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Sunday Message - Pastor Mark Bryan (March 06, 2016) | Life Bible Church
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privilege of knowing these folks for quite a
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while. We've actually been in partnership. I've
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been over to their church several times, probably
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three or four, and so I'm way overdue from inviting
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them to come and speak. Pastor Mark Bryan, some
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of you know that we've had, you know, I know
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Dave Bryan had Jess Parker here. Well, Dave Bryan...
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Mark is his brother. And so they pastor a great
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church in Meridian, Idaho. And we are thrilled
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to have them here today. His wife, Dee Dee, is
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also someone that you might recognize. She is
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one of the daughters of Brother Dick Iverson.
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So they are a great stalwart family, great inheritance.
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Would you welcome Mark and Dee Dee? Dee Dee,
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would you just come and say hello to the church
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as well? Just give them a Life Bible welcome.
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Welcome them to the podium. Thank you. What an
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amazing church. You guys should look at each
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other and say, we got an amazing church. You
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know, during the prayer meeting, you guys had
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an awesome prayer meeting. The presence of the
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Lord was very strong. And I'd encourage every
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one of you to come to prayer and to intercede
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for what God wants to do in this region. The
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thing the Lord was speaking to me about you was
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that he has set his love upon you. Individually,
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he's drawn you here to this place with his plan
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upon your life. His hand is upon individually
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you for good. And when God's people who've been
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drawn by his spirit come together, that have
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been responding to the wonderful love of God,
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sometimes we think we have to do all the work.
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Do you sometimes feel like, oh, I should do this,
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and I didn't read my Bible yesterday, and I didn't
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do this? But the Spirit of God is drawing you
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with cords of love that cannot be broken. He
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loved us first. He loves us first. We love him
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because he loves us. Yeah. And I just really
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believe that the love of God is here in such
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a powerful way. And God is bringing you guys
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together. He's joining you together. The barriers,
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they're just gone. They're just gone. They're
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just going. You know, if you think, oh, I feel
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I'm brand new. God is placing you in this church.
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God is blessing you. And you guys continue to
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believe on for what God is going to do. This
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double service on Easter, it's not going to end
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at Easter. God is doing a mighty work. of his
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spirit. Amen. Amen. Thank you, honey. And it's
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good. From my heart, again, greetings. It's good
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to see you. We bring you greetings from our congregation,
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Harvest Church in Meridian, Idaho, and our family,
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which has had the privilege of knowing your pastors
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and had them over for ministry. And it's just
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such a privilege for us to be able to come here.
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And by the way, congratulations on this beautiful
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facility that you have finished. It's such a
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beautiful facility. Come on, give the Lord a
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hand for what he's enabled you to do. I believe
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that you will go out of here better than you
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came in because the presence of the Lord is here,
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and in His presence we change for the better.
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Turn to your neighbor and say, you look better
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than you did last week. The Bible says the path
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of the just is as a shining light that shines
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more and more to the perfect day. And if we have
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been justified by faith in Jesus Christ and have
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peace with God, then that is speaking of us.
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And it's a progressive journey, and it is beautiful,
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and it is daily, and it is moment by moment.
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And just congratulate yourself that you made
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the right choice to be in church today, all right?
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Turn in your Bibles, if you would, to Ephesians
Ephesians 4 chapter mention
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chapter 4. I want to share a word that is from
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my heart that is very real and practical and
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down to earth and where we live, but very strong
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in the Scripture as a theme. And it's the theme
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of the togetherness of the body of Jesus Christ.
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Now, any of us that have ever been upon a tragic
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car accident or seen a body in trauma knows what
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it is to the human eye and mind to see blood
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or to see dismemberment, and it is considered
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tragic. Yet, if we in the spiritual realm use
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that analogy and realize that God put us together
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as a body, And it is traumatic to take us apart.
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And use that analogy as an overlay of what we're
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going to say today when the Bible repeatedly
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gives us the illustration. We are the body of
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Jesus Christ. We are members, individual, but
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set in a many -membered body, just as your own
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body has many members, but you are one. Now let
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us read Ephesians chapter 4 and verses 1 to 5.
Ephesians 4 chapter mention
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I therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, urge you
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to walk in a manner worthy of the calling which
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you have been called. And then he describes what
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this might involve. With all humility and gentleness,
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with all patience, bearing with one another in
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love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit
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in the bond of peace. Verse 4 says, there is
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one body. Everybody say one. There is one spirit.
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Everybody say one. Just as you were called with
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one hope, everybody say one. That belongs to
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your call. One Lord. Everyone say one. One faith.
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One again. One. One baptism. One God. Come on,
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say one, one, one, one, one, one, one. Try it
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again. Ready? One, one, one, one, one, one, one.
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Go. Come on. Everybody say it with me. One, one,
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one, one, one, one, one. That's seven ones. What's
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the point of Ephesians 1 to 4? One. One is obviously
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the point of Ephesians 1 to 4. One Lord, one
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faith, one spirit, one baptism, one God, who
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is over all and in all through you all. urge
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you this this concept where he says I urge you
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in verse 1 to walk and I want to bring out just
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some clear foundational points here as we start
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the urging here of the apostle Paul to the Ephesian
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church is an urging that denotes an object to
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be carefully and earnestly watched over and promoted
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I urge you to carefully and earnestly watch over
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and promote this walk of worthiness to your call
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how with humility gentleness patience bearing
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with one another in love eager to maintain the
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unity of the spirit and this eager again is this
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spirit of diligence this spirit of earnestness
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this spirit of i i give all heed and care to
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this thing, and that is maintaining a unity in
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the spirit, in the bond of peacefulness. The
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Bible talks actually more about unity than it
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does other important subjects like heaven and
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hell. It's that important, the togetherness of
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the family of God, the overcoming the human tendency
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of offense and criticism and negativity and doing
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exactly the opposite of what the Bible tells
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a Christian, thinking the worst about people
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instead of thinking the best about people. The
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Bible says to think about the good things, think
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about praiseworthy things, and there is just
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something about our human nature that wants to
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think about the bad things and think about the
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terrible things about people. And if somebody
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hears something terrible, it's like, can you
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believe? Did you hear that? Well, we want to
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talk today about how we walk worthy of the call
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and what it is to obey the Apostle Paul. You
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know, a lot of people think that the goal of
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Christian life is a destination or a ministry
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when really in... the words of Oswald Chambers,
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the goal of the Christian life is the process.
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Because it's in the process of all the variety
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of lives that you are living that as you live
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them with grace and peace and patience and wisdom
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and carefulness over your spirit, cleansing your
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mind and heart from things that interfere, that
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God is glorified in your daily walk and it sets
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you apart from the heathen that don't know him.
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It is more your walk Monday through Friday that
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sets you apart from the unsaved than your attendance
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here today. Because you can be unsaved and attend
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here today. But you can't be unsaved and walk
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with righteousness, peace, and joy Monday to
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Friday. The Bible is concerned about your walk.
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Now walking to church is a part of that walk.
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And being here today is definitely biblical and
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a part of it. I'm here today. I'm glad I'm here
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today. And I'm really glad you're here today.
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This would be an exercise in public speaking
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futility if none of you were here. So I am thrilled
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that you're here. But let's start with a couple
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of clear understandings. The first one is this.
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Jesus said in Matthew 16, 18, I will build my
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church and the gates of hell will not prevail
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against it. Now, I want to look at this. statement
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of Jesus, which comes right after, of course,
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this is when the disciples were in Caesarea Philippi,
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and Jesus asked the disciples, who do men say
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that I am? And they said, Elijah, prophets, all
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this stuff. And then he said, who do you say
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that I am? And Peter, in one of his great moments
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of strength, said, you are the Christ, the Son
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of the living God. It was like, who? Way to go,
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Peter. For once, it's the right thing. And Jesus
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said, flesh and blood has not revealed this to
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you, but my Father in heaven and upon this rock,
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not Petros the rock. This is an imagery Jesus
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is using on the rock of the revelation of who
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Jesus is, the church will be built. So it's Jesus
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is going to build his church, and then the gates
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of hell cannot prevail against it. Or the terminology
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there, let me just... Tell you if I may that
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gates are symbolic in the Bible of places that
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elders meet. So you could say the leadership
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of hell. Or the strategies of the devil and his
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lieutenants. Cannot prevail against the church.
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Now again going into the Greek word prevail.
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It's actually talking about it cannot stop or
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hinder us. Not that. It's talking basically not
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about us being the aggressors and we're holding
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up the gates so they don't knock it down. It's
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like we're the defenders, excuse me. It's talking
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about us being the forward moving church building
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blocks of the kingdom. My life being built along
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your life into the house of God. And that process
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of me becoming a godly Christian connected to
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the people that God's planted me around. Having
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healthy marriages and families and knowing how
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to raise our kids in the fear and admonition
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of the Lord. Lord, this cannot be prevented by
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the devil's strategies. Come on now. This is
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exciting news. That what God has called us to
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do, me to be, and us all to walk in is a victorious
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walk of breaking down the gates of hell, not
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holding on against it. And sometimes in today's
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world we can feel like we're just holding against
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the press of hell. But Jesus is building a church
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that will march to the gates of hell. Reach in
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and take captive the ones that Jesus paid for.
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And we're going to march on and overcome the
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works of darkness because of the power of resurrection
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life in us. I love the scripture in the book
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of Acts. I love the scripture in the book of
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Acts where Peter talking about Jesus raised from
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the dead. He says it was not possible that the
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chains of death could hold him. It's not possible
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that he raised in resurrection life because of
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the impossibility of him not raising. And that
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impossibility is the same impossibility of the
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resurrection life in you. It's not possible that
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those chains of death will bind him. It is not
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possible that the work of darkness against you
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will succeed. Of course, unless you want it to
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and believe it will and always confess it will
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and tell everybody else that it is. But if you
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will learn the lesson of the spirit of faith
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and the lesson of obedience to Scripture and
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the lesson that... Faith has a language just
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like doubt was. And the Christian ought to get
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his vocabulary straight. And know how to speak
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words of faith. And speak the words of the Bible.
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And speak the truth of Jesus. And let God's word
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wash my mind and my heart. My attitudes and my
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spirit. Until I am an overcoming Christian. Because
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that's what all of us are called to be. Now you
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say that sounds like a big vision. And it is.
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But it's not because you don't have to do it
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all at once. Remember, we're only called to obey
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the Lord right now. Everybody say now. You can't
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live the minute that just passed. It's already
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gone. You can't live the minutes that's coming
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because it ain't here yet. You can only live
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right now. The kingdom of God is a... now thing.
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Bible says now is your salvation nearer than
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when you first believed. The redemption of your
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life. But here we're talking about the walk and
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the walk of a Christian is like every other walk
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one step at a time. You don't get saved, baptized,
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come through the basic membership, join the church
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and all of a sudden be told you're going to run
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some kind of a spiritual marathon next week.
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No, no, no. You are taught you'll grow up by
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walking one step at a time. The Bible says, as
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you have received the Lord, so walk in him. How
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did you receive him? With just enough knowledge
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to do it. You didn't have a degree in basic doctrine
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or theology when you accepted the Lord. You just
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knew enough to believe. And you just didn't know
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enough today to make it. For the next hour, serving
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the Lord with your mind and your heart and your
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soul and your strength. That's all you need.
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After that, you'll need another hour. And after
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that, another hour. It's step by step. It's really
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not that complicated. There's a guy in our church
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that actually had some kind of neurological disorder
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in his legs and slowly lost his ability to walk.
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And he's a big six foot three or four. you know,
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early 40s businessman and, you know, just a specimen
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of health in every other way, except he can't
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walk. And he walks with a cane, and he's gotten
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so bad the last few years that when he goes to
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get up or move, people almost gasp and run around
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him because it looks like he's going to fall
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over. He's that weak in his legs. He's barely
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able to walk, honestly. And recently, he walked
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into the church. And he said to me, 782 steps
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yesterday. And I said, what did you say? He said,
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782 steps yesterday without my cane. And he said,
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I had it with me, and then all of a sudden it
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dawns on me what he's saying. I haven't counted
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steps in the... Hundreds for a long, long time.
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I mean, last time I was counting steps, it was
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my mama counting over me, and I was a little,
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little boy. Hey, he's taking three steps across
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the room. You know, I mean, that went out a long
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time ago. But when your walk is taken from you,
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then every step is significant. And that's the
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point of this illustration. Every step is significant,
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and that's all you need to do to make it. is
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take the next step. Just take the next step.
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You say, I don't know if God can keep me from
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the disasters of the past. He really only has
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to keep you from the disaster of today. And if
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you have enough grace for right now, you're going
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to make it. Because you'll have more grace tomorrow.
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It'll be okay. You can do this. One step at a
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time. Serve the Lord right now. One person said,
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every moment is contained in this moment. We
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serve God right now. Our past is in the Lord's
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hands. Forgiven. Thank the Lord. How many are
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thankful for the past being in? Our future is
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in the Lord's hands. So about the only thing
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you can do anything about is right now. So I
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encourage you to stay awake and listen to the
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message. That's what you have to do. Jesus is
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building a strong, victorious church and the
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church is able to overcome Satan's kingdom by
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the power of Christ working in you dynamically,
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day by day, moment by moment, step by step. We
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are the people of God and we are being built
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into an overcoming church. Can I hear an amen?
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God blesses a unified church. Many churches have
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tremendous potential but don't realize their
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potential because people spend too much time
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criticizing one another. Too much energy is focused
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inward. And self -focus, of course, is the opposite
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of God -focus. Now, so the first primary understanding
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I want you to have is that Jesus is building
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a strong, victorious church. The second primary
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understanding I want you to have is that Satan's
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primary goal is discord in the church. It's not
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addiction on skid row. That's not his primary
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goal. His primary goal is frustrating the instrument
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of God in the earth today any way he can. And
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he's just found out that one of the easiest ways
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is to get people sensitive and offended and willing
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to betray one another. That's just his one easiest
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tool. He's figured that out. And I'm quite frankly
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shocked at how prevalent this is in Christianity.
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In fact, Jesus talked about it when he talked
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about the last days. In Matthew 24, he said,
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many people will be offended and will betray
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one another. And they will hate one another.
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And because, listen to this, and because this
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lawlessness will increase. This lawlessness,
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which lawlessness? Offended, betray, hate. Offended,
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betray, hate. Offended, betray, hate. Disobedience
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to Scripture. Not being willing to reconcile.
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Not being willing to forgive. Not being willing
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to work it out. Because that lawlessness will
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increase. The love of many will wax cold. And
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that's not the brotherly love. That's the agape
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love. That means people will lose their love
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for God because of offense and division. and
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bitterness, and hatred. It's a big deal. Now,
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I'm not coming here saying it's worse in Harrisburg
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than it is in Meridian, Idaho at all. I'm just
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saying it's a big deal everywhere. In fact, I
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come here to testify to you of some of the scars
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that I bear on my body in the dying of the Lord
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Jesus, like Paul said, from divisive people.
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Divisive people. Offended, betraying, divisive
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people. I had a man leave our church one time.
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And I'd known him for years, since he was a kid,
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actually. We were both from the church in Portland.
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And he looked at me, sitting right in my pickup,
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and he said, Pastor, I'm so sorry that my wife
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and my sister are offended and will not forgive.
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I've begged them to let it go and to forgive.
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I'm sorry. but we're just going to leave the
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church. I said, why leave? Why don't we work
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this out? Well, I just think it's time for me
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to go do something else. Well, please, let's
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don't end this way. Can I help? No, I just think
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it's time. Again, there you have it. Too bad.
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It's the way it is. Let's go do something else.
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We can't make the Bible work in our situation
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for some reason, which we don't think is the
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Bible. We probably think it's our faith in the
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Bible, right? Did you all go to sleep on me right
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there? If we can't work it out, according to
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the Bible says, is it the Bible problem or is
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it the we problem? It's the we little us problem.
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We can't work it out according to what the Bible
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says. Our faith is small. We don't get it somehow.
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We are not empowered somehow. And so here we
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have one of the strong and clear teachings of
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the Bible. Now, going to this, I also want to
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say, in just relationship to Satan's primary
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plan is to bring discord, that the Bible tells
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us in Ephesians 6 that we're to put on the whole
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armor of God. You know that passage. Paul is
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telling the Ephesians church to put on the whole
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armor of God. That you may be able to stand against
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the wiles of the devil. That always reminds me
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of the wily coyote chasing a rabbit. Anyway,
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so you may be able to stand against the wily
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coyote, the devil, for we don't wrestle against
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flesh and blood, but against principalities and
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powers. Now, you probably know this because you're
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in a well -taught church and your pastors are
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good pastors. But that Greek word for wiles of
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the devil means the meticulous schemes. It's
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actually translated schemes in other translations.
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It means a meticulous, thought -out plan to destroy.
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Did you know the devil has a meticulous thought
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-out plan to destroy you? You say, man, how can
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I survive that? Only one way, my friend. That's
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with the Lord, the Bible, and the Holy Spirit.
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And if you don't think that's true, peek out
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of your window at the culture and see what's
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happening to the secular culture of America right
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now. We wrestle not against flesh and blood,
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but against principalities and powers. We have
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then to take on this armor of God so we have
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an ability to stand up against the orderly, detailed
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procedure in the craft of deception. The orderly,
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detailed procedure in the craft of deceiving
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you. I had a leader one time who came to me with
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a list of beefs. But all of the beefs had people's
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name attached to them. And they were spread over
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10 years. And I said to him, why are we talking
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about this now? He said, well, there are issues.
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I said, if they were just issues, they wouldn't
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have people's name attached to them. The Bible
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calls that offense. You're offended with this
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person for doing that. You're offended with this
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person for doing that. You're offended with this
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person for doing that. No, no, no, no. Listen,
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here's one of the most deceptive phrases of the
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devil in the church today. Are you ready for
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it? I'm not offended. Oh, you're not, huh? Maybe
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you... I remember the... movie, Princess Bride,
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and the guy kept saying, inconceivable, inconceivable,
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and finally the Spanish guy looked at him and
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said, I don't think inconceivable thinks what
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you mean inconceivable means. Remember that?
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You that have watched old classics, I don't think
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you know what inconceivable means. And I feel
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like saying to the whole church, I don't think
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you know what being offended means. I don't think
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you know what that means. Let's ask it a different
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way. Have you got any ruffled feathers with anybody
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for any reason? Here's my favorite statement
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about that. The Bible says, love covers a multitude
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of sins. So we need the love of God, right? Poured
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out in our heart by the Holy Spirit every day
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and every night and all the time. And he does
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that willingly if we're open to it. But it doesn't
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say all sin. But, according to the scripture,
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That's where forgiveness and reconciliation principles
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come in. Love can cover it. And this is what
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I tell people. Cover it with love if you can.
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You say, how do I know if I can? If it doesn't
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stay covered. Like if it comes up again and again
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and again. It peeks its head out from under the
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cover. And you're going, oh yeah, they hurt me.
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I said, if you can't cover it with love, then
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it's pretty easy. Go to the Bible which says
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be reconciled. I said to this leader, why haven't
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you reconciled with these people? Most of them
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are staff and other leaders. This was his answer.
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Think of how weak and sympathetic this is. How
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deceived. He said, I've tried. Think about it.
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Does the Bible say try? Is that what it says?
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Give it your best Boy Scout shot. Maybe it'll
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work. Maybe it won't. No, it says be reconciled.
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That means get it done. Fix it, pal. Go do it.
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Deal with it. I don't know how. It's the scripture.
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What do you mean you don't know how? Listen to
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me. Let's go back to how we started. It's not
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possible for that offense to keep you shut out.
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from resurrection life and power unless you will
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it so. Because you are a free will agent able
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to choose your moral and spiritual destiny. And
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you can call upon the name of the Lord and be
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saved or you can disbelieve in the Lord and be
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damned according to the Bible. Just say it like
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it is, my friends. Not a cuss word, a Bible word,
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right? So it's our choice. So you have the power
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of choice. What is addiction? Addiction is the
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seduction of the human will, the yieldedness
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of free moral agency. When an addicted person
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gets free, what do you have to tell them they
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can pick up now? Free moral agency once again.
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The ability to choose. They've yielded that and
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said, I don't think I can. Well, I didn't last
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time and I haven't for 30 times and I guess I'm
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just addicted. One of the things you have to
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energize, you don't have to just take out the
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addictive tendency or substance or opportunity.
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You have to then say to them, start where you
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were when you were 12. Before you got into all
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that and recapture this thought, you can choose.
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You are not a plant or an animal. You are a free
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will, moral agent. birthed in the image of God
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into the universe of moral choice, and you have
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the power to choose. So choose life, like God
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said, before you use a choice, life and death.
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Choose life. How could the God of heaven and
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earth and hell and the ruler of everything and
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the ultimate judge of the universe say that to
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people who did not have the choice? It's morally
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impossible. He couldn't. Say that. He can't judge
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you for that which you cannot choose. How many
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ever had that happen in school? You got tagged
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for something you didn't do. You got tagged for
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something somebody else did. And you think, it
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just ticks you off. It's unfair. You go and say,
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I didn't do that. They did that. They put my
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name on that paper. I didn't. It's not fair.
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Well, you think the God of the universe is worse
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than the blind teacher or coach or leader that
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treated you unfair? You think that's the way
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he is? He's worse than that? No, he's not. He's
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fair. He's just. He's good. He knows what he's
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doing. You say, life isn't fair. Well, I'll give
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you that. It's not really fair. But God is just,
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and over time, justice reigns and truth reigns.
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And you'll do best, always and forever, by grabbing
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onto his train and following it down the track
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by your choice. So you have to choose to forgive.
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You have to say, okay, I will. Here's the answer
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to the I tried thing. It goes back to a little
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saying we learned a long time ago. If at first
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you don't, then no kidding. What does the Bible
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say about that? Go with a brother. If your brother
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hears you, you've gained your brother. If he
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does not, take another to your brother. If he
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does not. Tell it to the church. If he does not
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hear the church, a step most Christians miss,
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most pastors miss. If he doesn't hear the church,
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what on earth does that mean? Well, the first
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one meant you talk to him. And the second step
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meant to talk to him. So the third step must
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mean that a bunch of people talk to him. Right?
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Now, if you had... Everybody in this room loved
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a person sitting right here that had been here
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for years. They got offended and left. And every
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member of this church, core member of this church,
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called them and said, please don't be offended.
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Please don't leave this way. Come on, in Jesus'
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name. I'm praying for you. I'm fasting one day
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a week for you. You cannot fail here. I will
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not let you stay offended. Well, that would be
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amazing if it happened once. But it would be
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1 ,000 % more amazing if it happened 100 times.
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Think if it happened 150 times. Think if every
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friend you ever had at this church went to you
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and pleaded with you in Jesus' name. I remember
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years ago we were having some pastors stay with
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us for a few days. And they'd come through our
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city and they were in transition. And they actually
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lived there for a few months. We were having
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a conversation, and Dee Dee said to this pastor's
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wife, well, that lady's offended with you. And
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she wheeled around and looked at her, and she
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said, well, I won't let her stay offended. I'm
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going to go to her. I will seek her out. I will
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win her back. I will not let her stay offended
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with me. And I thought to myself, now that is
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a Christian attitude. Right there. A Christian
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attitude. Oh, well, they're offended. Let them
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go. That is a lazy, carnal. Cultural attitude.
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That's an attitude of the flesh. The Christian
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attitude is reconciled. Come on. Walk worthy
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of the call. 1 -1 -1 -1 -1 -1 -1. Not 2 -2 -5
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-5 -6 -6. Whatever you want. I've said to people,
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if we treated our jobs or our marriages like
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we treat the church, we would be divorced and
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broke. You got to have better attitudes to keep
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a job. You got to be on time more to keep a job.
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You can come late to church for months without
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them throwing you out. Usually. Usually. I'm
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not saying that's good. I'm just saying that
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is. Come on, you got to give yourself to anything
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that amounts to anything. So let's give ourselves
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to the Lord. Let's give ourselves to the house
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of God. Let's give ourselves to the kingdom.
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Let's be faithful. Let's be diligent. Let's overcome
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evil with good. Let's reconcile. Let's forgive.
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Let's keep it together. Come on, friends, keep
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it going on. We know that churches are made up
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of people and there aren't any perfect people.
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My dad used to say, if I find a perfect church,
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I can't join it because I'll wreck it. Because
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I'm imperfect, right? So, you know, the grass
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isn't greener on the other side. The pastor isn't
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nicer at the other place. He's got a weak spot
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too. It will rub you too. Sooner or later, you're
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going to have to deal with you. But here's what
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happens. People don't deal with them because
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they're deceived. So they think they're all right,
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and they're not offended. So they go to church
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B. And that doesn't last as long as church A.
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Why? Because they carried their problem with
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them. Because, in fact, the problem wasn't the
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church. I didn't say the church didn't have any
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problems. I said the. problem was not the church.
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It was their offense, their sensitivity, their
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willingness to be offended. Did you hear me?
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Willingness to be offended. A long time ago when
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I was a young man, I think I was just married,
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my brother, the one he referred to, looks older
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but actually he's younger. That's just a joke.
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My baby brother Dave Came to me and he said,
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how are you doing? And I poured out my offense
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with the leader of Bible Temple. One of the leaders
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there had offended me and something had done.
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And I just said, I can't believe he said this
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and I can't believe he did this. And I'm pouring
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out. We're just like two years out of Bible college.
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And I'm just blah, blah, blah. And my brother
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looked at me and he said, well, why did you let
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it hurt you that bad? You know what he was doing?
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He was saying, get a hold of your will, brother.
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You're willing to be hurt. And you're hurting
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yourself more by talking about it. And you'll
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hurt yourself again when you dream about it.
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And when you think about it. When you talk again
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about it. You get so locked into that wound.
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We're like the person that walks in with an arrow
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in them. And they've had this wound so long it
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becomes their identity. I'm the wounded Christian.
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And if you walk up to them and bump that arrow,
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they go, Ouch! Don't touch the arrow. I've had
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it for years. You go, you need to take that out.
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You need to take that out. You tell, don't, don't,
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don't touch that out. That arrow doesn't come
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out. Well, the Bible says it does. I'm different.
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I had this arrow before I knew about the Bible.
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How many of you have seen, how many of you have
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seen the video called The Nail, or It's All About
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the Nail? Seen that? The lady has the nail in
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her forehead and you can't see it. And they're
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arguing. She's saying, there's just something
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between us I can't figure out. Says, oh, honey,
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I love you. And they go to kiss and the nail
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in her forehead hits him. And he says, the nail.
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And she said, don't talk about the nail. It's
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not the nail. Something between us. Every time
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we go to kiss, it hurts. She got a nail sticking
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out of her forehead. Same picture. Same picture.
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You can find it on the tube if you do those kind
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of things. Come on now. Are we going to get this
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on and do it right as Christians? You can't be
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easily offended. You know, when the Bible talks
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about offense, the Greek word for offense is
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the word picture of a snare, a trap. Skadzalizo,
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skadzalizo, or whatever it is. I'm sorry I didn't
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look it up. But anyway, it's the, it's, I speak
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English, by the way. It's a snare. It's a snare.
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And what is a snare? Do you know what a snare
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is? That's a trap set in the brush. In a way
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that the animal can't see it. On a path the animal
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usually travels. Come on now. We're talking about
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a meticulous plot to destroy you. So what's your
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thing? Self -worth. I have to be doing something
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to feel good about myself. So if I don't have
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a place of service in the church. I'm of no value.
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That's a problem. Your value is supposed to be
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in Christ. Not in your good works. Well, I was
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hurt by my dad. So I've got an authority wound
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or a dad wound or whatever your thing is. Just
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remember, you better know it because the devil
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does. And he's strategizing on how to reach around
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and touch that sore spot in this church. So you
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blow out again, go to another church for a shorter
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period of time. And in a few years, you don't
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go to church at all. You're a burdened over has
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been used to go to church. Hate them all. Their
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pastors are mean. They don't love you. All they
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want is money for their building. Blah, blah,
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blah. blah, blah, offended person. There's so
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many of them in our valley. Pastors call that
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group of people the walking, wounded, unchurched.
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Want to be a part of that crowd? Well, then don't.
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Don't do that. Let's get practical. Ephesians
Ephesians 4 chapter mention
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chapter 4. Let's go down to verse 12 where he
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says that the gifted ministries are for the equipping
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of the saints. Everybody say, I'm a saint. For
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the work of the ministry. And that means I help
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train you to do your job of ministering to the
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people of God. And this is a lesson on how to
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keep yourself in the ministry mode. One thing
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you learn as a pastor is you cannot have thin
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skin. People say all manner of evils against
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me falsely. And I still have a hard time rejoicing
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and being glad. Even though that's what Jesus
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said to do. Because they persecuted the prophets
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too. So just rejoice. Count yourself honored
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that they speak evil of you. I have to confess.
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I don't always feel emotions of honor when that
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happens. But. I think the reason pastors have
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to deal with a lot of relational and verbal abuse
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and things said about them, written about them.
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We've got bitter bloggers that say all kinds
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of wicked things about our church. We actually
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rented, we actually paid, we bought a $10 ,000
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internet reputation program from the biggest
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company in America that defends Forbes and Fox
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News and everybody else. They said, we're reputation
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.com. Get those bitter bloggers off of your front
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page. They worked for about two months. Called
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our person in our office and said, you got a
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problem. We cannot, listen to me, the biggest
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company in the nation that deals with the biggest
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company couldn't help our little church from
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the bitterness of the body of Christ. They just
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said, the guy said to our staff member on the
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phone, the only thing different, the only thing
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that could be worse at your church this Sunday
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is if you had live picketers with signs out front.
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You got it bad as it gets on the media page.
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And we were just going, and you know who started
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it? The daughter of the guy who sat in my truck
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and said, I'm so sorry, my wife and daughter
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will not forgive and get over their bitterness.
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And so. I think one of the reasons that those
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kind of things happen is so that I can be an
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example to my people of how to just forgive and
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forget, love those people anyway, pray for them.
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Bible says pray for your enemies. I have a great
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prayer life. I got a lot of them. I got a lot
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of them to pray for. It's sad. That's very sad.
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I mean, I'm laughing with you, but isn't that
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sad? What's the matter with the body of Christ?
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And then we're worried about our nation. We got
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more Christians worried about the economy of
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our nation than the spiritual condition in our
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nation. Come on, don't you realize that economy
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came from liberty and liberty came from Christianity.
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If we lose Christianity, we lose liberty and
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we lose the blessing of God on our economy. That's
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the fact of the matter. We are blessed of the
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Lord. And unless we get back to godliness and
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a revival in America and see 50 million people
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born again in the next few years, there's little
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hope that you're going to have the economy you
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want in the next generation. Because the blessing
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of the Lord is not upon our nation right now.
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But it can be. And it is upon you. So you need
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to use it wisely. You need to promote it everywhere.
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I like what Charles Finney said when he said
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when Jesus gave the Great Commission, he gave
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it to the whole church of the day. All the people
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gathered there. He didn't gather Peter and James
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and John. He said it to everybody. That he said
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it to everybody means that anybody who is a Christian,
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who calls themselves a part of the church, it
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is their... obligation to make it their, listen
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to me, life work to convert the world. Your life
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work. What if we actually took that seriously?
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People said, what do you do? Say, I'm converting
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the world. You're what? Well, I'm a plumber by
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trade, but I'm actually... More than that, I'm
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a mighty, mighty Christian, and me and my band
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of friends, we're working at the conversion of
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a million people in the Willamette Valley. What
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if we just had that kind of view, that kind of
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faith? It's the power of the gospel. All right,
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so people get into conflict with each other.
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As Christians, we need to learn how to deal with
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these situations. Jesus said in John 17, and
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this is where I want to bring it down. Jesus
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said that they may all be one. Just as you, Father,
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are in me, and I in you, that they also may be
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in us. Think about those words. Jesus is praying
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in his high priestly prayer just before he goes
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to the cross. Father, this is the scripture where
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he said, I'm not praying for these alone, but
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for everybody that will hear and believe because
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of their words, which means all of us. Every
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Christian in history from the time of the apostles.
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Jesus is praying for them that, listen to these
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words, that they, that's us, everybody say us.
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Say one, one, one, one, one, one, one. That they
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should be one, listen to the words, as we are
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one. I in you and you in me. That part messes
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with us. Did you know we're supposed to be that
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a part of each other? We're supposed to know
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each other and love each other with a pure heart
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fervently. Think about that. Let the word of
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God have its effect in your life today. Do you
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need more love for others? Of course you do.
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So do I. We all do. I think this fervency has
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to do with purity. You can't love fervently.
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If you're not pure in your heart. If you haven't
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walked in blamelessness. Not perfection, blameless.
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That means you keep yourself maintained before
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the Lord. Jesus said, Father, I'm praying that
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they know supernatural unity. I'm praying that
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the body of Christ, listen to these words, know
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the unity of the Trinity. You know what we say
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about the Trinity in basic doctrine? Our statement
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about the Trinity is that the Trinity is distinguishable
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but indivisible. You know, three persons known
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as Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, like and essential
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and all their attributes. And then we say this
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phrase, distinguishable, however, absolutely,
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totally unable. to divide. And Jesus prayed that
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about you and I. Paul said in 1 Corinthians,
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he said, you should all be one, have the same
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mind and the same judgment. I'm telling you,
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one of the things that works against this is
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our individuality. Our independence. We celebrate
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a day of independence for goodness sake. We grow
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up being told we should be independent. And then
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we grow up and find out we've got to be dependent
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upon God. We've got to be dependent upon one
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another. We've got to love one another. We've
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got to lock arms. None of us is as good as all
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of us. So let's all go together. Stay together.
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Love each other. Forgive one another. Work it
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out. Love the Lord. Avoid situations that cause
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arguments. Teach troublemakers to repent. warn
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those that cause trouble that their negative
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words are hurting others, and make an appeal
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for harmony and unity. Paul said in Philippians
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2, I plead with Euodia and I plead with Cynthia
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to agree with each other in the Lord. There were
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two very strong women in the church that Paul
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named who were causing so much friction in the
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church that Paul pleaded with them personally
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and their names got in the Bible. How would you
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like your name to be in the Bible for division
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and strong will? Think about it. Their names
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got in the Bible. And he just said, I plead with
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you women. You two strong leaders, good leaders,
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love people, working hard in the ministry and
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came up with the difference. I plead with you.
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Come together. Stay united. Fighting in the church
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doesn't just affect the combatants. It affects
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the whole church and the world. Jesus said, come
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together in supernatural unity so that the world
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may believe. You want a revival? It starts with
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your unity. You want the testimony of Christ
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to be strong in the Willamette Valley? It starts
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with everybody in the room says, I'm committed.
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This is my house. I'm going to let my roots go
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down, my fruit grow up like the Bible says. I'm
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not going to be waved and pushed around. I'm
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not going to be offended if I hear somebody talk
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and smack about somebody else. I'm going to go
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and say, hey, you shouldn't talk that way. I
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don't get a spirit of faith and joy and fervent
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love of the brethren out of this conversation.
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Come on now. Let's not be doing that. You say,
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well, hey, pastor, you need to go talk to so
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-and -so. Go talk to so -and -so yourself. What's
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your problem? You're supposed to be the person
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in the ministry. It's not the pastor's job to
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do that. It's your job to do that. You go up
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to your brother or your wife or your son or your
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daughter or anybody. Say, well, I'm not going
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to do that in my family. Why? Jesus said, come
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on, I didn't bring peace but a sword. What is
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the sword of Christ in the gospel? It's a sword
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between those who obey and those who will not.
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And it doesn't matter who they are relationally
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to you. If you don't obey Christ and stand for
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the truth in those times, then you deny Christ
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and you stand with the devil's strategy to undermine
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and destroy the church. You cannot do that. Remember,
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one of the things that God hates, and I have
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enough problems with me and the devil. I don't
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need any hatred from God coming my way. If you
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get my meaning. One of the things that God hates
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is a person that sows discord among the brethren.
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Killing people with small talk. Well, I heard.
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Did you hear? You get this. Love for juicy morsels.
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The Bible categorically condemns that. It condemns
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it. It says don't do that. Don't slander. Don't
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be a busybody. Don't gossip. Don't spread an
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evil report. You know what an evil report is?
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Truth. True facts. True events. True things.
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Spoken with the kind of doubt that destroys faith
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in the vision or the leader. That is what Numbers
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13 calls an evil report. Don't be going around
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giving an evil report about the pastor, about
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something more. Well, I didn't. I just said a
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lot of blah, blah, blah. I had a guy come to
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me. I had to confront him. I gave him a whole
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list. I gave him all the Bible words it says
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to avoid. I said, I've had several men come to
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me and say that you've been saying things critical,
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negative, and you need to talk to me. Two men
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have told me they've sent you to me. You haven't
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come yet. I'm coming to you. What's the problem?
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Pastor, I have no problem with you. We're brothers.
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I love you. I just opened up the page. Don't
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slander. Don't gossip. Don't be a busybody. Don't
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spread evil reports. I had the whole page with
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scriptures and definitions. I said, read this
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for your devotions with your wife. I said to
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him, I said, if you love me and you're not saying
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critical things of me, why do other people say
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to me they feel like when you talk, they've been
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vomited on? You know what that did? Made him
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mad at that guy. Okay, now he's getting some.
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Of his own medicine. He's vomited on him. He
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tells me, I think I got vomited on by him. He
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needs to talk to you. And I told him, I give
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him a week. In eight days, I go to him and I
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say, quit vomiting on people. And he gets mad
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at the guy that he vomited on because he told
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about the vomit to the pastor who had to confront
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him for the vomit. Come on now. I'd say that's
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strategy. Come on. How many of you want to be
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a mighty, mighty Christian? How many of you want
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to see a mighty revival in our land? How many
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of you say, I'm going to give myself to love
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covering everything? What love can't cover, forgiveness
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and reconciliation will. I just close with this
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statement of unity. It is that worked for and
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carefully guarded quality brought about by the
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convictional habit of biblical forgiveness and
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reconciliation, which God has promised to bless.
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He's promised on this particular part of Christianity,
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he'll bless you. If you work it out. I love you.
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I'm proud of you. I'm praying for a biblical
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supernatural unity that will command a blessing
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and will command a harvest to come in to this
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house. Because Jesus said in John 17, Father,
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I give them the glory that you've given me that
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they may be one. Could it be that Jesus' prayer
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was not that we glorify ourself with ministry,
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but we glorify ourself with unity? We always
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think I need to do something great for God. Maybe
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you need to be something great for God. Unified
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together. And one, one, one, one, one, one, one.
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God bless you. I love you. Come on, let's give
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him a big hand. Thank you, Mark. Pastor Mark,
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great work. If you are interested in hearing
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other podcasts or contacting Life Bible Church,
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go to www .lifebiblechurch .org or call us at
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541 -995 -8282.