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Distractions Got You Drifting // Do Not Disturb (Part 2) // Pastor Ty Lanphere
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Welcome to Transformation Church Podcast, where we represent God to
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the lost and found for transformation in Christ. We're so
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glad you're here and wherever you're listening from, we believe
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God will transform your life. Do today's message, Let's go.
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I hope that you got a Bible today. Get into
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the word in just a second. But I got to
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remind you of the series we're in. We're in week
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two of a collection titled Do Not Disturb, and we
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got to give honor one more time to the first
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installment from Pastor Breed Davis last week. What an incredible message,
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Thank you, Thank you. I've sent that to about one
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hundred and fifty people already, so it was a great word.
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And I just want to continue what she started last
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week as we're in week two of this collection. And
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I like the collection that we're in because in this
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series do Not Disturb, we're asking a really good question.
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We're building from a good thought, and the thought is
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how do we find and focus in a world full
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of distraction. I don't know if you've noticed that about
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the world that we live in. It is full of distraction.
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And so if I want to be focused something interesting,
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I have to find focus. Maybe you're like me, maybe
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you've had times where you have to fight for focus.
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If I want to get focused, I gotta carve it
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in my schedule. I gotta be intentional. I gotta make
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sure nobody can mess with my time of being intentional
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to get focused. So it's interesting to me. You gotta
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find focus, But distraction, it has a funny way of
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finding you. I don't know if you've noticed that. It
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doesn't take much to get distracted. Distraction is at your
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fingertips all day long, twenty four to seven. And as
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we build off this word distraction, I want to make
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sure that you have a good concept of exactly what
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it is that we're talking about, because I know sometimes
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when we study words or topics in church a lot
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of time we like to get a definition for that.
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And so it sent you. They'll be like, hey, if
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you're going to give us a word, and you'll put
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a definition on the screen, we want a definition. We
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will get the term. And I think that the definition
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of a word's powerful. But the people in the Bible,
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when they would give a word, they want to give
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you imagery, and so we want a definition. So it
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kind of works like this if I ask him to you, Hey,
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what's God like to you? You might say, man, God
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he is, He's faithful. Hey, God's holy, he's sovereign, he's powerful,
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and I like that. But there's not really imagery that
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goes with that. So if you ask somebody in the Bible, hey,
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what's God like to you? They would say God, He's man.
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God's like a strong tower that I can run into
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and be kept safe. God is like a solid rock,
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a firm foundation, and he holds me and he stables me. Oh,
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you want to know about his word. His word, it's
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like a lighting to my feet and a lamp into
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my path. That's what's the reason why they gave you
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an expression is because they didn't just want to give
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you a definition for understanding. They wanted to give you
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an expression based off an experience. And so as I
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hear about the solid rock, the firm foundation, I can
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feel that and I can understand that. So when it
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comes to this word distraction, I'm gonna give you the
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biblical imagery. The imagery is your life being pulled apart
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in multiple directions. What that means is that part of
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me shows up to be a parent part of me
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shows up to be an employee. Part of me shows
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up to my friend groups to be a great friend,
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and part of me is involved in my relationships outside
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my family. It's not I'm showing up in pieces. And
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this was never the dream that Jesus has for your life.
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The dream of Jesus for your life is not that
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you would live a fragmented life. The dream Jesus has
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for your life is that you would live a whole,
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an integrist life. And so it's not that I just
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got a pick. Well, I can only be a parent,
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I gotta be focused, so I can only be a student.
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I can only be a good spouse. You don't have
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to pick one. It's just that you show up fully
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to whichever you're at at that time. It's the whole saying,
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I am where my feet are, and so as I
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show up to be a good employee, I'm not thinking
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about the friend I gotta be. As I show up
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to be a great spouse and a parent, I'm not
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thinking about the employee I gotta be. I'm fully where
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I'm at. And so if we want to find focus,
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we gotta fight for it. But if we want to
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get distracted, and distraction a. It has a way of
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finding you. It's not that difficult. I don't know if
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you have an experience like I do. But whenever I
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grew up, my parents they used to ground me if
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I did something you know, your boy shouldn't have done.
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And so anytimes I would rebel against what they said,
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or if I do something crazy, they would ground me,
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and usually they would send me to my room. I
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would go to my room, I would sit on my bed,
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and the instruction was, hey, think about what you did,
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think about what you can do better next time, and
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then we're going to talk about it. Come on, somebody.
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That's character development, that's good parenting. So oftentimes I would
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walk back to my room. I would sit on my
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bed and I start thinking, all right, what I do,
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how could be better? And that's how it went ninety
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nine percent of the time. But baby, there was one
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time I went back to my room. I'm upset. I
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sit on my bed. I start thinking about what I done,
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how I could be better, you know, character development, And
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all I did, literally the only thing I did. I
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turned my head to the left, and as I turned
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my head to the left, I saw a white and
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orange battery powered radio and I looked at it had
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a little belt clip. You know what I'm saying. It
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was like the ogue I had. The little belt clip
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had a long cord that went to some metal bracketed headphones.
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Of course, as I'm sitting there in my room with
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nothing else, I grabbed the radio. I put the headphones on,
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I cut it on, and I start tuning through the
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channels and through the stations to try and find something
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that I could kill some time with. And so the
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first thing I heard, you know, I grew up in
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the South, so I heard some country music. I was like,
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all right, I heard this before. Kept scrolling and I
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tuned into some pop music. I was like, okay, I
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like that, but heard this one before. Heard some rock music,
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heard some talk shows. But then I came across the
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station with the sound your boy, I never heard before.
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I came across the station with the sound that was
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earth shattering, groundbreaking, life transforming. It was the sound when
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I tuned in, it said I liked the bar tender.
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Oh yay, Hey, my little nine, ten eleven year old
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white self. I stup off the bed. I was like,
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what is happened? Like I just hey, you saw that
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you peep that, you peap that. Yeah. Hey, when I
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tell you I grew up playing basketball, I had a
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week crossover from that day forward. I grew up. I
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had the little little hiccup like, Bro, I'm telling you
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it changed my life, changed my life the rest of
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the time being grounds like this is the best day ever.
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So my mom she comes in, She's like, all right,
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let's talk about what have you learned? I said, Bro,
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I learned you can rye mansion with Wisconson and people
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buy it. Oh, people buy it just doing something. I mean,
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I don't know. Transformation happened long ago in my life.
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Ninety two point five hip hop and R and B.
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I love you, love you. You know what's crazy though,
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in a moment we're all I had to do what's
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focused on my growth and my development. All I do
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is I turn my head, make a decision. Now I'm distracted. Distraction.
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It's got a funny way of finding you, and the
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decision leads me to being distracted. I want to see
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from that today about the danger of distraction. I think
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for a lot of us, especially in our culture, everybody's
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kind of distracted. It's something that all throughout the day
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there's little distractions, little things that we can numb the pain,
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little things that can take us off of our focus.
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And so I think since it's so normal, we missed
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the big danger of distraction. And today I want to
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take you to some scriptures and hopefully I can help
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point this out to you, the danger of distraction. And
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we're gonna look at some of the writings of Paul.
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If you want to go ahead and turn to Filehman.
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If you got a Bible, you can turn there, if not,
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in a second, they're gonna be on the screen, and
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then we're gonna read some of his writings in his
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letters to churches. If I can give you a little
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context on Paul very simply was a church persecutor, Christian
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killer who became church planter, church overseer, and as he
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became an overseer of the church, all this happened off
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of one experience with Jesus that transformed his life. And
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he would write letters to these churches to encourage them,
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to guide them, to instruct them, and some to challenge them.
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So if you read, you can read his letter in
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Philippians to the Church in Philippi, and you get the tone.
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You know, his tone to them. He's like, man, I
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love y'all. I'm so proud of y'all. I just gonna
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let y'all know how I'm doing. Then he writes the
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Church in corinth and first Saint Corinthians, and he's like, Hey,
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when I pull up, I'm whipping ah, y'all, y'all ain't
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good at this Christian thing. Okay, I gotta come back
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so you can kind of get the tone. We're gonna
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look at the tone today as he writes about one
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of his ministry companions, Paul, he understood that assignment is
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only as important as your alignment. And so Paul, he
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actually had people that he would do life in ministry with.
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And I want to read about one of those people today,
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named Demus. He's mentioned three times in scripture, three different
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books of the Bible, in three different verses, and the
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first is in Phi Lehman, it's very interesting. This is
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what says. They're going to put it on the screen
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for us. But Paul said, Epiphrius, my fellow prisoner in
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Christ Jesus sends you his greetings. So does Mark, Aristarchus,
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Demus and Luke my coworkers. This is the first mention
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we get of Demus, and the tone of it is, man, Demus,
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my fellow worker, my co labor, my coworker in the ministry,
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doing life with him. This is the earliest writing we
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have of Demus. And I love that Paul is making
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sure other people recognize Demas's faithfulness, Demus's job in the ministry,
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him doing life with Paul. So we get this writing
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about eighty fifty eight to sixty two, and then the
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next writing that we're going to see of Demus actually
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comes from Colossians, and it's roughly a year or two later,
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and Paul in Colossians he does something. He hypes up
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four or five different people and their engagement in the ministry,
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and he's like, man, this guy named Aristarkus, another guy
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named Oessames, there's a few others that he mentions. He's like, man,
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support these guys. They are faithful to the ministry. Pray
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for these men, accept them and their leadership in your house.
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He really pours a lot of emphasis into the weight
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of the character of some of these men. But then
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we get to Colossians chapter four and he says this.
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He says, Luke, the beloved doctor, come on you know Luke,
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the beloved doctor. We all love Luke. He sends his greeting,
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and so does Demus. It's about two years later. The
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first one we got man, faithful co worker, faithful labor
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in the ministry. And now about a year or two later,
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a lot of people get their influence projected, get the
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weight that comes with their name and their role told
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to other people. And then it's kind of like, oh yeah,
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and Demus he's here. You know, Demus, he's here too.
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And the third mention we have of him, it comes
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from about three to four years later, and it's in
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tewod Timothy, chapter four, verses nine through ten, and this
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is what it says. Paul says Timothy, please come as
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soon as you can. Demus has deserted me because he
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loves the things of this life and has gone back
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to Thessalonaika. Can you see the progression, faithful worker, fellow
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co labor, a friend and companion in the ministry. You
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know he's here. Demus is with us. Timothy, Please come
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as soon as you can. Demus has deserted me because
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he loves the things of this life more than the next.
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I want to submit that there is a danger of distraction. See,
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nobody's life is really ruined by a moment of distraction.
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It's never that I had one moment of being distracted
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and man, now my whole life is just ruined. It's
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daily small decisions that get you distracted. And I would
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submit that the danger of distraction is that distractions got
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you drifting. Distractions got you drifting. You can go ahead
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if you got notes today and write that down of
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the title of this message. Distractions got you drifting. Listen
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to all of us. Christ follower or not, you've probably drifted.
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If you follow Jesus, you know that there's times when
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you probably have more passion, more fervor more zeo for
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the things of the ministry and the Gospel than maybe
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you do now or maybe you have in another time.
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But even if you're not a Jesus follower, we all
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started this year with New Year's resolutions. And I mean,
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you had the membership to play and a fitness but
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now you might as well get into Canes. Baby. It's
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like you just it's kind of drifted ALUs in bulk season.
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But come on, we drift. Drifting happens to the best
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of us. And I want to give you a term
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for drifting today, so we know what we're working from.
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If you want to write this down. Drift is a slow,
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seemingly undetectable movement from one place to another, from one
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place to another. That's the danger of it, is that
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it takes you from one place to another. It's not
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just that I drift from being generous. It's that I
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drift to being selfish. It's not only that once I
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had close proximity to purity and now I'm not as
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close anymore. It's that I'm growing in proximity to compromise.
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Come on, it's not the fact that you know, once, man,
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I was super faithful and now I'm kind of drifting
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to a lot of doubt, some laziness, some complacency. The
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danger of it is is it at one point you
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can be focused, it'll have you drifting to being distracted.
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And here's the danger of drifting. Drifting will take you
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to a place where you do things you'll think you'll
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never have done, and you'll be somebody you thought you
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never would be. I guarantee you deemus when he was
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written about in fi Leman, I bet he never suspected himself.
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Going back to his old life. He drifted. So it
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got me asking the question, you're drifting so dangerous? How
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do you drift? Where does the drift start? How does
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the drift get a hold of me? I want to
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tell you today how the drift starts. You start to
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drift by just not doing anything. I don't know if
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you've ever taken your kids to the beach before and
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you're like, hey, stay right here in front of the tent,
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you gotta sit down. You look, they are a mile
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to the right. They didn't swim down there. They were
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just doing nothing, and they drifted. If you want to
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drift spiritually, I promise you the easiest way to do
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it just don't do anything. The truth of the matter
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is the fact that not doing something is doing something.
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Anytime I'm not intentional with my relationship with Jesus, I
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become intentional with the things that are not of him.
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And anytime that I take Jesus out the primary focus
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of my life, that's the exact moment that I start
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to drift. I really hope that nobody has gotten in
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a point where you think, all right, experience of transformation,
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this is right where God want me to be now.
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I'm just gonna lift from right here. That's the exact
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moment that you'll start to drift. I gotta be intentional
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to keep Jesus as the primary focus of my life,
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because anytime that you miss out on the main thing,
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every other piece of your life is impacted by it.
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I don't know if you've ever forgotten the main thing before,
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but I know times in my life I have truly
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forgotten the main thing. I think about when we were
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in Memphis, me and my life. That's where we came
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from before we moved to Tulsa. And when we were
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in Memphis, we used to take care of a lot
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of our friends' kids. So if they would go out
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of town, we take care of them. I'll be honest
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with you, don't have kids yet, so I really like
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taking care of other people's kids. The reason being is
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because I can't see them at crazy, and you've boys
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got all the answers. I'll be like, well, bre if
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I was they daddy, I'll promise I would die. Now
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when I have kids, I won't know anything, so help
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me out. But as of right now, you know, I
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got all the answers, and so we would take care
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some of our friends' kids. And one time, some of
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our friends they went out of town for a week
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and they had us come and take care of their
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three kids. And as we got through the day before
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they left, the wife she had done an incredible job
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in actually listing out the details of how we need
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to take care of them, and it was put on
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a list on the fridge, and so as we looked
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at the list, she walked us through the first day
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and she was like, hey, listen, this is what time
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they wake up, this is what they need to eat
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for breakfast, this is what time they need to go
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to school, this is what time they need to go
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to practice. Here's we need to take them to church
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on Wednesday. She had listed it out amazingly. And at
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the bottom of the list, I noticed that there was
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a main point to taking care of their kids. Didn't
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say the main thing, but it was the only thing
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that was highlighted, the only thing that was in bold,
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the only thing that was underlined, and it said do
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not give the kids chocolate milk before bed, I thought,
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easy enough, all right, easy enough. So every single day
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we wake up, we get them to school on time,
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we had their food packed, we give them to practice.
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We're taken to church on time and honestly daily, and
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I like we were killing and we were looking each
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other like, hey, bro, when we got kids one day,
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easy money, easy money, and so we're taking care of it.
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We're getting really excited. And the last night, the youngest daughter,
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she went to stay one of her friend's house. They
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wouldn't feeling well and so she went to sleep early.
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And meeting the two boys, we had what the youngest
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called guys' night. We had guys night, So we ordered pizza,
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We get all the video games. And when I say, like,
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vibes were up, like it was just energy was out there.
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It was electric. And so we're playing video games. It's
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like ten o'clock. They were supposed to go to bed
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at eight fifteen, and at ten o'clock, like the energy
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is just up. Man. And so I looked at him
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and I was like, hey, bro, y'all know what was
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set this night off? They said what I said, chocolate milk. Baby.
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They looked at me and they were like, oh my gosh.
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The oldest they had two very different personalities. The oldest
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was like, mom, actually doesn't let us have chocolate milk
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at night. I said, oh man, your momy here, So
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we're gonna drink this chocolate milk. The youngest. The parents
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had actually left a document on the counter and it
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said that we could make medical decisions for the boys
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while they were out of town. And so the youngest
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he goes and grabs it and he's like, yo, this
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is a medical decision, bro, Like they can do this.
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I'm like, my guy. So we get out of chocolate milk,
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drink the whole gallon, and oh yeah, I mean, if
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you're gonna do it, let's do it. And when I
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say it was the worst idea, I might as well
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have given them drugs, bro, Like they ruined the house.
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I was preaching next day. We were late to church.
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I was the preacher. We were late to church. It
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was just terrible, terrible experience. The reality is is that
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in a moment, I lost sight of the main thing.
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In a moment, I lost sight of the one thing
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that I was supposed to keep in focus the entire week.
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The truth is that if you ever lose sight of
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the main thing, every other area of your life is
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affected by it. And anytime I misplace Jesus as the
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sinner focus and remove him and place something in his place.
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The rest of my life is impacted by it. I
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was looking at Demus and I was like, man, how
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do you how do you drift?
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Like?
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Where was your distraction? How could you drift from being
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in ministry with Paul bro How could you drift from that?
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And honestly, we could look at the context of it
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and we could get some really good clues and make
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some really educated guesses on why Demus drifted. But that's
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not the best question to ask today. The better question
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to ask today is not why would demons drift? The
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best question is why would you? What is the thing
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that would cause you to drift? Only you truly know?
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And sometimes we talk about, Man, I got sin in
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my life. I got this addiction to a substance, I
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got this bad relationship, I got some laziness, man, And
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we talk about the sin, and absolutely, hey, sin will
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have you drifting. But if we could ask a better question,
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it might not be the sin. What's the thing tangling
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you up? What's this thing tripping you up? Because it
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might not be sin, but it might not be the
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best thing. It might be that I prioritize my job
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over my family at times. It might be your pursuit
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of a comfortable life could be the thing keeping you
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drifting from what Jesus called you to do and who
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he's called you to be. Even if my pursuit of
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peace takes the place of the person of Jesus, I
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have missed my focus and I can start to drift.
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And I like that. We do get a little context
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about DMUs that it says that Demus he drifted because
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he had desires of his old life that drew him
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back to his old life. And I thought about that,
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and I thought about this scripture. You don't have to
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turn there, but it's in Ephesians chapter four. In Ephesians
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chapter four, Paul gives a strong teaching. Paul says, stop
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putting on the old life, put on the new life.
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Stop going back to the thing that's dead, and put
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on the new thing that's alive. In Rome at this time,
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when Paul writes this, they had this practice. If you
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committed a crime that was drastic enough, if you committed
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a crime that was horrifying enough, you would get a
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sentence where they would take a dead body. They would
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tie it to your arms, tie it to your legs,
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face to face, or they would place it on your back,
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and over time is this dead body decayed and it rotted.
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It would actually decay and rot into your skin, and
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it was a few weeks time before where it killed
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you could I submit, this is the picture we get
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of the old self and the old life versus the
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new self and the new life. That I don't have
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power to revive that dead thing that God freed me from,
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so I might as well link up and live in
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the power of the new thing that God gave me.
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It's going back to the old life. I find it funny.
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We talk to students a lot, and you know, it's
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through mystery, you kind of you get to see all
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the little relationships happen. Okay, we act like we don't,
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but we see y'all. So we you see some people
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and there's like three weeks and you can tell they're
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a new relationship because the girls will walking up in
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the back pastor tie. When you meet somebody, it's like,
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all right, man, what's up bro? And then weeks later
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he didn't come around as much. And then there's a
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new guy that shows up and I always ask him
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be like what happened? She's like, oh, I'm done with him.
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I'm done with him. A few weeks later go by,
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new guy didn't make it. The crazy thing is Buddy
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from the first time's back and I'll be like, hey, yo,
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I thought we talked about this. What are we doing?
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And they'll be like, oh, here's what they say. We
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just talking. We just talking, and here's what they really mean.
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Let me decode it for you. I'm just keeping him
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on retainer because I didn't know if this other thing
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was going to work out. So now I can go
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back to what did satisfy me and give me what
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I was wanting in the first place. Since the new
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thing didn't work out like I thought it would, I
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thought i'd go back to Buddy. Let me just submit
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to you. We do this in our life all the time.
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I'm pursuing Jesus until I feel like Jesus puts me
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in a place and gives me a life I feel
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like I deserve better than. And so then I find
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myself drifting back to that old life, that old thing.
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And that's when you find yourself saying how did I,
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how did I get here? Why do I what do
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I feel like this? Because in the spirit you took
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what is dead and you try to revive it by
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living in an old life that God freed you from.
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And when we do that, man, it causes us to drift.
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This might be one of the main distractions that we
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find people in. And what I see when I read
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the Bible is that people they didn't always realize that
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they were in a battle of the new life versus
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the old life. Actually, what the battle is is the
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spirit versus the flesh. I don't think people often knew
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and realize that they were in this fight. I don't
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know if you know this, but every single day you
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wake up, you're in a battle, and it's the battle
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of the spirit versus the flesh. My life with God,
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in my old life I lived when I wasn't with God.
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My desires of Jesus and my desires I have in
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my own flesh. And often, oh man, many of us
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we show up to this battle and we have the
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wrong battle plan. How many of us you've done this?
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You've had a moment in an encounter with Jesus. I
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mean he moved in worship and you had this moment.
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He moved through the message and you had this moment.
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And when you have that moment, you say, all right, God, Yes,
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thank you for your grace and your mercy. Lord. When
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I get out of the service, I'm gonna stop doing blank. God,
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when I get out of the service, I swear I'm
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done texting them. I promise I'm done smoking that. I
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promise I'm gonna stop looking at that. And can I
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submit something to you to There is a way better plan.
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Jesus is far less concerned with what you stop. He's
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far more concerned with the things you start. Because listen,
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the battle of the spirit versus the flesh is not
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about me getting the wrong things out. The battle of
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the Spirit versus the flesh is me getting the right
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things in. Because if I can get Bible reading in
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my life, I don't have time to stroll on pornography
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in my life. If I can get good community in
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my life, I don't have time for community that draws
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me back to my old life. If I can get
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the right things in, I'm not gonna have to focus
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on getting the wrong things out. They just don't have
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the space anymore. So when I approach this battle, I
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want to be focused on Man. I'm trying to put
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Jesus as the focus, not Sin as the focus. Oftentimes
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we get the wrong focus because we think, God, I've
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got all these things, and I'll promise you, Lord, if
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you'll give me time, I'll stop doing them. It's not
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about what you stop, that's more important about what you start.
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I looked at Demis's situation, you know, he went back
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to the desires of his old life. And as I
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looked at his situation, I thought of a scripture, and
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this would be what I would prescribe to Demus if
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you live today Scalations, chapter five, verse sixteen, and Paul
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he says, so I say, let the spirit guide your life.
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Then you won't be doing what your sinful nature craves.
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It's the spirit. Let the spirit guide your life. For
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a long time in Scripture, they didn't let the spirit
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guide their life. They didn't have the spirit yet. And
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so what they did is they made up a bunch
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of rules and regulations and legalism to try to get
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to a place of holiness. And what happened was they
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set all these rules up, and they made our faith
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about a performance based faith that you got to do
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the right things to bec I'm the right person. It's
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about how you look and how people perceive you before,
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it is who you are. And whenever you get in
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that mode and you start trying to just do the
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right things, do the right things, and you don't have
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Holy Spirit, grace and power in your life, you will
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find yourself in a performance based faith. The beautiful thing
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about our faith, though, is it's not performance based. It
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is Holy Spirit, grace, power filled faith. And so as
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I submit to the Spirit, he doesn't focus on what
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I do. He focused on who I am becoming, because
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to the Spirit it's way more of a priority of
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who I will be, because who I become will determine
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what I do, not what I do change who I am.
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One is behavior modification, the other is inward transformation. And
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so I'm looking for the Spirit to God in my
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life because I want to be a new creation, not
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act like a new creation. Come on, I'm trying to
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become something different, become something better than I am. So
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I need Holy Spirit in my life helping me change.
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And I feel like Demus. He was doing ministry, and
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oftentimes he was more about the performance than the grace.
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Because he couldn't control a sinful nature. He went back
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to his old life. Today is we're talking about drifting.
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Maybe there's some of you in here and right now.
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If we were humble, open and transparent, you would say
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I'm drifting. I've drifted. It's happened before, it's happening now,
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or at the least you can see that there's potential
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for it to happen in the future. And so I
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just want to work from two points today as we close,
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and as we close, I want to give you this
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first one. Distraction ends with the decision. If you find
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yourself distracted, the way to end distraction it's with the decision.
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It's by making a different decision. The same way that
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I get out of distraction is the same way that
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I got into distraction a decision. And what I've heard
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a lot growing up, and it has rained true in
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my life is that first you make your decision, but
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then your decision it makes you. And if we don't
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come to realize that it is by the decisions of
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our life that our life is being built, we will
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go through this life and not be all that God
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promised us to be, and we'll be searching for his
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hand but never partnering with him and what it takes
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to get to where He wants us to be so
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first we make our decision, but then our decision it
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makes us. You're building your life by your decision. I
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was told this story before me and my wife moved
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up here, and it was about this town. It was
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in the hill country, and next to this town there
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was a large body of water, a huge reservoir of water,
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and on the other side of this water there was
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a dam that was holding back the reservoir of water.
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And there was at one point a storm that was
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coming to the hill country and it was a massive storm,
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a greater storm than they had ever seen or experience
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at this time. And as the storm was coming in,
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the people of the town realized that the storm was
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going to bust the dam, all the water was going
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to flow into the town, and anybody staying in that
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town at that time would lose their life. And so
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they started running door to door and they were saying, hey, hey,
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you got to you gotta evacuate, like this storm's coming
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over and all this water's gonna flood. You gotta get
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out of here. People started packing up their belongings in
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a frenzy. They were leaving with the little that they
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had and evacuating, and is all the chaos is happening.
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There's this one man and he's standing in the middle
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of the road. Everybody's walking mind. They're like, hey, hey, bro,
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you gotta go. You gotta go. Into every person that
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would try to get him to leave, he would say, nah,
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I'm fine. I'm gonna stay right here. More and more
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people start coming by, and they're like, bro, you gotta leave,
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you gotta leave. Hey, you gotta get out of here.
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You're gonna lose your life. Like the storm's right there,
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You're about to lose your life. And he would say, no,
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I'm gonna stay right here. And it got to a
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point where there were two people left in the town
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and it was the man and it was his son.
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And his son comes to him with tears in his eyes,
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and he's saying, Dad, what are you doing. Dad, You
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gotta leave. You're gonna die. And he says, no, I'm
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not gonna leave. He says, Dad, Dad, damn is about
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to break and everything is gonna get washed away. You
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will lose your life. And he looked at his son.
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He says, it's not gonna break. His son said, Dad,
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you got it's gonna break. He said, it's not gonna break.
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And he's crying and pleading, begging with his dad, and
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he says, Dad, how could you know? How could you
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stand here in confidence and know that that's not gonna
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break and you won't be killed? And his dad looked
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at his son, and he looked at the damn and
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he looked at the storm that was quickly approaching, and
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he looked back and he said, because I built it.
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He said, because I built it. His son said what
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he said. I woke up every day for years and
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I made a decision to make the foundation strong. I
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made a decision to be in the details of the
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structure so that it would not break. I made a
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decision to build something that no matter the storm that
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came against it and the weather that happened to it, no
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matter the circumstances or the situation that found itself in,
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I built it with the intentionality and the decision they
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would live beyond the trial, that it would live beyond
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the test. I want to tell you, friend, you're building
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your life by your decisions, and the trials that come
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to your life will impact you and affect you based
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on how you've decided to live your life. And now
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if I've decided to rely on self. I'm not going
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to be able to stand past very much. But if
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I decide each and every day to stay intentional about
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leaning into the person of Jesus, I can stand the
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trials that come against me. In this life. You are
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being made by your decisions. Jesus is building you, and
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he wants to build you and make you strong. But
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Jesus offers us the opportunity not just to do it
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for you, but to partner with you. And there's got
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to come a point where you stop just saying God
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will do it. If he wants to do it, you
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got to make a decision. I'm a partner with him.
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The team can come up and start to play. But
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distraction ends with the decision. And if you're drifting, drifting
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ends with devotion. It ends with remembering and staying committed
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to the why. And as I looked at Demus's story,
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man I started I started to get kind of sad
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thinking about a story because the Holy Spirit took me
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to some scriptures talk about drifting, and I saw where
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the word drifting has talked about three times in the
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New Testament, and they all have the same thing in common.
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It's in the Book of Colossians's, in the Book of
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revelationists in the Book of Hebrews, and they all rank
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a similar sound as a Scripture of Hebrews, Chapter two,
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verse one, and it says, therefore, we must pay much
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closer attention to the things we've heard, lest we drift
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away from it to the church. In Ephesis and Revelation,
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Jesus told John to pin the words, not what he
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told another church, to come back to your first love.
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But he told him to pin the words you need
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to come back to the thing that you heard in
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the beginning. And I thought this as it could be,
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so it doesn't say it directly in scripture. But I
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started to look at Demus's story, and I thought, Demus,
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did you get so captivated by the miracles of Paul's
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ministry that you missed out on the message? Did you
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get so caught up in the hand of God that
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you forgot about the heart of God? Demons? Did you
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did you lose sight of the message because you were
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focused on what God would do and not what he
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had already done. Listen to me, I like miracles man.
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Whenever God steps into our life and does what only
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he can do and bring about an outcome that only
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he could be over. I love that, man. That's an
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energizer to your faith, that makes faith fun. I really
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like miracles, but I did not build and dedicate my
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life to a miracle. I build and dedicate my life
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to the message that there's redemption for your story and
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restoration for your soul. I like miracles, but what I
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committed my life to was the message that there is
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blood that covers a multitude of sins and a savior
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who paid a price that I should have paid and
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in my place. Come on, man. I like miracles, but
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I love the message that Jesus is seated at the
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right hand of the Father right now, looking at me
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and looking at you with pride in his heart and
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love in his eyes, because He's done for us what
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we couldn't do for ourselves. I like miracles. I've dedicated
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my life to the message. And it says in Luke
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that one day Jesus is going to come back and
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he's going to be looking for faithfulness. And when Jesus
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comes back, if it's in my lifetime, I want him
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to find me clinging to the pages of this book,
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preaching the message of restoration and reconciliation that he entrusted
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me with. I want to live my life based on
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the message, even if God doesn't do another thing for me.
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Faith is a moment to be remembered. Faith is a
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lifestyle to live that I'm not just waiting on the
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next thing life from the best thing. The best thing
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is that He paid the price that was placed on
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my soul and he did for me what I couldn't
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do for myself. If you're here today, maybe you've been
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waiting on miracles. Maybe you've drifted, maybe you're in distraction,
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maybe you've lost focus. I want to tell you, friend,
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you can always come back to the message, because the
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message tells me about a man who loves you and
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cares for you and offers you a life better thing
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than you've ever known to exist. So the head bowed
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and eyes closed today, If you're in this room right
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now and you've never given your life to Jesus, you've
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never received and accepted the message. I want to tell
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you that Jesus, God in heaven, looked at you and
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stepped out of heaven and became flesh. He lived a
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perfect life for thirty three years. He was crucified not
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because of his sin, but because of my sin and
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because of your sin. And he was placed in a
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grave where he was dead for three days. But he
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didn't stay in the grave. He got up from the grave,
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came back to life, revealed himself to hundreds of people,
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ascended into heaven where now he is seated reigning as king,
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looking at you in this moment, proud of who you
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are and who you can become. He offers you a
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better way, He offers you a new life. And today,
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if you want to give your life to Jesus, you
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want to receive the message, I'm account to three, and
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when I get to three, I'm just gonna ask that
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you would lift your hand in the air. One. This
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is the greatest decision that you could ever make. To
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all heaven's about to throw a party. Three. Come on,
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if you want to put your faith in the message
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and the man of Jesus, would you just lift your
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right hand let somebody know. I'll see you, brother, I
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see you on the back. Come on, can we make
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some noise for the people making the greatest decision of
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their life today, Let's go. Here's what we like to
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do is house. We like to pray a prayer for
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all those watching online and here in the house who
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made that decision for the first time. So, if you're
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making that decision, would you just mean these words as
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we all pray them to Jesus. Let's pray this say Jesus.
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I love you, Jesus, I need you. Thank you for
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seeing me, thank you for saving me, thank you for
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loving me. Today, I commit my life to you. Change me,
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renew me, transform me. I'm yours. Amen. Come on when
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we just clap our hands and make some noise for
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all the people stepping from death to life today. So
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proud of you.