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  1. Hey, hope.

  2. How you doing? Why don't we staying to our feet

  3. and we'll give the Lord praise.

  4. Let's dance like David did,

  5. Huh?

  6. There's a song that never season, day,

  7. night never ends.

  8. The elders and living creatures

  9. lay their crowns

  10. before there's a sound of worship

  11. rising to the king

  12. Of maje,

  13. Of resounding declaration.

  14. Hear your sing.

  15. Praise.

  16. Praise

  17. The rocks. Cry

  18. in.

  19. We won't hold back anything.

  20. We, the two weeks old

  21. the king be

  22. Lives

  23. Of power

  24. and on our praise now and forever

  25. Ing The

  26. Of And

  27. now and forever.

  28. Praise

  29. lives.

  30. How you doing? I hope. Well,

  31. Why don't you do yourselves a favor?

  32. Why don't you get to know somebody that's next to you,

  33. find out where they're from,

  34. what they're doing this week, uh,

  35. And

  36. but there's a

  37. Who,

  38. holy

  39. Jesus Christ

  40. Throne.

  41. Jesus Christ

  42. is worthy

  43. Only You.

  44. Who is who Is worthy.

  45. Only

  46. You Jesus.

  47. Only you Jesus

  48. Of all.

  49. Oh, you're,

  50. yes, you're

  51. Us.

  52. How high I

  53. turned and spoke your name

  54. into the night, then through the

  55. darkness

  56. Soul.

  57. So great.

  58. The

  59. Your Forever.

  60. Jesus Christ,

  61. Salvation in Your name, Jesus Christ,

  62. hallelujah has lost His,

  63. That

  64. The

  65. hall has lost,

  66. have salvation.

  67. Jesus Christ,

  68. Jesus Christ,

  69. Jesus Christ

  70. Church, can we sing that chorus again?

  71. Just one more time together.

  72. Sing Hallelujah.

  73. Praise The Who Send Me Free

  74. has lost its Grandpa, you

  75. salvation, in name Jesus Christ.

  76. Father, we thank you that you are our living hope

  77. we can celebrate because of what you have done in our lives.

  78. Speak to us now as we open your word.

  79. Father, we love you and we give you all of our praise

  80. and your precious and holy name.

  81. Amen. Church, it's been so great worshiping together.

  82. Why don't you grab a seat?

  83. Oh, I love that song. Jesus Christ is our living hope.

  84. I don't know if you really, really have thought about that,

  85. but hope is powerful.

  86. You know, I was reading in a book recently

  87. and it really challenged me

  88. 'cause I've always thought of myself

  89. as an optimistic person, a you know,

  90. half glass, full kind of person.

  91. And at moments I've prided myself in optimism.

  92. And this book was saying, you know,

  93. optimism at the end of the day.

  94. Although it, it, it's helpful, it's a feeling.

  95. But the difference in optimism

  96. and hope is hope is actually anchored in something.

  97. It's not just a feeling. It's anchored in our future,

  98. especially for us as believers in Jesus Christ.

  99. If we've accepted his salvation, our hope is anchored

  100. in a future with him forever and ever.

  101. And it's also anchored in the past,

  102. in his finished work on the cross

  103. through his death and resurrection.

  104. So much more than a feeling, hope is powerful.

  105. And Jesus Christ is my living hope.

  106. And if you've placed your faith in him,

  107. he is your living hope.

  108. Hope is real. Hope is good,

  109. and I think it's a pretty good name for a church as well.

  110. So welcome to Hope Community Church.

  111. It is so good to be with you guys.

  112. I'm thrilled to be with you today.

  113. If you're in the room, welcome. Thank you for coming.

  114. If you're watching online, thank you so much

  115. for taking time from your busy schedule to tune in

  116. and be with us for these moments together

  117. where we worship God, where we learn from his word.

  118. If you're new in the room

  119. or online, we would love to connect with you online.

  120. You can just put there in the chat, Hey, I'm new

  121. and we would love to connect with you online.

  122. If you're here in the room, we would love to connect

  123. with you after the service at an area

  124. that we call our next steps area.

  125. So when you're leaving, just look to your left

  126. and you'll see our next steps area.

  127. And we would love to help you with any questions

  128. that you have or online or in the room.

  129. If you simply text the word new to 7 2 9 8 9, we can connect

  130. with you that way as well.

  131. Well, today, this weekend is our final installment in this

  132. incredible series that we have been in called Field Notes,

  133. just going verse by verse, chapter by chapter

  134. through this letter

  135. that Paul the Apostle wrote over 2000 years ago

  136. to a particular pastor named Titus.

  137. And isn't it amazing that these words

  138. that were written primarily to one person,

  139. but also Paul meant for it to be shared with others,

  140. and it was shared with us so many years later,

  141. and the word of God is still rich and powerful,

  142. and we're learning so much,

  143. and we're remembering so many good things.

  144. So I'm so glad that today we get

  145. to learn some more from this powerful little letter,

  146. and we're gonna hear from one of our pastors

  147. and my good friend Dave Lenti

  148. Paul, a servant of God

  149. and an apostle of Jesus Christ

  150. to Titus my true son in our common faith.

  151. I write to you now with instructions on how to equip

  152. and establish a local church fueled by God's grace.

  153. We must strive to be equipped

  154. and established in sound doctrine, qualified leadership

  155. and godly living

  156. Well, hey, I am Dave.

  157. It is an absolute honor to be with you guys here today.

  158. If you brought your Bibles, you can turn with me to the,

  159. the very tail end of Titus, like the very super, super end,

  160. the part with all the names and the places

  161. and the personal greetings.

  162. That's gonna be our text for today.

  163. And while you're turning there, I have a quick word directly

  164. to any NC State fans in the house.

  165. Do we have any of those? Uh, any, okay, I see a few.

  166. That's good. That's good. I I'm an NC State fan.

  167. Um, but I gotta confess to you, sometimes it's hard

  168. to be an NC State fan, right?

  169. We've been disappointed once or twice.

  170. We've been conditioned where

  171. after the a, a bad first half that we can kind

  172. of think like, yeah, I think I've seen this one before.

  173. I know how this ends, I'm out of here.

  174. Well, we're not gonna do that to tie this today.

  175. We're gonna stay in the stadium.

  176. We're not gonna empty it out like Carter Finley Stadium,

  177. when you guys go and you tailgate

  178. and all that, we're gonna stay and finish this thing out.

  179. And the the truth is, many people get to the ending of,

  180. of any book and their reading plan,

  181. and they're like, yeah, I'm just gonna skip over that.

  182. That's not important for me.

  183. But I think what we're gonna see as we make it through

  184. to the end, that God has some really important

  185. truths for us to learn today.

  186. Let me read our text. I'm starting in, uh,

  187. Titus chapter three verses, uh, 12 through 15.

  188. It says this, when I send Artemis Ortus to you, do your best

  189. to come to me at Nelo for I have decided

  190. to spend the winter there.

  191. Do your best to speed Xus the lawyer

  192. and Apollos on their way.

  193. See that they lack nothing.

  194. And let our people learn to devote themselves to good works.

  195. So as to help cases of urgent need

  196. and not be unfruitful all who are

  197. with me send greetings to you.

  198. Greet those who love us in the faith, grace be with you all.

  199. Let me pray. Father, I'm reminded today that all

  200. of your word is God, breathed God.

  201. All of it is useful for, uh, training us up for teaching,

  202. correcting, uh, or training us up in righteousness, God.

  203. So as we look at this, this past, uh, this last few words

  204. that you wrote to t this God,

  205. may your Spirit point us toward the truths that you want us

  206. to hear today.

  207. We pray in Jesus name. Amen.

  208. Well, the gospel is the good news of Jesus Christ.

  209. It tells us who we are in light of who he is

  210. and what he's done on our behalf.

  211. But what does the gospel look like today?

  212. Is the gospel something that you can point to and say?

  213. Yeah, there it is. That's it.

  214. Is it something you can observe in action

  215. or is it something that's just merely believed?

  216. I think the text today is gonna help us answer

  217. that question, what the gospel looks like today.

  218. And we're gonna take it verse

  219. by verse like we've been doing throughout this series.

  220. So go back with me to verse 12.

  221. It says, when I send Artemis Ticus to you, do your best

  222. to come to me at Nelo for I have decided

  223. to spend the winter there.

  224. Do your best to speed Zeus,

  225. the lawyer in Apollo on their way, see

  226. that they lack nothing.

  227. So the first field note,

  228. the gospel looks like sent people sharing God's message.

  229. The gospel has been from the very beginning

  230. and always will be central to the church of Jesus.

  231. Christ is the gospel that rescues us, that redeems us

  232. and transforms us.

  233. It's the message by which we make disciples.

  234. Disciples are followers of Jesus.

  235. There're those who have put their faith

  236. and trust in what the gospel teaches about Jesus'

  237. death and resurrection.

  238. And so with all the, the names

  239. that we see in these first few verses, uh,

  240. of our text today,

  241. we get this real life like historical account of

  242. how people have responded to the last words

  243. that Jesus ever said before he ascended into heaven.

  244. We can read those words in Acts one, eight.

  245. He says, you shall be my witnesses in Jerusalem

  246. and in all Judea and Samaria into the end of the earth.

  247. It's vital that we understand this is our mission.

  248. You have been sent to be his witnesses.

  249. We have a gospel sharing mission.

  250. And as we do this, and as people repent

  251. and put their faith in Jesus Christ and his death

  252. and his resurrection, they become disciples.

  253. And we're called to do this. We're sent

  254. to do this in our homes, in our communities

  255. and in the next town over and to the very ends of the earth.

  256. And also with all the people we see in this text,

  257. we see like from the very beginning

  258. that this has never been a solo effort.

  259. It's never been a solo mission. It's always included.

  260. All of us, all of his church people are being sent all over.

  261. That includes you. And this is still ongoing today,

  262. and you might have missed it,

  263. but in verse 12, there's this,

  264. this huge significant plot twist here for Titus.

  265. I mean, imagine for a moment that you're Pastor Titus

  266. and you get this letter from the Apostle Paul

  267. and you're like, oh, great, the Apostle Paul.

  268. I mean, this might be in the Bible one day.

  269. This is really cool. Let's see what he says.

  270. Let's see the things that he says I need to set in order.

  271. Okay, he says, um, I need to choose some elders

  272. to help fill the leadership void in the church.

  273. Yep. All right, that sounds like a wise plan.

  274. Let's see what else. He says. Ah,

  275. he heard about the false teachers

  276. that we've got running around here.

  277. He says, I need to silence them

  278. and rebuke them that that's not gonna be fun.

  279. But I agree that needs to be done.

  280. Let's see, what else does he say?

  281. He says, I need to teach sound doctrine

  282. to every family in the church,

  283. to husbands, to wives, to children.

  284. Well, I mean, that seems important.

  285. We gotta have healthy families. Let me make a note.

  286. Looks like it's time to start a reengage

  287. and hope for parents again.

  288. Let's see, what else?

  289. Ah, there's some, some reinforcements coming.

  290. There's some new pastors coming that I need

  291. to make sure I take care of before I leave the church

  292. and move to necropolis.

  293. Wait, what? I'm leaving. I'm being replaced.

  294. That's right. Pastor Titus finds out right here

  295. that he's being replaced

  296. as the pastor in the church in Crete.

  297. I think we can agree none of this stuff that, uh,

  298. Titus has been commanded to set an order is gonna be easy.

  299. None of it is gonna be comfortable for Titus.

  300. And I think if we're honest, we all tend

  301. to move toward what's comfortable,

  302. what's familiar, what's easy.

  303. I know I do, but when we rightly understand the centrality

  304. of the gospel mission that we have, that we're on,

  305. we can't hold too tightly to our, our current circumstances,

  306. to their comfort of the familiarity.

  307. You see, the the place

  308. where you're living might not be the place where you,

  309. you retire in the, the job

  310. that you have today may not be the job that you have

  311. tomorrow, the health that you're enjoying today.

  312. It, it might change completely

  313. by the time you go to the doctor.

  314. Next. God often calls his people

  315. to new things into new places, and it's never by accident

  316. and it's often uncomfortable.

  317. In fact, it's worth asking.

  318. If you think God is calling you to something

  319. that's really familiar and really easy

  320. and really comfortable, it's worth asking, is it God

  321. that's actually calling you to that?

  322. Or is it just you? And I'm not saying

  323. that comfortable things and,

  324. and pleasures and all that is bad.

  325. If God has given you those, praise him. Enjoy him.

  326. Give him glory for that.

  327. But as I look through scripture, what I see is God has,

  328. I can't find one example of God calling someone specific

  329. to something really easy and familiar and comfortable.

  330. And if there's any parting shots that Paul gives to Titus

  331. before he signs off this letter, I think we can agree.

  332. It's in verse 14. He says this, let our people learn.

  333. In fact, this is the last command, the last imperative given

  334. to Titus in this letter.

  335. Learn that the people of God need to be learning.

  336. And by extension that pastors

  337. and church leaders need to be teaching.

  338. This is not a new idea he's

  339. introducing here in in the closing.

  340. In fact, if you've been tracking along, he,

  341. he shared this idea throughout the word teach has

  342. already been used three times.

  343. The word taught past tense.

  344. Another time the word doctrine, which basically means

  345. biblical teaching four more times the command

  346. to remind them three more times.

  347. It's clear from start to finish of this letter that pastors

  348. and leaders of this church need to be teaching.

  349. And that everyone here needs to be learning.

  350. And the command form of learn in the Greek, it's manino.

  351. I love this, that it's a cognate

  352. with the word disciple itself, meaning that followers of g

  353. of God, disciples are by nature learners.

  354. I think that's really cool. And since we're commanded

  355. to learn, we, we need to be reminded how disciples learn.

  356. Well, before I was a pastor, I was a teacher for 11 years.

  357. And basically a teacher's job is

  358. to make sure students learn that's what they do.

  359. And so, uh, my job, um, is to teach these kids.

  360. And, and in my observation,

  361. what I've learned is there's three basic

  362. ingredients needed for learning.

  363. You need instruction, you need observation,

  364. and you need practice, instruction,

  365. observation, and practice.

  366. Let me give you an example. My son recently

  367. learned to play the guitar.

  368. And actually he's getting really good,

  369. but he didn't learn to play the guitar just

  370. by reading a book about guitars.

  371. He didn't learn by, uh, uh,

  372. by just getting together in a men's group

  373. and talking about guitars.

  374. He learned through instruction and observation and practice.

  375. So, uh, for instruction, he's got this app that he goes to

  376. and he can look up the chords to all the songs he wants

  377. to learn for observation.

  378. He goes to YouTube and he watches these

  379. master guitar players.

  380. He sees the shape of their hands

  381. as they form these complicated chords.

  382. And he observes the songs by listening to them over

  383. and over hearing the rhythm and the tempo.

  384. So he knows how they're supposed to sound,

  385. and then he practices repetitions are required.

  386. He practices and he practices

  387. and he practices until it sounds just right.

  388. Instruction, observation, practice.

  389. Paul has been saying these same things from start to finish

  390. of this book that disciples in the church need instruction.

  391. We need observation, we need practice.

  392. And our instruction comes right here.

  393. Biblical doctrine is our instruction.

  394. This is why we gather weekly to learn what God's word has

  395. to say because we so quickly forget.

  396. It's why we teach classes like re-engage

  397. and hope for parents so that you can see

  398. what biblical doctrine has

  399. to say about the most important relationships in life.

  400. But we don't just need instruction.

  401. We also need observation.

  402. We need strong parents modeling what it looks like.

  403. We need strong husbands, strong wives.

  404. We need strong single men and strong single women.

  405. We need, uh, pastors and elders

  406. and mentors in place that are living out the kind

  407. of godly living that we are to observe

  408. and model our lives after.

  409. We need to observe and learn from them.

  410. And we need practice. We need repetitions.

  411. We need to practice what we're learning is true,

  412. what we're observing in others.

  413. And thankfully, life gives us those opportunities in every

  414. single interaction, in every single relationship.

  415. We simply just need to learn

  416. to see the people God puts in front

  417. of our eyes every single day.

  418. Instruction, observation, practice.

  419. Okay, so what are we supposed to be learning?

  420. Well, let's look back at verse 14.

  421. This might sound familiar if you've been tracking along

  422. with us throughout the series.

  423. He says, let our people learn

  424. to devote themselves to good works.

  425. The gospel is not an intellectual pursuit.

  426. Field note number two,

  427. the gospel is lived out with good works.

  428. We're not commanded to learn just for the sake of learning.

  429. We're commanded to learn sound doctrine for the purpose

  430. of living it out.

  431. The gospel isn't just our means of forgiveness.

  432. Gospel living is never intended to be passive.

  433. The gospel invites us.

  434. It it invites us to, to enjoy that freedom in a response

  435. by leaving our me centered way of, of living behind

  436. and enjoying the abundant life

  437. that good works can provide for us.

  438. The gospel demands of response from our lives.

  439. Jesus taught this idea in John 14.

  440. He says, if you love me, you'll keep my commandments.

  441. In other words, if you love me, then you'll live this out.

  442. Look at what Jesus' brother said, uh, James.

  443. He said, what good is it? What good is it my brothers?

  444. If someone says he has faith

  445. but he does not have works, can that faith save him?

  446. What good is that? So also, faith by itself,

  447. if it does not have works, is dead.

  448. Still not convinced. Look at

  449. what Paul says in Ephesians two 10.

  450. He says, we were,

  451. we are his workmanship created in Christ Jesus.

  452. For what? For good works.

  453. Bonus one, the Apostle John,

  454. I don't know if we have this on the, on the side screens,

  455. but he says in one John two, four, that if you claim

  456. to know him but you aren't obeying his commands,

  457. that you are a liar.

  458. Well, that's uncomfortable.

  459. Devoting ourselves to good works is not just

  460. what we're supposed to learn.

  461. It's why we're supposed to learn.

  462. And it's how we're supposed to be living our lives.

  463. And this is all about the gospel. Don't misunderstand.

  464. It's all for the mission.

  465. If you're lacking purpose, as you sit here today,

  466. the gospel supplies that for you.

  467. Think about what devoting yourselves to good works does.

  468. First in your own heart.

  469. I mean, we saw it last week in the, in the,

  470. in the previous paragraph, uh, right

  471. before this text that we were once foolish, disobedient,

  472. let astray slaves to various passions and pleasures.

  473. See, apart from the gospel,

  474. before the gospel entered our lives, the way

  475. that we walked was in service

  476. to our own imaginary tiny me kingdom.

  477. This tiny kingdom, a kingdom of one, you living

  478. for yourself, devoting yourself to yourself

  479. and expecting everyone else to devote themselves to you too.

  480. So with every good work that we do in response

  481. to the gospel, we're reminding ourselves it's

  482. actually not about us.

  483. That we can set aside our selfish ambition and vain concede,

  484. and even just for a moment that we, we would learn to live

  485. for others as we serve them.

  486. Paradoxically, this is where you find joy in life.

  487. And, and then that's what it does in your own heart.

  488. But think about what devoting yourselves to good works does

  489. for the sake of the gospel, for the sake of those

  490. who are hearing the message.

  491. We're trying to share this message that you've been called

  492. to share the good news of Jesus' death

  493. and resurrection, the forgiveness

  494. that he offers by his grace.

  495. We're, we're not called to just walk

  496. around and tell people this.

  497. We're we're commanded to live it right where you are

  498. in your homes, in your community, at work,

  499. in the grocery store, at the soccer field,

  500. every single day in each interaction,

  501. in each relationship in life.

  502. Paul is saying, we have to learn

  503. to devote ourselves to do this.

  504. In fact, the gospel sharing mission depends on this.

  505. There's absolutely nothing mystical to this field.

  506. Note number three, we need to learn to align our lives to

  507. what we already believe is true about Jesus Christ.

  508. There's a gap. What good is it if we claim

  509. to have faith, but we're doing nothing about it?

  510. It's no good at all. Paul says, it's fruitless.

  511. James says it's dead.

  512. John says, you might be a liar if you claim to have that.

  513. Be careful. There are eternal implications here.

  514. A sincere claim to faith is not synonymous

  515. with a sincere saving faith.

  516. The evidence of saving faith is good works,

  517. or perhaps more strongly put.

  518. The evidence of inauthentic faith is a lack of good works.

  519. In other words, it's possible to,

  520. to have good works apart from faith.

  521. Just look at every single humanitarian

  522. organization on the planet.

  523. But it is impossible to have true,

  524. authentic faith apart from works faith

  525. and good works are inseparable with true faith.

  526. Good works aren't a burden, they're a joy.

  527. But Paul is saying they have to be learned

  528. because it doesn't come naturally to us with our me kingdom.

  529. Selfish hearts.

  530. So notice Paul suggests

  531. that some needs are more urgent than others.

  532. And, uh, whatever campus you attend, you need to know

  533. that there are urgent needs that need to be met by you so

  534. that we are not seen as unfruitful.

  535. There's needs that you can meet

  536. and your campus pastors can tell you more about that

  537. as the at the wrap up or go find them and ask them.

  538. But I wanna look, I wanna examine what are the good works

  539. that Paul is telling Titus that he, his church needs

  540. to devote themselves to,

  541. because I think we can learn from these as well.

  542. Well, to do that, we gotta go back

  543. and look at the whole letter as a whole.

  544. And the term good works

  545. or works itself is used eight times throughout this letter.

  546. Okay? He's not introducing something new.

  547. And, uh, as we go back

  548. and look at that, uh, you might think that good works.

  549. I think our mind naturally goes toward these large scale

  550. humanitarian efforts like, uh, feeding the hungry

  551. and finding shelter for the homeless.

  552. Those things are good and,

  553. and they're talked about elsewhere,

  554. but they're not here in this text.

  555. Those aren't the good works that Paul is talking about.

  556. Go back and look at them. You'll see that the good works

  557. that he describes are all lived out in our daily

  558. interactions with other people.

  559. We'll see that the good works he talks about are all about

  560. character in our relationships

  561. that good works are never impersonal.

  562. That in every interaction

  563. and every relationship that we would learn

  564. to devote ourselves to good works

  565. by showing godly character with others.

  566. Let me remind you of some of the good works.

  567. Paul calls out specifically, he says, showing integrity,

  568. dignity, sound, speech, that that means just speaking

  569. what is true, self controlled, obedient, quiet,

  570. not quarreling, gentle showing courtesy to all people,

  571. showing hospitality, not arrogant, not quick temper,

  572. not violent, not greedy.

  573. These are, are just a few of the kinds of good works that,

  574. that Paul has told Titus he needs to teach.

  575. And we could look at each single one of them and,

  576. and preach a sermon on every single one separately.

  577. But for today's purposes,

  578. we're just gonna look at one self-control.

  579. We need to learn to devote ourselves to self-control.

  580. This term, uh, appears four times in this letter.

  581. So that repetition alone should get our attention.

  582. The, the word self-control.

  583. It means, uh, temperate, moderate in passion,

  584. sensible curbing one's, uh,

  585. tendency toward overly emotional outbursts.

  586. We need to learn to be gentle.

  587. We need to learn to be courteous, not angry.

  588. People holding up signs at rallies, not fighting

  589. for what's right with, with violence, not engaging in

  590. loud heated debates all over the place,

  591. not posting long angry rants on social media.

  592. We need to learn to devote ourselves

  593. to a different way of life.

  594. By the way, I I have never once argued or debated

  595. or fought someone into a relationship with Jesus Christ.

  596. I've never seen that happen.

  597. And Paul is saying the same thing.

  598. We should live different than that.

  599. We should be quiet, we should be dignified,

  600. we should be self controlled.

  601. And don't misunderstand me.

  602. I'm not saying that we should be passive.

  603. In fact, I'm saying that we should actively pursue

  604. godly, uh, good works.

  605. That we should be pursuing good deeds all

  606. for the sake of the gospel.

  607. That every interaction, every single relationship on earth

  608. as we go about sharing, uh, these good works with them,

  609. that the gospel itself would be

  610. so much more clearly communicated

  611. than our words could ever do.

  612. I mean, you guys, how are we supposed

  613. to share a compelling gospel?

  614. The greatest story of love this world has ever seen?

  615. If we're walking around angry

  616. and arguing with everyone, our lives need to match

  617. what we believe is true in the gospel of Jesus.

  618. We don't want to give people an easy excuse

  619. to dismiss the message because our lives don't match up.

  620. This is a, a good point for me to pause

  621. and to confess, I need to devote myself

  622. to learning self-control.

  623. I like to think of myself as a passionate and direct person.

  624. Uh, the pastors around here, in fact, they find my level

  625. of passion and my level of direct directness like hilarious.

  626. Um, and sometimes in meetings they will intentionally say

  627. things that they know will fire me up just,

  628. just to amuse themselves.

  629. They, they do this. I I am a passionate person.

  630. They know that actually Pastor

  631. Dwayne, he's the worst at this.

  632. Um, sometimes I say things that are true, but

  633. because I lack self-control, they should just,

  634. they're things that are better left unsaid.

  635. You want to hear a confession, uh, of one

  636. of the dumbest things I ever said as a pastor

  637. of, of course you do.

  638. It might be the only thing you remember today, right?

  639. Um, one day back when I was the Apex Campus pastor,

  640. this woman walked up to me after service

  641. and she was really mad about something.

  642. I honestly don't remember what she was mad about.

  643. Something what I thought was trivial.

  644. Either it was too loud or not loud enough or too hot,

  645. or not hot enough or too much haze or maybe not enough haze.

  646. I don't know. It probably wasn't, not enough haze.

  647. No one's ever asked for more haze.

  648. But anyway, she was really mad

  649. and she actually asked for an apology.

  650. She said, you need to apologize to me.

  651. And I found that really aggressive. And so I did.

  652. Here, here's what I said. I said, you're right.

  653. I do owe you an apology. It actually is our fault.

  654. Somewhere along the way, we made you think that our services

  655. around here are all about you.

  656. I'm so sorry about that. Yeah, that's what I said.

  657. Her jaw dropped and then my jaw dropped,

  658. and I thought, oh my gosh, tell me that.

  659. I didn't just say that, that I was just thinking that,

  660. please, but no, I said it.

  661. And no, I never saw her again at a hope service

  662. ever again, as you can imagine.

  663. And also side note,

  664. I am no longer the campus pastor at Apex.

  665. Uh, um, Doug is way nicer.

  666. He is way more self-control than I could ever be.

  667. The point is, I'm still learning.

  668. I need to devote myself to learning self-control.

  669. It's hard, right?

  670. I mean, even when we have instruction,

  671. even when I read God's word every single day, even when,

  672. when, uh, I have mentors around me, people that I look up

  673. to, to observe from, even when, when, when I have practice

  674. and every interaction and every relationship, learning

  675. to devote ourselves to self-control is just hard.

  676. Let's just confess that.

  677. I mean, how are you supposed to learn to show self-control

  678. to your spouse or to your ex-spouse

  679. when they disappoint you or they hurt you?

  680. Again, students, how are you supposed

  681. to learn self-control when you walk into class on the first

  682. day and you see that kid that's been bullying you online?

  683. How are you supposed to learn self-control with,

  684. with the simple things, the everyday things like posting on

  685. social media, things

  686. that make us look better than we actually are.

  687. We need to learn self-control.

  688. And sometimes instruction, observation

  689. and practice aren't enough.

  690. We inevitably fall short.

  691. In fact, maybe you're sitting here today

  692. and you're thinking, yeah, I know that I fall short.

  693. In fact, I know there is this impossibly huge gap

  694. between the way I'm living my life and,

  695. and the God that I say I believe in.

  696. And I hope no one else will find out how big that gap is.

  697. Well, the truth is, we all have that gap.

  698. None of us measures up.

  699. And so there's one more thing we need in order to learn

  700. to devote ourselves to these kind of good works.

  701. Paul gives it to us in the last five words of this letter.

  702. He says, grace, be with you all.

  703. Grace is good news, you guys.

  704. And Paul knew we needed one more reminder of his grace.

  705. Grace is the undeserved love of God to all people

  706. revealed to us in Jesus Christ.

  707. Feel. Note number four, God's grace closes the gap between

  708. how we live our lives and

  709. what we believe about Jesus Christ.

  710. For the Christ follower grace fills every gap.

  711. What we don't know, grace teaches what we don't have.

  712. Grace provides what we are not. Grace makes us.

  713. You guys look at this verse. It's incredible.

  714. Uh, it's from two Corinthians nine, eight.

  715. Paul says, God is able to make all grace abound to you so

  716. that having all sufficiency in all things at all times,

  717. you may abound in every good work, all things, all times.

  718. That's how big his grace is.

  719. And we've seen throughout Titus that God's grace,

  720. it teaches us, uh, it it teaches us in two directions

  721. that not only saves us, it teaches us to say no

  722. to certain things, to renounce bad behaviors so

  723. that we can say yes to better things.

  724. His grace encourages us

  725. and enables us to do what we couldn't do without it.

  726. But we have to be careful. This relationship that exists

  727. between work, uh,

  728. and grace in the gospel is often misunderstood.

  729. There's some bad theology traps that we can fall into.

  730. So let me remind you of a few.

  731. The first one is this, that, um, that we could think that

  732. by our good works, we could somehow earn some credit into

  733. our God accounts by what we're doing, by serving

  734. or by tithing, that we could somehow tip the scales in our

  735. favor or climb the rope on our own

  736. effort to get into heaven.

  737. Well, let me make this as clear as Paul does in scripture.

  738. We are saved by grace, not by our good works,

  739. but for our good works.

  740. Good works don't make us acceptable to God.

  741. That's the opposite of what the gospel teaches.

  742. Jesus didn't come so that he could teach us how

  743. to make ourselves acceptable to God.

  744. Jesus came to save those who

  745. by their nature are unacceptable.

  746. That's the gospel. That's the good news.

  747. And there's another trap that we often fall.

  748. And there's people here that say, you know what?

  749. I don't have to do good works. This isn't for me.

  750. Since God has executed a not guilty verdict on my life,

  751. because of the grace of Jesus Christ,

  752. I don't have to do good works.

  753. His law doesn't matter to me. In fact, I'm not under law.

  754. I'm under grace. And that last part is true.

  755. It comes from Romans six 14.

  756. But the fact is this, that the law

  757. of God is written on the hearts of his children in order so

  758. that we might know what it is to love him.

  759. That's Romans two 15.

  760. See, God's law and God's grace,

  761. they're not an opposition to one another.

  762. Grace and obedient works.

  763. They, they go together like two petals of a bicycle.

  764. I wanna explain what this looks like in my own life.

  765. Uh, God's grace humbles proud hearts like mine.

  766. When I remember God's grace, it teaches me to ask

  767. for feedback in areas that I'm weak, like self-control.

  768. His grace teaches me daily to pray and ask for his help.

  769. His grace teaches me to apologize

  770. to my wife when I've wronged her, his grace,

  771. it also encourages me.

  772. It spurs me into action.

  773. When my life is getting lazy

  774. or sloppy, it starts to close the gap between what I believe

  775. and how I'm living my life.

  776. And his grace allows forgiveness.

  777. I don't know that there's anything better than I can tell

  778. you that because of the grace of Jesus,

  779. if your faith is in him, you are forgiven.

  780. I'm forgiven. And God made a way for for us to walk in

  781. that forgiveness every single day.

  782. Your debt has been paid in full, his grace,

  783. it saves us, it trains us up.

  784. It transforms us.

  785. This is the story that the Bible tells from

  786. Genesis to Revelation.

  787. The Bible is a story of rescue.

  788. The Bible is a story of redemption.

  789. And perhaps above all the, the Bible is a story

  790. of God's loving grace for you and for me.

  791. The Bible tells us that we were created in God's image,

  792. not not an accident by some primordial sludge

  793. that came together and started living and, and thinking

  794. and breathing and loving.

  795. Like that's crazy.

  796. No, that God spoke and we were created in his image.

  797. And because we're created in his image, that means

  798. that every single person on earth has

  799. dignity inherent in them.

  800. That we should treat them with respect just

  801. because they're also made in God's image.

  802. But sadly, tragically, we see that the image of us,

  803. God's image, uh, in us rather has been spoiled.

  804. It's been tainted by our sin.

  805. And after sin enters into the story, we see

  806. that God doesn't just give up on us and move on that.

  807. Instead, we see God

  808. as this relentless pursuer and lover of people.

  809. And he puts this plan of action into place,

  810. this rescue plan, this plan of redemption,

  811. this plan of grace.

  812. And by grace, God gives us his law.

  813. He gives us his commands.

  814. These are his grace that he gives it to us.

  815. It's not to, to keep us locked up in a box and not have fun.

  816. God's law teaches us what's right and wrong.

  817. It keeps us away from the things that are,

  818. that are gonna hurt us from the guilt and the shame

  819. and the suffering that sin causes.

  820. God's law is a grace to us.

  821. The problem is none of us is able to keep it.

  822. Each of us have failed over and over.

  823. We're all found guilty.

  824. And so by his grace, God sends his only son Jesus Christ,

  825. God himself in human form.

  826. And nobody lived like Jesus lived. You should see the grace.

  827. You should read about it in the

  828. gospels, the grace He showed others.

  829. No one lived like him. No one loved like him.

  830. He was obedient to all the places in this that we failed.

  831. He was victorious in every way that, that we were defeated.

  832. And then amazingly astonishingly by his grace,

  833. Jesus willingly hung on a cross for you and for me.

  834. He endured a brutal execution, taking our place, one perfect

  835. sinless sacrifice in exchange for all of us.

  836. And Jesus didn't stay dead

  837. By God's grace, he rose again.

  838. He's alive. We sang about it today. He is our living hope.

  839. He's a he's resurrected.

  840. And the moment that we confess that the moment

  841. that we believe, the moment we confess with our mouth

  842. that Jesus is Lord,

  843. and we believe in our hearts

  844. that God raised him from the dead, we will be saved.

  845. Titus says in three seven

  846. that we will be justified by his grace.

  847. Justified. That word I I was taught years ago

  848. that justified, meant, justified, never sinned.

  849. I gotta tell you, it's so much better than that,

  850. that we were, when we're in Christ,

  851. we're not put back into the way that things were with Adam

  852. and Eve before sin.

  853. It's so much better than that.

  854. We learn that scripture teaches us that he

  855. who knew no sin became sin on our behalf so

  856. that we could become the righteousness of God.

  857. You guys, that's unthinkable the victory that we sang about,

  858. that Jesus, uh, accomplished his obedience, all of

  859. that is credited to our account if we are found in him.

  860. That's good news. This is by grace, not by work so

  861. that no one can boast.

  862. And having accomplished all that he set out to do,

  863. he ascends into heaven.

  864. And he's seated right now at the right hand of the Father,

  865. the, the, the writer of Hebrews.

  866. He says, he's upholding the universe by the word

  867. of his power, by grace,

  868. he's holding everything together in your life.

  869. He's giving you the breath, you're breathing,

  870. he's sustaining it all.

  871. We learn that he lives in constant

  872. intercession on our behalf.

  873. It's like he's seated at the right hand of the Father

  874. and he is saying, yeah, that one

  875. right there, that's our boy.

  876. That's our girl. Holy and beloved and righteous and pure,

  877. because I paid the price for them.

  878. They're debt is paid.

  879. And Jesus doesn't leave us by going to heaven.

  880. He doesn't leave us alone. By his grace,

  881. he sends the Holy Spirit that when we put the moment,

  882. we put our faith and trust in Jesus, the Spirit indwells us.

  883. It lives He, he lives within us. He transforms us.

  884. He molds us. He shapes us.

  885. He's growing us up into the measure of the stature

  886. of the fullness of Jesus Christ.

  887. Paul says in Ephesians four,

  888. his grace is closing the gap between

  889. what we believe and how we live.

  890. His grace is in planning in us a new hope and a new purpose.

  891. It's allowing us, uh, this new mission to share this grace

  892. with others, that as,

  893. as we join in this worldwide rescue mission,

  894. as we live out these good works, as we share the good news

  895. of Jesus' death and resurrection, that we will get

  896. to experience this life change in other people.

  897. That we will see people right in front

  898. of our eyes move from death toward life.

  899. They'll find freedom by grace.

  900. His family of families is growing today by grace.

  901. His kingdom is expanding.

  902. We celebrate it every time we celebrate a baptism.

  903. And by grace, his story is not over.

  904. Jesus is coming back.

  905. And when he does make no mistake, evil

  906. and all of his proponents are gonna be

  907. judged and punished forever.

  908. But those of us that remain faithful to the end, and I pray

  909. and I'm found among them, I pray my wife

  910. and my children are found among them.

  911. I pray that you remain faithful to the end.

  912. No matter how hard the world gets, no matter

  913. how shiny the things of the world are, remain faithful

  914. to the end because if we do,

  915. his word teaches us that we are gonna be exalted,

  916. we're gonna be glorified, we're gonna be

  917. with him forever in eternity.

  918. You gotta read about it in Revelation 21

  919. and 22, that what we've been after, what God's been

  920. after from the very beginning will become true.

  921. That we will be as people

  922. and he will be our God forever the way that it was designed

  923. to be, except this time without sin ever having a chance

  924. to separate us again from the love

  925. that is ours in Christ Jesus.

  926. It's a story of grace

  927. that we read about from beginning to end.

  928. It's a story of the gospel. It's available to you.

  929. I wish I could describe his grace better to you.

  930. I wish I had more passion. I wish my words didn't fall flat.

  931. I hope I sing about his amazing grace until the day I die.

  932. I'm glad you stayed with me to the end.

  933. I'm glad you didn't leave early

  934. to go tailgating like an NC State fan after halftime.

  935. Otherwise, you might have missed one last reminder to Titus

  936. of his amazing grace.

  937. The gospel demands a response.

  938. Imagine what it would look like if we all responded

  939. by living the gospel, by sharing the gospel.

  940. It demands a response. So how will you respond? Lemme pray.

  941. God, I thank you for your grace.

  942. I ask today, what does the gospel look like?

  943. I think it looks like your son, Jesus.

  944. God, I pray that we wouldn't just people that walk

  945. around talking about Jesus,

  946. although we probably need to do that more.

  947. God, I pray that we would be people that live your gospel,

  948. that we devote ourselves to learning these good works.

  949. God, that in every interaction

  950. and in every relationship,

  951. that we would see the people right in front of us, God,

  952. that all of it would be for your glory and for our good.

  953. Thank you for your amazing grace, we pray in Jesus' name.

  954. Amen.

  955. Such A good word.

  956. Such a good reminder. And Paul, the apostle,

  957. so faithfully reminded Titus, which these

  958. so many years later is continuing to remind us

  959. of his amazing grace, I hope the grace

  960. of our Lord Jesus Christ still amazes you.

  961. Or maybe for the first time it clicked tonight

  962. and it amazes you.

  963. And if something is happening in your heart, in your life,

  964. and the grace, the unmerited, kindness, unmerited favor

  965. of God, not about your good works to earn something,

  966. but about how much he loved you and gave himself for you.

  967. If that's making sense for the first time, man,

  968. don't leave here without talking to one of us

  969. or going to next steps.

  970. Or if you're online putting something there in the chat

  971. ham beginning to understand his amazing grace.

  972. And I love how Dave showed us so clearly

  973. that it's his amazing grace that closes,

  974. that gap closes man.

  975. And I need that grace daily that closes that gap between

  976. what I believe, what we believe and how we live.

  977. And one of the ways that we live out those good

  978. works is in serving.

  979. Dave talked about urgent needs

  980. because that's what Paul talked about,

  981. good works and urgent needs.

  982. And at each of our campuses here at Hope,

  983. we have urgent needs for people to step up

  984. because we are a family

  985. who loves God follows Jesus and shares hope.

  986. But how we love God, how we follow Jesus, how we share hope

  987. happens through our family responsibilities.

  988. Some might call them family chores,

  989. but those responsibilities are good works.

  990. And those responsibilities sometimes look like welcoming

  991. people into the parking lot

  992. or into our church as a part of first impressions.

  993. Sometimes those good works, those good responsibilities

  994. that serving looks like raising up the next generation

  995. by pouring into them in kid city

  996. or in middle school ministry or high school ministry.

  997. We have urgent needs.

  998. And if the Holy Spirit is working on you to get involved in

  999. what he's doing in

  1000. and through this church, I wanna encourage you just do this.

  1001. Text the word serve to 7, 2, 9, 8, 9.

  1002. It'll take you to a link. You'll be sent a link.

  1003. And then on that link, first thing you do,

  1004. put the campus that you attend.

  1005. And as soon as you put in that campus, you will see

  1006. those urgent needs at the top of the page there.

  1007. We would love for you by the grace of God. Don't worry.

  1008. And don't worry about not being equipped to do it.

  1009. The grace of God fills that gap. And we'll help you out too.

  1010. I know some of you are planners in this place,

  1011. and so you like to plan things far in advance.

  1012. So knowing that we wanted to leave you today with some dates

  1013. to save that are coming up in the month of August,

  1014. two very important dates to put on your plan.

  1015. The first is August 10th.

  1016. It is our Vision Night, our All in Vision Night.

  1017. It's going to be at 5:00 PM right

  1018. here at the Raleigh campus.

  1019. It's where all of our campuses come together.

  1020. We're gonna worship together, we're gonna pray together.

  1021. We're gonna hear from Jason, our lead pastor, some

  1022. of our elders about where God has us, where he's taking us.

  1023. And we are in an exciting season.

  1024. So please plan to join us on the 10th for

  1025. that all in Vision Night.

  1026. And two weeks later on the 24th, it's going to be similar,

  1027. but it's what we're calling a campus family

  1028. prayer experience.

  1029. And at that time, at that gathering,

  1030. that prayer gathering families

  1031. of the campuses coming together, praying together,

  1032. hearing from the campus pastor

  1033. and other campus leaders of what God is calling us

  1034. to do specifically in our communities.

  1035. So please be with us on the 10th of August and the 24th.

  1036. If there's anything that we can do to serve you

  1037. or your family, please let us know if you're here

  1038. with us today and your new stop

  1039. by our next steps if you're joining online, thank you

  1040. so much for being with us.

  1041. And as Paul said, as he ends the letter and we end tonight.

  1042. Grace be with you all. Amen.