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Doctrine on Display - Titus 2:1-10

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  1. We're going to continue. Where we left off 2.

  2. Weeks ago we've been studying the book of.

  3. Titus Paul's letter Letter. To his companion in ministry in

  4. the island of Crete, and his name is is.

  5. Titus, we took a break last week to talk about.

  6. Just essence of church, who we are.

  7. And now we're going to resume in Chapter 2.

  8. To look. At really an extension of of the

  9. message. Last week, which is.

  10. How we can be a church that goes beyond church?

  11. It makes me think of a phrase. You are what you.

  12. Eat. How many of you have heard that?

  13. Probably, maybe if you're younger, you remember your mom

  14. saying that and and it it, it is a true principle, what you put

  15. into your. Body will dictate.

  16. How you feel and how you live. In fact, some of you probably

  17. are going to, in the course of me speaking for 30 minutes, get

  18. so hungry that you get distracted.

  19. And no food means no attention. You know, I took my family to

  20. ice cream last night. And as I'm thinking through the

  21. concept, you are what you eat, I'm watching my son takedown A

  22. monstrous sized ice cream cone. And I realized I was going to

  23. have to deal with what went into his body by the time bedtime

  24. struck and all of that hyperness was going to come out.

  25. And the basic Prince principle is what goes in.

  26. Shapes. What comes out and we are now

  27. going to discuss that not just with.

  28. Physical food, but what goes? Into your mind will shape what

  29. comes out of your life, your doctrine, which has been such an

  30. emphasis of this book and really our year in the journey of

  31. reading the Epistles, the pastoral Epistles healthy

  32. doctrine have good sound. Grasp of what God's truth says.

  33. Know it, cling to it. Don't be distracted by unsound

  34. doctrine. And and now Paul is going to

  35. give us one of the major benefits of healthy doctrine.

  36. Good teaching, healthy doctrine is healthy life where you are

  37. sound in truth, you will be sound in living.

  38. And so I want you to hold on to that principle.

  39. This is why doctrine matters. And this is ultimately how we

  40. are going to go from praising Jesus in a sanctuary to praising

  41. him with our lives in the streets.

  42. And so read along with me. We'll we'll resume in Titus

    Titus 2 chapter mention

  43. chapter 2, starting in verse one.

  44. But As for you? Speaking to Titus, speak the

  45. things which are proper for sound doctrine and then he's

  46. going to give us some categories that make up the church.

  47. Let's go through all of them. We'll go back and.

  48. Review verse 2 that the. Older men be sober, reverent,

  49. temperate, sound in faith, in love and patience.

  50. The older women likewise that they be reverent in behavior,

  51. not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of good

  52. things. That they admonish the young

  53. women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be

  54. discreet, chase homemakers, good obedient to their own husbands,

  55. that the word of God may not be blasphemed.

  56. And likewise exhort the young men to be sober minded in all

  57. things, showing yourself to be a pattern of good works in

  58. doctrine, showing integrity, reverence, incorruptibility,

  59. sound speech that cannot be condemned, that one who is an

  60. opponent may be ashamed, having nothing.

  61. Evil to say of you. He'll also include as a.

  62. Category of the household exhort the.

  63. Bond servants or servants of the household, to be obedient to

  64. their own masters, to be well pleasing in all things, not

  65. answering back, not pilfering, but showing all good fidelity,

  66. that they may adorn the doctrine of God our Savior in all things.

  67. This passage. Read in.

  68. Whole you see this. Incredible theme that Doctor is

  69. completely interwoven. With behavior what you believe.

  70. Whether it's in Christianity, in the ways of Jesus and good sound

  71. doctrine from the word of the living God, or you have some

  72. other belief. If your beliefs are formed and

  73. shaped by the news cycle or your Instagram feed or the things you

  74. talk about amongst your your friends at school.

  75. What? Goes in will.

  76. Shape how you view the. World and how you engage with it

  77. and for that. Paul is.

  78. Taking that principle and saying so then as you've been caught up

  79. in disputes. About what?

  80. Good. Doctrine is versus false

  81. doctrine. Let your life show the purity of

  82. your beliefs. And that will be the simple

  83. message for us to. Hear and be.

  84. Exhorted in and for us to be tested.

  85. By how does? Our doctrine get displayed.

  86. To the people who would. Only know us by the.

  87. Way we live. Not by the church we attend or

  88. the messages that we listen to. And so.

  89. For this. He's going to give us.

  90. A picture of what? What I.

  91. Find to be the demographics. Of a healthy church, did you see

  92. the categories that said speak to the.

  93. Older men and the older women, then the younger women and the

  94. younger man and, he says, and the household.

  95. Servants so you always get this picture.

  96. Of of Paul imagining Titus going into the.

  97. Households of faith as they gather.

  98. And he sees. A wide variety of age groups of

  99. diversity. And I think that is before we

  100. get into what? Those age groups are supposed to

  101. have as their. Healthy doctrine in their

  102. healthy. Life that's just a good.

  103. Reminder. For us, what a healthy church

  104. should be that every. Age and season of life.

  105. Is a. Crucial and critical part.

  106. Of a. Healthy family and a healthy

  107. church family. So we want to have a church

  108. family that honors and and exhorts and monitors the the

  109. seasons of old and the seasons of young, the roles of men and

  110. the roles of women and that that gives us.

  111. Also a picture for why. We want our small neighborhood

  112. gatherings to be more about where you live than about the

  113. people you want to hang out with.

  114. Because we're we're all probably.

  115. Tempted to. Say, well I've got.

  116. You know some people in my season of I'll just go hang out

  117. with them. The the idea is be.

  118. Part of a community that has some old and some young, some

  119. men and some women so that the word can use the whole season

  120. that the the season of lifes are to encourage and equip one

  121. another and so now let's. Take it category by category.

  122. He says As for you speak. The things which are proper.

  123. For sound doctrine and then he says that older men be sober,

  124. reverent, temperate, sound in faith, in love and patience.

  125. So. So this is for the.

  126. Older men and this will be another.

  127. Shout out for the older. Men, for all the men of our

  128. church, we do a monthly gathering.

  129. The second Sunday of every month.

  130. It happens to be tonight. You can come and I will continue

  131. to admonish you and we'll get together to talk about what it

  132. means to be a man who has good doctrine.

  133. That equals a good life. And you'll notice that these.

  134. Qualities overlap the qualities of good leadership, so.

  135. We are not trying to corner the market on high character people,

  136. men of virtue, and just funnel them all into leadership.

  137. A church is going to encourage everyone whether you're helping

  138. to oversee, whether you're serving a ministry.

  139. Whether you're just part of the church.

  140. Everyone is going to be called to a standard of living that

  141. sets you apart in the way that your character is on display, so

  142. he says. To the older who's older.

  143. What? We've made this distinction

  144. before. The timeline is your age.

  145. So. You're older than someone who's

  146. younger than you. I also think that implied here

  147. is someone that's got a little bit of responsibility with some

  148. people under. Them so older.

  149. Comes with people that have. A couple.

  150. Steps behind you in life older also comes when you're pouring

  151. into. People's life that are.

  152. Looking to you to lead or to guide them and he says if.

  153. That's you. Be sober.

  154. So this is clearly. When you think of the word

  155. sober, we can immediately think of just.

  156. Be free of the. Addiction of substance abuse and

  157. any kind of mind altering anything.

  158. So just anything that would take your mind from clear thoughts

  159. and pure thinking. Be sober.

  160. And I don't think that means just substance.

  161. I think we also need to be sober from the way that our mind needs

  162. to be clear, that can be pulled in intoxicated by the world.

  163. The world can intoxicate people's minds.

  164. And you can be so caught up in the news and the feed and the

  165. ways of politics and the arguments of the world that

  166. you're not clearly thinking and you're not being sound in your

  167. judgement. So.

  168. It's sober, Don't. Don't be intoxicated by

  169. substance or by the world. And he says be reverent.

  170. I think that is something I would love.

  171. For the people of God to. Restore into our society.

  172. Reverent here just means to be a man of honor, a man of dignity.

  173. And you. Have you ever gone down the

  174. rabbit? Roll of just.

  175. Of seeing just old videos. Of the way life used to work.

  176. The other day I was watching a baseball game from 1952.

  177. Don't ask me how, but I'm like man baseball.

  178. Is so cool and everybody. In the stadium was just wearing

  179. suit and tie and hats. I'm like that is a.

  180. Lost way of life. I'm not saying that there's a

  181. dress code at Calvary Boise. I'm saying if you're a man, go

  182. into the world and try to be honorable in the way that you

  183. present yourself, both in outward appearance but also just

  184. in your character and part of that.

  185. He says be temperate. This is to be.

  186. A well balanced person. To be.

  187. A person who is not. Overly obsessive.

  188. And and a person who's not overly.

  189. Passive you, you live your life. With a certain cadence and you

  190. have your indulgence under control.

  191. So that you. Represent moderation and I think

  192. all of those things can be best summed up for the call on a

  193. man's life to be an example of self-control.

  194. That's just something that comes as you get older in the Lord and

  195. the Holy Spirit gives you grace and he's he's teaching you how

  196. to walk with him. And over time, you'll notice

  197. that, you know, young boys turn into young adults and one of the

  198. things that is just needs to get.

  199. Worked out by the Lord. Is just the uncontrollable

  200. appetite. For life for.

  201. Boys, I had a mom, I know that she was probably up praying many

  202. nights just praying that I would not die.

  203. And you moms here probably are praying that for your young boys

  204. and the older men of the church represent self-control as.

  205. A way to. Show that maturity is on its way

  206. for all the young people. Actually I was as I'm just

  207. processing what self-control. Looks like this week.

  208. My son got so upset with one of his.

  209. Sisters that he kicked. A hole in the door and I

  210. thought, brother, you need self-control.

  211. And so I pulled him aside to offer him some discipline and

  212. give him give him the talk and he he just bowed his head and he

  213. said you can disappoint me now. I said no, you disappointed me.

  214. I can discipline you. I can discipline you.

  215. You got the roles reverse. He's teaching me how to be this

  216. next verse which says sound in faith, love and patience.

  217. So the the the young men need to see when they go through their

  218. moments of disappointment leaders in their life, fathers.

  219. Teachers. Coaches.

  220. The the young men, as they learn self-control, are going to see

  221. models of men that have sound or healthy faith, love and

  222. patience. So they trust God, they have a a

  223. love for people. That is not thrown off the rails

  224. by the the mistakes of life and they have a a patience they have

  225. a perseverance they they endure through life.

  226. So men older men of Calvary Boise by the timeline of people

  227. under you and and and anyone you're leading.

  228. Let this be seen in your life so that your doctrine is on

  229. display. Because I could tell you these

  230. qualities require. Encouragement, admonishment, and

  231. some filling of the Holy Spirit so that you can do them.

  232. Because left to our own devices, what men will wind up in a man

  233. cave or they'll wind up doing whatever they want to do and

  234. they'll revel in their lack of self-control.

  235. So let it not be so. For for you who sit.

  236. Under the word of God, and are an older man displaying the

  237. doctrine of God. Verse 3 says the older.

  238. Women likewise that they may be reverent in behavior, not

  239. slanders, not given to much wine, teachers of good things.

  240. And so once again, this is inseparable from the the

  241. doctrine going in and the life now on display, he says.

  242. I want you to be reverent in your behavior.

  243. It's not enough for Titus to put things in order by gathering the

  244. women and the men of the church and saying OK, I want you to

  245. know the Apostles Creed. I want you to know the the

  246. rights and wrongs. Of the word it, it also has to

  247. be. Seen through reverent behavior

  248. and so the women get this lesson to.

  249. Let your behavior be a picture of your doctrine and.

  250. This is a This reverence is, you know that one of the.

  251. Gifts of God is that. He's made women so pleasant,

  252. beautiful. There's so much more attractive

  253. than men, women, so good. Job the the the the.

  254. Any man who's married you. You got the better deal, but the

  255. idea with this. Reverence in your in your

  256. behavior is. That you would have a.

  257. Certain beauty that comes from the inside.

  258. Of your life that the. Doesn't mean that the dressing

  259. yourself up and looking nice is bad, but it means that.

  260. The the believers. The ones that follow Jesus have

  261. a certain beauty that is more than skin deep.

  262. Look what it says in. First Peter, chapter 3.

    1 Peter 3 chapter mention

  263. Don't be concerned solely with outward beauty.

  264. Fancy hairstyles Expensive. Jewelry or beautiful?

  265. Clothing, so it says, not only that stuff.

  266. You should clothe yourself. Instead, with the beauty that

  267. comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and peaceful.

  268. Spirit which is so precious to God.

  269. So be reverent in. Behavior be a beautiful.

  270. More than skin deep kind of woman then says not slanders.

  271. If this is something that you need to hear, you need to be

  272. corrected in. I'll just give the assignment to

  273. just. Read through the proverbs this.

  274. This week and you cannot go a week in the Proverbs without

  275. getting a lesson about the danger of the.

  276. Tongue it, it has it's. It can Kindles a little fire and

  277. it can burn down a whole city and so slander here.

  278. Is gossip. It's false.

  279. Witness It's just talking someone down, talking behind

  280. someone's back and and from 2000 years ago to now.

  281. The the, the the. The charge goes out.

  282. Don't do that. It's a temptation.

  283. But if you have good. Doctrine.

  284. It's going to go into your life and you're going to have a

  285. sanctification in the temptation to talk poorly about people.

  286. And then it says not given to much wine.

  287. So these overlap. In some ways with just.

  288. Good high virtue people. Are sober, sober minded, they

  289. have self-control and there's they're not given over their

  290. their doctrine is sound enough in Jesus that they're not given

  291. over to the the entrapment of substance in their life.

  292. So the men had to hear it. The women have to hear it.

  293. Don't don't give yourself to too much wine or any substance

  294. that's going to entrap you. And those are kind of the

  295. don'ts. And so now he says to the the

  296. older women, Titus, you want you to tell them what they should

  297. do. And he says the older women

  298. beat. Teachers of what is good or.

  299. Teachers of good things, teachers of in some ways the

  300. things that we're talking about time after time when we look at

  301. qualities. And characters of godly people.

  302. The the women of the. Church are are charged with.

  303. Sharing that and I I can assure. You as we go through this when

  304. he. Says be teachers of what is

  305. good. He's not just saying, you know.

  306. Get the the list. Out and have everybody take

  307. notes and get this. Way that you teach it through a

  308. a a three-week series. He's he's calling the women.

  309. Of the church to live. Out their doctrine and teach.

  310. Through life. And we'll get that as he talks

  311. about who they're going to. Teach, but this is.

  312. The next verse in verse four he says be.

  313. Teachers of what is good. That they admonish the young

  314. women to. Love their.

  315. Husbands, to love their children admonish is to encourage and.

  316. The way that they are are to teach is to take.

  317. Women that are younger than them.

  318. So there's your timeline. Older women of the church, is

  319. there anyone in your life that is younger than you then?

  320. There's your people. So I'm not going to create any

  321. kind of, you know, you must be this.

  322. Old to to ride this. Ride in our church.

  323. You've got to. Decide for yourself.

  324. Who the young people are in your life and you're.

  325. Called to. Live in such a way, in a

  326. Christian community, practicing the one another's in such a way

  327. where older women are encouraging, exhorting,

  328. admonishing the younger women on how to live.

  329. And he gives 2 practical. Amazing God-given roles for

  330. women to encourage one another in, he says.

  331. Women love their husbands and women love their children's.

  332. And so I'm just as an encouragement as we've kind of

  333. been flying over. Our church as.

  334. We read this, we're like, how are we doing this?

  335. We have such a incredible just. Culture.

  336. Of women's ministry in our church and so not everything we

  337. do as a. Church will will solely.

  338. Happen on Sundays in communities.

  339. There's also through. Scripture, a case to be made

  340. where women gather and men gather, and that's why.

  341. We do what we. Do and in our in our church, we

  342. have some incredible ways that women can come and admonish each

  343. other through Bible studies. Yet moms at Mom Co just older

  344. women admonishing how to. How to love?

  345. Their husbands and be good parents.

  346. We have another shout out if you, if you aren't convinced

  347. that you are invited and should come with.

  348. Do we have this unfiltered concert or concert?

  349. I said that again, conference. It's not a concert.

  350. Someone's gonna come and be like unfiltered rap concert for

  351. women. It's a conference and it's so

  352. much better that way. That's the idea is that.

  353. Women can come and encourage. What?

  354. Is God calling us to do, to be amazing in our roles?

  355. And let me just say, I am so. Grateful for God's.

  356. Design for church and family. It is not enough to have male

  357. elders and pastors leading a church and it is not enough to

  358. have just a husband leading the home.

  359. There is an amazing complimentary and partnership

  360. that happens in both the family and the family of God.

  361. I am. I'm so glad that my wife and I

  362. have partnered by God's. Grace to raise our.

  363. Children. She was out of town this summer

  364. on a rafting trip. For five days.

  365. And there were so many times where I just, I just know I'm

  366. like, I Daniella is going to come back and probably fix this

  367. mess. I've got I, I'm not the the mom,

  368. I'm the dad. And they are different roles and

  369. they're equally important and. It's it's good for us to.

  370. Be. Reminded that we have this.

  371. Blessing of God. To.

  372. Raise up the next generation through the unit of family, it's

  373. wife and husband and children. This is a gift of God.

  374. That he has designed the family unit to to take over the next

  375. generation, and he's entrusted. To the church to show the world

  376. what it looks like to have a. Healthy marriage, raising

  377. healthy kids, and I will have, you know, the order of that, he

  378. says older women admonish the younger to love their husbands

  379. and. Love their children.

  380. Don't get that out of order. Don't try to love your children

  381. and with the. Leftovers love your.

  382. Husband, I tell my kids all the time that for me to be.

  383. A great dad I got. To have a great marriage.

  384. I want them to see our marriage as the cornerstone of our

  385. family. And from the overflow of the

  386. grace that we have for each other.

  387. We're going to give them Amazing Grace as kids, so.

  388. If you're out of. Order in that I'll admonish you

  389. and women admonish each other, honor the husband, have that

  390. relationship so strong that your kids can then be a benefit of

  391. how strong the home is and and. I I will say there's.

  392. Another thing to note that is just on a side, but it struck me

  393. that we are. Encouraged to teach how to love

  394. I. Think that's a a a word that is

  395. worth pointing out that they that the Paul is saying Titus.

  396. Help them teach. Each other.

  397. How to love right? How to love well?

  398. And so if we if we may just speak into the culture for just

  399. a moment, that defines love as anything that you want it to be.

  400. And often times it's reduced to an emotion or attraction or

  401. season. We are the people that.

  402. Are reflections. Of the perfect love.

  403. And and we. Have to receive it by.

  404. Learning how? God has loved us.

  405. And then we have to model it, we have to teach it.

  406. There is. Love is.

  407. Actually something you need to learn and be taught in and and I

  408. say that. Because if you study Jesus.

  409. Who is the visible image of the God?

  410. Of love. He taught love all the time.

  411. We spent a whole summer examining the Sermon on the

  412. Mount and taught. Us how to love?

  413. Way beyond what would come naturally to us, he says.

  414. Anybody can love their friends. You do that naturally.

  415. Let me teach. You how to love better.

  416. By loving your enemies and going the extra mile and offering

  417. things with no expectation of return.

  418. And we we hear that. I've been a believer for as long

  419. as I can remember and I hear that.

  420. And I think, Lord teach me more. I need more of that.

  421. He also taught love by showing it remember the night that he

  422. was. Betrayed before the cross?

  423. He gets on his knees, he girds up his loins, and he.

  424. Washes the feet of the disciples.

  425. He says see how I. Serve you.

  426. Serve one another. And so that is how we cannot

  427. reduce love to an emotion or an attraction.

  428. We must learn it. Week by week.

  429. Study the Word, look unto Jesus, and then do it, and then it.

  430. Says that they're also verse. Five the older women, teaching

  431. them to be discreet and chaste, homemakers, good obedient to

  432. their husbands. That the word of God.

  433. May not be blasphemed so young women live wisely live with

  434. purity and then we come to a section that I'll slow down just

  435. for a second on because he says and teach them to be homemakers

  436. and once again I stand on in the 21st century in a culture that

  437. necessarily love the idea that there.

  438. Are different roles and. We also view this.

  439. Respectfully in the 1st century. When when there was no such

  440. thing as the industrial revolution and men would go off

  441. to work and and women would be homemakers.

  442. Paul is describing a world where there was just household.

  443. Units. And there was household

  444. homesteading. And he says to the women, be

  445. helpers in that, serve in that and model that for the children

  446. in the role that you have. And so we get a a beautiful.

  447. Picture of what the ancient mind would have.

  448. Seen in this in Proverbs chapter 31.

    Proverbs 31 chapter mention

  449. Here's one verse that says that the the.

  450. The the wise woman carefully. Watches.

  451. Everything in her household. And suffers nothing from

  452. laziness. And so it's a, it's a beautiful

  453. thing that you can do. It's obviously not God's only

  454. way for women in our world to serve.

  455. Their family and. Be part of the family unit.

  456. But it is a beautiful thing when a woman is called to be part.

  457. Of building up the household. And and and, Paul says do it

  458. well. Do take that role seriously and

  459. do it well. And it also says so you have a

  460. healthy. Household and you have a

  461. healthy. Marriage because he's going to

  462. say to them now I want you to model them or teach them

  463. obedience to their own husband. So let's just slow down there

  464. for a second as well, I, I think.

  465. That you know that word. Obedience is an unfortunate

  466. translation. I we, we hear that and I think

  467. of, you know, the obedience training that my dog went

  468. through. And that is not what this is

  469. getting at. In fact, if if you love that.

  470. Word. You should probably get a

  471. different. Translation of the Bible because

  472. I think the the. The better way to view this and

  473. receive it is coming under the. Leadership of.

  474. There is a role within God's design.

  475. For church and family where he is called men to lead their

  476. homes. And he's.

  477. Saying to women, come under that leadership.

  478. And this. Is.

  479. In further. Detail We spent a whole, you

  480. know, season of our church in Timothy and we we really

  481. explained why we have the conviction as a church that

  482. there is the role. Of.

  483. Leading the church and the home reserved for the man but that is

  484. not does that not limit women to other areas of life that they.

  485. Can serve and lead. In women can be incredible

  486. business owners and incredible principals and teachers and

  487. servants in government, but for God's design he has developed a

  488. unit where men lead in the homes in the church and women are

  489. incredible counterpart and in this moment he's saying let let.

  490. Them lead and. And let them do it well it also.

  491. Doesn't mean that. You're that there's this.

  492. Society that Paul is envisioning.

  493. Where all men lead all women very clearly.

  494. He says that you would submit to your own husband in your

  495. household unit. But I want to notice once again

  496. the order of events as sure as. There is an order to.

  497. Loving. Your.

  498. Husband before serving your children and caring for them.

  499. There's also an order to the admonishment that goes into a

  500. healthy church. We started with the men.

  501. We did not. This is not a a side topic.

  502. That, Paul, is just. Thinking about so that the women

  503. can can just be part of a subclass.

  504. Of the church, Paul is speaking to the whole.

  505. Church and he starts primarily by telling men to get their

  506. lives in order so that they. Would be respectable and

  507. reverent and. Temperate and sober minded and

  508. dignified people and they would take all of the call of.

  509. God on their life, including. Leading the home in the family,

  510. they would take it with reverence.

  511. And when that happens, this is actually a beautiful design.

  512. It it works amazing when men don't just skip down to that

  513. verse and say I'm going to put that on the mantle underneath my

  514. gun and I'll get all the free sandwiches I want.

  515. It works. Beautifully when the men

  516. receive. Their part with reverence.

  517. And then they hear this. With an absolute reverence.

  518. For what it means. For their life, and then when

  519. you stood across from your wives to take a vow.

  520. You were vowing. To give them your life to lay

  521. down, your life to die for. Them.

  522. And to be the first to die when there's moments of arguments.

  523. And there's. Moment when the flesh gets

  524. involved, You are to lead as the servant of all.

  525. And if you don't? Have that theology right.

  526. Bad doctrine equals bad marriage.

  527. So it it it. Works beautifully when it starts

  528. with men. And there's two ways it can go

  529. bad. It can go bad when there's bad

  530. leadership and they're selfish and and greedy leaders.

  531. That'll go bad in the church, it'll go bad in the family.

  532. This will also. Go bad here this.

  533. It is also bad when there's no. Leadership.

  534. It is just as sometimes. We get a little prickly.

  535. When we hear the word. Submission or or or leadership.

  536. Or or design of a. Family.

  537. But I assure you, the alternative is so much worse

  538. when a family is just left to its own.

  539. Devices and everyone. Goes to their own corners, doing

  540. their own thoughts and everything that was right in

  541. their own mind and no one will step up to the plate.

  542. And say we have. To honor God, we have to have

  543. sound doctrine. So we have a sound family.

  544. It's it's. It's bad when there's bad.

  545. Leadership, and it's bad when there is no leadership.

  546. So men, I'll say two things, be reverent and be worthy.

  547. Be reverent. Of.

  548. The call on your life to do this well and be worthy, meaning be a

  549. man that's worthy of. Leadership worthy of having?

  550. Someone follow you. Both of you can look to Jesus in

  551. this, by the way, looking unto Jesus the author and finisher

  552. husbands, Jesus says the Good Shepherd laid down his life for

  553. the sheep. You're.

  554. Called to shepherd well, and that means to.

  555. Lay down your life and. Women this.

  556. This you are not being called to submit as something that's

  557. outside of you're looking unto Jesus.

  558. Jesus went into the garden to face the cross and he laid down

  559. his life and said nevertheless your will be done.

  560. There is a beautiful leadership and a beautiful submission that

  561. both people can see in the life of Jesus.

  562. He then goes on to. Say to the young men, verse 6

  563. likewise. Exhort the young men to be

  564. sober. Minded.

  565. And now he's going to have a word for Titus.

  566. So for the young. Man, here's what you need.

  567. To hear get a. Clear mind, don't be an.

  568. Idiot and keep following the older men and get discipled.

  569. This is all he's got. For you, he's trusting.

  570. That you will hear. That and say OK.

  571. If I get sober. Minded if I get clear.

  572. Thinking then I will be able to. Someday step.

  573. Into all of the other great. Characteristics so he says be

  574. sober minded and then he. Turns to Titus and he says in

  575. all things, showing yourself to be a pattern of good works in

  576. doctrine, showing integrity, reverence, incorruptibility,

  577. sound speech, that can be that. Cannot be condemned.

  578. That one who is an opponent may be ashamed, having nothing evil

  579. to say of you. So here's the key, Titus.

  580. You be an example of all of these things to the flock that

  581. you're. Going to oversee and.

  582. He says to be a pattern of good works, meaning Titus is going to

  583. be an example of being example Titus is going to live his life

  584. in. Such a way where?

  585. People can see the pattern of how doctrine is lived out and

  586. that. Is the.

  587. Model that every category can. Now receive that discipleship

  588. men to younger. Men, women to younger women, be

  589. a pattern of what this looks like in your life.

  590. So the same thing I said to the man, I can say to every

  591. category. Be reverent.

  592. And be. Worthy be a person.

  593. Of. Honor that is worthy to.

  594. Be followed. That is where we are going with.

  595. All of the study. All of the building up.

  596. That the word will do in our life.

  597. It is to send you out of these doors so that you can be someone

  598. that has a life. Worthy of modeling or

  599. patterning. After.

  600. Now in verse. 9 He's going to give the final category, which

  601. are really the. Household servants I don't have.

  602. Time to give a robust defense of all of the ways.

  603. That the early. Church.

  604. Was bringing in the. The household servants to be

  605. part of the church family in revolutionary ways.

  606. But I assure you, when you read this, the question might come

  607. well, why didn't Paul? Just say abolish slavery and.

  608. We gave a a long sermon on this for Timothy as well, so you can

  609. find that. But what I'll say is that Paul

  610. was not starting a revolution against Rome to reorder the.

  611. The the class system. What he was starting was a

  612. transformation from the inside out.

  613. The reason? That we can.

  614. Look back on these times and see a world that was dominated, that

  615. slavery was everywhere. And present.

  616. And we can say that's so strange is because the.

  617. Gospel invaded and for. 2000 years has been transforming

  618. cultures from the inside out and we can now stand in a mostly

  619. free society thanks to the work of the early church welcoming.

  620. In. People who were thought of as

  621. non people. But he says the.

  622. Same. Thing now to the household

  623. servants, he says to them, exhort, bond servants to be

  624. obedient to their masters, to be well pleasing.

  625. In all things. Not answering back, not

  626. pilfering, but showing all fidelity.

  627. And here's the key for the. Servants and I'm going to.

  628. Take you back to the. To to where this came up in.

  629. Multiple times from what we read today, he says.

  630. Here's why. All this matters.

  631. So that. They may adorn the doctrine of

  632. God our Savior. In all things.

  633. So that they can put on and make beautiful the list that the.

  634. Servants get the list that. Every category got.

  635. Paul is saying. This is the purpose.

  636. So that you can. Put your doctrine on like a

  637. beautiful garment and make the Savior beautiful in all things.

  638. And here's where it came up more than once.

  639. Verse 5 again read with me that. The word of.

  640. God may not be blasphemed. What Paul is saying then?

  641. And what he's what the word is saying now is don't come into

  642. church and and say to be people of the book to learn the word,

  643. to take notes in church, to say I believe.

  644. It and then leave and. Live your life in such a way

  645. where someone could look at your life and think, well, that book

  646. must have no power. That God must have no.

  647. Transformative power because you go there all the.

  648. Time and you come out. Being worse than all of us, so

  649. he says. Let your life be adorned.

  650. In the beautiful ways of God. So that people would never.

  651. Blasphemy, what we're doing right now.

  652. He says it again in verse 8. Have sound.

  653. Speech. So.

  654. That. That they cannot be.

  655. Condemned, that the one who is an opponent may be ashamed,

  656. having nothing evil to say of you.

  657. If you just listen. To the chatter of the culture.

  658. What you will find? Is a hardened culture that is

  659. shaking their. Fist.

  660. At God and waiting for those who bear the name of Jesus to not

  661. live up to the standards of Jesus, they the.

  662. The one. That speaks evil of Jesus.

  663. The opponents of the gospel are waiting to speak evil.

  664. With all the ways that we represent doctrine with.

  665. Our lives, he says. Live.

  666. This out put it on. Take it seriously.

  667. Have a reverent. Life so that the enemy may be

  668. silenced and he says it finally what we just read that they may

  669. adorn the doctrine of God our. Savior and all things.

  670. We are called. And as we.

  671. As we looked at last week. To be a city on a hill.

  672. You are called to. Be a light in the dark.

  673. You you have. Accepted Jesus, your name.

  674. Is written in Book of Heaven and you're on earth still.

  675. So that you can. Leave and make God's name look

  676. beautiful. How do you do that?

  677. You do it. By having a life that is shaped.

  678. By the word, you do it by being. Someone who leaves the.

  679. Preaching of the word. And the study of the word and

  680. the absorption of the word. Ready.

  681. To live the word. And This is why.

  682. We are so. Grateful for the gospel of grace

  683. this is not. A message to condemn our

  684. missteps. This is not a message to say we

  685. all need to, you know, grip our fists and just clench our teeth

  686. until we finally are just perfect people.

  687. This is a message. To say.

  688. Let us be. Ever more dependent on the

  689. amazing free gift of the Holy. Spirit looking unto.

  690. Jesus and everything that we do. And as I said last week.

  691. When? The the last thing.

  692. That we'll do. Together is the first.

  693. Thing that should be. On your mind we leave this

  694. place. We are who we are by the grace

  695. of God, let us remember. That we have.

  696. The power to live different. The power to have beautiful

  697. lives. Because Jesus has give.

  698. Us given us newness of life. By dying on the cross.

  699. Overcoming the grave. And giving us the same spirit

  700. that rose hidden from the grave freely to all of.

  701. Us who believe, may we from. Today until next week, have.

  702. Beautiful lives in the Holy. Spirit husbands love.

  703. Your. Wives, parents, love your

  704. children. Old be.

  705. Examples to the. Young and in all of these things

  706. may people see a beautiful. Church that they've never been

  707. to. Thanks for joining us.

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