Sermon
Can God work in a mess like this?
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All right, good morning. Our scripture reading today is
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going to be from Genesis 29 verses one through 30.
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If you don't have a Bible with you, there should be a Bible
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underneath the chair, and this scripture passage will be found
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on page 21. So again, that's Genesis 29 one
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through 30. Then Jacob went on his journey
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and came to the land of the people of the east.
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As he looked, he saw a well in the field and behold 3 flocks of
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sheep laying beside it, for out of that well the flocks were
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watered. The stone on the well's mouth
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was large and when the all the flocks were gathered there, the
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shepherds would roll the stone from the mouth of the well and
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water the sheep and put the stone back in its place over the
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mouth of the well. Jacob said to them, My brothers,
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where do you come from? They said we are from Heron.
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He said to them, do you know Laban the son of Nahor?
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They said we know him. He said to them, is it well with
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him? They said it is well and see
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Rachel his daughter is coming with the sheep.
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He said, behold, it is still high day.
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It is not time for the livestock to be gathered together, water
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the sheep and go pasture them. But they said we cannot until
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all the flocks are gathered together and the stone is rolled
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from the mouth of the well, Then we water the sheep.
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While he was still speaking with them, Rachel came with her
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father's sheep, for she was a shepherdess.
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Now as soon as Jacob saw Rachel the daughter of Laban his
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mother's brother, and the the sheep of Laban his mother's
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brother, Jacob came near this and rolled the stone from the
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well's mouth and water the flock of Laban his mother's brother.
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Then Jacob kissed Rachel and wept aloud.
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And Jacob told Rachel that he was her father's kinsman and
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that he was Rebecca's son. And she ran and told her father.
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As soon as Laban heard the news about Jacob his sister's son, he
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ran to meet him and embraced him and kissed him and brought him
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to his house. Jacob told Laban all these
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things, and Laban said to him, Surely you are my bone and my
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flesh. And he stayed with him a month.
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Then Laban said to Jacob, because you are my kinsman,
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should you therefore serve me for nothing.
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Tell me what shall your wages be now?
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Laban had two daughters, the name of the older was Leah and
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the name of the younger was Rachel.
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Leah's eyes were weak but Rachel was beautiful in form and
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appearance. Jacob loved Rachel and he said I
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will serve you 7 years for your younger daughter Rachel.
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Laban said it is better that I give her to you than that I
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should give her to any other man, stay with me.
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So Jacob served seven years for Rachel and they seemed to him
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but a few days because of the love he had for her.
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Then Jacob said to Laban, give me my wife that I may go into
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her for my time is complete. So Laban gathered together all
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the people of the place and made a feast.
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But in the evening he took his daughter Leah and brought her to
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Jacob, and he went into her. Laban gave his female servant
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Zilpah to his daughter Leah to be her servant.
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And in the morning, behold, it was Leah.
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And Jacob said to Laban, What is this you have done to me?
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Did I not serve you for Rachel? Why then have you deceived me?
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Laban said, It is not so done in our country to give the younger
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before the first born. Complete the week of this one,
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and we will give you the other also in return for serving me
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another seven years. Jacob did so and completed her
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week. Then Laban gave him his daughter
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Rachel to be his wife. Laban gave his female servant,
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Bill Ha to his daughter Rachel to be her servant.
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So Jacob went into Rachel also, and he loved Rachel more than
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Leah and served Laban for another seven years.
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This is God's true word. What a text, am I right?
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Good. Good morning, Port City family
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and friends. My name is Will and I'm one of
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the pastors here at Port City, and it is my honor anytime that
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I get to open God's word with you all, no matter what the text
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that I get to preach is. I love this church.
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I love the people in it. I love that I get to know so
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many of you so well. And for those of you that know
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my family well, you know that my wife is incredible.
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She's absolutely incredible. And many of you have probably
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thought how in the world did we'll get Lauren and I don't
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know, but God is gracious. But I want to share with you a
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couple of my favorite things about my wife, OK?
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She loves her friends incredibly well.
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She sees people, she knows them, she remembers things about them.
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She's one of the best people that I know that can do that.
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But if I can just be honest with you, I want to share something
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with you after 14 years of marriage.
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If you want to make Lauren Thrasher, my wife, feel nervous,
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go and ask her what I do for a living because she has no idea.
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I promise you that. Case in point, some of y'all
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think I'm about to get in trouble.
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I promise to ask her how I could do this before I did it.
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OK, case in .2 weeks ago, we're on the phone with a friend and
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we're talking and I mentioned something about a risk that
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they're taking. And she stands up with
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confidence, bold confidence as she points at me.
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And she says, and you need to listen to my husband because he
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is in risk management. And I looked at her and I said,
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babe, I haven't been in risk management in over 2 years.
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I promise you, this woman who can remember the anniversary of
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the time that your dog rolled over looking at your front door
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still does not know what her husband does for a living.
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We're working on it. We're going to get there at some
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point, I promise. I share that story because the
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text actually made me think back to my time in risk management,
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which is saying something because it was two years ago.
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One thing that we used to have to do when I was in that career
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path was we would look at a process and we would think, OK,
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what are all of the steps that are that are taking place in
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this process? We'd break it down.
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And then for each step, we would think, what is the worst thing
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that could happen at this point in time?
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What's the worst thing? We have to think of all the
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scenarios. And then we would think about
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how can we control for that thing, right?
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What's the worst thing that could happen?
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And that came to mind for me because when I read this
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passage, I really thought if I were to give, if I were to read
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the first 13 or 12 verses of this passage, and then I were to
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give each of you a piece of paper and say, write down the
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worst ending that you could think of for this, this
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Scripture. I doubt, I hope honestly, that
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none of you would have guessed that this is how this passage
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would end, right? We wouldn't guess it because in
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our wildest dreams, we couldn't imagine just the, the
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brokenness, somebody doing something like this, this
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situation, a father, right, bringing his daughters into this
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situation. We, we just couldn't imagine it.
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The, the chaos and the, and the mess that ensues here, right?
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It's a hard passage for so many reasons.
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There's just so much brokenness. And if I'm being honest, I've
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wrestled with this one. I've wrestled with it.
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God, what, what is it that you have for your people in this
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text? Tanner, couldn't you give me a
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couple more verses to get to the rest of the story, right?
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Like, what do you have for us? And my hope this morning is I've
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been just processing this and, and praying through this and
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wrestling with this is that you would walk away with a greater
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appreciation of how big the God that we serve is and how great
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this story is that he's weaving together.
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I hope that you're encouraged that there's no mess that is too
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great for our God, including whatever mess you walk in here
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with this morning. There's not a bigger mess that
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he can't handle. My sermon this morning is called
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Can God work in a mess like this?
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This morning I have 3 themes that I think that we see in this
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passage. Kids, I got you.
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As always, you come to me at the end.
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You write these three things down.
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I got a piece of candy for you because I love you guys.
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I love hearing you run up and down the hallways, even though
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sometimes I tell you to stop. You guys are awesome.
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I got you, Tejon. Love you guys.
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All right, before I jump in though, I want to start off with
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a word of prayer. Father God, I just come to you
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this morning. Lord, you know just the anxiety
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that comes with this passage. Lord, you know how difficult it
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is. God, you understand the weight
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of preaching your Word. Lord, I pray this morning that
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you would fill me with Your Spirit, not for my glory, but
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for yours. God, would you teach us what it
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is that you have for us? Your Word tells us that all
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Scripture is profitable. God, I know that through so much
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time and history, so many things were left out, but you chose to
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include this. God, You chose to include these
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details, and so you have something for us in these
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details. Father, would you just help us,
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God to to understand what it is that you have for us this
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morning? Lord, we love you and then we
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pray. Amen.
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I also want to warn you all because normally I have a timer
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to tell me how long I've been going and I forgot to said it.
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I apologize. We'll see what the Lord does.
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Amen. All right, before we jump in the
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first, the first theme that I want to address this morning,
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kids, write this down. Chosen doesn't mean easy.
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Somebody say chosen. Somebody say easy chosen doesn't
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mean easy. All right.
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Last week, Pastor Tanner preached out of Genesis 28,
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where on his journey, not Pastor Tanner's, but Jacobs, he, he
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came to find his uncle, right? He's on his way to find his
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uncle. He just had this incredible
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experience with God. He had a dream.
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Pastor Tanner reminded us that this ladder was symbolic
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throughout all of Scripture. And then it was a sign, not that
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we had to ascend to God, but that God had a plan to descend
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to us. That's pretty incredible, right?
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What a beautiful picture of God's faithfulness that Jacob
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has just experienced. Talk about a mountaintop
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experience. There's angels, you know, on
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this, on this thing. And he's, he sees, he's having
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this conversation with God like the incredible.
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Now we step into this story. If I had to break it into
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scenes, I would break it into three scenes.
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Not to be confused with the themes, kids, these are the
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scenes, not the themes. OK, I'll tell you when I get to
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the themes. These are the scenes.
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All right, The first scene would be called love at First sight.
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The second one is the agreement, and the last one is the
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deception. Let's jump into love at first
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sight. Kids, can you say love?
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You guys are awesome. All right, as as we step into
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this passage and we begin to read, everything just seems to
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be working according to plan. Like it's crazy.
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He has this mountaintop experience.
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And then we just step into this and he's continuing on his
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journey. And the text says as he looked,
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he saw a well in a field. Notice that all of this language
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is just kind of happening to him, right?
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He's not producing it, he's not doing it, it's just happening.
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This is God's provision and sovereignty in this moment.
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And then it says, and behold, 3 flocks of sheep lie are lying
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beside it, right? It's just this moment if he
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notices something that's there. And Jacob looks at the shepherds
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cause usually when they're sheep, they're shepherds.
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And he says, my brothers, where do you come from?
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Guess where these brothers were from, Haran where he was going
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crazy, right? It's just lining up.
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Everything is happening. Mountaintop experience.
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One thing after the other is landing where you would hope
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that it would go. This man goes to sleep one
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night. He has this incredible dream
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encounter with God. God makes promises to him and
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says, you are my guy. You're the next one in line.
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He wakes up. He goes on this journey and so
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far everything is just falling into place.
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He happens upon a well with some shepherds who just happened to
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be from where he's going. And then he says, oh, that's
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great. Any chance y'all know Laban?
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That's my uncle. And they're like, yeah, we know
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Laban too. It's crazy, crazy.
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Guess what else? Not only did he show up at the
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right place with the right people, but he showed up at the
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right time. Because they say here comes that
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man's daughter. Jacob looks up and here comes
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Laban's daughter. And guess what?
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She was beautiful. As soon as he sees her, somehow
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he finds the strength to move this large stone like earlier in
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the text. This text covers like 14 years
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at least, right? And so when something, when
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there's a detail in a text like that, it probably matters.
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And earlier in the text, we find that the stone over this well is
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large. So large, in fact, that all
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those other shepherds are just chilling.
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They're like, we're going to wait till everybody gets here to
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help us do this thing, like we're not doing it ourselves.
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And a beautiful woman comes, and he finds the strength to move
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this by himself. Incredible.
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After his show of strength, he tells her who he is.
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He's like, you saw what I could do, now let me tell you who I
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am. She responds with excitement and
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she runs to tell her father all that's happened.
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The scene ends there, right? First scene end.
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We're thinking Hallmark movie. It might be summer, but it feels
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like Christmas. You know, you've got a young man
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who was a bad person. He's taking advantage of people,
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he's made bad choices. He's on the run.
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He's told to go to a town his family is from.
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Sounds very familiar. On the way he has a life
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changing moment. Now he has purpose and calling.
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He's reminded of what matters. Meets a girl, she goes to tell
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dad. Roll the credits.
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That's a movie. But the story doesn't end there.
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Kids, can you say next scene? All right, scene #2 the
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arrangement. The story might be sounding a
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little familiar at this point, and it honestly should sound
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familiar. Jacob's grandfather's name was
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Abraham. Maybe you heard of him?
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Kind of a big deal in the Bible. When Abraham got old, he took
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his servant and made him promise to find a wife for his son
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Isaac. Spoiler alert, Isaac is Jacob's
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daddy. Somebody say, Isaac, I'm going
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to get you all these names straight.
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I got to keep them straight for myself.
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OK? His servant goes to where
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Abraham told him to go, and he prays that God would make it
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clear who the wife should be for Isaac.
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God had blessed Abraham. And so this servant grabs camels
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and all sorts of gifts from his master, and he goes to find a
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wife for Isaac. Remember, Isaac equals Jacob's
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dad. It's a lot of names.
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He finds himself a well, it's not the same well, but it's a
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very similar situation. And as he's praying God would
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make it clear who the woman is that he's supposed to bring back
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home, he sees Rebecca. Spoiler alert, ends up being
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Jacob's mom. Long story short, he ends up
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giving her a gold ring and bracelets and she invites him to
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stay with her family. This is the scene when she
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arrives at home. I'm going to read this OK.
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This is in Genesis 24 verses 29 to 31 says Rebecca had a brother
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whose name was Laban. Sounds familiar.
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Laban ran out toward the man to the spring as soon as he saw the
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ring and the bracelets on his sister's arms and heard the
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words of Rebecca his sister. Thus the man spoke to me.
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He went to the man and behold, he was standing by the camel's
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at the spring. He said, Come in, O blessed of
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the Lord, why do you stand outside for?
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I have prepared the house and a place for the camels after they
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settled down and they eat food and they get down to business.
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The servant says I am Abraham's servant.
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Dude is loaded. He's blessed by God.
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He's got flocks and herds and silver and gold and servants and
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camels and donkeys, all kinds of stuff.
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He said he has a son and I think God directed me that your sister
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is the one who should be his wife.
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Her brother. Laban and father say bet if
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that's from the Lord, we can't stop it.
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Take that girl to her husband. The next day he took her to her
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husband. Now if we Fast forward to how
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Laban responds when Rachel brings Jacob to meet him,
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remember before Laban's the brother.
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Now he's the father in the situation.
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Genesis 2913 As soon as Laban heard the news about Jacob, his
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sister's son, he ran to meet him and embraced him and kissed him
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and brought him to the house. Jacob told Laban all of these
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things. Do you notice the difference
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between these two encounters? There's a slight difference.
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The first encounter says as soon as he saw the ring and bracelets
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on his sister's arms and heard the words of Rebecca, his
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sister, this time there was no rings and there was no
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bracelets. It was just words, right?
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Unlike it, unlike his father, Isaac, Jacob didn't have
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anything to offer. He was a runaway, if you
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remember where he was coming from.
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He didn't come with all of that stuff.
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He didn't have anything that he could bring or offer for this.
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And so Jacob hangs out there for a month.
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And then Laban realizes that he has nothing to offer.
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He says, OK, you can stay here and work, I guess what should
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your wages be? And in verse 18, it tells us
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Jacob loved Rachel and he said I will serve you 7 years for your
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younger daughter Rachel. He was clear.
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He said younger daughter Rachel, very clear, right?
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It's going to be important later.
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Now, seven years is a long time to wait for anybody.
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Some of y'all still aren't seven years old, right?
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It's a long time, no wait, especially when you are in love.
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Jacob, who has been known to be a deceiver, he's been known to
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be somebody who who takes what is not his.
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He shows character in the situation.
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He didn't try to have some sort of negotiation.
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He didn't try to take advantage of Laban.
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He offers a more than fair price in that day and age.
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What do we see in verse 20? It says so.
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Jacob served seven years for Rachel and they seem to him but
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a few days because of the love that he had for her.
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We've jumped seven years between these two passages and even
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seven years later we see the patience and love that he has
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shown for Rachel. He didn't complain.
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He waited patiently because he loved her so much.
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The time flew by to him. She was a far greater reward
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than the price that he had agreed to pay.
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Jacob could have done something very differently though in this
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situation. He could have walked into the
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situation entitled. Where did he just come from?
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He just had a dream. God said you are the next guy.
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This is all the stuff that I'm going to do through you and for
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you, I'm going to be with you. He could have, He could have
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gone to Laban and said, Laban, let me tell you something, you
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just hit the jackpot. I just had a dream and God
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showed me a ladder. He told me that he's going to
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bless me and make me great and give me countless children.
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Let me marry your daughter. Like, congratulations, Laban.
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I'm God's guy and I've chosen to be part of your family.
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But Jacob didn't do that. That's not what he did.
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I think that's important because I think that in our culture
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today, I think where we live at, we can often think that if we
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have to do a little work for something.
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We're met with resistance in something, then God's not in it.
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But I want you to know this morning that friction is not the
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absence of the favor of God. Too often we think that if God's
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leading us towards something, then it's going to be like we're
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Super Mario. When he starts blinking.
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You know what I'm talking about. Anybody that you know, Super
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Nintendo, whatever, maybe you saw the movie recently.
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He starts blinking and he stops jumping over stuff.
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He just runs right through it. He's not dodging because he, he
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is, he has the power, right? And so often times I think that
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we think that if we have a promise from God or, or if God
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has called us to do something, that's going to be it.
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And the first time we hit some resistance or some friction, we
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think maybe this wasn't from God.
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Jacob had a promise from God, but that didn't mean that he
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wasn't going to have to work either.
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God's promise was a promise of how it would end up, not
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necessarily what all the details would look like on the way.
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And when God has given his word that he's going to accomplish
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something, guess what? He's going to do it.
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No matter how big the obstacle appears to be, God is going to
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accomplish it. Now, Jacob, he wasn't afraid to
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work. We saw that seven years, but I
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guarantee you he wasn't ready for what was headed his way.
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My next theme this morning, kids, this is number 2.
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Chosen doesn't mean exempt. Dozen doesn't mean exempt we.
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Talked about. Scene 1 and we talked about
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Scene 2, but now we arrive at Scene 3.
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The deception. Those seven years might have
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felt like just a few days, but at the end of those few days,
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Jacob was ready to get married. He went to Laban.
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And said my time is complete, where my wife at, I'm ready.
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It's been 7 years. That's the first sign of trouble
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right there. There's probably some signs
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before that, but the first real 1, he had to go to Laban.
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We get the idea that if he had never gone to Laban, Laban
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wasn't going to go to him. He was just going to let him
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keep doing his thing. Might still be working today.
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Verse 22 through 23. This is how Laban responds.
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So Laban gathered together all the people of the place and made
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a feast. But in the evening he took his
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daughter Leah and brought her to Jacob, and he went into her.
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Wait a second, I thought we were talking about Rachel.
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He just said, Leah, you all know those commercials where like 2
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couples are fighting and they and they're like, hold on, what
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did you say? And then they throw the flag and
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then it does the replay thing. It's kind of like, hold up, what
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just happened? We got to we got to go back to
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the text again. He was very clear.
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He said you're younger daughter Rachel.
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But that's not what. Happened.
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And as a reader we see this and we're like Jacob.
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No, stop, don't do it. This man has worked seven years
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to be tricked. And then we see in.
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Verse 25 And it says, And in the morning, behold, it was Leah.
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And Jacob said to Laban, What is this that you have done to me?
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Did I not serve you for Rachel? Why then, have you deceived me?
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He's, he's coming. With this kind of judgement tone
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of like, how could you do this? Like, why would you do this?
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Talk about shock. He immediately.
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Wakes up to go and see Laban. I know what we agreed to.
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Why? Why would you do this to me?
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How could you do this to someone?
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I don't understand. It doesn't make any sense.
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We can start to feel. Sorry for the guy.
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He showed such. Patience.
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It felt like we were on the verge of this love story.
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Everything was just lining up for that.
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And then it's completely destroyed by this sick trick by
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Rachel's father, her father. It's not fair to either of them.
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But Laban. Laban wasn't stupid.
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He knew at some point Jacob was going to figure it out.
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He's like he might. There's some deception where
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it's like they're never going to know what I did.
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This one. He knew eventually he was going
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to figure it out, right? And so he was ready for this
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moment. He responded with just the thing
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that would cut Jacob to the core and make him accept whatever
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price he needed to. Verse 26, Laban said it's not
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done so in our country to give the younger before the first
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born. Now to anyone else, this might
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just sound like a lame excuse. But to Jacob it was a statement.
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Laban was saying I know who you are.
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Don't try to judge me. I know exactly who you are.
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You know who you are, too. Remember who Jacob is.
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Remember how he got there. Remember how and why he was on
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the run in the first place. He took advantage of his own
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brother. He deceived his father as the
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younger brother to take what belonged to his older brother.
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He is guilty as well. He's also guilty.
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Our series is called Saints and Scoundrels for a reason.
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It's not because we're talking about Saints some week and we're
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talking about scoundrels the other weeks.
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It's because many times the Saints are also the scoundrels.
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And up until this point in the text, we we can forget who Jacob
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was the 1st 13 verses. He seemed like the biggest St.
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everything. He's a he's this gentleman who
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lifted the large stone for his love, the patient and hard
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working romantic who worked seven years for the opportunity
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to marry the love of his life. But this line is in here to
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remind him, and to remind us that while the last 13 verses
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made him sound saintly, his Rd. leading to this point had plenty
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of scoundrel. Plenty of it.
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Jacob's lack of response in this text says it all.
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He didn't argue. He didn't push back.
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Message received. He just agreed.
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To work another seven years for Rachel.
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I don't know if this is God's way of disciplining Jacob for
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his previous deception, or if it's just natural consequences
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of sin if he's he's reaping what he has sown.
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But either way, just because Jacob was chosen does not mean
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that he was exempt. We see here.
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That just because God gives grace from the penalty of sin,
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it doesn't always mean that we will escape the consequences of
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it. The Bible tells.
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Us that the Lord disciplines those whom He loves.
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And sometimes, I don't know about all of you, but sometimes
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when we're the ones being disciplined, we can feel like
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it's not love. Maybe we can take it as a sign
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of fury or frustration because some of us are parents and we're
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broken parents and we know there's times when we don't
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discipline out of a right motivation.
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Or maybe you had parents that didn't discipline out of a right
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motivation all the time. But I'm here to tell you that we
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have a perfect father. He always.
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Disciplines out of a righteous motivation.
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There is no sin in him, only righteousness.
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And so when He does discipline us, we can know that it's
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righteous and it's good, even if it hurts.
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But sometimes the consequences of sin are not as a result of
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God's discipline. Sometimes we're just reaping
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what we have sown. I know some of us in here have
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had to face consequences of sin that maybe we committed prior to
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following Christ. There's things that we've done,
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decisions that we've made, or maybe even things that we've
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committed as we followed Christ, as we've stumbled through this
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life and and we still mess up and we still sin.
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We're in Christ. And we know that we're his
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children. We know who he sees when he sees
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us. He doesn't see that sin anymore.
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He's already paid for it on the cross.
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But what's also true is that our hand is broken because we
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punched the wall in anger. There's consequences, you know,
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I'm also here to tell you that sin is not only sin because it's
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what God said, it's also what God said because it's good and
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true and best and. When we stray.
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From what's good and true and best for us, there's
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consequences. Regardless of whether Jacob was
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being disciplined by God or if he was just dealing with
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consequences of his own deception, there's a mess.
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We have an absolute mess on our hands.
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Before I go too. Much further, I want to call out
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that I'm not going to address polygamy here.
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Pastor John, I think, did an incredible job of that a couple
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of weeks ago. All I'm going to say is that
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polygamy, like many things we see in the lives of people
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throughout Scripture, are things that are described, not
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prescribed. Right, just like.
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Deception is is laid out here. There are things in Scripture
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that we see in God's people that are the evidence of the fact
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that we have a messy people who need a savior, but it's not
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necessarily God's way. Just because it happened doesn't
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mean it's God's plan for his world.
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And this story is a prime example for why that's not the
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design for marriage. And frankly, any story that you
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see that in Scripture is another prime example, because they all
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turn out very similar to this. If we fast.
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Forward to the end of the section.
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Jacob has two wives that are sisters, one that he very
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clearly loves and the other that he doesn't.
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We can feel bad. For Leah, because she's the
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unloved wife, but we can also understand why Jacob would
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struggle to love her. Every time he looks at her he
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just sees the deception both in his past role as the deceiver
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and in his present role as the deceived.
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The plan was to go and meet his uncle and get a wife in return
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quickly, but now he has a debt of an additional 7 years to work
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off. For Rachel, he's stuck with his
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father-in-law, who's at he's at odds with and who just deceived
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him. Not only that, but if we peek
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ahead into the story a bit, if we look in a chapter 30 verse
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one, it tells us that when Rachel saw that she bore Jacob
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no children, she envied her sister.
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She said to Jacob. Give me children or I shall die.
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It's not looking too good. The whole thing is a mess.
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It's painful for every single person involved.
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Nobody wins. Think about Rachel.
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She expected to get married all of these years and and is pulled
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at the last minute to see this marriage go to her sister.
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Then we find. Out that she's barren and
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watches her sister have child after child after child.
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Think about Leah. Who, whether or not she had a
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say in this situation, finds herself in a marriage with a man
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that she knows. All he wanted was her sister.
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She was the tag. Along.
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Her father had to trick. A man into marrying her.
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And he woke up. On their wedding night with pure
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disappointment on his face. At this point.
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In the story it's hard to see how God is keeping his promises.
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Verse 15, chapter 28 said, Behold, I am with you and will
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keep you wherever you go and will bring you back to this
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land, for I will not leave you until I have done what I've
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promised you. It's hard to see how.
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God is in that. Where's God out in all of this
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mess? What's he doing?
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Where's his presence seen? It seems like Laban.
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Might have thrown a wrench in God's plan.
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How could God work in a mess like this?
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My last point this morning. Kids number. 3 The deceiver had
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a plan, and so did God. Jacob's whole.
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Life has been, and honestly will continue to have this theme of
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deception. Jacob walks.
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Through this. But it's not like he just learns
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his lesson and he's good to go from here on out.
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He took advantage. Of his brother's weakness, lack
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of patience and hunger to take his birthright.
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He deceived his father by taking on the appearance and smell of
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his brother to take his brother's blessing.
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Then his mother, in order to keep him safe from the anger of
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his brother, manipulates his father Isaac to send him to
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Haran and. Now that he's.
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Here he's deceived by his uncle Laban.
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And as we. Continue into Jacob's story.
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It gets worse and worse and worse, and it doesn't stop with
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him. His kids continue with the
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rivalry. In fact, they end up selling
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their own brother into slavery and tell Jacob that he was dead.
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So how can a? Mess like this end up in God
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fulfilling His promise for his offspring to bless all the
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families of the earth. We look at Genesis. 2814 It
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says, Your offspring shall be like the dust of the earth, and
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you shall spread abroad to the West, and the east, and the
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north and the South, and in you your offspring shall be.
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Shall all the families of the earth be blessed?
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How in the world are they blessing anybody?
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They don't even seem to like each other.
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We can look back. And think, did God get the right
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guy? Look at this.
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Man, he's a mess. The truth is that.
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The only reason Jacob is the right guy is because God
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declared him to be the right guy.
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He was a vessel. To bring God's plan to fruition
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and there was nothing that he or anyone else was going to do to
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stop God from getting the glory that he deserved.
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Those children that we're talking about, his kids that are
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also a mess. They end up being.
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Pretty important in the Bible that son that was sold into
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slavery by his brothers. His name is Joseph.
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They ain't coat of many colors. Not the musical.
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He was Rachel's first son. God takes him from being a slave
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to prison to being second in charge of Egypt.
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Talk about God. Being able to work something.
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Now let's read the. Beginning of the lineage of
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Jesus found in Matthew one. Just going to read.
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Verse 2 says Abraham was the father of Isaac, and Isaac the
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father of Jacob, and Jacob the father of Judah and his
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brothers. Judah.
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Who was Jacob's son is named in the lineage of Jesus.
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Jesus. Was from the lineage of this
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crazy family, and more specifically from Leah, who was
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the wife that Jacob didn't love. So ask me.
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Again, how God can fulfill the promise found in Genesis 2814.
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Your offspring shall be like the dust of the earth, and you shall
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spread abroad to the West and the east, and the north and the
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South, and in you and your offspring shall all the families
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of the earth be blessed. Jesus came out of this mess.
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Our Savior. I need you to know that this
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story and this line of Jacob is not the only messy story in the
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Old Testament. Just read through the rest of
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the names listed in the genealogy of Jesus in their
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stories. It doesn't get better.
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They're all messy stories. The whole Bible is a is a book
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of messy stories. So many times we think the Bible
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is a book of people who who live these clean and perfect lives
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and we need to be more like David and we need to be more
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like Jacob. That's not the Bible.
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That's. Not it we get creation and then
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we get the rest. It's just us messing it up but
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God finding a way to make this messy people clean and alive
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again. In fact, he.
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Used a messy family to bring the one who would come and live in
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that mess but remain clean. Jesus was God with us.
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He came into the world as a baby, grew up, faced temptation,
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lived among sinners, lived and worked with frustrating, messy
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people. Do you all know any of them?
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Yet he never. Sinned.
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He never once messed up Out of this mess God brought the one
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who would ultimately clean up our mess, not by sweeping it
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under the rug, but by becoming a mess on the cross and paying the
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penalty for it. The only one.
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Whoever who never sinned and never messed up took the penalty
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for the rest of us who have clearly messed up.
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Now everyone wants to be shown grace until they're the one
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that's offended. They want a gracious judge until
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they're sitting in the other seat.
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If. Someone hurts.
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Someone that you care about. You don't want grace anymore,
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you want justice. We all desire a righteous judge,
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but in God we get a righteous judge who demands payment and a
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gracious judge who makes that payment on our behalf.
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Maybe there's some of you in here this morning who don't know
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Jesus. Maybe you know that that you are
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a mess and that you are tired of trying to clean it up, trying to
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be good enough, trying to fix everything.
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I'm here to tell you this morning that Jesus isn't asking
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you to clean yourself up. He's asking you to put your
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trust in Him, the only one who can save you from your sins, and
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let Him do that work in you to. Those of us who.
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Already followed Jesus, I want you to remember that just
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because life feels like a mess right now, maybe you look around
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and you say, God, where are you at?
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Where are you? At things are a mess.
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My kids are a mess. My my family's a mess.
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My work is a mess. I'm just here to tell you that
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that just because it feels like a mess right now doesn't mean
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God is not present. He's been working in mess ever
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since the beginning. Don't lose heart.
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He's there. Let's pray, Father, I just come
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to you. Oh Lord is is a mess.
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Speaking about Mess guy, God I pray this morning.
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That you would just get. This word in US, Lord, that you
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would, would show us through our mess, Lord, how great of a
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savior you are. God, I pray.
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That you would work in us this morning, God, I pray that your
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word would, would just show us who we are as a mirror God, and
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show us who you are and the price that you paid for us.
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For those of us in here this morning, God, who don't know
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you, Lord, would you call them to salvation this morning?
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Lord? Would they trust you with all of
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the mess that is their life when they follow you from here on
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out? Knowing that one.
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Day, God, You are going to make it all right.
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Lord, we love you. Your name we pray.
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Amen.