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Commit to Community

Encounter Church Henley

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  1. Hey everyone, this is Josh from Encounter Church

  2. Henley and thanks so much for tuning into our

  3. podcast. Our prayer is that through this podcast

  4. you can have an encounter with Jesus that will

  5. change your life. And now get ready for an inspiring

  6. message from our preaching team. Thanks be to

  7. God, indeed. Hey everyone, for those who don't

  8. know me, I am Tex. I am part of the pastoral

  9. team here at Encounter Henley. It is absolutely

  10. my pleasure and great honor to bring you the

  11. word today. So, I have got a really good mate

  12. of mine. His name is Matty or Matty B. He is

  13. Cadence's godfather. Really good friend. He's

  14. an Delilah's godfather. Close enough, right?

  15. I love, I should have gotten somebody to check

  16. any part of this. I thought the theology might

  17. get me. No, the godparent labeling has got me.

  18. I would also like to start again, Jazz. Is that

  19. okay? Is that good, Church? So I've got this

  20. great mate, he's Matty B, also known as obviously

  21. Delilah's godfather. going through great pains.

  22. He actually bought a The Godfather t -shirt to

  23. wear to her like naming day which was an unbelievable

  24. vibe. So Matty is not a Christian and he knew

  25. me before I was a Christian as well. Matty is

  26. also one of maybe the smartest people that I

  27. know. He's this unbelievably gifted talker and

  28. orator and he's a deep thinker and we have these

  29. semi -regular chats, they're not as often as

  30. either of us would like, where we get together

  31. and we drink far too much batch brew at an ice

  32. cafe somewhere and then we do just go really

  33. deep in conversation really, really quickly.

  34. Like I said, he is just one of the great asker

  35. of questions that I know. He has like just rapier

  36. like wit, whip smart. He has absolutely no dramas

  37. with calling on your own nonsense. And his BS

  38. meter has like a hair trigger, right? And he

  39. will absolutely let you know about it. and he's

  40. one of my best mates. I just love the guy to

  41. death and about three years ago we're having

  42. one of these conversations and as they quite

  43. often tend to do these days, Matty is one of

  44. my mates. He's gone from atheist to agnostic

  45. which I consider like a great victory in the

  46. kingdom, right? So we're getting there and we're

  47. having one of these conversations and quite often

  48. the conversation will turn to like Jesus and

  49. faith and my life is a Christian and what does

  50. that mean? And we talked about how a relationship

  51. with Jesus changed my life, how living in a Christian

  52. community and being part of a Christian community

  53. has changed my perception of community, what

  54. I think that that is meant to look like, what

  55. family is meant to look like, what life in general

  56. is just meant to look like. And he said, well,

  57. like, how? How does a Christian community change

  58. your perspective on these things? And I said,

  59. well, like I spoke about things that I'd seen,

  60. right? I spoke about support that I'd seen. I

  61. spoke about, you know, people with new babies

  62. having clothes dropped off for them and meals

  63. dropped off for them of, you know, hospital visits.

  64. The way that my kids had been loved and tended

  65. to and these relationships I'd seen them form,

  66. like just love that I'd seen poured out. And

  67. he went, yeah, doesn't the footy club kind of

  68. do the same thing? And he's like, nah, like I'm

  69. in a member of like a soccer club. Like, you

  70. know, I've seen drops of like spag bol dropped

  71. off of people and, you know, helping out a sick

  72. mate, people belong. Like, what's the difference?

  73. I said, he asks really good questions. And I

  74. thought about it. He doesn't give me a lot of

  75. time to think about. And I put together the kind

  76. of best reply that I could muster in the moment,

  77. because it kind of made me feel a bit on the

  78. spot. And I went, to me where it's a bit different

  79. is there's like an agreed upon foundation, which

  80. for us is Jesus, that this community is built

  81. on. And as a result, there's kind of an expectation

  82. that we all participate in and live in a way

  83. that kind of marries that through both love and

  84. accountability in equal measures. And then I

  85. went, oh, that sounded pretty good. I was very

  86. relieved with myself. And then he went, all right,

  87. can I, like, he thought about it for a second.

  88. He's like, I'm going to ask you one more question

  89. then. I said, great, let's do that. And he went

  90. to this church, this community you're part of.

  91. And I said, yeah. And he said, are they doing

  92. that? Are they living that out? Is everybody

  93. at that church and everybody in that community

  94. living out that expectation that you are saying

  95. that you guys all have agreed to meet? Said yeah,

  96. I think so like that's where all the good stuff

  97. that I just talked to you about came from where

  98. this kind of re Remodeled idea of community that

  99. I have came from so yeah, mostly. Yeah. Yeah,

  100. we're pretty good Don't worry Henley. This was

  101. three years ago. You guys are off the hook And

  102. then he hit me with kind of the double oof question

  103. anyone and what about you You doing it I'd like

  104. to not answer that one. I said I hope so. I guess

  105. you'd be able to tell me better than I would,

  106. dude. Like, I try pretty hard. Always. You know,

  107. it's, it's, it's, I'd like to, and I think I

  108. am. And then I feel like, how do I make sure,

  109. how do I make sure that I am? Like, I came up

  110. with that answer of like, what does good Christian

  111. community look like off the cuff? And then I

  112. went, well how do I make sure that I'm doing

  113. that? How do I make sure that I am not just part

  114. of a community that looks like that, but I'm

  115. part of forming a community that looks like that?

  116. And how do I continue to help to build a community

  117. that I believe that I can be proud of, and more

  118. importantly that I think that Jesus would be

  119. proud of? One that demonstrably stands out, honestly,

  120. from the local footy club. How do our actions

  121. look different? And not just when it's easy,

  122. but actually when it's pretty hard too. Now the

  123. Barna Group, this incredible group, they're a

  124. lot of research and they have done a report which

  125. is that 84 % of non -Christians know a Christian,

  126. which is a pretty good number, that's a pretty

  127. good study. However, only 15 % of non -Christians

  128. who personally know a Christian notice that the

  129. Christian's lifestyle is noticeably different

  130. to theirs in any way. I'll be honest, when I

  131. saw this I thought, that's a pretty damning statistic.

  132. Like it's not, it's not irredeemable, but it's

  133. kind of not what we're called to do and not who

  134. we're called to be either. It speaks louder than

  135. I'd like it to be, and you know, like, Texas

  136. isn't this about community, and yes it is, and

  137. we'll get there. community this body that we

  138. talked about heard about in the readings like

  139. it is made up of a bunch of individual parts

  140. and pieces and individual people and if we as

  141. individuals are not standing out different to

  142. our non -christian friends into a non -christian

  143. world around us is any different what chance

  144. do we have as a complete body to stand out to

  145. differentiate ourselves from the sense of community

  146. that people can get from the local footy club

  147. so if that change isn't noticeable what chance

  148. do we have And then I thought, okay, so is there

  149. a model? How do we form communities that do stand

  150. out? And then I guess more importantly, why do

  151. we want to form communities that stand out? What's

  152. so important about us being a little bit different

  153. to the normal, to the world around us? Now Acts

  154. 2, the reading that Jazz so beautifully read,

  155. despite whoever demanded a sequel, Acts 2, the

  156. reading that Jazz gave us, it gives us a really

  157. glorious vision of the early church. It gives

  158. us a nice blueprint that we can kind of follow

  159. and live by and then we had Angus's Equally good

  160. reading of 1 Corinthians in which it just kind

  161. of Reinforces and reminds us of the foundation.

  162. I'm sorry. Yeah reminds us of the why of that

  163. foundation. So you've got acts Acts 2 over here

  164. which is kind of giving us this super practical

  165. model that we can follow and then Corinthians,

  166. this one Corinthians giving us the why behind

  167. it. So that goes into, we are starting this new

  168. series today, if you made it through the whole

  169. evangelism series, evangelism for everyone series

  170. with us, six weeks there, well done, thank you.

  171. We are starting a new series today called A Long

  172. Obedience in the Same Direction and this sermon

  173. is entitled Committing to Community and the reason

  174. we're doing that is because it's only when we

  175. as a community commit to not just the action,

  176. but the why behind the action, that the true

  177. depth of the community can actually begin to

  178. form and take hold. And it's only through the

  179. combination of the action and the why that Jesus

  180. is glorified. And as a result, our differences

  181. become noticeable to the world around us in a

  182. really, really positive way. Andy Stanley ponders

  183. with this, he says, imagine a world in which

  184. non -believers were critical of what we believe,

  185. but envious of how well we treated each other.

  186. And that's kind of the heart of what I'm wanting

  187. to get to today. Like I said, the beginning of

  188. Acts 2 finds us just 10 days after Jesus ascension

  189. to heaven. The Apostle Peter has just preached

  190. an absolute banger. He's declared Jesus as the

  191. Messiah, people are convicted, but they're also

  192. maybe a teeny tiny bit lost. And they say, brothers,

  193. what shall we do? So Peter called those gathered

  194. to repent, be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ

  195. for the forgiveness of sins, and receive the

  196. gift of the Holy Spirit. And they do. To the

  197. tune of 3 ,000 people in one day, we've heard

  198. this story a bunch of time, we hear about it

  199. every Pentecost, it's amazing, it's fantastic,

  200. but up until now the community of these believers

  201. that have been there is 120 people. So, overnight,

  202. imagine if you walked out of this room after

  203. this service, we'll go with similar kind of figures,

  204. we're not 120, and there's a thousand people

  205. outside ready to grab coffee straight after this

  206. service. Man... I would be petrified. We don't

  207. have enough milk for that, right? So what happens

  208. is you've got 3 ,000 people in one day come to

  209. believe Jesus is Messiah, come to faith in Jesus,

  210. and that's quite a jump. And now we've got, and

  211. now what? These people, these 3 ,000 that have

  212. come to faith, they have come from all over.

  213. These are people of different backgrounds. These

  214. are people from different nations, different

  215. languages, different everything. And now, And

  216. the only prerequisite to becoming a part of this

  217. community was like a baptism and then reforming

  218. your life around a belief in Jesus as the Messiah.

  219. And you might go, that's a pretty big prerequisite

  220. text. And like it is, but aside from that, that's

  221. like the one thing they now have in common. So

  222. like, how is this going to work? How are you

  223. now going to take these 3 ,120 people and go,

  224. cool, community, off you go, right? Now as Eugene

  225. Peterson puts it, he says, Scripture knows nothing

  226. of a solitary Christian. People of faith are

  227. always members of a community. So what we find

  228. now is these new members, these new believers,

  229. these new people with a new and rejuvenated faith

  230. are now having to form a community. And this

  231. community sets out to live, man there's a lot

  232. of, little tongue twister here, this community

  233. sets out to a communal way of life. Well done

  234. Taxi, you did it. They've got a commitment to

  235. each other. Thank you, I received that. A commitment

  236. to each other in which all benefit and none are

  237. left behind. This is the commitment that they

  238. make to each other. They have faith, but based

  239. on what we see next, then they also start to

  240. form a structure with which to build their faith

  241. around. They commit to meeting regularly, sitting

  242. under teaching, fellowship, breaking bread or

  243. the sharing of meals, and prayer, right? Now

  244. if that sounds familiar to you at all, I love

  245. to break it to you. That is the rhythm that we

  246. are attempting to form here at Encounter Henley.

  247. Meeting weekly at Sunday Gatherings where we

  248. worship and we learn together. RDG is where we

  249. meet for fellowship and the breaking of bread

  250. and it's all covered with as much prayer as we

  251. can put together. Ask Charlie if you'd like some

  252. tips on how to pray more, right? Now our Senior

  253. Global Mega Pastors Mike and Jen Wardrop, when

  254. they planted the First Encounter Church, I mean,

  255. don't tell them this, they're not going to listen

  256. to this podcast, I promise. They're not geniuses.

  257. You know what, tell them, screenshot it. Clip

  258. that. clip that. They're not geniuses. No, no,

  259. no. This is the thing. We overcomplicate. Somebody

  260. just clipped it. I can't wait for this slack

  261. after service. Then I'll say it again because

  262. it bears repeating. Mike and Jen are not geniuses.

  263. They looked at the oldest, best form of church

  264. model that exists in the Bible and went, why

  265. don't we just try to do that? Seems pretty straightforward,

  266. right? Now, if you've come along with us at any

  267. stage of that for the ride, congratulations.

  268. I've got great news for you. Coming to church

  269. isn't just good for your spiritual health. A

  270. study by the Harvard School of Public Health

  271. reveals that weekly church attendance is associated

  272. with lower mortality risk and rate. The average

  273. church attendant who goes weekly lives for four

  274. years longer than a non -attending Christian.

  275. Lower rates of depression, lower rates of suicide,

  276. better health behaviors, greater marital stability,

  277. overall health and purpose in life. That is not

  278. a bad list. If you're in the room and you're

  279. here every week, well done. Now we don't need

  280. to reinvent the wheel on this one. Weekly attendance

  281. belonging to a church community will nourish

  282. you spiritually, physically and mentally. And

  283. that's as true now as it was then. In a culture

  284. that was all about honor and title and status,

  285. doesn't sound like 2025 at all, a community in

  286. which all are welcomed, in which walls are broken

  287. down, practices and care are shared, all of it

  288. publicly, all of it for the benefit of the we,

  289. not I. These changes and these differences which

  290. are fueled by Jesus, which are fueled by the

  291. Holy Spirit, they stand out like a beacon to

  292. the world around us. This community in Acts 2,

  293. they are gaining favor of all of the people around

  294. them. Remind you, this is a community that is

  295. formed very quickly, very suddenly, in not necessarily

  296. always the most friendly of circumstances. But

  297. through the way that people are looking from

  298. the outside into this community, they are gaining

  299. favor. That comment we had before of like, hey,

  300. people may not believe what you believe, but

  301. man, they should look at what you're doing in

  302. the way that you're living and go, that I understand.

  303. care and love. I can see that. That feels good.

  304. I can get around that. They're doing that. They're

  305. doing it in such a way that it's not only not

  306. being ignored, it's being seen and people are

  307. going, I get it. I'm looking at these people

  308. super positively and the Lord continues to bring

  309. people into this community daily. They are having

  310. daily salvations. This community is not just

  311. there, it is growing and those people are staying.

  312. They are united in Christ and formed around that

  313. and then they continue. as they are united as

  314. part of a community. But churches, much like

  315. your little footy club, little, I meant to say

  316. local, that sounded so demeaning, much like your

  317. little footy club, churches, much like footy

  318. clubs, much like workplaces, much like anywhere

  319. else you go, they're full of people. Which means

  320. that we tend to revert back to old habits and

  321. behaviors. We may lose sight of what really matters

  322. the worst of it is that we Forget or we deliberately

  323. start to kind of go against what we know to be

  324. true So you see this early church, it formed

  325. and it spread. This is how it worked, all right?

  326. You form and you spread. And the church in Corinth

  327. had started strong, but over the years had kind

  328. of forgotten a little bit of its original mission

  329. and its original vision, right? So it's now made

  330. way, the part of the letter that precedes what

  331. we've... what we've heard today from Angus is

  332. that all of this original vision, all of this

  333. original heart, it's made way for infighting,

  334. it's made way for power grabs, it's made way

  335. for worldly wisdom. Like we've kind of forgotten

  336. the why, the foundational why of Jesus for doing

  337. this to begin with. And what it's done in turn

  338. is it's started to form one of those Christian

  339. communities that the world around you, instead

  340. of looking out with great favour, kind of starts

  341. to look out with a bit of a side eye. And it's

  342. in the light of this that the letter to the Corinthian

  343. church is written. Paul takes time in this letter

  344. to remind them there is no greater than because

  345. there's no less than in a Jesus -bound community.

  346. Diversity of backgrounds, diversity of skill

  347. sets, different giftings, this isn't a bug, this

  348. is a feature. The body metaphor is pretty cool.

  349. I'm not gonna repeat the whole thing now. The

  350. body thing is pretty cool. You know, you need

  351. ears to hear, eyes to see. Even the parts of

  352. you that you deemed unnecessary or you deemed

  353. weak, all of that forms to make one body. Now,

  354. this isn't a goal to be achieved. It's a fact

  355. to be recognized. In fact, some parts of the

  356. body that seem weakest and least important are

  357. actually the most necessary. And the parts we

  358. regard as less honourable are those we clothe

  359. with the greatest care. So we carefully protect

  360. those parts that should not be seen. 1 Corinthians

  361. 12, 22 to 23. It's not just taking care of those

  362. that we deem weaker that form healthy communities.

  363. A healthy community is really formed and we really

  364. start to take care of people when we start to

  365. remove the designations that we put on people

  366. where we deem them less than, we deem them weaker,

  367. we deem them not a full part of our community.

  368. If we can remove those designations that we put

  369. in place, the body will be better. for it, it

  370. will be healthier for it, our people will feel

  371. more loved for it. If you want a committed and

  372. deeper community, you need to focus on the similarities,

  373. the unity of that group. What brings us together?

  374. The differences that we possess must become a

  375. tool to strengthen and uplift, not a rod that

  376. is used to divide. Let's keep reading. This makes

  377. for harmony among the members so that all the

  378. members care for each other. If one part suffers,

  379. all the parts suffer with it, and if one part

  380. is honored, all the parts are glad. All of you

  381. together are Christ's body and each of you is

  382. a part of it. Now we are called to be a community

  383. that fight for each other. We are called to be

  384. a community that celebrate one another. We are

  385. called to be a community who champion each other's

  386. differences and uplift each other where there

  387. may be perceived gaps or flaws. The second we

  388. start to see these differences, the second we

  389. start to go, well, I can't sing like Carmen.

  390. I can't host like Dan. None of us can, right?

  391. The second we start to see those things, as a

  392. reason for division rather than as a cause for

  393. celebration we're toast. We're in trouble because

  394. what happens then is we allow those that feel

  395. broken or we allow those that are perceived as

  396. less than to become isolated rather than to view

  397. them as we should do as part of this body that

  398. we love and that we need and draw them in closer.

  399. We need a healthy, greater body. They only do

  400. that with all of us in tow and all of us pulling

  401. in the same direction. And if we don't do that,

  402. I'll be honest, we are failing them and we are

  403. failing each other. And as a result, we are failing

  404. the greater body. And most importantly, the second

  405. we start to do that, we are falling short of

  406. Jesus's vision for His church. Why? Because...

  407. Everywhere else that we go in life, in every

  408. other community we're part of, people want us

  409. to earn our place. Our value in every other community

  410. we are part of is defined by what we do. And

  411. too often they expect the best versions of us.

  412. In our workplaces, in our sporting clubs, for

  413. too many of us, in our families. in our marriages,

  414. in our friendships, in our relationships. Not

  415. here. Not Jesus. These are different expectations.

  416. These are different hopes, different desires.

  417. Joseph B. Worthland says, the church is not a

  418. place where perfect people gather to say perfect

  419. things or have perfect thoughts or have perfect

  420. feelings. The church is a place where imperfect

  421. people gather to provide encouragement, support

  422. and service to each other as we press on in our

  423. journey to return to the Heavenly Father. Those

  424. imperfections, be they perceived or real, whatever

  425. they might be, they create our differences, but

  426. it's those differences that make us this beautiful

  427. community. As I look around a room like this

  428. one, as I see Henley starting to form as I go

  429. to Enfield when I visit there, and I look around

  430. the room, the reason I love a community like

  431. this one is because I go, in what other way and

  432. for what other reason would this exact group

  433. of people be forming and forming the relationships

  434. they're forming in the way that we are? And I

  435. don't have one. It's only through a Jesus -centered

  436. community that you take people from all walks

  437. of life and all backgrounds and say, you know

  438. what? Everyone is equal. We are all the same

  439. and we're all going to do our best with and for

  440. each other. We talked just then about how in

  441. so many other places that we need to kind of

  442. almost earn our place in those communities. We

  443. need to earn our position. We need to earn a

  444. title. I want to make it really, really clear.

  445. In this room, in this church, you have value

  446. and you are valued. Not because I say so, but

  447. because Jesus says so. And I fear that for many

  448. of us, we have a tendency to become really focused

  449. on who we're not, or what we're not, and as a

  450. result, what we are not capable of. Or I'll be

  451. honest, I don't want to say worse, but equally

  452. as bad, shall we say. We start to see those perceived

  453. shortcomings in each other. And without attention,

  454. those feelings will turn to jealousy, anger,

  455. or bitterness. And nothing will damage your relationships

  456. with each other or within this community more

  457. than feelings of anger, jealousy, bitterness

  458. that are just left to run rampant. And this is

  459. gonna sound like kind of a self -serving expression

  460. based on what I'm talking about today, but truly

  461. the best combat for that is to dig really, really

  462. deep into community. With the rhythms that are

  463. set out for us in Acts 2, and then forming them

  464. around the truth laid out in 1 Corinthians 3,

  465. that letter, because it's in combination of those

  466. two things that we're forced to confront and

  467. defeat those negative feelings that too often

  468. create weaknesses in our communities. Because

  469. when you have that assurance that you are part

  470. of a greater body, when you have an assurance

  471. that regardless of background, regardless of

  472. any weakness, regardless of how you're going

  473. today, that your place in this community is 100

  474. % secure. And it's within security that when

  475. things get tough, and they will get tough because

  476. again, welcome to a church that is completely

  477. full of people, right? When things get tough,

  478. it's that security that kind of gives us that

  479. sense of a knowing and a willingness to work

  480. things through. You know, when you know that

  481. the accidental wrong thing said, you know, that

  482. doesn't get taken away from you. We don't do

  483. that here. Security forms a foundation for desire

  484. to work to a better conclusion because we all

  485. have the same mission. When you see someone every

  486. week, you see the best of them. When you see

  487. someone every week, you also see the worst of

  488. them. Proximity has a funny way of doing that.

  489. The closer you are with someone, the more consistently

  490. you get to see their best and you also get to

  491. see them at their worst. Do not make eye contact

  492. with anyone right now. even I'm looking down.

  493. But that proximity in doing life together and

  494. doing it closely, that's actually where we earn

  495. the right, and I'll be honest, it's not just

  496. the right, it's actually the expectation to uplift,

  497. empower, encourage, and yes, hold each other

  498. accountable. Not based on preference, but based

  499. on agreement that we're all kind of chasing down

  500. and focusing on the same end result, the same

  501. end goal. A spirit -filled Jesus -centered community.

  502. that shines like a lighthouse to the community

  503. around us. And I guess what I wanted to think

  504. about in this, and what I wanted to ask as part

  505. of this is, is will all of you, that thing that

  506. was, that quote from before, you know, hey, we're

  507. all kind of, the end result is we're all pushing

  508. towards that, forwards on our journey towards

  509. a renewal and a... I've just completely lost

  510. the word here and I did not have it written down.

  511. We're looking, we're on that path and that's

  512. striving back towards our Heavenly Father. What

  513. I'm asking if you're here and if you want to

  514. do that is do you want to come with us? Do you

  515. want to be part of this community that does that,

  516. that chases that down with everything that we've

  517. got? Now if you're someone who's kind of a bit

  518. more of a dipping their toe in the water kind

  519. of person, that's totally okay. I'd really love

  520. to challenge you. Let's change from dipping your

  521. toe in the water to a cannibal. Because we want

  522. you here. We need you here. I've got a promise

  523. for you. We are not perfect. I got a second promise

  524. for you. Neither are you, sorry. Sucks, huh?

  525. And that's okay. Not only okay, it's kind of

  526. a point. And we want you here, not just because

  527. we want to join together, but because we want

  528. to stay together and form around those truths.

  529. And I kind of want to see what Jesus can do with

  530. that. Now if you love the idea of a community

  531. that looks like that, and want to be part of

  532. and help us build one here in Henley, and you're

  533. not really sure, well how does that go? How do

  534. I do this? What do I do to model that? Because

  535. this is a sermon, I've got three simple tips.

  536. That's right, we love three tips. Four is too

  537. many, two feels like I haven't put in any work.

  538. One! Show up! Congrats. Step one for everybody

  539. in the room. You've done it. You did it. Way

  540. to go, kid. We are here every Sunday. We have

  541. RDGs Tuesday through Thursday. Show up consistently.

  542. In the seven years I have been regularly attending

  543. church, I have learned, I have learned that there

  544. are some people, this might sound funny, I don't

  545. message them during the week. Not because I don't

  546. love them. It's because I know that I'm going

  547. to see them on Sunday. I know consistently, genuinely,

  548. my seven years have been here. I know Jordy's

  549. going to be here on Sunday. I know Josh is going

  550. to be here on Sunday. You know, now I don't wanna

  551. like not pick out other people in the room. You

  552. know, Matt and Jaz, you guys are gonna be here

  553. Sunday. These are people, oh no, everyone. Now

  554. you get to a point where if you don't single

  555. somebody out, you're like, oh, don't see me every

  556. weekend. No, there are certain people in my life

  557. that I just stopped really contacting during

  558. the week. Not because I don't want to, but because

  559. I know I'm gonna get a chance to see them here

  560. on Sunday. There's something so beautiful about

  561. a consistency like that, that people will actually

  562. start to form themselves around. It's amazing.

  563. Second tip, serve. If you've been coming for

  564. a little while and you haven't started serving

  565. or you're not sure, is that really, you know,

  566. what does that look like? Just talk to pretty

  567. much any of us here in the room at serve and

  568. just talk to us about it. Ask us why we do it.

  569. you're going to get a bunch of different answers.

  570. Here's what I can promise you. We do not serve

  571. and encounter Henley to fill spots. We said when

  572. we planted, if we planted with Tim with a Bible

  573. in his hand and me with an acoustic guitar, we

  574. can do that. We could have done that for years

  575. if we really needed to. This isn't about filling

  576. spots. This is about the fact that everybody

  577. in this room brings a unique personality with

  578. a unique gifting. And the thing that each of

  579. you can only bring into any room or any team

  580. or any service that you bring, which is you.

  581. There is something about working shoulder to

  582. shoulder with people to form a collective, to

  583. form something that is bigger than just you,

  584. to remove the I from a situation and make it

  585. about the we. You just simply cannot replicate

  586. any other way. It's pretty... It's pretty awesome

  587. to see. And you will notice it. You will see

  588. when people go from regularly attending to start

  589. serving on team, the relationships change again.

  590. They go to a deeper level again. If you want

  591. deeper relationships, serve. Not because I need

  592. you to, but because I think you probably need

  593. to. And the third tip is kind of less of a tip.

  594. It's just more of a reality, which is sacrifice.

  595. Three S's to alliteration and three points. Let's

  596. go. We're killing it today, right? Anything you

  597. truly want in life that's worth having, you are

  598. going to have to sacrifice something for. It's

  599. going to come at a cost. It might be time, it

  600. might be preference, it might be finance. But

  601. again, There is something about when you have

  602. committed to being somewhere every week, you've

  603. committed to serving and being part of a collective,

  604. and then you're saying, I'm willing to pay whatever

  605. the cost is to make that happen, that you really

  606. start to take ownership, you really start to

  607. see your place in this body and this family and

  608. this community start to take shape. This community

  609. and this body is only made whole when you own

  610. it. And I promise it's worth it. I'm going to

  611. start coming to a close band, so if all 35 of

  612. you would like to come back up. We show up and

  613. we serve and we make sacrifices. That's literally

  614. the model that Jesus modeled for us. much like

  615. how a community forms and a body forms around

  616. those ideas of that it doesn't matter what our

  617. background is, it doesn't matter our skill set,

  618. it doesn't matter what we have to offer, Jesus

  619. showed up for us in exactly the same way, for

  620. just a world full of imperfect sinners that could

  621. only be made perfect through Him. Because it

  622. was only ever about taking a body and making

  623. it whole again. It was only ever about the relationship

  624. with us that formed through that. It was about

  625. that willing sacrifice of Himself to ensure that

  626. we as His body would never have to be broken

  627. again. This loving sacrifice and this grace was

  628. poured out for us as an affirmation that we have

  629. value, that we have worth, That we are wanted,

  630. we are loved, and we are saved. Jesus' sacrifice

  631. on the cross ensuring a unified place in Him

  632. and with Him as part of one body. And the fact

  633. that that was secured forever. And all we ever

  634. had to do for that was to seek, repent, and accept

  635. Him as Lord and Saviour. Small cost for us, big

  636. cost for Him. And the way that we can kind of

  637. live out of that is to serve Him as we serve

  638. each other. Not to earn that gift but in recognition

  639. of it. So as we come to a time of worship as

  640. we finish up today, again we've got our lovely

  641. prayer team up the back there who would love

  642. to pray for you. You know, I won't just grab

  643. somebody to pray with you if you feel like you

  644. need it, but I just can't help but feel that,

  645. as I look around this room, as Jordy prayed that

  646. prayer today, that prayer of gratitude, and I

  647. just couldn't help but echo it, because I just

  648. look at this community as it's forming and as

  649. it's growing. I see a bunch of people who are

  650. just chasing Jesus down with everything they've

  651. got. And our church is better for it. our community

  652. is better for it. I look around and see friendships

  653. that are forming, I see relationships that are

  654. forming, I see couples forming, I see marriages

  655. growing stronger, I see relationships and families

  656. that are kind of pulling back in together and

  657. I just think what could be better than that?

  658. What could be better than a community that focuses

  659. on something other than themselves and as a result

  660. gets to see all these beautiful growth and change

  661. so I just I would challenge you as we come into

  662. this time of response to pray about that to pray

  663. into maybe there is maybe there's something you've

  664. been telling yourself that's something you can't

  665. do the reason you're less than the reason you're

  666. weaker than and you need to pray into that and

  667. accept that you are just a beautiful beloved

  668. child of God and you are here for a reason and

  669. a purpose maybe you're recognizing there's someone

  670. I've been There's someone I've allowed my vision

  671. of to be tainted. I've been viewing them as less

  672. than or I've been viewing what they bring to

  673. this community as less than and maybe you need

  674. to repent of that and that's okay. You can do

  675. that alone or you can do that with someone. Are

  676. you gonna approach that person and just pray

  677. with them? Tell them you love them. That's pretty

  678. good. Heavenly Father, we thank you so much for

  679. the fact that we have the opportunity to join

  680. together as one body and one community under

  681. your loving name and in your loving grace. Father,

  682. we pray that you will empower us and invigorate

  683. us to see the value that we have as children

  684. of God. And as part of this community, I pray

  685. that you will bless us and use all of our differences.

  686. All of the things that make us beautifully unique

  687. and individual and pull us into formation and

  688. community under your loving name.