Sermon
Faith Sounds Like: Respect
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Transcript
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Wow, Happy Mother's Day. If you are wondering why we just sing that
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song in church, it's because you are joining us for our faith. Sounds
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like series where we take a genre of music, we pick a popular song
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and we find the message in it, but we get to sing the song
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too, and by we I don't sing, so well done to them.
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Hopefully you were entertained by that. My name is Die and again, Happy
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Mother's Day. All the moms in the house, mom figures grandmas, you
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know, we're so glad you decided to join us today. I just have
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to say before I launch into a message that the most true statement about a
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mom that's ever been said is that nothing is truly lost unless mom cannot find
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it right. How many times a day moms, so you get to ask
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where something is and it's not just by your children. Hint, hint.
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Okay, super glad you're here. That song respect actually has kind of a
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cool little backstory to it that I'll use just kind of get us go in
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here this morning. It was actually written in nineteen sixty five by Otis Redding.
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Anyone know that that it was not actually okay, but this doesn't date
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you at all. It just means you know music history. But Otis Redding
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actually wrote that song in nineteen sixty five, and then when he performed it,
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it had his version of the lyrics, and there are two different lyric
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versions of the song. His version was very, let's just say, traditional
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family like, honey, I'll go make money and I'll bring it home to
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you. You should respect me kind of way. In fact, there's a
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couple of quotes about his version of the song that are interesting. One is
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by his biographer, a guy named Jonathan Gould. Jonathan Gould says the lyrics
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to respect paint a starkly unromantic picture of domestic relations, revolving around a little
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girl quote who is quote sweeter than honey, and a man who will reward
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her with quote all my money. MPR took that a step further, and
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there as saying that it reinforced the traditional family structure of the title, where
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a man works all day, brings money home to wife and demands that in
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return she respect him well. Aretha performed that song two years later, nineteen
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sixty seven. She had to change it up just a little to fit a
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female singing the song, and she did some things to it that she probably
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never expected. She had some sisters singing behind her, and they are the
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ones that actually added the spelling out of the word respect, and that became
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the anthem. Actually, this song, her version of it, became the
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anthem of that decade as well as a decade to follow. And the reason
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why is because not only was the Vietnam War raging at that point in time,
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so politics were big in the country, but also two movements, both
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the civil rights movement and the women's movement, and her song really became a
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demand for the respect for everybody, all genders, all races, all life.
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As you know, it just became this hallmark song that has become iconic
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now all the way to today. But this is a woman who is demanding
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human dignity, dignity and declaring that rights for both genders and all races must
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be respected. So if you're a mom out there today and you hear that
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song and that version, which is Aretha's version, and you think, yeah,
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that's right, respect me. We're gonna go a little broader than just
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that view. So we're gonna go a little broader. We're gonna actually look
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at what the Bible has to say about this topic of respect, and actually
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the Bible has a lot to say about it. We're just gonna do just
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a little scope on it. But if you will join me, let's launch
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this in prayer. God, that idea of respect is not ours, it's
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not Aretha's, it's not Otis Reddings, it's yours. And today you're going
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to challenge us because that's what your word does. And so all across this
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room, I'm going to ask that you would challenge us right in our faces
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with your word. And I'm just asking that across this room and online,
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every heart would be willing to be challenged and made uncomfortable. So as we
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pay attention to what you have to say to us, God, would you
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stretch us. We're asking in your name. Amen. All right, So
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we're gonna go all the way back to the beginning to launch this. So
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if you have your Bible, go ahead and open up to Genesis all the
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way back chapter one. If you don't have your Bible, the words will
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be on the screen. We're gonna zip through quite a bit of scripture today.
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We're gonna start in Genesis chapter one, Versus twenty six and twenty seven,
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and I'm going to read the New Living Translation. The New Living Translation
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says that on the last day of creation, God said, let us make
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human beings in our image to be like us. So God created human beings
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in his own image. So after six days of creation, creating heaven and
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earth, sky, land, sees seasons, stars in the sky, the
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moon, the sun. After all of that creation and then creating every animal,
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every bird, every fish, every plant, God concludes his creation work
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with a very personal touch. He forms Adam man from dust, and then
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he gives him life by breathing his own life into his nostrils. This creates
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a very unique work in God's creation. So humans, i think you'll agree,
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are different from every other created thing that God made. They are created,
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we saw right there in scripture from the image, in the image of
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God. So humans are in that way they have both a material body we
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do and an immaterial part of us. So we have the part you can
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touch and feel and see, and then we have the immaterial, the soul,
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the thing that's inside of us. So having the image of God means
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we were created to resemble God, to look like him, not in the
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material way, not in the physical way, not in bodily form, but
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in the immaterial way, to look like God in who we are on the
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inside, in our soul. That's what sets us apart from all the rest
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of creation. That spiritual part of us, the immaterial part of us,
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was made to commune with our maker. That immaterial part of us was made
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to have the ability to reason and to make choices good or bad, to
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exercise free will. We were also given a conscience, this moral compass for
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life. But in all of this, sin has damaged that part of us.
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Right this, most of this is just review for you, but just
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so that we're all on the same page, we're just kind of going back
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to, like, what's the foundation here. So sin has damaged all those
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parts of us. We have the ability to choose, but that means we
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can choose good or bad. We can choose to follow God or we can
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choose to rebel against him. We can choose to treat other people well or
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we can choose to treat them poorly. We can even choose to do them
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great harm, and we can choose to do that intentionally. But the fact
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remains that every person on this earth, of which there are over eight billion
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walking around, every single person, including every person in this room and every
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person watching online was made in the image of God, with God's own breath
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in your lungs. The person next to you, the person behind you,
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let's go a little broader, the person you live next to, the people
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you work next to, the people in your family, the people who aren't
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in your family. Everybody made in the image of God. That means every
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person is God's handiwork, deserving of being treated as if they are made in
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the image of God. We get so far in this foundation great. Some
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people are much easier to see this way, don't you agree. I mean,
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for all the moms in the room, the first time you held a
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baby that you delivered, you you can't help but want to give everything for
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this child. That changes a little as they can, but and yet it's
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still required of you. I mean, it's some people like an innocent baby,
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even if it's not your own baby. Like of course, you can
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see how an innocent baby is made in the image of God, a perfect
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little miracle. Loved ones, the people that are the most dear in your
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life. For some of you, that's family, not for all of you.
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For some of you, if you are married, that could be the
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person you spend your life with. It could be your dearest friends, it
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could be a cousin. Whoever it is that when I say who do you
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love most, you think of those are the people easiest for us to see
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that person is made in the image of God. Imperfect, yes, but
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made in the image of God. We could even extend that just a little.
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Anyone innocent, oftentimes the poor, anyone who's vulnerable. Our minds can
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imagine this person was made in the image of God. But it's a whole
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different story when it's somebody that you don't like or don't love. It's a
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whole different story when it's someone who hurts you or hurts someone you love and
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they do it on purpose. But knowing that every person is made in the
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image of God should change the way that we not only see people, but
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also the way we treat them. So let's take this just a little bit
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further. So we're gonna flip nowt to the New Testament, turned with me
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to Romans chapter twelve. Romans chapter twelve again, the words will be on
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the screen in just a moment. But just to paint the picture here,
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we have Paul who's the author of Romans and he's describing specifically in this chapter,
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how we worship God by offering ourselves as a living sacrifice to God.
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Now, if you have not been around church much, that's a new phrase
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for you. Maybe you've been around church and you've always wondered exactly what that
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means. I used to hear a joke said when I was growing up,
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like the problem with a living sacrifice It always wants to crawl off the altar.
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But what is a living sacrifice? What does that actually mean? Yeah,
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that joke will hit you in a minute or so. One of the
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ways that we become a living sacrifice is that, And this is kind of
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the broad definition, I guess, is that we stop seeking our way of
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doing things and what we want from life, and we spend our life trying
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to figure out what God wants for us to be close to him and to
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follow and obey him. This chapter outlines what we do with the gifts He's
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given us and how we use them to serve Him, but also how to
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serve other people. It's basically about how do you put yourself aside? Which
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I don't know, maybe that's just me, but that feels really hard.
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How do you deny yourself a lot for other people. Again, easier to
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do for people you love, harder for people you don't. So the Bible
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this chapter specifically spells out how we should treat how we show respect for two
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very general categories of people. It's funny because it's really just everybody. Spoiler.
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The first category forgive me as I overcome a cold. The first category
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is how do we treat believers? Okay, so if you're in this place
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or watching online and you would say, yeah, I believe in Jesus,
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I want to follow Jesus. I'm a Jesus follower. I'm a christ follower.
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I'm a Christian. Paul's going to give us some instructions here for how
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we treat other believers. So look with me at Rome chapter twelve, verses
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nine and ten. This is the new Living Translation. Paul says, don't
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just pretend to love others, really love them, love them with genuine affection,
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and take delight in honoring each other. Okay, so that word honor
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is interchangeable with the word respect. I love how different translations took different spins
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on this, So let's just run through a couple of translations here. These
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will be on the screen for you. The ESV translation of the Bible says,
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out do one another in showing honor. Outdo one another. The CEB
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says, be the best at showing honor to each other. The NIV says,
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honor one another above yourselves. Again, I think that is so difficult.
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CSB says, take the lead in honoring one another, take the lead
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the one who leads the way. And the message says practice playing second fiddle,
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which I just think is a fun expression way to say that. So,
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Paul here, thank you so much. So Paul here is giving us
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a short list of commands to those who follow Jesus. Okay, so if
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you're in this room and you say I'm a Jesus follower, he's giving us
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some instructions for how we should follow Jesus. And he describes that our love
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must be sincere and real. We should really love each other. Here's how
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you do that, authentically and genuinely, not hypocritically. It's a brotherly affection.
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It's a brotherly type of love. And then he urges us to outdo
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each other. And how we show that out do each other, and how
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we honor and respect that kind of love that kind of commitment, that kind
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of honor and respect are the attributes then, of a healthy family. Now
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I realize in saying that you're context of family may not be a healthy family
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context. Maybe your mind immediately goes back to, yeah, well, now
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you're talking about the people that are hard to love. I grew up with
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them, and it's not laughing matter at all. But the idea of a
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healthy family is something that is we learn, and we are committed to learning.
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We are then supposed to demonstrate to the world around us. We have
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to learn how to love each other and work through conflict, and work through
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difficulty, and work through disagreements. Will come back to disagreements a little bit
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later, but this is what we're supposed to be modeling to the world.
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Jesus himself said in John chapter thirteen. So now I'm giving you a new
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commandment, love each other. Your love for one another will prove to the
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world that you're my disciples. How are people going to know you follow me?
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Jesus is saying it's going to be, And how you love other people
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and how you treat other people. Now we aren't surprised by this. Nobody
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in this room is surprised that the Bible says treat other believers well, treat
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other Christians. Well, you're all Christians. You're all supposed to believe the
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same thing, So treat each other good. Nobody's surprised by that, except
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for do you remember twenty twenty because I do. And we had a hard
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time treating each other well. As we started to disagree on things, the
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way we treat each other declined. But Paul has something to say about respecting
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unbelievers too. Now here's the thing. He's got these two general categories of
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people that he's telling us how we need to love and respect, how we
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need to treat them, how we need to show honor. And it's believers
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and unbelievers. So who is that? Everybody? How do you? How
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do you treat other Christians? And then how do you treat everybody else?
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I don't know about you, but I did this, like what? Okay?
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Verse fourteen is where Paul says Romans twelve, Verse fourteen, he says,
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bless those who persecute you. Don't curse them, Pray that God will
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bless them. Everyone with me say wait what wait? Yep? Good?
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One more time? Bless those who persecute you, don't curse them, pray
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that God will bless them. So now Paul is giving an additional mandate.
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So I mean, like subtext here is like you thought it was hard to
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love other people that believe the same things with you and have the same general
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world view and values in their life. Now let me just make it harder
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for all the people you don't agree with who even go out of their way
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to treat you bad. Now you're just gonna up the auntie. You're not
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just gonna hold your tongue. You're actually gonna pray blessing and speak blessing into
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their life. Let me just I wrote this in the Diet translation, so
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I read all those other translations. This is the d LT dive Living translation.
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Ready. Wow, that was not that funny, you guys. I
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am not that funny, Okay, DLT really love other believers. In fact,
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make it your goal to be the best at honoring other believers. And
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then even those who wrong and hurt you on purpose, don't get even with
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them, don't curse them, don't even wish harm on them. Instead,
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pray that God will bless them. What does this mean for how you treat
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others. You treat everyone with respect. That's a tall, tall order.
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I mean, this is where it gets it gets hard, right. I
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feel like I have to give a couple of disclaimers in here. I did
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this at some point in the last service too, and it wasn't planned.
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It's not planned now, it's just fits. I don't this. This is
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not me asking this of you. First of all, this is God's word.
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Second of all, I don't know your context. I don't know the
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pain. I don't know who has said what to you, and I don't
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know how deep that is. I don't know the maybe abuse you've endured in
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a room this size, plus watching online. I don't know the pain.
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And I'm certainly not suggesting and that it just all goes away when we just
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treat someone nice. This is not me giving this suggestion. In fact,
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it's not a suggestion at all. It's a mandate from the Lord. It's
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not it's not a responsibility to figure out where it goes once we bless.
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That's on God. But our instructions are very clear to bless. It's not
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an ask, it's a clear mandate, and it wasn't a new mandate because
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Jesus himself gave this mandates, so let's just add a little bit of fuel
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to this. Jesus said this in two places. In Matthew five forty four,
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he said, love your enemies. Love your enemies, not people you
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have conflict with, your enemies, and pray for those who persecute you.
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In Luke six, he said, love your enemies, do good to those
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who hate you, hate, bless those who curse you, and pray for
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the people who hurt you, hate and hurt. I mean, that's real
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talk right there. And I don't know about you. I don't know what
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is coming to your mind as I read these verses, if you're like me
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at all. As I was studying this this week, I was trying not
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to but couldn't help but review some of the meanest things people have done or
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said to me, or to one of my kids, or to my husband,
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or to my family. And I can't speak to every one of your
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issues, and that's not my job to do that. But they're real things.
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And when this mandate is given by Jesus himself, he also knows the
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very real things that have been said to you and done to you. And
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there isn't a disclaimer here of unless someone said this or unless they did this,
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it's just a mandate. It doesn't mean it's easy. It doesn't mean
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that it won't take work, and it certainly doesn't mean that it makes everything
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okay. We don't. I mean, this works the same as forgiveness.
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Right, So last week was a message on forgiveness, huge broad topic that
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we can only just barely do justice too by just bringing you some context to
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it. Same idea, this idea of respecting all human beings. I mean,
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that's there's a lot underneath where you and I are concerned, and yet
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the mandate is still there that we are to love and respect every image bearer
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of God. And people are mean, and if we're honest, we're mean
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too, or we can be. We have the ability, and we might
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we might shroud it in like where I'm just really sarcastic, or I'm just
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really quick witted, or I have a sharp tongue, or you know,
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whatever whatever comes to your mind. But we can be very mean. I
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was thinking about this, and I was thinking, I know you used to
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hear this too, but I used to hear this all the time when social
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media really became a big thing in our culture, and I used to hear
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people say that the worst thing about social media is how fake it is,
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how how indisingenuous the relationships are, how all your friends are not actually your
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friends, and the number of friends you have is not an indicator of who's
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actually your friend. They're all just fake relationships. And that's probably true.
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And then then I heard for a long time that the worst thing about social
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media is that we compare ourselves to somebody's highlight reel, like people boast their
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best photos, having the most fun in the most adventurous things, and everything
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looks great, and we're having a bad day and we're comparing our bad day
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to their highlights, and that is also true. Why I would you like
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to add my own two cents here? I think that the worst thing about
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social media is it has given every person the ability to say whatever they want,
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whenever they want to, in whatever tone, however bad. It might
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nuke or destroy another human being and hide cowardly behind their computer screen while they
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do it. And we're guilty too. Right now, in twenty twenty three,
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we are a people, and I'm just lumping us in because we all
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share some of this blame. Here in twenty twenty three. We are people
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who believe, we genuinely believe we have the right to say whatever we want.
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I mean, we have the opinion. Why can't we just say it.
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I mean most of us are too cowardly to say it to someone's face,
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but we'll say it somewhere. If it's not in a social media post,
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it's in a Google review or a Yelp review or you know. It's
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like you could go to a restaurant. You could go to the same restaurant
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and be treated well sixteen times and never post a single thing, but the
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minute somebody brings you your food a little bit too late, you just nuke
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them on a Google review or something. Because that's our culture. We have
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the right to say whatever we want. And yet here we have this mandate
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from the Lord that we are to treat every image bearer of God, because
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every person is made in the image of God, his own breath breathe into
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their lungs, and we're to treat every person with respect, honor, and
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love. I just was thinking, even this week, not to belabor this.
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I know you're with me and you understand, but I was thinking how
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much human nature it is to cheer when someone gets what's coming to them.
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Isn't it like someone does something bad and then they have something bad happen,
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and we're like karma or that's what you deserve or whatever, And how countercultural
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it would be to not just celebrate the wrong but pray the blessing into their
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life. It's just I mean, I could just walk off the stage right
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now and let you all sit here for an hour and chew on that,
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and it's gonna mess with us. But it almost goes without saying that we
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will avoid doing good to a person that we don't like or who has hurt
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us at all costs. And again, I am not making a suggestion we
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subject ourselves to unnecessary abuse. There is healthy boundaries and all of that,
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But I am pointing to God's word, and God's word says we don't get
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to curse. How about if I say it again, we don't get the
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curse. I don't mean metaphorically or spiritually like I hope you burn in hell
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like that also, just I'm gonna throw in we don't just don't get to
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say destructive words. If you can cuss like a drunken sailor and destroy somebody
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verbally that you don't get to curse. You don't in fact, you don't
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even get to just bite your tongue. You get to bless you and I
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we get to pray blessing. Years ago I took up this practice. Some
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of you have known me long enough to know I've challenged you to do this.
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If you have been wronged by somebody in your life and you've been trying
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to not think of them this whole time, but you've been wronged by somebody,
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hurt by somebody, it's very natural to want to avoid ever seeing them
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again. And I'm not saying you should put yourself in a place for abuse
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again. I hope I've made that disclaimer clear. But there was a period
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of time in my life, and you know, I don't want to like
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drag out a story, because I have plenty of failure stories, but this
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was the one time I feel like I think I got this one right.
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And it was somebody who I had allowed into my life. And that's what
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happens. Usually, the people that hurt us the most are the people who
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have access to hurt us. But I let this young lady into my life
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and at some point decided she hated me, and I honestly still to this
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day don't know why. But she spent about twelve years hating me, and
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I never to what I could think of. There was not like an actual
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thing that I did. I just couldn't figure it out. But she did
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a lot of damage. I've worked really hard to be somebody who lets things
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roll off of my back. And that's good. I mean, I feel
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like that's a good positive step. Sometimes that's the best thing you can do.
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Like sometimes died. Just sometimes me not saying anything is the best I
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can do. Great, take a step. So I just try to let
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things roll off my back. But it was really hard for me with her
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because she just had special access to cause me pain. And she talked really,
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really, really terribly about me, and she talked to a lot of
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people that I care a lot about really terribly about me, and it just,
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man, it was so hard, and so I try and avoid her,
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and I tried to work things out for a while and then I gave
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up on that. Anyway, long story short, they came to a point
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about twelve years in where I ran into her somewhere and she just was extra
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cruel to me, and I left that place crying, which isn't very unlike
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me. I don't usually let things get to me. And I drove home
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and for the next couple of days I just was praying, like what do
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I do with this? And I felt the Holy Spirit challenged me with two
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things. Number one, I need to forgive her and I need to ask
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her forgiveness. That was the first one. And you know, if you
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don't even know what you did to somebody and you have to apologize, how
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do you not make that a terrible apology like, oh, sorry, we're
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really good at saying that, right, Sorry, your kids are good at
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that. Sorry, that's genuine. Then you add in sorry, I don't
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know what I did, but sorry like this. So I really wrestled.
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I prayed over that. But then the Holy Spirit gave me this, this
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this image in my heart that she was in a jail cell and I helped
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the keys, and the message from the Lord was if you hold the keys,
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wouldn't you unlock the door? And and if I add on to that,
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really that idea was you can't make her leave the jail cell. I
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mean, she she hated me. You can't make her leave the cell of
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hate. But you could at least unlock the door. And that's so she
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had a lot to apologize to me for. But I could at least start,
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And I started without any expectation of anything in return. And I wrote
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her a letter, and I mean clearly I had hurt this girl. I
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wrote her a letter. I apologized, and I wish I could say like
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and then everything was great, because it wasn't great. But a couple of
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years later she actually reached out to me and asked she could take me to
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lunch, which I did not want to do because I did not want to
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get hurt more. But I went and she had no idea how much pain
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she had caused me. And in there me working hard to speak blessing,
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I looked her in the face and I said, I want you to know
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I have never said a negative word about you. That was my pledge from
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the beginning, is that never could I be quoted saying a single negative word
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about her. Again. I could tell you lots of failure stories. This
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is my one success story where I pledge I will not say a negative word
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about her. Between me sending her a letter asking for forgiveness and that lunch
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was about two or three years, and in there I just prayed blessing over
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her. I just prayed blessing. Do you know how hard that is to
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pray like that they'll get a promotion or that they'll be financially blessed, because
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truly I want this person to suffer because they've wronged me, and instead I
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prayed blessing. And as a result, our relationship is I mean, we
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don't have a relationship right Like, there was so much damage done, but
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there was forgiveness. I could stand before God and I can stand before you
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and say I did not speak negatively about her, and we had some closure
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and she actually ended up apologizing for how she had treated me, which I
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didn't was not looking for, and did not ask for. They don't all
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end up that way, guys. Not every time you pray blessing over someone
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does it have that kind of an ending. However, that's not the point.
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The point is that God says to bless those who persecute you, and
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to pray for those who have intended to harm you and cause you pain.
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And maybe you can take that more than you can take it on behalf of
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your kids. Maybe it's just thinking about your kids and thinking, oh,
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yeah, you can do whatever you want to me. But you harm one
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of my kids, I'm going to scratch your eyes out. I mean,
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we laugh about that, and yet the mandate is still here. Our responsibility
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is to pray blessing. Do you know that if we behave this way as
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Christians, we will stand out in any culture in the world. That kind
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of behavior is otherworldly, it is counter cultural. Let me just bring this
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home. Knowing that every human is made in the image of God should prompt
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us to see value in other people. And Jesus has charged us with this.
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In fact, he says it's the single factor by which people will know
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if we follow him. Do you love Jesus? People will know that by
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how you behave and treat other human beings. I mean, that's what he
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says. Seeing the value in other humans is not the same. Let me
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just say this as agreeing with them or affirming them, or being their best
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friend. Just because you see the value in somebody does not mean you have
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to agree with their choices, doesn't mean you have to agree with how they
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operate, or how they speak about other people or treat other people. Our
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world has confused this because our world thinks that to love someone, we must
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also affirm them in all of their choices. And I would like to propose
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to you that we can hold love and disagreement at the same time. Disagreement
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does not equal discrimination. Disagreement and love can coexist. If you are a
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parent in this place, please say amen. We can love and not affirm.
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We can disagree and still show respect. We can disagree and still treat
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the image bearers of God. Well, I'm gonna ask you to bow your
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heads because I'm gonna give you two challenges to leave here. And we really
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do want to send you out encouraged. If you're a mom here, we
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want you to feel celebrated and encouraged. But also this is some deep truth
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for us to wrestle with, and you may need to chew on this for
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a while. But I'm going to give you two challenges, and I'm going
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to ask you to respond to these challenges by raising your hand in just a
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moment. Challenge number one is going to be are you in here and you
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would say, God, I will take the opportunity to show respect to people
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you put in my path this week, and really we hope it extends beyond
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this week to next week and the week after we got we gotta build a
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habit here. So number one is God, I will take the opportunity you
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give me this week to show honor, to show respect to somebody you put
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in my path. Number two is going to be harder. Number two is
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going to be for those who have been hurt, which, by the way,
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is every person in this room and every person watching online. Every one
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of us has been hurt. Will you allow God to help you let go
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of the hurt, the pain, the desire to retaliate, and would you
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actually take the step to choose to pray blessing over someone who has hurt you.
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So here we go, go ahead and buy your heads. If they're
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not, I'm going to ask you to raise your hand. If number one
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you say, yep, I'll take the opportunity to show respect to someone God
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puts in my path this week. If that's you, would you just raise
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your hand. I just want to pray over all of us. Great,
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go ahead and put your hands down. And second, if you've been hurt
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and you say, you know what, I'm gonna give up that whole retaliation
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thing, even if it's just wishing that they suffer, I'm just gonna I'm
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gonna choose to pray blessing over someone who's hurt me. If that's you,
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would you raise your hand, it's awesome, Good job, guys. Great,
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we stand your feet with me as I close and prayer. Let's even
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take this one step further. Would you just put a hand over your heart
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and ask ask God to really be treat your heart that your heart would be
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soft? Would you pray with me? God? Right now? We take
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your word which makes us on comfortable and also delivers truth, and we say
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we want to act on it. And it's not going to be easy for
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probably anyone here. And you give us opportunity after opportunity to deal with difficult
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people, and most of them start in our own home. So we're saying,
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first of all, God, would you help us to show respect to
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whoever you put in our path this week? And that may be really difficult
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people and maybe someone we don't like, maybe someone we don't share a biblical
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world view with, or we don't share any kind of a worldview with,
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or we don't agree with their decisions their life choices, but you're going to
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put them in our path this week, and we get the opportunity to treat
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them as your image bearers. And second, God, every one of us
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with a hand over our heart. We've all been hurt, most of us
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multiple times, and we know who the people are that have hurt us and
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some of us. We're going to see those people maybe today, and we're
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asking God that you would help us to let go of that desire to retaliate
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and cause pain. In return, we're asking that you would help us to
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let go of the anger, let go of the hurt. It doesn't mean
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that there isn't consequences for what they've done. We're going to leave that to
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you. Instead, we make a choice, and we're asking for your help
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to turn our attitude towards praying blessing over them, Praying blessing, Praying that
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you would promote them and move them up in life, Praying that you would
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bless them financially, praying that you would bless their health and their relationships.
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God, we're asking you would pour out blessing on some of the most difficult
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people in our lives, and we're going to celebrate behind the scenes. It's
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like it's like a You and us behind the scenes secret that we get to
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pray blessing. We get to watch how you're moving and how you pour out
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blessing, and we're going to celebrate how you pour out blessing. And because
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of that, we understand people are going to recognize who we belong to because
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of our attitudes, and we belong to you. So help us reflect you
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while we're asking in your name. Amen,