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Can God work in a mess like this?

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  1. All right, good morning. Our scripture reading today is

  2. going to be from Genesis 29 verses one through 30.

  3. If you don't have a Bible with you, there should be a Bible

  4. underneath the chair, and this scripture passage will be found

  5. on page 21. So again, that's Genesis 29 one

  6. through 30. Then Jacob went on his journey

  7. and came to the land of the people of the east.

  8. As he looked, he saw a well in the field and behold 3 flocks of

  9. sheep laying beside it, for out of that well the flocks were

  10. watered. The stone on the well's mouth

  11. was large and when the all the flocks were gathered there, the

  12. shepherds would roll the stone from the mouth of the well and

  13. water the sheep and put the stone back in its place over the

  14. mouth of the well. Jacob said to them, My brothers,

  15. where do you come from? They said we are from Heron.

  16. He said to them, do you know Laban the son of Nahor?

  17. They said we know him. He said to them, is it well with

  18. him? They said it is well and see

  19. Rachel his daughter is coming with the sheep.

  20. He said, behold, it is still high day.

  21. It is not time for the livestock to be gathered together, water

  22. the sheep and go pasture them. But they said we cannot until

  23. all the flocks are gathered together and the stone is rolled

  24. from the mouth of the well, Then we water the sheep.

  25. While he was still speaking with them, Rachel came with her

  26. father's sheep, for she was a shepherdess.

  27. Now as soon as Jacob saw Rachel the daughter of Laban his

  28. mother's brother, and the the sheep of Laban his mother's

  29. brother, Jacob came near this and rolled the stone from the

  30. well's mouth and water the flock of Laban his mother's brother.

  31. Then Jacob kissed Rachel and wept aloud.

  32. And Jacob told Rachel that he was her father's kinsman and

  33. that he was Rebecca's son. And she ran and told her father.

  34. As soon as Laban heard the news about Jacob his sister's son, he

  35. ran to meet him and embraced him and kissed him and brought him

  36. to his house. Jacob told Laban all these

  37. things, and Laban said to him, Surely you are my bone and my

  38. flesh. And he stayed with him a month.

  39. Then Laban said to Jacob, because you are my kinsman,

  40. should you therefore serve me for nothing.

  41. Tell me what shall your wages be now?

  42. Laban had two daughters, the name of the older was Leah and

  43. the name of the younger was Rachel.

  44. Leah's eyes were weak but Rachel was beautiful in form and

  45. appearance. Jacob loved Rachel and he said I

  46. will serve you 7 years for your younger daughter Rachel.

  47. Laban said it is better that I give her to you than that I

  48. should give her to any other man, stay with me.

  49. So Jacob served seven years for Rachel and they seemed to him

  50. but a few days because of the love he had for her.

  51. Then Jacob said to Laban, give me my wife that I may go into

  52. her for my time is complete. So Laban gathered together all

  53. the people of the place and made a feast.

  54. But in the evening he took his daughter Leah and brought her to

  55. Jacob, and he went into her. Laban gave his female servant

  56. Zilpah to his daughter Leah to be her servant.

  57. And in the morning, behold, it was Leah.

  58. And Jacob said to Laban, What is this you have done to me?

  59. Did I not serve you for Rachel? Why then have you deceived me?

  60. Laban said, It is not so done in our country to give the younger

  61. before the first born. Complete the week of this one,

  62. and we will give you the other also in return for serving me

  63. another seven years. Jacob did so and completed her

  64. week. Then Laban gave him his daughter

  65. Rachel to be his wife. Laban gave his female servant,

  66. Bill Ha to his daughter Rachel to be her servant.

  67. So Jacob went into Rachel also, and he loved Rachel more than

  68. Leah and served Laban for another seven years.

  69. This is God's true word. What a text, am I right?

  70. Good. Good morning, Port City family

  71. and friends. My name is Will and I'm one of

  72. the pastors here at Port City, and it is my honor anytime that

  73. I get to open God's word with you all, no matter what the text

  74. that I get to preach is. I love this church.

  75. I love the people in it. I love that I get to know so

  76. many of you so well. And for those of you that know

  77. my family well, you know that my wife is incredible.

  78. She's absolutely incredible. And many of you have probably

  79. thought how in the world did we'll get Lauren and I don't

  80. know, but God is gracious. But I want to share with you a

  81. couple of my favorite things about my wife, OK?

  82. She loves her friends incredibly well.

  83. She sees people, she knows them, she remembers things about them.

  84. She's one of the best people that I know that can do that.

  85. But if I can just be honest with you, I want to share something

  86. with you after 14 years of marriage.

  87. If you want to make Lauren Thrasher, my wife, feel nervous,

  88. go and ask her what I do for a living because she has no idea.

  89. I promise you that. Case in point, some of y'all

  90. think I'm about to get in trouble.

  91. I promise to ask her how I could do this before I did it.

  92. OK, case in .2 weeks ago, we're on the phone with a friend and

  93. we're talking and I mentioned something about a risk that

  94. they're taking. And she stands up with

  95. confidence, bold confidence as she points at me.

  96. And she says, and you need to listen to my husband because he

  97. is in risk management. And I looked at her and I said,

  98. babe, I haven't been in risk management in over 2 years.

  99. I promise you, this woman who can remember the anniversary of

  100. the time that your dog rolled over looking at your front door

  101. still does not know what her husband does for a living.

  102. We're working on it. We're going to get there at some

  103. point, I promise. I share that story because the

  104. text actually made me think back to my time in risk management,

  105. which is saying something because it was two years ago.

  106. One thing that we used to have to do when I was in that career

  107. path was we would look at a process and we would think, OK,

  108. what are all of the steps that are that are taking place in

  109. this process? We'd break it down.

  110. And then for each step, we would think, what is the worst thing

  111. that could happen at this point in time?

  112. What's the worst thing? We have to think of all the

  113. scenarios. And then we would think about

  114. how can we control for that thing, right?

  115. What's the worst thing that could happen?

  116. And that came to mind for me because when I read this

  117. passage, I really thought if I were to give, if I were to read

  118. the first 13 or 12 verses of this passage, and then I were to

  119. give each of you a piece of paper and say, write down the

  120. worst ending that you could think of for this, this

  121. Scripture. I doubt, I hope honestly, that

  122. none of you would have guessed that this is how this passage

  123. would end, right? We wouldn't guess it because in

  124. our wildest dreams, we couldn't imagine just the, the

  125. brokenness, somebody doing something like this, this

  126. situation, a father, right, bringing his daughters into this

  127. situation. We, we just couldn't imagine it.

  128. The, the chaos and the, and the mess that ensues here, right?

  129. It's a hard passage for so many reasons.

  130. There's just so much brokenness. And if I'm being honest, I've

  131. wrestled with this one. I've wrestled with it.

  132. God, what, what is it that you have for your people in this

  133. text? Tanner, couldn't you give me a

  134. couple more verses to get to the rest of the story, right?

  135. Like, what do you have for us? And my hope this morning is I've

  136. been just processing this and, and praying through this and

  137. wrestling with this is that you would walk away with a greater

  138. appreciation of how big the God that we serve is and how great

  139. this story is that he's weaving together.

  140. I hope that you're encouraged that there's no mess that is too

  141. great for our God, including whatever mess you walk in here

  142. with this morning. There's not a bigger mess that

  143. he can't handle. My sermon this morning is called

  144. Can God work in a mess like this?

  145. This morning I have 3 themes that I think that we see in this

  146. passage. Kids, I got you.

  147. As always, you come to me at the end.

  148. You write these three things down.

  149. I got a piece of candy for you because I love you guys.

  150. I love hearing you run up and down the hallways, even though

  151. sometimes I tell you to stop. You guys are awesome.

  152. I got you, Tejon. Love you guys.

  153. All right, before I jump in though, I want to start off with

  154. a word of prayer. Father God, I just come to you

  155. this morning. Lord, you know just the anxiety

  156. that comes with this passage. Lord, you know how difficult it

  157. is. God, you understand the weight

  158. of preaching your Word. Lord, I pray this morning that

  159. you would fill me with Your Spirit, not for my glory, but

  160. for yours. God, would you teach us what it

  161. is that you have for us? Your Word tells us that all

  162. Scripture is profitable. God, I know that through so much

  163. time and history, so many things were left out, but you chose to

  164. include this. God, You chose to include these

  165. details, and so you have something for us in these

  166. details. Father, would you just help us,

  167. God to to understand what it is that you have for us this

  168. morning? Lord, we love you and then we

  169. pray. Amen.

  170. I also want to warn you all because normally I have a timer

  171. to tell me how long I've been going and I forgot to said it.

  172. I apologize. We'll see what the Lord does.

  173. Amen. All right, before we jump in the

  174. first, the first theme that I want to address this morning,

  175. kids, write this down. Chosen doesn't mean easy.

  176. Somebody say chosen. Somebody say easy chosen doesn't

  177. mean easy. All right.

  178. Last week, Pastor Tanner preached out of Genesis 28,

  179. where on his journey, not Pastor Tanner's, but Jacobs, he, he

  180. came to find his uncle, right? He's on his way to find his

  181. uncle. He just had this incredible

  182. experience with God. He had a dream.

  183. Pastor Tanner reminded us that this ladder was symbolic

  184. throughout all of Scripture. And then it was a sign, not that

  185. we had to ascend to God, but that God had a plan to descend

  186. to us. That's pretty incredible, right?

  187. What a beautiful picture of God's faithfulness that Jacob

  188. has just experienced. Talk about a mountaintop

  189. experience. There's angels, you know, on

  190. this, on this thing. And he's, he sees, he's having

  191. this conversation with God like the incredible.

  192. Now we step into this story. If I had to break it into

  193. scenes, I would break it into three scenes.

  194. Not to be confused with the themes, kids, these are the

  195. scenes, not the themes. OK, I'll tell you when I get to

  196. the themes. These are the scenes.

  197. All right, The first scene would be called love at First sight.

  198. The second one is the agreement, and the last one is the

  199. deception. Let's jump into love at first

  200. sight. Kids, can you say love?

  201. You guys are awesome. All right, as as we step into

  202. this passage and we begin to read, everything just seems to

  203. be working according to plan. Like it's crazy.

  204. He has this mountaintop experience.

  205. And then we just step into this and he's continuing on his

  206. journey. And the text says as he looked,

  207. he saw a well in a field. Notice that all of this language

  208. is just kind of happening to him, right?

  209. He's not producing it, he's not doing it, it's just happening.

  210. This is God's provision and sovereignty in this moment.

  211. And then it says, and behold, 3 flocks of sheep lie are lying

  212. beside it, right? It's just this moment if he

  213. notices something that's there. And Jacob looks at the shepherds

  214. cause usually when they're sheep, they're shepherds.

  215. And he says, my brothers, where do you come from?

  216. Guess where these brothers were from, Haran where he was going

  217. crazy, right? It's just lining up.

  218. Everything is happening. Mountaintop experience.

  219. One thing after the other is landing where you would hope

  220. that it would go. This man goes to sleep one

  221. night. He has this incredible dream

  222. encounter with God. God makes promises to him and

  223. says, you are my guy. You're the next one in line.

  224. He wakes up. He goes on this journey and so

  225. far everything is just falling into place.

  226. He happens upon a well with some shepherds who just happened to

  227. be from where he's going. And then he says, oh, that's

  228. great. Any chance y'all know Laban?

  229. That's my uncle. And they're like, yeah, we know

  230. Laban too. It's crazy, crazy.

  231. Guess what else? Not only did he show up at the

  232. right place with the right people, but he showed up at the

  233. right time. Because they say here comes that

  234. man's daughter. Jacob looks up and here comes

  235. Laban's daughter. And guess what?

  236. She was beautiful. As soon as he sees her, somehow

  237. he finds the strength to move this large stone like earlier in

  238. the text. This text covers like 14 years

  239. at least, right? And so when something, when

  240. there's a detail in a text like that, it probably matters.

  241. And earlier in the text, we find that the stone over this well is

  242. large. So large, in fact, that all

  243. those other shepherds are just chilling.

  244. They're like, we're going to wait till everybody gets here to

  245. help us do this thing, like we're not doing it ourselves.

  246. And a beautiful woman comes, and he finds the strength to move

  247. this by himself. Incredible.

  248. After his show of strength, he tells her who he is.

  249. He's like, you saw what I could do, now let me tell you who I

  250. am. She responds with excitement and

  251. she runs to tell her father all that's happened.

  252. The scene ends there, right? First scene end.

  253. We're thinking Hallmark movie. It might be summer, but it feels

  254. like Christmas. You know, you've got a young man

  255. who was a bad person. He's taking advantage of people,

  256. he's made bad choices. He's on the run.

  257. He's told to go to a town his family is from.

  258. Sounds very familiar. On the way he has a life

  259. changing moment. Now he has purpose and calling.

  260. He's reminded of what matters. Meets a girl, she goes to tell

  261. dad. Roll the credits.

  262. That's a movie. But the story doesn't end there.

  263. Kids, can you say next scene? All right, scene #2 the

  264. arrangement. The story might be sounding a

  265. little familiar at this point, and it honestly should sound

  266. familiar. Jacob's grandfather's name was

  267. Abraham. Maybe you heard of him?

  268. Kind of a big deal in the Bible. When Abraham got old, he took

  269. his servant and made him promise to find a wife for his son

  270. Isaac. Spoiler alert, Isaac is Jacob's

  271. daddy. Somebody say, Isaac, I'm going

  272. to get you all these names straight.

  273. I got to keep them straight for myself.

  274. OK? His servant goes to where

  275. Abraham told him to go, and he prays that God would make it

  276. clear who the wife should be for Isaac.

  277. God had blessed Abraham. And so this servant grabs camels

  278. and all sorts of gifts from his master, and he goes to find a

  279. wife for Isaac. Remember, Isaac equals Jacob's

  280. dad. It's a lot of names.

  281. He finds himself a well, it's not the same well, but it's a

  282. very similar situation. And as he's praying God would

  283. make it clear who the woman is that he's supposed to bring back

  284. home, he sees Rebecca. Spoiler alert, ends up being

  285. Jacob's mom. Long story short, he ends up

  286. giving her a gold ring and bracelets and she invites him to

  287. stay with her family. This is the scene when she

  288. arrives at home. I'm going to read this OK.

  289. This is in Genesis 24 verses 29 to 31 says Rebecca had a brother

    Genesis 24:29–31

  290. whose name was Laban. Sounds familiar.

  291. Laban ran out toward the man to the spring as soon as he saw the

  292. ring and the bracelets on his sister's arms and heard the

  293. words of Rebecca his sister. Thus the man spoke to me.

  294. He went to the man and behold, he was standing by the camel's

  295. at the spring. He said, Come in, O blessed of

  296. the Lord, why do you stand outside for?

  297. I have prepared the house and a place for the camels after they

  298. settled down and they eat food and they get down to business.

  299. The servant says I am Abraham's servant.

  300. Dude is loaded. He's blessed by God.

  301. He's got flocks and herds and silver and gold and servants and

  302. camels and donkeys, all kinds of stuff.

  303. He said he has a son and I think God directed me that your sister

  304. is the one who should be his wife.

  305. Her brother. Laban and father say bet if

  306. that's from the Lord, we can't stop it.

  307. Take that girl to her husband. The next day he took her to her

  308. husband. Now if we Fast forward to how

  309. Laban responds when Rachel brings Jacob to meet him,

  310. remember before Laban's the brother.

  311. Now he's the father in the situation.

  312. Genesis 2913 As soon as Laban heard the news about Jacob, his

  313. sister's son, he ran to meet him and embraced him and kissed him

  314. and brought him to the house. Jacob told Laban all of these

  315. things. Do you notice the difference

  316. between these two encounters? There's a slight difference.

  317. The first encounter says as soon as he saw the ring and bracelets

  318. on his sister's arms and heard the words of Rebecca, his

  319. sister, this time there was no rings and there was no

  320. bracelets. It was just words, right?

  321. Unlike it, unlike his father, Isaac, Jacob didn't have

  322. anything to offer. He was a runaway, if you

  323. remember where he was coming from.

  324. He didn't come with all of that stuff.

  325. He didn't have anything that he could bring or offer for this.

  326. And so Jacob hangs out there for a month.

  327. And then Laban realizes that he has nothing to offer.

  328. He says, OK, you can stay here and work, I guess what should

  329. your wages be? And in verse 18, it tells us

  330. Jacob loved Rachel and he said I will serve you 7 years for your

  331. younger daughter Rachel. He was clear.

  332. He said younger daughter Rachel, very clear, right?

  333. It's going to be important later.

  334. Now, seven years is a long time to wait for anybody.

  335. Some of y'all still aren't seven years old, right?

  336. It's a long time, no wait, especially when you are in love.

  337. Jacob, who has been known to be a deceiver, he's been known to

  338. be somebody who who takes what is not his.

  339. He shows character in the situation.

  340. He didn't try to have some sort of negotiation.

  341. He didn't try to take advantage of Laban.

  342. He offers a more than fair price in that day and age.

  343. What do we see in verse 20? It says so.

  344. Jacob served seven years for Rachel and they seem to him but

  345. a few days because of the love that he had for her.

  346. We've jumped seven years between these two passages and even

  347. seven years later we see the patience and love that he has

  348. shown for Rachel. He didn't complain.

  349. He waited patiently because he loved her so much.

  350. The time flew by to him. She was a far greater reward

  351. than the price that he had agreed to pay.

  352. Jacob could have done something very differently though in this

  353. situation. He could have walked into the

  354. situation entitled. Where did he just come from?

  355. He just had a dream. God said you are the next guy.

  356. This is all the stuff that I'm going to do through you and for

  357. you, I'm going to be with you. He could have, He could have

  358. gone to Laban and said, Laban, let me tell you something, you

  359. just hit the jackpot. I just had a dream and God

  360. showed me a ladder. He told me that he's going to

  361. bless me and make me great and give me countless children.

  362. Let me marry your daughter. Like, congratulations, Laban.

  363. I'm God's guy and I've chosen to be part of your family.

  364. But Jacob didn't do that. That's not what he did.

  365. I think that's important because I think that in our culture

  366. today, I think where we live at, we can often think that if we

  367. have to do a little work for something.

  368. We're met with resistance in something, then God's not in it.

  369. But I want you to know this morning that friction is not the

  370. absence of the favor of God. Too often we think that if God's

  371. leading us towards something, then it's going to be like we're

  372. Super Mario. When he starts blinking.

  373. You know what I'm talking about. Anybody that you know, Super

  374. Nintendo, whatever, maybe you saw the movie recently.

  375. He starts blinking and he stops jumping over stuff.

  376. He just runs right through it. He's not dodging because he, he

  377. is, he has the power, right? And so often times I think that

  378. we think that if we have a promise from God or, or if God

  379. has called us to do something, that's going to be it.

  380. And the first time we hit some resistance or some friction, we

  381. think maybe this wasn't from God.

  382. Jacob had a promise from God, but that didn't mean that he

  383. wasn't going to have to work either.

  384. God's promise was a promise of how it would end up, not

  385. necessarily what all the details would look like on the way.

  386. And when God has given his word that he's going to accomplish

  387. something, guess what? He's going to do it.

  388. No matter how big the obstacle appears to be, God is going to

  389. accomplish it. Now, Jacob, he wasn't afraid to

  390. work. We saw that seven years, but I

  391. guarantee you he wasn't ready for what was headed his way.

  392. My next theme this morning, kids, this is number 2.

  393. Chosen doesn't mean exempt. Dozen doesn't mean exempt we.

  394. Talked about. Scene 1 and we talked about

  395. Scene 2, but now we arrive at Scene 3.

  396. The deception. Those seven years might have

  397. felt like just a few days, but at the end of those few days,

  398. Jacob was ready to get married. He went to Laban.

  399. And said my time is complete, where my wife at, I'm ready.

  400. It's been 7 years. That's the first sign of trouble

  401. right there. There's probably some signs

  402. before that, but the first real 1, he had to go to Laban.

  403. We get the idea that if he had never gone to Laban, Laban

  404. wasn't going to go to him. He was just going to let him

  405. keep doing his thing. Might still be working today.

  406. Verse 22 through 23. This is how Laban responds.

  407. So Laban gathered together all the people of the place and made

  408. a feast. But in the evening he took his

  409. daughter Leah and brought her to Jacob, and he went into her.

  410. Wait a second, I thought we were talking about Rachel.

  411. He just said, Leah, you all know those commercials where like 2

  412. couples are fighting and they and they're like, hold on, what

  413. did you say? And then they throw the flag and

  414. then it does the replay thing. It's kind of like, hold up, what

  415. just happened? We got to we got to go back to

  416. the text again. He was very clear.

  417. He said you're younger daughter Rachel.

  418. But that's not what. Happened.

  419. And as a reader we see this and we're like Jacob.

  420. No, stop, don't do it. This man has worked seven years

  421. to be tricked. And then we see in.

  422. Verse 25 And it says, And in the morning, behold, it was Leah.

  423. And Jacob said to Laban, What is this that you have done to me?

  424. Did I not serve you for Rachel? Why then, have you deceived me?

  425. He's, he's coming. With this kind of judgement tone

  426. of like, how could you do this? Like, why would you do this?

  427. Talk about shock. He immediately.

  428. Wakes up to go and see Laban. I know what we agreed to.

  429. Why? Why would you do this to me?

  430. How could you do this to someone?

  431. I don't understand. It doesn't make any sense.

  432. We can start to feel. Sorry for the guy.

  433. He showed such. Patience.

  434. It felt like we were on the verge of this love story.

  435. Everything was just lining up for that.

  436. And then it's completely destroyed by this sick trick by

  437. Rachel's father, her father. It's not fair to either of them.

  438. But Laban. Laban wasn't stupid.

  439. He knew at some point Jacob was going to figure it out.

  440. He's like he might. There's some deception where

  441. it's like they're never going to know what I did.

  442. This one. He knew eventually he was going

  443. to figure it out, right? And so he was ready for this

  444. moment. He responded with just the thing

  445. that would cut Jacob to the core and make him accept whatever

  446. price he needed to. Verse 26, Laban said it's not

  447. done so in our country to give the younger before the first

  448. born. Now to anyone else, this might

  449. just sound like a lame excuse. But to Jacob it was a statement.

  450. Laban was saying I know who you are.

  451. Don't try to judge me. I know exactly who you are.

  452. You know who you are, too. Remember who Jacob is.

  453. Remember how he got there. Remember how and why he was on

  454. the run in the first place. He took advantage of his own

  455. brother. He deceived his father as the

  456. younger brother to take what belonged to his older brother.

  457. He is guilty as well. He's also guilty.

  458. Our series is called Saints and Scoundrels for a reason.

  459. It's not because we're talking about Saints some week and we're

  460. talking about scoundrels the other weeks.

  461. It's because many times the Saints are also the scoundrels.

  462. And up until this point in the text, we we can forget who Jacob

  463. was the 1st 13 verses. He seemed like the biggest St.

  464. everything. He's a he's this gentleman who

  465. lifted the large stone for his love, the patient and hard

  466. working romantic who worked seven years for the opportunity

  467. to marry the love of his life. But this line is in here to

  468. remind him, and to remind us that while the last 13 verses

  469. made him sound saintly, his Rd. leading to this point had plenty

  470. of scoundrel. Plenty of it.

  471. Jacob's lack of response in this text says it all.

  472. He didn't argue. He didn't push back.

  473. Message received. He just agreed.

  474. To work another seven years for Rachel.

  475. I don't know if this is God's way of disciplining Jacob for

  476. his previous deception, or if it's just natural consequences

  477. of sin if he's he's reaping what he has sown.

  478. But either way, just because Jacob was chosen does not mean

  479. that he was exempt. We see here.

  480. That just because God gives grace from the penalty of sin,

  481. it doesn't always mean that we will escape the consequences of

  482. it. The Bible tells.

  483. Us that the Lord disciplines those whom He loves.

  484. And sometimes, I don't know about all of you, but sometimes

  485. when we're the ones being disciplined, we can feel like

  486. it's not love. Maybe we can take it as a sign

  487. of fury or frustration because some of us are parents and we're

  488. broken parents and we know there's times when we don't

  489. discipline out of a right motivation.

  490. Or maybe you had parents that didn't discipline out of a right

  491. motivation all the time. But I'm here to tell you that we

  492. have a perfect father. He always.

  493. Disciplines out of a righteous motivation.

  494. There is no sin in him, only righteousness.

  495. And so when He does discipline us, we can know that it's

  496. righteous and it's good, even if it hurts.

  497. But sometimes the consequences of sin are not as a result of

  498. God's discipline. Sometimes we're just reaping

  499. what we have sown. I know some of us in here have

  500. had to face consequences of sin that maybe we committed prior to

  501. following Christ. There's things that we've done,

  502. decisions that we've made, or maybe even things that we've

  503. committed as we followed Christ, as we've stumbled through this

  504. life and and we still mess up and we still sin.

  505. We're in Christ. And we know that we're his

  506. children. We know who he sees when he sees

  507. us. He doesn't see that sin anymore.

  508. He's already paid for it on the cross.

  509. But what's also true is that our hand is broken because we

  510. punched the wall in anger. There's consequences, you know,

  511. I'm also here to tell you that sin is not only sin because it's

  512. what God said, it's also what God said because it's good and

  513. true and best and. When we stray.

  514. From what's good and true and best for us, there's

  515. consequences. Regardless of whether Jacob was

  516. being disciplined by God or if he was just dealing with

  517. consequences of his own deception, there's a mess.

  518. We have an absolute mess on our hands.

  519. Before I go too. Much further, I want to call out

  520. that I'm not going to address polygamy here.

  521. Pastor John, I think, did an incredible job of that a couple

  522. of weeks ago. All I'm going to say is that

  523. polygamy, like many things we see in the lives of people

  524. throughout Scripture, are things that are described, not

  525. prescribed. Right, just like.

  526. Deception is is laid out here. There are things in Scripture

  527. that we see in God's people that are the evidence of the fact

  528. that we have a messy people who need a savior, but it's not

  529. necessarily God's way. Just because it happened doesn't

  530. mean it's God's plan for his world.

  531. And this story is a prime example for why that's not the

  532. design for marriage. And frankly, any story that you

  533. see that in Scripture is another prime example, because they all

  534. turn out very similar to this. If we fast.

  535. Forward to the end of the section.

  536. Jacob has two wives that are sisters, one that he very

  537. clearly loves and the other that he doesn't.

  538. We can feel bad. For Leah, because she's the

  539. unloved wife, but we can also understand why Jacob would

  540. struggle to love her. Every time he looks at her he

  541. just sees the deception both in his past role as the deceiver

  542. and in his present role as the deceived.

  543. The plan was to go and meet his uncle and get a wife in return

  544. quickly, but now he has a debt of an additional 7 years to work

  545. off. For Rachel, he's stuck with his

  546. father-in-law, who's at he's at odds with and who just deceived

  547. him. Not only that, but if we peek

  548. ahead into the story a bit, if we look in a chapter 30 verse

  549. one, it tells us that when Rachel saw that she bore Jacob

  550. no children, she envied her sister.

  551. She said to Jacob. Give me children or I shall die.

  552. It's not looking too good. The whole thing is a mess.

  553. It's painful for every single person involved.

  554. Nobody wins. Think about Rachel.

  555. She expected to get married all of these years and and is pulled

  556. at the last minute to see this marriage go to her sister.

  557. Then we find. Out that she's barren and

  558. watches her sister have child after child after child.

  559. Think about Leah. Who, whether or not she had a

  560. say in this situation, finds herself in a marriage with a man

  561. that she knows. All he wanted was her sister.

  562. She was the tag. Along.

  563. Her father had to trick. A man into marrying her.

  564. And he woke up. On their wedding night with pure

  565. disappointment on his face. At this point.

  566. In the story it's hard to see how God is keeping his promises.

  567. Verse 15, chapter 28 said, Behold, I am with you and will

  568. keep you wherever you go and will bring you back to this

  569. land, for I will not leave you until I have done what I've

  570. promised you. It's hard to see how.

  571. God is in that. Where's God out in all of this

  572. mess? What's he doing?

  573. Where's his presence seen? It seems like Laban.

  574. Might have thrown a wrench in God's plan.

  575. How could God work in a mess like this?

  576. My last point this morning. Kids number. 3 The deceiver had

  577. a plan, and so did God. Jacob's whole.

  578. Life has been, and honestly will continue to have this theme of

  579. deception. Jacob walks.

  580. Through this. But it's not like he just learns

  581. his lesson and he's good to go from here on out.

  582. He took advantage. Of his brother's weakness, lack

  583. of patience and hunger to take his birthright.

  584. He deceived his father by taking on the appearance and smell of

  585. his brother to take his brother's blessing.

  586. Then his mother, in order to keep him safe from the anger of

  587. his brother, manipulates his father Isaac to send him to

  588. Haran and. Now that he's.

  589. Here he's deceived by his uncle Laban.

  590. And as we. Continue into Jacob's story.

  591. It gets worse and worse and worse, and it doesn't stop with

  592. him. His kids continue with the

  593. rivalry. In fact, they end up selling

  594. their own brother into slavery and tell Jacob that he was dead.

  595. So how can a? Mess like this end up in God

  596. fulfilling His promise for his offspring to bless all the

  597. families of the earth. We look at Genesis. 2814 It

  598. says, Your offspring shall be like the dust of the earth, and

  599. you shall spread abroad to the West, and the east, and the

  600. north and the South, and in you your offspring shall be.

  601. Shall all the families of the earth be blessed?

  602. How in the world are they blessing anybody?

  603. They don't even seem to like each other.

  604. We can look back. And think, did God get the right

  605. guy? Look at this.

  606. Man, he's a mess. The truth is that.

  607. The only reason Jacob is the right guy is because God

  608. declared him to be the right guy.

  609. He was a vessel. To bring God's plan to fruition

  610. and there was nothing that he or anyone else was going to do to

  611. stop God from getting the glory that he deserved.

  612. Those children that we're talking about, his kids that are

  613. also a mess. They end up being.

  614. Pretty important in the Bible that son that was sold into

  615. slavery by his brothers. His name is Joseph.

  616. They ain't coat of many colors. Not the musical.

  617. He was Rachel's first son. God takes him from being a slave

  618. to prison to being second in charge of Egypt.

  619. Talk about God. Being able to work something.

  620. Now let's read the. Beginning of the lineage of

  621. Jesus found in Matthew one. Just going to read.

  622. Verse 2 says Abraham was the father of Isaac, and Isaac the

  623. father of Jacob, and Jacob the father of Judah and his

  624. brothers. Judah.

  625. Who was Jacob's son is named in the lineage of Jesus.

  626. Jesus. Was from the lineage of this

  627. crazy family, and more specifically from Leah, who was

  628. the wife that Jacob didn't love. So ask me.

  629. Again, how God can fulfill the promise found in Genesis 2814.

  630. Your offspring shall be like the dust of the earth, and you shall

  631. spread abroad to the West and the east, and the north and the

  632. South, and in you and your offspring shall all the families

  633. of the earth be blessed. Jesus came out of this mess.

  634. Our Savior. I need you to know that this

  635. story and this line of Jacob is not the only messy story in the

  636. Old Testament. Just read through the rest of

  637. the names listed in the genealogy of Jesus in their

  638. stories. It doesn't get better.

  639. They're all messy stories. The whole Bible is a is a book

  640. of messy stories. So many times we think the Bible

  641. is a book of people who who live these clean and perfect lives

  642. and we need to be more like David and we need to be more

  643. like Jacob. That's not the Bible.

  644. That's. Not it we get creation and then

  645. we get the rest. It's just us messing it up but

  646. God finding a way to make this messy people clean and alive

  647. again. In fact, he.

  648. Used a messy family to bring the one who would come and live in

  649. that mess but remain clean. Jesus was God with us.

  650. He came into the world as a baby, grew up, faced temptation,

  651. lived among sinners, lived and worked with frustrating, messy

  652. people. Do you all know any of them?

  653. Yet he never. Sinned.

  654. He never once messed up Out of this mess God brought the one

  655. who would ultimately clean up our mess, not by sweeping it

  656. under the rug, but by becoming a mess on the cross and paying the

  657. penalty for it. The only one.

  658. Whoever who never sinned and never messed up took the penalty

  659. for the rest of us who have clearly messed up.

  660. Now everyone wants to be shown grace until they're the one

  661. that's offended. They want a gracious judge until

  662. they're sitting in the other seat.

  663. If. Someone hurts.

  664. Someone that you care about. You don't want grace anymore,

  665. you want justice. We all desire a righteous judge,

  666. but in God we get a righteous judge who demands payment and a

  667. gracious judge who makes that payment on our behalf.

  668. Maybe there's some of you in here this morning who don't know

  669. Jesus. Maybe you know that that you are

  670. a mess and that you are tired of trying to clean it up, trying to

  671. be good enough, trying to fix everything.

  672. I'm here to tell you this morning that Jesus isn't asking

  673. you to clean yourself up. He's asking you to put your

  674. trust in Him, the only one who can save you from your sins, and

  675. let Him do that work in you to. Those of us who.

  676. Already followed Jesus, I want you to remember that just

  677. because life feels like a mess right now, maybe you look around

  678. and you say, God, where are you at?

  679. Where are you? At things are a mess.

  680. My kids are a mess. My my family's a mess.

  681. My work is a mess. I'm just here to tell you that

  682. that just because it feels like a mess right now doesn't mean

  683. God is not present. He's been working in mess ever

  684. since the beginning. Don't lose heart.

  685. He's there. Let's pray, Father, I just come

  686. to you. Oh Lord is is a mess.

  687. Speaking about Mess guy, God I pray this morning.

  688. That you would just get. This word in US, Lord, that you

  689. would, would show us through our mess, Lord, how great of a

  690. savior you are. God, I pray.

  691. That you would work in us this morning, God, I pray that your

  692. word would, would just show us who we are as a mirror God, and

  693. show us who you are and the price that you paid for us.

  694. For those of us in here this morning, God, who don't know

  695. you, Lord, would you call them to salvation this morning?

  696. Lord? Would they trust you with all of

  697. the mess that is their life when they follow you from here on

  698. out? Knowing that one.

  699. Day, God, You are going to make it all right.

  700. Lord, we love you. Your name we pray.

  701. Amen.