Spirit-Filled Home | Pastor Morgan Butcher | Venture Church

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We hope that you enjoyed the new service.

I don't know about you, but that music just like

puts me right in the Christmas mood right there. I

like all the vibes with that. We just needed, like

the yule log on the screen. How we should start

a petition actually the entire month of December. Just giant

yule log on the screen. Amen. Okay, maybe text Pastor

Brandon just while you're while you're while you're sitting there. Uh,

good morning. If I haven't met you yet, my name

is Morgan Blessed me one of the pastors here at

our Mill Creek campus, and you are joining us as

we conclude our series through the Book of Ephesians, you

might be like, wow, dude, we still got actually a

lot in the Book of Ephesians to finish up on

in one morning. Well, thankfully for you and for me,

I'm not preaching on all of that. We actually did

a series and we touched on the Armor of God

at the very end of the Book of Ephesians, just

a couple months ago. And so if you want to

catch that sermon from Pastor Brandon on the Armor of God,

you can just go back a couple months to September.

You can look on our app and you can find

that sermon there. But we're kicking, we're clueing, concluding this

series going full into Christmas mode. Who's ready for Christmas?

Come on now, fast time now. I confess this a

couple of weeks ago. I am a holiday purist, so

in my home, Christmas doesn't start until after Thanksgiving, right,

thank you. You know, it's the way it should be.

Just deal with it. But last week was actually the

saddest week of the year in our home because last

week is the week that we throw away all the

leftovers from Thanksgiving, which means I have to wait another year.

That's like the moment of reality, like I have to

wait another year to get all that good stuff again.

So I'm in a little bit of a morning phase.

But that's what. Hey, we're excited for Christmas. We hosted

Thanksgiving at our house and the Butcher Home. We had

about twelve friends and family over at our place. And

I don't know if you're like this, but sometimes like

you just walk through your house and like, we just

need like a little reset in the home, right, Like

we got to freshen things up a little bit. And

so we were looking at our house getting ready to host,

and we had a couple opportunities come up, and we're like,

you know, we're gonna do a little refresh of the house.

Our house isn't big, so hosting twelve people is kind

of like a little overwhelming in itself. So we did

a little We did a little refresh. We got a

new couch, and we got a couple new things. We

cleaned up. How many of you just like love when

you get to like do the reset in the house.

There's something about coming into a space and coming home

and it just feels like it just feels good to

be in there. Right. You put all the kids toys

back in their room, you know, you clear out all

that clutter, you get things reset, and there's something about

coming home and feeling at peace and comfortable when you

walk in the door isn't there. And on the flip

side of that, when your home is not in order,

how many of you know you feel that too, right,

Like you feel that you feel when you come in

the house and it's just like oh right, like I've

stepped on four legos and I've been here for three minutes.

Right now, I'm talking about kind of a physical environment

of the home. But friends, I want to petition to

you that, in the very same way that you can

feel it when you walk into the home in a

physical sense, you can feel it when you walk in

from a spiritual sense, right. How many of you know

that when you walk into the home and there is

there's a great spiritual presence in the home, you feel it.

And in those seasons where there's not, you feel it. Amen.

I don't know about you, but sometimes home is like

the easiest place to lose our sanctification. It's like the

easiest place to lose our sense of holiness. Right. Like

we go to work and we are sent out every

single way we make Jesus famous. And so we go

into our work week and we think, man, I'm gonna

make Jesus famous in my workplace. I'm gonna make sure

that I represent Him well to the world around me.

We go to work and we're like on the mission field, right,

like we're making it happen. We pray in the car

on the way home. We quote psalms like we're a

poet and a jazz alley. We're just like snapping to ourselves. Right.

You sing worship songs on your commute like you're auditioning

for the Venture Worship team. You worship Jesus with hands

raised in the driveways, you prepare to go in the house,

and then you walk in the door, and depending on

what you come home to, you can lose that holiness

in a moment. You know what I'm talking about. Right,

you walk in and the fridge door is open, cold air,

and your salvation just drifting away. Men, the dog ate

that flannel you just picked up at Costco. I've seen

you wear it. Right, The kids are running an unsanctioned

WWE event in the living room. It is chaos. And

suddenly the scripture that you were just quoting like a

poet on the ride home, you have substituted in your

mind with other words that we don't find in scripture.

And as I thought about this, the reality really hit me.

It really set in. The truth is is that when

you really think about it, the home is the most

real testing ground of our spiritual maturity. It's the home

because our guard is down. It's my safe place. It's

the spot that I can unwind. The most real testing

ground of our spiritual maturity. Can I just tell you

it's not here on a Sunday morning. It's not in

the middle of a small group. It's not in the

lobby where everyone says hey, or what are you doing,

and everyone says that I'm blessed in a highly favored right.

This is not the real testing ground. The home is

where a spirit filled life is either affirmed or it's

gently or maybe violently exposed. Think about the journey that

Paul has taken us on so far through five chapters

of the Book of Ephesians. Listen to some of the

powerful truths. These like mountaintop truths that Paul has hit

us with so far. In this scripture Ephesians one to three,

he tells us that we're blessed with every spiritual blessing.

In Ephiesians two, chapter two, verse six, he says we're

seeded with Christ. In Ephiesians five eighteen, he says we're

filled with the same spirit of God living within us.

And isn't it interesting? That he immediately goes from these

mountaintop truths, these so these profound truths for our lives,

straight into talking about marriage, parenting, and household relationships. And

here is what I sense Paul is saying to us

by putting these things in this order. It's almost like

he's saying, if the Gospel doesn't shape the way that

you treat people at home, you don't really understand the gospel.

If the Gospel isn't transforming the way that you live

within your home, then maybe the Gospel hasn't really transformed

your life at all. Uh. Oh, that might be slightly convicting.

I know that even to a sense, I'll be vulnerable

with you. As I read the scripture this week and

sat with that reality, it was convicting to my own

heart this week. So today we're diving into Paul's instructions

that he gives for the Christian households. He's beginning to

map out what a spirit filled home really looks like,

what it feels like, what the relationship dynamic should be.

And when we pick up in Ephesians chapter five, we

read in verse twenty one, are you guys with me?

This morning? We pick up in verse twenty one of

chapter five. This is what it says. I'm gonna read

some scripture for us this morning. You can follow along

with me and your bible. The words will be on

the screen. Here it says, submit to one another out

of reverence for Christ's for Christ, wives, submit yourselves to

your own husband as you do to the Lord. For

the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ

is the head of the Church, his body, of which

he is the savior. Now as the church submits to Christ,

so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

Now he talks to the men. He says, husbands, love

your wives, just as Christ loved the Church and gave

himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her

by the washing with water through the word, and to

present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain

or wrinkle, or without blemish, but holy and blameless. It

is in the same way husbands ought to love their

wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife

loves himself. After all, no one ever hated their own body.

But they feed and care for their body, just as

Christ does the Church, for we are members of His body.

Verse thirty one says this first. For this reason, a

man will leave his father and mother be united to

his wife, and the two will become one flesh. This

is a profound mystery, but I'm talking about Christ and

the Church. However, each one of you must also love

his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must

respect her husband. Let me pray for us this morning.

We'll dive in Father, God, thank you so much for

your word. Got to thank you that it is alive.

I thank you that your word preaches for us, and

so got to pray that your word would illuminate off

these pages into our hearts and transform us. God, make

us different. As we walk out of these doors. Lord,

we love you. We thank you in Jesus name. And

everyone said, amen. I don't want to bury the lead.

So I'm just going to give this to you straight

up front. If you tune me out for the next

twenty minutes and thirty seconds, Here's what I want you

to hear about this passage of Scripture. It's that a

spirit filled household is built on mutual submission. A spirit

filled household is built on christ like love. It is

built on Godly order, and it is built on the

conviction that every relationship is ultimately submitted unto God, every

single relationship. To fully understand what Paul is saying here

in this text, we need some cultural and some historical

context to bring us up to speed. In the ancient

Greco Roman world when Paul is writing here in Ephesians

chapter five and six, household codes were common, and these

household codes were mapped out for how families should operate

and how they should kind of work together under the

authority at the time of the male as the head

of the home. And this was a very common cultural

code that was built into the foundation of households for

a long time. But what Paul is doing here in

Ephesians chapter five is something that, as he's speaking it

to the church in Ephesus, would be unraveling the way

that people have been living their lives within the culture

context of their lives. He would be revolutionizing their thoughts

of how the home should be operated and how relationships

should be built within the home. And what he's doing

is he is transforming it from the inside out, and

he does it by doing a couple things. We see

him doing a couple things, just even in these first

few verses of this portion of Scripture. The first thing

that Paul is saying is that what he's doing is

he's centering all relationships on who Jesus. Everything comes back

to Jesus, all relationships come back to Christ. It all

comes back to how you and I follow, honor, love,

and obey Jesus with our lives. But he's also doing

something else. He's putting dignity, and he's putting value on

every member of the home. And the last thing he's

doing is something that should probably shake us up a

little bit, because what he's doing is he's calling those

with the most power to sacrifice the most. And it's

this very same framework that Paul is mapping out for us,

the same framework that he's building for us here in

chapter five. That is largely why Christianity as a whole

has historically transformed societies for generations. It doesn't start with governments,

it doesn't start with institutions. What we've seen for centuries

and centuries and centuries is that it always starts when

the home is transformed from the inside out. It starts

in the home and it transforms the world around us.

It was and has always been a transformation that happens

from the inside out. And Paul begins with this one

sentence in the beginning of this portion of scripture that

kind of hangs as the banner for everything else that

follows it. He says, submit to one another out of

reverence for Christ. The first thing that Paul is saying

as he's speaking to the church in Ephesus about what

a spirit filled home should look like is he says

that spirit film filled homes begin with mutual submission. He says,

this is where it has to start. This is the

foundation of everything else that comes after it. Submit to

one another out of reverence for Christ. The Greek word

for submit is actually translated to mean this volunteer, to

voluntarily place someone else's good above your own. Paul saying,

a spirit filled home begins with a spirit filled posture.

How we live our own personal lives, how we view

those around us, how we live out our own life

and friends hear me say that a spirit filled posture

is one that says, I'm not first. A spirit filled

posture is one that says, my preferences may not be

the most important thing in life. A spirit fulled posture

is one that says, my way isn't the only way.

A spirit filled posture is one that says Christ is

the lord of this home, not me. When we say

Christ is the lord of our home, that word lord,

it means that he is the supreme authority, that he

is the owner, that he is the ruler of the home,

not me. A spirit filled posture says these things. And

let me just pause right here for a moment. It's

very quiet in here, so I sent some tension in

the room. If this is if this is bothering you,

if this is rubbing you the wrong way and offending

the view of family hierarchy, I just want to challenge

your thinking, just for a moment, because what I believe

what Paul is sharing with us, he's revealing something that

I think is countercultural to a lot of the ways

that we live our life. And what I want to

contest to you this morning is that mutual submission is

not weakness. Mutual submission is not weakness. Why do I

believe that so strongly? Why I believe it because Jesus

submitted to the Father. So let me ask you the question,

was Jesus weak because he's submitted? Absolutely not. Let's go

even further scripture says that the spirit submits to the sun.

Does that mean that the spirit is lesser? No, not

at all. It's almost as if what Paul is outlining

for us is this reality that submission is one of

the most christ Like things that we can lead with.

And notice what Paul begins with in the scripture. He

begins with this idea of mutual submission. You see, the

question in a spirit filled home is never who gets

to be the boss, is never who gets to have

the last word. It's never whose word carries the most weight.

You know what a spirit filled home looks like. The

question in a spirit filled home is who gets to

be like Jesus today? Who gets to demonstrate the posture

of Jesus himself today? And that posture will shape and

mold and provide the foundation for everything else that the

home is built upon. Are you guys with me this morning?

Paul then begins to address what this posture looks like

in various different relational dynamics within the home, and he

starts with spirit filled marriages. He begins to outline that

in the portion of scripture that we just read in

Ephesians five twenty two through thirty three, he starts with wives,

but dudes, get ready because he got a lot to

say to us. In fact, he spends three times as

much talking to the husbands as he does the wives,

but he talks to wives first. He says, wives, honor

your husbands. He says, wives, submit yourselves to your own

homes as unto the lord. I want to pull some

important clarifications from this text because I see a lot

of manipulation happen with this text. There's a very important

word in this portion of scripture. It says, submit to

your own husbands. Can I just have you underline own

like five million times? Do you know what this means?

That own husbands is very important because it notes that

this doesn't mean that you are called to submit to

all men. It says, submit to your own husband. And

this submission, built within the context of marriage, hopefully for you,

is a voluntary submission, meaning this you weren't forced to

marry into that. I hope this was a decision that

you made together. Mean, you chose to marry this man.

You kind of agreed to this whole marriage thing, hopefully,

And this submission hear me say this, This submission is

said to be unto the Lord says, why submit yourselves

to your own husbands? As unto the Lord? So do

you know what that does not mean? It does not

mean that you are submitting to them as unto what

culture says. You are not submitting to them, as to

what force will do, or what manipulation will do, or

what fear will do. Paul says, whyves submit yourselves to

your own husbands? And what this is not? I just

feel like I need to speak to the wives in

the room. This does not mean for you that you

are inferior. This does not mean that you are to

be silenced. This does not mean that you are meant

to be pacivist. This does not mean that you are

meant to be dormats. I don't have time to walk

us through it this morning, because I only have eleven

minutes and eighteen seconds left. But if we look at

the Book of Proverbs thirty one, and that scripture paints

a pretty clear picture of a wife who is strong,

who is strategic, who is wise, who is entrepreneurial, who

is confident in who they are. The big thing that

I want you to catch from this text is that

submission is about honor. Wives. Hear me when you honor

your husband. You are creating an atmosphere in your marriage

where your husband can thrive and is God given role

within the family. Your honor gives him the confidence, It

gives him the strength, It gives him the security that,

through thick or thin, or whatever life may throw at you,

you are by his side. So he says, wives, submit

to your own husbands. But then he goes to the

men and he says, husbands, love your wives just as

Christ loved the Church and gave himself up for her.

The Greek word here that is used describes this sacrificial,

self giving kind of love. Now, I want you to

notice something interesting about these two verses that we've just

pulled from. The wife is told to submit, but husbands,

there should be a little thing that nudges in your

heart when you read this text, because while wives are

told to submit, husbands are told to die. Look at

the text again, Husbands, love your wife just as Christ

loved the Church and gave himself up for her. Can

I just tell you mutual submission as as christ like

as it gets in marriage? Husbands, hear me say this.

A christ like love pursues, a christ like love protects,

a christ like love, sacrifices and nourishes and cherishes. Here's

the truth that God revealed to me this week. It's

the truth that your wife doesn't need a king. You

know why. She's already got one. His name is Jesus.

But you know what she really needs. She needs a

christ Like man. She needs a christ Like man who

will pursue and protect and sacrifice and nourish and cherish.

She needs a man who represents Christ for her. Your

leadership is not about domination. Let me say it again.

Your leadership is not about domination. It is about the

responsibility that God has placed on your life. And that

responsibility comes with the understanding that your tone sets the

atmosphere of your marriage. Your tone sets the atmosphere of

your home. I was thinking about flying on an airplane

and my good friend Jeremy is a pilot for Alaska.

Thank you, Jeremy for your service to this community and

all people that you fly. But you know, every time

I hop on a plane and the pilot comes over

the intercom and a guy like Jeremy is calm and relaxed,

you know what I'm thinking, Sweet, We're gonna make it home.

I have no fear. I have no worries. I just think, okay,

just stand up protocol. We're gonna make it home. But man,

if that pilot ever came over the intercom and he

starts freaking out, do you know what happens in the plane?

People start taking those biscuit napkins and they start writing

their will on them. Okay, like, things go crazy in

the plane if the pilot is not calm. Husbands, hear

me say, your voice is the pilot seat of the home.

You set the tone. I just want to encourage you

today as you lead, lead with calmness, lead with prayer,

lead with faith, lead with a christ like love that

will transform your marriage. And the truth is is that

your marriage, you're my marriage is that they're preaching a sermon.

And let's just be honest. There's some bad sermons out there.

This might be one of them. I don't know yet,

But your marriage is preaching a sermon. It's preaching a

sermon to your kids every single day. It's preaching a

sermon to your friends and your family members who don't

know Jesus. It's preaching a sermon to your neighbors. It's

preaching a sermon to the entire world. Paul says that

a spirit filled marriage is founded on mutual submission. It's

where it has to start. But now Paul moves into

the next relationships and he begins to talk about parents

and children. He talks about spirit filled parenting in Ephesians

chapter six, and he says this. He says children, He's

speaking to children. He says, obey your parents in the Lord,

for this is right. Honor your father and mother, which

is the first commandment with a promise, says, do this

so that it may go well with you and that

you may enjoy a long life on earth. This is

kind of an interesting note, but this is the only

command in scripture that is addressed directly to kids, and

the command is to obey. In the Greek, this word obey,

it says, its meaning is specifically to listen under and

to pay attention. If you will be faithful to do this,

If you will be faithful to obey, to listen under

and pay attention, there will come a promise for your life.

Paul says, it will go well for you and you

will have a long life. Where's my young people out.

You don't have to wave at me. I know there's

I just saw like somebody in their fifties, like, I'm here,

Can I just speak something to my youth kids right

up here. Honor is not outdated. Honor is not culturally

out of touch. Honor is not old fashioned. Do you

know what honor is. It's kingdom minded. It demonstrates the

posture that is exactly what Christ had in store for us.

So honor. Your father and mother live under them, pay

attention to their words, pay attention to the way that

they live. And Scripture says it will go well for you.

But then he talks to parents specifically, he goes on

and he says in verse four he says fathers, but

he's really speaking to all parents. He says, fathers, do

not exasperate your children. And other translations, it says, do

not provoke your children to wrath. Instead, bring them up

in the training and instruction of the Lord. Paul says,

do not provoke your children to wrath. That word provoke

in the Greek, it means to enrage, to frustrate, to crush,

to embitter. Paul is saying parents, don't pair it with harshness,

don't parent with intimidation, don't crush your kids with criticism.

Don't treat them like projects. Sorry, I'm getting emotional because

my daughter's sitting in the room. But what does Paul says?

He says, instead, bring them up. He says, bring them up.

The phrase in Greek it means to nurture them. It says,

nurture them with training and instruction and counsel. I am

both a parent of two amazing kids, and part of

my role here at the church is overseeing next gen

at our church. So I oversee our kids, our youth

and our young adult's pastors, and they're amazing. We have

some of the best young next gen pastors in the

entire region. I believe that. Yeah, seriously, they're amazing. But

let me just remind you of how we partner together

with our pastors as they raise up the next generation.

Pastor Jonathan, as he ministers to our kids, his job

is to supplement what their faith is. He's giving them

foundational truths as things to guide their life. When they

get into the youth ministry. Pastor Johnny is there to

reinforce these truths in their life as those tests, as

those truths are put to test in the world that

they live in. But parents hear me say, we are

called to disciple our kids first and foremost. It's not

Pastor Jonathan's job. It's not Pastor Johnny's job to be

the primary disciple of your children. Know who it is.

It's us. We are called with the responsibility to nurture

them with counsel, with care, with instruction, with intentionality. I

heard somebody say once that children are like what cement?

And when I heard I was like, what are you

talking about? But it totally makes sense. Everything that touches

them leaves an impression. So parents, our tone, our reactions,

our discipline, our love, all of these things leave a

mark that shaping who they're becoming. And the last relational

dynamic that Paul brings up is he talks about a

spirit filled work relationships. Now historically and contextually, he's speaking

to slaves and masters, which were a common part of

the household, but how many of you know work often

comes home. He speaks to the slaves and the masters.

He says to the workers. In verse five of chapter six,

Paul says this. He says, slaves, obey your earthly masters

with respect and fear, and with sincerity of heart, just

as you would obey Christ. Obey them not only to

win their favor when their eye is on you, but

as slaves of Christ, doing the will of God from

your heart. Serve wholeheartedly as if you were serving the Lord,

not people, because you know that the Lord will reward

each one of you for whatever good they do, whether

they are slave or free. Paul says, serve and work

as if you are serving the Lord. He says it

over and over and over throughout this text, as unto Christ,

as servants of Christ, as to the Lord, not to men,

he says, over and over and over. And what I

want to submit to you this morning is that Christians

should be the most reliable and dependable employees on planet Earth.

We should be Why it's not because your boss is amazing,

mine is great. Make sure make sure you record that

it's not because you always get along with your boss.

It's because you work as if you are serving the Lord,

not a man with the title, but a God on

the throne. Your work is worship to Him. Everything that

you touch, your attitude, your posture, the way you speak

to others, the way that you serve, the way that

you sacrifice is worship unto Him. It's an offering to

the Lord every time we step foot in the workplace.

And then he speaks to masters, all of my business owner, bosses,

leaders in the room. He says this to us. Verse nine,

He says, masters, treat your slaves in the same way.

Do not threaten them, since you know that he who

is both their master and yours is in heaven and

there is no favoritism with him. Paul tails, masters, stop threatening,

treat people with fairness. Remember you also have a master

in heaven. A spirit filled leader doesn't use position to manipulate.

They use their position to bless those around them. Man,

I love meeting with some of our business owners and

the great leaders and bosses that we have here at

Venture Church, and I love just hearing about the ways

that they're finding ways to bless those that are a

part of what they're trying to accomplish in their workplace.

I think it's one of the most spirit filled things

that you can do as a leader or as a boss.

Over and over and over again all throughout this text,

Paul is saying, spirit filled relationships in a spirit filled

home will be measured by mutual submission to each other,

treating every relationship submitted under God's ultimate authority. So the

question is what does this mean for us? As we're

reading through this what does it mean for us? I

hope for you when you read this scripture it causes

you to do the same thing it caused me to do,

and that's simply to look at my own life and

take some inventory and say, Morgan, where do you need

to grow? Where does God want to rEFInd you? Friends?

You and I are called to lead our homes and

our families. Well, the scripture should lead us to ask

some serious questions about how we should be living our lives.

Maybe the question that you need to ask yourself and

you need to begin to take inventory on, is the

question of is Christ the center of your home? Because

here's the thing. I know how easy it is to

make the schedule the center of your home. I know

how easy it is to make hobbies the center of

your home, and sports the center of your home. And

I'm standing here talking to a bunch of church people.

Can I just tell you sometimes we make church activities

the center of our home. But friends, I want to

petition to you that there is one who should stand

above all as the center of our home, and it

is Jesus Christ living in our own hearts and overflowing

into our homes every day. And the question that we

might just need to ask ourselves is that being modeled

in our home? Maybe the question we need to ask

ourselves is have I invited the Holy Spirit to set

the atmosphere of my home? Let me ask you a question,

what does it feel like when you walk into your house?

They're not in here this service, so I'll point them out.

But some of our dear friends, Jim and gentlemen Man,

I love visiting their home because every time I walk

into their home, it's like I can feel the Spirit

of God just residing in that place. Because they've been

intentional about making their home a home of prayer. They've

been intentional about making their home a home of encouragement,

a home of patience, a home of repentance, a home

of forgiveness. Maybe you're home, when you walk in, you

feel harshness, Maybe you feel criticism, maybe you feel sarcasm,

maybe there's avoidance in your home. I just want to

encourage you because the Holy Spirit has the power to

transform people and atmospheres, and if you and I are

faithful to invite him into our home. I just believe

He has the power to change that. Maybe the question

we need to ask ourselves is am I leading myself well?

Husbands lead like Christ, Wives honor like the church. Children

listen and obey. Scripture says it will go well for you.

Parents disciple with gentleness and intentionality. Leaders, bosses, business owners

lead with mercy and grace. I just believe that all

of our relationships are to be submitted as unto God

and Church. Hear me say this at its core, you

know what all these things are Their worship. Your marriage,

it's worship. The way you parent your kids, it's worship.

The way that you work, it's worship. All of these

things are our worship under God. Now, if you're anything

like me, you're probably thinking, man, I got some work

to do. You're looking at your life and you're thinking, man,

there's some things that I need to address. Maybe your

marriage feels tense, maybe your parenting feels overwhelming, Maybe your

home feels chaotic, maybe your work feels draining. Can I

just encourage you with the same hope that God reminded

me of this week. It's the truth that the same

spirit who fills us here in worship can fill us

at home. He can feel you in your home. He

can provide that patience that you don't always feel like

you have in your home. He can feel you with

those words that you feel like you lack at home.

He can fill you with that love and that grace

and that mercy for those you love the most. In

your home. He can heal broken marriages, he can restore

wounded children. He can break generational curses. He can transform hearts.

He can bring peace. He can lead us to forgiveness. Friends,

you and I don't need a perfect home. You know

what we need. We need a spirit filled home. We

need homes where we invite the Holy Spirit to reside

where we live first in our hearts, so that it

transforms the home from the inside out. And don't want

to give you an opportunity to respond. So with every

head bout, every eye close in this room, if you're

here this morning and you just say, Morgan, I need

to walk out of this place knowing that I have

the Spirit of God living within me. God, I need

the transformation to come from the inside out. Maybe you're

taking some inventory and you're looking at your marriage and

you're like, God, I don't even know what step to

take to restore what's been broken. Maybe you're looking at

the way that you've been parenting your kids and you're

just thinking, God, I don't have the patience required. Can

I just tell you this morning that God wants to

fill you with a power that will sustain you. He

wants to fill you this morning with something that will

walk with you and empower you. And So, if that's

you here this morning and you just say, Morgan, I

want to walk out of here knowing that the spirit

of God lives within me, and then as a walk

into my home, I want that spirit to overflow in

the atmosphere of my home and in the relationships in

my home. If that's you here this morning and you

want to just respond to that, you want me to

pray this prayer over you. Would you just lift your

hand wherever you are. I just want to know who

I'm praying for this morning. Thank you, Thank you, thank you,

thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you.

Hands up, all of us can put your hands in.

Would you stand to your feet with me this morning?

I want to pray over us. As we conclude, let's

pray together this morning, Father God, I thank you so much. God,

I thank you for the call that you've put on

in our lives God, to not just blend into the

culture around us, but God, to stand out and be different.

And God, what I know that that requires from my

own life is for me to not rely on who

I am, but God, to call on your spirit to

empower me to be different. God, I cannot do it alone.

And God for those who raise their hands, I just

pray that there would be this moment of repentance God

that says, Father, forgive me for thinking that I could

do it on my own. And instead, Father, I pray

that you would fill us with the courage, with the patience,

with the love, with the words, with the mercy, with

the grace to lead ourselves so that the love that

we have might overflow from our hearts, into our homes,

into our marriages, into our parenting. God, Father, give us

grace where we feel like we have none. God, give

us mercy for those relationships that feel a strained. God,

and Father, I just pray that you would lead us

as a church. God. I pray that venture church would

be marked by people whose homes are filled with your spirit. God,

whose lives are filled with your spirit God, and that

the sermon that our marriages and our parenting and that

our homes speak would be one of life and hope

and love and grace. God fill us as we go

back home. We pray that in Jesus' mighty name, and

everyone said Amen, Amen, as you Morgan, come on as

you go out today, I want to point to our

What's Next page. You can find on our app a

lot of content that you can kind of make a

part of your walk as you go out. Christmas Seas

is around us. Youth parents sign up for Winter Camp.

We love you all so much. God bless you.

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