Sermon
I Was Wrong // FEAR-LESS (Part 3) // Charles Metcalf
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Welcome to Transformation Church Podcast, where we represent God to
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the lost and found for transformation in Christ. We're so
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glad you're here and wherever you're listening from, we believe
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God will transform your life. Do today's message.
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I hope you're doing good this morning.
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My name is Charles, and I'm glad you're here today.
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A fun piece of information, which is this past week
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I found out I was old. So that's why I
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got readers. I got readers this past week. And here's
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why I got them because a friend went to.
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Do an impression of me.
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I'll leave this friend unnamed, but he's our youth pastor, and.
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He went like this. He said, watch us, watch this.
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So the Bible says, So first of all, you wait
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till your eyes go you six foot twelve, you're gonna
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be needing big glasses. Okay, any all right, here we go.
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This is what the Bible says. Genesis, chapter number fifty.
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Where are we gonna start here?
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We're gonna start in verse number fourteen, Genesis fifty, Verse fourteen.
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After burying Jacob, Joseph returned to Egypt with his brothers
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and all who had accompanied him to his father's burrier.
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But now that their father was.
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Dead, Joseph's brothers became fearful. Now Joseph is going to
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show his anger and pay us back for all the
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wrong we did. So they sent a message to Joseph
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before your father died. He instructed us to say, we're sorry.
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Please forgive your brothers for the great wrong they did
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to you, for their sin and treating you so cruelly.
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So we, the servants of God your father, begged you
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to forgive our sin. When Joseph received the message, he
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broke down and he wept. Then his brothers came and
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threw themselves down before Joseph.
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Look, we are your slaves, they said.
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But Joseph applied.
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Do not be afraid of me.
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Am I God that I can punish you. You intended
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to harm me. You intended to harm me, but God intended.
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I gotta say this because I'm not gonna preach it
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in the sermon. But those are the same word there.
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It's the same Greek word in the original language. And
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why I'm saying that is because we sing things like,
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oh the devil did it, but then God turned it.
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God is not so weak that he has to turn anything.
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The devil's doing. He's greater than the devil, so in
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his sovereignty and his understanding of the plan of our life,
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he accounted for that to go wrong, and he already
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knew it was gonna make you better. I don't have
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to make the God does not have to make do
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with stuff the devil is doing, and try to get
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it together. And oh, let me see if I can
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work this out.
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He already knows.
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Readers back on, you intended to harm me, but God
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intended it all for good, for he brought me to
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this position so I could save the lives of many people.
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So don't be afraid. I will continue to take care
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of you. So he reassured them by speaking kindly to them.
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The title of my sermon today three words, three important words,
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three powerful words, three words I think we need to embrace.
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Three words that I think will help you get through
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your week, your month, and your year. I was wrong.
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There was a second where I thought I wasn't gonna
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make it, But thank God, I was wrong. I spent
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a lot of my life afraid of what people thought
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about me, and I thought that my failures were gonna
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define me.
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But thanks be to God, I was wrong.
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I thought that last season of loneliness was gonna be
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the last season I would.
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Ever know, but thank god I was wrong.
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I thought anxiety was gonna always be my portion, but
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I was wrong. I thought his mercy only ran to
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good people, but I was wrong. I thought the grave
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was gonna hold him, but thank god I was wrong.
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I thought that my family's lineage was gonna keep on going,
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but thank god I was wrong. They said we wouldn't
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have a baby, and I believed it for a second,
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but thank god I was wrong. They said that this
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season would be my whole lifestyle, but thank god.
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I was wrong.
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I started to slip in the water when Jesus told
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me to get out, and I thought I was gonna.
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Drown, but he reached down. Thank God I was wrong.
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Spent a lot of my life trying to be right,
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but I'm grateful that there were some things.
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I got wrong. I was wrong. I was wrong. I
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was wrong, and I'm glad I was wrong.
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I was certain about some things and how they were
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gonna go, but I was wrong. I thought I knew
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how my life was gonna go, but I was wrong.
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Dear God, would you change us? Would you encounter us.
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Would you.
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Help us to see our lives and our future and
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our children the way you see them. We need your presence,
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we need your glory, We need your goodness, we need
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your mercy. And I think you over these next couple
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of moments that we spend together, that you would lead
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us and that you would guide us. It's in the
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beautiful name of Jesus we pray. And everybody said, Amen, Amen, Amen,
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Zach you just rock with me, man, because we're gonna
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get straight to business. We've been talking about fear, and
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I want to introduce something to you today that I
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think is vitally important.
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For not only the way you think, but the way
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you live.
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And here's the central theme of today's sermon. The most
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dangerous thing about fear is not that it makes you emotional,
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is that.
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It makes you certain.
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There's nothing like the certainty of fear, the certainty of
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knowing what's gonna happen, and fear has a way of
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doing that to all of us. Fear will have us
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certain about stuff there's no way we can know. Fear
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will have you obsessed with stuff that you can't control,
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and fear will cost you. The very thing fear is
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promising you, it's protecting, and today I just want to
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take a couple of moments to submit to you that
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maybe fear has been lying to you, because there's nothing.
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Like being certain. There's nothing like just knowing.
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I mean, for a second, I know we got the
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piano with us, so it's just to stay with me.
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But do you remember when you were young, how certain
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you were, how much you knew. Oh, I know exactly
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how my life is gonna go. I know exactly how.
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I mean that. I can bet you there is nobody.
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More certain than like a sixteen or seventeen year old
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with no job, no opportunities, no future, and they just
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be knowing something from about a certain section in our
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churches right over here.
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They just nothing I already know.
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But there's nothing like maturity that turns your certainty into mystery.
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I don't know if you've had this experience, but the
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older I've gotten, it feels like I got more questions.
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I felt like, oh, the older you get, the more
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sure you become.
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And in some ways it's true.
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But in some other ways, I've been wrong enough times
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about stuff I knew I was gonna be right.
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About to know maybe I don't know as much as
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I think I know.
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Genesis, after number thirty seven, we meet a certain seventeen
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year old. His name is Joseph, and Joseph isn't anybody.
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He's a favored son. His great grandfather started this whole thing,
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Abraham Abraham Isaac Jacob. Jacob's name gets changed to Israel.
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He has twelve boys, one of them Joseph, and Joseph
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is seventeen years old when he meet him, and the
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Bible gives us detail in Genesis thirty seven that his
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daddy loves him more than all his other kids. Now
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you're not technically supposed to be saying that out loud,
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but his daddy don't care.
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He doesn't care at all.
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He loves him so much he gives him like a
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special jacket that he don't give.
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To nobody else. He gives him his jacket.
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The Bible tells us that around seventeen years old, that
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he has a dream, and in his dream, he's a
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he's stars, and his brothers are other stars, and all
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of a sudden, his brothers start to bow to him.
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And then he has another dream, and in this dreams,
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they're all bundles of wheat, and his is in the
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center and all his brothers bow to him. And with
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a dream like that and a coat like he had,
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I'm sure he was certain. Oh, I know how this
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is gonna go. Step number one. I gotta go tell
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my brothers. Bible tells O. Joseph rolls up on his
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brothers and he says, hey, y'all, I got a dream
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that black people and white people.
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The white man, instead of checking it has bounced.
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Come on, somebody, y'all don't know that about Martin Luther
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King jer At first, I have a dream speech. He
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comes up to his brothers and he tells some of
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the dream and he says, hey, listen, I don't know
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you know, I know you kind of mad at me
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because you know I got the coat. It ain't nothing
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about it but a g thing. But anyways, I had
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this dream and in the dream, you know I didn't
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I didn't give myself the dream.
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But you were bowing to me.
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And I can only imagine this ain't even biblical.
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This is just brothers. I got a brother. I know
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how brothers get down. Brother, you don't shut up right
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now'll be quiet. Ain't nobody bowing to you. Ain't nobody
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bout to be little do But I'm serious. I'm serious, bru.
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Hey, listen, I had a dream.
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I had another one too, Bro. Anybody want to hear
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your second dream?
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We don't hear the first dream.
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You better be quiet, no, bro, just listen, Just listen.
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That's probably it's just different. It's different. It's different.
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But don't play with me if this is the same.
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If you about to say something stupid, don't say it now, bro,
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Just listen. I swear all right, go ahead. So we're
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all in the field, right and then I'm in the middle,
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and y'all start the boy if he.
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Don't be quiet with this dream, I promise you.
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And the Bible tells us that he tells him the dream,
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and they start resenting him.
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And you may be familiar with this story.
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You may not, but if you grew up in church,
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we all kind of know Joseph's story. He's a young man,
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he has a dream, and we kind of skip through
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his story. He goes from the pit to the palace,
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to the pit to in charge, and we do all
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these things.
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But I want to zone in for a moment.
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On the fear of a seventeen.
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Year old man.
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That the Bible tells us gets jumped by his eleven brothers.
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And thrown into a pit. This is what happened.
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The Bible tells us that he's walking up and they
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see him coming.
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Look, I'm gonna I'm gonna read it for you. Just
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say all. I'm thinking like, man, he just making all
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this up.
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Man, come on, get out of here. Genesis thirty seven.
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I believe it is right here, Genesis thirty seven, eighteen.
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When Joseph's brothers saw him coming, they recognized him from
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a distance. As he approached, they made plans to kill him.
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Here comes that dreamer. Come on, let's kill him and
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throw him into one of these cisterns.
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We'll tell our father wild animal has eaten him. But
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Ruben heard their scheme. Let's not kill him, and Ruben
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makes a plan. He says, listen, we'll just throw him
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in there. And Ruben's plan is to come back and get.
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Him when the other brothers leave.
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But if you think about the scene, I mean, this
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is a seventeen year old that this is. He is
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my brothers, this is my people, this is my family.
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What's up, guys? Hey, come here real quick.
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Let's talk to you, all right, what's up?
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God?
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Hey, come over here. What's going on? Guys? What's up
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with the vibes are a little weird?
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No, man, we ain't.
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We're done with the dream and stuff. Come here, Hey, yo, stop?
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What are y'all? Guys? And the Bible tells us eleven brothers.
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Grabbed their little brother and throw him into a pit.
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This is where certainty starts to fade for our character Joseph.
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Because I just knew. I knew God gave me this dream.
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I knew he was talking to me.
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I knew he had a plan.
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I knew I wasn't like everybody else. I knew that
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he put something in me. I just knew that it
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wasn't gonna be my story like everybody else's story. I
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just knew that it meant something different when God spoke
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to me. I just knew that he called me out
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before I was in my mother's womb.
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And he had a plan to prosper me and not
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to I just you knew it, And all of a sudden,
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what you think you know?
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You don't know no more. He was wrong. He was
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wrong about his brothers. Because I thought your family was
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the place you go to get your dreams. Reassured, supported
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and encouraged. But sadly, Joseph's not the only one to
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find out that you can be wrong about people. The
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Bible tells us he's in the pit, and this is
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what happens when you're in a pit, when you're in
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a dark season, when you thought your life was going
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to go one way and it starts going another way.
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Is your certainty has to It starts fading a little bit,
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but not too much, because the Bible tells us that
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they change up the plan and they come to get it.
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And now this is where the story turns, because if
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I'm Joseph, I'm in the pit, and I hear my
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brother say, yo, Joe, Joe, you down now?
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Yeah, I'm down here. What's up? Hey, man, we're gonna
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get you out. I knew y'all was playing. Hey, don't
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even worry about it. They get him out, no doubt.
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He starts to feel hope again.
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I'm good, I'm good, I'm good. And then it says
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there's travelers going by, and they sell him to these strangers.
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Wrong again, Joseph. Then the Bible tells us his story
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progresses a little bit. He finds himself in Egypt, and
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he finds himself working for a man named Potiphar, and
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Potiphar is a big deal. He's in charge. And no doubt,
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this is gotta be the dream.
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This is definitely it. This is definitely it. Brother's gone.
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I'm out of slavery. I've worked my way up, I've
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got a decent job. This is god to be a
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dream that he showed me when I was seventeen.
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This is it, for sure?
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Wrong again, that ain't the dream, Joe, because the Bible
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tells us that Potiphar's wife had an eye for Joseph.
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Now we always make light of this. I've definitely done it.
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Cougar came in, it's all josephin ain't nothing like an
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Egyptsuan cougar.
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He's like what he was that me. But the accusations
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are not a joke.
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Accusations can change your life.
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And he did nothing wrong.
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And there goes that certainty gone again.
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In prison. And what you don't know.
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About this unless you study into the scripture is from
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seventeen years old when he has the dream, working his
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way up in Potiphars and then thrown in jail. He's
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thirty years old. Years I guess they forgot about me.
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I guess.
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And it's interesting with fear is when your life starts
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going like this, Fear starts telling you stories of certainty.
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You didn't hear God. You ain't special, you think.
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God spoke to you.
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No, you'll always be overlooked. You'll always be like your dad.
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People will always know you by the mistakes you made.
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It doesn't matter how hard you try, it doesn't matter
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how hard you work.
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This is your story.
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Now, Joseph is in the pit, he's in prison, and again,
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I mean, his whole life is this roller coaster of certainty, fear, certainty, fear, certainty, fear,
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and it's this limbo. And there's these two people in
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the prison, a baker and a cupbearer, and they come
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to him and they're having dreams. And here's what you
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need to know, just to encourage somebody.
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No matter what.
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Season you're in, no matter how dark it may feel,
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God still put that gift on.
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The inside of you.
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And no matter where anybody puts you, it doesn't matter
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if they hire you, it doesn't matter if they promote you.
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They can't touch the gift on the inside of you
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because they didn't put it there.
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Sometimes we like to.
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Wait, like I'm gonna wait to do my gift until I.
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Really everybody can see it. But Joseph is in a
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prison with two people.
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That can do nothing from him, and he's sitting there thinking, well,
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why I'm down here, I might as well make a
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difference while I'm down here. I might as well do
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what God made me to do. While I'm down here,
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I might as well make the devil mad. While I'm
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down here, I might as well do something that's not
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about me.
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And they have these two dreams and there's a lot
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of Bible will come in today.
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Genesis thirty seven is Genesis fifty Go read it for
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yourself this week, just to make sure I ain't making
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up no parts of this story. He sits there two
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dreams and he's like, hey man, so good news and
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bad news. You gonna die, You're gonna get out in
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a couple of days, and you're gonna die. You though,
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you're gonna get out, and you're gonna get promoted. They're like, really,
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of course, the one guy that's down here, Look, she line,
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you don't know nothing.
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Nothing like you ever get a prophetic word line.
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They don't know nothing.
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It happens.
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Gets out, one man dies, the other man gets promoted
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back to his position.
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Of the cup bearer of the king.
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The only problem is Joseph asked, Yo, when you get out,
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don't forget about me like my brothers did. Don't forget
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about me like everybody else. Just promise me one thing.
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When you get out of here, remember me.
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He doesn't remember.
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Him until there's a scripture that says, your gift will
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make room for you. And Pharaoh had a lot of
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magicians around him, but he didn't have no profits.
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There's a difference.
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He starts being tormented by these dreams, and at just
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the right time, the cup bear remembers Joseph, Yo, King,
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there was.
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This guy in prison.
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I don't know if he's still there, but he can
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his god be telling him what's going on. Goes and
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gets Hi brings before the king. He says, hey, listen,
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it's gonna seven years famine. You need to store up,
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and then there's gonna be there's gonna be seven years
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of plenty. You need to store up during that time,
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and then there's gonna be seven years of famine.
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And if you store up, and here's.
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The beautiful thing about our God, this is what I
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want to say real quick. Everybody that God is talking
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to ain't called to be a preacher.
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This is business strategy, This is economical insight. This is it. Everybody.
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You have a moment at the altar and it's like,
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I need to be on the host team. No, you
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don't go back to your job and let God speak
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to you about how to change that industry.
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If we all up in here, who's helping the people
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out there? So do what God made you to do.
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Start that business, run that company, create the app. I
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don't know what it is, but God will empower you
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and give you divine wisdom.
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And insight to make a difference. He gives him this wisdom,
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and again here we go.
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This is got to be the dream. This is got
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to be the dream. Why because it's kind of the dream.
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Because some people.
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Are bowing to me.
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And here's the thing I've learned in my own life
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that fear will have you negotiate with your dream. This
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is close enough. This is I've been single so long.
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They're close, and they're close. They're not exactly what I saw.
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They're not exactly what God showed me. They're not exactly
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don't treat me exactly the way, but I can't be alone.
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So this this is probably this is probably it not
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the dream from Genesis thirty seven. It's Genesis fifty. We
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find out the moment when his dreams come true. Genesis
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chapter number forty five. Joseph reveals his identity as the heading.
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Joseph could stand it no longer. There were many people
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in the room, and he said, isn't his attendants out
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all of you? So he was alone with his brothers,
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and then he broke down and wept. The Bible says
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he wept so loudly all the Egyptians could hear him,
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and it quickly carried to Pharaoh's palace. I am Joseph,
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this is the dream. It wasn't when you were seventeen.
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It wasn't when you became number two in charge. It
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wasn't when God spoke to you and gave you the
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prophetic word of how to run the country of Egypt. No, no, no,
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that's not the dream. It's when you're curled up crying,
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fighting back frustration at the people who threw you in
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a pit, and they're now at your feet needing something
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you got, and it's God saying Can I trust you
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right here through all the fear, through all the anger,
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through all the frustration, through all the resentment, through all
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the bitterness, through all the hurt, through all the disappointment.
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You want a dream from God. This is a dream
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from God. The people who threw you in a.
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Pit come back talking about can I have something? Joseph says,
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I'm Joseph, and I.
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Can't help but imagine.
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Them sitting there looking at their little brother, and.
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All this going through their mind is I was wrong.
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I was wrong. I didn't know. I didn't know that
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you were. If I would have known, I never would
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have done that. Fear will have you certain about a
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lot of things.
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But today I want to give you three things that
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fear will have you certain of that you need to
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learn how to be wrong about. The first thing fear
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will have you certain about is people. Fear will have
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you think and I know who they are. Fear will
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have you looking at people who are different than you.
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Saying I already know what they're about. Fear of what
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you think about other people will have you making up stories.
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About people that are not true, and your pride does
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not care to confirm why.
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Because fear tries to protect.
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Itself, and the only way to protect me is to
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make you an enemy. This is why we get so segregated.
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And I wish I couldn't say it wasn't in the church,
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but sadly it still is, because we'll.
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Look at different people and will think, God, that I
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don't know about them.
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I don't know about them.
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And the truth, you're afraid, you're afraid, you're afraid, and
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instead of just saying you're afraid, you make up stories
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about people, You distance yourself from people, you talk about people,
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and you.
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Just say, we don't do stuff like that.
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And I'm not just talking about because of the color
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of somebody's skin.
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I'm talking about other churches we make up stories.
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Or that church you know, they just do this, and
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that church they worship a little much, and that church
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is just a little too intense for me, and that
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church is just a little too loose for me. And
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that person, I don't know if they really love God.
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I don't even know if their heart is right. I
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don't know what you know about their heart. You're afraid,
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and you're wrong about them. And don't get me started
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on some of my friends that a lot of us
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have been wrong about. And I'm talking about friends that
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I know in my real life, not people in.
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The church, people outside of the church. I had a
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friend I started trying to bring to church. I can't
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tell you.
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How sideways people looked at him because he had tattoos.
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Who's this guy? Oh man, he may have it wrong?
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What what?
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What? Oh?
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I will jump off the stage? What please? Please? Please
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say something else? I don't know.
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They just look a little don't they know they shouldn't
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be wearing that?
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No, they don't, dummy, that's why they're in here. Don't
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they know? We don't do that here. We don't do
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what here. You don't do nothing here except for sit
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in that chair. So be quiet. Why you just sorry? Sorry, sorry,
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sorry sorry.
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I'm not.
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Let me calm down, Let me calm down. I've been
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wrong about people. I've been wrong.
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The fear will have you wrong about people thinking you know,
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people thinking you know why they do what they do.
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When you think you.
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Know why somebody did what they did, it's not a
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reflection of them, it's a reflection.
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Of you, because you thinking what you would do if
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you were.
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Them, and you ain't them. Well, I know if that
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was me The only reason I would have done that
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is what, Yeah, that's you. They don't say nothing about them.
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But fear will have you wrong about people. It'll also
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have you wrong about your path in life.
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It'll have you thinking, Oh, I know how God's gonna
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do this. I know exact.
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I'm gonna go here, then I'm gonna go here, then
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I'm gonna go here.
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And God's like, what if we go this way? The
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devil is a liar. I'm supposed to go from glory
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to glory.
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Ask Paul getting flogged writing jails from prison. What glory
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to glory means. It doesn't mean rich to rich in
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check the check. It means obedience to obedience, faithfulness to faithfulness,
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kindness to kindness, love to love, gentleness to gentleness, self
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control to self control. No man ah man either way,
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I know if it's God and here's a dangerous here's
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some dangerous language I've used before, I'm just you know, I.
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Just feel peace about it. Okay, yes, but what do
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you mean by peace? Do you mean you just feel comfortable?
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Because that's not peace. You mean you feel safe? Oh,
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you mean you feel in control? I got it.
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So if you're in control, that's how you know. It's God,
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my best friends in the world. He has us saying
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is follow the nausea.
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Think Peter fell in control when God said, ay, step
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out of the boat. You sure Peter's better than me.
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I would have had a couple which one of us judas.
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I wouldn't risk your brother. Don't get don't get out?
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Whoa okay, hold on, hold no, no, let me.
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If following Jesus don't make you feel awkward every once
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in a while, let me kindly call out and encourage
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something that just happened a couple of weeks ago.
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A couple of weeks ago is Father's Day.
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We called all the men down to the front, and
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not everybody but I was standing up here. You didn't
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see yourself.
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So I will say this.
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Ninety nine zero point two percent of the men were
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like this. It was a good worship song. I want
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to challenge you, man of God, lift your hands. Oh
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I don't need to be doing all that. Don't be
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talking about me doing all that.
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Bruh.
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We saw you during the finals, talk about it. You
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had your whole joint painted and you was.
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This should feel a little uncomfortable Following Jesus should feel
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a little awkward if you following Jesus. It's like, man,
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this is great. My life is better. Everything's working out.
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I'm getting checks in the mail of God. I'm getting
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prophetic words about becoming a billionaire. And you know, I
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don't even have to really do anything.
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I can still just do whatever and apologize and man,
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God is great.
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That's not that's not what this book is like. Because
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Joe lost everything.
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Samson was in powered by God, but that disobedience did
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cost him something.
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It's not all.
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Jesus about to send out of the disciples. He says,
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a son a man has no place to lay his head.
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So just before you as gimps, why he's turning a
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bunch of people to follow me. He said, hey, real quick,
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if you want to follow me, all you got to
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do is just pick up your follow me.
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That'll be good.
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They're not thinking about a Jesus peace around their neck.
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All they know is Roman crucifixion. The cross isn't associated
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with Jesus. When he says this, you want to follow me,
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pick up your cross.
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Come on, I've been wrong about my path.
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I thought I knew God you do it this way,
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and you're gonna do it this way, and then you're
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gonna do it that way. And when it doesn't go
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the way I thought it, I think, Man, I don't
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know if this God's stuff. But I've been wrong about people.
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I've been wrong about my path, and there have been
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many times I had the wrong perspective.
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Because fear.
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Starts assigning meaning.
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To stuff.
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So fear, well have you saying, Oh, the reason they're
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not there, it's because you weren't enough. And if you
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were enough, your dad would have stayed. If you were
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good enough, you would have got promoted. But you're not
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good enough. Fear will have you making up stories before
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it's even happened. Fear will have you And I'm gonna
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say this, I'm not even being silly. I feel this
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as a real thing because I know some people that
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have done this and.
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That struggle with this.
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Fear will have you standing on the edge of commitment,
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making up stories about why you won't commit. Got somebody
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you love, won't marry them because you've already made up
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a story.
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I already know I'm gonna cheat on them, because every
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man in my family has cheated, so.
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At least it's not as bad if we don't get married,
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at least it's not so. I have you ready to
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start a business, ready to do something, but already tense
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up ahead if it'll probably work for a little bit,
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and then it'll go sideways and I'll be back here
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and I have to come back and all this stuff. No, no, no, friend, fear,
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What have you certain about? Stuff that you don't know
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at all? Obsessed with stuff you can't control, and cost
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you the very thing it's promising you, it's protecting. Joseph
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the end of his story, his brothers are there, he listen,
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We did you wrong, man, We're so sorry, We're so sorry.
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And his response.
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His proof of the spirit of God on the inside
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of him. Oh you weren't wrong.
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God was right.
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You meant for this to hurt me, You meant for
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this to break me, But God was making me.
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See what you don't realize is I had to deal
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with me when y'all threw me in that first time.
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I had to figure out who I was without that code.
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I had to figure out who I was if everybody.
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Didn't agree with me.
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And that pig gave me something that your praise could
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have never given me.
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So I thought it was wrong but.
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Thank goodness, I was wrong about my process because when
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you sold me, I had to find a love that
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didn't come from the people that were close to me.
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And when they lied on me and said I didn't
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do something that I know I didn't do, but they
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charged me anyway, I had to figure out that God
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is the judge and that God.
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Is the one who controls my life. So I was
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wrong about that situation.
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And then when I was in prison, I had to
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find out that I can still use my gift if
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nobody sees it. Because for a long time I thought
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my gift was only important if people clapped for my.
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Gift was only important if they cheered for me. But
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I found out in that prison that I can work
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this gift no matter where I am. I was wrong
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about that situation.
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And I almost got it wrong when they put me
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over everybody, because I thought status meant I was all
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the way in purpose. But I was wrong. I realized
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God didn't put me here but for one reason. Scircier said,
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so many lives could be saved. All I want to
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say today is whatever story fear has made you certain about,
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I don't know what it is.
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Some of you feel.
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Certain like, I don't know if that kid's ever gonna
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come home. You've been praying so long, you're certain that
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it's just too too much. Some of you are.
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Certain that you'll always be single. You're certain that the
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business isn't gonna work.
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You're shirt And all I'm saying is, you don't know
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that yet.
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You don't know. You don't know what God might do.
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You don't know what he's planning, You don't know how
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he's working. And be careful of the story your.
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Religion makes you certain of, because you.
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Don't know something that people were certain about.
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People were certain that nothing good could come out of Nazareth.
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People were certain that Mary's boy was just a boy.
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People were certain that.
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You couldn't do anything with people who had leprosy, so
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you had to throw them out.
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They were certain.
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About this thirty three year old man that he was
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causing a rebellion and he deserved to die.
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But there's one picture I love.
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The scripture tells us that Jesus up on the cross
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and he's in between two thieves, and they deserve to
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be up there. But this is the holy, merciful, gracious, kind, omnipotent,
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omniscient creator, of the universe, who has done nothing wrong,
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purest snow never an ill thought in his spirit. Only
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intention is to love, to.
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Give, to help you figure out how to be you.
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And the people he made pended him to a tree
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because they were certain he's say who we've been waiting for,
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Because the king we've been waiting for is gonna overthrow
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wrong the king we've been waiting for, it's gonna come
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back with raging war. And they didn't know he was
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raging war. But it wasn't on the external. It was
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on the internal. He was raging war on depression. He
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was raging war on our lack of righteousness. And they
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were certain they.
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Knew who he was.
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And the scripture tells us there's two different tracks of
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this story.
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In scripture, there's two different people. That's one story that
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I love. But the thieves that are on the cross,
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and one of them is standing there and he's on
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the cross and he looks over and I think he
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starts to look around and think, I think we're wrong.
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I don't know. It's beautiful because Jesus doesn't.
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Say nothing, but just when you get around Jesus, you
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can just feel this is why your life is so important.
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Now what you say, how you live, how you live
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and work.
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Now, what you say, now, what.
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You post, now, what you project, talk about how.
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You live, because if the spirit of.
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God is up on the inside of you, people will
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be sitting there in they're seeing.
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Talk about it. I think I got this wrong. I
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don't know.
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I don't know, because they going through what I'm going through,
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but they're not going through it.
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How I'm going through it. I think I think I
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got this wrong.
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I don't know that their marriage looks different than ours.
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I think I think I got this wrong.
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And there's a thief on the cross, and he says, hey,
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I think I think I got it wrong.
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You think you can remember me?
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And there's another one that I love. It's a Roman
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soldier who probably helped nail his hands to that tree.
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And the scripture says, most see if I can find it,
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just give.
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Me a moment.
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He says in Matthew be sitting there, says this at noon,
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darkness fell across the whole land. You already know I
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can't see y'all see how close I was. Y'all say
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that look at that. Some bystanders misunderstood and thought he
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was calling for Elijah, and one of them ran and
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filled the sponge with sour wine, holding it up to him,
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but the rest said, wait, let's see if Elijah comes.
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Then Jesus shouted out again, and he released his spirit,
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and at that moment the curtain and the sanctuary of
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the temple was torn into not from the bottom to
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the top, because if it was from the bottom to
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the top.
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A man could have torn it.
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But the scripture says that from the top to the bottom,
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and the earth shook, and rocks split apart, and tombs
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opened up, and the bodies of many godly women and
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men who had died were raised from the dead, and
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they walked out of cemeteries after Jesus' resurrection, and they
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walked into Jerusalem and appeared to many people. Then the
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Roman officer and the other soldiers at the crucifixion were terrified,
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and they said, this man truly was the son of God.
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I just want to say it's okay to be wrong.
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We spent a lot of our life trying to be
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right and clinging to everything that makes us feel like
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we're more right. That's why you gotta be careful of
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what you're listening to. On social media, Be careful about
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the stories they tell you about why people are doing
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certain stuff.
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Find out for yourself.
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Don't believe somebody else's story, Go get your own story.
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Well you know those type of people? Do you know
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any of those type of people? Because I probably know
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some of those type of people that you think are
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those type of people. And I promise you them type
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of people. Ain't them type of people? That your type
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of people? Because we all we type of people.
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I'm gonna pray.
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That wherever.
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Fear has told you a story specifically about your future,
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some of you there are decisions, opportunities, a life ahead
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of you that fear is currently telling you it's certain
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that can't happen, and it's just not true. I want
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to pray today that wherever you would have been wrong,
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you'd experience this. The Bible says that he who knew
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no sin became sin so that we could become the righteousness.
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Of Christ.
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Because God can give you the right people, He can
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put you on the right pass, and he can give
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you the right perspective.
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Would you pray with me, Lord.
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God, we thank you for who you are. That you're
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a right now God, So right now I pray for
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anybody who feels like fear has told them a story
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of what will happen and what won't happen. I thank
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you that you would redeem that story right now in
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the name of Jesus, that peace, peace that we can't understand,
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would enter into our hearts. And I pray right now
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for a super natural boldness, a boldness to live with courage,
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a boldness to step out and trust you, a boldness
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to live a life. Lord, God that we could only
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dream of. Forgive us where we've been wrong, wrong about people,
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wrong about plans.
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Wrong about perspectives.
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God, would you forgive us give us your eyes to
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see every doubt, every eye close.
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Maybe you're in here.
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And maybe you're starting to feel and find out that
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maybe you've been wrong about Jesus. Maybe you've been wrong
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about God. Maybe you thought God was mad at you.
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Maybe you thought God was waiting for you to be perfect.
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Maybe you thought God that was sitting there with his
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finger pointed you mad and waiting for you to prove it.
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And then he'll love you. No, friend, you're wrong about him.
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He loves you no matter what you've done.
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He loves you no matter where you've been.
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He loves you, no matter what people have said, and
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with his arms open wide waiting for his child to
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come home. And if you're in here or watching online
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and you feel like, man, I've been wrong about Jesus.
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Today you can become right about Jesus. And it starts
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with admitting I can't do this by myself.
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I need help.
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And in just a moment, I'm about to pray. And
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if you want to accept Jesus into your life. Before
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we pray, I'm gonna ask you, on account of three,
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to lift your hand.
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And it's you saying I want to get this right.
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You ain't got to worry about anybody else, ain't got
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to worry about what other people will think. This is
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your moment.
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To accept Jesus as your Lord and savior.
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One.
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He loves you.
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Two. Today is the day of salvation.
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Three right now in this room, lift your hand if
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you want to accept Jesus. So proud of you. I
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got your sister, so proud of you, so proud of you.
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I got you, I got you up there. I see you, man,
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So proud of you.
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Everybody out loud together, everybody repeat this prayer with me.
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Everybody say dear God, I admit I've gotten it wrong.
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I need you. I pray you would change my heart,
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forgive me and my sin us, make me brand new.
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It's in Jesus same I pray, Amen and amen. Can
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we celebrate people who just accepted Jesus.
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Standing all over this room. We're about to get out
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of here.
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Hey, listen, if you just text, if you just raise
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your hand or prayed that prayer, let us know.
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Text the word save to the number on the screen.
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I'm gonna ask our worship team to lead us in
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some worship, and maybe you want to stay and worship
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with us. Maybe on your way out, introduce yourself to somebody,
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get somebody's phone number, go to lunch with them. Listen,
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we love you so much. I would encourage you to
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join us next week. I'm gonna pray for your week.
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If you need prayer for anything, our prayer team in
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the back would love to meet you.
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But got to thank you for this week. I pray
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that we would have.
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A blessed week full of your grace, all of your mercy,
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and full of your favor. Thank you, Lord Jesus, that
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you are with us. You will lead us, and you
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will guide us. Is in the beautiful name of Jesus.
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We pray and everybody said Amen, Amen, Amen.
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Thank you for joining us today.
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