke an older man, but exhort him as a father.
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So now we have our first category, the older men of the
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church. So we we think of the context of
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what Timothy is going through through Paul's encouragement.
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He's got some pastoring to do in this church.
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There's all sorts of things that are happening by inference in
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this church that Paul has chosen to correct through the
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leadership of Timothy, and that's going to include older
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men as well. So the older men of the church
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need to be pastored. And there's a way that Paul
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wants the older men to be pastored that's going to look
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different than Timothy's peers and younger.
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And so the, the question that maybe all of you are asking is
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where is the line of old and young?
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You know, I've got to apologize because last week I put my cat
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myself in the category of older pastor.
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And some people came up to me and said, you're not old yet.
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You're not old until you get the discounts at the, at the early
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bird specials. I said, well, I guess I'm not
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old in that sense, but I'm definitely older than a lot of
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people in our church. And so here's the line for all
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of us to use as the lens of this sermon so that we can do what
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it's calling us to do for the older and the younger people
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among us. The line is not an age or a
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median age. It's not as though Timothy is
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being said like, hey, you know, the average age of Ephesus is
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this, and here's where the line is.
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The line in this context is Timothy himself.
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The line is Timothy. You're going to be pastoring As
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you pastor men and that are older and, and more experienced
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than you, then you're going to do it this way.
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And as you pastor men that are younger, do it this way.
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And so the line is you. And that's a beautiful way to
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look at how to show honor and respect to older and younger,
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because that line is going to follow you wherever you go.
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And you're always going to have people.
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Every person in this church has someone that is older than them
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that they need to listen to this and say, OK, how can I care for
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this person? Of course, except for one
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person. I don't know who the oldest
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person in the church is, but we got somebody who's the oldest.
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This message is, you know, just respect all the young people for
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you. But that everybody else, you got
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somebody who's older than you. And there's somebody that's
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younger than you. And that line follows you for
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the rest of your life. And here's what we're supposed
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to do. Pastoring, caring for people in
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a church. And as you take this message and
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apply it to the community that you're a part of requires
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relationship. It's not a policy.
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It's not a number that you just find it.
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It requires you to treat older people different than you treat
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younger people. So as I read this as a pastor,
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what it's telling me is when I have to go through those moments
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of correction, when I have to stand before you as the the
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leader of the church teaching the word correcting sometimes
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for the older men in our church, I'm not just supposed to rebuke
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them. I'm not supposed to put men in
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their place and say, you know, I'm sick of you guys not getting
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this. There is an honor and a respect
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that is due to all of the men of this church that I'm pastoring
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that have gone before me. And when we look at this word
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rebuke, it's saying don't just sharply criticize.
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Well, of course rebuke is good. But in this context, Paul is
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saying don't treat older men as you would treat a younger
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person. You treat them with honor,
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respect. So he says, rather than just
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sharply criticize their mistake or need for correction, you
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encourage them. You exhort them in a category.
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You honor and respect all of the older people in your gatherings.
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And, and I will say I want to grow in this and I want to do
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this well because I think it accomplishes 2 things.
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One, for just the outside world culture.
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As stated, we live in a culture where sadly, we have lost the
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respect young people pay to old people, older people.
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We, we have lost the respect that you can just see in
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children obeying their parents. There is, it's seemingly a chaos
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happening in a in the homes of the culture we live in where
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young people just do not care or respect older people.
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And I would love to be wholly and set apart because God's word
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has washed us from that cultural problem.
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I would love to be a group of people that look for opportunity
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to honor and respect and to have relationships with older people
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that are caring and kind. And I, I would, I would love to
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do it in the context right now of the church culture as well,
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because I do think that the, the, the culture of our world
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creeps into the church and, and old people sometimes feel out of
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place as the church, you know, tries to become more relevant.
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And let me just say to those of you who are older, who have been
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faithful members of our church, who have come and just prayed
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and cared for the younger people of our church who have joined
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Calvary communities, and you're supporting the younger, the
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younger members. I am so glad that you're part of
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our church. I'm so grateful that you're
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willing to be pastored and to sit under the teaching of
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someone who's younger than you and in some ways less
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experienced, less wisdom than you.
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I think that shows such great maturity on your part that you'd
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be willing to be part of our church.
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And it blesses this church to have you among us.
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And there's no small thing because no doubt there are
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pastors who have to read this passage of Scripture and think,
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wow, maybe we should try to get some older people to join our
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fellowship. Maybe we shouldn't have
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emphasized so much to the college and youth movement at
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the expense of all of the older people.
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So I just thank you guys for your grace sticking with a young
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pastor who's doing his best to grow and and I appreciate all
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that you do to make our church multi generational.
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So please be honored, be respected and and I will do my
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best to where where I can bring any kind of exhortation into
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your life. I want to do it with honor and
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and respect for you. And so we pass through the
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people differently because now the word says to Paul, to
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Timothy, where you're dealing with the younger men, I want you
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to treat them as you treat a brother, you know, so the honor
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and the respect and the the going out of your way to to
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really encourage the older. He says, now you're going to do
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that differently with people that are your own age or
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younger. And he says for the younger man
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in the second-half of verse one, you treat them as brothers.
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Now, for me, I never had a brother growing up.
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I always wanted a brother. I love my sisters.
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I'm the middle child of an older sister and a younger sister.
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So for years I would ask for my Christmas present to be a
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brother. And I gave up on that.
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And I'm sure my parents were grateful because that would have
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required a lot of work on their part.
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But, you know, I was under the impression as a young kid that
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brothers were just always best friends, you know, that brothers
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would just always play together and they would share their toys
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with one another. And eventually they'd grow up to
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start a business together or a band and tour the world.
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And it was just like brothers, you know?
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And now I know that so often the Bible is referencing a position
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or an office that God designed that the world broke.
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So often in scripture, brothers are actually used for Jesus as
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teaching moments. Here's a couple examples.
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Luke chapter 12. You'll remember the the parable
Luke 12 chapter mention
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of the rich fool where Jesus is teaching about how fleeting
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riches are is actually Jesus trying to teach two brothers
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that were arguing over their inheritance.
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They were divided. They were more concerned with
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stuff than a relationship with one another.
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Couple chapters later, Luke chapter 15, we get one of the
Luke 15 chapter mention
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great stories, One of the great parables of the Bible is the
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prodigal son. A great time to be reading and
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thinking about an Easter because there's someone who is so dead
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and lost in his rebellion that the father who sees him coming
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from afar says, this is my son. He was lost and now he's found.
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He was dead and now he's alive. Let's throw a feast for my lost
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son. And of course, it's actually a
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story about brothers. Because the older brother sees
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him come to the feast and this, this younger brother who wasted
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the money and disrespected the father gets a party.
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The older brother goes, I hate this guy and I hate that you
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love him and I hate that you have grace for him.
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And brothers can despise one another.
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They can. They can be the opposite of what
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we're supposed to represent as a a loving family in the household
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of God. And honestly, that journey goes
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all the way back to the unraveling of humanity.
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It starts with brothers hating each other or one brother hating
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the other. Genesis chapter 4, verse 8.
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This is the very beginning. The man has just been cast out
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from the good perfect paradise that God created, and it wasn't
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long before brothers represent the downfall of humanity.
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Chapter 4, verse 8. Now Cain talked with Abel, his
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brother, and it came to pass when they were in the field that
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Cain rose up against Abel his brother, and killed him.
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First murder of the Bible is a brother who's despised the other
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and killed him. Then the Lord said to Cain,
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where is Abel your brother? And he said, I do not know.
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Am I my brother's keeper? Doesn't matter where my brother
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is, I don't care. I'm going to live my life.
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I'm not going to concern myself with his affairs.
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And I'll never forget teaching this years ago as we went
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through Genesis as a as a church.
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The next week after I taught on this passage of Scripture, Gage
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Duke, faithful friend, just being part of our church
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forever. He came up to me at church and
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he gave me a little plaque that he had made.
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And all it said was I am my brother's keeper.
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And he says, if you never need anything, just know that I'm
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here for you. I'm praying for you and I love
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you. He reversed the entire curse by
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the Spirit of God making him my brother in Christ in my
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brother's keeper. And that is what Paul is getting
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at to Timothy. He says listen, the the brothers
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in the in the the men, the younger men, you are their
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keeper. Concern yourself with their
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affairs. Think about their lives.
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Figure out how you can help them, how you can love them, how
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you can do anything you can to lay down your life to help them.
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And that is the family of God. Younger men, I am my brother's
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keeper when I share the word and I and I exhort it and I
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encourage you and, and I hope give you some sort of vision
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that God has for his perfect will for your life.
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It's because I desire you to have that life more abundant
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that God has planned for you. And I am receiving this as the
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pastor and I share this as you brothers and sisters one
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another. You're your brother and sisters
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keeper, honor the older men, care for the younger men as
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though they were your brothers and you are reversing the
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brokenness of the sin of this world by caring and not
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despising each other. And so then we go on and now we
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come to verse 2, which is our category for women, the older
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women and the younger women. Not lost on me, this verse,
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perfect verse as such an encouragement, a vision for the
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women of our church at an imperfect weekend because the
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the the women ministry has just gone and off to a retreat.
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So I picked a bad time to honor the women of our church.
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It would also have been great a couple weeks later if we could
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have done it on Mother's Day. Also not perfect.
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So I'm hoping that wherever we are on Mother's Day, mothers of
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the church, women of the church, just just remember this sermon,
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OK, we'll do something else. But this is a preview of
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Mother's Day, first Timothy, first Timothy chapter 5 verse
1 Timothy 5 chapter mention
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two older women as mothers, younger women as sisters with
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all purity. So once again, Paul is writing
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to Timothy. He's going to be pastoring in a
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congregation that is multi generational and he's going to
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have to care for, encourage at times, correct exhort and pastor
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older women of the congregation. And he says for that, have a
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vision for caring for a woman as though a son cares for a mother.
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And once again, this is just a moment to say to those of you
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who call Calvary Chapel Boise your church family and you are
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willing to be pastored by a young man who is younger than
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you and you are an older woman. I am so grateful for the culture
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that you have brought to this Church of the, the, the love and
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the care. You know, I'm grateful for the
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reference points God has given me for what it looks like to
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have a relationship with a mom that are so healthy.
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And when I think of the role a mom plays, my mom and my life,
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and then, you know, the motherly spiritual moms of a church,
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there's too many things to name. So I'll just share 3 very quick
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meditations, let's say, of encouragement that I have
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thinking about treating the older women as mothers, women of
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the church. Three things amongst a million.
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They are so good at bringing favor to the church, at giving
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in in ways only a mother could feedback to the leadership of
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the church and in ways that I welcome more of.
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I love the food that is brought in.
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I feel so cared for just in that practical calorie Chapel kind of
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way. I am so blessed through all the
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food and, and, and I will say they all kind of work together
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as one. My mom of course, raised me and
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she she gave me food and she was very patient with a picky eater.
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Food is a great way to just encourage the pastoral team and
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just each other. I love the the idea of the
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Calvary community is breaking bread together.
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It's a beautiful picture of the family.
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A meal is really important for families to have that time
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together. And you know, food goes really
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well with feedback. Mothers are so good at giving
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that feedback that only a mother could do.
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And my mom is an example when she come to church and she just
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gives the most motherly feedback, she'll say, hey, great
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time in church today. I think you're due for a
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haircut. And I'm like, oh, thank you,
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mom. I do.
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I'm going to do better. I'm going to do better.
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There was a stain on your shirt. I'm like, I'm so sorry, mom.
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And you know, I, I love my mom for that.
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And I'll say this, I love the older women, older than me,
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women of the church, because you guys give feedback and only a
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way mother could. It's so good.
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A pastoral team needs feedback. We are not free from error or
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correction ourselves. And I love the just a little
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comment in grace the, the, the things we can work on.
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I'll never forget when I first became a pastor, it was actually
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a group of women that were older than me and they had feedback.
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And of course, I gave so many good opportunity for feedback
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and I still do, but especially when I first started, I'm like
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trying things and learning on the fly.
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And I had a lot to learn. And, and, and I had this, these,
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this group of women, they invited me into one of their
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houses and they had just just a, just a list to go through with
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things that we could do better as a church.
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Love it. And you know, you've got to,
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you've got to be willing to receive that.
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And, but the beautiful thing about it was it seems as though
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their list perfectly aligned with all of the, the things on
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the cheese board. So I'm just getting the feedback
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and just getting the cheese and crackers.
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And it's like, you know, the sounds a little loud and the
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lights are a little dim. Your pants are a little skinny,
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but here's some cheese and crackers.
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You know, I'm like you guys, it's got to go together.
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And so to this day, please continue.
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Men give feedback as well, but but maybe channel it through
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your wives or you know, the the women give such great feedback.
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To this day. The woman that had me to her
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house, if she ever has a comment, if she ever has
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feedback to give me, she always does it with cheese and
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crackers. And I'm like, this is great.
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I love this relationship and I want I want us to have a good,
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healthy culture of loving anyone who's older than you the way you
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would your mom, because they give such amazing blessing to
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the church. And and that is the third
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category that I'm so grateful for.
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Moms, spiritual moms, the the women of any church gathering
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from the New Testament. Just read it.
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You see it all over the place. They bring such confident faith
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that turns into favor. And I probably don't share my
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testimony enough. I was not, you know, a pastor in
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my teenage years or most of my 20s.
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And I had, like anyone, a, a story of coming to Jesus and
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wayward turns. And the consistent part of my
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story is that I had a mother who prayed and she submitted prayers
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and she joined prayer groups. And, and I just want to say as
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we honor the mothers and we, I'm so thankful for the mother.
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I would not be here, no doubt, if I didn't have a praying
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mother and I'm I wonder how many people can say that about their
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lives if they just had those people that never stopped
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praying. Older women of our church, you
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guys are so faithful. The Lord has blessed our church
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because you are so faithful in prayer and commitment as you
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open the Word and study it. And our campus, if you just come
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to our campus the other week, you're going to see all of these
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faithful women caring for the needs of our body through the
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power of prayer and the confidence they haven't got.
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And for that, it's like, that's our culture.
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I receive this, I get reminded and refreshed as a pastor, but
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please, this is the message for the culture of the people of God
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that you as younger people would see these women who have gone
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before you, these men who have gone before you as wise and
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caring and integral parts of your story.
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And if you don't know those people, this is a great reminder
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of things we've already mentioned.
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Join a Calvary community house church gathering because you're
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going to find the food you're going to find the the the favor
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in those people that are willing to walk with you in your
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Christian life. And so we we care for the older
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women as mothers and then it says younger women as sisters
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with all purity. You know, we'll go back again to
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the reminder of what this series is all about to be a trustworthy
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and healthy church gathering with strong, healthy leadership
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with a vision for the church that is in line with God's word.
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And I'll just say that that this should just be underlined in
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everyone's Bible as to one of those sound just just guards of
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a church that the younger women of the church should be so
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protected and cared for. And specifically talking to to
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leadership, talking to any interactions that that someone
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like Timothy would have with a a a young woman in a gathering.
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You know, Paul was so wise in writing this.
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Timothy was a single guy in a sinful city.
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And Paul in in all of his encouragement in all the
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categories we've already looked at said now now when the young
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women come in, Timothy, remember and and be an example for
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generations to come. And anyone who would read this
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encouragement to Timothy, listen up.
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These women are your sisters and that's why he attached with all
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purity. This is not a place to just act
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like you're at the the, the social hour at the bar.
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And now by God's grace, he's going to bring together man and
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woman in his perfect timing, in his perfect pure way.
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But in the meantime, how healthy would the church age we live in
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if more people just memorized that verse in leadership?
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Care for the women. They're your sisters.
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Protect them as such. Care for them.
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Don't RIP them off. Don't take advantage of them.
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Don't give anyone a reason to walk into church hoping to meet
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God and leaving church heartbroken.
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Care for the younger women as sisters.
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And so we'll just put it all together as almost a, a
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benediction as a, as a cultural creed kind of moment.
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This is the church family that God wants to represent to the
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world. You know, every category we
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looked at, I could have prefaced by saying, of course, when we
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talk about fathers, when we talk about brothers, when we talk
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about mothers, when we talk about sisters, some of you have
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some real hurt and some pain and some open, open wounds with
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those categories. And I, I probably don't even
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have to say some of you, all of you have been part of earthly
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families that have hurt you and broken your heart and have been
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less than ideal at times. We all feel it.
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And what God wants to do is to redeem the design.
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There's somewhere that's continually trying and by God's
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grace, glorifying him in the way that we operate as his design
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family. And so let's just put it all
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together. Older men, you need to be
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honored and respected. The older men of this gathering
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of this church should have such honor and respect that we just
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look different than the world. Younger men of the church should
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be part of a brotherhood where men are caring for men and
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praying for men, and they're not in competition.
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They're in community of love and grace and support.
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The older women of the church should be celebrated as these
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amazing gifts, like a son would celebrate a mother.
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And the younger women of the church should be protected and
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cared for as sisters with purity that no one would be ripped off
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when they come. And so we're going to, I pray,
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be refreshed and renewed for that.
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I pray that we would be known as a culture of a multi
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generational family of God that loves one another, that respects
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one another, that cares for one another, that protects one
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another. And we're going to remember how
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it all started. Every time we gather we we
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remember the the body and the blood of Christ and so
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beautifully. Whatever I'm preaching on, it
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always takes us back to remembering Jesus.
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There is no family of God apart from the Father sending His Son
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that whosoever believed in him would be part of the family.
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We're not a family that can love each other like father, mother,
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brother and sister because of the building we come to on
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Sunday morning. We are not a family because we
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we all, you know, have the same little church calendar and try
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our best to fall under the same teaching schedule.
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We are a family for those of you who have given your life to God,
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accepted the free gift of His love to redeem you, to give you
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newness of life, and to take you from darkness to light and put
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you in the family of God. We're a family because Jesus
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died on the cross and he gave us a new citizenship and we have to
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remember what makes us a family every time we gather.
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This is why we're a family because God so loved us that he
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sent his son. And today specifically, I'll
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I'll tell all of you that take communion regularly to remember
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that we're a family and it's because of Jesus dying.
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And for those of you who don't consider yourself part of the
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family of God, this is the day that you should join.
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Everyone apart from the grace of God redeeming your story and
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giving you newness of life comes from a broken family.
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At some point or another, your family's going to break down.
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And we would love for you to join the family of God and call
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this little corner of His Kingdom your living room with
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us. And all you have to do is to
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believe that the Father in heaven so loved the world that
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He sent His Son to die on the cross to forgive your sin and
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welcome you into the family of God.
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And if you want to join the family of God, you just take
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that communion and say, I accept this free gift that your body
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and your blood were given to make me part of the family of
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God. So if you're a long time member,
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celebrate, remember that this is not just, you know, a your name
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is stamped in heaven, which it is.
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But God has got you set aside in His family to show the world
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what a family looks like.