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Pastor the People – 1 Timothy 5:1-2

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  1. We are in First Timothy. We've been studying this book of

  2. the Bible since the beginning of the year and we are now entering

  3. into the 5th chapter in a series in First Timothy that we're

  4. calling trustworthy. And I just I love that one

  5. simple word to give us a constant reminder of why this

  6. book is so good and necessary to know because it it is God's

  7. design for in some ways the church to have an instruction

  8. manual, a blueprint. How would the whole operation

  9. should work so that it is a place where you can come and

  10. find the trustworthy God faithful for all our lives

  11. represented in a trustworthy gathering.

  12. And so as we enter into this new chapter, and as you think about

  13. everything we've we've looked at and studied so far, it's almost

  14. as if if the study stopped now, we, we just about have

  15. everything that we would need as we've studied and looked at the

  16. word to, to see a vision of a trustworthy and healthy church

  17. in the 1st 4 chapters of this letter.

  18. If, if a church executes and really takes seriously

  19. everything we've looked at so far, they, they'd be so close to

  20. being a healthy and good church. And so just think about what

  21. we've already talked about. The, the, the, the letter starts

  22. by Paul writing to young Timothy, his mentor or his his

  23. disciple in the faith. You got to have sound doctrine.

  24. You got to stand on the truth. You can't get, you can't get

  25. sidetracked by arguing over fables and mythology.

  26. It's like have sound doctrine and a church that does that

  27. teaches the truth has a really important part of being a good

  28. church. And there's a huge emphasis.

  29. As we've read this time and time again, Paul is saying wherever

  30. you find bickering and arguing, turn it into a reason to pray.

  31. A church that's praying is going to be a solid church.

  32. We went through and looked at all of the important

  33. qualifications and characteristics of having a

  34. healthy, trustworthy leadership and having elders and overseers

  35. in place that have the, the right characteristics and the

  36. right marks of a good leader and, and having that as a

  37. church. And you're close, you're getting

  38. really close to being a healthy church.

  39. And then we talked about being a church that has qualified

  40. servants that are serving, washing the, the, the church

  41. representing the hands and feet of Jesus.

  42. Again, all of these beautiful blueprints.

  43. And we're so close just in these 4 chapters.

  44. And yet there is something that we now still have yet to cover

  45. that if you don't have this, none of it matters.

  46. And it's it's, it's almost so obvious that you can miss it.

  47. It's like losing the forest for the trees.

  48. And sometimes that's how it is. The most obvious thing is the

  49. thing. You forget it.

  50. I'm mindful of that several years ago as my wife and I

  51. welcomed in our third child to the family.

  52. And by by child #3 you've got, you know, your training wheels

  53. are off in a sense, you're ready for the mission.

  54. And I'll never forget our very first time doing our family

  55. outing as a family of five. So we've got oldest daughter

  56. now, middle daughter now and youngest daughter.

  57. And we were ready to kind of step out in faith, do our first

  58. excursion, run a couple errands, come back and, and see how it

  59. went. And we just had the order of

  60. operation down. You know, my wife has got the

  61. diaper bag locked, loaded, ready to go.

  62. We're ready for anything. It's like, you know, you got a

  63. diaper bags. Sometimes you feel like, you

  64. know, you're about to go on a Mount Everest hike.

  65. You got everything. We've got the older kids fed

  66. ready. They've got some entertainment.

  67. We've got them buckled into the car.

  68. They're ready to go. They're they're excited.

  69. Take our first excursion. We've got some places on the

  70. list of errands that we're going to run and we get to our very

  71. first stop and I go to get our newborn baby out of the back and

  72. I realized I'd left her at home. Forgot the baby 100%.

  73. You know you got everything on the checklist and none of it

  74. matters if you don't have the baby.

  75. And I've learned to finish stories by the way.

  76. We went home and grabbed her and she's fine.

  77. She's part of the family and she's with us.

  78. But parenting is a lot like pastoring.

  79. There are a lot of lessons I have learned that go both ways

  80. in pastoring for parenting and for parenting for pastoring.

  81. And the story I just described is like reading First Timothy

  82. one through 4 and closing the book and saying I got it because

  83. what Paul is about to say to Timothy is starting with this

  84. chapter and towards the end of the letter, now focus on the

  85. people. You've got the procedures and

  86. the policies and you've got how to preach and how to raise up

  87. leaders and how to care for the church.

  88. But if you don't put the whole thing around serving and caring

  89. for the people, you'll lose it. And, and I know I'm blessed for

  90. that refreshment and that reminder because sometimes in

  91. the pursuit of God in the congregation of a church, in

  92. leadership, you can put the policies and the calendar of

  93. events and the budgets and the building and all of the things

  94. that we do to gather can sometimes take precedent over

  95. the actual people. I know it's true of all of our

  96. lives. Sometimes the, the planning

  97. takes precedent over the parenting over the, the, the

  98. people that we're planning around.

  99. And, and now we, we cannot miss this.

  100. And, and if this chapter kind of was a mini series within our

  101. series, it would be called pastor the people.

  102. It's going to be an entire chapter of ways that Paul's

  103. going to say with everything in mind about a healthy operation

  104. of a church. Now you have to have a healthy

  105. pastor and a people, and so we won't get to all of it.

  106. Today. We're actually only going to

  107. cover 2 verses, but for the chapter that we're studying,

  108. which will resume after this Sunday, after Easter, there

  109. there is a clear emphasis on the importance of a good and healthy

  110. church caring for primarily and as utmost of importance, the

  111. people of the church. Verses 1 and 2 is Paul telling

  112. Timothy how to care for all the people of the church.

  113. When we resume after Easter, we're going to look at verses 3

  114. through 16 that that is all about how to care for those who

  115. are in the most need. The people who have desperate

  116. needs of a church care for them in, in the context of this

  117. letter, it's the widows, but it's the, the idea is how do you

  118. care for people that need care the most?

  119. Then we'll look at 17 through 19.

  120. It's all about the the elders. Once again, a word for the

  121. overseers and leaders. Make sure that you're overseeing

  122. with a heart for people. And then as we look at the last

  123. part of this chapter, it will be verses 21 through 25.

  124. And it is really practical people skills for a pastor.

  125. How do you just interact with the church and make sure the

  126. preaching is good, but the pastoring is sound.

  127. You want sound doctrine and sound pastoring.

  128. And so with that in mind, we're going to look today, pass

  129. through the people and specifically the categories of

  130. old and young men and women. And we'll look at that in the

  131. 1st 2 verses. And just if you take nothing

  132. else from this, just know that the whole emphasis now is the

  133. importance of the people of the gathering.

  134. Starting in verse 1 of chapter 5, he says do not rebuke an

  135. older man, but exhort him as a father, younger men as brothers

  136. and older women as mothers, younger women as sisters with

  137. all purity. And This is why this headline is

  138. how to pass through the people with all categories in mind.

  139. You got old men and young men and here's your here's your

  140. pastoral duty to serve them and categorically different.

  141. And then you've got older women and younger women and here's how

  142. you handle them. And so we're going to just look

  143. at those 4 sections that we just read in these two verses.

  144. But we before we do, we we have to catch the vision once again

  145. that Paul is encouraging Timothy to have for the church.

  146. And it is very simply a family that is multi generational.

  147. This is clearly working under the assumption that Timothy is

  148. going to be pastoring using a reference points for family,

  149. fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters.

  150. And also there's going to be old and there's going to be young.

  151. So when we think of when we look for a vision of a healthy church

  152. body, when we look at this and study this and and measure our

  153. own church against the the New Testament writing, we have to

  154. acknowledge and celebrate that the church is supposed to be old

  155. and young, multi generational. It is not healthy for a church

  156. to emphasize a movement towards youth at the expense of the

  157. older generation. And it's also not healthy for

  158. the church to defend traditions of the older generation at the

  159. expense of welcoming new people in.

  160. And I think that our church from season to season needs to hear

  161. that. But no doubt all churches feel

  162. this tension. Last week we looked at the

  163. advice that Paul had to Timothy. He said, listen, Timothy, you're

  164. going to be a little bit younger than some of the people in your

  165. church. Let no one despise your youth.

  166. And churches need to hear that as young leaders are being

  167. raised up, they're, they're going to do their best.

  168. And as long as they're acting in maturity, don't despise them

  169. just because they're young. It's good to have young people

  170. at the church. It's good to have young leaders.

  171. And now the counterweight of that is it's also good to have

  172. older people in the church and throughout time, different

  173. cultures emphasize their age preferences.

  174. In Ephesus, it was actually much more honor honorable to be old

  175. people. They lived in a culture not

  176. unlike other cultures in our world where old people had a

  177. certain honor as patriarch or matriarch of the community.

  178. Our culture is the exact opposite.

  179. Our culture emphasizes the youthful spirit.

  180. And I think sometimes that creeps into the church and

  181. sometimes the church feels like it's doing everything to be hip

  182. and attractive to young people. And sometimes, and I know I felt

  183. this for our own congregation, sometimes the the older

  184. generation is like, hey, are we still noticed, recognized and

  185. valuable? And so the answer is, according

  186. to the Word of God, absolutely yes, the church must honor the

  187. young generation coming and honor with respect and value the

  188. generation that is part of the church now.

  189. And so that is the vision that you will find all throughout the

  190. New Testament. And that's also as an extension

  191. of our church practicing this. That is the vision that that we

  192. have for our house church Calvary communities, that when

  193. you go into the smaller communities of our church, we

  194. want to reject the idea that those should be, you know,

  195. pockets of friends getting together and sharing a meal,

  196. young with young and old with old.

  197. And that's why we encourage all of the communities to come into

  198. houses, not based off their age, but based off their location so

  199. that you will be in a community of believers opening the word

  200. and eating together. And the older and wise can pour

  201. into the young and the young can be encouraged and also support

  202. the older people. So if you're part of the Calvary

  203. community, that is the vision. And we celebrate those that are

  204. multigenerational because this is giving a vision for the

  205. family to represent old and young because that's what the

  206. family does represent. And so now let's look at the

  207. categories. He said in verse one, do not

  208. rebuke an older man, but exhort him as a father.

  209. So now we have our first category, the older men of the

  210. church. So we we think of the context of

  211. what Timothy is going through through Paul's encouragement.

  212. He's got some pastoring to do in this church.

  213. There's all sorts of things that are happening by inference in

  214. this church that Paul has chosen to correct through the

  215. leadership of Timothy, and that's going to include older

  216. men as well. So the older men of the church

  217. need to be pastored. And there's a way that Paul

  218. wants the older men to be pastored that's going to look

  219. different than Timothy's peers and younger.

  220. And so the, the question that maybe all of you are asking is

  221. where is the line of old and young?

  222. You know, I've got to apologize because last week I put my cat

  223. myself in the category of older pastor.

  224. And some people came up to me and said, you're not old yet.

  225. You're not old until you get the discounts at the, at the early

  226. bird specials. I said, well, I guess I'm not

  227. old in that sense, but I'm definitely older than a lot of

  228. people in our church. And so here's the line for all

  229. of us to use as the lens of this sermon so that we can do what

  230. it's calling us to do for the older and the younger people

  231. among us. The line is not an age or a

  232. median age. It's not as though Timothy is

  233. being said like, hey, you know, the average age of Ephesus is

  234. this, and here's where the line is.

  235. The line in this context is Timothy himself.

  236. The line is Timothy. You're going to be pastoring As

  237. you pastor men and that are older and, and more experienced

  238. than you, then you're going to do it this way.

  239. And as you pastor men that are younger, do it this way.

  240. And so the line is you. And that's a beautiful way to

  241. look at how to show honor and respect to older and younger,

  242. because that line is going to follow you wherever you go.

  243. And you're always going to have people.

  244. Every person in this church has someone that is older than them

  245. that they need to listen to this and say, OK, how can I care for

  246. this person? Of course, except for one

  247. person. I don't know who the oldest

  248. person in the church is, but we got somebody who's the oldest.

  249. This message is, you know, just respect all the young people for

  250. you. But that everybody else, you got

  251. somebody who's older than you. And there's somebody that's

  252. younger than you. And that line follows you for

  253. the rest of your life. And here's what we're supposed

  254. to do. Pastoring, caring for people in

  255. a church. And as you take this message and

  256. apply it to the community that you're a part of requires

  257. relationship. It's not a policy.

  258. It's not a number that you just find it.

  259. It requires you to treat older people different than you treat

  260. younger people. So as I read this as a pastor,

  261. what it's telling me is when I have to go through those moments

  262. of correction, when I have to stand before you as the the

  263. leader of the church teaching the word correcting sometimes

  264. for the older men in our church, I'm not just supposed to rebuke

  265. them. I'm not supposed to put men in

  266. their place and say, you know, I'm sick of you guys not getting

  267. this. There is an honor and a respect

  268. that is due to all of the men of this church that I'm pastoring

  269. that have gone before me. And when we look at this word

  270. rebuke, it's saying don't just sharply criticize.

  271. Well, of course rebuke is good. But in this context, Paul is

  272. saying don't treat older men as you would treat a younger

  273. person. You treat them with honor,

  274. respect. So he says, rather than just

  275. sharply criticize their mistake or need for correction, you

  276. encourage them. You exhort them in a category.

  277. You honor and respect all of the older people in your gatherings.

  278. And, and I will say I want to grow in this and I want to do

  279. this well because I think it accomplishes 2 things.

  280. One, for just the outside world culture.

  281. As stated, we live in a culture where sadly, we have lost the

  282. respect young people pay to old people, older people.

  283. We, we have lost the respect that you can just see in

  284. children obeying their parents. There is, it's seemingly a chaos

  285. happening in a in the homes of the culture we live in where

  286. young people just do not care or respect older people.

  287. And I would love to be wholly and set apart because God's word

  288. has washed us from that cultural problem.

  289. I would love to be a group of people that look for opportunity

  290. to honor and respect and to have relationships with older people

  291. that are caring and kind. And I, I would, I would love to

  292. do it in the context right now of the church culture as well,

  293. because I do think that the, the, the culture of our world

  294. creeps into the church and, and old people sometimes feel out of

  295. place as the church, you know, tries to become more relevant.

  296. And let me just say to those of you who are older, who have been

  297. faithful members of our church, who have come and just prayed

  298. and cared for the younger people of our church who have joined

  299. Calvary communities, and you're supporting the younger, the

  300. younger members. I am so glad that you're part of

  301. our church. I'm so grateful that you're

  302. willing to be pastored and to sit under the teaching of

  303. someone who's younger than you and in some ways less

  304. experienced, less wisdom than you.

  305. I think that shows such great maturity on your part that you'd

  306. be willing to be part of our church.

  307. And it blesses this church to have you among us.

  308. And there's no small thing because no doubt there are

  309. pastors who have to read this passage of Scripture and think,

  310. wow, maybe we should try to get some older people to join our

  311. fellowship. Maybe we shouldn't have

  312. emphasized so much to the college and youth movement at

  313. the expense of all of the older people.

  314. So I just thank you guys for your grace sticking with a young

  315. pastor who's doing his best to grow and and I appreciate all

  316. that you do to make our church multi generational.

  317. So please be honored, be respected and and I will do my

  318. best to where where I can bring any kind of exhortation into

  319. your life. I want to do it with honor and

  320. and respect for you. And so we pass through the

  321. people differently because now the word says to Paul, to

  322. Timothy, where you're dealing with the younger men, I want you

  323. to treat them as you treat a brother, you know, so the honor

  324. and the respect and the the going out of your way to to

  325. really encourage the older. He says, now you're going to do

  326. that differently with people that are your own age or

  327. younger. And he says for the younger man

  328. in the second-half of verse one, you treat them as brothers.

  329. Now, for me, I never had a brother growing up.

  330. I always wanted a brother. I love my sisters.

  331. I'm the middle child of an older sister and a younger sister.

  332. So for years I would ask for my Christmas present to be a

  333. brother. And I gave up on that.

  334. And I'm sure my parents were grateful because that would have

  335. required a lot of work on their part.

  336. But, you know, I was under the impression as a young kid that

  337. brothers were just always best friends, you know, that brothers

  338. would just always play together and they would share their toys

  339. with one another. And eventually they'd grow up to

  340. start a business together or a band and tour the world.

  341. And it was just like brothers, you know?

  342. And now I know that so often the Bible is referencing a position

  343. or an office that God designed that the world broke.

  344. So often in scripture, brothers are actually used for Jesus as

  345. teaching moments. Here's a couple examples.

  346. Luke chapter 12. You'll remember the the parable

    Luke 12 chapter mention

  347. of the rich fool where Jesus is teaching about how fleeting

  348. riches are is actually Jesus trying to teach two brothers

  349. that were arguing over their inheritance.

  350. They were divided. They were more concerned with

  351. stuff than a relationship with one another.

  352. Couple chapters later, Luke chapter 15, we get one of the

    Luke 15 chapter mention

  353. great stories, One of the great parables of the Bible is the

  354. prodigal son. A great time to be reading and

  355. thinking about an Easter because there's someone who is so dead

  356. and lost in his rebellion that the father who sees him coming

  357. from afar says, this is my son. He was lost and now he's found.

  358. He was dead and now he's alive. Let's throw a feast for my lost

  359. son. And of course, it's actually a

  360. story about brothers. Because the older brother sees

  361. him come to the feast and this, this younger brother who wasted

  362. the money and disrespected the father gets a party.

  363. The older brother goes, I hate this guy and I hate that you

  364. love him and I hate that you have grace for him.

  365. And brothers can despise one another.

  366. They can. They can be the opposite of what

  367. we're supposed to represent as a a loving family in the household

  368. of God. And honestly, that journey goes

  369. all the way back to the unraveling of humanity.

  370. It starts with brothers hating each other or one brother hating

  371. the other. Genesis chapter 4, verse 8.

    Genesis 4:8

  372. This is the very beginning. The man has just been cast out

  373. from the good perfect paradise that God created, and it wasn't

  374. long before brothers represent the downfall of humanity.

  375. Chapter 4, verse 8. Now Cain talked with Abel, his

  376. brother, and it came to pass when they were in the field that

  377. Cain rose up against Abel his brother, and killed him.

  378. First murder of the Bible is a brother who's despised the other

  379. and killed him. Then the Lord said to Cain,

  380. where is Abel your brother? And he said, I do not know.

  381. Am I my brother's keeper? Doesn't matter where my brother

  382. is, I don't care. I'm going to live my life.

  383. I'm not going to concern myself with his affairs.

  384. And I'll never forget teaching this years ago as we went

  385. through Genesis as a as a church.

  386. The next week after I taught on this passage of Scripture, Gage

  387. Duke, faithful friend, just being part of our church

  388. forever. He came up to me at church and

  389. he gave me a little plaque that he had made.

  390. And all it said was I am my brother's keeper.

  391. And he says, if you never need anything, just know that I'm

  392. here for you. I'm praying for you and I love

  393. you. He reversed the entire curse by

  394. the Spirit of God making him my brother in Christ in my

  395. brother's keeper. And that is what Paul is getting

  396. at to Timothy. He says listen, the the brothers

  397. in the in the the men, the younger men, you are their

  398. keeper. Concern yourself with their

  399. affairs. Think about their lives.

  400. Figure out how you can help them, how you can love them, how

  401. you can do anything you can to lay down your life to help them.

  402. And that is the family of God. Younger men, I am my brother's

  403. keeper when I share the word and I and I exhort it and I

  404. encourage you and, and I hope give you some sort of vision

  405. that God has for his perfect will for your life.

  406. It's because I desire you to have that life more abundant

  407. that God has planned for you. And I am receiving this as the

  408. pastor and I share this as you brothers and sisters one

  409. another. You're your brother and sisters

  410. keeper, honor the older men, care for the younger men as

  411. though they were your brothers and you are reversing the

  412. brokenness of the sin of this world by caring and not

  413. despising each other. And so then we go on and now we

  414. come to verse 2, which is our category for women, the older

  415. women and the younger women. Not lost on me, this verse,

  416. perfect verse as such an encouragement, a vision for the

  417. women of our church at an imperfect weekend because the

  418. the the women ministry has just gone and off to a retreat.

  419. So I picked a bad time to honor the women of our church.

  420. It would also have been great a couple weeks later if we could

  421. have done it on Mother's Day. Also not perfect.

  422. So I'm hoping that wherever we are on Mother's Day, mothers of

  423. the church, women of the church, just just remember this sermon,

  424. OK, we'll do something else. But this is a preview of

  425. Mother's Day, first Timothy, first Timothy chapter 5 verse

    1 Timothy 5 chapter mention

  426. two older women as mothers, younger women as sisters with

  427. all purity. So once again, Paul is writing

  428. to Timothy. He's going to be pastoring in a

  429. congregation that is multi generational and he's going to

  430. have to care for, encourage at times, correct exhort and pastor

  431. older women of the congregation. And he says for that, have a

  432. vision for caring for a woman as though a son cares for a mother.

  433. And once again, this is just a moment to say to those of you

  434. who call Calvary Chapel Boise your church family and you are

  435. willing to be pastored by a young man who is younger than

  436. you and you are an older woman. I am so grateful for the culture

  437. that you have brought to this Church of the, the, the love and

  438. the care. You know, I'm grateful for the

  439. reference points God has given me for what it looks like to

  440. have a relationship with a mom that are so healthy.

  441. And when I think of the role a mom plays, my mom and my life,

  442. and then, you know, the motherly spiritual moms of a church,

  443. there's too many things to name. So I'll just share 3 very quick

  444. meditations, let's say, of encouragement that I have

  445. thinking about treating the older women as mothers, women of

  446. the church. Three things amongst a million.

  447. They are so good at bringing favor to the church, at giving

  448. in in ways only a mother could feedback to the leadership of

  449. the church and in ways that I welcome more of.

  450. I love the food that is brought in.

  451. I feel so cared for just in that practical calorie Chapel kind of

  452. way. I am so blessed through all the

  453. food and, and, and I will say they all kind of work together

  454. as one. My mom of course, raised me and

  455. she she gave me food and she was very patient with a picky eater.

  456. Food is a great way to just encourage the pastoral team and

  457. just each other. I love the the idea of the

  458. Calvary community is breaking bread together.

  459. It's a beautiful picture of the family.

  460. A meal is really important for families to have that time

  461. together. And you know, food goes really

  462. well with feedback. Mothers are so good at giving

  463. that feedback that only a mother could do.

  464. And my mom is an example when she come to church and she just

  465. gives the most motherly feedback, she'll say, hey, great

  466. time in church today. I think you're due for a

  467. haircut. And I'm like, oh, thank you,

  468. mom. I do.

  469. I'm going to do better. I'm going to do better.

  470. There was a stain on your shirt. I'm like, I'm so sorry, mom.

  471. And you know, I, I love my mom for that.

  472. And I'll say this, I love the older women, older than me,

  473. women of the church, because you guys give feedback and only a

  474. way mother could. It's so good.

  475. A pastoral team needs feedback. We are not free from error or

  476. correction ourselves. And I love the just a little

  477. comment in grace the, the, the things we can work on.

  478. I'll never forget when I first became a pastor, it was actually

  479. a group of women that were older than me and they had feedback.

  480. And of course, I gave so many good opportunity for feedback

  481. and I still do, but especially when I first started, I'm like

  482. trying things and learning on the fly.

  483. And I had a lot to learn. And, and, and I had this, these,

  484. this group of women, they invited me into one of their

  485. houses and they had just just a, just a list to go through with

  486. things that we could do better as a church.

  487. Love it. And you know, you've got to,

  488. you've got to be willing to receive that.

  489. And, but the beautiful thing about it was it seems as though

  490. their list perfectly aligned with all of the, the things on

  491. the cheese board. So I'm just getting the feedback

  492. and just getting the cheese and crackers.

  493. And it's like, you know, the sounds a little loud and the

  494. lights are a little dim. Your pants are a little skinny,

  495. but here's some cheese and crackers.

  496. You know, I'm like you guys, it's got to go together.

  497. And so to this day, please continue.

  498. Men give feedback as well, but but maybe channel it through

  499. your wives or you know, the the women give such great feedback.

  500. To this day. The woman that had me to her

  501. house, if she ever has a comment, if she ever has

  502. feedback to give me, she always does it with cheese and

  503. crackers. And I'm like, this is great.

  504. I love this relationship and I want I want us to have a good,

  505. healthy culture of loving anyone who's older than you the way you

  506. would your mom, because they give such amazing blessing to

  507. the church. And and that is the third

  508. category that I'm so grateful for.

  509. Moms, spiritual moms, the the women of any church gathering

  510. from the New Testament. Just read it.

  511. You see it all over the place. They bring such confident faith

  512. that turns into favor. And I probably don't share my

  513. testimony enough. I was not, you know, a pastor in

  514. my teenage years or most of my 20s.

  515. And I had, like anyone, a, a story of coming to Jesus and

  516. wayward turns. And the consistent part of my

  517. story is that I had a mother who prayed and she submitted prayers

  518. and she joined prayer groups. And, and I just want to say as

  519. we honor the mothers and we, I'm so thankful for the mother.

  520. I would not be here, no doubt, if I didn't have a praying

  521. mother and I'm I wonder how many people can say that about their

  522. lives if they just had those people that never stopped

  523. praying. Older women of our church, you

  524. guys are so faithful. The Lord has blessed our church

  525. because you are so faithful in prayer and commitment as you

  526. open the Word and study it. And our campus, if you just come

  527. to our campus the other week, you're going to see all of these

  528. faithful women caring for the needs of our body through the

  529. power of prayer and the confidence they haven't got.

  530. And for that, it's like, that's our culture.

  531. I receive this, I get reminded and refreshed as a pastor, but

  532. please, this is the message for the culture of the people of God

  533. that you as younger people would see these women who have gone

  534. before you, these men who have gone before you as wise and

  535. caring and integral parts of your story.

  536. And if you don't know those people, this is a great reminder

  537. of things we've already mentioned.

  538. Join a Calvary community house church gathering because you're

  539. going to find the food you're going to find the the the favor

  540. in those people that are willing to walk with you in your

  541. Christian life. And so we we care for the older

  542. women as mothers and then it says younger women as sisters

  543. with all purity. You know, we'll go back again to

  544. the reminder of what this series is all about to be a trustworthy

  545. and healthy church gathering with strong, healthy leadership

  546. with a vision for the church that is in line with God's word.

  547. And I'll just say that that this should just be underlined in

  548. everyone's Bible as to one of those sound just just guards of

  549. a church that the younger women of the church should be so

  550. protected and cared for. And specifically talking to to

  551. leadership, talking to any interactions that that someone

  552. like Timothy would have with a a a young woman in a gathering.

  553. You know, Paul was so wise in writing this.

  554. Timothy was a single guy in a sinful city.

  555. And Paul in in all of his encouragement in all the

  556. categories we've already looked at said now now when the young

  557. women come in, Timothy, remember and and be an example for

  558. generations to come. And anyone who would read this

  559. encouragement to Timothy, listen up.

  560. These women are your sisters and that's why he attached with all

  561. purity. This is not a place to just act

  562. like you're at the the, the social hour at the bar.

  563. And now by God's grace, he's going to bring together man and

  564. woman in his perfect timing, in his perfect pure way.

  565. But in the meantime, how healthy would the church age we live in

  566. if more people just memorized that verse in leadership?

  567. Care for the women. They're your sisters.

  568. Protect them as such. Care for them.

  569. Don't RIP them off. Don't take advantage of them.

  570. Don't give anyone a reason to walk into church hoping to meet

  571. God and leaving church heartbroken.

  572. Care for the younger women as sisters.

  573. And so we'll just put it all together as almost a, a

  574. benediction as a, as a cultural creed kind of moment.

  575. This is the church family that God wants to represent to the

  576. world. You know, every category we

  577. looked at, I could have prefaced by saying, of course, when we

  578. talk about fathers, when we talk about brothers, when we talk

  579. about mothers, when we talk about sisters, some of you have

  580. some real hurt and some pain and some open, open wounds with

  581. those categories. And I, I probably don't even

  582. have to say some of you, all of you have been part of earthly

  583. families that have hurt you and broken your heart and have been

  584. less than ideal at times. We all feel it.

  585. And what God wants to do is to redeem the design.

  586. There's somewhere that's continually trying and by God's

  587. grace, glorifying him in the way that we operate as his design

  588. family. And so let's just put it all

  589. together. Older men, you need to be

  590. honored and respected. The older men of this gathering

  591. of this church should have such honor and respect that we just

  592. look different than the world. Younger men of the church should

  593. be part of a brotherhood where men are caring for men and

  594. praying for men, and they're not in competition.

  595. They're in community of love and grace and support.

  596. The older women of the church should be celebrated as these

  597. amazing gifts, like a son would celebrate a mother.

  598. And the younger women of the church should be protected and

  599. cared for as sisters with purity that no one would be ripped off

  600. when they come. And so we're going to, I pray,

  601. be refreshed and renewed for that.

  602. I pray that we would be known as a culture of a multi

  603. generational family of God that loves one another, that respects

  604. one another, that cares for one another, that protects one

  605. another. And we're going to remember how

  606. it all started. Every time we gather we we

  607. remember the the body and the blood of Christ and so

  608. beautifully. Whatever I'm preaching on, it

  609. always takes us back to remembering Jesus.

  610. There is no family of God apart from the Father sending His Son

  611. that whosoever believed in him would be part of the family.

  612. We're not a family that can love each other like father, mother,

  613. brother and sister because of the building we come to on

  614. Sunday morning. We are not a family because we

  615. we all, you know, have the same little church calendar and try

  616. our best to fall under the same teaching schedule.

  617. We are a family for those of you who have given your life to God,

  618. accepted the free gift of His love to redeem you, to give you

  619. newness of life, and to take you from darkness to light and put

  620. you in the family of God. We're a family because Jesus

  621. died on the cross and he gave us a new citizenship and we have to

  622. remember what makes us a family every time we gather.

  623. This is why we're a family because God so loved us that he

  624. sent his son. And today specifically, I'll

  625. I'll tell all of you that take communion regularly to remember

  626. that we're a family and it's because of Jesus dying.

  627. And for those of you who don't consider yourself part of the

  628. family of God, this is the day that you should join.

  629. Everyone apart from the grace of God redeeming your story and

  630. giving you newness of life comes from a broken family.

  631. At some point or another, your family's going to break down.

  632. And we would love for you to join the family of God and call

  633. this little corner of His Kingdom your living room with

  634. us. And all you have to do is to

  635. believe that the Father in heaven so loved the world that

  636. He sent His Son to die on the cross to forgive your sin and

  637. welcome you into the family of God.

  638. And if you want to join the family of God, you just take

  639. that communion and say, I accept this free gift that your body

  640. and your blood were given to make me part of the family of

  641. God. So if you're a long time member,

  642. celebrate, remember that this is not just, you know, a your name

  643. is stamped in heaven, which it is.

  644. But God has got you set aside in His family to show the world

  645. what a family looks like.