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Father's Day 2026 - Pastor Brad Neuschwander (June 21, 2026) | Life Bible Church
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see our website at lifebiblechurch .org. Now,
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enjoy this week's message. Well, it's great.
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to stand in front of you today and to begin to
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deliver a message. We had an incredible time
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last night at Fire on the Altar, and I am going
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to shift messages. This weekend, the Lord dropped
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multiple things into my heart, and when that
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happens, there's always a, Lord, what do you
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want to do? What time, what season, how far?
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But sometimes when God just begins to speak in
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Revelation, it's hard. to get out of that pocket.
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And I'm going to do my best to give some things
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that I believe are on his heart to strengthen
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us today. I want to talk today about a blessed
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man or a blessed father. Now, of course, we do
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not want to negate the women and sons and daughters
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that will that are all part of the covenant here,
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but meetings on Father's Day, I'd like you men,
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especially to clue into this. Ladies, you're
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going to be able to receive some things from
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it. But I want to start this, this kind of this
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path that we're going to walk down with a little
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bit more kind of somberness as we set the stage
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of what's before us. If we take a moment before
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we get into this message and we just look around
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a little bit at our world and our society, and
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if we look at it in the lens of the scriptures,
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we see two things happening. One, we sang about
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it today in the song. We know how the story ends.
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Our eyes are upon the son, the one who's risen
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and the one who's coming back. But if we also
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look in the natural and look at what's coming
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down the line, we are also told in the same book
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of God's revelation to us that the times are
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not just going to get better. Actually, times
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are going to get worse. And so every time we
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hear a message like this, it's not a marker.
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It's a marker of two things. It should mark,
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number one, remind us where our focus should
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be always. And two, a reminder of how important
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it is in this moment and forward that I recognize
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before God and understand that I have a responsibility
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to him. It doesn't get less responsibility. It
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actually increases in responsibility as we move
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forward in time. It's a big deal. As you look
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around in the news and see there is a lot of
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devastation and destruction going on in the physical
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realm. And that seems to be all that the news
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and all that people can talk about. But I'm here
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to tell you that it's not about the physical
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realm that where the action is. It's the spiritual
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realm that actually is predicating the physical
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realm. And when you look closer. And you look
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at the attacks that are taking place in the natural
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realm, they're connected at every level to the
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spiritual realm. When we think about disobedience,
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when we think about anarchy, when we think about
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pride, when we think about covetousness or rebellion,
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they don't have their source in just natural
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wicked sin nature. They do, but they also have
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a plug -in into a spiritual nature. And these
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are rooted in spiritual forces. They seek to
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combine fleshly carnal mind and heart so that
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they can operate from a spiritual realm in a
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greater natural presence. And together with people
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that actually embrace these type of things, the
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rebellion, the pride, and some of it we get by
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nature, but when we actually give ourselves to
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these things, there is a primary focus of its
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target. Its target is for the elimination and
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destruction of the natural order of God's design,
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not only for the natural family, but of the spiritual
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family called his church. The attack has been
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concentrated, speaks right at the foundations
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of God's original charter for the authority and
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the role of mother and father in marriage, the
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role of the church in its governmental and missional
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role extending the kingdom of God. Every assignment
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of natural and spiritual are set to remove the
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places of authority that they are to operate
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from. Each of these two realms, each of these
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two planes, natural and spiritual, are connected
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to the core of our society, our health, our welfare,
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are connected in natural and spiritual things
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of the family of God. And if we're watching,
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if we've been alert, we can see not only the
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overt attacks, but the subtle ones as well. That
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they're trying to remove God's truth and his
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loving mandates. in every form of blessed relationship
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that he has meant to be created to be good. Over
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the last 11 years, it was in June 26, just a
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few days from now, 11 years ago, in 2015, the
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U .S. Supreme Court made a ruling that same -sex
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marriage was legal. Not just a union, not just
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a civil union, but now marriage. A covenantal
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institution ordained by God now tried to be written
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over by the laws of the land. From that point
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forward, we have watched the embracing of not
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just a protection of alternate lifestyles, but
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we've watched an enshrining of a whole month
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of celebration of alternate lifestyles during
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Pride Month. We've watched the LBTG. T -B -I
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-Q -I -A -L -M -N -O -P. We've watched the movement
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multiply to the inclusion of transgenderism and
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to other form of obscene identities. We've watched
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this aggressive form of transgenderism now trying
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to take over even forums of women's sporting
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events. And what was the once leading on edge
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cultural aggressive form of feminism is now being
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eaten from the inside through this spirit of
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transgenderism. We're now watching this trend
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of popular agenda of perversion take over in
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other forms called gender fluidity. It's kind
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of a hydrostatic level of sexuality. We've watched
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this clear type of destruction in its aggressive
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pursuit, move and work to bring depravity and
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removal of any form of God -ordained boundaries
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of righteousness, morality, and love. Not because
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it's natural only, but it's natural infused by
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spiritual. Even now, The current culture is embracing
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just articles, even this last couple of weeks
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that I get from various sources, embracing a
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new level of polyamory and throuples and new
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definition of marriage that is now multiple people
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in marriage covenants. The people's quest for
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security, housing, love. And the meeting of their
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financial needs and obligations, they're pursuing
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in new levels of depravity. And in doing so,
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they find themselves more and more in poverty,
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body, soul, and spirit. One man, one woman, in
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a loving covenant, having been given charge by
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the Lord to love, to lead, to model life in God
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through the family naturally. Spiritually, it
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was one man given to now what God would make
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the one body in Christ. The model is designed
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by God. It's the Lord who created and gave us
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both of these structures of love and training
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to develop unity and discipline and service and
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faith. And all this is done in God's heart and
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mind to share with us his nature, his character,
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His fellowship and his love in the midst of that
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fellowship were called to partnership, to fulfill
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his desire to have what? Godly offspring that
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will embrace and love God and love his will.
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And this is the setting for mankind to not only
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exist, but to thrive. But the enemy's plan through
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mocking and the mockery of God always starts
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with the undermining of God's selection. Let
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me just say that again. Every form of mocking
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and every form of mockery of God and the things
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of God, the purposes of God, always starts with
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God's selection of who he chooses and why he
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does what he does first. If you look through
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all of the scriptures, every major argument that
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mankind had, that partnered with things that
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were not of Holy Spirit, but of another spirit,
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always focused in on the one representing his
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authority. Every argument focused on the leader,
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on the father, on the assignment that was given
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to that person. To what? To acquiesce and give
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it to someone else. It's been revealed in scripture
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over and over. This is the way of the enemy.
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Attack the place of delegated authority. And
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this is the mark of all rebellion. The enemy
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starts by dismantling and trying to deconstruct
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all of God's ways, God's wills, God's holy purpose.
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By robbing God of his glory because authority,
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Jesus said, you would not have authority unless
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all authority was given to you by my Father.
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The whole form of authority is to bring God honor
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and glory. That's what real authority is about.
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Now, of course, man has perverted that, but the
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truth of why God gives it is to what? Honor the
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one who actually is honor and authority. The
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apostle Paul reminds us that I'm getting close
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to, we've almost painted the picture. Are you
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feeling kind of almost hopeless? But there's
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hope. I'm trying to get you low so that my preaching,
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even just if it's a little good, will bring you
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higher. Hallelujah. Second Timothy one, or excuse
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me, second Timothy chapter three, verse one through
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five kind of lays out what Paul says, or not
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really Paul, the Holy Spirit had said. Just so
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you know, this is going to be the atmosphere
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in the last days. Here's what he says. But understand
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this, that in the last days there will come times
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of difficulty. Now that is a, I'm quoting from
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the ESV, and that's a good translation. I really
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like that translation. It seems to be most accurate
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most of the time in the Greek. It includes the
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Dead Sea Scrolls as part of its manuscript understanding.
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But it really... Times of difficulty, the New
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King James actually says it better. It says,
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in the last days there will be perilous times.
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Difficult times just sounds like, man, I kind
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of got a D in a class I should have got a B in.
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No, the scripture is saying here, in the last
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days there will be perilous times. Perilous means
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unprecedentedly difficult. Turn to somebody and
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say, he's talking unprecedented. He says, here's
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the atmosphere. People will be lovers of self,
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lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient
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to parents, ungrateful, unholy, heartless, unappeasable,
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slanderous, without self -control, brutal, not
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loving good, treacherous, reckless, swollen with
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conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers
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of God, having an appearance of godliness, but
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denying its true power. We got that to look forward
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to. So the Bible says it's happening in the last
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days. Can I tell you, biblically speaking, we're
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actually there. The Bible says we are in the
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last days, and this is the atmosphere that's
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all around us. So if we're right in the middle
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of it right now, if there's ever been a time
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that God's truth, his boundaries, his ordained
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ways, and his calling was needed, it's now. We
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must remember that God loves all people. God
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loves women, children, men, but he starts with
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men and fathers. God gave man a place. Man is
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to be a blessed man. A blessed father is to be
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a what? A family man. A blessed man is to be
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a father, a godly man, a righteous steward, a
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spiritual man, an upright man, a man of love,
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a man of integrity, a man of compassion, and
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a man of grace. That is your calling and there
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is no shaving of those things. We can easily
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see that the places that God has now called us
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to be and the identity of man are areas that
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have truly been under assault in every direction.
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And here's the truth. The men of the church need
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to wake up. And the men of the nation need the
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church men To be the ones that deliver their
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wake up call. God has given us an incredible
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responsibility. In stewarding what is called
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this leadership high calling. And if we could
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put this on the screen. The calling. of a blessed
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man or a blessed father is an invitation to partake
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of the divine plan of God for the purpose of
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God's salvation of people, his redemption, and
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kingdom extension. That encompasses your high
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calling. We have to remind ourselves, why would
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God do this? Well, first of all, In order for
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us to really grasp this understanding of what
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is the high calling of men, the extension of
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his kingdom, that means everything that's good
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and peaceful and holy and righteous, you're called
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to. moving it from a place of darkness into a
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place of light. What does it mean? The redemption.
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It means that you would be involved in seeing
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brokenness turned over and finding its place
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in full restoration. That which has got broken,
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destroyed, worn out, and disassembled, restoration
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is part of your calling. And of course, salvation
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to every nation. every kindred, every tribe,
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and every family member first. Why do I say this?
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How can I say it so confidently? Because the
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Bible says in Romans 11, 29, for the gifts and
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callings of God are irrevocable. Let me say that
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again. The gifts and callings of God are irrevocable.
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We place this In a mindset, when we think about
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gifts, we think about, oh, wonderful piano playing
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or guitar playing or maybe a spiritual gift of
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healing or word of knowledge or even you're a
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steward, a good giver, an administrator, mercy,
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compassion. Yes, that's part of callings. But
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it's a derivative, if I could say it that way,
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of... a more simple, holistic calling. The gifts,
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if I have any, that come out of me, I would call
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them gift graces that come out of primary calling.
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Primary calling is that which I'm called to,
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that every man in this building, father or not,
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is called to a high calling of the things we
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just mentioned. Of what? Partaking and being
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invited to the process of winning people to Christ
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and watching the love of God change them. The
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process of being involved at some level of restoration.
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In a variety of ways. And three, extending the
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kingdom of God by his mercy, by his love and
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by his grace and his compassion. And of course,
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walking in the mandate. That is my calling. And
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from that calling, that's your calling. And from
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that calling come the other spiritual grace gifts
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that flow out of that because it's being empowered
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by the central theme of the high calling of God.
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Now. They're irrevocable. Not just gifts. He
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talks about the gifts and calling. Notice, the
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gifts are irrevocable, but the calling is irrevocable.
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Meaning that the moment you've given your life
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to God, the moment as a man, as a father, you've
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given your life to God, God deposited something
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in you that he will never take away from you.
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It means that it's come to you by the authority
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of the eternal father that has bound himself
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to say, I will never remove the calling of my
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inclusion of you in bringing my salvation, in
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bringing restoration and extending the kingdom
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through the nature of who I am. I call you to
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that. And as long as you live, that calling will
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remain upon your life. Whether you felt like
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you have been a failure, you've missed it as
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a father or a husband or a son, the reality is
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no devil in hell can take that calling because
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it's been given to you. Why? Because the father
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wants you to understand that your calling is
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connected not to your performance, but to his.
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And his nature as a good father is always trying
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to put on you the mantle of who he is to get
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it in you, on you, around you, no matter what
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you've done to begin to work those things through
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you. That's the nature of his tenacity. That's
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why it's irrevocable. Your calling's not revocable.
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You're connected to the eternal one. Your calling
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was not given to you by society. Yes, thank God.
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And that's why you can just go to those that
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seek to cancel your thought. You can cancel my
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thought all you want. You can't cancel the one
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who's irrevocable. He's eternal. Society didn't
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give it to you. Culture didn't give it to you.
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The government didn't give it to you. And the
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jury of your peers didn't give it to you. Your
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call is established in God, fixed and immovable.
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The Holy Spirit, if that wasn't enough, as Paul
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was writing to the Romans, he turned his attention
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to the Corinthian church and he brought this
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truth back out about calling. He said, I need
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you to consider your calling, brothers. 1 Corinthians
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1 .26, right in the beginning of the letter,
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before he would ever begin to adjust mindsets,
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before he would ever begin to get into any doctrinal
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issues of how to build the church, one of the
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very first things that he would lay out for all
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of the church to see is, You need to consider
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the weight, the authority, the irrevocable nature
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of what God calls your holy calling. It must
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be considered. It must be weighed. You see, Jesus
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uses that word considered quite a bit. When he
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says, when you go to war, Don't be like someone
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that doesn't consider anything. You must weigh
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and consider. Can I go the distance with 10 ,000
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men when 20 ,000 are against me? Meaning what?
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The consideration of what it's going to cost
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me and what I'm going to have to do to win this
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fight. is the same principle that Paul was trying
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to write by the Holy Spirit to stir men and godly
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men to be blessed men up to consider this incredible
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thing. In order to carry it, in order to carry
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it with how God designed us to carry it, we're
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going to have to consider it and weigh it against
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other options in life. If we're not mindful,
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If we're not aware of what our great calling
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is as a man or a father, we will lose the fullness
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of what is meant to be yours and what was meant
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to be your part in helping with God's salvation.
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Not that you can't save, we can't save anybody.
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God does it. But we get the opportunity to have
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the blessing. Blessed are the feet of those that
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bring the good news. He's not just talking about
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the feet. He's talking about the whole person.
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And a blessed man understands the incredible
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wealth and weight of carrying the message of
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his father. What's meant to be yours? What's
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meant to be in your family and your heritage?
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Paul, again, you notice that. The Holy Spirit
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through the Apostle Paul keeps picking this up.
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He talked about it to the Romans. He talked about
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it to the Corinthians. Now he's talking about
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it to the Ephesians and he writes it this way.
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I urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the
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calling to which you've been called. It means
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it must move past consideration. That there are
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deliberate actions and attitudes that must be
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embraced and translate into real living in this
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world. The calling, and this is where men, we
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have to change. The calling is not ethereal.
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It's not in the realm of somehow lived out in
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this theoretic sense. The calling is meant to
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be lived. in and out through your life on a natural
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plane. It's spiritual that lives natural, just
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like all the things that the enemy does bring
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spiritual and tries to live out through natural
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means. God has a calling that starts from him
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and is meant to live out naturally, spiritually
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through you. And if that wasn't enough, he moves
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to the Thessalonica, the church in Thessalonica
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and to the Thessalonica. He says, and to this
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end, we pray that our God would make you worthy
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of his calling and that you may fulfill, listen
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to the words, every resolve for good and every
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work of faith by his power so that the name of
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our Lord may be glorified in him according to
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the grace of our God and the Lord Jesus Christ.
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You see, our calling is never sustained. By self
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-sufficiency. Our calling is never sustained
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just surely by self -will and grit. The world
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comes up with icons like the Marlboro Man. Or
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Dos Equis. The most incredible, exciting man.
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That's not the nature of your calling to be on
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a cigarette or a beer commercial. Yeah, some
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of the wives are looking at their husbands right
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now. Are you hearing this? The reality is the
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most incredible calling is to be a man that has
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actually spent time in the Father's presence.
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Starts to sound like our heavenly father. Live
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like our heavenly father. Love like our heavenly
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father. Forgive like our heavenly father. Is
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generous with his wife, his children, and others
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like our heavenly father. And begins to think
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beyond himself like our heavenly father. That's
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our calling. See, it's God who makes us. It's
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God. our father who expands us. It's God, our
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father who should be leading us, strengthening
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us and transforming us. Our father should be
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working through us. And it is those kind of truths
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that how that works, that this is what happens.
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Our nation needs blessed men and fathers that
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look like our heavenly father more than ever
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before. Our community needs godly men. Our wives
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need godly men. Our children need godly men.
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Our church needs godly men. Our places of employment
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need godly men. Our community and every facet
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of leadership needs godly men. And my God, society
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and the world needs godly men. And I am convinced
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today, with all that is in me, the family unit
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and the church is going to survive the 21st century,
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then God is about to do something inside of men
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that will cause a blessing and will cause a father
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anointing that will begin to draw people, sons,
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daughters, world back to something that he's
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doing. Without getting too deep in it, that was
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the charge of the Old Testament right to the
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new. In that day, I will cause the spirit of
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Elijah to cause... The fathers to turn to the
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children and the children to the fathers. What
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we haven't understood is there was the beginning
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of that drawing. John picked up that anointing
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and prepared the way for Jesus. What the church
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hasn't realized is Jesus has started it and men
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are supposed to be joining on to it to begin
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to bring the hymn and the loop around for the
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drawing to happen. Jesus Christ in a godly man
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can begin to serve his wife and serve his children
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and that circle starts to happen where children
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are drawn to the heart of the father and the
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father's heart because the father's heart's been
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drawn to them. It won't take long between it
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starts to happen over and over and over. And
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here's what we are wanting to see as witnesses.
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The world will witness what we see when this
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begins to take place by godly men who are blessed
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men, who are blessed fathers, and that is families
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will begin to see other families stay together
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during crumbling times and they'll recognize
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something is different. They will witness a family
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thriving in the midst of tests. trials, unexpected
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accidents, even deaths and injury. And that will
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be an anomaly and a sign to them. They will witness
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families moving and making forward progress,
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even when economic opposition and all other things
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are pressed against them. And it will cause them
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to ponder and say, what do they have as a family
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that is different than what I've experienced?
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Think about this. If I was just to describe,
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there's probably one man in the scripture that
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I love studying his life, and he's a type and
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shadow of Jesus Christ. He lived in the Old Testament,
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but there's so many things that David was. I'm
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a King David guy. I love King David worship.
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I love a lot of the stories. I don't like the
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errors that he made. But I can identify with
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a lot of them. Just not the one, Jenny, wherever
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you're at. I don't identify with that. Stay away
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from the Bathsheba. Just take a shower. Hallelujah.
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All right. All right. All right. There's a little
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voice that says, where are you going to go now?
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All right. All right. What do we know about David?
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Well, David was a lawyer. David was a man's man.
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But David was a family man. He had responsibilities
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of wife and children. In fact, this was probably
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one of the areas in David's life where it produced
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his greatest failures. Like most men, David allowed
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other things to distract him from priority and
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attention that should have been given to his
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family, primarily his sons. David, on the good
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side, was a businessman. He was increasing in
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responsibility. He was a builder, not only a
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builder of of vision, but a builder of teams
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of people. If you study his life, one of the
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things that he was known for was he was a man
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of restoration. And if I think about what David
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did, David was involved in singing and worshiping
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and understanding the salvation of God, God's
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mercy and grace. He was involved in restoration
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and he was involved in extending territory of
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the kingdom. And so if I could pick a man, when
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I looked in the scriptures that understood these
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three avenues yet had areas in his life where
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there was real weakness, David was one of them.
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David was an administrator. David was visionary.
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David was a spiritual man. David was a leader
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in worship and prayer. David was a skilled musician.
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David set the pace of atmosphere, of understanding
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how important presence of God was to the health
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of not only his own family unit, but to the nation.
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David related to every person on his team. He
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could be with Baraselli, who was the million
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heir of his time, and he could relate to every
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person that followed him in the cave that was
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distressed and in debt. David experienced everything
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that we experience as men. And amid all of his
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imperfections, most of us can find something
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in David that we can relate to. But the truth
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is, all of us can recognize we see David's flaws.
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And yet, in David's failures and in David's flaws,
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God was able to use him for the advancement of
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all three things. The salvation, honoring of
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the salvation of God, the restoration process
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of what God wants for every person, and the extending
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of the kingdom. David carried that mantle as
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a man, not as a king, but as a man, because those
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things came to David, not in his kingship, but
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in his heart before the Lord. And his failures
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never revoked. The calling. I'm speaking to some
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men this morning. You've heard some lying voices
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that said your failures have revoked your calling.
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Whether it's been financial issues, immoral issues,
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integrity issues, addiction issues. Maybe it's
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been the fact that you've got like cane, itchy
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feet. You can't stay at anything. You're not
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diligent or haven't been. Whatever the shortcoming
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is, God cuts through all of the blanket of shame
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and fear and today speaks to you and says, my
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calling to you and me is irrevocable. I didn't
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take it off of you. Who took it off of you? It's
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the question you have to ask. Who told you? Same
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question that was in the garden. Who told you
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that? God's asking that question today among
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every man. Who told you that your calling was
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irrevocable? Or that your calling was revocable?
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My word and my voice and what I stepped on the
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inside of you the moment you came to me was.
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Your gifts and callings are irrevocable. We can
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walk with God. God does not ask for perfection.
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He's not looking for a perfect man. He is looking
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for a man who will look to a perfect father for
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direction. You see, Psalms 12, one through nine,
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we read it earlier. But listen to what the psalmist
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says. Blessed is the man who fears the Lord and
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greatly delights in his commandments. A father
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is blessed because he fears the Lord. The fear
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of God. Not scared of God. Hiding from God. That's
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not what fear means. It means there is a holy
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reverence and an awe and a respect. I'm gonna
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try not to get myself, man, we got a flood going
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on, hallelujah. Preaching the water right out
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of the tank, hallelujah. You have to understand,
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think about culture. You got all sorts of gangs.
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I mean, even in our baptism today, we got old
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gang bangers that aren't banging or ganging for
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the world anymore. You got kids hanging on the
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corner, you know, with their signs. Kind of look
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like they're having epileptic seizures. I mean,
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you know, I mean. You got people wearing, sorry,
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we're just getting, it's probably more me now
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talking than, but the reality is you have all
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of this stuff that everybody wants respect. You
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deal with prison culture. Anybody that's ever
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worked in prisons, everybody that's ever done
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prison ministry, it's all about the respect,
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man. You respect me and I respect you. Let me
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tell you something. It's not that kind of negative
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respect that God is looking for. It's an honor
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respect that's saying, you see all things, know
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all things, nothing's hidden from you and there's
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nothing to be improved on with you. I recognize
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that you are above it all. That's what it means
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when it says the fear of the Lord. And because
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you're above it all and you don't lord it over
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me or use it over me like, Are you kidding me?
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I've modeled this for you, David. Come on, man.
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Get this right. You'll never hear the Holy Spirit
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talk that way. Now, you might hear Pastor Derek
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talk. No, I'm just kidding. Okay, the reality
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is you'll never hear the Holy Spirit talk that
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way because he'll never put it on you that way.
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It may have been said that Many men do not have
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a healthy fear of God and they don't delight
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in his commands, but men with this kind of thinking,
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we come up far less and way short of what your
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calling is. Proverbs 1, 7 says this, the fear
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of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but
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fools despise wisdom and instruction. When a
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man fears God, and knows God's commands, not
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from just reciting them, but allows those truths
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of who he is, of his perfectness and his holiness
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and his love to get in our heart, that's what
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begins to make man blessed. Psalms 1 and 2 leads
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it this way. And you go ahead and just play a
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little something for me. Blessed is the man who
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does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or
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stand in the way of sinners, nor sit in the seat
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of scoffers, but his delight is in the law of
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the Lord. He meditates on it day and night. You
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see, that gives us an understanding what blessing
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is trying to be transferred to men. As I'm ending
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here, I want to focus on the middle of that Psalm,
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Psalm 112, just that last part, verses probably
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six and seven. Notice what it says, six, seven,
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a little bit of eight. It says this, for the
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righteous will never be moved. He will be remembered
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forever. He's not afraid of bad news, but his
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heart is firm in trusting the Lord. He's steady
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and not Not afraid of what's coming in the world.
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He's not afraid of God and pride keeping him
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from embracing who God is. A blessed man has
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learned that there is nothing in pride that honors
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him. It's the greatest lie of the enemy. Pride
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is the greatest lie. Somehow thinking it exalts
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you. When all it does, the scripture says, God
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puts down the proud, but he lifts up the humble.
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What's the humble man? The humble man, it doesn't
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mean he's just constantly bumbling around. Well,
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I'm just humble. I can't do anything. I can't
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even believe that God loves me. That's not humble.
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I wanted to say a few things, but I'm stopping.
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A humble man means he doesn't need to talk about
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himself. He doesn't need to list his qualifications.
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He doesn't need to bring a resume to every conversation.
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He recognizes that his counsel, his wisdom, his
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strength, the very thing that actually makes
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him comes from a father who's constantly pouring
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into him and he doesn't need to justify himself.
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He's already justified by the love and purpose
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of God. That's what makes him a blessed man.
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You know what happens? When we get that, what
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happens? Justifying stops happening in a marriage.
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Arguments over who's right stop happening. There's
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no more competition. Among sons and fathers because
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I'm not trying to relive my mistakes and what
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I wish I did in junior high and high school through
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the next generation. I'm not living with a competitive
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spirit. I'm actually living my life to see those
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that are connected to me flourish. Flourishing
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in my house. And flourishing in my friendships.
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And then finding people. That are connected to
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the one I love. My father. And his son. And those
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who say yes to him. I begin pouring in. And seeing
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them flourish. That's a blessed man. A blessed
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man. And a blessed father. creates an atmosphere
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for a blessed family. A blessed family has a
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blessed legacy. Blessed legacies mean that there
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have been witnesses to those families and to
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those blessings and people want to be connected
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to something that's thriving and is life -giving.
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Nobody sits on a ship that actually is set for
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destruction. You get on a ship manifest, Where's
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it going? Down to park next to the Titanic. Nobody's
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getting on that ship unless they're truly a moron.
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The spirit of moron, it's a Greek word. You're
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looking at the manifest of people's lives. You're
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going, why does that life look different? It's
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not because God has favorites. It's because Someone
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has tapped into what it means to receive a blessing
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and to know the blessing. I want to go to that
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last, last song. Can we do the last song? Awesome.
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Had a bunch of audibles. I'm not sure where I
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was going today. So we just gave a bunch of things.
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I want to pray for men. Fact is. Would you just
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bow your head and close your eyes for a moment?
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I'm speaking to all men and all fathers. Of course,
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sons, daughters, women are included in this,
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but men, I'm focusing on you today. Who told
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you your calling was revoked? It wasn't our father.
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Our father has a blessing for you. Our father
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has a blessing for you. You will never hear our
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father say, I've already given the blessing to
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someone else. I don't have anything for you.
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That's not who he is. He is the source. He is
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the author of all things. There is more of him
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than you could ever put your mind, hands, heart
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around. And I'm talking to you this morning,
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men, fathers, those that are later in life and
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those just starting out in life. If you have
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been lied to and you've tried to prove yourself
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by a resume of how you're trying to work yourself.
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prove yourself, live by your own strength, trying
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to argue, scratch, try to justify. Time is now
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to actually say, I'm done with that old lifestyle,
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and I'm coming to the Father that will erase
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my past and start brand new with me right now.
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That doesn't mean that... Maybe there's people
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in here this morning that need to start with
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just salvation. But for many of you, you already
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know your calling and that you love Jesus, but
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you have not walked in a blessing. It's time
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that God would begin to shift the mindset, shift.
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those lies and allow you to come to the one who
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is a blessing and you begin to live under that
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grace of his love and with humility and watch
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how God will begin to change the things around
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you. If that's you, I would love for you just
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right now. I know I'm doing a big ask on Father's
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Day. I'd like you just to get up from your seat
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right now. And just say, that's me. I've been
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living with a revoked calling. I've been modeling
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something that's not right. And I'm coming today
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for an exchange. Just come right now. Come right
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down and meet me right here. I am exchanging
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this. I'm coming to my Holy Father. And I'm going
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to receive a blessing. Wherever my kids are at
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in their journey, wherever my grandkids are at
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in the journey, wherever I am personally as a
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young man, I'm done trying to substantiate myself.
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Awesome. By my own justifications, by my own
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measurements, and I'm coming back to the Father
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above and saying, I'm coming back to the one
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who gives blessings. Come on. I'm coming back
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to the one who said his calling and his love
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and his blessings were irrevocable. And I'm exchanging
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now my way for his way. I want the legacy of
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my father upon my mind, upon my heart, and upon
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the fruit of my life. I will not be identified
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by my yesterdays. But I start my new identity
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today in Jesus' name. If I can have some men,
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you know, our elders, our staff, our prayer teams,
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all that have been trained, come, let's put a
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hand on these guys. Begin to pray. And for the
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rest of us, I want us to begin to sing this song
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as Stephanie and Sonny begin to just lead us
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in this song called The Blessing. Would you stand
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with me this morning? And this is what we believe.
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God is the author of every blessing. He's the
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author of every turnaround. He's the author of
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every success. Oh, Jesus, we come to that place
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of exchange now. We lay down the habits. We lay
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them down in Jesus' name. Every cycle, Lord,
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that's been destructive, we come for an exchange.
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Amen. 625 -1365 We would love to pray with you.