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Distractions Got You Drifting // Do Not Disturb (Part 2) // Pastor Ty Lanphere

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  1. Welcome to Transformation Church Podcast, where we represent God to

  2. the lost and found for transformation in Christ. We're so

  3. glad you're here and wherever you're listening from, we believe

  4. God will transform your life. Do today's message, Let's go.

  5. I hope that you got a Bible today. Get into

  6. the word in just a second. But I got to

  7. remind you of the series we're in. We're in week

  8. two of a collection titled Do Not Disturb, and we

  9. got to give honor one more time to the first

  10. installment from Pastor Breed Davis last week. What an incredible message,

  11. Thank you, Thank you. I've sent that to about one

  12. hundred and fifty people already, so it was a great word.

  13. And I just want to continue what she started last

  14. week as we're in week two of this collection. And

  15. I like the collection that we're in because in this

  16. series do Not Disturb, we're asking a really good question.

  17. We're building from a good thought, and the thought is

  18. how do we find and focus in a world full

  19. of distraction. I don't know if you've noticed that about

  20. the world that we live in. It is full of distraction.

  21. And so if I want to be focused something interesting,

  22. I have to find focus. Maybe you're like me, maybe

  23. you've had times where you have to fight for focus.

  24. If I want to get focused, I gotta carve it

  25. in my schedule. I gotta be intentional. I gotta make

  26. sure nobody can mess with my time of being intentional

  27. to get focused. So it's interesting to me. You gotta

  28. find focus, But distraction, it has a funny way of

  29. finding you. I don't know if you've noticed that. It

  30. doesn't take much to get distracted. Distraction is at your

  31. fingertips all day long, twenty four to seven. And as

  32. we build off this word distraction, I want to make

  33. sure that you have a good concept of exactly what

  34. it is that we're talking about, because I know sometimes

  35. when we study words or topics in church a lot

  36. of time we like to get a definition for that.

  37. And so it sent you. They'll be like, hey, if

  38. you're going to give us a word, and you'll put

  39. a definition on the screen, we want a definition. We

  40. will get the term. And I think that the definition

  41. of a word's powerful. But the people in the Bible,

  42. when they would give a word, they want to give

  43. you imagery, and so we want a definition. So it

  44. kind of works like this if I ask him to you, Hey,

  45. what's God like to you? You might say, man, God

  46. he is, He's faithful. Hey, God's holy, he's sovereign, he's powerful,

  47. and I like that. But there's not really imagery that

  48. goes with that. So if you ask somebody in the Bible, hey,

  49. what's God like to you? They would say God, He's man.

  50. God's like a strong tower that I can run into

  51. and be kept safe. God is like a solid rock,

  52. a firm foundation, and he holds me and he stables me. Oh,

  53. you want to know about his word. His word, it's

  54. like a lighting to my feet and a lamp into

  55. my path. That's what's the reason why they gave you

  56. an expression is because they didn't just want to give

  57. you a definition for understanding. They wanted to give you

  58. an expression based off an experience. And so as I

  59. hear about the solid rock, the firm foundation, I can

  60. feel that and I can understand that. So when it

  61. comes to this word distraction, I'm gonna give you the

  62. biblical imagery. The imagery is your life being pulled apart

  63. in multiple directions. What that means is that part of

  64. me shows up to be a parent part of me

  65. shows up to be an employee. Part of me shows

  66. up to my friend groups to be a great friend,

  67. and part of me is involved in my relationships outside

  68. my family. It's not I'm showing up in pieces. And

  69. this was never the dream that Jesus has for your life.

  70. The dream of Jesus for your life is not that

  71. you would live a fragmented life. The dream Jesus has

  72. for your life is that you would live a whole,

  73. an integrist life. And so it's not that I just

  74. got a pick. Well, I can only be a parent,

  75. I gotta be focused, so I can only be a student.

  76. I can only be a good spouse. You don't have

  77. to pick one. It's just that you show up fully

  78. to whichever you're at at that time. It's the whole saying,

  79. I am where my feet are, and so as I

  80. show up to be a good employee, I'm not thinking

  81. about the friend I gotta be. As I show up

  82. to be a great spouse and a parent, I'm not

  83. thinking about the employee I gotta be. I'm fully where

  84. I'm at. And so if we want to find focus,

  85. we gotta fight for it. But if we want to

  86. get distracted, and distraction a. It has a way of

  87. finding you. It's not that difficult. I don't know if

  88. you have an experience like I do. But whenever I

  89. grew up, my parents they used to ground me if

  90. I did something you know, your boy shouldn't have done.

  91. And so anytimes I would rebel against what they said,

  92. or if I do something crazy, they would ground me,

  93. and usually they would send me to my room. I

  94. would go to my room, I would sit on my bed,

  95. and the instruction was, hey, think about what you did,

  96. think about what you can do better next time, and

  97. then we're going to talk about it. Come on, somebody.

  98. That's character development, that's good parenting. So oftentimes I would

  99. walk back to my room. I would sit on my

  100. bed and I start thinking, all right, what I do,

  101. how could be better? And that's how it went ninety

  102. nine percent of the time. But baby, there was one

  103. time I went back to my room. I'm upset. I

  104. sit on my bed. I start thinking about what I done,

  105. how I could be better, you know, character development, And

  106. all I did, literally the only thing I did. I

  107. turned my head to the left, and as I turned

  108. my head to the left, I saw a white and

  109. orange battery powered radio and I looked at it had

  110. a little belt clip. You know what I'm saying. It

  111. was like the ogue I had. The little belt clip

  112. had a long cord that went to some metal bracketed headphones.

  113. Of course, as I'm sitting there in my room with

  114. nothing else, I grabbed the radio. I put the headphones on,

  115. I cut it on, and I start tuning through the

  116. channels and through the stations to try and find something

  117. that I could kill some time with. And so the

  118. first thing I heard, you know, I grew up in

  119. the South, so I heard some country music. I was like,

  120. all right, I heard this before. Kept scrolling and I

  121. tuned into some pop music. I was like, okay, I

  122. like that, but heard this one before. Heard some rock music,

  123. heard some talk shows. But then I came across the

  124. station with the sound your boy, I never heard before.

  125. I came across the station with the sound that was

  126. earth shattering, groundbreaking, life transforming. It was the sound when

  127. I tuned in, it said I liked the bar tender.

  128. Oh yay, Hey, my little nine, ten eleven year old

  129. white self. I stup off the bed. I was like,

  130. what is happened? Like I just hey, you saw that

  131. you peep that, you peap that. Yeah. Hey, when I

  132. tell you I grew up playing basketball, I had a

  133. week crossover from that day forward. I grew up. I

  134. had the little little hiccup like, Bro, I'm telling you

  135. it changed my life, changed my life the rest of

  136. the time being grounds like this is the best day ever.

  137. So my mom she comes in, She's like, all right,

  138. let's talk about what have you learned? I said, Bro,

  139. I learned you can rye mansion with Wisconson and people

  140. buy it. Oh, people buy it just doing something. I mean,

  141. I don't know. Transformation happened long ago in my life.

  142. Ninety two point five hip hop and R and B.

  143. I love you, love you. You know what's crazy though,

  144. in a moment we're all I had to do what's

  145. focused on my growth and my development. All I do

  146. is I turn my head, make a decision. Now I'm distracted. Distraction.

  147. It's got a funny way of finding you, and the

  148. decision leads me to being distracted. I want to see

  149. from that today about the danger of distraction. I think

  150. for a lot of us, especially in our culture, everybody's

  151. kind of distracted. It's something that all throughout the day

  152. there's little distractions, little things that we can numb the pain,

  153. little things that can take us off of our focus.

  154. And so I think since it's so normal, we missed

  155. the big danger of distraction. And today I want to

  156. take you to some scriptures and hopefully I can help

  157. point this out to you, the danger of distraction. And

  158. we're gonna look at some of the writings of Paul.

  159. If you want to go ahead and turn to Filehman.

  160. If you got a Bible, you can turn there, if not,

  161. in a second, they're gonna be on the screen, and

  162. then we're gonna read some of his writings in his

  163. letters to churches. If I can give you a little

  164. context on Paul very simply was a church persecutor, Christian

  165. killer who became church planter, church overseer, and as he

  166. became an overseer of the church, all this happened off

  167. of one experience with Jesus that transformed his life. And

  168. he would write letters to these churches to encourage them,

  169. to guide them, to instruct them, and some to challenge them.

  170. So if you read, you can read his letter in

  171. Philippians to the Church in Philippi, and you get the tone.

  172. You know, his tone to them. He's like, man, I

  173. love y'all. I'm so proud of y'all. I just gonna

  174. let y'all know how I'm doing. Then he writes the

  175. Church in corinth and first Saint Corinthians, and he's like, Hey,

  176. when I pull up, I'm whipping ah, y'all, y'all ain't

  177. good at this Christian thing. Okay, I gotta come back

  178. so you can kind of get the tone. We're gonna

  179. look at the tone today as he writes about one

  180. of his ministry companions, Paul, he understood that assignment is

  181. only as important as your alignment. And so Paul, he

  182. actually had people that he would do life in ministry with.

  183. And I want to read about one of those people today,

  184. named Demus. He's mentioned three times in scripture, three different

  185. books of the Bible, in three different verses, and the

  186. first is in Phi Lehman, it's very interesting. This is

  187. what says. They're going to put it on the screen

  188. for us. But Paul said, Epiphrius, my fellow prisoner in

  189. Christ Jesus sends you his greetings. So does Mark, Aristarchus,

  190. Demus and Luke my coworkers. This is the first mention

  191. we get of Demus, and the tone of it is, man, Demus,

  192. my fellow worker, my co labor, my coworker in the ministry,

  193. doing life with him. This is the earliest writing we

  194. have of Demus. And I love that Paul is making

  195. sure other people recognize Demas's faithfulness, Demus's job in the ministry,

  196. him doing life with Paul. So we get this writing

  197. about eighty fifty eight to sixty two, and then the

  198. next writing that we're going to see of Demus actually

  199. comes from Colossians, and it's roughly a year or two later,

  200. and Paul in Colossians he does something. He hypes up

  201. four or five different people and their engagement in the ministry,

  202. and he's like, man, this guy named Aristarkus, another guy

  203. named Oessames, there's a few others that he mentions. He's like, man,

  204. support these guys. They are faithful to the ministry. Pray

  205. for these men, accept them and their leadership in your house.

  206. He really pours a lot of emphasis into the weight

  207. of the character of some of these men. But then

  208. we get to Colossians chapter four and he says this.

  209. He says, Luke, the beloved doctor, come on you know Luke,

  210. the beloved doctor. We all love Luke. He sends his greeting,

  211. and so does Demus. It's about two years later. The

  212. first one we got man, faithful co worker, faithful labor

  213. in the ministry. And now about a year or two later,

  214. a lot of people get their influence projected, get the

  215. weight that comes with their name and their role told

  216. to other people. And then it's kind of like, oh yeah,

  217. and Demus he's here. You know, Demus, he's here too.

  218. And the third mention we have of him, it comes

  219. from about three to four years later, and it's in

  220. tewod Timothy, chapter four, verses nine through ten, and this

  221. is what it says. Paul says Timothy, please come as

  222. soon as you can. Demus has deserted me because he

  223. loves the things of this life and has gone back

  224. to Thessalonaika. Can you see the progression, faithful worker, fellow

  225. co labor, a friend and companion in the ministry. You

  226. know he's here. Demus is with us. Timothy, Please come

  227. as soon as you can. Demus has deserted me because

  228. he loves the things of this life more than the next.

  229. I want to submit that there is a danger of distraction. See,

  230. nobody's life is really ruined by a moment of distraction.

  231. It's never that I had one moment of being distracted

  232. and man, now my whole life is just ruined. It's

  233. daily small decisions that get you distracted. And I would

  234. submit that the danger of distraction is that distractions got

  235. you drifting. Distractions got you drifting. You can go ahead

  236. if you got notes today and write that down of

  237. the title of this message. Distractions got you drifting. Listen

  238. to all of us. Christ follower or not, you've probably drifted.

  239. If you follow Jesus, you know that there's times when

  240. you probably have more passion, more fervor more zeo for

  241. the things of the ministry and the Gospel than maybe

  242. you do now or maybe you have in another time.

  243. But even if you're not a Jesus follower, we all

  244. started this year with New Year's resolutions. And I mean,

  245. you had the membership to play and a fitness but

  246. now you might as well get into Canes. Baby. It's

  247. like you just it's kind of drifted ALUs in bulk season.

  248. But come on, we drift. Drifting happens to the best

  249. of us. And I want to give you a term

  250. for drifting today, so we know what we're working from.

  251. If you want to write this down. Drift is a slow,

  252. seemingly undetectable movement from one place to another, from one

  253. place to another. That's the danger of it, is that

  254. it takes you from one place to another. It's not

  255. just that I drift from being generous. It's that I

  256. drift to being selfish. It's not only that once I

  257. had close proximity to purity and now I'm not as

  258. close anymore. It's that I'm growing in proximity to compromise.

  259. Come on, it's not the fact that you know, once, man,

  260. I was super faithful and now I'm kind of drifting

  261. to a lot of doubt, some laziness, some complacency. The

  262. danger of it is is it at one point you

  263. can be focused, it'll have you drifting to being distracted.

  264. And here's the danger of drifting. Drifting will take you

  265. to a place where you do things you'll think you'll

  266. never have done, and you'll be somebody you thought you

  267. never would be. I guarantee you deemus when he was

  268. written about in fi Leman, I bet he never suspected himself.

  269. Going back to his old life. He drifted. So it

  270. got me asking the question, you're drifting so dangerous? How

  271. do you drift? Where does the drift start? How does

  272. the drift get a hold of me? I want to

  273. tell you today how the drift starts. You start to

  274. drift by just not doing anything. I don't know if

  275. you've ever taken your kids to the beach before and

  276. you're like, hey, stay right here in front of the tent,

  277. you gotta sit down. You look, they are a mile

  278. to the right. They didn't swim down there. They were

  279. just doing nothing, and they drifted. If you want to

  280. drift spiritually, I promise you the easiest way to do

  281. it just don't do anything. The truth of the matter

  282. is the fact that not doing something is doing something.

  283. Anytime I'm not intentional with my relationship with Jesus, I

  284. become intentional with the things that are not of him.

  285. And anytime that I take Jesus out the primary focus

  286. of my life, that's the exact moment that I start

  287. to drift. I really hope that nobody has gotten in

  288. a point where you think, all right, experience of transformation,

  289. this is right where God want me to be now.

  290. I'm just gonna lift from right here. That's the exact

  291. moment that you'll start to drift. I gotta be intentional

  292. to keep Jesus as the primary focus of my life,

  293. because anytime that you miss out on the main thing,

  294. every other piece of your life is impacted by it.

  295. I don't know if you've ever forgotten the main thing before,

  296. but I know times in my life I have truly

  297. forgotten the main thing. I think about when we were

  298. in Memphis, me and my life. That's where we came

  299. from before we moved to Tulsa. And when we were

  300. in Memphis, we used to take care of a lot

  301. of our friends' kids. So if they would go out

  302. of town, we take care of them. I'll be honest

  303. with you, don't have kids yet, so I really like

  304. taking care of other people's kids. The reason being is

  305. because I can't see them at crazy, and you've boys

  306. got all the answers. I'll be like, well, bre if

  307. I was they daddy, I'll promise I would die. Now

  308. when I have kids, I won't know anything, so help

  309. me out. But as of right now, you know, I

  310. got all the answers, and so we would take care

  311. some of our friends' kids. And one time, some of

  312. our friends they went out of town for a week

  313. and they had us come and take care of their

  314. three kids. And as we got through the day before

  315. they left, the wife she had done an incredible job

  316. in actually listing out the details of how we need

  317. to take care of them, and it was put on

  318. a list on the fridge, and so as we looked

  319. at the list, she walked us through the first day

  320. and she was like, hey, listen, this is what time

  321. they wake up, this is what they need to eat

  322. for breakfast, this is what time they need to go

  323. to school, this is what time they need to go

  324. to practice. Here's we need to take them to church

  325. on Wednesday. She had listed it out amazingly. And at

  326. the bottom of the list, I noticed that there was

  327. a main point to taking care of their kids. Didn't

  328. say the main thing, but it was the only thing

  329. that was highlighted, the only thing that was in bold,

  330. the only thing that was underlined, and it said do

  331. not give the kids chocolate milk before bed, I thought,

  332. easy enough, all right, easy enough. So every single day

  333. we wake up, we get them to school on time,

  334. we had their food packed, we give them to practice.

  335. We're taken to church on time and honestly daily, and

  336. I like we were killing and we were looking each

  337. other like, hey, bro, when we got kids one day,

  338. easy money, easy money, and so we're taking care of it.

  339. We're getting really excited. And the last night, the youngest daughter,

  340. she went to stay one of her friend's house. They

  341. wouldn't feeling well and so she went to sleep early.

  342. And meeting the two boys, we had what the youngest

  343. called guys' night. We had guys night, So we ordered pizza,

  344. We get all the video games. And when I say, like,

  345. vibes were up, like it was just energy was out there.

  346. It was electric. And so we're playing video games. It's

  347. like ten o'clock. They were supposed to go to bed

  348. at eight fifteen, and at ten o'clock, like the energy

  349. is just up. Man. And so I looked at him

  350. and I was like, hey, bro, y'all know what was

  351. set this night off? They said what I said, chocolate milk. Baby.

  352. They looked at me and they were like, oh my gosh.

  353. The oldest they had two very different personalities. The oldest

  354. was like, mom, actually doesn't let us have chocolate milk

  355. at night. I said, oh man, your momy here, So

  356. we're gonna drink this chocolate milk. The youngest. The parents

  357. had actually left a document on the counter and it

  358. said that we could make medical decisions for the boys

  359. while they were out of town. And so the youngest

  360. he goes and grabs it and he's like, yo, this

  361. is a medical decision, bro, Like they can do this.

  362. I'm like, my guy. So we get out of chocolate milk,

  363. drink the whole gallon, and oh yeah, I mean, if

  364. you're gonna do it, let's do it. And when I

  365. say it was the worst idea, I might as well

  366. have given them drugs, bro, Like they ruined the house.

  367. I was preaching next day. We were late to church.

  368. I was the preacher. We were late to church. It

  369. was just terrible, terrible experience. The reality is is that

  370. in a moment, I lost sight of the main thing.

  371. In a moment, I lost sight of the one thing

  372. that I was supposed to keep in focus the entire week.

  373. The truth is that if you ever lose sight of

  374. the main thing, every other area of your life is

  375. affected by it. And anytime I misplace Jesus as the

  376. sinner focus and remove him and place something in his place.

  377. The rest of my life is impacted by it. I

  378. was looking at Demus and I was like, man, how

  379. do you how do you drift?

  380. Like?

  381. Where was your distraction? How could you drift from being

  382. in ministry with Paul bro How could you drift from that?

  383. And honestly, we could look at the context of it

  384. and we could get some really good clues and make

  385. some really educated guesses on why Demus drifted. But that's

  386. not the best question to ask today. The better question

  387. to ask today is not why would demons drift? The

  388. best question is why would you? What is the thing

  389. that would cause you to drift? Only you truly know?

  390. And sometimes we talk about, Man, I got sin in

  391. my life. I got this addiction to a substance, I

  392. got this bad relationship, I got some laziness, man, And

  393. we talk about the sin, and absolutely, hey, sin will

  394. have you drifting. But if we could ask a better question,

  395. it might not be the sin. What's the thing tangling

  396. you up? What's this thing tripping you up? Because it

  397. might not be sin, but it might not be the

  398. best thing. It might be that I prioritize my job

  399. over my family at times. It might be your pursuit

  400. of a comfortable life could be the thing keeping you

  401. drifting from what Jesus called you to do and who

  402. he's called you to be. Even if my pursuit of

  403. peace takes the place of the person of Jesus, I

  404. have missed my focus and I can start to drift.

  405. And I like that. We do get a little context

  406. about DMUs that it says that Demus he drifted because

  407. he had desires of his old life that drew him

  408. back to his old life. And I thought about that,

  409. and I thought about this scripture. You don't have to

  410. turn there, but it's in Ephesians chapter four. In Ephesians

  411. chapter four, Paul gives a strong teaching. Paul says, stop

  412. putting on the old life, put on the new life.

  413. Stop going back to the thing that's dead, and put

  414. on the new thing that's alive. In Rome at this time,

  415. when Paul writes this, they had this practice. If you

  416. committed a crime that was drastic enough, if you committed

  417. a crime that was horrifying enough, you would get a

  418. sentence where they would take a dead body. They would

  419. tie it to your arms, tie it to your legs,

  420. face to face, or they would place it on your back,

  421. and over time is this dead body decayed and it rotted.

  422. It would actually decay and rot into your skin, and

  423. it was a few weeks time before where it killed

  424. you could I submit, this is the picture we get

  425. of the old self and the old life versus the

  426. new self and the new life. That I don't have

  427. power to revive that dead thing that God freed me from,

  428. so I might as well link up and live in

  429. the power of the new thing that God gave me.

  430. It's going back to the old life. I find it funny.

  431. We talk to students a lot, and you know, it's

  432. through mystery, you kind of you get to see all

  433. the little relationships happen. Okay, we act like we don't,

  434. but we see y'all. So we you see some people

  435. and there's like three weeks and you can tell they're

  436. a new relationship because the girls will walking up in

  437. the back pastor tie. When you meet somebody, it's like,

  438. all right, man, what's up bro? And then weeks later

  439. he didn't come around as much. And then there's a

  440. new guy that shows up and I always ask him

  441. be like what happened? She's like, oh, I'm done with him.

  442. I'm done with him. A few weeks later go by,

  443. new guy didn't make it. The crazy thing is Buddy

  444. from the first time's back and I'll be like, hey, yo,

  445. I thought we talked about this. What are we doing?

  446. And they'll be like, oh, here's what they say. We

  447. just talking. We just talking, and here's what they really mean.

  448. Let me decode it for you. I'm just keeping him

  449. on retainer because I didn't know if this other thing

  450. was going to work out. So now I can go

  451. back to what did satisfy me and give me what

  452. I was wanting in the first place. Since the new

  453. thing didn't work out like I thought it would, I

  454. thought i'd go back to Buddy. Let me just submit

  455. to you. We do this in our life all the time.

  456. I'm pursuing Jesus until I feel like Jesus puts me

  457. in a place and gives me a life I feel

  458. like I deserve better than. And so then I find

  459. myself drifting back to that old life, that old thing.

  460. And that's when you find yourself saying how did I,

  461. how did I get here? Why do I what do

  462. I feel like this? Because in the spirit you took

  463. what is dead and you try to revive it by

  464. living in an old life that God freed you from.

  465. And when we do that, man, it causes us to drift.

  466. This might be one of the main distractions that we

  467. find people in. And what I see when I read

  468. the Bible is that people they didn't always realize that

  469. they were in a battle of the new life versus

  470. the old life. Actually, what the battle is is the

  471. spirit versus the flesh. I don't think people often knew

  472. and realize that they were in this fight. I don't

  473. know if you know this, but every single day you

  474. wake up, you're in a battle, and it's the battle

  475. of the spirit versus the flesh. My life with God,

  476. in my old life I lived when I wasn't with God.

  477. My desires of Jesus and my desires I have in

  478. my own flesh. And often, oh man, many of us

  479. we show up to this battle and we have the

  480. wrong battle plan. How many of us you've done this?

  481. You've had a moment in an encounter with Jesus. I

  482. mean he moved in worship and you had this moment.

  483. He moved through the message and you had this moment.

  484. And when you have that moment, you say, all right, God, Yes,

  485. thank you for your grace and your mercy. Lord. When

  486. I get out of the service, I'm gonna stop doing blank. God,

  487. when I get out of the service, I swear I'm

  488. done texting them. I promise I'm done smoking that. I

  489. promise I'm gonna stop looking at that. And can I

  490. submit something to you to There is a way better plan.

  491. Jesus is far less concerned with what you stop. He's

  492. far more concerned with the things you start. Because listen,

  493. the battle of the spirit versus the flesh is not

  494. about me getting the wrong things out. The battle of

  495. the Spirit versus the flesh is me getting the right

  496. things in. Because if I can get Bible reading in

  497. my life, I don't have time to stroll on pornography

  498. in my life. If I can get good community in

  499. my life, I don't have time for community that draws

  500. me back to my old life. If I can get

  501. the right things in, I'm not gonna have to focus

  502. on getting the wrong things out. They just don't have

  503. the space anymore. So when I approach this battle, I

  504. want to be focused on Man. I'm trying to put

  505. Jesus as the focus, not Sin as the focus. Oftentimes

  506. we get the wrong focus because we think, God, I've

  507. got all these things, and I'll promise you, Lord, if

  508. you'll give me time, I'll stop doing them. It's not

  509. about what you stop, that's more important about what you start.

  510. I looked at Demis's situation, you know, he went back

  511. to the desires of his old life. And as I

  512. looked at his situation, I thought of a scripture, and

  513. this would be what I would prescribe to Demus if

  514. you live today Scalations, chapter five, verse sixteen, and Paul

  515. he says, so I say, let the spirit guide your life.

  516. Then you won't be doing what your sinful nature craves.

  517. It's the spirit. Let the spirit guide your life. For

  518. a long time in Scripture, they didn't let the spirit

  519. guide their life. They didn't have the spirit yet. And

  520. so what they did is they made up a bunch

  521. of rules and regulations and legalism to try to get

  522. to a place of holiness. And what happened was they

  523. set all these rules up, and they made our faith

  524. about a performance based faith that you got to do

  525. the right things to bec I'm the right person. It's

  526. about how you look and how people perceive you before,

  527. it is who you are. And whenever you get in

  528. that mode and you start trying to just do the

  529. right things, do the right things, and you don't have

  530. Holy Spirit, grace and power in your life, you will

  531. find yourself in a performance based faith. The beautiful thing

  532. about our faith, though, is it's not performance based. It

  533. is Holy Spirit, grace, power filled faith. And so as

  534. I submit to the Spirit, he doesn't focus on what

  535. I do. He focused on who I am becoming, because

  536. to the Spirit it's way more of a priority of

  537. who I will be, because who I become will determine

  538. what I do, not what I do change who I am.

  539. One is behavior modification, the other is inward transformation. And

  540. so I'm looking for the Spirit to God in my

  541. life because I want to be a new creation, not

  542. act like a new creation. Come on, I'm trying to

  543. become something different, become something better than I am. So

  544. I need Holy Spirit in my life helping me change.

  545. And I feel like Demus. He was doing ministry, and

  546. oftentimes he was more about the performance than the grace.

  547. Because he couldn't control a sinful nature. He went back

  548. to his old life. Today is we're talking about drifting.

  549. Maybe there's some of you in here and right now.

  550. If we were humble, open and transparent, you would say

  551. I'm drifting. I've drifted. It's happened before, it's happening now,

  552. or at the least you can see that there's potential

  553. for it to happen in the future. And so I

  554. just want to work from two points today as we close,

  555. and as we close, I want to give you this

  556. first one. Distraction ends with the decision. If you find

  557. yourself distracted, the way to end distraction it's with the decision.

  558. It's by making a different decision. The same way that

  559. I get out of distraction is the same way that

  560. I got into distraction a decision. And what I've heard

  561. a lot growing up, and it has rained true in

  562. my life is that first you make your decision, but

  563. then your decision it makes you. And if we don't

  564. come to realize that it is by the decisions of

  565. our life that our life is being built, we will

  566. go through this life and not be all that God

  567. promised us to be, and we'll be searching for his

  568. hand but never partnering with him and what it takes

  569. to get to where He wants us to be so

  570. first we make our decision, but then our decision it

  571. makes us. You're building your life by your decision. I

  572. was told this story before me and my wife moved

  573. up here, and it was about this town. It was

  574. in the hill country, and next to this town there

  575. was a large body of water, a huge reservoir of water,

  576. and on the other side of this water there was

  577. a dam that was holding back the reservoir of water.

  578. And there was at one point a storm that was

  579. coming to the hill country and it was a massive storm,

  580. a greater storm than they had ever seen or experience

  581. at this time. And as the storm was coming in,

  582. the people of the town realized that the storm was

  583. going to bust the dam, all the water was going

  584. to flow into the town, and anybody staying in that

  585. town at that time would lose their life. And so

  586. they started running door to door and they were saying, hey, hey,

  587. you got to you gotta evacuate, like this storm's coming

  588. over and all this water's gonna flood. You gotta get

  589. out of here. People started packing up their belongings in

  590. a frenzy. They were leaving with the little that they

  591. had and evacuating, and is all the chaos is happening.

  592. There's this one man and he's standing in the middle

  593. of the road. Everybody's walking mind. They're like, hey, hey, bro,

  594. you gotta go. You gotta go. Into every person that

  595. would try to get him to leave, he would say, nah,

  596. I'm fine. I'm gonna stay right here. More and more

  597. people start coming by, and they're like, bro, you gotta leave,

  598. you gotta leave. Hey, you gotta get out of here.

  599. You're gonna lose your life. Like the storm's right there,

  600. You're about to lose your life. And he would say, no,

  601. I'm gonna stay right here. And it got to a

  602. point where there were two people left in the town

  603. and it was the man and it was his son.

  604. And his son comes to him with tears in his eyes,

  605. and he's saying, Dad, what are you doing. Dad, You

  606. gotta leave. You're gonna die. And he says, no, I'm

  607. not gonna leave. He says, Dad, Dad, damn is about

  608. to break and everything is gonna get washed away. You

  609. will lose your life. And he looked at his son.

  610. He says, it's not gonna break. His son said, Dad,

  611. you got it's gonna break. He said, it's not gonna break.

  612. And he's crying and pleading, begging with his dad, and

  613. he says, Dad, how could you know? How could you

  614. stand here in confidence and know that that's not gonna

  615. break and you won't be killed? And his dad looked

  616. at his son, and he looked at the damn and

  617. he looked at the storm that was quickly approaching, and

  618. he looked back and he said, because I built it.

  619. He said, because I built it. His son said what

  620. he said. I woke up every day for years and

  621. I made a decision to make the foundation strong. I

  622. made a decision to be in the details of the

  623. structure so that it would not break. I made a

  624. decision to build something that no matter the storm that

  625. came against it and the weather that happened to it, no

  626. matter the circumstances or the situation that found itself in,

  627. I built it with the intentionality and the decision they

  628. would live beyond the trial, that it would live beyond

  629. the test. I want to tell you, friend, you're building

  630. your life by your decisions, and the trials that come

  631. to your life will impact you and affect you based

  632. on how you've decided to live your life. And now

  633. if I've decided to rely on self. I'm not going

  634. to be able to stand past very much. But if

  635. I decide each and every day to stay intentional about

  636. leaning into the person of Jesus, I can stand the

  637. trials that come against me. In this life. You are

  638. being made by your decisions. Jesus is building you, and

  639. he wants to build you and make you strong. But

  640. Jesus offers us the opportunity not just to do it

  641. for you, but to partner with you. And there's got

  642. to come a point where you stop just saying God

  643. will do it. If he wants to do it, you

  644. got to make a decision. I'm a partner with him.

  645. The team can come up and start to play. But

  646. distraction ends with the decision. And if you're drifting, drifting

  647. ends with devotion. It ends with remembering and staying committed

  648. to the why. And as I looked at Demus's story,

  649. man I started I started to get kind of sad

  650. thinking about a story because the Holy Spirit took me

  651. to some scriptures talk about drifting, and I saw where

  652. the word drifting has talked about three times in the

  653. New Testament, and they all have the same thing in common.

  654. It's in the Book of Colossians's, in the Book of

  655. revelationists in the Book of Hebrews, and they all rank

  656. a similar sound as a Scripture of Hebrews, Chapter two,

  657. verse one, and it says, therefore, we must pay much

  658. closer attention to the things we've heard, lest we drift

  659. away from it to the church. In Ephesis and Revelation,

  660. Jesus told John to pin the words, not what he

  661. told another church, to come back to your first love.

  662. But he told him to pin the words you need

  663. to come back to the thing that you heard in

  664. the beginning. And I thought this as it could be,

  665. so it doesn't say it directly in scripture. But I

  666. started to look at Demus's story, and I thought, Demus,

  667. did you get so captivated by the miracles of Paul's

  668. ministry that you missed out on the message? Did you

  669. get so caught up in the hand of God that

  670. you forgot about the heart of God? Demons? Did you

  671. did you lose sight of the message because you were

  672. focused on what God would do and not what he

  673. had already done. Listen to me, I like miracles man.

  674. Whenever God steps into our life and does what only

  675. he can do and bring about an outcome that only

  676. he could be over. I love that, man. That's an

  677. energizer to your faith, that makes faith fun. I really

  678. like miracles, but I did not build and dedicate my

  679. life to a miracle. I build and dedicate my life

  680. to the message that there's redemption for your story and

  681. restoration for your soul. I like miracles, but what I

  682. committed my life to was the message that there is

  683. blood that covers a multitude of sins and a savior

  684. who paid a price that I should have paid and

  685. in my place. Come on, man. I like miracles, but

  686. I love the message that Jesus is seated at the

  687. right hand of the Father right now, looking at me

  688. and looking at you with pride in his heart and

  689. love in his eyes, because He's done for us what

  690. we couldn't do for ourselves. I like miracles. I've dedicated

  691. my life to the message. And it says in Luke

  692. that one day Jesus is going to come back and

  693. he's going to be looking for faithfulness. And when Jesus

  694. comes back, if it's in my lifetime, I want him

  695. to find me clinging to the pages of this book,

  696. preaching the message of restoration and reconciliation that he entrusted

  697. me with. I want to live my life based on

  698. the message, even if God doesn't do another thing for me.

  699. Faith is a moment to be remembered. Faith is a

  700. lifestyle to live that I'm not just waiting on the

  701. next thing life from the best thing. The best thing

  702. is that He paid the price that was placed on

  703. my soul and he did for me what I couldn't

  704. do for myself. If you're here today, maybe you've been

  705. waiting on miracles. Maybe you've drifted, maybe you're in distraction,

  706. maybe you've lost focus. I want to tell you, friend,

  707. you can always come back to the message, because the

  708. message tells me about a man who loves you and

  709. cares for you and offers you a life better thing

  710. than you've ever known to exist. So the head bowed

  711. and eyes closed today, If you're in this room right

  712. now and you've never given your life to Jesus, you've

  713. never received and accepted the message. I want to tell

  714. you that Jesus, God in heaven, looked at you and

  715. stepped out of heaven and became flesh. He lived a

  716. perfect life for thirty three years. He was crucified not

  717. because of his sin, but because of my sin and

  718. because of your sin. And he was placed in a

  719. grave where he was dead for three days. But he

  720. didn't stay in the grave. He got up from the grave,

  721. came back to life, revealed himself to hundreds of people,

  722. ascended into heaven where now he is seated reigning as king,

  723. looking at you in this moment, proud of who you

  724. are and who you can become. He offers you a

  725. better way, He offers you a new life. And today,

  726. if you want to give your life to Jesus, you

  727. want to receive the message, I'm account to three, and

  728. when I get to three, I'm just gonna ask that

  729. you would lift your hand in the air. One. This

  730. is the greatest decision that you could ever make. To

  731. all heaven's about to throw a party. Three. Come on,

  732. if you want to put your faith in the message

  733. and the man of Jesus, would you just lift your

  734. right hand let somebody know. I'll see you, brother, I

  735. see you on the back. Come on, can we make

  736. some noise for the people making the greatest decision of

  737. their life today, Let's go. Here's what we like to

  738. do is house. We like to pray a prayer for

  739. all those watching online and here in the house who

  740. made that decision for the first time. So, if you're

  741. making that decision, would you just mean these words as

  742. we all pray them to Jesus. Let's pray this say Jesus.

  743. I love you, Jesus, I need you. Thank you for

  744. seeing me, thank you for saving me, thank you for

  745. loving me. Today, I commit my life to you. Change me,

  746. renew me, transform me. I'm yours. Amen. Come on when

  747. we just clap our hands and make some noise for

  748. all the people stepping from death to life today. So

  749. proud of you.