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Father's Day 2026 - Pastor Brad Neuschwander (June 21, 2026) | Life Bible Church

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  1. Welcome to the Life Bible Church podcast. We

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  7. enjoy this week's message. Well, it's great.

  8. to stand in front of you today and to begin to

  9. deliver a message. We had an incredible time

  10. last night at Fire on the Altar, and I am going

  11. to shift messages. This weekend, the Lord dropped

  12. multiple things into my heart, and when that

  13. happens, there's always a, Lord, what do you

  14. want to do? What time, what season, how far?

  15. But sometimes when God just begins to speak in

  16. Revelation, it's hard. to get out of that pocket.

  17. And I'm going to do my best to give some things

  18. that I believe are on his heart to strengthen

  19. us today. I want to talk today about a blessed

  20. man or a blessed father. Now, of course, we do

  21. not want to negate the women and sons and daughters

  22. that will that are all part of the covenant here,

  23. but meetings on Father's Day, I'd like you men,

  24. especially to clue into this. Ladies, you're

  25. going to be able to receive some things from

  26. it. But I want to start this, this kind of this

  27. path that we're going to walk down with a little

  28. bit more kind of somberness as we set the stage

  29. of what's before us. If we take a moment before

  30. we get into this message and we just look around

  31. a little bit at our world and our society, and

  32. if we look at it in the lens of the scriptures,

  33. we see two things happening. One, we sang about

  34. it today in the song. We know how the story ends.

  35. Our eyes are upon the son, the one who's risen

  36. and the one who's coming back. But if we also

  37. look in the natural and look at what's coming

  38. down the line, we are also told in the same book

  39. of God's revelation to us that the times are

  40. not just going to get better. Actually, times

  41. are going to get worse. And so every time we

  42. hear a message like this, it's not a marker.

  43. It's a marker of two things. It should mark,

  44. number one, remind us where our focus should

  45. be always. And two, a reminder of how important

  46. it is in this moment and forward that I recognize

  47. before God and understand that I have a responsibility

  48. to him. It doesn't get less responsibility. It

  49. actually increases in responsibility as we move

  50. forward in time. It's a big deal. As you look

  51. around in the news and see there is a lot of

  52. devastation and destruction going on in the physical

  53. realm. And that seems to be all that the news

  54. and all that people can talk about. But I'm here

  55. to tell you that it's not about the physical

  56. realm that where the action is. It's the spiritual

  57. realm that actually is predicating the physical

  58. realm. And when you look closer. And you look

  59. at the attacks that are taking place in the natural

  60. realm, they're connected at every level to the

  61. spiritual realm. When we think about disobedience,

  62. when we think about anarchy, when we think about

  63. pride, when we think about covetousness or rebellion,

  64. they don't have their source in just natural

  65. wicked sin nature. They do, but they also have

  66. a plug -in into a spiritual nature. And these

  67. are rooted in spiritual forces. They seek to

  68. combine fleshly carnal mind and heart so that

  69. they can operate from a spiritual realm in a

  70. greater natural presence. And together with people

  71. that actually embrace these type of things, the

  72. rebellion, the pride, and some of it we get by

  73. nature, but when we actually give ourselves to

  74. these things, there is a primary focus of its

  75. target. Its target is for the elimination and

  76. destruction of the natural order of God's design,

  77. not only for the natural family, but of the spiritual

  78. family called his church. The attack has been

  79. concentrated, speaks right at the foundations

  80. of God's original charter for the authority and

  81. the role of mother and father in marriage, the

  82. role of the church in its governmental and missional

  83. role extending the kingdom of God. Every assignment

  84. of natural and spiritual are set to remove the

  85. places of authority that they are to operate

  86. from. Each of these two realms, each of these

  87. two planes, natural and spiritual, are connected

  88. to the core of our society, our health, our welfare,

  89. are connected in natural and spiritual things

  90. of the family of God. And if we're watching,

  91. if we've been alert, we can see not only the

  92. overt attacks, but the subtle ones as well. That

  93. they're trying to remove God's truth and his

  94. loving mandates. in every form of blessed relationship

  95. that he has meant to be created to be good. Over

  96. the last 11 years, it was in June 26, just a

  97. few days from now, 11 years ago, in 2015, the

  98. U .S. Supreme Court made a ruling that same -sex

  99. marriage was legal. Not just a union, not just

  100. a civil union, but now marriage. A covenantal

  101. institution ordained by God now tried to be written

  102. over by the laws of the land. From that point

  103. forward, we have watched the embracing of not

  104. just a protection of alternate lifestyles, but

  105. we've watched an enshrining of a whole month

  106. of celebration of alternate lifestyles during

  107. Pride Month. We've watched the LBTG. T -B -I

  108. -Q -I -A -L -M -N -O -P. We've watched the movement

  109. multiply to the inclusion of transgenderism and

  110. to other form of obscene identities. We've watched

  111. this aggressive form of transgenderism now trying

  112. to take over even forums of women's sporting

  113. events. And what was the once leading on edge

  114. cultural aggressive form of feminism is now being

  115. eaten from the inside through this spirit of

  116. transgenderism. We're now watching this trend

  117. of popular agenda of perversion take over in

  118. other forms called gender fluidity. It's kind

  119. of a hydrostatic level of sexuality. We've watched

  120. this clear type of destruction in its aggressive

  121. pursuit, move and work to bring depravity and

  122. removal of any form of God -ordained boundaries

  123. of righteousness, morality, and love. Not because

  124. it's natural only, but it's natural infused by

  125. spiritual. Even now, The current culture is embracing

  126. just articles, even this last couple of weeks

  127. that I get from various sources, embracing a

  128. new level of polyamory and throuples and new

  129. definition of marriage that is now multiple people

  130. in marriage covenants. The people's quest for

  131. security, housing, love. And the meeting of their

  132. financial needs and obligations, they're pursuing

  133. in new levels of depravity. And in doing so,

  134. they find themselves more and more in poverty,

  135. body, soul, and spirit. One man, one woman, in

  136. a loving covenant, having been given charge by

  137. the Lord to love, to lead, to model life in God

  138. through the family naturally. Spiritually, it

  139. was one man given to now what God would make

  140. the one body in Christ. The model is designed

  141. by God. It's the Lord who created and gave us

  142. both of these structures of love and training

  143. to develop unity and discipline and service and

  144. faith. And all this is done in God's heart and

  145. mind to share with us his nature, his character,

  146. His fellowship and his love in the midst of that

  147. fellowship were called to partnership, to fulfill

  148. his desire to have what? Godly offspring that

  149. will embrace and love God and love his will.

  150. And this is the setting for mankind to not only

  151. exist, but to thrive. But the enemy's plan through

  152. mocking and the mockery of God always starts

  153. with the undermining of God's selection. Let

  154. me just say that again. Every form of mocking

  155. and every form of mockery of God and the things

  156. of God, the purposes of God, always starts with

  157. God's selection of who he chooses and why he

  158. does what he does first. If you look through

  159. all of the scriptures, every major argument that

  160. mankind had, that partnered with things that

  161. were not of Holy Spirit, but of another spirit,

  162. always focused in on the one representing his

  163. authority. Every argument focused on the leader,

  164. on the father, on the assignment that was given

  165. to that person. To what? To acquiesce and give

  166. it to someone else. It's been revealed in scripture

  167. over and over. This is the way of the enemy.

  168. Attack the place of delegated authority. And

  169. this is the mark of all rebellion. The enemy

  170. starts by dismantling and trying to deconstruct

  171. all of God's ways, God's wills, God's holy purpose.

  172. By robbing God of his glory because authority,

  173. Jesus said, you would not have authority unless

  174. all authority was given to you by my Father.

  175. The whole form of authority is to bring God honor

  176. and glory. That's what real authority is about.

  177. Now, of course, man has perverted that, but the

  178. truth of why God gives it is to what? Honor the

  179. one who actually is honor and authority. The

  180. apostle Paul reminds us that I'm getting close

  181. to, we've almost painted the picture. Are you

  182. feeling kind of almost hopeless? But there's

  183. hope. I'm trying to get you low so that my preaching,

  184. even just if it's a little good, will bring you

  185. higher. Hallelujah. Second Timothy one, or excuse

  186. me, second Timothy chapter three, verse one through

  187. five kind of lays out what Paul says, or not

  188. really Paul, the Holy Spirit had said. Just so

  189. you know, this is going to be the atmosphere

  190. in the last days. Here's what he says. But understand

  191. this, that in the last days there will come times

  192. of difficulty. Now that is a, I'm quoting from

  193. the ESV, and that's a good translation. I really

  194. like that translation. It seems to be most accurate

  195. most of the time in the Greek. It includes the

  196. Dead Sea Scrolls as part of its manuscript understanding.

  197. But it really... Times of difficulty, the New

  198. King James actually says it better. It says,

  199. in the last days there will be perilous times.

  200. Difficult times just sounds like, man, I kind

  201. of got a D in a class I should have got a B in.

  202. No, the scripture is saying here, in the last

  203. days there will be perilous times. Perilous means

  204. unprecedentedly difficult. Turn to somebody and

  205. say, he's talking unprecedented. He says, here's

  206. the atmosphere. People will be lovers of self,

  207. lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient

  208. to parents, ungrateful, unholy, heartless, unappeasable,

  209. slanderous, without self -control, brutal, not

  210. loving good, treacherous, reckless, swollen with

  211. conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers

  212. of God, having an appearance of godliness, but

  213. denying its true power. We got that to look forward

  214. to. So the Bible says it's happening in the last

  215. days. Can I tell you, biblically speaking, we're

  216. actually there. The Bible says we are in the

  217. last days, and this is the atmosphere that's

  218. all around us. So if we're right in the middle

  219. of it right now, if there's ever been a time

  220. that God's truth, his boundaries, his ordained

  221. ways, and his calling was needed, it's now. We

  222. must remember that God loves all people. God

  223. loves women, children, men, but he starts with

  224. men and fathers. God gave man a place. Man is

  225. to be a blessed man. A blessed father is to be

  226. a what? A family man. A blessed man is to be

  227. a father, a godly man, a righteous steward, a

  228. spiritual man, an upright man, a man of love,

  229. a man of integrity, a man of compassion, and

  230. a man of grace. That is your calling and there

  231. is no shaving of those things. We can easily

  232. see that the places that God has now called us

  233. to be and the identity of man are areas that

  234. have truly been under assault in every direction.

  235. And here's the truth. The men of the church need

  236. to wake up. And the men of the nation need the

  237. church men To be the ones that deliver their

  238. wake up call. God has given us an incredible

  239. responsibility. In stewarding what is called

  240. this leadership high calling. And if we could

  241. put this on the screen. The calling. of a blessed

  242. man or a blessed father is an invitation to partake

  243. of the divine plan of God for the purpose of

  244. God's salvation of people, his redemption, and

  245. kingdom extension. That encompasses your high

  246. calling. We have to remind ourselves, why would

  247. God do this? Well, first of all, In order for

  248. us to really grasp this understanding of what

  249. is the high calling of men, the extension of

  250. his kingdom, that means everything that's good

  251. and peaceful and holy and righteous, you're called

  252. to. moving it from a place of darkness into a

  253. place of light. What does it mean? The redemption.

  254. It means that you would be involved in seeing

  255. brokenness turned over and finding its place

  256. in full restoration. That which has got broken,

  257. destroyed, worn out, and disassembled, restoration

  258. is part of your calling. And of course, salvation

  259. to every nation. every kindred, every tribe,

  260. and every family member first. Why do I say this?

  261. How can I say it so confidently? Because the

  262. Bible says in Romans 11, 29, for the gifts and

  263. callings of God are irrevocable. Let me say that

  264. again. The gifts and callings of God are irrevocable.

  265. We place this In a mindset, when we think about

  266. gifts, we think about, oh, wonderful piano playing

  267. or guitar playing or maybe a spiritual gift of

  268. healing or word of knowledge or even you're a

  269. steward, a good giver, an administrator, mercy,

  270. compassion. Yes, that's part of callings. But

  271. it's a derivative, if I could say it that way,

  272. of... a more simple, holistic calling. The gifts,

  273. if I have any, that come out of me, I would call

  274. them gift graces that come out of primary calling.

  275. Primary calling is that which I'm called to,

  276. that every man in this building, father or not,

  277. is called to a high calling of the things we

  278. just mentioned. Of what? Partaking and being

  279. invited to the process of winning people to Christ

  280. and watching the love of God change them. The

  281. process of being involved at some level of restoration.

  282. In a variety of ways. And three, extending the

  283. kingdom of God by his mercy, by his love and

  284. by his grace and his compassion. And of course,

  285. walking in the mandate. That is my calling. And

  286. from that calling, that's your calling. And from

  287. that calling come the other spiritual grace gifts

  288. that flow out of that because it's being empowered

  289. by the central theme of the high calling of God.

  290. Now. They're irrevocable. Not just gifts. He

  291. talks about the gifts and calling. Notice, the

  292. gifts are irrevocable, but the calling is irrevocable.

  293. Meaning that the moment you've given your life

  294. to God, the moment as a man, as a father, you've

  295. given your life to God, God deposited something

  296. in you that he will never take away from you.

  297. It means that it's come to you by the authority

  298. of the eternal father that has bound himself

  299. to say, I will never remove the calling of my

  300. inclusion of you in bringing my salvation, in

  301. bringing restoration and extending the kingdom

  302. through the nature of who I am. I call you to

  303. that. And as long as you live, that calling will

  304. remain upon your life. Whether you felt like

  305. you have been a failure, you've missed it as

  306. a father or a husband or a son, the reality is

  307. no devil in hell can take that calling because

  308. it's been given to you. Why? Because the father

  309. wants you to understand that your calling is

  310. connected not to your performance, but to his.

  311. And his nature as a good father is always trying

  312. to put on you the mantle of who he is to get

  313. it in you, on you, around you, no matter what

  314. you've done to begin to work those things through

  315. you. That's the nature of his tenacity. That's

  316. why it's irrevocable. Your calling's not revocable.

  317. You're connected to the eternal one. Your calling

  318. was not given to you by society. Yes, thank God.

  319. And that's why you can just go to those that

  320. seek to cancel your thought. You can cancel my

  321. thought all you want. You can't cancel the one

  322. who's irrevocable. He's eternal. Society didn't

  323. give it to you. Culture didn't give it to you.

  324. The government didn't give it to you. And the

  325. jury of your peers didn't give it to you. Your

  326. call is established in God, fixed and immovable.

  327. The Holy Spirit, if that wasn't enough, as Paul

  328. was writing to the Romans, he turned his attention

  329. to the Corinthian church and he brought this

  330. truth back out about calling. He said, I need

  331. you to consider your calling, brothers. 1 Corinthians

  332. 1 .26, right in the beginning of the letter,

  333. before he would ever begin to adjust mindsets,

  334. before he would ever begin to get into any doctrinal

  335. issues of how to build the church, one of the

  336. very first things that he would lay out for all

  337. of the church to see is, You need to consider

  338. the weight, the authority, the irrevocable nature

  339. of what God calls your holy calling. It must

  340. be considered. It must be weighed. You see, Jesus

  341. uses that word considered quite a bit. When he

  342. says, when you go to war, Don't be like someone

  343. that doesn't consider anything. You must weigh

  344. and consider. Can I go the distance with 10 ,000

  345. men when 20 ,000 are against me? Meaning what?

  346. The consideration of what it's going to cost

  347. me and what I'm going to have to do to win this

  348. fight. is the same principle that Paul was trying

  349. to write by the Holy Spirit to stir men and godly

  350. men to be blessed men up to consider this incredible

  351. thing. In order to carry it, in order to carry

  352. it with how God designed us to carry it, we're

  353. going to have to consider it and weigh it against

  354. other options in life. If we're not mindful,

  355. If we're not aware of what our great calling

  356. is as a man or a father, we will lose the fullness

  357. of what is meant to be yours and what was meant

  358. to be your part in helping with God's salvation.

  359. Not that you can't save, we can't save anybody.

  360. God does it. But we get the opportunity to have

  361. the blessing. Blessed are the feet of those that

  362. bring the good news. He's not just talking about

  363. the feet. He's talking about the whole person.

  364. And a blessed man understands the incredible

  365. wealth and weight of carrying the message of

  366. his father. What's meant to be yours? What's

  367. meant to be in your family and your heritage?

  368. Paul, again, you notice that. The Holy Spirit

  369. through the Apostle Paul keeps picking this up.

  370. He talked about it to the Romans. He talked about

  371. it to the Corinthians. Now he's talking about

  372. it to the Ephesians and he writes it this way.

  373. I urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the

  374. calling to which you've been called. It means

  375. it must move past consideration. That there are

  376. deliberate actions and attitudes that must be

  377. embraced and translate into real living in this

  378. world. The calling, and this is where men, we

  379. have to change. The calling is not ethereal.

  380. It's not in the realm of somehow lived out in

  381. this theoretic sense. The calling is meant to

  382. be lived. in and out through your life on a natural

  383. plane. It's spiritual that lives natural, just

  384. like all the things that the enemy does bring

  385. spiritual and tries to live out through natural

  386. means. God has a calling that starts from him

  387. and is meant to live out naturally, spiritually

  388. through you. And if that wasn't enough, he moves

  389. to the Thessalonica, the church in Thessalonica

  390. and to the Thessalonica. He says, and to this

  391. end, we pray that our God would make you worthy

  392. of his calling and that you may fulfill, listen

  393. to the words, every resolve for good and every

  394. work of faith by his power so that the name of

  395. our Lord may be glorified in him according to

  396. the grace of our God and the Lord Jesus Christ.

  397. You see, our calling is never sustained. By self

  398. -sufficiency. Our calling is never sustained

  399. just surely by self -will and grit. The world

  400. comes up with icons like the Marlboro Man. Or

  401. Dos Equis. The most incredible, exciting man.

  402. That's not the nature of your calling to be on

  403. a cigarette or a beer commercial. Yeah, some

  404. of the wives are looking at their husbands right

  405. now. Are you hearing this? The reality is the

  406. most incredible calling is to be a man that has

  407. actually spent time in the Father's presence.

  408. Starts to sound like our heavenly father. Live

  409. like our heavenly father. Love like our heavenly

  410. father. Forgive like our heavenly father. Is

  411. generous with his wife, his children, and others

  412. like our heavenly father. And begins to think

  413. beyond himself like our heavenly father. That's

  414. our calling. See, it's God who makes us. It's

  415. God. our father who expands us. It's God, our

  416. father who should be leading us, strengthening

  417. us and transforming us. Our father should be

  418. working through us. And it is those kind of truths

  419. that how that works, that this is what happens.

  420. Our nation needs blessed men and fathers that

  421. look like our heavenly father more than ever

  422. before. Our community needs godly men. Our wives

  423. need godly men. Our children need godly men.

  424. Our church needs godly men. Our places of employment

  425. need godly men. Our community and every facet

  426. of leadership needs godly men. And my God, society

  427. and the world needs godly men. And I am convinced

  428. today, with all that is in me, the family unit

  429. and the church is going to survive the 21st century,

  430. then God is about to do something inside of men

  431. that will cause a blessing and will cause a father

  432. anointing that will begin to draw people, sons,

  433. daughters, world back to something that he's

  434. doing. Without getting too deep in it, that was

  435. the charge of the Old Testament right to the

  436. new. In that day, I will cause the spirit of

  437. Elijah to cause... The fathers to turn to the

  438. children and the children to the fathers. What

  439. we haven't understood is there was the beginning

  440. of that drawing. John picked up that anointing

  441. and prepared the way for Jesus. What the church

  442. hasn't realized is Jesus has started it and men

  443. are supposed to be joining on to it to begin

  444. to bring the hymn and the loop around for the

  445. drawing to happen. Jesus Christ in a godly man

  446. can begin to serve his wife and serve his children

  447. and that circle starts to happen where children

  448. are drawn to the heart of the father and the

  449. father's heart because the father's heart's been

  450. drawn to them. It won't take long between it

  451. starts to happen over and over and over. And

  452. here's what we are wanting to see as witnesses.

  453. The world will witness what we see when this

  454. begins to take place by godly men who are blessed

  455. men, who are blessed fathers, and that is families

  456. will begin to see other families stay together

  457. during crumbling times and they'll recognize

  458. something is different. They will witness a family

  459. thriving in the midst of tests. trials, unexpected

  460. accidents, even deaths and injury. And that will

  461. be an anomaly and a sign to them. They will witness

  462. families moving and making forward progress,

  463. even when economic opposition and all other things

  464. are pressed against them. And it will cause them

  465. to ponder and say, what do they have as a family

  466. that is different than what I've experienced?

  467. Think about this. If I was just to describe,

  468. there's probably one man in the scripture that

  469. I love studying his life, and he's a type and

  470. shadow of Jesus Christ. He lived in the Old Testament,

  471. but there's so many things that David was. I'm

  472. a King David guy. I love King David worship.

  473. I love a lot of the stories. I don't like the

  474. errors that he made. But I can identify with

  475. a lot of them. Just not the one, Jenny, wherever

  476. you're at. I don't identify with that. Stay away

  477. from the Bathsheba. Just take a shower. Hallelujah.

  478. All right. All right. All right. There's a little

  479. voice that says, where are you going to go now?

  480. All right. All right. What do we know about David?

  481. Well, David was a lawyer. David was a man's man.

  482. But David was a family man. He had responsibilities

  483. of wife and children. In fact, this was probably

  484. one of the areas in David's life where it produced

  485. his greatest failures. Like most men, David allowed

  486. other things to distract him from priority and

  487. attention that should have been given to his

  488. family, primarily his sons. David, on the good

  489. side, was a businessman. He was increasing in

  490. responsibility. He was a builder, not only a

  491. builder of of vision, but a builder of teams

  492. of people. If you study his life, one of the

  493. things that he was known for was he was a man

  494. of restoration. And if I think about what David

  495. did, David was involved in singing and worshiping

  496. and understanding the salvation of God, God's

  497. mercy and grace. He was involved in restoration

  498. and he was involved in extending territory of

  499. the kingdom. And so if I could pick a man, when

  500. I looked in the scriptures that understood these

  501. three avenues yet had areas in his life where

  502. there was real weakness, David was one of them.

  503. David was an administrator. David was visionary.

  504. David was a spiritual man. David was a leader

  505. in worship and prayer. David was a skilled musician.

  506. David set the pace of atmosphere, of understanding

  507. how important presence of God was to the health

  508. of not only his own family unit, but to the nation.

  509. David related to every person on his team. He

  510. could be with Baraselli, who was the million

  511. heir of his time, and he could relate to every

  512. person that followed him in the cave that was

  513. distressed and in debt. David experienced everything

  514. that we experience as men. And amid all of his

  515. imperfections, most of us can find something

  516. in David that we can relate to. But the truth

  517. is, all of us can recognize we see David's flaws.

  518. And yet, in David's failures and in David's flaws,

  519. God was able to use him for the advancement of

  520. all three things. The salvation, honoring of

  521. the salvation of God, the restoration process

  522. of what God wants for every person, and the extending

  523. of the kingdom. David carried that mantle as

  524. a man, not as a king, but as a man, because those

  525. things came to David, not in his kingship, but

  526. in his heart before the Lord. And his failures

  527. never revoked. The calling. I'm speaking to some

  528. men this morning. You've heard some lying voices

  529. that said your failures have revoked your calling.

  530. Whether it's been financial issues, immoral issues,

  531. integrity issues, addiction issues. Maybe it's

  532. been the fact that you've got like cane, itchy

  533. feet. You can't stay at anything. You're not

  534. diligent or haven't been. Whatever the shortcoming

  535. is, God cuts through all of the blanket of shame

  536. and fear and today speaks to you and says, my

  537. calling to you and me is irrevocable. I didn't

  538. take it off of you. Who took it off of you? It's

  539. the question you have to ask. Who told you? Same

  540. question that was in the garden. Who told you

  541. that? God's asking that question today among

  542. every man. Who told you that your calling was

  543. irrevocable? Or that your calling was revocable?

  544. My word and my voice and what I stepped on the

  545. inside of you the moment you came to me was.

  546. Your gifts and callings are irrevocable. We can

  547. walk with God. God does not ask for perfection.

  548. He's not looking for a perfect man. He is looking

  549. for a man who will look to a perfect father for

  550. direction. You see, Psalms 12, one through nine,

  551. we read it earlier. But listen to what the psalmist

  552. says. Blessed is the man who fears the Lord and

  553. greatly delights in his commandments. A father

  554. is blessed because he fears the Lord. The fear

  555. of God. Not scared of God. Hiding from God. That's

  556. not what fear means. It means there is a holy

  557. reverence and an awe and a respect. I'm gonna

  558. try not to get myself, man, we got a flood going

  559. on, hallelujah. Preaching the water right out

  560. of the tank, hallelujah. You have to understand,

  561. think about culture. You got all sorts of gangs.

  562. I mean, even in our baptism today, we got old

  563. gang bangers that aren't banging or ganging for

  564. the world anymore. You got kids hanging on the

  565. corner, you know, with their signs. Kind of look

  566. like they're having epileptic seizures. I mean,

  567. you know, I mean. You got people wearing, sorry,

  568. we're just getting, it's probably more me now

  569. talking than, but the reality is you have all

  570. of this stuff that everybody wants respect. You

  571. deal with prison culture. Anybody that's ever

  572. worked in prisons, everybody that's ever done

  573. prison ministry, it's all about the respect,

  574. man. You respect me and I respect you. Let me

  575. tell you something. It's not that kind of negative

  576. respect that God is looking for. It's an honor

  577. respect that's saying, you see all things, know

  578. all things, nothing's hidden from you and there's

  579. nothing to be improved on with you. I recognize

  580. that you are above it all. That's what it means

  581. when it says the fear of the Lord. And because

  582. you're above it all and you don't lord it over

  583. me or use it over me like, Are you kidding me?

  584. I've modeled this for you, David. Come on, man.

  585. Get this right. You'll never hear the Holy Spirit

  586. talk that way. Now, you might hear Pastor Derek

  587. talk. No, I'm just kidding. Okay, the reality

  588. is you'll never hear the Holy Spirit talk that

  589. way because he'll never put it on you that way.

  590. It may have been said that Many men do not have

  591. a healthy fear of God and they don't delight

  592. in his commands, but men with this kind of thinking,

  593. we come up far less and way short of what your

  594. calling is. Proverbs 1, 7 says this, the fear

  595. of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but

  596. fools despise wisdom and instruction. When a

  597. man fears God, and knows God's commands, not

  598. from just reciting them, but allows those truths

  599. of who he is, of his perfectness and his holiness

  600. and his love to get in our heart, that's what

  601. begins to make man blessed. Psalms 1 and 2 leads

  602. it this way. And you go ahead and just play a

  603. little something for me. Blessed is the man who

  604. does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or

  605. stand in the way of sinners, nor sit in the seat

  606. of scoffers, but his delight is in the law of

  607. the Lord. He meditates on it day and night. You

  608. see, that gives us an understanding what blessing

  609. is trying to be transferred to men. As I'm ending

  610. here, I want to focus on the middle of that Psalm,

  611. Psalm 112, just that last part, verses probably

  612. six and seven. Notice what it says, six, seven,

  613. a little bit of eight. It says this, for the

  614. righteous will never be moved. He will be remembered

  615. forever. He's not afraid of bad news, but his

  616. heart is firm in trusting the Lord. He's steady

  617. and not Not afraid of what's coming in the world.

  618. He's not afraid of God and pride keeping him

  619. from embracing who God is. A blessed man has

  620. learned that there is nothing in pride that honors

  621. him. It's the greatest lie of the enemy. Pride

  622. is the greatest lie. Somehow thinking it exalts

  623. you. When all it does, the scripture says, God

  624. puts down the proud, but he lifts up the humble.

  625. What's the humble man? The humble man, it doesn't

  626. mean he's just constantly bumbling around. Well,

  627. I'm just humble. I can't do anything. I can't

  628. even believe that God loves me. That's not humble.

  629. I wanted to say a few things, but I'm stopping.

  630. A humble man means he doesn't need to talk about

  631. himself. He doesn't need to list his qualifications.

  632. He doesn't need to bring a resume to every conversation.

  633. He recognizes that his counsel, his wisdom, his

  634. strength, the very thing that actually makes

  635. him comes from a father who's constantly pouring

  636. into him and he doesn't need to justify himself.

  637. He's already justified by the love and purpose

  638. of God. That's what makes him a blessed man.

  639. You know what happens? When we get that, what

  640. happens? Justifying stops happening in a marriage.

  641. Arguments over who's right stop happening. There's

  642. no more competition. Among sons and fathers because

  643. I'm not trying to relive my mistakes and what

  644. I wish I did in junior high and high school through

  645. the next generation. I'm not living with a competitive

  646. spirit. I'm actually living my life to see those

  647. that are connected to me flourish. Flourishing

  648. in my house. And flourishing in my friendships.

  649. And then finding people. That are connected to

  650. the one I love. My father. And his son. And those

  651. who say yes to him. I begin pouring in. And seeing

  652. them flourish. That's a blessed man. A blessed

  653. man. And a blessed father. creates an atmosphere

  654. for a blessed family. A blessed family has a

  655. blessed legacy. Blessed legacies mean that there

  656. have been witnesses to those families and to

  657. those blessings and people want to be connected

  658. to something that's thriving and is life -giving.

  659. Nobody sits on a ship that actually is set for

  660. destruction. You get on a ship manifest, Where's

  661. it going? Down to park next to the Titanic. Nobody's

  662. getting on that ship unless they're truly a moron.

  663. The spirit of moron, it's a Greek word. You're

  664. looking at the manifest of people's lives. You're

  665. going, why does that life look different? It's

  666. not because God has favorites. It's because Someone

  667. has tapped into what it means to receive a blessing

  668. and to know the blessing. I want to go to that

  669. last, last song. Can we do the last song? Awesome.

  670. Had a bunch of audibles. I'm not sure where I

  671. was going today. So we just gave a bunch of things.

  672. I want to pray for men. Fact is. Would you just

  673. bow your head and close your eyes for a moment?

  674. I'm speaking to all men and all fathers. Of course,

  675. sons, daughters, women are included in this,

  676. but men, I'm focusing on you today. Who told

  677. you your calling was revoked? It wasn't our father.

  678. Our father has a blessing for you. Our father

  679. has a blessing for you. You will never hear our

  680. father say, I've already given the blessing to

  681. someone else. I don't have anything for you.

  682. That's not who he is. He is the source. He is

  683. the author of all things. There is more of him

  684. than you could ever put your mind, hands, heart

  685. around. And I'm talking to you this morning,

  686. men, fathers, those that are later in life and

  687. those just starting out in life. If you have

  688. been lied to and you've tried to prove yourself

  689. by a resume of how you're trying to work yourself.

  690. prove yourself, live by your own strength, trying

  691. to argue, scratch, try to justify. Time is now

  692. to actually say, I'm done with that old lifestyle,

  693. and I'm coming to the Father that will erase

  694. my past and start brand new with me right now.

  695. That doesn't mean that... Maybe there's people

  696. in here this morning that need to start with

  697. just salvation. But for many of you, you already

  698. know your calling and that you love Jesus, but

  699. you have not walked in a blessing. It's time

  700. that God would begin to shift the mindset, shift.

  701. those lies and allow you to come to the one who

  702. is a blessing and you begin to live under that

  703. grace of his love and with humility and watch

  704. how God will begin to change the things around

  705. you. If that's you, I would love for you just

  706. right now. I know I'm doing a big ask on Father's

  707. Day. I'd like you just to get up from your seat

  708. right now. And just say, that's me. I've been

  709. living with a revoked calling. I've been modeling

  710. something that's not right. And I'm coming today

  711. for an exchange. Just come right now. Come right

  712. down and meet me right here. I am exchanging

  713. this. I'm coming to my Holy Father. And I'm going

  714. to receive a blessing. Wherever my kids are at

  715. in their journey, wherever my grandkids are at

  716. in the journey, wherever I am personally as a

  717. young man, I'm done trying to substantiate myself.

  718. Awesome. By my own justifications, by my own

  719. measurements, and I'm coming back to the Father

  720. above and saying, I'm coming back to the one

  721. who gives blessings. Come on. I'm coming back

  722. to the one who said his calling and his love

  723. and his blessings were irrevocable. And I'm exchanging

  724. now my way for his way. I want the legacy of

  725. my father upon my mind, upon my heart, and upon

  726. the fruit of my life. I will not be identified

  727. by my yesterdays. But I start my new identity

  728. today in Jesus' name. If I can have some men,

  729. you know, our elders, our staff, our prayer teams,

  730. all that have been trained, come, let's put a

  731. hand on these guys. Begin to pray. And for the

  732. rest of us, I want us to begin to sing this song

  733. as Stephanie and Sonny begin to just lead us

  734. in this song called The Blessing. Would you stand

  735. with me this morning? And this is what we believe.

  736. God is the author of every blessing. He's the

  737. author of every turnaround. He's the author of

  738. every success. Oh, Jesus, we come to that place

  739. of exchange now. We lay down the habits. We lay

  740. them down in Jesus' name. Every cycle, Lord,

  741. that's been destructive, we come for an exchange.

  742. Amen. 625 -1365 We would love to pray with you.