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Born For Danger // FEAR LESS (Part 1) // Charles Metcalf

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  1. Welcome to Transformation Church Podcast, where we represent God to

  2. the lost and found for transformation in Christ. We're so

  3. glad you're here and wherever you're listening from, we believe

  4. God will transform your life. Do today's message?

  5. All right? Are you all ready for the word today?

  6. Let's get to it. We're starting a brand.

  7. New series called Fearless, So everybody say Fearless. Oh yeah,

  8. this is about to be good, a cool thing if

  9. you don't know. I've got the opportunity every summer for

  10. the last six summers to preach.

  11. A series over the summer.

  12. And because during this time, our lead pastors, Pastors Michael

  13. and Natalie, take a sabbatical every single year to refresh,

  14. to reset, to get vision.

  15. Every time we come in January, we have a Word

  16. of the year.

  17. Pastor Michael spends this time praying and fasting and getting

  18. that word for the year. And so one, I'm just

  19. grateful for our pastors. And I always love the summer

  20. because it's just a fun, wild time.

  21. So one thing I'm gonna ask.

  22. You before we jump into this message is this summer,

  23. would you be praying for our pastors as they are away.

  24. Resting and resetting. You have no idea.

  25. The toll it is to lead a global movement and

  26. do all the stuff, just the regular stuff, just raising

  27. your kids, making Peter butter, jelly sandwiches, you know, just

  28. regular life stuff. Meanwhile, also pastoring and covering all of us.

  29. So if you make a commitment to pray for our pastors,

  30. can everybody just say I will?

  31. All right? All right, all right.

  32. So we're starting a brand new series called Fearless.

  33. And the truth is there's this old.

  34. Preacher saying that I heard a long time ago, which

  35. is study yourself full, pray yourself hot, and preach yourself empty.

  36. And I'm about to do all three. So just prepare

  37. your spirits. I have so much information to share with you.

  38. You literally yesterday and my wife will tell you I

  39. was in our room for like three hours studying neuroscience

  40. and your brain.

  41. And how it responds to danger and fears.

  42. So if we have a nerd moment together and you

  43. check out, it's all right.

  44. I won't even hold you to it.

  45. Just go back and listen to it. But we're gonna

  46. start off. We're gonna read Psalms fifty six, So if

  47. you got your Bible, will go to Psalms, chapter number

  48. fifty six, and we will read that scripture Psalm fifty six.

  49. If you got it, say I got it?

  50. Great? Three people. I love that Three people.

  51. Y'all are like, oh, it's just a rhetorical question.

  52. Now I'm away for you. We a beout to read God.

  53. There you go. I love the trickle in got it?

  54. Got it? Come on, some of y'all you just typing

  55. it into Google. Man, shouldn't take that long. Come on,

  56. you have to forgive us. We had a power outage

  57. today at like nine to fifty five. All the power

  58. shut out, and so we don't have the massive sky Bible,

  59. as I call it, the back screen. So you have

  60. to really read it for yourself and see if I'm

  61. telling the truth. Okay, here we go, Psalm fifty six,

  62. first number one.

  63. We'll go one through four.

  64. The Bible says, Oh God, have mercy on me, for

  65. people are hounding me. You ever had anybody hound you?

  66. Come on, I feel like my kids was hounding me yesterday. Jesus,

  67. I was yesterday almost had one of those you just

  68. stop like that.

  69. You've ever done that one? No? Just me okay?

  70. Now, literally it feels like my whole body gets electrocuted.

  71. I'm like, come on, calm down, stop it.

  72. Okay. My foes attack me all day long.

  73. I am constantly hounded by those who slander me, and

  74. many are boldly attacking me.

  75. Come on.

  76. It's one thing if they're trying to be passive aggressive,

  77. but it's some people are.

  78. Like, that's what you're gonna wear. Okay. It's those type

  79. of people that get you.

  80. First number three says, but when I am afraid, I

  81. will put my trust in you. I praise God for

  82. what he has promised. I trust in God. So why

  83. should I be afraid? One of the most gangster lines

  84. right here. What can mere mortals do to me?

  85. It's a gangster all right.

  86. Here's the title of today's sermon, week number one, Fearless.

  87. The title is write it down. Born for danger, Born

  88. for danger. I was born for danger.

  89. I don't know what you what's something?

  90. Tea?

  91. How you doing? My lower up? Vadis get to see you? Hey,

  92. I just recognize my friends. Okay, Ah, I was born

  93. for danger. Okay, all right, we're gonna pray.

  94. Lord, thank you that we are all born for danger,

  95. and Jesus that we pray.

  96. Everybody said, all right, now let's get into it. Here's

  97. the thing.

  98. I don't know if you know where you come from now,

  99. I'm not talking about like where you were born. I

  100. was born in Bowling Green, Kentucky. So I was raised

  101. Bowling Green one fifteen Clearview Avenue. That's where my grandma stayed.

  102. That's where we spent the summers. We was wilding out

  103. back in the day when they just used to get

  104. on your bike in the morning, come back, get food

  105. at noon, and then go back on your bike until

  106. the street light came on.

  107. That's how I grew up.

  108. Now, ain't no way my kids getting on the bike

  109. to go down the street.

  110. What you crazy?

  111. No, you pedaling the circle in this driveway? That's exactly

  112. abby is way more great that could be?

  113. Like can we go on the street. No, you can't

  114. go on the street. What a car run you over?

  115. A car will literally hit you and you will break

  116. your neck and I'm gonna have to take you.

  117. I say it exactly like that. They're like, yeah, they're

  118. not gonna break our neck. And so but I grew up.

  119. And here's what I'm trying to get at is everybody,

  120. you have something in you that didn't start with you,

  121. and it's kind of your genes and your makeup and

  122. your family of origin, and there's just stuff about your

  123. DNA that makes you who you are. I got four kiddos,

  124. and they all look and act like me and my

  125. wife in different ways.

  126. And the other night, I gotta tell you a story.

  127. This is last time O. The night before, we're.

  128. Sitting at the dinner table and we're going around and

  129. this is just a random family activity.

  130. We're making up jokes and.

  131. Riddles, just making them up on the spot, and people

  132. got a guess.

  133. I'm not gonna lie it. I was crushing it. I was.

  134. I was doing so well. I'll give you one right here.

  135. I'll see if I remember it.

  136. Well was uh, okay, what has I but no face?

  137. What has uh? What was it?

  138. Well?

  139. Runs but has no legs? And then what was the

  140. last one?

  141. I don't remember the last part, But.

  142. Anyways, anybody got a guess?

  143. A shoe eyelets on the shoe, runs but doesn't have legs,

  144. stinks and doesn't have a nose.

  145. Boom, That was it? Shoe. I'm great a riddles. Okay.

  146. Anyways, so we're doing riddles. Some of y'all get that.

  147. Next week that's how good that riddle was. Man, I've

  148. got so much time. Okay, uh, so we're doing riddles.

  149. Abby goes, Now, listen, here's the thing. We've all got

  150. our strengths. Clearly, I'm up here doing mine. So Abby goes.

  151. And I'm not saying the riddles aren't her strength, but.

  152. So Abby goes to do her riddle and we're all just.

  153. Staring at her like I don't even what are you?

  154. And the kids are doing this as well, and so

  155. we're like, you gotta add that state.

  156. She only had one identifier, she didn't even have three.

  157. It was just like, what is high but not low?

  158. I don't know what she said, but it was rains

  159. but no clouds. I don't even know.

  160. I still don't even remember what you said. See it's

  161. bad right now, it's bad. Then it was bad now

  162. she said it's a.

  163. Shower, rains but no clouds, a shower.

  164. Yeah.

  165. Oh okay, Yeah, that's how.

  166. I felt when she did it the first time. So

  167. but I promise I'm going to preach, but just wait.

  168. So she does that exactly how that just.

  169. Went, where y'all are like, what, I don't we do that?

  170. And Luna Rose Metcalf who has strong Metcalf DNA, and

  171. I mean that in her soul. She is a strong

  172. black woman in her soul. On the outside, she's blonde hair,

  173. blue eyes. Oh look, the screen's back.

  174. Okay.

  175. So but Luna, right when Abby says a shower, she goes,

  176. oh my gosh, that joke was so dumb.

  177. She said, this girl is so dumb.

  178. And unfortunately I busted out laughing early and I was like, Luna,

  179. you cannot say that.

  180. She's like, what that joke was so dumb?

  181. And I wish I could say she didn't get that

  182. from me.

  183. But she did, because that's what I thought when she

  184. said it. That is such a bad joke. But that's

  185. just looked like that came up out of her soul.

  186. She did. Ain't nobody teach her that, and she ain't.

  187. I'm not out out here, call up here. She just

  188. felt that. And what I'm getting at is there.

  189. Stuff that is in your lineage that only in the

  190. right circumstances will it present itself. And I want to

  191. let you know in case you don't know that the

  192. history of the church is.

  193. A people who were born for danger.

  194. Now I know this isn't something that we commonly talk

  195. about because we think we're just supposed to be in here,

  196. and we sing her songs. And then we got out

  197. in the world and we live very shy, quiet, don't

  198. interrupt anybody, don't be weird, don't be strange. And then

  199. we come back and we do our thing all over again.

  200. But this heritage of this movement started with people who

  201. could care less about danger because they knew where they

  202. were going when they died.

  203. And I am afraid the core element.

  204. That makes the church the church has gotten lost in

  205. the last two thousand years. The origin in this movement

  206. was not made in pews. It was made by people

  207. who were writing in prison saying they're.

  208. About to kill me.

  209. But before they do, let me tell you something. To

  210. live is Christ and to die is Gain, so they

  211. can take my life.

  212. You're born from danger.

  213. This was not born from just some cute little things

  214. that we do on the side. It was born from

  215. people like a young man named David. David's who we

  216. read in this scripture, who's a young shepherd boy and

  217. there's a giant who is attacking God's people, and he

  218. rolls up as a teenager while all of Israelites the

  219. best warriors are hiding.

  220. And he says, who is this and listen to how

  221. gangster this is? He says, who is this? Uncircumcised philistine?

  222. He really cooked that man.

  223. It's like God's up, but he rolls up on a

  224. giant kills him. Born from danger, Born from danger. God

  225. named Moses. Born from danger, goes up to Pharaoh call

  226. himself a god at the time. This is why God

  227. deals so harshly with Pharaoh, by the way, because some

  228. people have beef with like the ten plagues and like,

  229. oh my gosh, God, such a terrible god. No, Pharaoh

  230. was one of the only people in ancient times that

  231. compared himself and said I am a god.

  232. There is no other god. Did it? Wasn't the claim

  233. that they worshiped other gods.

  234. Pharaoh thought he was God. So God said, oh you

  235. think you are a god? Okay, bet, I'm gonna take

  236. your river, I'm gonna take your food, I'm gonna take

  237. your stuff. And just to remind you, nobody else, there's

  238. no other God like me. Born from danger, girl named

  239. Esther who rolls up on the king. Born from danger,

  240. you go to the New Testament. Born from danger, Jesus

  241. Born from Danger.

  242. Paul all the scriptures we love to read. He's writing

  243. from prison. They're throwing him in jail. He's about to

  244. get out. Born from Danger.

  245. There's apostles who they boiled them in hot oil and

  246. they wouldn't die. Ship them to an island. They won't die.

  247. Born from Danger. Early Church history, if you study early

  248. church history, there's a girl named Perpetua, and she's in

  249. the colosseum, like the Roman colosseum, and they tell her

  250. she's a high Let me give you the context. She's

  251. a high Roman official's daughter. She gets into the movement

  252. of Christianity, and to prove a point, they say, we

  253. don't care who your daddy is. We're killing all Christians.

  254. So they come to her and say deny your faith

  255. or will throw you in the colosseum or in the arena.

  256. She says, I'm sorry, I can't do that.

  257. So they take the government's daughter thrower in the arena.

  258. She's standing there. The gladiators are fighting. They stab her.

  259. She stands there, pulls the knife in a little closer

  260. and says, thank you.

  261. Now, help me reconcile that movement.

  262. With a bunch of people commenting back and forth in

  263. the comments.

  264. And that's supposed to be brave. That's what our faith

  265. has become. Our faith hasme.

  266. I come in here, I sing my songs, I go

  267. argue on the internet. Nobody at work knows I'm saved.

  268. I don't want to be too weird. And now I'm

  269. a part of the same movement. Baby, No, no, don't no.

  270. Not the same thing. Not the same thing. You were

  271. born from danger. Now, when I originally said that, some

  272. of you had issue with that because because you think danger, Like, bro,

  273. we're supposed to.

  274. Be Oh, what's happening where y'all lefting at?

  275. Sermon title goes here? Yeah, hey, give us a second.

  276. We had a power outah. But when I said born

  277. from danger, some of you are are danger adverse.

  278. You're like, I don't mess with danger. We don't do danger.

  279. Why because as a kid, we are all reminded and

  280. think if.

  281. It's dangerous, we don't want to do it. Because y'all

  282. want to do dangerous things. Because when you're afraid, it's

  283. because it's dangerous.

  284. My daughter Blue, she was on the back of the couch,

  285. standing on it. They're jumping off. We clearly have no

  286. rules in our house. We gave up rules a long

  287. time ago.

  288. And they're standing on the couch, they're.

  289. Jumping off, and Sonny, she's thinking, I cannot jump, I

  290. might fall. So the assumption is it's dangerous, you don't

  291. want to do it. And here's the connection. Many believers

  292. and many people think, if I want to have less fear,

  293. I need to have less danger in my life. That's

  294. how you control your fear, because things are dangerous make

  295. you afraid.

  296. But here's what I can't reconcile.

  297. Why would the marker of our movement being God calling

  298. us to do dangerous things? Things meaning like all of

  299. jesus friends were murdered because they, like Stephen stoned to

  300. death for his faith.

  301. So clearly dangerous, clearly and over three hundred times the

  302. Bible says, do not be afraid.

  303. Why is it the mark of our faith is for

  304. us to live a dangerous life, meaning dangerous relationally, because

  305. we're not connected. Dangerous in how we live, dangerous in

  306. taking risk, dangerous and starting things people.

  307. Won't start, standing up. When people won't stand up.

  308. We are called to live a dangerous life, and he

  309. calls us not to be afraid. Here's the connection. I

  310. want to say, this will kind of act as like

  311. a core point, and then I'm gonna We're gonna go

  312. through the Bible. Here's the idea. Danger is inevitable. Fear

  313. is optional.

  314. Danger is inevitable.

  315. There is something in your life that will be quote

  316. unquote dangerous.

  317. What do I mean by that.

  318. I'm not talking about evil caneval I'm talking about in

  319. some theory, it'sous to get married because you don't know

  320. if you could trust that person, so you don't know

  321. how it's gonna go. You in theory, is dangerous to

  322. try to have friends because you don't.

  323. Know if they'll be with you or they'll a bandy.

  324. It's dangerous to have kids because what if something happens

  325. and it goes wrong. It is dangerous to do I'm

  326. talking about there is danger in life.

  327. But you being afraid is optional. You have the choice

  328. whether you want to be afraid or not.

  329. Now I know it's like, what do you What does

  330. this man say?

  331. Okay, let's go. We all ready for the nerd part

  332. of the sermon.

  333. Okay, she said, we'll try I love that. Okay, here's

  334. the thing. Uh, there's a scientist, neuroscientist named Joseph. I'll

  335. spare his last name because I mispronounce it. Every Diman

  336. said for the last forty years, he's stead of your brain.

  337. Here's how people traditionally understand fear. Fear happens in your amygdala,

  338. which is your reptile brain, just instincts. That's what people understood.

  339. When you're afraid. Your brain says, oh my gosh, we're terrified.

  340. Palm sweat, heart races, adrenaline, and you do a couple

  341. of things fight, flight or freeze. There's a new in

  342. the added fawn, which is like people pleasing. Is anybody

  343. ever heard of this fight or flight? Anybody just heard

  344. that term? Okay, So that's how people understand fear. When

  345. you're afraid, your body immediately goes into that thing because

  346. it sense is danger. Here's what his research has been

  347. proven over the last forty years that your body processing

  348. danger and you being afraid are two totally separate things.

  349. You can be in danger and not be afraid.

  350. Here's what fear is. Fear is not just the awareness

  351. of danger. It's the awareness that it's happening to you.

  352. Here's what I mean by that.

  353. If you go into the woods and the bushes.

  354. Rustle, danger. Your brain's gonna.

  355. Go whoa hold up, Hey, what is that?

  356. What are we doing?

  357. Boom, heart rate spipes, your palms start sweating, and you

  358. go into one of three.

  359. Some of you are like, I'm about to fight a bear.

  360. Some of you all like I'm running.

  361. Some of y'all freeze and you don't even realize what's happening.

  362. That's the danger part. So danger is information. Fear is

  363. the meaning you assigned to that information.

  364. Danger says something's gonna happen. I need a run.

  365. Your brain says it's a bear. It's gonna eat me.

  366. I'm gonna die. And when the bear eats me, I'm

  367. gonna die. Then who's gonna take care of my kids?

  368. And then I'm gonna do? And then anxiety is you

  369. continuing to build out that scenario. I'm really trying to

  370. help you because this is gonna all click danger, this

  371. is this is strange. I don't know how this feels.

  372. Fear says, yeah, but let's make up a story about

  373. that that includes our involvement.

  374. Now we're gonna go to our scripture.

  375. I promise it is all gonna come together at the end,

  376. because you're all staring at me like I stared at

  377. my college teacher when I went for one month and bailed.

  378. But we're gonna do it. Here's the thing we're in

  379. Psalms fifty six. The context of this, which is important

  380. for you to know. He's writing this, my foes are

  381. attacking me. I'm getting hounded, but I won't be afraid.

  382. The context is Samuel twenty one, the story of David.

  383. He's on the run from a guy named Saul. All

  384. you need to know about that saw hates him. He's

  385. on the run. Guess where he runs to. He runs

  386. to Goliath's hometown. So the guy he killed, y'all remember

  387. he slung the thing bam, knocked the guy down.

  388. He runs to his enemy's hometown and is.

  389. Hiding because he's terrified he's gonna get killed. That's what

  390. Sosng fifty six is. So when he's riding, my foes

  391. are attacking me. I'm scared. He is in his enemy's hometown, terrified.

  392. And here's what the Bible says.

  393. This is hilarious to be because when you picture him

  394. writing this scripture, you don't picture this part. But the

  395. Bible says, in order for the king not to kill him.

  396. He starts acting crazy. Y'all don't know this, okay, let

  397. me read it to you. Let me read it to you.

  398. Let me read it to you. Let me read it

  399. to you. Let me read it to you. Hold on,

  400. where's it at? Samauh okay? First, sam of yo, look

  401. at this.

  402. So David escaped from Saul and went to the king

  403. of Gath as Goliath. You see the connection there. But

  404. officiers were unhappy about this. Isn't David the king of

  405. the land.

  406. Isn't he the one that people were honoring with dances, singing?

  407. Saul has killed this stout. David's tens of thousands. Come on,

  408. somebody all heard that. Remember the named David, y'all? Remember

  409. that that's what that is. David heard these comments and

  410. was so afraid, so he pretended to be insane, scratching.

  411. On doors and drooling down his beard. So I get

  412. the picture. I can't not pass this.

  413. He's literally like when when my enemies.

  414. Are attacking it.

  415. He's acting crazy, y'all thinks is as funny as I

  416. think this for this is hilarious. Superhero David is acting

  417. insane because he's in a dangerous situation. But here's the

  418. proof of the neuroscience. He says, I can be in

  419. a dangerous situation, meaning I'm in the enemy's camp and

  420. they're about to kill me. Yet when I am I

  421. will not be afraid. When I am in danger, I

  422. will not be afraid. Here's all I'm trying to say

  423. to you. Danger in your life, however you interpret that.

  424. I'm not talking about driving fast. I'm not talking about

  425. doing something stupid. I'm talking about whatever you interpret as risk,

  426. whatever you interpret as a threat.

  427. Some of you, it feels dangerous to.

  428. Actually step out and start the business God calls you

  429. to start.

  430. Some of you.

  431. The honest truth of why you're single is because it

  432. feels dangerous to trust somebody because you saw your parents marriage.

  433. So you cover it like, oh, I can't sing, I

  434. can't find the right person. The truth is you're terrified

  435. to commit the danger of being the only different one

  436. in your family. You were raised in a completely different religion,

  437. you were raised in a completely secul their environment, and

  438. it feels dangerous to actually claim your faith. The danger

  439. at your job actually standing up for your faith, the

  440. danger of God tells you to pray for somebody, and

  441. you go up to them and you just pray for them.

  442. The danger of.

  443. At your school starting a Bible study, whatever you interpret

  444. as danger, it's inevitable. But you do have a choice

  445. on whether you're afraid or not. Here's here's the idea

  446. with fearless. The goal is not for you to be fearless. Actually,

  447. fearless would would low key be idiotic. Let me just

  448. explain this for a second. If you go into the

  449. woods you see a bear, it's not the time.

  450. To be fearless. I'm fearless. I'm gonna fight this bear.

  451. No, you're gonna We're gonna be praying for your family

  452. because you're gonna be gone. Man, you don't need to

  453. be fearless, But because of Jesus, you have the option

  454. to fear less than other people. You do not have

  455. to live your life afraid. And here's the summation of

  456. of this sermon series. I wrote a book, God Chose Me.

  457. Here's the connection. What good is it if God chose you?

  458. If you are too afraid to do what He chose

  459. you for? So here's the that's really the whole sermon.

  460. When we spend a lot of time God Chose Me.

  461. That's just to get you confident, secure, you know your love,

  462. you know you're but you can be chosen and still

  463. never do what He chose you to do. You can

  464. be valued by God, love by God, secure in God,

  465. and live your whole life afraid of what people think

  466. about you, Afraid of losing something, afraid of how your

  467. life's gonna turn out, afraid of risk.

  468. So you live your whole life loved, but.

  469. Never actually living, secure in your faith, but never actually

  470. stepping out. And what I'm trying to get at in

  471. this sermon and really in this series is you will

  472. never experience the fullness of the life God has for

  473. you until you stop letting your fear control your life.

  474. You have to stop letting fear control your life. And

  475. I know traditionally we're like, oh, I'm not afraid, there's

  476. no us. But what I'm talking about over the next

  477. couple weeks, we're gonna talk about four core fears.

  478. Here's my theory.

  479. Everybody in this room, there's one of four fears that

  480. you have. It's the fear of man, which is what

  481. a people think about me.

  482. Your whole life.

  483. It boils down to what a people think about me.

  484. How do I know because you're doing people pleasing, so

  485. you don't say stuff you really want to say because

  486. you're afraid of what they think. You don't do what

  487. you want to do because you're afraid with You don't

  488. go where you want to go, because you're so everybody.

  489. It's either the fear of man, it's the fear of loss,

  490. what if I lose what I love?

  491. How do I know that one?

  492. Because you're usually a little controlling. I don't want to

  493. lose my kids, so I control them. I don't want

  494. to lose my money, so I can.

  495. I don't want to.

  496. I don't want to, so I'm afraid of losing, so

  497. I control.

  498. The fear of man, the fear of loss, the fear

  499. of failure, what if I don't have what it takes.

  500. I understand this one because if you struggle with this one,

  501. you'll act like you don't want to do stuff that

  502. you really want to do, and you'll be like, oh, no,

  503. I could have, but I just didn't want to know.

  504. The truth was you were terrified you were going to fail.

  505. So you never started.

  506. The fear of man, the fear of loss, the fear

  507. of failure, and this last one, the fear of inadequacy.

  508. What if there's something fundamentally broken with me? All of

  509. your fears, We'll go down into one of those. You're

  510. afraid of what people will think, you're afraid of if

  511. you do it, you won't have.

  512. What it takes. You're afraid that something on the inside

  513. of you is broken, or you're afraid if you try

  514. you'll lose something. So what do we do.

  515. I'm gonna shortcut the next four weeks, so I'll probably

  516. have to rewrite the next four sermons. But when you

  517. replace all of those fears, not to remove them. I

  518. hate to inform you to this. God doesn't want.

  519. You to remove those fears.

  520. You have to replace them.

  521. Okay, I am this. Okay, here we go. There's two

  522. types of fear in the Bible.

  523. And I'll save you a lot of my nerd stuff

  524. because I can see you guys aren't tracking today. I

  525. don't know what it is. I mean, you need to

  526. sleep better next week because you're not tracking. And it's okay,

  527. but don't come back here like this next week.

  528. Lock in. Come on, I do this every time I preach.

  529. You're like, what no, but you're thinking caps on? Come

  530. on now, two types of fear. I'll save you all

  531. the boring Hebrew. One type of fear is oh like,

  532. oh no. The other type of fear is all like,

  533. oh my gosh. There's a difference. There's oh no, what's

  534. gonna happen? Then there is the awe of something. So

  535. when you have the fear of man, which is, oh no,

  536. what do they think about me? When you have the

  537. fear of losing, of what's gonna happen? When you have

  538. to you have to replace that fear with a different fear.

  539. This is where the scripture calls the fear of God.

  540. Here's how you replace these fears. One fear says, what what.

  541. Am I going to do?

  542. And what do they think about me? What if they

  543. don't accept me if I do this? Here's a better

  544. fear to replace. That is what if you spend your

  545. whole life being loved for someone you never were. I

  546. see your fear, I'll raise you a better one. What

  547. if I don't have what it takes? What if you do,

  548. but you were so afraid to try you never found out.

  549. What if they think I'm weird?

  550. What if your prayer worked and their family line was changed,

  551. but we don't know because you never did it. God

  552. is not asking you, oh, I'm just gonna take all

  553. these away. No, I want to give you a better fear,

  554. which is when you fear and you are in reverence

  555. of me. Not fear like you're terrified, not fear like

  556. oh God, he's gonna hurt me, but a fear that

  557. understands my dad can handle this.

  558. There's a different type of this. I was talking. I'll

  559. never forget this.

  560. I was having a conversation with Belle and Avia pastor Michael,

  561. the two daughters, and randomly they'll come over to our

  562. house after church, and I was wearing a hoodie and

  563. it said fear of God.

  564. She's like, what does that actually mean?

  565. And I was like, you know, how like if you

  566. in a troubling situation, like maybe something's going on, your

  567. fault is oh, if.

  568. I go get my dad, this is going dad. I say,

  569. you know that feeling, but you also know when Dad

  570. saying Isabella.

  571. You also know like, hey man, lock in, but you're

  572. not scared, but you are a little like, hey.

  573. Let's lock in.

  574. There's this beautiful place with God where you know you're loved,

  575. So you're not afraid in that regard, but you do

  576. understand he is God, and this is a beautiful place

  577. to understand of God.

  578. Job learns this place of God in the Bible.

  579. Job is complaining because God stuff's happening in his life,

  580. and he's like, God, why are you doing this?

  581. Why are you doing that? Blah blah blah blah, And

  582. so Job kind of.

  583. Starts firing back off at God, and God kind of

  584. just lets him do his thing, and then God kind

  585. of crosses over into the fear of God. Said, He says, okay, Job,

  586. real quick, brace yourself like a man. Where were you

  587. when I put Leviathan in the ocean? Where were you

  588. when I hung the stars in the sky?

  589. Where?

  590. And this is God flexing saying, hey, before you get

  591. out of a lineman start demanding stuff from me, just

  592. remind yourself that's my breath you got right there. I'm

  593. the one keeping your heartbeat right now. So just calm down,

  594. all right, We're gonna get out of here.

  595. We're gonna close this thing down.

  596. Here's what we're gonna do. Man's first fear. We'll shut

  597. it down. Go ahead and send the keys because we're

  598. gonna get out of here.

  599. I'm serious.

  600. What come on, man, y'all expecting me to be way

  601. too professional up here.

  602. Y'all gonna really have to okay, Man's first fear. Adam

  603. and Eve are in the garden.

  604. God creates everything, perfect, perfect, beautiful. They have purpose, not

  605. having to strive for anything, not having to make anything happen.

  606. Everything is perfectly provided for them where they are. And

  607. the Bible tells us that Adam and Eve. We don't

  608. get this directly, but it's an inference based off of

  609. what happens in Genesis chapter three. The snake comes to

  610. the woman, Hey, why don't you eat from that tree?

  611. And the woman goes back and forth. She's like, I

  612. don't know.

  613. We're gonna die if we touch it, which is interesting

  614. because God didn't say you'll die if you touch it.

  615. He said you die if you eat it. Which the

  616. thread of this is humans love to add on to

  617. what God said, and when you start adding on to

  618. what God said, it always gets you in trouble. That's

  619. just a separate little bit there.

  620. She touches the apple.

  621. The Bible tells us they both suddenly are aware that

  622. they're naked.

  623. They've always been naked, but all of a sudden.

  624. They take off running and they sew up fig leaves

  625. and cover themselves up.

  626. The Bible tells us in Genesis three.

  627. That Adam heres God walking in the cool of the day. Now,

  628. this is so interesting and the language is just beautiful

  629. here because the original.

  630. Hebrew word is the same word for spirit. It's ruach.

  631. And this word when the Bible says that the spirit

  632. of the Lord was hovering above the waters, it's the

  633. same word that means they hear the wind of God

  634. coming through the trees.

  635. This is the language.

  636. The garden starts rustling, and they can't see anything yet,

  637. and they don't feel anything yet, but they feel this noise.

  638. And here's what happens. What does your body start doing?

  639. Well before this moment, they would have ran to that noise.

  640. Why because fear is not a part of the picture

  641. at this point. Fear is nowhere to be found. So

  642. when the bushes start rustling, I know who's there. I

  643. know my father's there. I know I'm safe here. I

  644. know I'm secure here. But what does the Bible? The

  645. Bible says that they sowed fig lees and God.

  646. Can't find them. Adam and Eve, where are you?

  647. When God asked a question, he's not asking for himself

  648. he's asking for you.

  649. Do you know where you are?

  650. And the Bible says they come out and this is

  651. the first mention of the word fear in human history.

  652. I'm sorry God, I was. I was afraid because I

  653. was naked, and so I hid. Now, if I'm God,

  654. I'm thinking, thank God, I'm not God. But as I

  655. read the story, I'm thinking, what you mean, you afraid

  656. because you was naked?

  657. You always naked.

  658. Why of a sudden you always been naked, but all.

  659. Of a sudden, now you're scared to be naked. Then

  660. here's what I realized.

  661. And if maybe you were a little more locked in,

  662. I would explain the science to you, but we can't

  663. go there this week.

  664. But it blew my mind.

  665. I thought this was true based off my reading, praying,

  666. and studying of the scripture. Then I spent five hours

  667. studying science, and science confirms your brain understands your fear

  668. this exact same way. And here's the idea. Fear is

  669. what happens when your self awareness outpaces your God awareness.

  670. Fear is what happens up until this point. They're not

  671. self aware, they're not self.

  672. Conscious, they are naked and free, They're not insecure. They're

  673. not worried. They're not afraid of what people think. They're

  674. not afraid of how they look. What does Adam think

  675. about me? What does she think about me? Did I

  676. name this animal?

  677. Right?

  678. Am I doing? They're not aware of that? Why because

  679. their self awareness is so low and their God awareness

  680. is so high that they can't even have time to

  681. think about themselves.

  682. But when does fear show up?

  683. Fear shows up when you start thinking about you more

  684. than you're thinking about God. So you start thinking, I

  685. can't raise these kids, How am I gonna do it?

  686. And what happens if the thing goes out?

  687. And what happens if the business doesn't work out, and

  688. what happens if I can't take it?

  689. And what happens if they don't love me? And what

  690. happens if they leave?

  691. And what happens is But when you will stop for

  692. one second and remind.

  693. Yourself, I don't have to think about me. It's not

  694. my breath in my body.

  695. This wasn't my idea, this isn't my church. These aren't

  696. my children, this isn't my plan. If it was up

  697. to me, I would have been dead and gone a

  698. long time ago. But thanks be to my God, who's

  699. keeping me alive, who's put breath in my body, who

  700. takes care of my children, who bottles up every one

  701. of my tears.

  702. You want to know why you're afraid.

  703. Is because you underestimating God and you're overestimating yourself. You're

  704. thinking about what you would do in this situation. And

  705. let me tell your friend, you don't having to raise

  706. the kids. That's why you're afraid, because.

  707. You know you. I was having a friend with a

  708. conversation with a.

  709. Friend and we were talking about raising kids, and her

  710. kid is going to high school, and she said, because

  711. I'm thinking about what I was doing when I was

  712. that age, and if they're doing what I was doing,

  713. we're all cooked. Please don't be doing what I was

  714. doing when I was doing what I was doing.

  715. And that's what fear is. Fear is God says, start

  716. the business. And instead of thinking of.

  717. The fact that an eternal, infinite, not bound by omnipresent,

  718. omniscient God is talking to you bowl of dust with

  719. his lungs in it. Instead of thinking about that, you

  720. think about, well, I hang out no money.

  721. Wait. Wait, the guy who.

  722. Spoke the stars has taken an idea out of heaven

  723. and handed it to a bucket of dust on borrowed

  724. breath who he saved because he wanted to when you

  725. were not thinking about him. And you want to talk

  726. about made up green pieces of paper that we've assigned

  727. as how we do what we do or not? Oh

  728. my gosh, I think we've got an out of order. Hey,

  729. I need you to go up and pray for that person.

  730. But God, what if they think I'm weird?

  731. Wait? Wait, wait, wait a second. That it can't be.

  732. That can't be what we're thinking about. That can't be.

  733. God can't be trying to somehow supernaturally speak to you

  734. about someone you've never met and giving you a prophetic

  735. word or a word of knowledge from heaven that Susky

  736. has opened up and.

  737. Imparted into your spirit.

  738. Go tell them, no matter what people say, they are loved.

  739. But God, what if that's weird? And what if that's strange?

  740. You have no idea that their parents spent their whole

  741. life tearing them down, and instead of having God use

  742. you and passed through you and prove to you and

  743. them that He is real, we're over you're thinking, But

  744. what if it's weird? And what if it's strange, and

  745. what if I'm wrong? And if what if? What if

  746. God is God? Let's go down that road for a second.

  747. What if it's not an accident? What if it's not

  748. just a happenstance. This is why it baffles me people

  749. arguing that the whole universe is there was a random

  750. explosion and your life is just chance.

  751. I will, let's let's go down that road.

  752. I don't know about the whole God thing because the

  753. seven days of creation, I don't. I'm not arguing that.

  754. But you're telling me that your whole life is an accident.

  755. It's just a random explosion, and you know, explosion monkeys us.

  756. That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. That's so dumb.

  757. And I love you if you believe that, I do.

  758. I love you, and it's dumb. It's dumb.

  759. What if.

  760. Outside of time there was a God who.

  761. Was like, Okay, I got I gotta I got everything,

  762. or got the trees, I got the fish, I got

  763. the But there's something there's something I need, There's something missing,

  764. there's something missing where there's nobody to enjoy all of this,

  765. and I need to. What if he was thinking about

  766. you back then, you don't ever think about that, because

  767. he's all knowing and he stands outside of time.

  768. Chance is three. He's thinking about you.

  769. He starts with Adam, but he's thinking about you.

  770. And the whole story of man.

  771. Is God trying to invite us into an impossible life

  772. and us being so terrified of what the other created

  773. piles of dust think about us.

  774. Come on, just do it. But what if they come on?

  775. Just trust me, What if they come on, you can

  776. do it.

  777. I don't know if I can't. And God is begging

  778. and pleading, just like.

  779. He did in a dangerous situation where there was a

  780. storm and.

  781. The disciples are on a boat and it's obviously dangerous,

  782. but someone in the boat realized I can be in

  783. a dangerous situation.

  784. But fear is a choice. And if I look out

  785. on the water and that man that called.

  786. Me when I was nobody says, step out of this boat,

  787. what business do.

  788. I have sitting in this boat listening to you? And

  789. here's the thing Peter always gets so much flack.

  790. Peter couldn't keep his eyes off Jesus. He couldn't keep

  791. his eyes on Gee. He didn't, he didn't. I mean,

  792. if that's what it's a problem. You got to keep

  793. your eye. That's the problem. You've you've never got out

  794. of your boat.

  795. Who are you talking You've You've never gotten out of

  796. a boat ever in your life.

  797. You've never don't come over here talking to me. You've

  798. never gotten out of a boat.

  799. And here's here's my plea is we will read this book,

  800. believe this book, but then not live how the people

  801. were reading lived. Think the book's broken, and leave your faith.

  802. But you can't.

  803. Extract the message from the method. So you can't take

  804. out the boldness that Paul walks with when he says,

  805. before I was born, God chose me. You can't just

  806. extract that and put it on a T shirt and

  807. not be willing to go to jail for what you believe.

  808. And I'm not talking about, oh, it's proof that you

  809. love God because you go to jail. Know what I'm

  810. saying is, if you're arguing with praying for a friend,

  811. you're a.

  812. Little disconnected from what he meant.

  813. If you're worried about what people are gonna think when

  814. you say I'm gonna I'm gonna quit this and I'm

  815. gonna step into this, that's crazy.

  816. Why would you do that.

  817. If if he's asking you to do it, just I

  818. promise you it's worth it. I promise, I promise, I promise,

  819. I promise you don't have to be so afraid. So

  820. I'm twenty seven. I read it when we started. Somehow

  821. I'm sweating so much. These glasses are fogging. I don't

  822. even know how that happened. The Lord is my light

  823. and my salvation. So what am I afraid of? Here's

  824. what he's saying.

  825. When it gets dark, I got a light, and when

  826. I die, I'm with him. What I need to be

  827. afraid for.

  828. You know, that's the only really like ace car we got.

  829. The whole idea is supposed to be, we live so

  830. boldly because we know the thing that humans are terrified

  831. of the most dying we ain't.

  832. Got to be afraid of.

  833. That's really supposed to That's the central idea of this

  834. whole message. You being salvage the salvation of your soul

  835. is supposed to produce boldness on the earth because you

  836. know my.

  837. Eternity is secure, so I can live how I need to.

  838. Right here, I prayer.

  839. For everybody is that whatever you have deemed too dangerous,

  840. whatever you have deemed too much of a risk.

  841. The thing you want to do but you're afraid to

  842. do because what.

  843. People might think if you do it.

  844. That thing.

  845. All I'm saying is is if you get out the boat,

  846. we do have proof you can walk on water. We

  847. do have proof. If you start the business, there's proof

  848. it can work. If you work on your marriage, there's

  849. proof God can restore. If you share your faith, there's

  850. proof God can use it. And I just don't want

  851. to get to the end of my life with a

  852. bunch of man I wonder when would have happened. If so,

  853. here's what I do. I'm gonna pray, and here's what

  854. I'm gonna pray for. I'm gonna pray that God would

  855. allow us in the next seven days, next seven days too,

  856. by any minuscule amount, become less aware of ourselves and

  857. more aware of Him, just any point zero zero one percent,

  858. if we could just a little bit less aware of

  859. our faults are fit and a little more aware of Him.

  860. And here's the thing. Your self awareness, or your awareness

  861. in general, it grows by what you give your attention to.

  862. So what I give my attention to is what I

  863. become aware of.

  864. Me and a friend. We're joking.

  865. But the New York Knicks won the finals.

  866. And his go next and his awareness.

  867. I don't know what happened to his, But his algorithm

  868. is only the videos of the eighteen easy crackhead Knicks

  869. fans that are beating up people. It is terrible, completely terrible.

  870. I ain't seen that. All I see is New y'all,

  871. New y'all, like people are singing in the streets and flying.

  872. But you know, your algorithm is just a reflection of

  873. your attention.

  874. So there's also my friends algonam.

  875. He's got videos of health and fitness and all these

  876. everything that I don't have, because when I give more

  877. attention to.

  878. It shows me more of your life. Works the same way.

  879. If you give more attention to God, you see more

  880. of it. If you give more attention to His goodness,

  881. you see more of it. If you give more attention

  882. to hope, you see more of it. If you give

  883. more attention to the grace of God, you see more

  884. of it. If you give more attention to.

  885. The generosity of God, you see more of it. This

  886. is why you can't trust everybody that tells you that

  887. the world is terrible and it's bad. And we're all cooked.

  888. That's what they're giving attention to.

  889. But as for me and my house, what I see

  890. is it's darker, and that means the light is even brighter.

  891. There's never been a better time for the church to

  892. stand up.

  893. There's never been a better time for truth and goodness.

  894. Everybody's standing all over this room. I'm gonna pray for

  895. you that you will become more aware of God and

  896. less aware of your self.

  897. Every head bow, every eye close.

  898. Lord, Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you,

  899. thank you for thinking about us, for thinking about us.

  900. You think about us an eternal God, a gracious God,

  901. a God with no start and no end.

  902. We are on your mind.

  903. So much so that you invite us into your plan,

  904. so much so that you invite us into your plan

  905. and equip us and empower us for the plan.

  906. You gave us.

  907. Now what I'm asking, would you help us get our

  908. eyes off ourself and our eyes on you, Our eyes

  909. off our deficiencies and our eyes on you, Our eyes

  910. off our insecurities and our eyes on you.

  911. May we become more aware of you.

  912. The every head bowed, every eye close. Before we get

  913. out of here, If you're in the room, and you've

  914. never accepted Jesus as your Lord and savior. If you're

  915. watching online, you've never accepted Jesus as your Lord and savior.

  916. This is the ultimate moment of God awareness. It is

  917. you realizing I will always be afraid as long as

  918. I'm the source of my strength. I will always be

  919. insecure as long as I am the source of my future.

  920. But when you realize there is a God who loves you,

  921. who cares about you, who has a plan for you, you

  922. can surrender your life to his will. You can have

  923. a fresh start and a new source of hope.

  924. And his name is Jesus.

  925. If you want to accept Jesus today, in this room

  926. or online, every every eye close, I'm gonna count to three,

  927. and if you want to accept Jesus, I'm gonna ask

  928. you to bravely, boldly raise your hand. It's a brand

  929. new start for you today. The Bible says that he

  930. who knew no sin became sin so that we might

  931. become the righteousness of Christ. I'm gonna count the three

  932. and if you want to accept Jesus as your Lord

  933. and savior, I'm gonna ask you to boldly raise your hand.

  934. One he loves you.

  935. Two.

  936. Today is the day of salvation. Don't wait another day.

  937. Three right now in this room online, shoot your hand

  938. up boldly, raise it high, don't apologize, don't worry about nobody.

  939. I got you, sister. I see you right here, right here,

  940. so proud of you. I got you a family right there,

  941. a mom and a son together.

  942. Come on, what are we talking about? Beautiful?

  943. I got you over here, brother, So proud of you,

  944. so proud of you.

  945. I see you, sister, so proud of you.

  946. Hey, everybody out loud, together as a family.

  947. Let's pray together. Everybody say, Dear God, thank you for

  948. loving me.

  949. I admit I've made mistakes. I need you save me,

  950. change me, transform me. I'm yours and Jesus same. I

  951. pray Amen. Hey, can we celebrate and cheer for people

  952. who just decided to give their life to Jesus. Hey, listen,

  953. if you just made that choice, best choice you could

  954. ever make. I would encourage you to text the word

  955. save to the number that comes up on the screen. Also,

  956. tell somebody, just somebody in your row. Hey, I raised

  957. my hand and it was me.

  958. I don't even know.

  959. I'm just new, but to tell somebody and if somebody

  960. tells you, here's the first rule, don't be weird.

  961. Second rule, give them a hug, tell them you love them,

  962. encourage them. But we're so.

  963. Grateful for you and so happy of what God is

  964. doing in your life. Hey, listen, over the next couple

  965. of weeks, I really believe God's gonna help us to

  966. walk out of fear and into a beautiful life, and

  967. so I would encourage you join us.

  968. Every single week is gonna be amazing. But I want

  969. to take a moment.

  970. I'm gonna pray for you, and if you need prayer

  971. for anything at all, some of our prayer team is

  972. gonna be.

  973. Up here at the front. There's nothing too big, nothing

  974. too small.

  975. But we want to agree with you in prayer and

  976. just agree and believe with you for.

  977. What you're believing for. But I worship team's gonna sink.

  978. You can feel free to stay in worship or you

  979. can head out. But got to thank you for who

  980. you are.

  981. Thank you for your grace, for your love, for your mercy.

  982. I pray Lord Jesus that this week we will become

  983. more aware of who you are, your goodness and your grace.

  984. It's in the beautiful name of Jesus.

  985. We pray and everybody said, amen, Amen, Amen, we love you, we.

  986. Love you, we love you. Thank you for joining us today.

  987. If you said that prayer and accept it Jesus into

  988. your heart, it's the best decision you could ever make.

  989. We want to celebrate with you, and we have some

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