Sermon
Love Isn't Fair - Luke 15
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We're going to continue our study in the Gospel of Luke
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before we get into it, I'll also continue just the conversation
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about the families among us and just just from my own point of
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view. We, we, we just talked about the
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importance of families and the, the amazing seasons that so
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often are used by God as discipleship for our lives so
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that we can grow and, and, and learn how to love one another
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within our family more. So out of curiosity, how many of
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you are actually parents? So I'm going to do a formal
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poll. How many hands look at all the
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parents in the room this morning.
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OK, next question, How many of you are parents of at least two
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children? OK, that we're going somewhere
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with this. And if you didn't raise your
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hand, how about how many of you grew up in a family with at
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least one sibling? So everyone's about to just
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completely be spoken to this morning.
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And let let me explain to you why this is an important survey.
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If you are now parents of at least two children and if your
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children are now, let's call it in the age of reason, they can
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now question your decisions as parents and they can question
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how well you do at being a parent to all the children.
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You have now entered into this very important revelation of how
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life works. How many of you have had kids
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watch you parents make decisions on behalf of the family or even
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disciplinary action and said that's not fair?
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How many of you experienced that?
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Of course, all of us, and again, all of you at one point were
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probably growing up in a household that saw your parents
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remind you that they had to do things that weren't fair.
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Just this week, it took me all of one day thinking about this
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very notion. I was given the perfect example
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by one of my children. We're driving home from the
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grocery store and in a moment of disrespect, I have one of those
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parenting circumstances where I say, when we get home, we're
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going to have to talk about this the way you just talked to your
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mom. We're going to talk about it.
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So we get home and I send her to a room.
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And so for those of you wondering who I'm talking about,
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we're not talking about Tommy. I only have one son.
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It was one of the girls. We go to a room and every once
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in a while, by God's design, AA moment of discipline can turn
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into a great moment of of just love and moment between father
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daughter. So I went from conversation
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where I'm disciplining her to reminding her how much I love
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her. And then it turns into a whole
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bedtime routine. I'm tucking her in and praying
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with her and kissing her goodnight.
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Beautiful. Every once in a while it it
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works out perfectly, except for I leave the room.
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I've got three other children that were waiting for me while I
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was spending an hour with this child who was disobedient.
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The others were left to do chores and make lunches.
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And so they 1 by 1 looked at me as I come out of my daughter's
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room and they say, are you going to do that for us?
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I don't have time tonight to do that four times.
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And so I got the that is so unfair.
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It's not fair that the one who is disobedient gets all of your
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attention and a one-on-one bedtime routine.
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And I had to remind them what all of you have to remember that
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life isn't fair. And we bring all of that up
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because if you've ever said that to your children, you're
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actually walking in a beautiful and a profound moment of
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theology that Jesus is going to address today.
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Life is not fair. And by the time we get to the
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end of this story, we are going to be so grateful that life
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isn't fair. And more importantly, the
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Kingdom of God isn't fair. We're going to read one of the
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most important stories that you will ever hear to try to
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understand the heart of God when it relates into teaching us how
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the Kingdom of God works. And one of the fundamental
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essence is it's not going to be fair.
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And by the end of this, we're going to be so grateful.
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And we're also going to be reminded that all of us are
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still little children at times. And we want everything to be a
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math equation. We want the way that we are good
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to have good output. We want the way that we serve to
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have things that turn into blessings.
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And I'll just remind you on the onset that the Kingdom of God is
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not fair. And it's a good news message.
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And so to get this message, I'm going to take on the the, the,
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the heavy lift of having you turn to one of the most
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important chapters of all the Bible.
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It might be my desert island chapter.
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If I was alone on a desert island and I had to choose one
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chapter, it might be Luke chapter 15.
Luke 15 chapter mention
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And so turn to Luke chapter 15. And before we get to what is
Luke 15 chapter mention
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considered one of, if not the great parables of Jesus, it's
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between this and the Good Samaritan.
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Most of you have heard the story of the prodigal son.
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We're going to start at the beginning of the chapter to get
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the context as to why Jesus is going to tell a parable.
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Jesus employs parables when he has to speak a heavenly truth
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with an with a earthly story because people aren't getting
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it. So in the beginning of this
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chapter, we're going to we're going to get the scene set up
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that will turn into these parables because of something
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that is happening over and over again to where some people are
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not getting it. So start with me in verse one.
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You cannot miss the context says then all the tax collectors and
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the sinners drew near to him to hear him.
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We stopped there immediately already the person of Jesus, as
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you study him, as you read the Gospels, as you get to know him,
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what you will find the genuine Jesus was always so welcoming to
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everyone and and this is such a beautiful reminder for some of
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you even now as you maybe had to with bravery and courage walk
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through the doors of the church. The person of Jesus, when you
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really get to know him. He, he is a person where
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sinners, tax collectors, those who were far off in this day,
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very non religious, they drew near to him.
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They loved to be near him. He's a welcoming person in his
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ministry. And yet it says, and the
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Pharisees and the scribes complained, what is he doing?
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What is he thinking saying this man received sinners and eats
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with them, So he spoke this parable to them.
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A broader view of the Gospel of Luke and the narrative it's
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telling is going to and look out for it.
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As you read the chapters leading up to this, There's going to be
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a theme of eating throughout the Gospel, and we've already looked
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at a number of it from Luke Chapter 9 all the way to the
Luke 9 chapter mention
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cross. There are a number of times
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where Jesus is at a dinner or in fact teaches about a dinner or a
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feast or a banquet as a way to understand the heart of God.
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You'll remember even just last chapter if you read Luke 14,
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Jesus says the Kingdom of heaven is like a wedding feast.
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And the whole point was the people who get invited don't
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come. And so he goes to the highways
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and the byways and he invites the least of these, the ones
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that no one would expect. And then he says when you give a
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dinner, don't invite your friends.
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Everybody does that. I want you to invite people that
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normally wouldn't be invited. And now the author of this
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gospel is taking us to a real live moment where Jesus is
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living out the banquet that reminds us that heaven draws
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people that are not normally expected to be at the table.
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And part of that lesson is those who are assuming their role at
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the table at the feast are the ones who miss it.
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And this is what the scribes and the Pharisees are living out as.
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They complain that Jesus is keeping such odd company tax
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collectors and sinners and those who seem so unholy.
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And they complain and they use it against him as a reason to
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not trust that he could actually be the Messiah.
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So he turns to them. He says he turns to them and
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tells parables he's going to tell 3 parables, all of them
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with a similar theme, but the the picture will get more and
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more intense as to how it teaches it.
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So the audience is the religious people who missed the point.
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The parables, The first two very quickly are the parable of the
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lost sheep and the lost coin. Painting a picture with one
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refrain that repeats itself over and over again.
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A shepherd goes out and he loses a sheep, one out of 100 and he
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leaves 99 in the safety of home to find the one that is lost.
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And when he finds it, this is the point.
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He puts it on his shoulders and he carries it home.
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And he's so grateful that he found what was lost.
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And he rejoices. And then he says or, or, or
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think of it this way. There's a woman who loses a
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coin. She has 10.
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She loses 1. And so she does what you do when
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you lose something in your house.
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You sweep the whole house. You turn on the lamp and the
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lights, and you look for everything.
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You look through everything until you find it.
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It reminds me of my wife when she loses her glasses and she
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can't see anything. So I have to join the search
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party. And we sweep the whole house and
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we retrace our steps and we turn on the lights and we look for
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the glasses. And what happens when you find
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them? I can see again.
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This feels so good. I found the coin.
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Rejoice with me. He's appealing to a natural
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human instinct. When you lose something you
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love, you're excited when you find it.
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And those two parables are building into something that is
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the the most exalted example of losing something you love, which
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is when you lose the relationship with the person you
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love the most. This is the context and the back
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story. Jesus speaking to those who
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can't understand why he would be eating with such unholy people.
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So he speaks the parable and now he comes to the greatest parable
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of the three, often called the parable of the prodigal son.
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But as we start in the introduction, it's important to
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note what the setup that Jesus offers is actually telling us.
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It says in verse 11, then he said a certain man had two sons.
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It cannot be limited to the interaction that the father has
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with the prodigal son. It's a beautiful story.
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What happens to the younger son as he leaves and then returns is
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it's, as stated, the the beautiful picture of the
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redemption of the gospel. But we must remember that this
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is a story that is meant to teach us about the second son,
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the older son as well. In both of the Son's
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relationship with the Father, we have a necessary, much needed
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reminder of how the gospel works and how we respond to it.
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So this morning we'll walk through this story.
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We will see the gospel on display in story form, and we
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will also get AI hope invitation to in the end understand God's
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love more fully. No matter who in this story you
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might relate to, some might relate to the younger son or the
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older son or even the father who has lost the Son.
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And as we go through this, we will look for the heart of God
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on display through this story. It says a certain man had two
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sons and the younger of them said to his father, father, give
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me the portion of goods that falls to me.
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This is why the story is often called the prodigal son because
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he is making a request that is going to set him up for some
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really bad decisions he's about to make.
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And it starts with the younger son approaching his father and
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asking for his inheritance before the father dies.
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Now you, you, if you've ever heard this story preached,
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you've probably heard the intense disrespect that it would
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require for a child to request their portion of inheritance to
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a father that is still living. And no doubt, I do not have to
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appeal to ancient times for you to understand that.
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Any of you could understand the amount of disrespect that a
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child would place on you or you to your parent if you ask for
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whatever they have that they're planning to leave to you in
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advance. It's often stated that this is
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in some ways the younger son coming to the father and say
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you're dead. To me, our relationship is
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really just the goods that you own that will someday be mine,
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and I care so much more about the goods that I do you.
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Then I'd rather just sever my relationship with you and take
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what is mine now. A horrible, disrespectful and
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disgraceful moment for a younger son to request this of his
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father. And with that, this story will
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now unfold to give us such a beautiful portrait of the
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sinner's journey, a portrait that I hope some of you will be
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able to relate to in the humility of your own life.
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And in reality, it's a portrait that every single one of us
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should listen to because the Bible says we have all sinned
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and fallen short of the glory of God.
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The sinner's journey is everyone's journey to get to the
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gospel. And the first portion of this
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that will help us understand what sin does to a life is he
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asks for his inheritance out of order.
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And what sin ultimately offers you is the instant gratification
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of a pleasure that will be yours someday, just not today.
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All of you who have put your faith in Jesus are living with
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the most deferred gratification that you possibly can by faith,
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which is someday. Your real treasure is going to
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be heaven. And there's nothing in this life
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that is worth the treasure of heaven.
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So live your entire life with such a confidence that the real
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glory will be someday and not now.
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That is the Christian journey. And sin comes and says, but what
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if you just got glory now? What if the delayed
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gratification to wait for your husband and wife, you could just
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have with instant pleasure now and all the other examples of
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the temptations of sin is to offer you something that God has
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for you someday, just not today. That is why I think one of the
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great analogies for sin is our day is the credit card.
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The credit card essentially says, I know you don't have the
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money, but I'll give the money to you now and then you can buy
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whatever you want and then in a couple weeks you get the bill
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and you realize that you always have to pay back more than what
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you borrowed. That is sin, and in a picture of
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sin's journey and the sinner's road, you'll see the heart of
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God in display with the heart of the Father.
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The response is not how dare you?
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The response is not I'm still alive, get back to work.
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The response is have it your way.
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That will be God's response as you choose to harden your heart
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against His goodness and a relationship that you were made
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for with Him. If you choose the fleeting
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pleasures of this world, as it says in Romans chapter 1, God
Romans 1 chapter mention
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gives you over to unrighteousness.
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And one of the ways you will experience the chastening in the
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discipline of God is when He says to you, have it your way.
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And so it says. So He divided them His
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livelihood. He sold the portion of the
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inheritance that was due to this younger Son and gave it to him.
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And now we have in verse 13 another picture of where this
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road takes you, it says. And not many days after that,
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the younger son gathered all together and journeyed to a far
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off country, and there wasted his possessions with prodigal
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living. Hence the often summarized title
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of this parable, the Prodigal Son.
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And notice the pattern. He receives his inheritance
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early. He gathers everything together,
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and what does he do? OK, Dad, I'm going to deposit it
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in the bank, buy a couple tools to help around the house, and
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just have that as my own personal nest egg.
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But I'm still with you. No, as always is the case when
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you are tempted, as the book of James says, you are tempted
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away. And sin, great or small, will
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always isolate you and take you away from the people that God
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has placed in your life as family and church, community and
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people, as as neighbors to grow with and be a witness to.
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And sin always takes you off to a foreign place where you're
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eventually alone. He goes to a foreign country and
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wastes his possessions with prodigal living.
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And prodigal is not a word we use in everyday language.
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It essentially means excess. He's got the money to live a
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lavish lifestyle for a little bit of time.
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And so lest you be deceived by the offer of sin, please do not
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hear the preacher at church say sin is going to be horrible
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immediately. It works because like a credit
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card, it gives you a little pleasure up front.
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He has a certain lifestyle he can afford for a moment and that
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is the season of sin. For those of you who have been
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tempted by sin and drawn away from the Lord, you know that it
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was fun for a moment until you wasted everything and the
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journey will take you towards what it says of this man.
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He wasted his possessions. Here is the promise and the
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warning for all of us once again to hear the shiny temptation.
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The the, it's like the lore in the water of sin.
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It will take you, offer you, offer you instant gratification,
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pull you away, and it will eventually waste everything you
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have. Sin will waste your time.
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Sin will waste your money. Sin will waste beautiful seasons
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of your life that were meant to be a blessing.
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You're growing and setting yourself up for what God has for
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you. Sin will require you to hit rock
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bottom and restart everything. Sin will waste your
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relationships. It will sever you from family
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and ultimately, if you do not hear the message of God's love
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calling you away from this distant land of isolation and
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prodigal living, you will sadly die in your sins and it will be
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clear that it was a waste of a life.
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But by God's grace and the beautiful storytelling power of
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Jesus, this is not where the story ends.
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The story is actually showing us that where sin can take you down
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a road of despair, the gospel can reach you.
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And the story is actually one of of hopelessness that turns into
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great hope. It says, But when he had spent
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all there, verse 14, there arose a severe famine in that land,
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and he began to be in want. Then he went and joined himself
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to a citizen of that country, and sent him into the fields to
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feed swine. And he would have gladly filled
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his stomach with pods that the swine ate and no one gave him
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anything. There are two incredible
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conditions that hopelessness has brought into this story.
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Hunger and loneliness. Famine.
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The food has run dry. He's wasted all his money.
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He has no backup plan. He has joined himself to a
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person of this foreign country. And the best job that he could
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get was feeding this the the pig's food.
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And in his hunger, he says, I wish that I could just have some
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of this food. And he says, and there was no
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one there to even share a plate of food with him.
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The hopeless despair of this story is that eventually sin
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will leave you completely hungry, off the diet of this
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world and completely alone. And here is the first stop of
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encouragement because some of you no doubt relate to the
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Father. Anytime you ever preach in a
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sanctuary where anyone has got a long sustained time of family
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and church, there's no doubt some who have become prodigal
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children. There's no doubt some of you
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right now who would consider yourselves prodigal parents.
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And here is the point of the story.
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That sounds like one of those upside down encouragements.
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It is OK as you watch your children ride off into the
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sunset of the world to pray for them to become hungry and alone.
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It is within your love for them that you would say God send a
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famine into the the the lot of this world where they have set
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up their tent. May they be completely broken so
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that they would remember who they are.
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Very scary prayer for a, for a parent to pray.
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You know, I think of the season I'm in.
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As stated, I live in a household where my children can only
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wander so far. They're right under my my gaze
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and I can watch their mistakes and I can pick them up and I can
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correct them in real time. And the faith of a parent is
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when you set your children in the way they should go and you
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say, Lord, they're yours now. And it is sometimes very
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challenging to not just want to be a parent that chases them out
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the door, drags them back into church and and just tells them
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everything they're doing wrong. Pray this prayer, Lord, may they
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be hungry and alone. Because the beautiful good news
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of the gospel is when you really understand it, it has to reach
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you while you're hungry and desperate.
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And this is where Jesus is going to take this story.
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He says he would have eaten if someone would have shared the
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food, and yet no one did. He's in a distant land.
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He's wasted his money. He has come to a place where we
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get one of the most beautiful and subtle turns of a story in
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Scripture, verse 17. But when he came to himself, he
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said maybe a better translation. When he came to his senses, he
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remembered what a beautiful thing it is when we come to our
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senses and remember who we really are.
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You know, Romans chapter 1 says that God does give us over to
Romans 1 chapter mention
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unrighteousness. He does say have it your way,
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but it also says that any one of us that are living in
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unrighteousness have suppressed the truth in in in
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unrighteousness. What can be known of God is
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evident in the world around you in creation, in those moments
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where the word was planted from the Sunday school to junior high
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to high school. And the word does not return
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without void. And there's something inside the
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children that have left to find their way in the world that they
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just need to remember. They need to come to their
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senses. And what does he remember?
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He remembers the father. This is such an important and
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subtle reminder for us. He doesn't remember how to get
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back to the church that he was last at.
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That might be part of it. He doesn't remember the the
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program that he was a part of. He doesn't remember the exact
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functions of how the the pastor used to teach him how to follow
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Jesus to the beginning of the gospel in your life is to
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remember that there is a Father in heaven who created you to
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know him. So how many of my father's hired
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servants have bread enough to spare and I'm perishing with
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hunger. My father has life.
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My Father could nourish me. And so this is the the journey
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of sin turning into redemption, to remember that there is a God
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in heaven who made you and he wants to be known as a father.
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And then the turn he says, I will arise.
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I'm going to go home. I'm going to go back to the
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place I came from, my good Father who has food, who I left
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to be in this famished land. Notice what he says as he's
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making the the, the plan of repentance.
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He says, I'm going to say to him, Father, I have sinned
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against you. I've sinned against heaven and
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before you, and I'm no longer worthy to be called your son.
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Make me like one of your hired servants.
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I want you to hold on to his prayer of repentance.
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What a beautiful thing it is when we've become so hungry and
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alone in the the in our lot, in this world that we realize that
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we need a Savior. The gospel will fall on deaf
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ears until you can relate to this young man's prayer.
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I am unworthy. I have sinned.
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I need help. This is the invitation that
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should never the word repentance should never be a a hell fire
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and damnation. It should always be the kindness
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of God, like a father calling his child home.
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For those who realize that they are sinners, that there's a
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Savior that will forgive you of your sins.
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For those who realize that you're in a foreign land, that
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there's actually a place that you were made for.
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He says. I'm going to tell him I'm no
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longer worthy. I'm going to just join the lot
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of the servants. Verse 20 and he arose and came
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to his father. This is let's just pause and and
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appreciate gospel on the display but when he was still a great
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way off his whole picture is Jesus describing the love of God
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is for people that are far off as he's far off his father sees
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him this this is giving us imagery that the father's been
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waiting on the sinner's road waiting on the road that that
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was straight out of town and he waits day after day horizon
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line. Is he coming Is he coming back
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home and as he sees him a far way off says he had anger so
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disappointed in the man's decisions.
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He's coming back. He left with a with a caravan of
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stuff and he's coming back with nothing.
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Of course not. Says that he had compassion.
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He didn't have compassion that he was going to tell him about
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later. He had compassion like a father
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who has compassion for a child who's coming home, compassion
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that turns into him running. He's not waiting for this young
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man to come back and fall at his feet.
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He runs him. He runs after him, and he meets
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him at the road, and he falls on his neck and he kisses him.
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Never mind all of these ideas about God being angry at sin
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because of the ways that we violated him, God is showing us
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through this beautiful story that what He wants and longs for
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is to pour out His love on all of those who would come to him
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as people who are in need of help.
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And now we come to the speech. Never.
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He had this speech in his mind. He was sitting there at rock
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bottom. He said if I could just get in
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front of my dad, I'm going to tell him that I can't be a son
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anymore, but I can be a servant. And the son comes to him and
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it's in this moment he's being covered by the father.
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He's being kissed and loved with compassion by the Father.
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And he he begins his speech Father, I've sinned against
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heaven and in your sight and I'm no longer worthy to be called
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your son. And before he can utter the next
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line, just make me a servant. I can't be your son, but make me
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a servant. The father interrupts him.
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But the father said to his servants, Bring out the best
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robe and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand and sandals
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on his feet, and bring the fatted calf here, and kill it,
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and let us eat and be merry. For this my son was dead and is
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alive again. He was lost and he is found.
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And they began to be merry. They rejoiced, and I promised
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you that part of this message would be the good news, that
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life isn't fair and the Kingdom of God isn't fair, and God's
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love is indeed unfair. And there's a whole message for
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that that the older brother's going to have to hear because
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this is a classic sibling moment.
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How can this be fair? But you know who else had to
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hear the message? The son who wasted everything,
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ruined his life and had to come back and fall at the feet of his
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father. His speech was I am not worthy
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to be called a son. And he was right.
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And in his mind his repentance turned into let me just serve.
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And this is where all of us need to hear the gospel in a way that
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removes this childlike demand for fairness from our minds.
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Because what happens is repentance can turn into
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religion because you've heard the message that you're a
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Sinner. You've heard the message that
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you need a savior. You have your own remembrance of
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rock bottom, of prison, of addiction, of broken
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relationships, of being so far away from church that you were
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embarrassed to come in and you came with the same idea.
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I know I'm not worthy now, but you know what I'm going to do?
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I'm going to work off my debt. Everything I wasted, I'll prove
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to you that I can. I can make it up to you someday.
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The biggest danger of repentance is religion.
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The biggest challenge for this son was to hear that he's still
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a son was to not have that second part of his plan come
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anywhere near the Father's heart.
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I can't be your son. I'll just be your servant.
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Some of you are here not as sons of the living God, but as people
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who want to serve to work off the guilt of your sin.
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It can happen to every single one of us.
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You hear the gospel, you hear that God loves you, you hear
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that you're forgiven. And you think, OK, now I got to
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justify my existence in the church.
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Now I got to prove my worth. Now I got to make up all the bad
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for with some good. And here's the message that
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Jesus wants all of us to hear. Sinners drew near him and he
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dined with them and he said it's like a father finding a lost
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son. And he says, put the robe, kill
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the calf. We are having the feast of
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feasts right here and right now because my son was lost and now
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he is found. Every single one of you who
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raised your hand as a parent now with some glimmer of
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understanding, know what this story is about.
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In the first half, I want you to imagine that you leave church
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today and you go to pick up your child and the nursery worker or
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the youth leader or the ministry volunteer, they look and they
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call your child's name and he's gone.
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They're gone. So worst fear of a parent that
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you can ever experience, you would withhold nothing to find
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that child. You'd break the speed limit,
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you'd call the police, you would employ the whole church to go
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and find your child. And let me just tell you, some
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of you experienced something like that.
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When you find the child, there will be no greater joy in your
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life. A child that was lost, that is
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now found. And here's what Jesus is saying.
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This is the Father's heart for all who would come into the
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Kingdom of God. This will be what heaven is
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like, that we all like sheep, have gone astray.
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But Jesus came into the world that no one would perish dead in
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their sin, but they'd get invited to the banquet, not
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because we're good, but because we've been adopted as sons and
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daughters of the king. This message you have to hear
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this. God loves you more than you love
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your children. God wants intimacy with you.
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He wants you to seek him and and know him and read His word and
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have it come alive. He wants to guide and direct
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your life because He values you like you value your child.
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And part of the message today is to get revived in your heart
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that you're not a Christian because you come to church or
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listen to sermons or sing songs or serve or go on mission trips.
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All of those things are beautiful icing on the cake.
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You are a believer in the God who created you to know him as a
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father, and you stand here as a son or daughter.
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And that should radically change the way you interact with the
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Lord and everyone else. Let me give you a small example
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and then what we'll we'll very briefly look at the reaction of
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the second son. As a warning, I have a son who
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is 6 years old, so he's right on the cusp of being too old to do
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this. But about every other night he
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comes into my bedroom after he's fallen asleep.
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He wakes up in the middle of the night, takes his blanket and
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marches into my room and share with my wife.
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And he just makes himself at home in our bed.
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And I want to promise you that he does that because he has the
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confidence of sonship with, with without asking him if he's ever
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done this, I can just say it without a doubt.
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He's never woke up in the middle of the night and thought I
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longed to be next to my father and thought, did I take a bath
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the night before? Because I should probably clean
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up before I that would be rude of me to go into his bed looking
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like this. I, I assure you he's never
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thought that he comes in in all conditions.
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He's never woke up and thought, man, I just longed to be close
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to my father in the safety of his room, but I had a bad day
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yesterday. I'm just, I'm just, I'm just not
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a good kid and I got to I got to do better.
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I'm going to I'm going to hold off and be with him.
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He bursts open the door and he comes in and he sits between US
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and he's the only, he's one of four people in the entire world
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that I'll allow that to happen. If any of you try that, I'm
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calling the cops. I love you all, but I'm calling
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the cops. It is the most important way
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that you will ever understand God is by knowing that you have
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been bought with a price, you've been adopted by the power of the
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Holy Spirit, and now you belong to the household of God as a son
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or daughter. That is the gospel.
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And here's the wild part. With the time that we have left,
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we must hear the actual warning that Jesus told this whole
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parable for because there's a second son and he's going to
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remind all of us the danger of wanting life to be fair and
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wanting the Father in heaven to be fair.
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He says, what's going on when all of this happens?
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They began to be merry. And the older son was in the
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field and came out and drew near to the house, heard music and
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dancing and called one of his servants and said, what is all
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this about? And the servant said, your
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brothers come home, and because he's received him safe and
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sound, your father has killed the fatted calf.
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Remember, he's looking right at the scribes and the Pharisees as
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he says this part. Imagine he's just looking right
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at them, making eye contact. How do you feel about sinners
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eating at the table with Jesus? How do you feel about the
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Kingdom of heaven being a feast for the lost?
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And then he says, the older brother answered and said to the
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Father, These many years I've been serving you, and I never
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transgressed your commandment at any time, and you never gave me
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so much as a goat and I that I might make merry with my
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friends. But as soon as this son of yours
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has devoured your livelihood with harlots, you killed the
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fatted calf for him. The father pleaded, Son, you're
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always with me, and all that I have is yours.
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It was right that we should make merry and be glad, for your
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brother was dead and is alive again.
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He was lost and he is found. The older brother wants life to
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be fair. The older brother notice says,
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this son of yours, he doesn't say my brother.
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And all he wanted to talk about is what he deserved.
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I've been serving you faithfully.
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I've never wasted your money. I've never gone out with
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prodigal living, living and sin. I'm righteous.
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He goes so far as to say I've never transgressed.
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One of your commandments, the self-righteous, so close to the
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table. But don't enter in.
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Let me point out, to be self-righteous, you must be self
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delusional. I've never transgressed.
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I've served perfectly. In other words, I just want
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heaven to be fair. I want those of us who are
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self-righteous and those of us who have served without failing,
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and those of us who are perfect sinners to get in.
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And let me just tell you this. Aren't we glad that that is not
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how the economy of heaven works? To the older brothers, the
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Kingdom of heaven isn't fair. If it was, you wouldn't be
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invited because none of us have perfect.
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All of us have fallen short. Jesus ate with sinners because
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he didn't want to eat alone. So the wherever you relate to
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that you might be someone right now and you you're like, I don't
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know God is my father. I know God is the subject of the
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songs at church. I know God is the author of the
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Bible I've memorized. I know God is someone that
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someday I may see. The message is you need to know
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the love of God, the most dangerous position.
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In your journey with Jesus is not to be far out.
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It seems as though those who are in the darkest places see the
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gospel shine the brightest. The danger is to be so close
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that you no longer think you need a Savior.
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And the solution is the same for both.
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There is one Father, the Father who loves those who are far off,
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and the Father who welcomes in those who are close.
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And so your mission this week is to know the love of God.
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Forget functions of church and the memorization of scripture
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and all of the routines of life. Know the love of God.
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Bible says he was forgiven much loves much.
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It can start by allowing God to open your heart to show you that
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your need for a Savior, your need for forgiveness this week
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so that we stop judging others and start receiving the grace
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that we all need. Thanks for joining us today.
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